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Why Am I Here ?

The Tim Story.

What Is Your Game?

The Champ and The Chump

100% belief
Deserving Offers Value To The World Abundance Mentality Delusional Sense Of Coolness

Oksooooo ....

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The Number 1 Rule

Application (NY GF)

The Party (woooo!)

Be the party everywhere What does PARTY mean ? Self talk Fashion Venus fly trap of desire Remember No 1 Rule

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The Rosetta Stone

Key 1 - how we ARE

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Key 2 - what we DO
i Emotions vs Logic i Attraction i Emotional Spike

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PREDICTABILITY

Chump Ok / Bearable Intriguing / Entertaining / Fun Sexworthy

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Key 3 - How we do it
Pickup theory list i What is the REAL scenario ? i You are my NEW ...

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The Important Things

Be the party, champ ! i Vegas Baby i Life like a movie

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What does it all MEAN ?

Picking up girls is merely a CELEBRATION OF YOU Your CORE - Who ARE YOU ? The tough times make you

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Mastery
The virtue of mediocrity Man to the CORE Man up or Die

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Thank You
Party up !

Closing Definition
i Phone Numbers i Kissing (on the lips) i Make-Outs i Extraction i When you are a Closer (you do them all) To know is to be (be, not just know technique)
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Why People Don't Close

Losing The Girl Self Esteem/Ego Protection Fear Of Rejection (Pain/Pleasure) Outcome orientation vs emotional involvement with outcome (Nintendo analogy, really excited about playing again) Signal syndrome (the signal that never comes) a.k.a. IOIs (Indicators of Interest)

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This talk is not about attraction

Closer assumes attraction.(coolest guy) I am not going to deal with attraction. Starting at the end. (if you see a closer at work, you will see that they almost dont "game". They start at the end. It is on.) Everybody has these qualities. Closer qualities. Social conditioning obliterates them and sinks them into your unconscious. If you are listening, that means "you too". People that dont wanna be helped.
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Role of Kino in Closing

Kino Right Off The Bat (on high notes) Keep The Kino Going Through Out Weird Kino/Solid Kino (high fives, games, hip bumping) Reward Principle In Kino

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Isolation as the Only Goal in this Game

Isolation 5 feet away from the group D(her back to the group) Isolation to the bar Isolation "1 want to show you something".

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Why People Don't Isolate

i Too Much Befriending i Excessive "Gaming" i Fear of Being One-on-One (fear of being caught) i Fear of Leading (rejection) i Etc.
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Some of the Lines that I Use to Close

Reverse psychology (Saying exactly the opposite of you want to happen) Some lines
D 'You probably can't kiss well." D "We would probably not work out in bed anyway." n "You are not my type." D " I don't do that anymore." D "I am out of the sex thing. It is hippie s h T G "Don't tell me you like sex!" n "Sex is dirty. In the future people wont have sex. They will use some mental energy exchange sh*t; it will be clean and spiritual.", etc. REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS

State Based Closing

Pump Her State (you need to be pumped first) High Energy in Closing Close on a High Note (like everything in the game) Conveying you are hitting buying temperature a "I am feeling different with you." a "I don't want to do anything I might regret." D "You are making me feel funny; you make me feel like^ kissing you right now."
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Leading Frame
Prime Mover-lead The Way Lead With Game-stories, Teaching Her Stuff, Etc. (take her to your turf, world by storm) For The First 10 To 20 Minutes, You Got To Lead The Conversation - Keep Talking Engage Friends And Obstacles-don't Be Afraid To Talk To The Others, Etc.

