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Ghost of Love


Kim Bellard

Copyright © Kim Bellard 1999

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Ghost of Love

Chapter 1

It was a sunny day when I died.

No, that's not quite right, I suppose. For one thing, it was more like early evening -- still
light out, but it was just starting to become twilight, with that slight hint of darkness that
has always seemed to me to be full of potential and excitement. It's the time that, when
you were a kid, your parents always called you to come in. Thus it still had some faintly
mysterious, forbidden adult world connotation to me. But you couldn't really say either
that it was daytime or that it was sunny -- or that it was night, to be precise.

And, to be really accurate, it was partly cloudy, not sunny. There were lots of fluffy
white clouds floating aimlessly in the sky. They had obscured the sun at times during the
day, providing a nice break from the bright sun, and even now were adding a beautiful
reddish tint to the impending sunset. It was mostly sunny, granted, but not purely sunny.

I don't know why, but it seems important to me, for some reason, to get this right, really
right. I'm not sure what difference it could make, but I want to try my best. Perhaps
being exact will prove to be important somehow. Words will fail me soon enough as I go
along anyway, so I better try to use them right while they still apply to what I'm talking

I guess the only accurate thing about that first sentence was the part about me dying.

You'll probably think that I was speaking metaphorically somehow, because obviously if I
die in the first sentence there's not much of a story left. Well, I have found out that some
things that I thought were obvious are not so obvious, and that's sort of what this story is
all about.

No, I really mean I died. I'd better explain -- but I have to warn you that you'll have to
bear with me for a little bit. It took me awhile to understand it too.

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My girlfriend Elizabeth and I were leaving a Chinese restaurant down by the university.
We'd had dinner there with another couple -- Paul and Janet, old friends of ours. Janet
and Elizabeth had gone to university together and had remained friends in the years
afterward. Paul and I got along well, and I liked Janet too, so the four of us often went
out to dinner together. We were all adventurous diners, enjoying finding new restaurants
and trying out new cuisines. This was the second time we'd gone to the Golden Dragon --
why do Chinese restaurants all have these silly names? -- and we liked it a lot. Great
sesame noodles.

It was located in a "transitional" neighborhood. The students who lived in cheap

apartments around here co-existed uneasily with the long-time, generally lower income
and mostly minority residents. Neither of the two camps was too happy about the
presence of the other camp, and both seemed determined to stay. However, there were an
increasing number of more upscale bars, restaurants and shops, as yuppies were starting
to rediscover and to gentrify the area. Neither the students nor the lower-income
residents seemed too happy about the changes, as prices were rising fast. Our presence
was part of that invasion, I'd have to admit; maybe we weren't living there, but we were
helping the colonization cause with our dining dollars.

I admit, we got a small thrill out of being some of those yuppie pioneers, venturing to
parts of town where our other friends didn't usually go. We loved telling acquaintances
about them, expressing mock surprise that they hadn't been there yet. It had occurred to
me to worry about how safe this neighborhood really was, but I'd shrugged it off. After
all, it wasn't even dark yet, there were four of us, and our car was parked almost right in
front of the restaurant. We'd never had anything bad happen to us in any of our other
outings, and some of them were to places I was a lot more uncomfortable about.

We walked out of the restaurant, Paul and I trailing Janet and Elizabeth. Paul and I were
talking about the upcoming NFL season. He was a long-time Steeler fan, while I rooted
for the Packers, so we amiably traded barbs about the other's team and their chances. The

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Pack is Back, I reminded him. Maybe, but only as long as Farve stays healthy, he
countered. Elizabeth and Janet were off in their own conversation, no doubt talking
about Paul and me or the state of our respective relationships; some conversation that we
were probably happy to miss. They got to the car first and waited for us to catch up.
There was a light flow of passers-by on the sidewalk, and another set of couples passed
between Paul and I and our women before we could rejoin them at the car.

It all happened suddenly. I paused in the conversation while Paul took out his car keys.
He held the key chain out towards the car like a pointer and pressed the unlock button,
and at that moment a sharp crack rang out.

My first thought was consternation that his key chain had made such a noise -- had it
blown up? Had the car's electrical system shorted out? The sudden noise seemed to
disorient me momentarily. One second I was walking next to Paul, seeing Elizabeth and
Janet waiting for us expectantly at the car. I can still see it: Elizabeth was smiling
tolerantly at me, happy to have me rejoin her. She looked radiant, and I started to smile
back at her.

The next thing I knew, the three of them were huddled together by the car, Elizabeth
kneeling over what looked like a body. She was wailing inconsolably, there were
screams from surrounding people, and a small crowd was gathering. Everything seemed
noisy, confusing.

I felt…distant, as though I wasn't part of this scene. I got the sensation that I must have
blacked out momentarily, but that was ridiculous; why would I do that? I stood, stunned,
for a few seconds, trying to make sense of the images in front of me. What had
happened? Who was that whom Elizabeth was cradling and crying about? And why was
I still standing a few feet away?

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I came to my senses, and forced myself to move towards my friends. I tried to shout over
the almost deafening noise, attempting to get their attention. For some reason, I couldn't
make myself heard, and the onlookers ignored my pleas to let me through.

An ambulance pulled up, almost simultaneously with two or three police cars. The police
quickly pushed the crowd back, allowing the EMS workers to size the situation up. I
stood in shock, watched as they rapidly loaded the body into the ambulance. For reasons
I couldn't understand, they had Elizabeth get in the ambulance with the body. Perhaps
they assumed she knew the person because she had been the closest to the body. Perhaps
she had been hurt in some way; this thought took over my thinking and started to really
panic me. Meanwhile, Paul and Janet rushed into their car and roared off after the
departing ambulance. I was nonplused -- why had they ignored me, left me behind?

I was very confused.

Well, I couldn't very well just stand there like an idiot. I figured the ambulance would
head towards the University hospital, as it was the closest hospital and took most of the
city's trauma cases. It was less than a mile away, so I hoofed it over, my walk breaking
into a jog and then a run. I must have been so pumped up with adrenaline that I didn't
feel the exertion at all -- before I knew it I was at the emergency room, barely breathing
hard. I rushed through the doors along with some other incoming visitors, and saw the
same paramedics pushing the stretcher along at a rapid pace. Elizabeth, Paul, and Janet
were all moving along with it, clutching at it or at the recumbent body like a talisman.
The paramedics wheeled it into a bay, and the ER physicians quickly went into action.

I didn't quite catch all the jargon, but they certainly seemed frantic. I stood dumbly by
the curtain opening, still too much in shock to speak. Some nurses pulled Elizabeth,
Paul, and Janet away from the body's side, and they brushed past me without noticing. I
watched as Elizabeth went by me without a second glance, taking in the curve of her long
brown hair and the tears running down her face. The sight of her took my breath away; I
was so worried about her. At least she looked physically unharmed, so that was a relief.

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I just needed to find out why she was so upset. Before I tried again to rejoin them, I took
a look at the body, finally getting an unobstructed view as the doctors cleared the
stretcher to apply the paddles to the body's chest. Apparently the heart had stopped.

You probably have guessed where this is going, but that's not fair: I gave you some clues.
I didn't have that luxury, so what I saw came as quite a shock to me.

It was I. I mean, it was me. That was my body lying unmoving on the gurney.

Chapter 2

Oh, the story gets stranger; you'll still have to bear with me.

Our little ape brains only have so much capacity. Evolution has not prepared us for all
the experiences that modern life presents us with. My brain seemed to have shut down. I
couldn't make sense of what my body was doing back there, apparently dead, while I
stood here feeling no different. I felt fine; I didn't seem hurt or in pain. There must be
some logical explanation, I protested to myself. But I couldn't think of one.

I found the three of them huddled in the corner of the visitor's waiting area, like rescued
refugees from a shipwreck or other disaster. You see people like that on the news all the
time, and those strangers always look so lost, so pathetic. It's different when those
strangers are people you care about. There were several other knots of worried-looking
people, some with what appeared to be injured or sick patients. I gathered that the ER
was triaging the more severe cases, and I'd -- he'd? That body had? -- gone to the front of
the line. For some reason I didn't feel too proud of that.

Paul was on his cell phone, talking urgently to someone. Elizabeth was sobbing quietly
in Janet's arms. I listened to Paul; he was telling someone there had been a terrible
accident and they needed to get here as soon as possible. I don't know what in his

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conversation made me think it, but for some reason I concluded it was my parents he was
talking to. Another not very good sign.

I knelt down next to Elizabeth. "Liz," I whispered urgently. "I'm right here. Can you
hear me?" She didn't register this at all, continuing to grasp the arms of her seat with all
her might while Janet sat next to her with her arm around Elizabeth's shoulders.

Experimentally, I put my hand on Elizabeth's forearm. Again, she didn't react in the least.
It was eerie. I could see my hand touching her arm. I knew what that should have felt
like. My mind wanted to register the sensation. But when I stopped to really pay
attention, I realized that I couldn't feel anything. No sense of feeling came from my
hand, not even the sense of mass you still get when your hand is asleep or you've had a
local anaesthetic and you touch something. I seemed to be resting my hand on her arm --
it didn't just pass through her arm like air -- but it was like someone else's hand, not
connected to me. There were no feelings at all. It didn't feel hot, it didn't feel cold, it
didn't feel the fabric of her shirt or the texture of her skin.

Oh, it's a dream, I realized with relief. We'd watched Ghost on the VCR recently, so I
figured I was taking cues from it. Shot dead indeed! What were the odds, I thought with
relief. I must be asleep and dreaming. The Chinese food probably wasn't agreeing with
me and was causing one heck of a disturbing dream. It's a hospital dream, I thought
hopefully. What did those mean again?

On the other hand, it seemed very realistic for a dream. I usually was an active
participant in my own dreams, not a wraith-like observer. And I almost never knew I was
dreaming while I was dreaming.

Still, it was the best theory I could come up with.

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A physician walked out slowly from the ER. He had that air of professional sympathy on
his face, the one that told you, sure, he cared about you and your problems, but also that
he'd seen all this before and that he had other patients he needed to get back to.

"I'm Dr. Green. Are you the people who were with Michael Finley?" he asked. They
looked at him numbly, afraid of the news he could be bringing, but unable to not stare at
him in frightened fascination. Elizabeth finally nodded.

"It's not good," he said gravely. "He was shot in the head. Brain function ceased almost
immediately. We have his body on life support now, but technically he is dead."

Paul interjected. "There's no hope, then? Is there any way he could come out of his

Dr. Green studied him with concern. "I'm sorry," he said gently. "He's not in a coma.
His brain is no longer working. He could never recover."

Paul sat down, shaken and drained. Janet hugged Elizabeth tighter and burst into tears
anew. Only Elizabeth seemed to not react, but her spirits had already sunk so low that
there wasn't much of a reaction left that she could have had.

"I know this is very hard for you right now," Dr. Green continued softly. "You have my
deepest sympathies. There's nothing we could do, nothing you could have done." He
crouched on the floor, so his eyes were level with their sitting faces, and paused briefly,
looking seriously at each of them in turn. He then spoke to them in an intimate air,
comrades in pain.

"There is something we could do to make this less of a complete loss. We'd like to
recover his organs for donation. That way some other family can at least derive some
benefit from this tragedy."

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He looked again at each one of them in turn, his gaze solemn. "Are any of you family?
Wife, brother, any immediate relative?"

Elizabeth looked at him, her mouth gaping half-open. "I'm his girlfriend," she admitted
tentatively. "I guess I'm the closest one here."

"We'd really like to have a relative's permission," Dr. Green said candidly. "His driver's
license says he wants to be an organ donor, but it's safer if we can get written permission
from a relative."

Elizabeth shook her head slowly. "No, we weren't married. We weren't even engaged."

The latter came out sadly and in a low tone full of anguish. Sure, Elizabeth had wanted
to get married, at some point, but I'd thought we'd both agreed there was no hurry. She
was sounding now like she regretted that lack of urgency. I suddenly wondered why we
weren't engaged. After all, I'd been seeing her for over four years. My family thought of
her as a daughter and my friends all assumed we'd get married. Paul and Janet had gotten
married a couple years ago, and kept telling us we should try it. We just laughed and told
them someday. I thought I loved her and knew that she loved me. But I'd kept putting it
off, like an idiot. Poor Elizabeth; I guessed I'd blown that one.

And who'd have thought that checking that little box when I renewed my driver's license
would be used for anything? It's not like I had thought I was going to be dying anytime
in the near future. I just did it because Elizabeth nagged me about not being selfish.
Now look where that had gotten me! I'd have to confess: I wasn't too happy about the
thought of them cutting my body up and passing out my vital organs like Christmas
presents to people I didn't even know. Besides, I didn't really understand what was going
on with me here; for all I knew I was going to need those organs somehow. I started to
get an ache where I imagined my kidneys were. Maybe these were sympathy pains and
they were already cutting up my corpse! The effect was like pricking a voodoo doll with

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pins, only the doll was my dead body. I shuddered at the thought and tried to refocus on
their conversation.

"…and his parents should be here soon," Paul was telling the doctor. This seemed to
reassure Dr. Green; he was going to be able to get things squared away once my parents
got here. Dr. Green stood up, and asked that we tell a nurse to get him when my parents

I kind of wanted to go back with him and see what was happening with my body, but at
the same time I was a little afraid to. I'm kind of squeamish and I could imagine the
yucky things they could be doing to me. Him/it/whatever; I didn't know the right word to
call that inert slab of cold flesh and congealing blood that looked like me. So I stayed
put, watched the three of them trying to cope. I was really wishing I would just wake up.

A few minutes later two men with police IDs around their necks came out from the
patient area of the ER.

"I'm Detective Reilly and this is Detective Kiowski," one of the policemen informed
them. He was about my age, early thirties, medium height and stocky build, but with a
no-nonsense air. His partner was a few years older and hung back slightly, his gaze
wandering distractedly around the waiting room before focusing in on them.

"We just talked to Dr. Green," Reilly told them. "We're sorry about Mr. Finley and about
your loss. We're here to try to establish what happened and see what we can do. Who
wants to tell me what they saw?"

After some coaxing, each of them told essentially the same story. They just heard a noise
and the next thing they knew I was down -- bleeding and immobile. None of them had
seen a shot, or even a flash where a shot might have come from. It was as if the bullet
had just appeared like a thunderbolt to my head. Kiowski jotted down their descriptions
of where everyone had been standing when it happened, and drew a little map of the

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scene. They studied it carefully, as though it might provide a clue that they'd missed
while actually present. After close consideration, they pronounced it correct.

Reilly nodded. "We canvassed the witnesses on the street too," he said. "No one else
saw anyone with a gun or anyone running away. No one saw any cars that might have
done a drive-by. Besides, the bullet came from the wrong side for it to have come from a

Reilly and Kiowski stood up, closing their notebooks after getting all the necessary
names, addresses, and phone numbers. "Do you people want us to have a squad car drive
you home?" Kiowski asked. "You're probably pretty shaken up. You might also want to
have someone stay with you tonight."

Elizabeth, Paul, and Janet exchanged looks. Elizabeth shook her head slightly. "We'll
drive Elizabeth home," Paul offered. "We'll be OK."

The two detectives started to move away, only to be halted by Elizabeth.

"What happens next?" she asked. Her voice was low but firm. "I mean, with the

Now it was Reilly's and Kiowski's turn to exchange glances. "The forensic guys will
come up with some angles on the bullet, so we can try to pinpoint where it came from,"
Kiowski offered. "But I'm guessing this is a random shooting of some sort -- he was just
standing in the wrong place at the wrong time."

Reilly looked annoyed at Kiowski's easy speculation. "That is, of course," Reilly added
dryly, "unless any of you can think of a reason why someone might want to hurt Mr.

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Chapter 3

It was another ten or fifteen minutes before my parents arrived. That was pretty good
time for them, actually. They didn't really like to drive in the dark, much less come this
close to downtown, and I believed there was a "Columbo" repeat on TV that this would
be interrupting. That parental love does overcome some barriers, helping rush them here
in a hurry. Of course, had it been "Murder, She Wrote," it might have taken longer.
Everyone has their own priorities…

Paul, Janet, and Elizabeth hadn't done much in the interim. They held hands like
preschoolers on a field trip, although Elizabeth was missing her buddy. What little
conversation they attempted drifted off after a few words. Paul jumped up at the sight of
my parents, relieved to have something constructive to do. He brought them over to
Janet and Elizabeth, and they all did a group hug, like some eccentric football team after
a big game -- an unexpected loss, of course.

My parents were in shock. I can't imagine anything harder than losing a child, although
at thirty-two it was difficult to think of myself as a child. To them I was probably still
little Mikey, terror on a tricycle, scourge of the second grade girls, and so on. I think
parents must conveniently block out those troublesome teenager years when their
children become aliens.

Dr. Green returned, talked them through the organ business, and got their reluctant
signatures. I'm sure they didn't begrudge other families the use of my organs, but in
signing it they knew they were signing away what was left of me. Elizabeth cried silently
throughout, with mom joining in and Janet sobbing at their sides. Paul and my father
stood awkwardly by watching -- whether embarrassed at these displays or envious for
their ability to openly display their feelings, I didn't know.

It was close to midnight before they got ready to leave the hospital. My friend Dave
showed up at some point, alerted by some unknown message system for tragedies. He

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hugged my parents and sat next to Elizabeth, putting his arm around her. She seemed
remote from him, aware of the arm but evidently drawing no comfort from it or anything

Everyone offered to drive Elizabeth home, or to have her stay with them. Elizabeth
wanted to go home to her own home, to her own bed, and opted to have Paul and Janet
drive her. She tearfully embraced my parents, hugged Dave, and walked out with Paul
and Janet. Janet again had her arm around Elizabeth and was murmuring comforting
noises to her. I think Elizabeth was pretty oblivious to them.

I watched my parents totter off to the car. I was worried about them. They were not a
couple who normally touched very much -- I doubt I'd seen them hug or kiss much in the
last ten or twenty years -- but they wandered off with dad's arm around mom. They
walked stiffly, like very old people. They were only in their early sixties but suddenly
they seemed decades older, their bodies having been subjected to some bizarre Star
Trekian rapid aging process. Of course, it wasn't their bodies that had betrayed them; it
was their spirits.

That left me standing by myself in the waiting room. I suppose I was still waiting for the
dream to end, and I hadn't thought much about what I should do next. That should have
been another tip-off that this wasn't a dream; in dreams events always seem to sort of
carry you along, and you spend most of your time responding. I didn't know what I
should do now.

I finally decided I wanted to see how Elizabeth was doing, and that raised the question of
how I would get there. I didn't have a car, and anyway I couldn't drive even if I had one.
Since no one could see me, I was hardly able to grab a cab or a bus either. I kept thinking
there must be rules for what I was supposed to do, but I didn't know what they were.
Maybe this was more like a video game than a dream -- there were rules, but you had to
learn them by trial and error.

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So I decided to walk. Elizabeth lived some six or seven miles away, so it didn't seem
impossible to walk it. It would just take a while. Well, it wasn't going to get any closer
standing here; I set off. The streets were pretty quiet, just the occasional car or mostly
empty bus rushing by. The skies had pretty well cleared up, and there was a bright moon
and lots of stars. It all seemed normal to me. I mean, I didn't suddenly have x-ray vision
or anything, I didn't have any special view of heaven (or hell), and I didn't feel any
different. I didn't feel much of anything.

I should have thought about that. I should have really tried to understand the texture and
the depth of my new existence, but I didn't. Instead, like that video game, I rushed along
to see what was next, without understanding what the game was about, or what my
options were.

The walk went by pretty quickly, and I lost track of time. I was daydreaming, I guess, my
mind trying to process all that had happened since dinner and to make sense of it. I still
didn't understand if I was dead, in limbo, or just dreaming, although I'd started to be very
dubious that this was a dream. Next thing I knew I was at Elizabeth's house.

She lived in a small one-story, two-bedroom house. It was set on a small dead-end street
in an older neighborhood, with the houses set close together. It was a little closer to
neighbors than I liked, but the people who lived here didn't seem to mind. The
neighborhood was close to the small, private university Elizabeth and Janet had gone to,
and had enjoyed its ups and downs over the years. Elizabeth bought her house during
one of the down cycles, helped by her parents' gift of the down payment. Now that the
neighborhood was in vogue again, her house was worth quite a lot more than she had
paid. She had no interest in moving, though; she liked the history, as well as the
proximity to things -- walking to restaurants, some shops she liked, and the like.

This neighborhood had been home to families for most of the forty or fifty years it had
been in existence, but in the last few years her house and its companions had become
popular with single people and with couples buying their first houses. Many of the

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current residents only lived there for a few years, before trading the charm for the bigger
houses in the suburbs and better schools for their kids. I'd always found it hard to
imagine how a family of several kids had ever lived in these small houses; they must
have put some value on the closeness that our generation no longer did. Or they just
didn't think about it.

Her bedroom light was on, as well as one of the living room lights. Now that I was here,
though, again I wasn't sure what to do. For one thing, I was outside and she was inside,
and I didn't know what to do about that. Tentatively, I went up to the door and tried to
turn the knob, with predictable results. It wasn't just that it was locked -- which, of
course, it was -- it was that I couldn't get a hold on the doorknob. The doorknob paid no
more attention to my hand than Elizabeth had; as far as it was concerned, my hand just
didn't exist. I even tried to press my way through the door, thinking that if I was, indeed,
a ghost, then I should be able to at least do that. After all, have you ever seen a ghost
movie where the ghost can't just float through walls?

Well, I couldn't. I stood stupidly outside the house of the woman I loved. Inside she was
hurting, probably crying and needing comfort. I was standing outside her house, outside
her world, and I was totally helpless to even stand next to her. It was very frustrating.

I walked around the house, thinking perhaps a window would be open and I could slip
through it. Her air conditioning was on, and so none of the windows were open. I
stopped outside her bedroom window. The shades were drawn, blocking my view inside.
I put my ear against the window to see if I could hear anything.

She was crying softly. She must have had her head buried against the pillow, because the
sound of it was muffled and dampened. It was the sound of a heart tearing, and every so
often she'd let out a wail of anguish and unbearable loss. Perhaps I should have been
complimented that she was taking things so hard. I was dead and I wasn't taking it so
bad. Really, I didn't seem to be upset at all about my apparent demise. I started to
speculate about that. Maybe I was just in shock, or maybe I'd just focussed so much on

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what was happening and how everyone else was taking it that I hadn't had time to realize
my own loss.

Listening to the sound of Elizabeth crying, my own loss was just starting to become real
to me. I hadn't suffered any physical pain and I still seemed to be attached to my body --
well, this ghostly body, anyway -- so being dead didn't seem very different from being
alive. I could only see the loss through how Elizabeth was taking it.

That's how I spent that first night -- standing outside my lover's bedroom window,
listening to her cry herself in and out of sleep, unable to touch her or even see her. It was
a good thing no one could see me, standing there all night with my head pressed against
her bedroom window, listening for clues as to what might be happening inside.
Onlookers would have judged me some sort of perverted peeping tom, which perhaps I
now was.

At one point I sat on the ground and laughed, struck by the absurdity of my situation. I
mean, I didn't even believe in ghosts. OK, maybe I woke with a start at unexpected
noises in the middle of the night, when the house should have been quiet. Maybe I
avoided old houses with tragic pasts. But actually believing in ghosts? No; I mean, these
were not the Middle Ages; it wasn't even Victorian times, with their interest in seances
and other polite occult trappings. People nowadays went to horror movies, but no one
really believed in ghosts, especially not me. Yet here I was, in the flesh -- or rather, not in
the flesh. Hmm, the syllogism would then be: I don't believe in ghosts. I am a ghost.
Therefore, according to Aristotle, anyway -- I must not believe in myself. It opened up
whole new self-help book opportunities, ones I didn't know how I would be able to
available myself of.

At one point very late in the middle of the night, a cat walked by, on his way to stalk
some prey, or to claim his territory. I'd always wondered what cats do when everything is
dark and quiet and they want to go out with those curious night eyes of theirs. I
suspected they liked it because it was easier for them to believe that they owned

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everything; they do in the day, too, but when someone else has to open the door for you,
it's harder to maintain the illusion. I half-expected him to sense me, using those keen
senses cats have that are unavailable to us more developed mammals, but he ignored me.
Of course, he may have detected me and ignored me for his own typically unfathomable
reasons. I watched him slink away gracefully. A noise from Elizabeth's room and I was
up at the window again, cursing at the walls and the distance between us. That's how my
first night went.

When the morning came and I was still there, I knew for sure that this was no dream and
my life as I'd known it was over.

Chapter 4

This is probably a good time for a short break, to let you catch your breath. Also, I
should do some more formal introductions.

As you may have picked up, I'm Michael Finley -- Mike to most people, Mick to my
oldest friends and to Elizabeth. I am -- was -- thirty-two, and worked as a financial
manager for a telecommunications company (e.g., the phone company, but they like us to
say "telecommunications;" customers don't seem to get as mad). Let's see, I was born
and raised here, in this moderately sized midwestern city, where few of the natives escape
from or want to. My dad was and still is in the insurance business, acting as a broker for
small to medium sized companies and their owners. He does quite well, and we grew up
pretty comfortably. My mom worked as a nurse before my sister was born, but since then
concentrated on raising us and volunteering to various good causes.

My sister Tara is two years older. She's a lawyer, as is her husband Dick. I'm sorry --
Richard. I always do that, just because I know he doesn't like it. He calls me "Michael"
in return. It's a civil war, pun intended. He thinks I don't like him because he's a lawyer,
but that's not true. I don't like him because he is a joyless bastard who is draining the life

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from my sister and is determined to mold my nephew into a carbon copy of himself. I'm
equally determined not to let that happen, so it creates an interesting battle of wills.

They met while both were associates in one of the big law firms here, and got married
about seven years ago. In fact, it was at their wedding that I got the lead that led me to
the job back here. Eventually Tara left the firm to start her own practice and focus on
family law, while Dick stayed in the firm. He's a partner now, and is into tax law. Their
son, Derek, was born five years ago. Now, Derek I like, and I saw as much of him as I
could without running into Richard. I liked to think I was his best chance to grow up
normal, not stifling him into politeness the way Richard wants to. I liked to bring him
trucks and bats and balls, and various loud toys. Hey, he is a little boy. Plus, it annoys
Richard, which is a nice bonus.

Tara and I have a decent relationship. We were very close as young kids, then we went
through that period of hating each other, mostly during our teen years. When I went
away to college we sort of both cooled off the hate part and drifted apart. By the time I
moved back to town she was married, and then soon she had Derek; she was all grown-up
and we didn't have much in common. I've been reconciling to that ever since, but she's
someone I always knew I could count on in a pinch. I secretly always really looked up to
her, but covered that with constant kidding and putdowns.

I went to college at the University of Pennsylvania. I liked the quaint, almost medieval
campus, and I really got into the rowing on the Schuylkill River (I'm told putting "river"
after Schuylkill is redundant, that the "-kill" means "river" in Dutch, but outsiders don't
ever seem to get that). They've got these picturesque boathouses right along the river
downtown that have lights outlining them, and it's so beautiful at night, the lights
reflecting the shapes of the buildings into the river. The rowing was very athletic, very
demanding. The group of rowers was pretty tight, and it was neither your stereotypical
jocks nor frat boys. The rowers tended to be very ambitious, good students, well
connected -- people who were going somewhere. They just liked to compete hard, to
work hard, and to play hard. I fit in well, I thought; they seemed to accept me, anyway.

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I got my undergraduate degree from Penn and my MBA from Wharton, and was planning
to stay in Philly. I liked the East Coast, the excitement of living in a big city. It had lots
to offer -- nightlife, culture, diverse restaurants, local color. Things like South Philly,
Manyunk, or the Main Line. I thought living there was kind of glamorous, and proudly
showed off my knowledge of the city when my parents or old friends came to town. It
was becoming my adopted hometown.

I lived there for a couple years after school, working for a consulting firm downtown.
The job was challenging, and I learned a lot, but I was on the road most of the time and
didn't get to spend much time in any one place. My college friends had equally
demanding jobs, so I started to lose track of them. And I started to get tired of the pace,
the traffic, the crime and the grime.

Then at Tara's wedding I got to talking with a friend of my dad's who was high up in the
phone company, and one thing led to another: I ended up with an offer and then a job
here. I debated if I wanted to be a midwesterner again, but it was a good opportunity,
and, frankly, I was ready for a change. It sounds stupid, but I missed things like
understanding, and really caring about, the high school rivalries. Try as I might, the
Philadelphia high schools were just names to me, and I knew I'd always just be an
adopted child, never a native. I wanted to come home.

Somewhat to my surprise, I haven't really regretted returning, and both my social life and
my career have been good since I returned.

I met Elizabeth on a blind date a little over four years ago. She was a friend of the wife
of a guy I worked with, and they conspired to hook us up. Elizabeth was kind of quiet,
and I didn't know how I was doing with her on that first date. She had a dignified reserve
about her, neither smiling nor talking unnecessarily -- just enough of both to let you know
she was still interested in what you were saying. There was also an air of melancholy, of
sadness, about her, although it took me a few times with her to puzzle that out.

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Physically, she was definitely good looking enough. For one thing, she's got that long
dark hair; men are suckers for that. Her body is nice and lean. Still, she wasn't drop-dead
gorgeous. If you were girl watching on the street, you'd watch as she walked by, but your
eyes would easily go on to the next target.

Now Tonya, my on-again, off-again girlfriend of that time, was the kind that you'd keep
staring at until she was either out of sight or you'd decided to get up to pursue her. She
was hard to forget.

Tonya was twenty-five when I met her. She was on the short side, and had a cute pixie
haircut that fit her well. Pixie haircut or not, she didn't have a pixie body. Vixen, maybe,
but definitely not a little pixie. Tonya had generous curves and an exotic beauty. Her
mother was half-Polynesian, and supposedly her father had some Native American blood
in him, and both showed their influence. Whatever the mix was, it was different, it was
striking, and it was beautiful. It's hard to describe, but she definitely was not the girl next

Moreover, she exuded sensuality -- in the way she walked, the way she looked around, in
everything she did. I met her at a bar soon after I moved back here and we spent the next
two years getting involved, breaking up over some stupid fight, and then passionately
making up. I never expected I'd end up with her, but I sure as hell enjoyed being with

I was on sort of a break from Tonya when I met Elizabeth. At first, I didn't want it to be
exclusive. Elizabeth was nice enough, and pretty enough, but I didn't think she was that
special. I liked dating and had lots of women who were interested in me, and in whom I
had some interest in return. I mean, I was only in my late twenties, and I liked to go out a
lot. I wasn't ready to get married or get too serious. So for the first couple of months I
juggled Elizabeth with a few other women, including Tonya. Tonya never minded; she
wasn't afraid of the competition.

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I didn't really fall for Elizabeth until she smiled at me, sometime in that second month. I
forget what we'd done that evening; probably gone to a movie or something. Elizabeth
could undoubtedly tell you. Because she seemed sort of quiet and reserved, I hadn't
really pushed anything physical on our dates. I admit I was figuring that this was going
to be one that just faded away; I'd call her less and less, as I got more interested in other
people. We had OK times together, but I didn't think either of us was all that taken with
the other. We weren't seeing each other every weekend, and when we did see each other
it wasn't always Saturday night, so the implication was clear that we weren't yet a couple.

On that night, though, everything changed. We were on her porch saying goodnight. I
was actually looking forward to getting home, maybe even calling Tonya and suggesting
she come over. So I wasn't looking for anything from Elizabeth. I said goodnight and
started to leave, done with another uneventful night out.

As usual, I had misread her. Out of the blue, she touched my face with her hand, and
gave me a smile. Now, I'd seen her smile before, not a lot or often enough, but this was
different. This was my smile, a smile that opened her heart to me. This was a smile that
no one else got to see, an Elizabeth no one else got to know.

That was it; I was smitten.

From then on, I didn't see the "pretty enough" girl I'd seen before, and that the rest of the
world still saw. I saw that beautiful woman who shared the secrets of her heart with just
me. We've been together ever since. Being with Tonya was like going out in public
wearing the flashiest diamond you could find. It's gaudy, it's fun, and it's a little
dangerous. You're always worried you'll lose it or have it taken away; you always think it
will find its way to someone more deserving of its brilliance. Yet you still want to show
it off while it's still yours.

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Being with Elizabeth, on the other hand, was like having a secret treasure. You want to
go away and be someplace private with it, not share it with the world or risk losing it.

We have -- had -- the occasional fight, but never broke up or even came close. We go --
went -- to family functions with the other's family, and did things with each other's
friends. She has pictures of me on her desk at work; I keep one of her in my wallet. Both
our houses are filled with pictures from our adventures together. In them, we are almost
invariably posed with our heads leaning towards each other, touching gently.

In our tender moments, she calls me "Mick" and I call her "Liz." My family is nuts about
her, and she always tells me that her family likes me a lot too. They live out west, in
Colorado, so we don't see them much. Her dad is a rancher, and I always thought that he
never accepted that I neither rode nor hunted. Every couple years Liz made me go
camping, which I groused about but didn't really mind. I just didn't want to have to kill
something for my meals. One of my favorite pictures is from a camping trip in Montana
a couple years ago. In the picture, Elizabeth is holding up a big trout that she just caught,
while I'm holding a box of pop-tarts I rigged up to a hook. We're both laughing
uproariously. Her father hated that picture.

Everyone expected we'd get married. I know Elizabeth did, although she didn't talk about
it much. My parents nagged me about it every time I saw them, and my friends would
periodically give me a hard time about it too. I suspected her friends wondered as well.
We didn't even move in together, continuing to live in our separate houses. We talked
every day, saw each other several times a week, and usually ended up spending the night
at one of our houses on the nights we saw each other. We had clothes at each other's
house. Still, I kept holding back, just not ready to get married. I wasn't looking or
waiting for anyone better, I loved her, and I knew we got along. I was just putting it off.
I figured, why change a good thing?

Enough about that, at least for now. Let's see, what else? Frank Jerome is my boss, and
he's also the guy who helped set Elizabeth and I up. We were peers at the time but he

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soon after became my boss, which was sometimes a little awkward. I didn't resent him for
it -- he's older than I am and had worked for the company several years longer than I had
-- but it did change our interactions, such as putting a damper on socializing.

Paul and Janet you met. Paul is an operations manager for a manufacturing company
here, and is one of these guys that I'm sure will eventually own his own business. He's
very solid. No brain surgeon, but if you had an emergency that required one, he'd get you
there. Janet works at an ad agency, writing ad copy. Elizabeth is a commercial artist, and
often does work for Janet's firm. Both of them perceive that working in advertising as
being beneath their talents somehow. Janet has -- or had, I'm not sure she still does --
aspirations of being a serious writer. She's claimed to be working on a screenplay for
most of the time I've known her.

Elizabeth, on the other hand, is quite a good artist, at least to my untrained eye. She's
comfortable in lots of mediums, but what I loved most were the simple pencil drawings
she does. She can sit down, start doodling, and out comes this very captivating picture --
realistic, yet stylized in a very unique way. She used to love to catch me unaware --
reading, watching TV, sleeping, whatever -- and dash off a small portrait. It was sort of
like living with a photographer who liked to take candid shots; I was never sure when I
was a model. I used to threaten her to give me some warning, but secretly I enjoyed
being the focus of her undivided attention.

What I wished I had were more self-portraits of her. She hated to do them, and only did
so under strict orders from me. We were left with lots of pictures of me and only a few of

Last but not least, Dave D'Angelo is my best friend. He has been as long as I could
remember. Dave is a big, good-looking guy. He has a friend in every crowd. Men like
him, and women are attracted to him on the spot. I was always envious of him.

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We met in junior high, and hit it off right away -- I couldn't say why. We were friends
throughout high school. He was on the basketball team; I wrestled. He played football; I
ran cross-country. We went to the same parties, and he often went to the lake in the
summer with my family. When it came time to go off to college, he surprised his family
almost as much as I did mine: he went to Princeton while I was at Penn. He even took up
rowing -- I was sure just to be able to compete against me, for bragging rights -- but I'm
pleased to say that my team is ahead of his in our career rowing racing history.

Unlike me, he came back here right after college, and started in the family business. We
stayed in touch when I stayed on in Philadelphia, and resumed our close ways when I
moved back. We played golf, started playing soccer, and went to sporting events together
-- sometimes with Elizabeth, sometimes not. We'd seen each other in every possible
mood, in every possible condition -- and still liked each other.

Dave has never really settled down, and is either in the throes of some mad new passion
or is in the hunt for one. It can be both amusing and a little dangerous to be out with
Dave when he is on the prowl. Elizabeth doesn't dislike him, and has been very patient
about meeting his long string of girlfriends. She swears she is keeping a list and is going
to give it to him when he is old, just to remind him. She just wishes he'd grow up. And
she does dislike it when he and I go out by ourselves, knowing he'll drag me to some bar
till all hours. At least she trusts me.

I'm kind of rambling, but since my funeral is coming up soon, I thought you might want
to know a little background.

Chapter 5

Elizabeth must have fallen asleep maybe four or five in the morning. Around eight I
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couldn't make out the words. Twenty minutes later I heard the sounds of a car pulling up
the driveway, and hurried from my listening post to the front.

It was Janet, this time sans Paul. She rang the bell, and Elizabeth opened the door. I
scurried in right behind Janet, before the door could close me out again. I was tired of
standing around outside.

Elizabeth and Janet clutched each other in a long hug. Elizabeth had put on her bathrobe,
a thick white one I'd bought her several years ago. She looked tired and worn, with red
eyes and big bags under her eyes. Janet didn't look too bad, all things considered, but
seemed very concerned about Elizabeth.

"I've brought you some coffee and bagels," she announced, pulling away at long last from
the hug. "You still need to eat and drink."

"Thanks," Elizabeth said, "I'm not very hungry, but I could use some coffee."

They retreated to the kitchen table, and I trouped along after them. I felt like a little kid
who was being ignored by the grown-ups, only I had no way to make noise or otherwise
attract their attention. I could only watch.

Janet had on an expression that I would soon come to know well, a mixture of concern
and fascination. Janet liked me, and knew me well enough to be affected by my untimely
demise, but that just gave her entree to the real survivors of this accident -- like Elizabeth.
They sat quietly for a few minutes, sipping their coffee. Despite Elizabeth's earlier
protests, she did start to nibble on a bagel. Janet put her hand on Elizabeth's and leaned

"So," she asked confidentially. "How are you?"

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Elizabeth had not yet had practice in responding to this inquiry in a bland way. She
thought about it carefully. "I don't know," she finally confessed. "I still can't really
believe Mike is dead. I thought maybe I'd wake up this morning and find that last night
was a dream, but when I woke up the first thing I saw was the blood on my shirt from last
night. I guess I'm still numb."

Janet nodded in agreement and looked serious. "It could have been us, you know? That
bullet could have hit any of us. Mike may have saved our lives." Elizabeth looked at her

"Or the bullet could have just passed over us safely," she said a bit hotly. "It's not like
Mike was throwing himself in front of the bullet to save us." Janet looked chastised. I
actually kind of liked the way Janet was looking at this whole thing -- maybe I was a
hero; maybe I hadn't died in vain -- and was a little sorry Elizabeth was having none of it.

They continued to pick at their bagels, and sipped their coffee. The phone rang. They
just looked at it, surprised at this ringing object in Elizabeth's kitchen, then at each other.
The phone continued to ring.

"Do you want to get that?" Janet asked. "I could get it for you."

"Let the machine pick it up," Elizabeth said. "I don't really feel like talking."

At the fourth ring the machine picked up, and the voice of a more cheerful Elizabeth
urged the caller to leave a message. I moved closer to the phone so I could hear the

"Elizabeth, it's Frank Jerome," the caller identified himself. "I saw…"

Elizabeth picked up the phone. "Sorry, Frank," she said. "I was screening my calls."

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"Elizabeth, I'm so sorry," Frank said sincerely. "It was on the news last night and in the
paper this morning. It's such a tragedy. I can't believe it. How are you doing?"

"Oh, about as well as you'd expect," Elizabeth said wearily, beginning to shape her
patterned response. "It's still not very real to me."

"Listen, Elizabeth, I know this must be terrible for you and Mike's family, but if there is
anything I can do, please let me know. Mike was a good man, and a good friend."

"Thanks, Frank, I appreciate that," Elizabeth told him. "That means a lot to me."

They exchanged a few other cliches. Frank asked about the viewing and the funeral, but
Elizabeth had no details. She promised to keep him informed and they hung up.

"It's going to be a long day," Elizabeth sighed.

Janet eventually got Elizabeth to shower and to get cleaned up. Tara called, and invited
Elizabeth to join the family at my parents' house. Elizabeth's parents called. She must
have called them when she got home the night before, late as it was. They told her their
flight arrangements, which didn't have them getting in until late afternoon. Janet offered
to pick them up, but they wanted to rent a car so they would have transportation while
they were here. Elizabeth suggested they call my parents' house if they didn't find
anyone at her house when they arrived. Paul called to check in on both Elizabeth and
Janet, and Janet suggested he meet them at my parents' house as well.

Several of Elizabeth's or my friends also called, having seen the news, but Elizabeth let
the machine record their sympathies.

Around noon Janet and Elizabeth went over to my parents'. I didn't want to be left behind
again, and I didn't want to walk the ten or so miles to their house, so I slipped in the car
when Elizabeth opened her door, climbing over the seat to sit in back. It was an even

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more complicated ballet to climb over the seat and out the door when we arrived, trying
to get out before the door slammed in my face. I barely made it. I had visions of being
trapped in the car like a pet locked in the car at a mall parking lot all day. So far, this
ghost business was not too convenient.

Unlike Elizabeth, my parents lived on the outskirts of the city, just outside the beltway
that ringed the city. When the developers had built here in the sixties, it had been
considered pretty far out. But the combination of the constant outward push of
population growth, and of development spurred by the highway, had made this a very
desirable spot. The developers had built good homes, with lots of green space, and
people continued to want to live in this area. As I child, I thought it kind of plain, but
over the years the trees and other foliage had filled in nicely. Now I was always
pleasantly surprised by how lovely it had become, and I marveled at how it, too, had
grown up.

They lived in a very respectable two-story colonial. It really was too big for them now,
but they loved the house and had done quite a lot of work on it. They liked their
neighbors; they were used to the location. And they lived for their yard; they were
always out doing something -- mowing, weeding, fertilizing, trimming. whatnot. My first
allowances had come at the price of helping with these tasks, but I guess I didn't inherit
their green thumbs, or their interest. To me, a yard was for playing baseball or football,
and they were never too keen on having kids frolic in their neatly kept yard. My own
yard was always in need of tending, but I was one neighbor who didn't shoo the
neighborhood kids off of it. Sometimes they let me play too.

There already was a small crowd at my parents' house -- several of my parents' neighbors,
a few aunts and uncles, Tara and Richard, Dave, and Paul. Tara had brought Derek, who
was looking pretty confused and a little frightened. My parents' minister apparently had
already come and gone. Several people had brought food, so mom had a little buffet
going on the dining room table. Mom kept hurrying between the kitchen and the living
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distraction from why they were there. Dad sat in his chair in the family room, not saying
much, while people sat respectfully around him.

There wasn't much structure. People sat, maybe saying a couple things, but most of the
time they didn't talk much. I was kind of thinking they'd tell good Mike stories, but I
guess they were still in the denial or numb phase. I walked back and forth between
different clumps of people, feeling again like an outsider but unable to resist. It was a
kind of power, my death having this kind of effect on family and friends. Did they care
so much while I was alive?

Everyone wanted a piece of Derek, trying to cheer him up. I guessed it was sort of a
"genes-carry-on" thing, the species just wanting succession and the individual carriers
didn't much matter. As I read once, we're just meat machines that exist to propagate
genes and DNA. I was childless, while the next generation was here in the form of
Derek. Derek had the ball now and so he had to run with it. Them, whatever. It's a
mixed metaphor, I know, but, come on, I no longer have a head, so you have to cut me
some slack here.

Derek liked the attention at first, but soon got tired of it. He eventually turned to that
brainsucker of small children, video games. Next generation, indeed -- although if I'd
been there I might have been playing them with him.

Dave and Tara spent awhile talking in the kitchen, which I didn't think Richard was
entirely happy about. I wasn't very surprised; they often ended up chatting at our family
functions. After all, he'd known her almost as long as he'd known me. I always liked to
imagine that they both were amused by their different perspectives on me: Dave couldn't
see me as the bratty younger brother she saw, nor could Tara understand me as a best
friend. I used to think, and to some extent still did, that Tara would have been good for
Dave, although I could never bring myself to imagine that she would be his type. Maybe
my cousin Annie; even I had lusted after her as a teenager. Tara was just my sister. I
didn't like Richard but I wasn't sure she could do much better.

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Because I didn't think they'd be in there long, I didn't follow them in to observe. I sort of
forgot about them, then was taken aback to see them emerge forty-five minutes later,
looking refreshed somehow. I didn't really think much about it, but I took some glee in
Richard's dark glance at Tara. You'd have thought I'd be less petty now that I was dead.

Mom also sat with Dave for awhile at the kitchen counter. This I did sit in on. She had
always liked him, even when he lured me to be more reckless than I might otherwise
have been. She used to tell him that she thought of him like a son. Did Dave's mom ever
say that to me? If so, I didn't recall it. He patted her hand and told her it was hard, but
she'd get through this. Mom sniffled some, but soon wiped her tears away and smiled at
him, holding his hand tightly.

"You were a good friend to my Mike," she told him fiercely.

"And he to me," he replied sincerely. I was touched. Mom cried and gripped his hand

Around three the crowd had thinned some, and Tara, Dave, Janet, and Paul gathered
around the kitchen table. Richard claimed the head of the table. Elizabeth sat with my
parents in the family room. They didn't seem up to the practical details. They watched
Derek play on the computer. I opted for the kitchen group; Derek was beating all my old
scores anyway.

"We need to think about what all needs to get done," Richard informed the group. "You
know -- notifying the newspaper about the obituary, making sure his friends know,
locating a will, etc. Tara, do your parents know what they want to do about a funeral?" I
was miffed that Richard was taking charge, but was getting bored just watching everyone
sit around and mope, so anything was better.

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They were a conscientious bunch. They put their heads together and made up various
lists of things to do. I was impressed with their thoroughness, and amazed at how
complicated it was to die unexpectedly. They listed all the people they could think of
who knew me, agreed on who would call who, and brought mom and dad in to talk about
funeral arrangements. Dad had a friend who owned a funeral parlor, so they got him on
the phone and started those arrangements going. They had already talked to the minister
about the funeral service, although they still needed to work out exactly what was going
to happen, and when. No one knew when the police would release the body.

It was weird to listen to my life being wrapped up like that. I thought they were using
these tasks as a way to not think about the cause. Checking off numbers one through six
on a list is easier than thinking about turning off the utilities for your son's house, calling
your brother's coworkers, going through your lover's clothes, and so on. Fortunately Tara
had done my will, so she had a pretty good idea things were in good shape there.

Richard offered to go with my dad to help look at caskets. He stressed the importance of
getting a good one, both for the burial and for the viewing.

"I don't think Mike wanted a casket," Elizabeth objected from the doorway. Her
appearance surprised everyone; no one had noticed her standing there. I hadn't either; I
wondered how long she'd been present, and what she'd overheard. Everyone turned
towards her with sympathy. "He told me he wanted to be cremated," she emphasized.

Richard stood up and went over to her. He put his arm around her. "Elizabeth, why don't
you let us handle all of these details?" he asked in his best client voice. "You've got to

She glared at him. "He didn't want a viewing or a burial. He wanted to be cremated."

I was surprised she remembered that; I had to think about when we would have talked
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my friends. I hadn't put much thought into it, and can't really say I cared much about it.
But Elizabeth had seized it like a dog with a bone.

Richard looked at her, coolly calculating. "We don't have to decide anything now," he
said, trying to avoid a confrontation in front of my parents. "We can talk about it later."
She glared at him again and left. I followed her. Instead of returning to the family room,
she went up to my old bedroom and threw herself on the bed. She started sobbing. I
watched her, powerless to intercede. Janet came looking for her after a while, and
stroked her hair until Elizabeth recovered her composure. It wasn't much, but it was
more than I could offer.

Detectives Reilly and Kiowski arrived close to six, about the same time as Elizabeth's
parent's got there. Their plane had been delayed in Chicago, of course, so they were late
and a little grumpy. They hugged Elizabeth, and expressed their condolences to my
parents. The mothers hugged with that bond mothers have about children, while dad and
Elizabeth's father stood manfully by.

Reilly and Kiowski wanted to speak to my parents alone, but they insisted they wanted
the whole group to hear any updates.

"There's not much new to tell you," Reilly said. He concentrated on my parents. "Still
no luck on finding anyone who saw the shooter or the gun. It will be a couple days
before we get a report back from forensics about the trajectory of the shot. We're
knocking on doors of buildings around there to see if anyone heard or saw anything, but
it takes time."

"Do you think you'll catch the murderer?" Elizabeth's father asked. I was hoping he
didn't have ideas about getting a posse to go round up some suspects.

"And you are?" Reilly asked curtly.

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"I'm Elizabeth's father. I knew Michael well and I want his killer to get the justice he
deserves. I just hope this state has a death penalty and that I'm there to watch him die."
Gosh, I didn't know he cared that much.

Reilly eyed him. He was probably thinking about the chances of catching the culprit, and
how many years it would take for his appeals to run out before he might actually be
executed -- assuming he were convicted of first degree murder. "We'll keep you
informed," he said blandly.

Reilly and Kiowski thought my parents could get the body in a day or so, as the autopsy
was being done today. That set up the funeral for Friday. Today was Tuesday. The two
detectives left, promising to talk to my parents tomorrow. Elizabeth seemed slightly
miffed; if she had been my wife or my fiancée they would have focussed on her, but since
she was only my girlfriend they evidently had concluded that my parents had the closer
ties. Not exactly wrong, but not quite fair either.

Richard got everyone back on track. People started doing the calls to my friends and
relatives, using cell phones to supplement my parents' phone line. They soon realized
that they were going to need some phone numbers from my address book to make some
of the calls.

"Who wants to go to Mike's apartment?" Paul asked. Everyone looked at Elizabeth, who
visibly shrank at the thought. Everyone was quiet.

"I'll go," Dave volunteered. He looked around for another brave participant.

"Oh, hell, he's my brother," Tara conceded. "I'll go with you." The two of them went off
in Dave's car. I thought about riding along with them, but I thought that would be too
creepy. I wasn't ready to see them go through my things. I did start to think about what
might be in the house that I wouldn't really want my older sister or even my best friend to
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have to care about that kind of thing. I felt like an accident victim on the way to the
hospital knowing he'd worn dirty underwear that morning.

The remaining group continued to make calls. Paul, Richard, and Janet did a lot of them.
Many of my parents' friends had already called or stopped by, so they were relieved of
some of that chore. They sat with Elizabeth, not saying much.

It was strange, to say the least, listening to these conversations. Many people had seen
the news, so only a few were very shocked. The conversations pretty much were similar
-- what can you say? People expressed their shock, sympathy, and condolences, and
asked about the funeral arrangements. Many asked how Elizabeth and/or my parents
were doing -- "about as well as can be expected" was the phase for the day.

Paul ordered a few pizzas, and I was surprised at their appetite once the pizzas arrived.
Dave and Tara returned eventually, just in time for the pizza. They brought my address
book and some other names and phone numbers they'd found around the house. The
group sat around the living room, eating pizza. A few of them were having drinks too.

The conversation drifted away from the painful topic at hand. Everyone seemed relieved
to talk about other things, everyday life observances. Someone turned on the television
and they laughed at a sitcom repeat. Just a bunch of friends sitting around in the suburbs.
I mostly watched Elizabeth, and sat near her when I could. She was fairly withdrawn, not
eating much or engaging in the conversations around her. It was like a little cone of
silence around her; people would sit by her and be absorbed into the silence. She seemed
more lost than hurt, struggling to cope with this unexpected loss and how to deal with it.
Everyone treated her gingerly, which just made her seem more fragile than she might
actually have been. I wasn't sure.

