Hotter Women

The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction
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What is Meet Your Sweet?

Your new life starts today. With MeetYourSweet.com, you get the ultimate toolkit to creating the success you crave in Life and Relationships. We know that youve got the smarts to take care of most areas of your life. So why should dating and relationships be any different? Thats why we here at MeetYourSweet.com take a life coachs perspective to romance. We dont want to give you a paint-by-numbers program or dumb down what it takes to master REAL success. Rather, our goal is to empower you by giving you the life skills that you need to achieve a complete personal and social transformation the kind that will have you feeling confident, secure, desirable, and powerful, no matter what challenge you face! Weve done the research, and we know what works. Our thoroughly researched, nonmanipulative approach harnesses capacities that everyone has within them. Whether youre male or female, young or old, single or in a relationship, we can help you become the absolute best you can be at relating with the opposite sex. Just imagine it. Gone are the days of struggling to get a date. Gone are the days of struggling to keep someone attracted. Gone are the days of worrying about whether youre good-looking enough, popular enough, or captivating enough or to get attention from the opposite sex! With MeetYourSweet.com, you get expert advice from a team of the worlds greatest writers, life coaches, and counselors in the field of dating and relationships.
Every Meet Your Sweet course includes collaborations with top names in the field. Our team of contributing authors includes our very own Slade Shaw and Mirabelle Summers, as well as Amy Waterman from 000Relationships.com and Andrew Rusbatch from SaveMyMarriageToday.com. So kickstart your personal and social transformation with MeetYourSweet.com. We look forward to hearing how our courses have changed you!
CONTENTS PAGE
Day 1: How Dating and Attraction REALLY work. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 06 Day 2: How the Female Mind Works and How to Use This Knowledge to Your Advantage! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15 Day 3: The MOST IMPORTANT Secret to Having a Woman Want You. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24 Day 4: Become Immune to Rejection by Mastering Your Attitude . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36 Day 5: How to Apply the Dating Principles and Earn MASSIVE Success . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44 Day 6: Prevent the Doldrums from Poisoning Your Loved-Up Bliss. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 51 The Meet Your Sweet Course Catalog. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 59
6-Part MiniCourse Day 1: How Dating & Attraction REALLY Work

If youre interested in dating and attraction, youll probably know that there are nearinfinite numbers of dating coaches out there on the Net, each marketing his own particular brand of wisdom on how to get more women and each trying to convince us all of his own unique spin on the subject. Youll also probably know that most of this so-called knowledge is based mostly upon EXTREMES of approach. Im sure you know what I mean: that youre either out there trying to score as many hot women as possible (belt-notches optional but recommended) or, youre trying to find The One, and therefore should NOT be in the market for any kind of fun, relaxed dating practices, like dating more than one woman at a time. That would just be irresponsible. Its like there are only two ways of looking at this whole dating and attraction thing: youre either out there to get as much as possible, as QUICK as possible or youre out there to find a future wife, nuff said. As it turns out, however, there IS an intermediary middle ground, and its called figuring out how to BE the kind of guy that quality women are NATURALLY ATTRACTED to so that, WHATEVER your end goal is (whether thats a string of fastnfurious short-term flings or one superlative relationship), youre able to act in a way thats authentic and true to yourself while still achieving whatever it is that you set out to achieve. Heres the deal with this middle ground approach. Once you become that guy who just instinctively is attractive to himself, you never have to bog yourself down trying to role-play, use canned material, or hide behind a pseudoAll Rights Reserved 2008 MeetYourSweet.com
social mask of witty one-liners and bravado in the hopes of getting a woman. Instead, you can literally just be YOURSELF (albeit your BEST self ), and watch in wonderment as a virtual red carpet of quality women and ABUNDANT OPTIONS unfurls in front of you. Let me ask you a question. Are you interested in becoming the kind of QUALITY GUY whos a natural with women? My guess is that, yes, you would be. And Im not talking about some kind of quickfix magic bullet, since, if youre truly interested in BEING great with women not just ACTING great with women there are no magic bullets. (Sorry about that.) Im talking about finding it within yourself to use whatever skills and charisma are lurking in there (possibly unknown to you, at this present moment) and creating hot, fun, outrageously successful relationships of whatever nature and length with the women that YOU find attractive. Not the women your friends want. Not the women you think you should want. But the women that YOU ACTUALLY want. The women that YOU think of as being quality. (Why? Because this is about learning to shuck off the dusty old social-masks that so many guys out there are using, and being your REAL self to attract the women that YOU WANT. No side-stepping or B.S. permitted, in your behavior or your goals.) I dont have to tell you that women are different from us. There are things they do that make no sense to us at all. Our brains are wired differently - just ask any neurobiologist. MRI scans are telling us more about what makes a woman tick than at any point in history. So it falls to me to lead you down the path of what happens inside the female brain to give you the science, the statistics, and exact conclusions you need to apply your insider knowledge to ANY woman.
Over the next couple days, heres whats going to happen: - Youll find out why women are the way they are and what it means for YOU. - Youll find out how to spark attraction in a woman how to get to a more intimate level quickly and how to keep that spark going as long as you want. - Youll learn how to keep a relationship from getting boring or too serious how to keep your woman from changing for the worse and how to feel so secure in how she feels about you that you dont have to worry about ANY other guy.
Let me give you a blow-by-blow breakdown of how were going to proceed over the next week.
HOW DATING & ATTRACTION REALLY WORK

Every system has a foundation. Some guys base their seduction science on NLP; others say that it all comes down to the approach and building rapport. There are other guys who focus on entertaining women and demonstrating value. Our foundation here at MeetYourSweet.com is a little different. Im not interested in giving you the quick fix (which, incidentally, is usually the false fix.) How many times have you heard of, or seen, a guy whose life is just too compartmentalized to actually be sustainable? During the day, he has his normal personality. Then at night, he puts on his sarging clothes, studies up on magic tricks and cold reading, and goes out to pick up women, hiding behind his social personality like an automaton. Sooner or later, hes going to run out of material and things to say, and is going to run
face-first into that brick wall known as, Uhhhhh what am I sposed to do next? See, thats the problem with faking it. At some point, youre going to run into a situation thats simply beyond the bounds of what you know and youre going to be stumped. But if youre NOT faking it, and youre actually BEING that guy who actually IS good with women, youre NEVER going to have that problem, because youre ALWAYS going to be able to trust your own instincts. Its a simple solution to a complex problem. Oh, and by the way once you get past the surface-level and really get interested in the MECHANICS of whats going on here the behind-the-scenes information that helps you to literally BE that quality guy youll find that these skills are actually fundamental to just about every area of life. This isnt just going to make you better at pickup. Its going to make you better at LIFE. So, heres the deal Over the next week, youre going to become familiar with the three core principles necessary to rid you of unwholesome and limiting old-style beliefs pertaining to WOMEN and YOURSELF and as a result, youre going to experience a quantum shift in the kind of success you experience with women, and with life in general.
THE 3 PRINCIPLES OF DATING ENLIGHTENMENT

