Sefer Shinuyim

A Time for Change
Everyday a Spiritual Voice Echoes throughout the Whole World and Says
"Wake Up & Change Your Life"

"Sefer Shinuyim" - "Book of Change"
But are you in tune? Are you sensitive enough to hear this voice every day?
Do you hear the need to change your life? Do you feel uncomfortable and
have that inner feeling that your life is NOT in order? Do you feel that inner
need to change your life for the better?
CHANGE
On this page we explain 3 points, the next page we explain"ability to make the
changes" and then on the following page of "thinking positive", we explain
the recipe of change by changing our thoughts and attitudes to enable changes
to occur with ease. Then "the Pathway to Enlightenment", teaches
practicalities and methods to real changes in a real world by clearing
blockages within ones soul from the Book of Changes - Sefer Shinuyim
written by Jonathan Waxman.
1. Understanding the 7 Stages of life; life is split into 7 segments, in which a
different set of rules apply in surviving and handling the challenges of that
stage of life.
2. Understanding the 5 Stages of life transformation.
3. Understanding the purpose of change, lessons in "peace of mind" and
learning to take life calmly, accepting everything that happens is for our best .
1. The 7 Stages of Life

The physical growth during our lives is simply a reflection of our spiritual
growth as the levels of ones soul enter the physical body. As we grow and
mature physically through these stages, we transform and change. In each
period of our lives a different set of parameters/ rules apply. It would be
inconceivable that a 30 year old should behave with the same way a baby
behaves, although we all know some people who never seem to grow up!
1. Infancy & Early Childhood 0 to 7 years old
Learning to survive, relying totally on the people around, copying and

emulating everyone. The survival of the first seven years is based totally, in
receiving energy from others by any means possible, crying, demanding,
cheating and deception, or more subtly through loving and being sweet.
Whatever technique is applied to receiving from the adult world, this leaves a
lasting impression on ones soul and is carried forward into adult life, unless
changed by reprogramming this behavioral pattern.
In this infancy stage a baby reacts naturally, when something hurts and pains
the immediate reaction is to cry. Crying clears the negative energy so much
that the infant will almost immediately forget the pain after a good cry. Crying
is not only a way of attracting attention, but an inner spiritual reaction to
dissolving the negative hurt. The child will also immediately forgive the hurt
or damage and will never harbour any resentment.
As adults, we forget this normal reaction that we were supposed to have
learnt, and fight the pain by suppressing the hurt feelings. Until the hurt
becomes too much to cope with and affects the health of the adult. It would
therefore be an excellent idea if we would learn from this infant stage, and cry
whenever there is hurt instead of suppressing the negative emotions and
forgive and forget immediately, instead of harbouring resentment jealousy
bitterness, all the negative emotions that prevent us living as complete and
wholesome adults with lovely purposeful lives.
2. Childhood 7 - 15 years old

The emergence of the personality and copied identity, during these years a
person, still impressed and sensitive to emulate the people, the mannerisms
and character of those they come into contact with, start to develop their own
individualistic character.
This character is based entirely on the influences that the child comes into
contact with. If the child is brought up by a nanny and the television, the
parents must expect to see a confused child of our modern society. If the child
is brought up by kind intelligent educated, thoughtful and loving parents,
whom allow the child to be impressed by their etiquette and decency. The
child will indeed copy the identity of those parents.
These years of education and transformation of character are the basis of the
adult life. If in later years the adult has made mistakes and erred, it is because
the foundation of ones character in these years was poor. Hence in reforming
and changing ones nature in later years, imperatively one needs to look at the
influences of these childhood years. De- brainwashing and reprogramming all
the false copied characteristics one was impressed during childhood.
As Dr Carl Jung, the eminent Swiss psychologist says inherently no person is

bad or evil, it is simply their soul and character has been tainted by bad
influences. Everyone is intrinsically good, and has the potential to accomplish
greatness and goodness with love, kindness and sincerity.
3. Adolescence, 15 until 21-26 years old

The element of ones soul known as the Ruach ,, enters ones physical life
and spiritual soul during these years. This essence of ones spirit soul Ruach is
the power of speech. The power of speech allows a person to communicate
ones inner thoughts from ones soul to another person. Thereby creating energy
whether it has constructive, through intelligent, kind and loving words, or
destructive, through lies, deceit and slander. This period of ones life allows the
adolescent to explore these energies, both constructive and destructive.
The inner hormonal changes, peer groups, doubts and questions, help the
adolescent refine and developer an individuality of character. Exploring life
helps the young adult find ones own individualistic identity, values and
purpose in life. During this transition from childhood to adulthood, one may
feel disorientated, especially, if the basis in childhood was incorrect. A level of
insecurity comes with the changing adolescent, until one learns to have self
confidence.
If indeed a person has had to undergo a complete life change in later years, the
insecurity during that change is the insecurity of the adolescent, until
confidence in the self is gained by having the strength of character, to
intrinsically know that all is now repaired within ones soul.
This is especially true after a divorce, where the honest person questions ones
life pathway and has many adolescent doubts and lacks a self confidence.
If the characteristics taught in the childhood stage and carried forward in this
period were hateful, selfish and materialistic, the young adult will continue
with this basis in life, surviving by developing a ruthless and selfish character.
It may take many years before something happens to awaken the person to the
truth, or the person may actually continue along this pathway and then straight
into old age - a living death, without any consideration for anything as
profound as a spiritual soul.
4. Adulthood - from adolescence until 30-45 years old