The crowd started to break up around nine or nine-thirty. It had been a long day, and
everyone seemed drained. Elizabeth's parents, who usually stayed in a hotel when they
visited due to the size of her house, offered to stay with her for the night. She declined,

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saying she was all right and could use the time to herself. She hugged my parents and
left in her parents' rental car. I tagged along, sitting next to Elizabeth in the back seat. I
watched her, curious about what was going on behind that dreamy exterior. She was in
her own little cave, on her own little island.

Her parents' car sped through the quiet streets towards Elizabeth's house. The
intermittent light from the passing streetlights, as she sat in the back seat with her mother
as their car sped through the quiet streets, seemed to illuminate her with an eiree glow --
as if her grief was so intense that it was giving off brief bursts of energy. The alternating
periods of darkness, on the other hand, seemed like times when the effort had
overwhelmed her and she had retreated within herself again -- only to regroup and give
off that next burst of light. It made for an interesting ride.

When they arrived at her house, Elizabeth said a teary good night to her parents -- with
her mother contributing most of the tears -- and slowly walked to her door. I was right
behind, and this time came inside for the night.

Chapter 6

I learned something unexpected about ghosts that second night.

Elizabeth stayed up for a couple hours after she got home. She had numerous messages
on her answering machine, but she didn't play them. She almost seemed to wilt when she
saw how many there were -- just more things for her to deal with.

She changed into a T-shirt and put on her bathrobe, then curled up on the couch with her
Mick box. She had always religiously saved any momentos from our time together. I'd
made fun of her when I first found out about the box, but now I realized the power of it.
She had a record of much of our life together -- ticket stubs to concerts, play programs,

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miniature golf scorecards, greeting cards, notes, and the like. We did do a lot of things, a
diverse collection of outings, so there was a lot of stuff.

I didn't like to admit it, but I never was good about sending cards and such. Oh, I'd send
the annual birthday card, something at Christmas or Valentine's, but I missed most of the
other holidays, and it was rare that I'd send her a card just for the heck of it. Elizabeth
was always doing that. She loved to send cards, hide little notes for me to find around the
house, all sorts of clever things. And she wrote the sweetest things. I appreciated them,
and tried to remember to tell her so, but if she was looking for me to respond in kind she
must have been disappointed. Despite that, she went over every little scrap of her
collection with the greatest devotion, as though a "Love, Mick" scrawled on a card might
have hidden depths that she might have missed the first time.

Now I wished I'd had a "Liz" box. I'd been cavalier about keeping all the things she sent
me, and watching her treasure our history made me sorry that if I had lived I never could
have done the same. Even worse, no one could find it and see all the sweet things, all the
precious memories, that she'd given me. They were gone, vanished almost as if they
never existed.

I'm getting off track. I watched her now. She was reading everything in chronological
order, and I could see traces of a smile slip onto her face as she recalled a happy time.
There were also the reminders of when we were having a hard patch, and she rushed over
those. Her eyes teared up at unexpected times, and just watching her I thought I might as

She took about two hours to make her way through these. It was touching to sit next to
her and watch her. It was like it was a way for her to relive us being together. When she
was done she put everything neatly back in the box, and stored it in her closet again. I
felt claustrophobic for a second, as though that was me she'd just put the cover on and put
away. In a sense, it was. Then she sat on the bed and started to cry, quietly at first, then
changing to the racking sobs I'd heard from outside last night.

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"Oh, Mick," she exclaimed softly, " Mick, Mick, Mick…"

Eventually she cried herself to sleep. I watched her sleep, her face still wet and smudged
from the tears. She lay on her side, curled up. We liked to sleep back-to-front, spooning
each other, and her laying there was like half of a picture.

It wasn't like I could read or watch TV or anything. Nor could I leave the house and go
anywhere. Much as I loved her and loved to watch her, there was a finite amount of time
I could do that. Plus, she looked so alone and missing me. So I did the natural thing -- I
got into bed with her, laying behind her in my customary position. I knew she couldn't
see me or feel me, but I hoped that somehow she might know I was around and be
comforted by that. Like I said, I was still learning the rules.

Well, much to my amazement, I fell asleep. Don't ask me how, or even what that really
means. I mean, I had no body, so how could I get tired or sleepy? But I did.

The next thing I knew it was early morning. The beginning of the sunrise was sending
some rays through her blinds, and the room had that diffuse, almost orange light of pre-
dawn. It was light enough to make out objects in the room, but dark enough to make
everything still slightly indistinct.

Elizabeth had shifted positions since I'd first laid down. Maybe that's what woke me. I
opened my eyes and saw her now facing me. What's more, her eyes were open and
staring at me.

She screamed and bolted upright. "Mick!?!?" she half screamed, half asked. She looked
like, well, like she'd just seen a ghost.

Of course, I jumped up as soon as she did. Reflexively, I looked down at where I had
been laying, and was startled to see the remains of an image of me, rapidly fading away.

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I can't really describe what it was like. For one second, one brief tiny moment, there was
me sleeping there, and then the image melted away like a cloud dissipating. It could have
been real; it could have been a dream. Whatever it was, it was gone now, as completely
as if it had never been.

So this was Rule Number One that I learned: if they stay in one position long enough,
ghosts are visible. Or so I concluded at the time.

Elizabeth was goggle-eyed, looking first at the spot on the bed where she had seen me,
then searching the room wide-eyed to try to detect where I might have gone. I was
startled myself, and couldn't even imagine what she was going through. Her gaze went
right through where I was sitting now; apparently she didn't have any ESP or anything
that helped her find me. She touched the bed tentatively, apparently testing if she could
still sense my presence there.

"That's it," she muttered. "I'm going crazy."

Either she was too wide awake to go back to bed, or was too afraid of what she might
wake to if she went back to sleep again. Early as it was, she got up and made some
coffee. When in doubt, have caffeine. She sat at the kitchen table for some time, holding
her coffee cup absently, and staring out the window at nothing in particular. I sat across
the table from her, so that she was looking right through me. It allowed me to pretend
that she was looking at me.

Eventually she came out of her reverie. She noticed the answering machine, blinking
away furiously. It was like a pet with a full bladder, needing to be relieved. With a sigh
she got a piece of paper and proceeded to play the messages.

Most were from people I knew, but there were a few people who seemed to know her
well whom I didn't think I knew. All of them expressed their deep sympathy and

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willingness to do whatever they could for her. A few -- but only a few -- specifically said
nice things about me.

It was still too early for her to start returning calls, so she went into the bathroom. I soon
heard the sounds of the shower running. There wasn't much to do in the kitchen, so I
wandered over to the bathroom, noticing that the door was ajar. She must have left it like
that to allow the steam to escape.

Now, I've seen Elizabeth naked before. She doesn't really like to be naked, but I've seen
her naked in bed, I've seen her naked while changing her clothes. I've even taken
showers with her. I can't explain my sudden fascination, but I was seized with the notion
of watching her shower. I know, this was crossing the line. The other times I'd watched
her, it was with her explicit or implicit permission. I was both an uninvited and an
unexpected guest here now. But I still stepped in the shower with her.

Elizabeth is one of these rare women who look better out of clothes than in them. I did
love to look at her body, the long, lean lines of her. The curve of her back, the smooth
thighs with the lithe muscle underneath, those perfect calves and petite ankles. Her
breasts, small but firm and eminently cupable by the right hands. Her long hair was now
wet and laying flat along her neck and upper back. How I'd loved to stroke her hair, and
to gently massage that wonderful back. She scrubbed mechanically, washing her body as
thoroughly yet impersonally as someone might groom a horse. I couldn't take my eyes
off her, knowing I'd never touch that body again, never caress her again, never feel her
skin under mine as we lay making love. If I had tear ducts I might have cried from the
loss of it.

She did cry. At first she just stood with her head under the nozzle, soaking in the hot
water like a balm. Then she gradually slumped to a sitting position in the tub, letting the
hot water wash over her while tears flowed down her face. You couldn't distinguish the
tears from the shower. I knelt next to her, knowing there was nothing I could do.

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"Liz, Liz," I whispered futilely.

She finally had enough. She turned off the water, toweled off vigorously, and got
dressed. Feeling a little guilty about watching her in the shower, I stayed in the living
room while she got dressed. Elizabeth came back to the kitchen table, looking more
presentable and much more composed. She picked up the phone and hit the second speed

"Donna?" she asked. "It's me."

Donna was Donna Wakefield, her best friend. She'd left a couple messages yesterday. I
thought it curious that Donna hadn't called my parents' house to see if Elizabeth was
there. Then, again, Donna didn't really know my parents. Donna and I weren't the best
of buddies. I didn't dislike her, but somehow we just never hit it off. I always suspected
that Donna wanted Elizabeth to do better than me. It was nothing she said, just a sense I
had from the first time we met.

As a result, we didn't socialize that much. Elizabeth and Donna talked almost every day,
and often got together on nights I didn't see Elizabeth. That was all right with me. I
didn't begrudge her those nights out, and certainly her seeing Donna by herself was better
than dragging me along.

Elizabeth listened to Donna for awhile, and suggested Donna come over around ten. She
warned Donna that her parents would probably be over later, and laughed at something
Donna said. I didn't hear what the comment was, but it was the first time since Monday
night I'd heard Elizabeth laugh.

Her parents called an hour or so later, and agreed to come by for lunch. Elizabeth didn't
return any more calls, but she did retrieve the paper from outside. She read it slowly, and
spent a long time looking at the story about my shooting. It was by now only a short
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police were still investigating. Yesterday's article, which was still sitting on the kitchen
table, had been longer and placed more prominently. I wasn't sure if she was reading the
story or reliving the evening.

Donna came by a little before ten. She'd brought some flowers and some cinnamon rolls
that were a special weakness for Elizabeth. They hugged tightly for a few minutes,
Elizabeth squinting to block out everything else. Finally they separated.

"Here you go," Donna said brightly, "Food for your stomach and food for your heart."

Elizabeth gushed in that way women do with flowers. I never failed to be amazed at
how much impact flowers have on women. Such a small thing, with such a big return.
Maybe they do it just to train us men to do something nice -- and yet we often neglect
even that. They busied themselves putting the flowers in water and arranging them.

"So," Donna asked, her hand squeezing Elizabeth's across the kitchen table, "how are

Elizabeth looked relieved. This was a softball; she could handle this. "About as well as
could be expected," she said matter-of-factly.

Elizabeth recapped her day yesterday, with Donna making sympathetic noises. Neither
wanted to actually bring up Monday night, not the awful event that started all this. They
wanted to close the wound, not reopen it.

I hated to confess it, but I wasn't finding myself liking Donna any better. Elizabeth did
seem very happy to have her there, but Donna seemed to treat this whole thing as
something that happened to Elizabeth -- not as something that happened to me. It was as
if I was a tumor or some unnecessary internal organ that had unexpectedly been removed.
Maybe that is how she always thought of me, I thought maliciously and not a little

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All three of us were surprised by the doorbell ringing an hour or so later. The two of
them looked at each other in amazement.

"It's too early for my parents," Elizabeth said. "They're not supposed to be here till

Donna volunteered to get the door and promised to fend off unwanted well wishers. I
walked to the door with her, curious myself. I think I was more surprised than Donna
was to see Dave.

"Donna Lou!" he exclaimed with pleasure. "I thought I recognized your car." They
exchanged warm hugs and an affectionate peck on the cheek. I didn't know that Dave
and Donna even really knew each other, except by name, much less were at a hug-&-kiss
and knowing cars stage. And "Donna Lou"?

Elizabeth came at the sound of Dave's voice and also gave him a brief hug.

"I just wanted to see how you are doing," Dave said. "I figured you were probably way
behind on phone calls, so thought I'd drop by rather than calling." They adjourned to the
kitchen, where Elizabeth refilled Donna's and her coffee cups, and brought Dave a cup.
Dave slyly eyed the extra cinnamon roll, which they offered to him. He promptly
devoured it.

"What's on the agenda today?" Dave asked.

"Well, my folks are due around noon," Elizabeth replied tentatively. "I guess we'll go to
lunch, then Donna and I and maybe my mom will go shopping. I don't have anything
appropriate to wear for the next couple of days."

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They all looked slightly subdued at the thought of those next couple of days, knowing she
was referring to the viewing, the service, and the funeral. I wasn't sure what something
"appropriate" was. Do they make funeral dresses like they do cocktail dresses? Are they
one-time use dresses, like bridesmaid's dresses, or are they reusable? Is cleavage

Dave was at his soothing, charming best. I envied him that gift. I always wondered how
he could go into any situation and never appear to have any doubts about his belonging
there. I wondered how he would like to be stuck in my current situation, doomed to
observe indefinitely and yet evidently powerless to interact.

At some point there was a lull in the conversation. Donna and Dave must have sensed
that Elizabeth was working up her nerve to tell them something. She was fidgeting and
looking down at the table. Finally she blurted it out.

"I saw him. I saw him on the bed with me this morning."

They looked at her incredulously. "What do you mean?" Dave asked, the first to recover.
"You saw Mike?"

She nodded grimly. "I know it sounds crazy, but I woke early and I swear he was lying
next to me. He looked like he was asleep."

"What happened then?" Donna asked, full of curiosity. Donna was into astrology and
such, so I had no trouble believing that she believed in ghosts. Both she and Dave leaned
forward to hear the answer.

"I don't know," Elizabeth said miserably. "I jumped up and he was gone."

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The three of them sat for a few minutes absorbing this. Donna sneaked a few glances
around the room, trying to ensure I wasn't there. That was an occasion that I especially
wished I could have appeared, just to scare her.

"Do you, umm, sense him now?" Donna asked nervously. "Can you feel any kind of

Dave looked skeptical, but watched Elizabeth carefully as she drew herself in to put her
mental antennae out. She closed her eyes to focus. I did my best to aim thoughts at her.
I sat in front of her, I sat on her lap, I put my arms around her. I even kept saying her
name into her ear.

"No," she said, shaking her head. "I don't feel anything." I was disappointed, although
not surprised.

Dave and Donna looked at her seriously. Donna was still uneasy, unable to resist the
occasional look around the room. Elizabeth was nervous, worried what their reaction
might be. Dave was unpredictable in these sensitive moments -- he might make fun, or
he might be sympathetic. You just couldn't predict.

"Had he shaved?" Dave asked. It was a surprising question, but Donna gravely turned to
Elizabeth, as though she were pronouncing the future. Elizabeth looked thoughtful.

"Now that you ask," Elizabeth said. "He did look like he hadn't shaved in a couple of
days. So, no, it looked like he hadn't shaved."

The three of them considered the implications of this, as did I. It was true; I was
accumulating some stubble. If that went on, it could be a problem, as I couldn't figure
out how I could procure a razor in this limbo state. I was generally getting a little seedy
-- not just the beard: I'd been wearing the same clothes for a couple days, I hadn't combed
my hair, and I hadn't bathed. I looked more like a bum than a ghost.

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Dave's surprising question proved to be the right one. It implicitly acknowledged

something real about what Elizabeth had seen, without making any judgements or putting
either of them on the spot. And it was kind of funny.

They laughed awkwardly. That had been a vulnerable moment for all of them --
Elizabeth for sharing such a seemingly crazy thing, and Dave and Donna for witnessing
that sharing. They all wanted to pretend it hadn't happened. If they didn't, they might
have to acknowledge that there were ghosts, and that would put them in a whole new
country, the land where I now lived. If I had been in their shoes, I'd have done the same

Dave got up to make his good-byes. I didn't relish the thought of spending the rest of the
day shopping with Donna and Elizabeth's parents, so I decided I'd go out the door with
him. I wanted to see how my coworkers were taking my death.

Chapter 7

I didn't know where Dave was likely to go next, so I didn't get in his car. I didn't want to
walk downtown either, but knew there was a bus line that had a stop near Elizabeth's
house. It should take me downtown.

Of course, I'd forgotten that at this time of day there weren't many other prospective
passengers, and the bus drivers certainly couldn't see me to know to stop. I had to wait
forty minutes for someone else to appear at the stop, then another ten or fifteen minutes
for a bus to pick us up. Just to be spiteful, I rode the bus standing in front of the white
line. The driver ignored me.

I got off by the main downtown square. Our offices are near there. I liked the
downtown. Sure, it wasn't Manhattan, or even Philadelphia, but it was healthy. The

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streets were bustling during the day, and over the past couple years there had been a
concerted effort to give people more reason to come downtown, or to stay there -- an
entertainment district, some new or expanded department store anchors at the mall, and
of course, the sports teams. There was starting to be a renaissance in downtown
apartments and condominiums. So, all in all, a good atmosphere, someplace that I wasn't
embarrassed to bring visitors from out of town. It had its charm, it had its history, and we
natives liked it, thank you very much.

It was getting close to lunch, so the streets were pretty full. I wandered around, looking
at all the people. I could openly stare at people without them noticing. I could read over
their shoulders, I could stand right next to them, I could make faces or funny comments at
them. These were small pleasures, but about the only ones available to me.

I began to wonder where all the other ghosts were. I mean, lots of people die every day,
so statistically there should have been some ghosts hanging around. But I didn't see any.
Perhaps I was the only ghost in the world; perhaps I just didn't know how to recognize
them. I would have been instantly recognizable to other ghosts, I thought. In those
crowds of people, it took some gyrations to avoid them inadvertently running into me. I
wasn't sure what would happen if they did, but I wasn't yet brave enough to test it. So I
watched for anyone else similarly avoiding real people. I even watched for people
floating through things, just in case they had acquired some knack I'd not yet. Either
way, there were no signs. Maybe all the other ghosts hung out someplace else, or maybe
they were avoiding me because I was such an awkward ghost.

It was a nice day out, and I delayed going to my old office so I could people-watch on the
square. I say "people watch," but what I was really doing was girl watching. I always
loved to do that, especially on a nice summer day like this one when women wear such a
range of outfits. The skimpier or more revealing, the better.

Even when I was involved with someone, like I had been with Elizabeth the last few
years, I still enjoyed the sight of other women. Young women, not-so-young women.

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Woman flat as a board, women as wavy as the ocean. Women with great chests, women
with nice legs. Tall women, short women. They come in so many shapes and sizes, so
many colors and builds. And so many of all of those are attractive. I didn't think I had a
type; they were all luscious. It was like a dessert buffet; some were sweeter than others,
but most of them would do in a pinch.

Some feature would catch my eye -- pretty hair, a cute face, a flash of thigh; it could be
almost anything. Then my gaze would automatically slip down to her ring finger, to see
if she was claimed already or not. I couldn't say why I did that -- even when the check
indicated that, yes, this one was already married, my eyes still proceeded to evaluate the
rest of the package. It's not like if there was no ring, I'd try to move in, but nor was it that
presence of one prevented ogling. I just liked to know the status, just in case…

The women would walk by and for a second I might wonder what they were like. If they
were very good looking, I might wonder what they'd look like without any clothes on. I
might even wonder what they were like in bed. That one looks quiet, but is she wild in
bed? This one has such a sway in her hips even walking; what is she like with her legs
wrapped around you? Is this one smart; would that one laugh at my jokes?

It's silly, it's pointless. It's sexist and undoubtedly demeaning to women -- but it is
entertaining. It's not like I ever made catcalls or whistled; I have my standards, after all.

A very attractive woman walked by me, and for the hell of it I followed her. I'd literally
lost my mind, or at least my physical head, so I was feeling some serious loss of
inhibitions. My coworkers would probably still be at lunch, so I had some time to kill
yet. She went into a department store and started looking at evening dresses. I watched
her, mesmerized.

Now, I loved Elizabeth very much, and I'd been faithful to her. But that didn't stop me
from appreciating other women. I'd maintained my friendship with Tonya, for example.

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She respected my relationship with Elizabeth, while coyly hinting if I wanted to sleep
with her, she'd be willing. She seemed to regard Elizabeth as a phase I was going
through; she called her "the girl."

I didn't keep my friendship with Tonya a secret from Elizabeth, but I'd have to confess
that I didn't exactly advertise it either. I didn't tell her all the times we talked on the
phone, or the lunches we often had. If Elizabeth happened to ask me what I had done for
lunch on a day I'd been with Tonya, I'd tell her, but otherwise I didn't volunteer that kind
of information.

I guess I felt a little guilty about Tonya's continued presence in my life, even though I
kept telling myself I wasn't doing anything wrong. The same was true of a couple ex-
girlfriends from my Philadelphia days that I kept in touch with. I might tell Elizabeth
about talking to an old college buddy, but not about Alicia calling. Alicia had been the
love of my life in business school, or the life in my love life anyway. Like Tonya, she
persisted in the friendship long after the relationship had cooled, and apparently had no
strong contenders for a serious new relationship. I liked to flatter myself that these
women were still holding out some hope I'd want to get back together with them. Maybe
I did still flirt some, maybe I didn't talk much about Elizabeth to them, but at least I never
pretended to them that I wasn't in a serious relationship. Whether that got me any points
for heaven, I wasn't sure.

So, anyway, I felt a little guilty for being so attracted to this woman, but it wasn't like I
could cheat on Elizabeth now. She was beautiful, elegant, tall, and looked -- oh, what
was that phrase from "Body Heat," when William Hurt first met Kathleen Turner? "Well-
tended." Yes, indeed. Although she was probably actually younger than Elizabeth, she
seemed years older in some sense, worldly and jaded. She hadn't aged more but she had
experienced more. Her body had the same hauteur that she probably had; first class,
aware of it and arrogant as hell about it. This was a woman who wouldn't have looked
twice -- or once -- at me while I was alive.

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It was a pleasure to watch her purposeful shopping, looking through a collection of

expensive dresses that Elizabeth couldn't have afforded. When she had gathered several
dresses to try on and headed towards the dressing room, I gulped but only hesitated a
second. I followed her in.

You'd have thought that the morning's episode with Elizabeth's shower would have
satiated my desire to secretly watch a woman disrobe, but it hadn't. I watched eagerly.
She never took off all of her clothes, just efficiently stripped to underwear to try the new
outfits on. It was extremely captivating. You can see more skin on television -- even on
the broadcast channels these days -- but the knowledge that she was totally unaware of
me made it extremely erotic. It was like getting a porn channel on cable unexpectedly;
you know you're not supposed to, but you watch anyway just because it is new, it's
forbidden, it's different.

I watched until she'd finished, then stumbled out of the dressing room when she
whooshed out. She bought two of the dresses. I let her walk away, still light-headed by
what I had done.

Two days after my death, and two days before my funeral, I was stalking strange women
and goggling at them dressing. What had I become?

Feeling slightly sick to my stomach, I walked over to my old office. Perhaps the gloom
of my coworkers mourning my death would snap me out of it. I rode the elevator up,
which was a problem -- since no one initially punched my floor, I had to ride up and
down until someone got on who was going to the right floor. Once again I pondered how
difficult this limbo state was.

The office seemed pretty normal. I don't know what I was expecting, but somehow this
air of…normalcy wasn't it. OK, maybe there wouldn't be black crepe paper hanging,
maybe people wouldn't be in the mourning clothes, but, come on, people were walking
around as usual. They were answering phones in chipper voices; they had their casual

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outfits on. I stopped by a few of the clumps of people chatting, in the snack room, in the
halls, or at people's desks. The conversations were your everyday office chitchat, from
complaining about unreasonable work deadlines to talk about upcoming weekend plans.
Nothing about my death or me. I was, I confess, disappointed.

I stopped by my old office. Someone had at least shut the door and closed the blinds. I
couldn't see inside, so I don't know if the police were isolating it for possible evidence or
if the company had already stripped my belongings.

My assistant Margie wasn't at her desk, and her computer was not on. It appeared that
she was off today. Good old Margie. We'd worked together a couple years, and got along
well. She always asked after Elizabeth, and showed me when she got new pictures of her
daughter Tiffany. She must have taken the news hard.

After more prowling around, I found some evidence of impact. A couple people had taped
photos of me by their desks. The people who had done it surprised me -- not necessarily
people I was particularly close to, just people I said hello to passing by for the most part.
One of them had been on a short-lived project with me, but we hadn't exchanged more
than a few words after that.

In the break room there were copies of a couple of the newspaper articles posted to the
bulletin board. They had a copy of the obituary from today's paper, which listed the time
and place of the viewing and the services. Someone had put up a sheet indicating that
Margie was handling taking up a collection.

Still, one of the articles was partially obscured by an announcement of the company
picnic later in the month.

Frank -- now, I was sure that Frank would have some visible reaction. I hurried to his
office. His door was closed, but through the blinds I could see him inside with his boss,
Larry Morgan. I put my ear against the glass wall and listened hard.

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"So Codman can finish up the capital analysis that Finley was working on?" Morgan
asked. "Will he meet the deadline? What other critical projects are outstanding?"

"George will do fine," Frank assured him. "Mike already had him doing a lot of the
work, so I'll work with him to finish it off. I'm redistributing Mike's other projects, and
will talk to my other managers about handling his direct reports. By the end of the week
we should be on track."

Morgan nodded. Things were under control. "What about what we talked about last
night? Have you thought about it more?"

Frank sighed. "I know it'd be a nice budget savings, but not to replace Mike? It'd be
tough, I'll tell you. There's not much depth at his level, so the junior people would really
have to step up."

Morgan gave him a Jack Welsh kind of look. "But can you do it?"

Frank paused for effect. "Yeah, I think so. It won't be easy, but we can cope." Morgan
patted him on the arm, proud of him. "It will be worth it to you at bonus time. You'll do
well on your budget goals."

Frank was using me to leverage his bonus! I knew Frank, and this was only a token fight.
He hadn't really pushed to replace me. He'd always assured me how indispensable I was,
and how he'd look after my interests. Now, the first chance he got, he was dumping me.
Oh, sure, he had protested, but it was pro forma, just so his boss would register how hard
Frank would have to work to do without me. But, in essence, Frank was admitting that I
was superfluous.

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I never thought I was superfluous. Sure, maybe I wasn't indispensable, but I did a good
job. I worked hard; I put in long enough hours. I thought I'd be missed both personally
and professionally. Apparently not.

When Morgan opened the door and walked out, I timidly crept through the door to sit on
Frank's couch. He was still sitting behind his desk, not looking too happy. He audibly
exhaled, and looked out his window. Shaking his head, he picked up the phone.

"Evelyn, can you ask Bob and Nancy to come in here?" he asked politely. They were my
peers, managing the other sections in Frank's department. He fiddled with some papers
on his desk while he waited for them. They showed up a few minutes later, looking
worried. They'd have heard Morgan was here behind closed doors; that's never good

"Have a seat," Frank said distractedly, gesturing to the couch. I hurriedly got up, to avoid
being sat on. Bob and Nancy tentatively sat down. Frank remained behind the desk,
leaning forward towards them. I leaned on a windowsill.

"Good news or bad news first?" he asked rhetorically. "OK: the bad news: Larry wants
us to take this chance to reduce our budget, so we're not going to replace Mike Finley."
They didn't react too visibly, just acknowledged his statement with tight nods. I
suspected that they had been expecting this.

"What's the good news?" Nancy asked suspiciously.

Frank laughed, without much humor. "Oh, more for us all to do, I guess. Or maybe the
good news is that there isn't any more bad news. I don't know. Take your pick."

The three of them sat in silence for a few seconds. "Today's Wednesday. I'll handle
Mike's section for the next couple days," Frank said resignedly. "Think about how you
want to split up the work, and let's talk about it Friday morning."

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"Isn't Friday Mike's funeral? Bob asked. Finally, someone remembered.

"Oh, yeah, that's right," Frank agreed. "OK, let's talk Friday afternoon. I'll come back
after the funeral. If you guys are going, you can ride with me." Evidently Frank didn't
figure to be so upset by the funeral that he couldn't work. Just head back to the office.

"Somebody should stay here Friday," Nancy suggested. "It's not like we're closing the

"I'll stay," Bob offered. "I didn't really know Mike all that well." Didn't know me all that
well? He'd only been in our department a year or so, but I'd been over to his house a
couple times, I'd gone to lunch with him periodically. His office was two doors down
from mine. I'd even gone with some other people in the office to see his wife in a
community musical. How well did he have to know me to spend an hour or two at my
funeral? I was insulted.

"It's such a tragedy," Nancy said quietly. "He was so young to be killed."

"He was a nice guy," Bob chimed in. "Too bad I didn't get to work with him longer."

Frank looked weary. "I practically hired him." -- which wasn't quite true; we were the
same level when I started -- "I introduced him to Elizabeth. I've been to his house.
Damn right it's a tragedy."

That was as good as I was going to get here. When Bob and Nancy left, I followed them
out of Frank's office, then got out of the building.

Chapter 8

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I wasn't quite sure what to do next.

It was mid-afternoon, and I sat in the downtown square weighing my options. Elizabeth
was still probably out someplace with Donna and her parents. My parents were probably
at the house, but it's not too easy to get to their house on the bus. I didn't relish the idea
of taking two or three buses, requiring as many hours, just to sit and watch them grieve.

It was a pleasant afternoon, so I just enjoyed sitting out for a while longer. If I still had
skin or could feel heat, I might have enjoyed basking in the warm sunlight, but as it was I
had to just enjoy the sights. I experimented with sitting still, in order to find out if I
would become visible to anyone. I guess I wasn't patient enough, or maybe it was too
bright out; no one seemed to notice me. Still no signs of other creatures like me, either.
It troubled me.

I decided I wanted to see Tonya, to see how she was doing. She worked out in the
suburbs, so I didn't think a trip out there was warranted. By the time I got there she'd be
done for the day. But she lived in one of the downtown high rises. I figured there was a
decent chance she was taking the day off, or would be coming home from work shortly.

By the way, you probably have formed the wrong impression about Tonya. I'll bet you
had her pegged for a model, or a flight attendant, something like that. Nope. I'd have to
apologize for that impression. Actually, Tonya is a systems analyst, and really is very
bright. Her being bright just lets her enjoy the hunt and the chase of dating all the more.
For example, all the computer geeks she works with worship her like a goddess, and she
knows it -- and uses it to her advantage. She plays games with guys' heads. One of the
things she said she liked about me was that I didn't fall for them, although I always
wondered if that was just another game she was playing. I wouldn't put it past her.

I trooped over to her building. It was a nice place, complete with doorman and fancy
lobby and all. The doorman couldn't see me, of course; again I had to wait for someone
to come in, so I could slip in with them through the door. Then I spent almost an hour

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riding that damned elevator -- up, down, up, down, and so on -- until someone got off at
her floor. I was coming to hate elevators.

I took up position outside Tonya's door. Unlike Elizabeth's house, I couldn't even peer in
the windows, not unless I wanted to go outside and crawl around on the ledge. In
retrospect, that probably would have been a better idea than standing around in the hall
waiting for her to open the door. I mean, it's not like I could fall and kill myself if I
slipped off the ledge. But old fears die slowly, and I wasn't sure what would happen if I
did fall all that way.

Of course, I listened at the door, but couldn't hear anything. That could mean she wasn't
there, or it could mean she was there but not making much noise. Maybe she was in the
bedroom crying. Maybe she was at a bar someplace drinking. I didn't know. So I stood
around, feeling like a juvenile delinquent.

I thought about first meeting Tonya. I'd met her in a bar shortly after I'd moved back
here. I'd just broken up with Alicia, and was in no hurry to get involved with anyone.
Maybe laid but not involved. I was with Dave, and she was with a couple of her friends
at a table. Dave and I of course noticed her; so did every guy in the bar. We watched as a
string of would-be Lotharios bravely marched over to her table, only to be rebuffed. In
some cases, politely, with a charming laugh. In other cases, she clearly cut their balls off
and sent them limping back to their tables. Dave and I kept a running count.

Dave was in the men's room, and I was ordering another round when she materialized at
my elbow.

"Get me a Bud Light, why don't you?" she commanded. I looked at her, surprised to find
her there and asking me to buy her a drink. But who was I to question her?

"Sam, put this lady's Bud Light on my tab. Bottle or draft?"

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We fell into a light conversation. I made eye contact with Dave when he emerged from
the men's room, waved him off. His eyebrows raised comically at me, and he gave me a
quick thumbs up before moving on to chat up another pretty girl.

I realized pretty quickly that Tonya was more intelligent than she let people think she
was. But I didn't call her on it, not wanting to spoil anything. I was still trying to figure
out why me and not one of the other guys in the bar -- particularly, why me and not Dave.
Dave was usually much more aggressive, and much more successful, about meeting
women than I was. Yet here was by far the most attractive woman in the bar trying to
pick me up. Go figure.

We compared histories. She was impressed by my Penn background; she'd looked at

Bryn Mawr before going off to University of Virginia. "Why UVA?" I asked. She
shrugged and smiled sweetly. "I wanted to brush up on that Southern belle thing," she
replied easily.

No, I didn't go home with her that night, but I got her number and we started going out
regularly. She was a daredevil in almost every sense of the word. We went to bars,
concerts, jazz clubs, plays, movies, football games, amusement parks -- you name it, we
probably tried it. I just tried to hold on for the ride. She was fun, exciting, quick-witted,
very beautiful, and -- OK, I confess -- great in bed.

We made it almost a year before we broke up, for the first time. She does have a temper,
and would shoot off cutting comments at things I said innocently. I started reacting in
kind, and we escalated into fights and shouting matches. Hanging up phones, storming
out of rooms, slamming doors, the whole bit. Again, I could never be sure what was a
game and what was real; I didn't always believe she was as upset as she seemed to be.

So we spent the next year or so breaking up, going awhile not talking, then one of us
calling and pleading to try again. It wasn't healthy, and I knew it, but I'm telling you, she
was like a drug. I was a Tonya addict and was having a hard time breaking the habit.

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We were still in the throes of all this when I met Elizabeth. One thing I could tell right
away about Elizabeth was that being with her wouldn't be such a roller coaster ride.
Maybe not quite the highs, but not nearly the lows either. By the time Tonya came
looking to make up with me, I'd been hooked.

Tonya was pretty hurt, and vowed to never talk to me again. That lasted, oh, about a
month. We had lunch like civilized adults, and started our new pattern of discreet lunches
and phone calls. She was civil about Elizabeth; she never directly bad mouthed her or
questioned my choice of Elizabeth over her. She was polite, just took those little snipes,
like calling her "the girl" in that teasing tone. Or she would use some occasion to remind
me of something wild we'd done; I was pretty sure the implication was, does Elizabeth do
those kinds of things with you?

The question I never asked her was why me in the bar that night.

It was around eight that I concluded I was wasting my time. If Tonya was in there, she
wasn't coming out. If she was out, it could be hours before she came home. I decided to

Of course, it took me another hour or so to get out of her building, having to wait until
the elevator stopped on her floor. When it finally did, I half expected that it would be her
getting off, but no such luck. I went out to the street and debated my options. I decided I
really wanted to check in on Elizabeth, so went through the whole bus routine again, not
getting to Elizabeth's house till almost eleven. She was home, but now I had the same
problem as Monday night. She was in for the night and no one was coming over, with
me stuck outside again. My batting average was pretty low for the day.

I sat on the swing on her porch. We'd put it in together, a fun little weekend project that
resulted in a lot of laughs and, at the end, a rush inside to passionately make love, shower
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lovemaking. We'd sat on this swing on many an evening, slowly rocking back and forth
and listening to the sounds of the night. We'd sit with her snuggled under my arm, her
head nestled in my chest. In those times I was so comfortable and at peace that I never
wanted to get up.

Now I sat alone on that swing. Maybe this wasn't limbo, I thought darkly; maybe this
was hell. I must have looked terrible -- unshaven, unkempt, and grimy. I faced the
prospect of having to watch my whole life proceed without me, unable to talk or touch or
feel. If that wasn't hell, it was a good start.

So I spent the night again outside her house. I couldn't hear or see anything inside. I sat
on her porch and waited for the new day.

Chapter 9

I did it again. After a few hours on that swing, listening to the quiet night, I managed to
rock myself to sleep. The next thing I knew I heard the sound of Elizabeth's front door

I was startled awake, and tried to get up quickly. It wasn't quick enough.

Elizabeth stepped outside, wearing her robe and carrying a cup of coffee. She must have
been going out to get the morning paper on her sidewalk. She glanced over at the swing
automatically, I'm sure not expecting to see anything. But once again she caught sight of
a brief frozen image of me, before it faded away as I scrambled up.

She immediately screamed, dropping her coffee cup at the same time. It broke when it
hit, spilling coffee at her feet. She stood with her hands at her mouth, eyes wide open.

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Her next door neighbor, Mr. Wilkenson, quickly rushed outside his house. He was a
retired widower, and had known Elizabeth for several years. When his wife was alive
they had "adopted" Elizabeth almost like a daughter, since her own parents were so far
away and their one son lived out of town. After his wife's death Mr. Wilkenson had
continued to watch over Elizabeth. He'd sometimes mow her grass, accept packages, and
other little helpful chores.

Of course, he watched over prospective boyfriends like a hawk. He was not at all happy
when I started spending the night there. It took me several months, many suspicious
stares, and, finally, some pleasant conversations until he began to accept me. I liked him.
He was a nice guy, and was trying to look out for Elizabeth's best interests as best he
knew how. He just grew up in a time when pretty young things like Elizabeth were
usually married, and, if they weren't, they didn't openly have boyfriends staying the night.

I don't think he ever got used to the sleeping over part, but perhaps he allowed himself to
believe that we each slept in a different bedroom.

"Elizabeth, are you all right?" he asked, concern evident in his tone. "I heard a scream
and a crash." He came up on the porch. "Here, here, dear, you're shaking like a leaf."
He put a paternal arm around her shoulders, patting her gently.

Elizabeth tried to regain her composure. "It's nothing, Mr. Wilkenson. I just saw a, um,
big spider, and it startled me. I'm OK."

Mr. Wilkenson laughed a knowing little laugh, amused as always at the ways of women.
Then, peering at her more seriously, he asked, "How are you, my dear?"

Elizabeth sighed. "I don't know, Mr. Wilkenson, I really don't know. Sometimes I think
I'm losing it. But I'll be all right." She touched his arm affectionately. "Thanks for
watching out for me, as usual."

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They made small talk, and Mr. Wilkenson volunteered to clean up the mess made by the
coffee cup. Elizabeth thanked him and picked up her paper. She kept looking curiously
at the swing, and glanced around surreptitiously to see if I might be hiding somewhere
else. Then she went back inside the house, this time with me in tow.

Elizabeth again took her time reading the paper. There was no mention of my shooting; it
was becoming old news, I guess, and there must not have been any new developments to
report. I got frustrated reading the paper over her shoulder. We read at about the same
speed, but seemed to be going for different articles. I'd be halfway through a story I was
interested in, only to have Elizabeth skip over the page it was continued on. I could see
that this was going to be a problem. I loved to read, and now I was going to be dependent
on other people's tastes and reading speeds. More evidence that this might, in fact, be

This morning I scrupulously stayed in the living room while she showered and dressed.
She seemed somber but not distraught, sad but not despondent. Her parents came over
mid-morning, and the three of them puttered around the house for a few hours. Her dad
had found a few little fix-it projects to work on, giving Elizabeth and her mom time to sit
at the kitchen table and chat. Mostly they talked about people they knew in common -- I
think I have a pretty complete picture of the hot developments in her parents' town -- but
periodically the topic of me would come up.

"Did I ever tell you that Mike and I were talking about a trip to Vancouver in October?"
Elizabeth said. "He loved the 'X-Files' and wanted to see where it was filmed. Plus we
thought we could do some hiking in the mountains around there. He said he always
wanted to go there…"

"You two did like to travel, didn't you?" her mom said tolerantly. "Your father hates to
travel. I envied you that you found a man who liked to see new places." Elizabeth

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"We were good together that way."

She paused, adrift in memories of our trips together. San Francisco, Carmel, the Grand
Canyon, New York, Chicago, Montana, Scotland, Switzerland, Cancun; we'd packed in a
variety of places in our four years together. Some were well-planned expeditions; some
were quick weekend getaways on the spur of the moment. Of course, Elizabeth had
photos and tickets and other physical objects to mark each trip, packed away in her Mike
box. I just had the memories.

They sat for a while longer, occasionally interrupted by the phone, and eventually her
mom made lunch for the three of them.

"Are you all right with the funeral arrangements?" her mom asked over grilled cheese
sandwiches and tomato soup. "I know you had some different ideas."

Elizabeth made a face. "It's too formal. I think Mike would have hated it."

"Why?" her father asked.

"He would have just wanted a big party. He did tell me he wanted to be cremated, so the
viewing definitely would creep him out. I know he wouldn't like this religion deal, with
the minister and the whole church bit."

"You know, dear," her mother said sympathetically, "they say funerals are really for the
living, not the dead. Maybe this is what his family needs."

Elizabeth made a frustrated face. "I know, but -- well, I'm not family, am I? They don't
seem very concerned about what I need or want."

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Her parents regarded that in silence. The unspoken response was 'well, why didn't you
get married, or at least engaged?' Her mother just patted her hand. Elizabeth's eyes
brimmed with tears.

"I know I'm being selfish. I just hate to think that Mike is watching this somewhere and
thinking that I failed to give him the kind of goodbye he would have liked."

Omigosh, Elizabeth! I didn't really know what the plans were for my send-off, having
been absent for those discussions, but I wouldn't blame her for failing me. I was
frustrated anew.

"I'm sure that, if he is watching you, he loves you and knows you did your best, honey,"
her father said consolingly. For once I could have hugged him.

Her parents wanted to go back to their hotel to rest and clean up before the viewing,
which started at seven. They asked if Elizabeth was going over to my parents' house
before the viewing. "No," she replied. "They've probably got lots of family over. Donna
and Janet said they'd come over this afternoon if I wanted. I'll call them, and maybe we'll
take a walk or a drive or something. Why don't you come by around five, and we'll get a
quick bite to eat before we go."

Her parents agreed. I was in a quandary. I wanted to be around Elizabeth, yet I also
wanted to find out what was happening with my parents. I felt guilty that I hadn't spent
more time around them. I opted to leave when her parents did.

I managed to pick up an outward-bound bus, headed to a mall a few miles away from my
parents' house. From there I walked the rest of the way, not getting to their house till
mid-afternoon. They had a small crowd at the house. Tara and Derek were there, plus
my mom's brother Bill, dad's sister Pat and her daughter Annie, as well as Annie's kids.
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the young mother bit, comparing children and their accomplishments and periodically
having to rescue them from their own playing. The older adults were content to watch.

My dad was still pretty quiet. My mom was trying to be the good hostess, but it clearly
was wearing on her. The others kept urging her to just sit down, that they would take
care of things. My parents still appeared older than they were. They looked tired, as
though they hadn't been sleeping well. I wanted to reach out and touch them, to let them
know I was all right. That was pretty ironic, wasn't it? Of all the descriptions of my
current state that I might have come up with, 'all right' had to be low on the list. But I
hated seeing them so torn up.

The older adults kept talking about tragic stories from their lives -- people they knew who
had suffered or died early. It struck me as cruel somehow, like telling my parents that
other people had had it worse. Strangely, though, it did seem to help. They each had
stories to tell, and starting reminiscing about people and times past, mostly people I
hadn't known or had long forgotten.

My parents had pretty much grown up together, and had gotten married right after
college. Their families had lived in the same neighborhood - for example, family rumor
has it that dad had really been interested in mom's sister Cathy first, before dating mom.
The story was different every time we heard it, and I think they all just had fun keeping
us wondering.

Dad sadly told the group, "I've lost my parents, I lost a brother, I've lost close friends, but
nothing has been like this. It really hits you hard. Parents shouldn't outlive their

The others nodded. Dad's younger brother, John, had died of cancer a few years ago.
None of our family had had a child die before, if you don't count miscarriages. After a
respectful silence, Bill chimed in with a story about a co-worker whose two-year-old had
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child in childbirth. Perhaps when you get older these kinds of details give you
perspective. Death happens, people go on. They still had Tara and now Derek. I lacked
that perspective, but, after all, it was my death.

I shifted my attention to Tara. She and Annie were about the same age, and had been
close since they were kids. My first crushes were on Annie, although as my cousin I
knew she was off limits. In the stupid way of pre-adolescents, I would often interrupt
their time together to tease them or mess up whatever they were doing. Why do young
boys think that acting perverse will help attract the girls they like? I guess they do it
because they don't even like to admit to themselves that they like someone of the opposite
sex, that the evolutionary lure still works. It's a good thing that biology and hormones
have such a pull; if attraction were really based on behavior, boys and girls would never
get together. On second, thought, maybe that wouldn't be such a bad thing. Our growing
up would be so much easier if we discovered the appeal of sex even ten years later.

Annie still was attractive, three kids and twenty plus years later. Her boys bracketed
Derek in age, and the three of them were close companions, further strengthening the ties
between Annie and Tara.

"How do you think your parents are doing?" Annie asked, taking her eyes off the kids for
a second to look at Tara.

Tara paused. "It's been hard, no doubt. I'm the oldest, but Mike was the only son. What
can replace that? Dad probably figures his name will die out."

Annie considered that, and passed on commenting. "How do you think they will hold up
tonight and tomorrow? Are they going to be OK?"

Tara smiled tightly. "They'll do what they have to do; they always do. How they'll really
deal with it, I don't know."

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"And you," Annie challenged. "How are you going to hold up? Do you know what you'll
say at the service?"

Tara surveyed the children intently before replying. "I'm still thinking about it."

Chapter 10

Everyone excused themselves by five o'clock, kissing and hugging my parents and
promising to see them in a couple of hours. My mom made them a quick dinner, which
they mechanically ate -- not from hunger or appetite, but from a sense of duty to keep the
machines running. They showered and got changed. I was surprised at how little small
talk there was, at how little conversation there was generally.

I wondered how they were around each other normally. They're both pretty outgoing
people, but for all I knew that was a show they put on around others, leaving nothing but
silence for each other. I didn't like to think that; it turned their fortysome years together
into kind of a prison sentence, with reprieves for visits. At what point do you just run out
of things to say, at what point do all your spouse's stories become wearisome? I guessed
I'd never get to know.

At one point mom was putting on her earrings, standing in front of the mirror on her
dresser. There were lots of photographs on the top of the dresser, and, as one of them of
Elizabeth and me caught her eye, she started to tremble and get tears in her eyes. Dad
came over and tenderly put his hand on her shoulder.

"Come on, Hilary," he said kindly. "We've got a long way to go yet. Hang in there."

She put her hand on top of his and held it tightly. She looked at him with gratitude and --
yes -- love in her eyes, and I felt a lot better about their relationship. They would survive;
they would help each other. Maybe happy would be too much to expect, but comfort was

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still possible. The touch was a small but amazingly intimate gesture, a shorthand
between them that I'd never have been able to see otherwise.

I rode with them to the funeral home for the viewing. Elizabeth was right. The concept
of a viewing seemed barbaric to me. I debated skipping the event on principle, but I was
too fascinated. I wanted to see who all turned up, and -- I admit -- I wanted to see what
they had done with my body.

Dad's friend, the funeral director, greeted him and mom in his unctuous manner, grasping
my father's hand firmly, then holding my mother's hand in both of his, not letting go as he

"I think you'll be pleased," he said. "We've done a very nice job for your beloved son.
You'll be proud of him." He walked them to the viewing room and left them alone.

I looked pretty good, I have to confess. Unless you looked really close -- and I was able
to look really close, closer than other viewers would be able to -- you couldn't really see
where the bullet had entered my head. I didn't quite like the make-up, but at least my
face looked rosy. They had dressed me in one of my best suits. If you can imagine
getting all decked out for some fancy event, then falling asleep, that's what I looked like.
It'd look more natural if they dressed people in what they might be wearing when they
were asleep or napping, but that might get a little embarrassing. It might liven up
viewings anyway.

I was a little afraid to touch the body. At first I approached it carefully, like a scavenger
might approach a prone predator that may or may not be dead. I finally relented and
touched it, quickly at first, then harder and longer. I guess I was thinking that I'd feel
some special connection -- a jolt of electricity or something. This was me, or used to be.
"I" used to reside in that. Maybe it would suck me back in with it, maybe it would come
alive again; I didn't know.

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This body was nothing special to me; I could no more feel it than I could anything else.

People started showing up gradually. Elizabeth and her parents were among the first,
accompanied by Donna. Elizabeth walked in holding her mom's hand in one hand and
Donna's in the other, her father trailing behind helplessly. They followed shortly by Pat
and her husband. Tara and Richard came next, without Derek, whom I heard later was at
a neighbor's house. Bill and his wife; Paul and Janet. Cathy and her family. Various
cousins, including Annie and her husband. Several friends and neighbors dropped by
briefly. Frank Jerome, Margie, and a few of the people in my unit came in a pack.

Dave stopped by, without a girlfriend. I idly wondered if he thought maybe he could find
a grief-stricken candidate here, someone who needed comforting. Oh, well; not my
problem. More power to him if he could. He hugged my mother, and put his arm around
my father, patting him on the back manfully.

Two of my college buddies even showed up, looking like they felt out of place. We had
kept in touch over the years, mostly by phone but also on the occasional business trip that
took me east or them here. I was pleased and -- yes, flattered -- that they'd made the trip
on my account, leaving behind wives and kids to say goodbye to me. I thought about
who among my friends had heard but weren't able to come. I thought about which of my
friends didn't even know I was dead yet. In their world I was still alive, my existence

It was like Schroedinger's cat, the famous quantum physics thought experiment. Put a cat
in a box with a radioactive material that has a fifty-fifty chance of decaying and killing
the cat within an hour, and at the end of the hour: is the cat alive or dead? Some quantum
physicists maintained that the cat was neither alive nor dead until you opened the box.
The act of observing bestows the reality on the situation in some weird sense. That was
me for the circle of people who had not heard of my death; I was alive until they knew
otherwise. It made me shudder to think of it.

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Alicia. Who would think to call Alicia? Maybe word would get out through my college
circles; maybe she'd see it a year from now in the Penn alumni magazine. Maybe she'd
never hear. She'd call my number and not get an answer, she'd write and have her letter
returned, "addressee unknown." She might conclude I'd moved and wanted to cut off ties
with her, and could go to her grave thinking something different about me than I'd ever
have wanted her to think. Alicia, I would have told you if I could have…

My parents sat near the body. People would usually walk up to them first and give their
condolences. They'd shake hands or hold hands, sometimes a quick kiss or brief hug.
Everyone seemed on their best behavior about limiting crying to a few tears or wet eyes.
After paying their respects to my parents, they dutifully went up to my body. I'd have
given a lot to know what they were really thinking as they looked at it. Some seemed to
really believe it was me there, giving their devotion to whatever god they believed in.
For others it was more pro forma, standing there silently without really looking, then
moving on to chat with someone in the room.

Elizabeth stood for a long time, standing a couple feet away from the casket as though
not sure it was safe to approach. Everyone gave her some space, standing off to the side
and not rushing her. Her expression was serious, deep in thought. Maybe she was
replaying happier scenes in our times together; maybe she was reconciling this…thing to
the man she presumably loved. She finally walked up to the casket and put her hands on
my chest. She shook her head sadly and made a thin line of her lips. I was expecting her
to lean over and kiss me, but she didn't. She looked at me fondly but almost
disapprovingly; I didn't quite understand that look, but, as I've said, she was kind of

When she'd finished whatever she needed to do in front of my corpse, she went over to
my parents; my mom put her arm around her, and my dad squeezed her hand. They all
blinked back tears. Then she sat down with her parents -- not too far from my parents,
but keeping slightly separate.

