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A blessed character
Good news for kohanim and sci-
ence fiction fans.
The latest version of the Unicode
Standard, which codifies the alpha-
bets recognized by computers, was
released last week.
Unicode 7.0 includes the gesture
of a raised hand that shows a gap
between the middle and ring fingers.
Thats the gesture Jewish priests have
used to bless congregations since
who-knows-when.
The symbol was popularized by
its repurposing on Star Trek as the
Vulcan salute. No doubt that it was
the Star Trek tribe, not the tribe of
Aaron, that led to the symbols inclu-
sion among 250 new emoji, or pic-
turegrams, that eventually will make
their way to smartphones around the
world.
The less reverential symbol of a
hand with middle finger extended is
also included among the new emoji.
The Unicode update also added the
currency symbol for the ruble and an
undecoded writing system from an-
cient Crete, dubbed Linear A.
Hebrew has been included in Uni-
code since its beginning; the trope
notations used for chanting the Torah
were added in version 2.0, back in
1996.
LARRY YUDELSON
Candlelighting: Friday, June 20, 8:13 p.m.
Shabbat ends: Saturday, June 21, 9:22 p.m.
Baby, you were born to bid for this
Max Weinberg, the
drummer for Bruce
Springsteens E Street
Band, is donating a
weeks stay at his private
villa in Tuscany to an up-
coming fundraising auc-
tion for Temple Sharey
Tefilo-Israel in South
Orange.
Weinberg, who be-
came a bar mitzvah at
the synagogue in 1964,
will be at its June 21
fundraiser, Magic in the
Night, where he will be
guest auctioneer. Thats
according to Back-
streets, a leading Spring-
steen fan site.
Weinberg and his wife, Becky, are
honoring their parents and Maxs
grandparents, who were founding
members of Temple Sharey Tefilo
when it was in East Orange.
The fundraiser will include pre-
auction bidding online. The highest
online bid will become the opening
bid at the live on-site auction. The
event is open to the public; fans
who are interested in being there or
bidding remotely can email Leslie
Sporn at lsporn@tstinj.org to obtain
tickets or arrange proxy bidding.
Weinberg also is Conan OBriens
bandleader.
NEW JERSEY JEWISH NEWS
Israeli army tags recruits
with new social media rules
The Israel Defense Force has a new
status message for its soldiers: Youre
in the army now.
From now on, Israeli recruits will
receive the armys social media policy
along with their uniforms and their
guns.
The new rules will explain that
The dangers of using social media
relate to privacy infringement and
the possibility of addiction as well as
the blurring of boundaries between
private and public and military and
civilian, according to the Israel news
site Ynet.
Soldiers will be told that before
they post, or even click like, they
must ask whether content will harm
individual security, intelligence secu-
rity, or the IDFs promoted values.
Soldiers will not be allowed to post
a check-in status from their bases.
Commanders will be banned from
posting orders through social media,
including WhatsApp, or from ask-
ing their soldiers to friend them on
Facebook.
LARRY YUDELSON
OPIONION
Of course Jews do not have a
monopoly on guilt, but we do have
our own particular brand of it.
Lance Strate, p. 20
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Im more Jewish than you think I am.
Texas Governor Rick Perry, speaking to New York Times correspondent Mark
Leibovitch at a Jewish-style deli. I read the part of the Bible that said the Jews
are Gods chosen people, Perry added, before blessing his corned beef and
swiss cheese sandwich.
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of making sure that
everyone knows and is
affected by the story.
LEE SHAPIRO, a New
Jersey native who now
lives in Hackensack, is
not in the film. He joined
the band in 1974, when
he was 19 years old, as
an arranger, keyboardist,
and back-up singer, and
he was with the group
as it had its second burst
of fame in the mid-70s
(Oh, What a Night and
others). A full profile of
Shapiro will appear in the
next issue of the Stan-
dard.
ERIC DANE, 41, is
best known for play-
ing the sexy Dr. Mark
McSteamy Sloan on
Greys Anatomy. He co-
stars in a new TNT series,
The Last Ship, which is
set to premiere on Sun-
day, June 22, at 9 p.m.
Heres the official syn-
opsis: Their mission is
simple: Find a cure. Stop
the virus. Save the world.
When a global pandemic
wipes out eighty percent
of the planets popula-
tion, the crew of a lone
naval destroyer must find
a way to pull humanity
from the brink of extinc-
tion.
Dane, who plays the
commanding officer of
the last ship, is the son
of a Jewish mother and
non-Jewish father. While
he was raised with not
much religion, he did
have a bar mitzvah. Last
Ship, by the way, is one
of those on trial TNT
series. Only 10 episodes
have been filmed. If it
does well, it will return
for a longer season
sometime next year. If
ratings are weak, Dane
and his co-stars will not
go to sea again. N.B
Marshall Brickman
JERSEY BOYS:
Is Clint in tune
with the sound?
Rick Elice
Erich Bergen Eric Dane
The film version of
the big stage hit mu-
sical Jersey Boys,
about the lives and
careers of the members
of the famous 1960s
pop/rock singing group,
The Four Seasons,
opens on Friday, June
20. I hope that Clint
Eastwood, 84, confounds
pundits who claim he
was an odd and probably
not-right choice to direct
this film.
Like the stage musical,
the Jersey Boys movie
features the many hits
of the Four Seasons,
all of which were written
by band member Bob
Gaudio and Bob Crewe.
What helped make the
stage musical so special
was its great script, co-
written by MARSHALL
BRICKMAN, now 79,
and RICK ELICE, now
57. They interviewed the
band members exten-
sively, and from those
interviews they crafted a
truly dramatic story that
earned the duo a Tony
for best book. They also
wrote the films screen-
play.
Brickman is a virtually
unknown renaissance
man. In addition to his
Tony, he has an Oscar,
too, for co-writing An-
nie Hall with WOODY
ALLEN. He could relate
to the members of the
Four Seasons because
in 1962, at just about
the time that band be-
gan and was playing
clubs, Brickman was in a
popular folk group, the
Tarriers, playing banjo
with ERIC WEISSBERG,
now 74. (Weissberg is
best known for his 1972
instrumental banjo hit,
the theme from Deliver-
ance.) On top of all this,
Brickman has written for
TV and has penned ac-
claimed comic parodies
for The New Yorker.
None of the real-life
Four Seasons members
were/are Jewish. How-
ever, ERICH BERGEN, 28,
who played Gaudio in
a touring version of the
stage musical, reprises
this role in the film. This
is the first big screen
role for the tall, dark, and
handsome thespian. His
parents met at a New
York acting class.
In 2011, the Jewish
Journal of Los Ange-
les reported that Ber-
gen, the son of a Jew-
ish father and a lapsed
Catholic mother, identi-
fied strongly as Jewish.
The Journal then quoted
Bergen as he explained
how the drama of the
Passover seder was like
a classic theater play. He
said: Were all in one
room together witness-
ing something that peo-
ple for many years have
done before us. We are
not new to this story, but
we are experiencing it for
the first time together.
To me, thats what Ive
found in the Jewish reli-
gion: that the tradition of
keeping the story going
is whats most important
I am contractually
obligated not to tell
people to buzz off
So said BURT SHAVITZ, 74, the co-founder and face
of Burts Bees, the famous cosmetics company based
on products derived mostly from honey and beeswax.
Shavitz was talking to JODY SHAPIRO, 44, a Canadian
Jewish ilmmaker who made a documentary about him,
Burts Buzz, which is now playing in a few theaters
and has just been released for on-demand and Netflix
viewing.
I could devote a whole column to what a character
Shavitz is. Indeed, a whole ilm is dedicated to that
very subject, as are easily found long online proiles. So
watch the ilm to ind out how the Great Neck-raised son
of a factory worker, who began as a photographer for
a Jewish paper, ended up keeping bees in rural Maine,
and became a reluctant cosmetics mogul. You can even
watch Shavitz as he travels to Taiwan, where thousands
including hundreds of kids in bee costumes turn out
to greet the most famous beekeeper in the world.
N.B.
Burt Shavitz
California-based Nate Bloom can be reached at
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Bringing Fort Lee to life
About to make aliyah, Young Israels Rabbi Neil Winkler looks back and ahead
JOANNE PALMER
R
abbi Neil Winklers grandfa-
ther, like his son and grandson,
was a builder.
Disabled by a missing leg,
the result of a bombing strike over World
War I London, he was not able to work,
but his creativity, his passion for making
something where there had been nothing,
did not leave him. He was a carpenter, so
he crafted a model of a synagogue. He hid
metal tubes inside the wood, threaded
wire through them, and screwed in tiny
light bulbs, so his shul lit up.
His grandson also created a synagogue,
although his is not a model but a full-size,
living version.
Now, as Rabbi Winkler is about to retire
from his pulpit at the Young Israel of Fort
Lee, and from his position as teacher
and coordinator of Tanach studies at the
Moriah School in Englewood, he looks
with satisfaction at the arc of a career that
brings him and his wife, Andrea, to a new
adventure as they plan their long-yearned-
for aliyah to Israel.
Neil Winkler was born in the Bronx in
1948. His father, Kalman, was a founder
of the shul across the street from where
they lived the Young Israel of Parkches-
ter and his mother, Helen, grew up on
Long Island, in a family active in the Young
Israel of North Bellmore. Kalman Winkler
and Helen Rosenblum met at the Young
Israel of Bronx Gardens. Synagogues in
general and Young Israel-affiliated syna-
gogues in particular were as essential as
air in the Winklers household.
His grandfather and grandmother lived
with the family; his grandfathers family
had emigrated from Austria to London
to Canada and then, finally, to the Bronx.
Among Rabbi Winklers earliest memories
is being asked to get Zeydes wooden leg
from the closet.
Kalman Winkler, a craftsman like his
own father, worked in fabric rather than
wood. He was a pattern-maker and pro-
duction manager at high-end clothing
manufacturers, including B. H. Wragge,
and he taught at the Fashion Institute of
Technology. He would tell his children
about working with Jackie Kennedy and
with Lyndon Johnsons daughters, who
preferred not to shop in public.
All the Winkler children took the long
trip south from the Bronx to Manhattans
Upper East Side to go to elementary school
at Ramaz. My mother was very insistent
that we all get a very strong education, both
secular and Hebrew, Rabbi Winkler said.
We would go by train; wed take the IRT
right down from 176th Street in Parkches-
ter. Between his siblings, his cousins, and
other local children, a little tribe traveled
back and forth together from school.
Because his father wanted him to have
a more intensive immersion in Jewish
texts, Rabbi Winkler transferred to MTA,
Yeshiva Universitys high school for boys,
in eighth grade, and from there he went to
Yeshiva College.
It was not until his third year that Neil
Winkler realized that he wanted to be a
rabbi. He majored in history, but I real-
ized that I wanted to serve people, and
I felt that I might be able to do that as a
rabbi. I have a passionate love of the Jew-
ish nation, and I wanted to serve as best
I could, and to work with people one on
one.
(It is notable that the word passion
comes up frequently in a conversation
with Rabbi Winkler, always to describe
his work in the pulpit or at school. Talking
about his work animates him.)
Rabbi Winkler graduated from Yeshiva
College in 1969, and then earned both a
masters in biblical studies at YUs Bernard
Revel Graduate School of Jewish Studies and
his ordination at its rabbinical school, the
Rabbi Isaac Elchanan Theological Seminary,
in 1972. Next came a year at the Golf Manor
Synagogue in suburban Cincinnati and
two years at Anshe Emet in Trenton, and
then Rabbi Winkler and his growing family
moved to Lawrenceville, where he founded
that towns Young Israel community.
In 1978, the Winklers moved to Fort
Lee, where he took over the Fort Lee
Synagogue. Within a year I changed the
name to the Young Israel of Fort Lee, and
we joined the Young Israel movement,
Rabbi Winkler said. We have been here
ever since.
Rabbi Winkler provides his shul with
full service. Not only does he do the work
that a rabbi always does giving sermons;
counseling congregants; teaching, both
formally and informally; presiding over
life-cycle events, and providing a role
model for living a Jewish life he also
does all his communitys Torah and haf-
tarah reading, and when a cantorial voice
is necessary he provides that as well.
A rabbi has to be a conductor, Rabbi
Winkler said. He has to know how every
instrument works, but mainly he has to put
them together and have them harmonize.
For 36 years, people here havent only
had a conductor. They also have a one-
man band.
(Rabbi Winkler has some training as
a singer, and one of his most moving
memories is of having been in the choir,
under the baton of Zubin Mehta, when
Beethovens Ninth Symphony was per-
formed, for the first time, in Israel. The
lyrics were sung in German. It was power-
ful, he recalls.)
About his family Neil Winkler and
Andrea Nierenberg met at Camp Massad,
and they married in 1971. Andrea Winkler
is the daughter of extraordinary parents.
Her father, Dr. Harold Nirenberg, put him-
self through college after he got married,
and then he went on to earn a Ph.D. He
was the dean first of the law school and
then of the business school at C. W. Post
College. And then he decided that he
wanted to get back to the Jewish commu-
nity, so he became dean of YUs Sy Syms
School of Business, Rabbi Winkler said.
He revolutionized the school. His wife,
Laura, was an interior decorator.
Rabbi Winkler is clear about the fact that
he could not have been the kind of rabbi
he is if it were not for his wife. Some of
her accomplishments are quantifiable.
She started a tehillim group where
women come together every week to
recite Psalms, as a way to heal the worlds
wounds she is a founding member of
Project S.A.R.A.H. a group that works
with and for Jewish victims of domestic
abuse she is an adviser and is intimately
involved with the Fort Lee mikvah. She
organized the sisterhood, and she orga-
nized the first Purim fundraiser, which
helped double the shuls membership the
first year the family arrived in Fort Lee.
She does everything a rebbitzin does
and what doesnt a rebbitzin do? her hus-
band said.
Aside from keeping the rabbi calm, she
keeps an open house all the time. Every
year we used to host the entire synagogue
in our sukkah, and she baked everything
eight to ten cakes, seven different kugels,
and chulent for everybody.
Rabbi Neil Winkler marched with the contingent from the Moriah School in the
Celebrate Israel parade this month.
My mother was
very insistent
that we all get
a very strong
education, both
secular and
Hebrew.
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So much that she did I got the credit
for, he added. Very few people realize
how much she did for the shul. And then,
of course, there were all those times when
I couldnt get home, and she took care of
the kids. And she just sort of shrugs her
shoulders and says, Thats how it is.
She is really remarkable.
There were many times when his wife
had to host, at the absolute last minute,
families who were stranded in Fort Lee,
the victims of traffic or weather, as Shab-
bat was about to start.
But one of those Shabbat rescues could
have happened only in Fort Lee. A Jewish
man was trying to make it across the bridge,
but he could not. Ice was falling from the
tops of the towers. He was marooned until
the Winklers swooped in for the save.
The Winklers have five children Shira
Ashendorf, Tsippi Cantor, and Malkie,
Yehoshua, and Ely Winkler; three chil-
dren-in-law, Michael Ashendorf, Michael
Cantor, and Rachel Winkler, and nine
grandchildren.
Being part of a rabbinic family isnt
easy, Rabbi Winkler said. Although other
parts of Bergen County are bursting with
the young children of observant fami-
lies, Fort Lee isnt now and wasnt then.
That was hard on his children, he said;
although he tried to arrange for them to
spend many Shabbatot at their friends
houses, and encouraged them to invite
their friends to stay with them as well,
that was not the same as having a commu-
nity of their peers within walking distance.
Giving up that community was a sacrifice
that his children made for him and for the
Young Israel of Fort Lee, he said.
Just as Rabbi Winkler spent 36 years
heading his shul, he also spent those same
36 years teaching at Moriah. He first began
to teach when he was in Lawrenceville,
because he needed to earn more money
than the small congregation could afford
to pay him. Very quickly, though, he
learned that he loved teaching children.
I love being around young people, he
said.
I look back at thousands of students I
have taught. Many of them are in the rab-
binate or in Jewish education. It is more
than satisfying.
Over the years, I have been coach for
the National Bible Contest, he added.
I have been fortunate enough to have
coached about 30 champions, who went
to the national. About five years ago, the
top two from the diaspora in the interna-
tional contest in Israel were my students.
Both were from Teaneck.
Also about five years ago, Rabbi Winkler
took a sabbatical; he used the time to write
a book, Bringing the Prophets to Life. He
is passionate about the book, as he is about
everything he loves. It never would have
happened if I hadnt gone into teaching, he
said. He taught the same subject Tanach
every year, but instead of growing bored,
he discovered new insights, new angles,
new understandings, every time he taught
it. I see those new things because it is alive
to me, he said. It gives me such joy.
If I ever could meet a biblical character,
I would want it to be King David, Rabbi
Winkler said. He was so real, so human,
so touchable.
Rabbi Winkler does not think that he
will write another book; all the passion of
his teaching was distilled into this one. He
used a quotation from Kohelet Ecclesias-
tes in the preface to Bringing the Proph-
ets to Life. Do not write an endless num-
ber of books, Kohelet 12:12 tells us. He will
not, Rabbi Winkler says.
As he sits in Young Israels newly rebuilt
synagogue, the ceiling arching high and
white above the light-drenched room,
Rabbi Winkler talks about the synagogue
that he loves. He is leaving it as it is ready
to transition to its next stage of life, he
said; he is leaving it with love and hope.
The past is meant to inspire and teach
us, he said. It is not meant for us to wal-
low in.
I am not retiring; I am not moving to
Israel because it will be easier to bury me if
Im there already. I see a challenge ahead.
Every year for the last 10 years we have
spent in Israel, and it is very hard to come
back.
The only way to leave always is to look
forward at what is facing us.
Rabbi Neil Winklers grandfather
carved this etrog box.
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River Road site to be requested at Tuesdays council meeting
LARRY YUDELSON
A
n effort to build a Holocaust
memorial in Teaneck is headed
back to the town council.
Last year, Steve Fox, co-
chairman of the Teaneck Holocaust Com-
memoration Committee, part of the town-
ships Jewish Community Council, asked
the Teaneck Town Council for permission
to investigate putting a Holocaust memo-
rial in the towns Andreas Park. The coun-
cil granted permission for preliminary dis-
cussions. But a title search revealed that
the land was deeded to the town only for
the purpose of recreation.
Now, Mr. Fox plans to appear before the
council on Tuesday to ask that space in the
towns Clarence W. Brett Park be allotted
for a memorial, which would be funded by
private donations.
Brett Park is on the west side of River
Road, just north of the towns recycling
center, opposite Downing Street and Win-
throp Road. It backs on to the Hackensack
River.
At this point, the memorial has no bud-
get and no fixed design.
We are planning an above-ground
memorial that people will be able to see
from the street, to stimulate discussion,
Mr. Fox said.
We certainly believe among the survi-
vors and second generation, there are a
lot of people who will be kind enough to
donate to this kind of thing, he said.
He expects to come up with designs
contingent on fundraising. We will prob-
ably come up with a plan A, plan B, plan
C in terms of designs and costs, he said.
He said he estimated that the cost would
be between $50,000 and $250,000.
The Brett Park plans will be simpler and
less expensive than the proposal offered
last March for Andreas Park. Mr. Fox had
sought to turn an unused boathouse there
into a Holocaust educational center.
One piece of the previous plan that
would continue in Brett Park: The chance
for donors to dedicate bricks or other
pieces of the memorial to relatives who
died in the Holocaust.
Like many members of committee plan-
ning the memorial, Mr. Fox is the child of
a survivor. His father escaped the Warsaw
Ghetto and hid in the woods, fighting the
Nazis with the partisan underground.
All of us feel an obligation to the victims
and the survivors of the Holocaust to per-
petuate the memory of the Shoah and con-
tinue to educate future generations so that
it will never happen again, he said.
People say to me, this is Teaneck, we
dont need something to remind us of the
Holocaust, but Holocaust awareness is
diminishing every year. The time is now.
Mr. Fox asked Rabbi Steven Burg, who
heads the New York office of the Los
Angeles-based Simon Wiesenthal Cen-
ter, to join him in addressing the Teaneck
council on Tuesday.
Rabbi Burg will talk about the global
push to erect and put up memorials
while there are still people who can tell
the story.
Rabbi Burg lives in Bergenfield, only a
couple blocks from the Teaneck border.
I happen to think a park is the right
place for a Holocaust memorial. Thats
where kids are. These memorials are a
constant reminder to be vigilant against
hate and intolerance and bullying and all
of these terrible things, Rabbi Burg said.
Named for former Teaneck Mayor Clar-
ence W. Brett, Brett Park today features
a small parking lot, a place to play soc-
cer, and woods. In the 19th century, mel-
ons and vegetables were grown there, on
manure imported from stables in Manhat-
tan. At the turn of the century, a resort,
Bensens Campground, opened. Set by the
river, the campground offered nine bun-
galows. In the 1920s, Teaneck opened a
sewage plant that dumped into the river,
making it unpleasant to swim in the Hack-
ensack and so dooming the resort. Farm-
ing continued on part of the property until
around 1961, when its owner, John Rekow,
died.
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Number one cheerleader
Alpine producer talks about winning a Tony
JOANNE PALMER
W
endy Federman of Alpine
was one of the team of
producers whose play,
All the Way, starring
Brian Cranston, won this years Tony for
best play.
So what exactly is a producer, and why
did she become one?
Why? That questions easy.
Her family background pulled her to
the theater.
You know the Haunted Mansion in
Disneyworld?
Its a creepy old house, oddly placed
in the Florida sunshine; the line to get
in worms through a faux graveyard with
faux-funny tombstones. Once you get
in your guide ominously intones the
instruction that you stand in the dead
center of the room the doors whine
and then slam closed, the southern light
is replaced with crepuscular shadows,
and a voice from an unseen source starts
to talk.
Welcome, foolish mortals, to the
Haunted Mansion, it says, as the room dips
and the paintings on the walls grow long.
Whos behi nd the di sembodi ed,
authoritative, spooky voice?
Its Ms. Federmans uncle, Paul Frees.
A successful voice actor, Mr. Frees cre-
ated the soundtracks for other Disney
attractions as well; it is Mr. Freess blood-
curdling bass telling visitors to the Pirates
of the Caribbean that dead men tell no
tales. He also provided the ho ho hos
for the Jolly Green Giant and the squeaks
for the Pillsbury Doughboy. Most amaz-
ingly and improbably, he also was the
voice that came out of Tony Curtiss stun-
ningly made up lips as Mr. Curtiss char-
acter, Joe, cross-dresses as Josephine.
(Mr. Curtis, the story goes, could not
maintain the falsetto long enough. Mr.
Frees could.)
Her mother was a radio and television
actress until she retired to Scarsdale to
have children, Ms. Federman said, and
her aunt, Joy Frees, became a well-known
vocal coach.
But Ms. Federman at first took after her
fathers side of the family, joining him in
the manufacture and global import of
wholesale and craft ribbon. She moved
to Alpine in 1989 and sent her children to
school locally; the family belongs to Cha-
vurat Beth Shalom in Alpine. She worked
locally too; she became a biofeedback
therapist, and then opened three centers
for biofeedback. That kept her busy.
But the theater was in her blood. How
to return to it?
First, she became an investor. I got to
know people, and to learn what I like and
what I dont like, she said. On every
show, you learn something from every-
one you work with. And I have so much
more to learn it never ends.
Becoming a producer was the logical
next step.
How to define the job? Thats not easy,
because there are so many ways to do it.
The first obligation is the most obvious
you have to help provide the financ-
ing any production needs. Beyond that,
you do everything, she said. You are
interacting with the creative team: with
the directors and actors if its a musical,
with the musicians; with your marketing
team to make sure that its being mar-
keted correctly.
You are the shows number one
cheerleader.
There are many levels of producers,
she added. There are the ones who con-
tribute money and little else. They are
wonderful, and we need them they
write a check and say Ill see you on
opening night. But I prefer being hands
on.
The more active producers do the
myriad jobs that must be done but have
no one specifically designated to do
them. I have cooked and made food for
actors, she said. There was an actress
who came from London, who thought
that March in New York was springtime.
She came without a coat, in flats with no
socks. Ms. Federman soon sorted that
out. I ran and got her a robe she came
from the shower with just a towel and
a coat, she said.
Once you start as a producer, you also
watch more seasoned veterans care-
fully, and you learn. Eventually, if you
are good, you are asked to be part of the
team of lead producers; beyond that is
the major responsibility of becoming a
general partner.
A musical can cost $5 million on the
cheap side, and easily go to $10 million
or more, she said.
Although nonprofit theaters such as
Lincoln Center and Roundabout need
fewer producers, because theatrical pro-
ductions have become so extraordinarily
expensive there can be seven or eight to
a show.
Every show is its own little business
entity, Ms. Federman continued. Every
show is entirely different.
Different shows have different vibes.
Some actors are warmer and fuzzier than
others. Bryan Cranston who went from a
terrifying turn on Breaking Bad to a dif-
ferently terrifying Lyndon Baines Johnson
has to be the sweetest, funniest, most
generous actor.
Wendy Federman and her daughter, Heather, celebrate at the Tony award
celebration.
Wendy Federman is a producer of All The Way, which won the Tony for
best play.
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The Tony she won two weeks ago for All The
Way is her third; the other two were for revivals of
Pippin and Hair. She also has won a number of
other awards, including Drama Desk, Drama League,
and Outer Critics Circle.
Pippin is a very physical show, with a lot of
Cirque du Soleil kind of movements, Ms. Federman
said. A lot of acrobatics. And there is no net under
these people. There are no do-overs. It is a real thing.
Some of the performers come from circus families.
I have always tried to look for things that say some-
thing positive, that bring a certain message across,
she said. And we employ dozens if not hundreds of
people every week. We are doing good work.
Ms. Federmans involvement with the theater goes
beyond the shows she is producing. There is just so
much creativity around, she said. So much has to
happen so fast and so seamlessly, and it is so won-
derful when it does all work. I know that were not
doing brain surgery here, but it is really hard to do
and a wonderful thing to watch.
Ms. Federman is a Tony voter, and she takes that
responsibility seriously. Beyond that, she adores
lives theater so during her down time she treks all
over the city, finding small productions, watching,
taking notes, paying attention.
She is now working on bringing both Bull Dur-
ham and You Cant Take It With You to Broadway.
Bull Durham is a play based on the 1988 movie,
and You Cant Take It With You is a revival of the
classic play by George S. Kaufman and Moss Hart.
(The late Moss Hart is undergoing his own revival;
the critically acclaimed Act One, now on Broad-
way, is based on his memoir.)
When Ms. Federman won the Tony for All The
Way, she already was a veteran at accepting awards.
She had learned the hard way that when you go
up onstage in front of an audience, you dont want
to carry your handbag. (Except, of course, if you are
Queen Elizabeth.) She goes to the presentations with
her daughter, who ends up holding the bag. Literally.
She looks at me, and she says, take your lipstick.
Give me your bag. Give me the phone. And then Ms.
Federman climbs up onto the stage. Winning its
the icing on the cake, she said.
To find out more about Ms. Federman, go to her
website. Its named in memory of her uncles most
well-loved lines foolishmortalsproductions.com.
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Topol and Yehoram Gaon and me
Our film reviewer meets two legends of Israeli cinema
ERIC A. GOLDMAN
I
t is not every week that two legends of the Israeli cin-
ema come to town.
Last Monday, Topol was at Town Hall in Manhattan
for Raising the Roof, the National Yiddish Theater-
Folksbienes tribute to fifty years of Fiddler on the Roof,
honoring lyricist Sheldon Harnick. (The Jewish Standard ran
a preview of this performance on May 16. The Folksbienes
artistic director, Zalmen Mlotek, lives in Teaneck.)
The 78 year-old Topol is known for his portrayal of Tevye
in Norman Jewisons 1971 film adaptation of the stage classic.
On stage on Monday, Topol sang an a cappella version of If
I Were a Rich Man. The rendition held the audience spell-
bound. It was absolutely brilliant.
Others appearing at the wonderful gala event were many
of the actors who played a variety of roles in various film
and stage versions of Fiddler. (There also were some inevi-
table disappointments. The films director, Mr. Jewison, and
Bel Kaufman, the 103-year-old granddaughter of Sholem
Aleichem, who wrote the Tevye stories, were set to appear
as well. But Ms. Kaufman took a fall a week before the show,
and Mr. Jewisons flight never made it out of Los Angeles. They
were missed.)
Three days later, at the opening of the JCC of Manhattans
Israel Film Festival, Yehoram Gaon was honored for lifetime
achievement in Israeli cinema. The renowned vocalist has
acted in many Israeli movies, and he has produced musical
film documentaries that have warmed the hearts of Israelis
and Jews across the world these last 40 years. After being
introduced by Academy-Award nominated director Joseph
Cedar, the 74 year-old Mr. Gaon told the audience that the
occasion truly was special. In Israel, he said, artists generally
are recognized only when they are being eulogized.
Mr. Gaon admitted that he initially refused Mr. Cedars
request to take a small role in a 2004 film, Campfire,
but was convinced when the director sent him a bouquet
of flowers, along with a note that said that some famous
actors, like Frank Sinatra, had achieved greatness in their
smaller film roles. Mr. Cedar noted that Yehoram Gaon
represented the collective identity of a nation. I totally
agree with that statement.
Both Chaim Topol and Yehoram Gaon gained attention
as film actors in Israel in the 1960s. Topol had parts in two
early 1960s films, I Like Mike and El Dorado, but his big
break came with the 1964 Sallah Shabbati and his brilliant
portrayal of an immigrant from North Africa who arrives
in Israel with his wife and pack of children. The film, writ-
ten and directed by Ephraim Kishon, was nominated for an
Oscar and won the Golden Globe for best foreignlanguage
film, with Topol winning a Golden Globe for most promis-
ing newcomer. For the fiftieth anniversary of its release, a
restored print of Sallah is to be shown in mid-July at the
Jerusalem Film Festival and it is hinted that it will be broad-
cast on TCM: Turner Movie Classics as part of its upcoming
September television series, The Projected Image-The Jewish
Experience on Film.
Sallah was the first Israeli film to attract any real attention
in this country, and Jews across America walked a little taller
when they saw it on movie theater marquees.
Two years later, Topol was playing Abou ibn Kader in Mel-
ville Shavelsons Cast A Giant Shadow.
Meanwhile, Yehoram Gaon, after leaving the army and the
Nachal Entertainment Troupe, joined with Arik Einstein and
Benny Amdursky to form a singing group called Shlishiat
Gesher Hayarkon (Gesher Bridge Trio). Not so coinciden-
tally, Mr. Einstein had performed with Topol in Batzal Yarok
(Green Onion). Mr. Einstein, who died earlier this year, would
later form Chalonot Hagvohim (The High Windows) and
become one of Israels great songwriters, actors and vocalists;
Mr. Amdursky, who died in 1994, had been part of the group
called the Dudaim, along with Israel Gurion.
Mr. Gaons first film role was with Mr. Einstein and Mr.
Amdursky in the 1964 Dalia Vehamalachim (Dalia and the
Sailors).
While Topol, a Jew of Ashkenazi descent, was playing a
Sephardi in Sallah and an Arab in Cast A Giant Shadow,
Mr. Gaon, whose parents came from Turkey and Macedonia,
seized on the opportunity to play a Moroccan in Kazablan, a
stage role he was offered while studying acting in New York in
1967. Kazablan would change the actor/vocalists life; as he
told me, he took on the part of this Sephardi Israeli, portrayed
in the movie as a second-class citizen, as a lifetime role.
To this day, people greet him in the streets of Israel by call-
ing out Kaza! and he waves back with pride.
Mr. Gaons stage performance brought him immediate
acclaim. He also has become an advocate for Sephardic music,
and the Ladino romanceros that he recorded remain favorites
today.
How interesting it is that both of these legends took their
stage roles and turned them into two great cinematic perfor-
mances. Topol came off the London stage as Tevye to star
in Mr. Jewisons adaptation of the play, and Mr. Gaon played
Kazablan in Menachem Golans 1974 film version of the stage
original.
Yehoram Gaon still performs, his music is a staple of
Israeli radio, and he takes pride in being a citizen and
spokesperson for the city of Jerusalem. Mr. Gaons 1971
Ani Yerushalmi (I Was Born in Jerusalem) has him travel-
ing on a carriage through the streets of the city, perform-
ing a variety of magnificent songs that were written by
Dov Seltzer and Haim Hefer. In his 1989 From Toledo to
Jerusalem, Mr. Gaon traces his Sephardic roots in Ladino
song and narration; five years ago, he made No Longer
from Jerusalem.
His achievements include playing Eli in the 1969 clas-
sic Siege, the part of Yonatan Netanyahu in Menachem
Golans 1977 Operation Thunderbolt, and Yoram in the
1982 television series called Krovim, Krovim. He and his
good friend Gila Almagor have been doing a great deal
of theater together lately; he also appears in concert. I
still remember when Mr. Gaon performed the song Rosa
from Kazablan at the 1975 Golden Globe Awards. It was one
of those special moments, watching the Israeli crooner on
television across the world, zeroing in on an adoring Jean
Stapleton, who was there as a nominee for her portrayal
of Edith in the television hit All in the Family.
Topol has had a brilliant acting career, and his performance
at the Folksbiene gala makes it clear that he still can belt it out.
The actor reprised his Tevye role in 1990 on Broadway; it is
impossible to forget the incredible gymnastics he performed
onstage. After Fiddler and Cast a Giant Shadow, his most
memorable roles were in Mr. Kishons 1967 Ervinka, the
1979 made-for-television The House on Garibaldi Street, his
role as Berel Jastrow in the 1983 and 1989 TV miniseries The
Winds of War and War and Remembrance, and his incred-
ible performance as Yacov Apfelschnitt in Jeroen Krabbes
1998 Left Luggage, a personal favorite. In 1979, Topol also
was involved in creating the New Media Bible; he played
the role of Abraham.
Topol and Yehoram Gaon represent the best that classic
Israeli cinema has to present. They deserve our praise, and all
the honors bestowed on them. Both men were pioneers, and
they remain vibrant forces in creating the new Jewish culture
that was the dream of the countrys pioneers.
Eric Goldman, the Jewish Standards film reviewer, is writing a
book on Israeli cinema. This summer, he will be a fellow at the
Schusterman Institute for Israel Studies at Brandeis University.
Raising the Roof brought together scores of actors of all ages who are veterans of Fiddler performances.
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for afternoon activities
LARRY YUDELSON
W
hen the Moriah School in
Englewood conducted a
parent survey last year, it
found that in three quar-
ters of the families, both parents worked.
It was time to rethink after-school
activities.
School leaders turned to two women,
Debbie Prince and Gila Comet, who both
work in Englewoods recreation depart-
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with an after-school program that would
let parents pick up their children at
6 p.m.
The result: Moriah Plus, a program
that will launch with the new school year
in the fall and which wont be only for
Moriah students.
Ms. Prince and Ms. Comet hope to
attract students who live in Englewood
but attend other schools, including pub-
lic schools.
Its very important for Moriah stu-
dents to be exposed to other students,
who are not from the same background,
said Ms. Prince.
The program will include snacks,
homework help, recreation, and even bar
mitzvah lessons.
It will run from 3:30 to 6 p.m.
When your children come home,
you can have some quality family time
without the stress of homework and the
stress of shuttling your kids to activities
after a long day of work, Ms. Comet
promised.
Activities will include chess, Zumba,
soccer, fencing, flag football, volley-
ball, art, beading, yoga,
Pilates, writing, dance,
drama, and musi c.
Everything you could
possibly imagine, she
said. In the past, yeshi-
vas offered just basket-
ball or hockey. Were
tying to make sure every
child inds a place in the
program.
Both Ms. Comet and
Ms. Prince have children
in Moriah, as well as
older children who have
graduated.
Ms. Prince had been
president of the Moriah
Association of Parents
and established Club
Hub, the schools after-
school program. Where
Club Hub brought in commercial pro-
gram providers for its after-school activi-
ties, Moriah Plus will hire instructors
rather than programs, and it will retain
more control over the programming. We
are developing a wonderful staff who are
passionate and committed, Ms. Prince
said.
This will bring the costs down.
The program will cost $200 or $250 for
a one-day-a-week eight-week session.
Though they both send their children
to Moriah and belong to Congregation
Ahavath Torah in Englewood, Ms. Prince
and Ms. Comet met at Englewoods recre-
ation department. Ms. Prince was work-
ing part-time there in marketing; she had
taken a hiatus from her career to have
children. Then Gila walked in, looking
for part-time work, she said. Together,
we helped make the department grow
and extended it to a place where every-
one could ind something.
Then the school came to us.
Ms. Comet said that Moriah is doing
all they can to make this happen for their
families, and the broader Jewish commu-
nity around them. Theyre doing this as a
service for the community.
Gila Comet Debbie Prince
MORIAH PLUS
SAMPLE DAY




