WHY SHOULD WE SPANK OUR CHILDREN? Spanking has various advantages, such as learning Respect for others Responsibility for his/her own actions Proper decision making How to set standards
CHILD RESPECTS HIS/HER ELDERS A temper tantrum that is improperly resolved can quickly result in lack of respect towards parents and other figures of authority. CHILD LEARNS RESPONSIBILITY Children currently lack in responsibility as result of parents looking at others being at fault before their child, or simply by the parent attempting to punish, but instead the punishment turns more into a reward. CHILD LEARNS HOW TO MAKE PROPER DECISIONS Lack of proper discipline results in lack of understanding between good and bad decisions.
Good and bad is generally what is or is not publically acceptable, and what can have a negative outcome. CHILD LEARNS HOW TO SET STANDARDS Through discipline, a child learns that some things are dangerous or bad for them while others are good.
Well disciplined children learn to value their education, health, family and friends, along with many other aspects of their life, and set standards to achieve greatness. SPANKING MAY SIMPLY WORK BETTER THAN TIME-OUT Though sometimes effective, often timeout turns into play time. Other times the child does not understand why they are in timeout, or parents forget that they placed their children in timeout. OVER THE LINE Some say that spanking is just over the top and is abusive. But they forget to differentiate between a spank, and most other corporal punishment.
Spank A strike on the bottom with an open hand.
Corporal Punishment intentional affliction of pain designed to punish.
Spanking can be labeled as corporal punishment. Previously the death penalty had also fallen under the same catagory DOES SPANKING CAUSE ISOLATION, DEPRESSION & OTHER MENTAL DISORDERS In a study conducted by a Calvin College professor, it was found that the majority of teenagers who had been spanked as children responded with a more positive outlook on life, achieved better grades, were enthusiastic about responsibilities such as volunteer work, and had stronger desires for a higher education THOUGH SPANKING IS A VALID FORM OF PUNISHMENT, IT MUST BE PROPERLY USED. Many adults make the mistake of resorting only to spanking as a form of punishment. others when they spank, they do so out of anger, rage, or frustration and spank several times in a row and occasionally hard.
To spank properly you must be sure you have control over your emotions first, then you must incorporate a way of helping the child understand his wrong after he has acknowledged it (talk it through with your child, take away goods/toys). Never forget to acknowledge and compensate for good behavior. Just as bad things have bad consequences, good things should have good consequences too.