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In other matters Gammie was pretty strict. Women wearing slacks were sinfully violating the
Bible’s strictures against wearing men’s clothing. Short shorts were immodest. Smoking,
drinking, and a whole lot of other things were sinful and Gammie never hesitated to speak out
against sin. Maybe she wasn’t always that way, but we saw her as a woman who knew exactly
what was right and what was wrong and who felt empowered to tell us how to behave.
She was famously “Scotch” [meaning frugal]. We grandchildren soon learned that if she
buttered our bread she’d wind up with more butter on the knife than when she began. We must
eat the crust because it was the healthiest part. She soaked Orange peelings to get a sovereign
anti-cold tea.
Some of her best stories came from a tour of jury duty. I don’t remember the stories any more,
but I do remember that she told the jurors how they should behave. I believe she also made a
strong move to convert them to Presbyterian Christianity as well.
.
Amos Watkins (son) remembers [He
told me this a short time before he died at
90.]:
When I was just a baby in Woodford Green I
was sitting on a blanket in the front yard. A
strange man came and exposed himself. My
sister and brother ran screaming into the
house. That little red haired Scotch lady, my
mother, came running out of the house with
a cast-iron frying pan and drove him away.
There were tears in his eyes as he
remembered his feelings of fear and his
admiration for his mother’s courage.
Grand Neice Ruth Ross remembers: [Ruth’s sisters remember this differently. – Ed.]
Here is one of the earlier stories I heard, from your Gammie, whom we Kibler girls called
“Annie-Annie” which was kids’ talk, I guess, for Aunt Annie.
When my mother, Florian Margaret (Linklater) Kibler, had FLora, my sister (her first child
was a boy born with a bleeding heart, and died within a few days, as I recall hearing), she was
home I guess several days after coming from the hospital, but felt, evideltly, quite inadequate
for handling the child alone. On the Monday morning when my father evidenty decided he
HAD to get back to work, she was seen on the front porch, begging him to stay, and saying
how ever could she handle the baby alone....when, up the street from the street car came your
Gammie.
Annie Annie had thought Florian would need help, and since our grandmother, Flora
(McBeath) Linklater, had passed away, Annie Annie would do for her niece as she imagined
her sister would have done... helped the young mother!
Annie Annie was the only babysitter I really ever knew. Our parents rarely went out by
themselves, but maybe a couple times a year, Annie Annie would stay over with us, and she
taught me how to knit during one of those visits. That is a skill I still use, and thank her for!
Having known my mother as always the capable, strong personality, this story was amazing to
me.
I firmly believe that Gammie with the help of her sister, Flora, engineered the family move to
Portland, Oregon. Edwin Watkins was not as adventurous as Jane. He most certainly agreed
to the move, but probably would have been content to stay in England. Had they done so his
children and grandchildren might have joined the oppressed working class of that class-ridden
country. I base my case on the letter that Jane McBeath wrote to her sister Flora and on Amos’
reminiscence. See below.
Our ancestor, then Jane Ann Macbeath, wrote this letter on August 27th 1889 to her sister
Flo.
Both sisters were then single. Because of the decisions they made then we were born in
America. Think of that -when you read this letter. I have reproduced the original below so
that you can enjoy the lovely handwriting as well as the charming formality between sisters.
It is indeed a letter from another century.
Chapter 5 -- 6
Kessock Ferry Inverness August 27th 1889
Dearest Flo
It gives me great pleasure to write a few lines to you in answer to your very kind and very
welcome letter and the Order. It is really good of you to send so much. Just fancy three
pounds. I don't know how to thank you enough but god will reward you. Father says to thank
you very much for him. He is very pleased indeed. I received the photos today. You have
made a splendid Photo and so has Agnes, and I think Mr. Linklater a fine looking young man,
and so does Mother and Father and, Flo dear, I may tell you I read your letter to Father and
Mother last night. Father said the young man seemed to do his best for you and both said if he
was as good (and) principled a man as you say he ought to make you a very good husband. Of
course it lies with yourself if you think you can love him and care to serve him as his wife and
companion for life. Now dear Flo I don't know how to congratulate you most and if it God's
will that you should go together I hope, Dear Flo, you will feel satisfied with what he gives.
You must know if you can spend a Christian life with your husband. It must be a happy and
prosperous one so I hope, Dear Flo, I hope you will judge wisely and not hasty. Just fancy
yourself getting a man and such a nice house to live all in one year, and me keeping company
with Ted 4 years and have to wait one more before we can afford to get married. Not money,
but love, brings happiness. I hope you will feel more settled next time you write.
The neighbors are all sending love to you and Mrs. Cameron, and Anna. I will bring your
photo up to Lina and Donald to see.
We had a very dry summer but it has turned rather wet now. Every one is very busy at the
harvest.
Goodby.
Write soon. I remain your loving sister, Nan
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Ruth Ross, Flora Linklater’s granddaughter has the original of this
letter
from Jane to Flora written in 1989
Chapter 5 -- 7
Perhaps Gammie dreamed of higher achievement for her children, but I feel sure she was
proud of each. Her beloved Edwin died in 1932. She lived on for 28 more lively years to
regale her seven grandchildren with stories of her life in Scotland, and in America.
I suppose death and the feeling that death hovers must be hard for everyone lucky enough to
survive eight or nine decades. Gammie, when she reached ninety, was nearly blind and
afflicted with an almost constant cough. Sometimes she would say: “Oh, I wish the Lord
would take me.” But most of the time she met life head-on, telling stories, helping around the
house where she could, praying for her children and grandchildren.
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Technically this photo was a disaster. The focal plane shutter failed and made a big white vertical bar across Gammie’s face.
I spent
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flirting and joking like a pair of teens at a church social. They were both very near
This photo captures a golden moment. It shows two very old people, both in their
the end of their lives and must have known it but their banter filled the room with
nineties,
laughterflirting
and joy.and joking
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of teens at a church
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to wear They werethat
a urinal both
very
Nellie, his daughter had to empty shortly before the picture was taken. It was anthe
near the end of their lives and must have known it but their banter filled
room with of
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that even
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will be able Gellatly
to equal hadwhen
to wear our a
urinal that
turns come. his daughter, Nellie Larsen, had to empty shortly before the picture was
taken. They radiated courage and spirit. I hope that I will be able to follow their
example whenthismy
[Technically turn
photo comes.
is a disaster. The shutter failed and made a big white, vertical bar right across Gammie’s face.
But the moment was precious that I spent hours on the computer repairing as much of the damage as I could.
And, no, I don’t remember who the child was.]
Chapter 5 -- 9
Grandson John remembers: When I learned that Gammie had died I was sitting at our
dining table in Kittery, Maine. We were Air Force vagabonds and I had seen Gammie perhaps
twice in the past ten years. Yet the news made me feel that there was a huge hole in my life.
My eyes filled with tears and I could not speak. My oldest daughter, Suzanne, then 12, put an
arm around me to comfort me and said…I don’t quite remember what she said, but something
like. “There, there, Daddy. Don’t cry.” I think it was the first time my children had seen me
cry. But Gammie was certainly worth a tear. Don’t you agree?
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Chapter 5 -- 10
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