Early Childhood
3:30 4:30pm Elective activity

4:30pm Optional early pick-up
4:30 5:45pm Supervised snack & group play
5:45 6:00pm Dismissal

Lower School
3:30 4:45pm Supervised snack and homework

4:30 5:45pm Elective activity

5:45 6:00pm Dismissal

Middle School
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JFSNJ installs new slate
Jewish Family Service of North Jersey recently held its 70th annual meeting. From left,
immediate past president Sue Ann Levin; secretary Sue Feldman; new president Allyn
Michaelson; treasurer Elizabeth Cole; vice presidents Sue Nagler and Zahava Trosten, and
past president Paula Shaiman. Vice president Jim Lowenstein is not pictured.
Nahums and Gerard to be honored
The Jewish Community
Center of Paramus/Con-
gregation Beth Tikvah
will hold its 32nd annual
journal dinner dance on
Sunday, June 22. The
annual celebration hon-
ors outstanding mem-
bers of the community;
a commemorative jour-
nal will be published in
conjunction with it.
This years honorees
are long-time members Roz Gerard and
Gloria and Al Nahum. Ms. Gerard has
headed the shuls community affairs
committee for many years. Its success
has been recognized both within the
synagogue and in the community at
large. The Nahums have contributed to
the JCCP/CBT in many ways, including
leading Yesterday, Today, and Tomor-
row, a weekly discussion group.
Albert and Gloria Nahum Roz Gerard
Richard M. Joel
Huberman cited by social workers
Dr. Steven Huberman of
Teaneck, founding and cur-
rent dean of the Touro Col-
lege Graduate School of Social
Work, received the prestigious
Social Work Image award from
the National Association of
Social Workers at the New York
City chapters annual meeting
in Manhattan.
Si nc e Dr. Huber man
launched the graduate school
eight years ago, the school has
grown from an MSW class of 60
students to 300 students today.
His efforts also have led Touro
to cover each of its students
NASW membership dues, and
he has been a tireless advocate
in seeking to secure higher pay for social
workers.
Dr. Huberman is president of the New
York Association of Deans of Schools of
Social Work. In addition, he recently co-
chaired Lobby Day in Albany, which
brought students and faculty to the state
capital to advocate for loan forgiveness
for social workers and for passage of the
Dream Act, which would have allowed
undocumented students access to state
financial aid and scholarships for higher
education. These efforts led to an appro-
priation of $1.25 million from the New
York State legislature.
Dr. Huberman, who earned his Ph.D.
from Brandeis University, has written or
co-authored more than 50 major pub-
lications, with his research focusing on
growing old in America, social work pol-
icy, and coping with the attacks on 9/11.
He also writes a regular column, The
Touro Advisor, which concentrates on
mental health issues.
Dr. Steven Huberman, left, with Dr. Robert
Schachter, executive director of the National
Association of Social Workers-New York City.
Clifton Jewish Center celebrating 70 years
The Clifton Jewish Center is marking its 70th year in Clifton with a dinner dance on Sun-
day, June 22, at 2:30 p.m. It was the first Jewish organization established in that city.
Today, it is the only synagogue left in Clifton. Call (973) 772-3131 or visit www.cliftonjew-
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Marking the rebbes yahrzeit
Yeshiva Universitys president, Richard M. Joel, is the keynote
speaker at an evening dedicated to the 20th yahrzeit of Rabbi
Menachem Mendel Schneerson, sponsored by the Rabbinical Col-
lege of America and New Jerseys Chabad shluchim. It is set for
Monday, June 23, at 7:30 p.m., at the Wilshire Grand Hotel, 350
Pleasant Valley Way in West Orange, and will include a buffet des-
sert. The suggested sponsorship is $18. For information, call (973)
267-9404 or email info@rca.edu.
Rabbi Marcus appointed
to faculty at Lander College
Rabbi Shmuel Marcus has been named a member of the rab-
binic faculty at Beis Medrash LTalmud, an affiliate of Lander
College for Men in Kew Gardens Hills in Queens.
Rabbi Marcus received semicha from the Rabbi Isaac
Elchanan Theological Seminary, where he studied with his
grandfather, Rabbi Ahron Soloveichik. For the last 10 years
he has been a rebbe in Yeshiva Universitys Beis Medrash
program. He is also the rabbi of Kehilas Ishei Yisrael in Kew
Gardens Hills, a vice president of the Vaad Harabonim, and a
member of the RCA Beis Din for Conversions, all in Queens.
The Lander College for Men is an undergraduate division of Touro College.
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JHRs Sunni Herman speaks
at White House symposium
Sunni Herman, executive vice president
of the Jewish Home at Rockleigh, spoke at
the White House on Friday, June 13, dur-
ing a symposium about issues affecting the
elderly. The symposium was organized by
the Association of Jewish Aging Services.
Ms. Herman discussed pending legislation
about Medicare and eligibility requirements
for skilled nursing facilities. CEOs from the
Jewish Homes in Los Angeles, Philadelphia,
Chicago, Kansas, Denver, the Oscar and Ella
Wilf Campus for Senior Living in Somerset,
and the Hebrew Home in Riverdale, N.Y.,
also were there.
Myrna Block, president of the board
of the Jewish Home at Rockleigh, left,
and Sunni Herman, JHRs executive
vice president, flank New Jersey Sena-
tor Cory Booker in the Hart Senate
Building in Washington. The pair also
met with staffers from the offices of
Senator Robert Menendez and Con-
gressman Scott Garrett.
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Leader couple joins Rockland Chabad
Rabbi Simcha and Simmy Morgenstern
have joined the Jewish community of
Rockland. Rabbi Morgenstern is the new
director of outreach and education at
Chabad, where he will direct its Hebrew
school and co-direct Camp Gan Israel of
Rockland. Mrs. Morgenstern will teach at
the Hebrew Academy, initiate programs
for women, and help with community
outreach.
An open house to welcome them is set
for Thursday, June 26, at the Chabad Jew-
ish Community Center in New City, begin-
ning at 7:30 p.m.
Temple Emeth honors
high school grads
Temple Emeth in Teaneck honored its
high school graduates during services
on June 6. Rabbi Joshua Leighton, who
will be leaving the Temple Emeth clergy
team to serve as the director of youth
engagement at Temple Har Shalom in
Warren, also was honored.
A college student committee headed
by Nancy Scher and Gail Talcoff will keep
the college-bound students in touch with
synagogue activities.
Top row from left, are Jason Anesini, Jason Kooistra, and Benjamin Wolinsky.
Middle row, Adam Kohane, Jared Lieberman, and Rabbi Joshua Leighton.
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Bring them home
Eyal Yifrach.
Naftali Frankel.
Gilad Shaar.
There really is very little that we
can say.
It is a nightmare. One 19-year-old
and two 16-year-olds, kidnapped.
Taken. Gone.
The fears it evokes are primal.
Everyone who is a parent can imag-
ine the horror, the disbelief, the
numbness, the battle between hope
and despair, white and black, life and
death.
Everyone who has even been a
teenager can imagine the terror of
being taken, grabbed, moved away
from all light and love.
The world is rapidly becoming an
even more terrifying place than it had
been. Syria is falling apart, Russia is
reverting to form, the huge-scale hor-
rors in Nigeria are incomprehensible.
Our world increasingly makes no
sense.
And now this kidnapping, striking
at our hearts.
There are some small grace notes
that come from this nightmare.
The entire Jewish world is pulling
together. In Israel, we are told, the
left and the right are united on this;
bringing back our children trumps
everything else. Here, too, in the
diaspora, fear and hope and longing
unite us.
Across the region, Jews are meeting
to pray and talk together. From the
crucible of the emotion the unfold-
ing nightmare evokes, perhaps some
new understanding can be forged.
The situation continues to intensify
as time passes. Our coverage begins
on page 27. Because we are a weekly
newspaper we cannot update at web
speed, but we urge you to follow our
Facebook page. As soon as new infor-
mation appears anywhere on the
web, it is posted there. Its at www.
facebook.com/JewishStandard.
We join all Jews everywhere in
wishing that Eyal, Naftali, and Gilad
be free soon, and that they rejoin
their families in complete health and
wholeness. -JP
KEEPING THE FAITH
The threat from
the Christian
Right
A
s July 4 approaches, let us keep in mind the
two freedoms that should matter most to
us: freedom of religion, and freedom from
being governed by another religion.
Both are enshrined in the First Amendment to the
Constitution. And both are under constant attack from
the Christian Right. Such bible-thumping preachers as
John Hagee and his son Matthew all too often implore
their followers to continue the good fight to make
our godless society into the Christian nation its
founders intended, ruled by Gods Word as they
twistedly interpret it.
The older Hagee often says as much. America, he
said in a sermon last December, was founded by
Christians on Christian
principles according to
the word of God (and
who deliberately created
the separation of church
and state Hagee hates). He
added, If our belief in God
offends you, move.
Hagee was addressing
a l l huma ni s t s a nd
atheists, and anyone else
who objects to hearing
Christmas carols and seeing
nativity scenes in public
spaces. I am neither an atheist nor a humanist, but I
also object to such things (as I object to chanukiot in
the public square). So, Hagee was also talking to me
when he said in that sermon, Planes are leaving every
hour on the hour; get on one.
The younger Hagee at times is scarier than his father.
Just a couple of months ago, for example, he went
on the televised Hagee Hotline to urge followers
to be more proactive in seeing to it that our faith is
established in our culture. He urged them to become
more aggressive in your beliefs, and said, theres a
value in spiritual violence.
These are dangerous people. They fill malleable
minds with all kinds of absurdities about Gods Word,
although they lack any understanding of Gods Word.
What makes them dangerous, however, is not what
Shammai Engelmayer is rabbi of Temple Israel
Community Center | Congregation Heichal Yisrael in
Cliffside Park and Temple Beth El of North Bergen.
18 JEWISH STANDARD JUNE 20, 2014
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Condemning a trip to Auschwitz
Last March, Professor Mohammed
Dajani, head of the Al-Quds Univer-
sity Department of American Stud-
ies in East Jerusalem, led a delega-
tion of 30 Palestinian students to
Auschwitz-Birkenau. It was believed
to be the first organized visit by a
Palestinian student group to the
death camps. Two Jewish Holo-
caust survivors guided the delega-
tion, which also spent several days
in Krakow.
At the same time, Israeli students
toured a Palestinian refugee camp.
Mr. Dajani hoped that the trip
would convince both the Pales-
tinian and the Israelis that the
conflict between them need not be
intractable.
Israel and the United States
praised him and the trip he led.
On May 18, Mr. Dajani, a former
Fatah fighter whom Israel had
banned for 30 years, resigned from
Al-Quds. Instead of supporting him,
the university had expelled him
from the staff union, and made its
displeasure with him clear. Fellow
Palestinians called him a traitor.
Mr. Dajani had hoped that the
university would reject his resigna-
tion, thus sending what he called a
clear message that the university
supports academic freedom, and
considers my trip as an educational
journey in search of knowledge.
He also said that the universitys
acceptance of his June 1 resignation
exposed Palestinian double talk
when it comes to freedom of speech
and academic freedom.
We are saddened that the realities
on the ground brought Mr. Dajani
down. He is courageous, and his
intentions are good. We hope that
his work will continue, and that
more people within both Israeli and
Palestinian academic worlds will at
least use education as the wire cut-
ters to cut through the barbed wire
of hate and ignorance. - PJ
Shammai
Engelmayer
On June 15, thousands gather at the Western Wall to pray for the re-
lease of the three kidnapped teenagers YONATAN SINDEL/FLASH90.
KEEPING THE FAITH
The threat from
the Christian
Right
A
s July 4 approaches, let us keep in mind the
two freedoms that should matter most to
us: freedom of religion, and freedom from
being governed by another religion.
Both are enshrined in the First Amendment to the
Constitution. And both are under constant attack from
the Christian Right. Such bible-thumping preachers as
John Hagee and his son Matthew all too often implore
their followers to continue the good fight to make
our godless society into the Christian nation its
founders intended, ruled by Gods Word as they
twistedly interpret it.
The older Hagee often says as much. America, he
said in a sermon last December, was founded by
Christians on Christian
principles according to
the word of God (and
who deliberately created
the separation of church
and state Hagee hates). He
added, If our belief in God
offends you, move.
Hagee was addressing
a l l huma ni s t s a nd
atheists, and anyone else
who objects to hearing
Christmas carols and seeing
nativity scenes in public
spaces. I am neither an atheist nor a humanist, but I
also object to such things (as I object to chanukiot in
the public square). So, Hagee was also talking to me
when he said in that sermon, Planes are leaving every
hour on the hour; get on one.
The younger Hagee at times is scarier than his father.
Just a couple of months ago, for example, he went
on the televised Hagee Hotline to urge followers
to be more proactive in seeing to it that our faith is
established in our culture. He urged them to become
more aggressive in your beliefs, and said, theres a
value in spiritual violence.
These are dangerous people. They fill malleable
minds with all kinds of absurdities about Gods Word,
although they lack any understanding of Gods Word.
What makes them dangerous, however, is not what
Opinion
they say, but to how many people they say it to at the
same time tens of thousands of people via television,
YouTube videos, Facebook pages, and the like.
Bible-thumpers are not new; they have been
around since the founding of this Republic, and they
congregate more in the South than the North.
The South was always more Christian religious
than the North. Its churches for the most part
defended slavery, and joined in the cheering following
the Supreme Courts 1857 decision in Dred Scott v.
Sanford. A runaway slave was returned to his master
and Gods Word was preserved. Hallelujah!
Only, Gods Word on the subject was ignored,
not preserved. It is found in Deuteronomy 23:16-17:
You shall not turn over to his master a slave who
seeks refuge with you from his master. He shall live
with you in any place he may choose among the
settlements in your midst, wherever he pleases; you
must not ill-treat him.
One could argue that Dred Scott is ancient history,
but that misses the bigger picture that Torah
commandments paint. In this case, what is a runaway
slave if not someone fleeing persecution, or because
he or she fears for the lives of his or her family and him
or herself ? What is a runaway slave if not someone
who wants a chance at a better life?
What is a runaway slave if not an illegal immigrant
by another name?
Yet many on the Christian Right most, perhaps,
but not all oppose anything that even comes close
to immigration reform. They want no part of fast-
tracking illegals, or allowing the children of
illegals to attend schools, or treating illegals in
emergency rooms.
Maimonides, the Rambam, had a much better
understanding of Gods Word. To him, the runaway
slave commandment was filled with responsibilities
toward the fugitive. Not only must we protect and
defend those who seek our protection and not deliver
them over to those from whom they have fled, but we
also are under another obligation toward him: you
must consider his interests, be beneficent toward him,
and not pain his heart by speech. (See Guide for the
Perplexed, Book III, Chapter 59.)
Gods Word has much more to say on the subject,
however, including an emphasis on how we are to
treat the stranger, visitor, or long-time resident. It
starts with Leviticus 19:34, which is a commandment
to love the stranger. A contemporary commentator,
Rabbi Shlomo Riskin, once explained the verse this
way: You shall love the ger [stranger], because
you were gerim [strangers] in the land of Egypt. We
were total strangers to the Egyptians, who therefore
dehumanized us and enslaved us. We are enjoined to
treat the other or the stranger clearly in this context
the non-Jew with love, rather than discrimination
and persecution.
In last weeks portion, the Torah emphasized several
times that there had to be one law for us and for the
stranger within our gates. [I]t shall be a law for all
time throughout the ages. You and the stranger shall
be alike before the Lord. (See Numbers 15:14-16.)
Gods Word may be a tempting alternative to the
way things are now in this country, but not the way
the Christian Right interprets it. John Hagee especially
is revered by Jewish organizations, governmental
leaders in the State of Israel, and even individual Jews,
because he heads the largest pro-Israel advocacy
group in the world, Christians United For Israel.
It is a good thing he is so effective at it, because if he
and the Christian Right ever got their way here, Israel
would be the only place we could run to.
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Stones with a human heart
T
he lyrics of the classic Israeli
song Ha-Kotel (The
Western Wall) created
by Yossi Gamzu and Dubi
Zellser, and popularized by Ofra Haza,
among others took on a newly pro-
phetic timbre of late: Yesh anashim
im lev shel even, yesh avanim im lev
adam There are people with hearts
of stone, and there are Stones with a
human heart.
The Rolling Stones, to be precise:
the legendary British rock band played
a concert in Tel Avivs Yarkon Park for
some 50,000 appreciative fans, despite
political pressure by the BDS (Boycott-
Divestment-Sanctions) movement to
cancel their appearance. Efforts to
intimidate the band repeated the usual specious and hateful
rhetoric and familiar canards. Rafeef Ziadah, a BDS spokes-
man lectured: We urge the Rolling Stones to refrain from
playing in apartheid Israel and not to condone Israels viola-
tions of international law and human rights against the Pales-
tinian people. With good cause,
Israeli Prime Minister Binyamin
Netanyahu has quipped that BDS
really stands for Bigotry, Dishon-
esty, and Shame.
The concert was held on June
4, the night after Shavuot. The
Stones appearance was delayed
to a later hour (despite local ordi-
nances prohibiting loud music
after 11 p.m.) so that religiously
observant fans could get there
without violating the sanctity of
the festival. Mick Jagger greeted
the crowd with Chag Shavuot sameach! Jagger, Keith Rich-
ards, Charlie Watts, and Ronnie Wood, together with an
entourage of (a biblically resonant!) 70 crew and family mem-
bers, toured Jerusalem and Tel Aviv, and they visited the Dead
Sea in advance of the concert. After the concert, Mick Jagger
tweeted his appreciation: Todah Thanks to everyone in
Israel for the great reception. It was a great concert and we
will always remember it. Nizkor otah tamid.
Those who have Israels well-being at heart should remem-
ber it too. Whether our support for the Jewish state is
grounded in religious identification, or it is a matter of prin-
ciple with no Jewish ethnic or nationalistic basis simply
because Israel is a faithful American ally and a besieged island
of modernity, stability, and democracy amid a sea of unrest,
revolution, and anti-Americanism we rightly decry the
BDS movement and its advocates. While identifying the evils
of BDS, we are similarly duty-bound to celebrate those who
defy its ugly politics. Such independence, moral courage, and
friendship are not to be taken for granted, especially when
it comes from such a renowned and influential group as the
Rolling Stones. The Jewish people is adept, as a result of a long
and unfortunate history of irrational detractors, at identifying
attacks and offenses. We would do well to hone our collective
skill at recognizing the hand of friendship when it is extended,
and at reciprocating with genuine and warm appreciation.
Israeli president Shimon Peres, soon to leave office, appar-
ently shared in the enthusiastic response to the concert. He
posted a note on his Facebook page, quoting the Stones hit:
You Cant Always Get What You Want.
Of course, the Stones are not the first to break ranks and
perform in the Jewish state. Among those who have done so
are, notably, Elton John, Paul McCartney, Neil Young, Cyndi
Lauper, Aerosmith, Bob Dylan, Lady Gaga, Madonna, Guns N
Roses... and others. Nizkor otah tamid.
The politics of BDS demonstrates that there are indeed
anashim im lev shel even people with hearts of stone.
(You better go home, cause youll, youll never break this
heart of stone, as the Rolling Stones lyric has it.) The warm
and gracious response of Mick Jagger and company to their
Israeli public has made it abundantly clear, too, that yesh
avanim im lev adam there are Stones with human hearts.
There are precious hearts that understand that boycotts and
exclusion, isolation and cynical campaigns to delegitimize
legitimate regimes are no road to peace.
Hearts that understand that these political weapons belong
in the hands neither of performers and artists (cue Alice
Walker, Elvis Costello, Carlos Santana), nor those of academ-
ics and scientists (AAAS, ASA, AUT, MLA, PACBI, et al: take
note). Did the Stones go to Israel to express sympathy with
the Zionist cause? To reject rejectionism and boycott as a mat-
ter of artistic principle? Solely motivated by their 5.4 million
dollar concert deal (the amount has been reported by some
as approaching 7 million)? Whatever their motives, I celebrate
their choices (or at least this one!). They defied the forces of
hatred masquerading as social conscience. Thereve been
good times, thereve been bad times Though these hard
times are buggin me now, Honey, now its a sin. Theres gotta
be trust in this world, or it wont get very far.
Perhaps it is not too optimistic to hope that the motzaei
Shavuot concert in Tel Aviv is a milestone heralding the ulti-
mate failure of the BDS movement, betokening a trend toward
more even-handed, tolerant, and, indeed, appreciative atti-
tudes toward the Jewish state.
Or as Naomi Shemer, the first lady of Israeli song and
poetry put it, Ki min ha-avanim ha-eleh yibaneh ha-Mik-
dash From these Stones, a more sanctified future will be
built. May her words, too, prove prophetic.
Joseph Prouser is rabbi of Temple Emanuel of North Jersey in
Franklin Lakes.
Rabbi Joseph
H. Prouser
The Rolling Stones played to appreciative fans in Tel Aviv, defying the
BDS movement.
The politics of BDS
demonstrates that there
are indeed anashim im
lev shel even people
with hearts of stone.
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Superhero spring
Examing the midrash of popular cinematic culture
T
he second quarter
of 2014 has been
rather remarkable
for superhero mov-
ies, with three different films,
Captain America: The Winter
Soldier, The Amazing Spider-
Man 2, and X-Men: Days of
Future Past, in the theaters all
at the same time at one point.
All three movies are adap-
tations of Marvel Comics, the
publishing group launched by Stan Lee (aka
Stanley Lieber) in 1961, and purchased by Dis-
ney in 2009. Stan Lee was the son of Jewish
immigrants from Romania, and as a teenager
took a job in 1939 with Timely Publications,
the company that he eventually would evolve
into Marvel Comics.
The Marvel Age, as it came to be known,
was in many ways the result of a collabora-
tion between Lee, as writer and editor, and
the artist Jack Kirby. Kirby (aka Jacob Kurtz-
berg), the son of Jewish immigrants from Aus-
tria, started to work as a comics artist in 1936,
and was hired by Timely in 1940, while he
was still in his early 20s. He worked with Joe
Simon, just a few years his senior and also the
son of Jewish immigrants, and the two cre-
ated the most famous of patriotically-themed
superheroes, Captain America.
Fighting Nazis months before
the United States entered the
Second World War, this hero
stood as a counter to Nazi theo-
ries of racial superiority, as the
product of good old American
know-how.
Captain America originally
was a frail and weak young
man, unfit for military duty,
until he was given an experi-
mental serum that transformed him into a
super soldier. In a reflection of the egali-
tarianism of American culture, anyone
receiving the same treatment could reach
the height of human perfection just as he
had. But the secret formula died with the
scientist who created it who was assas-
sinated by a Nazi spy.
At first glance Captain America comes
across as an all-American hero, but his
story in fact encapsulates the intergenera-
tional experience of immigrants and their
children. Growing up in Europe under dif-
ficult conditions, immigrants tended to be
relatively small of stature, sometimes sickly,
while their children, born and raised in
the United States, grew up tall and strong
due to superior diet and medical care. The
powerful resonance of this hero, resur-
rected by Lee and Kirby a few years into
the Marvel Age, continued despite the
counterculture movement (Peter Fondas
character in the 1969 film Easy Rider
was nicknamed Captain America), and is
still present in the sequel to the first Cap-
tain America film, in which Scarlett Johans-
son reprises her role as the superspy Black
Widow. Captain America: The Winter Sol-
dier continues to remind us of the moral
clarity of the American fight against Nazism
(in the films largely represented by the fic-
tional organization Hydra), as well as the
ideal of the American dream, which tells us
that we can improve upon and remake our-
selves through our own ingenuity.
Lee and Kirby also created the X-Men,
a superhero team composed of mutants,
born with genetic differences that resulted
in extraordinary powers and abilities. While
originally framed as stories about good
mutants battling evil mutants, the concept
naturally lent itself to stories about preju-
dice, drawing upon themes derived from
the history of anti-Semitism and the Holo-
caust and the civil rights movement. Mag-
neto, one of the X-Mens main antagonists,
espoused a variation on Nazi racial theo-
ries, arguing that mutants constitute a new
species, which he dubbed homo superior.
Lee and Kirby never intended for the char-
acter to be seen as Jewish, although as the
back story evolved he was shown to have
been a victim of the Nazis, who after all per-
secuted a number of other minority groups.
Decades after the character was intro-
duced, however, he was transformed into a
Jewish-Holocaust-survivor-turned-terrorist
through a bit of revisionist comic book his-
tory, something of a Malcolm X and Meir Kah-
ane for mutants. In the comics, this depiction
is balanced by the presence of other, entirely
positive Jewish heroes, such as the young
mutant Kitty Pryde, who plays a significant
role in X-Men: Days of Future Past, but is
never identified in regard to religion or eth-
nicity. That balance is entirely missing in the
2011 film, X-Men: First Class, which shows
Magnetos childhood experiences in a Nazi
concentration camp. While this serves to
explain his militancy, the transformation
from victim to villain cannot be entirely
justified, and the characterization would
seem to reflect changing attitudes toward
Israel and Zionism in recent years. Thank-
fully, this years X-Men film (the seventh in
that series) avoids any mention of Magnetos
background, as the future that he and the
other heroes fight to prevent is one in which
Lance Strate
The Kurds and the Jews
Why an independent Kurdistan could be a beacon of hope for Israel
D
uring the war in
Iraq, when I was
still living in Lon-
don and coordi-
nating news coverage of the
overthrow of Saddam Hus-
sein for various international
media organizations, I was in
regular contact with a brave
Iraqi Kurdish journalist named
Ayub Nuri.
When Ayub and I finally met
in person in New York several years later,
we spent a couple of hours talking about
the region generally, and specifically about
whether Israel had a natural ally in the Kurds.
So it was with some pleasure, in the midst
of a horrible news week for the Middle East,
that I came across an interview with Ayub
in which he said the following: Kurds are
deeply sympathetic to Israel and an indepen-
dent Kurdistan will be beneficial to Israel. It
will create a balance of power.
Right now, Israel is one country against
many. But with an independent Kurdish
state, first of all Israel will have a genuine
friend in the region for the first time, and sec-
ond, Kurdistan will be like a buffer zone in
the face of Turkey, Iran, and Iraq.
Think about the meaning of the words a
genuine friend. In this con-
text, it means a country in the
region that not only respects
Israels right to exist as a Jewish
state, but also actively seeks to
strengthen their mutual bonds.
A country whose population is
overwhelmingly Muslim but
secular in political orienta-
tion, and one where the anti-
Semitism that dominates else-
where in the Islamic world is
strikingly absent. Kurdistan actually is what
many Jews mistakenly supposed Turkey to
be: a Muslim-majority state with no ideologi-
cal or theological objections to the idea of
Jewish national self-determination.
Unlike the Palestinians, whose objec-
tions to Israels very existence have stymied
repeated attempts to create a Palestin-
ian state, the 30 million Kurds never have
enjoyed similar international backing in their
quest for independence. Instead, they have
been repressed and even exterminated by
the regimes in the countries in which they are
concentrated: Turkey, Syria, Iraq, and Iran.
But thanks to the U.S.-led victory over Sad-
dam a Hitler-like figure for the Kurds who
remember his genocidal war against them in
the mid-1980s, including the 1988 murder of
around 5,000 people, mostly women and
children, during a chemical weapons attack
on the town of Halabja the Kurds were able
to consolidate the Kurdistan Regional Gov-
ernment in the north of the country.
Over the last decade, talk of Kurdistan
splitting from Iraq has surfaced continually.
Many Jews, moved by the shared experience
of genocide by our two peoples, and sym-
pathetic to the fact that the Kurds, like us,
have been the victims of Arab chauvinism
in both its nationalist and its Islamist forms,
rightly have supported such a move on moral
grounds. Yet we shouldnt forget that this is
one situation in which, happily, moral consid-
erations fit neatly with strategic ones.
As of this moment, the Kurds have little
reason to hold back from declaring inde-
pendence, as they have done in the recent
past. For as long as the United States was
seriously engaged in Iraq, and helping
to guarantee de facto Kurdish control of
the oil-rich north, the KRG was wise not
to upset the delicate balance by mak-
ing a move that would have caused a
major headache for American relations
with Turkey and other neighbors. Now,
almost three years after President Obama
withdrew American troops from Iraq,
the Kurds rightly are skeptical about the
chances that Washington will assist them
in confronting the predators around their
territories.
More and more, the Middle East looks like
a failed region, rather than a collection of
failed states. The disintegration of Syria has
caused the disintegration of Iraq and even-
tually could consume Lebanon as well. The
obvious winners are jihadi groups like ISIS
the Islamic State of Iraq and the Levant, one
of the most brutal Islamist terrorist organi-
zations we have encountered to date and
the Iranian regime, which has exploited the
general meltdown to boost the Assad regime
in Damascus and the Hezbollah terrorists in
Lebanon and Syria (and whose murky rela-
tions with the jihadis are closer than many
people understand).
Meanwhile, the Americans are stoking
the sense that nothing short of a repeat of
9/11 in other words, another terror spec-
tacular on American soil will reverse
their determination to wash their hands
of this wretched region.
All those Obama Democrats who complain
so loudly about anti-Muslim prejudice in the
West apparently have little to say when it
comes to the Islamist violence that has cre-
ated 800,000 Muslim refugees in Iraq this
Ben Cohen
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mutants along with almost everyone else are sub-
jected to a new kind of holocaust,. But there is an obvious
