ASSALAAMUALAIKUM, Brothers and Sisters. Since its launch, the New Muslim Project has been under consistent structuring and development. As volunteers and helping hands continue to join our growing network, the project is currently working on developing four teams that help set the road map to reaching NMP goals. At the projects launch, the rst of these teams was the Buddy System. As one of the NMPs major goals is to provide guidance and encouragement to new Muslims, the Buddy System was developed as a support network available to reverts through their transition into Islam. Buddies take on the role of supporting reverts on a personal level by helping them with religious questions or basic needs, welcoming them into the community, and most importantly, giving them a friend through this change. Eager to begin the NMP campaign, the Media team was formed as the face of the project to reach out to Muslims and non-Muslims through various means of communication. Within this team, the New Muslim Projects social media presence boomed on our active Facebook page, and the newsletter was born presenting readers with articles that reect the NMPs vision and progress. We are now working hard to put together a professional New Muslim Project website completing our Internet presence. Our Resources and Dawah team has recently been launched, taking on the responsibility of maintaining and growing our ofces resources in terms of books, audio CDs, DVDs and more. Acting as our informational bridge to the public, this team hopes to provide presentations and lectures to all who are interested to learn more about Islam. Continued on next page The NMPs leader Sheikh Rafat (right) with NMP members and their families and friends at a tree-planting. Details and more photos on last page I s s u e
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2 0 1 3 IN THIS ISSUE Personal profile............2 Seeking Gods help......4 Repentance...................5 Significance of Ramadan.......................6 Useful organisations....7 NEW MUSLI M PROJECT NEWS NMP needs you! The New Muslim Project is looking for volunteers to help us grow. If you are interested to join one of our teams, let us know. Email us at info@newmuslimproject.co.nz Continued from previous page Still in the works is our Marketing and Fundraising team. This team will be responsible for community outreach to both Muslims and non-Muslims, explaining what we do, why we do it, and what we hope to achieve. Importantly, it will also help the project raise the necessary funds to continue growing in terms of resources, lectures, events and more. To help oil the NMP wheels, our Ofce Manager organises and coordinates with all teams, oversees the overall functionality of NMP events, planning, and progress, and most importantly, steers the project towards success. Also in the ofce is our Coordinator, Maryam, available to meet, greet and answer queries, as well as help with event planning, maintaining records and forming relationships with our growing network. With the New Muslim Projects one-year anniversary on the horizon, we are able to look back on our many accomplishments, lessons learned, and continuous progress. However, such milestones also remind us to look forward towards the goals we are constantly trying, God willing, to achieve. Sincerely, New Muslim Project Team 2 Personal profile The Quran and studies helped lead this young woman to Islam NMP welcomes all reverts with open arms and asks them to share their stories with others on the same path, as does this young woman (who wishes to remain anonymous) here.
BROUGHT UP in Germany, this Italian-born woman found herself surrounded by a Muslim community that was not well regarded by residents of the city. They were said to practise an extreme Islam based on cultural superstitions and beliefs rather than the spiritual. No wonder that when she fell in love with an Iranian man at the age of 17, her family reacted to keep them apart, even moving cities. Ive always been an active person, she explained. Im not quiet. So when I saw how badly the community reacted to these Muslims, and to now see my parents so against this man, I needed to know what this religion was about. I believe that everything and everyone has a good side and a bad side. I saw the bad side of Muslims but eventually that is what brought me to the good. To learn more about the religion that seemed to cause so much strife, she enrolled into a university course on Islamic Law back in Italy. I was so inspired by my lecturer. She was Italian and a non-Muslim but she was so knowledgeable and not opinionated. She delivered it so nicely and gave all the resources I needed to get answers about Islam. Whereas she had once been exposed to the evils of Islam, her eyes were now