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Internalizing the Leading Frame

Nothing to lose. Be in the moment. There is nothing to be lost or gained. Treat every woman as if she was a child or your little sister Women need to be led. (women say there are no real men anymore) Why guys don't lead. Take responsibility for being a man. (having a iiiiiiiim dick, being the aggressor, women expect you to, fulfil your role) "*
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Dealing with Make Outs in Clubs

Don't Be The Tacky Make Out Guy Most Make Out Guys Don't Pull Break Make Outs First And On A High (keep her coming for more, don't give her everything)

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Dance Floor Game

Why? Shortcut To Closing, Kino, Getting Physical, Etc. Pumps Your State Up And Her State Too Getting Physical Quickly

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What it looks like

State for the Dance Floor

Girl Won't Grind Unless You Are Having Fun Get Yourself Into Mega State Learn A Couple Of Moves (you don't need to be perfect)

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Approaching on the Dance Floor

Look For Girls That Are Having Fun Hit Them At The Same Or Higher Level Of Energy Dance With Them ALL (dance floor befriending)

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How to Approach on the Dance Floor

Approach Sideways And Dance With Her Sideways. High Five Them When Responsive (reward good behaviour) Dance Back To Back With Them. Ease Yourself In, Don't Push It Too Hard Too Soon. Have Fun With Them.
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Dance Floor Monkey Syndrome

Make Sure You Don't Become "Dance" Partner For The Night. Don't Stay There The Whole Night Unless You Close. Pull Her Out Of The Dance Floor, First Chance. Establish Kino And See If She Is Compliant.

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Dance Floor Isolation

Once The Set Is Open And Stabilized "Let's Go Dance" Get Physical Close (go for the kiss) Easier To Screen Out Possible ONS, Etc. Go Back To The Dance Floor A Couple Of Times
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Different Extraction Tactics

Car Extractions Food Extractions No Reason Extractions

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Extractions and Extraction Mindset

Leading Frame (be firm but not needy) Don't Be Afraid To Lose The Girl Do It On A High (when you break a makeout or after getting her horny, and she's moaning)

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Working the Group for Extractions

Befriend The Group Prior Befriend Group Leader (group will follow leader) Befriend Fatty In The Group (fatty won't go home alone)

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Working a 2-set for Extractions

Work Both Girls Slowly Give More Attention To Target Friend Will Go To Toilet Or Disappear Bring Chode In The Set (work the chode) "Hey, she is horny, but she is just playing hard to get", "It is yours, man". "Don't give up on her".
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Food Extractions
Why Food? It Is Innocent, Logical, Illusion Of A Date i Work The Group: "Let's go and have something to eat." Set The Frame Earlier In The Set: "I am so hungry, we should go eat later."

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Car Extractions
Why? Women Wont Object To Your Car But Will Object Going Home With You. Set Up Your Car In Dark Alley Or Sex-Friendly Location Set The Frame Early "Don't worry, I will give you A ride home later." "Let's Go For A Walk"- You Walk Towards Your Car "Randomly." Easier To Have Sex In The Car Than At Home.
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"No Reason" Extractions

Strong Leading Frame (don't take "no" for an answer) Do It On A High "Let's go" "Where?" "Don't worry". Keep It Short And Simple.

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Thoughts for Turning Her On In Bed: LMR Prevention

"I am tired" frame "You won't get it up tonight anyways" Make Her Horny And Give Her Your Back On A High.

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Being Cool with Her About the ONS (One Night Stand)
Make Sure She Doesn't Feel Judged "Oh, my god, this is crazy, I normally don't do this." Phrase Her Thoughts For Her: "I cant believe I am so turned on; I just met you. This is so unusual for me.", etc.

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Be Fair With Her

i Don't Give Her False Expectations Be Cool About The ONS. Frame It As: "It happened." i Don't Ever Talk About What Happened Judgmentally, Etc.