bit of relativism at work in this film in that the leader of the
anti-mutant crusade is played by Peter Dinklage, a New
Jersey native perhaps best known for his work as Tyrion
Lannister in Game of Thrones. Although no mention is
made of his dwarfism, the clear implication is that even
those subject to persecution are not immune from per-
secuting others.
Spider-Man is Stan Lees most memorable creation, and
has been commonly described as Woody Allen with webs,
a superhero who is a bit of a schlimazel, plagued with per-
sonal problems, perhaps even a bit neurotic, or, in the
parlance of the 60s, full of hang-ups. Much like Captain
America, Spider-Man is described as puny before his
transformation, in this case due to an accidental bite by
a radioactive spider. While meek and mild, he is a highly
intelligent and diligent high school student, living with
over-protective parents (actually his aunt and uncle), a
type familiar enough in postwar Jewish communities like
the Forest Hills section of Queens, where the story of Spi-
der-Man begins.
Although he is given an Anglo-Saxon name, Peter
Parker, and a matching identity, the Jewish sensibility of
Marvels most popular hero also extends to his constant
use of humor even while fighting a supervillain.
But what drives Spider-Man above all else is a very Jew-
ish sense of guilt. This is worked into his origin. He does
not immediately dedicate himself to helping others after
gaining his extraordinary gifts. It is only after standing
idly by during a robbery that he is shocked to learn that
the criminal he allowed to escape went on to murder his
Uncle Ben.
Stan Lees most memorable quote, with great
power comes great responsibility, comes via this
character, who serves as a father figure for Peter. The
Amazing Spider-Man 2 (actually the fifth Spider-Man film,
although the sequel to the 2012 series reboot) continues to
emphasize the themes of guilt and responsibility as they
relate to Peters girlfriend Gwen Stacy (another source of
tragedy and guilt).
Of course Jews do not have a monopoly on guilt, but we
do have our own particular brand of it. A colleague of mine
whose father is Jewish and whose mother is Catholic insight-
fully observed that Catholics make you feel guilty for things
that you do, while Jews make you feel guilty for what you
dont do. This of course corresponds to the sins of commis-
sion and omission. Ogden Nash, in his poem, Portrait of the
Artist as a Prematurely Old Man, famously suggested that the
sins of commission are preferable in that they must at least
be fun or else you wouldnt be committing them, whereas it
is the sin of omission that lays eggs under your skin.
The guilt for what you dont do, for standing idly by while
others suffer, for not taking a stand against discrimination and
injustice, for not opposing the evil that we find in the world, for
not being the best that we can be and for not taking responsibil-
ity for ourselves and for others, is the underlying message of the
Marvel Age, in comics and now in motion pictures. It serves as
a kind of pop culture midrash for our times.
Dr. Lance Strate of Palisades Park is a professor of
communication and media studies at Fordham University in
the Bronx and president of his synagogue, Congregation Adas
Emuno in Leonia. He is the author of the just-released Amazing
Ourselves to Death: Neil Postmans Brave New World Revisited.
We have heard a great deal from people who
liked our Palisades Amusement Park story
last week, and some of them were interested
in the poster we used on the cover. There
are copies of the poster available at the
Westwood Art Gallery for $175. The gallery
is at westwoodartgallery.com.
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JOANNE PALMER
I
do Aharoni, Israels consul general
in New York, has a theory about
why Israelis produce such a dis-
proportionate number of technical
innovations.
There are two intertwined reasons, he
said.
Israel is a young state, and even pre-
statehood it always faced a crisis situation.
Survivability became an essential thing for
that small society. The innovative spirit in
Israel springs from that.
And it also comes from Jewish tradi-
tion. In Judaism, you are given permission
to ask questions, to challenge authority.
The force that propels any creative mind
is the ability to ask questions, and it fuels
an incredible amount of creativity and
inspiration. The proof is the way the Israel
Defense Forces Israels armed forces
is an incredible incubator of ideas.
And those ideas, Mr. Aharoni added,
are not all about science and technoloy.
You can ind the Israeli creative
spirit in Israeli cuisine, on the big
screen and on the small screen,
on the dance floor. Wherever
you go, you ind that unique Israeli
creativity, growing out of the
Israeli ethos of individuality and
entrepreneurship.
On Tuesday, Mr. Aharoni is join-
ing with the mayor of Jersey City,
Steven Fulop, in showcasing eight
high-tech Israeli start-ups.
We want to highlight Israeli cre-
ativity, and one reason to do it in
Jersey City is to reach out to people
who live outside Manhattan, Mr.
Aharoni said. Part of our mission
statement is to cover the entire
tri-state area. We want to build
bridges with the people in New Jer-
sey by sharing with them technolo-
gies that are relevant to their daily
lives.
It is particularly itting to offer the show-
case in northern New Jersey because the
community has been extremely support-
ive of Israel over the years, he said. Our
job is to broaden the connections between
Israel and the Jewish community, and the
New Jersey Jewish community is a partner
in this process.
Mr. Fulop, who is Jewish, and whose
father lived in Israel for many years, said
that he met Mr. Aharoni a few months ago,
and we started talking about things we
could work on together in order to throw
a positive light on Israel, to look at Israel
from a positive standpoint, to make sure
that Israel and our relationship with it on
the local level are perceived as positive.
We celebrated Israels independence
day, we recognized that it is an impor-
tant democracy, but it is also a technoloy
innovator, and a global leader in technol-
oy, he continued. A lot of people dont
appreciate that they dont realize how
small Israel is, and how disproportionate
the amount of technoloy that comes out
Motherland of
invention?
Jersey City offers high-tech fair showcasing Israeli innovations
of it is.
There have been fairs like this in other
parts of the country, so I said, Lets do it
here. You give me the technoloy, and I
will promote it. (The Jewish Federation
of Northern New Jersey and its Center
for Israel Engagement have taken on the
task of promoting the fair in its catchment
area.)
The companies at the technoloy fair are
start-ups, but none are looking for funds to
begin their work. All are past that stage;
all of them are operational, Mr. Aharoni
said. They are looking to increase their
visibility. This is not an event to attract
investors, but to increase the visibility of
their products.
Still, Mr. Fulop said, Jersey City is for-
tunate to have a building boom going on
now. A lot of people who are involved here
have substantial wealth, whether they are
the families of Holocaust survivors, Israeli
immigrants, or other people of means.
We have promoted this to all of them.
All the companies at the fair are promot-
ing apps. Some are social, some are more
practical, some seem elegantly inevitable
now that someone else has thought of
them, and others perhaps are less intui-
tive. All are clever. Each one demands per-
sistence, creativity, and intelligence from
its creators.
Spreo, for example, offers indoor navi-
gation. Many large buildings are
complex, and once they are inside
many people ind that their inter-
nal compasses are unable to ind
true north. Spreo, which is close
to a large deal in the United States,
according its co-founder and
CEO, Avi Sacajiu, began
implementing its system
in Haifa, where people can
use it to get from a hospital
parking lot to their own doc-
tors ofices, somewhere
within a hospitals internal
maze.
Mr. Sacajiu, an Israeli who
recently moved from Tenafly
to Manhattan but still sits on
the board at the Kaplen JCC
on the Palisades, said that
an internal navigation sys-
tem does not work the way
a GPS does. A GPS relies on
Spreos CEO, Avi Sacajiu,
and a map of a building
complex displayed on a
users cellphone.
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satellites, but that technoloy does not
work inside. Its hard to ind a system that
can do indoor navigation, he said. Other
companies also are tackling the problem,
but he thinks that Spreo is winning the
race to solve it and then sell a system
based on that solution irst.
He said that although he moved to the
New York area, which now is a hub for
technoloy, Spreos research and devel-
opment still are done in Israel. There is
a big advantage to keeping it there, he
said. Israelis are very skilled, they are
very strong in mathematics, and they are
risk-takers. It often is hard to replicate that
outside Israel.
Why is that? He laughed. Its the Jews
problem, he said. They carry such a big
head. Sometimes its a problem. Some-
times its an advantage.
More seriously, he said, the
experience many young Israelis
get during their IDF stint read-
ies them, both intellectually and
emotionally, for start-up work.
That background is not only use-
ful in general, but it is particularly
germane to Spreos work.
Quite a bit of the army training
these days is around intelligence,
and the ability to connect pieces
of information and to put them
together into a picture, he said.
Young Israeli intelligence oficers
are quite capable today of nailing
down exactly where a terrorist is.
They can locate terrorists exactly
on the map. Mapping is very strong.
Quite a bit of this technoloy is
coming out of the army, from the
Mamran the IDFs elite intelli-
gence and computer science corps,
he said. Those veterans are valu-
able, and people are looking for
them. And then there is the Tech-
nion the university that is to
some extent Israels MIT. Israel
is fertile ground for ideas and
technoloy.
Spreos website is spreo.co. (Note
that the sufix is not a typo. It is not spreo.
com.)
Gilad Rotem is one of the ive co-found-
ers of Cups, an app that matches would-
be coffee drinkers and coffee-shop-sitters
with independent coffeehouses. Cups
launched in Tel Aviv about a year and a
half ago, but although the app was suc-
cessful, the coffee world there proved
itself to be too small.
The app is not unlike the one Starbucks
provides, which uses global tracking soft-
ware on peoples phones to point users
to the closest Starbucks stores. Instead
of indicating chain stores, however, Cups
highlights the independent coffeehouses
that chose to join its network.
Besides developing the app, we are
uniting the stores, Mr. Rotem said. In
essence, we are creating a new chain of
independent coffee stores.
Part of the apps appeal is the commu-
nity aspect, he said, as well as the chance
it offers users to discover and enjoy new
coffee shops.
Another part of its appeal is that it
allows consumers to pay in advance, and
offers them a 20 percent discount.
On the one hand, it is a very American
product, Mr. Rotem said. There is noth-
ing Israeli built into it. But on the other
hand, the fact that ive Israelis thought that
they could come to New York and make it
work thats pretty Israeli.
When the developers irst came to the
United States, their goal was to ind a
more itting market, Mr. Rotem said.
And after some research we realized that
New York is the best place to start. Cups
now has about 200 coffee shops in its net-
work; most of them are downtown, cen-
tered around the inancial district, but the
companys goal is to expand uptown in the
next few weeks.
Cups website is www.cupsapp.com.
Farmiga, which connects you as a
customer to local farms in your area, to
sources for all your fresh produce, as
Benzi Ronen said, is a socially driven orga-
nization. It was created to improve the
relationship between people and their
food, and therefore between people and
their world. Using its software, You can
get everything, from fresh vegetables and
fruits and cheese and breads from a local
baker, Mr. Ronen, who is a Farmiga co-
founder and its CEO, said. Everything is
fresh from small local farms, and direct
from harvest.
Farmigas model is complicated and
multilayered; it is somewhere between
Fresh Direct and a CSA. It is hyperlocal,
Mr. Ronen said. We use technoloy to
form networks of farms, and you can have
a direct connection with it.
When you place your order, you know
exactly what farm it is coming from, Mr.
Ronen said; similarly, farmers know how
much to harvest. (The system cannot yet
tell them what to plant, although such
information will be available eventually,
Cups Gilad Rotem; above him is one
of the independent coffee shops in
the network and to his left is a Cups
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Your order goes to a farm, they harvest it,
and they bring it to a warehouse that we have.
It can come from any of 25 different farms
and local artisans. Your bag gets built in the
warehouse, and then pushed out to a Farmiga
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We are on a trajectory not just to make it
more convenient for you to buy good food,
he continued. We think that people need to
be brought back to the experience of getting
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Although until now Farmiga has been mainly
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Mr. Ronen is Israeli-American, and Farmigas
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He feels strongly that Farmiga belongs in
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average, food moves about 2,500 miles and
sits on a shelf for about two weeks before it inds
itself in a consumers refrigerator.
Its a paradox, Mr. Ronen said. You can be
right next to a farm, but you dont get to eat that
produce.
Farmigas website is www.farmiga.com.
Five other start-up also are slated to be at the fair.
Mr. Aharoni, the consul general, mentioned another
start-up, which could not send a representative to the
fair but fascinates him nonetheless. It is called TaKaDu,
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yet brilliant.
They analyze existing computer data regarding
water systems, he said.
Admittedly, this is not glamorous work but it
addresses a real problem. Water systems around the
world spring leaks, which can be hard to diagnose until
they grow big, and hard to locate without expensive
drilling. Thanks to a very sophisticated algorithm that
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bad the leak is, and exactly where it is.
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dont have to drill until they know exactly where the
leak is.
The other start-up companies scheduled to be at the
fair include the self-explanatory Get Taxi (www.gettaxi.
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Appcard, a shopping-rewards-card app; Cellolo, which
allows more dialogue between performers and their
audiences (www.cellolo.com), and Loyal Blocks, a con-
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The fair is certain to have ingenuity and resourceful-
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pragmatism that has served both New Jersey and Israel
well. And who knows? It also might be a showcase for
the Next Big Thing.
Who: Jersey Citys Mayor Steven Fulop and Is-
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simple: Find them and punish their kidnappers.
Realizing those goals, though, is far from a simple task.
The international community has condemned the kid-
nappings, and Israel has spread its forces across the West
Bank to search for the teens. Israeli Prime Minister Ben-
jamin Netanyahu has vowed to stop at nothing to find the
three teenagers.
But the effort is taking place amid an increasingly com-
plicated period in Israeli-Palestinian relations.
Israel is holding the Palestinian Authority responsible
for the incident, but also is working with it to find the
teens. Palestinian Authority President Mahmoud Abbas
condemned the kidnapping but now shares a government
with Hamas, which has hailed the abduction. And while
Israel has promised to do everything it can to bring the
boys back, there are efforts in the Knesset to prevent pris-
oner swaps of the sort that freed hostages in the past.
The teens were captured on June 12, and in his first pub-
lic statement on the incident two nights later, Mr. Netan-
yahu wasted no time blaming the kidnapping on the new
Palestinian unity government formed as a result of an
agreement between Abbas Fatah party and Hamas.
We hold Abu Mazen and the Palestinian Authority
responsible for all attacks against Israel that originate
from their territory, whether this is Judea and Samaria or
the Gaza Strip, Mr. Netanyahu said, using Abbas nom
de guerre.
On Sunday, the prime minister said he knew for a fact
that Hamas had perpetrated the attack and again pledged
to hold the PA to account.
But Israels coordination with the Palestinian Author-
ity on West Bank security has continued unabated. PA
security forces are helping Israel comb the areas under
PA control for the teens.
On Monday, Mr. Abbas and Mr. Netanyahu spoke to
each other for the first time in more than a year.
Shlomo Brom, head of the program for Israeli-Palestin-
ian Relations at Tel Aviv Universitys Institute for National
Security Studies, said it was a mistake for Netanyahu to try
to pin the blame on Abbas.
Thats the last thing he should do because now we
need the Palestinians, he said. The last thing we should
do is weaken them.
Mr. Netanyahus accusation that Hamas was behind
the abduction was denied by Hamas leaders, though
they also praised the kidnapping. On Sunday, the prime
minister received support from U.S. Secretary of State
John Kerry, who said many indications point to Hamas
involvement.
Some experts suggested that Hamas is the only organi-
zation in the West Bank sophisticated enough to carry out
the kidnapping, but that it had nothing to gain from con-
firming Israeli claims. Taking responsibility for kidnap-
ping children would not gain Hamas international sym-
pathy and would encourage Israel to expand its military
operation, they said.
On Tuesday, Israel arrested 41 Hamas officials and
placed additional restrictions on Hamas prisoners in
Israel.
It would have been easier had they kidnapped sol-
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at the Interdisciplinary Center Herzliya. That they
Search for abducted teens faces
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the international arena. Theyre very
quiet now because of tactical reasons, but
also because of an escalating amount of
fear over what Israel will do. If these kids
are executed, Hamas will pay a very, very
high price.
While Hamas may be behind the kid-
nappings, it has been particularly uncom-
fortable politically for Mr. Abbas.
He has forsworn violence but signed
a unity deal with Hamas. He has con-
demned the kidnapping, but official
organs of his Fatah party have published
cartoons praising the kidnappers. And
Mr. Abbas opposes Israels occupation
of the West Bank but is aiding the Israeli
army in its search efforts there.
In the wake of the kidnapping, the
Palestinian Authority froze ongoing reconciliation talks with
Hamas. But Dr. Fine said Abbas is walking a very thin line,
unable to publicly support the Israeli military efforts or Hamas.
Theres no doubt hes in a catastrophic situation, Dr. Fine
said. He was working on the political level cornering Israel [dip-
lomatically], and now Hamas comes up and screws up every-
thing. Hamas backstabbed them.
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he Reform movement posted a prayer.
Chabad asked followers to pledge to do a
mitzvah. The Jewish Federations of North
America set up a web page to express
solidarity.
The disappearance of three Israeli teens in the West
Bank last week is being taken as a call to action unit-
ing many disparate elements of the American Jewish
community.
At synagogues across America spanning the major
denominations, Jews recited psalms or offered spe-
cial prayers for the safe return of the teens, echoing a
prayer rally held Sunday at the Western Wall in Jerusa-
lem. On Monday, demonstrators held a rally opposite
the Israeli consulate in Manhattan.
I have a 16-year-old myself, Steven Levine of
Brooklyn said at the rally. It could have been any of
us. Theyre my brothers, theyre my children. Thats
why Im here.
The missing teens Gilad Shaar and Naftali Fren-
kel, both 16, and Eyal Yifrach, 19 were last seen at a
hitchhiking post near Gush Etzion, a Jewish settlement
bloc in the West Bank. Gilad and Naftali were on their
way home from Mekor Chaim, an in-residence yeshiva
high school in Kfar Etzion run by Rabbi Adin Stein-
saltz. Eyal, who met up with them at the hitchhiking
post, was on his way home from a pre-army yeshiva
program near Hebron.
Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu has
blamed Hamas for kidnapping the teens and said he
was holding the Palestinian Authority responsible.
Among American Jews, the focus has been on sup-
porting the teens families, largely through prayer.
On New Yorks Upper West Side on Monday evening,
the Manhattan Day School organized a prayer vigil that
drew hundreds of people representing a wide range of
local synagogues and organizations.
Chavie Kahn, the school parent and board member
who organized the event, praised Rachel Frenkel, the
mother of one of the missing teens, for the grace she
has displayed under the international media spotlight
as well as for her pioneering work as a yoetzet hal-
achah an Orthodox female religious adviser.
Ms. Kahn said a video of the service would be shared
with the teens families, and she hoped that it would pro-
vide them with some measure of comfort and strength.
The Orthodox Union organized a round-the-clock
virtual vigil for members of OU-affiliated programs
to sign up for 30-minute slots to learn Torah, pray, and
perform mitzvot to merit the safe return of the boys.
The Conservative movements Rabbinical Assembly
released a prayer for the welfare of the teens. It was
written by Rabbi Tamar Elad Appelbaum of Jerusa-
lems Zion congregation.
Do all that must be done so that relief, rescue, and
life may be the lot of the young men, Yaakov Naftali
ben Rahel (Frenkel), Gil-ad Michael ben Bat-Galim
(Shaar) and Eyal ben Iris Teshura (Yifrach), the prayer
says. Act on their behalf, Lord, take up their cause
without delay, and may You grant them life and bless-
ing forevermore.
Meanwhile, a social media campaign with the
hashtag #BringBackOurBoys has gone viral, generating
many tweets and shares. The effort was inspired by the
#BringBackOurGirls online campaign demanding the
return of the some 200 Nigerian schoolgirls kidnapped
in April by the Islamist terrorist group Boko Haram.
American Jews mobilized during the long captivity of
Gilad Shalit, an Israeli soldier who was held by Hamas
for more than five years after a Palestinian attack on his
post along the Israel-Gaza border in June 2006.
In Mr. Shalits case, it became clear relatively early
on that he was alive, and the Israeli government
became the target of a public campaign to negotiate
with Hamas for his release. The government eventu-
ally cut a deal, agreeing to release more than 1,000
Palestinian prisoners in exchange for Shalits freedom
in October 2011.
At this point its not clear who kidnapped the teen-
agers, or even whether they are still alive.
Some commentators have suggested that Israeli poli-
cies are to blame for the kidnapping, noting that two of
the boys studied at a yeshiva in a settlement. But Rabbi
Michael Lerner, editor of the left-wing Tikkun magazine,
condemned efforts to rationalize the kidnapping.
We reject any attempt to imply that somehow these
acts are understandable given the oppressive condi-
tions faced by the perpetrators, he wrote.
The teens, Lerner continued, were not the perpe-
trators or the creators of the Occupation. They were
children doing what their parents had brought them
up to do and to be. JTA WIRE SERVICE
JTAs Miriam Moster and Ami Eden contributed to this
report.
Demonstrators rally outside the Israeli consulate
in Manhattan on June 16 to express solidarity with
three Israeli teens who were abducted in the West
Bank. MIRIAM MOSTER/JTA
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Zzzzzz: Teens Need More Sleep . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6
Getting shut-eye is critical during these years
Fathers Forum . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9
Dad admits: Mistakes, Ive made a few
July 4 Crafts . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10
Creative projects for the red, white and blue
Noise-Induced Hearing Loss . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11
How to protect your childrens ears
Funky and Fun Bunk Junk . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12
Whats hot to pack for camp
Summertime Salads . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14
Refreshing dishes for the hot weather
Simchas . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15
Celebrating our childrens milestones
Gallery . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16
Photographs celebrating our children
Top Choices . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17
Great picks for July
Calendar . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18
Fun things to do this month
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he said she knew me.
She was an attractive auburn-haired woman who
happened to be in the principals offce on the day that I
took Yehuda, then a kindergarten applicant, for his meet-and-
greet at his prospective yeshiva day school.
I didnt recognize her.
But I know you, she insisted.
Do you go to so-and-so synagogue? I asked.
No.
Do you live in such-and-such neighborhood? I queried.
No.
Then from where, I thought, striking out on my stab at
Jewish geography, would she know me? The circuit was big
enough that even if youre not attending a particular shul or
walking particular streets, folks look familiar.
What do you do? she asked.
Im a journalist, but lately, with two little kids a 4- and a
3-year-old I wasnt exactly chasing fres these days, at least
not the ones with headlines.
Oh, now she remembered. It wasnt my face. It was my
voice she remembered.
She had just viewed a video of her late mother, whom I
had interviewed years earlier when I was part of the Steven
Spielberg Shoah Foundation oral history project. My voice,
as the interviewer, is what she recognized at that moment.
I was shaken. And at once, I remembered. I remembered
the urgency of that interview. Her mother was ill and it was
so important to make sure that her mothers story was told
in a timely way.
And at that moment of recognition, it crystallized.
Why at this time, when we were in the principals offce,
would I run into this woman? Why did she have the memory
of my voice then and there. It was kismet, bashert or what-
ever you may call it.
While we were deciding on a school for Yehuda and the
school was deciding on us, this connection was so very poi-
gnant, so very poetic, so very powerful. I thought there was
no more to think about. This was the school!
My own parents were survivors of the Shoah. My own
involvement with the Spielberg project was very directly re-
lated to the fact that my parents were survivors of the Shoah.
And while it took many years to get to this place, Yehudas
attendance at a yeshiva day school where he would learn To-
rah and Jewish pride was also very directly related to the
fact that my parents were survivors of the Shoah. I felt we
needed to reconnect the chain.
So now, nine years after that day in the principals offce,
our son, Yehuda will graduate with all of his classmates after
many years of learning and living in this school.
And the pride of his family will be felt.
And for my parents, of blessed memory, they too, will see
the fruit of their own lives, and the future that they lived and
fought for through this event.
To all parents, who are seeing their children reach a mile-
stone and move to the next level, mazel tov!
Cheers,
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Fun Food Games to Keep
Summertime Eating Healthy
DE NI S E MOR R I S ON Y E A R I A N
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ummer is a great time to
keep your children on
track with nutritious eat-
ing. Following are ten tips on
turning healthy eating into a
summer full of fun and games.
1. Count me in
Gear up for fall academics by
using foods to reinforce math
skills. Give your children green
beans, peas, grapes or straw-
berries to count. Teach them
about fractions by using mea-
suring cups or cutting up fruit
or a veggie pizza.
2. Pyramid patrol
Go online and fnd and print a
copy of the food pyramid then
hold a scavenger hunt with
foods in your home. This will
allow your children to discover
which foods ft into each of the
categories. Or draw a blank pyr-
amid and have them draw or
cut pictures from magazines to
build their own food pyramids.
Portion sizes are best ex-
plained using objects kids are
familiar with. A deck of cards
represents three ounces of
proteins; a light bulb is equiva-
lent to a cup of raw veggies; a
computer mouse is the size of
a potato; a can of tuna is equal
in size to a bagel or roll; and a
quarter coin represents a serv-
ing of oil.
3. Unearthing herbs
Fresh herbs come in a variety
of smells, textures and tastes,
so trying them is a great senso-
ry experience and may help cut
back on salt intake too. Teach
your children to identify dif-
ferent kinds of herbs and learn
what dishes they are used in.
Take bland items such as po-
tatoes or rice and spruce them
up with rosemary or parsley.
Put fresh basil or dill on a sand-
wich or salad. Then fnd reci-
pes with herbs your kids can
experiment with.
4. Prime picks
Many farms offer fruit picking
families can take advantage of.
Eating straight from the vine is
best, but children may also en-
joy making healthy dishes with
what theyve harvested. Make
a miniature crisp by mixing
one packet of instant reduced-
sugar oatmeal cereal and 1
teaspoons of reduced-fat mar-
garine then sprinkle over ber-
ries. Bake at 350 degrees until
the berries are soft and the top
is golden.
5. Expand imaginative play
Let your children play chef
and then have a tea party.
Make and serve muffns with
dried fruit and applesauce in-
stead of margarine. Or create
traditional tea sandwiches
using favored low-fat cream
cheese and cucumber, water-
cress or spinach; incorporate
herbs too. Cut into fun shapes
with cookie cutters and serve
milk instead of tea. Your kids
may want to play restaurant
too. Have them create healthy
menus and encourage custom-
ers to order all the items in the
food pyramid.
6. Animal amusements
Let your children make zoo
scenes out of low-fat yogurt
and animal crackers theyre
much healthier than other
cookies. Spread yogurt over a
cookie sheet. Add green food
coloring to make grass or blue
to create a river, then use pret-
zels or celery stalks to make
a bridge. Offer small bits of
healthy food dried fruits, un-
sweetened cereal, cut-up veg-
gies so they can make other
parts of the scene.
7. Cultural cuisine
Hold cultural theme nights and
pick one country you want to
explore. Have your children
research indigenous foods
then together plan a menu us-
ing the food pyramid as your
guide. Choose recipes that are
healthier or tweak less nutri-
tious ones with better options
such as low-fat or soy cheese.
Dont restrict high-fat and high-
carbohydrate items, just eat
them in moderation.
8. Create a contest
Hold a family fast-food elimi-
nation contest to see who can
eat out the least in one week or
month. Create guidelines before
you begin then keep a running
tally. Place the money saved in
a jar. At the end of the time pe-
riod whoever has eaten out the
least gets to choose how the
family spends the funds.
Or hold a taste test. Sample
brands of popcorn, rice cakes,
yogurt, salsa or different variet-
ies of the same fruits and vege-
tables. Then take a vote: Which
one wins?
9. Delectable detective
Log onto www.kidshealth.org
and in the search box type
food label to learn how to
read food labels. Then take
your kids to the grocery store
and let them play detective to
fnd healthier options for their
favorite foods. Choose a low-fat
snack with three grams or less
total fat per serving. Or fnd a
whole grain listed as the frst in-
gredient in your favorite cereal,
cracker or pretzel.
10. Stick em up!
Have your children build their
own kabobs incorporating the
major food groups. Use wood-
en skewers with fat ends or try
pretzel sticks for skewers with
softer foods.
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Chess Summer Day Camp