open to a different side that taught peace, compassion and beautiful values. Despite this progress, she watched as Muslims across the world were once again held under scrutiny following the events of 9/11. This only sparked her curiosity further. She went on to read the Quran a second time. The rst time had been to gain a general understanding of Islam, while during her second reading, she took the time to read through every interpretation and footnote to deepen her connection with the religion. That is when my heart opened up. Yes, I had been studying Islamic law and read different Islamic scholars, but when I read the Quran, thats when something happened inside me that I knew would stay with me forever. At this point, she was convinced that the words of the Quran were true and that Islam was the right way of life. However, she was not Continued on next page I didnt convert because I was struggling on the inside. I come from a strict Sicilian family, and parents with certain beliefs. I immediately put my hijab on. Some people said I was covering too early but I wanted to do it right from the start. When the calling comes, you follow. Continued from previous page able to take the steps to convert. I didnt convert because I was struggling on the inside. I come from a strict Sicilian culture, and parents with certain beliefs. And now, the world was against Muslims! But I never stopped researching and reading about Islam. I even read the Quran a third time. Although not ready to convert yet, she went on to study cultural mediation with a concentration on Islamic law at university level. Her thesis focused on the ne line between cultural and spiritual Islam, particularly in the community she observed in Germany. With such a controversial topic, she risked failure, but insisted on seeing it through. Eventually, success came and the reward from her parents was a three- month holiday to New Zealand. Here, she became good friends with a Sri Lankan man who came to Italy upon her return to ofcially ask her parents for their blessing. They built their relationship over four years, got engaged, and made New Zealand home. Yet, despite her love and assurance for this man, something still held her back. I delayed my wedding three times. I dont know why. I loved him, my parents loved him but for some reason I couldnt bring myself to go through with the marriage. At some point, I broke it off. It didnt feel right, but I still didnt know why. Frustrated at her own confusion, she decided to reassess herself. She had felt that, clearly, there was something missing from her life if she was capable of rejecting a man she, as well as her family, truly loved. During this time of reection, she recalled waking up one morning in October 2012, soon after her break- up, to her heart beating wildly as if it were lled with love once again. However, different from her previous experiences, she felt love for Allah, God as she had read about in the Quran, and she knew it was time to convert. To be honest, there was no rational reason, it was just a very strong feeling that I just wanted to pray to Allah. I wanted to do the shahada and do it all right. It was a strong feeling about my identity. We all go through identity crises and I had been going through problems with it all of my life. But that day I knew. So I called my best friend from Hamilton, and asked her to come to Auckland. I told her I wanted to convert to Islam and I wanted to do it tomorrow. It was the best day of my life. I couldnt sleep all night! When I nally got up in the morning I immediately put my hijab on. No questioning. Some people said that I was covering too early, but for me I wanted to do it right from the start. When the calling comes you follow. And the calling came to me spontaneously, without me having any fear or caring what people thought. I was really rm. But for me, it took me 10 years to convert. I had to be rm. After I put on the hijab, my friend taught me how to perform wuduh (ablution) for the rst time. It felt just like when people fall in love for the rst time. I felt every step, every motion. It was all so meaningful. I went to do the shahada at Blockhouse Bay. It was so emotional. It made me cry. Everyone who was there cried. Since then Ive been a Muslim, and I have never taken my hijab off and I started praying ve times a day and I dont even struggle with getting up early for Fajr! Through Islam, she began to reconnect mainly with herself as she learned and incorporated the values of Islam into her life. However, this bond did not resonate too easily with the people she loved most. My family reacted badly at rst because it was a shock to them. Our strict Sicilian culture and previous experience didnt help either. But now I understand that the way I