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love to do, a RIASEC personality test might help. In the USA, O*NET can help you find jobs that are indemand and fit your personality.
Improve your relationship with your romantic partner, or find a different one. As with finding a more
fulfilling job, this one is complicated, but can have major impact. If you know your relationship isn't
going anywhere, you may want to drop it so you can spend more time developing yourself, which will
improve future relationships. If you're pretty serious about your partner, there are many things you can
do to improve the relationship. Despite being touted widely, "active listening" doesn't predict
relationship success.42 Tested advice for improving the chances of relationship success and satisfaction
include: (1) do novel and exciting things with your partner often43, (2) say positive things to and about
your partner at least 5 times more often than you say negative things44, (3) spend each week writing
about why your relationship is better than some others you know about45, (4) qualify every criticism of
your partner with a review of one or two of their positive qualities46, and (5) stare into each other's
eyes more often.47
Go outside and move your body. This will improve your attention and well-being.48
Spend more time in flow. Drop impossible tasks in favor of tasks that are at the outer limits of your
skillset. Make easy and boring tasks more engaging by turning them into games or adding challenges for
yourself.
Practice mindfulness regularly. When not in flow, step outside yourself and pay attention to how you
are behaving, how your emotions are functioning, and how your current actions work toward your
goals. Meditation may help.
Avoid consumerism. The things you own do come to own you, in a sense. Consumerism leads to
unhappiness.49 Unfortunately, you've probably been programmed from birth to see through the lens of
consumerism. One way to start deprogramming is by watching this documentary about the deliberate
invention of consumerism by Edward Bernays. After that, you may want to sell or give away many of
your possessions and, more importantly, drastically change your purchasing patterns.