Open to kids from ages 6 to 16
Our goal is to foster an environment of learning and fun
We promise a 5:1 student teacher ratio
Prizes and trophies for tournaments and competitions


Camp T-shirts and FUN!!!


Full day also includes:


Creative art projects


Guitar, Piano and Drum lessons


Student band performs once a week


Schedule
Lessons: 9:00 11:00
Sports + Recreation: 11:00 12:30
Lunch: 12:30 1:00
Tournament Games: 1:00 3:00
Art + Music: 3:00 5:00 (Full Day Only)
Fill out the registration form and mail with check (written to ICA) to Daina Tulman,
28 Canterbury Lane, New Milford, NJ 07646.
For information email or call: chessdirector@icanj.net / 201-287-0250)
International Chess Academy

185 Court Street Teaneck, NJ 07666 Tel: 201-833-1741
9-10 Saddle River Road, Fair Lawn, NJ 07410 Tel: 201-797-0330
www.icanj.net diana@icanj.net










Full day also includes:
Creative art projects Guitar, Piano and Drum lessons
Student band performs once a week
Chess Summer Day Camp


Open to kids from ages 6 to 16
Our goal is to foster an environment of learning and fun
We promise a 5:1 student teacher ratio
Prizes and trophies for tournaments and competitions
Camp T-shirts and FUN!!!

Full day also includes:


Creative art projects


Guitar, Piano and Drum lessons


Student band performs once a week


Schedule
Lessons: 9:00 11:00
Sports + Recreation: 11:00 12:30
Lunch: 12:30 1:00
Tournament Games: 1:00 3:00
Art + Music: 3:00 5:00 (Full Day Only)
Fill out the registration form and mail with check (written to ICA) to Daina Tulman,
28 Canterbury Lane, New Milford, NJ 07646.
For information email or call: chessdirector@icanj.net / 201-287-0250)
International Chess Academy

185 Court Street Teaneck, NJ 07666 Tel: 201-833-1741
9-10 Saddle River Road, Fair Lawn, NJ 07410 Tel: 201-797-0330
www.icanj.net diana@icanj.net










185 Court St. Teaneck 201-833-1741
9-10 Saddle River Rd., Fair Lawn 201-797-0330
www.icanj.net chessdirector@icanj.net
Chess Summer Day Camp
Open to kids from ages 6 to 16
Our goal is to foster an environment of
learning and fun
We promise a 5:1 student-teacher ratio
Prizes and trophies for tournaments and
competitions
Camp T-shirts and FUN!!!
Give Children
a Hands-On
Opportunity to
Learn Resilience
S L OV I E J UNGR E I S - WOL F F
S
ometimes we think were helping our
children when in fact we are impeding
them.
A recent article I read describes the latest
parenting trend. Mothers are hiring profes-
sional personal organizers to pack their kids
up for summer camp. Their children cant go
off without their 1000-thread count sheets.
Some parents make sure that the profession-
al packers include French milled soaps and
scented candles. Others request that their
childs bedroom be recreated so that they
can easily adapt when they settle in to their
air-conditioned bunk.
One organizer commented that its very
stressful for mothers who send their son or
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M,W 10:30-6:30 Tu,Th 10:30-8:00 F 10-3
Catch up with friends & fashion at Carlyz Craze
Come dance
in the aisles
of our new,
spacious store!
Fun, Fashionable, Modest
CLOTHING & ACCESSORIES
for Girls, Teens & Women
now at
472 Cedar Lane,
Teaneck
488 Cedar Lane Teaneck, NJ 201-928-4100
www.sweetsoncedar.com
RCBC
Come in for the
largest selection
of candy for all
your camp needs.
Create your own or
buy ready to ship.
Open regular
hours all summer!
We ship UPS.
PUT US ON YOUR
CAMP SHOPPING LIST

Sunday, September 7
8:50 AM to 1 PM
64 kids, 8 hygenists, 4 doctors,
1 magician, tons of giveaways
Checkup Parties always fll up early so call
today to make sure your family is not left out!
See our video on YouTube
201-837-3000
Teaneck Dentist
Drs. Bloch, Gertler and Frohlich
General Dentistry
100 State Street, Teaneck, NJ
www.teaneckdentist.com
Reserve early
for our
Checkup
Party
Chess Summer Day Camp


Open to kids from ages 6 to 16
Our goal is to foster an environment of learning and fun
We promise a 5:1 student teacher ratio
Prizes and trophies for tournaments and competitions


Camp T-shirts and FUN!!!


Full day also includes:


Creative art projects


Guitar, Piano and Drum lessons


Student band performs once a week


Schedule
Lessons: 9:00 11:00
Sports + Recreation: 11:00 12:30
Lunch: 12:30 1:00
Tournament Games: 1:00 3:00
Art + Music: 3:00 5:00 (Full Day Only)
Fill out the registration form and mail with check (written to ICA) to Daina Tulman,
28 Canterbury Lane, New Milford, NJ 07646.
For information email or call: chessdirector@icanj.net / 201-287-0250)
International Chess Academy

185 Court Street Teaneck, NJ 07666 Tel: 201-833-1741
9-10 Saddle River Road, Fair Lawn, NJ 07410 Tel: 201-797-0330
www.icanj.net diana@icanj.net










Chess Summer Day Camp


Open to kids from ages 6 to 16
Our goal is to foster an environment of learning and fun
We promise a 5:1 student teacher ratio
Prizes and trophies for tournaments and competitions


Camp T-shirts and FUN!!!


Full day also includes:


Creative art projects


Guitar, Piano and Drum lessons


Student band performs once a week


Schedule
Lessons: 9:00 11:00
Sports + Recreation: 11:00 12:30
Lunch: 12:30 1:00
Tournament Games: 1:00 3:00
Art + Music: 3:00 5:00 (Full Day Only)
Fill out the registration form and mail with check (written to ICA) to Daina Tulman,
28 Canterbury Lane, New Milford, NJ 07646.
For information email or call: chessdirector@icanj.net / 201-287-0250)
International Chess Academy

185 Court Street Teaneck, NJ 07666 Tel: 201-833-1741
9-10 Saddle River Road, Fair Lawn, NJ 07410 Tel: 201-797-0330
www.icanj.net diana@icanj.net










Full day also includes:
Creative art projects Guitar, Piano and Drum lessons
Student band performs once a week
Chess Summer Day Camp


Open to kids from ages 6 to 16
Our goal is to foster an environment of learning and fun
We promise a 5:1 student teacher ratio
Prizes and trophies for tournaments and competitions
Camp T-shirts and FUN!!!

Full day also includes:


Creative art projects


Guitar, Piano and Drum lessons


Student band performs once a week


Schedule
Lessons: 9:00 11:00
Sports + Recreation: 11:00 12:30
Lunch: 12:30 1:00
Tournament Games: 1:00 3:00
Art + Music: 3:00 5:00 (Full Day Only)
Fill out the registration form and mail with check (written to ICA) to Daina Tulman,
28 Canterbury Lane, New Milford, NJ 07646.
For information email or call: chessdirector@icanj.net / 201-287-0250)
International Chess Academy

185 Court Street Teaneck, NJ 07666 Tel: 201-833-1741
9-10 Saddle River Road, Fair Lawn, NJ 07410 Tel: 201-797-0330
www.icanj.net diana@icanj.net










