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Tuesday, December 17, 2013

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Wife should go to counseling about husbands possible addiction

Dear Annie: My husband could be considered cheating. likes to watch porn. I dont Since your husband refuses to care to watch it myself, but if go for counseling, please go my husband asks me to join on your own and sort it out. him in his viewing, I will. Dear Annie: My husband, Recently, I found out that Tom, passed away nearly my husband was watching three years ago. He had a lot porn on his phone at work. of friends, most of whom I When I confronted havent seen since him, he claimed it Toms funeral. was just an adverOur daughter tising pop-up. But has since gotten enI knew he was not gaged, and we are being truthful. I now in the process checked his phone of creating the guest and found that list. Are we obligatthese were actual ed to invite Toms websites that you closest friends even have to log on to in though they have order to view the made no effort to contents. stay in touch with I dont like him Annies Mailbox our family? Bitto watch porn at ter in Vermont all, but Id rather we watch Dear Bitter: Unless your together than know hes ac- daughter would like these cessing live webcam shows people to be invited, you are and chat rooms. I consider not obligated to include those this to be cheating. I have told friends who have made no him how it makes me feel and effort to stay in your life (or have asked him to stop. But hers) for the past three years. he says hes going to continue Our condolences. because he enjoys it and sees Dear Annie: I read the nothing wrong with it. letter from No Early Bird Now he erases the data in California about DPSD, from his phone so I wont see a circadian rhythm disorder it. After 28 years together, he that prevents people from is now deceiving me, and I having a regular sleep schedam terribly hurt. He doesnt ule. seem to care how I feel or It has a name! Thank heavthat he is damaging the trust ens! No one can understand between us. What did I do the frustration and struggle I wrong for him to treat me this have had with this all of my way? I have asked him to see life. I have tried so hard to go a marriage counselor or a sex to sleep at a normal hour and therapist with me, but hes not wake up early, but cannot. I interested. miss out on a lot, but I cant I love him, but I dont help it. I feel fine when I am think I can live with this kind able to live according to my of life. Do you think watching natural schedule, working and chatting with a real naked night jobs and hanging out woman online is cheating? with other night people. What about watching porn Night Owl behind your wifes back? Is Dear Night Owl: Many this normal behavior in a readers were surprised and marriage? Angel in Ana- delighted to discover that heim their late-night sleep schedDear Angel: A marriage is ule could be identified. Heres not healthy when one partner another viewpoint: doesnt care about the feelDear Annie: I am typiings of the other. Unlike old- cally up until 2 a.m. and fashioned pornography, the sleep until 10. I get my Internet provides real women, eight hours each night. I in real time, performing virtu- do whatever my day calls al sex acts. This not only cre- for during my waking ates unrealistic expectations hours with no problem. Why of ones actual partner, but it should this be called a discan become addictive. Your order? My order is fine. Who husband may not be having determines what is normal? an affair, but he is both sexu- Different is not synonymous ally and emotionally con- with abnormal. Massachunected to other women, which setts The traditional three colors of Christmas are green, red, and gold. Green has long been a symbol of life and rebirth; red symbolizes the blood of Christ, and gold represents light as well as wealth and royalty.

Tomorrows Horoscope
By Bernice Bede Osol

HI AND LOIS

If you can separate the personal from the professional this year, you stand to gain quite a bit. Your brain wil l be fertile, but you must not allow your ideas to make someone else rich. Look out for yourself and move forward with pride and integrity. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) -- Expand your horizons and mingle with people who can provide you with new information and general mental stimulation. Its time for you to shake things up and to challenge your own status quo. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -- Put in the extra time at work to make financial gains. Discuss your career plans with your partner or co-workers so that everyone knows whats going on. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -- Expressing your thoughts and ideas will impress your friends. Be sure to eliminate any bad habits that have managed to creep into your life. Avoid getting involved in hurtful gossip. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -- Take care of any nagging health concerns in order to avoid being inconveniently out of commission in the future. Pay close attention to family matters and avoid falling behind with correspondence. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -- A good friendship could develop into a serious romantic partnership. Although this is a time to welcome change, stability is a possibility if you are careful about making plans. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -Focus on making money as well as taking care of your responsibilities at home. Make an added effort to give your partner some extra TLC. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -- Personal changes will have a favorable effect on your appearance. Now is the time to entertain as well as to be entertained. This is the start of something good. CANCER (June 21-July 22) -Be cautious while traveling. Stay in control of your emotions and dont allow them to interfere with your work. Take time to relax and enjoy yourself. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -- Your generosity will result in financial loss or family difficulties. Someone near to your heart may try to control you. Its time to weigh the pros and cons of this connection. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -- The opportunity is likely for romance through a work associate. Be sure to evaluate the situation carefully before you proceed. A poor decision may impact your reputation adversely. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -- Overindulgence will result in frustrating issues with your weight. Make plans that involve physical activity. Someone you love will feel neglected if youve been preoccupied or inattentive lately. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -Focus on peripheral tasks. This is not the time for you to take center stage. This is a good date to change your living arrangements or to investigate some real estate deals. DISTRIBUTED BY UNIVERSAL UCLICK FOR UFS

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