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Wives Behind the Badge presents: Heroes in Blue Donate Too
WIVES BEHIND THE BADGE, INC. AUXILIARY PROGRAM TO HOST
Volume 2, Issue 1
Blood Drive ..2-3 Presidents Corner ...4-5 10-8 With The Chief .......6-7 Staff Feature ~ Mendi Keatts ~.....8-9 Forums ......10-15 Auxiliaries ....16-17 FBTB....18-19 BLK..20-21 Hero Feature/LE Events ....22-23 Scholarships/Board of Directors ....24-25 KARE...26-27 HALOS...28-35 WBTB Stores...36-37 Blue Lights Specials ...38-41 Partners ...42-44 January Calendar ...46 WBTB References ...47
SPECIAL POINTS OF INTEREST Staff Member Mendi Keatts has been with WBTB since 2007 and is an instrumental part of the organization. Auxiliary highlight of the month is #10 Florida The WBTB Childrens scholarship program is NOW OPEN!
MICHIGAN
NEVADA NEW JERSEY NEW YORK SOUTH CAROLINA WEST VIRGINIA
Show us that your community cares by donating this month through one of our state auxiliary-hosted blood drives across the country during the month of January. Every two seconds, someone in the United States needs blood; the process of giving takes ten minutes. Together, by reaching 100 donors, we can save a mother, father, son, daughter, aunt, uncle, sister or brother. We need your help! Contact your state auxiliary to find a location nearest you.
As the new year begins we may stop and ask ourselves, Do I have the points to go home? Retirement, what are our numbers? what do we need? how do I get there? and when were there now what? I remember back to when I hired on and how fortunate I was to have my family help me choose the best retirement plan offered to us and to drive home that retirement planning begins when you do. I look back and some things I truly took to heart and others I thought man that is too far off to think about but then I blinked and here we are five years away from that far off place. I wont bog you down terribly with too much information, retirement planning can be simple and you can work it in now so it become natural and before you know it youll have a beautiful nest egg.
states filled with friendly people. Youve spent years running, running to work, running to school, running to appointments and recitals, now its time to enjoy those vacation things you and your spouse love to do. I leave you with my favorite quote from a former Chief when asked what he thought about retirement his
answer, Its six Saturdays and a Sunday! I look forward to that long weekend coming.
RESOURCES
http://www.retirementliving.com/taxes-by-state http://www.ssa.gov/ http://www.choosetosave.org/ballpark/ http://www.usatoday.com/story/money/columnist/
Remember to check over your beneficiaries annually to ensure they are up to date with the proper information.
During wintery weather, always slow down over bridges and overpasses. They do freeze first, they do become slick and hazardous and you can lose all control before you know it.
https://www.facebook.com/ familiesbehindthebadge
Our January staff feature is Mendi Keatts who has been a member of Wives Behind the Badge, Inc. since 2007. She has served as our Member Liaison and Chaplain since 2009 and in 2012 was invited to join the Board of Directors. Mendi also serves as the Director of our Virginia Auxiliary Committee. In addition to her roles with Wives Behind the Badge, Inc., Mendi is an addictions counselor since recently graduating with her Masters in Mental Health Counseling; she will soon begin working to earn her Doctorate. She also serves as a youth pastor and contemporary music director at her church. Volunteering with WBTB as the Chaplain/Member Liaison is the best job in the world! It also incorporates elements of all my other jobs, Mendi said. Mendi is the wife to a Lieutenant with the Roanoke Police Department in Virginia.
