How To Have Efficient Sex

Number 10
Blindfold her
Sexual pleasure has many dimensions, but the most important sexual organ we have is our brain. When one sense is hindered, our other senses -- via the brain -- clamor to compensate. For example, a deaf person has increased sensory awareness -- sight, smell, touch, and vibrations. For No. 10 entry on our 10 tips for better sex guide, we're telling you that you can tap into this innate ability of ours and use it to your advantage: Blindfolding your partner increases her sensory awareness. She doesnt know where you are or what you are going to do next. This creates anticipation for better sex -- the tease. Tease her mercilessly with sensory objects, such as a feather or your tongue. Start off softly, as this excites her nerve endings and makes them far more sensitive. Be careful not to overstimulate the nerve endings, however, because after a while the neurons stop firing with such intensity and the sensation becomes null and void.
Number 9
Give her instructions
After a while you may think you know how to please your partner in every way, but this is very rarely true. There is always something you havent tried, and there is bound to be something one of you always does that could be done differently. To combat this for better sex, have a lesson session in which you dont think you know it all, and are at each other's mercy as teacher. Talk about things you havent tried, but would like to, then
choose one suggestion from each partner, and get down and dirty. We often get caught thinking we know what our partners like, and after a while it becomes "the way its done." Lose this myth and put yourself in the student's chair for a while for better sex you won't regret.
Number 8
Massage
Sensual touch is one of the most highly relaxing and sexy things you can do for your partner, which is why it makes it onto our 10 tips for better sex list. Our bodies are almost without exception tense in some area, if not many areas. This hinders our energy flow -- including sexual energy flow. Imagine a car that has a clogged fuel filter: the fuel (our energy) cant get to where it needs to go quickly and smoothly, and the car performs inefficiently and ineffectively. A relaxing sensual massage can unlock her body to some very intense orgasms and much better sex in the end. The ability to relax your partner in this way should be high on your list of skills to master. The same goes for her: The difference between a deeply relaxing massage and a sensual massage is in the manner of touch -- you dont want to relax her too deeply because she will probably fall straight to sleep
Number 7
Have her dress up
Pretending to be something you're not comes easily to some people. However, it has its benefits when done for fun. Stepping out of the role of being "yourself" can be a fun way to give each other permission to behave differently for better sex. Playing the role of someone else during sexual play is a very enjoyable way to give your partner some different sensations, and try things that you havent done before. Role playing is a great way to have better sex and to have fun with your partner in a light-hearted but sexy way. It is often the woman who does the dressing up simply because A) They enjoy it; and B) They have the resources of clothes, underwear and makeup -- but don't forget that you can play too..
Number 6
Tell her your fantasies
Talking about your fantasies with your partner is a very conducive form of sex play. It increases communication with your partner, which is of great importance, as well, it also helps you get to know each other better for better sex. Yes, you may be surprised by what comes out of her mouth, but this works both ways. Keep it light at first and dont throw her in the deep end with fantasies
about people you both know or reveal fetishes you aren't sure about. Sit back with a glass of wine and keep your clothes on -- for now. Fantasy play can also be incorporated into a game for better sex. Use your imagination, and keep it sexy. Take it in turns and see where it leads you.
Number 5
Play a game
Get a pack of cards and play strip poker for better sex. It may seem like something you would have done when you were in high school (given the opportunity), but adult strip poker is a good way to get naked. Once you are both naked (or nearly naked), you can start on the really fun part: A loss means the other person gets to choose what action is performed on them by the loser. Time limits like one minute on said action means that it is a prolonged game of seduction, which by the end will have you both clamoring to be both the winner and the loser. There are many other games you can play "strip" to, as long as there is regular winner and loser to reward and punish respectively. The great part about these games is that you can both ask the other person to do something in a certain way that you may not necessarily have ever done before. It can get rather filthy, and definitely lead to better sex in the end.
Number 4
Dirty talk
Talking dirty has turned people on for millennia and will continue to do so because it has something other sex play doesnt: words. Because our brains are our largest sexual apparatus, we respond to the spoken word automatically -- especially when someone says our name. The spoken word evokes emotions, sensations and blood flow to various regions, depending on the topic. This works very much in your favor when it comes to talking dirty to your lover because women are especially susceptible to what goes in their ears (and I dont mean cotton buds or ear candles). Talking dirty is, however, an art form and when done badly can result in fits of giggles (which, lets face it, ain't so bad but isn't quite the goal here). Dont let this deter you.
Credit: iStockPhoto.com Related Video : 5 Important Tips For Better Sex << Previous Page For better sex, start off easy with neutral dirty-talk topics, such as how you feel inside her, how much you are enjoying the act and what you would like to do to her next. Dont get too carried away, but let it flow out of you. Dirty talk can be a bit daunting at first, if you are not used to verbalizing these things, so practice. You will see how she responds to you. Dirty talk also comes under the "encouragement" category -- when she sees that you like something very much, she will be more interested in doing it more. The rawness of the sexual passion aroused with dirty talk is why it is so effective. Be careful with swearing too much -- though a good dose of foul language is part and parcel with dirty talk (its not called dirty talk for nothing), too much swearing/name calling can be a turn off. Try to stick to positive words, and leave the commonly used insult words out. Watch what you call her body parts too -- just make sure she can handle it before launching into your tirade of filth. Chances are, the passion from you will ignite hers twofold.
Number 3
Try a new position
You already know how to bring her to orgasm in two ways (probably). You repeat these regularly because they work -- there's no harm in that. However, if you never, ever try any new positions again, how will you ever know? New positions need a reasonably high level of arousal in your lover, so choose your time to strike a new pose when she is quite obviously feeling very randy. There is no limit to the number of ways to have sex, so you can use your imagination and come up with as many weird and wonderful inventions as you desire. Simply changing locations can
dramatically change the position, so consider this too (for example on top of the washing machine, on a bench, beanbag or table).
Number 2
Use a cock ring
Cock rings slow the drain of blood out of your erection, and keep you harder for longer. A very hard penis stimulates a womans insides slightly differently -- and much better -- than one that is getting soft around the edges. Cock rings are inexpensive and usually nice to look at, and make an interesting male sex toy to add to your collection. Cock rings ensure that you can maintain the pace without faltering for better sex. This is very pleasing to your lady friend.
Number 1
Try a new place
Sex in a new locale is definitely up there in exciting things to do for better sex. You can take a drive somewhere secluded where you can get a bit risqu. Try a public place (not too public) or simply move to a different room or area in your home -- or even someone elses home. Whatever tickles your fancy. There are a million and one different places to have sex other than your home, in your bed -- use them.
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The list of helpful hints you have been presented with equates to a very good head start to a better sex life. The time and energy required to plan your adventures will pay off immediately, but also over the longer term. You will be rewarded according to the effort you put in with a great new skill set, and of course better sex. Make time, conserve some energy for it and relax. Life is short!
