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If you do not want to deal with the following 'Marriage Strike' than you must st ay away from American (USA), Australian, British, Canadian and New Zeeland women and stick to women from Africa, Asia, Europe, and Latin America. It is generally very dumb for foreign-born man including naturalized US citizens to date/marry American women (natural born US citizens) in the United States an d have to go back to there native country to find a women. American man should g enerally only date/marry American women, because most foreign-born women can t han dle American man. An American (US born) woman with a Italian born mother told me that 90 percent o f Australian and American women are a piece of crap. She told me that Australian women are as bad as American women. Some people would say that Australian women are worse than American women, but I can t verify this. She became a naturalized Australian citizen before she moved back to the United States. She has a better relationship with her mother than most American women have and is better behaved than most American women. She also has a very good relationship with her Americ an father because her Italian mother is still married to her American father. Th is is very common among American woman who are raised by European mothers (this is more common than you think). An Italian born mother told me that, ninety percent of American women can not be trusted (can not properly present them selves abroad). Ninety percent of Europe an women (for example, Belgian, Italian and Swedish) can be trusted and properly present them selves abroad. An Italian man was aware of this since the late 196 0s (the time of the Beatles) because his parents explained to him almost 45 year s ago. That is what he told me. Most US born women who are raised by a European born mother can be equally be trusted as their European born mother and should h ave the skills to live in Europe. They generally have a better relationship with their European born mother and grand mother, and are better behaved than most A merican women and men who are raised by American mothers. The first and sometime s second generation should see no American influence. Amanda Leigh "Mandy" Moore (born April 10, 1984) is a primarily example of this, with her English-born mat ernal grandmother. They can normally be equally trusted as their European born m other and grand mother. That is what the same Italian born women told me. What an American man who is married to a Dutch woman in the United States told m e. I have had American man explain this to me who was married to a Dutch woman for more than 30 years. He always refers to his US born and raised daughter as a Eur opean not an American and hates American women. He has a better relationship wit h his daughter than most Americans have and can thank his Dutch wife for that. H is Dutch wife s three European brothers married American women and all three Ameri can women divorced them, interfered with there parental rights moved out of stat e and made them pay child support in the corrupt US family court system. The onl y way to get child support in the USA is to drive the fathers out there children s lives and that is why most American women do this. He explained to his American son & me a European man that if you do not want to deal with those ugly divorce s and participate in Glenn Sacks Internet Archive Wayback Machine version direct or of (Fathers & Families Internet Archive Wayback Machine version) and his Have Anti-Father Family Court Policies Led to a Men s Marriage Strike Internet Archive

Wayback Machine version, than you must stay away from American women and stick to European women. His daughter married an Italian national and his grand son th at he sees every day is raised Italian. It is very rare to find an Italian/Europ ean man marry an American women. This is how it usually goes if an American man were to marry a European woman. This is because a European woman raises her Amer ican children the same way she was raised and make sure they comply with the off icial Euro requirement. The same American man who was raised by Dutch/European parents confirms that thi s story is usually correct. Most girls who are born in the United States that ha ve a European born mother have a better relationship with there European mother and are better behaved than most girls who have an American mother and have the skills to live in Europe as easily as there European mother can. They can usuall y be equally be trusted as their European born mother. This is why it is very co mmon to find European man marry US born women who are raised by European born mo thers. This is because a European born mother raises her American daughter/son the same way she is raised. This is because European born mothers expects her American d aughter/son to have the skills to live in Europe (be trusted), as easily as she can, and do not tolerate that they behave like Americans and have American menta lity. She would expect the same for her grand children. Her daughter in this cas e married an Italian man. Her grand son is raised by an Italian born man and spe aks Italian. The same American who was raised by European parents told me that if an American man has US born daughter/son with a European born women he will generally have a better relationship with his daughter/son and they would generally better beha ved than most American man who have a daughter/son with an American women. But i f his daughter/son were to visit Europe, most people in Europe would think they are born in Europe/Netherlands and behave like a European not American, even if they are born in the United States. They should also have the skills to live and work in Europe just like their European born mother and it should be impossible to tell that they are born in the United States other than the fact they speak English with an American accent. For example an American man married a Belgium w omen, his two sons that are born in the United States speak Dutch and have Belgi um passports. When his two American sons (born in the USA) walk the streets in B elgium and speak Dutch every body thinks they are born in Belgium and it should be impossible to tell that they are born in the United States based on the way t hey are raised and behave and still have European mentality. This would apply to male and female children, who are born and raised in the United States by Europ ean born mothers. The children of Tiger Woods are a primary example of this. Thi s American knows why Tiger Woods has two children with a European born woman, no t an American woman. The same American knows several American man that are married to European women that also find any American women a piece of crap that an average European consi ders a piece of crap and hate American women. It is very common to find American men that are married to European born women that hate American women. Many US b orn girls who are raised by a European born mothers have the same negative opini on of American women as their European born mother have. The same Americans says that it was very dumb for those three European men to marry American women. Eur opean man in the United States should only marry European women, and European wo men should only marry European man. The only problem is that it is very difficul t to find European women in the United States. You have to go to Europe to find European women. I'm an American Citizen but my parent's are European, I was born in America, but I was raised as I would be if I lived in Europe. So. You decide. Americans who

are raised by European parents get some thing extra from our European parents 10 0 percent because of our upbringing that Americans who are raised by American pa rents do not get. That is that when we walk the streets in Europe every body thi nks we are born in Europe we can behave like a typical European speak our parent s native language (some only speak English) just as easily as our European paren ts can (still have European mentality) and it is impossible to tell that we are born in the United States and that we are Americans. It would appear that we are born in Europe not the United States even if we are born in the United States. When I visit Europe and speak English every body in Europe thinks I was born in the Netherlands, but I was born in the United States and have lived my entire li ve I the United States. My mother was born in the Netherlands. Eastern women who hate American women/men think that I was born in the Netherlands, and this is t he only reason why they like me. This is 100 percent because of the way I is rai sed by my Dutch (the Netherlands) born mother when I was an infant/toddler/child . This applies to both male and female children/adults who are raised by Dutch ( the Netherlands) born mothers. I'm an American Citizen but my parent's are European, I was born in America, but I was raised as I would be if I lived in Europe. So. You decide. Americans who are raised by European parents get some thing extra from our European parents 10 0 percent because of our upbringing that Americans who are raised by American pa rents do not get. That is that when we walk the streets in Europe every body thi nks we are born in Europe we can behave like a typical European speak our parent s native language (some only speak English) just as easily as our European paren ts can (still have European mentality) and it is impossible to tell that we are born in the United States and that we are Americans. It would appear that we are born in Europe not the United States even if we are born in the United States. When I visit Germany and speak German every body in German thinks I was born in Germany, but I was born in the United States and have lived my entire live I the United States. My mother was born in Germany. Eastern women who hate American w omen/men think that I was born in Germany, and this is the only reason why they like me. This is 100 percent because of the way I is raised by my German born mo ther when I was an infant/toddler/child. This applies to both male and female ch ildren/adults who are raised by German born mothers. I'm an American Citizen but my parent's are European, I was born in America, but I was raised as I would be if I lived in Europe. So. You decide. Americans who are raised by European parents get some thing extra from our European parents 10 0 percent because of our upbringing that Americans who are raised by American pa rents do not get. That is that when we walk the streets in Europe every body thi nks we are born in Europe we can behave like a typical European even if we only speak English just as easily as our European parents can (still have European me ntality) and it is impossible to tell that we are born in the United States and that we are Americans. It would appear that we are born in Europe not the United States even if we are born in the United States. Eastern women who hate America n women/men think that they were born in Greece, and this is the only reason why they like me. This is 100 percent because of the way they were raised by their European born parents/grand parents when they were an infant/toddler/child. US legal system I have been tolled by an American man that in the United States it is a mistake to have sex with a unwed American women because the majority will make a father pay 18 years of court ordered child support and will drive the father out of the re lives and tread him as criminal/crap/garbage. This is American culture. Ameri can women told me that she knows that is what the majority of American women do. This American women would be allowed to work with small children in Belgium if she can get a proper work permit, and would even be a good mother under Italian standards. Eastern European women would say in the open that this American woman is a piece of crap, because American citizens American citizens stick out: to b

e very easily noticed because of being different. This would be 100 percent the fault of the eastern European women, and this American women did not do any thin g wrong on her part. She has a very good relationship with her biological father , because her parents are married for more than 20 years. The American mentality is I want a silver plate with a million dollars on and I do not want to work to get it. In the United States 80 percent of family because child support onships. Lawyer s advice man to nt to deal with an ugly divorce of American women do not understand the concept is more important than maintaining family relati never marry or have sex with them if you do not wa or have to pay court ordered child support.

The only reason why American women want to have sex is in order to get 18 years of court ordered child support and use 9/10 of it on them selves. Lawyers say that it is better to only have a low paying job, and have a child su pport order of only, $15.00 a month that it is to have a high paying job, and ha ve a child support order of $250,000.00 a month that will not lower if you volun tary drop to your income $1,000.00 a month. This is because child support will b e high than your income and you could go to jail lose your job, have no income a nd have a debt that can never be paid of. The reason those child support laws are there in the United States is because ma jority (about 90 percent) of American man like to have sex (play and do not want to pay) and abandon their children. Other wise many American man will try and g et more than 25 women pregnant in less than two years and abandon every single o ne. Those child support laws are designed to stop man from becoming fathers by h andling man as criminals for being a father and actively refusing to pay court o rdered child support to the mother and be the non-custodial parent. This lowers the birth rate by 20 percent in many states (example, Alabama, Alaska & Arizona) with American women not foreign-born women. Lawyers in the United States advice American man that if you do not want to be the no custodial parent and have to pay child support and be handled as a criminal/crap/garbage than you should neve r have sex or have children with those American women. More American women know that for this reason alone many who want children must use a sperm donor from a sperm bank (or remain child less) and pay for this 100 percent them selves becau se many American man do not want to pay for this and follow there lawyers advice . Tough child support laws may deter single men from becoming fathers, study fin ds Michigan Has Its Lowest Birthrate Since The 1870's. Only Ones Wearing Diapers Are The Seniors Who Remain. Only if the father lives in Australia, Britain, Canada, New Zeeland and the Unti ed States, can a mother get child support enforced by handling the father as a c riminal and crap, while at the same time deny him his parental rights. Those countries have copied the American child support system. That is what the majori ty American women do. This is American culture. The same goes for nationals of t hose countries who have sex in other countries that have a child support treaty. They generally have to pay child support and cannot get any visitation rights under US law. Click here for the list of US Federal Internet Archive Wayback Ma chine version and State child support treaties. Click here for an example with Germany Internet Archive Wayback Machine version. In most countries in the worl d the mother cannot get child support enforced, if she is not willing to give th e father equal parenting time. Australia Reciprocating jurisdictions Internet Archive Wayback Machine version E xcluded jurisdictions Internet Archive Wayback Machine version Canada Interjuris dictional and international enforcement Internet Archive Wayback Machine version Section 51.70 (a) (8) of Title 22 of the Code of Federal Regulations states, in part, that if you are certified to Passport Services by the U.S. Department of H

ealth and Human Services (HHS) to be in arrears of child support ess of $2,500, you are ineligible to receive a U.S. passport. If you, Passport Services strongly recommends that you contact the te child support enforcement agency to make payment arrangements for a passport.

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According to the US Dept. of Health & Human Services study, "Survey of Absent Pa rents" over 60% of mothers regularly violate the access rights of fathers, cutti ng off all contact between the children and their fathers within five years. Un like child support, mothers are not jailed, even with multiple Contempt of Court ruling against them for violating the fathers' court ordered visitation rights. It is not a mistake to have sex with a foreign (born outside the United States) women in the United States (there are always expectations) because most foreign women will not make a father pay court ordered child support and most want there children to have a very good relationship with there father and raise there chi ldren in the close nit family structure of the 1950 s properly under Italian stand ards and expect there son/daughter to properly present them selves abroad. That is what the same Americans told me. Most foreign women do not want to deal with family court and is usually ensure to come up with a parenting plan with out goi ng to family court. The same goes for American women who are raised that way by immigrant mothers/grand mothers. They are old-fashioned subscribe to culture and costumes of the country where there parents/grand parents are from. They still do things the same way their immigrant parents do things. It is very difficult i f not impossible to be able to come up with a parenting plan with out going to f amily court that man are satisfied with American women 100 percent the fault of the women. Most foreign women and American children/adults (both male and female ) that are raised by a foreign born/immigrant mother have a very negative opinio n of American women. There are always exceptions to the rule. I have an American corporate officer and another coworker tell me that it is generally know that i f you want to do things properly you must stay away from American women and stic k to foreign born women. Update: Variations of Marriage Strike Due to the fear of predicaments around marriage and divorce, there are also othe r life style behaviors closely associated with Marriage Strike. - Birth Strike. In some jurisdictions (ie Canada), pregnancy/birth automatically grant your girlfriend the same legal status as a wife. Consequently, men practi ce Birth Strike with their romantic partner, refusing to allow pregnancy. - Breakup. In some jurisdictions, prolonged co-habitation result in automatic re cognition of marital status for legal purposes. Some men routinely breakup to av oid such status. Although it is unclear if they simply enjoy "playing women". - Expatriation. Dissatisfied by the perceived corruption of the local female pop ulation, some men intentionally marry women not native to his nation. Some trave l to another country for marriage, some marry foreigners on working visa. While this is not a strike to marriage, it is a boycott against the domestic supply of women. Courtesy: http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=149553

New Study: Men on Marriage Strike Because They Fear Divorce June 2nd, 2008 by Glenn Sacks, MA for Fathers & Families