had delivered it was wrong. If I had delivered it in a nicer way, they would have been more understanding. I have the best family ever and for them, they just have me. Soon, they started to see me differently. They saw that I became more compassionate, more humble, more understanding of family. More Sicilian. So they said, If Islam made you this person and we had fought 29 years to try and connect you to your roots then were were happy with you being Muslim. For the rst time in years, she felt she had nally found the missing part of her identity after years of searching for it within her work, studying, and relationships. When you kneel down in front of Allah, you know that you are powerless in front of something that is above you and this is what Islam did with me. It increased my faith in all that I do and all my relationships, all for the sake of Allah. And in return, God gave me a husband who lives Islams teaching and values. This is my gift. And I feel I am the richest person ever. The more I have faith in Allah, the richer I feel. I had been studying Islamic law and read different Islamic scholars but when I read the Quran something happened inside me that I knew would stay with me forever. 3 By David Wallace IT IS approximately nine months since I became a Muslim, alhamdulillah. Lately, I have been thinking about one particular Ayah. An Ayah that I have now recited over 5,000 times, but never given too much thought to, until very recently. Iyyaka nabudu wa iyyaka nastaeen we worship You and from You we seek help. These are beautiful words, but what do they really mean to a new Muslim like me? Worshipping Allah (swt) is easy. The prophet (saw) taught us exactly how to do it. Which direction to face, which words to say, which positions to adopt. After all, Allah made us. He gave us our minds and our hearts and our souls. He gave us all the riches of His creation. He gave us more blessings than we can ever count. So why wouldnt we worship Him? The second half of this Ayah is not as straightforward for a new Muslim. We seek Allahs help. Do we really? What do we do when life throws us a curved ball, and we need help from somebody? Who do we think of rst? Who do we share our troubles with? In the Western world, our parents teach us independence throughout our childhoods. Instead of asking Mummy or Daddy for help, children eventually learn to sort out their own conicts and resolve their own problems. Sometimes its hard, and some children turn out to be better at it than others. Then we reach adulthood, and nd that there are problems in life that we cant solve all by ourselves. We now learn the exact opposite of what we learnt before we learn to ask others for help. Our friends, our families, our neighbours. Adults in Western society do favours for each other. And we ask each other for help when we need it. Its a big part of life for us. But nobody ever teaches us to ask Allah for help. Yet to born Muslims Ive spoken to, the idea of asking other people for help seems like a foreign concept because as children, they learnt to ask Allah for help. Every time. Iyyaka nabudu wa iyyaka nastaeen. They dont just say it 17 or more times per day; they live it, as we all should, insha Allah. A few times recently, Ive needed help. All of us do sometimes. And Ive turned to my friends and my family. On some occasions, these people have been very helpful. Other times, they have been too busy to help me, or have simply not wanted to. Humans are, for the most part, unreliable. They dont live up to our expectations. Muslims and non-Muslims alike. I look back on those occasions now and ask myself why I didnt ask Allah for help, when help was plainly what I needed. So for me as a new Muslim, one of the toughest things to learn has been to ask Allah for help. A lifetime of asking my fellow humans for help is not easy to unlearn and, to be honest, I am not there yet. Insha Allah, I will get better at talking to Allah, at making Dua, and at asking Him to help me. I urge every new Muslim reading this to put iyyaka nabudu wa iyyaka nastaeen into practice. When you say these words in Salah, say them from the heart. Then next time you need help, turn rst to Allah. Its not an easy thing to do at rst, but when you have learnt to do it, Allah will never let you down. Bali Allahu mawlakum wahuwa khayru annasireen - but Allah is your protector and He is the best of helpers. 