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Wives Behind the Badge, Inc. is privileged to have an individual such as Mendi to offer her knowledge and expertise to the organization. She is the shining star behind a certified program P.O.L.I.C.E. Families Training. This unique addition to police training teaches participants how to integrate law enforcement with family life. Its mission is to help solidify the support system for law enforcement agents nationwide. Mendi, along with her husband, created the P.O.L.I.C.E. Families Training Course in 2010 and, in 2012 it was accredited for mental health by Oklahoma CLEET and received copyright status in 2013. The class is offered for agencies or groups of agencies as requested and is available at a minimal fee to cover travel and expenses for certified trainers. Mendi is proud of this accomplishment and shares that, I pray that it can be a help to LE families in becoming stronger and happier in spite of the challenges that can come along with LE. For more information on this training, or to contact Mendi, please email POICE@wivesbehindthebadge.org.
For more about Mendi, and to read about how she once stole a police car, visit our website to see her feature.
Wives Behind the Badge, Inc. awards Michelle Romanowski of Oregon as Forums Staff Member of the Year, and Nancy Silva of Massachusetts as Forums Big Sister of the Year.
Michelle has been a member of the Wives Behind the Badge forums since August 2010. She has filled staff positions as Forums Big Sister and Forums Moderator and in 2013 was promoted to Forums Big Sister Coordinator. Michelle credits Wives Behind the Badge staff members and forum members for making the transition to such a prestigious role a smooth one. With the help of many Wives Behind the Badge members, she was easily able to understand how to run the Big Sister program and lead it in a bigger direction with innovative ideas. Aside from the work that goes into the forums, Michelle has extended her law enforcement family beyond bounds she ever thought possible. Ive gained new friendships that I hold dear to my heart, Michelle said. Michelle is looking forward to making 2014 an even greater
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year and Wives Behind the Badge supports her every step of the way.
Thank you Michelle and Nancy for your unmatched commitment to Wives Behind the Badge. To find out how to become part of our forums, register today on our website: www.wivesbehindthebadge.org
Nancy has been a member of our forums since March of 2012. Nancy fills dual roles as Forums Big Sister and Moderator. Some of her duties include checking in with forum members to answer questions, and readily offering assistance when necessary. She constantly devotes her extra time to helping others through our forums. Nancy is appreciative of the friendships she has made through the Big Sister program. This past year, she was astonished when she received an outpouring of concern and support after the tragic Boston Marathon bombings happened in her home state. Nancy shares that the forums have given her the opportunity to create sisterhood[s] like no other, and I am so very happy to be a part of the WBTB family. Wives Behind the Badge appreciates every selfless second Nancy puts forward to make our forum members feel welcomed.
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Each month a big sister is chosen for the Big Sister of the Month, recognizing her dedication to the big sister program. ~FORUMS MEMBER TESTIMONY ~
TESTIMONIALS
We are pleased to share testimonies from one of our forums members who tell us their story about how they came to join the Wives Behind the Badge, Inc. forums and what this special sisterhood means to them. This months testimony is from Brooke (Cpl.Wife.225) who has been a member of the forums since May 2013.
I found Wives Behind the Badge through an internet search. I wanted to find a place where I could talk to somebody that would be able to relate to me being a LEO wife and what all we go through. I have been a LEO wife for almost 13 years. At the time, my husband had been through some pretty gruesome crimes and I wanted to be able to be there for him more than I already was. I wanted to be prepared for any time that he wanted to confide in me more than he already did. That is why I am so thankful for the forums that we have through Wives Behind the Badge! I met other women who had been through what I was going through and could give me suggestions on what to do and not to do. I dont think a LEO wife realizes what all she goes through and how much her life is based upon how her husbands day goes. I do know that unless you are a LEO wife, then you really cant relate to what we are thinking. It felt so good to be able to talk freely about issues that I was having without being judged or somebody just telling me that it would get better, when they had absolutely no clue what I was going through. Through the forums, I have built friendships that will last a lifetime. I know that if I have any kind of question, concern, need advice, or just need to vent that I have a place to go to where it is all welcome and will have the support that a LEO wife needs to be the best for her husband that she can. Brooke is the auxiliary director for Louisiana, western auxiliary assistant and volunteer manager.