Adulthood is the creative period of ones life. This stage allows all the lessons
and foundations of ones character that one has developed to then assume a
responsible role in life.
Marriage and sexual intimacy for the purpose of creating loving energy and
having children., at this stage one has transformed ones nature from a taker of
energy, to a creator and giver of loving and supportive energy .
Ones career and purpose in life are formed in this period, and an identity label
of whom you are is formed. This identity is based on your foundations of the
earlier stages and guided by your values your set yourself during adolescence.
The achievements in ones life during this period identify who the person is
and are simply a reflection of the inner soul. If compared to a budding flower
some radiate beauty, colour scent and aroma whilst some simply grow leaves
and seeds. Nonetheless everyone has an individualistic and unique purpose
and identity, the fruits of ones earlier stages of life.
5. The Mid Life Crisis, from 26 - 45 years old until the end
of life
This period is exceedingly important, and happens to everyone. Some people
choose to ignore their feelings, suppressing any need for change, and settle
themselves into directly into old age - a selfish life without use or creative
purpose. However, most people, use these feelings sensibly to either make
slight alterations to their lives or turn their useless lives upside-down starting
afresh and building solid foundations.
During the mid-life crisis years, a person will have dissatisfaction with
attainments in life; and will have a growing awareness of physical decline and
mortality. Experiencing down-in-the-dumps depressing moments, with
feelings that the life they wanted and dreamt of is not as expected, the vitality
and sense of loving creative purpose they had imagined as a child is not there,
and there seems to be a hollow vacuum. This stage of life will have the
emphasis on a search for truth, meaning and purpose of life.
Having pursued with vigour the desires, wishes and fantasies of a teenager, by
the mid life crisis years, the honest person will realize that these were the
wishes and desires of an immature teenager. Now with the wisdom of
experience, the gift of intuition, strength of an adult and with honesty, the
individual confronts the innermost feelings. Knowing that getting-it-right will
lead to a wholesome and golden stage of life. Getting it wrong will lead to a
premature living death.
Hence it becomes an emergency to CHANGE, at all costs, even at the expense
of status in life, if the job is depressing and draining then there is no other
option than to quit the job or business or at the expense of divorce, especially
if one realizes that the husband/wife isnt even ones soulmate. These are some
of the drastic measures we know people in mid-life experience and are

perfectly normal.
Recognizing the uselessness and wastefulness of the earlier years, may lead
some to fall into a depression or even worse try escape tactics, and that
includes getting on with life as usual by suppressing the feelings ones souls is
trying to express. This occurs as one may feel the changes in ones life are
simply too overwhelming to do, and other people may get hurt upset or
offended, especially spouses whom do not comprehend this stage in life and
refuse to be supportive or change, preferring to have security in the status quo
instead of an improved spiritual and purposeful life.
However, after a period of sulking and feeling sorry for oneself, analyzing the
worst scenarios, the sensible person recognizes the need for transformation.
This time of transformation, is always accompanied by reminiscing the
childhood and adolescent years. This is instinctively done by the soul, as a
way to help identify the lost mid-life crisis person where they went wrong.
The root cause for not having a perfect and wholesome life is that the
foundations laid were of poor quality. By uprooting those bad foundations and
laying new ones, based on spiritual, purposeful, loving and creative values,
the person transforms the inherent childhood and adolescent stages that were
engrained, (and in some cases brainwashed) by misinformed and misguided
parents. One then learns to be ones own parent, laying foundations based on
ones own personal experiences and mistakes.
When a movie director makes a film, the director has a very clear end vision
fixed in their head. The director will use his/her experience insights and
knowledge to keep going over the same scene until its 100% correct. Similarly
the honest adult in mid-life crisis will keep on making the corrections until the
perfect end vision that ones soul and Guardian Angels can see is fulfilled.
However, painful and boring it maybe to keep going over the same scene, the
persons soul realizes that unless it is perfect, they will not be able to live with
the uncomfortable feelings of a lack of purpose and void in life.
6. The Golden Age, from mid life crisis years until old age
This period is ONLY applicable to those people whom have worked on
themselves during the mid-life crisis years, refining their character with
spiritual meaning of life. This person now has a life of creative purpose based
on kindness, love and spiritual understanding.
The person radiates and exudes life and vitality. It is said that many successful
40 year olds look younger that some old aged 30 year olds. Having attained
the goal of realigning their principles ideals and goals in life, they are given an
amazing new lease of life. Having discarded all the draining situations out of
their lives, they are only left with good friends of similar purposeful lives.
In this GOLDEN period, comes a maturity and knowledge that all of life is
interrelated in a cycle of life and loving energy; there is no shortage nor
scarcity of love, as love is created by ones thoughts and actions and
abundance runs freely in ones life. One becomes and exudes contentment with
whatever one has, one no longer forces life to happen and a serenity of
peacefulness, harmony and calmness reigns.
As the person radiates these feelings, goodness and happiness are now
attracted into the persons life magically and magnetically.
To the person who has been blessed with the stage of Golden Age then the
next stage of old age may only last a few weeks or even a few hours to a truly
righteous person, whom have fulfilling lives until the day one dies.
7. Old age, possibly from 30 years old on

