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This book is a series thoughts and commentaries based upon actual experiences of both the author and others. It is hoped that this knowledge and wisdom might be used in a way that will help you take action. For it is by taking action on the knowledge we obtain that determines the future we enjoy or despise. Read this book several times over. Doing so will help you put into action the things you read. Take it wherever you go and highlight nuggets that affect you. Starting today, you can start Living The Winners Life. See you at the top! Brandon R. Boyd
What Is Success?
Success is being happy. Success is peace, happiness, and joy. Success is basically feeling good about yourself, your life, and your plans. But there are two forces that are absolutely vital to your happiness and that is your relationships and your achievements. If you dont have good relationships, people dont respect you, or you dont feel like you are progressing, you arent achieving, then feelings of depression and discouragement are going to sink in. Happiness will always be something that begins right between your ears because your mind literally is the drawing room for tomorrows circumstances because what happens in your mind will happen in time. Happiness doesnt start around you, it begins inside you. It something you create. Others cannot make you happy. Only you can create that happiness and others can simply share in that happiness you yourself have created. Standing in sewage water up to his knees in prison, Paul wrote the words, I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Regardless of your circumstances, you can create that atmosphere of peace, happiness, and joy and whatever peace, happiness, and joy is to you, then you are successful.
that can be some spouses and so they need to hear this as well. Those who dont support you with your dreams and goals. Those who even embarrass you. And those who literally drain your energy and time through useless conversation. And heres how to recognize wise associations; those who speak words that build your faith and confidence, those who support you in your goals, and those who remind you of the special gifts and talents you have. If you keep giving time to those who are unworthy of it, stop complaining because you are the one who decides to give them that time. Decide not to take their phone calls or respond to their text messages. Become very selective of your friendships. Peoples feelings are going to get hurt. Remember, the same time you waste on energy drainers is that which could have been invested with winners.
What Is Happiness?
Happiness is simply feeling good about yourself. But you need to make sure and not confuse this with popularity, which simply means others feel good about you. But what you think about yourself, your character, and your own accomplishments will determine you real sense of worth and value. And I think sometimes we think life is meant to be an endurance of trials but I think it should be and can be an enjoyment of our victories. Its all what we choose to focus on and that will absolutely affect our happiness. Too many people look for and wait for someone else to bring their happiness but in reality, no one else can bring us happiness, they can only share in the happiness that we have created for ourselves. Happiness is not something that starts around, it is something that begins inside you. Its something you create. So heres a question for you; what bad news have you believed about yourself? Do past failures or thoughts about yourself affect your current happiness and production? I like how one man said it, Dont let the past hurts and memories chain you to the prison of defeatsmash the locks of your prison! The good book simply says, Remember not the former things, neither even consider the things of old, behold, I will do a new thing and it shall spring forth in your life. The happiness you experience is dependent on two things; your relationships and your achievements. If your relationships with people stink and youre not progressing in your life, its literally impossible to be happy in life. When we stop producing, loneliness and laziness will set in and choke all enthusiasm from our living. Good relationships with family are also vital because if you hold grudges, arent forgiving, and are gossiping about one another, you cant be happy for each other that will affect your happiness. Be a confidence builder and learn to be happy for one another so you can be happy yourself.
man once said, Desires are like people, they are born, they can grow, and they can die. Here are 3 major ways you can feed your desire. #1 Visualization being able to sustain the mental photograph you create in your mind about your desire. You will never accomplish anything great without a burning desire for it. You must feed that desire daily. You do this by continually visualizing the rewards and pleasures of its attainment. #2 Associations These are wholesome relationships that create momentum toward your desires. You must have the right kind of friends. Scripture says, He that walketh with wise men shall be wise, but a companions of fools will be destroyed. Think about it; dont expose your 16x20 seed to 5x7 mentalities around you. They will never support your ideas. And third, Concentration Focus on the completion of one worthwhile goal at a time. One thing I have learned, and luckily learned early on is to give total attention to one thing at a time because many people allow their creativity to scatter their attention and because of that, their abilities become lost through misfocus. Your creativity is a gift so dont let it become your enemy. And, as harsh as it may seem, you must dismiss those around you who are not leading you toward your inspired goal or desire because remember, your desire deserves your undivided attention.