Sex Mistake No. 6: Silence Is Golden A lot of guys think they should be silent during sex, but unless you speak up, your partner has to guess what's doing it for you and what isn't. If you're respectful about it, a woman who wants to please you will probably appreciate some directions. "I'm not saying push her head in your lap," Taormino says. "I think that, 'this is how I like it,' is a very useful conversation to have 25 WAYS TO IMPRESS YOUR GIRL
1. When she asks how she looks, shrug and say "could be better" this will keep her on her toes, and girls love that. 2. Never hold her hand. This can be interpreted as a sign of weakness (or if she grabs your hand squeeze hers really, really hard until she cries. This will impress her by showing her what a strong man you are.) 3. Once a month sneak up on her from behind and knock her over. Girls are like dogs. They love to be roughed up. 4. Call her in the middle of the night to ask if she's sleeping. If she is say "you better be" , repeat this 4 or 5 times until morning. This will show her you care. 5. When she is upset about something, suggest to her that it might be her fault. This will pave the way for her own personal improvement, and every girl needs some improvement. 6. Recognize the small things, they usually mean the most. Then when she's sleeping, steal all her small things and break them. Because jewellery is for pussy's and Asian ladies. 7. If you're talking to another girl, make sure she's looking. When she is, stare into her eyes mouth the words fcuk you and grab the other girls arse. Girls love competition. 8. Tell her you're taking her out to dinner. Drive for miles so she thinks it's going to be really special. Then take her to a burning tire yard. When she starts to get upset tell her you were just kidding and now you're really going to take her to dinner. Then drive her home. When she starts crying and asks why you would do something like that lean over and whisper very quietly into her ear "...because I can." 9. Introduce her to your friends as "some chick". Women love those special nicknames. 10. Play with her hair. Play with it HARD. 11. Warm her up when she's cold...and not by giving her your jacket... then you might get cold. Rather, look her in the eye and say "if you don't stop b*tching about the cold right now you're going to be b*tching about a black eye." The best way to get warm is with fear. 12. Take her to a party. When you get there she'll have to go to the bathroom (they always do). Leave immediately. Come back right when the party's dying and yell at her the whole way home for ditching you at the party. 13. Make her laugh. A good way to do this is if she has a small pet. Kick the pet. I always find stuff like that funny. Why shouldn't girls? 14. Let her fall asleep in your arms. When she's fast asleep, wait 10 minutes then JUMP UP AND SCREAM IN HER EAR! Repeat until she goes home and you can use your arms for more important things. Like drinking beer. 15. Spit often. I hear girls like guys that spit.
16. If you care about her never ever tell her. This will only give her self confidence. Then you can never turn her into the object she deep down desires to be. 17. Every time you're in her house steal one of the following: shoes, earrings, or anything else that comes in pairs. Only take one of the pair. This way she'll go crazy. 18. Take her out to dinner. Right when she's about to order interrupt and say "No she's not hungry". Make her watch you eat. Girls love a guy that speaks for her. 19. Look her in the eyes and smile. Then clock her one. Girls love a spontaneous guy. 20. Give her one of your t-shirts... and make sure it has your smell on it. But not a sexy cologne smell. A bad smell. You know what I'm talking about. 22. If you're listening to music, and she asks to hear it, tell her no. This way she'll think you're mysterious. 23. Remember her birthday but don't get her something. Teach her material objects aren't important. The only thing that's important is that she keeps you happy. And your happiness is the greatest present she can ever get. 24. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it. Then next time you know she's coming over on a trash day leave the trash can open and have the present visibly sticking out of the can. Girls actually don't like this one that much but I think it's funny. 25. If she's mad at you for not calling her when you say you will, promise her that you will call her at a certain time of the day. This will make sure that she waits by the phone. Tell her when you call you're going to tell her a special surprise. Now she'll be really excited. Now don't call. That's also quite funny
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BY LANA L HOLSTEIN, MD, Author of: How to Have Magnificent Sex: The 7 Dimensions of a Vital Sexual Connection 1. Bring
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your sensual, sexual self back into your own "good graces." If you have become
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discouraged or dejected about your sense of sexual energy, now is the time to consciously resurrect and attend to a positive sexual sense of self. Plan a campaign to validate the sensual in your life by noticing colors, flowers, clothing, and textures that are erotic. You may wish to share these observations with your partner or you could keep your own diary to help remind you that pleasurable, erotic sensations are always available if we just take the time to notice them. As you get ready for bed, review your day and enumerate in your mind the encounters that you have had with the erotic. 2. Make
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corner of your day that is devoted to your ideal sense of the feminine. Perhaps that is a bath, perhaps it is a dance in your living room to a favorite song, or perhaps it is totally letting go into a warm hug from your lover. For that moment do not emphasize or even think about the masculine side of you that "gets everything done." If you are male, do something that connects you with your masculine source of energy. Maybe it is a strenuous session of exercise or weight lifting, maybe it is being incredibly focused on the femininity of your woman, or perhaps it is challenging your personal limits in some area of your life. Come to your masculine self with a sense of power and love. No Iframes 3. Touch
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your lover every hour. For an entire weekend, whenever the two of you are together, touch your
lover every hour. This means a casual brush as you walk past them, or a deep, long, nourishing hug, or of course making love, or a neck or back rub. Amazingly, we forget to energize each other with touch. Becoming more tactile contributes to great sex. 4. Open
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and give your lover only one chapter every night. Or, better yet, begin the tale and then hand over the story to them the next night to be continued. Make it a game of imaginary seduction that only the two of you are in on. 6. Contribute
to the sexual power of another. Choose someone of your same sex to empower by letting
them know something that you think is beautiful, alluring, strong or positive about them. You may comment on the glossiness of their hair, the beauty of their skin, the fabulous way they move their body when they are walking or dancing. When you do that to a "sister" or a "brother" in a way that is genuinely supportive, they will feel better about themselves and take some of that good feeling home to their sexual mate. You will also enlarge the positive approach to sexuality in the world. 7. Learn
about sexuality. Consider sex a worthy subject for study, and begin to look at writings and art from
traditions that honored sexuality, such as Tantra. Cultures that incorporate a positive view of sexuality often produced beautiful drawings, great rituals, and a sense of sexuality that takes us to our highest expression of love. Be aware that the most magnificent sex occurs when the body and the heart combine with the soul to achieve an ecstatic, powerful connection.
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Play Up His Deep Pockets

When he's least expecting it, tell your man you need some change. Then stick your hand in his pocket and touch his penis through the fabric, pretending that you're really digging around for that coinage you need. When he's good and hard, whisper something in his ear like, "Is that a roll of quarters in your pocket or are you just glad to see me?" He'll practically bust out of his pants.
Get Dirty in the Tub

Before you get it on, take a bath together. Bring out the candles and fluffy towels, then put two drops of patchouli oil, three drops of sandalwood oil, and three drops of lavender oil into your bathwater. Patchouli and sandalwood are awakens sensuality, and lavender induces relaxation. The combination of scents and warm-water sensations will completely prime your bodies and minds. For a truly sensual and erotic experience try this water-friendly sex position
Touch Yourself... With His Penis

Shake up your pre-sex routine by pressing his penis against surprising parts of your body. Try these frisky ideas. Hold his penis against your inner thigh to tease him like crazy; touch the tip of his penis against your breast, and rub his frenulum against your nipple; or bring the side of his shaft against the outside of one of your cheeks, then put it up to your lips and cover it with wet kisses
Unhand Your Man

Give your man a massage without using your hands. Before you begin, slowly undress your partner, but make sure that he stays warm. Then, keeping your hands at your side or behind your back, stroke his body (all except for his penis) with your face, hair, and breasts. Once he's totally relaxed, rub your breasts against his penis and he'll happily rise to the occasion
Try Finger-Food Foreplay

Have a romantic dinner without utensils so you can feed each other. There's something sensual about placing food in your partner's mouth. After a meal like this, serve yourself for dessert
Keep Your Pants On

Encourage your man to touch you when you have your favorite tight jeans on (and don't let him take them off). His hand can glide over your crotch more easily, and the material will transmit the sensations over a wider area.
Share a passionate 10-second kiss every single day. A lot of couples keep having sex but stop really kissing. And that's a shame, because it's such a wonderful, intimate act. So just go up and lay one on him. Instantly, you'll feel passionate instead of platonic. What a rush!
Touch a (Sensual) Nerve

One of the most explosive nerves in the body is located at the top of the inner thigh. Start by licking your finger (the wetness increases the stimulation) and slowly drawing it from the midinner thigh to the top. Then follow the path you just traced with your tongue, teasing your way to the upper region. Because the skin here is tender, it's important to watch how he reacts. If he flinches, you're exciting the nerve to the point where it feels too ticklish. If he flinches, give the area firmer kisses
Make It a Quickie
If you're turned on at an inopportune time and in semi-public place, act on your feelings. Although it feels a little bit naughty, a quickie will help you stay faithful. People often have affairs solely for the illicit rush from doing something "bad." Quickies allow you to experience all of the having-an-affair thrill with none of the cheating.