In my co-authored column Have Anti-Father Family Court Policies Led to a Men's M arriage Strike? (Philadelphia Inquirer, (7/5/02) six years ago I postulated that men were on a "Marriage Strike" because of the way they get manhandled in divor ce. A new study supports that view. According to Reuters' Men prefer being solo over a bad marriage: study (6/2/08): [Carl] Weisman, 49, conducted a survey of 1,533 heterosexual men to research a b ook aiming to give women an insight into why some smart, successful men opted to stay single -- and help lifelong bachelors understand why they are still the so lo man at parties. He concluded that most men were not afraid of marriage -- but they were afraid o f a bad marriage. "Men are 10 times more scared of marrying the wrong person than of never getting married at all," Weisman told Reuters in a telephone interview. "This is the first generation of people who have grown up with bad divorces. Peo ple assume there is something wrong if you don't marry but these are men who hav e made a different choice and not given in to social pressures"... But while 72 percent of respondents said they were not afraid of marriage, about half of them said the situation that scared them most was marrying the wrong pe rson... Weisman also found that financial issues, both positive and negative, played a l arge part in men's fear of commitment... "[T]hose who are financially sound were terrified what a bad divorce could do to them." Another one the study's findings, and a sad one, is this: "Those with little money said they would have nothing to offer a partner, with s ome suffering self-esteem issues and withdrawing from the dating pool," said Wei sman. One thing I found a little surprising is this: Weisman said his research blew away any idea that single men were unhappy. "A compelling issue was how many of them had found contentment in a never-marrie d life," he said. "They had created lives full of careers, friends and ambitions . It was not like they walk around all day worried about not being married." I'm of the general opinion that marriage and fatherhood is a good thing for men, and that unfortunately it has been poisoned to some degree by our anti-male fam ily law system. Perhaps more of these bachelors are happy being single, as this research suggests. One thing that disappointed me about the study's findings is this--men apparentl y worried about losing their money in divorces but not losing their kids. This m eans either one of two things, neither of them good: 1) The men weren't that concerned over losing their kids. 2) The men didn't realize how common it is for fathers to lose their kids. Courtesy: http://glennsacks.com/blog/?p=2250

A 'Marriage Strike' Emerges As Men Decide Not To Risk Loss

The Philadelphia Inquirer ^ | July 5, 2002 | Glenn Sacks and Dianna Thompson Posted on Saturday, July 06, 2002 8:00:19 AM by buccaneer81 A 'marriage strike' emerges as men decide not to risk loss By Glenn Sacks and Dianna Thompson Katherine is attractive, successful, witty, and educated. She also can't find a husband. Why? Because most of the men this thirtysomething software analyst date s do not want to get married. These men have Peter Pan syndrome: They refuse to commit, refuse to settle down, and refuse to "grow up." However, given the family court policies and divorce trends of today, Peter Pan is no naive boy, but instead a wise man. "Why should I get married and have kids when I could lose those kids and most of what I've worked for at a moment's notice?" asks Dan, a 31-year-old power plant technician who says he will never marry. "I've seen it happen to many of my friends. I know guys who came home one day to an empty house or apartment - wife gone, kids gone. They never saw it coming. S ome of them were never able to see their kids regularly again." Census figures suggest that the marriage rate in the United States has dipped 40 percent during the last four decades to its lowest point since the rate was mea sured. There are many plausible explanations for this trend, but one of the leas t mentioned is that American men, in the face of a family court system hopelessl y stacked against them, have subconsciously launched a "marriage strike." It is not difficult to see why. Let's say that Dan defies Peter Pan, marries Kat herine, and has two children. There is a 50 percent likelihood that this marriag e will end in divorce within eight years, and if it does, the odds are 2-1 it wi ll be Katherine, not Dan, who initiates the divorce. It may not matter that Dan was a decent husband. Studies show that few divorces are initiated over abuse or because the man has already abandoned the family. Nor is adultery cited as a fa ctor by divorcing women appreciably more than by divorcing men. While the courts may grant Dan and Katherine joint legal custody, the odds are o verwhelming that it is Katherine, not Dan, who will win physical custody. Overni ght, Dan, accustomed to seeing his kids every day and being an integral part of their lives, will become a "14 percent dad" - a father who is allowed to spend o nly one out of every seven days with his own children. Once Katherine and Dan are divorced, odds are at least even that Katherine will interfere with Dan's visitation rights. Three-quarters of divorced men surveyed say their ex-wives have interfered with their visitation, and 40 percent of mothers studied admitted that they had done so, and that they had generally acted out of spite or in order to punish their e xes. Katherine will keep the house and most of the couple's assets. Dan will need to set up a new residence and pay at least a third of his take-home pay to Katherin

e in child support. As bad as all of this is, it would still make Dan one of the lucky ones. After a ll, he could be one of those fathers who cannot see his children at all because his ex has made a false accusation of domestic violence, child abuse, or child m olestation. Or a father who can only see his own children under supervised visit ation or in nightmarish visitation centers where dads are treated like criminals . He could be one of those fathers whose ex has moved their children hundreds or t housands of miles away, in violation of court orders, which courts often do not enforce. He could be one of those fathers who tears up his life and career again and again in order to follow his children, only to have his ex-wife continually move them. He could be one of the fathers who has lost his job, seen his income drop, or su ffered a disabling injury, only to have child support arrearages and interest pi le up to create a mountain of debt which he could never hope to pay off. Or a fa ther who is forced to pay 70 percent or 80 percent of his income in child suppor t because the court has imputed an unrealistic income to him. Or a dad who suffe rs from one of the child support enforcement system's endless and difficult to c orrect errors, or who is jailed because he cannot keep up with his payments. Or a dad who reaches old age impoverished because he lost everything he had in a di vorce when he was middle-aged and did not have the time and the opportunity to e arn it back. "It's a shame," Dan says. "I always wanted to be a father and have a family. But unless the laws change and give fathers the same right to be a part of their ch ildren's lives as mothers have, it just isn't worth the risk." Courtesy: http://www.glennsacks.com/have_antifather_family.htm Mon 25th June 2012 The New Zealand Marriage Strike Filed under: General Vman @ 3:06 pm One thing that gets little press is that New Zealand men are on a marriage strik e. This is not something feminsists want to hear so it is not reported or is dis missed. Sticking their head in the sand is not stopping the marriage strike thou gh. The rate of marraiges has fallen sharply in the last 12 years according to Stati stics NZ. The rate of marriage was 16 per 1000 adults in 1999. In 2011 it was le ss than 12 per 1000. The reduction in this rate has been accelerating. Since 200 8 the rate has been falling by more than half a marriage per 100 every year. At some stage next year the marriage rate will be less than 1% and still falling. Excuses like people are delaying marriage don t explain it. The simple truth is th at people simply aren t getting married. The reason they aren t getting married is b ecause men aren t marrying them. Why would they? The other issue is that more men are simply leaving the country. many of the ones that stay seek out a foriegn bride. Women are settling for de facto relationships. This is why NZ legislation particularly under Labour traps men in de fcto relati onships as default marriages. So that these men can be screwed over something th at they did not intentionally sign up for.

We need to reverse de facto relationship legislation. it is morally reprehensibl e to legally bind someone to a contract that they never signed or agreed to base d solely on their living arrangements. The whole thing is designed to try to stop women experiencing the consequences o f screwing men over. To counter the marriage strike. It wont work. it just delay s things and makes them worse. Quality men will simply refuse to have any long t erm relationship with NZ women at all. I hope NZ women enjoy their cats. I feel sorry for my daughter. What a shitty future she has. Courtesy: http://menz.org.nz/2012/the-new-zealand-marriage-strike/ Tom Leykis American (United States) Radio talks show host Tom Leykis has given up along tim e ago dating American women who are born in the USA and act like Americans. The women he as stuck that are born in another country (outside the USA) and came to the United States at any age. He also stuck to American women (born in the Unit ed States) who have parents/grand parents who came from another country. They ar e old-fashioned subscribe to culture and costumes of the country where there par ents/grand parents are from. American women do not like the competition they get from other countries with increased immigration to the United States. Many fore ign women have a very negative opinion of American women. The reason for this is because US born girls who are raised by an immigrant fore ign-born mother/grand mothers, are raised and behave the same way as their mothe r/immigrant mother. Eastern European women who hate American women would think t hey are born in their mother's/grand mothers native country example, Belgium, Br azil, Columbia, Germany, Greece, Japan, India, Iraq, Mexico, Philippines and Swe den and it should be impossible to tell that they are born in the United States, other than the fact they speak English with an American accent. This is because their immigrant foreign-born mother raised her daughter/grand daughter the same way she was raised by her parents when she was infant/toddler/child and do not tolerate that they have American mentality and behave like Americans and expect her daughters and grand daughters. This is because many have to travel their mot her's native country. Some only speak English and many also speak their mother's native language. The first some times second generation should see no American influence. Avoid American Women When Possible | Leykis 101 Why Women Hate Tom Leykis Tom Leykis: American Women Are Bitches In two years I plan to be pregnant by a rich man so he'll have to marry me and s upport my life of luxury Tom Leykis Live M-F 3pm Los Angelas/6pm New York... call (901) 3000-TOM Avoid American Women When Possible American women are, with the usual exceptions, out-and-out bitches. They are rai sed with one goal in mind: to get you to sign a contract obligating you to hand over half of everything you have and to fund their desire to reproduce. And they will do whatever they have to do to accomplish their goal of getting you to mar ry them. Sex as a loss leader just the way that Albertson's sells six-packs of P epsi for 99 cents? Absolutely. Laugh at your bad jokes? You bet. Do anything and

everything you want sexually (until the contract is safely signed)? By all mean s. Don't you know the drill by now? If not, visit your local supermarket at about 1 0 AM any weekday and it is there in front of you: the truth in all its glory. 18 0 pounders who have chopped their hair off and who slog around in leggings or sw eat pants screaming and yelling at a passel of kids that some poor hostage is pa ying for. These human Cinnabons are the ballbusters who do practically nothing during the day and then complain about all of the things you forget to do or don't do well enough for their liking. How many of you sit watching the late night replay of t onight's Tampa Bay Rays or Memphis Grizzlies game or Poker After Dark at your lo cal bar rather than go home and be told that, once again, you failed to remember to take out the garbage? When I see these chicks gathering at Starbucks during the day, I think of the po or slobs who are paying for those five dollar lattes. They have their daily meet ings of the Beaten Dogs' Club at Hooters, your local sports bar, bowling alleys, and your neighborhood barber shop. Some of these guys are the IT guys at your o ffice who never go home. At radio stations, they are the Chief Engineers who are , amazingly, always on call. Ever wonder why some people are so devoted to their jobs? Even notice that those who are so devoted are almost never women? As many of you know, I am America's Original Feminist. That is why I insist on t otal equality. Starting with the dinner tab, ladies. Then, let's move on to the lifting of heavy objects or getting up to let one of you cows sit down on the bu s. Never going to happen because I believe in Gender Equality. Sure I'll give yo u my seat: right after you iron my shirt and make me some fucking lunch! And whe n is the last time you ladies did something like that? 1970? American women have been trained to be "strong" and "in charge." Great. If I needed to be with some one like that, I'd marry a Marine. I stopped dating American women long ago because I was tired of hearing about al l the things that were wrong with me or about how inadequate I am. The women of Latin America (and their daughters) may have tempers, but even after an argument , they will always ask if you've eaten today and if you took a jacket to work. A nd sex? Any time, any place. They know that being 180 pounds is unacceptable, an d cutting their hair off? It just doesn't happen! I haven't been to a bowling al ley or a Hooters in years, and I believe that this is why. For the most part, fo reign women just don't see marriage as a permanent visit to the gravy train. Som e students live in parts of the country where women of other cultures are few an d far between. My advice? Move! Thank God for our liberal immigration policy! Courtesy: http://www.leykis101.com/tip-of-the-day/avoid-american-women-when-pos sible Are North American Women Really THAT Bad? It s been interesting to read the comments people have left on that article I wrot e for Vagabondish. While the article was entitled What It s Like to be Female and Foreign in Japan (foreign, as in non-Japanese) the focus of discussion has straye d from the topic of a western woman s perspective on dating abroad and zeroed in on the subject of North-American women and how self-centered, demanding, spoiled and unattractive they all are. I wish I was exaggerating.

Here are a few of the comments: I have traveled all over the world conducting a multi-billion dollar business, an d American/Canadian women are valued about as much as a homeless man in New York City. They are viewed as feminazis, narcissistic, histrionic, materialistic, sh allow, and useless. Now I am not one to generalize, but even from my own experience, I cannot say th is viewpoint is not that far from the truth. Why else do you think America has o ne of the highest divorce rates in the world? Generally speaking, American women make the worst WIVES, but are known for being great for CASUAL UNATTACHED SEX. Allan Western women have ridiculous material expectations of their men and expect to be put on a pedestal at all times (instead of being equitable partners). Bringing l ittle to the sexless & boring relationship other than expensive bathroom faucets , obesity, credit card debt and demands to work harder to afford undeserved luxu ries to fit in with their consumer culture. Tommy The problem is that American women are known the world over as being self-centere d and demanding princesses who feel like men should be kissing up to their poste riors. Not so in Europe, and most assuredly not true in Japan. Jeff You can keep the Western women in the west. They are fat, evil and smell like yea st. in addition, they think that everyone should be nice to them. They seem to b e expecting some thing that they do not deserve. I say stay away eeeuuuwwww! Unch i-kun Holy moly. I don t know about you, but while reading some of these, I had a mental image of a giant, Godzilla-sized slice of wonder bread stomping around Tokyo hollering Be n ice to me or else I ll eat you! Muahahaha! If this is how men abroad view the female population of North America, well then forget sewing a Canadian flag to my backpack, next time I leave the U.S. I ll be going Russian all the way and wearing a fur hat. I m kidding. But in all seriousness, if you think that those few comments are an anomaly, try googling demanding American women or spoiled American women and you ll see how many b log or forum posts have been written on the subject. Some of the sites even enc ourage men to boycott dating American women altogether; as if they were toxic mo ld or a hazardous chemical more deserving of a warning label than any decent man s attention. While it would certainly be easy to write their blog posts and comments off as t he bitter words of the burned and broken-hearted, I think there s some truth to th eir assertions. I ve written about how Americans have a reputation for being shal low and superficial in the past and as anyone would agree, Americans won t be winn ing any awards in the healthy eating department any time soon. But aren t these stereotypes (the idea that all Americans are overweight, demandin g and superficial) equally true for both genders? Why are the female half of th e population being given all the blame here? Whether these mens reasons for their ban on North-American women are justified or not, it would seem to me that finding a life partner is hard enough as it is. Why make it any more difficult by swearing off 180 million citizens of this plan et (the approximate number of women living in Canada and the US) just because th ey happen to be born in the wrong corner of the globe?