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Give Little or No Importance to Sex

Why? Women Wont Give It Either. A Woman Can Have Sex Anytime She Wants. In The End, Nothing Is Gained Or Lost. Be Fun. Sex Is Fun, Not Some Dirty Thing That We Have To Hide. Frame It. The Less Important Sex Is To You, The More You Will Be Offered It. The Less You Need It, The More You Are Gonna Get. Erase Sex From Your Mind When Interacting With Women.
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On Becoming a Closer
When You Are Afraid To Close, That's Usually The Best Time To Do It. Attach No Importance To The Fact That You Are Closing Her. Be Cool. Don't Think Of Sex When Closing. Remove Sex From Your Head. Focus On Fun, Etc. The Most Important Step In Closing Is: Closing! The More You Try To Close, The More Pussy You Will Get.
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The Care and Feeding of Your Game

The Sagaof JIaix

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Why I Left: The Fallout

Dark times Game made my problems WORSE

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Redemption
Leverage Spain Perspective

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The Validation Issue Significance Celibacy My Game Now

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Balance
Your Life Goals Improvement

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Focus
The Attraction Principle Positivity Frame Control State Control Self-Defeating Tendencies

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The Fundamentals
Coach John Wooden You're never "too good." Discipline Intent Process over outcome Flexibility

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"The Zone"
What is it? Having fun vs. "picking up: Play to win

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Play to Your Strengths

Niches The Ungayer

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The Naturally Attractive Character

Not a shadow dweller Be unique Emotionally affecting others

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Rhythm
What it is Why it is so important

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Being a Man
i The male/female dynamic i Female emotional response i Think about how you make your points i Be concise i Facing your fear

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Don't Drink the Haterade

It's okay to get hated on. The "Generalized Other" Don't worry about your reputation, that's just what people think about you. Worry about your character, because that's who you really ARE. Karma Buddha's thoughts
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Your Championship Team

Maintaining a healthy social circle The value of female friends

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Contribution: Giving Value

The relationship equation i Contribution IS significance, not "supplication" Consistency, not perfection This is a gift.

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The Adventures of Hoobie

What I expect from you today.

This will be another day of dense material. Like drinking water from a fire hose. Be an active listener and if you are called up, be an enthusiastic participant in the seminar.

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Affirmations
I am proud of my desires as a man. I move through the world without apology. I was made to satisfy women. I don't need any particular woman. Women are abundant.

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Affirmations (cont...)
I do not dwell on the past. The past can not be re-lived. Good or bad. Rejection is a great thing. The more I get rejected, the more I will get laid. There are no mistakes, and no failures - only experience and growth. Every rejection becomes a brick in my palace. I can controi how I interact with other people. The choice is mine.
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Introduction My Story. The journey of one PUA. My personal understanding on commonly held beliefs, and my interpretation and integration of them. The path to becoming a fully fledged PUA. The different stages you will go through.

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My Story: Where was I four years ago?

Where I came from. Before (2002):

My former destiny

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2003: The Year of My Rebirth.

Overhauling my personal self doubts and the gradual breaking down of these as I gained more experience and overhauled my belief system. Books - Personally for me books that affected me the most were ones relating to evolutionary biology. Mainly because they exposed how contrived our social constructs are. "The Selfish Gene" by Richard Dawkins. The people that I met.

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Where Am I Now?
In love.

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My Options and Choices

Girls, girls and girls...

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If I Can Do It, So Can You

"If I can do it, YOU can do it". "I look around and I see a room of guys who are taking control of their lives." Men who will not be satisfied with mediocrity. Guys who will be leaders. Each and every one of you has the potential to be the best.

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What Counts
I have met the most successful in terms of guys who are good. The only difference between you and them is not in the looks or their wealth, but their attitudes and their psychology. Becoming a man of action.

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Becoming Successful with Women

80% of your success will come from 20% of your efforts. When you make your big gains, they'll happen very fast and very suddenly. The biggest trick in becoming successful at this game is to not allow the frustration to cause you to give up. You will become what you think about.

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Limitations
"The world places enough limitations on you without you having to go placing them on yourself." Set goals, and visualise the outcomes you want from this game. Practice picturing yourself as the man you want to become until you have fully come to accept it.
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Common stages in the game.

(i) Initial exposure to the theory of game. (ii) Practising the mechanics of approaching, and social interactions (iii) Consistently gaining attraction and number closes (iv) Occasional dates and a lot offtakes. (v) The plateau - frustration and disillusionment. (vi) Dropping "game" and developing your lifestyle. (vii) Gaining mastery and insight (viii) Intelligently applying tactics, routines and techniques to get consistent results. (ix) Doing what makes you happy: LTR, cultivating a harem of mLTRs and FBs, threesomes, pimping etc.