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Tara was in fine form, acting as the hostess. She circulated, thanked everyone for
coming, and kept things from getting too maudlin. It was as though she had to let them
know that our family wasn't crushed, that life would go on. I was surprised at her; I
wouldn't have guessed that she'd have such vivacity on this kind of an occasion. Richard,
the old stick-in-the-mud, stood by himself, looking peevish. I guessed he figured there
were no prospective clients in the crowd. I circled around him, seeing if I could spook
him, but, true to form, he just ignored me.

Dave also was pretty gregarious. He knew many of my relatives, and most of my friends.
He acted more like the best man at my wedding than as the best friend at my funeral,
mingling and helping people feel comfortable. I watched as he worked the room,
crossing paths with Tara frequently. Tara gave him grateful looks for helping ease the

Dave cornered Elizabeth at one point.

"How are you doing, kid?" he asked. "Hanging in there OK?"

She shrugged and then nodded, having run out of the usual "as well as can be expected."
He draped an arm around her shoulders.

"So, I hear you saw Mike again," he shared conspiratorially. "What's up with that?"

Elizabeth grimaced, and shot a glare over at Janet, standing with Paul talking to Pat.
Dave followed her gaze, and laughed. "No, it wasn't Janet," he confessed. "Blame this
one on Donna."

"I don't know what to tell you, Dave," she said cautiously. "I came out on the porch to
get the paper and there he was, sitting on the swing. I looked again and he was gone."

Dave studied her. "That must have been weird," he conceded. "What was he doing?"

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Elizabeth laughed sharply, drawing some startled looks from onlookers. "To be honest, I
think he was sleeping! It's like all he does is sleep. He looked like hell, like he just woke
up and hadn't cleaned up in days. If I didn't recognize him I'd have thought he was a
homeless person."

I kind of resented that bit about the sleeping; hey, Elizabeth, maybe it seems like I'm
always sleeping because that's the only time you can see me! It was kind of pointless to
want to correct her impression, since I had no way to do so. I just didn't want her to think
I'd become lazy just because I was dead.

Dave was silent, formulating a response. "You know, Elizabeth," he said finally, "you
might want to think about getting some help about this. Maybe talk to your priest or a
therapist of some sort.

Unless you really believe in ghosts."

Now it was Elizabeth's turn to be silent. She sighed. "Maybe I am going crazy. I don't
know what to think about it, or what to do about it. I guess I'll see what happens. "

Dave squeezed her shoulders, and promised to help in any way he could. He moved on,
and Elizabeth made a beeline for Donna.

"Donna, I asked you not to tell anyone about what I saw," Elizabeth warned.

"Elizabeth, it was just Dave," Donna said defensively. "He already knew about the first
time, and I thought it'd be all right to tell him about this." Donna put her hands
reassuringly on Elizabeth's forearm.

"We all just want what's best for you," she said soothingly.

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"I'm sorry I reacted like this," Elizabeth said, mollified. "I'm not myself. I don't know
why I'm seeing him. It's bad enough I have to look at that" -- indicating my dead body --
"but having him pop up unexpectedly at my house like that is a shock."

They made up and started some girl talk, so I drifted away. I hadn't planned on
surprising Elizabeth like that, but I suppose I'd hoped that she'd be glad to see me, not
upset. That was pretty unrealistic, I can see that now. It's always easier when you know
what's happening, even if you don't know why. Having it smack you in the face, like I
had inadvertently done to her, was harder.

In time, the noise level of the room, so subdued at first, took on a more normal level, and
the conversations were ones that you could hear at any gathering. People would
periodically reaffirm that they were, in fact, at a solemn event, looking up over the casket
and putting on a serious expression. They might say something trite, something nice
about me and what a loss it was, then go back to some other topic. I didn't pick up any
revelations about what people thought of me.

Detectives Kiowski and Reilly came and stayed for about a half an hour. The crowd
buzzed at their presence, and the detectives eyed the crowd back. Perhaps they expected
my killer to make an appearance, maybe even break down and confess. It would make
their job easier. No one did, not that I saw. They told my parents that the ballistics had
come back, so they knew the type of gun and from where it was probably shot.

"The apartment was a vacant one," Kiowski told my parents gamely. "It could have been
some squatters, or some kids fooling around. We haven't found anything to indicate it
was anything intentional. We still are checking out some leads, but the longer it goes, the
less likely it is that we'll find anyone."

My parents thanked them gravely, and asked them to keep trying. The detectives were

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The real stir of the evening came late. Tonya came in almost at the end of the viewing. I
assumed she was hoping there would be fewer people there, especially Elizabeth. No
such luck. The room quieted as she entered, wearing a smashing black dress -- very
proper for her, with a high collar, and stopping only slightly above her knees. It didn't
matter; she still was stunning, and attracted every eye in the place, except for my dead
one's. She stood near the back, for once unsure what to do next.

Much to my surprise it was Elizabeth who broke the ice. Back sitting with her parents,
she stood up, walked over to Tonya and put out her hand.

"You must be Tonya," she said. "I'm Elizabeth. Thank you for coming."

Tonya took her hand, and they looked each other in the eyes, as if measuring. Then,
again to my amazement, they broke into a long hug. Elizabeth made the introductions to
my family, some of whom Tonya had previously met. My parents regarded her warily,
not wanting anything to spoil the evening. But Tonya was very polite and almost
contrite, while Elizabeth was gracious throughout.

It was odd seeing them together, like something out of a dream, or maybe a nightmare.
Whenever I had gone someplace with one of them, I'd have these little uneasy feelings in
the back of my head that we might run into the other. We never had, amazingly, but I still
worried about it. I didn't know why I was so concerned. I didn't have any reason to feel
guilty about either one of them, not really. I just, I don't know, thought it'd be hard on
them to see me with the other. Tonya might feel rejected, that here was the person I'd left
her for, and Elizabeth might feel insecure, that maybe my feelings for Tonya were still
there. It was just better to keep them apart.

Yet here they were, together at the oddest possible occasion, talking like they were old
dear friends. As always, Tonya was calm, with that unflappable sense of self-assurance
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for the chance to play hostess to Tonya. She was bending over backward to include
Tonya in the events of the day, to make her feel welcome.

Tonya went up to see the body, and stood with her hands clutching the sides of the casket.
She had a small smile on her face, regarding the body affectionately. To me, she
resembled nothing so much as a mother standing over her newborn's crib. She stopped
over and kissed me lightly on the forehead, then walked away, brushing a tear away from
her eye.

Elizabeth intercepted her on the way out, holding Tonya's elbow as though to prevent her
from fleeing. She whispered into Tonya's ear, and I couldn't get there in time to hear
what was being said. By the time I got to their sides, Elizabeth had pulled back and the
Tonya was nodding.

"All right, I will." Tonya said firmly. I had to wonder what that was all about.

All in all, it was a non-event. The premise of a viewing seems to be so that people can
confirm for themselves. Yep, that is a dead body, and it does look like him; I guess we
can take him off the mailing list. That's too cold, I know. It is a help for people to gather
together in times of loss; that sense of community goes back as far as tribes of humans
do. It's not what makes us human, but it's the kind of thing that makes being human
easier. It's a big, bad world out there, with terrible things happening to people you know.
Getting together with the other survivors allows one to not face it alone.

After a couple hours everyone had had it. Most of the more casual crowd had come and
gone, leaving behind the hard core family and friends. I was ready to go too

Chapter 11

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For some reason, I felt like being by myself. That's ironic -- as though I wasn't already
isolated enough in my own silent world all the time now anyway. But spending the night
trapped with my parents or even with Elizabeth seemed too confining, too overwhelming.
I couldn't help them with their grief, and I really didn't want to risk falling asleep and
being discovered again. That would be too cruel, especially on the morning of my

So when everyone left I let them go. I knew the church where the funeral service was
going to be, and it wasn't far from here. I thought I'd just wander around all night and see
the world from this quiet perspective. I checked on my body one last time, I don't know
why, then slipped out the front door just as the staff was closing it for the night.

I strolled aimlessly along the street. The texture of this existence is hard to describe.
Within myself things felt the same. I could feel my heart beat; I could see my lungs
moving. I could move my tongue; I could hear myself talk. My ears worked, my eyes

But it was like existing in a hologram. The world had shape, it had substance, but I
couldn't touch it. I could put my hand on a bench, but I couldn't feel it. If I closed my
eyes I wouldn't know if I was holding the bench or a handful of air. No, that's not
accurate, for I could lean against it and not fall forward, so somehow I could be affected
by the existence of it. But there was no sense of touch. The wind didn't rustle my hair,
and my skin couldn't feel my clothes. My hands did my bidding, but the nerves from
them didn't carry back any messages to my brain.

It's hard to describe.

I sat for a long while in front of a 24-hour convenience store. I watched the cars come
and go, with an array of people getting in and out of them. They almost arrived in waves,
quiet for long periods, then bunches of them arriving nearly at the same time. I had an
image of a time-lapse movie, showing the ebb and flow over a 24-hour period. To an

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alien it might look like a bee colony or anthill looks to us. The movements look
purposeful, everyone seems to know what they are doing, but the point of it all remains a
mystery to the observer.

I felt a little like that alien now. I didn't feel hungry or thirsty. I might long for human
contact, but I wasn't going to get that in the convenience store either. It wasn't very
convenient for me.

Giving up on sitting there, I wandered over to a grocery store that was open all night. It
must have been about two in the morning; I'd sat by the convenience store longer than I
realized, mesmerized by the activity. I had to wait for twenty minutes or so at the grocery
store's doors before a customer came by, since the automatic doors refused to
acknowledge me. I idly roved through the aisles, waiting to see who was in the store at
this time of night. There weren't many customers, so when some did come in I
followed them avidly, curious about what they were getting.

A few looked like young parents, getting some sort of emergency provisions or supplies
for their kids. Did they flip for which of them got to come to the store and leave the
squealing kids behind? A couple of the shoppers must have been working on late shifts,
apparently simply doing their weekly shopping. And, of course, there were a few who
must have just been out for kicks, trying to buy beer or candy or other impulse items
(why weren't they at the convenience store, I wondered). I was half-hopeful that there
would be a robbery attempt, just for my entertainment, but no such luck. That was stupid
and selfish of me; I was just getting bored.

Most of what little activity there was took place by the store's workers -- stocking,
pricing, or cleaning for the new day ahead. They seemed almost oblivious to the actual
customers who appeared. The customers stayed in their own little worlds for the most
part as well, at least until they got to the checkout line. With only one register open, short
lines formed, so sometimes they'd make nervous conversation with other shoppers in line.
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might be out shopping this late at night, yet they were too polite to totally ignore fellow
night owls.

I'd have to check this out again, but I'd had enough for now.

Finally, I walked to the cemetery where the funeral was going to be. With no small
amount of trouble, I managed to locate my grave -- all dug and ready, covered with a
tarpaulin. The headstone was simple, just my name, dates of birth and death. No
inscriptions, no loving phrases.

Tara and I used to come to the cemetery when we were kids, to this very cemetery, in
fact. I don't remember how it got started. The cemetery had lots of grass, and it was a
vaguely off-limits patch of ground -- how could we resist? We liked to explore the place.
We rolled down the hills, we told each other ghost stories, we screamed and ran around.
We'd spy on funeral parties. I hate to admit it, but these excursions with Tara were some
of the most fun we had together. She didn't like to play sports or war games, but she was
bolder than I was about invading the walled confines of the cemetery.

We knew this was an odd thing to do -- that was part of the appeal. We bragged about
our daring to the neighborhood kids, sometimes leading packs of them with us to show
off some of our best finds.

We scoured the tombstones for families losing lots of young kids, and marveled at how
long some of the luckier survivors managed to stay alive. I was always curious about the
couples where one had died thirty, forty, sometimes even fifty years before the other.
What did the remaining spouse do all those years? Did they fall in love again? If so,
why were they buried with the original spouse? If not, why not? Had they simply
retreated from life, having lost the love of their life?

I wondered what Elizabeth would do now. I found it unlikely that she'd be resting next to
me when her time came. Would she even remember me then?

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I sat on a hill in the cemetery, the highest point around, waiting for the sun to come up. I
expect I was thinking that, if there were other ghosts, other creatures like me, they'd be
here. What would draw a ghost as well as a cemetery? For all I knew, ghosts were like
vampires, returning to their sleeping coffins in the daylight, after a night out creating
havoc for the living. I certainly hadn't seen any evidence of other ghosts in the day, so I
was hoping night and the cemetery would help me find others.

But I was alone.

I decided I didn't like being alone after all. I'd never thought I minded being alone, but
I'd never really had to be before. There was always someone I could call, someone I
could do things with. Being alone was just a break from other people when I was alive;
now that I was dead, being alone was all I had to look forward to. Days upon days, upon
years upon years…

Even when I was around these living things, I was alone. I didn't feel dead, however that
was supposed to feel. But I was so isolated. I was there but not there; they ignored me.
It was like being shunned. It was so rich that it almost had a texture, and that texture
threatened to choke me, to overwhelm me and make me panic if I wasn't careful.

Being killed certainly had changed me. That sounds trite, but all my life I'd been easy-
going. I just lived, and never really worried about things. That shot to my head had had
the effect of a blow to my head, ghost or not. I couldn't regain my equilibrium, couldn't
get back to the Mike Finley I used to be. I couldn't relax and just accept this; it was like
being the ghost of someone I didn't really know, or even really like. I moped about this
for hours.

Sitting in the dark cemetery reminded me about one particularly happy day that I'd had
about two years ago. Perhaps I needed the memory of happier times to keep me from
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on a road trip to New England, driving and looking at the fall foliage. It was an
unstructured trip; we found small bed and breakfasts, or we camped out; we just found
our way around without a lot of prior arrangements. She had protested that we'd never be
able to find places to stay in peak tourist season, but I convinced her to just relax and see
what happened. It had gone reasonably well.

We had stopped for lunch in a small park, which we discovered marked the remains of a
Revolutionary War battlefield. Or maybe it was the French and Indian War, or the War
of 1812. Some battle in some war; we were sitting where people had died long ago,
fighting for some cause that I wasn't even sure of now. All I knew was that it was a
beautiful setting.

The park had a small forest, a modest New England mountain, and a long spread of grass.
We had hiked to the high point in the park, overlooking the trees and the grass. It was
just perfect. The weather was crisp and clear, the trees were at their most colorful, and
the grass lay before us like a thick green rug. The trees were unbelievable colors -- bright
and vivid, in a way that we didn't really get in the mid-west. It was like some mad
painter had splashed them with colors not in our crayon box. We gaped and kept pointing
out what we thought were the prettiest ones.

We unpacked our picnic basket and spread our blanket. I had brought a big ham and
cheese sandwich, heavy on the mustard and pickles, while Elizabeth had some chicken
salad. We'd initially planned on just a quick lunch, but we were so enchanted by the
beauty of the surroundings that we delayed leaving. We didn't see anyone else in the
park, so it was just us. Us and the ghosts of those long-dead warriors.

One thing led to another, and we ended up staying there almost all afternoon. Elizabeth
got her sketchpad from the car, and I fetched a book, so we sat with each other just
enjoying the afternoon. It was so tranquil; I remember thinking even then that this would
be a day I wanted to remember the rest of my life. That was what we did best; Tonya,
Dave, or several of my other friends offered the prospect for more exciting outings, but

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Elizabeth gave me the most peace. She liked to do other things too, but these kinds of
times were our special gift to each other.

We kidded about those ghosts, imagining them hovering over us, but it was just kidding.
Neither of us believed in ghosts, and nothing was going to spoil our beautiful afternoon.

It would be nice to say that I did always cherish that moment, but I had forgotten about it
until this moment. In fact, I recalled that we had gotten into a fight -- over something
stupid, like asking for directions -- shortly after we left the park. It didn't ruin the trip but
it did take some of the glow off that day, turning it into just another nice day. Still, it had
been a nice day.

For some reason the thought of those ancient ghosts, watching helplessly while tourists
ate over their long forgotten bones bones, reminded me of my current situation. I thought
about kids playing in my cemetery, about couples having picnics there, and how none of
them would even be aware of me. I'd be at best a name to them, and probably not even
that; I'd be more ancient history to them than those dead New England soldiers had been
to me. No, thinking of that good day hadn't really helped after all; it just made me miss
being alive all the more.

The sun rose, and a new day started. It had been a long time since I'd been up to watch a
sunrise. The beauty of it touched me, watching how it silently transformed the world.
The shadows crept along the ground, running away until they disappeared in the full
light. That little red ball, so many miles away, and it made everything on this earth
possible. You know, they say that if the sun exploded, we would have eight minutes
before we knew about it. That's how long it would take for the light to get to the earth so
we could see the destruction for ourselves. There would be no advance warning, no tip-
off that this was the moment.

I thought about those eight minutes, how everyone in the world would be living with a
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during those eight minutes everything would seem normal. I thought again about
Schroedinger's cat, and about the wave of news about my death spreading outward until it
reached all the planets of people who knew me. Your world is what you make of it, at
least until the shock waves hit.

The world woke with the sun, with ever-increasing sounds of people and things waking
and moving. I already missed the solitude of the night. What was that saying on the
morning of a battle? "Today is a good day to die." Well, today was a good day to get
buried. I stood up and started walking.

Chapter 12

I cleaned up as best I could. No water, no razor, no clean clothes, no comb. Even worse,
I'd proven to myself in Elizabeth's bathroom that I couldn't see my reflection in a mirror.
I could touch but not feel my hair and beard, making grooming difficult. Maybe it was
just as well no one could see me. Even I didn't want to see how I looked.

I was one of the first people at the church. It was the church I had been raised in, but it
had been many years since I'd been there regularly. My parents still went every Sunday,
but they counted themselves lucky if they could get me to go with them at Christmas.
Their minister was someone I didn't know, the church being at least two ministers past the
one I'd known.

The church itself was beautiful. It had beautiful dark wood for the pews and fixtures, as
well as plush cushions on the pews so that parishioners wouldn't get sore butts listening
to their ministers urging them on the paths of righteousness. There were lovely marble
fixtures, some ornate statues and busts. And my personal favorites, the fantastic stained
glass windows. They transformed the everyday sunlight into colored streams carrying
glorious painted stories, of Jesus and of devotion. Aside from them, though, the

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sanctuary always seemed slightly dark and solemn to me, as though that darkness
reflected the sins of the worshippers there.

Religion had been one of my teenage rebellions. I had sneered at my parents for
attending such a stuffy church, and asked them pointedly how a "Christian" church could
justify spending so much money on just a building, instead of using those monies to help
feed the poor or heal the sick. "Didn't Jesus throw the money-lenders out of the church?"
was my favorite accusation among all the dumb charges I leveled at them.

My parents weathered that storm, probably glad it wasn't drugs or vandalism or worse.
And, of course, I didn't really care. I just had to have something of theirs that I could
reject, so going to their church was it. I was actually pretty agnostic. Elizabeth tried to
convince me to go with her to her church -- one of those non-denominational sects aimed
at capturing the thirtysomething crowd -- but I resisted. Not out of principle; I just
preferred to sleep in Sunday mornings, read the morning papers and such.

Still, sitting in the pew now, looking at the light streaming through the stained glass
windows, I felt a little of the wonder and the fear that sitting here had inspired as a child.
I thought about my youthful passion and smiled a little. It's not fair, I thought. OK, I'm
dead; I'm supposed to find out who was right about this afterlife stuff. God and the devil;
heaven and hell; angels and demons; paradise and paradise lost. Did it matter if you were
Protestant or Catholic, Christian or Jew? Did the Hindus, Buddhists, or Moslems go to
the same heaven? Did God look like his pictures? I should be finding out all this kind of
stuff. Instead, I was more confused than ever.

Maybe I'd been wrong about churches. We could all use a little fear and wonder in our

I sat alone in the back pew. The funeral home wheeled my body in early, so I had to go
check that out. It looked pretty much the same, although the make-up had been
retouched. No doubt all those kisses and hugs at the viewing had smudged it. I wished

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that they had been able to make me smile. That "me" looked too serious. I'd always
preferred photos in which I was smiling to serious shots, yet now the last sight of me that
people would have would be of me dead serious. Pun intended. But I did wish I could
look happier about being dead.

The crowd trickled in gradually. There were more people than at the viewing, or perhaps
it just seemed that way because they were all here at one time. My family stood in the
entryway, greeting the arriving mourners as they came in the church's doors. I worried
that it would wear my parents out, but they seemed to be holding up.

My office had a good representation -- Frank and his wife, Margie, Nancy, most of my
direct reports and several of the rest of my staff. Bob evidently stayed away, perhaps
scheming over how to take over my little empire. Go to it, Bob -- we'll see who comes to
your funeral! They sat in a block, probably having carpooled together from work and
going back afterward. At least they'd forsaken the typical casual day attire.

Elizabeth was magnificent. She sat in one of the front pews, with her parents and Donna.
At first I wondered why she wasn't at the doors with my parents and Tara, but decided
that she may have not wanted to intrude. Or perhaps she'd simply run out of trite
responses to peoples' proffered condolences; I know I would have. She looked…well,
heroic, like she'd been defeated but not beaten. Her grief was obvious, as was her
strength. As had been true at the viewing, she accepted well-wishers' comments with
grace and dignity, thanking them for their thoughts and letting them know that mourning
me was appreciated. Her head was, figuratively, bloodied but unbowed. I thought she
had never looked so beautiful.

Dave eventually strode in, sitting next to Elizabeth and looking very respectable. I'd
gathered last night that they were each going to speak at the service. He fidgeted slightly
next to her, creating a study in contrasts. Dave was usually the cool one, so it was kind of
funny to see. At one point I saw her nod her head slightly at him, and pat his arm lightly.
I wondered what that was about.

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I was content to sit and people watch, listening to the quiet hymns that the organ was
playing. A few of the brave ones stopped again to look at the body, maybe knelt by the
cross and bent their head in prayer. For the most part, though, everyone sat anxiously,
whispering among their little groups. Most of the people I recognized, and I spent some
time trying to figure out who wasn't here that I would have wanted to come, as well as
who some of these people I didn't recognize were.

Richard's calling efforts must have paid off, for his crew had hit most of the people I'd
have hoped for. My college and Philadelphia life was underrepresented, but that was to
be expected. I was grateful to have even a couple of them here. Otherwise almost
everyone I wanted was here. I thought about getting that phone call, or seeing it on the
news, reading about it in the paper. Were they devastated by the news, or was it just
another in life's little surprises for them? Bad things happen all the time, usually to other
people. Perhaps they felt "privileged" to be that close to something that was major news,
if only for a day or so. Close enough to tell people that they knew the victim, but not so
close that their lives would be irreparably damaged. They didn't lose a son or a lover.

Finally the music stopped, and the minister walked up the aisle with my parents. Tara,
Richard, and Derek followed, Tara's hand holding a nervous Derek's. Derek looked
uncertain and scared, as if he were fearful that he was about to be exposed to some secret
Christian ritual that he'd never seen before, perhaps a child sacrifice of some sort. The
three of them sat in the pew in front of Elizabeth and Dave, Tara making quick eye
contact with them.

The minister escorted my parents to their seat in the front pew, then continued to the
pulpit. Mom seemed diminished somehow, a shell of herself. Her pain had whittled
away at her, leaving less of her. Dad looked solid as ever, but hung on to mom's arm
almost grimly, as if afraid she'd simply drift away if he lost contact even for a second.
The minister indicated to the congregation that they should stand, and started off with a

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After everyone was seated, he spoke for a few minutes. He didn't really know me, of
course. I'd probably spoken fewer than twenty words to him in my life, so whatever he
was saying was based more on his feelings towards my parents than towards me. He said
the expected bland things -- tragic early loss, God's plan is hard to understand sometimes.
Blah, blah, blah.

Dave was up next. Dave gave a good speech, I'm sure. The only thing is, I don't really
recall much about what he said. I know he said I was a good friend, a good son, and a
good brother, but that's about it. He may have said that I'd had a good life and that he'd
miss me terribly, but I couldn't swear to it. He seemed sincere but vacant to me; this was
a speech he could give at lots of people's funerals. I was disappointed that there wasn't
more passion, and more personal loss, reflected in it.

Tara, on the other hand, surprised me.

"They say that we spend the first part of our lives growing up for the outside world," Tara
began, "and then spend the rest of our lives trying to grow up within our families."

She smiled. "Mike will always be my younger brother. When I think of him, I confess
that I'll always see that happy-go-lucky little rascal, dirt on his face and clothes ripped or
mussed up. I think he may have resented that, no matter how old he got, I would treat
him like that younger sibling." She paused for effect. I could see several people with
small smiles on their faces, fondly thinking of that image of me as a young boy.

"Mike accomplished a lot in his too short life. You know, I was more surprised than
anyone when he turned out to care about academics in high school. He made the honor
society, even was National Merit semi-finalist, and got in to the University of
Pennsylvania. He shocked me even more by doing really well there, going to Wharton
for his MBA after college. My brother the brain!

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His career was equally accomplished. He flew around the country as a hotshot
management consultant for a few years, then came back here and did several jobs at the
telephone company. I don't pretend to understand what he really did -- if you're
interested you can talk to some of the folks here who worked with him -- but by all
accounts he did very well. He was moving up rapidly, and I know he would have gone

Tara looked out thoughtfully at the audience. This was standard stuff so far. "What I'm
afraid of is that Mike never knew how proud I was of him." That got the crowd's

"You know, he could have done anything. For example, you might be surprised that he
was an English minor in college. His creative writing teachers thought he had a future in
writing, and urged him to keep writing. He liked writing, but he knew he couldn't make a
living at it. So he went into business instead.

Still, he was about more than just business. If you have never seen his house, you'd be
surprised at all the books. There are books everywhere, about anything and everything.
He loved to read and to learn. He was curious about the world. I never knew when he
found time to read all those books, but he made time.

He was also a good teacher. I can't tell you how many times my husband would attempt
in vain to explain something" -- she paused to look over at Richard, while a low chuckle
went through the audience -- "then Mike would stop by and explain it very simply. He
was patient, he put things in everyday language, and he loved sharing the knowledge. I
was talking to Frank Jerome and some of Mike's coworkers last night, and they said that
was the kind of skill that made him such a good manager."

Tara paused to take a sip of water. I could see the glass tremble slightly in her hands.

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"Let me tell you a short story from our childhood that has always touched me. We must
have been in elementary school; I was probably in sixth grade and he was in the fourth.
I'd gotten my first baby-sitting job, and had my pay in my bag. I had big plans for that
five bucks, I'm telling you! Walking home from school, though, some neighborhood kids
knocked me down and took my money. They were just elementary school kids out
roughhousing; I knew who they were and knew I could get them in trouble with their
parents, but I was still upset. I just sat on the curb bawling my eyes out.

Well, the next thing I knew Mike came by. Rather than taunting me, as I would have
expected, Mike sat down next to me and put his arm around me. He asked what was
wrong, and patted my shoulders after I told him. He took me and treated me to an ice
cream cone to cheer me up. I don't know where he got the money; it must have taken all
of his allowance. But I knew right then that I had a pretty special younger brother."

Tara gripped the sides of the pulpit and looked out at the faces. You could have heard a
pin drop.

"As proud as I am of him for his work, his academic successes, his friends, all the things
that he has done, there's something else I'll always think of when I think of things to be
proud of. That is how he was with Derek, my son. "

Derek was sitting with Richard in the audience. I wasn't sure how much of what was
going on that he understood, but his attention was captured by the sound of his name.

"He and Derek loved each other so much. I loved to watch them play together. They
enjoyed each other tremendously, whether they were reading stories, playing video
games, running around in the yard. Mike would make up goofy contests, and let Derek
win. Derek already loves to read, a legacy he got from having Mike read to him and from
seeing all those books at Mike's house.

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Derek so looked forward to Mike coming over, or just to talking on the phone to him.
Mike was his hero. And I knew Mike would do anything for Derek in return. I even
could get Mike to baby-sit.

The highest praise I can give to Mike is that if Derek grows up to be like him, I'll be very
proud. He was the kind of man, the kind of person, that I want my son to be."

Tears started streaming from Tara's face as she finished this. The minister helped her
back to her seat, and, I have to tell you, there wasn't a dry eye in the place after that. I felt
misty myself.

The minister called Elizabeth up next, the final speaker. I wondered what kind of
negotiation had gone on about who was going to speak and in what order. Elizabeth
walked slowly up to the pulpit, as though she was reluctant to stand in front, and stood
silently as the crowd settled back from Tara's emotional speech. She apparently had no
notes or written speech, which wasn't like her.

"It is hard to follow such a wonderful tribute," Elizabeth admitted, looking over towards
Tara to indicate her praise. "So I'll be brief.

I don't have a prepared speech, although I've thought a lot about what I want to say. Both
Dave and Tara have said all the nice things that should be said today. Mike was a fine
human being and he will be missed. You already know all that, so I'll try not to repeat it."

Elizabeth cocked her head, preparing for whatever was coming next.

"Lighten up!" she chided them, while trying to smile a brave smile. It almost succeeded
-- but not quite. "We should all loosen up. Mike would have wanted us to have a good
time, to enjoy each other's company and to tell outrageous lies about him. Good ones, of
course." The audience smiled at this and rustled appreciatively. Elizabeth turned serious
again and surveyed the audience.

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"Make no mistake about this, though. Mike did not live a full life. He didn't get his
threescore and ten. He was someone's son and someone's brother, and many peoples'

But he should have been someone's husband, and someone's father."

Elizabeth looked out over my mourners -- friends, family, coworkers, and others. She
made eye contact with many of them, trying to impress on them the seriousness of what
she had to say. Several of them squirmed under that gaze.

"I would have been thrilled to be his wife, and to be the mother of his children," she
continued quietly. "I didn't get that chance. No one else did either, so in my book Mike
died not having lived the life he should have had a chance to. I don't know why that was,
if it was his fault or mine -- or God's.

He was the love of my life. To be honest, I don't know if I was the love of his, and that
hurts more than I can tell you. But for all the things in life that Mike is going to miss out
on now, there is one thing that I know he didn't miss out on, something that I was able to
give him.

He knew that he was loved."

With that, Elizabeth walked back to her seat. The crowd sat, stunned at her intensity and
the power of her message. I wasn't sure how they took it, if they were touched or
offended. All I knew was my reaction.

I had to find a way to tell her that I loved her.

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Oh, I'd told Elizabeth that I loved her, of course. You don't go out with someone for four
years and not have to tell them that you love them. These days you pretty much have to
tell people you date that you love them after only a few dates, especially if you sleep with
them. Kids see people in the movies and on television telling each other that they love
them all the time, only to see them change their affections in the next scene. They see
how all the books and greeting cards talk about love. Love is on all the talk shows, in its
various and twisted forms but always at the root.

So, yeah, I'd said those words. The thing is, I'd said those words before. To Tonya for
sure, and the same with Alicia. Maybe to a couple of other women I'd been involved
with. It was expected; it was normal. It was easy to do.

Maybe too easy. Elizabeth wanted me to tell her, and I did. She told me she loved me
first, and of course I had to reply that I loved her too. It's too awkward to have one
person hanging out there having expressed their love without the comparable expression
in return. What would you do? Tell them that's nice, like they were giving you a
particularly nice compliment but otherwise let it pass? That doesn't work, trust me.

What Elizabeth didn't hear was that I truly loved her, that she was -- as she would say --
the love of my life. She didn't hear it because I didn't say that. I didn't say it because I
wasn't sure it was true.

Don't misunderstand me. I loved Elizabeth, and expected that at some point we'd get
married. I just liked my life the way it was, coming and going as I pleased. It was nice to
have a steady girlfriend like Elizabeth. The weekends were always booked, and I had a
definite date for any weddings or other functions I might have to go to. Doing things
with other couples, as a couple, was fun. The sex was good, and sleeping together was
very comfortable. I could visualize life together with her. It was going to happen,

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But I wasn't quite ready. Getting married meant making decisions about living together.
It meant wedding planning. And it meant that in a couple years kids would be an issue. I
wanted to be a father, and loved being an uncle, but I was still a kid myself. I liked
having my own house, with my own tastes. I liked still being able to see Tonya, without
having to explain it or get in a fight; I liked talking on the phone late at night with Alicia
or other distant friends. I liked carousing with Dave or other buddies every once in

When it came right down to it, I took Elizabeth for granted. I figured she'd always be
there, that she would wait until I was ready. I wasn't expecting anyone else to come
along, and I wasn't looking for anyone else, but, hey, you never know. Maybe a rich
supermodel would stop in town and decide she had to have me. Maybe I'd win the
lottery. Maybe I'd decide to move to Montana and write that Great American Novel. I
didn't know. I was young and still felt my life was open to all possibilities. Getting
married would preclude most of those possibilities. I knew they'd probably never
happen, but I just didn't want to admit that the die of my future life was already pretty
well cast.

It was my way of pretending I was still a kid, that I didn't have to be an adult yet. I could
postpone some of life's inevitable responsibilities. I mean, look at me -- even now, after I
was dead, two days after I'm killed, I'm down on the square girl watching.

So I bided my time about getting married. Worse yet, I never really made myself think
about whether Elizabeth was really the one. If I had, I would have grabbed her right

It's one of the oldest clichés, I know, but you don't really know what you had till it's gone.
Instead of realizing how special she was to me, and truly establishing our lives together,
all we had were some memories and some dashed hopes. I could have had my Mrs.
Finley; I could have had a son or a daughter to carry on my little spark of life.

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What an idiot I had been.

The service wrapped up shortly after Elizabeth finished. I'd thought about who I wanted
to hitch a ride to the burial with. I really wanted to be with Elizabeth, but in the end I
gave in to my childish whim: I rode with my body in the hearse. I figured, hey, how
many chances does someone get to ride with their own body, on the way to their own
funeral? Not very many.

The coffin was closed, of course, and the driver and attendant seemed pretty oblivious.
I'd wondered if their long exposures to the dead might make them more attuned to spirits
like me hanging around; although I'd still not seen any others, perhaps it was an everyday
thing with them. Either they had no unusual sensitivity to my presence, or were so jaded
by the presence of a spook that they just ignored it. We rode in silence. Actually, I rode
in silence, sitting next to the closed coffin. They listened to talk radio.

The crowd was smaller than at the service. Pretty much it had narrowed to close relatives
and friends, shedding off the more casual attendees who had gone back to their usual
lives. The weather was appropriately gloomy, with overcast skies. It probably was going
to rain later in the day, but for now was just kind of gray and comfortably cool. The
minister gathered everyone around in a circle while he said a few final benedictions
before they put the coffin in the earth.

Elizabeth looked like all the beauty and courage in the world, rolled up into one package.
She stood bravely, tears slowing floating down her cheeks, but head high and not afraid
to let the world see her pain. Around her, her parents, Donna, Paul and Janet, even Dave
stood dutifully, waiting for this ordeal to be over. Tonya had slipped into the back of the
church for the service, but apparently was skipping this part of the day. I couldn't blame
her. As the man who was tarred and feathered and run out of town on a rail had said, if it
wasn't for the honor of the thing, I'd have skipped this too.

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I felt sorry for Derek. He was scared and confused. Tara was trying to keep from crying,
for his sake, I assumed, but was holding on to him fiercely. I'm sure he felt that
fierceness and was scared of whatever was making his mother that way. She was a mom
first, a daughter second, and a sister third; I'm not sure where the wife part fit into that
order, but definitely not until after the mother. Helping Derek through all this
outweighed her sense of loss about me.

As sorry as I felt for Derek, I felt sorriest for mom and dad. They'd lost their only son.
You can replace friends, you can find a new lover, and you expect that at some point to
lose your parents, but surely nothing can ready anyone to lose a child. They weren't
crying, and in some sense that scared me most of all. It was as though they'd used up all
their tears; all their emotions had already drained out. Leaving them with what? I feared
they would retreat behind high emotional walls and never be able to break them down
again, even with each other. I hoped not.

As for me, I was curiously neutral about the whole affair. That was my body in that
coffin. I was stuck in that metal earth submarine until it decayed centuries from now. It
was going to be covered over with six feet of dirt. I'd always hated those horror movies
where a still-living person is buried alive. That's got to be the worst, to wake up and
know you are trapped, the weight of the earth above you. It used to make me shudder
just to think about it. Now I was watching them get ready to lower me in my grave, with
this me present and aware, and it didn't elicit any real reaction. At least I was out here
instead of in there.

I wondered, half fearfully, half hopefully, what would happen to this me when that me
went underground. I still didn't know the rules. Perhaps this existence of mine was
temporary, a grace period between dying and being put away. After that, I might just
vanish, or maybe I'd go on to whatever afterlife there might be. I was curiously apathetic
about which of those alternatives might occur. I just was ready to trade this already
dreary existence for something else.

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A latecomer ambled up to stand near me. I was standing at the back of the circle of
mourners, not wanting to get tangled up in that mass of arms and legs that couldn't tell I
was among them. I'd noticed him at the service, sitting by himself towards the back.
He'd looked vaguely familiar, but I couldn't place him. Nor could I get any clues from
observing whom he interacted with, since I hadn't noticed him talking to anyone.
Perhaps he was some distant relative, or someone I'd done business with. I really didn't
give it all that much thought, but now that he was standing near me I paid him more

He was older than I was, maybe ten or so years. He was a distinguished looking man,
dressed impeccably in a nice blue pinstripe suit; very elegant and clearly expensive. He
had a neatly trimmed goatee and mustache, and wore a properly serious expression. I
thought him the very picture of how someone should look at a funeral. Maybe he did this
often; he was in the business, or just got his kicks going to funerals. There was
something about his air that made me think all this amused him somehow. It didn't really
matter; I turned my attention back to the gravesite.

The minister pronounced me consecrated, and the coffin was lowered. Mom and dad
each trickled a handful of dirt in the grave, followed by Tara and Elizabeth. The crowd
started to disperse. The minister spoke to my parents briefly, then paid his professional
respects to Tara and Richard, and a few others. I was about to follow my parents to their
car for a ride to their house when the stranger spoke.

"He must have been a hell of a guy."

I was startled. He said this without looking at me, yet there was no one else in earshot.
Once I recovered from my surprise, I decided that he was just talking to himself, and
turned to go.

"Don't you agree?" he continued, turning towards me.

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My mouth must have gaped open a foot. OK, maybe I'd had idle thoughts that someone
could see me at the service, but I didn't really think anyone would. And if someone was
going to see me, I'd expected it would be someone close to me, like my parents or
Elizabeth. Not some stranger.

He just smiled. "That rocks your world, doesn't it? I bet you weren't expecting some
stranger to come up and start talking to you."

"You, you, you can see me?" I sputtered inanely. I had to look up slightly at him, as he
was a couple inches taller than I was. He was also broader across the shoulders than I
was. I felt slightly undersized in comparison, like I sometimes did with Dave. No one
ever accused me of being puny, but I always wished I were a little bigger. Hell, I wished
I could grow as nice a beard as he did. I didn't even know him and already I was envying
him; he definitely had the initial advantage over me psychologically -- as if the surprise
of him being able to see me wasn't enough.

"Of course," he said urbanely, like this was the most natural thing in the world. "I think
we should talk."

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"How can you see me?" I asked. "No one else can."

He smiled tolerantly. "That's because I'm not like them. They're alive; we're not."

I narrowed my eyes suspiciously. "Are you the devil?" I didn't know where that had
come from.

He laughed, amused at the notion. "Of course not. Why would you think that?"

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"It must be the suit," I muttered. "Are you an angel, then? Have you come to get me?"

He shook his head. "No, nothing like that. That's between you and God. No, I'm a ghost
like you. A spirit, a phantom, a specter, an apparition. Whatever you want to call it."

"I hadn't seen any others, so I'd begun to think I was the only one. Who are you?"

"I'm someone like you, Mike Finley," he said calmly. "Let's talk."

The cars were starting to load up and drive away. I'd heard that my parents were hosting
a post-funeral gathering, and I really wanted to be there. Around us the gravediggers were
shoveling dirt into my grave. It made me panic slightly, hearing that sound of loose earth
hitting my coffin and filling my grave -- knowing that was it. The people in my life were
all driving away, I was literally being buried, and here I stood with someone -- or
something -- talking to me as though this happened everyday. I'd been waiting for
another ghost to show up; now one had, but I wasn't really ready. I wanted the sense of
completion on my funeral; I wanted to follow my friends and family back to carry on
with the mourning.

"I hate to do this, but can it wait?" I asked. "I'd like to go with my parents."

He studied me. "I promise you, you won't miss anything." I looked at the departing cars
in some panic, not believing I could avoid missing being at the gathering.

The stranger sighed. "You're the saddest excuse for a ghost that I can imagine. And you
look terrible! You look like a derelict." I looked sharply at him; that hurt my feelings. I
felt the need to defend myself.

"It's not like I could change my clothes or get cleaned up. How do you stay so neat?"

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He smiled; now we were getting somewhere. "This gathering you want to go to. What
time is it supposed to be?"

I didn't know where he was going with this. "Well, from now till probably mid-
afternoon. Why?"

"And what time is it now?" he asked patiently. He tapped his foot absently.

I looked at my watch. "About eleven." We looked at each other; he looked at me

expectantly, while I regarded him suspiciously. All of the cars had left; for better or for
worse, I was stuck with him for the time being.

"OK, let's work with that," he said, after it appeared I didn't have any more to add on the
time issue. "That wrist watch of yours. Now, I can see you dying and becoming a ghost.
But what's the story with your watch? Did it die with you? Do you have a ghost watch?"
I just looked at him, uncomprehendingly. He tried again.

"Why are you still wearing a watch, and why does it still tell time?"

Gosh, now that he mentioned it, those were good questions. I'd never even thought about
it. I had the watch on when I was shot, and just sort of accepted its continued presence.
I thought for a minute.

"Are you saying the watch isn't really here, that I'm just imagining it?"

He beamed at me. "Bingo, Mike Finley. Now, what else?"

I looked at him a second, then slowly lowered my eyes to evaluate my appearance.

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"That's right," he encouraged me. "There's no dirt here, so you can't be dirty. All your
hair follicles are dead along with you, so you can't be growing a beard. You're not really
wearing clothes, so they can't really be getting wrinkled. Get my point?"

"So all of this" -- I gestured to my outfit -- "is because I assumed it was that way?" He
nodded vigorously. "And I could imagine something else?" He nodded again.

"How do I do that?" I asked, the question of a small child.

"Just do it, like you'd imagine anything else," he replied confidently. I closed my eyes.

And opened them. I was wearing one of my best suits -- thankfully, not the one I was just
buried in. My hair was neatly combed and my face smooth. I even felt clean, like I'd just
had a vigorous scrub in the shower. This was much better.

"That's progress," he said with some satisfaction.

I regarded him more carefully. He seemed so confident and at ease, beaming like a
teacher with a favorite student. I still couldn't place him, although the back of my mind
was furiously sorting through possibilities. Why was he being so helpful? Kind of a
ghost welcoming committee?

"Do I know you?" I asked.

He laughed. "I know you, Michael Finley. I know you better than you know yourself."

I didn't like that. I pressed him again. "Are you some relative, taking it upon yourself to
watch over me?"

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He shrugged and smiled easily. "It's not important. I just thought it'd make life easier if I
explained a few things. Now, tell me, what are you finding most frustrating about being

I thought about that. It was kind of a long list. "Well," I admitted, "I'm getting tired of
waiting for other people to open doors or give me rides. It's hard to get places."

He nodded appreciatively. "That's a common first reaction. You're still thinking of

yourself as being a physical being. The fact is, you can be anywhere you want to be,
anytime you want to be there."

That was a tall order. It seemed rather unlikely. "How?"

"You just do it. It's like wiggling your ears; you don't know that you can do it, you don't
know how you do it. You just do it. Just picture where you want to go."

I thought for a few seconds, then closed my eyes and pictured my parents' house. They
should have had time to arrive there now. I opened my eyes -- and found myself there.
The post-funeral crowd was gathering, spread out throughout the house. I closed my eyes
again and pictured the cemetery again. The stranger was standing there when I reopened
my eyes.

"Pretty neat, eh?" he said. "By the way, you don't have to close your eyes. You know,
you already did this, but you didn't realize it."

That seemed wrong to me, but I thought about it rapidly. "The walk to Elizabeth's on the
night I was killed?" I speculated warily.

He nodded. "And the walk to the hospital after you were shot, and the night you in bed
with Elizabeth; you didn't experience all those times; you actually just skipped ahead."

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I had thought those times had passed by quickly; now I knew why. "Can I walk through
walls and such?" I asked.

"Sure," he said casually. "You can pass through the center of the earth if you want, like a
neutrino. I'll warn you, though, it's very dark in there."

"How is it possible?"

"Look," he said. "You know that everything is made up of atoms, which are made of
subatomic particles, right?" I nodded, suddenly afraid this was going to be a physics
quiz. "And the spaces between the particles are pretty vast? That means that most things
in the world are really made up of empty space. We just see them as solid."

"So I am able to walk through atoms?" I asked, now even more confused. "You're saying
the appearance of solidity is all in people's heads?"

"No," he admitted. "I just threw that in to see if you were paying attention, although I
have wondered if living people could do that if they had a better grasp of the world and
its so-called reality. As for you and me, my friend, we can pass through things because
we're not really part of that world."

"What world are we part of?" I asked. It seemed like the logical question.

The stranger cocked his head. "That's enough for now," he said. "You can figure some of
this out for yourself. Go on to your parents' and we'll talk again."

And he was gone.

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One second he was there, the next he was gone. I stood absolutely still. I hadn't quite
had time to adjust to the ghost world of the last few days, and now I'd found that my
understanding of that world had been woefully inadequate.

What did he mean when he said I could be anywhere, anytime? Sounded pretty dramatic.
It seemed to open up so many possibilities that my head spun. I could understand why he
thought I'd had enough for the time being. And I still wanted to know who -- and what --
he was.

I wasn't going to get any answers standing here. For lack of a better alternative, I
pictured myself back at my parents' house. And there I was.

I quickly scouted out the situation. People had formed their little subgroups. Tara,
Derek, and our parents formed the nucleus, sitting in the family room. Elizabeth's parents
were there as well, although not Elizabeth. Annie and her kids were also sitting there, the
boys chafing at being dressed in their church clothes and having to sit on the couch with
Annie. Tara had picked out a puzzle for Derek to play with, and they watched him try to
jam round pieces into square holes. Get used to it, Derek.

Richard was in the living room, having coffee with some of my uncles. I wondered if the
coffee had some whiskey in it. Bill was tolerantly arguing with him about politics, with
the rest of them pitching in desultorily. This was not where I wanted to be.

Dave, Donna, Paul and Janet had staked out the deck. Donna was puffing on a cigarette.
I counted that habit on the long list of reasons I didn't like Donna. Still, I joined their

"That was some speech Elizabeth gave, don't you think?" Paul asked to no one in
particular. "Was she mad or sad?"

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"Both, probably," Dave said. "Mike was a schmuck. He should have married her." Yeah,
like you're ready to get married either, I thought evilly. Let him who is without sin cast
the first stone…

"I told her to dump him," Donna interceded. "Lots of times. She should have given him
an ultimatum: a ring or the door. She just wouldn't do it."

Although I'd suspected as much, this was news to me. I could imagine Donna picking at
her each time they went out -- has he proposed, has he even talked about marriage? Why
do you stick around? It's funny, but Elizabeth came home from her outings with Donna
in moods that were not discernibly different to me than normal -- so either Donna's
carping was water off her back, or I was oblivious to her moods.

Dave stuck up for me, thank goodness. He just looked at her, a little annoyed. "Come
on, for Christ's sake. We're at Mike's funeral. Try to be a little gracious."

"I just hate to see her hurt like this," Donna said defensively. "I knew it would end badly
when he hadn't proposed to her after that trip to Cancun. That would have been the
perfect time."

The Cancun trip had indeed been a very romantic trip. We'd been going out for about
three years and were very happy. We just lazed around, took long walks on the beach,
and so on. Holding hands at sunset, making love in the afternoon, sitting on the shore in
the moonlight. The weather was perfect, and we had a marvelous time.

I actually had toyed with the notion of proposing to her. Only a little before the trip, but
as the week went on I thought about it more and more. I imagined the right setting, I
thought about how I'd ask, I pictured her reaction. But I didn't do it. I rationalized that
there'd be other times, other places, that I didn't want to rush into anything. That we
didn't want to rush into anything.

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"Married or not," Paul interjected, "she loved him."

"Yes, she did," Janet said. "But Donna's got a good point -- how long should she have
waited? I liked Mike as much as anyone, but if I were her I'm not sure I would have kept
waiting that long."

A new voice from the door took them by surprise. "Maybe she wasn't the right girl,"
Annie suggested. She was leaning against the doorway, holding a glass of iced tea and
looking a little defiant. They all looked at her speechlessly. "Hey, I knew Mike longer
than any of you. He wasn't some creep who would just keep stringing someone along. "

"What do you mean?" Donna said irately. "You think Elizabeth wasn't good enough for

Annie made a face. "No, I don't mean that at all. Don't get me wrong: Elizabeth is great;
I like her a lot.

But so was Tonya before her, and Alicia and God knows who before that. Lots of great
women loved him. Maybe he was waiting for someone else."

No one knew how to react to this. If I had been there -- well, been there in a physical
state, able to speak -- I'm not sure I would have known how to react. Everyone seemed
guilty to think that maybe Elizabeth wasn't the one.

"Who is Tonya?" Paul asked innocently.

"Tonya was that bimbo in the black dress at the viewing, the one Elizabeth escorted
around," Donna said snidely. Paul nodded in recognition, appreciatively remembering
Tonya now. Janet gave him that look I used to call the Tonya effect; he was going to hear
about this later. "I can't believe she even showed up. How thoughtless!"

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Dave rolled his eyes. "Tonya is not a bimbo," he said with exasperation. "She's very
bright and she cared about Mike a lot. Elizabeth doesn't have sole dibs on grieving him."

"I agree with Donna on this one," Janet said. "It must have been hard on Elizabeth."

"It's hard on a lot of people," Annie said. "It's hard on me, it's hard on Tara, it's hard on
Dave. So what if Mike had former lovers who'll miss him too? That's a good thing.
And, anyway, I thought Elizabeth showed a lot of class in how nice she was to Tonya. A
lot of class."

Dave wanted to end this. "Let's all agree -- they loved each other and it's too bad they
didn't get married. Life goes on. We should remember the good things about Mike.

And, keep in mind -- married or not, Mike would still be dead now. At least Elizabeth
isn't a widow with a kid."

That sombered them all up. I took my leave of them. Where was Elizabeth?

I'd hoped I could just imagine her, and I could appear wherever she was. It didn't seem to
work like that. I had to picture some specific place. At first I kept using the doors, like I
normally would. After awhile, my curiosity got the better of me. Standing in a doorway,
I put my hand on the wall on one side of the door and pressed slightly. Nothing

I furrowed my brow. The stranger had said I could do it; there must be some trick to it. I
put my hand on the wall again, and pictured it going through. The wall gave way slowly.
The sensation was like putting a real hand through some dense liquid, parting reluctantly
behind my pressure.

The sight of my arm, half on one side of the wall, half on the other, was startling. It was
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playing like a cat with a new toy. As I got used to it, the resistance I'd perceived at first
gradually dissipated, so that the wall posed no more trouble to me than moving through
the air.

Having got the knack of that, I progressed to putting my whole body through the wall. At
first I closed my eyes, like swimming underwater. I finally was brave enough to keep
them open them while I passed through the wall, only to find that I couldn't see anything
-- there was no light. I now understand why the stranger said it was too dark at the center
of the earth.

I wandered through the house, fascinated by the sensation of walking through walls and
doors. It was so interesting that I was startled to remember that I was supposed to be
looking for Elizabeth. The group of Tara and my parents had broken up; Derek was
playing video games with Annie's boys. My parents weren't in sight.

I found Elizabeth in my old room again. I guessed she'd excused herself to go to the
restroom to wash her face, but had felt the need for some quiet here. My room only had
vestiges of my childhood, my mom having long ago converted it to a guestroom. It still
had some of my high school yearbooks, as well as some old trophies and a few pictures.

