Learning is a process of gaining new experiences or transforming the existing information.

Learning is easy to carry if it is obtained from the parents because that is the repeated observational learning. Children appreciate their parents without judging them because they are the role models. Children have an ability to learn more by observing others doing any kind of work. Children have brain like a plain paper. They learn good or bad from what they watch around them. First, they watch their family members, how they communicate with each other, their lifestyle, and way of living. They get same impression because they spend most of their time with them. They copy the information which is the most characteristic of humans. Psychologically the children are into the phase of sensitive learning, they rapidly copy the behavior of their parents which is imprinted on their minds. Sometimes the learning is the result of an event which is recorded in their memory and by observation and repetition becomes a part of their habits. Secondly, they adopt many habits from the society. If they communicate with well-educated or well-mannered people then they can learn good moral values and if their neighborhood and society members have some bad qualities it influences them negatively.

Similarly, children have parents who teach them and prepare them for life. Parents have the first and strongest influence on their children. Children observe their way of doing the things. People who are smokers or alcoholics must know that children watch their activity and they are leaving bad impression on the children's mind. Sometimes these activities have a deep impact on young children's brain and heart. They learn their first lessons from these situations because it's the parents that guide them about these situations. The group plays a major role in shaping an individual. As it is often said "A man is known by the company he keeps". Bad company has a negative influence over a child. This is because the teenagers listen more to their friends than their parents and teachers. The group can turn denial into acceptance and gives the children sense of fulfillment in life. Children enjoy playing with friends more than anything in life; there are times when they want to stay with their friends more than their parents. Learning from friends is kind of magnetic and it has creative force in it. They open heart out with their friends and see a gleam of pleasure in their eyes. They believe in them and in a way they are their spiritual guides. Friends and peer group are a kind of sheltering tree for children so whatever they say turns a meal into a feast and a house into a home. We all have at times bent over backwards to please a friend be it a colleague at workplace, a friend at college or even a playground buddy at school.

Sometimes in pursuit of pleasing friends and to come in each other's good books they start to covet one another. There are many instances where a good child was spoiled due to bad social circle.

Along with the children's growth, adults will influence them much more, such as logical thinking, making decision, cooperation with others, etc.. The behavior of adults can give children both good and bad influence. Most of the behaviors represent adults' inclination. For instance, if media report chiefly on the shadow side of the society, children will easily incline to violence and excessive sex. And behavior is a direct and convincing method to teach children. Things are easier said than done. Parents always tell children those principles repeatedly, but most children can not accept it through these boring method. Adults behavior is the most effective education method to let them observe the whole process of how to deal with the problems. The children will learn from you naturally. Therefore, they will be infected with bad mental state.

In addition to this, we should try to understand their activities regarding their behavior Parents should watch them, where they go. What they do, whom they meet and what do they feel. We should apply on them friendly behavior however they share their feelings frequently with us and they won't try to adapt bad habits. There should be a lesson about moral values in their school curriculum. Teachers should teach them about good ethical and unethical. Parents and teachers activities play an important role to develop their personality. They should be more attentive about their activities. However they can't adapt wrong ways in their life because children are the future of our nation. In conclusion, we can say that it is true that children learn best by observing the behavior of adults and they try to copy it. It is the adults who should watch their behavior and try becoming a good influence and example for the children.

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Pembelajaran adalah satu proses untuk mendapatkan pengalaman baru atau memanipulasi maklumat yang sedia ada. Pembelajaran adalah mudah untuk menjalankan jika ia diperolehi daripada ibu bapa kerana itu adalah pembelajaran pemerhatian yang berulang. Kanak-kanak menghargai ibu bapa mereka tanpa menghakimi mereka kerana mereka adalah model peranan. Kanak-kanak mempunyai keupayaan untuk mengetahui lebih lanjut dengan memerhatikan orang lain melakukan apa-apa jenis kerja. Kanak-kanak mempunyai otak seperti kertas biasa. Mereka belajar yang baik atau buruk dari apa yang mereka menonton di sekeliling mereka. Pertama, mereka menonton ahli keluarga mereka, bagaimana mereka berkomunikasi antara satu sama lain, gaya hidup mereka, dan cara hidup. Mereka mendapat gambaran sama kerana mereka menghabiskan sebahagian besar masa mereka dengan mereka. Mereka menyalin maklumat yang merupakan paling ciri manusia. Psikologi kanak-kanak ke dalam fasa pembelajaran sensitif, mereka dengan cepat menyalin tingkah laku ibu bapa mereka yang dicetak pada fikiran mereka. Kadang-kadang pembelajaran adalah hasil daripada satu peristiwa yang telah dirakamkan dalam ingatan mereka dan melalui pemerhatian dan pengulangan menjadi sebahagian daripada tabiat mereka. Kedua, mereka mengamalkan gaya banyak daripada masyarakat. Jika mereka berkomunikasi dengan orang-orang yang berpendidikan atau beradat maka mereka boleh mempelajari nilai-nilai moral yang baik dan jika ahli-ahli kejiranan dan masyarakat mempunyai beberapa kualiti yang buruk ia mempengaruhi mereka secara negatif.

