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Module I:
Individual differences are the facts that make people different from each and other. We all
know that we are different from each other.. in may ways such as : our physical aspects,
our likes, dislikes, interests, values, psychological makeup (and the list goes on) in other
words... the whole "Personality".
Because, no two people or Animals can be "same" (they can be similar only ) so the
concept of individual differences !! If there were to be no individual differences, there
would be no quarrels and moreover.. there would be no Love too !! Psychology has a
special stream of study ng individual differences in people so as to understand them
better.I hope I have answered your question to your satisfaction.You can contact me for
more..I would love to asnwer.
Managing Individual differences:
1. Speak a little less, listen a little more
Most people get tremendous pleasure from speaking about themselves. But, here we have
to be careful; if we always speak about our achievements or tribulations, people will get
fed up with our egoism.
If we are willing and able to listen to others, we will find it much appreciated by our
friends. Some people are not aware of how much they dominate the conversation. If you
find you are always talking about yourself, consider the advice of the Greek philosopher,
Epictectus:
Nature gave us one tongue and two ears so we could hear twice as much as we speak.
2. Which is more important being right or maintaining harmony?
A lot of problems in relationships occur because we want to maintain our personal pride.
Dont insist on always having the last word. Healthy relationships are not built through
winning meaningless arguments. Be willing to back down; most arguments are not of
critical importance anyway.
3. Avoid Gossip
If we value someones friendship we will not take pleasure in commenting on their
frequent failings. They will eventually hear about it. But, whether we get found out or
not, we weaken our relationships when we dwell on negative qualities. Avoid gossiping
about anybody; subconsciously we dont trust people who have a reputation for gossip.
4. Forgiveness
Forgiveness is not just a clich; its a powerful and important factor in maintaining
healthy relationships. However, real forgiveness also means that we are willing to forget
the experience. If we forgive one day, but then a few weeks later bring up the old
misdeed, this is not real forgiveness. When we make mistakes, just consider how much
we would appreciate others forgiving and forgetting.
5. Know When to Keep Silent
If you think a friend has a bad or unworkable idea, dont always argue against it; just
keep silent and let them work things out for themselves. Its a mistake to always feel
responsible for their actions. You can offer support to friends, but you cant live their life
for them.
6. Right Motive
If you view friendship from the perspective of what can I get from this? you are
making a big mistake. This kind of relationship proves very tentative. If you make
friendships with the hope of some benefit, you will find that people will have a similar
attitude to you. This kind of friendship leads to insecurity and jealousy. Furthermore,
these fair weather friends will most likely disappear just when you need them most. Dont
look upon friends with the perspective what can I get out of this?. True friendship
should be based on mutual support and good will, irrespective of any personal gain.
7. Oneness.
The real secret of healthy relationships is developing a feeling of oneness. This means
that you will consider the impact on others of your words and actions. If you have a true
feeling of oneness, you will find it difficult to do anything that causes suffering to your
friends. When there is a feeling of oneness, your relationships will be free of jealousy and
insecurity.
For example, it is a feeling of oneness which enables you to share in the success of your
friends. This is much better than harboring feelings of jealousy. To develop oneness we
have to let go of feelings of superiority and inferiority; good relationships should not be
based on a judgmental approach. In essence, successful friendship depends on the golden
rule: do unto others as you would have done to yourself. This is the basis of healthy
relationships.
8. Humour
Dont take yourself too seriously. Be willing to laugh at yourself and be self-deprecating.
This does not mean we have to humiliate ourselves, far from it it just means we let go
of our ego. Humour is often the best antidote for relieving tense situations.
Bridging Individual Differences:
1. Perceived Interdependence
2. Shared goal
3. Sense of Crisis
4. Respect
5. Trust
significant barriers when trying to move forward with managing diversity. The following
is a list of the most common barriers to implementing successful diversity programs: 71
1.
Inaccurate stereotypes and prejudice. This barrier manifests itself in the belief
that differences are viewed as weaknesses. In turn, this promotes the view that diversity
hiring will mean sacrificing competence and quality.
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Ethnocentrism. The ethnocentrism barrier represents the feeling that ones cultural
rules and norms are superior or more appropriate than the rules and norms of another
culture.
3.
Poor career planning. This barrier is associated with the lack of opportunities for
diverse employees to get the type of work assignments that qualify them for senior
management positions.