I think that so long as you and the other person share common values and interes ts and there s some chemistry there, that little line under place of birth in a pers on s passport shouldn t matter much. What do you think? Is there any truth to the North American woman s bad rep? Courtesy:// http://www.takenbythewind.com/2010/09/17/are-north-american-women-re ally-that-bad/ The divorce rate for American men who marry American women: 57% (officially). Bu t since the figures from several states (including California) are excluded, the true national divorce rate is likely closer to 65%. The divorce rate in Califor nia is over 70%. The divorce rate for American men who marry foreign women: approximately 20%. So you can marry an American woman and have a close to two-thirds chance of gett ing divorced, or you can marry a foreign woman and have at least a 75% chance of success. Source Page Included here are many of the facts I use in my articles and radio appearances a bout fathers.? The facts are in bold and the source or sources are below it.? Th e facts are not listed in any particular order. Where possible, I ve included URLs so the reader can go directly to the source and examine it. This page is a work in progress, and I simply have not had the time to refine it as much as I would like.? If readers have? questions about any of these facts and/or sources, feel free to write to me at Glenn@GlennSacks.com. Best Wishes, Glenn Sacks #1: Two?thirds or more of all divorces involving couples with children are initia ted by mothers, not fathers. Source: Margaret F. Brinig and Douglas A. Allen, These Boots Are Made For Walking : Why Most Divorce Filers Are Women American Law and Economics Review 2?1 (2000): 1 26?169. Source: John Tierney, A New Look at the Realities of Divorce, 11, 2000. New York Times, July

Source: Sanford Braver, Marnie Whitley, and Christine Ng, Who Divorced Whom? Meth odological and Theoretical Issues, Journal of Divorce and Remarriage 20, 1993, p. 1. Source: Cathy Young, The Sadness of the American Father, The American Spectator,? June 2000.? See http://fact.on.ca/news/news0006/as000601.htm. #2: A randomized study of 46,000 divorce cases published in the American Law and Economics Review found that in only 6% of cases women claimed to be divorcing cr uel or abusive husbands, and that adultery was cited by women as a cause of divo rce only slightly more than by men.? Surveys of divorced couples show that the r easons for their divorces are generally a lack of closeness or of not feeling lov ed and appreciated. Source: Margaret F. Brinig and Douglas A. Allen, These Boots Are Made For Walking :

Why Most Divorce Filers Are Women American Law and Economics Review 2-1 (2000): 126-169. Source: John Tierney, A New Look at the Realities of Divorce, 11, 2000. Source: Beuhler, Whose Decision Was It? 8, pp 587 595, 1987. New York Times, July

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Source: Cathy Young, The Sadness of the American Father, The American Spectator, J une 2000.? See http://fact.on.ca/news/news0006/as000601.htm. #3: Studies show that the overwhelming majority of steadily employed divorced fat hers pay their child support. While there are a few well?heeled divorced dads wh o stiff their children, most non?paying dads are either poor, unemployed, disabl ed, or incarcerated. According to a US Government Accounting Office report, two? thirds of those fathers who do not pay their child support fail to do so because they are financially unable to do so. Source: Judi Bartfield and Daniel R. Meyer: Are There Really Deadbeat Dads? The R elationship Between Ability to Pay, Enforcement, and Compliance in Nonmarital Ch ild Support Cases, Social Service Review 68, 1994, pp. 219?235. Source: Deadbeat Dad Image A Myth, Study Finds, ? New York Times,? May 5, 1999.? Se e: http://sharedparent.freeyellow.com/ddiamsf.pdf.? Look for Divorced moms report ed. Source: Cathy Young, Ceasefire!: Why Women and Men Must Join Forces to Achieve T rue Equality, The Free Press, 1999, pp. 206?207. Source: Kathleen Parker, Deadbeat dads more myth than reality, The Orlando Sentine l, Jan 24 1999. See: http://www.dadi.org/kpdbeat2.htm. Look for Census Bureau. #4: There are almost as many unfaithful wives as there are unfaithful husbands. R esearch generally estimates that for every five unfaithful husbands, there are f our unfaithful wives. Source: Maggie Scarf, Intimate Partners: An examination of the underlying archite cture of love relationships the influence of the past, the causes of infidelity, a nd the systems that couples create, The Atlantic Monthly, November 1986. The arti cle can be viewed here.? Look for Emotional Triangles: Infidelity. Source: John Przybys, Unfaithfully Yours: Men, women have differing ideas about f idelity, Las Vegas Review?Journal, March 29, 1998. The article can be found here. Look for Paul Wulkan. Source: Jennifer P. Schneider, Richard R. Irons, and M. Deborah Corley, Disclosur e of Extramarital Sexual Activities by Sexually Exploitative Professionals and O ther Persons with Addictive or Compulsive Sexual Disorders, Journal of Sex Educat ion and Therapy 24:277?287, 1999. The article can be found here. Search in the t ext for the word infidelity. #5: Domestic violence research overwhelmingly shows that women are just as likely as men to initiate and engage in domestic violence, and that only a small perce ntage of women s domestic violence is committed in self?defense.? Studies show tha t women often compensate for their smaller size by their significantly greater u se of weapons and the element of surprise.

Source: Richard J. Gelles, Ph.D., The Missing Persons of Domestic Violence: Male Victims, The Women s Quarterly, Fall, 1999. See Gelles. Source: References Examining Assaults by Women on Their Spouses or Male Partners : An Annotated Bibliography by Martin S. Fiebert, Department of Psychology, Cali fornia State University, Long Beach. See http://www.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault. htm. Source: Patricia Pearson, When She Was Bad: Violent Women & the Myth of Innocenc e, Penguin Books, 1998, pp. 119?123. Source: David Fontes, Violent Touch: Breaking Through the Stereotype, tes, Psy.D., CEAP See http://www.safe4all.org/essays/vtbreak.pdf. David L. Fon

Source: Cathy Young, Ceasefire!: Why Women and Men Must Join Forces to Achieve T rue Equality, The Free Press, 1999, pp. 91?96. #6: Official Department of Justice statistics show that men commit 70% of all mur der of intimates. However, when other factors are accounted for, including unsol ved murders, poisonings mistakenly classified as heart attacks, and contract kil lings classified as multiple offender killings, women have been shown to be at lea st as likely as men to murder their current or former spouses or intimates. Source: Dershowitz, Alan M. 1994. The Abuse Excuse: And Other Cop?outs, Sob Stor ies and Evasions of Responsibility. Boston: Little Brown, pp. 311?313. See the p ages Wives Also Kill Husbands??Quite Often at http://www.uiowa.edu/~030116/158/art icles/dershowitz3.htm. Source:? 1994?95 U.S. Department of Justice Bureau of Justice Statistics Publica tions Catalog, publication #. NCJ 43498, Murder in Families. Source: Warren Farrell, Women Can t Hear What Men Don t Say, Penguin Putnam Inc, 199 9, pp 150?151. Source: This is also explained in detail in my column Let s not Learn the Same Lesson s From Blake That We Learned From OJ which can be found at http://www.glennsacks. com/lets_not_learn.htm. #7: Most child abuse and parental murder of children is committed by mothers, no t? fathers. Source: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Administration on Children , Youth, and Families, Child Maltreatment 1997: Reports from the States to the N ational Child Abuse and Neglect Data System (Washington DC, :GPO, 1999). See: ht tp://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cb/publications/ncands97/s7.htm. Child abuse perp etrators are 62.3% female.? Child fatality perpetrators are 62.8% female. The mo ther/father ratio is actually greater than this, because many of the male abuser s counted are not the biological fathers but instead step?fathers, boyfriends, e tc. Source on murders of children by single parents: U.S. Department of Health and H uman Services, National Center on Child Abuse and Neglect, Third National Incide nce Study Of Child Abuse and Neglect: Final Report Appendices (Washington D.C., U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, National Center on Child Abuse and Neglect, 1997, pp. A?63?A?64.? The estimated total is 264 parental murders of c hildren committed by single custodial mothers and 11 by single custodial fathers .? There are roughly five times as many single custodial mothers as single custo

dial fathers. Source: Warren Farrell, Father and Child Reunion: How to Bring the Dads We Need to the Children We Love, Penguin Putnam Inc, 2001, pp 75-77. #8: Access and Visitation Denial Three-quarters of divorced fathers surveyed mai ntain that their ex-spouses have substantially interfered with their visitation rights. Source: Joyce A. Arditti, Factors Related to Custody, Visitation, and Child Suppo rt for Divorced Fathers: An Exploratory Analysis, Journal of Divorce and Remarria ge 17, 1992, pp. 34, 39. A study of children of divorce found that 42% of children who lived solely with their mother reported that their mother tried to prevent them from seeing their fathers after the divorce. However, only 16% of children who lived solely with t heir father reported similar obstruction. Source: Glynnis Walker, Solomon s Children: Exploding the Myths of Divorce (New Yo rk: Arbor House, 1986), p. 83 Source: Cathy Young, Ceasefire!: Why Women and Men Must Join Forces to Achieve T rue Equality, The Free Press, 1999, p. 209. In another study, 40% of divorced mothers admitted that they had interfered with their ex-husband s access or visitation, and that their motives were punitive in nature and not due to safety considerations. Source: p. 449, col. II, lines 3-6, (citing Fulton) Frequency of visitation by Di vorced Fathers; Differences in Reports by Fathers and Mothers, Sanford Braver et al, American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, 1991. Source: J.A. Fulton, Parental Reports of Children s Post-Divorce Adjustment, of Social Issues 35, 1979, pp. 126-139. Journal

Source: Cathy Young, Ceasefire!: Why Women and Men Must Join Forces to Achieve T rue Equality, The Free Press, 1999, p. 209. #9: Prosecutions of fathers who violate child support mandates are common, where as prosecutions of mothers who violate visitation orders are rare. Source: Neil Chethik, Law Backs the Right to Parental Visits, May 28, 1995, p.2J. Detroit Free Press,

Source: Cathy Young, Ceasefire!: Why Women and Men Must Join Forces to Achieve T rue Equality, The Free Press, 1999, page 209.

#10: The vast majority of accusations of child sexual abuse made during custody battles are false, unfounded or unsubstantiated. Source: Douglas J. Besharov and Lisa A. Laumann, Child Abuse Reporting, Social Science and Modern Society, Vol. 3 3, May/June, 1996, p. 42. Source: Blush, Gordon & Ross, Karol, 1986, The SAID Syndrome. Sterling Heights, MI: Family and Conciliation Courts Review. #11: Nationwide divorced fathers are ten times as likely to commit suicide as di vorced mothers, and more than twice as likely to commit suicide as married fathe

rs. Source for divorced fathers vs. married fathers: Augustine J. Kposowa, Ph.D., Mar ital Status and Suicide in the National Longitudinal Mortality Study, Journal of Epidemiology & Community Health, March, 2000, Volume 54, No. 4, pages 254?261 Se e http://wizard.ucr.edu/~akposowa/Status.pdf. Search for divorced men. Source for 10 times as likely is Warren Farrell, Father and Child Reunion: How to Bring the Dads We Need to the Children We Love, Penguin Putnam Inc, 2001, pg. 17 4 & 279. #12: The rates of juvenile crime, teen pregnancy, teen drug abuse, and school dr opouts are tightly correlated with fatherlessness, often more so than with any o ther socioeconomic factor. Source: The largest predictor of juvenile crime is the presence of a father is f rom, among others,? Douglas A. Smith and G. Roger Jajoura, Social Structure and Cr iminal Victimization, Journal of Research in Crime and Delinquency, Vol. 25, Numb er 1, February 1988, pages 27-52.? In this study children of poor and wealthy fa milies had equal juvenile crime rates if there was a father in the home. Source: The largest predictor of drug use is from, among others, Robert H. Coomb s and John Landsverk, Parenting Styles and Substance Abuse During Childhood and A dolescence, Journal of Marriage and Family, Vol. 50, May 1988, p. 479, Table 4.? The study considered various factors, including race, social class, gender, etc. ,? and father presence was five times more important than any other factor. Source: The teenage pregnancy statistic is from, among others, Frank F Furstenbe rg, Jr. and Kathleen Mullan Harris, When and Why Fathers Matter: Impact of Father Involvement on the Children of Adolescent Mothers. Source: Father presence and education is discussed in Warren Farrell, Father and Child Reunion: How to Bring the Dads We Need to the Children We Love, Penguin P utnam Inc, 2001, pp 31-34.? The presence of a father in a child s life has more im pact on a child s educational achievement, beginning, in early elementary school, than race, social class, gender, etc. #13: Children are 88% more likely to be seriously injured from abuse or neglect by their mothers than by their fathers. Source: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Administration on Children , Youth, and Families, Child Maltreatment 1997: Reports from the States to the N ational Child Abuse and Neglect Data System (Washington DC, :GPO, 1999).? It is discussed in Father and Child Reunion by Warren Farrell, page 76. #14: Prosecutions of fathers who violate child support mandates are common, where as prosecutions of mothers who violate visitation orders are rare. Source: Neil Chethik, Law Backs the Right to Parental Visits, May 28, 1995, p.2J. Detroit Free Press,

Source: Cathy Young, Ceasefire!: Why Women and Men Must Join Forces to Achieve T rue Equality, The Free Press, 1999, page 209. #15: Fathers have a much better record of paying court-ordered child support than mothers do.