This period of old age is the acceptance that ones productive creative years
have ended, and that the person no longer has anything to offer of any purpose
to other people.
The confrontation of eventual death, together with the fact that the person has
no spiritual values, they can become more materialistic and selfish, with fears
of lack that they will not have enough money in later years. They become
ruthless and arrogantly selfish, in complete atheistic denial that there is a
GOD or any form of belief on life-after-death.
These people survive life, by using the power of creative speech to lie and
destroy other peoples lives. As they intrinsically know their lives are lost and
wasted, so ruthlessly they desire to destroy as many good people along with
them, by their deceit and manipulation.
The sincerely good people, who are living in an enlightened spiritual Golden
Age of their lives, sense this and see through these types of people, keeping a
safe distance away from them. Usually after the midlife crisis years, we find
groups of people whom have polarized themselves into either constructive
creative people with a life energy and vitality of the Golden Age and
another group of the arrogant selfish and materialistic living dead at the OLD
AGE stage of life. There is simply no in between.
Sadly for those whom have resigned themselves not to change in their mid-life
crisis, they have chosen by their freewill to be selfish and not to give to others,
they have committed spiritual suicide on themselves. They have chosen to

disconnect from the eternal Divine life energy of GOD, and hence survive by
stealing life energy from other people, which after a time all the intrinsically
good people feel a draining energy when connected with these people.
These people have a real fear of death and eventually leave this world with no
idea or spiritual preparation for what waits. Once they have died, they are
soon forgotten, as they have left nothing of any purpose or use in their selfish
lives.
Although old age can start at 30, for women this can occur earlier, in
particular those women who choose not to have, lack any wish or desire to
have children. Similarly men who have operations to prevent them having
children, they have disconnected with the creative life energy. They have
brought selfish old age upon themselves, ofcourse this pathway of self
destruction can be stopped at any moment by simply waking up spiritually.
Life Changes Can Occur at Anytime

Now that we understand that life has 7 stages, we shall now introduce the idea
of 5 stages of change. Change can occur during ANY stage of life, at anytime,
can take a year or 10 years, there is no time limit set on change, it is up to the
ability of ones soul to cope with and transform.
Nonetheless the person usually goes through a reflective period in their lives
during the mid-life crisis years, which acts as a catalyst of change, at that
stage of life one can reflect clearly and with enough experiences of life, to
make the right corrections to change life into a fulfilling and purposeful life.
2. The 5 Stages of Life's

Transformation & Change
Change can be easy; by changing your thoughts, you change your feelings,
and thus change your actions and events in your life. In our generation, we
have better skills to deal with problems and situations, as we are more
enlightened and aware than ever before in history.
Even still, it often has to get darker before it becomes lighter and brighter. In
our modern world, we do not need to wait until something happens to cause us
to change. In fact, you can choose to live a change oriented, rich, and fulfilling
life right NOW. To transform your life, you need to raise your awareness,
practice pro-activity, and live by your vision, purpose, and values.
There is nothing about a caterpillar that tells you it's going to be a butterfly,
this quote from the famous Tiferes Yisroel, Reb Yisroel Lipschitz in his book
Derush Ohr HaChayim explaining the ability to simply have faith during
any process and stage of change in ones life. He illustrates the change process
perfectly as a butterfly represents a thing of great beauty.
A butterfly completely transforms itself from a caterpillar into a comfortable
cocoon then into a radiant entity with wings. You are like a beautiful butterfly
waiting to be re-born and transformed. Dont be frightened of change!
Stage 1: Cocoon Stage
This stage is characterized by feelings of comfort, as you are beginning to
awaken to the need to change. You begin to realize you could be so much
more and recognize an error in judgment or dysfunctional pattern(s).
Stage 2: Growth Stage
This stage is characterized by feelings of discomfort, as you are beginning to
stretch yourself, your abilities, and your environment. You experience new
ways of being and thinking and have the desire to transform yourself.
Stage 3: Change Stage
This stage is characterized by feelings of panic and fear, as you are beginning
to look, feel, and act differently. You have a gut instinct that this change will
be good for you and request that Spirit and your Guardian Angels assist you to
provide with you with reassurance signs and guidance.
Nonetheless, during this stage, you may feel like your whole life is falling and
has fallen apart, the only hope being sadness, loneliness, death and misery,
you will probably be extremely fragile and sensitive. Just think of the
caterpillar transforming into the butterfly, trust that you are changing and
suddenly when the time is right you will come alive, with a brighter and more
fulfilled life.
Stage 4: Flight Stage
This stage is characterized by feelings of confidence and courage, as you
spread your wings to leave your old home to find a new home. You now
recognize yourself as a beautiful creature, have excitement about future
possibilities and you just do it.
Stage 5: Conscious Stage
This stage is characterized by feelings of inner peace and joy, as you
remember and realize who you really are. You now understand that you are a
co-creator and possess the power to become whatever you want to be and do
whatever you want to do.
Explanation of Stage 3: Change Stage