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FORUMS STAFF
Brandi (Breezy: Forums Director Jessie: Forums Administrator Mendi: Members Liaison and Chaplain Stacy (Sweet Stacy): Member Services Coordinator Michelle (Fiona): Big Sister Coordinator
Moderators
pamedic954 - Anne breezy - Brandi cb_wifetoonefinedeputy- Cindy JeannineNJ35 - Jeannine Fiona - Michelle DeAnna - DeAnna izzy1977 - Elizabeth
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Forums Anniversaries
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National Pie Day was created by the American Pie Council. In honor of this sweet day, we are sharing two pie recipes provided by a couple of our forums members. These recipes, along with numerous others, can be found in the Non- Verified Recipes section of our forums.
Whisk together the first 6 ingredients in a heavy saucepan bring mixture to a boil, whisking constantly boil for one minute or until thickened.
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JANUARY BIRTHDAYS
HotFuzzWife - January 7th Laura - January 8th G33 - January 11th Mfullerton - January 21st JeannineNJ35 - January 22nd Natalees Mommy - January 25th Izzy1977 - January 27th
Wishing you a very happy birthday from Wives Behind the Badge, Inc.
December Fans Dec 4th ~ Amanda Otosquaiob Dec 11th ~ Karen Ingle Dec 18th ~ Tracy Buckskin Dec 25th ~ Katie Vire Liljeberg
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To find out more about the auxiliary in your state, visit http://www.wivesbehindthebadge.org/our-work/auxiliary-committee/ AUXILIARY HIGHLIGHT ~ #10 FLORIDA
Our Florida Auxiliary is #10 within Wives Behind the Badge, Inc. The Auxiliary currently has fourteen active volunteers that work together to provide the services of WBTBs mission throughout the state of Florida. For more information about the Florida Auxiliary, visit their Facebook page!
OUR NEWEST VOLUNTEERS CHRISTINA- IL KATE- IL ELISHIA - ME LINDSAY - NC KAYLA - NY ASHLEY- OK ARIKA- SD VICTORIA WV
Be on the lookout during the first quarter of 2014 as our Auxiliaries amp up their work and take on a more active role in each state. To join the team, send us an email!
FL VOLUNTERS
Jenn, Kim, Michele, Nicole, Michelle, Caitie, Michelle, Andrea, Lindsey, Pam, Samantha, Annie, Sarah, Megan
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AUXILIARY PROGRAM
Our auxiliary program is designed to be the boots on the ground of Wives Behind the Badge, Inc. by bringing our programs to the state and local level. With an auxiliary in nearly every state, we are able to be a positive voice in each state by hosting events and fundraisers and sharing our resources with agencies and law enforcement families first hand. Our auxiliaries not only focused and participate just on the state level, but are instrumental on the national front as well, taking part in national fundraisers and events such as National Police Week by helping out at our annual booth in Tent City.
Alabama
Festival of Wreaths Now through January 12, 2014 Madison Public Library
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You mean theres news in the newspaper?! I just get it for the free coupons. You can have the rest. EXTREME COUPONING
BY MELISA CROSS
I will admit it. Im not one who has really ever used coupons. But like most LE families, the money issue does come into play, especially when you have 4 boys, one of them in college. As boys grow, so does the price tag attached to the types of toys they like. So saving money in any way possible has become very attractive, and I find myself willing to learn how to coupon effectively. The first step Ive taken in this endeavor has been internet research. There are multiple web pages dedicated to extreme couponing, and the one that really caught my eye is Couponing 101. There is a plethora of information on this site that lines out the process and organization of how to coupon and the benefits, as well as deals, articles and printable coupons. While I have yet to devour everything this site has to offer, it has me intrigued enough to want to head down to the quick stop this Sunday and get a paper, with its coupons all glossy and bright tucked inside. I will be giving this money saving endeavor a go as an experiment to see exactly how much I can save in a month by using coupons. If my grocery bill takes a trimming, I may just take up couponing for good. Three teenage boys all living at home and all three of them with hollow leg syndrome, is a hard hit on the pocket book in the food department. The resources are there, now comes the dedication and organization. Lets see how much we can tuck away in a month. http://www.thefrugalette.com/10-stepcouponing/
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MELISA CROSS
Melisa Cross is the wife of Chief Lloyd (Butch) Cross, the Families Behind the Badge Director and together they raise 4 boys ages 20, 17, 17, and 14. (You guessed it...twins). The family unit, being very important to Melisa and Butch drove them to become facilitators of the P.O.L.I.C.E. Families class, written by WBTB Chaplain and Board Member Mendi Keatts, and designed to help solidify the support system for law enforcement agents nationwide. Having been married for 21 years, adventuring through all walks of life ranging from the military to EMS before finding law enforcement, Melisa and Butch have discovered that through thick and thin, no matter what, the family is worth the fight.
