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This Arabic Magazine is dedicated to the elimination of stigma and discrimination and hatred against
gay or transsexual/transgender people, and it is not intended in any way to attempt to deceive them or
marginalize them or harm them. We respect all people of all sexual orientations and respect those who
respect themselves as a human community has rights and duties and we are calling for human rights
which do not restrict or abuse another man freedom. We want here to support and help people who are
looking for a way to change their sexual attractions as a legal right for these minorities, the aim of this
magazine is to provide the information and guidance to help people who suffer from any sexual or
emotional disorder because of sexual and emotional problems that cause pain or a problem to them.
Through long experience and engagement in the process of Change , We don't recommend Spiritual or
Reparative Therapy for people who want to change their unwanted Sexual Attractions or any (Pray Gay
Away / Fix Gay or Ex-Gay Movement) as a single way of Sexual Reorientation while those kinds of
Therapies got many disadvantages when used individually, because Change is achieved by collecting
many change axes in suitable integated Change Process.

Achtung !

Dieser arabische Magazin ist auf die Beseitigung von Stigmatisierung und Diskriminierung und
Hass gegen Homosexuell oder transsexuell / transgender Menschen gewidmet, und es ist in keiner
Weise beabsichtigt, um zu versuchen, sie zu tuschen oder zu marginalisieren oder ihnen schaden.
Wir respektieren alle Menschen aller sexuellen Orientierungen und respektieren diejenigen, die sich
als menschliche Gemeinschaft zu respektieren hat Rechte und Pflichten, und wir rufen fr die
Menschenrechte, die nicht einschrnkt oder missbraucht anderen Freiheit. Wir wollen hier zu
untersttzen und den Menschen helfen, die nach einem Weg, um ihre sexuellen Attraktionen als
Rechtsanspruch fr diese Minderheiten zu ndern sucht. Das Ziel dieser Zeitschrift ist Hilfe zu
geben, mit der Informationen und Beratung fr Menschen, die von einer sexuellen oder
emotionalen Strung leiden, wegen der sexuellen und emotionalen Probleme, die bewirkt
Schmerzen oder ein Problem fr sie. Durch langjhrige Erfahrung und das Engagement in den
Prozess der Vernderung, empfehlen wir nicht, Spirituell oder Reparative Therapie fr Leute, die
ihre unerwnschte sexuelle Attraktionen verndern mchten. Es ist auch nicht bevorzugt eine
(Beten Homosexuell Auswrts / Fix Homosexuell oder Ex-Homosexuell Movement) als eine einzige
Art und Weise der sexuellen neuorientieren, whrend diese Art von Therapien haben viele
Nachteile, wenn sie einzeln verwendet, weil Vernderung durch das Sammeln von vielen Achsen
nderung in geeigneter integrierter Vernderungsprozess erreicht wird.

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God loves you more than any dude will ever love you.

When I was High School and College, a magazine called "XY"was extremely appealing
to me. The magazine was lled with"eye-candy." It was basically soft-core porn, but it
also portrayed gay "couples" my age in very romanticized ways that seemed at the
time to speak to my deepest wounds and longings. I used to seek out the magazine
every time I went to Barnes and Nobleand browse it in awe.
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cycle of increasing desperation. The images and articles gloried the concept of "gay
relationships" and the idealization of this homoerotic attraction as a form of "love." (See
my other blog post from 1/7/13: "What is Love?") It also included plenty of propaganda
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Glatze (pictured on the Left in this picture with Ben his
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since I've looked for that magazine. I found out recently
though, that Michael turned his life over to Christ and left
the gay lifestyle. Here is the story of his conversion published by Worldnet Daily on 7/3/2007: 'Gay'-rights
leader quits homosexuality and a more detailed account:
http://www.wnd.com/2007/07/42385/

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Michael Glatze: Two Year Follow-up (2009)
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New York Times by Benoit Denizet-Lewis about Michael's conversion:
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/06/19/magazine/my-ex-gayfriend.html?pagewanted=1&_r=1&smid=fb-share
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least get Michael Glatze's story.
God loves you more than any dude will ever love you. Dont put your faith in some
man, some esh. Thats what we do when were stuck in the gay identity, when were
stuck in that cave. We go from guy to guy, looking for someone to love us and make us
feel O.K., but God is so much better than all the other masters out there. - Michael
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