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Can One Book Help Save You, and the People You Love, Time, Energ , and !one "or #ree$
Dear Friend, A friend is someone you know, like, and trust; someone who wants to help you. Hi, this is Dave Christian, founder and author of Helpology, where we tea h you how to help save the people you love, time, energy, and money for free !y using Helpology " the study of the world's most helpful produ ts and servi es. #o how do you help the people you love, either improve their lives, their !usiness, or areer, or any part of their personal or professional life, and how do you help them do it for free$ %hether as a friend, spouse, parent, tea her, student, !usiness owner, or employee, how do you help save people the people you love, time, energy, and money for free$ &n your free Helpology training, & want to tea h you how to apply Helpology to every area of your life. All you have to do is 'ust enter your name and information at Helpology.org. &'m going to give you your free Helpology e!ook, newsletter, and training videos on how to apply Helpology to help save the people you love, time, energy, and money for free. (ut first, &'m going to tea h you one of the most helpful things & know. )ight now, &'m gonna tea h you how to solve any pro!lem in your life !y answering Helpology's !asi thinking tool alled The Question. From now on, whenever you need to solve even the smallest pro!lem in your life, keep answering* The Question%& +%hat's the most helpful , simplest way that works$+ For e-ample, if you need to lean your teeth, keep answering, The Question%& +%hat's the most helpful , simplest way that works$+ .... to lean my teeth$/
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2r, if you want to write a !ook, keep answering, The Question%& +%hat's the most helpful , simplest way that works$+ .... to write a !ook$/ 2r, if you want to help as many people as possi!le, keep answering, The Question%& +%hat's the most helpful , simplest way that works$+ .... to help as many people as possi!le$/ 3est it yourself. & guarantee you'll dis over answering The Question is proven to help save you, and the people you love, time, energy, and money for free. &n your free Helpology training, &'ll show you e-a tly how to apply Helpology in different ways as a friend, spouse, parent, tea her, student, !usiness owner, or employee. #o throughout this training, what you're really opting in for, is what everyone wants to know, how to help save the people you love, time, energy, and money for free !y using Helpology " the study of the world's most helpful produ ts and servi es. 4ow &'ve !een really !lessed that in my first 56 months as a Helpology e-pert, &'ve helped save hundreds of the people & love, an ama7ing amount of time, energy, and money for free. How do & do all that$ %ell, that's e-a tly what &'m going to show you through your free Helpology e!ook, newsletter, and training videos. A friend is someone you know, like, and trust; someone who wants to help you.

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All you have to do to get started for free is enter your name and email at Helpology.org. &'ll see you on the other side. 3o 8our Future,

Dave Christian Founder , Author of Helpology 9.#. &f & an help you in any way, 'ust let me know. 9.9.#. :eep answering The Question%* +%hat's the most helpful , simplest way that works$+

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5. 3he Dave Christian #tory ; < 6. &ntrodu ing Helpology ; => ?. 3he 3rue @eaning of Aife ; << B. Helpology (eliefs ; C6 =. 9lan A ; CB <. 9lan ( ; CD C. )eferen es ; D6 D. Appendi es ; DB >. Endorsements ; D< 5F. #hare 3his e(ook with 2thersG ; DC

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'( The Dave Christian Stor


9lease allow me to share with you my ama7ing, true"life story. & was !orn 9eter Aouis"Domini Fa hini in Detroit, @i higan, De em!er 5F, 5><>.

&Hm an &talian Ameri an raised )oman Catholi in the Detroit su!ur! of #terling Heights, @i higan.

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Dave Christian's )ood *o


&Hve always !een very uriousIsear hing for truth, love, and the meaning of life.

Jrowing up, & attended #t. @i haelHs Catholi Chur h in #terling Heights, @i higan, almost every #unday. Even whenever & used to play the game Dungeons , Dragons with my !rother, & always wanted to !e a Aawful Jood 9aladin Ka holy knight, rusading in the name of good and orderL, so & ould destroy evil.

& also read hundreds of !ooks, in luding the entire (i!le; !ut & didnHt really understand or !elieve it. And sin e, in pu!li s hools, & was taught evolution, se ular humanism, and moral relativism, & didnHt even !elieve Jod e-isted. &n fa t, & was !asi ally !rainwashed to !elieve the (i!le was nothing !ut a !un h of man"made fairy tales, and atheism was s ientifi ally proven to !e true. Aittle did & know the (i!le is the !est"selling !ook of all time with over < !illion opies printed, sold, or distri!uted in over 66FF languages. &n fa t, it is so popular, The New York Times Best Seller lists do not even tra k the (i!le anymore, !e ause it would always !e num!er one on almost every listG
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Also, no one edu ated me on the ama7ing, true history of how the Mnited #tates of Ameri a was founded !y applying the (i!le, like in the eye"opening do umentary, The American Heritage Series !y David (arton. +Be,are lest an one -heat ou through philosoph and empt de-eit, a--ording to the tradition o" men, a--ording to the *asi- prin-iples o" the ,orld, and not a--ording to Christ(+ KColossians 6*DL

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Although our family of five loved and respe ted ea h other very mu h, & often felt & was missing something.

.Le"t to right/& Patri-ia #a-hini .maiden name& 0er*o/, m mother1 2oger #a-hini 3r(, m older *rother1 me, David 4Dave5 Christian ."ormerl Peter 4Pete5 Louis6 Domini- #a-hini/1 2oger #a-hini Sr(, m "ather1 and 2a-hel #a-hini, m ounger sister( & an remem!er trying to always improve myself hoping to earn love and respe t from everyone around me.

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Dave Christian's Teen re*el


At age 5=, & tried to fill the emptiness & felt inside !y hanging out with friends, smoking igarettes, and drinking al ohol. Aike most kids, & wanted to !e a epted and respe ted !y my new ompanions.

(ut my so" alled friends soon en ouraged me to smoke mari'uana and take many other harmful drugs. Aittle did & know, the (i!le warns us* 4Do not *e de-eived& 7Evil -ompan -orrupts good ha*its(85 K5 Corinthians 5=*??L At age 5<, & shaved my head into a @ohawk hair ut.

& thought & was so oolG (ut the (i!le also warns us, 4Pride goes *e"ore destru-tion, and a haught spirit *e"ore a "all(5 K9rover!s 5<*5DL 3he truth is & was mentally, emotionally, physi ally, and spiritually lost and headed straight down the middle of the road to self"destru tion. &n fa t, my favorite song at the time was Highway to Hell !y AC;DC. &t wasnHt until mu h later in life & dis overed the highly informative do umentaries War of the Worldviews and Hell s Bells ! " #.

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Dave Christian's Bod 6-entered


At <"feet"6"in hes tall, & weighed a si kly 5?= pounds. After !eing deathly ill in !ed for a!out two weeks, & read the !ook Arnold$s Body%uilding for &en !y Arnold # hwar7enegger.

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#o in 5>DC, & de ided to try a new drug* !ody!uilding steroids. & started reading everything & ould a!out s ientifi !ody!uilding. #oon & was working out almost everyday and Nui kly gained a!out <F pounds in only one year.

#in e & weighed a solid 5>= pounds, & entered two !ody!uilding ompetitions in @i higan and won fifth pla e in !oth ontests.
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Dave Christian's 2espe-t6-entered


& thought & dis overed the answer to all my pro!lems. As & !e ame stronger, women !e ame more attra ted to me. 9lus it seemed like everyone started liking me and wanted to !e my friend.

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&t was a dream" ome"trueI& was finally popularG (ut for some strange reason, & felt even emptier inside. #oon, & found myself not only addi ted to steroids, !ut also using igarettes, al ohol, and many other drugs again.

Honor student
&n 5>DD, & graduated from Henry Ford && High # hool in #terling Heights, @i higan. @y favorite su!'e ts were Honors English, Honors 9hysi s, and 9re"Cal ulus.

@y high s hool ounselor said & would make a great me hani al engineer.
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Dave Christian's Su--ess6-entered


Around age 6F, & wanted .su ess,/ so & started studying self"help !ooks like ra7y. (y age 6B, & had read more than =FF !ooks !y authors su h as 3ony )o!!ins, #teven Covey, Deepak Chopra, Oohn Jray, (ar!ara DHAngelis, (rian 3ra y, Pig Piglar, and Oay A!raham. & wanted to share the so" alled wisdom & had dis overed, so in 5>>B & wrote and self"pu!lished my own self"help !ook alled How to 'ain (ove) *es+ect) Ha++iness) Health) " Wealth, -ersonal -erfection of Your &ind. @y pen name was +Domini Fa hini,+ !e ause & hose to use part of my middle name at the time.