Dating Principle #1: Men and women are different. This is a hugely profound statement, and yet few men actually INTERNALIZE it and cross that boundary between knowing and doing.
For example, a lot of guys know on a theoretical level that women and men are not the same and yet they continue, on some level, to expect women to be more like men. Often, this takes the shape of the guy whos biding his time and waiting for The Big One (a.k.a. the one) while he has fun for now with women who, secretly, he considers beneath him and not up to his standards without realizing that the woman he REALLY wants the one who implicitly gets it and understands him is NEVER going to show up, unless he decides to take the bit between the teeth and actually take the initiative as far as female behavior patterns go. Guys like these are the ones who never actually invest any effort or time into actually UNDERSTANDING feminine psychology or what works with women and so they end up repeating the same old relationship-pattern again and again. (While all the time, figuring that, at some point, this fantastic woman is going to just show up in their lives without the need for them to make any changes to their attitude or behavior first.) We all know that men and women are different. But if you want to get some SUCCESS with women, youve got to understand HOW theyre different and what that means for YOU. Dating Principle #2: Women are attracted to men because theyre men. OK guys. This is a big one. Have you noticed that theres a huge tendency towards feminizing ourselves as men lately? Everywhere you look, guys are sensitizing, tenderizing, and demasculinizing themselves in the hopes that this will somehow attract women. Heres a new concept for you: women like men who are MEN.
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You know: strong, masculine guys who know who they are, what they want, and who have the confidence to do and be as they believe best. Not a whimpering, supplicating creature thats deliberately scrubbed all residual masculinity, like unwanted barnacles, from its personality and who attempts to attract women through its complete LACK of anything that might offend like being up-front about attraction like teasing a woman and making her laugh like daring to cross boundaries in a playful, laid-back way like taking RISKS and being a MAN. Enough of us have bought into the concept that to be a man, and to telegraph to women the fact that we like everyone else on this planet actually enjoy sex, and wouldnt mind having some from time to time, is a BAD THING if you want to attract a woman. The result? A strange and cloying tendency to befriend women, act like their therapists, and generally attempt to repress any shows of genuine attraction or sexuality in the hopes of coming in under the radar. This kind of behavior positively reeks of spinelessness and not only that, but MANIPULATION. Thats right: men who try to suppress their own inherent maleness in order to get women are: - manipulating themselves, by pretending that basic aspects of their character are not appropriate and do not exist - manipulating HER, by lulling her assumed suspicions and pretending to be and want something that, respectively, they are not and do not.
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Part of creating massive and ongoing success with women is recognizing the fact that you are a man, and that remaining true to that manhood, and never apologizing for it, is an ESSENTIAL aspect of being a high-caliber guy and of being attractive to blue-ribbon candidate women. Dating Principle #3: Non-attachment is what works dont get obsessive. The moment you start getting too attached to the outcome of any situation the moment you start to act like a guy WITHOUT OPTIONS is the moment that the tables turn, you give up all your CONTROL and POWER, and put HER in the drivers seat of what happens next. Incidentally, its also the moment that she begins to sense your inherent instability and her attraction for you begins to wane. On the other hand, if you can create a reality for yourself where you have PLENTY of options and you know that another, better one could literally show up at any minute then you NEVER get too attached to what happens, you NEVER start obsessing, and you NEVER inadvertently create your own, negative reality by acting needy and insecure. And by the way: this isnt about trying to not care, or cultivating an attitude of apathy. Its simply about knowing your own worth, and never being DESPERATE.
WHATS COMING UP
And heres how those 3 principles are going to be applied over the next few days Day 2 (tomorrow): How the female mind works... and how to use this knowledge to your advantage! Discover how female brains are wired, and what this means for YOU.
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Day 3: The MOST IMPORTANT secret to making a woman want you So what does it take to man up? What does it take to inspire irresistible sexual chemistry in a woman? What does it REALLY take to be a man? And why do women want a manly man anyway? Ill give you a quiz to measure exactly how well youre igniting sexual polarity in a woman and give you concrete techniques to up your sex appeal. Day 4. Become rejection-proof by mastering your inner game How to ditch your overt attachment to a particular outcome, and lose the sense of desperation and neediness thats keeping you trapped in Rejection Hell. How to update your attitude and approach to dating and attraction so that you become the strong, masculine man who NATURALLY attracts women and keeps their interest all without a hint of groveling, supplication, or ass-kissing. Day 5. Unravel female flirtation signals to FASCINATE women Find out how you can use your insider knowledge of a womans mind to maximize your success in attracting women. Day 6. Prevent the doldrums from poisoning your loved-up bliss Why is it that some guys seem to be trapped in a cycle of continuing relationship blahs, while for others, that bond just keeps getting better and better? Why is it that some relationships turn sour after just a month or two, even if they seemed GREAT at first? Learn the secrets of relationship management so that your life is IMPROVED by the presence of your female chosen one. This is the basic success package that you need to get your feet planted firmly on the road to knowledge and the kind of AUTHENTICALLY high-caliber lifestyle that WILL attract great women. One last thing before I go this is all completely different stuff from the routines and
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techniques that you may have learned from other, more commercial dating coaches. This isnt about setting you up with the fake it til you make it lifestyle that somehow never seems to QUITE click with the real you this is about shucking the husk of inauthenticity and mediocrity, and effortlessly ATTRACTING quality into your life. This is by no means impossible. And its my honor to show you the way. Keep an eye out for section two, coming your way tomorrow! Be cool,
Slade Shaw MeetYourSweet.com
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6-Part MiniCourse Day 2: How the female mind works...and how to use this knowledge to your advantage!
Ask the average guy to name some examples of HOW men and women are different, and usually the answer youll get will include at least one of the following: - Women want commitment more than men - Women want to get married and have kids and men are happy just having sex and hanging out - Women either want Nice Guys or Jerks whereas guys just want good-looking women - Women give sex to get love, men give love to get sex
Heres the problem with this method of thinking. When you try to limit your way of thinking about women and attraction to a set of GENERALIZATIONS and STEREOTYPES, youre seriously limiting your chances of ever getting past the level of mediocrity with women. If you want to get interested in attracting some seriously excellent women into your life, youve got to go beyond where most men are content to stay (read: where theyll get SOME women just not necessarily GREAT women) and actually get a deeper understanding of whats going on here. Heres something else that could be secretly crippling your ability to attract women: an unspoken desire that WOMEN WERE MORE LIKE MEN.
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Ever heard a guy say something like this about a woman: Yeah, shes pretty emotional. Fortunately, Im more logical? Or, Why do women always have to blow things out of context? A lot of guys UNCONSCIOUSLY think in these kinds of ways about women. Deep down, they wish that women were MORE LIKE MEN. They expect that, if they get good enough with women or meet the right woman all her behavior will start to make sense and theyll naturally just fall into synch with one another. Unfortunately, this is usually code for one day Ill meet a woman whos enough like me that we just click and everything will be easy. Until then, Ill settle for whatever comes along. These are usually the guys who are WISHING for something better, but who get tied down in accidental relationships of convenience and who develop a pretty serious case of the how-the-hell-did-I-end-up-heres. So please. Yes, its true that men and women are actually a lot more similar than most of us realize we often both want the same things and even have the same thoughts but there are still going to be differences, and if youre interested in becoming a topnotch kinda guy (read: the kind that excellent women find irresistible), youve got to stop hoping that the feminine brain can ever be reverse-engineered or 100% understood by a guy. Heres a little cold, hard biology to prove my point did you know that what we think of as gender has as much to do with BIOLOGY as CULTURE? In other words, its not necessarily nurture that makes a woman girly. Give a little girl a choice between a truck and a teddy bear, and studies show shell reach
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for the teddy bear. Translated into grown-up speak, that means that women tend to be more interested in PEOPLE than they are in THINGS. Now obviously, there are no absolutes in place here, and we all know people who are varying degrees of exception to the norm. But if you can accept the FACT that women are inherently different on a biological AND a cultural level, so much the better. Women are different from us. Expect differences. But at the same time, if youre trying to bury your confused little head in the soothing sand of gender stereotypes, hear me when I say that to do so is tantamount to broadcasting signals that say THIS: I am just another average guy, just like all the other average guys out there! Quality women need not apply! All excellent women will be hopelessly overqualified to date me! Mediocre women and mediocre relationships, taking applications now! Labelizing is childish and immature. Women will know when youre trying to soothe your confusion with outrage or labels. To succeed in this area, youve got to get interested not in what you EXPECT, but in what IS. Following are 10 examples of how you can improve your interactions with women RIGHT NOW.
1. Get her talking about herself.

Heres something a lot of guys do: they start churning out this big list of good qualities and shamefully-transparent Ways That Im Cool. Unfortunately, this behavior pretty much screams insecurity, makes it blatantly clear that youre trying to get something to happen, makes you seem like a guy lacking in options, and will effectively turn a quality women OFF. To genuinely impress a woman, you have to act with SUBTLETY. Give her the space to decide for herself that you are a cool guy, and you will ultimately arrive at that destination with a lot more assurance and style than if youd attempted to pave your own
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way into her good books. Heres something that Ive noticed about human nature: when it comes to intangibles like ATTRACTION, words actually mean a lot less than youd think. And in fact, TALKING about stuff can actually RUIN an atmosphere that was building. So if youre hanging out with a woman and all of a sudden you start asking her if shes OK, if shes having a good time, if she likes you, and whether she sees this going anywhere, youre going to kill the mood as quickly as if youd stuck a pin in a balloon. Same goes for trying to seem cool by talking about stuff like how great your car is, how much you got in your last raise, and how much you pay in rent for your place. She doesnt want to hear it, and its just going to make it obvious that her opinion means a lot to you which IT SHOULDNT yet. BUT, if you can just play it cool and allow UNSPOKEN stuff to show you how shes feeling about you, and allow YOUR unspoken behavior to create an impression, and ACT COOL without having to talk yourself up, youre going to seem a lot cooler than if youd tried to prove it by opening up your big mouth. My suggestion is this: that you stop trying to get something to HAPPEN, and focus instead on just being there with her and making sure shes enjoying your company in a laid-back and subtle way. Women tend to want men who make them FEEL certain ways not men who try to logically PROVE that they should be able to make them feel certain ways. Let go of your need to convince her of anything. Act like a guy with value. And as a general rule, high-value guys dont tend to over-explain things, act like they care too much about someone elses opinion, or explain themselves overly much. They just DO things, and let other people figure out how things stand on their own.
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2. Make her FEEL THINGS when shes with you.

Women are suckers for emotion. They want to FEEL THINGS. They want to get INVOLVED. And when you are talking about dry stuff like your job, the weather, and the dinner menu, shes not going to be feeling ANYTHING. Cue boredom and a burgeoning wish on her part to end the date and go home early. If you want to be the kind of guy that she cant stop thinking about, youve got to involve her EMOTIONALLY and then SHE will do the rest. And that doesnt necessarily mean talking about emotions, it means being a fun, interesting guy who fills her up with all sorts of different feelings. A good way to create emotions is to make her laugh. Be unpredictable. Talk to her about weird stuff (what would you do if you had a penis for a day?). Get her to tell you about stuff that MEANS something. Dont just sit around eating food together and being polite if youre out with a woman, do something that will create excitement and adrenaline. Personally, I like to take women out to DO stuff: playing 1-on-1 basketball or going swimming together.
3. Dont do the whole funny insults thing.

Guys are often rude to each other. We like it that way. We talk about farts, we belch, we cuss, and we make fun of each other. If you want to create a sexy, flirty atmosphere, treat her like a lady (but dont take this as an excuse to hold back on the flirting and playful funny-talk.) Focus on making her feel like a woman, and she will respond by being upping the femininity more and more. Its a hell of a way to create an atmosphere.
4. Learn how to talk about stuff thats INTERESTING to women.
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Start broadening your understanding of the world. Read magazines, watch TV and the news, check out blogs and newsposts on the Internet. Pick up quirky facts. Get interested in pop psychology and offer to read her personality for her.
5. Know that looks matter but not as much as you think they do.
Women, believe it or not, are NOT as much into looks as you are. Obviously, a toned and muscular body will help you to be more successful with women (and is hopefully something that youre interested in getting FOR YOURSELF as a mark of self-respect), but it is not essential. The thing that tends to attract women is a feeling that you are socially better than they are. Women are very rarely attracted to guys who are further down the status line than they are, but they will often go for a man who has social value. Status can be summed up as a perceived ability to make things happen. For example, in a club, the owner of the club is usually attractive to lots of women because he has a perceived POWER and ability to make things happen within that environment. Women are often drawn to that ability in a man because, to some extent, they want to be with a guy who can protect them and boost their OWN social standing. In fact, most women would prefer to be with a high-status and physically average-looking guy than a good-looking, low-status guy. Other signifiers of social value include: laid-back posture; pronounced personal style; lots of friends; interest from other women; and, to a lesser extent, good looks.
6. Dont get upset if shes upset.

Sometimes women get upset. They dont want to also feel responsible for YOU being upset. One of the best and MOST POTENT ways to demonstrate to a woman that shes
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with a powerful, in-control guy is that you DO NOT get freaked out by tears or her upsets (even if they are directed at you.) Sometimes a woman will get upset because, on some level, she needs to know that she can trust you and that shes safe with you (i.e. she can rely on you to be in control.) If you can stay calm and not get fazed if shes upset, crying, or frightened, this will increase her overall regard for you MASSIVELY.
7. Let her get it off her chest.

