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Abstract
In order to be an excellent coach one has to acquire valuable skills to provide the
best service to the client. It is my purpose, with this paper, to introduce the concept
the client and the coach. Many trainers, managers, and teachers use the principles
person to be the most he or she can be. As the coach integrates different modalities
such a role modeling, visualization, and anchoring will appreciate the benefits of
NLP, which for the coaching profession is twofold: first, it provides the client with
the possibility to achieve their goals in a timely and measurable manner and it
provides the coach with instruments that will help them motivate their clients to
achieve their greatest potential. Many coaches in their practice use valuable tools
such as assessments and questionnaires, but NLP takes the assessment a step
further. It allows the coach to use the information gathered in such assessments to
take the clients from where they are to where they want to be. An assessment that
the representational system of the client. How he or she perceives the world and
communicate with others. Once the coach is aware of this system would be able to
establish rapport, step into the worldview of the client and together, and walk
Introduction
individuals. What starts as a dream for a person, coaching can make it a reality
(Joseph O’Connor & Andrea Lages. Coaching with NLP, (p.3). When a person
makes the decision to be coached is because he or she has the desire to change. As
Napoleon Hill in his classic “Think and Grow Rich” tells us “Desire…[is] the
starting point of all achievements” (pg 33). And it is this desire that inspires the
person to change the direction in his or her life, but at times they don’t know how
change their lives or, because their own limiting messages or beliefs, sabotage any
intention of growth. NLP may be that “missing link” in how to assist the client in
Neuro Linguistic Program is a term which was coined in the 1970’s by Richard
Bandler and John Grinder. It has been known as “’The User’s Manual’ to the
the mind, the power of language and how we can chose the precise way in how we
want to feel, talk or see (Develop your NLP Skills, pg 13). Although it was coined
Korzibsky , who was mostly known for developing the concept of general
and Grinder , knowing the importance of our subconscious mind, based many of
their principles on the work of the famous hypnotist Milton H.Erickson, MD and
studied the principles applied by successful people, included how they used their
bodies or how they talk (O’Connors, NLP p. 17). They came to the conclusion that
our language, our perception of the world and our communication style influences
the way we live our lives, the goals we accomplish, and the changes we are able to
achieve in ourselves and others. One of the most important principles of NLP is
knowing that we are all the time communicating, as Andrew Bradbury states in his
book Develop your NLP Skills “you cannot not communicate….we are constantly
communicating, both by what we do and by what we don’t do, by what we say and
by what we don’t say” (pg 7). This is a great point of reference because it expands
our awareness of how we can get more information about our clients in order to
have an accurate picture of what they really want and what their values and fears
systems based on our senses, being the most common: visual, kinesthetic and
auditory.
As mentioned before NLP provides different tools that can be integrated when
working with clients toward achieving their goals. We know that in coaching
in helping the client to design the future and at times we need an extra tool to really
make it a reality. NLP is such a tool and have different techniques to achieve such
reality. Among the different techniques that produce empowering changes are
Role Modeling
One can use the technique of role modeling and we will see an example when
working with a client who wants to start going to the gym as part of her resolution
Client: I really want to go to the gym and start this exercise plan but I just can’t
Coach: I hear that for you it is important to go to the gym and do exercise so I
would like to try with you an exercise, would you like to try it?
Client: Sure!
Coach: Ok…with your eyes open or closed imagine that in front of you there is a
movie screen and you see your friend Shirley, whom you admire because she is
very disciplined with her plan of exercises, getting ready to go climb the
Stairmaster. . See her excitement and joy as she does the exercise. Now instead of
seeing Shirley, it is you who is climbing the Stairmaster, see how good you feel as
you start doing the exercise. Now instead of seeing yourself, feels as if you are on
the Stairmaster. Feel in your body the excitement, hear the sounds of the gym, feel
the temperature of the air, see what others are doing, locate in your body where do
you feel the joy. Just be there and feel inside of you how great it is that you have
started your exercise plan and you have developed the discipline of working out 4
times a week.
