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International Indexed & Refereed Research Journal, ISSN 0974-2832, (Print), E-ISSN- 2320-5474, July, 2013 VOL-V * ISSUE -54
father - son relationship in detail. There is another pair of the father and a son i.e. Manohar (Manu) and Abhi (Saru's husband & son) The author have not described it thoroughly. Manu is shown very loving & caring for his son. Father - Daughter Relationship The very first scene of the novel, unfolds the strange relationship between the father and daughter Saru. Her father doesn't want to welcome the daugher who has come there after 15 years of long period. This directly throws light on lack of love between the father and Saru. He never waited for her & never expected her too. Her father also does not show very eagerness to know about her, her family and children at all. He has never shovered Saru with love or shown his anger. But now she experiences tenderness of his heart and a kind attitude towards his daughter for the first time in her life. Her father is shown very much proud of his daughter as she is a doctor. Saru now remembers her childhood with her parents. Saru got success in persuading her father inspite of rejection by her mother. Baba supported, and help her and warned her to study hard. Though Baba have less money, he agreed to aid his daughter to become a doctor. Saru's mother always accused her that she had killed Dhruva while Baba never attered such accusation. He urges Saru to forgive her mother for her fault, weakness. According to Saru, if Baba had assured her mother earlier, Saru would not have spoiled her whole life. Baba, as an affectionate, loving father consoles her, when she shares her unhappyness with him. He is very eager now to solve the problems of his daughter. At the and Baba almost requests her to live her own life and forget her past. In this way the father helps his daughter indirectly. The readers get captivated in the relationaship of the father and daughter in this novel. The author successfully portrays the plight, problems, trials, tribulations of the relationship between father and daughter. Mother - Daughter Relationship The novel abnormally portrays the antagonism mainly from two persons one from Saru's mother and second from Saru's hasband Manu. A mother who is Godly figure for her children is shown as an enemy of her daughter. The novel is full of hatred, antagonism, revenge, sorrow. There is not a single moment where mother and daughter has laughed or
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enjoyed altogether. It consists of only displaeures, dislikes, animosities and nothing else.3 After 15 years of the departure Saru has almost forgotten her mother. As her mother denied and cast her out compltely from her life, Saru also is not held undutiful daughter. But after her death, she decides to meet her father. Saru's mother represets typical Indian mother who always longs for male - child. According to Elizabeth BHarlock," Favoured Children tend to play up to their parents but are aggressive and dominating in sibling relationship"4. Saru has no respect for her mother in her mond as her mother always takes the side of her brother. So she has decided that whenever possible she will disobey her mother. In various trivial situations also her mother's discrimination could be easily marked by Saru. Saru's mother discarded and despised her daughter throughout her life. Saru's mother never thought about a child's emotions, feelings and tenderness of her heart. Such incidents show that Saru was an unwanted child for her mother. Saru's mother made her conscious and ashamed of her body. Seeing her mother and her behavior she did not wish to become a woman. She thus wanted to reject her womanhood only become of her mother. Saru, while brooding over her life at her maternal home with her father, thinks that she never could reach or believe her mother's sufferings entirely. Her mother never told anybody her sufferings feeling and griefs. Due to her mother's curse, she can not live happy life, No mother in the world could ever dislike her own child Saru's mother was an exception. This mother-daughter relationship is unloving, unnatural, sorrowful, hurting and a tragic one. Another mother in the novel is Saru herself. Saru and her husband want to become good parents. Due to her medical profession, she can not provide much time to her children but whenever possible she devotes herself to them. Saru shares her feelings of motherhood with the readers. She had sworn that she would never fail her daughter in love and understanding as her own mother had done. She decided to be loving, caring, understanding and affectionate for her daughter. At the end she accepts the challenge to prove herself a good daughter, wife, mother, doctor and a good human being. One can conclude that the human emotions, relationship and human beings are strange and peculiar. The parent child relationship is highly difficult to understand, and complex to differentiate.
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