185 Court St. Teaneck 201-833-1741
9-10 Saddle River Rd., Fair Lawn 201-797-0330
www.icanj.net chessdirector@icanj.net
Chess Summer Day Camp
Open to kids from ages 6 to 16
Our goal is to foster an environment of
learning and fun
We promise a 5:1 student-teacher ratio
Prizes and trophies for tournaments and
competitions
Camp T-shirts and FUN!!!
Give Children
a Hands-On
Opportunity to
Learn Resilience
S L OV I E J UNGR E I S - WOL F F
S
ometimes we think were helping our
children when in fact we are impeding
them.
A recent article I read describes the latest
parenting trend. Mothers are hiring profes-
sional personal organizers to pack their kids
up for summer camp. Their children cant go
off without their 1000-thread count sheets.
Some parents make sure that the profession-
al packers include French milled soaps and
scented candles. Others request that their
childs bedroom be recreated so that they
can easily adapt when they settle in to their
air-conditioned bunk.
One organizer commented that its very
stressful for mothers who send their son or
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Give Children
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S L OV I E J UNGR E I S - WOL F F
Some parents make sure that the profession-
al packers include French milled soaps and
scented candles. Others request that their
childs bedroom be recreated so that they
can easily adapt when they settle in to their
air-conditioned bunk.
One organizer commented that its very
stressful for mothers who send their son or
daughter off for the very frst time; they
want to feel and touch the sheets to be
sure of their softness. Parents end up
paying these organizers $250 an hour; a
well packed kid can run over $1000.
Some youngsters cant manage pack-
ing their own trunks. I recall those days
of getting ready for camp. I would go
through the camp list, take clothing out
of closets and drawers, label and make
piles for hours. My parents were avail-
able if I needed help. But in those days
it was up to us to carry things in and out
of our trunks, load our stuff, try to zip it
all closed, and fnally shlep it to the front
hall. And at the end of the day we felt as
if we accomplished something great.
It wasnt just packing a summer
trunk. It was the knowledge that I was on
the road to independence. I could do for
myself. I would arrive to a bunkhouse far
from home. There were new surround-
ings and faces, so much was unfamiliar
and it was ok. While unpacking each
item into my cubby I would recognize all
the hours of hard work I had put in. I was
given a feeling of satisfaction, an under-
standing that I had this ability to accom-
plish for myself. Although there were
those tough days of bunk politics and
losing color war, I never felt like giving
up. Confdence had grown within along
with responsibility.
If we want to raise a child who grows
to become self-suffcient we must pro-
vide opportunities for that child to be-
come self-reliant. We cannot be fearful
of new surroundings. We cannot shield
our children from hard work and even-
tual disappointments. There is no re-
placement for toiling over a project and
seeing the results frsthand. There are
no shortcuts when it comes to develop-
ing character. Integrity, diligence, and
responsibility are all traits intertwined
with striving and accomplishing. We are
selling a whole generation of children
short when we do not hold them ac-
countable for even the simplest tasks.
Many parents have forgotten that we
are required to toil as well.
I recently spoke to a couple who are
preparing for their sons bar mitzvah.
They told me that they had spent hours
in meetings with event planners. They
wanted their sons bar mitzvah party
to be over the top, making sure that
the night would be the best that money
could buy. This would be a sure way for
our son to know that we love him, they
explained to me.
You are equating things with love,
I said. Whenever I give a parenting
class and ask for the happiest childhood
memories that come to mind, no one has
ever described a thing they had been
given. It is always remembering Sundays
with cousins by grandmas house, biking
with daddy, story time with mommy, or
summer days at the beach with parents
and siblings that come to mind. All the
toys, gifts and money spent fade away.
Our children need us to stop hiring oth-
ers and start spending time together as
a family.
There are days we feel depleted. But
we do it because we love.
It may be diffcult to set aside our
stress and listen to our children with
both hearts and minds. There are days
we want to scream. There are nights we
do not believe that we can sing bedtime
lullabies, sit over math problems, and
give one more good night kiss. We are
simply depleted. But we do it because
we love. And these are the moments that
build an unshakeable bond between
parents and children. These are the mo-
ments that our children come to under-
stand as the defnition of love.
When we teach our children that we
believe in their ability to rise, to accom-
plish, to strive, we give them the great-
est tools for life. But we cannot transmit
this lesson by having others step in for
them. They must be given hands-on op-
portunities as they grow.
When our children see us parent
lovingly through our very own pres-
sures they come to understand that de-
spite challenges, we work hard to create
strong homes. We do this not by hiring
others to make a memorable event. It is
the day-to-day interactions the power
of our smile, the gentle words, and the
time we take to listen that transforms
a child from helpless and weak to help-
ful and strong. We are a constant steady
presence and there is no one who can
take our place.
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COMPLIMENTARY ORTHODONTIC EVALUATION
FOR ADULTS AND CHILDREN
To Sleep, Perchance to Dream:
Teens Need More Shut-Eye
MY R NA B E T H HAS K E L L
I
used to feel like a broken record. Every evening, I
would call down the hall toward the light that re-
mained on in my daughters bedroom, Are you
heading to bed yet? This was because my daughter
was typically up past 11:30 p.m. Why did this disturb
me? She needed to rise slightly after the birds, around
6 a.m.
Typically she was aggravated, cranky and just plain
miserable when the sun came up. You would think that
an eighteen-year-old could get her act together, know-
ing that each and every morning she would regret the
alarm. At the time, her schedule was defnitely a cata-
lyst: advanced placement courses, two honor society
schedules, volunteer work, athletics, and scholarship
applications to fnish. She didnt seem to have enough
hours in her day. With freshman year in college on the
horizon, another chaotic schedule is likely, so getting
into a regular sleep schedule should be at the top of
her list.
Whats a parent to do when they realize their teen is
on a downward spiral due to lack of sleep? How much
sleep should she be getting anyway?
Inadequate Sleep Cycles
According to the National Sleep Foundation, teens
should be getting approximately 9 hours of sleep per
night to function at their best. However, teens arent
getting the sleep they need. They also tend to stay up
late and sleep late on the weekends, which causes ir-
regular sleep patterns.
Staff members at the Mayo Clinic also write about
the irregularity of adolescent sleep cycles. Puberty
changes a teens internal clock, delaying the time he or
she starts feeling sleepy often until 11 p.m. or later.
Staying up late to study or socialize can disrupt a teens
internal clock even more.
Dr. Robert S. Rosenberg, medical director of The
Sleep Disorders Centers of Prescott Valley and Flagstaff,
Arizona and author of the newly released book, Sleep
Soundly Every Night, Feel Fantastic Every Day (Demos
Health), says, Recent surveys have shown that only 15
percent of teenagers get 8 hours or more of sleep.
Why are so many teenagers functioning on an in-
adequate amount of sleep? Experts say that part-time
jobs and extracurricular activities, in addition to school
schedules, contribute to fewer hours of sleep. Teens
also spend time on social networking sites before bed,
which can affect their ability to fall asleep.
Dr. Nadav Traeger, director of Pediatric Sleep Medi-
cine at Maria Fareri Childrens Hospital at Westchester
Medical Center, clarifes that the amount of sleep a teen
needs will vary somewhat by age and individual needs.
If a teen has no symptoms that may be related to insuf-
fcient sleep, then I would assume that he/she is getting
the amount of sleep needed.
Consequences
A lack of sleep can lead to negative consequences,
including drowsy driving which can be extremely
dangerous.
Traeger says that teens that get insuffcient sleep
may present with various issues. The possible symp-
toms include: increased tendency for sleeping during
the day, decreased school performance, decreased
attention, restlessness or hyperactivity, moodiness,
memory problems, behavioral problems, and propen-
sity for clumsiness or accidents.
A lack of sleep can also severely affect a teens ath-
letic performance. Rosenberg points to a recent study
conducted at Stanford University which involved base-
ball, basketball and football teams. Athletes demon-
strated improved performance when they were encour-
aged to sleep ten hours, or at least one more than they
had been sleeping.
Rosenberg advises parents to watch for the follow-
ing behaviors. If your teen is exhibiting these behav-
iors, it is likely that he is not getting enough sleep:
Sleeps late on weekends
Falls asleep when not actively engaged in something
Has trouble waking up for school
Moodiness
Increased agitation and irritability
Encourage Better Sleep Habits
Sleep is important for tissue repair and strengthening
muscles, explains Rosenberg, so parents should help
their teens fnd solutions that will help them get a bet-
ter nights sleep.
Rosenberg instructs parents to encourage teens to
cut down on extracurricular activities that go well past
dinner times. Educate your teen about the value of
sleep with regards to athletics and academics, he says.
Let them know that during sleep a lot of important
things are taking place, such as memory consolidation
for not only facts, but also operational memories, such
as how to swing a bat or how to shoot a basketball.
Traeger suggests that parents persuade teens to
practice good sleep habits. The main habits that will
promote good sleep quality are: using the bed for sleep-
ing only, sleeping only in own bed (not the couch, etc.),
having little variability in the sleep-wake schedule (in-
cluding weekends), exercising regularly (as long as it is
not too close to bedtime), and getting suffcient expo-
sure to daylight during the day.
Teens should begin good sleep habits at least two
weeks prior to the frst day of school to get themselves
on the right track. For parents: Practice what you
preach so that teens understand sleep is important at
any age.
Myrna Beth Haskell is a feature writer, columnist, and author
of LIONS and TIGERS and TEENS: Expert advice and sup-
port for the conscientious parent just like you (Unlimited
Publishing).
A Good Nights Rest
Keep a sleep diary: Use to determine how much sleep you
need to feel good during the day.
Naps: Keep these short and not too close to bedtime.
Keep your bedroom cool, quiet, and dark.
Avoid caffeinated drinks (coffee, tea, soda and chocolate)
late in the day. Nicotine and alcohol also interfere with
sleep.
Keep a consistent sleep schedule. This will help keep your
body in sync with its natural patterns.
Dont eat, drink, or exercise within a few hours of your
bedtime.
Avoid television, computer and the telephone within an
hour before bed.
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A Dad Reects:
Mistakes, Ive Made A Few
RA B B I NE C HE MI A COOP E R S MI T H
W
hen Fathers Day comes and
goes, it gets me thinking about
the mistakes Ive been making
as a father. (Dont worry my kids are
not scarred for life.)
My wife and I have fve kids, rang-
ing from ages 21 to 3, so that gives me a
chance to keep on making the same mis-
takes until I get it right. Its like the flm
Groundhog Day applied to parenting.
So in no particular order, here are
the primary mistakes and issues I keep
running into as a parent.
I need to be way more patient.
As a Type A personality, this is one of my
daily life challenges to slow down and
patiently, happily, good naturedly deal
with my kid who has inexplicably be-
come an immovable mass sprawled out
on the kitchen foor just as the school
bus is pulling up.
Youve got to love Gods sense of
humor; He blessed me and my wife with
a son who has Down Syndrome. Appar-
ently He saw that I needed a greater
challenge to get me to work on becom-
ing more patient. Thank God our son is
a terrifc, high-functioning kid, but he
can be incredibly stubborn and has a
different notion of time than I do. I need
to constantly remind myself to stop,
listen, validate, calm down and parent
with love, not anger. Its by far the longer
shorter way.
I need to respect my kids free will.
I cannot control them. My job isnt to
make sure they do everything I think is
right. Its to inculcate them with the Jew-
ish values that will give them the best
shot at making their own right decisions.
Each one is their own person, and I need
to allow them to make mistakes and
grow, and help them bring out their own
potential. That means they will make de-
cisions that I think are ill-advised. I can
hash it out with them, tell them what I
think, but at the end of the day, its their
choice. Thats how you raised indepen-
dent kids. Deal with it.
Be a cheerleader, not a critic.
Kids fourish with positive encourage-
ment and loads of love. Its not my job to
point out every single thing they are do-
ing wrong no matter how important and
insightful I think my criticism is.
Parenting is a joint venture.
Make sure you and your wife show a uni-
fed front.
Trust me, this is way harder than it
seems. Even if there is a signifcant dis-
agreement between us regarding our
child, its more important to show my
kids that I respect and love my wife and
that we are on the same page, than to
have my way. So talk out the issues with
your spouse, keep your disagreement
private, and then listen to your wife.
Chances are shes right.
Great parenting stems from a great
marriage.
Make that your priority. (Thank God
I dont think Ive made a mistake with
this one!) We all know this is true but in
the daily grind it can be hard to put in
the real time necessary to nurture your
marriage. Its a must. Ranks up there
with taking a shower and brushing your
teeth. Youve just got to do it otherwise
it can get pretty nasty.
Dont take out your frustration and
anger on your kids.
Why is that sweet child who only wants
some of your love and attention to blame
for your problems at the offce?
Im sure my kids could rattle off a
dozen more mistakes if youd ask them,
but these are the ones I confront on an
almost daily basis. God bless Donald
Winnicott for good enough parenting.
Rabbi Nechemia Coopersmith is the chief
editor of Aish.com and author of Schmooze:
A Guide to Thought-Provoking Discussion on
Essential Jewish Issues.
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Three Cheers and Plenty of Crafts
for the Red, White and Blue
DE NI S E MOR R I S ON Y E A R I A N
S
ummer is a time when stars and
stripes abound. If you havent got-
ten into the patriotic spirit, why not
invite a few friends over in July and have
a big shebang? (Could be near or around
the 4th).
Here are ideas to get your celebration started
creatively.
Stars & Stripes Party Puzzle Invites
Items needed:
Red, white and blue acrylic paint
8 craft sticks
Star stickers
Permanent marker
Red or blue ribbon.
Paint both sides of the craft sticks the fol-
lowing colors: two white, two red, two half
blue and half white, two half blue and half
red. Let dry. On each blue side, attach a row
of stars. Arrange sticks in the following rows
to create a ag design: blue and red, blue
and white, blue and red, blue and white, all
red, all white, all red, all white. Write party
invitation date, time and location on the
sticks. Bundle stick together and tie with
ribbon.
Stars and Stripes Forever Garland
Items needed:
Star template
Red and blue construction paper
Scissors
White yarn
Red and white striped peppermint candies
(still in the wrapper)
Red, white and /or blue curling ribbon
Stapler.
Cut a long piece of yarn for your garland.
Set aside. Use a star template to create
stars from the red and blue construction
paper and then cut them out. Fold over
the top point of one star and staple it to
the string. Next to the star, staple a piece of
hard candy. Cut a 12-inch strip of red, white
or blue curling ribbon, strip it with scissors
to make it curl (get a parent to help with
this) and attach it to the yarn next to the
candy. Repeat these steps until the string
is full.
Patriotic Planters
Items needed:
Terracotta planter
Red, white and blue non-toxic acrylic paint
Paintbrushes
Ruler
Pencil
White star stickers
Potting soil
Plant
Small American ag.
Paint the top rim of the planter blue and
the lower portion white. Let it dry. Give both
colors a second coat of paint then let it dry
again. On the lower, white portion, use a
pencil and ruler to draw vertical lines that
are evenly spaced apart. Paint a red stripe
between every other line so it looks like
an American ag. On the upper, blue rim
attach small, white star stickers over the
blue paint. Fill the planter with potting soil,
add a plant and push a small American ag
into the soil.
Star Spangled Luminaries
Items needed:
Star stencil (several inches in diameter)
Paper lunch bags
Red, white and blue tissue paper
Glue stick
Star stickers
Sand
Tea lights.
Use the star stencil to trace and cut out
stars on red, white and blue tissue paper.
Glue the stars to the inside sides of an open
paper bag using a glue stick. Add small
star-shaped stickers to the inside too, if
desired. Fill the bag with two inches of sand.
Repeat these steps to make additional lumi-
naries. Place luminaries outdoors where you
can keep an eye on them. Press a tea light
into the sand at the center of each bag. As
the sun sets, light the luminaries and watch
the stars glimmer and glow.
Three Cheers for the Tablecloth
Items needed:
Red and blue crepe paper streamers
Two bowls
Lukewarm water
Scissors
Pen
Flat sponges
Barious sized star stencils
Heavy-duty white paper tablecloth.
Cut red and blue crepe paper into small
pieces and place each color in its own bowl.
Add just enough lukewarm water to each
bowl to cover the paper. Let it stand for a
few minutes to tint the water. Pull out the
wet paper and discard. Using a pen and the
star stencils, trace over at sponges to cre-
ate different sized stars. Cut them out. One
by one, dip the sponges in colored water
(they will expand) and then press randomly
on the tablecloth until it is studded with
stars. Let dry then use for your next patri-
otic picnic.
Let Freedom Ring Shakers
Items needed:
Empty toilet paper tubes
Bright red or blue foil wrapping paper
Red, white and blue metallic curling ribbon;
Tape
Peanuts and/or small unwrapped candy
(i.e. Skittles, M&Ms, Reeses Pieces).
Fill the toilet paper roll with nuts and/or
candy. Leave enough room for the tube to
rattle. Wrap the roll with brightly colored
foil paper, leaving 3-inches on each end
for tying off. Secure the paper with tape.
Twist ends and close off with curling rib-
bon. Shake and rattle your noisemaker then
unroll it and enjoy a sweet treat!
Denise Morrison Yearian is the former editor
of two parenting magazines and the mother
of three children.
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This (Ear)Buds Not For You:
Noise-Induced Hearing Loss
HE I DI MA E B RAT T
M
ore and more
children and
teenagers are
seen plugged into
their earbuds or
earphones listen-
ing to their iPods,
computers or
iPads. Its all good
and fun, except
for one very seri-
ous problem and
that is damage to
their hearing a
condition known
as Noise-Induced
Hearing Loss,
which is becoming
more prevalent.
About Our Chil-
dren turned to Dr.
David Henick, chief
of Otalaryngology/
Head and Neck Surgery
at Englewood Hospital
and Medical Center in
Englewood and Patricia E.
Connelly, a pediatric audi-
ologist at The Valley Hospi-
tals Kireker Center for Child
Development in Ridgewood, for
a loud and clear message on
this growing problem.
About Our Children: Is
noise-induced hearing loss a real
problem?
Dr. David Henick: Noise-
induced hearing loss (NIHL) is a
permanent hearing impairment result-
ing from prolonged exposure to high
levels of noise. One in 10 Americans
has a hearing loss that affects his or her
ability to understand normal speech.
Excessive noise exposure is the most
common cause of hearing loss. The
National Institute of Health reports that
about 15 percent of Americans aged
20 to 69 have high frequency hearing
loss related to occupational or leisure
activities. Because of occupational risk
of noise induced hearing loss, there
are government standards regulat-
ing allowable noise exposure. Recent
studies show an alarming increase in
hearing loss in youngsters. Evidence
suggests that loud rock music along
with increased use of portable radios
with earphones may be responsible
for this phenomenon. NIHL can be
immediate or it can take a long time to
be noticeable. It can be temporary or
permanent, and it can affect one ear or
both ears. Even if you cant tell that you
are damaging your hearing, you could
have trouble hearing in the future, such
as not being able to understand other
people when they talk, especially on the
phone or in a noisy room. Regard-
less of how it might affect you,
one thing is certain: noise-
induced hearing loss is
something you can prevent.
AOC: When does this
manifest?
Dr. Henick: Exposure to
harmful noise can happen at any age.
People of all ages, including children,
teens, young adults, and older people,
can develop NIHL. Approximately 15
percent of Americans between the ages
of 20 and 69, or 26 million Americans,
have hearing loss that may have been
caused by exposure to noise at work
or in leisure activities. As many as 16
percent of teens, ages 12 to 19, have
reported some hearing loss that could
have been caused by loud noise, ac-
cording to a 2010 report
based on a survey
from the Centers
for Disease
Control and
Prevention.
AOC: Can
you explain
exactly what
happens with
noise-induced
hearing loss?
Dr. Henick:
The ears are delicate
structures that trans-
mit environmental
sounds into electri-
cal signals that are
processed in our brain.
When sound enters our
ear, it causes the eardrum
(tympanic membrane)
to vibrate. Small bones
in the middle ear space
(Malleus, Incus, Stapes)
then amplify these vibra-
tions that hits the ear-
drum to the inner ear.
These vibrations then
cause displacement
of the fuid within the
inner ear. The cochlea
(the auditory portion of
the inner ear) contains
fuid, which mechanically
stimulates fne hair cells
that electrically stimu-
late auditory nerve
fbers that travel to the
brain and interpret the
sound. Noise-induced
hearing loss occurs
when the hair cells inside
our ears are destroyed.
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Bunk Junk Fills the Camp Trunk
with Fun Reminders of Home
HE I DI MA E B RAT T
W
hat helps make the camp expe-
rience a little more like home?
Bunk junk. Yes, those spe-
cial items, colorful, creative and com-
forting, that gets packed in with the
sleeping bag, 12 pairs of tube socks and
fashlight.
From scented pillows that smell like
bubblegum and vanilla ice cream, to Mad
Libs, to glow-in-the-dark playing cards,
these camp-along tchotchkes are more
emotionally important to your camper
than the requisite bug spray, body wash
and warm pjs.
Bunk junk is anything that helps
the camper feel as comfortable as pos-
sible, says Rayna Pine, owner of The
Canteen, a three-year-old store in West-
wood, which fashions campers with ev-
erything from fun bunk junk to straight
and solid camping gear and everything
in between.
Explains Pine, bunk junk is very gen-
der specifc and often the girls want fuzzy
and decorative items, such as autograph
pillows for their bed in the shape of do-
nuts, cupcakes or peace signs. Also very
big for girls, says Pine, are sticker books
with stickers that can be placed in the
book as a memento or traded. Squishy,
round-stuffed animals help remind the
girls of home and for a decorative touch,
there are fun organizers and shag deco-
rative rungs.
The boys, says Pine, favor stickers
that remind them of their favorite sports
team. These are tradable and easily re-
moved if the camper decides to deco-
rate their bunk space with their favorite
teams logo. Also popular are glow-in-
dark playing cards, Mad libs, diabolos, a
new Chinese-type yo-yo, to name a few
items.
And one must not forget food, glori-
ous, food? Sweets on Cedar in Teaneck
ships treat-flled packages to camps dur-
ing the season and has pre-made goody
bags on hand, or the customer can pick
and choose their own treats to make their
own custom packages for their camper.
Weve got something for everyone,
says Monica Sitko, owner of Sweets on
Cedar, which also pair up with Teaneck
General Store for a candy and non-candy
camp package.
Whats popular at the candy counter
these days?
Says Sitko, all types of sours, such
as sour sticks, sour belts, Jolly Ranchers
and the sort. Also big are kosher Skittles.
Teaneck General Store in Teaneck
has its own unique stock of bunk junk,
says owner Bruce Prince. On hand are
ice cream sandwiches pillows, still
sought after are the iPad pillows, as well
as fun and funky jewelry that is made
from recycled plastic soda caps.
Boys will be boys, Prince says, and a
good old volleyball and basketball that
they play with during the camp season
can take autographs and come home
flled with camp memories.
Also fun, says Prince, are an assort-
ment of games that not only fll down
time, but also serve educational and
other needs. Among the popular games
is Anomia.
At Marcias Attic for Kids in Engle-
wood, scented pillows that smell yummy
like bubble gum, are all the rage, says Su-
san Silverstein, buyer for Marcias Attic
for Kids. Patterned socks that look like
fruit loops or sports equipment are also
very hot. Wear them and then put your
tootsies into a pair of clear Doc Martin
inspired rain boots, and the camp look
becomes tres chic.
Other hot items in the jewelry de-
partment at Marcias Attic include camp
necklaces that are made in acrylic with
either the camp name or the camp zip
code on them.
Heidi Mae Bratt is the editor of
About Our Children.
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AOC: What is the acceptable deci-
bel level for listening?
Dr. Henick: NIHL can be caused by
a one-time exposure to an intense im-
pulse sound, such as an explosion, or
by continuous exposure to loud sounds
over an extended period of time, such
as noise generated in a woodworking
shop. Recreational activities that can
put you at risk for NIHL include target
shooting and hunting, snowmobile rid-
ing, listening to MP3 players at high vol-
ume through earbuds or headphones,
playing in a band, and attending loud
concerts. Harmful noises at home may
come from sources including lawn-
mowers, leaf blowers, and woodwork-
ing tools. Sound is measured in units
called decibels. Sounds of less than 75
decibels, even after long exposure, are
unlikely to cause hearing loss. However,
long or repeated exposure to sounds at
or above 85 decibels can cause hearing
loss. The louder the sound, the shorter
the amount of time it takes for NIHL to
happen. Here are the average decibel
ratings of some familiar sounds: the
humming of a refrigerator is 45 deci-
bels; normal conversation 60 decibels;
noise from heavy city traffc 85 deci-
bels; motorcycles 95 decibels; an MP3
player at maximum volume 105 to 120
decibels; sirens 120 decibels; frecrack-
ers and frearms 150 decibels. Sound
intensity and the length of time you are
exposed to the sound are also impor-
tant factors in protecting your hearing.
A good rule of thumb is to avoid noises
that are too loud, too close, or last too
long.
AOC: How loud is too loud?
Dr. Henick: If you can hear the
music your child/teenager is playing
through their headphones or ear-
phones, it means the sound is too loud
and it can lead to permanent hearing
loss. The amount of hearing loss that
one will suffer is related both to the
volume, measured in
decibels (dB), and the
duration of time that
one is exposed to the
sound. Sound at 85 dB
or below is considered
safe. If one is exposed to
sounds greater than 90 dB
for an average of eight hours
per day without hearing protec-
tion, hearing loss will most likely
result. As the volume increases,
the safe time of exposure de-
creases. here are some loudness/
time facts to consider (the unit of
measurement is decibel) At 95 dB,
damage will occur after four hours
of exposure per day. At 100 dB,
damage will occur after two
hours of exposure
per day.
At 105 dB, damage will occur after
one hour of exposure per day. At 110
dB, damage will occur after 30 minutes
of exposure per day. At 115 dB, damage
will occur after 15 minutes of exposure
per day. At 120-plus dB, damage occurs
almost immediately.
AOC: Are earbuds any better or
worse than over the head earphones?
Patricia Connelly: A common
misconception is the bigger the head-
phones, the worse the damage, but the
opposite is true. The smaller earbuds,
the ones that commonly come with
the iPhone or iPod are more danger-
ous. Headphones are placed over the
ears and have a certain volume of air
that includes the space underneath the
earphone diaphragm and the space
of the ear canal up to the eardrum. By
contrast, ear buds are placed directly in
the ear canal and incorporate a much
smaller physical space for the music to
travel to the eardrum. If the loudness
of the music device is kept the same,
the sound level delivered through the
earbuds will be much higher than the
loudness delivered by the headphones.
This difference can make that music so
much louder that it has now become