As it has been demonstrated, with role modeling the coach uses the power of
inspiring the client with the behavior of someone they admire to achieve what
appears to be challenging. The coach provides the scene for the client to engage in
the feeling and actually have a full experience, including all the senses. In NLP that
is one of the most important blocks, to incorporate our senses to create the whole
experience. In this case only role modeling was used, but another tool could have
Anchoring
For example, if we would have added a favorite song to be playing in the gym, as
the client is enjoying the exercise on the Stairmaster, we would have created what
a specific reaction. In our lives we use anchoring all the time, from symbols, to
food and smells. With NLP we can use these triggers to our benefit and at the same
time deconstruct those anchors which are negative and replace them with positive
coaching which has to do with changing one’s perspective and most likely had its
http://learn.icoachacademy.com/foundation/modules/FC102.pdf )
If a client wants to achieve a certain goal but has a negative internal message (it
has been said that the most important conversation is the one we have with
ourselves) it is very difficult for that person to achieve such goal. Many people
base their concept of reality on their own assumptions of what the world and in
NLP this is based on our created representations of the world. Actually, one of the
pillars of NLP is the concept of the map is not the territory( milton Erickson) and
when one learns how to alter the representation of the world one can create for the
client a reality that is more empowering and in congruence with their own values.
One of the purpose of coaching should be to encourage the client “to become much
more self-aware of their emotions and the situations which tend to trigger the
trigger this “going-off” behavior one can learn which may be some of the
roadblocks the client may have that prevents him or her to become all that he or
she wants to be. As important as it is for the client to know what the goal is, it is
necessary to take into account the challenges or obstacles he or she could face
(NLP Andreas and Falukner). A tool known as visualization can provide the client
with a sense of empowerment as they can see themselves already living the
experience.
Visualization
author.
Client: I really want to finish my book but I don’t find the time to write. Each day
I say I will write a page but when the time comes I don’t get to do it. I know I have
Coach: Would you like to do an exercise that would make you feel you are already
a best-selling author?
Coach: I want you to pretend we are in December 2009 and you have already
finish your book. You see yourself with the book in your hand. You can see the
colors of the cover, the weight in your hand. You can even smell the aroma of new
pages. You see yourself getting ready for a book signing and feeling the excitement
of knowing your book is the #1 bestseller in the New York Times. You feel the rush
of adrenaline as you realized you have accomplished your dream. You are a
bestseller author. Now, I want you to come back in time to October 2008 and carry
with you the great excitement and pride you felt as you saw yourself as a best
seller author. I am interested on knowing the most important feeling you had as
you saw yourself as a best-seller author. How was it to have made all those
changes in your life in order to make it happen? You can do this, don’t you? Next
time you set yourself to write just close your eyes and with the eyes of your mind
relive this image and relive the excitement and pride you could feel as you have
Furthermore, a coach well trained in NLP could use the power of sub-modalities to
Coach: Now that you see the cover of your book, make those colors brighter, the
cover shinier. Is the book small or large? Make it bigger. Can you see it in 2 or 3
dimensions?
As you feel the adrenaline in your body, where do you feel it? In which part of
your body? Is it warm? Cold? Make it more intense, more intense, until you feel
such a great excitement you feel you are there in your book signing.
With this example the intention was to show the coach has the ability to make the
hypothetical situation more real to the clients, therefore more possible to attain. It
all has to do with working close to what the client wants and how he or she can
achieve it.
Lastly, in order to help the client achieve their goals, these need to fulfill the
• It has to be achievable.
*These guidelines were taking from the manual for certification on NLP by
Ligthworks Seminars.
Conclusion
As a result of this paper, we can conclude that integrating NLP tools can enhance
thoughts. Applying some of these techniques can help the client change the way
the they think, act and feel towards situations experienced in the past and have the
necessary tools to transform the way the perceive themselves and see their future.
As more coaches integrate NLP in their practice they will understand that human
beings work perfectly and the results of their performance are based on their
thoughts, their feelings and the choices they make in their lives. NLP is the
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