Suggestion: unless she has SPECIFICALLY ASKED for your advice, resist the urge to give it to her. If shes venting about something, put your attention on just being with her and letting her talk. Dont interrupt, and try not to offer solutions. Just let her talk, and empathize with her while keeping it short and sweet so no trailing anecdotes about the time that you did X. (Stick to I know how you feel.
8. Allow for feminine subtlety. Expect it.

A lot of women were brought up with a huge focus on being polite (particularly the sweet ones.) Unlike a lot of guys, who are quite happy to say exactly what they feel like doing or dont like, many women will suggest things and hope (silently) that you are one of the UNUSUAL MEN who can pick up on subtlety. Try listening between the lines. For example, if a woman says, Wouldnt it be nice to do X? you can translate that as meaning, I want to do X. If she says, I dont know , translate that as meaning, No, thank you. If you can do this without making a big deal of it, shes going to know that youre one of a kind.
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9. Learn how to talk with your body.

Learn to use your body to convey status and interest to a woman. Have you ever noticed that men who women find attractive often have a very similar way of holding and moving their bodies? It usually involves 3 attributes: - Slowness. Dont move quickly. - Smoothness. No jerky movements. - Steadiness. Dont fidget around a lot. Holding your body in this way comes across very powerfully to women and instantly lends you more authority and power. Get some male role models from movies and real life and pinpoint what about them it is that conveys easy, powerful masculinity.
10. Spend money on your skills.

If something matters to you, dont skimp on it. If you want to figure out how to get good with women and with LIFE, sometimes youll need to strategically spend some energy in the form of cash to get the ball rolling. Consider what is important to you and be OK with investing in it. If a seminar or a book or a course seems to be speaking to you, and you get that feeling that goes, I think I need to know this, do it. Never stop improving your skill base and the best way to do that is to RESEARCH. Hopefully, these tips have given you a position of strength from which to start your improvements. In tomorrows lesson, youre going to learn about the most important SECRET to making a woman want you (and its NOT what you think it is.)
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Be cool,
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6-Part MiniCourse Day 3: the MOST IMPORTANT secret to making a woman want you
Today its time to take a look at the Holy Grail of attraction: what REALLY makes a woman want you. And yes, we really are going to take a stab at this possibly the most universal of ALL questions about women right here and now. What behaviors can YOU implement that are known to make the women that YOU DESIRE MOST to want you? First of all, its time for a small but important distinction. Be aware: there is a difference between LIKING and WANTING. A woman can like you perfectly fine, and still not be ATTRACTED to you. (Hint: this is called friendship.) Unfortunately, a lot of guys TRY to create attraction, when in fact, what theyre ACTUALLY doing is creating FRIENDSHIP. Many guys attempt to do things for a woman which (he thinks) will make her want him but which, in actual fact, do nothing but broadcast his COMPLETE lack of perceived control over the situation, his DESPERATION to effect a certain end, and his cluelessness about how attraction works. Such men include those who preface a conversation with a female counterpart with the words, Hey, can I buy you a drink? and Youre pretty as well as guys who assume the therapist role (hearing all about the ex, the guys whove done her wrong, and about the guy shes currently seeing even how great the sex is) as well as guys who ROLL OVER and play dead for a woman (being the chauffeur,
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buying her stuff, putting up with weird behavior and temper tantrums, and generally pandering to the idea that SHE is in control and YOU are supplicating to her.) Fortunately, there are many women out there who have too much self-respect, compassion, and BETTER OPTIONS than to encourage that kind of behavior from men but on the other, less-fortunate hand, such women DO exist who WILL accept (and in fact, blatantly orchestrate) such behavior some, who even EXPECT IT. Such women are toxic, and you would do well to avoid all interactions with them. Sex is not a valid currency in the mind of ANY man who has a modicum of value. So heres the point: those are the kind of women who like you (or appear to) rather than actually WANTING YOU. (They are also, often, the kinds of women who believe that men are rats, that theyre only out to get one thing from a woman, and that your funds are a valid exchange for such shreds of time and fleshliness as shes prepared to throw your way.) and lets be honest here. Most of the time, that fleshliness is REFERRED to often, but rarely actually MATERIALIZES. So shell hint, infer, and otherwise make you THINK that youre maybe going to get a reward for all your troubles but it almost NEVER actually HAPPENS. There is an important lesson here: if you want to make a woman WANT you, you have got to be in control of yourself, and not seem DESPERATE. The easiest way not to seem desperate is, of course, to actually not BE desperate. And the best way to genuinely avoid desperation is to actually HAVE OPTIONS when it comes to women and dating. If you ever catch yourself feeling as though youd do anything for a woman just to have her hang around, she will SENSE it and be repelled.
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Why? Because women dont like weak, needy men who are OK with receiving poor treatment simply to bask in her presence. Power corrupts. And absolute power corrupts absolutely. So lesson one: dont give away your power. Dont supplicate. Dont beg. Dont be desperate. For now, put your attention on the necessity of not faking anything (i.e. not having to PRETEND not to be needy or desperate, while all along your hearts hammering away and your palms are sweating because this is Your Big Chance) and of actually HAVING OPTIONS. A few solid guidelines: - Dont be on call for her. - Dont drop everything for her. - Dont wait for her to validate you. - Dont offer to purchase anything or expend any resources in order to talk to her or see her. (If taking girls out is something you already do for fun, then fine. But if youre doing it because you want her to like you, then consider that your first red flag and drop that behavior like a hot potato.) - Dont be the one she calls ONLY when she needs something. - Be a man, not a puppy-dog. But enough with the doom and gloom. So now you know how to make a woman like you as opposed to want you so how do you flip the coin? How do you make her WANT YOU?
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Is it looks? Is it wealth? Is it confidence? Is it power? All those things are part of it, but theyre not THE SINGLE MOST FUNDAMENTAL THING. I want you to think deeper than what everyone else is telling you. Think deeper than conventional wisdom. What is the single most fundamental thing that a woman wants in a sexual partner? Think about it Whats the one thing she HAS to have? I can tell you straight off that it isnt looks. There are plenty of average-looking guys with beautiful women in their lives. And quality women dont tend to be overly impressed by wealth. Confidence is definitely a big one, but its still not ESSENTIAL a full 100% of the time, with 100% of women. so WHAT IS IT? Here goes: the MOST important thing that a woman needs in order to WANT YOU is that you are a MAN.
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That you know what it means to be a man that youre OK with it that you dont APOLOGIZE for it that you have the strength to BE it and that you ARE it, through and through, 100% congruence meaning, theres no act here. (Because women can smell FALSITY.) Women are attracted to MEN, plain and simple. A MAN is someone whos different from her in every way. A MAN is someone who has integrity, knows who he is, and knows where hes going. A MAN is someone that a woman can trust to guide her and lead her into a great future. A MAN is someone who has the strength to let her be her most feminine self without ever making her feel that SHES the one whos going to have to carry them both. Who can let her know that everythings going to be OK. Whos not fazed by her femininity. Who supports her EMOTIONALLY, not just MATERIALLY. Who validates HER instead of looking TO her for validation. Heres what being a man ISNT: - Trying to be her friend in order to come in under the radar. - Paying for attention, affection, or conversation. - Disguising your truth in order to create an impression. (For example, hanging out in the VIP lounge and flashing your money-clip around in order to get highclass women, when its actually beyond your means to maintain.) - Freaking out when she reacts emotionally to a situation. - Relying on her for validation and approval.
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- Looking to her for decisions and opinions. A woman will go to other women to share feelings, gossip, and talk about the neighbors. Shell go to a MAN for her other needs. Shell go to a MAN when she wants to lean on someone strong. Shell go to a MAN when she wants to let loose and go wild. A woman wants a man because hes a MAN not because hes just like her or just like a friend. I want you to get this concept, because its THAT important. Have you ever been in the situation where youre the guy a girl goes to when she has boy problems and wants to talk them through but if you try to kiss her or move things forward physically, she balks and backs off and makes an excuse? This sort of thing happens when a woman just isnt feeling your masculinity. Youre not making her feel safe, supported, or that youre strong enough to LEAD. And by the way making a woman feel supported is NOT about doling out relationship advice, telling her shes too good for other guys, or being the shoulder to cry on. Its about letting her know, tacitly, that YOU are always in control, that you are someone she can RELY on, and that you can handle it, whatever it is. See, this is something that a lot of guys struggle with. Theyre AFRAID to be men because they dont want to SCARE anybody (like women). Theyre scared to just be a man and be OK with it. By trying not to give too much air-time to aggressiveness or masculinity, theyve actually NEUTERED themselves and become a blank cartridge in terms of ATTRACTION. This is why so many women seem to prefer jerks. Not because they actually WANT a jerk, but because, when faced with a choice between a sensitive new-age guy and a JERK, theyd rather pick the jerk because at least HE knows how to be a MAN.
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(Sadly for many women, they literally are unaware that there is a middle ground here that great men do exist who are neither SNAGs nor jerks, who are EXCELLENT men who also know how to BE MEN. This is why jerks have such a cachet for many because they literally dont know of anything else thats out there thats still capable of being a man. Fortunately for these women, you will be able to convey this quality to them soon.) When you suppress your masculinity in order for women to be OK with you, you actually just guaranteed that a womans going to feel NOTHING around you. Just that. Neutrality. Not aroused. Not hot. NOTHING. Guys have LOST the ability to be men and, in the process, theyve lost what it takes to attract women. Now, Im making no assumptions about YOU personally. But for those guys out there who feel like they could use a little more instruction on what it takes to be a man I have something to say to you. Its NOT the end of the world. Youre not resigned to being the guy you are now for always. Think about how much youve changed from the way you were at 13 years old or even at 3 years old. You have the potential for AMAZING growth and development. In five years, you could look back on the guy you are now and feel like you have nothing in common with him. You could be the MAN that takes attracting excellent women for granted. You could be so transformed that you barely even remember what it's like to feel stuck in your old life.
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If youre happy with the man you are now and the life you have now, then by all means stay with what works. But if youre NOT completely happy if you feel STUCK in old patterns of getting rejected and beating yourself up if youre absolutely 100% willing to make a CHANGE in your life and take that risk... Then youre ready for the next step in your seduction instruction. TAKE A SHORT QUIZ Answer yes or no to each question below. 1. I dont have too much of a problem attracting women I find attractive. 2. I often find myself adjusting who I am or even making things about myself up to seem attractive. 3. I can think of a lot of reasons that a woman wouldnt be attracted to me. 4. I find it hard to meet women whom I want AND like. 5. Theres not much that embarrasses me about myself. 6. The women I want rarely, if ever, want me back. 7. Im confident that someday a woman will come along who will recognize what a great guy I am. 8. As long as the sex is good, Ill put up with a lot in a woman. 9. I dont have any problem with being assertive. 10. I find it upsetting when a woman gets upset or starts throwing a fit.
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11. Im confident that I can handle most things that life throws at me. 12. I feel like I have a pretty good relationship with my Dad. 13. It annoys me when things dont go as planned. 14. Im not really a picky person, Im pretty good at going with the flow. 15. Ive got a good idea of what I want my future to look like in the next couple years. TOTAL UP YOUR POINTS For every answer that matches below, give yourself a point. For every answer that doesnt match, subtract a point. 1 YES, 2 NO, 3 NO, 4 NO, 5 YES, 6 NO, 7 NO, 8 NO, 9 YES, 10 NO, 11 YES, 12 YES, 13 NO, 14 YES, 15 YES WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR RESULTS Now, you may be expecting me to tell you whether or not youre a real man based on your score, but Im not going to tell you what your score should be. Theres no threshold that you cross over that tells you that NOW youre a man. Clearly, the more points you get, the better youre doing but this is a PROCESS were talking about here. Youre going to continue learning more about what it means to be a man until the day you die. But if your score wasnt as high as you thought it should be, Im going to give you three mind-blowing principles right now that, if you master them, have the power to completely transform your life.
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CRASH COURSE IN MANHOOD