Elizabeth was leafing through my yearbook, reading the inscriptions and flipping through
some of the pictures. She did so languidly, moving in slow motion. I watched her sadly,
wondering what was going on in that head of hers. Was she mad at me? Did she hate me
for not marrying her? She didn't look mad.

It was just like her to be interested in the yearbooks. I looked through them every so
often, usually when I'd run into someone I'd gone to high school with and wanted to
remember what they'd been like. But I'd have lost or just pitched them if left to my own
devices. My mother had more nesting instincts, and had kept them here. Elizabeth, the
constant keeper of the past, would probably love these to put in her Mick box.

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There was a knock on the door. "Are you in there, Elizabeth?" Tara asked from behind
the door. "I was wondering where you were."

"It's me," Elizabeth conceded. "Come on in."

Tara came in, smiling when she saw what Elizabeth was doing. She looked around the
room slowly, taking in the remnants of me still there. "Gosh, I haven't looked at those for
years," she said, plopping herself on the bed next to Elizabeth. "High school seems like
such a long time ago."

Elizabeth smiled. "It was a long time ago. He looks so young in these pictures. What
was he like in high school?"

"Oh, he was your typical high school kid," Tara said, fondly. "Trying to impress his
buddies, cocky but insecure. Afraid of yet fascinated with girls, and not willing to admit

"Do you think of Mike as the same person then as now, or did he change?"

Tara considered that. "No, I think Mike was always pretty much the same. He was
always pretty easygoing. Nothing got him too bothered. He made friends, he lost
friends, he moved on to new interests. He never really got into trouble. He was always a
good guy at heart."

"What surprised you most about Mike's life?" Elizabeth asked. It was a hard question. I
mean, the obvious answer was that it had ended so soon, but I suspected that wasn't what
Elizabeth wanted to know. I was curious how Tara might answer it myself.

"Hmm, what surprised me the most?" Tara repeated. "I wasn't surprised about him and
Derek. Mike was always good with kids; he would have been a good father." She looked
at Elizabeth, realizing that hearing that might be painful. "Sorry."

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"That's all right. I think he would have been good too." Elizabeth smiled sadly.

"I guess the thing that surprised me most was him going away to college," Tara

"What do you mean?"

Tara shook her head. "Well, first, I never thought he'd get into an Ivy League school!"
she laughed. "I knew he was smart but not that smart. I was mostly just surprised he was
willing to leave here. All his friends and everyone he'd known were here. Mom and dad
lived here their whole lives. We never even really went anywhere as kids -- usually just
to the lake -- so he didn't get this desire to go to more exotic places from mom and dad. I
figured he was like most people, tied here with an umbilical cord and believing this was
the center of the universe. But it didn't bother him to leave."

"He did come back," Elizabeth reminded her.

"Yes -- but he had gone away, he had lived somewhere else," Tara said seriously. "And
look at you guys, travelling everywhere. That was my kid brother? He complained about
going to go to the west side of town when we were younger."

They both smiled at that. I smiled too, although they couldn't tell.

It was true; most of my friends went to college around here. They scoffed at me for
going east to college, thought I'd turn into an effete snob. I don't really remember exactly
how or when I'd got the idea to go there. Maybe when Dave and I were watching
Princeton playing in the NCAA basketball tournament, and we cheered for the underdog.
Something stupid like that. My guidance counselor took me seriously, and helped out.
From then it just rolled along of its own accord; I didn't have any master plan.

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I was glad I'd done it, but also glad I'd come back. It had changed me somehow; I felt I
was a bigger fish in a smaller pond, that kind of thing. I suppose that was another thing
that strengthened my friendship with Dave; we'd both been to the big leagues, yet had
returned anyway.

After that, I liked exploring. It was fun to take Elizabeth places I'd been and show off my
knowledge of them, pretending to be worldly, and it was fun to travel to places new to
both of us. She hadn't ever really traveled before, but she took to it like a duck to water.

"I wish I'd known him then," Elizabeth said. "I wish we would have had more than four

Tara nodded sadly. "Believe me, you got him in the best years. You brought out good
things in him."

I wasn't sure if Tara meant that, or if it was just something to make Elizabeth feel better.

Elizabeth pointed to the yearbooks. "You know, I read the things people wrote, and I try
to see if they knew things about him that I didn't, if they had some insight that I didn't."

Tara looked at her quizzically. "And did you find any?"

"No, pretty much everyone said he was a great guy and they'd be friends forever."

They looked at each other seriously for a moment, and, for some reason, burst into gales
of laughter. I was surprised, until they eventually exhausted themselves and collapsed in
heaps on the bed, tears running out of their eyes. It had been some weird release for
them. Either that or the picture of my long hair and consciously ragged clothes was too
much for them.

Finally, Tara sat up. "I guess they're not going to get a chance to," she said sadly.

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"No, I guess not," Elizabeth agreed, sitting up as well. "None of us will." They sat like
that in silence for a few minutes. Tara reached over and squeezed Elizabeth's hand.
"Come on," she said. "Let's rejoin the others."

Chapter 16

I beat them downstairs. Just to see if I could, I went through the floor, rather than
walking down the stairs like a normal person. I just willed myself to go down, and
drifted through the floorboards as easily as I had the walls. I didn't fall, not like I had
weight and gravity was tugging me down. I floated down like a bubble. I guessed this
meant I could fly if I wanted to, that I really could go anywhere. I made a mental note to
test this out later; I wanted to try flying high in the atmosphere, racing alongside a jet
plane like Superman.

I found Dad in the basement, in his workshop. The guys had gotten together -- mom's
brother Bill, Pat's husband Jeff, Elizabeth's dad, and a friend of dad's were with him.
They were looking at dad's new computer.

"You know, I made fun of it when Mike and Tara bought this for me," dad said, "but it's
been great. I mean, I have one at work, but I don't really use it much. I figured I'd never
have any use for this."

"So what do you do with it?" Bill asked.

"Oh, I get on the Internet and poke around some," dad said. "Mike talked me into putting
our checkbook and such on it, and that's been pretty helpful."

"Was Mike good at computers?" Jeff asked.

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"Oh, yeah," dad bragged. "He helped me inventory some of my collections in a database,
and also we put our address book on it. We even used it to do our Christmas cards last

They thought about that for awhile.

"Mike helped me build these bookcases," dad told them proudly, patting some of the
built-ins he and I had built when I was twelve or so. They nodded, fellow handymen
admiring a job.

Dad was very handy, me less so, but I'd always enjoyed doing little projects with him.
Sort of male bonding. Dad never really got into golf or other active sports, but he liked to
build things. When I was a small child I envied his ability to make real things using his
hands, and we used to do lots of things around the house. In my teenage years I got out
of the habit of helping. I was usually out, hanging out with friends or playing sports.
The whole get-your-hands-dirty thing lost some of its appeal to me. Only after I came
back here and bought my own house did I reacquire the interest, although not the time.

"I didn't know Mike was handy," Elizabeth's dad said, looking appreciatively at dad's
tools. "You've got some fine tools here."

That led them into a discussion about tools, workshops, and I could see it drifting off into
"Tool Time" topics. I popped up to check on mom, in the kitchen with some of the other
women. They were sitting around the table having coffee.

"You never picture this," mom said distractedly. "I spent most of my life worrying about
things that might happen. My mom was like that." Cathy nodded in agreement; two
sisters sharing the memory of yet another dead loved one. At least their mother had lived
to the ripe old age of eighty, and had seen her two kids get married and have

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"But this? I never thought about Mike getting shot. I mean, I worried about car crashes,
or tornadoes, or crazed coworkers. I guess I was stupid; I didn't think this kind of
violence could touch our family."

Cathy looked uneasy. Pat held mom's hand on her own, and patted mom's hand with her
free hand. "There, there," she said soothingly. "You'll drive yourself crazy like that."

"No one could have expected this," Bill's wife said. "There's too many bad things that
can happen. There wasn't anything you could do."

That got them all slightly weepy. "Our family has been so lucky," Cathy confessed. "I'm
sorry that our first real tragedy was Mike. He was a good boy." Her lip trembled.

This was getting me depressed. I wanted to step in and say something funny. I wanted to
put my arms around my mother and tell her everything would be ok. I wanted to kid her
about getting so upset about something that wasn't so serious. But I could do none of
those typical responses. I could only watch.

I remembered when I was a child. I'd come in running from the yard and find mom here
in the kitchen. Cooking, cleaning, or sitting and having her coffee. I'd bounce in and
want to tell her what I'd found or what I'd done. Or I'd be upset and want her to put her
arms around me and stroke my hair.

Even when I was older I'd often drop by and find her here. I'd act like the adult, sit down
and have coffee with her, pretending we were equals. She'd always ask me what was
going on, ask after my friends and other people in my life. She was so proud of me, so
interested in my life. I might have pretended to be a peer, a friend, but I was still that
little boy, wanting my mother's attention and approval.

Now I'd not only never get it again, but I'd inadvertently caused her greater pain and loss
than I could know. Now I watched her at that kitchen table with her troubles.

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The afternoon dragged by. Mom had arranged for some food to be catered, so the process
of getting everyone something to eat took up some time and energy. It re-gathered
everyone in the dining room at least temporarily. They redistributed themselves with
their plates, spreading out to the family room and the kitchen to eat.

After that, inertia won out. Mom went upstairs to take a nap. The group in the family
room turned on the TV, and tried to watch. It was a battle between the CNN crowd and
the ESPN crowd. The television gave them something else to focus on, something else to
direct their comments to. Another group reformed in the kitchen.

The group in the kitchen, of course, was mostly the women. Don't blame me; I don't
invent these stereotypes, I just report them. Bill was also with them, as was Paul, for
some reason. I think he had come in for something to drink and had just gotten trapped.
He listened politely.

Elizabeth was sitting with the group in the family room, hiding away in one of the
oversized chairs. She looked like a small child, her feet not quite able to touch the
ground, and anyway pulling her knees up against her chest. She watched the others
silently, paying particular attention to Derek and to Annie's boys. They played away,
oblivious to the adults and by now loosening the constraints imposed by their good
clothes. Tara and Annie sat on the couch together, talking more mom talk in subdued

I noticed Dave corralling Donna in the hall, and sneaked up on them.

"So, Donna Lou," he said casually. "How long are you sticking around?"

"I'll stay as long as Elizabeth wants me to," Donna replied. "I don't know if she wants
company tonight or not." He nodded sagely. She looked at him suspiciously. "What's on
your mind?"

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Dave put his hands up in an implied apology. "Nothing. It's just that I was thinking,
maybe it'd be good to get some people to go out tonight. You know, kind of like a wake."

She titled her head flirtatiously. "Are you asking me out, Dave D'Angelo?"

He shook his head. "No, no, nothing like that. I was thinking maybe we'd get a group of
people. I could call some of Mike's other friends, maybe go hang out downtown. Like
we might have done if Mike was still alive."

"Gee, you wouldn't have invited me along if Mike were alive."

Got that right, Donna. We didn't want you tagging along when Dave and I went out, I
thought somewhat maliciously. Dave seemed more open-minded to her presence. "Is
that a no?" he challenged teasingly.

"I'll think about it," Donna said, smiling at him. "I'm pretty sure Elizabeth won't want to
go, but if she doesn't need me maybe I'll stop by wherever you are."

I didn't know if Dave was hitting on her or not, but if he had been I think he could have
been successful. I remembered that "Donna Lou" greeting at Elizabeth's house, and
wondered what kind of past they'd had. I supposed she was his type, to the extent he had
a type. She was pretty in an All-American sort of way, I hated to admit, she was
outgoing, and she was willing to fudge what constituted a firm relationship before
agreeing to have sex. Perfect for Dave.

I decided I'd done enough time here. The stranger had promised me I could be anywhere
I wanted, and it was time to test it. I thought about who else I wanted to see.

Tonya's apartment seemed empty at first. I could hear some soft music playing, but she
wasn't in the living room or either of the bedrooms. I finally found her on the balcony.

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The sun had come out, but still hadn't warmed things up too much; she had changed into
shorts and a sweatshirt and was sitting outside on a chaise lounge. Her dark sunglasses
hid her eyes. At her side was a glass of wine, mostly untouched, and the portable phone.
She was reading a book, a collection of short stories by Grace Paley.

It was funny. Upon first seeing them, most people would think of Elizabeth as the
intellectual, and Tonya as beautiful but not-so-bright. In fact, of course, both were pretty
bright, but it was Tonya who liked to read and loved political and social discussions.
Elizabeth was more right-brained, and preferred to draw or do creative things in her spare
time. She was a putterer -- when she had free time around the house she was more likely
to do something directly productive. Tonya was not the homebody type; she had no
problem sitting around reading while dust collected in her house. Fortunately she had a
maid who took these things more seriously.

In fact, one of the things I had missed when I started going out with Elizabeth was
reading. Tonya and I would recommend books to each other, argue plot and character
points, and could easily spend an afternoon or evening just sitting and reading.
Elizabeth didn't mind reading, and certainly had no real objection to my doing it, but she
would get antsy if I tried to spend too long at it. She'd wander off to do her things in the
house, or persuade me to go do something. Not a character flaw; she brought other,
equally good attributes to the table. But I missed that connection anyway.

After watching her for awhile, I noticed that Tonya wasn't turning the pages very fast.
She kept her head down into the book, but I soon suspected she was distracted and
thinking of other things. Perhaps me. Perhaps some computer program she was working
on. I hadn't been able to tell what she was thinking about when I was alive, and I wasn't
better at it now. Nonetheless, I watched her closely for clues; maybe she'd mouth my

We were both slightly startled, and, I think, slightly relieved when the phone rang.

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"Hi, mom," Tonya said. "Yeah, I'm back." I was having a hard time hearing the other
end of the conversation, so had to try to puzzle it out from Tonya's side. She listened
while her mother asked a question.

"Oh, it was very nice," Tonya said. "It was hard, you know? Harder than the viewing
last night." She listened again.

"Well, let's see. Dave D'Angelo spoke -- you remember Dave? The good looking one?
Yeah, him. Also Mike's sister Tara gave a great speech, very touching." There was a
pause as the words traveled from her mother's house to here at the speed of light, then
filtered through the receiver.

"Yes, she spoke too," Tonya said in a reluctant tone. "She was…sad. She regretted that
Mike didn't have a chance to be a husband or a father." Tonya listened. "Yes, very sad."

There was another pause, but this time I believed there was silence on both ends. Tonya
was the first to speak again.

"Do you want to know the saddest part?" Tonya asked quietly. "Elizabeth said Mike was
the love of her life, but she never knew if she was the love of his. It's bad enough to go
through a loss like this, but to do it and not have that?" Her mother said something.

Tonya gave a short, almost bitter laugh. "I don't know, mom. I wish I did." I wished I
knew what the question was.

They said their good-byes, and Tonya put down the phone. She didn't pick up her phone
again; instead, she just looked out at the view for several minutes. She had removed the
sunglasses when she was talking to her mother, so now I could see her eyes. They looked
thoughtful. Her eyes usually were very alive, and fairly radiated energy. Now they were
receptacles -- of light, of emotion, I didn't know what all. She was looking out but her
world was inside that pretty head.

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Eventually, she gave a sigh. She took a sip of wine, then got up, collecting her
belongings. She put them down on the dining room table, and walked towards her
bedroom, pulling off the sweatshirt as she walked. Typically, she had nothing on
underneath, which had always been a treat and a thrill for me to discover. She started to
run the bath and lit some candles around the tub. And she retrieved the glass of wine and
the phone, putting them within reach of the bathtub. I watched her nude body

Tonya liked her body. Me, too. At worst she was not at all self-conscious about being
naked, and at best she strutted with the best of them. She was in her unconscious mode
now, moving gracefully like a cat. She eased herself into the bath with a small moan of

She sat motionless, soaking in the warmth of the water. Every so often she would run her
hand through the water to stir it up and bring more warm water to the top. I wondered
what she was thinking about. As for me, I was thinking about the times we'd taken baths
here together. We'd sit across from each other, gazing laviciously at each other, then
move through the water towards each other like dolphins trapped in too small a space. I'd
run my hands greedily over her soft skin and smooth curves, and we'd almost always end
up making love -- sometimes drying off and going to bed, sometimes neither getting dry
nor making it out of the bathroom. Sometimes just in the tub.

We remained like this for some time, each of us in our solitary worlds, but only me aware
of both. I was still uneasy about this turn towards voyeurism that my life had taken. It
was oddly exciting, I had to admit, to watch Tonya and other people in their most
vulnerable, private moments with no possibility of them knowing I was there. It was that
element of access to private worlds that made it so fascinating. What are people like
when you are not with them? Even better, what are they like when no one is around?

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I didn't ask for this existence. I didn't really want it. But it had left me with no option but
to be a voyeur, to always be the unseen and unseeable watcher.

Still, I supposed I could avoid watching certain parts of other people's lives, like this.
Maybe I'd be a better person tomorrow.

The phone rang. Tonya looked at it calmly, debating whether to let it ring or to pick it up.
She let it ring several times, picking it up just before the machine kicked in.

"Oh, hello," she said warmly. "How are you?" She listened to the caller; again, I couldn't
make out the words. I'd have to complain to the maker of her phone; it was too hard to
eavesdrop on it.

"That's awful sweet, dear," Tonya said sweetly herself. "Not tonight, I think. I want to
just stay in." The caller said something else. Tonya laughed.

"No, by myself."

I wondered who this was. It had to be a man, I thought. You can tell when a woman is
talking to a man, and vice versa. There's just that lighter banter, that special kind of
playfulness, even when the relationship isn't sexual. But I didn't know what man would
bring it out on this kind of night for Tonya. It could have been me, had I been alive.
Who else was like me -- or more -- in her life? She rarely told me much about her other
men, although I always expected they were there.

I decided I'd been here long enough, for now. Maybe I'd check back later. I flipped back
to my parents' house. Almost everyone had gone, just mom and dad, their siblings, and
assorted spouses. This didn't interest me. I switched to Elizabeth's house…

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…and got there just as her parents were dropping her off. They walked her to the house,
and her father insisted on coming inside to make sure it was safe.

"Dad, really," Elizabeth told him. "I do this everyday. I'll be fine."

"Lizzie, I guess we're just a little more cautious right now than usual," her mother
explained. "We just want to make sure you are safe. Now, are you sure you don't want to
have company tonight?"

"Thanks, you guys," Elizabeth said. "I hate to leave you alone here, but I'm beat and I
could use some time alone."

"We may go back to the Finley's," her mom said. "They're nice people."

"I thought we were going to go get a steak," her dad objected. Her mom gave him a look,
perfected from years of marriage. He quieted.

Hugs all around, and then they left. Elizabeth looked through her mail distractedly,
throwing away the junk mail but not opening the rest of it. She went to the bedroom and
took off her mourning dress. She changed into jeans and a top.

Watching Elizabeth changing clothes was nothing like watching Tonya. Elizabeth hated
to be naked all at once, whereas Tonya liked having her clothes off, especially if someone
was there to enjoy the show. Although Elizabeth didn't have as spectacular a body, there
was something about seeing her naked that used to thrill me in a way that Tonya didn't.
Elizabeth gave her nakedness to me shyly, as an offering, as a gift, to be treasured just
between us. She did it as if she weren't sure it was a worthy gift, not sure I'd appreciate it
and afraid I might not like it. That made the sight of it all the more precious, all the

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With Tonya, it was almost arrogant: I know it's great, if you don't appreciate it you must
be crazy. That's not quite fair to Tonya, but being with Elizabeth after having been with
Tonya for a couple years was quite an adjustment.

I remember the first time I saw each of them without clothes. With Tonya, it had been
our second time out together, I think. We'd gone dancing at some club. She loved to
dance and moved fluidly, always with the rhythm but hard for a slow white guy like me
to follow. She danced purposefully, watching me watching her and loving it. She'd had
on this slinky, form-fitting red dress that was cut very low in back. She had been the envy
of all of the other men at the club, and some of the women. I was torn between
fascination and lust -- wondering if the dress was going to slip off her shoulders, half-
hoping it would.

When we got to her place that night, she didn't waste much time. With a deliberate stare
at me, she slid the dress off slowly, revealing nothing on underneath. Just two little
tattoos: a little flower at her ankle, and a small heart just above her smooth butt. She kept
her row of earrings on too, but I just nibbled on the other ear. I awkwardly raced out of
my clothes, her eyes gazing at me hungrily, and we made love several times the
remainder of the night. It definitely did not entail 'sleeping' together.

With Elizabeth, of course, it had gone much differently. For one thing, we went out much
longer before we got to that point. There were a couple of dates with some kissing, but I
didn't think I was getting signals that she wanted it to go further, even though she'd given
me that special smile.

Finally, one night after we'd been kissing awhile she stopped us and took my hand
nervously. She asked, head bowed, if I wanted to stay the night, then led me by the hand
into her bedroom. No lights, no candles; she was too shy. She undressed quickly, her
head still bowed down, but taking quick peeks to see what I was doing. Naturally, I was
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finally stood before me in her underwear and bra. She took a deep breath and unhooked
her bra, trying to smile gamely.

I love that moment when women let their bras slip down, especially that first time.
There's just something magical about glimpsing the curve of the breast when it is just half
covered; maybe that is why partially clad women are sexier sometimes than fully naked
ones. It is especially exciting in that half second before the bra gets off; you can see the
shape, the curve, and you know what is coming next. It's the anticipation that makes it so
enticing. Elizabeth took hers off reluctantly, as though she knew it was something she
had to do, but was prepared for me to be disappointed. I wasn't.

She rushed under the covers, too embarrassed to go further. I had to hold her and comfort
her for some time, telling her how lovely she was. Much to my surprise, she wrenched
out an admission that she loved me, unable to even look at me when she said it. She was
too afraid of the potential rejection she might get. I naturally responded in kind, having
done this before, and I was rewarded with a cautious yet so grateful look in return. That
was the first time either of us had mentioned the L-word, and I confess it came out more
in an effort to reassure her than anything else. But it worked; she looked at me gratefully,
told me again that she loved me, and that got us back on track.

That was four years ago, and I never stopped liking to watch her change clothes -- even
though (or perhaps because) she never really got comfortable with me watching her.

So this night it was jeans. Elizabeth looked good in lots of things, but I always had a
special fondness for her in jeans. They emphasized her long, lanky build, and made her
look sexy somehow. She usually worried they made her look fat, but I always told her it
was the opposite.

I also liked that they seemed to reveal an unexpected side of her. Looking at her, you
might expect a prim and proper young lady. Skirts, dresses, suits would be more
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I'm not sure she owned a pair of real jeans. Despite her western upbringing, her
wardrobe went from at-home sweats to nice slacks, and got more formal after that. I
made her buy a pair as a dare early on in our dating; I thought it was silly that she didn't
wear them. And it proved to be a good buy. Jeans seemed to reflect a more wild side of
her, letting her hair down and revealing a sexy side. There's nothing more exciting than
for a subdued woman to show herself to be sexy and sensual. And I knew that she was
sharing what was under those clothes only with me.

I don't know why I had always had this reaction. She was an artist, for heaven's sake; she
wasn't some virginal schoolteacher or something. But, for some reason, when I saw her
in jeans, I saw this quiet girl acting wild.

She puttered around the kitchen, apparently looking for something to eat. Nothing
seemed to suit her fancy, or maybe she was just restless. She put on a pair of sandals,
stuffed some money in her pockets, and went out.

It was a nice night out, and she started walking. I thought I knew where she was going.
There was a neighborhood bar/restaurant, not too far from her house, that we used to
frequent. It didn't have great food and it was never too crowded, but the food was good
and the atmosphere was charming. The owner's family had run the place for decades, and
somewhere along the way it had acquired character. It was an anachronism in the era of
chain restaurants and the latest overpriced trendy eating place. Of the several stores,
bars, and restaurants on the local square, it was the one we had been most devoted to.

Elizabeth walked slowly along the sidewalk, her gaze wandering around to the houses she
passed. Was she wondering what was happening in those families' lives, if they were
happy or if they had their secret pain as well? Did she long for the normalcy of their
lives, did she picture us settled and with a family of our own?

Or was she just looking at houses?

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The owner's wife greeted Elizabeth warmly, and put her in a small booth towards the
back. A trio was setting up for some live music, as usual on Friday nights. The place
was about half full, the families still eating dinner and the singles not yet out in full
strength at the bar. Most of the customers there lived in the neighborhood. The interior
was slightly dark and slightly worn, but both just added to the charm of the place.

Elizabeth asked for a beer. The wife headed towards the bar to get her one.

The owner came out from the back and gave her a cheery greeting. "Elizabeth!" he said,
smiling broadly. "So good to see you. And where is your young man?"

Whoops. He realized almost as soon as he'd said it that he'd said the wrong thing. I
didn't know if he'd just forgotten, or if he genuinely didn't know. Elizabeth didn't know
how to react -- whether to laugh, cry, or just ignore it. Both of them stared momentarily,
perched on the edge of that precipice. Magically, his wife appeared, and shushed him
away. "Go on," she chided him, "get back to the kitchen."

She turned to Elizabeth with concern on her face. "I'm sorry, honey," she said sincerely.
"Pay him no mind." She sat down and took one of Elizabeth's hands.

"How are you doing, honey?" she asked, squeezing Elizabeth's hand. "We're so sorry
about Michael. He was a good man, and you two were such a cute couple."

Elizabeth smiled wanly. "Thanks. I'm doing about as well as can be expected. The
funeral was today."

"I know, dear," she said. "I'm sorry we couldn't make it, what with the restaurant and all."

"That's OK. Mike had lots of people to see him off."

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The owner's wife nodded sagely; at what, I wasn't quite certain. "So what brings you
around tonight? You should be with family!"

Elizabeth shrugged. "I got tired of being around other grieving people, so I just wanted
to have a quiet night alone. But my house seemed too quiet." That seemed to make sense
to the owner's wife.

"How about I get you some of that meatloaf that you like so much? With the mashed

Elizabeth smiled appreciatively. "That'd be good. I haven't eaten too much the last few
days." Satisfied, the owner's wife gave her hand one more squeeze and got up. She
grabbed one of the waitresses and conveyed the instructions. I wasn't close enough to
hear, but I thought perhaps she gave some special orders to take extra care of Elizabeth

I slid in the booth across from Elizabeth.

"Liz," I whispered experimentally. "It's me. Can you hear me, or sense me, or anything?
I'm right across from you, just like old times."

She played with her beer bottle, peeling the label absently. She wasn't paying much
attention to anything else in the restaurant, and was startled when the waitress dropped
off some bread. If I was sending out any kind of vibes, her receiver wasn't picking them
up. I studied her. She had noticeable dark shadows under her eyes. Her eyes were red,
and her cheeks were kind of blotchy. There was no makeup that I could detect, and her
hair could use a quick comb or brushing.

She looked beautiful.

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I thought, ironically, that Elizabeth was made for tragedy. It brought out that darkness in
her, that slight air of loss and melancholy that I'd always thought had resided just below
the surface. It gave her depths that most people luckily avoid. The pale face, the long,
dark hair, that air of mystery and suffering; she was a fairy tale princess waiting for her
knight in shining armor.

Maybe I was supposed to have been that knight, I thought. But I goofed; I got shot. Now
she was trapped in her tower of sorrow, waiting for her next suitor to rescue her,
wondering if he would ever reach her. I was kind of wondering myself.

The waitresses brought the food, and I watched as Elizabeth ate slowly. She was a slow
eater under normal circumstances, cutting things into small bites and chewing thoroughly,
but tonight she was especially tardy. Either she was drawing out the time she could
spend here, or she was having to force herself to get anything down.

The trio got going, playing some upbeat jazzy tunes. We listened, each of us in our own
worlds. It was so familiar, so close to what we might have done on a normal Friday
night, that I could almost convince myself everything was the same, that I was really
sitting there with her. But when I looked over at her, I knew that she was alone.

She nursed that bottle of beer as long as she humanly could, and finally got up around
ten. She paid her bill, and again told the owners that she'd be fine. She walked home
slowly, looking up at the stars and the moon. Again, I didn't know what she was thinking.
Was she looking up wondering if I was up there somewhere, or was she just admiring the
light from so many miles away, the impenetrable messages from other worlds, other

She walked up to her porch cautiously, either worrying about intruders -- or ghosts. She
unlocked the door and went inside, turning off the porch light as she did, and giving the
porch swing one last glance -- just in case.

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I wanted a break. It was too hard to play the guessing game of what she might be
thinking or feeling. I thought I might come back later to watch her sleep and maybe
whisper in her ear.

I pictured Alicia's condo in Philadelphia, and instantly I was there. It was dark. I
prowled through it curiously, looking for clues to where she might be. It looked neat and
unused, the bed neatly made and the towels folded and ready. Her shoes were neatly put
away, and there were no freshly used work clothes on the floor anywhere. It didn't look
like she'd come home, changed her clothes and went back out. So where was she? Still
at work? Knowing Alicia, it was possible.

I met Alicia my sophomore year in college, but we didn't start dating until just before
graduation. She was from Philly and had stayed there after school. In fact, we lived
together when I was in business school. I'd been looking for a roommate to help defray
expenses, and a friend told me Alicia was going to law school and was also looking for a
roommate. Well, one thing led to another and we were sleeping together before we ever
got the apartment. We stayed a couple until I made the decision to return home.

Alicia was slight -- a cross country runner -- but very tough and decisive. I knew even
then that she'd make a great lawyer. She ended up going to work for the prosecutor's
office, and was still with them the last I'd heard. Her father was a hotshot lawyer at one
of the big downtown firms -- the prototypical Philadelphia lawyer -- and was less than
thrilled that she'd chosen the public service route. He continued to prod her about turning
in her spurs for a more lucrative practice. Alicia knew her own mind, though, and
stubbornly kept at it, putting away the bad guys.

She always told me she loved it, but didn't like to talk about the individual cases. I
always wondered if the evil, the badness that she encountered everyday, had changed her.
Each day must be like going to battle, but with no hope of winning the war; all she could
hope to do was to win a few battles, to stick her thumb in a few holes in that dike.

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Perhaps the impossibility of it is what appealed to her, like a crusader fighting for a noble
but unwinable cause.

That intensity is what had captured me, so different from my own nature. She was
passionate about everything she did. I liked to think that we balanced each other, that she
needed me to leaven her life. Maybe I was deluding myself, but her friends told me
they'd never seen her laugh as much. Still, I didn't kid myself that I could change her, nor
did I want to. Whether she felt the same about me, I was never quite sure.

Alicia had a great athlete's body -- spandex was invented for people like her -- and she
was pretty, or cute, or one of those non-beautiful words. Put her in a cocktail party, and
she probably wouldn't be the prettiest girl in the room. She would, however, know more
people, meet more new people, and have more people gathered around her than anyone in
the room. It was as if that energy she had was a force field, attracting men -- and women
-- like a magnet. I know I fell under that pull.

Much of the time we knew each other we had more time than money, and we didn't have
much of that, but we found lots of fun things to do. We had different tastes, to say the
least. She'd take me for a long bike ride along the river, along Lincoln Drive; I'd take her
on a picnic in Fairmount Park. She'd drag me on a tour of the museums on Benjamin
Franklin Parkway; I'd take her to independent movies at the Ritz. She'd want to go
window shopping on Chestnut Street, while I'd suggest people watching on South Street.
When it was her turn to pick a restaurant, we might end up in a trendy spot in Manyunck;
when it was my turn, cheap eats at Reading Terminal Market. Both of us enjoyed
Saturday morning food shopping, but I'd opt for the outdoor markets in South Philly,
while she'd want to go to the farmers' market in Chestnut Hill. Somehow we made it

She was nothing like Tonya or Elizabeth, I realized later, but at that stage in my life she
was a good fit. I loved that fire; I admired that intensity. She pushed me to do better than

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I might have otherwise, and introduced me to her very connected circle of friends. That's
how I got my consulting job out of business school.

I don't know when we started to drift apart. Part of it was certainly the travel my job
required, and part of it was her getting ready for the post law school part of her life. And
maybe part of it was just I wasn't good at being pushed; maybe I was made for a slower
pace. Maybe I just was lazy. I wasn't unhappy, and I hadn't really thought about leaving
Philadelphia or Alicia.

So Alicia was surprised when I came back from Tara's wedding and told her I was
thinking of taking a job back here. I was a little surprised myself. Alicia had had finals
that weekend and couldn't join me at the wedding; who knows what might have happened
if Tara had gotten married a week later? We didn't fight about it, but I thought she didn't
fight for me to stay as much as I would have expected. That may have tipped the scales
some in favor of coming back here. She did offer to move, but I wouldn't hear of it. She
even suggested we just do the long distance thing, but I said no to that as well. Time to
move on.

Alicia's answering machine indicated she had eighteen messages, so I concluded she was
out of town. Out of town and apparently not checking her messages, which was unlike
her. I finally found a calendar on Alicia's refrigerator. According to the calendar, and a
brochure pinned next to it, she was whitewater rafting in the Grand Canyon. She'd been
gone since last Saturday, and was due back Sunday.

Alicia didn't even know I was dead.

I wondered how she would hear. Was one of those messages from one of our mutual
friends, telling her to call them? Or did the message break the news directly? Would
Alicia get the message standing in some airport corridor, checking her messages, or
would she at least be sitting down in a nice hotel room? Perhaps she would keep her old

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life at bay until she returned, and not hear the message until she was back and standing in
this very spot.

I shuddered.

Even worse, perhaps none of these messages had anything to do with me, and it would be
weeks, years, before she heard the news. I toyed with the notion of trying to transport
myself to the Grand Canyon and finding her, but thought the odds of actually finding her
were too low. And, if I did find her, what could I do? Nothing.

I walked aimlessly through the deserted condo. Now that I knew where she was, I started
picking up on some things I'd missed before. Photos of a guy I didn't know -- sometimes
solo shots of him grinning at the camera, sometimes the two of them together. Some
clothes hanging in the closet; some men's underwear in her dirty laundry hamper. Two
towels hanging in the bathroom.

Alicia had a boyfriend. Not at the live-in stage yet, but more than casual, I concluded. I
wondered why she had never mentioned him. She knew I was seeing Elizabeth, and we
talked about our lives. But she'd never mentioned this development.

I couldn't find any pictures of me in the condo.

There was no point in staying here. This place had no real memories for me, and it would
be a couple of days before Alicia got back. Besides, I was curious what luck Dave had
had in organizing his little wake.

Chapter 18

I figured Dave would collect people at our usual hangout -- the same bar I'd met Tonya
in, in fact. I was right. It was one of the downtown clubs, not too far from Dave's

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townhouse. I used to kid Dave about not having a yard, and he'd tease me about being
tied to the lawnmower. Still, his place being so close to the downtown clubs made some
of our late night excursions easier.

The bar was one of the oldest in town, although operated under a variety of names over
the years. It had a great wooden bar that dated back to the 19th century. I loved the look
of it, and the history it contained. Dave and I would sit at it, or perhaps at one of the
booths if we had some friends with us. We'd talk trash, tell stories, maybe chat up some
interesting looking girls -- me just keeping in practice, of course, like finger exercises on
a piano. No harm, no foul, I rationalized. Dave thought my self-imposed restraint both
admirable and amusing.

When I popped in he had a group of perhaps ten people scattered around a large table.
Judging from the array of pitchers and glasses on the table, they'd already been there a
few hours. It was a slightly curious mix -- some of our friends who often joined us here,
a couple people from work, and Donna.

Dave was telling a story -- mostly true -- about one night in college when he'd come to
visit. He was a storyteller par excellence, and even when I'd heard the story before it was
usually fun just to hear him re-tell it. This one was no exception. We had done some bar
crawling on South Street, and ended up in South Philly, looking for Pat's Steaks. We
obviously made some wrong turns, ended up in a scary looking neighborhood, and
thought for awhile there that we'd never be seen alive again. Some of the neighborhood
kids took pity on us; instead of mugging or murdering us, as we feared they might, they
walked us to Pat's. We bought them some cheese steaks, and we ended up shooting
baskets with them till dawn. An unusual night, to say the least. Dave threw in some
embellishments, as usual, and had the crowd alternately gasping and laughing.

That was a typical night with Dave -- you ended up doing things that you normally would
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of it. He had mellowed in the past few years, but I'd learned over the years to try to call it
a night as soon as I saw that gleam in his eye.

A couple of people went to the restroom, and a couple more went to get another round of
drinks. In the ensuing relative quiet, Dave slid over to Donna and casually put his arm
around her.

"Hey, Donna Lou," he said. "How you doing?"

Donna smiled expectantly at him. "Oh, fine." She looked around the bar. "So this is
where you and Mike hung out when Elizabeth and I went out?"

Dave nodded. "Sometimes. We liked to come here. Where did you guys used to go?"

Donna named some clubs, and Dave indicated he knew them. "You sure you two weren't
out trying to get picked up?"

"What's it to you?" Donna laughed. "Jealous? I don't think Mike ever was." That's
pretty much the case, I had to confess. I didn't give much thought to what they did or
where they went, and I definitely wasn't worried about Elizabeth stepping out on me. I
wasn't the jealous type and Elizabeth wasn't the flirtatious type, although Donna was.

"Should he have been?"

Donna looked serious. "Listen, Elizabeth had plenty of opportunities, believe me. Guys
would always ask her for her number or want to buy her a drink. The last couple years I
started telling her maybe she should take some of them up on it."

"Why did you do that?" Dave asked, surprised at her advice.

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"Because I thought he was taking her for granted," she said. "He was never going to get
around to marrying her, and it pissed me off."

Dave took his arm from around her and leaned forward on the table. "Come on, Donna,
don't be like that," he said reasonably. "He loved Elizabeth; he just wasn't ready yet.
They would have gotten married eventually."

Donna harumphed. "Yeah, well, he had four years and he wasn't getting any closer. I
think he was still in love with that Tonya."

Dave looked at her critically. "What is it with you and Tonya? You don't even know her.
Why would you say something like that? I don't even think Elizabeth really knew her."

"Women know these things," Donna said mysteriously. "I know what she's like. And I
just think he had unfinished business with her. He should have figured that out before
stringing Elizabeth out."

"Listen, I knew Mike and I knew Tonya," Dave said. "They were just friends. I admit I
was surprised they stayed friends, but I never saw anything to think it was anything more.
And I'd know."

Donna looked at him curiously. "Why didn't you ever go out with Tonya? She seems
like your type."

That was a good question. I'd sometimes wondered that myself, and used to watch for
little signs from either one of them -- especially after Tonya and I were no longer quite an
item. But I never saw anything. Perhaps they each were so used to being the attractor of
attention that the competition from the other would have been too much. Or, more
charitably, perhaps they each valued my friendship enough not to risk it by getting
involved. Take your pick.

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Dave laughed. "You bet! Actually, they met here. I'd just gone to the bathroom, and she
started talking to Mike. If I'd come back a minute sooner it might have been me that
ended up with her…"

Donna looked unconvinced. "What about after they broke up? You had lots of time to
start dating her."

Dave squirmed slightly. "It just would have been too weird, you know? Besides, it's not
like she was giving me any vibes about asking her out. That's fine; there's lots of other
women out there."

I wasn't sure that I knew any more than I had before, but at this point it didn't really
matter. I'd have preferred Dave going out with Tonya over Donna, that was for sure. And
now here they were getting chummy. Donna leaned forward and put her hand on Dave's
knee. She smiled coquettishly. "So what about you, Dave? What are you looking for?"

At that moment, I don't know why, I glanced up and noticed someone sitting at the end of
the bar by themselves. It was the stranger from this morning, my fellow ghost. He
looked like he was drinking a beer.

I quickly moved over and installed myself on the stool next to him. "Hey, don't go away.
I want to talk to you."

He looked over at me without surprise. "I've been expecting you."

I hesitated, then asked, "Where did you get a beer?"

He shrugged. "It's not real; I just imagined it to fit in with the place. Here, you can have
one too." And a glass with a foaming head appeared in front of me. I picked it up and
tried to drink it.

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"I can't taste anything. It doesn't even feel like I'm drinking."

He waved his hand apologetically. "You're not."

I slumped, disappointed that even the brief hope of this simple pleasure was so quickly
dashed. I let go of the glass, only to see it stay suspended in midair. The stranger and I
looked at each other, then he somehow made the glass rotate a full circle -- without losing
a drop -- before floating gracefully down to the bar and melting away. Definitely not
real. I eyed him.

"Who are you, anyway?"

He considered this. "Call me Ishmael."

He looked serious, but I looked at him skeptically. "Is that a joke?"

He laughed quickly. "Maybe. I've always wanted to say that. Still, it will do as well as
anything else."

I still didn't know who he was, but before I could get back to it he smoothly changed the
subject. "So, it looks like you've figured out how to get around all right."

"Yes," I admitted. "It sure beats walking or stealing rides everywhere. I just wish I
could be more places at once; I feel like every choice I make keeps me from being
somewhere else I want to be too."

He just looked at me deadpan.

"What's that look mean?" I demanded. "What did I say that's so stupid?"

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He shook his head patiently. "You're only getting part of the deal. You and I, we don't
exist in space like we used to. That's why we can be anywhere we want to be.

But we also don't exist in time either. We can be anyplace we want to be, anytime. I told
you that."

I did remember that he had said that at the cemetery. "I didn't think you meant it literally.
I don't even know what that really means."

"I know. It's hard to understand. Come with me." He put his hand on my arm and stood

I couldn't feel his arm; it was no more real to me than anything in my old, physical world.
But we were no longer in the bar. We were in an alley, looking at a group of young boys.

"Recognize anyone?" he asked. I looked more closely, and was surprised beyond words.

"That's me!" I stammered. "That's me when I'm ten. How can…"

Now he smiled. "Anyplace, anytime, I said." We watched the kids scheme about

"Do you remember what they are talking about?"

I did indeed. At that moment, the sweet little Michael was telling his friends that his
older sister was walking home from school with her baby-sitting money. It was my grand
idea to relieve her of that money, which they joyfully did.

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"I was just a kid. I didn't think about how she'd feel about it. "

"And she never figured it out?" I shook my head no. "So, why did you buy her that ice
cream? Wasn't that hypocritical?"

I watched that little me with his friends. He was so young, so innocent. When you're that
age things are so simple: school is no fun, girls are there to be tormented, your parents are
dumb and just there to do things for you, and your friends are the world.

"I felt bad for her. I'd never seen her cry. I just wanted to do something nice for her. She
never said anything to me about who the other boys were or why they'd done it, and I
never had the nerve to tell her."

We were back at the bar. His beer had been topped off, but otherwise was undisturbed.
There was one for me as well.

"Why that day, why that memory? How did you know about that?" I asked.

He smiled. "I told you the first time I met you: I know more about you than you know
about yourself."

I stared at him hard. "Who the hell are you?" I demanded. "Why me?"

He just smiled. "Relax, relax, Michael Finley," he said calmly. He took a sip of his
imaginary beer from his imaginary glass. I watched as his throat thirstily gulped the false
liquid down. He was pretty realistic about this pretend drinking. Maybe he was a
pretend alcoholic too. He resumed his conversation. "Why you? Why anybody? As
you'll soon learn, we have lots of time on our hands. You can get caught up in many
people's lives."

I still wasn't sure what he meant. "I don't get it."

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He paused. "Hold on here a second." He vanished.

I sat at the bar, my pseudo-beer now feeling stupid at my hand on the bar. Behind me, I
could just barely overhear the conversation at Dave's table. I think they were talking
about football. If I'd been there I would have been happily putting in my two cents,
arguing with Dave and enjoying it. Dave looked like he missed the challenge. We could
argue like only old friends can.

Ishmael returned, looking none the worse for wear. "Where did you go?" I asked.

He looked smug. "I just spent a year in the south of France, circa 40,000 BC"


"I wanted to see the artist who drew those fantastic cave drawings in southwestern
France, the famous Lascaux Cave. You know, the Hall of Bulls and all that."

I must have looked blank. He shook his head.

"No matter. Some 18,000 years ago some little tribe of barely evolved Cro-Magnons
drew these great pictures of a hunt on the walls of caves. I wanted to see who, and try to
understand why."

"What are you, an archeologist?" I asked. I couldn't even pronounce the name of that
cave, much less spell it. Business school hadn't covered this.

He smiled, amused. "No, it's just a hobby I acquired. I've had time to acquire a great
many hobbies. Haven't you ever wanted to go back in time, and see what really
happened, not what the textbooks guess at?"

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"Wait a minute," I said, something he said just hitting me. "You just spent a year there?
You were only gone a few seconds!"

"That's lesson number two: Time is not linear, for you and I. We can bop in and out of it
at will. You could relive your entire life, and reappear here almost instantaneously."

If I hadn't already been sitting down I would have had to. As it was, this revelation made
me sag. "What are we?" I whispered under my breath, or so I thought.

"I don't know what we are," he told me seriously. "I just know some of the things we can

I started to think of all the things I might want to witness, all the people I wanted to see.
The idea was growing on me.

"Wait a minute," I objected. "In my limited attempts so far, I had to imagine specifically
where I wanted to be. Doesn't that make it pretty complicated to go back in time and

He looked at me tolerantly. "It's a skill, like anything else. You get better at picturing
what you want, and there you are. Here, let's have some fun. Who is some famous
person you'd like to see?"

"A famous person?"

"Yes, someone you've wondered about -- what they are like, what their home looks like,
so on."

I thought about it. "Well, Elisabeth Shue is pretty cute," I admitted.

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He nodded, pleased. "All right, now think about Elisabeth Shue. Think hard and try to
picture seeing her."

I closed my eyes and tried to focus my thoughts. Elisabeth Shue. Umm, Leaving Las
Vegas, Adventures in Baby Sitting, various Hollywood premieres,…

I was standing in, I saw, an airport. It looked like LaGuardia airport in New York. I was
near a gate, and evidently most of the passengers had already boarded; the waiting area
had that quiet, post-rush feel, but the doors were still open and the plane was still at the
gate. The sign at the desk said the flight was headed to LA.

"Very good," Ishmael's voice said. I turned and saw him standing behind me. "It's funny
-- you could have gone to the Oval Office, you could have met Mother Teresa or Gandi,
but, no, you want to see some movie star." He tsktsk-ted. I was a little embarrassed.

"How did you know I'd come here?" I demanded. "Can you read my mind?"

"No," he said, amused at the thought. "But, as I've told you several times, I know you
better than you know yourself."

"Why are we here? What does LaGuardia have to do with Elisabeth Shue? I don't see
her anywhere. Is she on that plane?"

"Be patient."

We waited for a few seconds, and, soon enough, there she was. She didn't have an
entourage or a friend with her. She strolled up to the ticket desk, one of the last arrivals,
and checked in. The celebrity-jaded attendants pretended she was no big deal, while in
my little ghost world I was gaping.

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She was wearing some slacks, a silk blouse, and a nice jacket. She looked delicious. Of
course, she had on the expected big sunglasses, enough to pretend at anonymity but
actually drawing attention to her. More than a few of the milling crowds at the other
gates looked over at her, nudged their companion, then pretended not to notice. With a
characteristic big smile at the attendant, Ms. Shue boarded the plane.

I sighed.

"What now?" I asked. "Should we board the plane?"

"No, it gets better," he said. "Hang on a second."

He grabbed my arm, or gave the illusion, and the world blinked for a second.

We were still at the gate, but something was different.

"What happened?" I asked. "What is different?" He just looked at me expectantly.

I looked around. It all looked the same, but --

"Wait a minute," I said. "It's the same scene, just a few minutes earlier. We saw this."

"Right," he agreed. "Now look. Who is that good looking guy?"

There I was, striding through the airport carrying a laptop and a carry-on. Judging from
my looks, it was maybe five years ago.

"Wait a minute," I cautioned. "I don't remember taking a flight from New York to LA.
When is this?"

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He looked satisfied. "Well, in this version of the world you did." We watched as I
boarded the plane.

"Do I meet her?"

He shook his head. "Not in this version," he told me. "She boards a couple of minutes
after you, sits in first class, and you never even know she's on the plane."

"I don't understand…"

"Hang on."

The world flickered again, and we were back at the start of the scene. We watched, and
again there I went up to the gate. Only this time Elisabeth arrived a little after me. She
stood in line behind me.

"Turn around, you idiot," I urged my alternate self. But he ignored me and just got on the

"Well, this is frustrating," I complained. Ishmael smiled.

"Try this," he said patiently.

Same start, same beginning, only in this version I turned and gaped at her, then meekly
just boarded the plane. I looked at Ishmael, disappointed. He was enjoying this.

We watched well over a hundred versions of the airport scene. In many, nothing
happened. In some, I saw her, but made no contact. In a few, we talked briefly. In a
couple, we hit it off, and she asked that they move my seat next to hers. And in one
glorious version, the plane was delayed a couple hours, so she and I sat in the bar and
became fast friends. The plane was cancelled and we went off in a taxi together…

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"This is all too much," I told Ishmael. "It's like watching TV shows starring me. There's
so many worlds, so many things to follow. How do you ever decide what is real?"

"It's all real," he said calmly. "It's just that all but one aren't the world you lived in."

I thought about the multitude of possibilities, each taking place in their own existence.
"Are there versions where I don't get shot?"

"Of course."

That was weird. I could find out how my life would have ended up if I'd been standing a
foot to the left. I could do my whole life over, see what choices I'd made, what choices
I'd missed, and what the outcomes were.

"Did you ever read The Unbearable Lightness of Being," I asked. "Not the movie, the
original book."

He nodded.

"Kundera talks about how the unbearable lightness of being is that you have to make
choices in life not knowing what the right ones are, not knowing how they'll turn out or
how other choices would have turned out.

This is the opposite. There's too many choices, too many things that happened. It makes
everything seem arbitrary, unreal."

"You don't really have those choices," he said sadly. "Those other 'you's do, and they still
don't know what happens. And you can't tell them."

For some reason that struck me as sad.

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"Why are there all these alternate worlds?" I asked, frustrated. "What does it mean?"

He shrugged. "You took physics. Don't you remember Everett's 'many worlds' theory?"

"I must have been asleep that day," I said sarcastically. Physics wasn't my favorite class.

"Everett speculated that, at every point of probability, for every quantum particle, perhaps
it actually makes each choice, with the separate choices resulting in different worlds.
None of them knowing about the others."

"I do vaguely recall that. And physicists really took that idea seriously? It struck me as
absurd; there'd be, well, an infinite number of worlds created every second."

"Not infinite," he corrected me, "but certainly incalculable. Still, that's the best theory I
can come up with. We somehow can tap into all those worlds."

I thought for a minute. "The future too?" I asked. "I can look at how the future turns out,
all the different ones.

"If you want."

"In many of those worlds, I still get shot." I said. "So, I have to ask again -- where are all
the other ghost mes?"

"I don't know," he admitted reluctantly. We each considered that for several seconds.

"Let's get out of here," I said to Ishmael.

Chapter 19

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We sat again at the bar, at the point when we'd left. The buzz of conversation picked up
immediately from when we had left. Ishmael already had a new beer by his hand. I
considered doing the same, but decided it was just an affectation; if I couldn't drink it,
couldn't taste it, what was the point?

"This is pretty weird stuff," I told him, staring down at the bar. "I think I saw a 'Twilight
Zone' like this."

He agreed, for once not smiling at my discomfort. "As someone once said, the world is
not only queerer than we imagine, it is queerer than we can imagine," he said soberly.
"You could have never guessed this existence, with all these worlds. And none of these
people " -- he indicated the oblivious bar patrons --"would believe you even if you told

"Well," he reconsidered after a second. "Maybe Donna."

We sat alone with our thoughts for a few minutes. Maybe he blinked out and watched a
species of dinosaurs go extinct over a few million years while I wasn't watching; it was
actually possible, and I found it more than a little disconcerting to know that he could do
it. Or maybe he was really just sitting here with me the whole time, being patient and
giving me a chance to catch up.

