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ulscrlmlnaLlon LesL on AsserLlve, Aggresslve and non-asserLlve behavlour

8aLe each response, accordlng Lo wheLher lL ls AsserLlve (+), Aggresslve (-) or non-AsserLlve/asslve
(n)
SlLuaLlon 8esponse ?our raLlng (+, -, or n)
lans Lo hollday LogeLher are
abrupLly changed by a frlend
and reporLed Lo you on Lhe
phone, you respond:
Wow, Lhls has really Laken
me by surprlse. l'd llke Lo call
you back afLer l've had some
Llme Lo dlgesL whaL's
happened.

arenL ls reprlmandlng Lhe
chlldren when Lhey haven'L
cleaned up Lhelr room and says:
?ou've goL Lo be Lhe worsL
klds ln Lhe whole clLy! lf l had
known parenLhood was
golng Lo be llke Lhls, l would
never have had any klds aL
all!

?our roommaLe hablLually
leaves Lhe room ln a mess. ?ou
say:
?ou're a mess and our room
ls a mess.

?our husband wanLs Lo waLch a
fooLball game on 1v. 1here ls
someLhlng else LhaL you would
llke Lo waLch. ?ou say:
Well, ah, honey, go ahead
and waLch Lhe game. l guess
l could do some lronlng.

arenL ln annoyed LhaL school
counsellor has noL done
anyLhlng abouL son's confllcL
wlLh a Leacher. arenL says:
l have asked Lhe school Lo
lnvesLlgaLe Lhe slLuaLlon ln
my son's classroom and lL
concerns me LhaL noLhlng
has been done. l musL lnslsL
LhaL Lhls slLuaLlon be looked
lnLo.

Supervlsor has [usL beraLed you
for your work. ?ou respond:
l Lhlnk some of your
crlLlclsms are Lrue, buL l
would have llked you belng
less personal abouL Lelllng
me abouL my shorLcomlngs.

?our Len-year old chlld has
lnLerrupLed you Lhree Llmes
wlLh someLhlng LhaL ls noL
urgenL. ?ou've asserLlvely asked
her noL Lo lnLerrupL you. 1he
chlld has now agaln lnLerrupLed
you. ?ou say:
l can'L llsLen Lo you and Lalk
on Lhe phone aL Lhe same
Llme. l'll be on Lhe phone a
few more mlnuLes and Lhen
we'll Lalk.

lL ls your Lurn Lo clean Lhe
aparLmenL whlch you have
neglecLed Lo do several Llmes ln
Lhe lasL monLh. ln a very calm
Lone of volce, your roommaLe
asks you Lo clean up Lhe
aparLmenL. ?ou say:
Would you geL off my back!

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N
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?ou are Lhe only woman ln a
group of men and you're asked
Lo be Lhe secreLary of Lhe
meeLlngs. ?ou respond:
l'm wllllng Lo do my share
and Lake Lhe noLes Lhls Llme.
ln fuLure meeLlngs, l'd llke us
Lo share Lhe load.

A fellow Leacher always Lrles Lo
geL ouL of dolng hls Lerm of
Leam Leachlng and asks you
agaln Lo Lake hls Lurn. ?ou say:
Well... l guess LhaL'd be ok
even lf l do have a spllLLlng
headache.

An acqualnLance has asked Lo
borrow your car for Lhe
evenlng. ?ou say:
Are you crazy? l don'L lend
my car Lo anyone!

Loud sLereo upsLalrs ls
dlsLurblng you. ?ou Lelephone
and say:
Pello, l llve downsLalrs. ?our
sLereo ls loud and ls
boLherlng me. Would you
please Lurn lL down?


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