Teach our members that if they have a good, miserable day once in a while, or several in a row, to stand steady and face them. Things will straighten out. There is great purpose in our struggle in life." (Boyd K. Packer - All That May Be Edified,p.94) Lorenzo Snow stated, The Lord has determined in His heart that He will try us until He knows what He can do with us. He tried His Son Jesus and knew that He could depend upon Him when the salvation of worlds should be at stake; and He was not disappointed. So in regard to ourselves, He will try us, and continue to try us, in order that He may place us in the highest positions in life and put upon us the most sacred responsibilities. (Teaching of the Presidents of The Church, Lorenzo Snow, pgs. 110-111). MONEY: God is known as 'El-Shaidai' or the God of 'more than enough' not the God of limitation. A person can change their annual income to become their monthly income. Its a shift of a person's paradigm. The paradigm we have of ourselves is what will begin to shift our behavior. We have no limit(s) to what we can do, only the limits we plant as seeds in our own mind(s). Intellect itself won't gain you more money, but a new paradigm will. LIFE: Sometimes we look to see if there is a light at the end of the tunnel and it appears as if it's a freight-train coming at us. In life, that may seem to be the case. We must look for the light WITHIN the tunnel to truly SEE the good within the dark. GOD: God made us to climb....not to CRAWL through life. We are commanded to MULTIPLY and become more. PAIN: Those who you feel created the pain of your yesterday's do not, unless you allow it, control the pleasure of your tomorrows. WISDOM: The only difference between our Present and our Future is the Wisdom and Knowledge we CHOOSE to pursue. DAILY DECISIONS: What we choose to do DAILY is deciding what we become permanently. LIFE: We need to stop telling people how BIG our mountains in life are and start telling our mountains how BIG our God is. Joel Osteen LOVE: Love is a choice. Love is a decision we make every single day. It's not just a feeling. It's a choice. It's a decision. It's an attitude. It's a way of thinking. Your partner should be #1 (after God of course) in your mind, your heart, and in your actions and you must choose to look out for THEIR interests if you ever want to truly be happy. TITHING AND GIVING: I had a person tell me today, "I have given, and given, and given for years and God has never blessed me." I said, "Isn't that amazing? That's astounding. The fact that you are able to continue to give is proof He has given you a harvest. You are doing just fine brother. You are in good Hands."
YOUR FUTURE: We as humans do not decide our future. We decide the habits that determine our future. What we choose to do daily will decide what we become permanently. What you eat daily has created your present physical condition. How you spend your money daily creates a secure financial future or destroys it completely. GOD: The evidence seen on a daily basis of God's presence here in mortality far outweighs the so-called Proof of His absence. DISAPPOINTMENT: Disappointment is good. It's fertilizer. It is the Seed for great change. It is the Seed for dramatic improvement in your life. Stay there long enough to gain the Wisdom from it. WINNERS: Winning is not something that starts around you....it begins INSIDE you. You create your own victories as well as failures. You can only conquer your past by focusing on your future. Stop looking at where you have been and start looking at where you are going. A successful life is often very expensive. It will cost you something to become a Champion. Time. Energy. Focus. WHAT IS SUCCESS? Its Peace, Happiness, and Joy. It's subjective. Its the freedom to be who you REALLY are. Its failure + persistence. Its the complete and honest realization that its okay to fail. GROWING OLD: We don't grow old, we simply gain Wisdom. We don't go to Work. We go to Joy. We were never designed to worry. Its a learned behavior. PROCRASTINATION: Far too many people procrastinate. Procrastination is the fertilizer that makes difficulties grow. It steals a person's time, productivity, and potential. Procrastination is too high a price to pay for fear of failure. Don't wait for motivation to get you going. Forget motivation. Just do it and motivation will follow your actions no matter what you choose to do. CHALLENGES IN LIFE: The challenges we all face in life are NOT meant to bring us down. Instead, they are built as a STEPPING STONE so that we can STEP UP into our total potential. FREE: I am amazed how many individuals mess up every new day with yesterday. We can choose to LIVE today free from the failures and pains of yesterday. Turn the page and move on. Fail early, fail often, but always fail FORWARD. PRAYER: A GREAT person told once, "When life gets too hard to stand....KNEEL." HAPPINESS: You need to learn to be HAPPY where you are NOW or you will never get to where you want to be. TODAY is the day to be happy. No need to delay happiness. Happiness is a CHOICE you make each day. Youre just about as happy as you DECIDE to be. Happiness is not determined by our circumstances but instead our choices.
