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Are we there yet? Probably not. That’s why I think one of the
silliest answers you can give to “Will you forgive me?” is “Yes, I forgive
you.” It just doesn’t happen instantaneously. A more honest answer?
“Yes, I’m going to forgive you. I’ll keep you posted.” The funny thing
about finally arriving at a place called FORGIVEN is that it sneaks up on
you when you’re speeding along, paying attention to what’s good in your
life. Then one day you think back on “the incident,” and it no longer has
the emotional charge it once did. You find you’ve forgotten to update the
emotional ledger you were keeping of slights committed and apologies
owed. In fact, you can’t quite recall all the details of what was once
marked there with an indelible Sharpie. Congratulations – you’ve arrived.
Until then, give it time. It can take weeks, months, even years, to
get over feeling disappointed, hurt, and angry, and don’t let anyone tell
you otherwise. But every step brings you closer to freedom and your own
happiness.