Tip #1: Get passionate about something other than women. Theres nothing less attractive than a guy whos OK with settling for a life that hes not PASSIONATE about. If you are living your life without energy and enthusiasm, then you are going to find it difficult to EVER get a really excellent woman interested in you. And by the way passion doesnt count if its only WOMEN youre passionate about. You need to have interests other than simply getting good with women if you want to be a compelling man. Heres what most guys do: they get comfortable, get a steady job, rent a decent place in an apartment complex, and spend all their free time on some combination of the following: the computer, working out, and/or drinking. And then they complain that they dont have a girlfriend! If you want to be the kind of MAN that a WOMAN desires, then you have got to get interested in living a full life. And this isnt something that you do to get women. Living a kick-ass life is hopefully something you want to do FOR YOURSELF otherwise Im going to assume you dont have a lot of self-respect (in which case, youre going to find it difficult to EVER get a quality woman.) Tip #2: Dont give when you dont WANT to give. Some guys find it too easy to become a yes-man. You know the guy who agrees to do things, give things, and say things when he doesnt really want to and he doesnt really mean it. For example: the kind of guy wholl agree with a woman, EVEN WHEN he doesnt
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ACTUALLY agree, just so shell like him more. Or the kind of guy wholl compliment a woman on something he could not care less about so shell think theyre on the same wavelength. Or the kind of guy wholl inconvenience himself massively for a woman because hes afraid that, if he doesnt, hell lose his chance. Heres the truth: it is THAT VERY ATTITUDE that will lose you your chance, because a great woman will not stay attracted to someone whos so petrified of losing her that he cant even bring himself to be authentic. Learn how to say no in a way thats NOT A BIG DEAL. Dont get freaked out if you have a different opinion to someone. Get excited about radical honesty and the revitalizing effect it can have on your relationships with women. Consider the fact that a conflict of opinion, when handled well, is interesting and creates the friction that leads to passion. Be interesting. Be OK with being interesting. Tip #3: Get validation from something in your life other than women. If you are relying on success with women to validate you and make you feel worthwhile, then your satisfaction with your life and your sense of confidence as a man is forever going to be ephemeral and linked to external events that are, BY THEIR VERY NATURE, constantly shifting. As a result, youll put way too much emphasis on the outcome of ANY situation with a woman. The worst-case scenario is that youll be unable to relax around women, and your weird
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urgency and intensity will creep her out. The best-case scenario is that youll be strapped to a life-long roller-coaster of I totally rule! and Man, I SUCK because youll never be in control of your own value and this can be exhausting. This is where creating and living a GREAT life comes in. When you have a full life that interests you and from which you derive pleasure, suddenly women are NOT SUCH A BIG DEAL. Thats not to say that you cant WANT a woman but you no longer NEED ONE in order to feel normal. And as a result, women everywhere sense your innate control and ability to create SELFSATISFACTION, and will immediately start showing up in your life. But careful now they can smell inauthenticity. This will only work if youre doing it FOR REAL, not just as a ploy to get women. Ill talk to you again soon. Be cool,
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6-Part MiniCourse Day 4: Become Immune to Rejection by Mastering Your Attitude