During the change stage certain feelings and happenings will occur
mysteriously which will make a person feel extremely sensitive and unsettled.
I shall discuss these specific events here in order to reassure the reader that
these events happen. They are perfectly normal in everyone's life, during the
change stage.
Feeling alone?
Appropriate relationships, the demands of your life during this period of
transformation, will force you to reevaluate which relationships in your life
are worth keeping and which are not.
If you do not face this challenge consciously, then events will occur that will
force you too to do so. Even people who have been with you for a long time
will leave against your wishes.
Suddenly you will find yourself feeling alone and out of touch with
everybody. You may feel you have no support from others, even loved ones
whom you have counted on in the past for love and support. Even people
whom you have helped and supported in the past suddenly are not there, now
that you need help.
This breakdown in relationships is perfectly normal, whilst a person is

changing. Think of a person like a spider on a spiders web, before the person
can move on to a new home and a new life, it is vitally necessary to detach
oneself from the present entanglements, when the last disconnection is made ,
one maybe exceedingly fragile and lonely, but now one is free to move
anywhere .
This influence of change is likely to have a very disruptive effect on your
relationships. Influences may enter your life during this stage that will
challenge the foundations upon which your life is built. This challenge will be
reflected in surprising encounters with others that upset your way of living or
in sudden separations from persons who you thought would always be in your
life.
During this period, it is quite likely that you will do things and go places you
never would have thought of in the past. Anyone who is wedded to the status
quo in life or to their past, will find this influence exceedingly disturbing and
difficult.
Even ones true love and aspirations of romance will change. In false romance
that pursues purely animalistic passions and desires, the lower sexual-drive
energies predominate. As with all materialistic and animals desires, this urge
and attraction wears-off with time.
True love & romance is open hearted, heart centered full of emotions based on
truth, love and sincerity. True romance utilizes the energy of ones soul. As we
explain in the chapter on Soulmates as one connects with ones soulmate, the
spiritual energy created in the connection will bring you both very close to
each other. On a level of telepathy, one knows exactly what the other one is
thinking and feeling. There is indeed a sense of wholesomeness as each knows
they are each others half, feeling the pain and joy of the other person.
During the transformation stage of mid-life crisis, one may look to deepen
ones relationship with ones spouse rising to this spiritual level OR one may
indeed be going through a divorce in search of ones true soulmate and destiny.
Recognizing that ones current spouse is NOT ones true destiny is another
difficult decision to make during the transitional change stage.
3. Understanding that ALL the

Changes in Our Life Happen for Our
Good, They are Destined - So be Calm
and Accept ALL Changes with
Happiness
, ,
This is my blessing Brucha, to you in our generation when people are
experiencing difficult changes, to wish everyone tranquility and peace of
mind. Learn to accept the tests, challenges and changes in our life with peace
of mind, calmness and acceptance from GOD.
There is nothing wrong in having made mistakes in ones youth, provided one
is honest in mid-life to admit the mistakes, and change for the better. It is well
known that one of the greatest Rabbis - Rabbi Akiva only began his spiritual
learning at the age of 40.
Learn to trust in GOD and spirit world, take life calmly, accepting everything
that happens is for the best. In acknowledging the fact that ones life was on
the wrong pathway, needs courage and strength of character to leave the past
in the past and move on to the future.
Whilst changes are occurring, trust and know that there is a divine plan for
you and that nothing happens by accident or coincidence. Everything will turn
out just fine for you in your life and you too will arrive at the golden stage of,
radiating the glow of a purposeful life, of loving kindness, aliveness and
vitality. It will happen for you, just like it has happened for millions of people
before you on our planet, created by GOD for a purposeful, creative life of
love and change.
Our destiny and purpose in this life is to change.

Life on planet earth is constantly changing; the flowers, trees, animal kingdom
and even the most stubborn of human beings who resist change are changing.
Consider a tree during the seasons; does the tree resist change during the
autumn months as the leaves fall off? We all understand that this is a cycle of
life, the tree has not died, simply taking a rest during the winter, before it
reinvents itself and grows longer and bigger in the spring.