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2ne reader, named Christos :ourlos, wrote me an ama7ing letter sharing how my !ook helped save his life through the Holy #piritIeven though & wrote the !ook when & thought for ertain Jod did not e-istG

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&n reality, of ourse, Jod knew all along & would eventually ome to love Him. Aittle did & know, the (i!le ama7ingly de lares* +((( 9)od: -hose us in 93esus: *e"ore the "oundation o" the ,orld (((+ KEphesians 5*BL +#or ,e are 9)od's: ,orkmanship, -reated in Christ 3esus "or good ,orks, ,hi-h )od prepared *e"orehand that ,e should ,alk in them(+ KEphesians 6*5FL 4; ,e kno, that all things ,ork together "or good to those ,ho love )od, to those ,ho are the -alled a--ording to His purpose(5 K)omans D*6DL #in e then, &Hve learned that some of what & wrote in that !ook is simply not true. For e-ample, humans evolving over millions of years, having unlimited power to set and a omplish any goal, et . 3he truth is, Oesus warns us, 4He ,ho is not ,ith !e is against !e, and he ,ho does not gather ,ith !e s-atters a*road(5 K@atthew 56*?FL &n the future, if Jod wills, & prayerfully plan to rewrite the !ook and all it Hel+ology.. (ut this time, &Hm not rushing it. &Hm waiting on the AordHs +erfect timing Q instead of my im+erfect timing. (a k then, my top role models in life were 3ony )o!!ins and 2prah %infrey. @oreover, my main goal in life was to* +Be-ome the most help"ul person o" all time(5

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Aater & dis overed, like :ing #olomon in the (i!le, & mainly wanted wisdom to help lead others to the truth. +((( the LO2D appeared to Solomon in a dream * night1 and )od said, '<sk= >hat shall ? give ou$' <nd Solomon said& '((( give to Your servant an understanding heart to @udge Your people, that ? ma dis-ern *et,een good and evil( (((' The spee-h pleased the Lord, that Solomon had asked this thing( Then )od said to him& 'Be-ause ou have asked this thing, and have not asked long li"e "or oursel", nor have asked ri-hes "or oursel", nor have asked the li"e o" our enemies, *ut have asked "or oursel" understanding to dis-ern @usti-e, *ehold, ? have done a--ording to our ,ords1 see, ? have given ou a ,ise and understanding heart, so that there has not *een an one like ou *e"ore ou, nor shall an like ou arise a"ter ou( <nd ? have also given ou ,hat ou have not asked& *oth ri-hes and honor, so that there shall not *e an one like ou among the kings all our da s( So i" ou ,alk in ! ,a s, to keep ! statutes and ! -ommandments, as our "ather David ,alked, then ? ,ill lengthen our da s(' Then Solomon a,oke1 and indeed it had *een a dream(+ K5 :ings ?*="5=L (ut & was inse ure and prideful, !e ause & also wanted respe t, fame, and glory. 3oday, my top role model in life is Jod Himself, the Aord Oesus Christ. 4ow my main goal in life is to* +)lori" )od * sharing the )ood Ae,s o" 3esus Christ ,ith as man people as possi*le(5 3he (i!le de lares this simple truth a!out knowledge and wisdom* 4The "ear o" the LO2D is the *eginning o" kno,ledge, But "ools despise ,isdom and instru-tion(+ K9rover!s 5*CL

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Dave Christian's Sel"6-entered


For a short time & Nuit smoking, drinking, and doing drugs. (ut now, my main pro!lem was & a tually !elieved & was !etter than everyone else. & really thought & knew it all. (elieving & was the .god/ of my own universe, & !e ame e-tremely self" entered, and & was proud to all myself an atheist Ksomeone who is ertain Jod does not e-istsL. Aater, & learned what the (i!le says a!out atheists, 4The "ool has said in his heart, 7There is no )od(8 The are -orrupt, The have done a*omina*le ,orks, There is none ,ho does good(5 K9salm 5B*5L

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Pleasure6-entered
At age 6= & still felt empty inside, so & turned !a k to igarettes, al ohol, and drugs to fill my void. (ut this time, it would get mu h worse. As a so ial e-periment & !e ame a !artender, male stripper K.3he &talian #talian/L, and massage therapist. Although & still !elieved there was no Jod, & didnHt reali7e & was worshiping the .god of pleasure./ (y the way, what .god/ do you worship in your life right now$ (y age 6C, & had !een divor ed three times Kwith three hildrenL, !ankrupt, addi ted to ra k o aine for two years, and my health was failing. & knew if & didnHt hange & would never know my hildren and soon die a horri!le death. At that time, & was a drug addi t and starving dishwasher in #outh (ea h, Florida. 3o survive, & was eating food s raps like a dog off the dirty dishes & was washing. #o, as a last resort to save my life, & 'oined the Mnited #tates @arine Corps for food, dis ipline, and money for ollege.

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Dave Christian's Career6-entered


During @arine Corps !oot amp, & Nuit using igarettes, al ohol, and ra k o aine !y repla ing them with physi al training and good olH @arine Corps dis ipline.

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(ut after graduation & felt lonely again; so & soon started smoking igarettes, drinking al ohol, and sleeping with many different women again. & thought & was 'ust .partying and having fun,/ !ut & was really destroying my soul. Mnknowingly, & was polluting spirit, mind, and !ody in evil ways. 3his reminds me of what the (i!le says, 4Do not *e de-eived, )od is not mo-ked1 "or ,hatever a man so,s, that he ,ill also reap(5 KJalatians <*CL

<nother -han-e
2n 4ew 8earHs Eve of 5>>D in 9ensa ola, Florida, while throwing up from drinking hard liNuor, & ried, .Oesus, please help meG & keep making the same mistakesG/ %hen & woke up the ne-t morning, & felt pea eful inside, with no desire to smoke or drink. & remem!er thinking it seemed like Jod had given me another han e. Although & wasnHt a !orn"again Christian yet, for the first time in my life & started to think Jod might a tually e-ist. & also started to reali7e & ould not save myself.

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Dave Christian's Christian ,i"e


As a @arine, & !egan going to hur h at 4aval Air #tation, 9ensa ola, Florida. (ut & did not ask Oesus into my heart yet, so & was still very self" entered. 2ne night & went to shoot pool at the game hall on !ase and met my soon"to"!e Bth wife, #a!rina. #he was a 6F"year"old, Chinese Ameri an wearing !lue"'ean overalls. & flashed my !iggest smile at her, lovingly ga7ed into her eyes and introdu ed myself. .Hi. &Hm Dave. %hatHs your name$/ #he said, .&'m #a!rina./ As we talked, she said she was also a @arine going to s hool there. Aater that night, she shared with me that she had !een a !orn"again Christian sin e age 5?, and she was still a virgin saving herself for her soul mate. & knew a good thing when & saw it, so & immediately !egan to shower her with attention and roman e. %e .fell in love/ and married only one month later. (y the way, the (i!le says, 4He ,ho "inds a ,i"e "inds a good thing, <nd o*tains "avor "rom the LO2D(5 K9rover!s 5D*66L

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Dave Christian's >i"e6-entered


4e-t, & !e ame wife" entered. & alled myself a Christian, !ut sin e & was in love, & didnHt think there was anything missing in my life. (ut then my wife and & had to go to different military s hools, so we did not see ea h other for a!out two months. &nstead of turning to Oesus, & turned !a k to al ohol to num! my loneliness. )egretta!ly, & was unfaithful to #a!rina with three different women in two weeks. %hen she ame to visit me, & ouldnHt stand to hurt her feelings; so & lied to her at first. (ut & felt so guilty, and & didnHt want to keep harming her, so & eventually onfessed to #a!rina that & had !een unfaithful. & ried and told her & wanted a divor e, !e ause & didnHt deserve her. #he was sho ked and !roke into tears. (ut to my surprise, she refused to divor e me. #a!rina said Jod made marriage to last forever, and she loved me no matter what. #he hugged me tight, and we !oth ried in ea h otherHs arms for a!out 5F minutes. & ouldnHt understand it, !ut for the first time in my life, & felt un onditional love. Aater & learned this ama7ing love ame from JodHs Holy #pirit living inside #a!rinaHs pre ious heart. Hurting my wife and destroying her inno en e and trust was the worst pain & had ever felt. &t was her pain that made we want to !e ome a !etter hus!and.

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Dave Christian's Legal trou*le


& tried to Nuit drinking, !ut & ouldnHt. 3hen & was rightfully punished !y the @arine Corps for drinking three !eers during lun h. & was put on restri tion and lost my freedom for B= days. (ut it was a !lessing from Jod, !e ause it for ed me to stop drinking. At first, & re!elled against the @arine Corps, and & wanted out of the military. %hen & told my wife a!out my ongoing al ohol pro!lem, she ried. #a!rina thought & Nuit drinking, !ut & had !een lying to her the whole time. 3o my ama7ement, she soon forgave me againG

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Last -han-e
@y wifeHs pain motivated me to start seeking Jod, !e ause & knew & ould not !e a good hus!and for her on my own. #o & started to s ientifi ally study the Holy (i!le. For the first time in my life, & read the (i!le with an open mind. 3hroughout my edu ation, & had !een !rainwashed to !elieve the (i!le was 'ust a myth. (ut this time & s ientifi ally tested the (i!le !y reading it as if Jod a tually wrote it Himself. & read the (i!le !elieving Jod e-isted, He reated me, and He loved me. & patiently waited to see if my resear h would make a differen e in my life. 3o my ama7ement, Jod !egan to speak to my heart through the Holy (i!leG For the first time, & slowly !egan to understand JodHs loving plan He perfe tly designed to save us from sin and death through the holy sa rifi e of His #on, Oesus Christ. @oreover & started to learn how one Jod eternally e-ists as three 9ersons* Jod the Father, Jod the #on, and Jod the Holy #pirit. (ut & still wasnHt saved yet, !e ause & ontinued to trust in myself to hange my life.