"How long have you been…like this?" I asked finally.

He smiled ruefully. "It's a meaningless question. I've lived more lifetimes than you can
imagine like this, but I could have died a minute or a thousand years before you did -- or
years after. It's all just arbitrary for us."

I stared at him, eyebrows furrowed. "Did you die a thousand years ago?"

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He looked down into his illusionary beer, so much like a real drinker studying a real beer
that he almost fooled me. He shook his head wearily. "It doesn't matter," he replied in a
conclusive tone. I let that slide, for the question seemed to cause him the only grief I'd
seen him show in our short time together. I turned and watched the room, seeing Dave
and my friends laughing and getting caught up in the spirit of the thing. I wished I could
be with them, really with them.

There wasn't anything I could do about that. I started to think more seriously about the
possibilities Ishmael had opened to. It sounded kind of interesting. There more I thought
about it, the more ideas I got about things I could do, things I could have never done
while I was alive. Maybe being a ghost wasn't so bad after all. Maybe this was the silver
lining. Things were looking up.

"So," I started conversationally, "I don't know where to start. Should I go back and see
all the great historical figures, see what they were really like, or should I go back to all
the versions of my life, to see what I missed doing differently. I kind of liked that one
with Elisabeth Shue and I."

It still wasn't very real to me. I mean, really -- a life with Elisabeth Shue? I wasn't
intending to do any of those, actually. Part of it was that, despite what I'd seen, I still
didn't totally believe it was possible. And part of it was that what happened in this life,
after my death, still held the most interest for me. Before I got to all that other stuff, I
wanted to see what happened here. Poor Ishmael; he'd given me the keys to the universe,
complete mastery over space and time, yet all I wanted to do was hang out in this little
corner of this one little world.

He smiled tolerantly at me, but with a deep sadness seeping through the smile. "Well," he
said, "you'll find that going back in history is harder than you think. You can do it, but
figuring out where you are, when it is, who people really are, or what they are saying is
harder than you can imagine now. It's not like everyone speaks English or uses our
calendar, or looks like their pictures. Plus, it's not so pretty sometimes -- people didn't

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wash very much for most of history, had fairly primitive toilet facilities, bad teeth, and so
on. A lot of people died young, from things that we'd shrug at today."

I could see his point. Did anyone really want to see George Washington with his wooden
teeth, or Marie Antoinette with her layers of perfume covering the stench of her
unwashed body? It was probably good we didn't have better pictures from times past;
there were too many details we probably didn't want to see.

Then, again, go visit some of our own slums, or some third world village; maybe things
weren't as different as we'd like to think. It's all in your perspective.

"What about looking at my life?" I asked, picturing that airport rendezvous with Elisabeth
Shue. I could see getting into these parallel lives. It was no more real to me than
watching a movie, but I always enjoyed the movies when I was alive. Maybe watching
these fantasy lives would replace going to the movies.

He sighed and polished off his drink. "You're going to do it anyway, so why bother
asking me?" he asked rhetorically. "Let me give you some advice, though: stick to the
life you know. Don't get caught up in all the lives you didn't live."

"Why?" I asked. "I think that'd be the most fun of all." I was already starting to envision
all kinds of glamorous lives I must have had some chance of living. NBA, here I come…

He looked at me very seriously. It came out in a rush. "You saw the airport, and how
fairly simple changes or blind chance makes such a big difference. Do you really want to
know how close to other lives you were? Maybe you could have been President if you'd
taken a different course in college, maybe you would have married Tonya if you'd called
her back after one of your fights. Maybe lots of things. I'll put it to you this way: do you
really want to see the son you never had with Elizabeth, the son you'll never pick up or

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Behind us, Dave's group roared with laughter at one of his new stories. I hadn't heard
which one it was, but the surge of noise forced a temporary pause in our conversation.
Ishmael looked away, regaining his normal calm. Then he looked levelly at me again.
"You never knew those lives; you never regretted those choices. Do you want to spend
the rest of this existence wishing you'd done things differently?"

I was taken aback. I had realized that looking at alternative worlds might show me I
could have lived my life differently, but I hadn't really thought about regretting that I
hadn't lived them. It was bad enough knowing I'd messed up to the extent I already did.
Now Ishmael was warning me that all the mistakes I'd made, all the stupid choices I'd
made or not made -- well, they were out there, ready to illustrate to me what I could have
done differently. I could see with real people how I could have made others happier, how
I could have helped them more, how I could have even made more of myself.

Kundera had it wrong; having all life's choices available to me was the unbearable
lightness of non-being. This wasn't just trivial stuff; this was about the life I really had
lived, and the consequences of the choices I'd made or missed. This wasn't so glamorous.

"I'd tell you to go to hell," I told him weakly. "But I think we're already there." I thought
for a moment, then added, "Maybe I'll stick with my old life for now."

Ishmael nodded wisely.

Chapter 20

There were lots of odds and ends about my old life that I was curious about. I started
with the night of my being shot.

I started off with my parents' house. I was waiting for that phone call from Paul.

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They were, as I'd suspected, watching TV. Each of them was sitting in their own chair.
Dad was reading a book; mom had a crossword puzzle on her lap but she wasn't paying
much attention to it. Just another quiet evening at the Finley's.

The phone rang. My parents exchanged quick glances. "I'll get it," my father
volunteered. He got up and walked into the kitchen to pick up the phone.

"Hello?" he answered. "Paul -- oh, Mike's friend?" He listened for a few seconds, and I
watched the color drain from his face. He leaned forward and put his hand on the
counter, resting his weight heavily on it.

"What kind of an accident?" he demanded. At the sound of the word "accident" I saw my
mother's head pop up and she trained her eyes on dad; mother radar at work. She held the
crossword puzzle tightly against her chest. Dad looked over at her and motioned to her to
come closer.

"How badly was he hurt?" Now my mother stood up and hurried over to my father's side.
He held the phone away from his head enough so that she could hear, and thus so could I.

"It's pretty bad," Paul's voice said grimly. "He was hit in the head by the bullet. I think
you'd better get here as soon as you can."

Paul told them which hospital and where to go, and dad hung up the phone gingerly. He
looked at it like it had been responsible for the news.

"What happened? Mom insisted. "Tell me." She was struggling to keep tears from her
eyes. Dad braced her arms with his hands.

"They were out to dinner. Someone fired a gun and hit Mike in the head," he told her
gently. "It looks pretty bad."

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Mom collapsed into his chest, sobbing. He put his arms around her and stroked her back
softly. His eyes looked out the window, at some distant place I didn't know.

"There, there, Hilly," he said resignedly. "We need to pull ourselves together. We have to
get to the hospital."

I went back to the bar, shaking my head like a terrier drying his wet fur. That was bad.
Maybe I should have looked at some Paleolithic cave paintings like Ishmael did; it had to
be easier. But my macabre desire to see how people reacted to my news persisted.

Maybe starting with people I was so close to was a mistake, I thought. Their reactions
were too pained and too painful to me. I wasn't quite ready for that. I decided to warm
up with people I wasn't as close to.

I sampled some twenty or so people -- people at work, casual friends, working my way to
some of my relatives. I gradually got used to it. In many cases, they saw it on the eleven
o'clock news. Many more read about it in the next morning's paper, where it made an
initial splash on the front page, complete with pictures of a smiling me. It was an old
photo that the newspaper must have had on file from when they'd carried a long-ago
promotion in their business section.

I was surprised at how few people really pay attention to the news. They switch to
another station; they only read the horoscopes in the newspaper; they put on a CD instead
of the radio in the car. It is as if people unconsciously shield themselves against the grim
news of the outside world -- maybe to protect them from hearing about events like this.

In the end, of course, most people heard about it from someone else they knew --
someone who had actually read the paper, or someone who had gotten a call themselves.
People may not like to monitor the news, but they sure love to spread it, especially when
it is something juicy. Most everyone had heard the news by the time Richard and his
calling cohort got around to "officially" notifying them that Tuesday afternoon.

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The reactions varied. Most everyone perked up when they heard the name; something
about someone they knew! Disbelief was probably the most typical reaction: it can't have
happened to someone I know! Closely following that was that urge to tell someone else
-- a spouse, a neighbor, anyone who might not have heard so that they could be the first
to share some new gossip.

There were not, I found, a lot of tears. Maybe that came later, or maybe it was more a
function of who I was watching; they simply weren't as emotionally connected to me as
the people I hadn't checked in on yet. Still, I was surprised, a little annoyed, in fact, at
how rapidly this ripple disappeared from their lives. They expressed their shock, they
muttered their dismay and sorrow, and they passed the news along. Then most of them
went back about their business -- switching over to Letterman or Leno, turning the
newspaper to the sports section or the comics, whatever.

I'd have done the same, I'm sure. Bad news is bad news. You heard so much of it, and
there's so much of your own life to live, that we each only have a small reservoir of
empathy for the departed. In public, they'd be mourners, but, behind those closed doors,
in the privacy of their lives that I now had unfettered access to -- well, I just didn't matter
that much.

Still, there were surprises. As I'd found on my reconnaissance of my old office, some of
the people I thought I was closer to proved to have surprisingly little response, while
others broke into tears or genuine grief. I began to suspect that the reactions had more to
do with their underlying emotional nature than to their personal connections to me.

Donna, for example. She hadn't watched the news or read a paper, but got a call from
Janet Tuesday morning, while Donna was at work.

"Donna, it's Janet, " Janet began. "Have you read the papers? No? Oh, my dear. Listen:
Mike was killed last night."

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"Killed? How?" Donna exclaimed.

"We were out to dinner with Mike and Elizabeth, near the university, and he got shot."

"Was Elizabeth hurt?" Donna asked immediately. No further inquiries on my status or

how it all happened, just straight away to Elizabeth.

"Well, physically she's fine," Janet said cautiously, "but you can imagine she's pretty
shaken up."

Donna said she'd call Elizabeth right away, but after putting the phone down she sat at her
desk for a few minutes, toying with her stapler. She wasn't crying, and she didn't look all
that upset. I had the distinct sense that she was trying to figure out how this new world
looked. More time for her? Or, perhaps, who could she fix Elizabeth up with?

She ended up leaving several messages on Elizabeth's machine.

With some other people, I was even more surprised. Frank Jerome's house, the night I
was shot. The kids were scattered throughout the house. Frank's wife was on the phone,
and Frank was paying some bills.

I had to spend a couple hours at the Jerome's; they didn't get a phone call. He and his
wife went through the normal routine: some television, some chores, put the kids to bed,
and so one. Just another evening of suburban tranquility. They eventually got ready for

They had a television in the bedroom, and his wife turned on the news when she got into
bed. Frank was in the bathroom brushing his teeth. She picked up her book and half-
heartedly started to read it.

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The news anchor opened the show solemnly saying there had been a shooting. He teased
the audience that details were sketchy, but after the opening commercials came back and
dramatically announced that they had learned the name of the victim: Michael Finley, age
thirty-two. He sounded saddened about it.

At the sound of my name his wife's head popped up. She watched for a few seconds
before calling out, "Frank! You'd better watch this!"

"What is it?" he said, his voice garbled by his mouth still full of toothpaste.

"Just get in here now! Mike Finley has been shot!"

"What?" he said incredulously, rushing in. His toothbrush hung forgotten in his hand; his
mouth still had traces of toothpaste around it. At least he had spat out the toothpaste in
his mouth. Frank stared at the screen until my story was replaced by a new story, a car
crash that had injured several people. He looked at his wife wide eyed. "What did I

"They just said there was a shooting, someplace over by the university, and Mike was the
victim. They didn't have many more details."

Frank sat down on the edge of the bed like he'd been punched in the stomach. He
grabbed the remote control and starting flipping stations, looking for newscasts that
offered any additional coverage. He managed to catch snippets on a couple of the other
local stations before coming back to rest on the original station.

None of the stations had specifics on where I'd been shot or how bad I was, but all agreed
I was in serious condition. Frank and his wife looked at each other. "I don't believe it,"
Frank said. "How could this happen? Who would shoot him?"

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"I think they said it appeared to be a random shooting," his wife offered, concerned for
Frank. "That's not a very good neighborhood. Maybe it was a robbery attempt."

"Poor Mike," Frank muttered. "I wonder how Elizabeth is."

The news was recapping the key stories at the end of their program.

"This just in," the anchor said. "The shooting victim earlier this evening has been
pronounced dead. Michael Finley, age thirty two, killed by what appears to have been a
random sniper in the university area this evening."

Frank and his wife looked at each other incredulously. The newscast closed with a cute
story about some woman and her cat. Whatever grief or shock the news anchors had
displayed earlier was replaced by a happier disposition. Frank turned off the television.
"Unbelievable," Frank said, offended. "I've known Mike for years. You just don't think
of something like this happening to someone you know…"

"Come to bed, Frank," his wife said. "There's nothing you can do tonight."

"I wonder if I should call Mike's parents, or Elizabeth," he mused idly.

His wife pulled him down onto the bed, cradling his head with her arms. The toothbrush
looked stupid in his hand. "I'm sure they already know; the hospital wouldn't have given
out the name so soon otherwise. There's nothing you can do for them tonight. Now
come to bed."

He grudgingly agreed, and they held each other for a long period of time, not saying
much. He did, to my great relief, put down the toothbrush and wipe off his mouth.

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"He never found out, did he?" his wife asked. Frank shook his head no forlornly. Found
out what? "You shouldn't feel guilty. You were the better person, you deserved that job
more than he did. And you took care of him after that."

What was she talking about?

"I know," Frank mumbled. "But I don't know that Mike would agree. We both worked
on that project, but he let me get all the face time with the executives. What was I
supposed to do, tell them that Mike had done most of the work? They wanted someone
more aggressive, and that was me."

"I know, I know," his wife soothed him. "You didn't do anything wrong. It doesn't matter
now anyway." She stroked his hair and comforted him. I left when it looked like they
were starting to get frisky -- on this night of all nights!

So Frank had shafted me. He must have been talking about the acquisition project he and
I worked a couple years after I came aboard. It was our project, but I'd had more
experience evaluating acquisitions than he had. I did the lion's share of the work. Still,
he'd been there longer and knew the senior executives better than I did, so I let him do all
the presentations and updates. I assumed he was sharing the credit equally with me, but
apparently not. Did he tell them he'd done all the work, or just that he'd supervised me?
Whichever, that must have been the basis for him getting promoted over me. I suspected
it at the time, but he passed the promotion off as simple time-in-grade. How naïve I'd

For lack of a better idea, I went back to the bar, to the quasi-wake Dave had going on that
night of my funeral. Dave and Donna were huddled together, head to head. I stayed at
the bar watching them and the rest of the group for another couple of hours. It was kind
of nice. Periodically they'd do a toast to me, and that sometimes led to a reminiscence or
story about me. Most of the versions were different than my recollection, but I usually
came off better for the revisions, so I couldn't complain.

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Finally, someone said they had to get going. Once that happened, everyone decided it
was time to go. I could see Donna was watching Dave to see what he was going to do,
and Dave was similarly deciding who might still be there if he stayed. So then it was
Dave and Donna.

"Well, Donna Lou," Dave said gamely. "What's up?"

"I don't know, Dave D'Angelo," she giggled. "What's up with you?"

He apprised her. "How about I buy you some breakfast?"

Donna giggled again. I suspected she'd had a little too much to drink, but, then again, she
was a giggler under normal circumstances too. "Gee, Dave, on our first date?" It took
both Dave and I a half-second to figure out that she inferred that he meant he'd buy her
breakfast in the morning -- after spending the night together.

"No, I mean now, Donna." Dave was losing a little patience. "You look like you could
use some solid food in you before you go home."

Donna made a face. "I'm not hungry for food," she laughed throatily. "Let's go back to
my place."

Dave looked skeptical. "Look," he said patiently. "I'll drive you home. That's all,
though. OK?"

Donna agreed, winking at him to indicate she didn't quite believe him. Dave helped her
to his car and drove to her house. Donna was half asleep, half draped over Dave. I was
surprised that Dave seemed to know the way to her house. He pulled up in her driveway.

"Are you OK?" he asked, fingering his keys. She suddenly turned shy.

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"Would you come in and check the house? This stuff with Mike has me a little spooked."
I figured this was just a ploy to get Dave in the house, but was curious why ploys were
necessary. I'd have expected Dave wouldn't need much prompting. He took her keys
from her, walked her up to the door, and unlocked it. He took her inside and did a quick
check through the house.

"It looks fine, Donna." he announced. Donna had gone into her bedroom and didn't reply.
Dave looked at the front door longingly, evidently debating whether to just walk out. He
sighed and edged closer to the bedroom. "Donna, did you hear me? It looks all clear

Donna had turned on a small light next to her bed. She was in the bathroom. "Dave?
Dave? Stay just a minute, would you?" Dave sighed again and leaned against the frame
of the bedroom door.

Donna came out. She'd hastily reapplied some make-up, and put on a Victoria's Secret-
type negligee. Drunk or not, she looked pretty good, I had to admit. "I'm sorry it took
Mike getting shot to get you back in my bedroom," she said, giving him a sultry stare,
"but I'm glad you're back."

Dave just looked at her. "Donna, it's not going to happen," he said firmly. "Not tonight.
Just go to bed."

She walked over to him, and put her arms around his neck. Dave just stood there, his
hands on his hips. "Shouldn't the living get whatever pleasure they can while they are
still alive, Dave? I've always heard that post-funeral sex is the best. And you know it
was already pretty good with us before…"

Dave took his hands and gently removed her arms from his neck, holding them between
the two of them. "That may be, Donna," he said. "But it's not going to happen."

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Who was this I was watching? A pretty, nubile young woman -- with whom he'd
apparently already shared this bed -- was offering him a night of no-consequence,
unfettered post-funeral sex. The Dave I thought I knew should have jumped at the
chance to jump her bones, among other things.

Donna started crying, of course, and threw herself on the bed. Dave reluctantly went
over to the bed and started soothing her.

I stayed for awhile longer. I still expected it would eventually end up with them having
sex, just as the Jeromes had started to, but it didn't. Donna made a couple of other game
attempts, but Dave dodged them skillfully. She eventually fell asleep. Dave tucked her
into bed, got up, and started to leave. He stopped in the bedroom doorway to regard her
again. Shaking his head, he left, locking the front door behind him. And he went home; I
know, I went with him. The only explanation I could think of for his behavior was that
he had some other hot date waiting at home, but he didn't. He came home, and went to
bed alone. Curious and curiousier.

Chapter 21

I walked for a while after that, to try to clear my head. This life was getting too jumpy,
without that comfort of continuity that life normally offers. There were so many
possibilities, so many things I could see and do.

I went back to Elizabeth's front porch, choosing to appear there just after she'd gone
inside the house. I looked around suspiciously, as she had, to see if that "earlier" version
of me was anywhere around. I was concerned that I'd start tripping over versions of me
at other points in their ghostly timelines, but I didn't see anyone or anything else.

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That got me started on thinking about the lack of other ghosts, period. I just couldn't
understand why I was the only ghost in the world, other than the so-called "Ishmael."
Especially with all these other worlds. Presumably I got shot in most of them, so where
were the other ghosts of me, spinning the dial of alternate lives? I thought of several
questions that I wanted to ask Ishmael the next time I saw him.

I must have been brooding for an hour or more when I heard the front door being
unlocked and opened. I checked to see if I'd been sitting still long enough for my frozen
image to be visible, but apparently I hadn't. Elizabeth came out and sat on the swing next
to me. It was so odd; she came straight to the swing, and sat down like she was expecting
someone to be sitting next to her. But she gave no evidence that she was aware of me.
She played absently with her hair, twirling a strand in her fingers and looking out in the

She was wearing her bathrobe, but her feet were bare. She tucked them underneath her in
one of her favorite positions. It looked like she might have on a T-shirt under the robe,
but I couldn't be sure. The night air was cool and clear.

We sat there, me watching her, her watching who knows what, for some time. I lost track
of time, absorbed in committing every line, every feature, every wrinkle and every
freckle to memory. I wanted to soak as much of her in as I could.

"Is that you, Elizabeth?" a voice called out. It was Mr. Wilkenson from next door. We'd
both missed hearing him open his door and come out on his porch, and we each jumped
at the unexpected sound.

"Yes, Mr. Wilkenson," Elizabeth answered, "it's me. What are you doing up at this

"I could ask you the same thing, dear," he said, walking over to her house and coming up
on the porch. "May I?"

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She nodded and I quickly slipped off the swing just before he sat down next to her. I
leaned up against the railing and studied them. Mr. Wilkenson also had on a bathrobe,
but he had on socks and slippers. His hair did not look like he had been sleeping. He had
a light stubble on his cheeks. In a younger man it might have looked sexy, but on him it
made him look older and somewhat disreputable. The black socks with no pants on didn't
help either.

"You know us old people," he said, grinning quickly. "We don't need much sleep. I
looked out and saw someone on your porch, so I wanted to check."

"Always watching after me, aren't you Mr. Wilkenson?" she said fondly. She patted his
arm affectionately, causing him to beam slightly.

"So why are you up, Elizabeth?"

Elizabeth sighed. "Too much on my mind, I guess. I just couldn't sleep." Mr. Wilkenson
nodded knowingly; he'd been there.

"That was a fine speech you made at Mike's funeral," Mr. Wilkenson said. "His sister's
was very good too."

Elizabeth smiled warmly, but sadly. "Thanks." They sat in silence for a little bit.

"Did you really mean that about not knowing if you were the love of Mike's life? I
thought you two were in love."

Elizabeth smiled, or grimaced, I wasn't sure which. "I don't know," she said earnestly. "I
thought I did once, but now I'm not so sure."

He patted her arm tenderly, but didn't say anything for a long while.

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"You know, Betty and I were married for fifty-three years," he started. "We lived in that
house" -- pointing to his own -- "for forty-six years." He was looking out at the street,
perhaps imagining different days, days when he was young and his wife was alive, and
packs of kids ran around in the neighborhood playing stickball or whatever kids played
back then. He had a look on his face of almost heart-breaking fondness and longing, for
times past and people no longer present. I thought, for once, that perhaps I knew how he
felt. I had some longing of my own now.

"She was the love of my life. She was the only love in my life. We got married young
and never thought about it. You just do your job, you raise your family, and the years go
by." He smiled ruefully. "Then one day your wife dies and you're alone. Your son is
gone, out of town, and he's got his own family. Your friends move, they die, and the
circle of people you know just gets smaller and smaller."

He turned to look at her, the smile long gone. "I wake up every morning expecting to see
her there. I mean, I had a lot more mornings seeing her there than not seeing her there, so
I kind of got used to it."

"That must be hard," Elizabeth said sympathetically.

Mr. Wilkenson laughed mirthlessly. "But why am I telling you all this, you probably
wonder. I don't know, I guess I'm just an old man with too many memories."

Elizabeth patted his hand reassuringly. "I can't imagine the kind of loss you're talking
about. I doubt I'll ever have to go through that, but I envy you the years you had together
with your wife."

Mr. Wilkenson looked at her very seriously. "Elizabeth, don't get me wrong in what I'm
going to tell you. I liked Mike very much. He would have made you a good husband,
and I'm sorry he's dead. But, you see, when you get to be my age you've seen lots of

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friends and loved ones die. It doesn't make it any less hard, but you come to accept that
it's all part of the plan.

You're a young woman. Your life is ahead of you. You find some other nice young man
and you go have a life with him. Mike would have wanted that."

Hmm, I wasn't so sure about that. I hadn't given much thought to what it would mean for
Elizabeth's life going forward. Tomorrow, or maybe the next day, or the day after that,
she was going to have to go to the grocery store. Buy toilet paper and milk and such.
Maybe stop at the dry cleaners. She was going to go back to work. Friends would ask
her to come for dinner. She'd watch TV, she'd draw, she'd go to movies. She'd get new
photos to put in the frames where my images now resided. And, one of these days, she'd
meet a guy. A nice guy, hopefully, but still a guy. He'd ask her out and she'd eventually

Her life was going to go on, without me.

Intellectually, I knew that. I'd have told her or anyone else that I'd have wanted it that
way. I'd hate to see her frozen up and dressed in mourning the rest of her life, living in
the past like some high school jock always reliving that high school touchdown.

But we don't live in our minds. We live in our hearts, and it hurt my heart to think of me
fading slowly out of her life, like the colors in an old photograph gradually turning to

Elizabeth didn't look too convinced either. She nodded her head like she understood, but
I knew her well enough to know that look meant that she understood but didn't
necessarily agree. She'd used it on me often enough.

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They sat together in a comfortable silence for several minutes. Mr. Wilkenson asked her
if she was all right, and when she said she'd be fine he got up and said he should be
getting home.

Elizabeth stopped him at the edge of the porch. He was inches from me and I looked at
him as she asked him a question.

"Mr. Wilkenson? Do you think the dead watch over us? You know, like ghosts or angels
or something."

Elizabeth was not one to believe in ghosts or the supernatural. That undoubtedly had
been shaken by her two sightings of me, but I didn't think she was quite ready to change
her worldview yet. I wasn't sure what she believed about the afterlife, although she
attended church semi-regularly. She probably had vague notions of heaven, without the
accompanying hell. Yuppie churches are not big on hell these days.

Mr. Wilkenson smiled at her. "Of course they do, my dear," he said kindly. "I know
Betty watches me every day. I believe she is hanging round here, watching over me until
I die and we can go to heaven together."

Elizabeth nodded knowingly at him and smiled quickly. He said goodnight and went
home. Elizabeth sat for a few minutes longer, listening to the quiet noises of the night,
then collected herself and went in. I followed her in.

Elizabeth's house was almost as familiar to me as my own. I'd spent a lot of time here;
hanging out, sleeping over, all sorts of times. I knew where she kept things; I knew the
idiosyncrasies of her TV. I knew how long you had to run the hot water in the shower
before it got tolerable. I knew that her kitchen always had a box of pop-tarts in the
cupboard and a pint of Haagen-Dazs in the freezer, just because Elizabeth knew I liked

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Still, it wasn't my house. I only had a few clothes here. The photographs, the books, and
the CDs were all hers. I might have helped her get some of those, and was in some of the
photographs, but they were her possessions, not mine. She picked out and paid for the
furniture; I just helped. She chose the colors of the walls. This was her house, not ours.
And my house was the same for her. We were guests in each other's house; welcome
guests, to be sure, but still guests.

It was another way that we had kept our own lives, rather than committing to a life
together. Oh, there were lots of good reasons to do it that way -- but there are always
good reasons not to do things. Now I couldn't do anything except regret things undone.

Elizabeth still wasn't sleepy, so she picked up her sketchpad and started doodling, as she
was wont to do when she was distracted. She said it settled her mind, helped her to
focus. She liked to just rough out quick little pictures, then decide if any were promising
enough to develop further.

Watching her draw was as mesmerizing as usual. It wasn't just that she was focused. I
think the record for focus has to go to Alicia; when she focussed on something with that
laser-like intensity of hers, that was it, that was the entire world. An atomic bomb
wouldn't distract it. It was scary when you were the object of that focus, and also scary
when you were left out of it. Maybe that had been part of our problem.

No, Elizabeth focused in a different way. It was more that she was distracted. She had
her head in a different world, the world of her art. Her body might be here, but her brain
was seeing the images in her mind's world. She'd be drawing me, in this world, while I
was watching her in her world. Somewhere they connected, perhaps on that piece of
paper she drew on.

I thought now how apt that all was; I knew now what being in a different world from
everyone else was like. It was too bad I couldn't translate anything from here to there. I
wished I could somehow influence her drawing, to show her I was here and was all right.

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I wished I could tell her that I loved her, that I missed her. I wished lots of things, but
that didn't make them come true.

I peered over her shoulder. Pictures of me, pictures of her and I together. Pictures of us
laughing, pictures of us laying together in bed. Pictures of me sleeping peaceably.
Pictures of me laying on that sidewalk, bleeding, pictures of me at the hospital and
funeral home. Even a couple of me in my current state -- sleeping on her bed and on the
swing. She had managed to show the transitional state of those images, part of me fading
out as I roused. It was like capturing a dream, half remembered in the morning but even
that memory fading as the dreamer wakes.

Her ability had always impressed me. I never had any artistic talents, and was so
astonished that someone I knew could translate this world into something else --
sometimes recognizable, sometimes not. I thought Elizabeth had the gift of simplicity in
her work, able to strip what she wanted down to its essence, and capture it. I didn't know
much about art, but her stuff moved me, made me think about the world in new ways.
That was good enough for me.

Of course, I never really told her all this. Oh, I would compliment her on things she did,
but she undoubtedly took it as inane boyfriend praise. In truth, it frightened me a little,
this talent of hers. I didn't have anything comparable to it, and wondered if she'd decide I
wasn't worthwhile if she really got into it. Once she got really into that arty world, I
feared, there'd be no place for me. Despite that, I thought she was wasting her time doing
commercial art, and several times I gave serious consideration to telling her she should
move in with me so I could support her while she devoted herself to real art.

But I didn't. That would have meant rocking the boat, that would have meant deciding I
was fully committing myself to her. I never decided against doing it, mind you, and I
liked to think I'd have done it when -- if -- we got married. So much for that plan.

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These pictures showed me that I did, indeed, look seedy at that time. No wonder Ishmael
criticized me at the cemetery! I made sure to spiff up my current mental image of myself.

But, no, even those drawings of me dead weren't the saddest. The saddest were the
pictures of Elizabeth and I with a child, at first a baby, then a toddler. A child who was
presumably the child we now were never going to have.

She sketched and sketched until she was worn out and fell asleep on her couch, pencil
still in hand.

I thought about what she had asked Mr. Wilkenson at the end there. I didn't know which
was worse. Elizabeth being too rational to believe I'd be watching over her, or Mr.
Wilkenson believing that his wife was hovering over him all the time. I'd hate to be the
one to break the news to him that Betty no longer lived here.

Chapter 22

The rest of that night passed quickly. I sat in the cemetery, sitting on my favorite hill. I
could just make out my grave, sitting quietly. I could have just jumped ahead to the
morning, of course, or flipped back to some other events I was curious about, but I felt
like brooding. There's nothing like sitting in a dark cemetery as a recently minted ghost
to help you brood. Still, this wasn't helping anything; I knew I couldn't just sit there

The dawn slipped into a new day. Once again, the world was waking up. It was
Saturday, and everywhere people were glad to not be going to work. They'd be running
errands, sleeping in, seeing movies -- all the various and sundry things one does on the
weekend, catching up on the free time that has been sorely missing all week. I roused
myself and went to see what the people I had cared about were doing on this first post-
Mike weekend.

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I stopped in at Elizabeth's, and learned her parents were going to spend the day with her.
Nothing against them, but I bowed out. I didn't think I could take much more small town
gossip. Instead, I went to my own parents. They were getting together for lunch with
Bill and his wife, which was not all that common -- both getting together for lunch, and
going out for it. I assumed that everyone had wanted to get out of the house, and to let
someone else do the work of cooking and cleaning. I was just glad to see that my parents
weren't holing up in the house. The lunch itself was inconsequential -- they asked how
mom and dad were doing, everyone talked about grandchildren. It was a reasonably
normal conversation, in slightly subdued tones of voices. They talked about how pretty
the service was, but steered away from any serious discussion about how my parents felt
about the whole thing. Perhaps there was no need to; it was written on their faces, in
their posture, by their walks.

When they got ready to leave the restaurant, I decided to continue retracing some more
parts of the week that I'd missed. I thought I was ready to get to some of the people who
I was closer to. First, Tara's house on the night I was shot.

Tara was upstairs, reading Derek a story. Richard was in his study, doing some work.
The phone rang. I was with Tara, and saw she wasn't going to pick it up. I switched
down to Richard, and saw that he was trying to ignore it as well. Finally, Tara yelled for
him to pick it up. He answered it grumpily.

It was my parents; it sounded like they were calling on a car phone. I'd bought them the
car phone never expecting they'd use it: I just wanted them to have one in the car for
emergencies. This may have been the first time they used it. I guess it did qualify as an
emergency, although not the kind I'd been worried about.

Richard put them on speakerphone so he could keep working.

"Richard?" my dad asked tentatively. "Is that you?"

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"Oh, hi. Tara is upstairs putting Derek to bed," Richard replied absently. There was a
pause; I suspected my parents were debating whether to tell Tara directly or go through
Richard. Evidently they decided it was their job.

"Can you get her? It's important."

Richard looked annoyed, and yelled up at Tara," It's your parents! They'd like to talk to

A pause, then, "can I call them back? I'm just about finished with Derek."

Richard's look of annoyance deepened. "Can she call you right back?" he asked the
speakerphone pointedly. "She's almost done."

"Well," my father fumbled, "we really need to speak to her now. We're on the car phone."

Richard sighed silently, and stood up. He walked over to the door of the study so Tara
could hear him better. "Tara, they say they need to speak to you now. Pick up!" I
switched back to Tara.

She furrowed her brow with annoyance and exhaled forcefully. She told Derek she'd be
right back, and went into their bedroom to pick up the phone. "I've got it," she said.
Quickly switching back to Richard, I saw that he didn't actually hang up; he just hit mute
and started working again. I went back to Tara.

"Hi, mom and dad," Tara said. "What's so important? I'm putting Derek to bed."

A pause. "Tara, it's your father. I'm on the car phone…"

"The car phone!" Tara exclaimed, amused. "Testing it out?"

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Another pause. "Tara, I'm not sure how to tell you this," my dad said cautiously. "We're
on our way to the hospital. Your brother has had an accident."

Tara's hand flew up to her neck. "An accident?" she repeated. "What kind of accident?
How badly is he hurt?"

There was a long pause this time. I wasn't sure if the pauses were due to my dad trying to
get the hang of the car phone, or to getting the hang of how to do this conversation.

"Tara, he's been shot. In the head. His friend Paul said it doesn't look good."

Tara suddenly sat on the edge of the bed, stunned.

"Shot? How, how…"

"We don't know, honey. We'll call you later when we know more."

"Do you want me to come?"

There was a pregnant silence. I switched quickly to my parents' car at that moment, and
saw the look that went between them. I wasn't ever a parent, but I knew what that look
meant. It meant -- no, let's keep the one we still have safe where she is.

"No, dear, we can handle it. We'll call you later."

My dad told her which hospital, and they said their good-byes. Tara remained sitting on
the edge of her bed, stunned. Richard came in tentatively.

"I know; I heard it on my receiver," he told her. Curiously, he remained by the door, not
moving to sit next to her on the bed or to hold her. "What do you want to do?"

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She looked at him with a face devoid of emotion. "They said they wanted me to stay
here. I guess I'll finish putting Derek to bed." She stood up and walked to the door. He
moved aside to let her pass, but reached out for his elbow as she walked by.

"Is there anything you want me to do?" he asked. "Should I go to the hospital?"

She looked at him with slightly narrowed eyes. "No, I don't think that's a good idea. You
can turn on the news if you like and see if there is anything on about this." And she left
the room. I found her lack of emotion in front of him intensely curious; was she neutral
towards me being shot, or was she avoiding letting him see her feelings for some reason?

Tara went back to Derek's room and put her arms around him in a tight hug. Derek had
just about fallen asleep, and he resisted the hug sleepily. Her face started to shed some
tears, and she held him all the tighter. She finally laid him back down and stroked his
hair, watching him sleep peaceably. Unlike the scene in the bedroom, this was a complex
array of emotions -- her loss of me tied in with her connection with Derek, as if he was a
reminder of me as a little boy. I watched her face and actions in a kind of fascination.

Richard didn't come in.

Several minutes later Tara got up and quietly went back to the bedroom. She picked up
the phone and dialed a familiar number: Dave's. He picked up.


"Dave, it's Tara."

There was a slight pause; I was getting a lot of that tonight.

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"Hey, how are you doing?" Dave replied in a soft voice. It was not the voice of someone
talking to the sister of a friend; it sounded more like a lover's voice. Maybe it was Dave's
flirting voice, used indiscriminately.

"Dave, Mike's been shot. My parents just called me." Tears started flowing down Tara's
face again. It was odd that she would allow this with Dave, but not Richard.

"Shot? Are you sure? How? When?"

"I don't know, I don't know," she sobbed.

"My God, Tara," he said. "Where is he?"

She told him what little my parents had been able to tell her, and they discussed whether
he should join my parents. I didn't understand why that was a big deal. He was my best
friend; it was natural that the family would call him. They cautiously agreed it would be

I stayed at Tara's house for a couple more hours. Tara and Richard watched the news
numbly, not making conversation. My parents called back a couple of times with
updates, and told her I'd been pronounced dead. Tara cried, while Richard watched her
almost resentfully. . I'd always known he was a cold son of a bitch, but this kind of
behavior was shocking to me anyway. His wife's brother gets killed, and there's no hug,
there are no soothing words? Throughout the entire evening Richard hadn't touched Tara
even once -- no hug, no attempts at comforting her, just that one grab of her elbow at the
doorway. He must have disliked me even more than I disliked him.

When they retired for the evening, I got another surprise; they slept in separate bedrooms.
I probably shouldn't have been so surprised; the way they acted tonight must have as
much to do with their feelings for each other as for Richard's feelings towards me. I
wondered how long they'd been sleeping apart.

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I got to thinking about the telephone conversation between Dave and Tara, and the more I
thought about it, the odder it seemed. I thought of a good way to check something out…

…I switched to Dave's car, on his way to my house that day after I got shot. Tara was
next to him, as they had volunteered to go together. I hadn't really given it a second
thought at the time, but now it seemed important.

Tara gripped Dave's hand.

"What are we going to do?" she asked.

"I don't know, Tara," Dave replied. "We have to get through these next few days first.
After that…"

They didn't say much else, just held hands on the ride. That seemed unusual but not
necessarily telling; they had known each other a long time, and both were in grief. They
could just be talking about life generally. Still, it heightened my suspicions. They
disengaged their hands before getting out of the car, and walked up to my door. Tara
unlocked it with my parents' keys.

My house was a very 1950's ranch house, in a very 1950's development. Of course, when
it was built, this was the suburbs, but now was considered part of the city. It was an
eclectic neighborhood -- families, young married duos, older couples who had been there
since it had been built, and singles like myself who wanted that not-too-big first house.
The houses were smaller than people liked nowadays, but they were just right to me. I
liked the quiet of the neighborhood, and I could imagine having grown up here. Plus, it
was ten minutes to downtown, ten minutes to Elizabeth's, and twenty or so minutes to my
parents' house.

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I had liked my house. Friends of mine, like Dave and Tonya -- who had opted for a
condo or townhouse lifestyle -- made fun of me at first. Why, they asked knowingly,
would I want to have to take care of a yard, or to do house upkeep and such? But I liked
having that little piece of land, had enjoyed my little space from the neighbors. It took
me most of the time I'd lived there to get it furnished in every room. Even now, Elizabeth
and my family told me it was too spare. I didn't have a lot of furniture, and didn't have
much on the walls and such. I wasn't big on knick-knacks; no vases for me. But it was
just right for me. I had my little den, with the big screen TV and my big stuffed recliner;
I had my sound system wired throughout the house. I had room for all my books,
scattered throughout the house. You couldn't go into a room without there being a
bookcase of some kind.

It had made coming home special. I missed being there on the times I stayed at
Elizabeth's. I missed it now.

Dave and Tara went through the house quietly. Knowing I was dead, they treated the
house like it had already become a tomb, quiet and kind of creepy. It was kind of creepy;
even as a ghost, I was a little spooked. I was used to coming into my house as a person.
I would never come back into it like that again. I would never take a shower here again,
never sleep in my bed, never watch TV from my chair. The life had gone out of the

No wonder they didn't talk much. They just tried to complete their task of getting my
address books and other useful lists as quickly and as quietly as they could, evidently
hoping not to wake up whatever spirits might be dwelling in the house, even if I was
among them. I wondered what Mike Finley they had seen in that house, and if it was any
different now that I was gone. Was the house just a continuation of her younger brother's
room, on a larger scale, to Tara? Was I the same person Dave had seen in so many dorms
and apartments over the years? Do we ever outgrow people's notions of us, so that they
see us for ourselves, and not just who we have been?

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Of course, maybe all we are is who we've been. That was sobering to me, given the past
these two had witnessed me in.

Tara paused to look at a photo collage on the wall. My mother loved to make these,
recycling our old photos into decorations for Tara's and my houses. This particular one
had pictures from high school and college.

"Look at you two," Tara said admiringly. The photo had all three of us, in bathing suits.
It had been taken at the lake the summer after my senior year in high school. "You look
so young."

"You weren't an old hag yourself," Dave complimented her, coming over to stand beside
her at the collage. "God, you're gorgeous. I had a crush on you even then." Tara smiled.

Eh? A crush "even then"? What was going on here? Was I in some weird sort of parallel
universe where something was going on between Dave and my sister? I had a hard time
imagining my sister as anyone Dave would be interested in.

"So why did it take so many years?" Tara asked. Now her voice took on the tone of a
lover, wanting a well-worn, comforting reply to a question asked and answered many

Dave smiled tenderly. "Because I was a jerk, and you were my best friend's sister. I had
to wait until it was too late and you were taken."

"I had a crush on you then, too," Tara admitted quietly.

Dave put on a look of mock seriousness. "So why didn't you do anything about it either?
Why didn't you wait for me?"

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"Because you were my kid brother's best friend," she said tartly. "Besides, you had your
hands full of those other girls. I never figured you'd give me a second look."

They looked at each other with deep affection, and ended up hugging each other. They
finally broke apart from the embrace, Tara sniffing and blurting out a quick laughing to
cover her embarrassment, Dave hanging his head. They drove back to my parents' house,
hand in hand again.

Chapter 23

So I had my first mystery to try to unravel, and I went at it gamely. When and how did
they get involved?

I started by checking on Dave every weekend night for the last few years. That sounds
like it would take a long time, but I was learning that the concept of taking a long time
was meaningless; time was whatever I wanted to be. I could live his life at the same pace
as him, I could check in every hour, or at any other interval I wished. And it made no
difference on the passage of time in the "current" day, i.e., life post-shooting.

What I was curious about was what his romantic life really was.

I was quite surprised. Yes, he went out with a lot of women. However, this was just for
show. Many of them initiated the idea, although some he did ask out. But none lasted
more than a few dates, and none of them he got serious about. At the time I had imagined
Dave was living this wild, sybaritic life, sleeping with any number of attractive women.
My friends and I envied him his charm and his lifestyle, and kidded him about all those

In fact, I was now discovering, the truth was both more sedate and more interesting. He
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efforts. I would have been stunned to know that had I not already known about Tara, and
had I not seen him turn Donna away. He was dating these other women to cover his
interest in my married sister.

I'd gone back about two years before I found the old Dave that I thought I'd known. He
really was, at one time, the lady-killer I'd thought he was. Something had changed that. I
started going day-by-day after that, going forward in time to spot when he had

I found out eventually, although it took a lot of watching. One morning at work Dave got
a call from Tara. "Dave, would you like to have lunch?" To himself, Dave smiled,
thought for a second, and agreed.

They met at a busy restaurant near Dave's office. It was a typical office lunch joint --
ferns, burgers, salads and peppy waiters. There was a steady stream of hungry patrons
crowding in and out around noontime. It was like watching hungry animals at the zoo at
feeding time. Dave and Tara met in the lobby, and quickly got a table. They made small
talk, catching up on everyone's lives. Dave had shared my fondness for Derek, and so it
seemed natural for him to ask for a Derek update.

Tara paused unexpectedly. "Well, that's what I wanted to talk to you about, actually."
Dave looked puzzled. Tara seemed to have second thoughts about what she wanted to
say, then took a deep breath and plowed ahead.

"Dave, I'm not blaming you for what happened. We were both adults, and I was as
responsible for it as you were. I'd been wanting you for so long that I just didn't think of
the consequences that night."

That night? What night? Obviously, I had more research to do. Dave looked puzzled

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"But there were consequences," she continued. Dave still wasn't sure what she was trying
to say.

"Tara, I've tried to be good," Dave said. "I've tried to act natural around you, and I
haven't suggested we do anything…"

"Dave," Tara interrupted, "I'm not blaming you. I'm really not.

It's just, well, I'm not happy in my life. I'm married to a man whom I don't love. I'm
married to a man that I don't think is good for my son."

Good! So I wasn't the only one who thought that! Tara was smarter than I'd realized.

Dave viewed her somberly, not sure what to say. That was all right; Tara had her own
plans for the conversation.

"It might be different if Richard was Derek's father," Tara said deliberately.

Excuse me? I thought I just heard Tara say Richard wasn't Derek's father.

"Excuse me?" Dave said, as if to repeat my silent question.

Tara looked at Dave with wet eyes. "He's your son, Dave. Not Richard's. It was that one
night, and we got lucky. Or unlucky, however you want to see it." She looked at him
steadily through the tears.

Now, Dave and I had talked about our views on marriage, fatherhood, all that. If
Elizabeth thought I was resistant, she only had to look at Dave to see how much worse I
could have been. Dave had always been the original confirmed bachelor.

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"So -- what do you want to do about it?" Dave asked, after taking a few seconds to
process this information. Given the circumstances, I thought he was taking it rather well.

"I don't know, Dave," Tara replied. "But I need to know this. Just tell me the truth; don't
worry about hurting my feelings. Do you love me?"

Dave tilted his head slightly to consider the question. His forehead wrinkled slightly in
thought. I knew Dave, and I was running through the possible outs he might use to let
her down gently. He knew this was a question to be taken seriously and answered
carefully. One thing about Dave; he never lied to the women he dated, never told them
he loved them if he didn't or that there was a future if there wasn't. As reprobate as he
might be in many ways, that wasn't one of them. He thought for what seemed like a long
time, looking at her intently.

"I do, Tara," he finally said. "I want to be with you. I want Derek to know he is my son."

I didn't know who was more surprised, Tara or me. Maybe Dave. One thing was for
sure; their world wasn't going to be the same.

I thought about how I'd have reacted in a similar situation. What if, for example, Alicia
had shown up with a child, and told me that he or she was ours? Or what if Elizabeth had
told me she was pregnant?

You like to think you'd do the right thing, of course, but you never rally know until you
face it. It's like soldiers in battle -- the guys who are the best in training sometimes turn
out to be cowards, while it is those meek ones who end up the heroes. I didn't want to be
either a coward, or a hero. I wanted to believe that I'd have accepted the responsibility of
being an unexpected father if it had faced me -- but I wasn't sure. Too much of me liked
things just fine the way they were. I was afraid I'd have shrugged off my involvement,
maybe even questioned the paternity.

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The only thing I was sure of was that I admired Dave. No hesitation, no doubt. He stood
up to that plate and faced it, knowing it would change everything in his life.

Later, of course, I realized I could just find out what other versions of me had done; in
some worlds, in other realities, I had been put into those situations. I could have found
versions where I'd acted nobly. The thing was, I didn't want to find out how common --
or uncommon -- that was. I didn't want to see even one me turning the mother of my
child away for fear of disrupting my life.

From that point in time, I retraced forward the next couple of years more carefully than I
had come back. I was curious when they had managed to make time for each other.
They were quite creative, seeing each other when they could -- lunches, Finley family
events that I invited Dave to, an occasional rendezvous at Dave's condo. They'd slip a
quick kiss, a hug or touch of the hands, and occasionally even be able to make love. They
talked furtively on the phone, Tara often calling from her solitary bedroom late at night. I
liked to watch them make eye contact across rooms, reminding each other that they were
there and thinking of the other. No one was the wiser; the me of that time certainly was

They agreed Dave should keep up the pretense of dating; there would be too many
questions otherwise. Tara even gamely told Dave that if he found someone else he was
interested in, he was free to pursue it.

"After all," she said sadly, "you deserve a woman you can have a life with." Dave smiled
at her and told her to be serious; he was in love with her.

They discussed divorce, of course. Tara was scared of how Richard would react, how he
might retaliate. She told Dave she couldn't bear the thought of Richard taking custody of
Derek away from her. "He'd do it, too, just to get back at me."

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So they bided their time, each living a pretend life, and trying to figure out what to do.
Over the last few months, though, their conversations had taken on a more hopeful tone.
Tara believed that Richard was having an affair with one of the secretaries at work, and
was getting annoyed about their separate lives under one roof. He had tentatively
broached the subject of divorce. Dave and Tara began to start talking about a life

Then I got shot.

That was going to be a problem, I could see. My parents were distraught enough.
Having their little girl tell them that her husband wasn't the father of their grandchild, and
that she wanted to take up with the real father, my best friend whom they'd known and
trusted -- well, it sounded iffy even to me. And I was dead.

I checked up on Richard too. Tara was right; he was having an affair at work. She was a
junior partner, and I figured out pretty easily that she saw this as a way to get ahead in the
firm faster. Poor Richard actually thought she was in love with him, but he didn't hear
the things she said behind his back that I was able to listen in on.

It turned out that she wasn't the first. I managed to find at least six women he'd had some
involvement with while he was married to Tara, and I wasn't sure that was all. Plus, it
looked to me that he had started wooing her at work because he knew she'd be tough
competition for him at the firm. He was thrilled when she told him that she was
expecting, and wanted to switch to a smaller practice so she could control her hours more
easily to be with Derek. It never occurred to Richard to suspect he wasn't the father; they
were still sleeping together then, although not often. It wasn't until after Derek that they
started sleeping in separate rooms.

Richard also was playing for higher stakes. He was siphoning off money from both
clients and the firm. He had a couple of offshore accounts that I caught him checking,
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that Richard was planning to run off, with the new bimbo and with his and Tara's money.
Knowing him, he probably had some scheme to implicate someone else in whatever
illegal things he'd done; for all I knew, he was going to put the blame on Tara.

I'd never liked Richard, and my parents had tolerated him, more out of faith that Tara
knew what she was doing than anything else. I didn't know what Tara had been thinking,
especially as he'd grown colder and more distant to her. She was probably desperately
hoping that charming, smart guy who'd pursued her initially would resurface, never
knowing that was an act and that this jerk was, indeed, the real guy.

I couldn't do anything about it.

Chapter 24

Alicia's calendar on her refrigerator had indicated that she'd be back Saturday afternoon,
and I wanted to be there when she got back. It's funny; I could have skipped ahead to
then when I'd been checking up on everyone else, but I was still skittish about going
"ahead" in time. Going back to previous days seemed all right, even normal now; how
soon I'd adjusted! But skipping forward to days I'd not "lived" or experienced still
seemed uncomfortable. In any event, now it was time, in "their" world, for Alicia to get
back. I went to her condo.

I had been sitting at her desk for an hour or so when I heard the door unlock and open.
Alicia came in with the guy from her photographs, a rangy dude with longish hair. They
came in laughing and carrying their bags from the trip. Both looked tired but tanned and
still excited. Knowing Alicia, I suspected that their trip had included not just white water
rafting but also mountain biking, swimming, and a host of other athletic activities. I got
tired just thinking about it.

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I saw Alicia eyeing the answer machine, its light blinking away furiously. Her friend
caught the look too.

"You said a full week, Alicia," he reminded her. "That'd be three o'clock -- another two
hours." She stuck her tongue out at him.

"So how do you want to spend those two hours?" she said, maneuvering closer to him

"Oh, I don't know," he wondered disingenuously, "let's see. We could dust, or read old
magazines or…"

"Come on, Tom," she laughed, dragging him by his shirt towards the bedroom, "I think
first we need a long shower, then we'll see what happens." He didn't resist too hard.

I knew where this was going, and had no real interest in watching. I reappeared at three.

They were sitting at the kitchen counter, finishing off bowls of ice cream. Alicia had on a
light robe, while Tom had on some boxers and a T-shirt. They each still had on their
fancy sports watches, with the various buttons and readouts. Alicia always liked gadgets.
Apparently they didn't remove them even for sex; perhaps that was just another aerobic
exercise for them, and they wanted to monitor their pulse rates or something during it. I
bet Tom's had been racing. The alarm on Tom's watch beeped at three o'clock.

