Blessed are they that mourn; for they shall be comforted (Matthew 5:3) Happy are they that are sad; for they shall be comforted? (Matthew 5:3)
We live in a society with a misguided sense of right and wrong. In a world that cares little for sadness, moral standards and introspect; how does this verse apply to us?
Today we will examine and consider: What is this verse talking about? What does godly sorrow look like? How does this verse apply to us today?
What Is This Verse Actually Talking About? So far you have learnt about being meek and poor in spirit. In the Beatitudes, we can see the steps that we have to take in order to be a part of the kingdom of Heaven (cf. Matthew 5:3, 10). To be poor in spiritto humble and empty yourself. To be meekto submit yourself to the authority of another
What does it mean to mourn? Upon emptying yourself (becoming poor in spirit) and seeing all the things you have done against the Lord you feel a great sorrow (mourning) and it causes you to turn to the Lord for guidance (meekness).
Blessed are they that mourn? It is not sadness that makes us happy, but a certain kind of sorrow that we need in order to change our attitude to one of meekness (2 Corinthians 7:9, 10; Philippians 2:5). for they shall be comforted? Is there anything in your past that you regret? Through mourning we access the grace of God that takes away all our sin (2 Corinthians 7:10). In Christ we can enjoy the peace and comfort that comes with being free from the consequences and bondage of sin (1 John 1:7; 2:1, 2). God loves to be merciful and He will cast our sins far, far away from us (Micah 7:18-20; Psalm 103:12). Two Stories That Show Us What True Sorrow Looks Like Peter was a very zealous man. Peter spoke for all the apostles in saying that Jesus was the Son of God (Matthew 16:16) Peter declared that he would not deny Jesus and would even die for Him (John 13:37; Matthew 26:33).
Later though, Peter lost heart. He could not stay awake to support the Lord as He prayed (Matthew 26:37). He denied knowing the Lord (Luke 22:57). He even cursed and swore that he did not know the Lord (Matthew 26:74).
When the rooster crowed, he knew that he had done the wrong thing (Matthew 26:74; Luke 22:58). The Lord turned and looked at him, and he remembered what Jesus had said. Peter went out and wept bitterly. Peter was truly sorry, became even stronger in his faith, and even went on to write books of the Bible.
Judas was a man who was considered trustworthy (John 13:29). He was considered Jesus friend (Matthew 26:50) The love of money had taken hold of his heart (John 12:5, 6)
Judas decided to betray Jesus (Matthew 26:15) He realized he was in the wrong and repented (Matthew 27:3). He was so overcome with grief that he went and hung himself (Matthew 27:5).
Both of these men: Made very similar mistakes. had very different ways of mourning their sinone killing himself and the other going on to greater faithfulness. It is not sadness that makes us happy, but the kind of sorrow that leads to a change of action (2 Corinthians 7:9, 10). Having a Heart That Is Ready to Do Right How do I develop a heart of mourning? Realize your need for correctionbe humble (poor in spirit). (Matthew 5:3)
Learn to love the Law-Giver. We learn by listening to His word and putting it to the test (Matthew 11:28, 29; 1 John 5:3). We learn by communicating and trusting (Hebrews 4:16).
Start calling sin, sin. We cannot be sorry about things that we dont think are serious. We need to be careful not to call good evil (Isaiah 5:20). Stop pretending some sins are bigger than other sins (Revelation 21:8; Titus 1:2). We need to put sin away from us (1 John 3:8; John 8:34).
What can I do to show godly sorrow? Confess your faults to God and others It does not do us good to hide our sins (Proverbs 28:13). Our brothers and sisters can help keep us accountable (James 5:16).
Put steps in place not to sin again (cf. 2 Corinthians 7:11). If you are truly sorry about something you will make sure that it doesnt happen again.
Steps: Evaluate what it is that tempts you and give it up (Matthew 5:30). Think about potential problems and their solutions Entertainment Relationships Protecting your family
Think: Is there anything in my life that needs correcting? Do I love God enough to be hate the things God hates? Do I have a proper respect for what God calls sin? Am I humble enough to ask for help when I need it? What steps can I put in place to protect myself from sin?
When we have the right kind of sorrow we will have comfort and peace, as God has promised (Matthew 5:4b)
Conybeare. An Analytical Examination Into The Character, Value, and Just Application of The Writings of The Christian Fathers During The Ante-Nicene Period. 1839.