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Leading Frame
Be the prime mover - lead the way Pull her into your frame, be the one that others are reacting to. Lead with game: conversation, body language, calibration and charisma. You are a high value alpha male. For the first 10 to 20 minutes, you've got to lead the conversation - Keep talking Engage friends and obstacles-don't be afraid to talk to, others, etc.

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Interacting with Women

Male/Female polarities. Personal revelations as to how important this is to your interactions and pick ups. Reward good behaviour and punish bad behaviour. By giving her more or less attention accordingly. Men: gain validation through sex ^^ Women: gain validation through attention ^ ^ f l B

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Initiative
i Don't be afraid to take charge and sweep her off her feet. i Lead with passion and conviction - be the ravisher! i Keeping the initiative to the very end. i The Car Analogy.

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Attitude
The attitude of someone who has power and true self confidence. Walking through the world with the attitude of not giving a f ck about what people think of you. Develop this zone in your mind. Be an optimistic person that others enjoy being around. You are a positive force in the world You are the guy having the most fun in the whole room.

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Appearances and First Impressions

The importance of your first impression. Malcolm Gladwell - "Blink" People make a snap judgment of you and everything you do beyond that will be seen through the filter of this first impression. The importance of your appearance: grooming and dress. Conveying style and sexuality in your look. Your attractiveness as a man will depend a great deal on how much you like and respect yourself. What are you projecting out into the world?

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My Personal Tactics/Techniques
You need to move her emotionally and placate her logically. Cold reading. Simple formula D "and" / "but" Giving rapport "making statements rather than asking questions". Your surface observation -> what that means The style of communication rather then the particular content of what's coming out of your r REM SOClAl DYNAMICS

My Personal Tactics / Techniques (cont....)

The conversation tree. Many different branches and paths you can take it. The Hoobie Camera Sexual Escalation - use your digital camera to draw her attention away from the sexual consequences. Push/Pull - maintaining the tension. Your sense of calibration will develop with experience.

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Closing...
The mindset of a Closer a Someone who gets the results. Taking action and doing everything that is within your power to get the outcome, because that's what the world respects. People are tired of listening to your excuses. If you can't show that you can get the lays then you aren't a PUA. Don't be satisfied by your excuses and things will happen.

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Final Points
Cultivate concurrent interests. Women are very suspicious of men who only have game as their sole purpose in life. This will take time, but time will pass anyway. Have faith in yourself. Make are a decision to commit.

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My Experiences In The Game

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Where I'm coming from

Many of you are naturals at this, looking to make further improvements. You've come to the right place. At the same time, I want to share where I was coming from, which was a lower place - Both for inspiration, and also to be open about who I am.
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Personal stories and my goals

What I'm going to share is personal. I have no problem doing this, and never have. Everyone has their own issues. Whatever. My goal has always been to leave an open and honest ledger of my journey. There is a lot to be learned from it, but that can only be if I'm 100% forthcoming.
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Growing up, I was (and probably still am) a total dork

I often felt frustrated towards my experience with women overall. I had a weak sense of reality. I dealt with depression, negativity, pessimism, victimization/persecutionmania, and probably any other typically North American pseudo-problem you could give a fancy name to.
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Symptoms
I qualified myself constantly. I lived in a state of constant rationalization. I was anti-establishment and had disdain for all forms of authority (including the ones that helped me). I had a sense of who I was that was dictated to me by others.
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The few good things I had going

Since I was a kid, I knew I had a real problem with fear. To get over this, I made a commitment to myself to do everything that I was afraid of. This had partial bad consequences (getting in trouble a lot), but was good for me overall.
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The few good things I had going (cont...)