4 Nobody ever teaches us to ask Allah for help. Yet to born Muslims Ive spoken to, the idea of asking other people for help seems like a foreign concept because as children, they have learnt to ask Allah for help. A lifetime of asking my fellow humans for help is not easy to unlearn and, to be honest, I am not there yet. Seeking Gods help A new Muslims perspective swt: subhanahu wa taala Glory to Him, the Exalted (used when mentioning Allah) saw: salallahu alaihi wassalam May the blessings and peace of Allah be upon him (when mentioning Mohammed) Repentance the Islamic way ISLAM teaches us a lot about forgiveness. Through the Quran, we learn about the mercy of Allah (swt) and his desire to forgive sins great and many. Through the teachings of our Prophet (saw) we learn how to forgive those who have wronged us, and to ask it from those we have also wronged. The Quran tells us about Adams rst mistake in the garden of Eden, when he and Hawaa (Eve) disobeyed Allahs order not to eat from the tree. Adam wanted to ask Allah for forgiveness but did not know how, and so Allah taught him the rst prayer for forgiveness: They said, Our Lord, we have wronged our souls and if you forgive us not, and bestow not upon us your mercy, we shall be losers. (7:23) The 99 names that Allah attributes to himself are woven with many beautiful descriptions of his mercy and forgiveness. Al Ghafur describes Allah as the Forgiving, the one who will forgive any sin, while Al Ghaffar is the Forgiver, the one who continuously forgives. Both these words are rooted in the Arabic word ghufr, meaning to cover up and protect. Allah also describes himself as Al Afuww, the Pardoner, the one who erases or obliterates any trace of wrong action, and Al Tawwab, the Accepter of Repentance, the one who repeatedly beckons mankind towards repentance. The way Allah describes himself is an encouragement to reect on our own actions and continue to strive to make ourselves better, and ultimately to form a closer relationship with him. It also teaches us never to despair, because Allah will forgive all sins, no matter how great or how many, if only we continue to repent to him. In order to repent, we are taught that four main steps are necessary: 1. Stopping the sin or action 2. Repenting deeply and truly for the sin committed 3. Returning to Allah for forgiveness 4. Strong intention never to return to that same sin again. There are still many people who fall into wrongdoing again once they repent, and some bad habits are much harder to give up than others. Allah tells us that a person who sins and repents over and over again will always be forgiven each time, but only if they are sincere and genuine in their repentance. Just as it is important to maintain this relationship with Allah, it is also important to maintain a similar relationship with those around us, learning for the sake of Allah to forgive those who may wrong us. In Surat Al-Imran, Allah expresses his love for those who do good by others, describing them as those who restrain their anger, and are forgiving. These two qualities are very difcult to attain but are highlighted by Allah to show us how important they are, and how we must strive towards them in our daily actions. It is narrated that Prophet Mohammed was once seated in a gathering with his companions, when he looked towards the entrance and said, A man of Paradise is coming. At that instant a very ordinary-looking man entered the mosque where they were seated. One of the companions, curious as to what made this man so special, followed him to his house. He told the man that he was a traveller and stayed with him as a guest. For three days the companion saw nothing unusual, so he nally told the man what the Prophet had said and asked him what was so special about him. The man thought for a long time and said, There might be one thing before going to sleep every night I forgive everyone and sleep with a clean heart. As human beings, we all fall into bad habits and wrongdoing, but it is how often we turn to Allah for forgiveness that denes us as Muslims. That is why Allah teaches us that the door to repentance is open until our last breath, and all we have to do is turn to him with a sincere heart and he will forgive all our transgressions. Therefore, it is also equally important to keep in mind that, like us, people will make mistakes. By forgiving them, we also clean our own hearts from hatred, anger and burden. 