Begitu juga, kanak-kanak mempunyai ibu bapa yang mengajar mereka dan menyediakan mereka untuk hidup. Ibu bapa mempunyai pengaruh yang pertama dan paling kuat pada anakanak mereka. Kanak-kanak memerhatikan cara mereka melakukan perkara-perkara. Orang yang perokok atau penagih alkohol perlu tahu bahawa kanak-kanak menonton aktiviti mereka dan mereka meninggalkan kesan buruk ke atas minda kanak-kanak. Kadang-kadang aktiviti ini mempunyai kesan yang mendalam kepada otak dan jantung kanak-kanak muda. Mereka belajar

pelajaran pertama mereka daripada situasi ini kerana ia adalah ibu bapa yang membimbing mereka tentang situasi ini. Kumpulan itu memainkan peranan penting dalam membentuk individu. Kerana ia sering berkata, "Seorang lelaki dikenali oleh syarikat itu dia menyimpan". Syarikat yang tidak baik mempunyai pengaruh negatif ke atas kanak-kanak. Ini kerana remaja mendengar lebih kepada rakan-rakan mereka daripada ibu bapa dan guru-guru mereka. Kumpulan itu boleh bertukar penafian ke dalam penerimaan dan memberikan kanakkanak rasa kepuasan dalam hidup. Kanak-kanak suka bermain dengan kawan-kawan lebih daripada apa-apa dalam kehidupan, ada kalanya mereka mahu kekal dengan rakan-rakan mereka lebih daripada ibu bapa mereka. Belajar dari rakan-rakan adalah jenis magnet dan ia mempunyai daya kreatif di dalamnya. Mereka membuka hati dengan kawan-kawan mereka dan melihat berkilat keseronokan di mata mereka. Mereka percaya kepada mereka dan dengan cara yang mereka adalah panduan rohani mereka. Rakan-rakan dan rakan sebaya adalah sejenis berlindung pokok untuk kanak-kanak jadi apa sahaja yang mereka katakan bertukar makan ke kenduri dan rumah ke rumah. Kita semua telah pada masa-masa membongkok ke belakang untuk menyenangkan rakan sama ada rakan sekerja di tempat kerja, seorang rakan di kolej atau rakan taman permainan di sekolah. Kadang-kadang dalam mengejar kawan-kawan menyenangkan dan akan datang dalam buku-buku yang baik antara satu sama lain mereka mula kamu iri hati terhadap satu sama lain. Terdapat banyak contoh di mana kanak-kanak yang baik berakhlak buruk kerana bulatan sosial yang tidak baik. Bersama-sama dengan pertumbuhan kanak-kanak, orang dewasa akan mempengaruhi mereka banyak lagi, seperti pemikiran logik, membuat keputusan, kerjasama dengan orang lain, dan lain-lain. Kelakuan orang dewasa boleh memberi kanak-kanak kedua-dua baik dan pengaruh yang tidak baik. Kebanyakan tingkah laku mewakili kecenderungan orang dewasa '. Sebagai contoh, jika laporan media terutamanya di sebelah bayang-bayang masyarakat, kanak-kanak akan mudah cenderung kepada keganasan dan seks yang berlebihan. Dan tingkah laku adalah kaedah langsung dan meyakinkan untuk mengajar kanak-kanak. Perkara yang lebih mudah berkata daripada dilakukan. Ibu bapa sentiasa memberitahu anak-anak prinsip-prinsip berkalikali, tetapi kebanyakan kanak-kanak tidak boleh menerimanya melalui kaedah ini membosankan. Tingkah laku orang dewasa adalah kaedah pendidikan yang paling berkesan untuk membiarkan mereka memerhatikan keseluruhan proses bagaimana untuk menangani masalah-masalah. Kanak-kanak akan belajar daripada anda secara semulajadi. T herefore,

mereka akan dijangkiti dengan keadaan mental yang tidak baik.

Di samping itu, kita harus

cuba untuk memahami aktiviti-aktiviti mereka mengenai Ibu bapa tingkah laku mereka harus menonton mereka, di mana mereka pergi. Apa yang mereka lakukan, yang mereka bertemu dan apa yang mereka rasa. Kita harus memohon kepada mereka tingkah laku mesra namun mereka berkongsi perasaan mereka kerap dengan kami dan mereka tidak akan cuba untuk menyesuaikan diri tabiat buruk. Perlu ada satu pengajaran mengenai nilai-nilai moral dalam kurikulum sekolah. Guru perlu mengajar mereka tentang etika yang baik dan tidak beretika. Ibu bapa dan guru-guru aktiviti memainkan peranan penting untuk membangunkan personaliti

mereka. Mereka perlu lebih prihatin mengenai aktiviti-aktiviti mereka. Walau bagaimanapun mereka tidak dapat menyesuaikan diri cara yang salah dalam kehidupan mereka kerana kanakkanak adalah masa depan negara kita. Kesimpulannya, kita boleh mengatakan bahawa ia

adalah benar bahawa kanak-kanak belajar dengan lebih baik dengan memerhatikan tingkah laku orang dewasa dan mereka cuba untuk menyalinnya. Ia adalah orang dewasa yang harus menonton tingkah laku mereka dan cuba menjadi pengaruh yang baik dan contoh untuk anakanak.

Every human being passes to stages on life where they get to know themselves and the world around them (identify voices, recognize your image, interact with other, have own ideas and discover yourself).The timing in life that people deal with most stages is their childhood. Laccan explain with the mirror theory how little ones see,recognize their image and start to know his body by looking thought the mirror, touching their body ,trying to Understand their own body.After that he has to deal with others, in this phase he gets in contact with his family, laugh and listen the sounds the others do, then start to make noises copying what was heard before and later to talk. The first word is normally the easiest one he listens over and over again. In every stage he`s taking consciousness of something new. Even though each kid has their own way of learning ,observing is one of the most used and successful forms of absorbing new information .They don`t know how to act, walk , what to say and when; they start to copy who`s around them, they trust that`s the right behavior. Monkey see monkey do. The best example to conform that is the difference between city people`s English and the small towns. Each one of them learned to speak like they do because of the pronunciation of the people next to them, especially if they respect those people (parents, teachers, friends). So it can be claimed that children learn a lot be observing who`s close to them; to then discover he`s personal style, what they like and want to do. Before you create your own method you use somebody elses.