"All right," he said, "the lady wins a prize. You may now return to the world."

Alicia hit the play button on her answering machine. It solemnly informed her that she
had twenty-seven messages. She dutifully took out a pad of paper, while Tom got up and
headed towards the refrigerator.

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I didn't recognize the first few messages, left last weekend. There were a couple
messages from Monday that sounded like work-related. Then in the midst of Tuesday's

"Hello, Alicia?" Dave's voice said. "This is Dave D'Angelo. I don't know if you
remember me or not; I'm Mike Finley's friend. We met a few times in college. Anyway,
could you call me? It's important." Dave left his number.

"Who is Dave D'Angelo?" Tom asked before the next message kicked in.

"He's a friend of the guy I dated in law school," Alicia said, half-listening to the next
message. "I wonder if Mike's getting married."

"Wouldn't he have called you himself?" Tom pointed out, pouring them each some water.

"Mmm," Alicia agreed distractedly, listening to the next message.

Then, several messages and an elapsed day later. "Alicia, it's Dave D'Angelo again.
Look, it's really important you call me back. I don't have your work number or I'd call
you there. Please give me a call back as soon as you can."

"He sounds kind of pushy," Tom judged.

"That's not how I remember Dave," Alicia noted. "I wonder what he wants."

Then, several messages later: "Uh, Alicia, it's Casey." Casey was one of my college
friends who did make it out to the funeral. "Listen, I'm not sure if Dave D'Angelo got a
hold of you or not. Mike Finley is dead. The viewing is tomorrow, and the funeral is
Friday. Bob and I are going out and we were wondering if you wanted to go with us."

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Alicia was taken aback. She replayed the message. Tom stopped what he was doing to
watch her reaction.

"My God," she exclaimed. "Dead? I can't believe it."

She skipped ahead to see what further news she could find. A few messages later Dave
reappeared, telling her outright why he was calling. He also gave her the times and
places for the viewing and the service. "I hope you can make it," Dave concluded. "I'm
sure it would have meant a lot to Mike."

Alicia stared at the phone. Tom stared carefully at her, standing across from her at the
kitchen counter.

"So, a college boyfriend?" Tom probed carefully. "Had you guys stayed in touch?"

Alicia looked up at him, slightly surprised he was there. "What? Oh, yeah. No, law
school, not college; he was at Wharton at the same time. We kept in touch for a while,
but we'd sort of lost touch lately."

Had we? If you'd had asked me that before the shooting, I'd have said we were still in
touch. But, then again, Tom's existence was a complete unknown to me, and evidently
Alicia didn't think we were really still in touch. When was the last time I'd talked to her?
When was the last time I'd actually seen her?

I guess we had been out of touch after all.

Tom and Alicia were quiet for a few moments, their kitchen tableau unchanged. Tom
broke the ice.

"You OK?" he asked lightly. "Is this a big deal?"

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Alicia brushed some hair off her forehead. "It's more a surprise than anything else," she
answered. "I get involved with murders every day at work, but I wasn't expecting it to
happen to one of my friends."

Tom looked at her. "Is that all?" he probed carefully. "You over him?"

Alicia gave him one of her patented 'are-you-crazy?' looks. "It's been six years. Of
course I'm over him."

Tom seemed satisfied. Alicia seemed content to put it behind her. I was the only one
who seemed dissatisfied with her statement. They listened to the rest of their messages.

I stuck around for awhile, but they behaved pretty normally. Alicia left a message for
Dave, explaining she'd been out of town and apologizing for not getting back to him
sooner. She still didn't seem grief stricken to me. They went out to dinner. I like to think
that Alicia seemed distracted, at least by Alicia standards, but I wasn't sure. And she had
a lot of messages to process; I wasn't entirely confident that any distraction she was
feeling was due to me.

Tom didn't bring it up at dinner, content to let dead boyfriends lie.

"Kind of a kick in the head, isn't it?" Ishmael said, appearing next to me. "Doesn't seem
to be too big a deal with her."

"What are you doing here?" I said in amazement. "How did you know I'd be here?"

He laughed. "Oh, you had to show up here sooner or later. I knew you'd be curious
about which of the women in your life were crushed." He looked over at Alicia, back at
the condo loading some dirty vacation clothes into the washing machine. "This one looks
OK, though."

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"I guess so," I said glumly. "It was a long time ago, I suppose."

"You know," he said conspiratorially, "pretty soon everything about you will seem like a
long time ago to everyone. Are you ready for that?"

I stared at him in reproach. "Everyone forgets me? My dying doesn't matter to anyone?"

He put out his hands in a soothing gesture. "That's not what I said, and you know it. But
you do have to realize that this was your life. It's just part of theirs. And your part in
everyone else's life is over."

I turned away and watched Alicia. "Well, I guess I lost her a long time ago."

Ishmael snorted. "You didn't lose her. You threw her away."

I whipped my head back towards him, offended. "What the hell does that mean?"

He rolled his eyes. "Oh, come on, Michael," he admonished. "You know she would have
stayed with the relationship even after you moved. And she would have worked at it.
You're the one who broke it off."

"I was moving!" I protested. "We weren't going to be living anywhere near each other."

He just stared at me skeptically. I boiled for a few seconds, then subsided. "You're
right," I admitted. "It just seemed like it would be too much work." I hung my head

"Same thing with Frank Jerome, too," he said. "He just wanted that job more than you
did. It's not his fault you let him get those contacts instead of you, or that he cared more
about advancing than you did." I eyed him dubiously.

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"What do you mean?" I protested feebly. "I cared."

"You never really cared about your career," he contradicted me confidently. "You just
had jobs. You never really thought ahead to where it was going or what you wanted."

I wasn't going to admit it to him, but he was right -- damn him! I was good at my job,
good at all the jobs I'd had. I enjoyed figuring things out, and I did pretty well at work.
My bosses always gave me the harder projects, things that took some creativity and
research. But that wasn't the same as always giving me the promotions. I'd seen some of
my one-time peers get promoted ahead of me -- like Frank -- or go off into our
subsidiaries or to other companies, trying new and exciting things. More than once I'd
been urged to join them, to take a chance and do something different. But I was doing all
right where I was, and I kind of liked knowing I could leave by six every night. I didn't
really want to wrap my whole lifestyle around my job.

"In fact," he continued, "you better get used to it. You let a lot of things just slide away
from you. That job, Alicia, Tonya. If you'd lived you probably would have let Dave and
even Elizabeth slip away from you too. Things just came too easily for you."

"I don't even know how to respond to something like that," I blurted out. "I cared about
things. I cared about those people. They cared about me! I wasn't a failure."

He smiled sympathetically. "Hey, you're a nice guy," he said. "Of course they cared
about you. I never said they didn't. I never said you didn't care about them. I never even
said you didn't work at anything. Yeah, you were pretty successful by lots of people's

I just said you had this bad habit of letting the things you had slip away, confident that
something new would come along to take its place. And, when it comes right down to it,
what did you leave behind?"

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I wasn't going to admit it to him, now or ever, but -- he was right. I'd never really grown
up, not to the point when I realized that the world had limits and that some of things I
already had were as valuable as I was going to get. So I'd let them go, not worrying
about replacing them. And now I was in a place where everything was going to slip away
from me. I was a ghost watching the ghost-like life I'd led while I was alive -- passing
through, but not really connecting with the people and things around me. It had all been
too easy, and I'd taken it too, too casually.

Chapter 25

Tonya. I wanted to see how Tonya reacted to my death. I made a difference to her, I was
sure. I wanted to see someone who was affected by my departure.

Tonya had worked late that Monday night. At the time I was off getting shot, I found her
at work, joking with some programmers and working at her computer. She stayed an
hour or so after that, looking tired but cheerful as she shut down her computer for the
night. I rode with her as she drove home, listening to a loud band, the music pulsing out
a loud beat and her hand idly moving with it.

She went up to her condo and flipped on some lights. She eyed the television, but
evidently decided against it. Instead, she took a long bath and went to bed, where she
read for an hour or so before turning off the lights and going to sleep.

She looked so peaceful in her sleep, that impish grin of hers absent as she lay silently on
her stomach, head turned to the side. Tonya liked to sleep close, burying her head
between my shoulder and the pillow, like she was burrowing her head in the ground.
Oddly, it felt like I was protecting her, and in sleep was the only time I got to feel that

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Elizabeth, as I'd said, liked to sleep front-to-back, my arms around her and holding her
close. I didn't know which I liked better; they were each special in their own ways. But I
felt I belonged in Elizabeth's bed, whereas I'd never gotten over the feeling that I was just
a visitor to Tonya's. It was nothing she said, nothing she did; I just never understood why
she had taken to me.

The phone startled both of us. It was sometime after midnight. I had the advantage of at
least having a pretty good idea of why someone might be calling her this late -- although,
with Tonya, there might be lots of people who called her late. It wouldn't have surprised

Tonya woke, checked the clock, and picked up the phone with a self-satisfied grin.

"Hey, handsome," she started off, "I thought you were going to be with the girl tonight."

There was a dead silence at the other end of the phone. Of course! Tonya had thought it
was me. I sometimes called her late. She must be wondering why I'd be calling her
instead of staying over at Elizabeth's -- and not just a little pleased that I had.

This wasn't me, of course. "Umm, Tonya, it's Dave D'Angelo."

"Dave? Well, this is a surprise," Tonya said easily. "To what do I owe this honor?"

Dave paused again. "Umm, gee, Tonya, I don't know how to tell you this…"

"Tell me what?" Tonya interrupted, scrambling to a sitting position and pulling her legs
up against her chest. "What's happened?"

"It's Mike, Tonya," Dave said dejectedly. "He was shot and killed tonight."

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Unseen to Dave, but visible to me, Tonya's face showed horror and surprise. Her eyes
went wide, and the color drained from that pretty face. She put her hand over her mouth,
while gripping the phone tighter with her other hand.

"Tonya, are you there?" Dave asked after a few seconds of silence.

"Yes, yes, I'm here," she said, recovering marginally. "My God! What happened?"

"They were out to dinner and I guess it was just a random sniper. No one else got hurt.
Tara called me and I went to the hospital, but Mike was already dead."

"My God, my God, my God." Tonya repeated incredulously. "How are Mike's parents?"

"Well, it hit them pretty hard, as you can imagine."

"Oh, boy, I can't even imagine," Tonya muttered. She thought for a minute, her eyes
roving as that quick mind of hers processed the news. "How about you? How are you

"Me?" Dave repeated. "I don't know. It doesn't seem very real to me. It's kind of like
getting into a fight -- you won't know how bad you're hurt until you wake up the next day.
But it's going to be bad."

They were both silent for a few seconds. Tonya was the first to break the quiet.

"And Elizabeth?" she asked slowly. "How is she doing?"

Dave considered this. I thought he was thinking both of what the correct answer was, and
how to say it to Tonya. He'd always liked Tonya, and knew I was still close to her. But
he probably wasn't too sure how the two of them felt about each other.

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"She's…well, she's taking it hard."

"Does she…" Tonya searched for the right words, "does she have anyone to be with

Dave laughed mirthlessly, an odd reaction, I thought. "No, she's alone, as far as I know.
Mike's parents offered to have her stay with them, as did Janet and Paul, and so did I.
But you know Elizabeth -- she prefers to be alone."

I thought it odd, the way he said that. Why did he think Elizabeth was like that? Even if
she was, why did he think Tonya knew Elizabeth well enough to know that?

And, more to the point, was Elizabeth like that?

I naturally thought I knew Elizabeth as well as anyone else. She hadn't been involved
with too many guys before me, yet hadn't seemed too worried about it -- not like some
other women I knew; Donna, for example. It was true that Elizabeth seemed as content
to be by herself -- drawing or just tending to her house -- as to be with anyone else.
That's one reason our separate existences worked so well. When we did things, I felt
curiously flattered; she wasn't making time for me because she wanted to be with
someone, she was making time for me because she wanted to be with me. Still, she had
other friends too -- Donna and Janet, and a few others. It wasn't like she was a recluse or
anything. Yet Dave seemed to think of her like that.

That was pretty much it for the conversation with Dave. He asked if she was going to be
all right, and she told him she would be. They promised to talk again in the morning,
when Dave might know more about the arrangements.

Tonya put the phone down carefully, as though it was the bomb itself instead of just the
shell that had delivered the bomb. Her eyes looked distant, but I could tell she was

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thinking hard. She abruptly got up and got dressed, throwing on some shorts and a loose
polo shirt. She grabbed her keys and headed out.

This was curious, I thought. Where would she go, who would she see, after getting news
like this? I thought back to that unidentified caller when I was spying on her on her
balcony, several days from now. It must be a new boyfriend, or the closest warm body.
At least I'd get to see whom Tonya turned to for comfort these days.

I rode with her in her car. She drove fast but only paid minimal attention to the road.
There were not many cars out; we had the streets largely to ourselves. I just watched that
gorgeous face of hers, intent on whatever was going on behind that skin covering, so I
was surprised when we pulled up to our destination.

It was my house.

Tonya still had keys from when we were together; I still had keys to her place, too. It
might not have been a good idea, letting your ex-lover have keys to your house, but we
just never got around to exchanging them. It was easier than that awful scene of asking
for them back. Sometimes they came in handy, such as when one of us needed to drop
something off at the other's place or something.

She unlocked the door and went in. It was dark, of course, except for the living room
light with the timer on it. Tonya didn't turn on any more lights. She wandered around the
house, her hand tracing along the walls and furniture as she moved slowly throughout the
rooms. It was as if that hand, that connection to the physical things in my house, helped
her feel a connection to me.

Tonya paused in front of several pictures, looking fondly at the ones of me and curiously
at the ones with Elizabeth. I'd taken all the ones of Tonya down, of course -- no point
risking Elizabeth's ire with those! -- and I wondered if Tonya felt their absence. She
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a clock there, a toy or two, some antique pottery that she collected -- and held them in her
hand, hefting their weight.

She stopped in front of the television. I'd set the VCR to tape a couple of programs that
were on while I expected to be out with Elizabeth, and the indicator light was blinking its
need for recognition. Tonya smiled briefly, and rewound the tape. She sat down in my
recliner and turned on the TV. With a fond look on her face, she fast-forwarded to see
what programs I'd recorded. I was sorry that they weren't more enlightened; I wasn't
recording the History Channel here. All right, "The Simpsons" will someday be
recognized as high art, but many people still think of it as a cartoon. I had no excuse for
the cheesy "Nash Bridges" rerun. Hey, I like Cheech Marin, what can I say? Clucking
her tongue in amusement about my choices, Tonya turned off the TV and started
wandering idly through the rest of the house again.

I wasn't sure what she was thinking. She made her way through the house, her
expression never showing more than a slight smile or a slight frown. The last room on
this tour was my bedroom. She stood across the room from the bed, standing in the
doorway as if held back by an invisible rope. Fortunately, I'd made my bed that morning.

Tonya cocked her head and a sweet smile spread across her face. Memories of our times
here, our times in this and other beds, must have been whirling in her head.

"Mick, Mick," she said quietly. "Why did you have to go and get yourself killed?"

She walked over to the bed and sat down, her feet primly hanging down the side. She
looked around the room once more, the trace of a smile still playing across her face. It
was almost unbearable to watch her; I knew she shouldn't be there, but it was so bold, so
typically Tonya, to have come that it made me smile too.

Then she shed her clothes and slipped under the covers.

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That surprised me. I hadn't known exactly why she'd wanted to come see my house, but
had concluded she wanted that last look at my house, that last memory of where I lived. I
hadn't expected this.

Tonya clutched the pillow like she was holding me for the last time; it was a life
preserver keeping the memory of me afloat. She nosed her face into the sheets, the
pillow, the bed coverings, trying to get a scent. She molded herself into the slight
indentation where I usually slept. And, in the end, tears started to slide down her face, at

"I waited, Mick," she said. "I waited and waited, but you didn't come…"

I became aware of a presence next to me. Ishmael looked over at me silently. He nodded
in recognition.

"Surprised?" he asked. "She loved you, you know."

"What are you doing here?" I asked defensively. Somehow this scene seemed too
poignant, and too personal, for a stranger like Ishmael to witness. If I was going to learn
that Tonya still loved me like this, I should have been able to do it by myself. He was, I
thought bitterly, as much of a voyeur of my ghost-life as I was of the mortals' real lives. I
didn't like it.

"Relax," he said, noticing my reaction to his presence. "I've seen all this before. Your
life has no surprises for me."

"Why are you so wrapped up with my life? Aren't there other people you can spy on?"

He smiled at me comfortingly. "Well, I watch a lot of people's lives. But, the difference
is, you're the only one who is here to watch it with me. It is nice to be able to talk to
someone about what I see…"

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That was the second hint of frailty that Ishmael had shown to me. I thought about how
lonely his existence must have been, spending lifetimes and lifetimes with no one else to
talk to. Maybe having him present for some of these little revelations in my life wasn't so

"I'm sorry," I said. "It just seemed pretty personal." He nodded in agreement, my
apology accepted. We both turned back to watching Tonya. She had fallen asleep, her
face half hidden under that pillow. All the tableau was missing was my body.

"I didn't know she cared this much," I admitted. "I never figured her out, if she was just
playing with me or not."

"Why didn't you stay with her longer?" Ishmael asked, turning briefly to look at me.
"She seems pretty great."

"I don't know," I stalled. "She was gorgeous, and lots of fun, but we kept fighting and
breaking up."

"You kept getting back together too," he noted. I turned my head towards him briefly,
then looked back at Tonya sleeping.

"There was just, I don't know…," I thought out loud, "…too much drama. She liked the
fighting and the making up. I was never sure what was real and what was playing. I
guess I just got tired of the ups and downs."

"She spent a lot of time on you," he said calmly. "Even after you broke it off. She could
have found lots of other guys. Didn't you ever wonder about that?"

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I wasn't sure how to respond. "I suppose I figured she was seeing other people, but just
didn't find anyone she wanted to be serious about. I thought she just liked having me as a

He nodded sagely.

"Would we…have been happy together?" I asked tentatively. He looked over at me and

"I told you, the future is a tricky thing. There are lots of possible futures, just as there are
lots of possible paths." He was trying to get off the hook, but I was unable to let him go.

"But, still, you must know. Could we have made it together?"

He looked seriously at me for a few seconds, making a decision. Then, sighing, he took
my arm. "All right, let's see."

The scene was a house in one of the older neighborhoods near downtown, not too far to
Elizabeth's. Most of the houses had been built in the 1920s and 1930s, and well
maintained. The lots were small; the ambiance, yuppie. Ishmael and I were standing
outside of a two-story house with a tidy yard and a plot of flowers along the walk.

"Where is this?" I asked. He indicated for me to watch.

The front door opened, and I walked out. I wasn't sure how old I was, but I didn't look
too much older. Behind me came a radiant Tonya. We were both laughing and carrying

"…I am not wearing those stupid helmets," the other me warned the other Tonya. She
laughed, and told him with mock sternness, "You better not injure any vital body parts,
Michael Q. Finley. I have big plans for them later!"

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They got in the car and drove off. We watched them go.

"You two have been married three years," Ishmael told me, reciting as if from memory.
He turned towards me, while I continued to watch that car drive off, its inhabitants
blissfully unaware of us standing there. "You'll have a kid in another year, then a second
two years later. A boy and a girl. You and Tonya stay married until you die, a happy

I was taken aback. "So she was the one I was supposed to be with? I wasted all that

Ishmael shook his head with concern. "I warned you, it's not that simple. Let me show

We were in a condominium. Its balcony showed a nice view of the river; it was still here,
just downtown, in the high rent district. The condo's furnishings were simple but pricey;
this was all pretty expensive. It wasn't quite my style, but it was something I could have

"Where are we now?" I asked cautiously. Ishmael indicated I should check out the
bedroom. I walked back, passing two smaller but well-decorated bedrooms and a fully
equipped study. I felt like I was in a set from some posh home furnishings magazine.

In bed, still asleep, were Alicia and I. We were wrapped up in each other, and -- judging
from the disarray of the clothes on the floor -- we'd fallen asleep after rushing to bed to
make love.

"Whose place is this?" I wanted to know. "Is Alicia visiting?"

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"Nope," Ishmael replied, gazing at the sleeping couple with affection. "Alicia lives here,
with you."

"What happened to Philadelphia, her job, her family?"

"You and she did the long distance thing for a couple years, then she couldn't take it
anymore and she moved out here."

I was stunned. "I never thought she'd move," I said, more to myself than to him. "What
happens in this life?"

He smiled, happy to give me a preview. "Oh, Alicia eventually becomes the District
Attorney, and you become a wealthy businessman. She turns down several chances to
run for Congress because she doesn't want to be away from you so much. You two stay
together, are on the boards of everything, and retire to South Carolina to play golf."

"No kids?"

"No, no kids," he said. "Alicia had problems getting pregnant."

That damn runners' metabolism, I thought to myself. Still, this life looked pretty good.

"So which life was I supposed to live?" I asked in confusion. "Both of these look pretty
happy. Is there one of these were I'm more in love, or happier, or something?"

He shook his head in discouragement. "You still aren't getting it. I can show you a happy
life with Elizabeth too, or with women you haven't even met yet. I could show you
unhappy lives with each of them too. There's no one 'right' life; there's not just one best
outcome. It all comes down to the choices you make. Or the choices you don't make."

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I thought for awhile, admittedly still partly entranced by the sight of those sleeping
lovers, one of whom was me or someone I might have become. It was just too confusing;
there were too many choices, too many possibilities.

"What happens in the life I knew, now?" I asked carefully. "You're talking about lives I
didn't have, choices I didn't make. What happens to the people in my life now, after the
things that did happen to me?"

Chapter 26

Ishmael looked uncomfortable, which didn't fit his image. I thought I was supposed to be
the uncomfortable one and him the unflappable teacher. After all, I was the newly dead
neophyte ghost and he was the experienced haunter. He looked a bit haunted now

"Come on," I pushed. "Tell me."

"It's complicated, I've told you," he hedged. "It could go lots of ways. There's no one
future." He shifted his weight uneasily, and looked like he wanted to change subjects,
perhaps even to leave. But he did neither.

"But there's one future that's more likely," I guessed. "Right?" He nodded reluctantly.

The concern hit me suddenly. I'd seen Alicia and Tonya happy, but I'd forgotten about
someone more important.

"What happens to Elizabeth?"

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He grimaced, as though he'd been afraid I'd ask that. He looked away, and I again
thought he might be thinking of disappearing on me. I was in no mood for more
unanswered mysteries.

"Come on, you might as well show me," I pressured him, "I can find it for myself
eventually, so you'd just be saving me some time." He looked at me almost regretfully,
then nodded almost imperceptibly.

We were standing in Elizabeth's house, only things looked different. Same house, but
older somehow. There were different photographs, different furniture. Some of the
walls were painted a different color, some of the fixtures were new since I'd last seen the
place, but mostly things were just worn down. It looked to me like it needed lots of
work, and the owner either didn't see it or just didn't care enough to have it done. The
Elizabeth I'd known wouldn't have allowed that; she would have been on the spot,
tinkering or having things repaired. She would not have liked to see what had become of
her precious home. But it was the same house. I wondered what we were doing here.

"Wait a minute," I said, spotting one of the photographs. "Is that Elizabeth? She looks
old. Is this still her house?" I was surprised; what had happened to the puttering
Elizabeth I'd known? She'd let both the house and -- judging from some of the later
photographs -- herself wear down

Ishmael nodded wearily. "She is old. She's seventy-five, and she's in the next room
dying." I rushed into the bedroom.

It was the bedroom of a sick person. I suspected that, if I were able to spell, there would
be that terrible musty smell, a combination of medicine and decay -- the odor of hospitals
and sick rooms everywhere. There were little bottles of pills on the table by her bed,
alongside a set of glasses. The curtains were drawn, but the table lamp was lit -- albeit to
the lowest setting, barely allowing me to just make out the person in bed.

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I'm not sure that I would have recognized the woman on the bed as Elizabeth had Ishmael
not warned me. This wasted away, bitterly tired woman looked nothing like my Liz.
Gone was her long, beautiful hair; there were just wisps of gray hair, strands that served
to highlight what used to be. Her long, lean body had shrunk, and become bent and frail.
Her smooth, tender skin had become wrinkled and parchment thin. Her eyes were closed,
so I couldn't see those lovely eyes. I suspected that even when they were open, they were
clouded over and dim.

This Elizabeth -- this old, sick woman -- lay uneasily under the covers, twisting every so

"What's wrong with her?" I gasped.

"What's not?" Ishmael said sadly. "She's got stomach cancer, and it's moved to her liver.
It's in her back; it's in her bones. It's a real mess. She just got released from the hospital
to come home to die."

"Why is she by herself?" I asked, appalled. "Where are her family, her friends? Isn't
there even a nurse or a doctor who can be with her?"

"She doesn't have a family," Ishmael told me frankly. "Her parents are long dead, and she
never married. After you, she just…lost her confidence. It was too much effort to form
new relationships. She had friends, but she preferred to be alone for the most part. She
wanted to die by herself, didn't want to trouble anyone." He stared at her

I looked at Elizabeth, overcome with alternating waves of love, concern, and sorrow. She
continued to twitch periodically, either promoted by unknown dreams or perhaps random
commands flickering out of her dying brain. Dave was right, I thought involuntarily. She
did prefer being alone, even like this.

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"She's so close to dying," I said hopefully, "Is there any chance she can see me or sense
me or something? I don't want her to die alone."

Ishmael put his phantom hand on my phantom arm, neither of us feeling it but still an
attempt at a comforting gesture.

"No," he said regretfully. "You know the rules: you can't do anything to impact that

I struggled to control my frustration. "There's got to be a way," I fumed. "I already know
people can see me if I stay in place long enough. There must be some way I can get a
message to them or something."

"There's not," Ishmael said gently. "Believe me, I've tried. I've tried everything. And
you've already lost that ability to let people see you; it goes away. Maybe people just
stop thinking about you enough."

We watched Elizabeth sleeping -- if you could call it that, this cruel imitation of sleep that
gave no rest and promised no hope for an end to the pain that she must be feeling -- for
several minutes. This was not how she should have ended up, I thought. This was not
the woman I'd loved. Or it was, but it didn't have to be. Elizabeth should have died
peacefully, surrounded by people she loved. Most of all, she should have died knowing I
had loved her.

I looked around the room. There were several photographs, although not as many as I'd
have expected. A couple of her parents, one of what looked like Janet and Paul and a
child, and a few I didn't recognize. There was art on the wall, some drawings and
watercolors. But of all the photographs, of all the pictures, none were of me, and none
were by her. They chronicled a life I'd never known, and never been part of. They were
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much of a life as Elizabeth had deserved. I might not as well have existed in this life, yet
somehow I felt guilty for it.

"All this just because I died?" I asked mournfully. "She just stopped trying because of

"Why, no," Ishmael said in surprise. "It's not that. It has to do with Tonya." And he
disappeared, damn him.

Chapter 27

This must have been Ishmael's version of sink or swim. I was stuck ahead in time forty-
five years after the time I was used to, and I wanted to get back.

I followed Elizabeth's life backwards, skipping back in time by increments. At first, a

matter of days, then, as I got more comfortable with it, by years. I dipped into her life a
day or two at a time, over the course of her adult life. It was like viewing a movie
backward, but I gradually put together the pieces of what had happened to her life.

I saw it all backward, but I'll tell it in a more traditional manner; I now could experience
time in any order I chose, but I still preferred to think of it sequentially. Old habits die

She never did marry after my death. In fact, she rarely dated, even when friends would
try their best to set her up. She seemed comfortable on her own. She did have friends.
Janet and Paul, for example, stayed friends with her for her whole life. They had a child,
and Elizabeth was her godmother. I recognized her from some of the photographs in
Elizabeth's bedroom. Elizabeth doted on her like a favorite aunt.

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But Janet and Paul retired to Florida, and their daughter moved away and had her own
family, her own life. They all stayed in touch, but by phone. Elizabeth had a few other
friends here, but no one really close. Donna drifted away, after too many fights with
Elizabeth about why she wouldn't date.

Now, there may have been men I'd missed, friends I didn't see. I wasn't living her
complete life; I was just sampling it. But, as with opinion polls, after awhile you get so
that a representative sample is probably fairly predictive of what the whole story is.

As best I could tell, she never did any art on her own, not after I died. She did her work,
but when she came home she had no drive to produce her own. She read, kept her house
neat, watched television, and did volunteer work. That made up a life, of sorts.

A few times I came upon her bringing out some of her old work and looking at it. Rather
than inspiring her to do new things, it seemed to deflate her. She looked at it in wonder,
like Charlie in Flowers for Algernon; she knew that once upon a time she had those
talents, but now it was incomprehensible to her how, or why.

I watched her particularly closely to see how she looked at the various drawings of me --
did she look especially longingly at them, did they seem to have special memories or
meaning to her? I couldn't be sure; all her pictures just made her so sad that it was hard
to distinguish any special emotions for these. They were just more evidence of abilities
that she no longer possessed, and the mystery of that outweighed any other feelings.

Eventually I traced my way back to that first week after my death, back to the time I'd
jumped ahead with Ishmael. By now I'd gotten the hang of jumping in and out of time
pretty well, and I wanted to experiment with the alternate lives that Ishmael had told me
about. That, too, took some practice, but eventually I got the hang of it.

I have not been able to adequately describe the nature of this "ghostness," this condition
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could do it justice, perhaps, but I lack them. On the other hand, I do not think there are
words to describe what it is like to explore the seemingly infinite array of other lives that
surround everyone. For lack of a better metaphor, imagine that a life is like a tree branch.
At every point, it sprouts new branches; these reflect choices made, events happening.
The most likely series of events form the thickest batch of lives that proceed from there,
hovering around each other like a swarm of bees. Each of those may be virtually
identical to the rest, differing by only a few, sometimes imperceptible details.

And, remember, each of those spouts it own set of branches. It gets very complicated,
very fast. Still, by sticking to the "thicker" set of branches, one can explore what the
most likely outcomes will be.

At every juncture, though, there are smaller and smaller branches, reflecting the less
likely outcomes. My being shot in the head, for example, was a relatively unlikely
outcome -- the gun happened to go off at the time my head was in the line of sight. I
survived in most of the branches of lives; it was my bad luck to be associated with the
branch that dies at that point in time. Of course, that's still better than the versions where
I was born with spina bifida, or was aborted in my first trimester. Things can always be
worse, I've learned.

Words again fail me how I could "know" what all the branches are, or which are the
thickest/most probable, much less how I was able to hop between them like switching
channels on a television. I just know I was able to do it.

Once I got the hang of it, of course, I couldn't resist following the paths of people I cared
about. I did so partly out of the desire to explore, but partly because, frankly, I was
scared to go back to Elizabeth's life. I didn't want to see what choices led her to the end
I'd witnessed. So I checked on everyone else first, continuing with the arc of their lives
after my death.

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Dipping into people's lives was like surfing the Internet. If you're not careful, one thing
can lead you to another, and if you're at all curious you can forget why you started
searching in the first place. I ended up spending much longer than I'd originally planned
practicing how to determine what happened to people. It wasn't too hard to figure out
what was most likely to happen to them, but those lives proved interesting, so I often
"stayed" longer than I probably should have.

Alicia, for example, ended up happy and successful in most of the versions of her life.
That shouldn't have surprised me, as she usually gets what she aims at. What did surprise
me, though, was that life eventually brought her here, with or without me. Ishmael had
shown me the life where she'd moved here to be with me, but, even after my death, she
ends up here in several key lifelines. In some, it's attending a conference; in others, a
planned trip to visit my grave and parents. Once her plane had an emergency landing
here; she gets here all sorts of ways. But generally she gets here.

The most likely outcome for Alicia in the world I'd known landed her here to work in the
district attorney's office, and several years later becomes DA herself. A few years later,
Alicia is elected to Congress, where she spends ten years. She has consistently high
approval ratings in her district, and gets to be chair of a key subcommittee. Her party
pushes her to run for Senate, but she surprises everyone by retiring and coming back here
to head up a big philanthropic foundation.

At first, I thought that was odd choice for her, but of course I should have given Alicia
more credit. Her jobs in the public sector had never been about power or celebrity, and
certainly not about money. No, she was truly a do-gooder, a crusader for causes that she
believed in. When she saw that Congress wasn't the place for that, she opted to help
people more directly. I was proud of her.

She wears out a couple husbands along the way, but doesn't have children. None of the
husbands was Tom, I was glad to see. Call me petty. The husbands all had a hard time
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that Alicia was any happier when she was married than when she wasn't, and, in fact,
there were long stretches in her lives where she wasn't involved with anyone. For her, the
consistent theme was her work. I consoled myself that perhaps in the life with me that I'd
witnessed with Ishmael, perhaps work had slightly less importance, and her private life
slightly more. But that may just be vanity on my part.

Similarly, Tonya ends up happy. She didn't date much after my death, for a year or so,
then finally gives in and goes out with one of the dweebs from work who had been
pestering her for years. He is very persistent, and very adoring. Despite herself, she ends
up falling for him, and a couple years later they get married. The guy turns out to be even
smarter than she is; he starts a software company, makes a gazillion dollars, and they live
very happily in their many houses. They travel a lot. Usually they have one or two kids.

I was somewhat surprised when Tonya quit her job soon after her husband's business
started to take off. Sure, they didn't need the money, but I never figured Tonya for a
woman who would let herself be dependent on anyone else for support. I should not have
judged her so quickly. She uses the financial cushion of her husband to do something
completely different: she starts a non-profit organization aimed at improving computer
literacy in inner city schools. She wheedles donations of computers and cash out of big
corporations and foundations, and she helps develop some innovative interactive teaching
software. The organization gets national recognition, and Tonya has a lot of fun. I was
proud of her, too.

Ironically, she and Tonya end up knowing each other. It was through Alicia's foundation
work that they finally meet. The foundation gives Tonya's organization quite a lot of
money over the years, and they discovered that they enjoyed each other's company
immensely. They weren't close friends, but stayed in touch for years.

I watched their interactions eagerly, waiting to see when they'd finally realize they both
had known and loved me, but I was disappointed. They rarely make the connection.

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Even though I knew by now that I wasn't going to come up in their conversations, I still
enjoyed watching the two of them together, telling stories and swapping lies. Two
women I'd loved, happy and successful, with hidden ties to me that neither of them
realized. It made me realize that my time had indeed passed.

Tonya did keep some of the old photos of me, and every once in a while, when her
husband wasn't around, she took them out and looked at them. She didn't usually get
weepy over them, but I liked to think I saw a fond smile there. Oh, and she often names
one of her sons Michael, although that was her grandfather's name as well. I preferred to
think she named him after me, especially since she sometimes slipped and called him
'Mick' in tender moments -- putting him to sleep as an infant, kissing him goodbye when
he went away to college, things like that.

I didn't like to admit it, but it was hard for me at first to see how little effect my death had
on their lives. Alicia, all right; I'd probably already drifted out of her life, but, as much as
I checked, there weren't many branches of Tonya's life where she ends up unhappy either.
She was sad to see me go, but basically she was going to be happy and make life work.
Both Tonya and Alicia awed me a little.

Dave and Tara, on the other hand, had a more cloudy future. The most likely outcome is
that Tara leaves Richard, and she and Dave raise Derek together. It is a good match.
Derek recovers from the paternal surprise, and eventually comes to view Dave as his real
dad, which he was. My parents naturally are kind of shocked by the whole thing, but end
up generally welcoming him into the family for real. No one stays in touch with Richard,
I was pleased to see.

But the outcome depends highly on timing, more so than I'd have thought possible. If
they admit their affair a week too soon -- too soon after my death -- then my parents don't
accept them, and Richard keeps Derek. No one is quite happy. If they wait a week too
late, though, Richard has time to put into place his scheme. He sets up Tara to be arrested
for his embezzling, and she goes to jail. He leaves the country with his ill-gotten goods --

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and with Derek. Dave waits for Tara to get out of jail, but things are never the same
between them. They view the loss of Derek as the price of their love, and it was too high
a price to pay. High enough to make them stay together, so as not to squander the cost of
what they had done, but too high to leave them much love to give the other. It is pretty

On the other hand, in the versions of life where I did not get shot, they almost always
wait too long, and Richard gets his "victory." For better or worse, their chance of a happy
future together are much better when I get that bullet to my head. Kind of funny, that.

It was highly instructive to me to see how wildly the versions can vary, around simple
things. I tried to reassure myself that the most likely version has them happy, but that still
means in a great number of not unlikely versions they don't end up particularly happy.

Things go even less well for my parents. My dad has a heart attack shortly after my killer
is convicted. He survives, but is not quite the same. It was the final straw for his health,
after not having recovered from my shooting. He retires, but he and my mom never do
really recover from my death. They stay in that older state that had suddenly set upon
them. They weren't broken, but they were both badly crumpled. Even the presence of
Derek can't cheer them out of it. Their house becomes their fortress and refuge from the
rest of the world. They stop many of their social activities, and turn within themselves.

I'd hoped that at least they'd turn to each other, but that didn't really seem to happen. It
was more that they were living their own separate lives, just with someone else present.
They ate meals together, sat in front of the television together, but much of the warmth
had drained from them. There weren't many moments like the one I caught them in
before my funeral, where a simple touch from dad illustrated the deep and powerful
connection between them. They were still connected, there was still love there, but it was
hidden in the ice age of their isolation.

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I sometimes caught one or both of them looking again at various things that reminded
them of me. The most poignant were a few cards and letters sent by people after the
funeral. These weren't from people I'd known well, or even all that recently. One from a
long-lost college roommate; one from a client in my old consulting job; one from a
coworker at the phone company. I thought that what touched my parents about these
letters was that they were evidence that I'd touched the lives of more people than I or they
might have realized. Perhaps that helped them believe my life had had some purpose, a
purpose that was admittedly even less clear to me from this new vantage than it had been
while I had been alive.

Dad's heart made mom treat him as almost an invalid, but it was actually mom who dies
first. She suffered an aneurysm and died in her sleep. Dad was distraught, and died six
months later. I watched him on his deathbed. A few moments before the end, he raised
himself up and called out, "Hilly?"

I looked around eagerly, thinking perhaps my mother was also a ghost and now she was
visible to him. It had been a long time since he'd called her that; that was his most
intimate term for her. But if she was there, I couldn't see her. Perhaps he was
hallucinating, or perhaps she was an angel, come to take him to heaven. In either case,
once again I realized bitterly that I was alone -- Ishmael notwithstanding.

Of course, these were just the most likely outcomes, in the stream of that one version of
my life where I had died. Along the way I explored lots of versions of all their lives, that
ranged from less likely to very highly unlikely. To wit: Alicia as a porn star; Tonya as a
nationally syndicated talk show hostess; my parents adopting a young Chinese girl and
living until they were over one hundred. It was fun seeing what might happen, but the
range of possibilities was sometimes so overwhelming that they threatened to suffocate

Chapter 28

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I'd mentioned that my father's crucial heart attack had happened after the conviction of
my killer, so I need to backtrack and explain that.

My parents found out about the arrest of my killer from a phone call from Detective
Reilly. It was about six weeks after I'd died. Naturally, I quickly switched to the police
station and retraced events.

I found Reilly and Kiowski sitting outside an interview room, along with an attractive
African-American woman. Evidently, she was the prosecutor on the case, despite her
relative youth -- I pegged her for no more than early thirties. Inside the room, visibly
agitated, was a young man. He was just a kid, no more than twenty or so. He didn't look
too unusual; if I'd seen him in an alley, I probably would have been nervous, but if I'd
passed him in the mall I probably wouldn't have thought twice about it. He had straggly
blond hair, acne, and bad teeth. He had that thin, almost undernourished build of many
people that you see when you pass through parts of Kentucky or West Virginia. Oh, and
he had several tattoos: I counted seven just at a quick glance, and I was pretty sure I'd
find more if I were ever unfortunate enough to see him with fewer clothes on.

There was another man in with the accused man; I assumed it was his lawyer, judging by
his briefcase and suit. The lawyer was trying to calm the other man down. I got the
impression he wasn't all that thrilled to be there either, and he presumably was getting
paid for it. The scraggly guy was yelling at his own lawyer, evidently forgetting,
perhaps, that this was the man who was going to be negotiating any deals for him. Not
that the lawyer would do anything that wasn't based on his client's best interest, of

"Can you make the case?" Reilly asked the woman directly.

She looked over some of the paper work, then turned a stony gaze at the defendant in the
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he knew we knew he was guilty too. "Yeah," she said coolly. "We got the gun, we can
place him on the scene. I can make the case."

Reilly looked satisfied. Kiowski made a face.

"I don't like it," he said bluntly. Reilly eyed him disgustedly.

"You don't like what, Ski?" he challenged. "We got him with the gun. His prints are all
over it. He lives near the shooting, and we have witnesses that place him in the right
building around the day of the shooting. The guy is a two-time loser. He's bad."

"I agree," the prosecutor said irritably. "The guy is bad; let's put him away."

Kiowski shifted his weight, uncomfortable with being the lone dissenter. "Yeah, he is a
two-time loser, but he's a punk, not a killer. He robs convenience stores. He's never shot
anyone before. He's never actually been caught with a gun before. We can't even place
him at that building on that evening."

The prosecutor put her hand soothingly on his shoulder. "Look, I'm not saying he
intended to kill Finley. I figure he was trying out the gun and it hit Finley accidentally."

"That's not murder one," Kiowski objected. She took her hand from his shoulder and
started to put the papers in her briefcase. She smiled at him, glancing smugly at Reilly.

"You know that and I know that," she said confidently, "but he doesn't. The DA wants a
conviction on this case, even if we take a plea on a lessor charge."

"The guy is going away for a mandatory 25 anyway, due to the third felony," Reilly
noted. "He'll take a plea to avoid getting the needle."

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The three of them turned and watched the suspect in the interview room. He had calmed
down now, and was talking in low tones to the lawyer, looking every so often at the
window. He couldn't see through the one-way glass, but it was clear from his suspicious
looks that he knew they were deciding on his life while he was stuck there, powerless to
influence it.

"I don't know," Kiowski mused. "He admitted to the robbery, but he was adamant about
not doing the shooting. He says he just found the gun in the trash."

Reilly smirked at him. "All these years, how many guys have we taken down who don't
say they are innocent? C'mon, Ski, get with the program."

That's the way it went. His name was William Boyd. He had a long history of robberies
and other thefts, although none actually involving any shooting. They'd caught him in the
middle of an armed robbery, and found that the gun he used matched the one that had
killed me. He claimed he'd just found the gun in a dumpster behind the building from
which the shot had been fired, but in the end he pleaded guilty to second degree murder.

He'd gone away on armed robbery twice before, and at the trial the prosecutor implied
that he'd learned too well the violent lessons of more hardened criminals while in prison.
To me, of course, that sounded like a reason not to send him back, but I must have been
the only liberal present. As Reilly had predicted, Boyd feared getting the death penalty
from a DA who was up for election and wanted to look tough on crime. Due to that, he
plead guilty to second-degree murder and was sentenced to twenty-five years without
possibility of parole.

I watched him in fascination throughout the brief trial; this was the man who'd stolen my
life, intentionally or not. I wanted to see what was special about him, why fate had
conspired to put me in his path. But I couldn't see anything special. He was just a guy,
no innocent for sure, but no killer either. It was just as much his bad luck that he got

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caught up in this as it had been mine. Between dying and going to prison for all those
years, I wasn't sure that my luck wasn't better after all.

I should have known, from all my life hopping, that there's nothing so special about fate.
Things just happen, every possible way.

Boyd was silent throughout all the court proceeding, keeping his head down. I couldn't
tell if it was out of despair or disgust. I supposed it didn't really matter.

My parents came to the trial, such as it was, but Boyd never looked at them. I didn't
know why they came; it must have been hard on them. They must have needed the
closure it would offer them. At the end, when the trial was over, they shook hands
thankfully with the detectives and the prosecutor. Everyone congratulated everyone for a
job well done, and everyone expressed sorrow that I'd been killed. At least my parents
went home satisfied that justice had been done. Despite his bravado that day at my
parents' house about wanting to see justice done, Elizabeth's dad didn't come to the trial.
To be fair, Elizabeth wasn't there either. She left town the week of the sentencing, not
wanting to go through the pain again. That had been one advantage of the plea bargain;
she hadn't had to testify.

For better or worse, the trial brought me back temporarily, in a sense: it made the front
pages again the day of the sentencing, reminding that vast population who had already
forgotten that I'd ever been shot. They painted a harsh picture of this repeat felon
tragically stealing away a young, promising life. I was kind of flattered at their portrayal
of me, but was cynical enough that it had more to do with ratings and readership than
truth. I watched Elizabeth cry as she read the front pages. She'd declined all statements
to the press, but a couple reporters remembered her from the funeral and mentioned her
loss as an example. I watched Tonya shake her head sadly as she watched the news. It
didn't make the Philadelphia papers for Alicia to see.

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I guess it brought some closure to me, too. I'd actually stopped thinking about why I'd
died, since it just seemed like one of the many things that could have happened to me that
day. You know, in one life I was hit by a car standing outside that restaurant, and suffered
for six months before I finally died. The shooting didn't seem like such a bad way to go,
all things considered.

It's odd, but I didn't really identify with the other Mike Finley's in these other lives. Yes,
in many of them it seemed like me, living a life I might have expected to lead. In others,
I saw myself in such bizarre and unexpected twists of events that I became unreal, even
to myself. Me as homeless? Me as a billionaire? I have to admit I was married to Alicia
in that one; that future required her push. I did like the one where I was a big movie star,
but all these lives were so unreal to me that they might all have been a movie. It made
my more normal lives seem equally unreal.

I watched them, wondering how "me" they were. They looked like me, and talked like
me, and did things like I did or might have. They had my smile; they had my eyes. Yet I
was not entirely sure if they were, in fact, really "me." They'd experienced things I
hadn't. They'd made choices I hadn't. And, of course, most of them were still alive, a big
difference. It was confusing to watch them, and it was especially hard to see them
interact with the people I cared for, knowing that they got those chances and "I" didn't.

I was growing very detached from the people's lives I watched. Part of it was the
knowledge that none of their little lives was the definitive life; there were alternative lives
at every point. That the people living them weren't aware of the other lives scarcely
mattered to me. I had this great perch to see all this from, and lorded over it like a god.
A minor god, of course, especially since I still had never found any way to affect their
lives, but I liked the ability to bounce through lives. I'd lost my prurient desire to watch
people in their most intimate moments, but I'd also lost much of any embarrassment
about catching them unexpectedly in such moments. I'd seen it all, in some life, so it was
increasingly harder to surprise me.

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The other thing that made me more detached was simply the passage of time. As Ishmael
had predicted, time as I had known it lost much of its meaning as I skipped back and
forth in times and in possible lives. I already could not say with any certainty how long
I'd been like this. Following people through their lives, checking into the various futures
they might have -- it all takes time. I didn't actually live their lives alongside them, but it
took real time on my part even to follow anyone periodically through their likely life
paths. How many years had I experienced in my own time since my death? I really
couldn't say. It still felt like a week ago to me in some sense, but it had been much, much

People always say that time goes by faster as you get older. As a kid, the summer is a
lifetime; a semester an eternity. As an adult, those periods of time go by with you just
barely noticing; years go by before you stick your head up and realize they've passed.
Imagine, if you will, how time must have seemed for me. I'd lived now -- if "lived" is the
right word for it -- for many lifetimes. Time flies when you are having fun, or when you
are a ghost. The two appeared to me to be mutually exclusive.

I didn't like this coldness, this indifference to still livings' lives, but it served its purpose.
I now thought I could find out what had happened to Elizabeth with Tonya.

Chapter 29

I already knew how Elizabeth's life was going to come out, in the life I'd known and had
departed from. I just needed to find out what paths her life hadn't gone down. I wasn't
looking forward to finding out. I started with the shooting.

Now, in most versions of the world, as I've said, I didn't get shot. The bullet missed, by
varying degrees. Of course, in some versions of the shooting, each of the four of us got
shot; there was a chance for each of us. It was bad enough seeing Paul or Janet get killed,
and it was horrible seeing Elizabeth die before my eyes. I didn't have the nerve to follow

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my life after that path; I didn't want to see myself happy after such a tragedy, nor did I
want to live through whatever suffering those "me"s might go through. I'd thought I'd
distanced myself from such feelings, but I was still squeamish about some things.

If I had lived -- been shot at but not killed -- Elizabeth and I would get married, I was
relieved to find out. Donna was wrong. Most of the time -- remember, each life spawns
multiple possible outcomes -- I did get my nerve up enough to encourage Elizabeth to be
an artist full-time. Those were good lives. She blossomed, really grew confident and
joyful. And she usually ended up modestly successful. She couldn't support herself with
the art, but we did all right as a family. Our kids also tended towards the art world. I
even dug out my pen and paper, and wrote some short stories. I think these were some of
my happiest days, my happiest lives.

Ironically, in the lives were I wasn't shot at, Elizabeth and I generally don't end up
together. She "usually" gets married eventually, but never really seemed as happy to me
in those lives as in the lives we had together. Of course, I may be biased. She lived
comfortably, and was a good wife to her husbands, but I never saw her giving any of
them that special smile that I had privy to. Maybe she was happy, but I selfishly thought
she was lacking something essential. More importantly, she never gets to develop her art

In her lives without me, she still kept that Mick box, and looked through it every few
years. I imagined she always wondered "what if." Sometimes we'd run into each other --
on the street, at the grocery store, and so on. We'd make polite conversation, and go on
our way. The me now always rooted for the me then to break down -- to look back at her,
to stop her, to give her a call -- but he/I almost never did. I usually was with someone
else at that point in my life -- Tonya, Alicia, or various other lovers I'd not met yet in the
life I'd lived -- and I didn't want to rock that boat.

I now watched her as that alive-but-foolish me walked away. Sometimes she'd turn to
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wasn't in her life. Either way, it broke my heart now. I could tell from the expression on
the other me's face that I sometimes felt bad about it, that sometimes I struggled with
myself about turning back. But soon enough I'd just forget about it and go on with
whatever I'd been doing. I'd turn to the woman at hand and give her what I should have
given Elizabeth. How typical, I thought bitingly.

Or maybe I did love them too; maybe they were my future. It was hard to be sure
anymore. I just knew how I felt when I saw that look on Elizabeth's face.

My being killed had taken away those possible married lives, seemingly. Elizabeth's life
after that overwhelmingly ended up on or near the path of the life I'd lived backward,
where she ends up dying alone. It was grim seeing so many paths that ended up alike, so
much unhappiness. I despaired that my being shot essentially destroyed her life. I
arrogantly began to believe that I was the sole cause of her happiness or unhappiness,
despite what Ishmael had tantalizingly said about Tonya. My dying had ruined her life,
had led her to that quiet life of increasing isolation.

But that wasn't the case; at least, it wasn't quite that simple. If I looked at versions of her
life stemming from the very week following my death, there wasn't such a strong
likelihood for the sad lives I'd witnessed her leading countless times. Instead, there were
many good outcomes for her even after I'd been killed -- perhaps even better outcomes
than when I'd lived.

For example, the odds that she took the plunge and became an artist went up
dramatically; this was by far the most likely outcome. Her budding art career was
spurred by those drawings she did of me that night after the swing. Janet saw them at her
house, and persuaded Elizabeth to show them for a dealer Janet knew. They sold quickly,
and Elizabeth was off. She was even more successful than when she had done her art
with me, as though my death had added a depth to her work that she otherwise would
have lacked. And she rarely dies alone. That, too, had to be considered a plus.

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So, on balance, I couldn't say that she necessarily ended up less happy in these lives
stemming from my death than in the lives that might have happened had I not been shot.
Different, yes, but my being shot wasn't the cause per se of any unhappiness she ended up
having. I hadn't expected to find that. I had expected all the post-shooting lives to end
up in the unhappy state Ishmael had led me to. I realized something about that week had
tipped the odds, from happy to unhappy, so I carefully went day-by-day to see where the
change had come.