PERSPECTIVE: Many hardships are a 'moment' in eternity but while we are going through them, they FEEL like an 'eternal moment.' But with the help of the Lord they can be 'endured well."
LIFE: All of us in life get 'tested' from time to time. And those tests can and will become your 'TEST-i-mony' to others in the future to encourage and inspire them. COMMANDMENTS: When we are on the straight and narrow path, we have MANY commandments. We are BLESSED with commandments, not a few and with RULES and GUIDELINES from the Lord. Those who are wicked and foolish want to do away with restrictions and rules. They wobble down broad roads which lead to captivity, remorse, and loss of freedom. Satan frees us to BIND us. God BINDS us to FREE us. LIFE: Life isnt fair. It isnt going to be fair. Stop wallowing in self-pity and whining throughout the day. Go out and make life happen for you! Failure will be the greatest opportunity to know who you really are. What you think is meant for your harm God will mean for your promotion. Life wont be fair but God is. SINS: Our sins are our greatest possessions because we will not give them up. GOD IN CONTROL? Many say, "God's in control." If He's in control of what goes on during this earth life then I don't want to go to Heaven if that's the best He can do. We must accept responsibility for OUR decisions. We decide our future and God can help lead us along. He cannot dictate our control our decisions. We choose our destiny. You must accept responsibility for your lifestyle based upon decisions made in the past. FAITH: Faith is learning how to trust God even when you dont understand. HEAVEN will reward us for what we REALLY ARE rather than for what we outwardly appear to be. YOUR FUTURE: With everyone stressed and in FEAR about the future keep in mind that your future is just as bright as your FAITH.
are four power keys that will unleash enthusiasm around you. Number one, create a visual picture of your dream and place it on the wall that you look at every day whether at work or home, or both. Feast on it. Discuss it. Talk about it. Think about it because you must keep you vision in front of you. Number two, take a tiny step every day toward your big dream because small steps create big joys within you and if you take enough small steps, you will find increasing energy and desire to accomplish your dream. Number three, assemble a support team that believes in your dream and carefully choose the people you want to be close to you. And fourth, realize that you are responsible to maintain your own enthusiasm and energy for achieving the dream of your life and keep in mind, it is not the responsibility of your husband or wife because it is your dream and your life so you must take the steps necessary to make and keep that enthusiasm going.
Here are some proverbs Solomon gave in the Old Testament that have the power to change your life, if you allow them to. I will speak of excellent things and the opening of my lips shall be right things. The mouth of a righteous man is a well of life. Whoso keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps his soul from troubles. Solomon taught many facts about words stating words like words can poison and destroy a persons life. Any man who controls his mouth is literally protecting his own life. He who opens his wide lips shall have destruction. Right words can turn an angry man into a friend, and wrong words can turn a friend into an enemy. Your words reveal whether you are wise or a fool. Right words breathe life into everything around you because a wholesome tongue is a tree of life. The purpose of words is to educate, enthuse, and enlarge those around you because the lips of the wise will disperse knowledge. Your personal happiness is influenced by the words that come out of your mouth. Those who are wise and prudent are cautious with their words. Right words are as important as water on earth and the sustaining of human life because the words of a mans mouth are as deep waters and the wellspring of wisdom as a flowing brook. Many men fail because of the words they speak because as Solomon states, A fools mouth is his destruction. Wrong words can wound others and destroy people and friendships forever. Solomon also gives many verses where he states that words determine which dreams of yours will live or die. He also states in essence that any words you allow others to speak into you decide the wisdom you contain because Solomon knew that words were the difference between his present season and his future season. He also understands that talking to fools was a waste of time when he stated, Speak not in the ears of a fool; for he will despise the wisdom of thy words. Right words will feed and sustain those who are around you because the lips of the righteous feed many. Right words also bring health and healing because the tongue of the wise is health. Solomon also stated that those who are wise will avoid the presence of those who consistently speak wrong words. When you speak right words, you will gain access to powerful and important people. He also stated that the quality of your words reveal the quality of your heart because you can read the heart of any person by listening to the words they are speaking about others. Some of the greatest friendships on earth are broken because of wrong words. Strife as well can always be traced to someones words. He states that words can influence and affect the accumulation of your wealth as well. They can get you fired or prevent you from getting promoted. Or you can be promoted or receive a raise. I think by now you should be, if you arent already, convinced that the words you choose to use are absolutely critical. They will determine a life you either love or a life you hate. Its your choice. Choose wisely.