5 O Son of Adam, so long as you call upon Me and ask of Me, I shall forgive you for what you have done, and I shall not mind. O Son of Adam, were your sins to reach the clouds of the sky and were you then to ask forgiveness of Me, I would forgive you. O Son of Adam, were you to come to Me with sins as great as the earth, and were you then to face Me ascribing no partners to Me, I would bring you forgiveness nearly as great as it. Hadith Qudsi If you would like to become a buddy to a new Muslim, or feel you or someone you know needs a buddy, please email buddy@newmuslimproject.co.nz 6 Significance of Ramadan AS THE NINTH MONTH of the Islamic calendar draws near, Muslims around the world once again prepare themselves for our holiest month: Ramadan. It is within this month that the Quran was revealed to the Prophet Mohammed (saw). Unlike previous books of revelation that were descended upon prophets in one whole, Allah (swt) decreed that the Quran would be brought down to Prophet Mohammed in a series of verses or sections, as this would be the nal book of revelation on the nal prophet to the people. As the Quran itself states, it is the month in which was sent down the Quran; the guidance for mankind, the Criterion (by which to judge the right and wrong) (2:185). The Quran and Islam would guide believers to lead their lives as Muslims, with faith in the one and only Allah. As this revelation deemed Ramadan to be a sacred month, Allah decreed that all Muslims would fast throughout it, abstaining from food and drink from sunrise to sunset, thus performing one of the major ve pillars of Islam. But rather than a literal detoxication, fasting would give Muslims the opportunity to reect on their lives in the light of Islamic guidance by purifying their actions, faith, behaviour and thoughts to better exemplify Islamic values and beliefs. Through the physical restraint of fasting, Muslims are reminded of spiritual restraints from doing that which does not please Allah. In fact, the Arabic word for fasting, sawm, literally means to refrain. While fasting, one refrains not only from food and drink but also from sinful actions, thoughts or words, loss of temper, and sexual intercourse. In this case, body and soul both observe the fast. Reecting on his experience, author Khurram Murad writes, Every moment in Ramadan engraves certain lessons on our hearts, integrates them in our practice. The most elementary physical needs food, water and sleep are readily and joyfully sacriced. Hunger and thirst are no more harmful; Allahs displeasure is. Physical pleasures no more hold any lure; Allahs rewards do. The scale of values is turned upside down. The measures of comfort and pain, success and failure are radically changed. Without this change, none is entitled to take up Allahs cause. To the uninitiated, or an outsider, the regimental devotion of Ramadan may appear harsh and austere, but, in fact, it is eagerly awaited by believers. Throughout the days of fasting and a constant awareness of their relationships with Allah, Muslims are urged to use this blessed month to reignite their faith and grow closer in their belief and love for Allah. To do so, Muslims engage in giving more charity, performing better, more focused and thoughtful prayers (such as nightly tarawih prayers in the mosque), recitation of the Quran and other acts that would align them with Islamic behaviour. As promised in the Quran, rewards for all obligatory acts commanded by Allah, such as the ve daily prayers, increase 70 times. It is a time where good deeds are more highly rewarded and sins are welcomed for repentance. Iftar (the breaking of the fast) occurs after the call to the Maghrib (sunset) prayer. Following Prophet Mohammeds example, the fast is usually broken with dates before the main meal is served. Muslims are also encouraged to consume a second meal, suhoor, at dawn, before the Fajr (sunrise) prayer. This helps them to prepare for another day of fast; another day to take a step closer to Allah. Throughout the holy month of Ramadan, Muslims across the world convey an extraordinary sense of religious eagerness and enthusiasm for the religion and the way of life it brings. Aside from the obligatory actions outlined in the Quran, Muslims believe that even work, caring for family and friends, acting in good faith and charity are all acts of worship that only lead to a greater good. Ramadans time of purication of mind, body and soul allows them to remember and rekindle the paths they walk in the name of Allah that would hopefully act as a guiding light for the year to come, until Ramadan peeps over the horizon once again. To the uninitiated, or an outsider, the regimental devotion of Ramadan may appear harsh and austere, but, in fact, it is eagerly awaited by believers. All humans are dead except those who have knowledge; and all those who have knowledge are asleep except those who do good deeds; and those who do good deeds are deceived, except those who are sincere; and those who are sincere are always in a state of worry. Imam Shafi (may Allah be pleased with him) Some useful organisations Al Hikmah Trust The Trust runs programmes, presentations, forums and meetings to educate Muslim and non-Muslim youths and students about Islamic beliefs and practices. For details of events, like the Facebook pages Al Hikmah Trust Boys or Al Hikmah Trust Girls. Al-Manar Trust This Trust, which initiated Auckland Eid Day, focuses on Islamic education for adults and children, as well as running youth camps and trips. It has an excellent reference library of Islamic material. 