Peace? What are you giving and receiving?

By Katelon T. Jeffereys

As you read this, the US is still mired in wars in the Middle East and the
question still remains for me, Peace? What are you giving and receiving? It
has long been a belief, and a point of inquiry of mine, that what goes on within us is
a microcosm of the greater reality reflected out into the world. And so, along with
activism, I continue to look within to discover, embrace and heal those places within
myself that are at war. It is my intention, inside and out, to do what I can to
embody, give and receive peace in the world. In the ancient text, The Essence
Gospel of Peace, it states “ Peace is the key to all knowledge, all mystery, all life.”

19 years ago I was living in a small Northern California coastal town. My

neighborhood reminded me of the powerful novel SOMETIMES A GREAT NOTION,
by Ken Kesey. As I’d take my daily walks through the fogged in neighborhood, I ‘d
pass sign after sign impaled in the yards stating, “We support the timber industry”.
The small communities lining the coast embodied the timber/environmental clash so
vividly described in that novel. Months before, I had been asked to be interviewed
on a local women’s radio show. The topic I chose was “Inner Healing and how it
relates to Global Healing”. At the time, I was working as a massage therapist in a
chiropractors office. One of my clients was a young man who had moved out from
the south to make peace buttons for a local company. Although his job and his
political activism spoke of peace, the extreme tension I felt in his body spoke of an
ongoing inner war. I began to observe this dichotomy in myself and other clients,
along with the already divided community. The day we declared war on Iraq ended
up being the day of my interview. As war broke out in that country, war broke out in
my town as the local mayor and city council declared the town a draft free zone.
Opponents stormed the town hall, an enormous American flag was erected upon the
approach to town, and all the yard signs were replaced with new ones stating “We
support America”…and…. we’re on the air, welcome Katelon to discuss “Inner
Healing and how it relates to Global Healing.”

I felt like I was in the twilight zone and all the mayhem further underscored
this study of mine. There I was witnessing war in the body of this young man,
opposing views and near riots in our town hall, SOMETIMES A GREAT NOTION in
my neighborhood and bombs dropping across the seas as a TV reporter stood next
to a board drawing little x’s and o’s like a football play to explain the loss of life
many countries away.

Over the years I have continued to explore this theme as I work to release old
limiting patterns of lack, illnesses, and aloneness in myself. Sometimes I am able to
love what is here, or what I perceive to be lacking, embrace the lessons and provide
the gift of peace to myself, as I open the space for healing to happen. Other times I
am in the ring, working on my left hook, ready to punch out the offending lack of
fruition, career struggle or another Saturday night spent alone. A few weeks ago
this occasional fighting position was literally put in my face as I took a detour to
work. I ended up driving past a 7th grade fistfight in the middle of the road. Because
I haven’t seen a fist fight since my 7th grade year, I was left to ponder again Where
am I at war in my own being, what am I fighting? Peace? What am I giving and
receiving? As I examine this wrestling with my psyche I am seeing it on the outside
again, too, as my neighbors, fellow countrymen/women and world members draw
the lines and prepare for war.

One of the therapies I do is called, Spiritual Response Therapy (SRT). In this

therapy, I work with a person’s high self to research and clear negative programs,
conditioning, beliefs, etc. that are limiting the person and restricting the flow of
good through their bodies, relationships and lives. This work is done using a
pendulum, dowsing various charts and connecting with the person’s high self to
research the soul’s records. Whatever needs to be cleared is then identified and
with the assistance of the high self and spirit, it is cleared. The limiting energies are
then replaced with positive ones, moving a person out of self-punishment and self-
limitation. Relationships can be researched as well, clearing destructive patterns
that can be limiting the relationship and the individuals. Christ referred to this high
self as “the father within”. Hawaiian Huna refers to it as Aumakua or higher
consciousness. What is seen so often in this work is how much people limit
themselves through their thoughts and judgments brought forth from (depending
upon your belief system), past lives, genetic codes, world energies, childhood
experiences and the entire creative process in itself. Recently, a man called to ask
me to use SRT to “GET RID” of a woman he is in business with. He explained how
this woman was attempting to take over his business and he wanted her gone. I
explained that I’m not a hit man but that I could work with his high self and spirit to
clear them and their relationship, allowing for a new resolution. The work
succeeded and the woman called him, with positive news and wanted to get
together. Instead of rejoicing in this turn of events, he was so attached to his anger
that he chided me for not getting rid of her. I felt sadden by his response, yet I was
led to look at what I was just wanting to get rid of in my life, rather than be willing to
negotiate with, forgive, and create a space for something new to appear? I had to
look at where was I limiting myself? I inquired again, “Peace? What am I giving and
receiving?”

I watch in childlike awe each year as the days get shorter and shorter and
darkness descends, leaving sunshine, that I so love, a memory. And yet, I attune to
the surrender of the trees as they gently release their leaves, plants die and seeds
are deposited deep in the soil to wait and rest until the light comes again. Most of
the world religions celebrate this return of the light. I think of Mary, in the Christian
tradition, as she gestated a child within, holding that immaculate concept for him as
she faced many outer challenges. Certainly, she must have felt the urge to fight, the
call to struggle or defend. I certainly did as I carried my son, and then went on to
raise him alone through all the challenges we faced. Don’t we all, whether we are
carrying a child, a dream or concept? And, yet, each of us can carry this immaculate
concept for our children, our dreams and desires. Each of us can carry that seed of
peace and continue to hold it in our hearts for the world and ourselves.

The days may be dark, the world may talk of war and torture and try to keep
us focused on fear and our desires/dreams/challenges may threaten to pull us into
an inner or outer war and yet there are methods and therapies that we can use to
release this inner negativity and replace it with harmony. I do believe that we have
the power within us to return to love, just as yearly the days grow longer and the
light returns. I do feel that each step we take toward negotiation, dialogue, healing
and bridge building within ourselves, our families, our communities, does reach out
and effect global change. So, I encourage you to ask yourselves, “Peace? What are
you giving and receiving?”