Source: John Siegmund, Preliminary Analysis of the Database of the DC Office of P aternity and Child Support Enforcement compiled for the Children s Rights Council, November 9, 1999. #16: The government spends $340 on enforcing child support for every $1 it spends on enforcing visitation rights. ? Source: The actual numbers are $3.4 billion on child support enforcement and $10 million on visitation enforcement.? The $3.4 billion figure comes from Child Sup port Enforcement is Working Better than We Think by Elain Sorensen and Ariel Halp ern, The Urban Institute, Series A, No 31-A, March 1999, page 4. The $10 million figure comes from The Department of Health and Human Services, 93 .597 Grants to States for Access and Visitation Programs. (http://www.cfda.gov/st atic/93597.asp) Source: Warren Farrell, Father and Child Reunion: How to Bring the Dads We Need to the Children We Love, Penguin Putnam Inc, 2001, pp 182-183. #17: Other fathers have suffered at the hands of move?away moms use geography to drive fathers out of their children s lives. who permit or even

Source: Maura Dolan, Legal Affairs Writer, Justices Ease Relocation of Children i n Divorce Cases, ? Los Angeles Times, April 16, 1996, p. 1.? Three out of every fo ur custodial mothers move within four years of divorce, for various reasons. #18: Men win custody in only 10% of contested custody cases (Note: To avoid confusion: the sources below do not all indicate 10% some indicate 15 or 20%, some indicate less than 5%.? As a whole, the average is around 10%.) Source: Eleanor E. Maccoby and Robert H. Mnookin, Dividing the Child (Cambridge, Mass.: Harvard University Press, 1992), pp. 104-105, 149-150. Source: Stephen J. Bahr, J.D. Howe, M. Morrill Mann, Trends in Custody Awards: Ha s the Removal of Maternal Preference Made a Difference? , Family Law Quarterly, Vo l, pp. 247-267, Summer 1994. Source: Wendy Reiboldt and Sharon Seiling, Factors Related to Men s Award of Custod y, Family Advocate, Winter 1993, pp. 42-44. Published by the Family Law Section o f the American Bar Association. Source: William T. K. Dolan, Esq., Empirical Study of Child Custody in Divorce D ecrees in Arlington County, Virginia: July 1, 1989 December 30, 1990, ? 1991. Source: Rich Blake, Father Says System is Unfair to Men in Custody Battles, der (VA) Gazette Packet, October 22, 1992 . Alexan

Source: Robert Seidenberg, The Father s Emergency Guide to Divorce-Custody Battle, JES Books, 1997, pp. 11-15, 60-61. John P. McCahey, J.D., LL.M, et al., Child Custody and Visitation Law and Practi ce. Matthew Bender, New York. Volume 3, 1983, Section 13.01. #19: The commonly cited factoid that men win custody half of the time or more whe n they contest it is a myth.

Source: Do fathers have the edge in divorce?, Cathy Young,? Detroit News, December 10, 1996. See: http://www.vix.com/menmag/youngdet.htm. Source: Robert Seidenberg, ?The Father s Emergency Guide to Divorce-Custody Battle , JES Books, 1997, pp. 11-15, 60-61. #20: According to a long-term study conducted in the United States and in New Zea land and published in Child Development, a father s absence greatly increases the risk of teen pregnancy. The study found that it mattered little whether the chil d was rich or poor, black or white, born to a teen mother or an adult mother, or raised by parents with functional or dysfunctional marriages. What mattered was dad. Source: Father s Absence Increases Daughter s Risk of Teen Pregnancy, Health Behavior News Service, May 26, 2003 #21: When Arizona State University psychology professor William Fabricius conduct ed a study of college students who had experienced their parents divorces while t hey were children, he found that over two-thirds believed that living equal amoun ts of time with each parent is the best arrangement for children. His findings we re published in Family Relations in 2003. Source: Fabricius, W. V. (2003).? Listening to children of divorce: New findings on living arrangements, college support and relocation that rebut Wallerstein, Lewis and Blakeslee (2000).? Family Relations, 52, 385 396. #22: The new report, What About the Dads? Child Welfare Agencies Efforts to Identi fy, Locate, and Involve Nonresident Fathers, examines the foster care systems of four states. The report contains a shocking finding: when fathers inform child welfare officials that they would like their children to live with them, the age ncies seek to place the children with their fathers in only 8% of cases. Source: What About the Dads? Child Welfare Agencies Efforts to Identify, Locate, and Involve Nonresident Fathers, The Urban Institute, April 2006. Under the head ing Father Involvement the Institute notes that half of the nonresident fathers wi th whom they had been in contact were interested in having their kids live with them, but that in only 4% of cases the child s case goal was placement with the fat her. #23: According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services new report Chil d Maltreatment 2004, when one parent is acting without the involvement of the ot her parent, mothers are almost three times as likely to kill their children as f athers are, and are more than twice as likely to abuse them. Source: Child Maltreatment 2004, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. A ccording to Figure 4-2 Perpetrator Relationships of Fatalities, 2004 Child Maltre atment 2004? here, child fatalities perpetrated by mothers or by mother and other [not father] comprise 40.6% of all child fatalities. Figure 4-2 also shows that fatalities perpetrated by fathers or by father and other [not mother] comprise 15. 6% of all child fatalities. According to Figure 3-6 Victims by Perpetrator Relati onship, 2004 Child Maltreatment 2004, here child abuse perpetrated by mothers or by mother and other [not father] comprise 45.6% of all child abuse. Figure 3-6 als o shows that abuse perpetrated by fathers or by father and other [not mother] comp rise 19.5% of all child abuse. #24: What About the Dads? makes it clear that many child welfare workers treat fa thers as an afterthought. The report found that even when a caseworker had been in contact with a child s father, the caseworker was still five times less likely

to know basic information about the father than about the mother. And 20% of the fathers whose identity and location were known by the child welfare agencies fr om the opening of the case were never even contacted. Source: What About the Dads? Child Welfare Agencies Efforts to Identify, Locate, and Involve Nonresident Fathers, The Urban Institute, April 2006. In the researc h summary here the Institute says One in five fathers whose identity and location were known at case opening were nonetheless never contacted by the child welfar e agency. The Institute also compared the caseworkers knowledge of information abo ut the mothers and about the fathers with whom they had been in contact.? They w rite Caseworkers much more often answered don t know to questions about a child s fathe r when they had readily available similar information on the mother. Typically, caseworkers reported not knowing information about mothers 1% to 5% of the time, depending on the item, while for fathers with whom they had been in contact, don t know responses were more often around 15%. Since the range they gave for mothers was 1% to 5%, I took the middle 3% and compared it with the figure for fathers, 15%. According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services new report Child Mal treatment 2004, when one parent is acting without the involvement of the other p arent, mothers are almost three times as likely to kill their children as father s are, and are more than twice as likely to abuse them. Source: Child Maltreatment 2004, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. A ccording to Figure 4-2 Perpetrator Relationships of Fatalities, 2004 Child Maltre atment 2004? here, child fatalities perpetrated by mothers or by mother and other [not father] comprise 40.6% of all child fatalities. Figure 4-2 also shows that fatalities perpetrated by fathers or by father and other [not mother] comprise 15. 6% of all child fatalities. According to Figure 3-6 Victims by Perpetrator Relati onship, 2004 Child Maltreatment 2004, here child abuse perpetrated by mothers or by mother and other [not father] comprise 45.6% of all child abuse. Figure 3-6 als o shows that abuse perpetrated by fathers or by father and other [not mother] comp rise 19.5% of all child abuse. #25: A study by psychologist Joan Kelly, published in the Family and Conciliation Courts Review,? found that children of divorce express higher levels of satisfac tion with joint physical custody than with sole custody arrangements, and cite th e benefit of remaining close to both parents as an important factor. Source: Kelly, J., Current research on children s postdivorce adjustment. Family a nd Conciliation Courts Review, 31.29-49, 1993 #26: A Harvard University study of 517 families conducted across a four-and-a-hal f year period measured depression, deviance, school effort, and school grades in children ranging in age from 10 to 18. The researchers found that the children in joint custody settings fared better on these indices than those in sole custo dy. Source: Buchanan, C., Maccoby, and Dornbusch, Adolescents After Divorce, Harvard University Press, 1996. #27: According to psychologist Robert Bauserman s meta-analysis of 33 studies of ch ildren of divorce, which was published in the American Psychological Association s Journal of Family Psychology, children in shared custody settings had fewer beh avior and emotional problems, higher self-esteem, better family relations, and b etter school performance than children in sole custody arrangements. Source: Bauserman, R., Child Adjustment in Joint-Custody Versus Sole-Custody Arra

ngements:? A Meta-Analytic Review , Journal of Family Psychology, Vol. 16, No. 1, (2002) 91-102. #28: Even after controlling for all major socioeconomic factors, including income , teens not living with their fathers were twice as likely to abuse drugs as tho se living in intact, two-parent married families. Source: Hoffmann, John P., and Robert A. Johnson. A National Portrait of Family S tructure and Adolescent Drug Use. Journal of Marriage and the Family 60 (August 1 998): 633-645. #29: A published Harvard review of four major studies found that, accounting for all major socioeconomic factors, children without a father in the home are twice as likely to drop out of high school or repeat a grade as children who live wit h their fathers. Source: Sara McLanahan and Gary Sandefur, Growing Up with a Single Parent (Cambr idge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1994), p. 41. The four national surveys revi ewed were: The National Longitudinal Survey of Youth, the Panel Study of Income Dynamics, the High School and Beyond Study, and the National Survey of Families and Households. Courtesy: http://glennsacks.com/blog/?page_id=1000 American Women and Marriage: a Sacred Vow (Why I Will NEVER Marry an American Wo man) The idea of marrying an American woman literally terrifies me. Can I not handle having sex with one person for the rest of my life? Am I incapa ble of settling-down? Am I afraid of commitment? Well, no... not exactly. It's b ecause marrying an American woman is most likely prepping your marriage for fail ure. It's a sad fact that in America, more than 60% of marriages end in divorce. Even more sad is that roughly 75% of divorces are initiated by the woman over the ma n's objections (the remaining 25% are either mutually-agreed divorces or divorce s initiated by the husband over the woman's objections; those two categories are about half and half within that remaining 25%). These are all conservative numb ers, by the way; they've been rounded-down for the sake of simplicity. So, if 60 % of marriages end in divorce, and 75% of those are initiated by the woman, we c an do the math to combine these percentages: (.75(.6)) x 100 = 45. There is at least a 45% chance that whenever a man gets married to an American w oman, the woman will want to divorce him at some point. You have better chances at surviving Russian roulette! Furthermore, a man is many times more likely to commit suicide in the two years following a divorce than the average male. Russian roulette, indeed. American fe males literally become man-destroyers. The biggest disincentive for marriage lies within the women themselves. The numb ers reveal that they are family-wreckers. Marrying an American woman is a risky activity for us guys. What do American women want more: a husband or a house ful l of fancy appliances? They often act as if they think their appliances are wort h more than the useless human lumps they're currently saddled with. Think about it: there is a more than two in five chance that an American woman i

s incapable of mustering the love and commitment needed to make a marriage work! The numbers show they make lousy wives and they don't even think their marriage vows mean very much. Why marry one? Honestly now- why the flaming hell should y ou even consider marrying one?! Would you ever stick your hand in a garbage disp osal if there's a more than two-in-five chance that someone will suddenly hit th e 'on' switch?? It's putting your face in the fire! It's asking for trouble, pla in and simple. Marrying an American chick is probably one of the worst things yo u could ever do with your life. Just do a simple cost/benefit analysis; that's w hat the numbers show! Women often plan their divorces in advance; the husband always seems to be the l ast to know and many men say they are stunned when the bomb suddenly drops. Many had no idea the marriage was even in trouble... Naturally, the assumption for e veryone is that men must be boneheads to not pick-up on the subtle cues that the ir marriage is in trouble. But is it really because men are insensitive, unfeeli ng idiots or is it because women are simply quite good at being secretive in the ir machinations? Despite the fact that women claim it is men who can't communica te, many women deliberately lie to their husbands about the state of their marri age until the last minute. In a reply to a readers' response way back in the past, I once described getting the girl in the end not as a victory, but as a booby-prize or a defeat wrapped inside a victory. Well, here is one of the grandest ironies of the American fema le: if you are the type of man who can put-up with her bullshit and win her in t he end (and fall in love with her and marry her) then there's a very good chance that she will want to cut the marriage short(!) I can only conclude that marrying an American woman is nothing more than poisone d candy! She will only be with you as long as she can get pleasure or utility ou t of you. And whenever it strikes her fancy, she will drop-kick you to the curb after she's done. And even then, some of these divorcees will smugly sneer that it is men who 'can't commit'. Perhaps the reason why they claim men can't commit is because women find it pret ty darn easy to get-out of commitments in the way that somebody might change a p air of socks? But nay, nay- it must be the man who is at fault. If she divorces her husband, then it was because the man was the problem and certainly not the p erson who actually contacted her lawyer to request divorce papers. It's Sacred Vow Time... Today, I am formally declaring a sacred vow. I might've hinted this in the past, and I don't think I've ever actually formally said it until now... but here goe s. Let it be heard now and forever: I will never allow any American woman to eve r marry me! That's right. Here and now, I'm officially writing-off the entire American femal e populace as being a group which is unfit for the commitment of marriage. Chanc es are, they just aren't capable of holding a marriage together. Chances are, th ey are inept when it comes to fulfilling their marriage vows. Odds are, they lac k the basic human skill of recognizing their partner's unfulfilled needs. They a re, in short, unsalvageable human beings. Yes, I've suggested something along th ose lines many times before, but I'd always left-open the possibility that maybe by some miracle there might be some American woman out there who doesn't suck. (And yes, there indeed might be one or two American women out there who don't su ck.) But those statistics... and they're from rounded-down numbers! *Shiver.* I' d much rather pursue a lower-risk woman. A woman who actually takes marriage ser iously. It's just too risky a proposition. American females just do not offer satisfactory or stable relationships!!