Keep Your Eyes Open

Watching his every move while youre hooking up is a great way to explore more of the emotional side of intercourse. Start by kissing with your eyes open and looking at each other during foreplay. Gradually build up until you can sustain eye contact throughout both of your climaxes. You'll experience your orgasm in a totally different way
Taunt Him
You might be surprised how easily you can become synchronized. Lay your hand on his chest, and have him do the same. Since heart rate speeds up during orgasm, if you stay hand-to-heart connected while you do it, you'll feel how wild you're driving each other.
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Great sex is all about angles the angle of his erection and your pelvis determine exactly what hot spots he'll hit and how tightly he'll feel gripped. That's why pillows can be passion's best friend. Try one under his butt while you're on top or supporting your tailbone in the missionary position. You'll be surprised how many new sensations you both experience just by adding a pillow.
Let Go Loudly!
Moan, let out animalistic noises or shout his name whatever you have the urge to do. If you're embarrassed, just know that you're doing your partner a favor. The more you express your pleasure, the more you make him feel like the stud of the universe. Bonus: Your orgasms will be even more powerful if you really let 'er rip vocally
Just Add Lube
Your guy has what it takes to get you off, but there's one more thing that can seriously up your odds of climaxing. With a little extra lube, every touch and thrust will feel smoother and more pleasurable. And because you're wetter, hell feel more confident, which will inspire him to try new moves and positions.
Be the Boss in Bed

Tell your guy to lie down, then use handcuffs, scarves, or a necktie to tether his hands together so he cant touch you. Next, you want to torture him playfully with your teasing. Slowly kiss your way down his torso, and just as you get to his pelvis, move back up to his ears and neck. As you tantalize him and he strains to touch you, ask him to tell you why he wants you so bad. Once hes pleaded his case allow him to take over.
sThe Outside of His Lower Lip The male mouth is an obvious moan zone. But zeroing in on that slope between his outside lower lip and chin will bring ultraintense bliss to his kisser. We've discovered that this tiny, delicate curve is packed with extrasensitive nerve receptors, says Lou Paget, author of The Big O and a certified sex educator. Manhandle-him move: While making out, suck his lower lip into your mouth. Use the tip of your tongue to stroke up and down mere millimeters below it. "That motion stimulates the whole erogenous zone in a teasing way, which will put him on the erotic edge," says Paget. "And by keeping his lower lip inside yours, you magnify the sensation. It'll feel as if electric currents are shooting from his mouth straight to his member."
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The Front of His Neck Women tend to pay oral attention to the sides of his neck between his ear and his collar but it turns out they're missing the major stimulation spot: just below his Adam's apple. "The thyroid, a butterfly-shaped gland about halfway down the front of his neck, is closely linked to the sex organs, according to ancient Chinese medicine," says reflexologist Master Mantak Chia, author of Sexual Reflexology. Manhandle-him move: Have your guy lie on his back with a pillow plumped behind his head so his neck is exposed and slightly arched forward. Warm him up by brushing your wet lips against the hollow of his throat. Next, run the soft flat of your tongue straight up until you're licking his Adam's apple. The thyroid is just beneath it; dip down and pause here and massage the area in wide circular motions with your tongue. "Teasing him in circles ensures that you excite the entire thyroid, so he gets maximum pleasure," says Chia. He'll be so hot and bothered, he'll gurgle your name in gratitude Read more: Where to Touch a Man - His 9 Pleasure Triggers - Cosmopolitan His Nipples You know that your nipples are a carnal command center. Yet experts found your guy's headlights might be even more sensitive, since most men aren't used to having these sexy switches lavished with attention. "For a lot of men, their nipples are uncharted territory an erogenous zone they haven't experimented with," explains Britton. Touch them, however, and you'll send shock waves of pleasure radiating through him, she adds. Manhandle-him move: Our ultimate manipulation trick is called the ice cream swirl. While he's stretched out on his back, "slowly lick in a circle starting outside his areola, circling closer toward the nipple as you would an ice cream cone," says Britton. Keep tantalizing him by zeroing in closer with your tongue. Finally, quickly flick the nipple, then very gently bite it. "Men love when you slowly build up the pressure like that," she says. So don't be afraid to nip him harder than you would like to be.
To up the erotic ante, suck on an ice cube before you begin. Your cold tongue will supercharge the Read more: Where to Touch a Man - His 9 Pleasure Triggers - Cosmopolitan The Dip Under His Ankle Halfway between his heel and ankle bone is a fingertip-size pressure point that we've learned has enormous passion potential, explains Laura Norman, author of Feet First. "This spot is linked to the sex organs," says Norman. "Pressing it releases energy, producing feelings of pleasure." Manhandle-him move: Do the deed in the reverse girl-on-top position, so you face his feet. As you sense your guy is getting close to climax, reach forward, grab his ankles and pulse each pressure point in rhythm with your thrusts. He'll blow a gasket in seconds...and playing footsie will never be the same.
His Perineum Most men are shy about guiding you to this patch of skin just past his family jewels. But beneath it is his prostate gland an organ with major orgasmic power. "A few soft strokes here will bring him to the brink," says Tracey Cox, author of Supersex. Manhandle-him move: Before he enters you in the missionary position, reach between his legs and lightly tease his entire package. "When your hand is behind his testicles, press your knuckles gently into the smooth flesh," says Cox. Your naughty kneading will bliss him out. Then, knock boots and knead him at the same time. When he's ready to hit the roof, push your knuckles deeper -- it'll extend his orgasm, adds Cox.
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Really Seeing You Naked Even if you've stripped down with your guy before, there's a good chance that he's never feasted his eyes on your completely bare bod for more than a few seconds. Maybe it's because you undress
quickly in a passion frenzy or your bodies are too close for him to really take you in. But it's a surefire libido trigger. "When a man sees a sexy image, his testosterone levels rise, spiking his sex drive," says Altman. "The longer you let his eyes linger, the more aroused he'll be." Plus, you'll feel sex-kittenish knowing he's so mesmerized by your form. While he's on the bed, peel off your clothes slowly. Keep the lights on and tell him he can look but not touch. Swivel around and let him view you from different angles, then lean into him for a few close-ups. To draw his gaze to a certain body region, brush your fingers over it or cup it in your hands. Or keep the area covered for a bit by wearing a lacy bra or boy shorts. "When you finally remove that last item, he'll feel like he's seeing something taboo, which is a turn-on in itself," says Altman.
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Read more: Foreplay - What Men Like - Cosmopolitan Women are aware of their erogenous zones -- the backs of the legs, neck and behind the ears -- and they generally need these areas to be stimulated before they can become aroused below the belt Read more: How to Get Everything You Want (in Bed) - Cosmopolitan After experimenting with different speeds and directions, I found the most incredible sensation occurs when my guy traces circles on my breasts -- gradually getting closer and closer to my nipples," says the 25-year-old receptionist. "He'll also make incredibly tiny circular motions using just one fingertip on my clitoris. After a few minutes of such slow ecstasy, we're both primed for the next sexy step. Read more: How to Get Everything You Want (in Bed) - Cosmopolitan
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1. "Good morning." 2. "Is it okay with you if I take this slow?" 3. "I can't stop touching you." 4. "Want to join me in the shower?" 5. "I want to kiss/lick/touch every inch of you." 6. "I love how you taste." 7. "Do you feel this, too?" ("This" being an incredible emotional euphoria.) 8. "Hungry? Stay right here. I'll go make you a burrito." 9. Her nameher full namefollowed by a "Wow." 10. "I'll get the light."