70-72 Carr Road, Mt Roskill. Tel: (09) 6200 951 Fatimah Foundation Fatimah Foundation aims to provide family assistance to Islamic mothers and homes. The foundation offers a service based on Islamic values. For events, visit the website. To volunteer, call (09) 276 7680 or email noeleen@fatimafoundation.org.nz For general enquiries, email info@fatimahfoundation.org.nz www.fatimahfoundation.org.nz or nd them on Facebook. Marhaba Play Group Marhaba aims to help the children of the Muslim community to learn the Arabic language and Islamic studies by providing a broad-based educational programme which allows the kids to choose from a range of activities presented in fun ways. Make contact to register your child or to volunteer. Email hoda.elwalili@gmail.com or visit www.marhaba.co.nz or nd them on Facebook. Mt Albert Islamic Trust As well as holding Friday prayers (with the bayaan and khutbah both in English), this trust runs childrens classes and publishes a useful e- newsletter called Rocket Science that among other things gives prayer times and the programme schedule for the Voice of Islam TV show. Email mtalbertmasjid@gmail.com or visit www.mtalbertislamiccentre.org RMDT RMDT (Rasheed Memorial Dawah Trust) operates primarily in Auckland as well as in some Pacic islands such as Fiji, Tonga and Samoa. RMDT is active in specic areas, notably ecology and charity. Find them on Facebook. WTG WTG (Working Together Group) are active in specic community projects, notably the Janaza Project, which provides funeral services for Muslims, the recently launched Janaza Waqf fund, and the Helping Hand Project, which distributes food collected from food banks in mosques to needy families. The Helping Hand team meets at 6.30pm on the last Tuesday of every month at Wesley Community Centre and the Janaza Committee meets there on the rst Wednesday of every month. Janaza details: Ashraf Khan (021 786 676), Mazin Al-Salim (021 1466 179) or David Blocksidge (021 054 8443). Helping Hand: Ismail Waja (021 212 9282) or Ayah Kautai (021 2222 808). YMWA YMWA (Young Muslim Womens Association) supports and nurtures Islamic identity and values among Muslim women around Auckland. Girls/Ladies only Sports Leagues: Badminton, Tuesdays 6-7pm; soccer 7-9pm. Both at Lyneld Recreation & Youth Centre. Quran Reections, Thursdays 6-7.30pm. Study Circle, third Monday of each month. Both in Room 4.501, Faculty of Engineering, University of Auckland. Email ymwa.nz@gmail.com or visit www.ymwa.org/ or nd them on Facebook. Auckland Eid Day 2013 The Auckland Eid Day team has already begun planning the Eid- ul Fitr 2013 celebration. After a tremendous turnout last year, AED 2013 plans to bring you an even bigger and better Eid celebration to remember.
To volunteer for the event planning, email Hady Osman at hadyos@gmail.com To volunteer for Eid Day, email Hutheifa Hussein at hutheifa@hotmail.com For more information, visit www.aucklandeidday.co.nz or nd them on Facebook. Programmes may change during Ramadan. Please contact organisations directly. Fatimah Foundation volunteers (left) receive udhiya gifts for distribution; one of two hearses (above) operated in Auckland by WTG 7 Level 5, Ofce 5A2, ACG House, 396 Queen Street, Auckland Open 10am to 2pm Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays (except public holidays) Telephone: (09) 280 1615 Email: info@newmuslimproject.co.nz Web: www.newmuslimproject.co.nz or nd us on Facebook Views expressed in New Muslim Project News are those of the author or organisation concerned and do not necessarily reect the opinions of the publisher, Al Hikmah Trust. Contents copyright Al Hikmah Trust 2013. We welcome your contributions and suggestions for future NMP News. Also, tell us if you would like your organisation to be listed. Please email the editor: newsletter@newmuslimproject.co.nz We need a sponsor to help with the modest cost of printing NMP News if you would like to assist with our work. You can donate to New Muslim Project through Kiwi Bank. Account name and number: New Muslim Project, 38-9008-0489171-02. Parting shots THE FIRST SATURDAY in June saw NMP brothers and sisters join with others in a morning of tree-planting at Eskdale Reserve in Birkdale on Aucklands North Shore. The work was part of the Kaipatiki Project Community Planting Days initiative and doubled as a fundraiser for the New Muslim Project. Good work and great companionship with tasty refreshments to sustain you! Who could ask for more? Hadith (action or saying of the Prophet) If a Muslim plants a tree or sows seeds, and a bird or person or animal eats from it, it is regarded as a charitable gift (sadaqah) for him. Bukhari