10th International Conference on Grief and Bereavement in Contemporary Society (ICGB)
June 11-14, 2014 in Hong Kong
Grief Is Love: Criticism of Professional Grief Care by Self-Help Groups for Family Survivors of Suicide in Japan Tomofumi Oka, Ph.D. (Social Work) Sophia University, Tokyo, Japan
Tomofumi Oka, Email: t-oka@sophia.ac.jp The purpose of my presentation is to tell the story of a mother, Ms. Sachiko Tanaka (see the upper picture, courtesy of Ms. Tanaka) who lost her son to suicide. A second and equal purpose is to help people understand the message of self-help groups for family survivors of suicide in Japan: Grief is love. Japanese families traditionally have a Buddhist altar in their houses (see the lower picture), and they believe the altar connects them with their deceased family members. I will talk about how Sachiko has maintained her relationship with her late son. Ms. Sachiko Tanaka, as an active leader of civil movements for family survivors of suicide, claims that Japanese local government should acknowledge the great potential of self-help groups for family survivors of suicide. In reality, however, some government officials work only with professionals who provide grief care services to families. Both officials and professionals often consider the families powerless and troubled by mental health problems. Self-help groups for family survivors provide an alternative perspective on grief. Because their perspective is based on indigenous cultural values, professionals can learn much from self- help groups in a given culture about how to help family survivors of suicide.
References:
1. Oka, T. (2013). "Grief is Love": Understanding grief through self-help groups organised by the family survivors of suicide. In A. A. Drautzburg & J. Oldfield (Eds.), Making sense of suffering: A collective attempt (pp. 75-86). Freeland, Oxfordshire, UK: Inter-Disciplinary Press.
2. Oka, T., Tanaka, S., Ake, H., & Kuwabara, S. (2011). Self-help groups for family survivors of suicide in Japan: For empowerment, not grief care. Proceedings of the 21st Asia-Pacific Social Work Conference, 526-533. Available from https://sophia.academia.edu/TomofumiOka
3. Oka, T., & Borkman, T. (2011). Self-help groups, self-help supporters, and social work: A theoretical discussion with some case illustrations of family survivors of suicide in Japan. Studies on Social Work, 37(3), 168-183. Available from https://sophia.academia.edu/TomofumiOka
4. Oka, T., Tanaka, S., & Ake, H. (2010). We dont need grief care, say some family survivors of suicide. Chiiki Hoken [Community Health], 41(3), 21-25. Available from https://sophia.academia.edu/TomofumiOka