In tracing that week following my shooting, I paid close attention to the evening of the
viewing, when Tonya and Elizabeth first met. I admired Elizabeth anew for how
graciously she took on the responsibility of making Tonya feel comfortable, and I had to
give Tonya great credit for her nerve in braving that uncomfortable situation. Elizabeth's
grace versus Tonya's courage; I couldn't keep from watching both of them, replaying the
scene over and over. I feared I wasn't worthy of either one of them.

I did get close enough to them to hear what Elizabeth had said to Tonya on Tonya's way
out. I'd missed it that first time I'd lived through -- sorry, I wasn't really living then
either; that first time I'd experienced the viewing.

"I'd like to have dinner some time. I think we have things to talk about. Maybe Saturday
night?" Elizabeth had suggested. "Call me?"

"All right, I will," Tonya had said firmly.

Saturday night proved to be the turning point. Ishmael had been right -- it did have
something to do with Tonya, and it apparently happened at that dinner. I was hesitating
actually witnessing that fateful dinner between the two of them, but if I checked the paths
of her life before the dinner to the paths following the dinner, I saw the divergence.
Happy/unhappy; art/no art; not alone/alone. It was the most drastic swing I'd seen in my
limited experience of seeing how people's lives could end up.

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I even went back and checked on several other people's lives to see if I could find a
similar pattern. I found that, yes, at every point, there were divergences, but for most of
the people I'd charted the prospects, the outcomes stayed fairly close to the likely paths
I'd seen. Even Tonya stayed in her fairly narrow range of lives; that Saturday night
dinner had not noticeably affected how her life ended up. Only Elizabeth seemed
affected by it.

There was no getting around it; I was going to have to live through their dinner.

Chapter 30

They negotiated the place over the phone during the afternoon. Each of them initially
angled for a restaurant that had special memories for us as a couple. Elizabeth proposed
the neighborhood place near her house, while Tonya countered with a downtown yuppie
diner. We'd often gone there, at all hours of the night, and still had lunch there

They finally reached a compromise on AKA Pizza, a new pizza place that had only been
open a couple weeks. Unbeknownst to either of them, I'd actually already been there
with both of them. Tonya had scouted it out early, and had dragged me there for a quick
dinner on one of the nights Elizabeth was out with Donna. It had then been written up in
the weekly independent paper, so Elizabeth had suggested we try it.

I was sure that each thought they were pulling something over on the other; they each
believed they had been there already with me, but sure that the other hadn't. Since I
hadn't told Elizabeth about that dinner with Tonya, or admitted I'd already been there, I
hoped it wouldn't come up now.

Elizabeth was the first to arrive. As I could have predicted, she dressed conservatively --
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mourning clothes; no veil or anything dramatic. She looked tentatively around the room,
and seemed slightly relieved that Tonya wasn't there yet. I wondered if the relief was at
not being late, or if she secretly hoped Tonya wasn't coming. She was lucky and got a
booth. The waiter took her order for a glass of wine while she waited.

She played absently with her hair as she gazed blankly at the back of the booth across
from her. She wasn't wearing any earrings, but I noticed that she had on several small
pieces of jewelry I'd given her -- a small pin, a necklace, and a bracelet. The bracelet and
the necklace were nice ones I'd bought at a jewelry store, but the pin was kind of a fun
one I'd bought at a big arts and craft fair. It was made of colorful fused glass; very bright
and unique. I'd liked the artist enough to buy several things, including some earrings I'd
given Tonya for her last birthday. The style was distinctive, and I started to pray that
Tonya wouldn't make the connection.

I thought it was touching, and typical, that Elizabeth was wearing gifts from me. True,
she didn't wear much jewelry, and much of what she did have was from me, but I thought
that she deliberately wore it for this dinner as an unspoken claim on, and reminder of, my
affections for her.

Tonya showed up about ten minutes late, which for Tonya was pretty good. Unlike
Elizabeth, she'd dressed up a little. She had on a clingy summer dress, cut in front just
low enough to offer a small hint of cleavage and to show off her tan. She wasn't wearing
any hose, and had on a pair of those clunky-looking sandals with heels that I always told
her I hated, but which I sort of liked. At least they helped even out the height differential
some. She looked young, fresh, and delectable.

There was a sub-audible buzz when Tonya breezed into the room, which broke
Elizabeth's reverie and caused her to look up for the source of the commotion. They
spotted each other simultaneously. Elizabeth stood up while Tonya made her way across
the room, turning the heads of the other patrons in her wake. Some of the men gaped
appreciatively, getting glares from their own dates. I had to smile; that was one of the

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most fun things about being with Tonya. I also enjoyed those surreptitious glances from
both sexes that I would get once she had sat down with me: both thinking, "what does he
have?" -- the men resentfully, the women speculatively. I liked to wink at the women
sometimes, just for the hell of it. In my current unseen state, all I could do was sigh at
the memory.

Maybe that's why I had really liked being with Tonya, I concluded reluctantly; maybe I
enjoyed being the center of attention for once. Maybe that explained Dave, too; I
wondered if I'd chosen friends and lovers in my life that drew the attention I wouldn't on
my own. I hoped that wasn't it.

"Hi, Elizabeth," Tonya said, her hand extended, "I'm sorry I'm late."

"No problem," Elizabeth welcomed her gracefully, "I was just sitting here having a glass
of wine. Would you care for one?"

They settled in, and the waiter appeared, hovering over them. He was probably delighted
to have this table in particular, and I expected they would get very attentive service. It
usually happened when Tonya had a male waiter.

"Hi, I'm Matt, and I'll be your waiter," the waiter identified politely, eyeing Tonya's
neckline discreetly. "Would you like a glass of wine? We have a very nice house."

"No," Tonya said distractedly, studying the wine list quickly. "I'll have a beer. What do
you have?"

The waiter recited their extensive beer collection, and Tonya ordered one of her favorite
imported beers. Elizabeth had been studying Tonya carefully throughout this exchange.
To my dismay, I saw, and saw that she saw, that Tonya was wearing the earrings I'd given
her, the ones from the same artist as Elizabeth's pin. Tonya had been with me when I'd
bought the earrings and the pin, and she'd known I was going to give the pin to Elizabeth.

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I wondered if she had deliberately worn them to send Elizabeth a message, or if it was
just happenstance. I hoped the latter.

Tonya smiled as she handed the wine list back to the waiter and he trotted off eagerly.
She noticed Elizabeth looking at her earrings, and unconsciously put her hand up to them
to make sure they were both still on.

"Those are nice earrings," Elizabeth said coolly. "Where did you get them?"

"I got them…" Tonya started, then noticed Elizabeth's pin. She started over. "Mike
bought them for me at a craft fair." Her eyes met Elizabeth's, rather than looking at
Elizabeth's pin. I was busted.

"Very distinctive," Elizabeth commented. She was doing her best to keep a poker face,
but I thought it reddened slightly.

Tonya wasn't going to bite; she just smiled.

Matt came back with Tonya's beer, and told them the specials. They sent him away while
they looked over the menu more seriously. They compared notes on the menu, and
started some getting-to-know-you small talk. Tonya told Elizabeth about growing up
here, her UVA years, and that she never really thought of not moving back.

"What's not to like?" she said playfully. "Besides, I don't think I could live in the South.
All that politeness!"

Matt reappeared, hovering anxiously. I had sat down in an imaginary chair on the outside
of their booth, so I could watch both of them. I positioned myself more towards
Elizabeth -- partly out of loyalty, and partly because I quickly judged that Matt was going
to continue to gravitate towards Tonya's side of the booth. By the end of the evening he
was going to be in her lap, at the rate he was going. Or so he hoped, I was sure.

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They ordered their food, each ordering a salad, and agreeing to share a vegetarian pizza.
Neither of them could ever get me to eat one, so when I'd been out with either of them we
usually ordered a half vegetarian, half sausage, or they gave in and compromised on
pepperoni. I took their order as a hopeful start for some common ground. Matt took it as
a way to impress Tonya; he praised their choices, and sauntered back to the kitchen, no
doubt hoping she was looking. I was starting to get annoyed at him.

They continued their getting-to-know-you small talk. They both seemed to want to delay
whatever hard conversation they were going to have, and pretended they were just two
girls out for dinner. I doubted it could last.

Tonya was fascinated by Elizabeth being from the west, and urged her to share what that
was like.

"It's not like there were cowboys and Indians," Elizabeth told her. "OK, maybe there
were, but not like in the movies. Any fighting was in the bars, not on the prairie."

"Still, I think it must have been very different from here."

"Think of it as growing up in the suburbs," Elizabeth said with a small smile. "Just really
big yards."

"How did you end up here?" Tonya asked curiously.

"It's a funny story, actually, "Elizabeth admitted. "My art teacher in high school got a job
at the university, and I followed him. I had dreams that I'd be a real artist. He ended up
quitting my sophomore year, and I ended up in graphic design to escape this lecherous
professor they replaced him with. I got a job offer from the place I co-oped my senior
year, and -- well, I just ended up staying."

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That led into a discussion about their respective jobs. Tonya didn't have much interest in
art, and Elizabeth knew little and cared less about computers, so that conversation didn't
go far. They perked up when Elizabeth brought up some of the graphic packages she was
using for some of her projects, but their interests in those didn't overlap very deeply.
There was a pause while they reloaded their conversational guns. I wondered when they
were going to get to the meat of the evening.

Along the way they'd gotten and finished their salads, and started in on the pizza.
Elizabeth ate it slowly, using her knife and fork delicately. Tonya ate with her fingers, the
way I always believed pizza should be eaten. Despite her small size, she had a big
appetite, and ate with great gusto. She called Matt over and switched her drink to wine.

"I'm glad you came," Elizabeth said suddenly. "I'd heard about you for so long through
Mike, and I just wanted to get to know you better."

Tonya nodded and smiled tolerantly. "Me, too."

"You're not quite what I expected," Elizabeth added carefully. I found myself quickly
cataloging all the things I might have told Elizabeth about Tonya, to see where I might
have misled her.

"How so?" Tonya said politely. She didn't seem all that curious; Tonya was used to not
fitting peoples' expectations.

"Oh, gosh, I don't know. It's hard to put into words. You're even more beautiful than I'd
imagined, for one thing."

"Well, thank you," Tonya replied graciously. This was something else that she was used
to. "I'd seen your picture, of course, so you're just as beautiful as I'd expected."

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That was a classic Tonya response; you had to be looking for the ambiguity to suspect it,
and I doubted Elizabeth was. She blushed slightly, not realizing that Tonya might be
implying that she fell short of her own standards. I knew Tonya pretty well and even I
wasn't sure how she had meant it.

"I wanted to get to know you better," Elizabeth continued bravely. "I -- I want to know
the people Mike knew, and see what he was like with them too. I figured you knew him
better than almost anyone, outside Dave and his family."

Tonya tilted her head to acknowledge the remark, and I could almost see the unspoken
thought behind her half-smile: hey, babe, believe me: I know things about Mick that Dave
and his family -- or you, for that matter -- never dreamed of. She was probably right.

Elizabeth would never have the confidence to think something like that. I had probably
been more open, and more vulnerable with her than with anyone else, but it wasn't in her
nature to believe that she had that kind of insight, even into me.

"So, Elizabeth," Tonya asked between bites, "how did you meet Mike?" We were getting
closer to the real reason they were both here.

Elizabeth carefully finished off the mouthful of pizza she was working on before
answering. I suspected it also gave her time to think about how she wanted to respond.
"Friend of a friend," she finally answered. "We went out to dinner."

Tonya nodded knowingly. "Love at first sight?"

I had to smile at that. I might not have been able to pick Elizabeth out of a line-up after
our first date; she didn't make that big an impression on me. Not till later. Elizabeth
smiled wistfully. "No, not really. At least, not for Mick. He took a month or two to get

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"I remember."

Elizabeth looked oddly at her. "What do you mean?"

"Oh, Mick and I were still seeing each other," Tonya answered casually, keeping her eyes
off Elizabeth as she reached for another slice of the pizza. "I remember when he started
going out with you."

Elizabeth was silent for a second as she digested this news. She'd known I was still
seeing other people; I'd told her, eventually. I couldn't remember exactly what I'd
explained about Tonya at the time. And I was sure she'd registered Tonya's easy use of
"Mick;" it wasn't hers and hers alone. This was going to get me in trouble.

"Were you still…"

"…Sleeping together?" Tonya interjected helpfully.

"…dating?" Elizabeth finished doggedly. Tonya cocked her head and took a second to

"No, we weren't dating, not really."

Of course, Tonya had cleverly put the possibility that she and I weren't dating but had
been sleeping together into Elizabeth's mind, knowing it would be awkward for Elizabeth
to ask the question that would now be on her mind. It was fiendishly clever and not a
little cruel. I began to wonder anew if those earrings had been worn on purpose. This
might be Tonya playing games again. This wasn't a fair fight.

Matt reappeared and cleared away the dishes, chattering mindlessly. He asked them if
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have more wine. That was a signal that they were staying a while longer. Matt could
barely constrain his delight.

Elizabeth wanted to steer clear of the minefield that she'd been in before Matt's fortunate

"How did you and Mick meet?" she asked. "You already seem to know my story."

Good question, Elizabeth; I was curious how Tonya would tell this. And I was
particularly interested to see if I'd finally find out why she had picked me that night
instead of Dave. I wasn't sure Tonya would tell the full story, but I could always go back
and compare what she said to what had really happened, and the gaps might tell me more
than the story itself. I readied for Tonya's answer eagerly.

Tonya smiled widely. "It was a bet," she said, self-satisfied.

"A bet?"

I hadn't expected this. What did Tonya mean, a bet? I didn't like the sound of that. I
leaned in closer.

"Well, a friend and I were in a bar, and we spotted Mick and his friend Dave. They were
kind of cute, and we were getting hit on by about every other guy in the bar. I figured out
pretty easily that Dave was the real lady-killer, so my friend bet me that I couldn't get
Mick to try to pick me up without Dave horning in."

"Is that what you do in bars, make bets about who will pick you up?" Elizabeth asked

Tonya looked at her with amusement. As I'd said early on, Tonya liked the game -- the
chase, the hunt, the kill or the killing put-down. "Sometimes. It gets pretty old

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sometimes, so it adds a little sport to do stuff like that." Elizabeth stared back warily,
aware for sure that Tonya lived in a world she didn't have much experience with.

"And who won?" Elizabeth asked gamely, her eyebrows arched.

"My girlfriend," Tonya laughed. "Dave disappeared and left me to Mick. She won the
bet but I won the guy. I figure I came out ahead."

Tonya seemed to glow with pleasure at the memory, while Elizabeth seemed to shrink
visibly. Tonya was a whole 'nother kettle of fish than she was, and she knew she was
overmatched. Still, she came to some sort of internal decision, and pressed on.

"What was it about Mick that you liked?" she asked openly. "I mean, I'm not sure I'd
think he's your type."

I was afraid Tonya might take offense at this, although I wasn't sure if Elizabeth had
meant to imply anything by it or not. Actually, I took a little offense at it myself. Didn't
Elizabeth think I could attract a woman like Tonya?

Tonya smiled, a small smile of wonder this time. I knew that smile; it was one of her
best. It made her seem especially open and frank, vulnerable and trusting. I wished I'd
seen it more when we were going out. She toyed with her glass of wine before

"Mick was, I don't know; he was a good guy," Tonya tried to articulate. "That's so lame, I
know. Let's see. He was bright, and he didn't push me. He was easy to get along with.
He was funny." She stopped, looking embarrassed at her answer thus far. She took a
drink of wine, and surveyed the room. Nothing she saw captured her interest. She wasn't
really looking for it to, anyway. Her interest was across the table.

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"Look," she said, staring firmly at Elizabeth. "I meet a lot of jerks. Most of them aren't
very bright, and most of them think I'm some bimbo that they can fuck and forget. I'm

Mick never treated me like that. He listened to me; he cared about me and what I had to
say. It was refreshing, and the more I was with him the more I appreciated him."

Elizabeth nodded thoughtfully; I wasn't sure she liked what she heard, but she agreed
with it. Perhaps she was hoping Tonya had a shallower, more easily dismissed reason for
being with me. She leaned forward.

"So what happened?" she asked softly. "Why didn't you two stay together?"

"Because, this time, I was the jerk," Tonya answered with some bitterness in her voice. "I
liked riding the emotional roller coaster -- I'd find something to fight about, so we'd fight,
and break up, then make up. The making up was always a thrill, but Mick got tired of the
drama. You snuck in while I wasn't paying enough attention."

Both of them considered this for several seconds. Elizabeth's mouth was turned slightly
downward, although I was sure that she wasn't aware of it. Tonya just looked at
Elizabeth, patient for Elizabeth's reaction. Matt the waiter used their silence as an
invitation to stop by and ask them if they wanted anything else. They looked up at him,
slightly surprised at his appearance at their side, then looked at each other briefly. They
agreed on coffee; apparently they were reaching the limit of the evening. They stayed
quiet while Matt brought them the coffee.

"What about you?" Tonya asked after stirring a heavy dose of cream and sugar in her
coffee. "What was special about Mick to you?"

Elizabeth smiled a sad little smile, with a gasp of a pained laugh behind it. She held her
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think she was too keen to share this with Tonya, but she was too polite to say no. "It will
sound silly."

"Oh, come on, tell me. I promise I won't laugh."

Elizabeth regarded her carefully, still not sure whether Tonya was a friend or a foe.
Whichever, she wanted to get this off her chest.

"I liked that he was so considerate."

Tonya pulled her head back in mock surprise. "You loved him because he was polite?"

Elizabeth shook her head firmly. "I didn't say polite; I said considerate. I don't mean he
had great manners or was some expert on etiquette. He definitely wasn't either! I mean
he thought about other people. He didn't open doors for people because it was the proper
thing to do; he did it because he thought people should do things like that for other
people. If he saw an old lady carrying a bag of groceries, he'd probably help her to her
car. Little stuff like that. It wasn't just me and it wasn't to score points."

She smiled and her face took on a fond, far-away look, lost in the memories. "Sometimes
it was maddening. We'd be going somewhere, and he'd open the door for me and I'd keep
walking, then realize that he wasn't with me -- he was still at the door, holding it for all
these strangers. Who, by the way, almost never say thank you. But, you know, I had to
love him for it."

Tonya seemed troubled by all this. "That's sweet," she finally said. "I know what you
mean, and I think that's a good way to remember him." Elizabeth's eyes got teary, and
they drank their coffee in their own corners. Elizabeth regained her composure and
started the conversation again.

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"You and Mick never stopped seeing each other, did you?" Her voice was
uncharacteristically hard.

Tonya played with her coffee cup. "No," she said carefully. "We saw a lot of each other,
and talked on the phone a lot." Elizabeth's next question went unspoken. Tonya looked
up at the challenge.

"No, in case you're curious," she said firmly, staring at Elizabeth. "He was faithful to
you. Not that I didn't give him chances not to be."

Elizabeth nodded grimly at this admission. At least Tonya had been honest about the
faithful part; I'd have died again had she said or even implied I hadn't been. They
regarded each other openly, studying the other for signs of weakness, comparing beauty,
wondering about love. There was a universe of emotions and thoughts going on inside
both of those heads I loved so much. I could see it was going on, but even in this ghost
state I was still powerless to tell what those thoughts and emotions were.

Tonya recovered first. "I'll give you this, Elizabeth," she said, grudging admiration in her
voice. "I didn't expect to like you so much. I can see why it was taking so long for Mike
to come back."

Elizabeth seemed surprised by this admission, but accepted it quietly. The compliment
was nice, but Elizabeth was smart enough to realize what had picked out the real
implication of Tonya's statement.

"But you never really gave up on him, did you?" Elizabeth concluded gently.

"No," Tonya admitted frankly, holding Elizabeth's eyes with her own. "No, I never did.
You were winning the battle but I always thought I still would win the war. I was just
waiting for the merry-go-round to finish so we could switch seats and I could have him

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Elizabeth nodded once again, not conceding but recognizing the truth in what Tonya had
said. If it were anyone else but Elizabeth, she would have glared at Tonya, or thrown
some wine in her face, or even slapped her. But not Elizabeth; she didn't have that in her,
even to protect the memory of what she thought she had had.

That seemed to end the evening. What else could they say? They weren't going to be
friends; not tonight, not ever. The thing that Elizabeth had hoped might bring them
together -- i.e., me -- would always be between them. They would each guard their own
memories of me and keep them to themselves. Sharing would give the other too much of
their own treasure. Maybe Tonya could tell her stories, just to flaunt what she and I had
had, but Elizabeth would not have been able to do the same. It was that same gaudy
diamond/secret treasure difference that I'd felt about them when I was alive.

I thought it was telling that Tonya felt no need to ask why Elizabeth and I hadn't ever
gotten married. She thought it was self-evident. If asked, both women would have
answered the question that it was just a matter of time -- for Tonya, that I'd have come
back to her; for Elizabeth, that I would have gotten around to marrying her. Their mutual
-- but contradictory -- trust in me was frightening, and made me wonder anew if I'd have
had the courage to do either.

They split the check, gave Matt a nice tip, and got up. Matt looked at Tonya hopefully,
perhaps expecting that he could ask her for a phone number or other encouragement, but
she ignored him. He was crestfallen, I noted with some satisfaction. They walked out of
the restaurant and stood in the parking lot. I followed them out.

"There's something I need to ask," Tonya said nervously. "It's not easy." She looked at
Elizabeth for permission to carry on. I wondered what she was leading to.

"Go on."

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"It's about when he was shot," Tonya said quietly, unable to look Elizabeth in the eyes.
Elizabeth paused, and gave Tonya a warning look. Tonya took a deep breath and pressed
on anyway. "Did he, did he say anything? Did he do anything?" She looked up

Elizabeth took an unconscious step back, and raised her hand to her chest as if to ward off
a blow. She stared at Tonya a second, trying to read in Tonya's eyes why she wanted to
know this. Then she looked away, and stared far off in the distance, where I was still
getting shot in some timeline. Tonya waited anxiously.

"No," Elizabeth said finally. She had a pained expression on her face. "I thought he
opened his eyes for a second, but he didn't say anything."

Tonya seemed disappointed. I'm not sure what she was expecting. I was a little surprised
at Elizabeth's answer; I had no memory of doing that, none whatsoever. Tonya looked
away uneasily.

"You know," Elizabeth said conversationally, startling both Tonya and me. "The doctors
told me later that I must have been mistaken, that Mike was dead the second that bullet
hit. They said if his eyes did open, it was just an involuntary reflex." Tonya just stared at
her in surprise.

"Still," Elizabeth continued, leaning closer to Tonya with a conspiratorial air, "I like to
think it was more than that. I just don't know what it did mean."

Tonya studied her carefully, and nodded sympathetically, but didn't say anything. She
evidently had gotten everything she had wanted, or expected, to get from the evening,
and was ready to go. I wasn't so sure Elizabeth felt the same way, whether she had
achieved whatever bonding or closure she had hoped to with Tonya.

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"So what now?" Elizabeth asked, standing uncertainly in the middle of the parking lot
with Tonya. The other patrons coming and going seemed as distant from them as if on
another planet. It was just them, alone in this moment.

If Tonya was as unclear as I was about what Elizabeth meant, she didn't show it.
Elizabeth may have been asking if Tonya wanted to go somewhere else, but Tonya took it
as more of a life question. In retrospect, and having witnessed that scene countless times,
I think she was right.

"Now I go and find another love of my life," Tonya said with absolute conviction.

Chapter 31

I watched them drive off in their cars. I was too emotionally drained to decide where, or
when, I wanted to go next. It had proved even harder than I had anticipated watching the
two of them together, especially seeing how Elizabeth had taken some of the things
Tonya had told her.

Something alerted me to his presence, or perhaps I was just getting better about when to
expect him. I turned, and there was Ishmael, leaning against one of the cars. His arms
were in the pseudo-pockets of his pants, and he'd crossed one ankle casually over the
other. It was the perfect picture of the man at ease, helped by his Ralph-Lauren-looking
outfit. I had long ago switched to a comfortable pair of jeans and an old shirt, so once
again I felt scruffy next to him. He didn't say anything, but his quick disapproving gaze
had the same effect.

"How about that?" he asked. "The two of them together, again. And you thought the
viewing was hard!"

I didn't think it was so funny. "What are you doing here?"

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He stood up from his pose, and walked over to me. "No, my friend," he said. "The
question is: what are you doing here?"

I didn't reply at once, just stared at him curiously. "If you've been reviewing my life, you
can probably guess," I said at last. "Tonight seems to be the night when Elizabeth's life
takes a bad turn. I wanted to find out why."

"And did you?"

"I'm not sure," I told him cautiously. He looked at me in amusement, then apparently
decided to give me a break and not pursue it. I suspected that he knew, and knew that I
knew too.

"That Tonya sure is something," he said admiringly, gazing in the direction that her car
had left in. "Why didn't you get back together with her?" I stared dumbly at him.

"I mean, she's great -- she's smart, she's fun, she loved you very much. Plus, of course,
she's simply gorgeous. You know you loved how every other man envied you for being
with her. You've seen how life could have turned out with her; you two are good

"I don't know," I mumbled.

"Or Alicia, for that matter," he continued expansively. "I always liked her too. A real
fireball, that Alicia. She would have made you into something, that's for sure. You
seemed pretty happy in your lives with her, too."

Ishmael had a point. From the lives I'd witnessed, I ended up happy with each of them,
and fairly successful to boot -- especially with Alicia. She had pushed me when we were
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seen recently, if we had stayed together she would have continued to help drive me to
being successful.

"It just didn't work out that way, I guess. Besides, what do you have against Elizabeth?" I
wanted to know. It didn't seem like he was being fair to her.

"Oh, Elizabeth," he said easily, "she's a sweetheart -- don't get me wrong. But you've
seen her lives. She's not one of these people -- like Tonya or Alicia, or Dave, or Tara, or
most of the people you know -- who are going to be happy almost regardless of which
path their life takes. Elizabeth just isn't strong that way. She has some happy lives,
especially with you, but it's not as hard-wired into her as it is with most of the others.
Why risk being with someone like that?"

"And that art thing," he said dismissively, "Sure, she has talent, but she doesn't have the
confidence in herself or her work that really good artists have. In most of her lives she
never really takes advantage of her gifts."

"She did with me," I said defensively. I felt the need to defend her, partly out of loyalty
and partly out of not wanting to see her criticized like this. It made her life seem so…
empty. "I would have helped her work at it."

"Michael, Michael, Michael," he said with gentle reproach. "When did you ever work at
anything?" Ishmael and I had started to walk. AKA Pizza was in an unusual
neighborhood -- historically blue collar, with lots of older apartment buildings, two-flats,
and small houses. The road it was on had once been a major thoroughfare out to outlying
cities, but with the advent of highways it had fallen on hard times. AKA Pizza was in a
small strip of stores, the others of which were somewhat less affluent. I wondered which
would prevail -- would AKA help draw its neighbors up, or would they pull it down? I
was certain, for example, that the seedy looking patrons of the Dee Light Tavern, two
doors down, wouldn't be stopping in for some goat cheese pizza.

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Outside the strip, there were quiet residential streets. The yards were generally neatly
trimmed, the houses and apartments were alight with life. Everything looked so settled.
What would those people think, I thought distractedly, to know that two ghosts were
taking a stroll past their house, going over what had been wrong with one of their lives?

"Everything just came easy for you. School, work, friends, love. You just drifted from
one thing to another, never really appreciating what you had or having to work for it.
You just assumed that whatever came next in your life would be as good. You left this
amazing woman Alicia, who could probably have ended up as the first woman President
if she'd wanted to -- just so you could move back home. You walked away from Tonya,
probably the only systems analyst in America who could have also been a fashion model.
And the kicker is, they both loved you!

It was Alicia who offered to leave her job and her family to follow you here. It was
Tonya who kept working at staying in touch after you broke up, even when you got
serious about Elizabeth. You heard her: she never stopped believing she'd get you back.
When did you ever have faith like that?"

We had stopped walking, so he could more emphatically make his last points. I resented
that some stranger to me knew my life so well. Sure, I'd been a voyeur in lots of peoples'
lives by now, and had witnessed things that I'm sure they would have preferred that I not.
But they were at least people I knew and cared about. To adopt some stranger and the
people in his life, to dig through every nook and cranny not only of the life he'd lived but
also the lives he could have lived -- well, it was too much.

The saddest part, though, was that he was right. As usual. He really did know me better
than I knew myself -- or than I admitted to myself.

"So I'm a failure," I said with a tone of despair. "Why rub it in?"

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Ishmael put his arm around me, or what would have been his arm around what would
have been my shoulders had either of us actually had bodies. The effect was much the
same despite the lack of actual contact.

"Mick," he said, "You don't mind if I call you Mick, do you? I feel like I know you well
enough to be entitled to that. It's not about being a failure. It's funny, you know. Why do
you think all these extraordinary women were attracted to you?"

I looked at him hopefully. I wasn't sure how this related to my feeling like a failure, but it
seemed like a more promising avenue of conversation. "Because I'm cute, smart, and

Ishmael laughed. "I don't want to burst your bubble, buddy, but you're not all that cute,
or that funny, or that smart. There are lots of people who fit that bill more than you do."

Now I stared at him balefully. He was piling it on, I thought. "So you tell me. Why did
they like me?"

"Oh, not just liked you, Michael," he corrected me with mock astonishment. "They loved
you, deserving of it or not."

"All right, loved me," I repeated irritably. "You're the expert; why did they?"

Ishmael strolled a few steps, looking down at the sidewalk while evidently deep in
thought. Even he was finding it hard to explain; maybe he didn't know either. I fell in
step next to him automatically, now very curious as to what his explanation was. The
more I thought about it, the less sure I was about why they might have loved me.

"It's not uncommon," he said finally. "Your best quality is also, in some way, your
worst." He stopped and looked at me. I urged him on.

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"How so?"

"You just never thought about it. You didn't think you were God's gift to women, but you
didn't think you were unworthy either. You just got to know them, for who they were
rather than for who you might have wanted them to be. And you didn't pretend to be
someone else either. I think they found that unconscious attitude refreshing. That's what
made you special."

Well, that was less than I'd hoped. I supposed I'd been hoping he saw some special
virtue, from his longtime ghost perspective, that I hadn't realized. This didn't seem like
much of a virtue.

"The thing is," he continued, "it's that same unconscious attitude that let them slip away
from you too. You end up pretty happy in almost all of your lives. My takeaway from
your life is that life is about making choices. I told you that before. You could have been
happy in lots of those lives, but many of the possible paths required you to really think
about what you wanted and choose it. That's why you didn't end up living most of them.
This you, anyway." We started walking again, him looking up and around at the street,
me trying to keep up with him while studying his face in the uneven light of the street

"To stay with Alicia regardless of your move; to look behind the stupid fights Tonya
picked with you; to tell Elizabeth she should give art a full shot. It didn't matter which
choice; it just mattered that you make a choice. That's what makes the whole thing

We walked in silence. I needed to think about what he had said.

"Let me ask your opinion about something," I said after a block or so. "What do you
think happened to Elizabeth tonight that caused her to veer off the happier paths?"

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He smiled knowingly at me, but didn't answer. He waited me out.

"It was what Tonya said, wasn't it?" I suggested. We stopped in front of a house with a
big picture window. Someone had a television going off to the side, its bluish light
giving weird shading to the room. "She stopped believing I loved her."

"She said as much at the viewing." Ishmael reminded me. "What was different about

I had the feeling this was more of a Socratic question than a genuine one, but I had to
think about it anyway.

"At the viewing, she still had hopes that she was wrong, and that she really was the love
of my life," I speculated. "After seeing Tonya so sure of getting me back, she lost that."
He nodded, with satisfaction at my deduction but also with some sense of loss at the pain
of that conclusion.

"My God," I exclaimed. "That's so unfair!"

"Maybe you would have gone back to Tonya," he told me. "Or found someone new.
You've seen the lives. Why should she believe she was the one for you?"

I was silent again, but not ready to walk. I looked around, at this seen-but-not-felt world
around us. It was suddenly creepy; alien and distant to me. I was the ghost here, I should
be haunting them, but it was me with the shudders. Then it hit me.

"You've got it wrong," I said firmly. "It's because Elizabeth needed me that makes it
matter. Not every choice was the same."

"What do you mean?" Again, he seemed more like he was pushing than actually unsure.
I took a deep breath, and tried to answer.

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"Like you said, most of the people in my life go on and are happy anyway. Maybe they
loved me, but losing me didn't destroy their lives."

"So?" Ishmael prodded.

"I was, oh, what's the right way to put this?" I fumbled, frustrated at my inability to
articulate my revelation. "I was the key in Elizabeth's lock. It was me who opened her
up; me who made her life come alive. We were unique to each other, and whether I died
or not I should have let her know that."

Ishmael looked at me with a grave expression. I couldn't tell if he agreed with me or was
just humoring me. I tried again.

"You look at my life and see lots of choices, most of them indistinct from the other.
Different people, different patterns, but all of them and their related paths look similar. I
look at it and I can see now that my paths with Elizabeth were the special ones, the ones
where I really could make a difference. I didn't fail in my life because I didn't make those
other choices; I failed because I never made the choice that would have made the crucial
difference in someone's life. Elizabeth's."

Ishmael wasn't being fair to Elizabeth. He viewed her life, her ranges of lives, and saw
someone too weak, too uncertain of herself, to fully develop. I looked at her and thought
about what a delicate flower she was, how she needed careful nurturing. I thought of her
talent for art, and of her ability for love, as being like a small fire. It was there, and it was
struggling to light fully, but it needed tending. It could be hugely big and amazingly
beautiful, but it needed someone to add fuel carefully, and to guard it from too much
wind or the rain. In short, she had needed me.

I looked at Ishmael, proud of what I'd realized and defiant about telling him. It didn't
matter if he agreed or not; it didn't matter if he understood or not. I understood now. "I

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should have let Elizabeth know how I felt about her. I realized that at the viewing, but I
got distracted by all of these other possible lives. That was the point of my life, that was
what I've learned from everything I've seen."

"Bravo," he said appreciatively. He smiled.

"Do you think I'm right?"

"Probably," he said seriously. "I suppose it's up to you to decide what gives your life
meaning, or, rather, what would have given it meaning."

"I've got to tell her," I said urgently. "I've got to communicate with her somehow. Maybe
I can steer her back into the happy lives, back into trying to be an artist. She did those
drawings this week; she's so close."

Ishmael smiled a sad little smile at me, and patted my arm reassuringly.

"It doesn't work that way, Mike. I've told you time and time again: you can't affect

"There must be a way," I objected almost frantically. "That's probably why I'm here, why
I'm a ghost. I have to right that wrong."

"Sort of cosmic justice?" Ishmael mocked me dryly. "Well, forget it. There isn't any
justice, and you can't do anything about Elizabeth's life or anyone else's. If you don't like
to see her unhappy, just don't watch the unhappy lives. That's all you can do."

I remembered the times when Elizabeth had seen me since I'd died, and that gave me
hope. "Elizabeth saw me, twice, at her house. If she could see me then, she can see me
again. I can find some way to give her a message that way."

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He shook his head slowly. "The window for that is past. You could only do it then
because you were still so close to being alive. You could still imagine that people could
see you. You've lost that. How many lifetimes have you lived through; how many things
have you done that a living person couldn't? You can't imagine yourself to be a creature
that people can see anymore.

No, this is your existence. All you can do is make the best of it."

I was shaken. "That's horrible. I can't believe that the universe works that way. Where's
the justice in that?"

"Justice, again?" Ishmael repeated, savoring the words. "You're stuck on that, aren't you?
Come with me. I want to show you something."

Chapter 32

We were at the scene of my shooting. Judging from the light of the sun, low on the
horizon, it was just before I came out from the restaurant with the others.

"Why are we here?" I said, annoyed. "I've been here. I've seen all the permutations of
who gets shot and where. So what?"

From the restaurant, our foursome emerged. I could hear the soft undertones of Janet's
voice, talking to Elizabeth, and the sweet notes of Elizabeth laughing in response.
Elizabeth looked beautiful, happy about life. Behind her, I could see Paul and myself
looked adult yet almost boisterous, ignoring our women as we pretended to care about
that silly sports debate we were having. I wished I'd gone ahead and taken Elizabeth by
the hand, or put a tender arm around her and drawn her close. But I hadn't.

"You've seen it from here," Ishmael said steadily. "Did you ever go see the shooter?"

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He had a point. For some reason I'd skipped that part of it. I knew who had done it, but I
hadn't watched him shoot me. I couldn't imagine why Ishmael thought that was

"No, I guess I haven't. I know who shot me; I don't need to see him do it."

"Do you?" he challenged. "Let's go see."

We switched to a room in the abandoned building next to the restaurant. At one point it
must have been the living room of an apartment. It evidently hadn't been too nice a place
to begin with, and it had gone downhill from then. The floor was intact, basically, but
covered with dust and who knows what else. The walls had holes in them -- wood torn
away, plaster stripped or punched out, a few places that looked like rats had tunneled

There was a boy standing next to the wall that faced the street. The window was long
gone, boarded up, but through the gaps between the boards I could see glimpses of our
foursome on the sidewalk. The boy was perhaps nine, small and slight for his age. His
clothes had the worn look of hand-me-downs: not quite the right size, thin from the use of
its multiple wearers, tattered at the sleeves and pant ends. He was very cute, and had an
adorable innocence about him. How anyone could maintain innocence in an environment
like that, I wasn't sure -- or for how long.

He was also holding a gun. It did not look cute, or innocent. It looked very evil. From
my limited knowledge of guns, it looked a lot like the gun I'd seen at the trial for my
killer. He was examining it, trying to figure out how to load it.

"I don't get it," I said stupidly. "Where is Boyd?"

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"William Boyd is sleeping with his girlfriend," Ishmael told me seriously. "In her
apartment two blocks away. Believe it or not, even that scumbag has a girlfriend."


"No, he didn't kill you." My mouth gaped in surprise at this sudden piece of news,
delivered so matter-of-factly by Ishmael. Was he kidding?

We turned and watched the boy. He cocked the gun, and struggled to hold it up with both
of his hands. The gun was too heavy for him to lift easily.

"Bang-bang," he chanted, pointing the gun at imaginary targets around the room.

The gun went off, knocking the boy down with the recoil. I saw the hole in the window
boards where the bullet had escaped, and through that hole I could see myself lying on
the ground, with the others starting to huddle around me.

"What?" I exclaimed. "HE killed me?"

The boy picked himself up, and went over to the window. He looked in surprise, then
horror, out the window.

"Oh, Lord, Lord, I shot a white man. They're going to kill me," he moaned. He looked
frantically around the room, and fled out of the room.

"It was an accident," Ishmael said softly. "Just like the prosecutor said. They just had the
wrong guy. The boy wiped the gun off, then threw it in a dumpster, where Boyd found it
the next morning. Just like he told the DA."

I thought about what Ishmael had said. "Why didn't his girlfriend give him an alibi? If
he was with her that night, she could have cleared him."

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Ishmael smiled. "Oh, lots of reasons. Her other boyfriend wouldn't have liked it, for one
thing. She was supposed to be home with her kids. Plus, she's a druggie, and no one
would have believed her testimony anyway. Boyd was so high he didn't really remember
where he was that night.

Boyd said he didn't do it, but the DA wanted a conviction and he was going to get it. So
much for justice."

I looked out the door through which the boy had run. "What about the boy? He just gets
away with it?"

Ishmael made a face. "An eye for an eye, and all that? Let me tell you about the boy.
He, his two sisters, and his mom live in a one-bedroom apartment not much better than
this. His mom has a not-so-nice boyfriend, who hits the kids and her. He has the bruises
to prove it.

Only now, the boyfriend is getting tired of the mom. He's starting to come after the two
sisters. They are eleven and thirteen. The boy stole the gun from one of the local dealers
and was going to defend them with it tonight. Only now he doesn't have a gun, and he's
going to get a beating for being late for dinner. Plus, the guy he stole the gun from is
going to be looking for him. His future isn't too bright."

Ishmael let me absorb all this as best I could.

"So, Michael Finley, what justice do you think that boy deserves?"

"I, I don't know," I confessed.

"It's funny," Ishmael mused. "The boy's best chances in life come from the few lives in
which he is caught. He has to tell a friend, who has to tell his mom, who has to take him

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seriously, who has to call in an anonymous tip. Then Kiowski has to convince Reilly and
the DA to take it seriously, and so on. So it's not too likely. Still, in one or two of those
lives, he actually gets adopted by a good family and comes out all right."

"So one or two lives out of, what, hundreds, thousands of possible lives?"

"Millions, billions. Whatever."

It was sobering. I felt worse for the kid than for me. "There really isn't any justice, is
there?" I said dejectedly.

"Oh, if you want a life that has what you consider justice, you can find it." Ishmael told
me realistically. "It just may not be as common as you'd like. And justice isn't the same
thing as revenge. I think the poor kid has a bad enough fate just living his life. He's
worse off for killing you than if he'd not accidentally shot that gun. Now he's not going
to be able to protect those sisters, or himself. You can imagine how miserable their lives
are going to be. No, I take that back; you probably can't even imagine it, not unless
you've seen it. It's pretty bleak.

Of course, if he didn't shoot you, he would have gone home and tried to kill his mother's
boyfriend. If he kills him, he gets sent away as a criminal -- instead it being treated as an
accident like it is when he kills you and gets caught. If he fails, you know, the boyfriend
takes it out on him and his sisters for years. Even when the boyfriend dies, and those
poor kids get a break from the guy, there's always another boyfriend, and the pattern is
pretty much the same. Nope, killing you and getting caught is as good an outcome as he
can hope for. You want justice; I call that a rough sort of justice."

He had a point. It was too depressing to think about. "Let's get out of here."

We were back in the parking lot of AKA Pizza. I didn't know how Ishmael knew where I
meant when I said we should leave, but I didn't ask and he didn't offer any explanations.

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We stood awkwardly -- well, I stood awkwardly while Ishmael watched me, cool as ever.
Customers came and went from the restaurant, typically unaware of our existence. I
enviously looked at the couples, walking in eagerly, or walking out expectantly. Maybe
they were going home to curl up in front of the television. Maybe they would go back for
some hot jungle love. Maybe they'd go out dancing, or…

It didn't do any good to speculate. I could, if I wished, follow them and see what they
did. In fact, I could follow them and see what would happen in each of the possibilities
of what they might do. I could do just about anything I wanted -- except the things I
wanted to do most.

"So let me get this straight," I said doggedly. "I live forever. I can walk through walls, or
move instantaneously between places. I could travel through outer space if I wanted. I
can travel in time; I can even cross dimensions and see all the variations people's lives
could have.

But I can't impact their lives; I can't even get a message to someone I love."

"Yep," Ishmael confirmed. "That's about the size of it."

"Somehow that doesn't seem like such a great deal," I complained. "What the point of
watching if you can't do anything about it?"

"You used to watch TV, and you couldn't do anything about what happened to the
characters on those shows," Ishmael noted.

"Yes, but I'm talking about people I care about."

"You cared about some of those television characters too," Ishmael countered smoothly. I
felt we were playing a word game and I didn't know the rules.

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"I'm talking about people I know," I objected. "These are real people, people who lived
their lives with me."

Ishmael sighed. "You know, you haven't realized the worst of it."

"It gets worse?" I asked incredulously. That stretched my imagination to the limit. Worse
than this?

"It depends on your point of view, but, yes, from your standpoint, it does get worse."

I wasn't sure I wanted to hear this. I couldn't imagine what would be worse than this
eternal voyeurism. At that point, I was starting to reconsider my initial speculation that
Ishmael was, in fact, the devil and I was in some sort of hell. I hadn't been considerate
enough of Elizabeth, so now I'd go through eternity watching her suffer for it. It sounded
like hell to me.

"All right," I finally said, expelling a breath of air loudly. "Give it to me. How does it
get worse?"

Ishmael looked at me carefully, gauging whether I seemed ready.

"Do you remember I told you that you had lost the ability to have people see you, like
Elizabeth saw you those two mornings?"

I had intended to test this assertion of Ishmael's anyway, but I secretly feared it was true.
I didn't feel human, and I didn't still have any real hope that she -- or anyone -- could see
me. Watching her die, in several lives, watching all of the people close to me live their
various lives; it had changed me. Being flesh and blood seemed an awful long time ago.

"Yes," I confirmed cautiously.

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"They can't see you because you've lost that ability to imagine that they can see you. You
don't know what it feels like anymore."

That sounded terrible, but not so terrible that this would be the way that Ishmael would
say was the worst part. If it was, I could live with that, if 'live' was the right word for

Ishmael faced me head-on. He looked as serious as I'd seen him. Serious and sad,
sympathetic and oddly affectionate. It struck me that he looked like a father having to tell
his son that there was no Santa Claus.

"You can't do that because you don't have any feelings," he said simply.

I was taken aback. "What do you mean, I don't have any feelings? I have lots of
feelings. I have too many feelings, if anything!"

"No, no, you don't," he told me, putting a hand on my shoulder. "Think about it. How
would you feel anything? You don't have anything to feel with. You can't feel my hand
on your shoulder, and I'm right in front of you talking to you. You don't have hormones,
you don't have nerves, you don't have tissue or anything. There's nothing to feel with."

It seemed patently wrong, yet his logic seemed convincing. I struggled to find some flaw
in what he'd said, all the time reminded by the sight of that hand on my shoulder, a hand
with no mass, a hand that evoked no sense of anything there on my body.

"Feelings, OK, we're talking about two different things," I tried to reason. "You mean
sensory feelings. I know I don't have those anymore. I'm talking about emotions, those
kinds of feelings. I definitely still have those."

Ishmael tilted his head to the side. His son apparently was telling him that maybe Santa
Claus didn't come to all children -- just to the ones who believed in him. He had to

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explain this simple yet very emotional concept to a child who lacked the ability or the
emotional readiness to accept it yet. It probably would have been easier on us both if I'd
just agreed with him and moved on.

The parking lot had cleared out while we were talking. It was just us two ghosts
standing in this deserted parking lot, under a light. Around us all was darkness. How
symbolic, I thought bitterly. Maybe we could get a chorus of sirens to wail to complete
the picture.

"You're not feeling feelings," Ishmael said softly. "You're remembering feelings. All you
have are memories of feelings."

"Memories of feelings?" I repeated numbly.

"Memories of feelings," he confirmed. "Soon you'll only have memories of memories of

feelings. Then memories of memories of memories of feelings, and so on. Eventually
you won't even have those."

I was awestruck with the concept. He had been right; this was worse than anything I
could have imagined. If this wasn't actually hell, I should find the devil and pitch the
idea to him.

"My God," I gasped inadvertently.

"I told you," Ishmael said, with no hint of satisfaction in his voice. Just sadness.

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I left Ishmael at that point. I didn't want to talk about this anymore. Surely, I tried to tell
myself, surely he was wrong. But inside me there was this cold center that was telling
me that I better face the music.

I put myself in Tonya's car, driving away from her dinner date with Elizabeth. I expected
her to head home, but soon noticed that she wasn't going in that direction. She was
driving towards my neighborhood. Maybe she had another friend who lived around
there, but I stoically accepted that she was going to a session at my house again.

Tonya seemed in good spirits. The speakers poured out Lisa Stansfield's emotional voice,
full of lust and love and other muddled emotions, yet all aimed at getting her lover back.
I wondered if Tonya had that on intentionally. She hummed along with the music, its
beat also causing her body to sway in time with the music. If she had had more room in
the car she might have started dancing.

She pulled in front of my house and turned off the car. She didn't get out immediately.
Instead, she sat quietly, watching the rear view mirror for any lights from another car.
One of two went by, causing her to slouch down in her seat until they had passed.

It was Elizabeth she was waiting for, I realized. She wanted to make sure that Elizabeth
didn't have the same idea as she did. After fifteen minutes or so, with no sign of
Elizabeth, she resolutely opened her door and went up the sidewalk to my house.

Tonya slipped off her sandals once in the house, and walked through the house barefoot,
quiet as a cat. She again didn't turn on the lights, content with the light coming through
the windows -- although she had to pull open a few of the blinds and curtains.

I watched her curiously. I couldn't quite figure out why she was there, if she just wanted
to be around my things, like she had after she'd heard I'd been shot, or if she had
something more specific in mind. Whichever, she seemed to feel entirely at ease. No
qualms about being in someone else's house without them knowing about it, no fears

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about visiting a dead person's home. Tonya never was too concerned about that sort of
stuff; she really was like a cat, mindful only of what she was after.

She paused in the spare bedroom that I'd used as a study. There were a few pictures
scattered about, and she knew where I had slipped a couple of them of her or of her and I.
She removed them from semi-hiding places and carried them with her. Next, she started
looking through my books, first in the study, then in the bedroom and the living room.
She retrieved a couple books, books that I recognized as ones she had given to me along
the way. At first I wondered how she was deciding which ones to take, since she passed
up several books I knew she had given me.

Then it dawned on me that she was only taking the books in which she had written some
inscription. She liked to say brassy things in these little notes to me. I took it as ways
she could mark her territory, and it had always amused me. Now she was reclaiming
them, so that they stayed our little secrets.

She studied my CDs carefully. There were several she'd bought me over the years, plus
ones I'd bought with her, or ones we'd played a lot when we had been here together. I
wondered if she was going to make a clean sweep of them, take them all away. Of
course, that would be pretty obvious. Dave or someone would notice the gaps and
wonder who had been in the house stealing things while no one was watching. You
couldn't really count me as someone watching -- at least, they couldn't.

Tanya was subtler than that. With a small smile, she picked out only one. I only had to
catch a glance at the bright green cover to tell which one it was: The Sugarcubes. Their
first one with the unbelievable birthday song. I'd hated the CD when I'd first heard it, but
I couldn't get over Bjork's voice. I learned to like the group, tolerating their weird
Icelandic techno-pop sound just to hear her pour out her heart. Then she struck out on
her own and really blossomed. Something about that first album symbolized something
about our relationship better than almost anything. It was not just that Tanya had her own

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Bjorkian energy and impish nature. She had turned me on to joys in life that I might
otherwise have missed, not just musically.

The last things she went searching for were in my closet. She took out a very nice, thick
wool sweater that she'd given me for Christmas a couple years ago. She always told me
that it made me look especially sexy, and sometimes she would ask me to wear it on
nights when she wanted us to end up in bed together. She hugged it in her arms, holding
it closely to her chest as though hoping I was still in it.

Finally, she took out an old long-sleeved shirt of mine. It was one I hardly ever wore, but
she had adopted it as her impromptu pajamas on the mornings she'd slept in at my house.
I wouldn't let her walk around the house naked, as she would have been perfectly
comfortable doing, so she wore this shirt which barely reached her thighs. The sleeves
were too long, and she didn't button it up very far; after an hour or two of seeing her walk
around in the house like that, we'd often end up in bed together.

Tonya sat on my bed, admiring her treasures.

"Well, Mick," she said conversationally. I was startled initially, then realized that she was
speaking to the me she remembered, the Mick of her memories; not to this me. When I
realized that, I'd have to confess I was a little disappointed, even though I knew it had
been unlikely she'd been aware of me. "I guess that's it. I know better than to look for
any cards or letters I wrote you; I'm sure those are long gone!"

She paused and looked around the room warmly. "We had lots of good times, you and I.
I'm sorry it worked out this way, but it did. I just hope you're happy where ever you are."

With that, Tonya got up and went to the front door, carrying her goodies and collecting
her sandals along the way. She took a long last look at the house, then stepped outside
and relocked the doors. She walked to her car and drove away, never looking back.