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11. "I'll cancel my plans if you'll stay here with me for the rest of the weekend." 12. "No one's ever done that before." 13. "Can we do that again?" 14. "I love your [fill in body part here]." 15. Nothing. Total, deliberate silence. You can stare at her, grab her, touch her, but don't make a sound. If she tries to talk, place a finger on her lips. 16. While looking out the window at people not currently in bed with her: "Suckers." 17. While looking at moonlight reflecting on the ceiling: "What do you see?" 18. "I'll go make coffee." 19. "Waking up with you is even better than sleeping with you." 20. "Let's play hooky today
Read more: http://www.menshealth.com/mhlists/30_sexy_things_to_say/index.php#ixzz1VdLNWi4f 1. Its Ok for Us To Go Slow. Definitely. Ever heard of a thing called foreplay? 2. This heart-shaped freckle on your right inner thigh is so beautiful. Compliments. If she has no freckles, well, Im sure youll find a cute feature to focus on. 3. You. Im guessing coz some Women love to be the center of attention? :) 4. You kiss great, _____ . Coz Women love affirmation that theyre doing good, perhaps? 5. Im going to take these off. Yes, stop asking whether you should do something, be errr, dominant and just do it. ;) The rest after the fold.. 6. You make me think dirty thoughts. This could be a little tricky though. Some Women might not like hearing dirty things while in the middle of sex. So I guess it depends how well you know your lady. 7. I want to make you feel good. But of course. Women always comes first. *ahem* 8. Next time, Im going to take you on the hobbyhorse. Its called the afterplay. Just as relevant as the foreplay. 9. You amaze me. Again, with the compliments. 10. Let me get back to you on that. Ala Sean Connery on Entrapment. Rule #2, Never trust a naked woman. Women knows when theyre being BSd. So dont make commitments about going camping or going to Disney World with the family just because shes naked in front of you. She knows better so be careful and honest. Shell appreciate it more. :) Well, there you go. Im sure you guys have known these all along. If not, I hope the list helps :)
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21. Any use of the word "hot." Especially: "You're so hot." 22. "Squeeze my hand when it feels really amazing." 23. Words that end in "uck." Yes, even "duck," when appropriate. 24. "There's nothing else I'd rather be doing right now. 25. "I'm ready to go again." 26. Damn, I've missed you." 27. "How about a massage?" 28. Playful laughter. 29. "Don't ever leave me." 30. "You sleep; I'll go check on the baby."
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No, were not referring to her butt (go to slide 13 for that tip). We mean literally the back side of her body. You probably usually focus on her front, which means youre neglecting a lot of nerve endings. So try standing behind her and kissing the nape of her neck, then slowly move down her spine. This also puts you in the perfect position to reach around and cup her breasts or stimulate her manually. Read more: How to Turn A Woman On - New Sex Ideas - Cosmopolitan
Read more: How to Turn A Woman On - New Sex Ideas - Cosmopolitan Grab one of her butt cheeks with one hand and use your other hand to cradle her face. This sends two messages you find her so beautiful that you cant stop looking at her and you find her so effable you cant wait to do herwhich is pretty much exactly the message any woman wants to receive when shes standing naked in front of you Read more: How to Turn A Woman On - New Sex Ideas - Cosmopolitan This is way better than the Facebook version: Gently push her up against the wall and spread her legs using your knee. Then press your thigh between hers. General clitoral stimulation (in the form of your thigh rubbing her button) is a great way to get her revved up. Read more: How to Turn A Woman On - New Sex Ideas - Cosmopolitan
Place both of your thumbs on either side of her vajayjay and rub the area in small circles without actually inserting your finger inside her. The same nerves that make her clitoris such a hot spot actually extend down to this area so your massage is the perfect warm-up to oral Read more: How to Turn A Woman On - New Sex Ideas - Cosmopolitan People have a slightly higher tolerance for pain when theyre aroused. They also have a harder time discerning pain from pleasure. Take advantage of her sexed up state to give her thighs some love bites before giving her oral Read more: How to Turn A Woman On - New Sex Ideas - Cosmopolitan With one hand, use two fingers to stroke her clitoris in circles. And with the other, insert your pointer finger palm-up inside her. Find the spot about an inch or two inside her along the front wall that feels spongy or puckered, and use a come-hither motion. It may take some time to pull off this ambidextrous maneuver, but knowing that you can give her that kind of pleasure will be worth the effort. Read more: How to Turn A Woman On - New Sex Ideas - Cosmopolitan During sex, pull out and use the tip of your hard penis to stimulate her clitoris. Take her hand and place it on your shaft so she can control how to use it on herself. Sure, itll kinda make you feel like a sexual object, but uh, do you really mind? Read more: How to Turn A Woman On - New Sex Ideas - Cosmopolitan
Call her in the middle of the night. Tell her you can't sleep and ask if you can come over. Tell her how much you'll going to miss her --- even if you'll be meeting up by the end of the day. Learn how to cook --- and make her her favorite meal! Learn to play the guitar and make her a song. Give her a tight hug --- in front of her parents! (Make sure they're all in good mood though). Buy her a pet dog and name it after you. Sweet! Take her to the beach, walk hand in and hand, barefoot and then watch the sunset together. Leave a whiff of your cologne on her bed --- you'll be the last person she'll think of before going to sleep. Tell her you love her at least once everyday --- do it in a different language sometimes. Kiss her when she least expects it. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/2575512
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Women think very differently than how men think. If you really want to score some points from your girlfriend, you must know how they think. First of all, you must treat your girlfriend like a princess. They like to know that they are the center of your attention and that they deserve only the best.
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Being in a relationship can sometimes become a bit boring. This is when you must act to create that spark again. And this is when you forget to do all the little things that you used to do for your girl when you first met her. Try to remember the simple things you used to do: opening the door for her, randomly giving her flowers for no reason, buying something just because it made you think of her, a sweet phone call to tell her you love her, just anything that will bring a smile to her face.
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So, let's get started with some point gainers from your ladies! The following won't be in any particular order, so you can do them in any order! Step one, send your lover a subtle, yet suggestive, email or text.
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The next time that you are away from your lover, leave her a letter for her to read for each day you guys are apart; compliment your girlfriend in front of others!
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Sneak inside her bathroom and leave a love letter on the toilet paper roll! Tell her that you love her every morning and every night.
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Pamper her by taking her to get a pedicure/manicure! Girls love to feel beautiful and this will make them excited! Hold her hand whenever you guys go out in public!
Snuggle in bed and tell her all the reasons why you love her. Or you can even set up a romantic dinner for her, all made by you! Surprise her with an unexpected gift. It doesn't have to be expensive-just something to let her know that she was on your mind.
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Plan a romantic breakfast-in-bed during a weekend. Make all of the arrangements yourself and surprise her! Start filling up a jar with loose change. When it gets full, redeem the change for a present that your girlfriend likes!
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Listen to all the things your girlfriend tells you when you guys go out to do something. For example, if she likes to go to a certain concert, surprise her with the tickets! You'll get major points for this!
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Do something together. Take a dancing class, play tennis, start exercising, etc. Just do it together. This one is a goodie! Make a redeemable coupon book for her so that she could use it whenever she wants to! MAJOR MAJOR points!
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There are many things and creative ways that you can always surprise your girlfriend to impress and make her happy. The bottom line is, always love her with all your heart and treat her like a princess every single day. Make her feel special. Go out of your way to do things for her. The truth is, girls want to feel like they are the world. And if you make them feel that way, you will win any girl's heart
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Buy her flowers at a seemingly random time. Put meaning behind it, get her favorite flower, or get her one for each month you've been dating, for every day you've known her. A really creative way to do this if you're a good artist is draw her favorite flower.
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Call her once during the day to tell her that you are thinking of her.
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Wink at her in class, or when she's giving a presentation. It will make her blush, and she'll take it as an "I'm thinking of you".
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Write her a sincere note, and give it to her. It doesn't matter what it says, or where you give it to her, even if it's just the two of you.