A Reputation Of Integrity
Its been said that integrity attracts worthy relationships. The reality is people talk. They talk about your weaknesses, your strengths, your failures, your successes, your fears, and your potential. Whether you like it or not, people will form opinions about you. Your reputation determines the QUALITY of people you attract. Those who are comfortable with your weaknesses will enter your life to continue nurturing those same problems. Those comfortable with your strengths will want to participate in your successes. Your reputation determines the flow of favor. Everyone loves to participate in the birthing of a success. Once your success is known, everyone will want to participate and become involved. But, when your reputation is stained and questionable, quality people withdraw. Solomon said it well when he stated, A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches, and loving favour rather than silver and
gold. Wealth cannot purchase good relationships but good relationships can produce wealth in some form. Two things create credibility and that trustworthiness and expertise. Trustworthiness demonstrates that you are what you appear to be. Expertise demonstrates that you are the best at what you do so do what you say you will do; pay the bill you promised to pay. Finish what you start. Do quality work, etc. These two keys will create a powerful reputation that attract the right people, uncommon blessing, favor, and uncommon financial rewards. When committing to do something for someone, establish achievable goals with reasonable deadlines that you know you can fulfill. Keep your promises. Do what you promise others you will do. Develop quality friendships around you. Never sell a product you dont personally use. This is huge. Companies like Mary Kay are so big because they have such a high percentage of their customers regularly use their products, thus they tell others about them. People will be able to know if you are using the products you are trying to promote to them or if you even believe in the product.
Choosing To Be Happy
People choose to be happy. Happy people are uncommon decision makers. They have deliberately chosen to focus on the good side of life. They are not blind to thorns. They have chosen to focus on the roses, the good experience instead. Many think that happy people are those experiencing wonderful moments, uncommon finances, and deep love from others. Often, the opposite is true. Some of the happiest people I know have experienced the deepest sorrows, tragedies, and uncommon battles in life. At some point though, they made a decision to be a happy person. Happy people make the decision to become so. They are often the best decision makers around you. They energize others to a higher level of productivity and enthusiasm. They have a completely different vocabulary than the unhappy. They say things like, We will make it happen! The unhappy often say, Thats impossible. Happy people create a climate of expectation, not depression. So, strive to hang around others who are happy so they can help create the climate and atmosphere you desire. Doing so will completely change your present as well as your future.
A Financial Miracle
Interesting to me that many people's long-term plans are to attend a movie next week. They lack vision. They simply want enough money to go down to Denny's and buy three pancakes and two eggs. That is their idea of a Grand-Slam in the game of life. Their goal is to get through the day. They simply never dream BIG enough to REQUIRE a financial miracle; therefore, it never comes. Not a surprise. Little dreams = little miracle. Little seeds = small harvest. Uncommon achievers will ALWAYS set uncommon goals.
salesperson being caught using the Rainbow vac? Maybe that's the problem...we have some people pitching our products and yet they go home and use Mint.com, Quicken for business tax tracking (not IRS bullet-proof), they use Groupon for discounts, and things of that nature. Remember, a lawyer must study new laws. A doctor must keep well-read on the latest studies concerning the body. A policeman has to study his weapons, the laws, his rights, and the mindset of criminals. If he doesn't, he knows he is 'a dead man in the streets' and that goes for us as well when we don't know our business. Many don't even study it or show up for practice yet they don't understand why their not a Founder 4. You will NEVER have anything you are unwilling to pursue. Don't expect to succeed unless you are THOROUGHLY informed about the product & business you are promoting. Some call it 'ignorance on fire' and I call it stupidity. You would never want an ignorant doctor to perform heart surgery on you 'hoping' it goes well. Are you simply too busy trying to 'make a buck' that you really have not developed a powerful understanding and confidence in what you are doing? Well, you can change that today.
Do what you believe with full energy of heart and others will eventually follow you when their own life has come crashing down.
Final Thoughts
Read this book several times over and over. Memorize quotes. Immediately put them into action and see what starts to happen in your life as you become focused on living the way of a winner. I look forward to your testimonials as your life begins to changetoday.