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Dave Christian's Born again


(y JodHs gra e, si- months later at age 6>Isometime around De em!er 5>>DI & was finally saved in hur h one day at 4ew Renture Christian Fellowship in 2 eanside, California. As 9astor #hawn @it hell had us !ow our heads, he asked if anyone wanted to re eive Oesus Christ into their hearts. As he led us in a prayer, & su!mitted myself to the Creator of the Mniverse* my Jod, my Aord, and my #avior, Oesus ChristG

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#orgiven
%hen & prayed, tears flooded my eyes as & thought a!out all the times & ame so lose to dying, !ut Jod had always prote ted me. As & surrendered my entire will and pride to Jod, & felt the warmth of the Holy #pirit enter my heart. & e-perien ed JodHs pure love and His total forgiveness of my evil past.

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Dave Christian's 3esus saves


& knew & was saved, !e ause & finally put all my faith and trust in Oesus Christ aloneG &t was the most important de ision of my entire life. A!out si- months later, & was !apti7ed Oune 6C, 5>>>, in the 9a ifi 2 ean !y 9astor )alph %ood of Calvary Chapel 2 eanside.

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Christian "ello,ship
(y JodHs gra e, &Hve !een in !i!li al fellowship with other Christians ever sin e. & highly re ommend Calvary Chapels K!e ause they tea h through the entire %ord of Jod, verse"!y"verseL, or any other hur h that tea hes the (i!le as the %ord of Jod and en ourages you to live a (i!le"!ased and Christ" entered life.

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Dave Christian's Christ6-entered


&n 6FFF, Jod led me to legally hange my name to +David Christian+ K& go !y +Dave+ !e ause itHs more personalL as a witness to the ama7ing hange Oesus Christ has made, and is still making, in my life.

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+< good name is to *e -hosen rather than great ri-hes (((+ K9rover!s 66*5L 4((( ,e all, ,ith unveiled "a-e, *eholding as in a mirror the glor o" the Lord, are *eing trans"ormed into the same image "rom glor to glor , @ust as * the Spirit o" the Lord(5 K6 Corinthians ?*5DL

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>h 4David Christian5$


& prayerfully hose the name David for three main reasons* 5. &n the (i!le, :ing David was unfaithful to Jod !y ommitting adultery against his wife Klike & unfortunately did, more than on eL, !ut Jod still forgave him; and that fa t gives me great hope. 6. David means .!eloved,/ and & love to .!e loved./ ?. 3he (i!le says :ing David was .a man after JodHs own heart,/ and & love Jod more than anything. A few years later, one day when & was praying and reading my (i!le, the Aord suddenly revealed to me that .David/ is in the 2ld 3estament and .Christian/ is in the 4ew 3estament. & thought that was pretty neat; !e ause the (i!le says, talking a!out !oth the 2ld and 4ew 3estaments* 4#or ? have not shunned to de-lare to ou the ,hole -ounsel o" )od(5 KA ts 6F*6CL 3herefore, my new name is sym!oli of the importan e of reading and living the entire %ord of Jod from Jenesis to )evelation. 3hanks to JodHs gra e and mer y, & am now Christ" entered and en'oy a spiritually healthy and wealthy life. As a !orn"again Christian, & am grateful, honored, and !lessed to say, .& love my Aord Oesus ChristG/

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Dave Christian's Honora*le servi-e


HereHs a newspaper arti le & wrote as a @arine 'ournalist after & !e ame a Christian*

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Also during my military servi e, the Aord led me to reate a Christian ministry %e! site in 6FFF.
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&n 6FF6, & applied my theory of Helpology to !usiness and reated a lean omedy ontest 3R show and movie alled Aaughshow. om. KHowever, & hose to an el the produ tion after & was deployed to war as a @arine om!at orrespondent in :uwait and &raN from Fe!ruary to August 6FF? during 2peration &raNi Freedom.L

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2n Oanuary D, 6FFB, the M.#. @arine Corps awarded me an early separation and honora!le dis harge so & ould further my edu ation at (iola Mniversity K(iola is short for .(i!le &nstitute of Aos Angeles/L.

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Dave Christian's Biola *lessing


2n De em!er 5B, 6FFD, after attending C different olleges and universities on and off for 5> years, the Aord !lessed me with a (a helor of # ien e in 2rgani7ational Aeadership Degree from (iola Mniversity.

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Dave Christian's Sin"ul -onseBuen-es


#adly, !e ause & took my eyes off the Aord and hose to !e unfaithful to #a!rina, she !i!li ally divor ed me in 6FF<, and we are no longer married. 3oday, !y JodHs ama7ing gra e, & am forgiven, free in Christ, and desire to keep in tou h and provide for all my hildren from my former marriages.

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Set "ree
Furthermore, Jod also delivered me from a more than 6F"year addi tion through a free, Christ" entered and (i!le"!ased, <F"day online ourse at #etting Captives Free.

)lor to )od
8ou may !e wondering why & am willing to share my personal life story with you. &tHs !e ause the (i!le says, 4; the over-ame 9Satan: * the *lood o" the Lam* and * the ,ord o" their testimon , and the did not love their lives to the death(5 K)evelation 56*55L @oreover, Oesus said, 4; ou shall re-eive po,er ,hen the Hol Spirit has -ome upon ou1 and ou shall *e ,itnesses to !e; to the end o" the earth(5 KA ts 5*DL

Sinner turned saint


2f ourse, this side of Heaven, no Christian will ever !e sinless. 4?" ,e sa that ,e have no sin, ,e de-eive ourselves, and the truth is not in us(5 K5 Oohn 5*DL (ut !y JodHs gra e, today & sin less. 4?" ,e -on"ess our sins, He is "aith"ul and @ust to "orgive us our sins and to -leanse us "rom all unrighteousness(5 K5 Oohn 5*>L 8ou see, now that Oesus lives in me, the Holy #pirit reveals the truth a!out sin to me; therefore & no longer en'oy the de eption of sin like & used to.
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+#or the ,ages o" sin is death, *ut the gi"t o" )od is eternal li"e in Christ 3esus our Lord(+ K)omans <*6?L (ut what's so ama7ing to me is, on e we have faith in Oesus, even though we still sin as Christians, Jod de lares us righteous in His sight !e ause of Oesus' sa rifi e. Jod a tually gives us His )ighteousness and de lares all Christians are saintsG +((( no, the righteousness o" )od apart "rom the la, is revealed, ((( the righteousness o" )od, through "aith in 3esus Christ, to all and on all ,ho *elieve(+ K)omans ?*65"66L +To the -hur-h o" )od (((, to those ,ho are san-ti"ied in Christ 3esus, -alled to *e saints, ,ith all ,ho in ever pla-e -all on the name o" 3esus Christ our Lord (((+ K5 Corinthians 5*6L 3oday, & am saved !y gra e alone, through faith alone, in Christ alone. And it is only !y JodHs ama7ing gra e &'m even alive today. 4ow & have the gift of faith in my Aord Oesus Christ that He will ontinue to help make me more and more like Him. 4? am sure that the One ,ho *egan a good ,ork in ou ,ill -arr it on until it is -ompleted( That ,ill *e on the da Christ 3esus returns(5 K9hilippians 5*<L

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2ver the past de ade, the Holy #pirit has !een tea hing me +all things/ KOohn 5B*6<L through prayer, (i!le study, fasting, Calvary Chapels, and :"%ARE radio K9astors Chu k #mith, Jreg Aaurie, and many othersL.

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(ut then, due to finan ial reasons, the s hool shut down after the first year. 3herefore, please pray Jod will ontinue to faithfully open and lose doors to only allow me to serve Him e-a tly where He wants me to !e. 4; >hen he opens doors, no one ,ill *e a*le to -lose them1 ,hen he -loses doors, no one ,ill *e a*le to open them(5 K&saiah 66*66L 4Pra in the Spirit at all times and on ever o--asion( Sta alert and *e persistent in our pra ers "or all *elievers ever ,here(5 KEphesians <*5DL 4Trust in the Lord ,ith all our heart1 do not depend on our o,n understanding( Seek his ,ill in all ou do, and he ,ill sho, ou ,hi-h path to take(5 K9rover!s ?*="<L

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)e ently, the Aord learly led me to my new hur h home at His Foundation Fellowship Chur h in 4ashville. 3here, my !rothers and sisters in Christ wel omed me with the love of Oesus. 3esus said, 4; all ,ill kno, that ou are ! dis-iples, i" ou have love "or one another(5 KOohn 5?*?=L Also, for now, Jod has made it very lear for me to remain planted here in 4ashville. 2ne of the main lessons my Aord Oesus Christ has lovingly taught me through the stormy seasons Kand so" alled .failures/L in life is* 4; this same )od ,ho takes -are o" me ,ill suppl all 9m : needs "rom his glorious ri-hes, ,hi-h have *een given to us in Christ 3esus(5 K9hilippians B*5>L Although & have !een through some very hallenging times Kmostly due to my own sinful hoi esL, & ontinued to pray and read my (i!le while looking to Oesus for His help; and the Aord !lessed me !y always providing for my needs.