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Make her something. Whether it's a bracelet, or a sculpture, or even a poem.
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Write her a letter, even if you are next door neighbors. It's adorable, girls love it, and it is just a nice thing to do.
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When you're on a date, kiss her at random times. Just once or twice; after that, make sure there's meaning behind it. But be sure not to stop kissing her then, or she might feel like the relationship has lost something (or she may think you've Friend-Zoned her).
The firm touch of your thumb or pointer finger can sometimes be too much for her sensitive clitoris. So when you first start to rub her button, use your ringor even pinkyfinger. Then once you feel her getting wet and lifting her pelvis (a sign she wants a stronger touch), switch to your middle then pointer finger Read more: How to Turn A Woman On - New Sex Ideas - Cosmopolitan Fill the tub, light some candles, then offer to wash her hair. We can hear you groaning, but trust us every single woman has seen this done in a movie and is waiting for some guy to treat her to the same experience. And hey, itll probably lead to bathtub booty Read more: How to Turn A Woman On - New Sex Ideas - Cosmopolitan Suck on her nipples until theyre hard then alternate blowing on them and breathing hot air on them. The change in temperature is extra sensual Read more: How to Turn A Woman On - New Sex Ideas - Cosmopolitan Lie down in bed together and let her know that youre going to make her wet without touching her. Then proceed to tell herin lots of detailall of the dirty things you plan to do to her that night Read more: How to Turn A Woman On - New Sex Ideas - Cosmopolitan Dont stop at just one O. After she climaxes, spend a minute focusing on her non-crotchal erogenous zones like her breasts and butt. Then go back to her nether regions and start caressing the region again. Read more: How to Turn A Woman On - New Sex Ideas - Cosmopolitan Pull a bedsheet over her naked body then touch her through it. The material helps transmit the sensations to a wider area. Read more: How to Turn A Woman On - New Sex Ideas - Cosmopolitan Buy a candy necklace and roll it up her leg so shes wearing it like a garter. Then proceed to eat off every "bead. " Read more: How to Turn A Woman On - New Sex Ideas - Cosmopolitan
Wine and dine with her frequently A husband needs to spend time with his wife more. He may be busy with his official work, but yet he needs to take time off and take her out for dinner. A romantic candle dinner would keep the love flame alive. Take interest in her hobbies A wife likes it when her husband shows keen interest in how she spends her time at home. The husband needs to show interest in her hobbies and if possible participate in them.
Spend time with the children A wife after all has devoted her precious time in the upbringing of the children. She naturally would like it if her husband also took time off and spent it with the children. The husband needs to make her feel that he is also shouldering the responsibility of bringing up the children. Show interest in her friends A wife spends her free time with her friends. She would like it if her husband was also interested in her association with her friends. He is expected to respect her friends and treat them well. Socializing A husband needs to take his wife to social get-togethers and not make her feel alienated by leaving her at home. Even at official gatherings, he can take his wife along with him. Buy gifts Buying the appropriate gift for the wife requires much time and effort, which the husband should not overlook. A birthday gift, a marriage anniversary surprise party can do wonders to make a wife come closer to the husband. Respect her family members A wife cares about her family, be it her brother, sister or parents. A husband needs to be careful to avoid hurting her feelings by insulting any of her family members. Go on holiday It is important for the husband to spend his precious moments with his wife. A summer trip to the Bahamas or Hawaii sounds very exciting. A wife will be thrilled to spend time with her children and husband, away from her daily chores. Help her with the daily chores despite his pressures at work, it would be nice if the husband took some time out and helped his wife with her daily chores in the house. The wife may feel bored doing them. She would appreciate the gesture extended by her husband as a thought of love and affection for her. Not forgetting the marriage anniversary date A husband who remembers his marriage anniversary date is well received by a wife. After all, she would feel that he is still full of same loving concern for her as he was on her first date with him
The seemingly most challenged husband can put into action my 5 secret tips and greatly change the landscape of his marriage. 1. The Starbucks Run: Call your wife when returning home and ask her if she would like you to pick up her favorite hot beverage from Starbucks. This is has become a habit of mine. It doesnt take long to do and half the time she declines, but she loves that I asked. 2. Gas up the Car: This is huge! When your wife gets into her car and sees it filled with gas she will think of you with deep affection. Not having to worry about going to a messy and crowded filling station and wrestling with the gas hose will make an instant hero out of you. 3. Breakfast in Bed: Relax! Its not as hard as you think. I am not talking about Eggs Benedict. My wife really enjoys her tea, a piece of fruit, toast, and a bakery treat that I pick up from the local grocery store. Takes me about ten minutes to prepare this simple meal, and it scores big. What a way to begin the day - her smiling face. 4. The Turn Down: If your wife is like most women, she has a jungle of pillows and an assortment of blankets and throws on top of the bed. When my wife is preparing to retire for the evening, I will remove all of these objects and get the bed ready for her by neatly turning down the linen. I know this doesnt sound like much, but the fact that she doesnt have to deal with this herself when she is tired really makes her happy. Give it a try and you will see what I mean.
5. The Late Night Kitchen Clean Up: After dinner, my wife cleans the dinner dishes and loads them in the dishwasher. But thats not the end of the end of the dirty dishes. For the rest of the evening, my family uses more glasses, plates, and tableware. As I am almost always the last in bed in my household, I make it a point every night to collect these renegade dishes and put them in the dishwasher. My wife is so deeply appreciative of this. She can awaken everyday to a clean kitchen. And remember dont forget to turn on the dishwasher!
1. her a genuine, sincere compliment. Saying Gee honey, your butt doesnt look that fat in those pants will not count. That will set you back quite a bit, as will comments like Those sunglasses look great on you! They hide the dark circles completely. 2. One night, just to be sweet, let her be in charge of the remote control, and dont get all annoyed if you arent happy with her choices. 3. Clean something. Anything, anywhere in the house will do. If you think everything is already spotless, be thankful you have such an efficient wife, and go clean out her car, or give the dog a bath. I know you are probably thinking that you dont want her to get used to this help, and that is why you are terrified of doing it even once. Trust me, if she is an overworked wife and mom, she will be thrilled. 4. Fix something around the house. Anything. If you are oblivious to what needs fixing, just ask her. I guarantee she has a list already prepared. 5. Do the grocery shopping. Moms of toddlers especially appreciate this effort. Be sure to buy more than just beef and beer. She has a list for this too. While you are there, buy your wife something that is not on the list, like her favorite candy or other treat. Warning: Do not buy her favorite chocolate cake, or blueberry pie if she is on a diet, unless you want to wear it. 6. Let her sleep late on the weekend, even if you can only keep the kids quiet for an hour. Bring her some coffee or tea in bed when you wake her. Feed the kids while you are at it, please! 7. Pick up dinner on a week night so she doesnt have to cook (or feel guilty for making you warm something up yourself). Pick up her favorite food, instead of yours. 8. Tell her to go take a couple of hours for herself, while you happily play with the kids. The fact that you offered, and she doesnt have to beg or look at a sour face as she walks out the door will do wonders for your relationship. 9. Dont nag her. Everyone always talks of nagging wives, but what about nagging husbands? Take a good, long look at yourself, just to be sure. Do you nag her? Let it go, just this once. 10. If you have tried any of the suggestions above, you will now realize that you have much to be thankful for. Imagine how hard she must work to find something as small as sleeping late or having the shopping done a major gift! You are a very lucky man. Tell her
Do not wait for an explosion that measure high on a Richter scale for her to say that she is no more interested in you because you never tried to pamper or impress her. Jokes apart, females are people who are very caring and if a portion of it is returned in a beautiful manner, she feels recognized and respected. Believe me, if you do one fourth of what she does, she will be overwhelmed by three fourth. Yes, you guessed it right; they are in the habit of exaggeration.