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That was vintage Tonya, I thought. Sentimental to a point, but coolly knowing when to
cut her losses. She'd keep those things, I'd bet, but wouldn't look at them very often. It
was the having them, and the having gone to get them, that would give them their power.
They were just a tangible form of memory, not something she'd need to revisit very often.

Now, Elizabeth, on the other hand, had quite a different end to her evening. I switched
back to her leaving the restaurant as well, plopping myself alongside her in the car. She
didn't have any music on, and she was steaming. I say 'steaming,' but that may only be
because water was leaking out of the sides of her eyes. She had to periodically wipe the
sides of her face. Or it may have been due to the fearsome expression on her face, an
array of emotions I dared not even try to interpret. She pulled into her driveway and
stormed into the house.

"God damn you, Mick," Elizabeth fumed, throwing her purse on the table. If only she
realized how accurate that sentence was, I thought ruefully. "Why didn't you tell me she
was still in love with you?"

She paced around the living room, too full of rage and pain to sit down. Then, as if
making a decision, she headed to her bedroom and pulled out her Mick box and the
recent drawings she'd done.

"Did you love her, Mick?" she asked scornfully, kicking the box. "You couldn't have
both of us, Mick," she added, kicking the box for good measure. She sat down on the
floor and picked up one of the drawings.

"I don't even know why I bothered," she said belligerently, and ripped it in half, then in
half again for good measure. She picked up another drawing and studied it in a
controlled fury.

"Maybe I should have drawn her in these, what do you think, eh, Mick? Maybe standing
right over your shoulder, whispering in your ear. That's how it was, wasn't it? She was

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always there." She ripped it into halves, quarters and kept ripping until the snow of little
pieces covered the floor around her.

She picked up the picture she'd drawn of me as a ghost in bed with her that first morning.
Elizabeth had gotten it exactly right. She'd captured my surprise at being caught there,
my dual sensation of being in a familiar place yet also the anguish of knowing I was in a
different existence, unable to reach out and already fading away. This was one of the
pictures that had propelled her on to fame in the lives in which she did become a famous
artist. No one could look at that drawing and not see her greatness -- just as no one could
look at it and not know that she had seen…something.

No matter; she tore it into pieces too.

Now, had I not witnessed her looking at some of these drawings later in her life, I might
have feared that she would go on tearing until they were all just confetti decorating her
bedroom for a party that she'd never have. But I had seen them in the future. Moreover, I
knew Elizabeth better than that. Her fury was already ebbing.

She held up one of the drawings of me. I was reading on the couch, the television on in
front of me. I'd looked up, half annoyed, half amused. She paused a long time.

"Oh, Mick," she whispered, pulling the picture down carefully. "You just should have
told me. I knew I could never compete with Tonya, or any of the others. I'm not
beautiful enough, I'm not smart enough. My body isn't perfect like theirs. I wasn't as
much fun as they were. What were you doing with me?"

She shook her head sadly. "I just wanted to love you. I thought, maybe, that you loved
me too. If you had, that would have been wonderful. I would have been all those things
that I said I wanted to be -- your lover, your wife, even the mother of your children. But
if you didn't love me, I just wanted to know that, too. I didn't want to find out after you

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were dead, after it was too late and I'd given you everything I had in my heart, that maybe
you weren't mine."

With that, she took all the drawings, and rolled them up carefully. She picked the roll up,
put it on top of the box, and carried both down into the basement. She stored them neatly
in a closet, and closed the door. The look she gave was sadder than the look she'd given
my casket as it descended into my grave. No wonder; I really was more dead to her now
than I had been then.

If only I had been alive. If I could have, I would have grabbed her by the shoulders and
shook her until she looked at me. Then I'd have stared into her eyes and told her that it
was her that I loved, that she was the love of my life. I would have taken her in my arms
and held her safely against whatever the world might throw against us. I would have
murmured her name over and over, so that she knew it was her I loved. Liz, Liz, Liz…

I couldn't do any of this, of course. I could just watch as she walked slowly up the stairs
from the basement, slumped unconsciously as if carrying a great weight. She
mechanically got ready for bed, then laid awake in bed for much of the night, staring
sightlessly at the ceiling.

Believe me, I tried hard to get her to be aware of me. I laid in bed next to her all night,
not daring to move. I willed myself to picture her seeing me when she rose the next
morning. I tried to believe that this illusion of a body that I carried with me could be at
least a visible fog for a second to her morning eyes.

No luck. She got up, and didn't give me a second glance.

I tried again, this time with the porch swing. I started the evening over, and I spent all
night out there, listening to the sounds of the crickets and the movements of the nocturnal
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caught a glimpse or two of him peering out the window -- a one man neighborhood watch

That wasn't any more successful. When Elizabeth emerged, coffee cup in hand, to get her
morning paper, she paid the swing no attention, even though she looked through it
towards Mr. Wilkenson's house.

Ishmael was right; I'd lost the ability to be seen.

Chapter 34

After that, naturally, I had to get away. Ishmael had been right a long time ago, when he
warned me about revisiting my life: going over my own life, and seeing the paths I didn't
take but should have, was too hard. I should have started with someone else's life; I
should have adopted a stranger, the way Ishmael apparently had adopted me.

So, instead, I went away for a while. I spent some time going back in history. Want to
know who really killed Kennedy? I could give you the whole scoop. Virginia Dare ran
away with an Indian lover, and his tribe massacred the rest of her colony when they found
out. Mystery solved. Atlantis did exist, but…oh, you die yourself if you want to find out
about that.

As Ishmael had warned me, history is both more and less interesting than I might expect.
More because, well, these historical figures prove to be real people, most of the time.
They sleep, they eat, they go to the bathroom; they make bad decisions in love
sometimes. They have lives that you and I would recognize.

It's also more interesting because the textbooks often have things wrong, sometimes key
facts. History gets lost in the past. Try as the living do to make it come alive, through
careful historical research and restoration, there's just a reality about it that can never be

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captured -- unless you're a ghost like me. I wished I could go back to my high school
history class and point out all the things my rather dogmatic teacher got wrong.

It's less interesting because, for one thing, it takes a long time. I had to sit through many
boring days of mundane events to get to the events I was interested in. And the living
conditions! Ishmael had warned me, but I was still shocked at what I found. I was never
more glad that I had lived in the second half of the twentieth century than I was after I
witnessed how these people in the past lived. The filth! The bad teeth! The unsanitary
conditions! The waste of human life, starting with one in ten or more dying at childbirth
and going from there.

It also was less interesting sometimes because sometimes what you found out was
disappointing. Cleopatra had bad teeth. The person we now knew of as Hercules couldn't
play in today's NFL -- not strong enough or fast enough. Mona Lisa was dumb as a
board. King Arthur ruled a tiny little kingdom in Wales, and didn't do a very good job of

And the future! I could tell stories of the future that no one could yet believe, of times to
come when they would look as pityingly at our time as I had at times past. Things
change, fashions come and go -- and come back again. Everything gets faster. Every
generation complains about the next one and wrings their hands about how things are
getting worse -- yet few would really trade for those "good old days." Despite
everything, I found that people stay the same, basically. They want love, they value
families, and they look to the days ahead with optimism, justified or not.

I traveled so much that the past and the future almost blurred together. So many people,
with so many possibilities. I could go on and on, but what's the point?

After some time doing this -- more lifetimes than I can count -- I found myself back in
my own time, sitting on the top of the hill in my cemetery. I could try to run from my
life, but it was always with me. I had seen things I could have never dreamed of seeing.

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I had done things I couldn't have imagined. The universe was in my reach, as long as I
didn't care about touching it.

But I did.

Ishmael had told me I had lost, or was losing, my feelings and my ability to feel. One
feeling I seemed to have managed to hang on to, unfortunately, was regret. Having made
that mistake of tracing my life, and its many possible paths and variations, I was filled
with regret about the things I didn't say, the things I didn't do. Ishmael had warned me
about this as well, but -- as he'd also predicted I would -- I visited them anyway. I forget
whose quote it is, but someone once said you should never regret the things you do, just
the things you didn't do. I understood that now, in a way that someone who can only see
their one life never could.

It was ironic. Watching my life now, I was struck with how little I seemed to have felt
then. Ishmael had been right, once again -- damn him! He had come to know me entirely
too well, indeed better than I had known myself.

I had drifted my life. Nothing had mattered enough to me to really stake a claim. Alicia,
Tonya, Elizabeth -- they were the leading, but not the only, examples of not letting myself
care enough. Oh, sure, I'd cared about them. I'd cared about my job, too, and my family,
and Dave, and lots of things. But there were always those little barriers in me, that
childish optimism that whatever the world ahead has to bring would be at least equally
good -- and maybe better, but definitely different.

Now I was dead, and supposedly emotionless, yet I could see the error of my ways. If I
had the ability for anger, I might have raged against that blithe young me. Even in those
lives where I had settled down, where I had made solid lives, I looked for -- but couldn't
really detect -- true appreciation for what I had. From birth till death, in all those lives, I
was always looking over that next hill instead of tending to my own campfire.

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I had had the precious gift of being able to feel, and to share feelings, and I'd squandered
it. If youth is, as they say, wasted on the young, then being alive was certainly wasted on
the living. At least in my case.

I had been living a ghost life of sorts when I was alive, too unconnected to the people in
my life. As if that wasn't bad enough, now I was living with a ghost of love, a love I
couldn't express nor do anything about. The price I had made Elizabeth pay for my
casual attitude towards what I had, the indifference to how special she was and that we
were together -- it all made my heart ache. Or would have I still had a heart, or
something to feel it with. It haunted me like a real ghost, invading my thoughts and
infecting everything I did.

I came back to the suggestion I'd made to Ishmael: that maybe I was here -- wherever
'here' was -- so I could learn from this and somehow atone for my mistakes. He had
gently tried to dissuade me of this, and I had to confess I still didn't see any way to
accomplish that.

I took the opportunity to switch back to that day in the New England park with Elizabeth
years ago. Perhaps I could just pick a moment like that and spend all eternity enjoying it.
None of this foolish back and forth, none of this what-does-this-lead-to voyeurism that I'd
been doing so much of. This was a good day, or at least a good afternoon; why not just
replay it over and over?

I watched that younger me with that happy Elizabeth. She drew some lovely pictures of
the scene, even using colored pencils for a treat. And, of course, she captured me in more
than a few sketches. I seemed happy, as I'd recalled. I didn't know I was going to be shot
in a couple years; I didn't know how badly Elizabeth's life might turn out or how I'd let
her down. Nor did I know there were so many choices, so many possibilities, in life. I
had just sat there and enjoyed the sunshine. Carpe diem and all that.

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But I often seemed happy. That was part of the problem; I usually seemed happy. If I
could have read my mind then, I probably would have found no deep thoughts about
Elizabeth or the magic we'd managed to capture, on that afternoon or at other times.
Sure, I'd been very satisfied by the afternoon, told myself how special it had been, but it
hadn't really gotten to me. It didn't make me marry Elizabeth; it didn't make me urge her
to do more art. It didn't even keep me from fighting with her later in the day.

I suspected that I hadn't even realized on that day how essential Elizabeth was to that
perfect afternoon. I probably didn't think about it at all; if pressed, I might have said
something to that effect, just to be nice, while reserving to myself the notion that I could
have enjoyed that afternoon with several people. I just didn't get it.

Staying in that moment, in that afternoon, wasn't any better than anything else I'd been
doing. The regret was going to get me wherever I went. I went back to my own
cemetery, in my own time. I'd hoped that going back to that park would ease my mind. It
hadn't; it just made me feel worse about things.

I sat there, for longer than there are words to describe. If being motionless was the
criteria for being visible, they could have seen me from outer space. I sat and I sat, and I
thought and I thought.

Amidst all this internal wailing about my own life and how I'd messed things up, one
other thing in particular nagged at me. I remained troubled by the absence of other
ghosts. I didn't intend to think about it -- I had enough problems of my own to dwell on
-- but it kept fluttering around in the back of my head until I had to think about it. Where
were the other ghosts?

They weren't there in alternate lives where I'd died prematurely; they weren't there in
lives where I'd lived a long life. Nor did I see them in any of the countless other peoples'
lives I'd followed. Maybe there were lots of ghosts but invisible to me, as I was to them, I
thought wearily. Each of us trapped in our own little multitude of worlds of possible

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lives. Or worse yet was that my paranoia of that first day downtown had been correct --
that they were around and they were invisible to me, but they could see me. I could
imagine legions of 'better' ghosts sitting back and laughing, first at my pathetic life, now
at my equally pathetic ghost life.

None of these were comforting thoughts.

Then there was Ishmael, seemingly always there to guide me and tell me little ghost tips
and realities. Who was he, and why was he here? Why was he taking such an interest in
me? He didn't seem surprised to have another ghost in this seemingly otherwise ghost-
free existence. Maybe, I thought cynically, maybe he was one of all those other ghosts
watching me, and he'd been sent as an emissary to help me blunder less badly.

These silent graves were no help to me. They were filled with dead meat, with no spirits
around. There should be lots of us sitting here, reflecting on our silly human lives. We
should be sitting around having clever conversations, comparing our lives, and giving
suggestions for fun parts of people's lives to observe. We should having the wake of all
time, telling stories and laughing. But, no, it was just me and the squirrels, and they
weren't paying attention to me.

Finally, for no reason I could explain, some things began to become clearer to me. Some
were answers, some were ideas for things I should try, but more were questions.

I had to find Ishmael.

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All of the times I had been with Ishmael were times he'd appeared to me; he had found
me. I wasn't entirely sure I could find him, but I had a sneaking suspicion where I might
look. I was getting to know him, too.

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I went to the bar the night after my funeral, where Dave and my other friends were
holding court. It was still new to them, still was the first time, but how many times had I
witnessed this? The first time I'd been here as a ghost I'd still been pretty pitiful. I hadn't
known about travelling in time, or about all the other possible lives I could have had, that
everyone could have. Maybe that state of innocence wasn't so bad, I reflected.
Sometimes not knowing is better. I glanced around, automatically checking to see if that
earlier, more naïve version of the ghost-me was around; I didn't expect that I would be,
but I wanted to make sure I/he wasn't.

Ishmael was. As I'd hoped, he was sitting at the bar, nursing that imaginary beer of his
and half-listening to the stories Dave and the others were sharing. He had on his
sophisticated bar-goer's outfit -- expensive but not showy, casually elegant. Too bad there
were no girl ghosts to impress. He'd already impressed me.

"Hey, there, Ishmael," I said, sliding onto an empty stool next to him, "how goes the

Ishmael looked up suddenly, and for a half a second I could have sworn that I saw some
surprise or even confusion in his expression. He recovered almost immediately and
looked back down at his drink. "Same old, same old," he said smoothly. He swiveled so
that he was facing Dave's group, his back leaning against the bar. He held the imaginary
beer in his hand. I followed suit, sans the beer. I still thought that felt too pretentious for
me, although on him it looked natural.

One of my friends from work was recounting a story from a few years ago. We'd been on
a training "retreat," at a resort, and I'd managed to convince my breakout group to
abandon the sterile training room. We'd commandeered a shuttle bus, went off and found
an amusement park, and spent the afternoon riding the rides, racing go-karts, and
generally blowing off steam. We snuck back to the training room just in time to make up
our report, which we did on the spot. The corporate training drones never knew; I think

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we actually won one of their silly prizes for our presentation. It had been a fun day, and
my friend's face shone with pleasure in the recounting of the tale. Everyone was
laughing and having a good time.

This was the kind of wake I'd wanted, people sitting around telling stories that hinted at
why they liked me. It was too bad, I thought, that Elizabeth couldn't be here, or Tonya, or
even Tara or Annie. Their lives constrained them, in varying ways, from participating in
this sharing, this release. It would have been good for them. It was good for me, and I
was the one dead.

Ishmael and I turned back to the bar as someone else started a new story. I eyed Ishmael

"You're lucky you found me," Ishmael said expansively. Had I not known that his beer
was about as real as these illusionary bodies were, I might have suspected he'd had
slightly too much to drink. Maybe he was imagining himself with too much to drink. It
was the same thing in this existence. "I'm about to start my new project."

I bit. "What's that?"

"Well," he said, leaning forward excitedly, as though to tell me things he didn't want
anyone else to overhear, "I'm going to retrace the migration from Africa by the early

"Huh," I said noncommittally.

"No, really, it's pretty interesting," he told me brightly. "Just think about it: if the
anthropologists are right, about sometime 100,000 to 200,000 years ago a small band of
early men -- and women, we'd have to assume -- left the plains of Africa and set off to
discover the rest of the world. Within a hundred thousand years or so, they had spread
pretty much everywhere."

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I must have looked unimpressed. He continued.

"This was all by foot, you understand. They had no idea what was out there, or what
they'd find. They didn't know if there would be food, if there would be monsters, if they'd
come to the literal end of the earth. Why did they go? Where they forced out? What did
they think they'd find? What kind of people were these explorers?"

It did actually sound interesting. When you thought about it on that kind of broad scale,
it was pretty impressive. I tried to think about what I'd have done, had I been one of
those early hominids, safely ensconced on my African plain. Would I have set off for
unknown territories? No, probably not. I'd have settled in and had a beer. Maybe I'd
have invented beer, had it not already been invented for me to settle back with. But I
would stay put.

Tonya would have gone. Tonya would have been one of the first to sign up, with a laugh
and a smile. She'd have thought it would be an adventure, a lark. Had she known me in
that life, maybe she would have teased me into coming, against my better judgement.
And, you know, it probably would have been fun with her along. Most things were. If
we could go to the DMV together and have fun, then this couldn't have been so bad. I
could imagine discovering Italy, or the Pacific Northwest, or the Himalayas with her --
awed by the beauty and proud of the journey that had led us there.

Alicia -- now, Alicia would have been one of the leaders. She would have woken up one
morning and declared, hey, it's a good day to walk to the ends of the earth! Alicia would
have organized the whole thing, and gone off on her own had no one else been brave
enough to go with her. But she probably would have pushed her current boyfriend -- the
me of that time -- to go with her, and probably others would have followed. Alicia, the
Amazon princess. Wrong continent though.

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Elizabeth would have stayed behind, I speculated. Unlike Alicia, who had to be going
somewhere -- even a walk had to have a specific destination, Elizabeth was content to just
stroll, or just to sit and think. She might have been in her little cave, wondering what to
do with these images in her head -- things that looked like the world but were not quite
the world. Maybe she would have invented art. Art and beer together; what a
combination. No wonder we'd been a couple. Put television in there and it would have
truly been paradise. I might have invited her to join me in my cave -- wait, those African
primitives didn't live in caves, did they? Perhaps I was overanalyzing this…

"That sounds like it would take a long time," I noted.

"Oh, yes," he confirmed, with a satisfied tone in his voice. "For starters, I have to get the
right band of explorers at all the right points. There may have been earlier groups who
didn't get very far, and even some of the right initial group must have stopped along the
way. Some of that group would have either stayed at the intermediate points or simply
died off exploring. I mean, someone had to stay in France, for example. At every point
there are probably lots and lots false branches. No, I expect it will take me much longer
than it took them, since I have to go down so many paths to get the right ones."

"So you're going to be gone for a long time?" I asked without emotion.

He shrugged. "A long time by my consciousness. You'll be busy doing other things; you
may not even be aware I'm gone. I could pop in at any point in time."

"Of course," he considered, taking a mock drink of his mock beer, "the time frames will
be hard to determine -- I expect 100,000 BC will look an awful lot like 150,000 BC to
me. I haven't quite decided what to do about that."

We thought about that for a few minutes in mutual silence. The wakers laughed behind

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"But what brings you looking for me, Michael Finley?" he asked cheerfully. "I'm sure
you didn't come to inquire after my travel plans."

"No, no, I didn't," I confessed. "I had a few things on my mind that I wanted to talk

"Fire away," he said, turning back towards Dave and the crew. I turned to face him.
Ishmael had always looked vaguely familiar to me, but I could never place him. Now
that I thought I had the code, it seemed obvious, and I wondered how I could have missed
it. I still had to ask him the questions, but I was pretty sure I already had the answers --
and I didn't like them.

"You know," I started in a pleasant tone, "I kept thinking about ghosts and why there
might be ghosts."

"It's natural, " he said breezily, but I thought I detected some uneasiness about the topic,
"after all -- everyone wants to know where they came from."

"I kept thinking -- I can understand one ghost. It's a fluke of nature, or maybe there is
something unique about that ghost's situation that keeps him around. That's what I
thought I was doing here, that I had something left undone that I had to do something

His expression maintained his cool image, but I noticed him giving me a quick, almost
worried look. He pretended to watch the person telling a story -- this one about a high
school hijink -- while really listening intently for what I was going to say next.

"Or I could understand lots of ghosts, everyone hanging around their lives. Even lots of
multiple copies of the same person's ghosts, from all the possible outcomes from their

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Now came the meat of it. I leaned towards him intently, and put my hand on his
shoulder. His eye flickered to my hand, then dodged away. I suspected he knew where I
was going, but he didn't say anything. He just continued to stare off at Dave and the
others, trying to smile at their current story. The smile was game but unconvincing.

"But what I couldn't make any sense of was two ghosts. It doesn't make any sense. One
ghost or millions, OK; that's plausible. But not two. Two just doesn't work."

Ishmael finally showed some reaction. The smile faded out from his face, and he started
to nod his head in agreement, almost imperceptibly. "No, no, it doesn't, does it?" he said
reluctantly. He took another drink from his beer, put it down by his elbow at the bar, and
turned to face me full on.

"So what do you make of that, Mick?" he asked doggedly, staring me in the eyes.

I paused, suddenly losing some of my nerve. I looked away first. Then, almost shyly, I
asked, "Ishmael isn't your real name, is it?"

"It's what I'm called," he answered easily -- too flippantly, I thought.

"Don't give me some Lewis Carroll nonsense about names, what things are called, what
names of what things are called, and all that bullshit," I said a little hotly. I glared at him.
"This isn't Alice in Wonderland."

"Isn't it?" he murmured, almost to himself. Then, brightening some, "Touché on the
reference, by the way. I didn't think you'd remember that." He looked over at Dave's
group, almost affectionately. He was probably wishing he could just go back to listening
in on them. I was tempted to just let it drop, and knew he was hoping I would. But I also
knew we both realized I couldn't.

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"That wasn't the name you were born with -- was it?" I asked softly. He acknowledged
this reluctantly with a brief nod, not turning his eyes away from the happy group in front
of him.

"What mother would name her child Ishmael?" he mused out loud. "Horrible. I don't
even think Melville's Ishmael was really named Ishmael. Of course, when your own
name is Herman, maybe anything else looks good…" He seemed amused by this.

"And that's not what you looked like when you were alive, is it?" I prodded relentlessly.

He sighed heavily, and faced me again. The sadness was evident on his face. I was so
used to the sardonic, amused Ishmael that it almost broke my heart to see him like this --
like seeing a photo in the newspaper of one of your movie idols caught, disheveled and
surprised, in a personal moment by the paparazzi.

"No, it's not," he admitted, before flashing an almost embarrassed grin and adding, "but
it's how I thought I might want to look."

Before my eyes, then, he began to change his appearance slowly. It was like a morphing
scene in a movie, his features gradually but surely transforming themselves in front of

He was me.

Chapter 36

He was me but not me. I never had a twin, but I've looked into a mirror lots of times.
This was like looking into a mirror -- but not quite. Physically, we looked the same,
down to the lines on our faces and the blemishes on our skins. Two peas in the proverbial

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Yet still there was something different. Something in the eyes, something in the way he
held his mouth; I didn't know what it was. It made me think, though, that this me was
thousands of years older than me, that he'd seen and experienced so much more than I
ever would -- or ever wanted to. Despite myself, I shuddered.

I didn't know which was worse -- that time I'd first seen my dead body, or now, seeing my
own ghost. In between, of course, I'd gotten used to seeing other "me"s -- all those Mike
Finleys in the various versions of life I'd witnessed. But this was different; none of them
was standing with me, facing me. I'd come to know and, yes, to like this Ishmael. Him
being revealed as, well, me was like peeling away the curtain that hid the Wizard of Oz.

Sure, I'd suspected as much -- just as I'd suspected the dead body on that long ago
hospital gurney was me. But suspicions don't always prepare you for the real thing.

Ishmael -- I couldn't stop thinking of him as that -- noticed, and smiled again sadly. "I
know," he said sympathetically. "I look at you and I see the young man I once was. And
even this you is so much older than you were when you first died. I guess being dead
awhile robs you of some of your innocence, eh?"

We stared at each other like two long lost brothers -- twins separated at birth. Or, in this
case, at death. Around us, in the bar, things went on as before, but we paid them no
mind. We knew we weren't missing anything; we could come back, at any point in time,
to any point of time here in the bar. These living creatures and their fragile, one-
dimensional time lives could wait; we had things to talk about.

"Why?" I managed to whisper.

"Why?" he repeated, exhaling loudly and turning towards the bar. He rested his hands on
it, and looked down at them. "Why, he asks. How can I explain?"

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"How is it even possible?" I protested. "I've never seen any other versions of me, in any
of the lives I've seen myself living -- not from any of the deaths I've seen myself die.
Why us?"

"I was lonely," he said simply. It broke my heart.

"I'm here because you were -- lonely?" I managed to get out incredulously. I'd have been
less surprised if the world stopped spinning or if the sun rose in the west.

He shook his head all too forlornly. "No, I suppose not. I've been lonely a long time. I
don't know why you are here now. Hell, I don't even know why I'm here."

"You must know," I challenged him, more out of desperation than hope. "What did you
do? What was different this time? Think!"

"I don't know," he said irritably. "I don't know, I don't know, I don't know! I wish I did
but I don't."

"I'm sorry," I apologized, my steam lost. "I just, I don't know, I just wish I understood
some of this." He nodded; apology accepted. He rubbed his face as though it was

A really scary thought occurred to me. "Have there been other "me"s? Other ghosts like
me?" I could just imagine it -- an army of ghost clones, all identical, all searching for
what they were doing here.

He looked at me sympathetically. "No," he finally said. "No, you're the first. And I hope
you are the last. It was hard enough learning about my life and what happens to everyone
the first time. I thought it would be easier watching you do it -- but it wasn't. I don't
want to go through that again."

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I stared blankly at the bar for awhile. I was aware of Ishmael watching me, his
expression somewhere between concern and fondness.

"Are you the same me?" I said unsteadily. "Did you live the same life I did?"

He pursed his lips to consider this, or at least to consider his answer. "I think so," he said
deliberately. "I was shot in the head like you were. Maybe it was one of those lives just
very, very similar to yours -- but I think it was the same one."

I laughed hoarsely. "So I'm really just a ghost of a ghost? It's not bad enough that I
wasted my life and ruined Elizabeth's. I'm not even a real ghost!"

I was chagrinned, and it showed. All that I'd been through, and now this. It was ironic,
but I was beyond appreciating the irony of it. Fortunately, Ishmael was understanding.
He patted my arm kindly. "No, you're real," he told me. "I don't know how, but you're
real. You've done things differently than I did; you experienced things differently. You're
your own ghost."

Whatever that meant -- but it helped anyway. Anyone hearing this exchange would have
guffawed at the ridiculousness of it, but perhaps would have been quieted when they saw
the sincerity with which Ishmael told me that, or noticed the gratitude by which I
received his words.

I looked at him a long while, my mind racing furiously. "If I'm just a later -- or different
-- version of you, and we can see each other, why can't we see ourselves or each other
when we go back to visit times and places we once were in this state?"

"It's a good question," he admittedly seriously. "I guess beings like us don't leave any
'marks' -- for lack of a better word -- on those time periods. Maybe there are some sort of
meta-ghosts that can witness our comings and goings like we do the living."

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"Oh, great -- a hierarchy of ghosts. Ghosts, meta-ghosts, and so on. An infinite set of
levels." A vision of this struck me, like some medieval picture of elephants on top of
elephants on top of more elephants, all holding up the world. As the true believer told the
dubious scientist who asked what was holding up the elephants -- it's elephants all the
way down. In our case, though, I wasn't sure what supported our existence. Perhaps that
is what came of my lacking that religious fear and wonder.

"Kind of like Dante's hell," Ishmael tried to kid. I was not amused. "Well, if there are,
we'll never know."

I turned and watched Dave and Donna leaving; the party was over. This time, though, I
knew where they were going, what they were going to say and do. I now knew things
about Dave I'd never imagined while I was alive. I knew, for example, that on this night
the one thing he wished he could do on this night was give -- and get -- comfort, from the
woman he loved, and that he could do neither. Just like me. Unlike me, though, he was
going to be able to do something about it. My death had strengthened his resolve to not
miss the chance to be with Tara as soon as they could.

"Things don't go so badly for him," Ishmael commented. "He and Tara end up happy,
most likely."

"I know," I agreed. "I was just envying him for knowing when to grab his chance."

"You know, I was hoping you'd be different," Ishmael confessed out of the blue. "I was
hoping that maybe your newer version of us would still be connected enough to that
reality to get through to someone."

"What about your insistence that we couldn't have any effect on that world?"

"Well -- I was right, wasn't I?" he said, trying for a light tone but not quite hitting it.
"Still, I could hope I was wrong. But it was the same for you as it was for me."

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We pretty much had the bar to ourselves. The bartenders were cleaning up, and the
waitresses were clearing the tables and counting their night's worth of tips. Naked, the
bar seemed larger and even lonelier than when it had been filled. Whatever human
comfort there had been in here had gone.

"If we've lost our ability to feel, why is this so hard on us?" I asked plaintively. "Is it any
easier for you than me?"

Ishmael's eyes revealed more than his words ever could. He looked around the now
deserted bar, the quiet looming ominously over us. "If we still had the feelings we had
when we were alive," he declared sadly, "we'd be crushed. Nothing could bear that
weight, seeing all that we've seen." I nodded unhappily.

By unspoken agreement, Ishmael and I went out to the nearly deserted parking lot. The
few cars left must have belonged to those too drunk to drive -- like Donna -- or to those
who had been lucky enough to pair up for the night. They'd retrieve them tomorrow
morning, still in their Friday clothes and probably feeling more than a little sheepish
about the night's events. Or, to be more charitable, maybe they would return eager and in
love. I could, had I chosen, skipped ahead to find out what their stories were, but I had
no interest.

"Well, what now?" I asked curiously. I was reminded of Elizabeth's similar question to
Tonya on what was, in their world, tomorrow night.

Ishmael looked around, studying the stars in the clear sky, before coming around to
regard me carefully. "I guess I'm off to Africa. Want to come?"

I smiled painfully at him. Part of me was tempted, but more of me still felt my future
belonged here, in my past. "No, but thanks. I'm not ready for that yet."

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He nodded his head slowly. "I thought not," he said with a slight break in his voice. "But
I thought I'd ask. I guess that's it, then." He looked around as though this place had some
sentimental meaning for him, and as if he might not see it again. There were memories
here for us, past and current, but I wasn't quite sure why he seemed so struck by this
place. It didn't occur to me until much later that perhaps this was the memory he was
trying to preserve.

"I guess so," I concurred. "But I guess I'll run into you sometime."

"Mick," he told me seriously, bracing my arms with his hands for emphasis, "For your
sake, for mine, and for Elizabeth's, I hope not."

And he was gone.

Chapter 37

I was taken aback by his abruptness; it didn't feel like we had really ended that
conversation. What had he meant by his parting comment? I didn't believe he was being
malicious; I didn't believe he just wanted to be alone. Now that I'd confirmed my theory,
I was in awe that he -- this other I -- had survived so long by himself in this literally
godforsaken existence we were stuck in. I doubted I could do yet -- yet "I" had. So why
now would he so blithely say goodbye to me, telling me he hoped he never saw me
again? And what did that have to do with Elizabeth's sake?

Well, of course, once I had time to think about our exchange, it became clear to me.
Somehow, some way, Ishmael still hoped that I'd find a way to get out of this rut, to make
a difference in that world we'd come from. He hadn't been able to figure out how, despite
his countless years of trying, yet he still had that hope for me. It was typical Mike Finley,
I thought sourly -- just walk away from the problem, thinking the next person along will
take care of it. Even if that next person was me, so to speak.

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There wasn't much point in standing in this dark parking lot indefinitely. No ideas were
going to come up and bite me while I was waiting here. I knew I was tired of exploring
the possible lives of the people around me. Whether I was over that for good, or just had
my fill for now, I wasn't sure. I didn't think it would help me with what I had to do now.

For some reason I thought of a scene that I'd only had time to glimpse briefly while
following Dave and Tara's lives together. This was, in fact, from the most likely life
they'd have, one where they end up happy together, with Derek. It seemed like a peaceful
scene, filled with several of the people I loved. And I didn't feel like returning to that
lonely cemetery. I felt I could use the serenity that the Dave and Tara scene seemed to
offer when I touched by it quickly the first time. So I went there.

Dave and Annie were sitting on the deck of my parent's house. The event was the fourth
birthday of Dave and Tara's daughter, Terri. Terri had been born two years after they got
married, so Derek was now almost twelve. He and Annie's kids were throwing the
football in the yard. They'd grown so much. Derek was nearly as tall as I had been; he
would probably be taller than Dave by the time he finished growing. It was amazing. I
stood against the railing, and watched Dave and Annie relaxing on the deck, stretched out
my parents' lounge chairs, as they casually watched everyone else.

Both Dave and Annie showed the passage of time. Annie still was pretty, but had a few
more wrinkles than the last time I'd seen her when I was alive. I suspected that her nice
hair color probably required some help to cover up some gray. Dave had put on a few
pounds around his waist, and was starting to lose some of his hair. Still, they both looked
good -- happy and healthy. And alive, of course.

Derek looked good too. He threw the football with confidence, and had some of Dave's
natural leadership with the other kids. Tara was standing near them, overseeing Terri and
a couple of her friends playing on the driveway. She teased the boys occasionally, while

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they ignored her with that embarrassed air adolescents give their parents. Despite that,
Tara glowed with the love she felt for her kids; no wonder Derek was embarrassed.

"Derek sure has grown up, hasn't he?" Annie commented to Dave. "He's getting so big!"

"So are your boys," Dave said calmly. "I'm beginning to feel like a runt. At least I still
control the car keys. In a couple of years…"

"Don't even think about it!" Annie laughed. She looked out fondly at Tara. "You and
Tara sure make a great couple."

"Thanks. It's hard to imagine that it almost never happened." Dave looked serious while
he reflected on this.

"How are Tara's parents?" Annie asked solicitously. They both took a quick look at my
parents, who were sitting inside with Bill, Pat, Cathy, and their spouses. From having
watched the outcomes of my parents' lives, I knew they weren't ever really happy after
my death, but they took their comfort where they could get it -- especially from family
get-togethers like this.

Mom was holding Mike D'Angelo -- Dave and Tara's newest baby, who was nine months
old. They'd named him after me, down to the middle name -- Quentin. I didn't know
what to think of the little fellow. He might be blessed with my name, but I rather hoped
he inherited more from Tara and Dave than from any of the Finley genes that had helped
determine who I had been.

"They're OK," Dave said casually. "I think little Mike may be a little much for them.
Terri was OK, but he's a handful. No babysitting for them."

"They're not what they used to be," Annie noted somberly. She took a long drink of her
iced tea. "I don't think they ever recovered from Mike's death."

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"I'm a young man," Dave noted dryly, "and I'm not sure I've ever gotten over it either.
But I know what you mean about them. They don't go out very much. They even have a
landscaping service take care of the yard. I never thought I'd see that. You know" -- he
gestured out at the boys -- "when we were kids they wouldn't have allowed us to play
football on their grass. I never thought I'd say it, but I think I liked it better when they
cared enough about the lawn to keep us off, just to know they cared that much about
something. It's sad." I wasn't sure if Dave was being deep, or just polite, but what he
said saddened me nonetheless. Those were my parents in there.

Annie looked thoughtfully out at the various kids. "Do you ever talk about it with
Derek?" Dave looked at her oddly. "I mean, about Mike and his death?"

Dave made a face. "We've talked about it a few times. I guess he remembers Mike, but
it's sort of distant to him."

"My boys too." Annie temporarily looked crestfallen. I didn't know how to feel about
this. Sad that Derek didn't remember much about me, and sad that he wouldn't cherish
the memories of our times together like I did. Yet, at the same time, glad that my dying
hadn't scarred him, that he was growing up to be a happy, healthy kid. It would be
selfish, I admonished myself, to wish anything else for him. Children never value the
times with their elders, at least not like the adults do. Or maybe the children don't gain
that appreciation until they are older themselves, perhaps with their own unappreciative
children. No matter; you love them anyway. Unseen my Dave and Annie, I smiled a sad
little smile.

"Terri, of course, doesn't absorb any of this. Derek is old enough to actually have the
memories and to start to understand death, but he doesn't seem to think about it much. It
may be better that way," Dave brooded. "We keep some pictures of Mike up, and of
course his parents have that whole collection of stuff that Derek sees when he comes over
here. But he was just too young to really understand."

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They sat in comfortable silence for several minutes. The sounds of screaming children
filled the air, like the sound of pure joy. I looked out, imagining my children playing in
that yard, my wife Elizabeth standing with Tara. It was not to be, and the absence of
those could-have-been people cut my heart like a knife.

"Do you ever see Elizabeth?" Annie asked tentatively. I gathered this topic came up
only rarely, and with great delicacy. I wasn't sure I wanted to hear the answer, since I
knew what it was going to be, but I stayed anyway.

"No, not really," Dave answered at last. "You know we kept inviting her to family
functions for a few years, but it just got too hard on her and she stopped coming. We
thought we should just leave her in peace. She does still sends cards on the kids'
birthdays and such."

Annie looked over at him, wondering what he was not saying. Dave seemed absorbed in
the scene in front of him. I kept studying each of them for clues to what they were

"Paul tells me about her every so often," Dave said, breaking the reverie.


"You know, Paul of Paul and Janet. Elizabeth's friends. I do business with Paul's new
company, so we talk every so often." So Paul had made it into his own business; good
for him. I was sure he'd do well. I made a mental note to check in on that when I got a

"How does he say she's doing?" Annie asked curiously.

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Dave shrugged. "I gather they're still in touch with her, but she doesn't make it easy for
them either. It's like she doesn't really feel the need to be around people. She just seems
to prefer to be alone most of the time. She is the godmother of their little girl, though."

"It's too bad," Annie commented. Dave looked over at her again.

"Yes, it is." They were silent for a few more minutes. I started to think about going in
and sitting with my folks, or going out to stand with Tara. That little Terri seemed very
cute, and very energetic. It would have been fun to play with her. I could see why Tara
took so much pleasure in her company. I remembered feeling that way about Derek.

"I read about Tonya and Alicia in the papers every so often," Annie offered. "Are you
still in touch with either of them?" I smiled contentedly at this; proud that they were
doing so well that they were staples in the news.

"No, not really," Dave answered with a hint of disappointment. "They've gone on to do
rather well, as you know. But I can't say I'm surprised."

"It's funny," Annie said with a peculiar expression on her face, "that neither of them know
about their connection through Mike."

Dave laughed. "Yeah, yeah it is. I wonder what they'd do if they knew." He sat up and
leaned over towards Annie. "Got to give Mick credit -- he had good taste in women."

"Or they in men," Annie replied archly.

"Point," Dave acknowledged. Unseen by either of them, I smiled again; did it really
matter which way it went? I was lucky to have known each of them, and didn't care what
had brought us together. Even a bet.

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"Who should he have ended up with, do you think?" Annie asked speculatively. "The
rich and exotic Tonya, the ambitious and blonde Alicia, or the quiet recluse Elizabeth."
Dave shot her a look. Annie had always treated my dating as a spectator sport, and I used
to enjoy it. I used to be flattered by her almost possessive interest in who I was seeing
and how long I'd be with them. But now it didn't seem so fun. Annie seemed to realize it
too. She apologized, "I'm sorry, that was catty. I'm really sorry."

"Elizabeth was -- is -- really special," Dave said in a soft voice. "I tell you -- if Mick
were here now, and asked me who I thought he should pick, I'd tell him Elizabeth. I
might not have been that smart when he was alive, but I've learned over the years what to

Inside, the baby cried, causing Tara to quickly glance at the house. Those maternal ears
were extraordinary. Mom picked up his bottle and gave it to him, quieting him instantly.
Dave and Tara made eye contact, relieved at another crisis averted. They smiled at each
other while Annie observed the exchange.

"So, are you going to call Mike 'Mick'?" she teased. Dave looked at her seriously.

"No, I think not," he said. "We’ll let him grow into his own nicknames."

You could call him Ishmael, I mused. There were worse things. It was unlikely, I
conceded, but in a universe where almost anything could happen, almost everything does
happen -- in some version. Just maybe not in this one. Too bad; the me known as
Ishmael deserved to be remembered too.

They sat in a comfortable silence again, glad for the break. Soon enough, though, Derek
shouted, "Dad! Come throw us some long bombs!"

Annie and Dave gave each other amused glances. I couldn't help but thinking that, if
Richard had still been in the picture, Derek never would have asked him to play football

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with his friends. I doubted Richard even knew how to throw a football. Dave started to
get out from his chair.

"I guess I'll go see if the old man still has it," he said humorously. Annie got up too.

"I'll go see if Tara needs any help." They started to walk off the deck.

"You know," Dave offered, as though it was just occurring to him, "there was always
something elusive about Mike."

"Elusive?" Annie laughed. "Whatever do you mean?" They walked side by side out onto
the grass.

"Oh, I don't know," he hedged. "Maybe that's the wrong word." They reached Tara, and
Dave hesitated.

"Dave's just telling me how Mike was elusive," Annie told Tara. Dave looked
embarrassed. Tara gave him a curious look.

"Not elusive," Dave searched, looking away and holding up a hand to the boys, indicating
that he'd be right over. "Maybe happy-go-lucky is a better word."

Annie still thought Dave was joking, and teased him. "And I thought you were the

Dave's face brightened at the memory. "I was. But, you know, I always knew the risks I
was taking, and I took them just to impress everyone. Mike, well, Mike just didn't think
like that. He just did stuff and never worried about it."

"It was always going to come out OK in Mike's world," Tara confirmed. "It was kind of
maddening. Is that what you meant by elusive?"

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Dave rolled his eyes and smiled at the two women. "I don't know. I suppose so." He
started to walk away, before pausing to add, "all I know is, where ever he is now, he's
having a good time." With that, Dave trotted over to the boys, and soon was lobbing long
throws to the eager would-be players. Annie and Tara watched him appreciably.

If only he knew, I thought sadly. I wasn't having such a good time. I was pretty
miserable, sick about the havoc I'd caused in Elizabeth's life and of the damage I'd caused
my parents. It was nice that he thought of me as having a good time; I just wished I
could live up to his image of me.

"He's a good guy," Annie said appreciatively. Tara just smiled proudly.

"The best." They stood, arms folded across their chest, while Terri and her friends
jumped rope.

It was such a nice scene. I stood enviously, eyeing the women, the kids playing with
Dave, even my parents and aunts and uncles behind the picture window. It was such a
tranquil scene that I again started to envision Elizabeth there -- maybe not with me, but
with some newer love, and their child. She deserved that, in this life, not in some far off,
lower probability life.

All of the possible lives should have seemed equally valid to me, but I was still drawn by
old ties to the lives that came most likely out of the life I'd led, and so abruptly left. This
was the life that mattered to me; this was the world I'd known and been part of. I wanted
Elizabeth here, now. I wanted her happy and sharing in the warmth of the love these
people had with and for each other, love that Elizabeth deserved and should have had. I
wanted to give her now the kind of peace that she, and only she, had been able to bring
me when I was alive.

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For a few seconds the wish was so strong that I almost really did see her, as though one
of those parallel universes was crashing through to this one. I could have just switched
around until I found such a scene in another life, but I liked imagining Elizabeth happy in
this scene, in this version of the world; not in some remote chance version. My
imagination was more powerful, and more comfortable, than other realities I could have

It would have taken such a little change to bring Elizabeth to this party, to allow her to
have continued her life happily, I thought wistfully. A few words, a look -- all she had
needed was to be sure that I'd loved her. I had failed her then, and I was still failing her

Maybe this was all my imagination. Maybe I was only a figment of Ishmael's
imagination, or he of mine. Maybe all these worlds, all these lives, were no more real
than my picturing Elizabeth here was. That was a dreary thought. I wasn't sure I really
cared anymore what the truth was. The only thing I felt sure of was the existence of this
ghost of love linking me to Elizabeth, haunting me with thoughts of things undone and
words unsaid. It was more real to me than I was to myself, in some curious way. Maybe
it was more real; maybe it was the only reason I was here.

Ishmael wasn't quite right, I knew. We ghosts didn't lose our ability to feel, at least not
entirely. But what he meant was that this existence of ours, with so much time passing,
and so many events witnessed, just wore out that ability. I didn't know what the limit for
feeling tragedies was, but there was a limit; you would naturally just become numb after
so long. And, if it still hurt too much, you would just opt to not witness the hard parts.
You would go on to some happier life. But even then, how many times could you watch
even the best of scenes before it becomes old? Do you still cry at the end of
"Casablanca" after watching it a hundred times? A thousand times? There just are
limits. Emotions weren't designed to have to last so long.

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I thought back to how I was as a ghost at first. So bumbling, so fumbling -- so pathetic

that it was almost comical. I looked at those times now, when things had been simpler
somehow, with something that might have been nostalgia, but might also have been pity
or even scorn. No, no, I had changed all right, and not for the better. I had lost, or was
losing, the ability to be sympathetic even to myself.

And Dave -- Dave was so sure that I was having a good time, wherever I was. He was
thinking of that Mike that took risks without questioning them, who jumped off the plane
confident that the parachute would open.

I wished I could tell them that I'd lost that somehow, for nothing I'd done in this existence
had been like that. All I'd been was cautious and doubting. Death had robbed me of
more than my life; it had taken the essence of me too, and left me as this moping creature
that I could barely stand, filled with regret. I'd been forced to trade knowing what should
have become of my life for the quality that had made all those alternate lives possible --
and I wasn't sure that was a good trade. In fact, I was sure it was not.

On second thought, I was glad I didn't have to tell them of that loss.

Then again, why did I have to give up the one to get the other? Maybe that quality of
unconscious optimism could serve me now. That would be a fair trade -- giving up my
living life to make a difference while in this existence, to help those left behind in that
other world. To help Elizabeth.

I took a long look at this scene. Tara was still holding forth with the young ones,
standing with Annie at her side; still best friends, after all these years. Dave was proving
himself to be more than a match for the young teenagers, and showing off a little for his
loving wife. My parents, well, they weren't the happiest they'd ever been, but days like
this were among the best they had since my death.

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These people were so filled with that elusive quality called life. I'd once had that.
Elizabeth was down here somewhere, probably sitting in her house alone and pensive.
She, too, had lost some of that spirit of life; my death had robbed her of it too. It was
slowly ebbing out of her while she was still alive, so that when the end finally came it
would be hard to tell when that final moment was, that separation between being alive
and being gone.

It wasn't fair; it wasn't right. I wanted her here, full of life, full of joy, and surrounded by
other people I cared about. I wanted that air of melancholy banished; indeed, I wanted
her luminously happy, as I knew she could be. I no longer cared if it was without me; I
didn't have to be the cause of her joy. I just wanted her to have her life back. I wanted
her confident and able to give her love again. It wouldn't take much; all I needed was just
a little change in how things had happened.

Ishmael had warned me over and over that I couldn't affect them, that their world and
mine were separate. I could look but I couldn't touch. He knew what he was talking
about; he must have had the same desires and wishes I had. He was just another version
of me, after all. But the old Mike Finley, that Mick that people here had loved so much,
wouldn't have believed him. Alicia, Tonya, Elizabeth -- they had all had more faith in me
that I had in myself. They had seen things in me that I hadn't seen. They had loved me
for my casual optimism and my trust that things would always work out. Even Ishmael
had more faith in me than I had.

All I had to do was do it. All I had to do was have faith. All I had to do was -- just

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Chapter 38

I was so comfortable. I was not sure where I was, or how I got here, but none of that
mattered. I just knew that I wanted to stay here. It was so peaceful, and I was so content.

It felt like I was laying on my back, floating weightlessly. I imagined idly that perhaps I
was floating on a raft in the water, in a pool somewhere. I believed I could feel some
warm moisture bathing my head and body. Or maybe, I thought, I was floating in the
sky. Only the clouds could be so soft, so warm and inviting. This thought did not seem
in the least bit unusual to me.

I had my eyes closed, and I felt like I was ready to drift off into unconsciousness again.
That black abyss was so desirable; all my cares and worries would be forgotten, and I
could just enjoy this relaxed state of pure happiness. But something in the back of my
mind kept nagging me, kept telling me not to slip away just yet.

Almost against my will, my eyes forced themselves open. At first, I couldn't see
anything. All was brightness, as though I were staring directly into a bright bank of soft
lights. I felt like a newborn baby, not knowing how to understand the signals coming to
his brain from his eyes, and just wanting to go back to the womb. Gradually my eyes
adjusted to the light, and I could make out several beautiful white clouds floating
aimlessly above me.

I was right, I thought with satisfaction. I'm here floating in the clouds, drifting with the
winds. No where to go, nothing to do. Just lie here and enjoy it. But still there was that
nagging in my head -- not yet, it urged. I couldn't understand why it didn't just let me

Something appeared between me and the soft lights. I couldn't make it out initially, then
it slowly moved closer to my field of vision and I could see that it was a beautiful
woman, the most beautiful woman I'd ever seen or imagined. It was an angel, I

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concluded dreamily, come to make sure everything is fine. Yes, angel, everything is
perfect, at least if only I could remember what that annoying nagging voice in the back of
my head wanted, or if it would just stop complaining and let me sleep again. I peered
eagerly to better see the face of the angel as she bent towards me.

Around this time I began to be aware of some sounds, and only then realized that there
had been a complete absence of sound in my little paradise before. These new sounds
were indistinct, but started to sound like perhaps they were voices, calling from some vast
distance. I decided to ignore them; what could they be saying that I would care about?

The angel's face wafted closer to mine. I could see now that her mouth was moving, and
that some of the sounds I had heard calling from a distance were coming from her mouth.
She did not look happy, which upset me. How could anyone be unhappy here, in this
paradise of comfort and ease?

It was odd, I thought sleepily, that she seemed so close, yet sound took so long to get to
my ears. It must be some sort of optical illusion, I decided.

The sounds were voices calling my name, I recognized in amazement. Why were people
calling my name, calling out "Mike" or "Mick" in urgent voices? I didn't like that
urgency; nothing on my floating cloud was urgent, nothing was wrong. All was peaceful
and quiet. I resented the noise, resented the calling. I should close my eyes and those
annoying noises would be gone.

The angel's face was Elizabeth, I realized with a start. Her mouth was forming the word
"Mick" in a horrified cry that took eons to go from her mouth to my ears. She had never
looked so beautiful to me, but she was so upset! Why was she so upset, I pondered
sluggishly? I longed to reach out and touch her, to comfort her, but I realized I had no
arms. I couldn't feel my body; I was just floating without a body on this pretty cloud.

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I was glad it was her. There was no one else I would want with me on my cloud. It
would be so nice to lay here with her next to me, holding her close. It would be even
nicer than just being here already was. But I somehow knew that she didn't belong here,
that clouds were not meant for two. That made me sad. She was going to have to go
away. I didn't want to be sad, but more, I didn't want her to be sad. That was the voice in
the back of my head talking to me, trying to make me understand what I hadn't before.

Oh, Elizabeth! I've learned so much, and I have so much to tell you! Only, first, let me
close my eyes and go back to floating, just for awhile. My eyes started to close.

Then I remembered what the voice inside my head had been trying to tell me, what that
little ghost had been haunting me for. I had something I needed to do before I slept again,
before I floated away on my wonderful cloud.

I summoned all my strength, and forced my eyes open one more time. I found, from
some reservoir of will that I did not know I had, the power to speak.

"I love you, Liz,"

Then all went black.