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&n fa t, if you really think a!out it, if you are alive today, then Jod has provided for all your needs. &f He hadn't provided for all your needs, then you would !e dead right now. 3he pro!lem is, oftentimes we mistake our selfish wants for a tual needs. @oreover, &Hve learned* >e -an re@oi-e, too, ,hen ,e run into pro*lems and trials, "or ,e kno, that the help us develop enduran-e( <nd enduran-e develops strength o" -hara-ter, and -hara-ter strengthens our -on"ident hope o" salvation( <nd this hope ,ill not lead to disappointment( #or ,e kno, ho, dearl )od loves us, *e-ause he has given us the Hol Spirit to "ill our hearts ,ith his love(5 K)omans =*?"=L

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3oday, & am !lessed to serve my Aord Oesus Christ as the founder and auhtor of Helpology at Helpology.org and as a full"time student working toward my @asterHs in (usiness Administration in @anagement and #trategy degree at %estern Jovernors Mniversity online.

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&nterestingly, while doing resear h for Helpology.org during @ar h 6F55, & first dis overed the following terms for :nowledge @anagement K:@L and 9ersonal :nowledge @anagement K9:@L on %ikipedia* Cno,ledge !anagement .C!/ omprises a range of strategies and pra ti es used in an organi7ation to identify, reate, represent, distri!ute, and ena!le adoption of insights and e-perien es. #u h insights and e-perien es omprise knowledge, either em!odied in individuals or em!edded in organi7ations as pro esses or pra ti es. An esta!lished dis ipline sin e 5>>5 Ksee 4onaka 5>>5L, :@ in ludes ourses taught in the fields of !usiness administration, information systems, management, and li!rary and information s ien es KAlavi , Aeidner 5>>>L. @ore re ently, other fields have started ontri!uting to :@ resear h; these in lude information and media, omputer s ien e, pu!li health, and pu!li poli y. Personal Cno,ledge !anagement .PC!/ refers to a olle tion of pro esses that an individual arries out to gather, lassify, store, sear h, retrieve, and share knowledge in his;her daily a tivities KJrundspenkis 6FFCL and how these pro esses support work a tivities K%right 6FF=L. &t is a response to the idea that knowledge workers in reasingly need to !e responsi!le for their own growth and learning K#medley 6FF>L and represents a !ottom"up approa h to knowledge management, as opposed to more traditional, top"down :@ K9ollard 6FFDL. K%ikipediaL &t was then & first reali7ed 9ersonal :nowledge @anagement Kfrom a (i!le"!ased, Christ" enetered, and s ientifi perspe tiveL is the losest field of study that urrently e-ists to des ri!e what & a tually do as a* helpologist% Q one who !i!li ally and s ientifi ally resear hes, uses, and re ommends the world's most helpful produ ts and servi es. 3herefore, Aord willing, after & omplete my @(A in Fe!ruary 6F5?, & plan to pursue the ="year Do tor of 9hilosophy K9h.D.L in :nowledge @anagement degree at %alden Mniversity and write my 9ersonal :nowledge @anagement dissertation on Applied Helpology to ontinue to help as many people as possi!le save time, energy, and money for free. &f you, or anyone you know, is looking for work, you have permission to share my following over letter, resume, and letters of re ommendation, as an e-ample to help you improve your areer"seeking efforts.

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Dear Hiring Manager: I was wondering if you would be open to interviewing me as a Manager. Hi, my name is Dave Christian.

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"I appreciate Dave Christian's Helpology . He has done an e!cellent "ob putting together useful #eb sites that can assist anyone loo$ing for helpful insights and answers to life%s problems and challenges." & Dr. Brian Kluth, 'estselling (uthor 40 Day Spiritual Journey to a More Generous Life ) *ounder, +enerous,ife.org "-Dave Christian%s. positive attitude, positive aura, and strong wor$ ethics made him an instant role model ..." - Mamie Ward, *irst ,ieutenant, /nited 0tates Marine Corps "Colonel Coulter praises you for your enthusiasm, professionalism, and helpful can&do attitude. He calls you the %cream of the crop.% ... *or all your good wor$, please accept my praise. ... 1ou%re ma$ing a difference." - A. B. Davis, 'rigadier +eneral, /nited 0tates Marine Corps "Dave2s great wor$ ... is overshadowed only by his virtue as a human being. ... His award ... is e3uivalent to winning an 4scar ... Dave is driven not by a desire for riches or fame, but by a calling to serve humanity ... He genuinely cares about people. ... He2s a pleasure to wor$ with and would be a pleasure to wor$ for." - Brian LaMay, Managing 5ditor, The Scout Ne spaper "Dave Christian is one of the most outgoing and enthusiastic people I have ever had the pleasure of wor$ing with. ... Dave2s infectious, positive attitude was e!tremely well suited to evangeli6ing a company in the mar$et place. Dave applied himself conscientiously and constantly strove to find new and innovative ways to align the customer2s interest with the interest of the company. His effervescent personality is unmatched and would serve any company well." - Dan Collins, Director of 0ales, 7otal 7raining, Inc. In summary, my 89 years of proven leadership may help bring you outstanding success: #here do you thin$ we should go from here; 0incerely,

Dave Christian <.0. If I can help you in any way, "ust let me $now at =>8?@ A?B&?>??.

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Jod has given ea h !eliever at least one spiritual gift to !uild up the !ody of Christ and to minister in our hurting world. &f our gift is prophe y, we'll pro laim Jod's view of right and wrong. &f it is servi e, we will desire to meet others' needs. 3he gift of tea hing has these hara teristi s* T OrganiFed( %hether in onversation or in a more formal setting, we will seek to ommuni ate information learly so the listener an follow. Jod has wired us to analy7e material and present it logi ally. T Thorough( %e want others to understand not simply the on lusion !ut the steps leading up to it. %e also desire to help them think matters through. T <--urate( 2ur priority is to know the truth, so we ask Nuestions in an attempt to validate the a ura y of what we learn. %e will also inNuire a!out the trustworthiness of our sour e of information. T Studious( %e derive great delight from studying and resear hing and are strongly motivated to share what we learn. 3ruth is presented not simply to share knowledge !ut with the goal that Jod will transform the hearer's life. T Bi*le6oriented( %ith this gift omes a strong desire to know what the Aord has to say. %hile we may re ogni7e the value of others' e-perien es, reading a!out them is not our main on ern. 4or are we espe ially motivated !y personal illustrations. All of the spiritual gifts an !e used in the workpla e, in our ommunities, and in our homes. %e make effe tive use of our spirirtual gift when we are filled with the #pirit, !ut relying on ourselves will get us off tra k. A Christian gifted in tea hing reaps the fruit of self" ontrol !y faithfully a!sor!ing and applying # ripture KJal. =*6?L, whereas shifting to human reasoning leads to self"indulgen e. 3hrough one's desire to learn, the #pirit develops dependa!ility and diligen e, !ut unless the !eliever a!ides in Christ, he or she an !e ome areless and in onsistent. 3he fruit of pea e and patien e grows as studies lead to deeper faith, !ut an-iety and impatien e result if the fo us shift to +self.+
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As you e-er ise your Jod"given gift, pray for the #pirit's leadershipUthat's how to have the greatest impa t for the kingdom Vof JodW. 3herefore, allow the #pirit to dire t your tea hing a!ility for Jod's glory and others' gain. K#tanley, 6FFC, p. 5?6DL

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#how me your friends, and &'ll tell you who you are. +He ,ho ,alks ,ith ,ise men ,ill *e ,ise, But the -ompanion o" "ools ,ill *e destro ed(+ K9rover!s 5?*6FL +((( i" the *lind leads the *lind, *oth ,ill "all into a dit-h(+ K@atthew 5=*5BL +<nd i" it seems evil to ou to serve the LO2D, -hoose "or ourselves this da ,hom ou ,ill serve, ((( But as "or me and m house, ,e ,ill serve the LO2D (((+ KOoshua 6B*5=L ?8d rather ,alk ,ith 3esus than run ,ith the devil( 3o 8our Future,

Dave Christian Founder , Author of Helpology 9.#. &f & an help you in any way, 'ust let me know. 9.9.#. :eep answering The Question%* +%hat's the most helpful , simplest way that works$+