Prepare a dinner for her, better candlelight when she calls you up to express her inability to come late and unable to do errands at home. This will not only relieve the tension but impress her. Be sure to choose a menu that is on her favorites and kindly do not experiment as your competition is with a better cook (if she is). Buy a bunch of flowers for her apart inspite of any occasion. Tell her that she is the most wonderful person that you have ever met (even if you dont think so). They like to look beautiful. Pamper her by taking to get a pedicure/manicure done. Buy a dress or may be a bracelet which she had given up to meet ends with the months budget the last time. Take her for a long drive and try to memorize the good moments that you have spent togethe If you have children, plan a day out with her without them or for a few hours. Make sure that children are in safe custody so that while enjoying, horrifying possibilities are not on her cards. Take a day off and ask her to leave all the work that she does. Do that entire she does for the whole day. This will serve two purposes. First make you understand how dexterous she is who does so much of multitasking (even if she doesnt you can appreciate her talents). Two, it will de stresss her and she will start appreciating you. Indulge in activities that you can do together such as cooking, cleaning, playing tennis

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Dress up for your anniversary. An anniversary is a special day to most women. Celebrating the day a relationship developed into a marriage and the special bond shared between husband and wife important. However, daily distractions and activities can prevent a husband from making an anniversary special. In place of buying your wife a material object to express the love you feel for her, impress your wife on your anniversary by completing the tasks she does on a daily basis. Spend time with her on your anniversary -- rather than money -- to show your love and appreciation for her. Difficulty: Moderately Easy
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Groom yourself from the moment you wake up to impress her on the date of your anniversary. Wash your face, brush your teeth and trim your facial hair. Make every effort to create a polished appearance to impress her. Most women work hard to keep a neat appearance to capture their husband's attention and appreciate when he works hard to keep his appearance neat as well.
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Ensure the children are cared for, if there are children present in the home, as an anniversary treat. Wake up early to get the kids ready for school, or tend to an infant while your wife sleeps in. Conduct the morning routine for her, such as packing lunches and driving children to school, to give your wife a morning of relaxation.
Write a note or letter telling her how much she is appreciated and loved on your anniversary. Set the note next to her bedside with a bouquet of flowers or on the table during breakfast, if the anniversary falls on a workday. Select exotic flowers if she has an artistic personality or roses if she is a romantic.
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Complete all the housework for her. Vacuum floors, fix the bed and run her errands if possible. Prepare dinner on the date of the anniversary as well. If cooking is not your forte, order out or make reservations at her favorite restaurant.
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Venture out together for the day or evening. Arrange for a babysitter to care for your children so you can focus your attention on her alone. Visit a memorable spot or a favorite destination that evokes special memories on your anniversary. Sit, talk and listen to each other to rekindle the initial feelings that turned your relationship into a marriage.
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Make Your Wife Feel Loved The single best thing you can do to build a great marriage is to learn to make your wife see how loved she is. If your wife does not feel loved, she will not be happy. This can lead to divorce or infidelity in extreme cases. Learning to make your wife feel loved is actually a pretty easy thing to do if you are willing to put in the effort. This guide below will show you how. Difficulty: Moderate
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Cuddle with your wife every single day. Women are very receptive to snuggling, and it helps them to see how much you care. Take time to cuddle for no good reason.
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Tell her you love her regularly. Many women live with men that assume that they know this already. Speaking the words will help your wife to feel loved.
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Volunteer your time and effort around the house and with the kids. Do not wait on your wife to do everything around the house. Get up and do those dishes just because. It shows how much you care.
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Engage in and buy into her dreams. If you are driven to give your wife what she wants, you should pay close attention to what that is. Give her a chance to share her hopes and dreams. Setting goals as a couple towards reaching her dreams will show her how much she is loved.
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Know things that most men do not. Remember anniversaries, her favorite flower and the best kind of chocolate that cheers her up. The details can mean the most.
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Lavish your wife with special attention on occasion. This is very easy and very worthwhile to your marriage. Draw her a bath and light a few candles to get the ball rolling. Surprise her with dinner. Do things your own way.
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Listen to her solutions when there is trouble. You and your wife are a team, and you should allow her to contribute her talents. Men tend to take over when problems are approaching, and it can leave your wife feeling unneeded. Listen and learn sometimes.
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Do allow your wife independence. Do listen intently when she speaks. Do surprise her whenever you get a chance. Do not try to fix every problem. Do not shoot down her ideas and dreams. Do not forget important occasions.
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Research. I cannot overemphasize the importance of paying attention to details - especially small ones. You have a clear advantage to understanding what makes your wife happy - You Live With HER! What better vantage point than being under the same roof with the object of your quest. Allow yourself to mentally walk in her shoes for a day. Make note of what makes her happy and what causes her frustration. Seriously, take notes. We keep records and journals for all sorts of daily things. Why not chronicle what makes us happy, sad, sentimental, or just plain worn out. Please don't treat this as an anthropology study, i.e. observing the homo-wifeous in her natural environment. I am suggesting to just jot down ideas as they present themselves. This is also where the shoe box comes in to play. Save the little things that often can mean so much. Maybe it was a card, a letter, a receipt from a wonderful dinner or play. Save these little things in a safe place. When you need inspiration, go to the box. It will hold a lifetime of memories and romance. I saved the dinner receipt from our first date. When we got engaged six months later, I taped that receipt inside the card I gave to my love. The memories and
tenderness brought back to mind from that small piece of paper were wonderful for us both. Its the little things that mean so much to all of us.
Lift her burden. If you have been together for more than a year, you probably have settled into a routine of specific household tasks. One person does the laundry. Another mows the grass. One cleans the kitchen after dinner, one pays the bills. Most of us get into the rut of this routine. I promise there are few items which your wife dislikes or possibly even loathes. By paying attention to her, you will quickly discover what these are. Surprise her by completing one of these tasks for her. Lets say she typically folds the laundry before bed. Excuse yourself for some reason from her presence. Sneak to the location of the laundry, and neatly fold the clothes. Leave them right where she would have gone to get them when it was time for her chore. Imagine she is trudging down the hall to attack the laundry. She goes to get the basket, and ahhh the clothes are folded! To a tired, overworked wife this can often be equal to a gift. Its not just that the job is done, but you were thoughtful enough to do it. Don't make a big production out of your accomplishment. Don't seek credit, it will come on its own, naturally. I like to tell my wife that "The Laundry Fairy Must Have Come". A bonus is that you both may find a better way to spend the 20 minutes that would have been spent by her folding laundry! Do these "sniper chores" often, but do them randomly.
Random acts of romance. Any joker can call the florist or drop $500 at the jeweler. It takes thoughtfulness to make her heart jump on a Wednesday morning in January. You know when your wife typically showers. Sneak into the shower before she does. Bring a small knife - something to carve with. Now carefully fashion the bar of soap into the shape of a heart. Don't worry about it being perfect. It's imperfection is what makes it special. This isn't ice sculpting. Hearts are easy - everyone knows the shape. What?! She doesn't use bar soap?! Relax, be creative. Grab some of her lipstick. Make a heart on the shower wall. Put your and her initials in the middle. You just duplicated one of
the most traditional signs of love ever - the heart carved into the tree. Don't worry, she isn't going to mind the loss of lipstick. Hide her favorite snack somewhere in her car where she'll find it on the way to work. Even wrap it with a short "I Love You" written on a napkin.