At age 15, a major shift in my life was deciding to take responsibility for every outcome in my life, even if it technically wasn't my fault. This helped me with the victim-complex I had, and amazingly I found that my life went a lot better if I just took responsibilil
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One Thing I Always Knew

I've always known that nothing would come easy to me in life. I guess it would have been cool if I was one of those tall, naturally intelligent, built guys. But I'm not. That's fine.

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My Natural Abilities (or lack thereof)

My natural weight was about 120 pounds. In sports I pretty much got pounded. If I studied in school as much as most people, I would barely pass.

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My Natural Abilities (or lack thereof)-(cont...)

I was TERRIFIED of public speaking. In the fourth grade I avoided doing my class speech for six months. Picking up on concepts tended to take a bit longer for me, and usually still does. If I decide to continue to live an openly public life (or expand upon it), you will surely see a series of more screw ups at various points.
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I accept my weaknesses, and strive to improve them

All of this is fine. I believe it makes me a more complex, interesting human being. To be totally honest, I don't believe any of this "lowers my value" in the slightest. I embrace my flaws. I work on them. It's a major hobby of mine.
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My Thesis: Why Most People Fail

Most guys simply don't have the emotional leverage that I have. They just don't want this badly enough. If they did, they'd get it. I did, and I strongly doubt that I was coming from any better place than anyone is. As funny as it sounds, I consider this to be a proof that is pretty much self-evident - most guys just don't want it badly enough.
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Why Most People Fail (cont...)

Most guys have never gone to the gym, and pushed through plateaus. Most guys can't take on a new diet and stick to it. Most guys will not start reading a great book and finish it. Frankly, most guys can't stick to anythj
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Welcome to the magic-pill era

In "The Conquest Of Happiness," Bertrand Russell (a brilliant philosopher on many levels) brought up an issue: Children should not be given too much instantstimulation at a young age. Slow, steady, incremental long-term progress is simply outside of most people's reality. It's a shame.
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The 80/20 Rule of Self-Help

100% of guys who take this program will have STELLAR skills by the end. However, around 80% of guys who do will eventually drop out, easily satisfied with the notion that: "It's not my fault, it's just my skill set that needs work. Now that I've heard about this stuff, I'll get it sorted out at some point." Then they go back to playing dungeons and dragons and spanking it to net porn.
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Incompetence
The poor guys lose focus, and move on to some other stimulation/instant-gratification. I can offer world-class help: live demonstration, wing them, take them through the process on every level (even help them get the girls home). But ultimately, many will forget about it, and don't follow up with what they were taught.

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The fool's wish

The incompetents wants more than a skill set out of a weekend like this. What they want to be HANDED the motivation and life-skills to stick at something. It can be taught (we'll go over the basics right now), but habit and perseverance can only be INTERNALIZED on your own.
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Thank You From the 20% Club!

The reality is this: the guys who take a program like this and don't follow up afterwards exist to help the 20% who know how to stick at something they really want. They help to fund this program. Without them it couldn't exist. If you are a part of the 80% they thank you for helping to fund THEIR transformatic
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All kidding aside, don't be in the 80% Club. They suck.

Does this piss you off? Good. I say this to antagonize and motivate you. Please, please, please - do NOT allow yourself to be in the 80% club. Find your motivation and leverage.

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READ
Because your parents probably didn't teach you these skills, I recommend that you do what I've done and still do: READ. Constant reading loads your mind with the right software. Reading enriches your mind on many levels, and does crazy things for your confidence.
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Some perspective-altering readings

Ayn Rand, "Atlas Shrugged" Anthony Robbins, "Awaken The Giant Within" James Allen, "As A Man Thinketh" Napolean Hill, "Think And Grow Rich" Chuck Palahniuk, "Fight Club" & "Lullaby" Matt Ridley, "The Red Queen"
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Finish what you start

i There are so many amazing books. i When you go to a bookstore, you will see so many books. You want to read them all. You want the wisdom inside them. NOW. i Start with ONE and actually finish it. Then continue.
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The wisdom you will find

i Particularly with guys like Anthony Robbins, you will learn the types of lifeskills that it takes to be successful at EVERYTHING (including picking up girls, if you apply it to that). i The point is this: to get good at this you will require the exact same skills that you would to get good at ANYTHING ^ ^ 4>
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The wisdom you will find (cont...)