potentially damaging to the hearing
system.
AOC: Why is it important to protect
your hearing when youre young?
Ms. Connelly: Noise-induced hear-
ing loss results from permanent damage
to the hearing system. The integrity of
the inner ears cannot be improved or
treated. When a teen or young adult
continues to abuse their hearing with
loud music delivered through earbuds,
they signifcantly increase their risk
for hearing loss. No one wants to be 25
years old with the hearing levels and
listening problems equivalent those of
a 100 year old who needs hearing aids.
No disrespect to our centenarians!
AOC: What steps youngsters and
parents take to prevent hearing loss?
Ms. Connelly: Parents and
siblings should model safe listen-
ing behaviors for others. Music
should not be blaring. Hearing
protection should be worn in
noisy environments or when
working with tools or equipment.
When using personal music de-
vices, everyone should, turn down
the volume, take listening breaks
and give their ears a rest.
Dr. Henick: If you cant reduce
the noise or protect yourself from
it, move away from it. Be alert to
hazardous noises in the environment.
Protect the ears of children who are
too young to protect their own. Make
family, friends, and colleagues aware of
the hazards of noise. Have your hearing
tested if you think you might have hear-
ing loss.
Heidi Mae Bratt is the editor of
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Healthy Fat Rich Summer Salads:
Delicious and Nutritious
Sauteed Mushroom Spinach Salad
4 ounces baby spinach leaves
2 hard-boiled eggs
avocado, sliced
Chopped kalamata olives, optional
2 to 3 tablespoons French-fried onions, optional
Olive oil Balsamic Vinaigrette
2 tablespoons Dijon mustard
3 tablespoons balsamic vinegar
1 tablespoon honey
4 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil
Salt & pepper, to taste
2 teaspoons safower oil
red onion (about half a cup), diced
5 ounces or 2 cups of sliced and diced mushrooms
1 tablespoon soy sauce
1. In a jar with a lid combine mustard, balsamic vinegar, honey.
Screw on lid and shake well. Then pour in extra virgin olive oil, seal,
and vigorously shake again. Season with salt and pepper to taste.
Set aside.
2. In a medium skillet add safower oil and cook over medium high
heat. Saute diced red onion until translucent and golden brown
around edges, about 2 minutes.
3. Mix in sliced mushrooms and soy sauce and cook until mush-
rooms are reduced in size and softened. About 2 minutes.
4. Remove from heat.
5. In a bowl or on a platter, spread out spinach leaves. Place cooled
mushroom-onion mixture on top. Cut up hard-boiled eggs as you
please, and place on top of salad with avocado slices. Drizzle liber-
ally with vinaigrette. Sprinkle with French fried onions and chopped
olives.
Recipe yields 2 servings
RAC HE L HA R K HA M
S
ometimes you come across a little
bit of knowledge that you cannot
keep to yourself; that you must
share. For me its the amazing effect
Monounsaturated Fatty Acids (MUFAs)
can have on your diet and feeling of gen-
eral well-being, and how benefcial and
delicious they can be in the recipes and
the food that you prepare.
Monounsaturated fatty acids are
plant-based fats found in canola, saffow-
er, sesame, faxseed and olive oil and
olives, nuts and seeds, avocados, and
dark chocolate. Researchers from sev-
eral studies have found that a MUFA-rich
diets make bodies burn off more energy
as heat.
I dont know from scientifc stud-
ies I know from cooking with these
ingredients and eating MUFAs as part of
every meal. I feel leaner and lighter. Best
of all, I am satisfed and feel full after eat-
ing dishes made with MUFA ingredients.
Summer salads that are rich in deli-
cious MUFAs and served alongside fsh,
meat, or poultry are flling, healthy, and
uncomplicated to prepare. Eating it will
leave you full but not bloated, light and
energetic ready to enjoy the outdoor
season.
The Rice Noodle-Sesame-Chicken
Salad gets a nice crunch from the shred-
ded cabbage or shaved Brussels sprouts
and sliced scallions that are mixed in
with thin springy rice noodles. The
dressing is favored by sesame oil and
soy sauce, and thinly sliced chicken or
steak sprinkled with toasted sesames on
top make this recipe a pleasing meal. For
extra MUFA power and favor: Add toast-
ed almond slivers and sesame seeds.
Farro-Sushi Salad has a ton of favor
thanks to MUFA all-star Tahini Soy Sesa-
me Ginger dressing. The hearty barley-
like farro is doused in this Asian favored
dressing and absorbs it tastily. Including
avocado cubes and slices of seared tuna
or salmon will satisfy appetites. Cucum-
ber adds crunch. Offer wasabi on side,
for an extra spicy kick
Sauteed Mushroom Spinach Salad
features an Olive Oil-Balsamic Vinai-
grette and saffower oil sauted mush-
rooms. Chop in a couple of eggs and
slice up avocado and you have a lunch
that will keep you going until dinner. For
extra MUFA points throw in some briny
olives.
Rice Noodle-Sesame-Chicken Salad
2 to 3 cups shredded Napa cabbage or shaved
Brussels sprouts
6 scallions, thinly sliced white and light green parts
only
8 ounces thin rice noodles, prepared as directed on
package
Sesame Soy Garlic Dressing
cup soy sauce
2 tablespoons rice vinegar
2 tablespoons sesame oil
1 tablespoon honey
1 garlic clove, minced
1 pound skinless boneless chicken cutlets or steak
Toasted slivered almonds, optional
Toasted Sesame seeds, optional
Red pepper akes, optional
1. In a large bowl toss together shredded cabbage
or shaved Brussels sprouts, thinly sliced scallions,
and prepared rice noodles.
2. In a jar or cruet combine all the ingredients for
the Sesame Garlic Soy dressing. Shake well. Season
to taste.
3. Pour dressing evenly over the rice noodle-salad.
Set aside.
4. Grill chicken or steak. When ready to handle,
slice into thin strips and place on top of noodle
salad.
5. Garnish with toasted almonds, sesame seeds,
and/or red pepper akes.
Recipe yields 4 to 6 servings
Farro-Sushi Salad
4 ounces spinach or other leafy green
3 cups prepared farro
2 peeled Persian or Kirby cucumbers, cut into -inch x
1-inch slices
Tahini-Soy-Ginger Dressing
4 tablespoons tahini paste
3 tablespoons rice vinegar
3 tablespoons soy sauce
2 tablespoons sesame oil
5 to 6 tablespoons safower oil
3 strips of pickled ginger (the kind that gets served with
sushi rolls)
1 lb. salmon llets or ahi tuna
1 avocado peeled and cubed
1. Spread spinach leaves across a large serving bowl or plat-
ter. Place prepared farro on top of greens. Scatter cucum-
bers over farro.
2. In a blender of food processor combine tahini, rice vin-
egar, soy sauce, and sesame oil. Pulse a few times to blend.
Slowly add safower oil until emulsied. Add ginger strips
and blend until incorporated.
3. Pour the majority of dressing over farro, reserving some
to nish recipe with.
4. Prepare the salmon or tuna to your preferred doneness.
Slice into desired portions and serve on top of the dish.
5. Garnish with avocado cubes. Serve with extra ginger, and
wasabi, if desired.
Recipe yields approximately 6 servings
Rachel Harkham is a recipe developer, cookbook author and
chocolatier. She lives in Rockland County with her family.
Visit her at www.reciperachel.com.
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Graduation
MATTHEW GROSSMAN
Matthew David Grossman
of Tenay graduated from
Muhlenberg College with
a double major in business
administration and political
science. He will be attending
Drexel University School of
Law in Philadelphia in the fall.
He is the son of Jackie and
Randy Grossman.
Birth
CHYENA STORFER
Chyena Storfer was born
on April 24 in North Miami
Beach, Fla., to Rochie and
Rabbi Immanuel Storfer. She
joins siblings Chaya, Gaby,
and Chana. Their grandpar-
ents are Linda and Bennett
Storfer of Bergeneld and
Rabbi Menachem and Esther
Blau ofCrown Heights in
Brooklyn.
JOSHUA GONZALEZ
Joshua Gonzalez, son of
Robin Segal-Gonzalez and
Robert Gonzalez of Oakland
and brother of Jacob, cel-
ebrated becoming a bar
mitzvah on May 3 at Barnert
Temple in Franklin Lakes.
OLIVIA GREENBERG
Olivia Greenberg, daughter of
Pamela and Paul Greenberg
of Franklin Lakes and sister
of Samantha, celebrated
becoming a bat mitzvah on
May 17 at Barnert Temple in
Franklin Lakes.
ALON HAYUT
Alon Hayut, son of Cantor
Regina and Avishay Hayut of
Tenay and brother of Yoav,
celebrated becoming a bar
mitzvah on May 31 at Temple
Beth Or in Washington
Township.
Bnai mitzvah
DREW ALTMAN
Drew Altman, son of Jamey
and Steve Altman of Glen
Rock, celebrated becom-
ing a bar mitzvah on June
7 at Temple Beth Rishon in
Wyckoff.
LINDSEY COOPER
Lindsey Cooper, daughter of
Alicia and Andrew Cooper
of River Vale, celebrated
becoming a bat mitzvah on
May 31 at Temple Beth El of
Northern Valley in Closter.
ETHAN EDELSON
Ethan Edelson, son of
Stephanie and David Edelson
of Wyckoff and brother of
Alexander and Samara,
celebrated becoming a bar
mitzvah on June 7 at Temple
Beth Rishon in Wyckoff.
SABRINA FRIED
Sabrina Rose Fried, daughter
of Karen and Alexander Fried
of Glen Rock and sister of
Taylor, celebrated becoming
a bat mitzvah on May 31 at
the Glen Rock Jewish Center.
Her grandparents are Paul
and the late Rosalie Fried of
Haworth, and the late Marian
and Franklin Taub of New
City, N.Y.
CRAIG HOFFMAN
Craig Hoffman, son of Karen
and Richard Hoffman of River
Vale, celebrated becoming
a bar mitzvah on June 7 at
Temple Beth El of Northern
Valley in Closter.
KATIE HORNE
Katie Horne, daughter of
Jacqueline Horne of Paramus
and Jonathan Horne of
Florida, and sister of Charles,
celebrated becoming a
bat mitzvah on June 9 at
Congregation Rinat Yisrael
in Teaneck. Katie gradu-
ated from the Jewish Youth
Encounter Program in
Teaneck. Her grandparents
are Judie and Ralph Rice of
Paramus and Enid and David
Horne of Florida.
DYLAN KAY
Dylan Kay, son of Caren
Sinclair-Kay and Bradley Kay
of Ridgewood, twin brother
of Zoe, and brother of Travis,
celebrated becoming a
bar mitzvah on May 10 at
Barnert Temple in Franklin
Lakes.
ZOE KAY
Zoe Kay, daughter of Caren
Sinclair-Kay and Bradley
Kay of Ridgewood, twin
sister of Dylan, and sister of
Travis, celebrated becoming
a bat mitzvah on May 10 at
Barnert Temple in Franklin
Lakes.
SEAN KING
Sean King, son of Vivian
and Ed King of Oakland
and brother of Jake and Ty,
celebrated becoming a bar
mitzvah on June 7 at Temple
Beth Rishon in Wyckoff.
JENNY KURILOFF
Jenny Kuriloff, daughter of
Pam and Roy Kuriloff of Fair
Lawn and sister of Jeremy
and Jonathan, celebrated
becoming a bat mitzvah on
May 24 at the Fair Lawn
Jewish Center/Congregation
Bnai Israel.
SARAH LEVY
Sarah Levy, daughter of
Deborah and Mark Levy of
Washington Township and
sister of Jason, celebrated
becoming a bat mitzvah on
June 7 at Temple Beth Or in
Washington Township.
FIONA MCDERMUT
Fiona McDermut, daughter
of Jennifer McDermut of
Tenay and sister of Matthew,
celebrated becoming a bat
mitzvah on May 31 at Temple
Sinai of Bergen County in
Tenay. As a mitzvah proj-
ect, Fiona has volunteered
weekly at the Jewish Home
at Rockleigh for the past
three years.
DYLAN RODRIGUEZ
Dylan Rodriguez, son of
Debra and William Rodriguez
of Gareld, celebrated
becoming a bat mitzvah on
June 7 at Temple Emeth in
Teaneck.
LILY SIEGEL
Lily Siegel, daughter of
Bonnie and Ira Siegel of
Closter, celebrated becoming
a bat mitzvah on June 7 at
Temple Beth El of Northern
Valley in Closter.
GABRIEL STERN
Gabriel Stern, son of Cindy
and David Stern of Wyckoff
and brother of Benjamin and
Matthew, celebrated becom-
ing a bar mitzvah on June
7 at Temple Beth Rishon in
Wyckoff.
SARA TOBIAS
Sara Tobias, daughter of
Sherri and Daniel Tobias of
Tenay and sister of Jordan,
celebrated becoming a
bat mitzvah on May 31 at
Congregation Beth Sholom in
Teaneck.
DANNAH VANPRAAGH
Dannah VanPraagh, daughter
of Jill and Steven VanPraagh
of Oradell and sister of Shara,
celebrated becoming a bat
mitzvah on May 31 at Temple
Emeth in Teaneck.
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1. The four-year-olds in the Bergen County
YJCCs Nursery School celebrated learning
their letters with a parade and by singing the
alphabet song. Their letter-of-the-week lessons
were facilitated by teachers, left to right,
Lindsay Tetefsky, Mindy Schmidt, Fran Danziger
and Lisa Misuta.
2. The Early Childhood Program at Temple
Emanuel of the Pascack Valley welcomed
their GrandPALS, who are members of the
synagogues Sisterhood and senior temple, to
their Friday morning Shabbat program. Pictured
here, Rosa Nitzan, Bea Wolf, and Margo Berger,
who joined teacher Eleanor Wasserman and the
3year-old class for a Shabbat time of blessings,
snack and story.
3. Glen Rock Jewish Center Hebrew Schools
Aleph class participated in a special Shavuot
service, and each student was presented with
their own siddur, decorated, dedicated and
presented to them by their parents.
4. Chabad of Passaic County held its last Kids
in Action program for the school year at the
Mud and Soul Clay Studio in Fairfield where the
children learned various pottery techniques.
Pictured here is David Zarbarko who smiles
while taking a break from his work.
5. Tamar Fuchs from Yavneh Academy wins 3rd
place in the Paramus Poetry contest for second
grade.
6. The Torah Academy of Bergen County
presented three outstanding juniors with
two different book awards from prestigious
universities. Azriel Fine was awarded The
Brandeis University Book Award for his civic and
social work; and Matthew Wexler and Benjamin
Book were awarded a first-time book award
from Yeshiva University, the Yeshiva University-
Torah Umadda Book Award, for their love of
Judaic and secular learning. Pictured from left,
Benjamin Book, Rabbi Yosef Adler, Matthew
Wexler, Azriel Fine and Dr. Garry Katz.
7. Siblings of brothers and sisters with
disabilities, who joined OHEL for their first Sibs
Side by Side 5K Marathon recently, had the
chance to meet again at a Carlos and Gabbys
dinner where awards and appreciation went
all around for the innovative programming and
ongoing work.
8. Ben Porat Yosef eighth grade student, Odelia
Fried, won first place in the Middle School Art
Siegelbaum Literary & Visual Arts Competition,
for her creative writing piece, Striped Skin and
a Yellow Star Birthmark. The competition was
sponsored by the Holocaust Museum & Study
Center in Suffern, N.Y. She is pictured here with
Brian Bassuk, trustee of the Holocaust Museum
and Study Center.
9. Marsha Stern Talmudical Academy (MTA)/
Yeshiva University High School for Boys student
Philip Meyer, of Teaneck, recently led a training
in CPR, automated external defibrillator (AED)
use and the Heimlich maneuver for more than
100 MTA students and faculty.
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Stars, Stripes
and Fireworks Galore
It wouldnt be the Fourth of July in New York City without the annual Macys re-
works show, which made its debut in 1976 to commemorate the nations bicen-
tennial. The iconic display will return to the East River this year.
Fireworks will be set
off from the Brooklyn
Bridge and from barg-
es in the water below.
The best viewing spots
will be from Brooklyn
Bridge Park and the
Brooklyn Heights
Promenade, and along
the east side of Lower
Manhattan. The show
starts at 9 p.m. Free.
Get in by 5 p.m. for a
good spot. For more
information, www.
macys.com.
Carlyz Craze
Moves to New Bigger Digs
After more than 2 years at
its old location up the street,
women and girls fashion shop,
Carlyz Craze has moved to a new
2,400-square-foot store, the
former site of longtime womens
clothing store, Simply The Best,
which recently closed. Alene
Brodsky, who co-owns Carlyz Craze
with Wendy Borodkin, says their
new store will continue to feature its
core merchandise fashionable and
modest togs but will be expand-
ing by adding stock from Simply the
Best, as well as more accessories,
swimwear and other items. And since
theres more space at their new loca-
tion, theyll even be a spot for shop-
ping moms to park their strollers,
a childrens play area and perhaps
even a man chair or two. I am very
humbled by this store and by the support of the community, says Brodsky.
Carlyz Craze, 472 Cedar Lane, Teaneck, 201-342-3398,
www.carlyzcraze.com.
The Eensy Beensy
Spider Returns Big Time
Spiders have inspired mythmakers from Ovid to E. B. White to the creators of the
eponymous superhero, but their actual role in diverse ecosystems around the globe is
just as captivating. Back for a second engagement at the American Museum of Natural
History, Spiders Alive! offers a comprehensive look at the fascinating and complex
world of arachnids. The exhibition features approximately 20 species of live arachnids,
including 16 spider species, two scorpion species, a vinegaroon, and African whip spi-
ders, and highlights this intriguing animal groups anatomy, behavior, and unique char-
acteristics. Opening July 4. American Museum of Natural History, Central Park West
at 79th Street, 212-769-5100, www.amnh.org.
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Be There or Be Square
or Rather Be Rubiks Cubed!
Come on over to the Liberty Science Center in Jersey City and get a load of the worlds rst
museum exhibition about the Rubiks Cube. Enjoy more than 7,000 square feet of games,
puzzles, history, art, and engineering, all inspired by Ern Rubiks best-selling masterpiece.
Whether youre Mats Valk or just looking for an excellent way to spend a summer day,
Beyond Rubiks Cube at Liberty Science has something amazing youve never seen before.
Liberty Science Center, 222 Jersey City Boulevard, Jersey City. 201-200-1000,
www.lsc.org.
To Our Readers: To Our Readers: This calendar is a day-by-day schedule of events. Although all information is as timely as we can make it, its a
good idea to call to verify details before you go.
To Add Your Event to Our Calendar
Send it to:
Calendar Editor
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New Jersey/Rockland Jewish Media Group
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Teaneck, NJ 0766 AboutOCaol.com
or fax it to: 201-833-4959
Deadline for Summer issue (pub-
lished July25): Tuesday, July 15
Sunday, June 22
Happy Together Tour: The Turtles, Chuck
Negron of Three Dog Night, Mark Farner of Grand
Funk Railroad, Gary Lewis and The Playboys,
Mitch Ryder and The Detroit Wheels perform
at 7 p.m. bergenPAC, 30 North Van Brunt St.,
Englewood, 201-227-1030, www.bergenpac.org,
www.ticketmaster.com.
Such are Snakes: Learn about these limb-
less creatures, how they move and which ones
are at Wave Hill. Use recycled materials to
make your own snake and listen to songwriter
Jeffrey Friedberg from the musical group The
Bossy Frog sing about snakes and other crea-
tures. Noon. Wave Hill, West 249th Street and
Independence Ave., the Bronx. 718-549-3200.
www.wavehill.org.
Thursday, June 26
Ventriloquist Jeff Dunham: Ventriloquist and
comedian Jeff Dunham performs at 7:30 p.m. at
bergenPAC. bergenPAC, 30 North Van Brunt St.,
Englewood, 201-227-1030, www.bergenpac.org,
www.ticketmaster.com.
Monday, June 30
Lubavitch commemoration: Lubavitch on the
Palisades hosts Rabbi Aharon Dovid Gancz in
commemoration of the Lubavitcher Rebbes
Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneersons 20th
Yahrzeit. Dinner 7:30 p.m. 11 Harold St., Tenay.
Suggested donation $18 or more. 201871-
1152, wwwchabadlubavitch.org.
Wednesday, July 2
Mommy and Baby Yoga: For parents or care-
givers and babies eight weeks old to crawling.
Stretch, breathe and bond with your child while
meeting other parents. 10 to 11 a.m. $25/$10
members. On the grounds. Wave Hill, West 249th
Street and Independence Avenue, the Bronx.
718-549-3200. www.wavehill.org.
Wednesday, July 2
Making Mathematics Real: Laura Taalman pres-
ents how 3D printing is breathing new life into
math. Presentations at 4 and 7 p.m. MoMath, 11
E. 26 St., Manhattan.
Thursday, July 3
Stories in the Garden: Educators share some
of their favorite nature stories. 2 p.m. Ideal for
children ages 3 to 6 with adult companion.
Free with admission to the grounds. On the
grounds. Wave Hill, West 249th Street and
Independence Avenue, the Bronx. 718-549-
3200. www.wavehill.org.
Monday, July 7
Shape-scapes: Children will enter the world
of sculpture and investigate unique forms,
shapes, and materials found in the Other
Primary Structures exhibition. Art Adventures.
11:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Free with museum
admission. Ages 4 to 7. Jewish Museum,
1109 Fifth Ave., Manhattan. 212-423-3200,
www.thejewishmuseum.org.
Tuesday, July 8
What is Cord Blood Banking? Learn about
cord blood banking and its uses. 6:15
to 7:15 p.m. at the Destination Maternitys
Learning Studio, 35 Plaza W. Route 4,
Paramus. Sponsored by The Valley Hospitals
Center for Family Education. 201-291-6151,
www.valleyhealth.com.
Tuesday, July 15
The Robots are Coming: The robots are
coming! Meet MoMaths resident roboticist,
James McLurkin at this one-of-a-kind robot
demonstration at 6:30 p.m. Tickets are $8 for
museum members and $10 for non-members.
Registration is required. MoMath, 11 E. 26 St.,
Manhattan.
Wednesday, July 16
Special Education Round Table: Round table to
for special education parents and leaders to help
their children in school. 10:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m.
Maywood Public Library, Hackbarth Auditorium,
459 Maywood Ave., Maywood. 201-960-7159.
Monday, July 14
Word Hunt: Participants can explore language
and the power of words in the vibrant large-scale
paintings from the exhibition Mel Bochner: Strong
Language. Art Adventures. 11:30 a.m. to 12:30
p.m. Free with museum admission. Ages 4 to 7.
Jewish Museum, 1109 Fifth Ave., Manhattan. 212-
423-3200, www.thejewishmuseum.org.
Monday, July 21
Picturing People: Children will learn how a
persons clothing, facial expression, and pose
tell a story through portraits on view throughout
the Museum, including the work in Masterpieces
and Curiosities: Diane Arbuss Jewish Giant. Art
Adventures. 11:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Free with
museum admission. Ages 4 to 7. Jewish Museum,
1109 Fifth Ave., Manhattan. 212-423-3200,
www.thejewishmuseum.org.
Sunday, July 27
Film Showing: Chabad of Passaic County pres-
ents Stateless, a portrait of the exodus of Soviet
Jews in the 1980s at the Chabad Center, 194
Ratzer Road, Wayne. Chinese dinner at 4:30 fol-
lowed by presentation. Childrens program as well.
$20 per person. 973-694-6274.
Monday, July 28
Places Near and Far: Families can discover
new places and take a journey together through
Culture and Continuity: The Jewish Journey, the
Jewish Museums permanent exhibition. Art
Adventures. 11:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Free with
museum admission. Ages 4 to 7. Jewish Museum,
1109 Fifth Ave., Manhattan. 212-423-3200,
www.thejewishmuseum.org.
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Two Weeks
at the Y Free
Former members of The Edge Fitness
Center can try the Wayne YMCA anytime
between until July 15 for two weeks free.
Just present your Edge Fitness pass and
get started. The offer is valid for adults,
seniors, and families 973-595-0100 or go
to www.wayneymca.org. The Y is locat-
ed at 1 Pike Drive in Wayne.
Prenatal Pilates
The Valley Hospitals Center for Family
Education is offering a program entitled
Prenatal Pilates. The program will be
held on Wednesday, July 2, 9, 16, 23 and
30 from 7:30 to 8:30 p.m. at the Destina-
tion Maternitys Learning Studio, 35 Pla-
za on Westbound Route 4, Paramus. To
register www.ValleyHealth.com/FamilyE-
ducation, 201-291-6151.
Toddler Yoga
The Valley Hospitals Center for Family
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The Orangeburg Jewish Center, located
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Summer Basketball Camp for Girls and
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Walking With Dinosaurs, an event
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The Small
Stuff Matters
E MUNA B RAV E R MA N
I
ve never served in the army, air force
or navy. But Ive read a lot about the
(very) demanding training and the se-
vere discipline involved.
Whether on land, sky or sea, all of
the services focus on the importance of
a chore our mothers tried desperately to
instill in us making our beds.
Some of my kids ignore the request;
some think it means pulling the comfort-
er up over the lumpy sheets, and some
actually do as desired. Apparently in the
armed services, only the third option is
acceptable.
There is a technique to making the
beds, to having crisp sheets (a coin
should bounce off them?) and perfect
corners. And adherence to the specifc
bed-making rules is strictly enforced.
Their mothers would be proud.
But what difference does it make?
Do you fght better or tougher is your
bed is made just right?
The army must believe so. And the
air force. And the navy. And the marines.
Why? I think that discipline general-
izes. Those who can be disciplined in the
little things will carry it through to the
bigger ones. Those who make the little
things count will defnitely treat the big
things with appropriate seriousness.
In Ethics of Our Fathers (2:1) we are
advised to treat minor mitzvot the same
way we treat the major ones. The stated
reason is that we dont know which has
the greater reward.
We also dont know the full impact
of such an attitude. We dont know how
that sense of self-control and self-disci-
pline will shape our lives.
Sometimes the bigger mitzvot are
easier to keep. I dont think about break-
ing Shabbos. But Im so tired; do I really
have to say the Shema before I go to
sleep? Im so busy; do I really have to say
the afternoon prayer. But of course it all
carries over. Ive had a long day with the
kids; do I really have to be attentive to
my husband when he walks in the door?
I have a big project do at work; do I re-
ally have to patient with my son when
he relates a long story of an incident on
the playground?
In Jewish life we do sweat the small
stuff. Because in Jewish life the small
stuff matters. It all makes us who we are.
Its a refection of our character if we take
the extra time, if we go the extra mile, if
we keep trying even when our body is
screaming sleep, sleep (it actually
does sound a little like army training!),
if we exercise self-control even when
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None of us grew up looking forward
to making hospital corners every morn-
ing. It means theres no time to push the
snooze button, no extra rolling over. But
perhaps hospital corners mean more
than we think. Its that extra attention to
detail that makes us who we are.
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Marking the 20th Yahrzeit, anniversary of passing, of
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of righteous memory
Many leaders recognize the needs of the moment
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The Rebbes
Marking the 20th Yahrzeit, anniversary of passing, of
The Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem M. Schneerson
of righteous memory
Many leaders recognize the needs of the moment
and respond with courage and compassion. Others can
sense the future and, with sensitivity, guide their followers
in preparing for it. Still others advise and lead with great
respect for the past.
The Lubavitcher Rebbe redened the concept of leadership
by exhibiting all three: profound insight into the past
and extraordinary vision for the future, both steadfastly
dependent on the presentyou and me.
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KARNEI SHOMRON, WEST BANK Four days into
the search for three kidnapped Israeli teens, I attended
a group prayer session dedicated to their safe return.
Dozens of women gathered together for a respon-
sive reading of psalms seeking Gods mercy and inter-
vention before the start of our morning Jewish studies
classes. Our voices broke as we prayed for the boys
safe return, though most of us do not know the fami-
lies personally.
I returned home to find my teenage daughter, who
is about the same age as two of the boys and should be
studying for finals, preparing to perform special mitz-
vot to help bring them home. My teenage son returned
home from school and immediately ran off to partici-
pate with the communitys youth in special prayers on
behalf of the captives.
It is amazing how quickly the rhythm of our lives
and our daily schedules has begun to revolve around
the three teens, including one dual Israeli-American
citizen, who were kidnapped by Palestinian terrorists
while trying to get rides home from a junction in Gush
Etzion, a bloc of settlements south of Jerusalem.
Since the abduction of Gilad Shaar, Eyal Yifrach, and
Naftali Frenkel, we are all checking news sources from
the web earlier and more often on our computers at
work or on our phones. Even my younger children
have been coming home from school and turning on
the television news instead of their usual Nickelodeon.
Not that some SpongeBob wouldnt do us all some
good.
I have not slept well since the boys were discovered
kidnapped, and it is clear to me that none of my neigh-
bors and friends here in Israel have either, if the times
stamped on their Facebook posts are any indication.
We ask each other for updates at the supermarket,
at exercise class, at school pickup. We talk about our
fears for the boys around the Shabbat table and at the
makolet, or corner store. We curse their kidnappers
as we pick up the kids from the pool and at the library.
We are living and breathing their captivity while
also going about our daily lives. We simply must.
One of the day-to-day aspects of living here that has
continued is that the residents of my community, in
the northern West Bank halfway between Qalqilya and
Nablus, continue to tremp to hitchhike to get
around.
Some in the Israeli media have been portraying
tremping as a settler phenomenon in which those who
hitchhike can show their ownership over all places in
Israel and their brotherhood with all Israelis. But, in
fact, for most of our kids, tremping simply is a means
of getting from place to place without waiting hours
and hours for buses that run infrequently and do not
always arrive. And it occurs not only in the West Bank