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Lack of political savvy on the part of diverse employees. Diverse employees may
not get promoted because they do not know how to play the game of getting along and
getting ahead in an organization. Research reveals that women and people of color are
excluded from organizational networks.75
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Difficulty in balancing career and family issues. Women still assume the majority
of the responsibilities associated with raising children. This makes it harder for women to
work evenings and weekends or to frequently travel once they have children. Even
without children in the picture, household chores take more of a womans time than a
mans time.
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This photo highlights a diverse workforce at GE. The company is proud of its
approachDiversity is not seen as an organizational priority. This leads to subtle
resistance that shows up in the form of complaints and negative attitudes. Employees may
complain about the time, energy, and resources devoted to diversity that could have been
spent doing real work.
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The need to revamp the organizations performance appraisal and reward system.
Performance appraisals and reward systems must reinforce the need to effectively
manage diversity. This means that success will be based on a new set of criteria. For
example, General Electric evaluates the extent to which its managers are inclusive of
employees with different backgrounds. These evaluations are used in salary and
promotion decisions.76
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Module III:
Socialization
Human infants are born without any culture. They must be transformed by their parents,
teachers, and others into cultural and socially adept animals. The general process of
acquiring culture is referred to as socialization. During socialization, we learn the
language of the culture we are born into as well as the roles we are to play in life. For
instance, girls learn how to be daughters, sisters, friends, wives, and mothers. In
addition, they learn about the occupational roles that their society has in store for them.
We also learn and usually adopt our culture's norms through the socialization
process. Norms are the conceptions of appropriate and expected behavior that are held
by most members of the society. While socialization refers to the general process of
acquiring culture, anthropologists use the term enculturation for the process of being
socialized to a particular culture.
Agents of Socialization
The individual responds differently to different socialization patterns. The following
paragraphs will help to explain the influences of socialization on an individual.
Family
The most important agent of socialization, family helps mold an individual. The family
values, beliefs, religious inclinations and political views shape an individual's outlook
towards society. Parents are the biggest influence for the social development in children.
Schools
After family, schools are probably the most important influence on an individual. Schools
help pass on knowledge, create awareness and inculcate the feelings of tolerance in
individuals. The second step to socialization is schools where a child meets different
children and learns to make out the right and wrong in society.
Community and Culture
Community and culture help pass on the religious views and cultural traditions in an
individual. A community is the group where an individual meets people with similar
ideologies and interact for personal and community growth.
Peers
Meeting like-minded people, making friends and hanging out together may seem like a
teenagers life. But in fact, each and every individual in society loves to have social
contact. Peers have great impact on an individual's thoughts and line of thinking. An
individual learns to behave in a manner that they think will be acceptable to their peers.
Peer acceptance is an important part of socialization.
Mass Media
In today's world, mass media is one of important ways of socialization. People are
influenced by the social norms portrayed by the mass media. Political, religious and
social views are enforced in a hard way through the repeated exposure and arguments put
forth by the agents of mass media.
Through the above explanation, you will understand, that agents of socialization play an
important role in an individual's life. The different positive attributes fed by these agents
create harmony in an individual that makes him feel confident and respect social
etiquette. Without the norms and rules of a society, humans would have nothing to
differentiate themselves from animal groups. I hope this article has help to shed some
light on the concept of socialization.
TYPES OF SOCIALIZATION
Primary socialization for a child is very important because it sets the ground work for
all future socialization. Primary Socialization occurs when a child learns the attitudes,
values, and actions appropriate to individuals as members of a particular culture. It is
mainly influenced by the immediate family and friends. For example if a child saw
his/her mother expressing a discriminatory opinion about a minority group, then that
child may think this behavior is acceptable and could continue to have this opinion about
minority groups.
Secondary socialization Secondary socialization refers to the process of learning what is
the appropriate behavior as a member of a smaller group within the larger society.
Basically, it is the behavioral patterns reinforced by socializing agents of society.
Secondary socialization takes place outside the home. It is where children and adults
learn how to act in a way that is appropriate for the situations they are in Schools require
very different behavior from the home, and Children must act according to new rules.
New teachers have to act in a way that is different from pupils and learn the new rules
from people around them. Secondary Socialization is usually associated with teenagers
and adults, and involves smaller changes than those occurring in primary socialization.
Such examples of Secondary Socialization are entering a new profession or relocating to
a new environment or society.
7. Right to expression
8. Right to education
9. Right to work
10. Right to equality before the law, social, cultural and economic right. Etc.