So Wake Up, Be Brave and Change
Embrace life and the wonderful changes that will transform your life !
Then one's Life really will change irreversibly for the better !
FootNotes to This Page on "Change"

The comparison of the transformation of a Caterpillar transforming into a
butterfly is quoted by "Sefer Shinuyim" from the "Tiferes Yisroel" ,Reb
Yisroel Lipschitz - yarzheit 3rd Tishrei in Derush Ohr HaChayim . This
with respect to proving , .
In the following pages we shall explain
1. Ones ability to change
2. The need to change ones thoughts and THINK POSITIVE
"The Pathway to Enlightenment"
Section 2 of "Heavensregister" called "The Pathway to Enlightenment", with
emphasis on CHANGE, "Cleansing ones soul" and "unblocking life's
blockages" - placed upon ones soul in order to force a person to
CHANGE. Taken completely from Sefer Shinuyim - the book of Changes and
Sefer Tikunim - the book of Corrections.
The Website www.timeforchange.info is currently directed to this webpage;
the new website www.timeforchange.info is planned for 2007.
& The Website www.midlifecrisishelp.com is also planned for 2007.
Welcome
Sefer Shinuyim
The Book of Changes
Written by Jonathan Waxman
The Spiritual Concepts of

Sefer Shinuyim
The Book of Changes
Sefer Shinuyim " The Book of Changes" fundamental
concept is that everything that occurs in this physical world
commences and starts its energy as a thought of spiritual energy from
the Divine Eternal Spiritual world.
To make a change in our lives, we must change our thoughts, Sefer
Shinuyim " The Book of Changes" focuses and teaches us
how to use our mind and thoughts to change our thoughts and our
physical lives.
Sefer Shinuyim " The Book of Changes" explains how to
connect spiritually our mind, thoughts and soul to the eternal Divine
spiritual world and thereby enable changes to occur in our lives through
the power of prayer.
Sefer Shinuyim " The Book of Changes" fundamental
teachings are that "A single thought has the power to change the whole
world". "The purpose of life is to change as a physical life without
change is a living death". "Love has the power to change anything and
everything" and " , " - "One
moment of love gives more life and is worth more than a 1000 years of
hate".
The Author of The Book of Changes

Sefer Shinuyim
The basic format of Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes was written by
myself (Jonathan Waxman) between January 2005 and December 2006,
mostly in London, with 8 chapters written in Florida; the full version of 49
chapters is in the process of being completed by me partly in London and
in part in Krakow, Poland during 2007, where i have found a tremendous
amount of spiritual energy and inspiration, especially after visiting
Auschwitz-Birkenau and Lizhensk in May 2007.
It has been sincerely written out of a desire to understand the power of
change through LOVE in our modern-day lives. Using the spiritual
knowledge of reincarnation of souls - Gilgulim - i felt that our modern-day
society needs the recipe to break deadly destructive cycle of hatred,
intolerance, death and destruction that has occured in the world, by
changing the way we think through the power of love.
"The wise people shall shine as the brightness of the sky; and they shall
turn the multitudes of many people to righteousness, just like each star in
the sky shines for ever and ever" quoted from Book of
Daniel 12 verse.
The Book of Daniel & the "End of

Times"
The Pathway to Spiritual

Enlightenment
The Book of Daniel - one of the last books at the end of the bible and well
worth reading ! - explains that at the "end of time" people will become
spiritually enlightened. People will only need wise spiritual teachers to
shine a light of spiritual knowledge and then everyone will be able to learn
for themselves , change their own lives and in turn each person will radiate
their own light like the individuality of the stars in the sky.
The emphasis is that the eternal DIVINE GOD created every single
individual with their own unique soul, and therefore each persons soul has
their own unique way of radiating their own light. We all have our own
unique pathway of spiritual understanding, belief in the DIVINE creator
and our own unique way of praying and connecting with the eternal
DIVINE spiritual world.
Sefer Shinuyim " The Book of Changes" calls the spiritual
teachings of change - "The Pathway to Enlightenment" - taken from the
Book of Daniel. Emphasizing that with a small key of knowledge along
ones pathway of life, one will have the ability to transform and change ones
thoughts and heal ones soul. This is the reason every person came to this
earth to CHANGE and become spiritually enlightened.
The Book of Daniel explains that at the "End of Time" the world will
become polarized between very good people and very bad people. The very
good people will all be spiritually enlightened with an energy and strength
within their soul that one is protected and unable to be hurt or attacked by
the very bad people.
The spiritual knowledge and spiritual strength of ones soul will protect one
from external negative influences further indicating that it is the strength of
ones thoughts, mind, soul and strength of ones spiritual connection with the
eternal DIVINE spiritual world that determines everything that occurs in
ones life and ones ability to change.
"The Keys" - "The Chapters"

Sefer Shinuyim " The Book of Changes" explains that spiritual
knowledge is compared to a KEY, in that a small key can open a very large
door. If ones uses the correct key for the correct door one can open the door
to an enlightened pathway, but if one doesn't use the key, the door will
never be opened !
We hope that within the 32 chapters of Sefer Shinuyim " The
Book of Changes" one will find the correct key for the correct door that one
needs to open in ones life.
Introduction introducing the concepts of Shinuyim - Changes.