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.... the ear of the wise seeks knowledge./ K9rover!s 5D*5=L +A wise man will hear and in rease learning, And a man of understanding will attain wise ounsel ...+ K9rover!s 5*=L Einstein said, .%e annot solve our pro!lems with the same thinking we used when we reated them./ X .3he whole of s ien e is nothing more than a refinement of everyday thinking./ X .3he !est design is the simplest one that works./ A friend is someone you know, like, and trust; someone who wants to help you. helpHolHoHg % is the !i!li al and s ientifi study of the world's most helpful produ ts and servi es. (ut Helpology is not for everyone. Helpology is only for those who are open to learning. #o how an Helpology help save you, and the people you love, time, energy, and money$ First, a* helpHolHoHgist% is one who !i!li ally and s ientifi ally resear hes, uses, and re ommends the world's most helpful produ ts and servi es. 4e-t, the word* helpHoHlogHiH-al% means the most helpful and simplest way that works. &n general, most people already tend to think logi ally Ki.e., with orre t reasoningL, !ut how often are you truly en ouraged to think !eyond your ommon sense$
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Einstein said, .&magination is more important than knowledge./ X .&magination X is the preview of life's oming attra tions./ X .3he true sign of intelligen e is not knowledge !ut imagination./ X .Everything should !e made as simple as possi!le, !ut not simpler./ 3herefore, Helpology inspires you to no longer 'ust think logi ally, !ut to start thinking* helpHoHlogHiH-alHl % " seeking the most helpful and simplest ways that work. &sn't it true that thinking is simply the pro ess of asking and answering Nuestions$ 3herefore, now you an ome up with your own .great ideas/ to help solve any pro!lem !y simply answering Helpology's !asi thinking tool alled* The Question%* +%hat's the most helpful , simplest way that works$+ 8ou may not reali7e it yet, !ut in many ways you pro!a!ly already think like a helpologist. &sn't it true you tend to use and re ommend the !est produ ts and servi es you've dis overed in your life so far$ However, isn't it also true, you may or may not know e-a tly whi h new produ ts and servi es are !i!li ally and s ientifi ally proven to !e most helpful$ 3hink a!out it. 2ut of all the produ ts and servi es you've ever used in your entire life, whi h ones are still the most helpful and simplest ones that work$ &s there room for improvement in any area of your life or in the lives of the people you love$ How mu h time, energy, and money do you think you ould save if a professional helpologist kept you up"to"date on the worldHs most helpful produ ts and servi es$

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&mage how your life ould hange if you knew e-a tly whi h produ ts and servi es were !i!li ally and s ientifi ally proven to !e most helpful. &f you had a ess to this valua!le information, then wouldn't it !e mu h easier to help yourself, and the people you love, save time, energy, and money$ (etter still, you wouldn't have to spend your limited time, energy, and money doing all the resear h. Helpology may a tually !e a Jodsend to a healthier and more 'oyful life for you and the people you love. #o how is your spiritual health right now$ X your mental health$ X your emotional health$ X your physi al health$ ... your finan ial health$ How healthy are your personal and !usiness relationships$ %ould you like to en'oy true health and wealth in every area of your life$ %ho wouldn't$ 3hen from now on, whenever you need to solve even the smallest pro!lem in your life, keep answering* The Question%* +%hat's the most helpful , simplest way that works$+ Ama7ingly, Jod revealed The Question% to me after many years of prayer, (i!le study, and s ientifi resear h. 3oday, & am now onvin ed it is the most helpful and simplest Nuestion that works to help solve any pro!lem. For e-ample, if you want to help as many people as possi!le, keep answering, The Question%* +%hat's the most helpful , simplest way that works$+ .... to help as many people as possi!le$/

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2r, if you want to write a !ook, keep answering, The Question%* +%hat's the most helpful , simplest way that works$+ .... to write a !ook$/ 3est it yourself. & guarantee you will dis over answering The Question% is !i!li ally and s ientifi ally proven to help save you time, energy, and money. Einstein said, .Aearn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. 3he important thing is not to stop Nuestioning./ X .&ntelle tuals solve pro!lems, geniuses prevent them./ And Ale-ander Jraham (ell, the inventor of the telephone, a .A!ove all else, preparation is the key to su ess./ urately advises,

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#o the ne-t time you have any pro!lem you need to +revent, keep answering, The Question%* +%hat's the most helpful , simplest way that works$+ +... to +revent this pro!lem$+ Einstein also said, .# ien e without religion is lame. )eligion without s ien e is !lind./X .(efore Jod we are all eNually wiseI and eNually foolish./ X .& want to know Jod's thoughts; all the rest are 'ust details./ X .%hen the solution is simple, Jod is answering./

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@ost importantly, the (i!le says X +&f any of you la ks wisdom, let him ask of Jod, X and it will !e given to him.+ KOames 5*=L 3herefore, prayerfully asking Jod The Question% is !i!li ally and s ientifi ally proven to save you the most time, energy, and money. & guarantee you will !e ama7ed at some of the helpologi al solutions Jod will supernaturally reveal to you when you hum!le yourself and ask Him to help you. +Do you see a man wise in his own eyes$ 3here is more hope for a fool than for him.+ K9rover!s 6<*56L #o 'ust imagine for a moment how your eternal future might improve if you asked Jod to help you in every area of your life. 4ow pi ture what your eternal future might look like if you don't ask Jod to help you. 3he hoi e is yours. Einstein also said, .& have no spe ial talent. & am only passionately urious./ X .&t's not that &'m so smart, it's 'ust that & stay with pro!lems longer./ X .@ost people say that it is the intelle t whi h makes a great s ientist. 3hey are wrong* it is hara ter./ X .%hoever is areless with the truth in small matters annot !e trusted with important matters./ X .Aove is a !etter tea her than duty./ X .&t is the supreme art of the tea her to awaken 'oy in reative e-pression and knowledge./ X .Ooy in looking and omprehending is nature's most !eautiful gift./ X
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.3he pursuit of truth and !eauty is a sphere of a tivity in whi h we are permitted to remain hildren all our lives./ X .#trive not to !e a su ess, !ut rather to !e of value./ X .A person starts to live when he an live outside himself./ X .2nly a life lived for others is a life worthwhile./ X .3he most !eautiful thing we an e-perien e is the mysterious. &t is the sour e of all true art and s ien e./ X .3rue religion is real living; living with all one's soul, with all one's goodness and righteousness./ X .Jreat spirits have often en ountered violent opposition from weak minds./ X .4ever lose a holy uriosity./ &n losing, let's have fun together as we !egin the e- iting, lifelong adventure of dis overing how Helpology an help save you, and the people you love, time, energy, and money. &n on lusion, Einstein owlishly o!served, +3here are two ways to live your lifeI one is as though nothing is a mira le, the other is as though everything is a mira le.+ Again, the hoi e is yours. +(ehold, Jod is my helper ...+ K9salm =B*BL +2ur help is in the name of the A2)D, %ho made heaven and earth.+ K9salm 56B*DL +... Freely you have re eived, freely give.+ K@atthew 5F*DL

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&n summary, !ased on all my years of !i!li al and s ientifi resear h, here is the most helpful advi e & have to give anyone. :eep prayerfully asking Jod* The Question%* Aord Oesus, +%hat's the most helpful , simplest way that works$+ KOames 5*=L 3o 8our Future,

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3he ama7ing se ret you are a!out to dis over is guaranteed to hange your life forever. Are you a good person$ Have you ever told a lie$ #o what does that make you$ X a liar. Have you ever stolen anything$ #o what does that make you$ X a thief. Oesus said, .... anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already ommitted adultery with her in his heart/ K@atthew =*6DL. Have you ever looked at someone with lust$ #o what does that make you$ X an adulterer at heart. #o far, if you've !een honest with yourself, you've admitted you are a liar, thief, and an adulterer at heart Kand weHve only looked at three of JodHs 3en CommandmentsL. (y the way, if you donHt !elieve there is a Jod, remem!er, the (i!le says, .2nly fools say in their hearts, Y3here is no Jod.H 3hey are orrupt, and their a tions are evil; not one of them does goodG/ K9salm 5B*5L. .All who do evil hate the light and refuse to go near it for fear their sins will !e e-posed/ KOohn ?*6FL. JodHs %ord says, .... everyone has sinned, we all fall short of JodHs glorious standard/ K)omans ?*6?L. .&t's your sins that have ut you off from Jod. .../ K&saiah =>*6L. Jod says, .... all people are mine to 'udgeI!oth parents and hildren alike. And this is my rule* 3he person who sins is the one who will die/ KE7ekiel 5D*BL.

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.... ea h person is destined to die on e and after that omes 'udgement ...+ KHe!rews >*6CL. %hen you die and Jod 'udges you, will you !e inno ent or guilty of your sins$ &f you're honest with yourself, you know you'll !e guilty. %ill you deserve Heaven or Hell$ Does that on ern you$ &t shouldG Oesus said, .X what do you !enefit if you gain the whole world !ut lose your own soul$ &s anything worth more than your soul$/ K@atthew 5<*6<L. .3here is a path !efore ea h person that seems right, !ut it ends in death./ K9rover!s 5B*56L Do you know what Jod did for you so you wouldnHt have to go to Hell$ He lovingly provided the only way for you to !e ompletely forgivenG .3he Jood 4ews is a!out X the #on of Jod X he was raised from the dead !y the power of the Holy #pirit. He is Oesus Christ our Aord. X & am not ashamed of this Jood 4ews a!out Christ. &t is the power of Jod at work, saving everyone who !elieves/ K)omans 5*?"B, 5<L. .%e are made right with Jod !y pla ing our faith in Oesus Christ. And this is true for everyone who !elieves, no matter who we are/ K)omans ?*66L. .Faith is the onfiden e that what we hope for will a tually happen; it gives us assuran e a!out things we annot see/ KHe!rews 55*5L. .X faith omes from hearing, that is, hearing the Jood 4ews a!out Christ/ K)omans 5F*5CL. .X in these final days, VJodW has spoken to us through his #on. X through the #on VJodW reated the universe. 3he #on radiates JodHs own glory and e-presses the very hara ter of Jod, and he sustains everything !y the mighty power of his ommand/ KHe!rews 5*6"?L. .For in Christ lives all the fullness of Jod in a human !ody/ KColossians 6*>L.