All to often it seems as if the money we work so hard to earn slips away from us faster than we ca earn it.
https://www.facebook.com/ PoliceFamiliesTrainingCourse
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Blue Line Kids is a program centered around the lives of police kids. Through our forums and local events, we hope to create a fun, educational, and supportive group for our kids. A HEROIC BLUE LINE KIDS CHRISTMAS BY NOELLE BUTLER
Its the holiday season, so what does Wives Behind the Badge, Inc.s West Virginia Auxiliary do? Well, have a party of course! Director Jan Miller spearheaded the second annual Blue Line Kids Christmas Party on December 07, 2013. This year the West Virginia State Police Academy was generous enough to host the event, welcoming all of our Blue Line Kids and their families to come share in the spirit of the holidays. Miller was very thankful that the State Police Academy opened their doors and encouraged the backbone support of Wives Behind the Badge. The venue was full to capacity with 25 kids, plus their families and the volunteers. They had food donated from a local generous vendor and coordinated games for all ages. A big hit this year was their ring toss station. Heroes for Higher character
Batman and Batgirl were in attendance signing pictures and handing out bracelets, and Santa even showed up too. Children in attendance were encouraged to bring a new stuffed animal for the Heroes for Higher hospital program to be donated to the hospital.
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Blue Line Kids is a national program under the direction of Director Kathy Everman. Working with forums staff and the Auxiliary Program, providing online and hands on activities for the children of law enforcement officers.
Heroes 4 Higher are dedicated to West Virginias Little Heroes and inspire us all to be the hero
Heroes for Higher is a local West Virginia group of performers who dress up to teach our little heroes about being a leader in the community, and inspiring children to respect authority. At this year s Christmas party, Batman did an anti-bullying presentation. I discovered John [Batman] at a friends kids birthday party in 2012. He came to our first BLK Christmas Party and thats how he got started with us, Miller said. As well as their annual Christmas parties, Batman and Captain America have been big hits at all kinds of Wives Behind the Badge West Virginia Auxiliary events, such as the 2013 Heroes & Handcuffs Baseball Game and the 2013 Pig Roast. WBTB-West Virginia Auxiliary will be participating in more upcoming events, including a blood drive in support of the Below 100 campaign and National Police Week in May. To find out how you can be involved with the West Virginia Auxiliary, check out their Facebook (https:// www.facebook.com/ WestVirginiaWivesBehindTheBadge) and Twitter (https://twitter.com/ WVAUXWBTB ) pages today.
To find out more about BLK, Kathy can be reached by email at: bluelinekids@wivesbehindt hebadge.org
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NB ~ Noelle@wivesbehindthebadge.org
Caddo County Sheriffs press release reported: As the smoke began to intensify, Deputy Green found it increasingly difficult to see or breathe; however, he continued his search until he finally located the man, choking and coughing, on the east side of the residence. Though the man initially refused to leave without the pet, Deputy Green persuaded him to exit the residence, saving the citizen from serious injury.