The Seven Stages of Life explains that life has 7 stages of physical
transformation.
Five Stages of Change explains the process of change takes five stages.
Ability to Change explains that everyone has the ability to change,

whatever the situation and circumstances.
Positive Thoughts explains that the fundamental basis of change of positive
thinking.
Negative Aspects explains the concept that one needs to clear the negative
aspects and blockages out of ones life before one can start any positive
changes.
Blocking Success explains that the lack of success is a sign that there is a
blockage in ones life.
Fear of Success explains that the negative emotions of hate and fear can
prevent a person having success, and that a fear of success is a fear of
growing up into a responsible adult and a fear of changing.
No Money explains that having "no money", is as much a spiritual
blockage and a physical blockage, and acts as a sign to WAKE a person up
to change.
"Its not yours" explains the spiritual laws and principles that each person
has a destiny, when one diverts ones energies to stealing and desiring
something or someone that is NOT ones destiny this acts to create a
"blockage".
Depression explains that depression is a blockage in the flow of life energy
Loss by "transference" explains the very important and fundamental
spiritual principles that one can lose ones soul energy and potential by
"giving" away the energy that is destined for ones soul by "transference".
Clearance & Closure explains that after taking away the negative
blockages, the next process is to have "closure" and make a clearance of all
the negative thoughts from ones mind, thoughts and soul.
Closure explains the spiritual teachings of learning to be "closed" and
learning "closure" from abusive and draining situations, where ones soul
needs to be "closed" so that it is not drained.
Debrainwashing explains the concept that many of our thoughts are
brainwashed into our mind by irresponsible parents and teachers at a young
age.
Motivation explains the method to energize ones life, and start the flow of
energy into ones life.
Unblocking explains how to unblock the blockages and enable flow of "life
energy" into ones soul, mind, thoughts and physical life.
Protection explains the spiritual laws of how to be spiritually protected.
Sensitive souls explains the reason of the amazing gift of "sensitive"
people, and how to handle the gift of sensitivity.
Positive aspects explains now that one has released the negative blockages
had a complete clearing of ones mind and soul of any negative thoughts,
one can now begin to develop positive thoughts of good energy of
happiness love
Happiness explains that happiness is a state of mind, influenced by the
thoughts we program into our mind and the spiritual energy that is given to
our souls from the eternal Divine Spiritual world.
Life of Love explains the fundamental basis of life on earth is a life of
LOVE and that all creations and continuity of life on earth depends upon
LOVE.
Finding Ones Soulmate explains how to find ones true soulmate.
How to Earn Money explains how to create a flow of energy that brings a
person the money one needs to live.
Life of Peace of Mind explains that developing and understanding life
spiritually, one instinctively develops a peace of mind.
Life of Trust in GOD explains that through the stages of change in ones
life, one learns to trust in GOD and spirit world.
Life of Compassion explains that the ultimate spiritual understanding,
learning the lesson of oneness with the Creator of the universe, that is
compassion for all the creations of GOD, as each creation has a spark of
life, an energy of GOD contained within.
Focus explains that the power of ones thoughts through the power of prayer
has the potential to change every possible situation, it all depends of the
focus of ones mind, thoughts and soul.
Spiritual Teachers explains the spiritual quality of the 4th Level of ones
Soul "Chaya - ,", this level of Spirituality where one acts as a channel to
bring down spiritual life energy from the realms of the spirit world to his
physical world is known as "Chaya - ,". This chapter explains the
purpose of ones existence when one has arrived at this level of spiritual
enlightenment is to bring down and transcend the spiritual light to enlighten
this physical world.
Void Filling When ones soul has arrived at the 4th Level of ones Soul
existence "Chaya - ," one is now on 100% committed spiritual
enlightened pathway; this is the time when spiritually fulfilling
opportunities will present themselves; doors open-up in ones life that all
mean further purposeful fulfilling progress for ones enlightened Soul. This
chapter of "Void Filling" explains the indicative signs for one to see the
changes and choices being offered to ones life, especially during the void
of the transitional period of change in ones life from a physical
materialistic life into a spiritually enlightened life.
Selfless Service explains that serving GOD and spirit world brings and
connects one to a constant state of Oneness - YECHIDA with GOD and of
continual strength , aliveness and good energy.
Healing and Miracles A "Miracle" is simply an extraordinary "change" in
ones life; A Miracle contains a vast amount of spiritual and physical energy
that creates a "change". The changes that occur as a result of a "Miracle"
are usually so incredibly amazing that one always associates "Miracles"
with Spiritual Divine Intervention in ones life.
Oneness With GOD Understanding that the ideal of life on earth is in a
state of Oneness with the CREATOR of the universe.
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My sincere blessing to YOU , , , , , , i wish
everyone the success to find their "KEY of LIFE" and the reason their souls
came to earth, hoping that Sefer Shinuyim will enlighten and give everyone
the key of knowledge to make the necessary changes in ones life .
Wishing you success in everything you do every moment of your life.
Your good friend Jonathan Waxman the writer of www.sefershinuyim.com

website
Introduction to the Book of Changes

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"One moment of love gives more life and is worth more than a 1000 years
of hate".
The Essence of - Sefer Shinuyim Book of Changes, is also
referred to as
The Pathway to Enlightenment

the sky shines for ever and ever"
Book of Daniel 12 verse 3
On this page we shall offer a simple guide to an enlightened spiritual

pathway. "Enlightenment" means feeling the LIGHT of spirituality and
physically feeling LIGHT. A dark soul feels heavy, sad, hateful and
depressed, whereas a spiritually enlightened soul feels light and buoyant,
loves every moment of life and is full of life's vitality, happiness and love.
"The Key" of your life