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.Christ is the visi!le image of the invisi!le Jod. VOesusW e-isted !efore anything was reated and is supreme over all reation, for through VOesusW Jod reated everything in the heavenly realms and on earth. X Everything was reated through VOesusW and for VOesusW. V3herefore, you were reated !y Oesus and for OesusGW VOesusW e-isted !efore anything else, and VOesusW holds all reation together/ KColossians 5*5=" 5CL. .X there is only one Jod and one @ediator who an re on ile Jod and humanity Ithe man Christ Oesus/ K5 3imothy 6*=L. .3here is salvation in no one elseG Jod has given no other name under heaven !y whi h we must !e saved/ KA ts B*56L. .Christ suffered for our sins on e for all time. He never sinned, !ut he died for sinners to !ring you safely home to Jod. He suffered physi al death, !ut he was raised to life in the #pirit/ K5 9eter ?*5DL. .3herefore VOesusW is a!le, on e and forever, to save ompletely those who ome to Jod through him/ KHe!rews C*6=L. .4ot a single person on earth is always good and never sins/ KE lesiastes C*6FL.

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.X the wages of sin is death, !ut the free gift of Jod is eternal life through Christ Oesus our Aord/ K)omans <*6?L. .8et Jod, with undeserved kindness, de lares that we are righteous. He did this through Christ Oesus when he freed us from the penalty for our sins. For Jod presented Oesus as the sa rifi e for sin. 9eople are made right with Jod when they !elieve that Oesus sa rifi ed his life, shedding his !lood/ K)omans ?*6B"6=L. HereHs how the (i!le defines love* .X Jod is love/ K5 Oohn B*DL. .Aove is patient and kind. Aove is not 'ealous or !oastful or proud or rude. &t does not demand its own way. &t is not irrita!le, and it keeps no re ord of !eing wronged. &t does not re'oi e a!out in'usti e !ut re'oi es whenever the truth wins out. Aove never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every ir umstan e. X love will last foreverG/ K5 Corinthians 5?*B"DL. .X if we love one another, Jod lives in us. His love is made omplete in usG K5 Oohn B*56L. .X Jod showed his great love for us !y sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners/ K)omans =*DL.

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.For Jod loved the world so mu h that he gave his one and only #on, so that everyone who !elieves in VOesusW will not perish !ut have eternal life. Jod sent his #on into the world not to 'udge the world, !ut to save the world through him. 3here is no 'udgment against anyone who !elieves in VOesusW. (ut anyone who does not !elieve in VOesusW has already !een 'udged for not !elieving in JodHs one and only #on/ KOohn ?*5<"5DL. .X anyone who !elieves in JodHs #on has eternal life. Anyone who doesnHt o!ey the #on will never e-perien e eternal life !ut remains under JodHs angry 'udgment/ KOohn ?*?<L. Oesus said, .& am the way, the truth, and the life. 4o one an ome to the Father e- ept through me/ KOohn 5B*<L. .& and the Father are one/ KOohn 5F*?FL. .& am the resurre tion and the life. Anyone who !elieves in me will live, even after dying/ KOohn 55*6=L. .Anyone who isnHt with me opposes me, and anyone who isnHt working with me is a tually working against me/ K@atthew 56*?FL. .8ou didnHt hoose me. & hose you/ KOohn 5=*5<L. .& tell you the truth, unless you are !orn again, you annot see the :ingdom of Jod/ KOohn ?*?L. .& orre t and dis ipline everyone & love. #o !e diligent and turn from your VsinsW. AookG & stand at the door and kno k. &f you hear my voi e and open the door, & will ome in, and we will share a meal together as friends/ K)evelation ?*5>"6FL. .4ow Vturn away fromW your sins and turn to Jod, so that your sins may !e wiped away/ KA ts ?*5>L. .&f you onfess with your mouth that Oesus is Aord and !elieve in your heart that Jod raised him from the dead, you will !e saved/ K)omans 5F*>L. 3herefore, & prayerfully en ourage you to make the most important de ision of your entire life and ask Oesus Christ into your heart right nowG &f youHre already a Christian !ut youHve strayed from the Aord, Jod says, .@y wayward hildren X ome !a k to me, and & will heal your wayward hearts/ KOeremiah ?*66L. .... the 'right time' is now. 3oday is the day of salvation/ K6 Corinthians <*6L.

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%ould you like to invite Oesus into your heart, or rededi ate yourself to Oesus, right now$ Aet's pray* .Father Jod, please save me. &Hm lost, and & need 8our help. & !elieve your #on Oesus died for my sins, 'ust as 8our %ord promises. He was !uried and raised from the dead on the third day. 9lease send OesusH Holy #pirit to live in my heart forever. Oesus, 8ou are now my Jod, my #avior, and my Friend. 3hank 8ou for loving me, dying for my sins, and giving me eternal life with 8ou in Heaven. 9lease give me faith to trust and follow only 8ou. 3hank 8ou Jod, in OesusH 4ame, amen./ (y the way, .amen/ is a He!rew word that means, .it is true/ or .let it !e true./ &n summary, if you've 'ust asked Oesus into your heart, then the %ord of Jod promises you* '( )od has "orgiven ou= .X Christ has a epted you/ K)omans 5=*CL. .X if we onfess our sins to him, he is faithful and 'ust to forgive us our sins and to leanse us from all wi kedness/ K5 Oohn 5*>L. G( 3esus no, lives in ou= .X Jod has sent the #pirit of his #on into our hearts/ KJalatians B*<L. .(ut people who donHt have the #pirit anHt re eive these truths from JodHs #pirit. &t all sounds foolish to them and they anHt understand it, for only those who have the #pirit an understand what the #pirit means. ... !ut we understand these things, for we have the mind of Christ+ K5 Corinthians 6*5B, 5<L. .X we know how dearly Jod loves us, !e ause he has given us the Holy #pirit to fill our hearts with his love/ K)omans =*=L. .DonHt you reali7e that all of you together are the temple of Jod and that the #pirit of Jod lives in you$/ K5 Corinthians ?*5<L. .X Christ will make his home in your hearts as you trust in him. 8our roots will grow down into JodHs love and keep you strong/ KEphesians ?*5CL. I( You are no, a *orn6again Christian= .Everyone who !elieves that Oesus is the Christ has !e ome a hild of Jod/ K5 Oohn =*5L.

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.3his means that anyone who !elongs to Christ has !e ome a new person. 3he old life is gone; a new life has !egunG/ K6 Corinthians =*5CL. .For you have !een !orn again, !ut not to a life that will Nui kly end. 8our new life will last forever !e ause it omes from the eternal, living word of Jod/ K5 9eter 5*6?L. .& have written this to you who !elieve in the name of the #on of Jod, so that you may know you have eternal life/ K5 Oohn =*5?L. &n losing, the (i!le shares Jod's ama7ing se ret to the true meaning of life* .X VOesusW is the key to your life X/ KDeuteronomy ?F*6FL. .X living means living for VOesusW/ K9hilippians 5*65L. 3o 8our Future,

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.3he %ord of Jod is o!viously the most diffi ult writing men an read X the (i!le is the !ook in more senses than one. &t has !een not only the most widely read, !ut also the most arefully read, !ook of all./ " @ortimer O. Adler, Author, How to *ead a Book .... the word of Jod is alive and powerful. &t is sharper than the sharpest two"edged sword, utting !etween soul and spirit, !etween 'oint and marrow. &t e-poses our innermost thoughts and desires./ " He!rews B*56 .Jod's way is perfe t. All the Aord's promises prove true. ...+ " 6 #amuel 66*?5 .3he very essen e of your words is truth* all your 'ust regulations will stand forever./ " 9salm 55>*5<F 9raying to Jod the Father, Jod the #on, Oesus Christ, said, .@ake them VChristiansW holy !y your truth; tea h them your word, whi h is truth./ " Oohn 5C*5C Oesus said, .& am the way, the truth, and the life. 4o one an ome to the Father e- ept through me./ " Oohn 5B*< .Anyone who isnHt with me opposes me, and anyone who isnHt working with me is a tually working against me./ " @atthew 56*?F .8ou have !een taught the holy # riptures from hildhood, and they have given you the wisdom to re eive the salvation that omes !y trusting in Christ Oesus. All # ripture is inspired !y Jod and is useful to tea h us what is true and to make us reali7e what is wrong in our lives. &t orre ts us when we are wrong and tea hes us to do what is right. Jod uses it to prepare and eNuip his people to do every good work./ " 6 3imothy ?*5="5C Jod says, .& send it V@y %ordW out, and it always produ es fruit. &t will a want it to, and it will prosper everywhere & send it./" &saiah ==*55 omplish all &

.& will pro laim the name of the Aord; how glorious is our JodG He is the )o k; his deeds are perfe t. Everything he does is 'ust and fair. He is a faithful Jod who does no wrong; how 'ust and upright he isG/ " Deuteronomy ?6*?"B Oesus said, .Jo into all the world and prea h the Jood 4ews to everyone./ " @ark 5<*5=