It's a shame, because I know I'd make a great husband one day. I want a successf ul marriage, and there is a more than sixty-percent chance that the act of marry ing an American woman will guarantee my marriage will not be successful... and f urthermore, there will be a more than two-in-five chance that no matter how comm itted I am to the relationship, the woman will still try to bail-out on me at so me point. Between her career aspirations, her need for independence and the fact that the average female American likes to regard males as uselessly redundant a nyway- there is simply no room for a stable marriage within that kind of conflic ted psyche. Yes, some countries have even higher divorce rates than those in the U.S. Some c ountries in the former Soviet Union have divorce rates in the high 60th percenti les... most of those countries, however, have experienced extreme levels of econ omic strife, social dislocation, political turmoil and heightened levels of crim e. Naturally, there are many reasons to explain why families are under stress in places like the Ukraine and Belarus. But America is a society with a relatively functioning economy where public services aren't breaking-down left and right a nd where lawlessness isn't rampant... In short, women in the U.S. have no extrem e circumstances that would put their families under such a huge amount of stress . So why are American women breaking-up their families in such numbers? I'm certain there are perfectly legitimate reasons for a woman to want to leave her husband... but is the man always necessarily the problem? I don't think anyo ne can ever get an honest answer as to why women divorce- women don't know how t hey reach their own conclusions half the time! But you can be sure that whatever her reasons, she will justify her divorce with X number of accusations; she wil l always have an excuse handy. She's feeling trapped in an unhappy relationship perhaps, or not enough of her needs were being met by her husband, or her husban d spends too much time at work... Or sometimes women marry because they just want to have kids. Once the kids are raised, the man is of no further use and can be safely discarded. He's extraneou s, as far as she's concerned. And you'll notice: whenever a divorced woman talks about her ex-husband, it's al ways unequivocally his fault that she decided to terminate the relationship. Her overweening belief in her own righteousness will start to bleed-through quite c learly. She will be able to gab on and on about whose fault it was (and it's nev er her). This all goes back to the whole issue of females despising accountabili ty. Women would rather believe the flimsiest of manufactured excuses than even t hink that they might have had some responsibility for their divorces. Think about it: even if the woman planned the divorce, initiated it and carried it out, never does any responsibility for planning, initiating or carrying-out t he decision ever fall on her shoulders. Or in some cases, she might make-up comp lete fabrications about the man abusing her and the kids; I know for a fact that some of the more crooked divorce lawyers secretly encourage their clients to do this. The man must always be the evildoer, and she the victim who needs help an d sympathy. Not once will she admit things like: 'I found another man I liked mo re' or 'I was bored with the relationship.' Nay, it must be her no-good ex-husba nd's fault. That's how she terminates the marriage with a squeaky-clean conscien ce. They can not pity their ex-husbands; indeed their ex-husbands must always be the most horrible pigs on the planet. We don't want these poor women feeling gu ilty, do we? To make matters worse, the legal system gives the woman a financial incentive wh en she divorces. There are a huge number of greedy, opportunistic lawyers in Ame rica who earn their daily bread by stripping ex-husbands of their wealth. After your divorce, a huge hunk of your property and future earnings is basically cons

idered up for grabs. And don't ever get behind in your monthly payments: over th e last few years the federal government has been relentlessly chasing 'deadbeat dads' with a vengeance. Within marriage and outside of marriage, men are just wa lking wallets. And worst of all, many men find that after divorce they will lose contact with t heir children while still being obliged to support their ex-wives financially. A bout 85% of the children of divorce end-up in the custody of their mothers... an d the few children in the custody of their fathers only became so after the fath er had spent thousands of dollars on legal fees trying to prove why they should be given custody. (In Journal of Marriage and the Family, J. A. Seltzer publishe d a 1991 study called "Relationships between Fathers and Children Who Live Apart " which found that a third of children had seen their non-resident parent at mos t once in the previous year.) Doesn't this arrangement count as a type of involu ntary servitude? Having a percentage of your income stripped-away from you to su bsidize somebody else sounds a lot like a form of forced financial bondage, does n't it? (And perhaps this is a question for law students, but doesn't the 13th A mendment of the U.S. Constitution say: "Neither slavery nor involuntary servitud e, except for punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly convic ted, shall exist within the United States..."? So, is being an ex-husband suppos ed to be a crime now?) So, to sum-up: by marrying an American woman, there will be a more than 45% chan ce that, against your will, your marriage will end and you will lose contact wit h your kids... on top of it, you will be hounded by lawyers and required to supp ort your (former) family financially. You've gotta be an idiot to take that kind of risk!! If love is blind, the American marriage has lost all five senses As for you American guys: if you're a guy who gets personal satisfaction from ma king your woman happy, you've probably noticed that American women aren't happy for long, no matter what you do for them. (Have you ever been accused by your gi rlfriend of not showing enough affection when you've actually been exhausting yo urself in a vain attempt to please her?) They'll always have another unquenched demand lying around. They always want you to buy them another useless and expens ive gift... and they end-up dumping you because of what you can't give them. But naturally, you want the best girl you can get because you know you're a grea t person and you really have a sincere desire to to build a lasting and true rel ationship. If an American girl ever rejects you, be grateful she did it before y ou were married. Hell, she'd rather be with Mr. Asshole anyway. I say: if that's what she wants, let her be with Mr. Asshole! It's not a big secret that women have a huge amount of ability to command extral egal power and entitlements in the United States. In fact, it is women who set t he general rules and conditions of the system of dating, mating and marriage tha t you must follow (their sex cartel, for starters). One of the things that women need to perpetuate this arrangement is a hardworking yet quiescent and disposab le population of males to follow their self-serving rules. So, why be quiescent? Divorce law is a system which is ruthless beyond the capacity of any single indi vidual's resistance; it is a mean system designed to chew you-up and spit you ou t for the woman's exclusive benefit. You can't out-mean their system, don't even try. But you can out-think it, and there is safety in numbers. One of the thing s that you can do to make life uncomfortable for predatory women is not be quies cent before marriage. There are lots of ways of doing that; even just asking poi nted questions to the woman you're dating can have an effect. But my main point is, one way to not be quiescent is to think about some numbers

: American women represent 5% of the global population of women. Chances are, th ey're at the bottom 5% in terms of quality because they're probably sexist, self -centered and demanding as hell... and they will divorce you at least 45% of the time you marry them, guaranteed. With odds like that, you can't go wrong by loo king abroad! Are you lowering your standards or selling-out? Absolutely not! By looking abroad, you're merely widening your search for the finest woman you can possibly find. It allows you to make better decisions. Or, if you're a real gambler and you're willing to risk marrying an American chi ck, at the very least insist on a prenuptial agreement and talk to a lawyer abou t what other divorce laws you should be aware of, for Gods' sake. If your fiance refuses to sign a prenup like mine did, then you'll get an idea of why she's mar rying you. You have the ability to say 'no' to the folderol that female Americans have setup for you to swallow. And believe me, it is true folderol. You should always qu estion their bullshit and refuse to accept their bullshit. And you can take comf ort in the fact that you can just say 'no' and just walk away. Whatever an Ameri can woman might claim about herself, remember: she is probably unfit to be your wife. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------"American woman, stay away from me American woman, mama let me be Don't come here hanging around my door I don't want to see your face no more I got more important things to do Than spend my time growin' old with you..." -- Guess Who, "American Woman". Courtesy: http://www.the-niceguy.com/articles/MarryAmerican.html American women can't compete with foreign women! Are foreign women really better than American/Western women? The answer should b e determined through each man s own personal experience. The best way to find out is to spend several months in one of the many countries that are known for being non-man-hostile. I have spent several years learning about foreign countries and their cultures, and in fact have spent substantial time in foreign countries. My personal observ ations are that the answer to this debate is in the numbers. In countries such a s Mexico, most countries in Central and South America, the Philippines, and cert ain other countries the pool of decent women is much larger than in the US. In t he US, less than 1% of young women are decent by comparison. America is a man-ha ting culture where you never hear any woman denounce the hatred of Misandry/Femi nism. It s been my observation that in the foreign countries that I ve mentioned, ab out 25% of the women are of similar character to American/Western women. In the foreign countries that I ve mentioned, about 65% of the women are noticeably bette r than American women. Even if you date this 65% of foreign women in their count ry, without them be poisoned by Misandry/Feminism, you will feel like a king, ju st because you won t constantly be treated with hostility. At least 10% of foreign women are so great, that you will not believe it unless you experience it first hand They will in fact denounce the hatred of Misandry/Feminism. My point is tha

t foreign countries offer a substantial pool of decent women, America does not. A pool of decent women does not guarantee success. However, dating American wome n does almost certainly guarantee eventual misery. My personal observations have been that about 80%-90% of all men that I know of who married foreign women (that they met in a foreign countries that I mentioned , not in the US) report being very happy. Conversely, of the thousands of men th at I ve known in my life who ve married American women, less than 5% report being ha ppy. When I was a very young man, I thought that all of my friends, guys that I worked with, guys that went to church with, etcetera guys everywhere were all par t of some big conspiracy to scare single guys. After several years of horror sto ries from friends who confided in me about how miserable they were being married to American women, and my own personal experiences dating American women, I rea lized that they were telling the truth. After all, guys like to brag about how m uch sex they are getting and how well their girl friend or wife treats them. Guy s do not like to brag about getting no sex and being treated badly. They complain about that to other guys, because telling their wife makes things worse, and the y have to tell somebody to keep from going in sane. Misandrists/Feminists will tell you men who date and marry foreign women are wea klings and losers who are looking for submissive women because they can t deal wit h strong women. In reality, it takes a lot of strength and courage to swim again st the current, take the unconventional path, learn about foreign cultures, and travel the world for true love, and many men are finding it worth the effort. Misandrists/Feminists will tell you that most foreign women are gold-diggers. Fa ct is that many of the most successful men are dating and marrying foreign women , and finding that those gold-digger accusations are false. Fact is that foreign women are much more willing to reciprocate than American/Western women and reci procating is inconsistent with being a gold-digger. Misandrists/Feminists will tell you that most foreign women that marry American/ Western men are poor, uneducated women who don t know any better . Fact is that the m ajority are profession women with college degrees. The divorce rate of American men who marry foreign women and bring them to the US is 20% compared with a 60% divorce rate for American men who marry American women. The divorce rate of Amer ican men who marry foreign women and move to her country is near 0%. All of the above characterizations by Misandrists/Feminists of foreign women who marry Amer ican/Western men are bigoted, hateful, and untrue. Misandrists/Feminists simply hate foreign women because American/Western women can t compete. Courtesy: http://ihatewhitewomen.blogspot.com/2009/10/american-women-cant-compe te-with.html More men explain why they are sick and tired of American women Here are some more comments from various American men about how they are so tire d and disgusted with American women: Why are American women so promiscuous? America loves to talk about her values, b ut in reality America is a deceitful slut, "Americans suffer from negative healt h effects brought on by their sexual conduct at a rate that is three times highe r than other economically advanced countries, according to a study published in Sexually Transmitted Infections." The average American female loses her virginit y at 15 years of age, and indulges in fornication with multiply sexually partner s before reaching her mid-20s. Why is this so? "According to a study featured in the Journal of Sex Research, various studies have shown that a majority of adol escents first engage in sexual intercourse before they graduate from high school ." America loves to talk about conservative Christians values. But in reality tr ue Christians values regarding sex is align to most American "Christians." The B

ible teaches people to be abstinence before marriage, yet to most American "Chri stians," casual sex is seen as the norm and is practice regulary by most women, and men. Why is this so? Why are American women such sluts? Have you ever heard of a place called the Middle East? People living in that reg ion of the world don't have sex with millions of people before getting married. American women are prostitutes compared to Middle Eastern women. Why do american men put up with american bitchy women? When he could get more re spect by going to a country like Brazil or Japan or parts of europe and find a w omen that would be a better wife and hotter with no kids then an american women? ? Way settle for single moms?? I just see guys stress out and tell me how americ an women are, then why put up with a fat loud mouth? American women do tend to b e much bitchier than women in other countries. So many of them strive to be shal low princesses like Paris Hilton here. Talk about a stupid role model. American girls will divorce you and sue you for everything you have, and leave y ou with nothing. American women are feminist assholes that do not know how to ta ke care of a man. They don t know how to cook good food. One reason why so many am ericans are fat, because the women are lousy cooks and don t know anything. I rece ntly married a woman from the Philippines. We been together for a long time. She is a wonderful wife, and her native food is very healthy. She dosen t need to die t in order to look beautiful, because her native food is sufficient. The only th ing American women know how to prepare is healthier burgers LOL. Too busy for an ything so they try to make fast food into something healthy, like convenience fo od. Sure, there are alot of nice looking American girls, but that dosen t turn me on at all. I can just look at a beautiful horse or a well-groomed cat, it is jus t the same LOL. But the Asian women, especially Eastern European are the best, v ery beautiful women, with the good attitude along with it. They make good wifes, they are family oriented, friendly, without that western attitiude crap you see from western women. Alot of guys are looking overseas for a companion because t hey are sick of the bullshit from american women. American women have snotty stu ck up attitudes, and that is enough to put a man in an early grave. My filipina wife treats me with dignity, respect, and also take care of me, and because of t hat I also do the same for her. Respect goes both ways. American women are femin ist pigs who thing men are scum of the earth. Well, you can only live up to thei r expectations, they think we are pigs, then we can only live up to their expect ation of us and act like pigs. You go to other country and meet other women, the y are so different from American women in all ways. Men, don t marry an american w oman. Don t do that to yourself. Keep your options open. Expand your horizons. Over the years people in foreign countries have complained about the attitude of American women. Now that I am overseas I notice this with the women. American w omen have such bad attitudes when it comes to dating. You give them all that you could and more. You put all you can into a relationship to make things better f or both of you. And yet these women are never satisfied. Another thing, why do w omen complain about men when they constantly date losers??? If the guy treated y ou like crap why did you date him in the first place???? And if he continued to treat you like crap, why didn't you just leave him??? A smart woman would never do something that dumb!!! A smart woman wouldn't blame every man on the planet f or their problems!!! A smart woman would date someone more decent! Are there a l ack of intelligent women in the US or something? Outside of the US, women tend t o be more down to earth and humble. You could actually talk to someone and not w orry about them giving you an attitude. Women actually say "thank you" or "oh I' m sorry" or "hi how are you", ect!!! These women also appreciate a good conversa tion and actually have manners. A WOMAN WITH MANNERS....IMAGINE THAT......YOU CO ULD ONLY FIND SOMETHING LIKE THAT OUT OF THE UNITED STATES!! Virgins are looked down upon in America. I know that from personal experience. M ost American women want men that have had sex with millions of women, yet the sa