To open an enormous door, you only need a tiny key. To solve a baffling
mystery, you only need a small clue. It currently seems as if something vast
and daunting is preventing and blocking you from making progress.
Naturally enough, you are contemplating big moves.
Yet all you really require is a little piece of information. A word or two
from the right person. An idea from the right part of your own
imagination.An insight from the right section of the library. A seemingly
trivial discovery is about to make a very big difference. We hope in the
following sections we shall be able to provide you with the KEY .
The Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes explains with this small key of
knowledge, one will have the ability to transform and change ones thoughts
and heals ones soul . This is the reason every person came to this earth - to
CHANGE . The aim of ones life is to successfully clear and cleanse ones
soul, unblock the negative emotions engrained on ones soul, and transform
into a loving soul
The Way to Transform & Change

The method from "Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes" to transform and
change is simple :1. ERASE the past, have a complete CLEARANCE, of the past, by
analysis of the signposts one has been given and with the gift of hindsight,
one can see ones mistakes clearly . Especially all the "BLOCKS" one has
(or others have) caused and created in ones life, understanding why the
blocks have been there and then clearing them away. ( This also includes
clearing blocks created in ones soul from "past lives", hence the importance
of understanding reincarnation "GILGUL" in clearing these blockages).
2. FOCUS on being "CLOSED", be careful not to "allow in" past negative
or destructive emotions, people or bad experiences from the past. Learn to
protect oneself and be constantly CLOSED to negative people and
situations especially if one is a sensitive person.
3. FOCUS on good positive emotions. A continual spiritual awareness
focused on a purposeful creative, kind, loving, spiritually awakened life.
With a motivation to protect ones soul and compassionately help to
improve collectively the quality of life on earth, working to cancel out the
destructive energies with constructive creative love of God, the pure divine
energy.
" Turn from bad and do good"

Clearing the "trash" out of ones life, creates a space for goodness to enter
into ones life. "Change" is a matter of personal needs and individual
understanding, however intrinsically it follows the same principles for
everyone; CLEARANCE, canceling out the NEGATIVE and working on
developing the POSITIVE aspects of ones soul, as detailed in the separate
pages below :-
Negative
Clearance
Positive
Blocking Success
Closure
Happiness
Fear of Success
Debrainwashing
Life of Love
No Money
Motivation
Money
Unblocking
Life of Peace of Mind
Depression
Protection
Life of Trust in GOD
Loss by "Transference"
Sensitive souls
Life of Compassion
"Desires"
Focus The power of ones thoughts with the power of prayer has the
potential to change every possible situation, it all depends of the focus of
ones mind, thoughts and soul.
enlightened pathway; this is the time when spiritually fulfilling
changes and choices being offered to ones life, especially during the void
Selfless Service Serving GOD and spirit world brings one to a constant
state of Oneness - YECHIDA with GOD
Healing and Miracles A "Miracle" is simply an extraordinary "change" in
Compassion - Oneness Understanding the ideal - A state of Oneness with
the CREATOR of the universe.
Conclusion and a Blessing to YOU

We suggest you use the Heavensregister Website, as a basic fundamental
spiritual understanding. Then use each of the different aspects mentioned
above to unblock ones past, protect oneself in the present and change ones
thoughts for a positive future of purposeful life. Whilst remaining with a
constant focus and aliveness to cleanse ones soul, elevate ones spirituality
to becoming enlightened, then being of service to the DIVINE source of
life in this world and in the spirit world of souls - GOD .
Remember that "all changes" always take time, the hebrew word for
change- "Shinuy" is which has a numerical "gematria" value of 366,
teaching that all changes in life take a full yearly cycle of 366 days - a
whole year to complete perfectly. Although we cannot always see our life
and soul changing from day-to-day, in reflection especially on
anniversaries of exactly one whole year, everyone can say they have
changed !
We wish everyone the success to find their "KEY of LIFE" and the reason
their souls came to earth.
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We have made this website as a simplified way to help everyone
CHANGE, clearing the past lives negativity from within ones soul, find
ones true soul purpose, and be of service to GOD . All knowledge is taken
from my collective writings known as "Sefer Shinuyim - the Book of
Changes", Sefer Tikunim - the Book of Corrections and Sefer Gilgulim the book of Reincarnation .
"The 7 Stages of Life"