Hidden notes or surprises. Everyone loves surprises, especially thoughtful ones. Small sweet, special notes can make a Hallmark card look like yesterday's news. Again, any old guy can find the card aisle at the drug store. Its the creativity and surprise that make the difference. When I say "hidden", I don't mean hidden like she is on a scavenger hunt. Just make them hidden from plain site. Does she grab the same coffee mug from the cabinet each morning? Put a little note inside the mug before bed. When she goes for her morning brew, she will get two wake-me-ups. Post-it notes are essential for this task. Spice it up a little by getting some multicolored ones from the office supply store. Get some in the small size. Once, I gained access to my wife's purse while she was out of the room. I took her driver's license from her wallet. I then carefully attached a small post-it note beside her photo. I drew an arrow pointing to her face and wrote "Bill Loves ---->". She didn't reach for her license until days later. You can picture her quickly pulling her license out to cash a check or complete a transaction and seeing the hidden note. The feeling she got in the check out line of the grocery store from that one act, was more than any piece of jewelry or bouquet of flowers could bring. Guess what, she refuses to remove the post-it from her license to this day.
Random acts of Affection. Hug and Kiss your wife for no reason at all, except for the fact that it makes you both feel good. Women (and Men for that matter) need affection. Study after study has shown that affection and touch lead to longer and happier lives. I am not talking about push the dinner plates on the floor and diving into a passionate make out session here. Although that certainly can have its time and place.
Strive to give your wife a hug at least 3 times a day. Make it a meaningful embrace. Rub her back. Run your fingers through her hair. Nuzzle her neck. Remember you are hugging Your Wife, not sweet Aunt Mabel. Walk up behind her while she is doing some mundane task (dishes, dinner, paying bills). Rub her shoulders, scratch her back, let your finger tips glide across her arms. Small soft acts to show her your love and affection. Don't seek a response, don't treat this as foreplay, just do it because you care. She'll know. We are guys and many times our brains are on that oft referred to "one-track". But resist that urge during these encounters. Understand that there is a bigger picture for you both. To use an automotive analogy, look at these soft simple acts as maintenance for those other times when you want to kick in the turbo and hit the autobahn.
Unexpected compliments. Its just common decency to compliment someone immediately after they have done something kind, good, or pleasing. As my a fore mentioned refrain, any joker can accomplish this. Telling your wife thank you for making a nice dinner should be commonplace. However, creatively inserting compliments when they are not expected is a way to remind your wife that you appreciate her on a much deeper level. The compliment can be as big or small as you chose. Remember that both big and small are important. Lets start with a big one. While undertaking the advice in step 5, whisper to your wife how much you appreciate what she went through to deliver your children. Tell her how proud you are of her. This is even more meaningful months or years after the actual birth. Remind her that you know what she went through and appreciate it. If you have been keeping your note pad (Step 1), you should be able to easily recall any number of sacrifices your wife has made for you and the family. Let her know you are grateful. Of course the small compliments are just as important. Make these unique. Any 6th grader can utter the word, "you sure are purdy today". Please, forgive my southern humor. But you (especially you) know the little things your wife does that make her special. Instead of saying "I like your hair", be descriptive. "The way your hair falls along your shoulders, makes me want to run my fingers through it and softly kiss your neck". Unleash your inner romance novelist. It may seem corny, but if you mean it, then its not, its real. Rather than "I like it when we hold hands"...."The feel of your soft fingers intertwined with mine makes my whole body feel warmer".
Rather than "you have pretty eyes"...."Looking into your eyes reminds me of standing with you on our wedding day, looking at each other, our whole lives ahead of us". As stated above, at first these may seem corny or fake to you. But if you stop and think about how you really feel, then I promise you there won't be anything fake about your words. Allow your brain to follow your heart. Do let your wife's eyes remind you of your wedding day and you both will feel more deeply about each other
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1. Give Time - Your wife is your homemaker. She is the care taker of your children and aging parents, for her, dedicate some time. Listen to what she wants say, read her eyes, sense her heartbeat. This way you will emotionally bind her and make her fee l confident. 2. Surprise As she knows all about you, you need to get innovative with love. Always make her feel that she doesn't know everything about the way you love her. Take new ways to impress your wife, buy her those little things that makes her feel special. 3. Give Her A Break After a week long work, you homemaker may be tired, help her relax and be a cook. You can even take her out for a meal and make her feel that you are concerned about her relaxation. 4. Healthy Change Accompany her for a jog, fitness centre or an evening walk. Help her stay fit, active and youthful. Try bring in that change in her life by making her feel that she is not in a cocoon but a transformed and trendy cosmopolitan wife. 5. Ping Her Call her whenever you find time and ask her if she has any wishes for the day, fulfill the simple likes by going to the place she wishes to go, it may be a movie or her favorite hangout etc. 6. Weekend Getaway On all the 6 days, your wife is nothing but a housekeeper, so take her for a travel so that she is refreshed and de-stressed helping her creat a favorable ambience and peaceful environment at home
7. Get into doggy-style then wrap a scarf or towel under her hips, holding both ends in your hands. Now you can use it to lift her torso higher as you thrust in and out allowing for new angles and super deep penetration Read more: How to Turn A Woman On - New Sex Ideas - Cosmopolitan Get into doggy-style then wrap a scarf or towel under her hips, holding both ends in your hands. Now you can use it to lift her torso higher as you thrust in and out allowing for new angles and super deep penetration Read more: How to Turn A Woman On - New Sex Ideas - Cosmopolitan
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Use body language to hint at your romantic intentions. If things are going really well, you might want to try to break the touch barrier. Touch his or her arm briefly and gently as you talk. Or be more assertive and hold the person's hand when you cross the street, or if walking to a seat or a table, lead them by gently holding their arm. Touching in this manner helps break a "personal space" barrier. Pay attention to red flags, because some people have "personal space" issues and you don't want to make them uncomfortable. It is also essential to keep the hands warm. The touch with a cold hand unconsciously makes the person judge you as frigid. Have in mind that seduction is a synonym of body warmth! In general, women can get away with touching much earlier in a conversation than men can. Many women feel a little threatened when a man they just met enters their personal space, while most men are more open to being touched. In any case, proceed with caution, and back off if you get negative or mixed signals from the persons
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Home - Disability Sexuality By Disabled World - 2008-11-02 Foreplay is an essential ingredient of a satisfying sexual relationship. Women in particular like lots of foreplay to help them achieve orgasm and of course men love it to. Foreplay is an essential ingredient of a satisfying sexual relationship. Women in particular like lots of foreplay to help them achieve orgasm and of course men love it to. Here are ten tips to help you get more from foreplay and drive your partner wild with passion. 1. Don't Forget To Kiss
90% of women in a recent poll said they liked to kiss more, so make sure that you kiss your partner and do it with passion. The basics of kissing your partner are explained fully in our other articles, but the trick is: To relax, use variety follow your partner, use your body and do it with passion. Kissing is one of the best ways to show love and desire and is deeply personal, so make sure you do it correctly. 2. Target The Neck If you want to target one erogenous zone to make your partner moan with ecstasy, it's the neck. It's guaranteed to make any women melt and feel hot and sexy. Make sure you lick, kiss and nibble it. 3. Target ALL The Erogenous Zones We all know the obvious erogenous zones, but make sure you target them all. Great erogenous zones include: The back, and pay particular attention to the buttocks. Most women have reservations about their bottom so show her how much you love it. Stroke it, kiss it and tell her how beautiful it is. Other great erogenous zones include: The ears - An incredible amount of nerve endings are situated here. The feet - Reflexology targets the feet due to the connection they have to the rest of the body. Make sure you take time to massage and kiss them, it's a great way to relax your and turn your partner on. The backs of the knees - Not really thought of as an erogenous zone, but an incredible amount of nerve endings are situated here. The Inner thighs - Are highly sensitive and a great tease as your partner will wonder where your hands and lips will wander to next. 4. Oral Sex There is not enough room here to cover all the ways to turn your women on with oral sex (see our other articles) but one thing is a must: Communication - Many women complain that their partners do not do oral sex correctly. So communication is a must, ask her exactly how she likes it and follow here lead. Many women become very self conscious and think their partners are simply doing it to please them. Show them you are enjoying it and they will relax and enjoy the experience even more.