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3herefore, we !elieve X 5. 3he Holy (i!le is the only Jod"inspired, perfe t, and authoritative %ord of Jod. 6. 3here is one Jod, eternally e-istent in three 9ersons* Father, #on, and Holy #pirit. ?. ... in the deity of Christ, His virgin !irth, His sinless life, His mira les, His atoning death through His shed !lood, His !odily resurre tion, His as ension to the right hand of the Father, His present rule as Head of the Chur h, and His personal return in power and glory. B. For the salvation of lost and sinful men and women, regeneration !y the Holy #pirit is a!solutely essential. =. ... in the present help of the Holy #pirit, !y whose indwelling the Christian is ena!led to live a godly life. <. ... in the resurre tion of !oth the saved and the lost* the saved are saved to the resurre tion of life in Heaven, and the lost are lost to the resurre tion of damnation in an eternal Hell. C. ... in the spiritual unity of !elievers in our Aord Oesus Christ, with eNuality a ross ra ial, gender, and lass differen e. KFrom the Evangeli al Coun il for Finan ial A ounta!ility.L

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.Al!ert Einstein said, Y&magination is more important than knowledge.H @emory is past. &t is finite. Rision is future. &t is infinite. Rision is greater than history, greater than !aggage, greater than the emotional s ars of the past/ KCovey, 6FFB, p. C5L. %hen we ons iously de ide to set spe ifi goals, then we are more likely to see the o!sta les that stand !etween where we are now and where we would like to !e. &f we donHt learly set our own goals, then we will soon find ourselves spending our lives helping to a hieve the goals of others. &f we fail to plan, we are a tually planning to fail !y default. &f you do not know where you are going, how will you ever get there$ Joal setting simply eNuips an individual or organi7ation with the a!ility to make more effe tive de isions. 3his proa tive outlook on life helps us to grow as onstru tive mem!ers of our family, organi7ation, and so iety. .As we make and keep ommitments, even small ommitments, we !egin to esta!lish an inner integrity that gives us the awareness of self" ontrol and the ourage to a ept more of the responsi!ility for our own lives/ KCovey, 5>D>, p. >6L. %ithout a learly defined mission or purpose for e-isten e, the goals and plans that follow will !e diluted and impotent. .Jreat vision pre edes great a hievement. Every team needs a ompelling vision to give it dire tion. A team without vision is at worst, purposeless. At !est, it is su!'e t to the personalUand sometimes selfishU agendas of various teammates/ K@a-well, 6FF?, p. 5<FL. 3his is not to say goals and plans need to !e omple-. 2n the ontrary, the simplest way that works is usually the most helpful. .2ften the solution to a pro!lem is so simple that thousands of people have looked at it without seeing it. %hen an idea is lever or ompli ated, however, we should !e suspi ious. &t pro!a!ly wonHt work !e ause itHs not simple enough/ K)ies , 3rout, 5>D5, p. 6?CL. #in e Jod has given us the freedom to set helpful goals, it is our responsi!ility to hoose awesome aims that have the potential to e- ite, inspire, and motivate us to healthy and massive a tion. .3he visionary leader thinks !ig, thinks new, thinks aheadUand most important, is in tou h with the deep stru ture of human ons iousness and reative potential. " 9eter :oesten!aum, management philosopher/ KCovey, 6FFB, p. <CL.
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%e would !e wise to set o!'e tives that make us want to 'ump out of !ed in the morning with wonderful anti ipationUlike a hild on Christmas DayG .Y8ou have to think anyway, so why not think !ig$H " Donald 3rump/ K@a-well, 6FF?, p. <6L. #teven Covey summari7es !y pro!ing the depths of our human souls* 9erhaps the most important vision of all is to develop a sense of self, a sense of your own destiny, a sense of your uniNue mission and role in life, a sense of purpose and meaning. %hen testing your own personal vision first ask yourself* Does the vision tap into my voi e, my energy, my uniNue talent$ Does it give me a sense of . alling,/ a ause worthy of my ommitment$ A Nuiring su h meaning reNuires profound personal refle tion, asking deep Nuestions and envisioning. KCovey, 6FFB, p. C6L

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%e ommuni ate whenever we give or e- hange information. %e must keep in mind we are always potentially ommuni ating something. Even when we are asleep, we are ommuni ating to those who look at us that we are not awake. 2ur personal attitude, tone of voi e and !ody language often ommuni ates mu h more than our words. Aeadership is influen e. 9eople at h our attitudes 'ust like they at h our oldsU!y getting lose to us. 2ne of the most gripping thoughts to ever enter my mind enters on my influen e as a leader. &t is important that & possess a great attitude, not only for my own su ess, !ut also for the !enefit of others. @y responsi!ilities as a leader must always !e viewed in light of the many, not 'ust myself. K@a-well, 5>>?, p. 5F=L @oment !y moment, we an ea h individually make the ons ious de ision to !e a ommuni ating atalyst for positive hange. .3he ha!it of responding to the inner desire to make a differen e, to matter, to e-tend our influen e to the people and auses we most value all !egins with the mind"set or attitude, a hoi eUthe hoi e to use the voice of influence/ KCovey, 6FFB, p. 56DL. A leader who an effe tively ommuni ate and represent a ompany is pri eless. An outstanding ommuni ator gets attention and lends redi!ility to an organi7ation as well as their produ ts and servi es. .3he !rand needs to refle t a lear purpose and should !e represented !y a visi!le, daring, or determined leader/ KAindstrom, 6FF=, p. 5>?L. From a se ular perspe tive, for e-ample, think of 2prah %infrey, Donald 3rump, or @artha #tewart. 3hese individuals have all !een very daring and highly effe tive ommuni ators. Even after !eing put in prison for making poor hoi es, #tewart ontinued her su essful ommuni ation through a 3R show similar to 3rumpHs, The A++rentice.

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Communi ation an !e one key to su ess. (ut if an organi7ation has the most helpful produ ts and servi es in the entire world, yet no one knows a!out them, then they are pra ti ally eNuivalent to not e-isting at all. 2n the other hand, if a ompany has poor Nuality produ ts and servi es, then they an ommuni ate all they wantU!ut it wonHt do a !it of good in the long run. Eventually the truth will !e known, and people will hoose to invest their time and money elsewhere. #o helpful planning and preparation followed !y massive ommuni ation is a more effe tive formula. Furthermore, word"of"mouth advertising will always !e one of the least e-pensive yet most powerful forms of promotion. .HereHs a simple rule to su ess on the %e!* @ake your site useful and then tell people a!out it/ K:ent, 6FFB, p. BBL. @oreover, .3he !est way to su eed in !usiness is to run su h a wonderful operation that your loyal and satisfied ustomers will !rag a!out your goods and servi es far and wide/ K9hillips , )as!erry, 6FF?, p. 5L.

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2ne of the most powerful and ost effe tive ways to let the world know a!out your organi7ation is through free pu!li ity. &f you an reate a produ t or servi e that is truly newsworthy, then you may never have to spend one red ent on paid advertising. 4ews organi7ation an literally get so many people talking a!out your produ ts and servi es that youHll have more ustomers than you an handle. 3hen on e you are well" known, sending out a periodi press release may !e all thatHs needed to help laun h any new goods or servi es. .3he most effi ient way to generate e-posure is to get word of mouth started skillfully and maintain it with artful diligen e/ KAaermer, 6FF?, p. BL. @i rosoft Corporation gets an ama7ing amount of free pu!li ity whenever they ome out with a new version of their operating systemUsimply !e ause it truly is newsworthy to many people. Free pu!li ity an !e found in the media almost all the time. #o another key to su ess is to identify what has !een effe tive for others, then adapt the entire pro ess to !enefit your organi7ation. .3hink pu!li ity. 9u!li ity must !e ome a mindset, a onstant and instin tive fo us in your life. Always look for opportunities to pu!li i7e your produ ts or servi es. X %hen you ome a ross other promotions, always ask, YHow ould it work for me$H/ KAevinson, Frishman , Au!lin, 6FF6, pp. 6??"BL.

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3his hapter evaluated three general prin iples that appear to !e onfirmed and reinfor ed !y se ular writings* 5. 9lanning an in rease su ess. 6. Communi ation an in rease su ?. 9u!li ity an in rease su ess. ess.

%hen integrated together, these three keys an help open the doors to prosperity and power for any organi7ation.
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Ea h pro ess is a synergisti step that ould in rease the likelihood of e-ponential growth and influen e for any group or ause. 3o 8our Future,

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Jod makes plans. 3he (i!le itself is a partial revelation of the CreatorHs Divine 9lan for His reation. %e are reated in His image, so we would !e wise to follow His perfe t e-ample. 2f ourse, sin e we are not perfe t, we will never !e a!le to reate a perfe t plan on our own. 3herefore, we always need to depend on Jod for His all"knowing guidan e. 3he (i!le advises* >rite the vision <nd make it plain on ta*lets, That he ma run ,ho reads it( #or the vision is et "or an appointed time1 But at the end it ,ill speak, and it ,ill not lie( Though it tarries, ,ait "or it1 Be-ause it ,ill surel -ome, ?t ,ill not tarr ( KHa!akkuk 6*6"?L As one ommentator notes, .Hen e he is to wait for it, ins ri!ing it on ta!lets Kmetaphori ally$L as a permanent reminder and witness/ KDeRries, 5>C5, p. B>=L. 3he fa t we are imperfe t reinfor es our need even more to arefully onsider our planning. Do our plans ome from His Holy #pirit living inside us, from our flesh, or a om!ination of !oth$ But let patien-e have its per"e-t ,ork, that ou ma *e per"e-t and -omplete, la-king nothing( ?" an o" ou la-ks ,isdom, let him ask o" )od, ,ho gives to all li*erall and ,ithout reproa-h, and it ,ill *e given to him( But let him ask in "aith, ,ith no dou*ting, "or he ,ho dou*ts is like a ,ave o" the sea driven and tossed * the ,ind( KOames 5*B"<L At least, if we test our human goals against the tou hstone of # ripture, we an !e fairly onfident whether or not our plans are aligned with the AordHs perfe t will. .%ithin the (i!le you will find the answer to all of lifeHs opportunities and pro!lems. &t ontains all of the prin iples found in every other !ook ever written a!out su ess and happiness. From the wellspring of the Creator, stimulating wisdom will never run dry/ K(land, 5>C6, p. 5=L. 3he Holy (i!le eNuates our su ess with godly goals and planning.

