Role of thought vibrations in making or breaking relationships

We often hear about the power of words, chants, affirmations or visualizations in transforming our life. But how many of us actually succeed in achieving our goals by chanting yes, I can do this or that consistently over a long time? Not many. The reason for the failure is that the words or sentences we use to affirm or visualize, howsoever terse or pithy they may be, carry no impact unless they are infused with strong and focussed intentions, emotions or feelings. Our intentions, feelings, sentiments or emotions are basically energies-- whether they are positive or negative depends upon their nature. These energies radiate from our mind and body in form of vibrations, whether we will or not. How are our thoughts transformed into palpable energy vibrations? When we feel strongly about an issue and are obsessed with it, it gets worked up into energy vibrations that make palpable impact on our physiology also. Our bodies feel very hot when we are, for example, angry or revengeful. Our eyes get blood shot and B.P also rises. Conversely, we feel cool and calm when we are happy and peaceful and experience positive impact. Other examples of how thought energy manifests through vibrations Most of us come across strangers on trains, buses, planes, public places or roads, who fascinate us not by their externals such as dress, wearables, headgear or shoes etc., but by some kind of energy vibrations emanating from within them. They may come from their eyes, facial expressions or body language as a whole. Their presence generates a kind of security, peace, bliss or confidence. On the other hand, we also come across people who repel by their appearance. They look almost too dangerous to be close to. They generate uneasiness, fear, sense of insecurity, hatred and revulsion. We wish to keep away from them. Not only human beings, even some places or buildings fascinate us. These buildings do not just include shrines, synagogues, temples or churches but common homes, cottages of the ordinary people. We start feeling a kind of bliss, calm and peace when we enter them or even as we approach them. The same principle not only applies, of course conversely, to places like prison cells, dungeons, grave yards, deserted houses, old castles or haunted buildings but also to common homes. We simply feel uneasy before entering them even though there may not be anything eerie about their design or structure. This happens because these buildings are permeated by the energy vibrations released by the inmates. The energy vibrations, whether positive or negative, travel beyond the host body into the environment. They also influence the targeted person. It is, of course, difficult to rationalize these phenomena through cold scientific logic. How energy vibrations can make or break the relationships Most partners in relationships, whether of love or marriage, get so much obsessed/worked up with their grouses that they simply become mad about them. They keep on repeating the same thoughts over and over again thus turning them into negative energy vibrations which in turn adversely impact the relationships.

A real life example: I once happened to attend a discourse of a teacher-sister in a Brahma Kumari centre. Narrating her own experience about the power of thought vibrations in bringing about a change of heart, the teacher told that a few persons in the locality who became strong opponents of the institution would often create ruckus outside the centre. When no amount of argumentation and persuasion could pacify them, she decided to send positive energy vibrations to them. She said that she would sit in meditation in the morning, name each person individually and say some words like these: Look, so and so, you are my spiritual brother. You are a thoroughly kind and gentle soul and have been misled by evil reports. I pray to God to bless you with the right sense----- and so on. She told that she infused her thoughts with all the compassion and love she was capable of and continued with her affirmations daily. After about a fortnight, two of them turned up at the centre and expressed their remorse. The rest also followed in the coming days and they became dedicated students of her class. People on the brink of relationship, as mentioned earlier, often become so obsessed with their feelings that they keep mentally repeating them, as were, with a vengeance almost every second whether they are eating, walking or sleeping. The constant repetitions of the same thoughts automatically become negative affirmations or energies which adversely impact the relationship. What is required is that we should pack our words with right intentions-- compassion, understanding and love-with same intensity and honesty that normally characterises our negative thoughts. Unless we do that our affirmations would remain empty and meaningless words. For this we will have to first radically change our own perspective, curb our ego and reset and redefine our intentions. This surely is a daunting challenge. But it is a very small price to pay compared to the psychological, legal, social and familial complications that generally come up as a consequence of break up. Visit my blog Luminous Eye for more such articles.