We (RSD) will tell you what to do. But ultimately, you must take responsibility for your own success. Particularly after the program ends, and you're on your own. I've given you the names of some life changing resources here. Use them.

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Going out is USUALLY fun

Going out is usually fun. BUT, there are plateaus and challenges. You will experience everything from failed relationships to cheating to identity snapbacks where you want to fall back into your old habits. That's where perseverance comes in.
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Most guys just can't hack it

i Most guys have a belief that if they go to their job and act like good little spokes in the wheel of society, that their money can take care of all their problems. i The fact that they did what they were supposed to should be enough.

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Most guys just can't hack it (cont...)

To good at this takes perseverance to push through setbacks or plateaus. It takes total determination to push through emotion - REGULARLY. Most of all, it requires you to do a lot of independent assessment of what you need.

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Most guys just can't hack it (cont...)

You need to get creative to bring yourself to the next level and round yourself out. Do you need to become more masculine? Maybe you take up a rough sport. Do you need to become better at breaking rapport? Maybe you spend a month teasing people.
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Most guys just can't hack it (cont...)

Do you need to become better at connecting? Maybe you spend a month being really, really friendly. Do you need to convey more energy? Do you need to tone it down? Maybe you spend a month working on that. Ultimately, it's up to YOU to make these choices.
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Most guys just can't hack it (cont...)

Unfortunately, most guys need to be told what to do. They can't make these decisions without a product to tell them what to do. Just keep looking bro! You'll find that magic-pill! You can avoid facing the larger issue! For only $19.95! Right...
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Most guys just can't hack it (cont...)

Most guys have never invested in themselves. I spend time and money on myself all the time. I invest in myself constantly. If I go to a seminar that I paid 5000$ for, and I get one or two ideas that I genuinely never would have thought of, I consider that to be a good investment.
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Most guys just can't hack it (cont...)

I bet most guys would probably freak out at only one or two nice pieces. Not me. I'm constantly investing in myself, so I trust myself 100% to get back 100 times whatever I put my time or money into. A single idea can be a breakthrough for me, and has been many times.
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My most valued asset

My most valued asset is MY BRAIN. At a young age I'd LOST more money in business than most guys will ever make. Making bad decisions. Dealing with incompetence. Being extorted or blatantly ripped off. These are all lessons I've learned to deal with before the age of 2J
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My most valued asset (cont...)

11 have no regrets. i As far as I'm concerned, everything bad that ever happened to me I WAS IN CONTROL OF. 11 don't beat myself up over it. That's as dumb as being a victim. 11 just take the lesson for what it is.
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My most valued asset (cont...)

The more nonsense you go through, the more your emotions mess with you. As you become accustomed to dealing with pain and uncertainty, you grow comfortable with it and you become emotionally stronger than the next man. This is a good thing. Embrace it.
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More on my path and perseverance

Plain and simply: I want success badder than you. I'm willing to push myself. I will find a way to get done what I want done. I accept nothing but the best from myself, and nor should you.
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While you're watching television...

i While you're sitting at home watching television, I'm in the lab tinkering and brainstorming. i I'll try a hundred things that don't work. i Just like I burned stupid amounts of funds on failed business experiments at a young age, I have burnt countless hours trying things that the magic-pill junkies won t J B ^
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My Journey
i With every step, I learned a new lesson. 11 always had a rough idea of what I was looking for, so as failures happened I LEARNED.

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Personal Anecdotes
Here is some of what I've seen to get to the level I'm at.

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THE PAYOFF IS WORTH IT

I wouldn't trade being at the level I'm at now for anything in the world. Seriously - this skill is worth it not only for the major options in giris, but also for everything psychological and practical that goes along with it. The payoff is worth it. Make it happen.^
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