Today: how to ditch your overt attachment to a particular outcome, and lose the sense of desperation and neediness thats keeping you trapped in Rejection Hell. Also: how to update your attitude and approach to dating and attraction so that you become the strong, masculine man who NATURALLY attracts women and keeps their interest all without a HINT of groveling, supplication, or ass-kissing. The way I see it, the biggest thing thats keeping most guys back from experiencing real, ongoing success with women is FEAR. Its the fear of REJECTION. And no matter how much you know, on a conscious level, that youre a great guy who women should be attracted to, that rational, LOGICAL part of your mind doesnt even make a DENT in your emotional, gut-level response to situations involving instinctive responses like FEAR. All the rationality in the world doesnt affect that deep-down part of your brain the part where EMOTIONS hold sway. Emotionally, you dont want to have to experience rejection: the fear of not being good enough the fear that youll end up at a loss for words, or that you wont know what to say, or that you wont be able to make her laugh, or that you wont be able to make her WANT YOU. But dont worry. This is COMPLETELY NORMAL. Most of the dating advice out there centers to a large degree around talking yourself out of it, and going out there and focusing on things like talking to lots of women, being
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sociable, and improving your social skills in order to combat a fear of rejection. And this is all important stuff that Im very much 100% behind. Its true, success with women DOES rely massively on a strong set of social skills and its true that the only way to IMPROVE those skills is to get off the couch, get out there, and talk to people. But that advice alone isnt giving you the full story. Theres something missing. There are lots of men who know what they should be doing but somehow thats still not enough to actually cross that divide between knowing and doing. And whats getting in the way? FEAR. Emotions. Instincts. All the gut-level reactions that need more than LOGIC to counteract. If you dont have a solid game strategy about rejection and how to deal with it, youre always going to be balanced on the knife-edge between self-confidence and rock-bottom complete lack of self-esteem. Youre never going to be in control of how you feel about yourself and youre ALWAYS going to be handing over your power to EXTERNAL situations that you have no control over. Can anyone say EMASCULATED? Dont get me wrong here, guys. This is a BIG DEAL. For most men, all it takes is one little failure with a woman to scramble up all the good work and progress theyve made so far. And if youve experienced rejection on a REGULAR BASIS, without a lot of successes to counteract it, youll be feeling SERIOUSLY scrambled up. Its taken me a long time to figure this out for myself but logic simply doesnt cut the mustard when rip-roaring emotions and instincts are concerned. If you want to get a handle on rejection and transform it from a barrier to your success to NOTHINGNESS,
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then youve got to fight fire with fire and rely on gut-level KNOWLEDGE to counteract gut-level EMOTION. This is where ATTITUDE comes in. Theres nothing logical about attitude. Its not all about rationality and words. Its about who you choose to BE. Consider this for a fact: most men think their attitude is something that just happens and that they have very little control over. Subsequently, they set themselves up to LOSE when it comes to dating and women. If youve ever felt that the cards have been stacked against you, or that youre somehow lacking the advantages that other guys have, or that on some level youre not enough to be successful with women, I KNOW you know what Im talking about here. And this is why so many men end up literally entraining themselves for failure. Heres what usually happens. Many guys are COMPLETELY at the mercy of circumstance when it comes to women and this is a situation that they create for themselves. Why? Because they believe that, if a great woman is attracted to them a woman whos above what theyd normally be able to get they take it that this is somehow a fluke, or that theyve lucked in, or that shes one of a kind and theyd better make the most of this amazing opportunity and seal the deal before she gets a clearer idea of what kind of guy shes dealing with here (i.e. someone out of her league.) This is whats known as a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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Heres the sequence of events: - The guy can hardly believe his luck. He figures he must have lucked in to this one. He instantly figures that she must not know what hes really like (i.e. lower status than her) and begins to worry that shell figure it out, so he starts trying to wall her in before she can make a quick getaway. - This behavior inevitably strikes her as strange and unattractive. She begins to pick up on the stifled needy/desperate vibes coming her way and figures that this isnt congruent with her original impression of a dude with confidence, masculinity, and OPTIONS that, in fact, hes acting like a desperate, feardriven guy whos trying to lock her down before she escapes. - She is driven away by the neediness and desperation inherent in his behavior, which triggers a call and response situation wherein her increasing distance and aloofness causes even MORE neediness and desperation thus sealing the deal. - She walks. He is left with a belief that his instincts were right all along: hes not capable of sustaining attraction with a woman of that caliber which of course REINFORCES that type of self-fulfilling-belief-based behavior the next time he unexpectedly attracts a hottie. In other words: this guys ATTITUDE is the thing that let him down. He saw himself in a certain way and that belief was so strong that it eventually permeated the way SHE saw him, too. Imagine what could have happened if hed acted on beliefs that SUPPORTED his strength and attraction instead of sabotaging them. This is a home truth that not a lot of guys are aware of. They think that, if you can fake it til you make it, or just ACT in a certain way to get the girl, then shell be fooled and
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everyone will go home happy. But thats nothing but a pipe dream. Sure, a certain type of woman might be fooled by a few routines, openers, and one-liners but a really EXCELLENT woman will be able to sniff out incongruence, and sooner or later, shell be REPELLED by it. Theres just no getting around it. You attract what you believe. And this is something you cant fake. So heres a suggested attitude for you to try on for size, instead. If your attitude was one of its not such a big deal, and you believed that, since youve got what it takes to attract ONE woman, youve got what it takes to attract MORE then you wouldnt do what most guys end up doing, which is that she will INEVITABLY find out about the real you and be turned off. (Which of course, is usually EXACTLY what ends up happening.) The attitude is what CREATES the REALITY. Suggestion: instead of focusing on FEAR, consider the notion of ABUNDANCE. In a very real way, there are A LOT of women out there. And some of these women are going to find you attractive. Count on it. So how about this instead of thinking that youve fluked it when you feel a spark with an excellent woman, how about looking at it in a way that actually supports your lifestyle as a quality man. Namely: take it as incontrovertible PROOF that you have now improved to the level that you can actually attract women of this caliber ACROSS THE BOARD. No luck and no coincidence involved. If it happens once, itll happen again.
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A natural byproduct of this belief is GENUINE RELAXATION and an ability to just chill and know that, whatever happens, its really NOT such a big deal. If she walks, so be it. Not a big deal. You can attract other women instead - one of whom, at some point, will hit all the right buttons and vice versa. This is the attitude that will consistently get you women. You simply have to DETACH from any kind of obsessive, fear-based need to make something happen. That need will literally PREVENT you from attaining what it is that you want. Instead, why not take some of the pressure off yourself and get more success at the same time? If you know there are going to be other chances, and that youve got other OPTIONS (even if you dont know about them yet), youre not going to feel compelled to stress and strain with THIS particular option. This lack of pressure then frees you up to just CHILL OUT, relax, and let things take their own natural course which, of course, leaves YOU feeling way more relaxed, and able to act APPROPRIATELY to the situation. So does this mean, then, that a few butterflies arent normal? Nope. Nervousness is normal. This isnt about not caring or being apathetic its just that the pressure of get it right, or be humiliated is now REMOVED. The stakes arent so high, so YOU can take more of a back seat, feel more chilled, and just relax into the present moment which of course is going to help you come across as more confident and more INHERENTLY MASCULINE and ATTRACTIVE to a quality woman with ZERO neediness or desperation.
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You will embody the character of a Man With Options. So what if you dont actually HAVE any options? Simple. Act as though you do. FORCE YOURSELF to relax. And that attitude, that embodiment of confidence and relaxation, is literally going to be what CREATES those options for you. But youve got to take that leap of faith first before youll see any results. Make no mistake: women like LEADERS. Its a little hard to seem like a leader if youre paralyzed by a fear of what might happen when she loses interest. But its EASY to be a leader, and to set the stage for a laid-back, fun, relaxed atmosphere thats conducive to ATTRACTION, if you know youve always got more options. And THAT is what a woman is looking for. She wants to be able to feel that youve chosen her not that youve desperately latched on to whatever opportunity that Fate has so whimsically provided you with, because you didnt have anything better going on. And look. I know this is a lot to take in all at once. Truth be told, for most men, it involves a FUNDAMENTAL SHIFT in the way that they look at the whole concept of dating and attraction. And, it requires a certain amount of faith that, in a phrase, the Universe has got your back and that you are an inherently quality guy who women will find attractive. So dont stress too much about internalizing all this at once. Just keep this concept of abundance in the back of your mind, and every time you feel yourself starting to experience that desperate feeling, or worrying that theres not going to be another one, FORCE yourself to calm down.
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Take a deep breath, and expel it slowly and forcefully through pursed lips. (In horsetraining circles, this is known as letting out the butterflies.) Then, mentally take out the concept of abundance mentality from the back of your mind. Look at it. Know that this concept has been around for longer than you can imagine. Know that your beliefs shape your reality. Know that the SECOND that you attract the attention of a woman, that can be taken as incontrovertible proof that you are now capable of attracting that level of quality on a fundamental level proof that youve got what it takes to get more of the same. And as time goes on, your skills will improve and so will the caliber of the women you attract, until youre getting blue-ribbon quality the kind of women that YOU, personally, find the most attractive of ALL. Remember: this is about manning up. Women dig MEN. And a man, by definition, is someone who feels the fear and does it anyway and preferably, without SHOWING her that hes afraid. No mewling, puling, or cringing permitted. Keep an eye out for tomorrows lesson, because Im going to delve at length into how to actually APPLY these principles into two of the Big Ones: how do you ATTRACT a member of the opposite sex and what do you DO with that attraction once youve got it? Be cool,
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6-Part MiniCourse Day 5: How to Apply the Dating Principles & Earn MASSIVE Success
Good news. If all the theory so far has been boggling your brain, then youll be glad to know that TODAYs newsletter is all about PRACTICE in other words, how to APPLY everything youve learned so far. Obviously, theres not enough time here to go into everything in depth, but I want you to be aware that the Dating Principles weve given you over the past three days have enormous power and potential. Heres how to use them. As a quick refresher, here are the three Dating Principles youve learned: Dating Principle #1: Men and women are different. Dating Principle #2:Women are attracted to men because theyre MEN. Dating Principle #3: Non-attachment is what works dont get obsessive. And now, for the how-to part. DATING PRINCIPLE #1 APPLIED: Men and women are different. Most guys act in a way that presumes women will respond to the same things that men respond to, in a similar way. Case in point: most guys beat themselves up over their looks, expecting that women will have a hard time experiencing attraction for a guy whos not particularly good looking. (Whereas the truth is, it tends to be his perceived status and his air of CONTROL and CONFIDENCE that does it.)
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Another example: take body-builders. Huge guys. Ripped as. Many men think of them as the epitome of masculine grace, strength, and aesthetics. But do WOMEN necessarily find them attractive? The answer is, Not as often as youd think. (And in fact, many women are ACTIVELY REPELLED by the walking anatomy chart look.) When you get right down to it, women are looking for a guy who can PROVIDE for them on an emotional and psychological, as well as physical, level. Although its true that looks will certainly get you ATTENTION from women, its also true that unless youve got the solid game to back those looks up, youll get a lot of first dates but not much more than that. This is where you need to understand what she REALLY WANTS, and be able to give it to her WITHOUT compromising yourself as a man, or what youre willing and able to give. Now, I want to talk for a minute about the importance of MOOD and FEELINGS for a woman. If you want her to think that youre an interesting guy, you need to concentrate on creating that atmosphere for her. Dont expect her to do it. Again, its about manning up: YOU have to be the one to talk about interesting things and get a reaction out of her, or else shes going to get bored and put the responsibility for that boredom squarely back on your shoulders. A lot of guys approach a woman with a cleverly thought-out opening line, but have very little to say afterwards. They figure that attraction should be fair, and, seeing as how theyve put their ego on the line by approaching her, its now HER turn to carry the conversation. This may be logical, but its not going to get you anywhere. My best suggestion to you is to really just focus on whats happening around you, RIGHT
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NOW. If youre talking to a woman, dont get all tied up in what you should be saying next, what that look shes giving you means, and whether youre being funny enough. Just BE THERE with her and stop getting in your own way. This is known as presence of mind and is a very powerful tool to use especially on very attractive women, as these are the ones used to guys double-tracking their thoughts and putting a lot of time and energy into how to seem cool. If youre not getting distracted by that little voice inside your head, and youre able to just be present, fun, outrageous, and actually get a rise out of her, that is going to create FEELINGS. And those feelings are going to prove to her that youre an interesting guy and that youre not like the rest of them. Secondly: dont try TOO HARD to get her to like you. It will sabotage your masculinity. Know that the average approach for most guys, when talking to an attractive woman, is to BOW DOWN and REFRAIN from challenging her in any way, because theyre afraid that to disagree with her is to damage their chances. This is false, and will effectively sabotage your progress. Challenging her is GOOD. It creates reactions, responses, FEELINGS. So if youre having a difference of opinion, roll with it. It should be obvious that any kind of insulting behavior, mockery, or nuttiness is not a good thing (so dont be rigidly inflexible), but be OK with who YOU are and dont kiss ass. Man up. Third: dont be afraid to interrupt. There are a lot of dating gurus out there (especially in the online world) who advertise ways to get women to approach you sorry, but this just doesnt float. If youre waiting for a woman to approach YOU, youre advertising that youre NOT ENOUGH OF A MAN to approach HER. But if you wait for just the right moment before approaching her, youll likely be waiting all night. Ditto if youre one of those guys who lurks around, hoping for her to disentangle from her group in order to visit the toilet or the bar.
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Attractive women are rarely alone. So you must be able to just roll on up and interrupt her conversation. If youre OK with it, she will be too. Remember: you have to LEAD. This is what she wants you to do: LEAD, with strength, audacity, and a marked lack of apology. (Again, though: rudeness will get you nowhere.) Pay attention to who youre approaching. Does she seem to be having fun? Does she have energy? Those are the women who are easiest to approach, because theyre in a mood to be outrageous and go with the flow. (This is true even of inherently non-social situations, e.g. at the mall or the park or whatever.) Comfort and trust are also huge issues for women, which is another reason why you must take it upon yourself to CREATE that atmosphere that will set her at ease. If you seem nervous and uncertain, shell wonder whats wrong and either get bored, or feel anxious. Hopefully I dont have to belabor this next point, but let me just point out that being a guy that women can trust is NOT the same as being the guy she can trust to jump when she says jump. Its about allowing her to sense that youre in control, youre confident of your abilities, and you can handle whatever happens INCLUDING, a brush-off from her. Often, a woman will brush you off as a test. She wants to see what will happen next. If you handle it well, this will often cause a MASSIVE RISE in her attraction to you, because youve just demonstrated that youre not easily shaken. Its simple: if she cant faze you, then you must be socially better than her. (A.k.a. value.) And as you know, this is a fundamental KEY of attraction for women. DATING PRINCIPLE #2 APPLIED: Women are attracted to men because theyre men. OK. So we all know by now that being a MAN is what cuts it for women.
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And whats an ESSENTIAL part of manhood (that, by the way, many guys overlook)? Its this: not caring too much about what women think. Have a focus and passion in your life that is OTHER THAN women. And while youre at it, focus on building the qualities that make you feel more like the MAN you were born to be. Im talking about courage, discipline, and drive. If youre having a tough time thinking beyond the next pay-check, the next pizza, and the next party, youre going to have a tough time sustaining attraction with a top-notch woman. Discipline your body at the same time you discipline your mind. Take it from me: your body was designed to move. You will feel better and look better and DO BETTER if you take even a little more care of yourself. Feed yourself nutritious food that sustains and nourishes you. Get outside and get moving before I come to your house and make you do it. Above all: I know, I know, its that counterintuitive thing at work again, but your success with women will astound even yourself if you can stop PRIORITIZING it so much. The hungry dont get fed and if you can channel your energy and enthusiasm into living a life that YOU LOVE, that you wake up every morning feeling enthused and excited to be a part of and (the clincher) its not just some big act to get women THAT is when the cogs are going to engage and your whole life is going to shift into a higher gear. So take a step back and focus on yourself for a change. The more you want her approval, the less youll get it. The solution, of course, is to create a life for yourself where her approval NATURALLY is not that important to you because youre an interesting guy whos up to stuff. Stuff that
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shell probably want to be a part of. Natch. DATING PRINCIPLE #3 APPLIED: Non-attachment is what works dont get obsessive. Getting rid of that pressure within yourself to see some results and get some women and MAKE IT WORK THIS TIME is going to go a long way towards helping you create the attitude of strength, calm, and Its all going to be OK that women LOVE. These principles all tie into each other. The more of a kick-ass life youre leading, the less needy and desperate youll be, because youll be building up a self-image dependent upon a life that YOU have control over, as opposed to random things like the opinions of women. Instead of focusing on WOMEN, focus on YOURSELF, instead. This is a fundamental principle of success. Dont fall down the slippery slope of approval-seeking, because thats just going to creep people out. (And as you know, creepy is the ultimate no-no. If you want to turn a woman off a guy, imply that he is creepy. Does the trick every time. You dont want to become that creepy guy.) So its completely natural to care about what others (women) think of you but just dont care TOO MUCH. Dont get needy, now. The more unfazed and self-controlled and RELAXED you can be about what happens in ANY given situation a conversation, a phone-call, an argument, dealing with an upset woman - the more successful youll become. Learn not to take things so personally. When a woman brushes you off, its not about you. Its not even about her. Its just that the conditions werent right to create a connection. Its up to YOU to see where things went wrong so that you can modify your approach next time.
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TIME FOR A LITTLE EXERCISE Before I conclude this lesson, I want you to whip out a sheet of paper and grab a pen. Ive given you a lot of ideas so far about how you can modify the way you interact with women to increase your success in attracting them. Now I want you to PICK 5 ideas that appeal to you they dont have to be my ideas, they can be ones that you thought up while reading these lessons and write them down. Once youve finished writing down the five concrete steps that appeal to you most, I want you to write at the top of the sheet of paper the following headline: MY GOALS FOR THE NEXT WEEK. I want you to put each of those five ideas into PRACTICE in the following week. Thats right each and every one. Look, I know how most of us are. We come across a great idea and think, Oh! That sounds great! And then we sit on our hands and do absolutely nothing about it. I also know that when were not good at something, well do everything in our power to resist getting better. Thats because practicing stuff that we suck at, quite frankly, sucks. But youve got to do it. Dont let your mind talk you out of getting better. Success is your BIRTHRIGHT. Who the hell is your mind to talk you out of getting whats yours? Thats it for today. Tomorrow were going to talk about how to apply these principles to the fine science of Relationship Management. Be cool,