Thank you Sr. Deputy Marcus Caddo for your selfless reaction and exceptional bravery.
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January 9-10, 2014 Special Olympics Michigan Law Enforcement Torch Run Kickoff Conference Acme, MI - Grand Traverse Resort and Spa
January 10, 2014 7:30 PM National Law Enforcement Officers Memorial Fund Heroes Behind The Badge Screening Park Hill High School, Kansas City, MO
Annual Officer Brian A. Aselton Memorial Blood Drive Sunset Ridge High School, 450 Forbes Street, East Hartford, CT.
January 25, 2014 10:00 AM - 4:00 PM Oviedo-Winter Springs Optimist Club Cops n Cars for Kids - 9th Annual Central Florida Law Enforcement Car Show Oviedo Mall, Florida
January 11, 2014 10:00 AM and 10:30 PM National Law Enforcement Officers Memorial Fund Heroes Behind The Badge Screening Cinema 4 Rogersville
January 25, 2014 12:00 PM - 3:00 PM Maryland State Police 18th Annual Maryland State Police Polar Bear Plunge
January 17-18, 2014 Osceola County Sheriffs Office Lt. Roger Haddock Memorial Trail Ride Lake X Ranch, St. Cloud, Florida
January 18, 2014 5:45 PM ATO Dallas Cops Cop for 2013 Dallas, TX
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All applications must be received in our office by: 5:00pm PST on April 15.
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K.A.R.E
The Wives Behind the Badge, Inc. K.A.R.E. program offers assistance and resources for K9 officers and educates the community on K9 programs and the vital role they play in law enforcement.
K9 Mommy Cara Carl K9 Handler Deputy Joe Carl K9 Kids Ethan 4 & Naomi 2 K9 Riley; Belgian Malinois K9 Rileys Siblings Chopper; Doberman mix & Winston (Westie)
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When asked what advice Deputy Carl would share with aspiring K9 officers, he recommends talking to the current handlers before taking the plunge so they understand commitment and extra work and time involved with taking on the responsibility. The bond that develops between the handler and K9 is amazing, Deputy Carl said. Although it is time consuming, the Carls cannot imagine life today without being a K9 family and are honored to be a part of such an amazing law enforcement family . If I lived in Ohio, I would definitely want to be neighbors with the very talented Deputy Carl and his incredibly supportive family.
NOELLE BUTLER
Noelle Butler is not only a member of the Shield Magazine Staff but is also volunteers on the Wives Behind the Badge, Inc. National Media Team and is the director for the New Jersey Auxiliary. Noelle is the wife of a New Jersey police officer , who also is a volunteer firefighter, making her passion for supporting first responders two-fold. A strong writer with a heart for all avenues of law enforcement, Noelle became the feature writer for the KARE section of Shield to showcase our K9 families and to honor our 4 legged officers and give them the recognition they truly deserve.
Noelle@wivesbehindthebadge.org
In 2014, Wives Behind the Badge Inc. will be launching KARE: K9 Assistance Resources Education program. Currently in the strategic planning phase, we are excited to be able to offer assistance to our K9 families. We will have exciting announcements regarding this program in the near future, so stay tuned! Follow KARE on Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/pages/ KARE-K9-Assistance-Resources-
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HALOS STAFF
HALOS DIRECTOR ~ Amanda Pekarek West Coast Halos ~ Niki Tallent
Banners
Jennifer Montey Molly Bowe
An officer laid down a costly sacrifice on the altar of justice; the streets are a little darker today. No longer will briefing shake with their laughter at the jokes shared and no longer will their joy boom in the corridor. Our hearts are heavy and the shield and star shines less brightly as we say farewell to one who gave all.
No longer shall the lion roar.
WBTB
P.O. Box 3126 Quartz Hill, CA 93586
Tel: 661-202-8604 dontate@wivesbehindthebadge.org
Caf Press
Our Caf Press and Zazzle stores offers a variety of LEO themed items for everyone in your family, including your four legged family members. Check out the unique items available online now.