5. Use Massage Many women need to be relaxed to enjoy sex and get ready for full intercourse so add some sensuous oils into foreplay and pay attention to the back shoulders and the feet. 6. Set The Mood Relax before hand and show you have made an effort. Take her to dinner or make sure you have champagne on ice show your partner you care love and desire them. For women sex is not purely a physical act, it's a mental experience so show your partner how much you care. 7. Tease Foreplay should be fun and not finish too soon. Practice bringing your partners desire up and then moving away from the area targeted, tease her until she can take no more. This will heighten the expectation and make full sex much more fulfilling when it comes. 8. Communicate You need to explore your partner's inner desires and try and please them. Many couples are reluctant to talk about sex but your both adults and you need to do so. Don't rely on trial and error, make sure you talk frankly and openly. 9. Try Something New Don't go through the same routine every time! Sex will get boring add some different aspects and experiment. This may mean introducing toys, food or whatever else you can think of. Nothing kills a relationship more than predictability and boredom. 10. After Sex Don't just walk out Take time to tell your partner how much you enjoyed the experience. Kiss cuddle and tell her how wonderful it was - Make your partner feel wanted. So there you have 10 tips that will increase the pleasure of foreplay more and make sex far more enjoyable, for both you and your partner.
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Does she want a massage? Perhaps she gets a lot of pleasure from a hand or foot rub. Does she like spending time cuddling and kissing? Compliment her and express your love verbally. Begin Touching With Your Tongue. While kissing, open your lips slightly, and gently touch your partners lips with your tongue, or tentatively slip the end of your tongue through your partners lips. If your partner does not respond in similar fashion, or if they pull away slightly, you must save your French kissing for another time when your partner is more prepared. Tongue Exploration. With the assurance that your spouse is enjoying French kissing, try opening your mouth wider and moving your tongue a little more into their mouth. The key is mutual explorationwhat does your partner enjoy? Too much, too far, too fast, too wetall are turn-offs that can make this type of open mouth kissing unpleasant.Because this open mouth kissing produces a lot of saliva, remember to swallow occasionally. Variation. Using a variety of kissing techniques, and being aware of your partners responses are paramount. Its about having fun, and developing intimacy with your husband or wifeso there is no right or wrong! Whats important is your partners enjoyment.
PRE-SEX MOVE 2: Use Your Breath Relax, you can leave the tantric breathing to Sting. But theres something to be said for usin g your mouth to work up your man. Start by letting your parted lips linger somewhere on his body, like his stomach or chest, then slowly exhale. The rush of hot air will create a temperature change in his skin and heighten arousal, says Cadell. My girlfriend does this thing where she takes a long, wet lick up my neck, followed by a warm breath, says Christopher, 29. Or sometimes shell go really fast, alternating between licking and cool blowing on my nipples. Its like a stimulation bonanza. Now, a couple of heated rounds like this and your guys gonna want to go for the gusto. So to reel him back: Work your way south to his package, pucker up, and blast a circle of cool air around his penis, as if you were putting out the candles on a cake. Breathing cool air on a hot region will actually make his Read more: Foreplay Tips - Foreplay for Men - Cosmopolitan
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o Since we've already explained why foreplay is important, today I'm going to teach all my loyal readers how to make her reach orgasm through foreplay (and if not that, she'll be begging for you to ram it inside her).
Always keep in mind that every woman is different and thus has different preferences, so whereas some women like soft, tender touching, others prefer aggressive forceful behavior (and some like both). With time (and plenty of practice, hopefully) you will begin to pick up on how she likes your technique
via her body language and vocal approval or lack thereof. First thing's first, don't act like an android: okay, first I'll kiss her mouth, then I'll suck her nipples, then I'll eat her, then I'll penetrate her . Use your mind to stir things up a bit. No one wants a lover who's robotic (what if she bobbed up and down on your penis and periodically let out an "ooh," an "aah" and a couple of "are you going to come"s?) undress the lioness Removing her clothes can be a very important part of foreplay. You have two choices: slow or fast. The reason you should try both (at different times, bobo) is because a) women love variety and, b) to figure out what she really likes. Slow Sit down on the bed and have her stand facing you. Slowly unbutton her top and spread it apart, but don't remove it just yet. Go inside her shirt and hold onto her waist, all the while kissing her stomach and licking her navel. Now take off the top. Undo her pants/skirt and let it fall to the floor (and if she's wearing socks, for goodness sake, take those off too). Take a moment to look at her with appreciation, after all, you are going to be penetrating that body at some point in the evening, so you should appreciate it. Tell her that you can't believe that you have such a sexy woman in front of you. Now open your legs and seat her in front of you with her back facing you. Unclip and remove her bra, and cup her breasts in your hands. Feel them, appreciate their texture, and squeeze them ever so slightly just to get her juices flowing. Leave her underwear on whilst playing with her body, trust me, the anticipation alone will drive her crazy. Fast Face her standing up and remove her clothing as though you aren't able to contain yourself and need to see her naked body (but not so fast that you knock her down or do any bodily damage). Bite on her shoulder and kiss her mouth deep and slow. Then look her straight in the eyes and tell her to undress you -- slowly. kiss your miss Kissing is probably the most important part of foreplay or even sex for that matter. Not just kissing her mouth either, there's a broad spectrum to choose from -- her entire body. Use your lips, tongue and teeth to show her that the night is hers and you don't plan to neglect any part of her. Don't be shy; kiss her ears, eyelids, neck, throat, shoulders, breasts, stomach, back, inner thighs, feet, and of course, her mouth. There are no boundaries, so dive in with your mouth and show her that smiling is the second best thing you can do with it. When you do kiss her mouth, don't just shove your tongue inside and try to pretzel it around
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Women have plenty of erogenous zones, and rather than drawing a map of them and going through them one at a time, take your time to find out what pleases her most. Suck and gently bite her neck, shoulders and slowly move your way down her body. Listen closely to her reactions and pick up on what she likes. While you're on your sensual marathon of "Who Wants To Have An Orgasm?" with your mouth, use your hands to explore and rub her body. Randomly touch different parts of her. Turn her around and squeeze her butt cheeks while you nibble and lick your way up her back. When you get to the back of her neck, begin whispering to her.
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Talking to a woman during foreplay (or even sex) will stimulate her imagination, and since the best way to sex a woman is through stimulation of her brain, just picture the intense flow of orgasmic pleasure that she'll begin to feel. Don't ask things like "Are you going to cook for me if I make you come?" or "Do you have any butt plugs?" Instead ask questions and say things that'll get her imagination working. - What do you want me to do to you right now? - Do you want me to go inside here? (Say this while teasing her vagina with your middle finger.) - Do you want me to lick between your thighs? The point is to be creative and say things that'll excite her and make her vagina throb for you. Whisper in her ear or look her straight in the eyes. Speaking of which, the eyes are very important, but don't stare at your woman blankly until she asks, "Have the aliens finally invaded?" Rather look directly into her eyes the second you reach crucial moments -- like when you finally decide to penetrate her.
penis as a tool
Obviously, you can give her oral pleasure amid foreplay; she'll definitely feel the pluses in that. As well, the area called the perineum, which is located between the anus and the vagina, is a very sensitive spot. Because of nerve endings, some women find being touched there extremely arousing. But you can also
use your erect penis in that area and as a tool for the pre-sex session. Ahh, teasing a woman is probably one of the most exciting things in the world. While she's lying down, hold your penis with your hand and use the head to rub her clitoris. Circle her vagina and make like you're going in for the kill, but don't. Look her in the eyes while you slowly stroke her vagina, from her clitoris down to her perineum and ask her, "What do you want me to do with it?" I'm quite sure she'll have the answer. In relationships, one has to keep the creative juices (appropriate choice of words) flowing in and out of the bedroom, so you need to continue to treat her as though it's the first time you're about to penetrate her. Until next time, make sure to place the "patch" over your one-eyed monster and keep your ideas coming (all over the place).

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