me stupid women complains about men cheating on them. That's a stupid hooker's m entality. The truth is, most women in America getting married for the first time are not virgins. When women wed, most have had sex with millions of men, and th eir husband are getting leftover. The sounds like a slut to me! I agree American women are sluts.....look at all those women who are having prem arital sex and they are Church going women. So if the Church going women are hav ing out of wedlock births then you know the rest of the women are giving it up. If you ask me, you can't turn the average American women into a respectable huma n! My repulsion for a lot of American women is mainly because of their promiscuousn ess -- that is what I was saying in my first post. Before the average American w oman reaches the age of 25, she has had sex with multiply guys tons of times. No w, that is disgusting, and, yes, I m singling out American women because immigrant women aren t like this, from what I observe. Actually American chicks are sluts. I came to the US on a student visa and notic ed a big different over my country(Spain). Here, it seams parents dont give a sh 1t what their kids are doing or where they are. I had friends here in the us tha t lost their virginity as young a 11. Many american parents even have their youn g daughters/son's partners in their house like it's second nature. They even let them hang in their bedrooms. If I were to try to slip a foot into my girl's hou se her dad would kill me. In the US, my first girlfriend I had fully exposed her self to me after only a few days and we were having relations in less than a wee k. In spain, I had to ask for permission to even date my lady and didn't receive a kiss till a few months after dating. Courtesy: http://ihatewhitewomen.blogspot.com/2009/12/more-men-explain-why-they -are-sick-and.html PART 1- Why American men should marry foreign women and not American women Marrying an American woman is the dumbest thing a man could ever do. Save your m oney and marry an asian woman or a eastern European woman. You won't be disappoi nted. At least a foreign woman isn't going to divorce you as quickly and easily as an American woman, and most of them make great moms. Hell, most of them will cook for you and enjoy it, too. American women are pathetic. American women are easy to hate, they are stupid, ignorant, and arrogant and now they're even going broke. What's there to like about them? I say don't get married period. But if you must be a hardhead, I believe outsour cing is the best idea. Foreign women are comfortable in their femininity. As a m ale I am attracted to this. I believe that American women have priced themselves out of the marketplace. Too needy, too many headgames, too easy to divorce. Not many foreign men want American wives either. Plus nowadays you hear American wo men using terms like "starter husbands". Don't do it guys. What a crude women Am erican girls are. American men are considered the best husbands in the world. Th ey sure put up with more than most men in other countries do. That's why women f rom around the world try so hard to marry an American man. American women become very bitter divorcees. In a woman's mind, equality does not mean you are equal. It means that the woman always gets her selfish way. Actually, a growing number of American men are mar rying foreign brides, especially given the divorce epidemic in America. Many Ame rican men just no longer desire American women anymore. Do you know that most Am erican men now prefer foreign brides over American women? Hey ladies, I would ST RONGLY encourage you to consider lesbian relationships with each other because y ou know what, American men no longer find you desirable.

My wife will be 40 this year, and looks like she is 25. Why? Because she takes c are of herself. Eastern European women look good for their man. American women l ook good for the attention of OTHER men. They have to know that they are always wanted by someone else to make them feel better about themselves. And the ones t hat don't care get fat, and let themselves go. Then wonder why their man is star ting to look at other women. An eastern european woman doesn;t have to worry abo ut these things. She looks good, can cook good, is an excellent mother, and exce llent wife. And the best part, there is not one thread of jealousy in them. They don't need to be jealous. They know their man is not going anywhere. I think American women started going downhill after the mid-80s. Before that, th ey were okay. Maybe it has something to do with the rebellious pop culture that evolved during that time (I don't know for sure), but the end result of what the y have become is despicable. And now karmic law has kicked in and they are payin g the price for what they have become. What's so ironic is that so many of them have the nerve to bitch and complain when us guys go after prettier, better wome n. Go figure. American women can have all the "rights" in the world and it isn't going to help them find a good guy. You American woman are hard to sell because you are low quality and over-priced. Many foreign women are high quality and mu ch cheaper. I think you get my point. Yep, America let the American woman off the LEASH, some 35 years ago. And they r eally showed the world what they are capable of... lesbianism, up 250%... murders against children by their mother's, up 400%... Prison population increase of women, up 100% since 1975,increased at a faster ra te than the number of male inmates. Yes, American girls, you really showed the world what your capable of when left to your own devices. lmao.. american woman are so much dangerous now. careful fo lks! The fact that american women don't want to fold socks is evidence that they suck . Think about it. Why should I be with you if I still gotta do it. I gotta pay t he mortgage AND do my own laundry? Eff that. Rather have a chick from the pueblo s of Mexico that is hot, young, nice, cleans, and will actually take a pan from the cupboard and are you ready for this? She will put edible objects inside and get this! She will turn on the flame and COOK THEM SO THAT HER MAN MAY CONSUME T HEM. A very bizare concept to the American woman yes I know. We all know how an American woman will play with your emotions, and will use it to her advantage. After she does everything she can get a man into a rage, she w ill call the cops and tell them that she fears for her life. The man will go to jail, and the woman sits at home, smiling because she won. Then if a divorce is involved, she will rape you for everything you have, financially and mentally, f or the rest of your life. Then will use your need to see the kids as a weapon. N o wonder men go elsewhere to find a woman. Actually American men marry foreign women because they are more "accomodating" t o men's needs, they tend to be more "forgiving" of men's mistakes AND they are l ess likely to divorce their husbands at the drop of a hat. Given our numerous op tions we just don't find American women desirable anymore. As you are aware, the anti- American women sentiment among men runs very very deep in this country I mean, just look at the countless number of foreign bride and anti-American wom en websites in the internet, and not to mention the numerous anti-American women threads on Topix. Hon, in this day and age, we American men just don't want you gals anymore. There is no hate among American men here - it's just that we don'

t find American women desirable anymore and instead, we prefer foreign brides. W hy do American women acti so angry and scornful? Don't men have the right to say who they find desirable and who they choose to marry?? I don't understand why A merican women are all up in arms over this discussion - it seems to me that many of you American gals have rather low self-esteem. Courtesy: http://ihatewhitewomen.blogspot.com/2009/12/part-1-why-american-men-s hould-marry.html PART 2- Why American men should marry foreign women and not American women American men fall in love with the women not the nationality. Yes yes. And Ameri can women demand much while giving little back in return (cooking, cleaning, bei ng hot,not nagging), have emotional baggage, are over priced, and are generally bitchy. So why would we fall in love with that? When they are nice, we love them no matter what nationality- no doubt about that -but right now, at this point i n time, it aint American women. That is why men should live without women. Let h er take care of herself since you will have to cook and clean for YOURself anywa y. Makes sense to me. To those women who wish to be sexually emancipated and tre ated just like "one of the fellas" I say, more power to you, enjoy yourselves, b ut don't expect an intelligent, refined gentleman to consider you marriage mater ial... I'm pretty sure most american men don't want a slave. With the divorce rate so h igh, most men are doing it all for themselves anyway. You can ride through my ne ighborhood, and the men are either working in their yards, or working in their s hops repairing things. They cook and clean for themselves, and some are single f athers with kids. The problem is, women DO NOT want a good man. To them a good m an just is not attractive. The bad boys seem to get all the action. A GOOD man w ill catch his wife banging his best friend. A GOOD man is weak in a womans eyes. An asshole gets all the ass, while a good man........ well, he just gets f##ked . You know I gotta say, a lot of American women really suck. Not all of them do, b ut a lot. They just go crazy with the whole stupid feminist bullsh*t, trying to prove they are just as manly as men, trying to take control of the relationship. Women aren't men, stop trying to act like it, it pisses us off! The more and mo re women try to take control, the higher the divorce rates get. Think that's a c oincidence? The nice thing about foreign women is that they are far more respect ful of the man's place in a relationship. Many American women have no respect fo r men, and for that reason they suck. Learning by the observation of others works like a charm. I have seen this patte rn of American women using men, and the courts facilitating it since the early 1 980's. It's all about need versus desire. Do I desire women, Yessiree. Do I need one to fulfill my life, Hell NO. You don't need to stick you're hand in the rat tlesnake pit to know that you WILL be bitten. I've seen too many of my friends w orking their asses off to pay alimony and child support. And I ask each one of t hem if they would have done anything differently. The answer is almost always "D on't get tangled-up with any of these american female monsters!!" I'm single and happy to have never made that mistake. American Women want to cut the balls off a guy. Want to spend our money but not theirs that belongs to them. Sit around bashing each other and complaining what a s.o.b. they deal with. Want us to just say yes dear and work ourselves into a early grave. Guess what women from other coutries have been raised to help their spouses and to be a asset to their marriage. Not some overindulged spoiled litt le princess who will call Daddy everytime she doesn't get her way. Many American women do not pay any respect to men, even the one's who deserve it. I respect w omen as people, but I don't like it when they don't pay us proper respect. That

is a growing problem with American women. The vast majority of American women suck. A general statement because it is gene rally true. No mystery to that. So I say just eff them. Hell they're so sexually liberated now so why not take advantage of it. I'ts not like you're abusing the m, or giving them the raw end of the deal. They WANT to get boned and thats what us guys are here for. No harm no foul. Just don't marry one. If American women are so great why aren't men from all over the world wanting to marry them like foreign women do with American men? Face it, the only men that can put up with your shit are American men and even we are getting tired of it. Serioulsy, where is this great demand for American women? It's just not there. Y ou crazy American broads can yell and scream about how all these women just want us for green cards, but what it comes down to is numbers. Lot's of foreign wome n want to get with American men while the deamand for American women is very sma ll when compared to that for American men. Again there is very little demand for American women outside of the USA. Make of it what you will but it is the truth . The fact that there are desirable men out there dating foreign women should sc are the crap out of American women. Which is probably why this issue brings out such intense emotions in them. I would say most guys that have the means to trav el are almost always happier with dating overseas than here. It's like prison fo od, if thats all you know it probably starts to not taste that bad, but once you are out and get a taste of a good steak you never want to go back to what you w ere eating in prison. How many websites sole purpose is so foreign men can meet American women? Not many. Lot's of websites where foreign women are looking for American men though. American women have a horrible reputation throughout world, way worse than that of American men. If you want to get in a deabte about who i s considered more desirable to the outside world American men or American women I will have that debate with you. I have dated both American women and the native Russian (and Asian women) overse as and I believe that these foreign women are much more accomodating and attune to men's needs and they would definately make superior partners. It seems to me that an increasing number of American men are "side-stepping" American feminist women and instead, they are dating or marrying foreign women. Now for the first time in the U.S. history, EVER, more than half of the American women remain unma rried and can not even find their partner. So for any of you single ladies over 40 years old who are still hoping to find that special MAN in your future, I say keep on dreaming, baby! Frankly, I wouldn't even touch these old spinsters with a 10 foot pole! LOL! Courtesy: http://ihatewhitewomen.blogspot.com/2010/01/part-2-why-american-men-s hould-marry.html PART 3- Why American men should marry foreign women and not American women American women say they welcome the competition but lets be a little bit more ho nest shall we, you can't compete. Plain and simple. Oh yes I know you are a stro ng independent woman with a mind of her own, but let's try and be a bit more hon est shall we? If we weren't so isolated from the rest of the world over here in America and you really had to compete you would lose. Of course I'm guessing you are single now, so it really wouldn't be any different would it? The fact the y ou're another crackpot feminist who thinks American women are desired throughout the world? You can't show me any stats or any proof that foreign men are lookin g to marry or date American women. So I'm sure while in your mind you are highly desired wherever you go, it's probably more your pychosis then it is that you a re wanted and respected in these countries. If American women could compete they wouldn't need all these laws protecting them. You are right. While there are THOUSANDS of international dating sites that help

to match AMERICAN MEN with FOREIGN WOMEN, I haven't found a single site that ma tches american women with foreign men. Apparently, there is NO demand for Americ an women among the men around the world. Even in the U.S., this demand for Ameri can women (except for very young, attractive ones) are continually declining, wh ile the demand for foreign brides has literally exploded over the years. The wor d is out ladies, many American men are now saying "I want a foreign woman, not a n American woman!". The point is Tiger Woods chose a beautiful Sweedish model over an American woman . He could have had his choice of any woman in the world, why not choose an Amer ican woman like yourself? Probably because most of you are a bunch of delusional , angry, pychos would be my guess? American men are side stepping American women ? More like running these days:) This is the attitude of an american woman. My b est friend has been married for 26 years to the same woman. He took care of her, bought a house, bought her cars, etc etc etc. Last year he got hurt on the job, and gets disability. This ball busting, scum sucking bitch starts complaining t o him about not having enough money, and left him. I am married a great belarusi an, and he wanted the same. I introduced him to one of my wife's old friends in Belarus. They hit it off right away, and are doing real good. His words, I have heard from so many men. "I will never, ever marry an american woman again". I sa id these same words. Thousands of American men are learning how manipulative, an d evil an american woman can be, and are just damn sick of it. At the rate it is going the American woman will live alone, while every American men will be happ ily married. In the next 20 years years single men will have ass galore. The problem is most American women have had Daddy call them princess and given t hem everything they can afford to give. Todays American women wiggle around play ing the temptress and vamp. Thinking becuase they have a vagina men owe them som ething. American women just accept the ho hum approach to housekeeping and child rearing . Don't want to cook and gossip about their husband with their female friends and just bad mouth him for never being enough. Foreign born women are greatful to fi nd a man to love them to fulfill their dreams of being a good wife,lover, and mo ther. American women want to rule the roost and just be petty and vindictive and let's face it a femi nazi. Foreign born women are exotic and beautiful and want to fulfill their every dream to become a mother,a wife and a lover otherwise a sucess to herself and her family. Sorry American Women but your losing the battl e of the sexes. There is a reason why American women get so angry anytime the subject of Asian w omen marrying and dating American men is brought up. These women are crazy for w hite guys, and there are many happy, normal relationships between American men a nd Asian women. Men don't want an American woman on top of them. The sheer mass would break most men's bones. All the stupid tv shows where American women are s hown as the brightest, most beautiful, and toughest women on earth. The rest of the world knows this is false, and the only ones who buy into it are the idiotic American women living here in the States. I know it pisses off American women t hat most of the world sees you and the rest of your clan as a bunch of selfish, narcissists, but the quicker you can accept this as fact, and that they really d on't you see as intelligent, strong women, the closer you will be to living in r eality, and not this fantasy land where you are a desired, beautiful, tough woma n. And you ladies spend to much time watching Oprah and reading magazines like R edbook that only tell you what you want to hear, and how "special" and "great" y ou are. I have no idea what statistics you are talking about that prove that Ame rican women are these shining lights of beacon to the world, but I'm guessing yo u probably heard it on the View or some other daytime talk show that caters to A merican women and their narcissism.

