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The Twinkle Theory David Gettman
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Preface
The best theories have three basic features. First, they are
exceedingly simple. Second, although they may not have
been obvious to the people who discovered them—once
they are widely known, they seem rather obvious to
everyone else.
Take the theory of natural selection: that new
beneficial traits are likely to be passed on. Or of
psychoanalysis: that unconscious feelings can affect one’s
behaviour. Both are easy to understand. And now that
they’re familiar to us, they simply ring true in our daily
lives, and have a secure place at the very centre of our
common world view.
Of the entertaining theory presented in this short
book, I can say for certain only that it is simple. I cannot say
whether the Twinkle Theory will fit in with everyone’s daily
experience and so become part of our accepted knowledge
of the world. But what has prompted me to write down this
theory is that virtually everyone to whom I’ve mentioned it
has commented that the theory seems to ring true. Since
hearing the Twinkle Theory, people involuntarily see every
father and child they meet in terms of its simple equation. It
has already become a part of their world view.
The third feature of a good theory is the Eureka!
factor. This refers to the moment—such as when the
apocryphal apple falls on Newton’s head—that a casual
observation finds itself suddenly inflated into a full-blown
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truism.
Whether a portent or not, the theory in this book
started with just such a moment.
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Chapter One
The Twinkle Theory Proclaimed
‘When you were just a twinkle in your father’s eye,’ the old
saying goes. It’s an intriguing thought—that there’s a tiny,
magical glimmer of every new being in the eye of its
predecessor. But what about this twinkle? What is its
significance? And why is the twinkle in the eye of the father
rather than the mother?
The mother’s role in reproduction is naturally beyond
all controversy. Her womb and hips clearly made for
gestation, monthly cycle made for fertility, breasts made for
first nourishment and bonding, and womanly instincts made
for nurturing and nesting, couldn’t be more pregnant
(excuse the pun) representations of her central, vital role in
making babies. Moreover, it’s now generally taken for
granted that a child receives most of its guidance in post-
natal development from its mother, not its father
—immunity and ideal nourishment from the mother’s milk,
emotional security from the mother’s affection and physical
contact, and intellectual stimulation from the mother’s face
and voice, and later from her speech and activities.
By contrast, particularly in the late twentieth century,
the father’s role in furthering the species has been radically
marginalised, and sometimes denied altogether. Apart from
supplying (these days, not even necessarily implanting) the
requisite sperm in order to make up the missing
complement to the egg’s 23 chromosomes—the character,
behaviour, or abilities of the father would appear to have
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Chapter Two
Nature’s Reasons
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Chapter Three
The Temperament That Makes Girls
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Chapter Four
The Temperament That Makes Boys
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Chapter Five
All Men Can Have Both
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Chapter Six
Bettering Your Chances
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Chapter Seven
Sex and The Twinkle Theory
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to Nature.
More practically speaking, a man’s social sex role, as a
determination of the gender of his future offspring, is highly
visible in his sexual behaviour. Moreover, sexual behaviour
as a sign of a man’s social sex role happens to arise at the
very moment when an offspring would be conceived. Thus,
sexual encounters are a good opportunity for judging which
role a man is playing. And if the woman is trying to
conceive, they are a useful tool for observing the Twinkle
Theory in action.
Since, as discussed above, it is quite easy for a woman
to manipulate a man’s sexual tendencies, a woman may again
be wondering whether this is a good way for her to
influence the sex of her child. In other words, if a woman
wants a boy, should she be dominant and on top, and if she
wants a girl, should she scream with delight? The answer is
no. Sexual behaviour is only an effect of, not the cause of, a
man’s social sex role. And according to the Twinkle Theory,
it is a man’s social sex role—not his sexual behaviour—that
links the prevailing needs of the social group with the
gender of his offspring.
For me, the interesting implication of this analysis of
sexuality is that the Twinkle Theory, with its constant
counterpoint of interacting social sex roles, clearly has
something say about more than the gender of babies. It
seems to pervade every aspect of procreation—the very
continuity of the species.