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+>here there is no revelation, the people -ast o"" restraint1 But happ is he ,ho keeps the la,(+ K9rover!s 6>*5DL 9ersonal and professional aims need to !e !alan ed and integrated together to !e truly healthy and effe tive. 3hen, they need to !e powered !y sin ere faith that Jod will provide in His time, a ording to His will. .8our 9lan of A tion should in lude detailed goals and plans for !oth you and your family Q they annot !e separated. %hen ompleting the plan, you should ommit yourself to the following* K5L !e perfe tly honest with yourself; K6L dare to think !ig; K?L take a tion; and KBL !elieve in your plan/ K(land, 5>C6, p. 5B6L. &f oneHs goals do not ome to fruition, then let the results !e an important lesson learned. 9erhaps the plans were not of the Aord. .@ay Jod res ue us from self" entered thinking. @ay we have no higher goal than to see someone think more highly of our Father, our :ing/ KAu ado, 6FFB, pp. 5B="<L.

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As noted from the se ular perspe tive, the main way to su eed in any endeavor is to effe tively ommuni ate with other people in the world. (ut from the Christian point"of"view, one is empowered to a tually ommuni ate and onsult with the Creator of the universe for advi e and guidan eG .3he se ret to OesusH su ess in ministry was a lifestyle of prayer/ K@unroe, 6FF6, p. 5F>L. #o as !orn"again Christians, it is foundational we first ommuni ate with Jod, through prayer, His %ord and His Holy #pirit living inside us, !efore we should e-pe t to truly su eed in ommuni ating with other people in the world. &n @atthew <*5F, the #on of Jod tea hes us the essential prin iple of su!mission to the Father, .3he re ognition of Y3hy will !e doneH emphasi7es the idea that prayer is to !ring a!out the onformity of the will of the !eliever to the will of Jod. 9rayer is an a t of spiritual e-pression whi h !rings us into onformity to the very nature and purpose of Jod/ KHindson, 5>>>, p. 55DBL. %e would all save mu h time, money and pain if we first talked to the Aord, instead of trying to figure out all our pro!lems in our own limited wisdom and strength. .X & ontinually prayed, YJod, tell me what to do. #how me what steps to take. Juide me where & need to go.H And Jod answered those prayers. He spoke to my heart saying, YOust !e in @y presen e. &Hll make things happen the way they are supposed toH/ K2martian, 6FF5, p. >L. %e tend to forget Jod reated us so we might fellowship with Him in all that we do for His glory. .Jod reated us for work so that !y ons iously relying on His power and ons iously shaping the world after His e- ellen e, we might !e satisfied in Him, and He might !e glorified in us/ K9iper, 6FF?, p. 5B6L.
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2n e we are in His will, then through the power of the Holy #pirit, we will have supernatural wisdom to impa t the world and help lead people to the Aord Oesus Christ. Furthermore, similar to the original 3welve Apostles, we are likely to see and e-perien e e-ponential growth when we rely on His awesome power as we ommuni ate with others.

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2ne ommentator remarks on pu!li ity in 9rover!s D*66"?5* Aike a prophet, %isdom takes her stand in pu!li pla es and ries out to passers"!y to a ept her ounsel and reproof. #treet orners, sNuares, and the ity gates were the enters of the 'uridi al, !usiness, and so ial life of the ity and form an appropriate setting for %isdom to make herself heard. %isdom !ears on all human a tivity and has to ompete not only with yni ism and willful folly !ut also with the distra tions of everyday life. KAitken, 6FF5, p. BFCL As Christians, we are alled !y Jod to represent Christ in the world; this in ludes the marketpla e of ideas, !usiness and politi s. #o on e we have !een privately prepared through JodHs %ord and .know what to do,/ then it is our godly duty to .do what we know/ pu!li ly. Mltimately, our a tions will speak mu h louder than our words, and so iety will eventually see lear messages that annot !e ignored. .Jod isnHt limited to natural, human ways of doing things. &f you will trust Jod and keep a good attitude, staying faithful right where you are and not getting in a hurry and trying to for e things to happen, Jod will promote you at the right time, in your due season/ K2steen, 6FFB, p. 5>DL. #o it would appear we should not !e in a hurry to write and send out our own press releases, unless Jod spe ifi ally alls us to do so. &n the AordHs timing, he will prepare, promote, and pu!li i7e us along with our organi7ationHs produ ts and servi es. At the same time, when the Aord does all us to a tion, we should not let the fear of the unknown or the fear of re'e tion dis ourage us from reali7ing our full Christian potential in so iety. #ydney #mith, an eighteenth" entury minister, on e wrote, +A great deal of talent is lost in the world for want of a little ourage. Every day sends to their graves o!s ure men and women whom timidity prevented from making a first effort; who, if they ould have !een indu ed to !egin, would in all pro!a!ility have gone great length in the areer of fame.+ K@andino, 5>>=, p. 5<=L However, we an !e en ouraged !y this simple truth* it is never too late to !e pu!li ly used !y the Aord.
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%e all have any num!er of visions and ideals when we are young, !ut sooner or later we find that we have no power to make them real. %e annot do the things we long to do, and we are apt to settle down to the visions and ideals as dead, and Jod has to ome and say Q YArise from the dead.H %hen the inspiration of Jod does ome, it omes with su h mira ulous power that we are a!le to arise from the dead and do the impossi!le thing. KCham!ers, 5>?=, p. =FL

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(ased on Christian writings, this hapter also evaluated these general prin iples* 5. 9lanning an in rease su ess. 6. Communi ation an in rease su ?. 9u!li ity an in rease su ess. ess.

3he findings support that these three steps will likely in rease an organi7ationHs popularity and su ess. However, the Christian perspe tive is uniNue in reali7ing that planning, ommuni ation, and pu!li ity will !e most effe tive only when we first trust and rely on the Aord Oesus Christ to guide us ompletely. As the # riptures onfirm, +Trust in the LO2D ,ith all our heart, <nd lean not on our o,n understanding1 ?n all our ,a s a-kno,ledge Him, <nd He shall dire-t our paths(+ K9rover!s ?* ="<L 3o 8our Future,

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.(ehold, Jod is my helper X/ " 9salm =B*B ,-"r help is in the na&e !* the L-./, wh! &a'e hea en an' earth., - 1sal& 12234 .Jo into all the world and prea h the gospel VJood 4ewsW to every reature./ " @ark 5<*5= .X %ith men this is impossi!le, !ut with Jod all things are possi!le./ " @atthew 5>*6< +(ut without faith it is impossi!le to please VJodW, for he who omes to Jod must !elieve that VJodW is and that VJodW is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him./ " He!rews 55*5< .X the A2)D Jod said, Y&t is not good that man should !e alone; & will make him a helper ompara!le to him.H/ " Jenesis 6*5D Oesus said, .X & will pray the Father, and He will give you another Helper, that He may a!ide with you forever X/ " Oohn 5B*5< Oesus said, .X when the Helper omes, whom & shall send to you from the Father, the #pirit of truth who pro eeds from the Father, He will testify of @e./ " Oohn 5=*6< Oesus said, .X the Helper, the Holy #pirit, whom the Father will send in @y name, He will tea h you all things, and !ring to your remem!ran e all things that & said to you./ " Oohn 5B*6< .X 3he helpless ommits himself to VJodW; VJod isW the helper of the fatherless./ " 9salm 5F*5B .Hear, 2 A2)D, and have mer y on me; A2)D, !e my helperG/ " 9salm ?F*5F +#o we may !oldly say* Y 3he A2)D is my helper; & will not fear.H/ " He!rews 5?*< .9ea e, pea e to you, And pea e to your helpersG For your Jod helps you./ " 5 Chroni les 56*5D .3rust in the A2)D with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; &n all your ways a knowledge Him VOesusW, And He shall dire t your paths./ " 9rover!s ?*="< .X !elieve on the name of VJod'sW #on Oesus Christ and love one another./ " 5 Oohn ?*6? .X whatever you do, do all to the glory of Jod./ " 5 Corinthians 5F*?5 # ripture taken from the 4ew :ing Oames Rersion. Copyright 0 5>C>, 5>DF, 5>D6 !y 3homas 4elson, &n . Msed !y permission. All rights reserved.
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