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6-Part Minicourse Day 6: Prevent the Doldrums from Poisoning Your Loved-Up Bliss
One of the biggest problems that guys everywhere face is that, once youve gone and created that attraction WHAT ARE YOU MEANT TO DO NEXT? How are you supposed to keep that spark alive? How do you prevent a great relationship from turning sour over time? And is it true that sex wanes in intensity over time? (Im just going to get last that question out of the way right now, because its a completely poisonous MYTH: NO, it absolutely DOES NOT wane over time. Not if youve chosen a great woman, you havent settled for someone less than, and youre both committed to being honest with each other on a consistent basis. If the intensity DOES wane, thats not normal: its a sign that youre either settling for less, or that something in the relationship is not right.) So its quite clear that theres a lot of confusion about whats meant to happen over time in a relationship. And to a great extent, weve all been acculturated to believe that things will naturally become less than over time. The perfect example, of course, is the myth that sex becomes less intense and less frequent over time. Believe me: if youre with someone who is EXCELLENT, and who you have not just desperately settled for because they happened to represent the best option at the time then the sex NEVER gets less than. You can take my word for it. Believe it or not, this widespread practice of buying into the B.S. applies JUST as much, if not MORE, to the well-read among us the guys who make a point of checking out the current wisdom of todays cottage industry thats sprung up around the common goal of meeting a GREAT woman. This is because theres a lot of information available on CREATING attraction, but very little quality advice indeed on the fine science of relationship management (a.k.a. what do I do with her once Ive got her?)
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How do you move a casual dating relationship along into a real relationship? And once youre exclusive, how do you prevent the relationship from morphing over time into a mirror image of every other mediocre relationship youve had before including (but not limited to) the arguing, the nagging, the petty resentment, and general sense of SOURNESS? Yes, its true. Being a GREAT man is about having the SKILLS to not only create attraction, but also MAINTAIN and INTENSIFY it over time so that you can end up with the kind of knock-your-socks-off QUALITY woman that you deserve. So here, without further harping on the intro, is the meat-and-potatoes of how to apply the Dating Principles learned on this course to RELATIONSHIPS. DATING PRINCIPLE #1 APPLIED: Men and women are different. There are going to be times in your relationship when misunderstandings take root. We are all imperfect human beings, so disagreements and miscommunications are NATURAL. (Please note: it is NOT natural to deal with these miscommunications in a way that makes RESENTMENT natural or inevitable. Take this at face value: its normal to DISAGREE. It is NOT normal to FIGHT about it or to try and cover up the fact that somethings not right, and pretend everythings GREAT when its not, out of a fear of rocking the boat.) Heres what I suggest: that when a disagreement, miscommunication, or other potentially difficult situation arises, instead of leaping to conclusions, being spurred on by fear, or being influenced by doubt that you make a CONSCIOUS decision to believe the best of your partner. Give her the benefit of the doubt and, if torn between believing one thing or the other, make a deliberate decision to believe the better option.
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Why? Well, first of all, because doubt and resentment will poison any relationship if you let them. But thats obvious. Heres the real reason: and its simple, really. Youre the one that chose to be with this woman. And if youve truly been living the lifestyle of a QUALITY MAN, then you will have CHOSEN this woman, not just SETTLED for her. So how about stepping up to the plate and demonstrating some faith in your own ability to choose well? Have some trust in yourself that you picked a great partner, and leave it at that. And thirdly because thats how all great relationships work, stoopid. DATING PRINCIPLE #2 APPLIED: Women are attracted to men because theyre men. First of all: forget everything youve ever been brainwashed into believing about how relationships are equal and in a good relationship, EVERYBODY wears the pants. That is cataclysmic rubbish and will effectively poison your relationship. Yes, relationships are EQUAL, but that doesnt mean that you both contribute the SAME THINGS to it. YOU are the man; YOU are the leader. You are the one whose leadership is going to infuse her with a sense of stability, with a belief that you can be trusted and that she is safe around you, and that everything is going to be OK because YOU believe that it will be. Obviously, a woman is capable of reassuring herself on these matters anyway but were talking about RELATIONSHIPS here, not individual self-care. So if shes upset about something, the last thing you want to do is get freaked out, start shaking, and tell her that tears upset you and that you cant deal with it when she gets upset like this. To do so is going to prove to her that you cant be trusted, that she is most likely stronger
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than YOU, and that you have little to offer her in terms of masculinity. (Of course, its doubtful that these literal words will trundle through her brain; more likely, what will happen is that shell get a bad feeling about you which will eventually translate into feelings of resentment and uncertainty. The effect, of course, is the same, and Im sure I dont have to tell you what it is.) Instead, what you want to do is LEAD. Take her in your arms, murmur in a calm, calm voice that its going to be OK, take the leading role, and COMFORT HER. Try not to be the one who needs to be carried. Youve gotta man up, and any time that her emotions are pitching and yawing is one of the most powerful areas that you can demonstrate masculinity and control. (By the way being in control and being a control freak are not one and the same. This isnt about being bossy or setting rules. Its about knowing how to gently take charge of a situation and subtly lead her into a healthy resolution that naturally takes her feelings into consideration.) When a woman feels like she can trust her man, she feels free to express her natural radiance. She laughs more, teases more, is more affectionate and playful, and tends not to hold back in the bedroom. By the way this is why, if youre always doing things like changing your mind, cancelling plans, or keeping her guessing about where she stands, shes going to tighten up and become insecure, controlling, and jealous. Why? Because youre demonstrating to her that you CANT BE TRUSTED. This isnt just about the big stuff; every little action you make contributes towards that impression she has of you as being either someone shes safe with i.e. someone whos a trustworthy leader or someone shes UNSAFE with i.e. someone who cant be trusted.
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Some guys think that the best way to keep a woman happy in a relationship is to let her get her own way all the time and just capitulate on issues that are important, simply to keep her happy. In the long run (and the short run too, come to think of it) this is destructive to the fiber of the relationship, because youre showing her that SHE is leading YOU rahter than the other way round. Careful here. This isnt about arbitrarily contradicting her or thwarting her plans to keep her in line. Its about having the confidence to stay true to yourself and communicate your truth on matters that you believe in, EVEN IF she disagrees with you. Make authenticity your watchword. Compromise if its a compromise you BELIEVE IN, but if you feel strongly about something, stick to your truth and man up. Do it. DATING PRINCIPLE #3 APPLIED: Non-attachment is what works. The great thing about non-attachment is that it literally PREVENTS you from EVER becoming needy. And as we all know, neediness is tantamount to premature death for her attraction to you, and the overall health and wellbeing of the relationship. If youve ever been in a relationship where things start off great but over time, you feel as though shes losing interest things are getting kind of stale shes not smiling as much as she used to and that youre losing your power in the relationship, then youve very likely experienced NEEDINESS first-hand. There really is no quicker way to kill a spark. And like most everything to do with attraction and relationships it all boils down to CONFIDENCE and SELF-ESTEEM. If youre truly self-confident, and you truly have solid self-esteem, youre going to implicitly trust that you are ENOUGH to be attractive to her without the need to amp it up by getting all up in her grill and being NEEDY or DESPERATE.
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Needy guys are the ones who, deep down, dont trust that they themselves are actually enough to attract her and sustain that attraction. Theyre expecting, on some level, that sooner or later shes going to lose interest, so they try as hard as they can to keep her attracted to them. Only thing is, their MOTIVATION (which is FEAR) shines right on through, and this is something that she picks up on and it drives her AWAY. Why? Because its just one more way of proving to her that you arent a MAN. Youre not in control, of yourself OR the situation. Youre EXPECTING failure. All this is about as repellent to her as a can of bug-spray right between the eyes and inevitably ends up with your self-fulfilling prophecy coming TRUE, and her high-tailing it off to where the grass is greener (and less needy and more manly and, well, you get the picture.) Something that Ive found extremely helpful as a NATURAL counteractive to feelings of neediness and desperation and FEAR is to stop worrying about the FUTURE. Instead of thinking about what might happen, take a step back, take a deep breath, and remind yourself that NOW is literally the only moment you will ever have. If youre living intensely in the moment, and youre not poisoning yourself with fears of what might happen, or regrets about what youve already done, but are just being RIGHT HERE, RIGHT NOW in your own life and your own relationships it becomes literally IMPOSSIBLE to be motivated by fear. If you want to know more about this stuff, go read Working On Yourself Doesnt Work by Ariel and Shya Kane. You can probably get it on Amazon. Or, go to www.ask-inc.com Another suggestion: stop focusing so much on her. The weird thing about being needy is that, as a direct by-product of feeling out of control, you actually become MORE of a
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control-freak meaning, you TRY to control things (like her feelings for you), but youre so freaked out and fearful that youre not able to do it EFFECTIVELY and just wind up driving her further away. Try this one on for size: shes another human being, dude. You CANT control what she does or what she thinks. So hows about losing the Little Dictator act and just focusing on what you CAN control which is YOU. Take a look at yourself and YOUR life before you start trying to get her to do or feel anything. Are you being the kind of guy that a quality woman would be interested in sticking around for? Are you being fun? Are you being present? Are you being a leader and demonstrating control, calmness, and strength? Are you living a kick-ass life thats full of things and people that you are passionate about? I suggest that, instead of focusing on HER and what shes up to, that you instead take all that energy and focus it on YOURSELF and experience the dramatic turnaround in your self-esteem, your feelings of fulfillment, and most likely her opinion of you that will come as a NATURAL RESULT of this healthier, more attractive lens through which you see your life. SO YOUVE FINISHED THE COURSE NOW WHAT? Youve come to the end of your 6-day course. Hopefully youve gotten some great insights into attraction, dating, and women. By the way getting this side of your life sorted may be more important than you even think it is. The skills that you learn in order to be good with women actually have something of a holistic effect meaning, they affect EVERY AREA of your life in turn, from your business to your friendships to your family to your ability to stay happy and healthy. Its like a domino effect the more you develop your skills in ONE area, the more of an overflow into other areas youll experience. Try using THAT for motivation next time youre dithering over whether to stay in with the
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couch and the TV, or go out and meet some people. And one more thing, incidentally: if you like what you read here, do me a favor and spread the word. If youve got any friends who could do with a kick in the proverbial pants when it comes to women, dating, self-image, and general manning-up, then make sure you point him in the right direction. (And lets not forget the women Mirabelles got a 6-day course for women, too, which is taking off big time - and which, like Mirabelle, is the real deal for sure. So if youve got any gal pals who youve been ITCHING to take aside and straighten a few issues out, but havent wanted to seem presumptuous or big brotherly, heres your big chance Mirabelle will do it for you.) Ill be writing at you again soon, so keep an eye out. Be cool,
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The Meet Your Sweet Course Catalog