but in many areas of Israels periphery.
After a Shabbat of anxiety over the fate of the three
boys, my oldest daughter left to return to her apart-
ment in the southern Israeli city of Ashkelon, where
she is performing her second year of national service.
She tremped to the train station near Rosh Haayin
in central Israel. My husband and I do not allow my
other children to tremp. However, my oldest daughter
FIRST PERSON
Praying for three boys
whose plight hits close to home
MARCY OSTER is nearly 20; she is an adult who has to make her own deci-
sions. She was not alone in deciding to continue to tremp.
For me the place where the boys were kidnapped also
holds a significant resonance. That same daughter per-
formed her first year of national service in several com-
munities in Gush Etzion. Every Thursday night for a year
she stood at the same junction where the three boys were
abducted as she waited for a ride to get her home. It could
have been her.
But right now, the kidnapped teens are the sons of all of
us. We wait, we pray, we cry. We figuratively embrace their
brave mothers, who each have spoken to us through the
media, their faces alight with hope and faith that their sons
will be returned to them.
And we pray that our own children will be safe. I was
on the phone Sunday night with my daughter in Ashkelon
when she heard the Iron Dome anti-missile system intercept
two rockets fired from the Gaza Strip.
I had called her because the Code Red alert app on my
smartphone had sounded and I wanted to make sure that
she had made it to the stairwell of her apartment building,
which is not equipped with a bomb shelter. I put the app on
my phone, which alarms in real time, out of an obsessive
desire to know whether or not she is safe at all times. But it
is clear that we can never be assured of that.
JTA WIRE SERVICE
Racheli Frenkel, center, the mother of kidnapped
teenager Naftali Frenkel, stands with the mothers of
the other abducted teens, Eyal Yifrah and Gilad Shaar,
outside her home in Nof Ayalon on June 17.
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GIVAT SHMUEL, ISRAEL On the rolling green fields of
a suburban Tel Aviv park, hundreds gathered to pray for
the imminent rescue of three kidnapped Israeli teenagers.
Rabbis delivered speeches, singer Yonatan Razel per-
formed two pieces based on liturgical invocations of
Gods mercy, and a prayer was recited for the safe return
of Gilad Shaar, Naftali Frenkel and Eyal Yifrach, who were
kidnapped last week while hitchhiking from the West
Bank settlement of Kfar Etzion.
Nearby, the calm warmth of summer in Israel seemed
to take the edge off the anxiety a little. Children played
and babies cried. Adults snapped pictures on their
smartphones.
Such a beautiful day. Such a terrible thing.
Last weeks kidnapping brought Israelis together as few
things do in this divided nation. Thousands joined prayer
vigils across the country, including a massive one at the
Western Wall in Jerusalem.
REPORTERS NOTEBOOK
At prayer vigils, Israelis gather
in moment of unity over kidnapping
News about the kidnapped teens or the lack of it
is dominating life here, from news reports to conversa-
tions among friends in cafes, prompting a rare thaw in
the political and religious debates that typically over-
shadow Israeli discourse.
Rabbis at the vigil in this Tel Aviv suburb mostly
stayed away from politics, sticking to broad mantras
of solidarity with the prisoners two 16-year-olds and
a 19-year-old and faith in God. The only exception
was Rabbi David Stav, who called for the release of
Jonathan Pollard, the American defense contractor
convicted of spying for Israel in 1985. Pollards case is
controversial in the United States, but the call for his
release is a near-consensus issue in Israel.
Its like we were all kidnapped, said Rabbi Eliezer
Elbaz, the chief rabbi of Givat Shmuel. This did not
happen for nothing. This must awaken us to soul
searching.
Politicians steered clear of divisive statements, too.
The boys belong to all of us, said government minis-
ters from left and right. On Facebook or in speeches,
they repeated safe declarations of zero tolerance for
terror and expressed sympathy for the families, even
refusing to answer questions about what this means
for deteriorating Israeli-Palestinian relations.
On Monday, Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netan-
yahu spoke with Palestinian Authority President Mah-
moud Abbas for the first time in a year, insisting the
Palestinian leader help find the abducted teens and
their kidnappers.
Coming from people who just days ago accused each
other of bringing the country to ruin, the constant
declarations of unity seem a little performative. And
the solidarity evident across the country feels fragile,
threatened to be forgotten amid the small inconve-
niences of daily life or swallowed up by the existential
questions that serve as the backdrop to this tragedy.
Radio reports from the Israeli militarys chief of staff
came sandwiched between the latest pop music hits.
Even at the vigil, as Razel came onstage, hands hold-
ing smartphones rose up from the crowd to record the
performance.
Israelis, of course, are experts at this sort of juxtapo-
sition, famous for reboarding buses or casually sipping
espresso in cafes that were recent scenes of terrorist
carnage. Surely this national focus on the teens plight
too will pass and well all soon enough return to the
ideological battles that are the norm here.
Writing on Facebook, Yesh Atid lawmaker Meir
Cohen all but promised as much.
Theres no need for politics, Cohen wrote.
Theres no need to assign guilt. Therell be time for
that later. JTA WIRE SERVICE
Israelis at Rabin Square in Tel Aviv pray for the
release of three kidnapped Jewish teenagers on
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Dr. Karatoprak has been consecu-
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T
o help meet the growing need for mental
health professionals, Touro College and
University System and New York City Health
and Hospitals Corporation (HHC) are join-
ing to educate physician assistants (PAs) with a focus
in psychiatry.
The new initiative is designed to help address the
growing shortage of psychiatrists in the United States
and the tri-state area, which is expected to worsen
exponentially over the next few years. According to
the Association of PAs in Psychiatry (APAP), currently
there are approximately 1,000 psych PAs in the U.S.,
and 55,000 psychiatrists numbers far too low to
meet the future demand.
The shortage requires innovative training that will
produce an adequate number of clinicians to keep
up with the demand for mental health services and
address the limited access to care for thousands of
patients suffering from mental illness.
Beginning with a pilot initiative in summer 2014,
Touros School of Health Sciences will offer a new
Behavioral Health Option that includes a four-
month rotation in psychiatry at HHC public hospitals.
This goes beyond the core curriculum and rotations
currently offered to masters level students enrolled
in Touros Manhattan PA program.
As one of Americas largest educational providers
in the health sciences field, Touro will promote a vig-
orous educational experience in psychiatry that will
yield PA graduates who are prepared to diagnose,
treat and interact with patients and their families,
Touro President and CEO Dr. Alan Kadish said. HHC
is the major provider of behavioral and mental health
services in New York City, with a cadre of expert and
compassionate health care providers working at pub-
lic hospitals and community health centers in every
borough. HHC will make an excellent partner for Tou-
ros new psychiatric PAs and will link our students to
an extensive health network within the tri-state area.
PAs are health care professionals certified to prac-
tice medicine as part of a health care team with physi-
cian supervision. They perform a range of duties, from
basic primary care to assisting in major surgery. They
can prescribe medication, perform physical exams,
diagnose and treat illnesses, and order and interpret
lab tests in collaboration with physicians. According to
the Bureau of Labor Statistics, PAs will be the second
fastest-growing health profession in the next decade
(after home health aides), with a projected growth of
39 percent.
Experience to date shows that PAs in psychiatry
often work in behavioral health facilities and psychi-
atric units of hospitals, where psychiatrists may be in
short supply. In private practices, PAs do initial evalua-
tions and maintenance check-ups for patients on med-
ications. In correctional facilities, PAs help meet the
need for psychiatric service and medical care. They
also work on community treatment teams, in emer-
gency departments, and at Veteran Administration
and Medicaid facilities.
Students enrolled in Touros behavioral health
NYC Health and Hospitals Corporation joins
Touro University for partnership
to educate physician assistants in psychiatry
Behavioral Health Option will expand career opportunities
and meet mental health needs of the community
option who complete the PA curriculum and clinical
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and outpatient settings for psychiatric disorders; identify
and triage medical/medication complications, changes
in conditions, and psychiatric and overlapping medical
emergencies, and provide psychotherapeutic methods to
improve outcomes for common mood, anxiety and psy-
chotic illnesses.
As part of their clinical education, Touro PA students
will have the opportunity to work at any number of the
11 acute care hospitals operated by HHC that offer the full
range of hospitalization services, including surgery or
treatment for an illness or chronic disease.
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Thin for real:
No plan is a plan
SUSAN L. HOLMBERG
After a particularly regrettable food day, I will always
ask a client, Well, lets back up and see how this
unfolded. What was your plan? They will typically
pause, ponder this for a moment and often answer, I
dont think I had one.
Here is what I have figured out about myself (rocket
science, as I am sure you will see). No plan is actually a
plan not to have a plan. It pretty much ensures that the
environment will have its way with me. At best, I will
default to my original factory settings, which would be
fine if my default values were healthy!
When you think about it, what is any diet program
but a concrete food plan? Its like they knew not to let
us negotiate. Their food plans, while often healthful,
are typically neither special nor magical. Simply put,
the less we get to negotiate, the more successful the
weight loss outcome. Hmmm
So, why do I need their plan anyway? Why not cob-
ble together my own master plan, taking from each
program whatever worked for me? Then it becomes
my forever plan, not someone elses program.
When I make a plan, I can insure that:
I use my history to troubleshoot the upcoming cir-
cumstances and take pre-emptive actions to pre-pave
my success.
I demonstrate my commitment and reinforce my
healthy intentions by investing my energy in that out-
come rather than just waiting to see if my mood, the
environment and my companions are on that page
when the time comes.
I follow up to see if my expectations of both myself
and of the circumstances were on target and take note
for the next time.
I limit negotiation the kiss of death for we weight
challenged. Oddly enough, my healthy choices rarely
seem to require discussion!
Does your plan for today support your healthy
intentions?
Susan L. Holmberg, MS, CNS, is a nutritionist in private
practice with twenty years experience empowering
individuals to solve their unique weight challenges. For
more information, call (201) 664-8111.
Mendler named
new director of
HNH Fitness Center
Holy Name Medical Center has announced the
appointment of Dr. J. Christopher Mendler as medi-
cal director of HNH Fitness Holy Names medically
based fitness center in Oradell.
As medical director of HNH Fitness, I have the
opportunity to work with a team of professionals
to develop medically-oriented fitness and wellness
programs that incorporate regular physical activity,
sound nutrition practices and other sensible lifestyle
choices, Dr. Mendler said.
Active in a variety of sports himself swimming,
cycling, running, hiking and triathlon events Dr.
Mendler is a believer in the therapeutic benefits of
regular exercise and physical activity, and the concept
that exercise is medicine.
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C.A.R. technique combats
loss of short-term memory
RICHARD PORTUGAL
As we age, the loss of memory haunts us
all; a diagnosis of dementias symptoms
or Alzheimers disease is an inconceiv-
able horror. These terrors pose legiti-
mate concerns among the elderly and
their families. A descent into a shadow
land inevitably means a loss of essence
and self-identification where life men-
tally diminishes while the body lingers.
As of now, there is no hope in slowing
or curing the progressive nature of these
diseases; memorys decline seems to
demarcate the loss of self as the wind
slowly dissipates through the trees.
For the majority of seniors, however,
the loss of short-term memory is a natu-
ral result of the aging process and not a
harbinger of certain senility. A cold is not
necessarily cancer and a loss of memory
is not necessarily dementia. The term
dementia is bantered about in our soci-
ety almost casually. Let us not trivialize
the effects of this disease, but let us not
embellish its pernicious character either.
As we age, our ability to hydrate effec-
tively is compromised, causing various
consequences such as a wrinkling of the
skin to shrinkage of our brains. This is
normal and occurs in all of us. The good
news is that the brain, even as we age,
demonstrates a plasticity, an ability to
create new pathways for information to
flow and therefore counterbalance our
susceptibility towards forgetfulness. Our
brains are malleable and simply require
the correct encouragement to be more
efficient. As a snowstorm will require
roads to be plowed, aging necessitates
our neural pathways to become more
proficient by clearing them of accumu-
lated snow.
How can we counteract our loss of
short-term memory? Simpleutilize the
C.A.R. technique by developing your
skills of Concentration, Association, and
Repetition.
If not consciously bolstered, a new
name, fact, or happenstance can slip
through our mind as mist dissolves at
the coming of the dawn. To prevent this,
we must first concentrate upon the
new idea; focus upon a new name; con-
template a new face; provide full atten-
tion to a new situation. Make sure your
hearing is attuned, your vision sharp and
your mind attentive. This must be a con-
scious effort to center your attention like
an arrow to its target.
Once contained, this new memory
must be associated with other longer-
term memories. Relate a strangers name
to a familiar rhyme or family member;
connect a new address to your age, date
of birth or telephone number; associate
the day of the week with a certain color;
or the time of an appointment with
another significant event or date.
While concentrating upon a new
memory and creating a versatile asso-
ciation, you must consciously repeat the
memory as much as every two minutes
until the memory becomes encoded.
Repetition is the building block which
turns a short-term memory into a long-
term memory. It is the highway upon
which your memory speeds; the more
repetition the smoother the road.
So, practice C.A.R. and surprise your-
self and your family with your steel-trap
mind! Age may affect your mind, but
C.A.R. will rebuild the highway.
Richard Portugal is the founder and
owner of Fitness Senior Style, which
exercises seniors for balance, strength,
and cognitive fitness in their own
homes. He has been certified as a senior
trainer by the American Senior Fitness
Association. For further information, call
(201) 937-4722.
Board-certified in sports medicine and
family medicine, he serves as director of
sports medicine at Holy Name Medical
Center where he is a member of the Holy
Name Physician Network. After receiv-
ing his bachelors degree in biology at
Johns Hopkins University, Dr. Mendler
earned his medical degree from the Uni-
versity of Medicine & Dentistry of New
Jersey-New Jersey Medical School. He
completed his internship and residency
at UMDNJ-Robert Wood Johnson Medi-
cal School, followed by a fellowship in
sports medicine at Indiana University
School of Medicine.
Dr. Mendler was in private practice
for nine years with Sports Medicine
Physician Associates, LLC, and has been
a member of Holy Names medical staff
since 2006. He joined the Holy Name
Physician Associates in 2009, and the
Holy Name Physician Network in 2012.
Dr. J. Christopher Mendler
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Summer sizzle healthy barbecue tips
RACHEL MILLER
After a very long winter, its time
for some fun chillin and grillin.
Tips for a healthier
barbecue:
1. Use only high quality lean
proteins: 100 percent grass-fed
organic beef, organic free range
poultry, wild caught fish.
2. Make your own marinades. Its
so simple to combine extra virgin
organic olive oil with a squeeze
of fresh citrus juice (lemon, lime, orange, grapefruit),
fresh herbs (basil, mint, rosemary, thyme, oregano,
sage), fresh garlic, sea salt, and pepper. In addition to
tenderizing the meat and adding extra flavor, marinades
containing olive oil and citrus and the above-mentioned
herbs can reduce the formation of cancer-causing sub-
stances on foods that are cooked with intense heat and
flame. Whats healthier than that? Also, its best to avoid
store-bought marinades and condiments, which are
laden with hidden sugars, additives, and preservatives.
3. Swap over-processed white flour burger buns for an
organic-sprouted, ancient whole grain version instead.
I love Ezekiel English muffins. Or ditch the bread and
wheat entirely and get your whole
grains by adding in quinoa, farro,
or wild rice as side salad dishes.
4. Grilled vegetables add lots of color,
texture, nutrients, and quality high
fiber carbohydrates to your meal.
Eat a rainbow on a skewer by build-
ing beautiful veggie kebabs.
5. Grilled fruits make a delicious
sweet treat at the end of the meal.
Try grilled pineapple with chopped
raw macadamia nuts, grilled organic
peaches with raw pecans and a sprin-
kle of organic cinnamon, or grilled
organic plums with raw pistachio nuts. Adding the
nuts provides a little protein and healthy fat to slow the
absorption of all the sugar (albeit natural) from the fruit,
plus it gives a yummy crunchy texture and makes it feel
more dessert-y.
Enjoy the pleasures and tastes of outdoor cooking this
summer remember: Eat real food!
Bon apptit!
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Lester Senior Housing
Community to host open
house for assisted living
residence on June 26
The Lester Senior Housing Community in Whippany
invites area seniors and their families to an open house
at its Josh and Judy Weston Assisted Living Residence
on Thursday, June 26, from 3:30 to 5:30 p.m. Attend-
ees will tour the luxury residence and get information
about the many on-site, hotel-style amenities available
for seniors who require assistance with the tasks of
daily living. Refreshments will be served, there will
be giveaways, and all attendees will be entered into a
raffle for a free digital camera.
The assisted living residence, which is owned and
managed by the Jewish Community Housing Corpo-
ration of Metropolitan New Jersey, offers carefree
apartment living in an intimate setting and includes:
glatt kosher dining, on-site medical professionals and
appointments in its wellness center, a full range of
social, cultural and educational programs designed to
enrich and engage, and memory care resources. To
book a spot for the open house event, contact Barbara
Knopf at (973) 929-2725. The Lester Senior Housing
Community is located at 903-905 Route 10 East, adja-
cent to the JCC MetroWest on the Alex Aidekman Fam-
ily Jewish Federation Campus.
Holy Name institute
attracts vascular
specialists nationwide
The Interventional Institute at Holy Name Medical Cen-
ter collaborated with Cardiovascular Systems Inc. (CSI),
a developer of innovative solutions for treating periph-
eral and coronary vascular disease, to provide a live-case
vascular education course to physicians from around the
United States earlier this month.
During the closed-circuit broadcast, vascular special-
ists from various medical centers learned state-of-the-art
techniques for treating patients with complex peripheral
arterial disease (PAD) and critical limb ischemia (CLI).
PAD and CLI represent serious and increasingly preva-
lent public health issues due to the aging population, ris-
ing rates of diabetes, and higher incidence of renal dis-
ease in the population. The Interventional Institute, led
by Drs. John Rundback and Kevin Herman, has national
expertise and recognition as a leading program for PAD
and CLI care.
Interventional radiology (IR) is a rapidly growing area
of medicine. Under the direction of Dr. Rundback, rev-
olutionary imaging techniques are being used to see
inside the body while guiding narrow tubes and other
very small instruments through the blood vessels and
other pathways to the site of an abnormality. IR enables
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Hospital and family center partner
to host health fair for seniors
Englewood Hospital and Medical
Center (EHMC) partnered with
the Bergen Family Center to offer
a free senior health fair. Seven-
teen vendors, including AARP,
Englewood Department of Health,
and SHIP (Medicare), provided
their health services to about 150
seniors that attended this years
fair.
The fair included blood pres-
sure screenings, pulmonary function
tests, diabetes and nutrition education, a
demonstration and patient participation
in chair yoga exercise, and a hearty hot
lunch.
Offering free health services to Engle-
woods senior residents is something we
feel speaks to our hospitals mission; pro-
viding high quality, compassionate care
to the community we serve, said Phyllis
Brown-Edwards, director of community
affairs. We strive to ensure that our ser-
vices meet the health care needs of seniors
in our community.
Advice from a personal trainer
MICHAEL BLAUNER
I would like to take this opportunity
to introduce myself. I have been a per-
sonal trainer since 1986. In life one of the
greatest joys is to be able to work in a
profession that you enjoy. In that regard
I have been extremely fortunate!
I want everyone out there to throw
away their preconceived notions about
exercise and body types. Forget about
the typical image of American fitness
and think for yourself. Think about tak-
ing care of yourself, not only for you,
but for the people who care about you
as well.
I believe that exercise should enhance
your life, not overtake it! What is most
important is to discover an exercise rou-
tine that works for your lifestyle. There
is an activity out there for you to be pas-
sionate about. This will lead to commit-
ment and continuance and to me that
is what makes a successful program.
If you are exercise-phobic and realize
that, exercise can simply be doing a lit-
tle more than you are doing now. Start
easy. Build up. For example, take the
stairs at work, walk the kids to school,
park away from the nearest entrance to
the mall. (I really enjoy watching people
struggle to get the nearest parking spot
at the Whole Foods near my house It
kind of defeats the whole point.)
There are so many ways to make
small changes that will greatly improve
your health. Commit to moving in the
right direction and one good thing will
lead to another. Taking control of our
lives leads to success. taking care of our
health is without a question essential to
a full life. As the old saying goes, we are
nothing without our health. Exercise
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Korach
T
his weeks Torah portion is
Korach. Korach is a cousin to
Moses and Aaron who chal-
lenges their leadership. The
rabbis see Korach in a very negative light
and portray his challenge as a selfish
usurpers rebellion.
In Pirkei Avot, the Wisdom of our
Ancestors, we read, A controversy for
heavens sake will have lasting value, but
a controversy not for the sake of heaven
will not endure. What is an example of
a controversy for heavens sake? The
debates of Hillel and Shammai. And what
is an example of a controversy not for the
sake of heaven? The rebellion of Korach
and his associates.
We are people who question, who
argue, who discuss. We dont just accept
things the way they are; we look at the
world and attempt to see what could be,
what are the possibilities. So we often
challenge the status quo. Both Abraham
at Sodom and Gomorrah and Moses at
the Golden Calf challenge God and both
of them win God over to their way of
seeing things. If that is
not a successful debate, I
dont know what is!
Korach, who does not
directly challenge God,
does not come out so
well in his encounter with
Moses and Aaron. The
Biblical text is unequiv-
ocal in its rejection of
Korach. In the end the
earth swallows him and
his followers; it is pretty
clear that they are on the
wrong side of the Divine.
But the rabbinic process
of interpretation is willing
to take the text and stand it on its head to
make a point.
When I was in rabbinical school at the
Reconstructionist Rabbinical College in
the 1990s, an article entitled, Korach,
the First Reconstructionist sought to
view him in a different light. Korach was
portrayed as someone who represented
the democratic ideal, someone who was
willing to challenge the status
quo, someone who wanted to
elevate the people all the
people in holiness and ser-
vice to God.
This is not the typical way
that Korach has been seen by
our tradition, but it is really
no different than the way
Jewish feminists a few years
before had claimed Lilith as
a positive character despite
her having been portrayed
negatively throughout Jewish
history. Lilith was renewed,
reconstructed, and rein-
vented for a new age and a
new perspective.
We live in a time where what worked
Jewishly for our grandparents and per-
haps even for our parents does not neces-
sarily work for us. We have to recommit
ourselves to the traditions that work for
us and we also have to find ways to lay
claim to the parts of our tradition that are
more difficult for us.
We live in a world that is constantly
changing and things we took for granted
10 or 15 years ago are not necessarily true
today. Judaism can provide an anchor for
us in this tumultuous sea of change, but
it too must be reinterpreted as genera-
tions of rabbis have sought to do to keep
Judaism and the Jewish people connected
to one another. A process that was once
slow and unconscious has become one
that must happen in a rapidly changing
world and must be done consciously by
those of us who care deeply about Juda-
ism and its future.
So before we write off Korach as an
example of a bad guy, lets see what it
is that he has to teach us. Bring on the
challenges, because we have a tradition
that is up to facing them, and a rabbin-
ate that is open to speaking to each new
generation of Jews in the language that
they speak. Im willing to listen to Korach
and to learn from his example and to try
and insure that all the people are holy
and that Judaism continues to thrive and
remain vital.
Rabbi
Randall
Mark
Congregation
Shomrei
Torah, Wayne,
Conservative
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Crossword BY DAVID BENKOF
Across
1. Correct papers from Chicagos Ida
Crown Jewish Academy
6. Of ___ (Short film produced by
Chelsea Clinton Mezvinsky)
10. Oy oy oy!
14. Prepare to use jewishmatch.com
15. Stylish mezuzah color
16. Dont Tell ___ (Kander and Ebb song
from Cabaret)
17. Herzl novel about a Jewish Old-New
Country
19. Take down ___ (Jewish mother-in-
laws goal)
20. Masada, geologically
21. Womens ___ (Gloria Steinem cause)
22. Dead Sea quality, to the max
24. Jewish philosopher who once dated
Nazi supporter Martin Heidegger
27. ___vigoda.com (Web site for checking
if a certain actor is still alive)
30. Sound from Davids flock
31. ___, you are Israel (Netanyahu quote
to Einstein - the other one)
32. Aramaic for vows
34. State of the mythical Del Boca Vista
on TVs Seinfeld
35. ___-Israeli relations (important alli-
ance with a massive Asian country)
39. NYC Jewish mob kingpin
43. Theyre frowned upon at shul
44. What the moon starts to do every
Rosh Chodesh
45. Lyric poet Heinrich
46. Throw off, as light from Shabbat
candles
48. Architect of Dallass Meyerson
Symphony Center
50. Schoenberg and Boublils ___
Miserables
51. Israels president during the Six-Day
War
56. On the St. Louis or the Exodus
57. The ___ of Anxiety (Bernstein sym-
phony)
58. Talmudic tractate about one of the
high holidays
62. What the MGM lion does
63. Star of Showtimes Web Therapy
66. He plays Jake on Brooklyn Nine-
Nine
67. Home of Leopold Bloom
68. Jackson who famously called New
York City Hymietown
69. He was second in line of succession
after Hitler
70. Seth Greens 2013-14 TV show
71. Perhaps the most famous Jew (ever)
died on one
Down
1. ___ rock (Marc Bolans genre)
2. Tootsie is a famous Dustin Hoffman
one
3. Some Mossad workers (abbr.)
4. Daughter of Leah
5. Israel-Turkmenistan dir.
6. Joshua of ABCs hit show Scandal
7. Gulf of ___ (Red Sea arm)
8. Edith Stein was a Jewish one who
became a saint in 1998
9. Major Israeli volunteer organization
10. Haman, according to tradition
11. TV show Ancient Jewish Wisdom with
Rabbi Daniel ___
12. Change, as a Knesset bill
13. Bob of Americas Funniest Home
Videos
18. Bone in the part of the arm where
tefillin straps are wrapped
23. Shapiro or Fleischer
25. Fratricide victim of note
26. What Noahs rain did after 40 days
and 40 nights
27. Take ___ on Shabbat
28. Animal used in the kapparot cer-
emony
29. Hairspray character Turnblad por-
trayed by Harvey Fierstein
33. Ira Levins ___ Baby