Zazzle
Click on the store name or the photos to be taken directly to the items show.
Christine's Impressions
Distributor: Christine Robertson www.etsy.com/shop/ ChristinesImpression
Avon
Distributor: Juli McCoy juliraye@hotmail.com
Beach Body
Distributor: Maureen Ortega http://beachbodycoach.com/ esuite/home/REENO26
Heroes In Glass
Distributor: Robert James rjames@heroesinglass.com heroesinglass.com https://www.facebook.com/pages/ Heroes-In-Glass/105248672905263
Origami Owl
Distributor: Jennifer Robison http://JenniferR.OrigamiOwl.com www.facebook.com/ OrigamiOwlbyJenniferR
http://www.etsy.com/ listing/173999019/police-bule-linepillow-cases
Dalton1119@gmail.com
www.mythirtyone.com/256762
Distributor: Morgan Horacek www.mythirtyone.com/ morganhorace
Shaklee!
Distributor: Trully Luke http://www.shaklee.com/us/en/
Visalus
Distributor: Amanda Pekarek
http://amandapekarek.myvi.net/
Plexus
Distributer: Shelbi Potter www.ShelbiPotter.com, http://facebook.com/PlexusPalooza
Michelle Romanowski
Photography
www.MichelleRomanowski.smug mug.com www.facebook.com/ MichelleRomanowskiPhotographer
PARTNERS
Wives Behind the Badge is proud to partner with and many other law try. Please take a visit their websites. support enforcemoment to
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sistance to severely injured and disabled first responders and their families.
Together with our partners we can make a difference in law enforcement families all over the nation.
http:// safecallnow.org/ http:// safecallnow.org/ contact.php Safe Call Now is a confidential, comprehensive, 24hour crisis referral service for all public safety employees, all emergency services personnel and their family members nationwide Safe Call Now provides education, healthy back together.
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P.O.L.I.C.E. Families, written by Mendi Keatts, is designed to help integrate law enforcement life into family life. Taught by an officer and spouse, the course is presented to officers and family members. The class has been accredited for Mental Health by Oklahoma CLEET in 2012, received copyright in 2013 and is now an official partner with Wives Behind the Badge, Inc. POICE@wivesbehindthebadge.org https://www.facebook.com/ PoliceFamiliesTrainingCourse
P.O.L.I.C.E. Families is for all types of law enforcement families. Designed to help promote a better understanding of each side of the law enforcement relationship and learn some of the communication tools that can make the relationships successful. Taught to officers and family members in a comfortable and casual atmosphere. Children are welcome with some
activities and snacks provided the class is made as accessible as possible. It's all about the family.
http://serveprotect.org/
https://www.facebook.com/ ServeProtect
https://twitter.com/ ServeProtect
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*Every 17 hours an officer commits suicide. *75 percent of our officers have been divorced 87% of our firefighters! *40 percent of officers are involved in domestic violence * The avg. lifespan of a Corrections officer is 58 years * 85% of first responders and 35% of dispatchers experience some symptoms of PTSD.
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25 Opposite Day
26 Spouses Day
31 Backward Day
OUR PROGRAMS
Support Forums ~ forums@wivesbehindthebadge.org Families Behind the Badge ~ families@wivesbehindthebadge.org Blue Line Kids ~ bluelinekids@wivesbehindthebadge.org HALOS ~ halos@wivesbehindthebadge.org Auxiliaries ~ http://www.wivesbehindthebadge.org/our-work/auxiliary-committee/
please visit the link above and click your state for contact information
Wives Behind the Badge Inc. P.O. Box 3126 Quartz Hill, CA 93586 Phone: 661-202-8604 Fax: 559-408-5570 E-mail: info@wivesbehindthebadge.org newsletter@wivesbehindthebadge.org