Transformational 12-Issue Course: A 12-Month Education in Total Attraction Transformation Ultimate Attraction Transformation Series For Men............................................................ 60 Mens Foundation Program: The core essentials to creating the success you crave in Love Fireworks With Females..................................................................................................................... 62 Technique and Life Skills Programs: The specific skills, tips and techniques in your ultimate toolkit to creating the success you crave in Life and Relationships Connect And Commit: How To Take Things To The Next Level Of Commitment.......... 64 Supreme Self-Confidence in Dating, Relationships & Social Situations........................... 66 Conversation Chemistry How to use the power of communication to create and maintain unstoppable attraction with the Opposite Sex!........................................................................ 69 2nd Chance: How to Win Back the Love of Your Ex..................................................................... 72
The information inside each of these courses will empower you by giving you the life and love skills that you need to achieve a complete personal and social transformation, and help you attract, seduce and keep the woman and committed relationship of your dreams and you can get a 60-day guarantee on ANY course listed above.
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Ultimate Attraction Transformation Series For Men Created by the Meet Your Sweet Team Edited by Slade Shaw
Success with understanding and attracting women is an elusive skill that evades most men. You know what you want and what you like in women, but when it comes to actually getting it, Doogie Howser is probably better at getting chicks than you. Many experts and pickup artists will share the techniques that work for them, but youre not them. Youre not going to wear black eyeliner and do magic tricks, are you? You want a method that works for YOU, all the way from start to finish. That may mean closing on a girlfriend, not always another one-night stand. The problem with most other guys and PUAs is that they think theres a magic bullet: ONE thing, one secret, one new skill that will guarantee success with women. But women are so much smarter than that. They want the WHOLE picture, a man that not only has the SKILLS, but the CONFIDENCE, ATTITUDE and the CHARISMA to back it up. As far as most women know ... attraction just happens. And when they see the whole package, sparks fly! But first, I have a few questions to ask. Have you ever had any of these things happen to you? You wished you were someone else in order to become more attractive to women. Youve finished a conversation, knowing you didnt really say what you needed to and left her with a poor first impression. You really like women but usually end up being their friend rather than their lover. You wish you had a social circle and social skills to impress a woman and show her you are a man of value. Youre confused about attraction and what women truly want in a guy (Do they want a nice guy? Do they want a jerk? Do they even know what they want?)
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Youve found yourself in a relationship where the love and attraction is waning, but you dont know what to do to fix it. If you want to truly understand attraction in a way that you never have before, you need to know that its about much more than just ONE opener, ONE affirmation, ONE part of your body, or ONE aspect of your character. Its about you actually being the COMPLETE PACKAGE, a man of integrity and a man of power, who understands attraction is about more than just looks, attitude, or intellect. Its about being ALL THREE. No matter if you are 26 or 62, we have created a course that is going to change your life, starting today, with the first of 12 life-changing issues. Its never too late to see the big picture and truly transform yourself into the attraction master you want to be.
You can get your copy of Ultimate Attraction Transformation Series by going to:
https://www.meetyoursweet.com/monthly/men
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Fireworks With Females By Slade Shaw

Success with high quality women is a total mystery to most men. In fact, most women wont be able to explain to you why they are attracted to certain men and not others. At least they wont necessarily understand what is really going on. The reason they cant tell you is because women dont just decide that they are going to feel attraction for a man. It isnt a decision based on what you dress like, what you look like, what kind of things you say and how much money you have. As far as most women know ... it just happens. This book is a combination of that research, my own YEARS of experience of being that guy with women, the input of my natural friends, and Mirabelles incisive professional insight as a female dating coach. Its based upon the THOUSANDS of hours I spent meeting guys, talking to them, and observing their behavior around women, and the THOUSANDS of hours I spent doing extensive research into human behavioral psychology, and the emotional and psychological underpinnings of self-confidence and dominance. Ive seen in REAL LIFE how the application of these concepts and ideas can literally TRANSFORM the lifestyles of HUNDREDS of men. I know this stuff works, because its worked for me my WHOLE LIFE... its worked for the thirty or so guys I grew up with... ... and MOST IMPORTANTLY, its worked for the HUNDREDS of guys who learned it, applied it, and went from abysmal failures with women... to being the kinds of guys who can walk up to an UNUSUALLY ATTRACTIVE woman, and get her phone number... in about 3 minutes flat. The Fireworks With Females course has been specifically designed to teach you how to: keep a beautiful woman attracted communicate with women on a sexual level create attraction and chemistry with women be the man that EVERY woman wants demonstrate quickly that you are a man of high value approach women and start conversations
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change your self image for dating success use the power of body language to become irresistible to women take control and develop unshakeable confidence
You can get your copy of Fireworks With Females by going to:
https://www.meetyoursweet.com/attractwomen
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Connect And Commit: How To Take Things To The Next Level Of Commitment by Amy Waterman
This course is all about building the love, affection, and long-lasting relationship that you want and deserve. Imagine how it would be to have someone in your life who is genuinely and deeply committed to you and your relationship? Imagine never feeling insecure about the future again? Imagine knowing that you can attract and create a relationship where the two of you want exactly the same things, and are going to grow from strength to strength together? If you want to put an end to unfulfilling relationships, take things to the next level of commitment, attract emotionally available women who take you seriously and support you in your life goals, if you want to learn how commitment really works for women, then youve got to read this book. Its crucial to your success. Amys discovered a foolproof method of magnetically attracting your partner to grow in closeness and commitment on physical and emotional levels as time goes on. How would it be to be completely immune to the death of love and closeness in your relationship? To not be worried when the lust and romantic love starts to fade, because you know something even greater is in store? Do you want to be in a relationship with your best friend, your favorite person, the woman you love more than anyone in the world and have those feelings reciprocated? When your love life is going well, everything else works like magic. But the best part is, its not actually magical at all it just takes knowledge and a little skill. Thats where this course will give you the step up in your love life that you really need. Amys life-changing course is one of the most thorough courses on helping you understand, create, maintain, and foster commitment through every stage of the attraction and relationship process, If you want to create the ultimate relationship improve your relationships starting RIGHT NOW create better communication with everyone around you achieve true and lasting
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physical passion in your relationship and strengthen your relationship with your partner, even in times of stress and changethen I strongly recommend you read this book. Itll change your life in ways you never knew was possible. In addition to the course, there are a number of bonus ebooks and audio files that will further assist and enable you on your search for commitment in your love life and relationships.
You can access the Connect And Commit course at this web address right here:
https://www.meetyoursweet.com/commitment/men
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Supreme Self-Confidence in Dating, Relationships & Social Situations by Slade Shaw

