Beruflich Dokumente
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EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
Norma Meek and Patty Schumacher
Norma Meek and Patty Schumacher
Senior Associates
Senior Associates
Yale School of the 21
Yale School of the 21
st st
Century
Century
Emotional Intelligence
Emotional Intelligence
E
E
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-
IQ
IQ
Industry
Industry
-
-
Business
Business
High IQ
High IQ
Critical Critical
Condescending Condescending
Inhibited Inhibited
Uncomfortable Uncomfortable
with sensuality with sensuality
Emotionally Emotionally
bland bland
High
High
Emotional IQ
Emotional IQ
Poised Poised
Outgoing Outgoing
Committed to Committed to
people and people and
causes causes
Sympathetic Sympathetic
and caring and caring
Comfortable Comfortable
with with
themselves themselves
IQ contributes only about 20% to
IQ contributes only about 20% to
success in life
success in life
Other forces contribute to success
Other forces contribute to success
Emotional Intelligence
Emotional Intelligence
Luck
Luck
Social Class
Social Class
Emotional IQ has 5 components
Emotional IQ has 5 components
Self awareness
Self awareness
Managing emotions
Managing emotions
Motivating ourselves
Motivating ourselves
Empathy
Empathy
5 pts. D
5 pts. D
10 pts.
10 pts.
3. 3.
B
B
5 pts. D
5 pts. D
10 pts.
10 pts.
4. 4.
A
A
10 pts. C
10 pts. C
5 pts.
5 pts.
5. 5.
B
B
5 pts. C
5 pts. C
10 pts. D
10 pts. D
5 pts.
5 pts.
6. 6.
B
B
10 pts. C
10 pts. C
5 pts.
5 pts.
7. 7.
C
C
5 pts. D
5 pts. D
10 pts.
10 pts.
8. 8.
A
A
10 pts.
10 pts.
9. 9.
B
B
10 pts. D 5 pts.
10 pts. D 5 pts.
10. 10.
B
B
5 pts. D
5 pts. D
10 pts.
10 pts.
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Children are not born with social skills;
Children are not born with social skills;
they must learn them.
they must learn them.
IF CHILDREN ARE NOT BORN WITH
SOCIAL AND EMOTIONAL SKILLS
IF CHILDREN ARE NOT BORN WITH
IF CHILDREN ARE NOT BORN WITH
SOCIAL AND EMOTIONAL SKILLS
SOCIAL AND EMOTIONAL SKILLS
WHAT CAN EDUCATORS DO TO STIMULATE WHAT CAN EDUCATORS DO TO STIMULATE
THESE SKILLS IN THE CHILDREN IN OUR THESE SKILLS IN THE CHILDREN IN OUR
SETTING? SETTING?
ADDING THE TOOLS
TO THE TOOLBOX
CLEAR
COMMUNICATION
EMPATHY
SELF AWARENESS
DECISION MAKING
PROBLEM SOLVING
SHARING
PATIENCE
LISTENING
CARING
GETTING ALONG WITH
OTHERS
GENTLENESS
PERSEVERANCE
SELF MOTIVATION
SELF CONTROL
EDUCATING THE HEART
IS AS IMPORTANT AS
EDUCATING THE MIND
EACH MORNING HAVE A COMMUNITY/FEELING CIRCLE-how
do you feel and why?
READ STORIES TO EMPHASIZE THE TOOLS
TELL YOUR OWN STORIES TO ENHANCE THE TOOLS
CHILDREN ROLE PLAY CHARACTERS IN THE STORIES
CHILDREN NEED THE E.I.
TOOLS TO BE
SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE
USE MUSIC TO BUILD SELF-ESTEEM,
ENHANCE EXPRESSION, SPUR MOTOR
DEVELOPMENT, STIMULATE
LISTENING & RECEPTIVE LANGUAGE
MORE CLASSROOM
STRATEGIES
PEER MEDIATION
DEEP BREATHINGEXHALE, HOLD
2 SECONDS-INHALE
YOGA
E.I. IS THE SET OF ABILITIES THAT
HELPS US GET ALONG IN LIFE WITH
OTHER PEOPLE IN ALL KINDS OF
SITUATIONSMaurice Elias, Rutgers U.
Lessons on hurtfulness of put downs
followed by discussion of put ups
Classroom plan on handling feelingsthink
rather than react aggressively
MORE CLASSROOM
STRATEGIES
Community service
Care of classroom pets
Cooperative learning groups
OUR THOUGHTFUL TEACHING,
CONVERSATION, MODELING & PRACTICE
CAN DEVELOP & NURTURE E.I. IN OUR
CHILDREN
CHILDREN WHO ARE AROUND ADULTS WHO MODEL
GENTLENESS,PERSERVERANCE, LISTENING,
TEAMWORK & APPRECIATION OF DIFFERENCES SET
HIGHER STANDARDS FOR THEMSELVES
EDUCATORS NEED TO PROVIDE WORKSHOPS FOR
PARENTS ON DEVELOPING THE EMOTIONAL AND
SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE IN CHILDREN.
ADULTS NEED TO
MODEL GENTLENESS
Sometimes nonverbal, supportive actions are all
that is needed in the situation
Dont say
its not as bad as that
big girls dont cry
boys dont cry
it didnt hurt
THE BEST HOPE OF A NATION LIES
IN THE PROPER EDUCATION OF ITS
CHILDREN--Erasmus
SOBERING REALITY OF COLUMBINE
AND OTHER SCHOOLS HIGHLIGHT THE
NEED FOR EDUATION OF THE
EMOTIONSthe answer does not lie in
metal detectors
DO YOU AGREE SELF CONTROL, GETTING ALONG WITH
OTHERS, PERSEVERANCE, & SELF-MOTIVATION ARE AS
IMPORTANT AS IQ IN DETERMING OVERALL LIFELONG
SUCCESS?
WHAT ARE YOU DOING IN YOUR EDUCATION SETTING
TO ENHANCE THE E.I. OF THE CHILDREN?