34. Network of The Simpsons voice
actors Harry Shearer and Hank Azaria
36. He created Oscar and Felix
37. Enjoy Shabbos dinner
38. Littlest shekels
40. What the Danish Jewish community
has done
41. They, not the Jews, were probably
responsible for the Black Death
42. I Am Not Famous Anymore Actor
LaBeouf
47. ___ Cheshvan (nickname for a month
with no holidays)
48. Some polytheists
49. Zeph. alternative
51. Avodah ___ (idolatry)
52. Its found near the charoset on the
seder plate
53. Prepares an Uzi
54. The Lubavitcher Rebbe was one
55. Two-time Academy Award nominee
Winona
59. What -ish means (but not in
Jewish)
60. Hart who married Kitty Carlisle in
1946
61. Fills with reverence
64. Columbia political scientist
Katznelson
65. Federation abbr.
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The Last Sentence
ERIC A. GOLDMAN
I
n Kohelet (Ecclesiastes) 3, we read
that there is a season (zman) and a
time (eyt) for every experience.
In 1954 Pete Seeger took these
words, in part as a protest against nuclear
weapons testing, and adapted them into
a song that the Byrds made into a hit,
Turn, Turn, Turn, a decade later. Some
commentators thought that the season
the zman was a fixed period, and the
eyt was the moment that is appropriate
for an action. Kohelet goes on to lay out
a time for every purpose under heaven,
including a time for silence and a time for
speaking.
Swedish filmmaker Jan Troell just as eas-
ily could have called his film Silence or
Protest instead of The Last Sentence.
At what point do you remain silent and
when do you speak out? Is there a zman
or an eyt that effects how you make
your choices? In America, this issue was
raised when protestors first questioned
Americas role in Vietnam. Some saw these
protests as un-American. For Mr. Troell, a
defining moment for Sweden was during
World War II, when surrounding countries
either allied themselves with Nazi Ger-
many or chose to fight tyranny. The Swed-
ish government chose to close its eyes to
what was taking place in its neighboring
countries and remain neutral. Jan Troells
The Last Sentence is based on the life of
the activist journalist Torgny Segerstedt,
who was editor-in-chief of one of Swe-
dens leading newspapers. He chose not
to be silent.
The 82-year-old Mr. Troell, one of Swe-
dens foremost film directors, first caught
our attention in 1971 with his five-time
Oscar-nominated film The Emigrants,
starring Liv Ullmann and Max von Sydow.
The director has been active since then.
This latest work takes a tough look at his
countrys behavior during the war years, a
topic with which filmmakers across West-
ern Europe seem to be struggling. Just how
much could have been done to thwart the
Nazi advance across Europe? How compli-
ant were governments when their coun-
tries were occupied or threatened by
occupation? To be sure, when Jews think
of Sweden, we think first of the safe haven
it offered during the war. Several Bergen
County residents are alive today because
their families sought refuge in Sweden.
When the evacuation and rescue of Danish
Jewry was undertaken, Sweden was where
they found asylum. And it was Swedish
diplomat Raoul Wallenberg who saved
thousands of Hungarian Jews in Budapest.
Yet some critics point to todays Sweden
as the third most anti-Semitic country in
Europe, after Austria and Germany.
The Last Sentence is not really about
Jews, though a central figure is Jewish
and we get hints of anti-Semitism. It is
about what happens when a democracy,
which has strict constitutional provisions
for freedom of the press, comes under
pressure and struggles with the ques-
tion of whether to limit that freedom. Mr.
Troell investigates those questions with
the biopic of Mr. Segerstedt, beginning
in 1933. With Hitlers rise to power, the
journalist immediately writes a scathing
article, Mr. Hitler is an insult. We learn
that Berlin is enraged and that Hermann
Goring himself sends a threatening tele-
gram to the editor; five days later an even
more caustic editorial appears on the
pages of the Swedish newspaper. From
the beginning, the German-educated Mr.
Segerstedt asserted that Hitler eventually
would take Germany to war, a war that it
would lose.
The film brings us into the war years,
Germanys attack on neighboring Nor-
way, the Soviet Unions alliance and then
its break with Germany, and the pres-
sures placed on the Swedish government
to try and remain neutral. Throughout,
the editor continues writing articles criti-
cal of Germany. Because officials fear that
Mr. Segerstedts articles might be putting
Sweden in danger, the journalist is sum-
moned to meet with King Gustaf V and is
encouraged to stop. When the editor
refuses, the government sends in police
to confiscate several issues of the newspa-
per. At this moment, the real question of
when to speak out and when to be silent
becomes central.
Torgny Segerstedt was out in the open
about his extramarital relationship with
the wife of his publisher, Maja Forssman,
who was Jewish. The fact that Maja was Jew-
ish drew critics to charge him with being
too sympathetic to Jews. This complicated
man was unbothered by scandal and criti-
cism. In bringing Mr. Segerstedts story to
the screen, Mr. Troell chose to focus on the
impact that three women his wife, his
mother, and Maja, his mistress may have
had on his life. Even after they all died they
remained alive in the journalists psyche,
and Mr. Troell forces us to contemplate
their impact.
Jan Troells effort to capture every
moment of Mr. Segerstedts life sometimes
interferes with the films flow. At times, the
movie drags. This is a European film, and
it that shows in the pacing. Mischa Gavr-
jusjovs cinematography is absolutely gor-
geous; there are times when you want to
pause the movie so you can study a spe-
cific image. The performances by Jesper
Christensen as Torgny and Pernilla August
as Maja are exceptional.
The questions posed by this extraordi-
nary filmmaker remain relevant today as
we ponder when is the time to be silent
and when it is time to speak out.
Eric Goldman is a film educator who
teaches and writes about Jewish cinema. He
is also president of N.J.-based Ergo Media, a
distributor of Jewish film.
Arts & Culture
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At what point do
you remain silent
and when do you
speak out?
Pernilla August plays Maja Forssman in The Last Sentence. MUSIC BOX FILMS
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JS-46*
Friday
JUNE 20
Shabbat in Jersey City:
Congregation Bnai
Jacob offers its year-
end Friday Night Live!
with nosh, schmooze,
and Shabbat dinner,
beginning at 6:30 p.m.
176 West Side Ave. (201)
435-5725 or bnaijacobjc.
org.
Shabbat in Teaneck:
The Jewish Center of
Teaneck has Carlebach-
style davening, 7 p.m. 70
Sterling Place. (201) 833-
0515 or www.jcot.org.
Saturday
JUNE 21
Rabbi Lawrence Zierler
Shabbat in Teaneck: The
Jewish Center of Teaneck
offers services at 9 a.m.;
then Rabbi Lawrence
Zierler discusses Lean In
and Lean Out: Exploring
the Role of Women in
Society Today With and
Beyond the Stardom
of Sheryl Sandberg as
part of the Three Cs
Cholent, Cugel, and
Conversation. Kinder
Shul for 3- to 8-year-olds,
while parents attend
services, 10:30-11:45. 70
Sterling Place. (201) 833-
0515 or www.jcot.org.
Dr . Daniel Rynhold
Shabbat in Teaneck:
Daniel Rynhold discusses
Halakhic Man or
Superman? A Jewish
Response to Nietzsche
at Congregation Rinat
Yisrael, 6:55 p.m. Dr.
Rynhold is an associate
professor of modern
Jewish philosophy at the
Bernard Revel Graduate
School of Jewish Studies
at Yeshiva University
and the author of three
books on philosophy
and religion. 389 W.
Englewood Ave. (201)
837-2795.
Sunday
JUNE 22
NCSY breakfast in
Teaneck: New Jersey
NCSY hosts its annual
Bergen County
Scholarship Breakfast at
the Horn home, 9 a.m.
Honorees are Beth and
David Berman, Rachel
and Paul Glasser, Leah
and Jacob Stromer, and
Sherri and Chaim
Szafranski. NCSY is the
OUs international youth
movement. 465
Winthrop Road. All
welcome. (201) 862-
0250, office@njncsy.com,
or newjersey.ncsy.org.
Circus in Washington
Township: The Kelly
Miller Circus comes to
the Bergen County YJCC
for two shows, noon and
4 p.m. Rain or shine. It
features elephants, tigers,
camels, ponies, as well
as aerialists, acrobats,
and clowns, all under the
big top. Advance sales
benefit the YJCC. 605
Pascack Road. Wendy
Fox, (201) 666-6610.
Hagit Avnon
Concert in Rockleigh:
Hagit Avnon, an Israeli-
born dancer and singer,
performs for the 12th
annual Myrna and Alan
Cohen Spring Concert
at the Jewish Home at
Rockleigh, 2:30 p.m. 10
Link Drive. (201) 784-
1414.
Monday
JUNE 23
Senior program in
Wayne: The Chabad
Center of Passaic
County continues its
Smile on Seniors
program at the center
with a presentation by
a representative from
St. Josephs Hospital,
11:30 a.m. Light brunch.
$5. 194 Ratzer Road.
(973) 694-6274 or
Chanig@optonline.net.
Wednesday
JUNE 25
Ohel trip: Lubavitch on
the Palisades in Tenafly
commemorates the 20th
yahrzeit (memorial) of
the Lubavitcher rebbe,
Rabbi Menachem
Mendel Schneerson,
with a trip to the rebbes
ohel (gravesite). Light
dinner. Buses leave
from the Beth Aharon
Forem Chabad House,
11 Harold St. in Tenafly,
6 p.m. Reservations,
201) 871-1152, Rabbi@
Chabadlubavitch.org, or
www.chabadlubavitch.
org/oheltrip.
In New York
Wednesday
JUNE 25
Film in NYC: A free eight-
session summer film
series, Close Encounters
of the Spielberg Kind,
at the Museum of
Jewish Heritage A
Living Memorial to the
Holocaust, begins with
Raiders of the Lost
Ark starring Harrison
Ford and Karen Allen,
6:30 p.m. Series runs
through August 13. Raffle
prizes will be given away
at each screening. 36
Battery Place. (646) 437-
4202 or www.mjhnyc.
org/spielberg.
Thursday
JUNE 26
Job networking for
accountants: The
Orthodox Union Job
Board and Crown Heights
Young Entrepreneurs
host Networking for
Accountants at the OU
Yiddish arts fair
to enliven Teaneck
The Forward offers a multigenerational Yiddish arts
fair, with music, poetry, and film on Sunday, June 29,
from 6-8 p.m., at the Teaneck General Store. The fair
will include poetry readings in Yiddish and English
by several Yiddish poets, a spirited presentation of
klezmer and Yiddish musical classics, and a screening
of A Kiss in Jerusalem, a film about Yosl Birshteyn.
The General Store is at 502A Cedar Lane. For infor-
mation, call (201) 530-5046 or visit Teaneckgeneral-
store.com.
Dennis DeYoung
brings Styx music
to bergenPAC
The Bergen Performance
Arts Center in Engle-
wood presents Dennis
DeYoung: The Music of
Styx on Thursday, July
10, at 8 p.m. For tickets,
call the box office at (201)
227 1030, go to www.
ticketmaster.com or www.
bergenpac.org.
Temple Israel and JCC of Ridgewood
launches its fifth season of Summer Music
Fridays on June 27 with performances by
Irene Bressler on harp, Artie Bressler on
woodwinds, guest artist Annette Lieb on flute, and
Tamara Reps Freeman on violin. Doors open at 7:15
p.m.; the recital is at 7:30 in the sanctuary; services and
a festive oneg follow. 475 Grove St. (201) 444-9320.
JUNE
27
Job Board International
Headquarters, 5:30-
7:30 p.m. Featuring
Speed Networking with
round-robin seating. Not
a job fair. Registration
required. 11 Broadway,
14th floor, Manhattan.
(212) 563-4000 or www.
oujobs.org.
Singles
Saturday
JUNE 21
Shabbat games in
Teaneck: West of
the Hudson, a 20s-
to early 40s young
professionals group
hosted by the Jewish
Center of Teaneck, meets
there to play games
including Bananagrams,
Rummikub, Fluxx, and
chess; includes snacks
and schmoozing, 4 p.m.
70 Sterling Place. west.
huds@gmail.com.
Friday
JUNE 27
Shabbat weekend:
Modern Orthodox/
Machmir singles, 22-
35, are welcome to a
Shabbaton in Teaneck/
Bergenfield. Weekend
includes guest speaker
Shani Ratzker, author of
Finding Your Bashert
and The Survival Guide
to Shidduchim, shalosh
seudot, and musical
Havdalah. $120; includes
all meals. Hosted by RZ
Ruchlamer and Dr. Shani
Ratzker. (201) 522-4776,
rzr18k@aol.com.
Sunday
JUNE 29
Water park: West of
the Hudson, the young
professionals groups
affiliated with the Jewish
Center of Teaneck is
going to Camelbeach
Water Park. $36 with
special childrens
pricing available. Sign
up at www.eventbrite.
com/e/camelbeach-
waterpark-fun-day-
tickets-1798899557, or
email west.huds@gmail.
com.
Dance party in Clifton:
North Jersey Jewish
Singles Meetup, a group
sponsored by the Clifton
Jewish Center, hosts a
Jewish singles dinner
and dance, 6-9:30 p.m.
Light dinner buffet, ice
breakers, followed by
baby boomers dance
music with DJ Allan
Bolles. $20. 18 Delaware
St. (973) 772-3131 or
www.meetup.com.
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Night at New York museums
For the first time, Lower Manhattan will
turn 13 of the citys museums into a sum-
mer cultural destination as part of this
years River To River Festival, which runs
through June 29.
On Tuesday, June 24, 13 participating
museums and historic sites will offer free
admission and will stay open from 4 to 8
p.m. Patrons can hop from museum to
museum; all are within walking distance.
Visitors of all ages can spend a sum-
mer evening immersed in New York Citys
history, explore what makes the United
States unique, discover new cultures and
heritages, take a walking tour of the area,
or stop for refreshments, including restau-
rants offering special Night at the Muse-
ums discounts.
Participating museums and historical
sites include the Museum of Jewish Heri-
tage A Living Memorial to the Holocaust.
Guided tours of the museums core exhibi-
tion about Jewish heritage, the Holocaust,
and Jewish renewal, will begin on the hour
from 4 to 7 p.m. The Anne Frank Center
USA, a partner of the Anne Frank House,
uses the diary and spirit of Anne Frank
as tools to advance her legacy. The Cen-
ter opens a new exhibition on the evening
of June 24: Anne Frank: A Family Photo
Album, featuring more than 70 family
photos, many of which rarely have been
seen in public. The National September 11
Memorial Museum and Wall Street Walks
require advance reservation.
Participating institutions will issue a
special Night at the Museums Passport for
the event, available at each venue that eve-
ning. It will provide a map of the area and
information. The brochure also will give
visitors special discounts, valid through
August 31, on museum admission and
other services depending upon the loca-
tion. Restaurant discounts also are avail-
able. More information is at www.NightAt-
TheMuseums.org.
Concert in Rockleigh opens series
Exodus Supreme is the first group per-
forming for the Leonora Messer 2014
Summer Concert Series outdoors at
the Jewish Home at Rockleigh on Tues-
day, June 24, at 6:30 p.m.
The series continues July 9, August
14 and 26, and September 16.
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Linda and Harold Ganz, members of
Leonora Messers family. JHR is at 10
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Shirley Greenbaum
Shirley Greenbaum, 92, of Brooklyn
died on May 12 at Maimonides Hospital
in Brooklyn.
Born in Paterson, she was a registered
nurse for several New York hospitals.
Predeceased by a niece, Sharon Lafer,
she is survived by nieces and nephews,
Noreen Rak, Madeline Cohen, Dr.
Robert Harelick, and Michael Harelick.
Arrangements were by Jewish
Memorial Chapel, Clifton.
Samuel Kohn
Samuel Kohn of Fair Lawn, formerly of
Elmwood Park and New Haven, Conn.,
died on June 13.
A Holocaust survivor, he came to
America in 1949. He was a longtime
member of the Elmwood Park Jewish
Center and the Eastside Social Center in
Fair Lawn
He is survived by his wife of 61 years,
Celina, ne Markowicz, children,
Jeffrey of New York City and Sharon
Jacobs (David) of Wayne, and two
grandchildren.
Donations can be sent to the Yad
Vashem Holocaust Museum, Jerusalem.
Arrangements were by Louis Suburban
Chapel, Fair Lawn.
Phyllis Kurland
Phyllis R. Kurland, 77, of Glen Rock died
on June 16.
She was a Hunter College graduate
and was a real estate agent at Weichert
Realty in Glen Rock.
She is survived by her husband of 53
years, Bob, children, Jeffrey (Cheryl) of
Oakland, and Orin (Michelle Acosta) of
New York City; siblings, Joseph Hollday
(Nanci) of Los Angeles, and Deborah
Brown of New York City, and four
grandchildren.
Donations can be sent to the Glen
Rock Public Library. Arrangements were
by Louis Suburban Chapel, Fair Lawn.
Craig Liman
Craig A. Liman, 43, of Jersey City,
formerly of Fair Lawn, died on June 17.
He is survived by his parents, Peter
Liman of Glen Rock and Virginia Liman
of Atlanta, Ga.; his stepmother, Regina
Feinstein Liman; his sister, Erin Liman
(Marc Levine); his former wife, Elianne
Liman; his stepsister, Bari Feinstein; his
children, Evan and Lindsey Liman; his
partner, Mary Roman, and her sons.
Mr. Liman graduated from Johnson
& Wales and Florida International
universities and worked as a sales
manager with a consultant company,
International Profit Associates in
Chicago, Ill.
Donations can be made to Hunter
Synagogue, Hunter, N.Y. Arrangements
were by Louis Suburban Chapel,
Fair Lawn.
Obituaries
In the past, when military operations
have failed to rescue hostages, Israel has
turned to releasing Palestinian prisoners
in return for captured Israeli soldiers or
civilians.
In October 2011, Israel released more than
1,000 prisoners in exchange for Gilad Shalit,
an Israeli soldier Hamas captured in 2006.
Last year, Israel agreed to release more than
100 Palestinian prisoners as a precondition
to entering peace talks with the Palestinians.
But opposition to such exchanges has
intensified among right-wing Knesset
members, who view prisoner exchanges
as fundamentally unjust and strategically
misguided. Days before the kidnapping, a
bill proposed by Ayelet Shaked of the Jew-
ish Home party that would make it more
difficult to release terrorists as part of such
exchanges passed a preliminary reading in
the Knesset.
After the kidnapping, Jewish Homes
chairman, Naftali Bennett, doubled down
on his partys opposition to prisoner
exchanges. On Monday, he told Israeli Chan-
nel 2 that over the past 30 years, the fact
that weve freed about 10,000 terrorists
over the years got the other side used to the
idea that if you kidnap, its worth it because
you receive 1,000 terrorists, 100 terrorists.
Should Israel prove unable to find the
teens, public pressure to free the hostages
could lead to a prisoner swap, even if it hurts
Israeli strategic interests. Thats according to
Hillel Frisch, an expert on Palestinian poli-
tics at Bar-Ilan University,
I feel bad for these three boys, but this
whole attack shows the bankruptcy of this
policy of prisoner releases, Dr. Frisch said.
[Terrorists] have an incentive. Its like play-
ing the lotto but knowing youre going to
win. All they need is to do something like
this every eight or 10 years. JTA WIRE SERVICE
Teens
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BRIEFS
Israeli Defense Ministry gets new
$289 million budget increase
The budget dispute between the Israeli defense and finance minis-
tries was settled Monday as the Finance Ministry partially granted
the Defense Ministrys request for a budget increase, appropriating
an additional 1 billion shekels ($289 million).
The Defense Ministry had originally sought a budget increase of
NIS 2.7 billion ($781 million), sparking a months-long dispute with
the Finance Ministry. A defense official said Monday that the appro-
priated funds would allow the defense establishment to meet the
budgetary challenges it faces in 2014.
One of the first issues to be addressed is the renewal of the Israeli
Air Forces training flights. Defense Minister Moshe Yaalon and IDF
Chief of Staff Lt. Gen. Benny Gantz ordered the suspension of all
nonessential and training air force flights on June 1, citing the bud-
get crunch.
In exchange for the budget increase, the defense ministry agreed
to vacate a military base adjacent to the Sde Dov Airport in Tel Aviv,
freeing up prime real estate in the city and allowing the Israel Land
Authority to develop the area. JNS.ORG
Jack Lew to make first trip to Israel
as U.S. Treasury Secretary
U.S. Secretary of the Treasury Jack Lew will make his first visit to
Israel in his new position next week to discuss economic coopera-
tion between the two countries.
The Shabbat-observant Lew is on a tour of the Middle East, visit-
ing the United Arab Emirates and Saudi Arabia before coming to
Israel next week as part of the U.S.-Israel Joint Economic Develop-
ment Group.
The JEDG is an annual bilateral meeting between the United States
and Israel to discuss how to improve economic ties between the two
countries as well as with the global economy.
Lew will meet with his Israeli counterpart, Finance Minister Yair
Lapid, to discuss how to grow business ties and promote innovation
and energy initiatives, the Israeli Finance Ministry said. U.S. Ambas-
sador to Israel Daniel Shapiro and Bank of Israel head Karnit Flug
will also attend. JNS.ORG
International community condemns
kidnapping of three teenagers
World leaders have expressed outrage and deep concern over the
abduction of the three Israeli teens last Thursday.
U.S. Secretary of State John Kerry, in a statement released on Sun-
day, said he strongly condemns the kidnapping and called for the
teens quick and safe return home.
Kerry added that the U.S. government would continue to seek
details on the parties responsible for this despicable terrorist act,
although many indications point to Hamas involvement.
One of the abducted teens, Naftali Frenkel, holds a dual Ameri-
can-Israeli citizenship. A delegation of 40 French members of par-
liament, who were touring Israel, visited with the Frenkel family on
Monday.
The kidnapping shows more than anything else Hamass inten-
tions, said French MP Meir Habib, the head of the delegation, the
Jerusalem Post reported. It is important that this message is relayed
in France, too: Peace cannot be made with terrorists.
Other Israeli allies, including Canada, Great Britain, and Spain,
also condemned the kidnappings. U.N. Secretary-General Ban Ki-
moon called for the teens immediate release and for both Israel and
the Palestinians to exercise restraint. JNS.ORG
Israel sending 50 executives
on Africa investment tour
The Israeli government is sending 50 executives on a tour of Africa
in an effort to enlarge the Jewish states business presence in that
region during an era of a growing Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions
movement in other parts of the world.
Foreign Minister Avigdor Lieberman wants Israel to make deals in
economically growing countries for companies such as defense con-
tractor Elbit Systems Ltd., irrigation equipment maker Netafim Ltd.,
and billionaire Idan Ofers Israel Chemicals Ltd., which has already
invested in a $642 million potash mining project in Ethiopia.
Israels sub-Saharan exports amounted to $1.4 billion last year,
nearly four times the exports to the region in 2003, reported Busi-
ness Week.
When you look at the map, you see growth in the sub-Saharan
countries that is even greater than in Asia and that offers a great deal
of opportunity for Israeli companies, said Shauli Katznelson, direc-
tor of the economic division at the Israel Institute for Export and
International Cooperation in Tel Aviv. JNS.ORG
Netanyahu and president-elect Rivlin
seek to put differences aside
Israeli president-elect Reuven Rivlin and Prime Minister Benjamin
Netanyahu met privately June 11 to discuss their future work plans.
The two have been bitter rivals despite being members of the
same party, Likud. But as prime minister and president, their rela-
tionship cannot help but change.
I have no bad blood, Rivlin said Tuesday. I dont have any bad
feelings about anyone.
Rivlins associates reported that June 11 marked the first meeting
between Rivlin and Netanyahu in a year and a half.
We have a lot of work ahead of us for the sake of the citizens
of Israel, Netanyahu said. We have been through many things
together, and I am sure that we will both be wise enough to put aside
the bad things and behave responsibly for the sake of the future of
the state of Israel. JNS.ORG
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Shirley Greenbaum
Shirley Greenbaum, 92, of Brooklyn
died on May 12 at Maimonides Hospital
in Brooklyn.
Born in Paterson, she was a registered
nurse for several New York hospitals.
Predeceased by a niece, Sharon Lafer,
she is survived by nieces and nephews,
Noreen Rak, Madeline Cohen, Dr.
Robert Harelick, and Michael Harelick.
Arrangements were by Jewish
Memorial Chapel, Clifton.
Samuel Kohn
Samuel Kohn of Fair Lawn, formerly of
Elmwood Park and New Haven, Conn.,
died on June 13.
A Holocaust survivor, he came to
America in 1949. He was a longtime
member of the Elmwood Park Jewish
Center and the Eastside Social Center in
Fair Lawn
He is survived by his wife of 61 years,
Celina, ne Markowicz, children,
Jeffrey of New York City and Sharon
Jacobs (David) of Wayne, and two
grandchildren.
Donations can be sent to the Yad
Vashem Holocaust Museum, Jerusalem.
Arrangements were by Louis Suburban
Chapel, Fair Lawn.
Phyllis Kurland
Phyllis R. Kurland, 77, of Glen Rock died
on June 16.
She was a Hunter College graduate
and was a real estate agent at Weichert
Realty in Glen Rock.
She is survived by her husband of 53
years, Bob, children, Jeffrey (Cheryl) of
Oakland, and Orin (Michelle Acosta) of
New York City; siblings, Joseph Hollday
(Nanci) of Los Angeles, and Deborah
Brown of New York City, and four
grandchildren.
Donations can be sent to the Glen
Rock Public Library. Arrangements were
by Louis Suburban Chapel, Fair Lawn.
Craig Liman
Craig A. Liman, 43, of Jersey City,
formerly of Fair Lawn, died on June 17.
He is survived by his parents, Peter
Liman of Glen Rock and Virginia Liman
of Atlanta, Ga.; his stepmother, Regina
Feinstein Liman; his sister, Erin Liman
(Marc Levine); his former wife, Elianne
Liman; his stepsister, Bari Feinstein; his
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partner, Mary Roman, and her sons.
Mr. Liman graduated from Johnson
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universities and worked as a sales
manager with a consultant company,
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Chicago, Ill.
Donations can be made to Hunter
Synagogue, Hunter, N.Y. Arrangements
were by Louis Suburban Chapel,
Fair Lawn.
Obituaries
Yair Shoham
Yair Shoham, 72, of Fort Lee died on June 4.
Born in Israel, he was an engineer in the
communications industry.
He is survived by his wife, Ronit, ne Janay, children,
Liron of Brooklyn, Sigal of Washington, D.C., and Amit
of Oakland, Calif., and one grandchild.
Arrangements were by Eden Memorial Chapels in
Fort Lee.
Louis Siegel
Louis Siegel, 94, of Fort Lee, formerly of Englewood Cliffs,
died on June 16.
Born in New Bedford, Mass., he served in the air forces
during World War II and Korea, rising to the rank of
lieutenant colonel.
Cousins survive him. Arrangements were by Eden
Memorial Chapels in Fort Lee.
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Carol Sims
Carol Sims, 76, of Ridgewood died on June 12 following
a three-year battle with cancer.
She was a Phi Beta Kappa graduate of Barnard
College and earned a masters from Columbia
University.
A brother, Benjamin, and a niece, Eve Weiss,
survive her.
Arrangements were by Robert Schoems Menorah
Chapel, Paramus.
Ann Vogelman
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Born in Jersey City, she was a buyer for the U.S. Navy
base in Bayonne before retiring and was a member of
Temple Beth-El in Jersey City.
Predeceased by a brother, Irving Vogelman, she is
survived by a sister, Molly Heitner. She was also an
aunt and great-aunt.
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pressed vegetable and fruit mixtures. Stellas pre-
pares a unique assortment of authentic Argentinian-
style recipes, as well as gluten-free empanadas.
Favorite local farmer Richard Sunden brought
great produce, including asparagus, beefsteak toma-
toes, strawberries, and a large selection of flowers
and herbs. NJ Bees was busy selling raw honey,
and other bee products. Hoboken Farms had their
artisan breads, frozen prepared poultry, beef, fish
items, and ravioli selections. Teanecks Picklelicious
brought their array of pickles, olives, tapenades,
hummus, and more.
Nanas Home Cooking is ready to make a wonder-
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desserts are both Middle Eastern and delicious brown-
ies and cookies. Back this season is Gourmet Nuts and
Dried Fruits, and they now have pine nuts for those
pesto recipes. Unique dried fruits, like bananas and
mangoes, are part of their new fruit items.
Make your meal planning easier again with Paolos
Kitchen. Many gluten-free selections are now avail-
able too.
To top our vendor roster off, we have to mention
Angela Logans Mortgage Apple Cakes, which are
an assortment of her familys recipes in a variety of
cakes and cupcakes.
On June 26, our special guests will include a
few thousand bees, who will visit from 3 to 6 p.m.
(weather permitting). The bees will be in a transpar-
ent observation hive. They will be hard at work so
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or perform other chores. If you are lucky you may
even meet the queen. You can also taste some of the
amazing honey the bees produce. Beekeeper Danny
Senter and his associate Ray from NJ Bees will be
there to answer questions and talk all about the
amazing honey bee. Bee there for the buzz.
Raw honey and other bee products are sold at
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Cross Creek Pointe Townhouse. Move in Cond. LR/Fplc, Kit/
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Great 3 BR/3 BTH brick home. $699,000
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First Commerce Bank celebrates
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Each Miron Properties office is independently owned and operated.
Contact us today for your complimentary consultation!
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Great 3 BR/3 BTH brick home. $699,000
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