Let me ask you a few questions: Have you ever seen a woman from across the room that you really like, or who youd really love to meet.... but were too overwhelmed by fear and nervousness to go over and start a conversation? Have you ever felt like you dont deserve the kind of woman that you are REALLY attracted to, that they might be out of your league, and as a result always settle for second best? Have you ever felt yourself shaking with self-consciousness when you are talking to a girl that youve got a crush on? Lost your words? Cant be your best self? Have you ever been in a relationship where you got emotionally insecure and ended up driving your partner away by your clinginess and insecurity? Have you ever fallen in love with someone before youve even dated her and got jealous and upset when she pays others attention and goes out with someone else? If you answered YES to any of the above questions, then this book is a great fit for you. I strongly believe that this information could help you lift yourself above the rest when it comes to attracting and maintaining relationships with women. When youre not self confident, then you get nervous and act differently at times when you feel stressed or need to be at your best. For example: on a date, or when youre talking to a woman youre attracted to. If your confidence betrays you at these vital times, then you may actually struggle to make your life turn out the way you want it to. Confidence is attractive and a crucial tool for men to have when dating, and without it, its difficult to attract a really good catch. Why? Women base their assumptions of you on what they know of you. Thats why first impressions can count for so much and be so hard to change. If that impression she gets in those first few
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moments is all she knows of you, then as far as shes concerned, that image she has in her head of you IS YOU. So if you meet a woman you are attracted to and act nervous, fumble your words, and run out of things to say then as far as she knows, you are the kind of person who is nervous, fumbles their words and runs out of things to say. And in those crucial first few moments, you lose your credibility and social status. (Of course, a little nervousness - with a smile! - can be endearing and can even help you, but if you cant let your best self shine through quickly, your love life is going to be characterized by a series of stilted interactions and misunderstandings of who the REAL YOU is.) Also, its really unfortunate that people may assume from your shy or nervous behavior that you simply dont like being around them. They pick up on your discomfort. Women expect you to take the lead when you approach them, so its crucial that you are able to follow through and hold a conversation. And this is exactly the kind of problem that this book deals with in detail. By reading Slade Shaws book, youll become a guy who enters a relationship with confidence and charisma, without needing someone else to complete you. Youll be looking for a woman to complement you instead of asking her a favor by dating you. This is one of the most powerful and special characteristics that you could possibly offer to a relationship. The self-confidence that Slade teaches you will instantly help you become a more socially adept man who is able to manage the challenges and negotiations that all relationships and interactions bring.
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You can access Supreme Self-Confidence at this web address:

https://www.meetyoursweet.com/selfconfidence/men/
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Conversation Chemistry How to use the power of communication to create and maintain unstoppable attraction with the Opposite Sex! by Mirabelle Summers (co-authored by Amy Waterman)
When renowned online relationship experts Amy Waterman and Mirabelle Summers started researching and writing Conversation Chemistry, they were initially going to write 2 separate books: one for people who are single or dating, and one for people who are already in a relationship. But the feedback received was an overwhelming number of suggestions that they combine them both together, as there was so much essential information in each of them for people at all stages of a relationship. Hence, Conversation Chemistry was created and is actually the length of two full books (298 pages) and is packed full of essential communication secrets for you, no matter whether you are single or in a long term relationship! Weve broken it up into three specialized sections: Section 1: The principles of great communication with the opposite sex. Section 2: Secrets to talking to and communicating with the opposite sex during dating. Section 3: Communication inside a relationship Inside this life-changing and engaging course, you will uncover a whole host of conversation tips and strategies, including: The principles of great communication. These principles differ between men and women, find how and why! How to adapt the way you talk to suit the man youre talking to - this may determine whether or not she develops a romantic interest in you. Youre going to find out in detail how and why men and women communicate differently, and how to communicate in such a way that builds unstoppable attraction. Find out the surprising results from a study of singles bars, conducted by a couple of doctors. They proved the theory that there is a definite sequence to the process
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of attracting a mate. Youll hear what this process is, and how you can use it to your advantage in sparking attraction. If you follow this process, youll build up an incredible attraction for you when it comes to the ladies! Find out the form of intuitive communication that NLP practitioners, psychologists and even pickup artists alike agree is crucial to forming a lasting bond with another person The magic ingredients necessary to build potent rapport with women. This is truly powerful stuff you wont want to miss out on! Find out the key secret to become a charismatic and high-status man who has no doubt that what youre saying is interesting to your audience. The 5 conversation turn-ons that when applied diligently, youll find that people will not just enjoy talking to you... theyll go out of their way to talk to you! How to overcome approach anxiety. If you suffer from approach anxiety, youre not alone. Going up to someone and starting a conversation can be incredibly difficult! Youll learn how to calm these nerves right here with our highly effective 5 step strategy. The one thing that you absolutely must say to put people at ease and dramatically reduce your chances of gettingbrushed offby a woman when you try to strike up a conversation. How to spark chemistry and sexual chemistry with women. Youll learn some incredibly powerful secrets here, and they are a lot easier than you imagine! The communication skills required for a great long-lasting relationship are different to those that spark attraction and get you through the first month or two of dating. In this exciting section, youll discover vital communication skills that will bring the two of you together and youll find out common communication mistakes so that you dont make them yourself! What to do if communication stops. Rarely go out for an evening alone together? Feel like youve run out of things to say to each other? Find out how to revive your communication and get to know your partner again. Discover the 3 traits of happy couples who know how to disagree in a healthy, nondestructive way. Uncover essential secrets on how to forgive. Without forgiveness life is governed by an endless cycle, so its essential you master this crucial relationships skill!
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How to argue properly and grow together as a result, rather than grow apart. This is an incredibly important chapter for you to read as arguments have been proven to be severely detrimental to many relationships, and yet seen as strengtheners for others who know how to argue properly. Using the power of talking about the future to further enhance your long term relationship success. Discover the next step and how to assess your progress at regular intervals. Conversation Chemistry is designed to take you to the next level of communication, whether youre out to meet someone new, enjoy a fun and flirtatious conversation, master the art of flirting, or make a relationship into the best one you ever had.
You can access Conversation Chemistry at this web address:

https://www.meetyoursweet.com/conversationchemistry/men/
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2nd Chance: How to Win Back the Love of Your Ex by Mirabelle Summers (co-authored by Amy Waterman)
If youre going through the emotional turmoil of a break-up with a woman that you really didnt want to happen (or now regret happening), then you have my whole hearted sympathy. I know what you are going through, Ive been there, it isnt a happy place and it isnt an exaggeration to say that can even feel like someone has just died. Breaking up is an awful experience. And in this book, Im going to reveal to you my powerful methods for winning back your ex. Essentially, Ive written this book to guide you through the process of healing the pain of a breakup; recognizing why it happened in the first place; figuring out whether it genuinely is a good idea to get back with your ex; and, if it is, I tell you exactly EXACTLY! what you need to heal the wounds and make your relationship better than it ever was before. But first I have a very important question to ask you before carrying on ... Why Do You REALLY Want To Get Back Together With Her? And Is It REALLY A Good Decision To Make? Were you and your ex really good together? Did she treat you the way you deserve to be treated? More importantly, did she support you in your goals - and did you support her wholeheartedly in hers? Im asking that question in particular as it is the biggest determining factor in long-term relationship success according to numerous studies. The first thing that you need to do right now is STOP doing what ever you are doing to get her attention back. No more sending flowers or begging for forgiveness! (Yes, really. Even if you genuinely feel that you are in the wrong, stop apologizing and stop begging.) Before you do anything that you think will win back the love of your ex, you need to listen to what Mirabelle Summers has to say. 2nd Chance is a course that guides you through the whole self-reflection, consideration, and negotiation process that characterizes a relationship breakup and rescue. If you are committed to getting back with your ex, and giving your relationship every chance of success, you cant afford to be getting information that could
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potentially set you back or even end any chances of saving your relationship. You have listened to the advice of friends, family, indeed anyone who feels they would like to share their opinion with you. But now its time to get advice that is GUARANTEED to work. 2nd Chance: How to Win Back the Love of Your Ex is a course that is specifically designed to: Maximize your chances of winning back your ex Help you get your life back on track so that you are happy again and have a positive and exciting future ahead of you... no matter what happens. Help you gain perspective and work through what really went wrong, and discover relationship secrets to help you avoid going down the path that caused your breakup again. And get your relationship back on track towards mutual growth and bonding.
You can access 2nd Chance and win back the love of your ex at the following web address:
https://www.meetyoursweet.com/2ndchance/men/
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The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

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The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

What is Meet Your Sweet?

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The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

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The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

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The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

6-Part MiniCourse Day 1: How Dating & Attraction REALLY Work

The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

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The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

HOW DATING & ATTRACTION REALLY WORK

The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

THE 3 PRINCIPLES OF DATING ENLIGHTENMENT

The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

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The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

Slade Shaw MeetYourSweet.com

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The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

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The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

1. Get her talking about herself.

The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

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The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

2. Make her FEEL THINGS when shes with you.

3. Dont do the whole funny insults thing.

4. Learn how to talk about stuff thats INTERESTING to women.

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The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

6. Dont get upset if shes upset.

The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

7. Let her get it off her chest.

8. Allow for feminine subtlety. Expect it.

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The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

9. Learn how to talk with your body.

10. Spend money on your skills.

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The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

Slade Shaw MeetYourSweet.com

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The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

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The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

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The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

All Rights Reserved 2008 MeetYourSweet.com

The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

All Rights Reserved 2008 MeetYourSweet.com

The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction

The Get-A-Guy Guide From Initial Reaction to Life-Long Attraction