American women are like spoiled children. They are self-focused, insecure and ir rational. They crave drama and games. They demand constant attention, reassuranc e, and above all, power in relationships. And, like children, who ceaselessly pu sh limits to see just how much they can get away with from their parents, Americ an women relentlessly test men. Go to any Asian country and you will see the dif ference between the American women's dating life and American men's dating life. It pisses you off that WHITE AMERICAN MEN are wanted by asian women so you come up with every excuse in the book. "They can't get quality American women," "the y just want the green card," "my gf told me this was so." It's obvious that you can't handle that asian women are attracted to WHITE MEN and this pisses you off to no end. On the other hand, many American/Western women living in Asia are si ngle, can't get a date, can't find a man, and are totally miserable. I have no i dea how many of the Forbes 500 are married to American women. But I can guarante e you that very few foreign billionaries, and other men throughtout the world wh o have money want to, or are married to American women. If you compare wealthy A merican men who are married to foreign brides, to the rest of the men in the ent ire world who have wealth and are married to American women, you will finally re alise that no foreign man, rich or not, wants to end up with a nightmare like an American woman. There is and never will be any great demand by men outside of t he U.S. to marry or have anything other than easy sex with American broads. No o ne wants you, and the only reason you are able to get laid here is because men h ave no choice but to sleep with women like yourself. It's basically skanky, sort of skanky, bitchy, angry, or really skanky. What a choice we have. American women are sad because they don't want a family a husband or a home. The y want to be on their own and alone. Yes they want to live a modern life. Play g ames and use men for their money and what they can have. But when the man expect s anything from them it is no way Jose for them. The femi nazi's have told women behave like a man to get a man. Most single women want a guy they can push arou nd and then say there are no real men out there. They want their men to nothing more then a fluffed up poodle being carried around in their handbag. Women will start a fight with another guy and expect the boyfriend to stand up for them. So Now you know why men are not marrying American women. They are spoiled self cen tered little witches who love nothing more to cause trouble. Now all you single women know why a guy dates you and after a couple of weeks dumps you. It is beca use you are shallow,sad and just a plain old b!tch who thinks your julia roberts but in reality your like Roseann Barr white trailer park trash. That is why you are sad,jaded, and bitter towards every single man you meet. You sit at home ea ting gallons of ice cream with whip cream and tears streaming down you face in t he candlelight reading your romance novels. But remember those guys aren't real just like your expectations of men. That is why your alone. Courtesy: http://ihatewhitewomen.blogspot.com/2010/01/part-3-why-american-men-s hould-marry.html PART 4- Why American men should marry foreign women and not American women Rarely do wealthy men outside of the USA look to marry or date American women. Q uite often these days wealthy American men are looking to date overseas. So, I'm not sure how you figure American women have more options. You are confined to t he States, and your chances of ever snagging a wealthy European I would put at a bout 0.0000000000001%. Survial of the fittest? Women have become experts at filing discrimination lawsu its in this country. Most disputes between women and men are now settled in a co urt of law that favors women. I would hardly call that survival of the fittest. Women need the American government to set up laws that favor them. So anytime th ey feel they have been wronged they can just run to big daddy, and more times th an not they end up the winner. Hardly survival of the fittest.

Here are the facts: 1. A U.S. Green Card is valued by at least some foreigners. 2. There are MANY THOUSANDS of websites matching American men with foreign women . 3. Despite the value of a Green Card, there are NO sites matching American women with foreign men. Conclusion: 1. There are ENORMOUS desire/demand for American men from foreign women. 2. There is NO desire or demand for American women from foreign men (shame on yo u, ladies!). 3. It is likely that foreign people perceive American men to be BETTER than Amer ican women. To the feminist, the American woman is highly sought after while the American ma n is only wanted for his money. Or he is just a walking green card. This line of thinking is so played out and false that it's not even worth talking about anym ore. Have fun living in your little world where all the men on this planet desir e you, and us men are seen as nothing but a way to a better life. Whatever gets you through the day ladies. Of course most of the women I have met in Asia had n o desire to leave their familes and come take up your way of life. So yeah, you are wrong, but then most American women have no concept of family, marriage, or anything other than what the ladies on the View have to say about evil men and t heir foreign brides. There is no demand for American women outside of this count ry. Lot's of demand for American men though. I think all those drugs you have ta ken for your various STDs are starting to have an affect on the brains of the id iotic American women. American women are known for being easy to get in the sack. And when they are tr aveling, forget about it. It's like shooting fish in a barrel for foreign guys. So I wouldn't equate American women being easy, with guys in Europe finding them attractive. It's usually just a case of you putting it out there and them enjoy ing an easy lay. I doubt much of it has to do with them holding American women i n high regard. 1 in 4 teenage girls in America now has an STD. Well, at least we are number 1 in something. Angry bitter American women can't handle the fact that not only American men, bu t most of the men in the world see their type as nothing but bitchy, arrogant, s elfish, and not worth the time of day. Men throughout the world have a negative view of American women and the only ones who can't accept this as fact happen to be American women. Again, I know you can't and probably never will understand t hat the world we live in does not see American women as anything but vile creatu res, but I would suggest you leave your little bubble and try and see what peopl e are really saying about the women in this country. The last place a man should look for a soulmate is here in America. So yes, while I desire a soulmate I hav e no interest in arrogant, bat shit crazy American women. I have read plenty on the different cultures I have visited and enjoy traveling. China and Japan are f ar from third world countries and I have met women here who are educated, smart, and some of them happen to be quite attractive. Men from developed countries in fact do not have any interest in American women, unless these women are travelin g in their country and they want an easy score. Even when the men from these cou ntries you are thinking about are interested in meeting women outside of their l and rarely is it ever to come over here and meet American women. These cultured

worldly men that you think have such an interest in American women, in reality h ave no interest in the American female, and tend to spend their time in third wo rld countries when they travel to meet women outside of their own country. So in reality they are just like the men you despise over here. Strange isn't it? American women get angry over the fact that a lot men in this country are tired of them and are looking elsewhere. So-called strong and independent women like t hem get angry over this, because they know deep down they can't compete with for eign women. If the majority of men in this country had the choice or the means t o look elsewhere, believe me they would. And so you American gals need to releas e your anger and biterness over this fact. You do realise the obsity rate is hig her for women than it is for men in this country, right? Yeah, foreign men are j ust dying to get with women who resemble Jabba the Hut. They find the cellulite all over your thighs and ass sexy. And they thinks it's hot how so many of you d esperately need lipo. Oh, and don't even get them started on your Burger Kings d iets. That really gets them going. Besides, if American women really could handle competition, they would repeal IM BRA. IMBRA prevents American men from marrying foreign women. It was created by jealous feminists when they discovered American men were rejecting them. Thus, I MBRA was created, under the false ideas of "protection" and "abuse prevention," gaining support using falsified information and misleading testimony, and passed with no debate, no questions answered and no violence statistics presented comp aring violence rates. Senator Maria Cantwell in particular, claimed that interna tional dating sites were involved in human trafficking of women to the United st ates (The department of justice had actually found no correlation at all).In rea lity, these laws make room for more violence against women and makes it easier f or the green-card scammers to succeed. IMBRA is responsible for ruining 10,000 m arriages due to "indefinite delays," many of which were between VETERANS and for eign women they met over seas. Veterans risked (and plenty of them lost) their l ives fighting so we could live the lives we live today. Given all they've done, having feminazis deny them their right to marry foreign women seems like a prett y poor way to repay them, and proves how spoiled and ungrateful feminists truly are. But their refusal to give men repeal IMBRA just proves that they cannot com pete foreign women, and have no intention of improving themselves to do so. The wealthy men in this country who have foreign brides, compared to the number of wealthy foreigners who are married to American women is a number that should tell you all need to know about how desirable foreign men consider you. Marrying an American woman is the biggest mistake one can make. They are like maintainin g a white elephant. They are most likely to ditch you in old age. Why do America n women talk through their noses? You know, that horrible whiney nasal delivery that so many American females affect. Personally I find it so grating and unplea sant that I often have to turn off newscasts and videos as I can't stand listeni ng to it. Listen to a German woman or a Japanese woman or to any other kind of w oman talking. They speak normally from the mouth and throat. But from the nose? Yech! Courtesy: http://ihatewhitewomen.blogspot.com/2010/01/part-4-why-american-men-s hould-marry.html Only marry foreign women. "Now you understand why US men prefer foreign born women: THEY TREAT US BETTER, RESPECT US, APPRECIATE THAT AFFECTION WE SHOW THEM, AND ACKNOWLEDGE OUR EFFORTS TO PROVIDE A BETTER LIFE." A huge percentage of American women are selfish, flighty, insecure, needy and ps ychotic, and quite capable of concealing those traits during the dating phase

White 'career' American chicks are the bottom of the barrel marriage-wise. Foreign women from South America, Eastern Europe, and Asia are at the top. Only guys who travel (in other words, guys who are successful and ambitious enough to travel a lot) find these. But they never, ever go back. Foreign-born women living in the US are the next best. They get married early... they are highly sought-after by American guys for their wifely skills (hell, any women who has ANY ability to be a wife is better than your average American chi ck, who knows NOTHING about being a wife) Bottom of the barrel---white American chicks. Yecch. Here's a story: I knew a guy who was Hungarian (parents emigrated) who tried for 15 years to find a half-decent women to marry. He's a doctor, by the way. Final ly after 8 psycho-weirdo US chicks, he went back to the 'old country' to find a wife. The people there were lining the women up for him to meet...he's a rich Am erican guy...they are considered the best husbands in the world. He found this lovely wife. She is a total gem, and he's happy as hell. 2 kids. H appily ever after. I will go one step further and differentiate between Western women vs. non-Weste rn women. This is not just an American phenomenon, most women in Western countri es have that cold, bitchy, superficial, stuck up attitude. A lot of Western wome n hold themselves as the pure center of the relationship. If the men don't fit a rigid and unrealistic criteria or she doesn't feel the man can take care of her enough (even if she has a higher paying job) then she will drop him like a hot potato, regardless of his character or commitment to the relationship. Popular Myth: Western men looking for foreign wives are only seeking subservient slaves. Truth: Most Western men today are evolved and modern and truly believe in the 50 /50 system. Most Western men are dismayed by the lack of sincerity of Western wo men. I can do my own laundry and cooking thank you! Yes, Latin American and Eastern European women do make better mates because both come from more conservative and family oriented cultures where relationships an d commitment are actually revered. I was absolutely blown away by the quality of women on my trip to eastern Europe . Classy, cultured, traditional values, how could you ask for more? One year with my Japanese girlfriend So far... -No fights. -Great sex every night. -She cooks a delicious meal every night (unless I take her out). -No guilt trips for going out with the guys. -Thin and absolutely beautiful. Think I've finally found myself a keeper. One thing's for sure; I'll never go da te an American girl again.