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Chapter Eight
Evidence, Such As It Is
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Chapter Nine
A Rigorous Analysis
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died soon after Edward’s birth, and Henry tried to get more
male heirs out of three further wives: Anne of Cleeves, to
whom he soon took a dislike; Catherine Howard, who
deceived him and was executed for it; and Catherine Parr,
who outlived him. There were no further children. By the
time of Henry’s death, he was probably the most despised
ruler England ever had. If only he had known about the
Twinkle Theory!
Henry VIII’s precious son and heir, Edward VI, sadly
reigned for only six years, succumbing to illness at the age
of 15. His elder step-sister, Mary, succeeded him, and
restored Catholicism to England, persecuted and executed
Protestants such as Lady Jane Grey (hence ‘Bloody Mary’),
and married Philip II of Spain, but had no children. Her
step-sister, Elizabeth I, then ruled brilliantly for the entire
latter half of the 16th Century, returning the country to
High Anglicanism, surpressing rivals in Scotland, defeating
the Spanish Armada, and sponsoring a profusion of English
literature, art, and exploration. Elizabeth never married.
Her successor, the last of the Tudor line, descended from
Henry VIII’s sister, was James I, King of Scotland. Lacking
the common touch of his predecessors, unable to cope with
the English Parliament, profligate with royal finances, and
probably bisexual, his reign was unsuccessful. He had a
daughter and two sons; the daughter initiated what was to
be the Hanover line of kings; the second son was Charles.
Charles I was a cultivated man, but an inadequate monarch.
He offended Parliament, married a Catholic, and over-taxed
powerful men—which led to an exodus of Puritans, the
English Civil War, and ultimately his execution. His ups and
downs gave him three daughters and three sons, including
another Charles and James. The Restoration of the
Monarchy after Cromwell brought Charles II back from a
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him all along. This deeply masculine king naturally had two
daughters, including the present monarch, Her Majesty
Queen Elizabeth II.
Lastly in England’s royal line, we should note the
temperaments of the two princes who now have children,
the heir apparent Prince Charles and his next younger
brother, Prince Andrew. As it happens, the contrast between
them couldn’t be more poignant in terms of the Twinkle
Theory.
In private, Prince Charles, the Prince of Wales, is
quiet, reflective, and sensitive; in public, he is a charming
and sociable royal. He is a firm traditionalist and
conformist—for example, in his manners, speech, and
architectural tastes. Charles also dabbles a bit in domestic
handiwork such as watercolours, storywriting, and
gardening. He is most comfortable with close female
friends, and spends his time supporting liberal social causes
such as environmentalism and youth programmes, having
set up his own social charity, The Prince’s Trust. By Princess
Diana (who in her extreme femininity was rather too similar
to Charles to make a happy marriage), he naturally
produced two sons, Princes William and Harry.
Charles’ brother, Prince Andrew, the Duke of York, is
virtually his opposite. Trained as a helicopter pilot, Andrew
saw—and by all accounts enjoyed—fierce action in the
Falkland Islands War. He has since made a career out of the
Navy. Although a good commander on board ship, he is
awkward in mixed civilian society, exhibiting both naivete
and a rude, schoolboy humour. He is very sporty,
uninvolved in society and charities. Not at all taken with the
splendour and romance of royal abodes, he built himself a
crass, suburban mansion for (his equally-masculine and
therefore incompatible wife) Fergie and their two
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Chapter Ten
What Men Are For
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they are for a while, but cultures would soon stagnate and
fail to adapt. The uniquely cultural evolution of humanity
would virtually cease, and the species would soon be ousted
from the peak of the evolutionary tree. Thus men, far from
being redundant to human society, are essential to its long-
term viability. Just as every woman is profoundly connected
to the biological continuity of the species, every man is
profoundly connected to the cultural progress of his
society—in a word, to history. When men record the story
of cultural progress, they naturally see themselves in the
central role. In the most general sense: women make life;
men make history.
It is up to men to make the future as well. By their
actions they shape their society for greater and greater
viability and competitiveness. And by determining the
character of their offspring, they shape the success of every
subsequent generation. The ‘twinkle in a father’s eye’ is
literally a reflection of his social condition, which will soon
mould itself into a new, more effective member of that
society. Every twinkle in a man’s eye is a tiny, magical
glimmer of the world to come.
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