Latin American women seem to make decent wives. My friend married a hot girl fro m Venezuela. Sweet, beautiful, cooks, cleans, and is the perfect wife. Like how American women were in the 1950s America. As I said, it's a competitive marketplace. We're not looking to marry other men. The real world is not about what is fair, but what you can get. American men have options. American women do not. So the American women huff and puff, and scowl at the incoming foreign brides who don't demand the feminazi eq uality bullshit. You WISH American men didn't have choices. You're like a labor union that's pissed off because the company is hiring non-union employees. Honestly I wish I could have found an American wife with all the qualities of my foreign wife. I could not, because they do not exist. Here is a partial list of her loveliness 1: Sensible and good with money. 2: Genuine commitment. 3: Very family oriented. 4: She enjoys housework. 5: Hard working. 6: She does not have to diet to look great Foreign women are comfortable in their femininity. As a male I am attracted to t his. And I love her with all my heart. I believe that American women have priced themselves out of the marketplace. Too needy, too many headgames, too easy to divorce. Not many foreign men want American wives either. American women.. - highest maintenance (I've never heard of a foreign bride demanding her husband buy expensive house & cars) - fattest in the world - most likely to cheat - highest rate of divorce (60% - US-US marriages; 20% - US-foreign marriages) - largest payout in divorce court (you'll be ass-raped for everything you earned , plus most of what you will earn for years to come) - bitchiest - most likely to nag constantly - most likely to believe in feminism and "equality" - most likely to hate men - spend least amount of time with her children

- worst at cooking and cleaning - fucked & chucked by tons of guys before tricking you into marriage 3 reasons to marry an American woman 1. You actually believe BBW = big BEAUTIFUL wife. 2. You believe nagging is essential for personal growth. 3. You really look forward to the day your BBW wife divorces you and you gladly fork over 50% over your hard earned assets, plus child support and alimony (a la rd ass bitch for sure is not going to have a good job). Then after that you have to figure out how to live on 20% of your income. Every foreign girl I've met was superior in every conceivable way to any other g irl I've known, from attractiveness to personality. I have a foreign Latino girl and she blows away American women. This web site ar e 100% true; I can speak from experience of living with my girl for a month. I c ould never go back to American trash women. I also use to think web sites like t hat were stupid until I had the experience for myself. It has changed my life fo r the better, made me look at American women in a different light. I wouldn't even consider dating an American women, the majority are bitchy prude s that only put out when they think they can cash in. I for one will never spend a huge amount of money of some stupid bitch just to get laid. Mexican and Asian women are a much better choice and they look better than American chics too. After many many years of dealing with American women, I've hit an interesting po int. I've lost ALL sexual interest in them, in fact I just about puke walking do wn the sidewalk on any day, seeing all those shitty, rude, mean, snotty American women. Strange thing, cause for so long I've been quite a horndog, chasing women at all levels. I'm still totally attracted to foreign women...Indians, Orientals, Euro peans. But show me an American chick and I basically couldn't care less. Tell me how "b eautiful" she is...doesn't matter. I suppose from an intellectual viewpoint I ca n see the beauty, but it's not any more attractive to me than...let's say...admi ring a beautiful horse or a well-groomed cat. OK, admirable, but not sexy folks. They say that sex is 90% mental...well, my mind has rejected American women comp letely. Since I've been traveling overseas I have met many nice Japanese, Russian, and S panish women. I can tell you this....the women are so much better. I want a lady that, when I get home from work, would rather kiss me than scream at me for som e trivial reason like I didn't mow the lawn. I can do without the nagging thanks . To all my fellow American men... American women are easily replaceable...go As ian, or Russian, even European (except British, Italian, and French women) and y ou can't go wrong. Experience is the best teacher. I can not date white American women anymore. I was in the navy and I have seen t he light. Women from other countries just look better and treat you better too! I didn't pay for shit when I was overseas and I pay up the wazoo here. Any ratio nal person can figure it out from here.

American women are high-maintenance primadonnas with attitudes. I'd take a forei gn born Russian or Latina woman any day. They are much nicer and normally MUCH S MARTER than most American women - plus they don't watch Rosie and Ricci Lake - t hey go to the library or perform outside activities. Dating or being married to an American woman is like driving a beat-up Ford Esco rt. If you are only used to driving a beat-up Ford Escort, then you have no idea what it feels like when you drive a Bentley or Ferrari. You need to at least te st-drive a Ferrari, so you'll have a reference point on what a real car feels li ke. Courtesy: http://www.nomarriage.com/why_foreign_women_are_better.html Stay away, American Woman, say British men Thursday, September 5, 2002 - Page updated at 12:00 AM We always bring you the news that matters. The news this time is that in the late summer heat in England, pretty much every newspaper and media outlet has covered the British Guys versus North American W omen controversy. Now, I need to warn you in advance that today's column will be about sex, relati onships, what guys want, what women want, and so if you wanted a discussion of m ass-transit issues, go elsewhere. Recent headlines in London have included this kind of thing: "The tragic ineptitude of the English male." (The Spectator). "British men appear scared to ask me out, says Paltrow." (The Daily Telegraph qu oting actress Gwyneth Paltrow in London to do a play.) "What's up with U.S. women?" (The Guardian). At the George & Dragon Pub in Fremont, you can always find some British single g uys, now living in Seattle because they wanted to try someplace different or bec ause they had read about the high-tech opportunities here in Microsoftland (ha-h a). This week I found a couple of Brits and read them excerpts of what started the c ontroversy. They politely listened about their alleged failings. I explained that it started with a Canadian writer, Leah McLaren, who lived in L ondon for a few months. She wrote in The Spectator that her American female room mate told her: "The first thing you should know about English men is that what t hey secretly want most in the world is to be with other English men." McLaren said that after a dozen dates, she concluded the "modern English male kn ows little to nothing about courtship, and what he does know frightens him." She then sent out this blast: "a) Many went to boarding school at an early age, thus forfeiting essential affe ction from their mothers, leaving them all but incapable of intimacy with women. "b) Many drink too much, leaving them all but incapable of intimacy with women. "c) They are repressed homosexuals.

"d) They simply don't like women." Needless to say, reserved and polite as they may be, British guys didn't take to o kindly to that assessment. Then, Gwyneth Paltrow, the skinny, glacial 29-year-old actress, was quoted about her experiences in London. She said she was asked out for dates only a couple o f times. She said, "If someone asks you out they're really going out on a limb, whereas i n America it happens all the time. ... Yet in Britain, mostly what happens seems to be that people meet at work. If there's a little something there, then they hang out together and, all of a sudden, they're boyfriend and girlfriend." (Alth ough now, given all the London news stories, Paltrow is adding, "I happen to ado re British men and I adore Britain.") Steve Sheldon, 26, who grew up in Birmingham and came to America 2- years ago to work in computers, graciously listened to this itemization of the British male's faults as we sat in the pub. Then I read to him excerpts of what his male countrymen who had lived in the U.S . had to say about American women. One came from James Brown, 36, a London magazine editor: "American Women. You can only spend so long with one before you crack. They're o ut there, they're loud, they're bitter and they're kooky. After a while all the things that attracted you to them: confidence, conversation, nice teeth, begin t o bug you. You think you've got Black Beauty and you end up with Mr. Ed." And so Steve tells me that, well, yes, he had a bit of getting used to in the Am erican dating scene. It's not that he hasn't found love in the U.S. of A. It's been a little over a w eek since he really fell for Vicki Milby, 22, who is 100 percent American. Anyway, Steve says that he had to e the right to date a whole bunch n England. There, when you really on't say "women," they talk about f a dozen others. get used to knowing that American women reserv of guys at the same time. It's not like that i like a girl (and pardon me, but English guys d dating a girl), then you don't go out with hal

And something else. That first date with an American girl, it's like it's suppos ed to be a big-time dinner, instead of just going to a pub with friends. So you end up dropping like $90 while she's doing her checklist. I talk to Vicki, and bit too much. "They Vicki also tells me at sexy accent," she she tells me she thinks American women can come across as a want to be equal so much it can be overpowering," she says. one thing that Brit guys have going for them: "They have th says. "That definitely helps."

Then there is Martin, 42, who grew up in Bristol. He's been in the U.S. for thre e years and is six months out of a divorce. He'd rather not have his last name i n the paper, what with his ex still around and all that. I read Martin what his countrymen say about American women, and he totally agree s. (He also has found that a British accent is a fantastic woman magnet here.) But that American Woman! Mama, let me be!

One of the first questions is always: "What car do I drive?" Martin says. "If I have the latest BMW or drive a Chevy, does it make a difference? And they want t o know what apartment you live in. Do you live in Bellevue, because if you tell them you live in Everett, they don't want to know you." Here is a final comment in the Daily Mail from Oliver Bennett, 43, remembering a dinner-date with an American woman: "It was like being with a nasty bank manager, rather than someone with whom you hope to sleep. ... American girls are possibly the most wound-up people on the p lanet. They don't believe in laughing: Instead, they would go to 'laugh class' t o find out how, then solemnly say it had changed their life." Well, there you are. American woman, what have you got to say? Erik Lacitis: 206-464-2237 or elacitis@seattletimes.com. Courtesy: http://community.seattletimes.nwsource.com/archive/?date=20020905&slu g=erik05

It seems th at fewer and fewer people in general are getting married these days, and even fe wer men seem interested. Men no longer see marriage as being as important as the y did even 15 years ago. "According to Pew Research Center, the share of women a ges eighteen to thirty-four that say having a successful marriage is one of the most important things in their lives rose nine percentage points since 1997--fro m 28 percent to 37%. For men, the opposite occurred. The share voicing this opin ion dropped, from 35 percent to 29 percent." Why? In the course of researching my new book, Men On Strike: Why Men Are Boycotting Marriage, Fatherhood, and the American Dream - And Why It Matters, I talked with men all over America about why they're avoiding marriage. It turns out that the problem isn't that men are immature, or lazy. Instead, they're responding ratio nally to the incentives in today's society. Here are some of the answers I found . 1. You'll lose respect. A couple of generations ago, a man wasn't considered ful ly adult until he was married with kids. But today, fathers are figures of fun m ore than figures of respect: The schlubby guy with the flowered diaper bag at th e mall, or one of the endless array of buffoonish TV dads in sitcoms and commerc ials. In today's culture, father never knows best. It's no better in the news me dia. As communications professor James Macnamara reports, "by volume, 69 percent of mass media reporting and commentary on men was unfavorable, compared with ju st 12 percent favorable and 19 percent neutral or balanced." 2. You'll lose out on sex. Married men have more sex than single men, on average - but much less than men who are cohabiting with their partners outside of marr iage, especially as time goes on. Research even suggests that married women are more likely to gain weight than women who are cohabiting without marriage. A Men 's Health article mentioned one study that followed 2,737 people for six years a nd found that cohabiters said they were happier and more confident than married couples and singles. 3. You'll lose friends. "Those wedding bells are breaking up that old gang of mi ne." That's an old song, but it's true. When married, men's ties with friends fr

om school and work tend to fade. Although both men and women lose friends after marriage, it tends to affect men's self-esteem more, perhaps because men tend to be less social in general. 4. You'll lose space. We hear a lot about men retreating to their "man caves," b ut why do they retreat? Because they've lost the battle for the rest of the hous e. The Art of Manliness blog mourns "The Decline of Male Space," and notes that the development of suburban lifestyles, intended to bring the family together, r esulted in the elimination of male spaces in the main part of the house, and the exile of men to attics, garages, basements - the least desirable part of the ho me. As a commenter to the post observes: "There was no sadder scene to a movie t han in 'Juno' when married guy Jason Bateman realized that in his entire huge, h ouse, he had only a large closet to keep all the stuff he loved in. That hit me like a punch in the face." 5. You could lose your kids, and your money. And they may not even be your kids. Lots of men I spoke with were keenly aware of the dangers of divorce, and worri ed that if they were married and it went sour, the woman might take everything, including the kids. Other men were concerned that they might wind up paying chil d support for kids who aren't even theirs - a very real possibility in many stat es. On my blog, I polled over 3200 men to ask how they would react to finding ou t that a child wasn't theirs after all. 32 percent said they would feel "anger a nd fury at the mother," 6 percent said they would feel "depression," 18 percent said "anger and depression," 2 percent said "none of the above," 32 percent said "angry at the system that forced them to pay," and only 2 percent "didn't care. " One man commented that his ex-wife had taunted him with the knowledge that his 11-year old son wasn't actually his: "I was angry at the mother...I severed all ties to the boy. Some may see this as a failing. I see it as self-preservation, and to those that ask the question of whether or not the courts will make a non -biological parent pay child support, pay attention: YES THEY WILL! They see you as nothing more than a source of cash for the child. It seems that a person in these situations should be able to sue the real father for child support." 6. You'll lose in court. Men often complain that the family court legal system i s stacked against them, and in fact it seems to be. Women gain custody and child support the majority of the time, as pointed out in this ABC News article: "Des pite the increases in men seeking and receiving alimony, advocates warn against linking the trend to equality in the courtroom. Family court judges still tend t o favor women, said Ned Holstein, the founder of Fathers & Families, a group adv ocating family court reform. "'Family court still gives custody overwhelmingly t o mothers, child support overwhelmingly to mothers, and courts still give almony overwhelmingly to mothers and women,' he said. 'The family courts came into exi stence years ago in order to give things to mothers that mothers needed," he sai d. 'The times have changed and the courts have not.'" 7. You'll lose your freedom. At least, if you're charged with child support that you can't pay, you can be put in jail - and if you can't afford a lawyer, you d on't have the right to have one appointed because, according to the Supreme Cour t, it's technically a civil matter, never mind the jail time. Fathers and Famili es found that it's the men who are jailed rather than women: "A new report concl udes that between 95% and 98.5% of all incarcerations in Massachusetts sentenced from the Massachusetts Probate and Family Courts from 2001 through 2011 have be en men. Moreover, this percentage may be increasing, with an average of 94.5% fr om 2001 to 2008, and 96.2% from 2009 through 2011. It is likely that most of the se incarcerations are for incomplete payment of child support. Further analysis suggests that women who fail to pay all of their child support are incarcerated only one-eighth as often as men with similar violations." 8. Single life is better than ever. While the value of marriage to men has decli ned, the quality of single life has improved. Single men were once looked on wit

h suspicion, passed over for promotion for important jobs, which usually valued "stable family men," and often subjected to social opprobrium. It was hard to ha ve a love life that wasn't aimed at marriage, and premarital sex was risky and f rowned upon. Now, no one looks askance at the single lifestyle, dating is easy, and employers probably prefer employees with no conflicting family responsibilit ies. Plus, video games, cable TV, and the Internet provide entertainment that di dn't used to be available. Is this good for society? Probably not, as falling bi rth rates and increasing single-motherhood demonstrate. But people respond to in centives. If you want more men to marry, it needs to be a more attractive propos ition. Clarification: From author Helen Smith: "I talked only with heterosexual men abo ut marriage for the book. It did not include same-sex marriages. However the dyn amics of same -sex marriage would be a fascinating study for future research." - HuffPost Eds. Promoted Content by Taboola 1st andr oid? For optimum battery life... Get:Juice Defender Battery Notifier BT For App management: Advanced Task Killer AppMgr III App2SD Other useful apps: MX Player Opera Mini Pandora Flash Player 11 Fancy Widgets Google Voice Call End Tone Tiny Flashlight etc., etc. To CLOSE apps: From the home screen, tap the Recent Apps key. Tap and drag the desired application to the left or right to close. The application is now closed.