The physical growth during our lives is simply a reflection of spiritual
growth as the levels of ones soul enter the physical body ( see The Levels of
SOUL page ). As we grow and mature through these stages, we transform
and change . In each period of our lives a different set of parameters/ rules
apply . It would be inconceivable that a 30 year old should behave with the
same way a baby behaves ( although we all know some people who never
grow up !!! ) . Hence we should look and learn from each of the 7 stages of
life :-
1. Infancy & Early Childhood 0 to 7

years old
Learning to survive, relying totally on the people around, copying and
emulating everyone . The survival of the first 7 years is based totally, in
receiving energy from others by any means possible, crying, demanding,
cheating and deception, or more subtly through loving and "being sweet" .
Whatever technique is applied to receiving from the adult world, this leaves
a lasting impression on ones soul and is carried forward into adult life,
unless changed by reprogramming this behavioral pattern .
In this "infancy stage" a baby reacts naturally, when something hurts and
pains the immediate reaction is to CRY . Crying clears the negative energy
so much that the infant will almost immediately forget the pain after a good
cry . Crying is not only a way of attracting attention, but an inner spiritual
reaction to dissolving the negative hurt . The child will also immediately
forgive the hurt or damage and will never harbour any resentment .
As adults, we forget this "normal" reaction that we were supposed to have
learnt, and fight the pain by suppressing the hurt feelings . Until the hurt
becomes too much to cope with and affects the health of the adult . It would
therefore be an excellent idea if we would learn from this infant stage, and
cry whenever there is hurt instead of "suppressing" the negative emotions
and forgive and forget immediately, instead of harbouring resentment
jealousy bitterness ... all the negative emotions that prevent us living as
complete and wholesome adults with lovely purposeful lives .
2. Childhood 7 - 15 years old

The emergence of the personality and "copied" identity . During these years
a person, still impressed and sensitive to emulate the people, the
mannerisms and character of those they come into contact with, start to
develop their own individualistic character .
This character is based entirely on the influences that the child comes into
contact with . If the child is brought up by a nanny and the television, the
parents must expect to see a confused child of our modern society . If the
child is brought up by kind intelligent educated, thoughtful and loving
parents, whom allow the child to be impressed by their etiquette and
decency . The child will indeed copy the identity of those parents .
These years of education and transformation of character are the basis of
the adult life . If in later years the adult has made mistakes and erred, it is
because the foundation of ones character in these years was poor . Hence in
reforming and changing ones nature in later years, imperatively one needs
to look at the influences of these childhood years . De- brainwashing and
reprogramming all the false copied characteristics one was impressed
during childhood .
As Dr Jung says inherently no person is bad or evil, it is simply their soul

and character has been tainted by bad influences . Everyone is intrinsically
good, and has the potential to accomplish greatness and goodness with
love, kindness and sincerity .
3. Adolescence, 15 until 21-26 years

old
As explained on our page of THE SOUL , during these years the element of
ones soul known as the RUACH - , ,enters ones physical life and
spiritual soul. This RUACH is the power of speech, being used properly
and thoughtfully . The power of speech allows a person to communicate
ones inner thoughts from ones soul to another person . Thereby creating
energy whether it has constructive( through intelligent, kind and loving
words ) or destructive ( through lies, deceit and slander ) . This period of
ones life allows the adolescent to explore these energies, both constructive
and destructive .
The inner hormonal changes, peer groups, doubts and questions, help the
adolescent refine and developer an individuality of character . Exploring
life helps the young adult find ones own values and purpose in life . During
this transition from childhood to adulthood, one may feel disorientated,
especially, if the basis in childhood was incorrect . A level of insecurity
comes with the changing adolescent, until one learns to have the
confidence in oneself .
If indeed a person has had to undergo a complete life change in later years,
the insecurity during that change is the insecurity of the "adolescent", until
confidence in the self is gained by having the strength of character , to
intrinsically know that all is now repaired within ones soul . This is
especially true after a divorce, where the honest person questions ones life
pathway and has many "adolescent" type doubts .
If the characteristics taught in the childhood stage and carried forward in
this period were hateful, selfish and materialistic, the young adult will
continue with this basis in life . Developing a ruthless and selfish
character . It may take many years before something happens to awaken the
person to the truth . Or the person may actually continue along this
pathway and then straight into "old age" - a living death, without any
consideration for anything as profound as a spiritual soul .
4. Adulthood - from adolescence until

30-45 years old
Adulthood is the creative period of ones life . This stage allows all the
lessons and foundations of ones character that one has developed to then
assume a responsible role in life .
Marriage and sexual intimacy for the purpose of creating loving energy and
having children . One has transformed ones nature from a "taker" of energy,
to a "creator" and "giver" of loving and supportive energy .
Ones career and purpose in life are formed in this period, and an identity
label of whom you are is formed . This identity is based on your
foundations of the earlier stages and guided by your values your set
yourself during adolescence .
The achievements in ones life during this period identify whom the person
is and are simply a reflection of the inner soul . If compared to a budding
flower some radiate beauty, colour scent and aroma whilst some simply
grow leaves and seeds . Nonetheless everyone has a purpose and identity ,
the fruits of ones earlier stages of life .
5. The Mid Life Crisis, from 26 - 45

years old until the end of life
This period is exceedingly important, and happens to everyone . Some
people choose to ignore their feelings, suppressing any need for change,
and settle themselves into directly into "old age" - a selfish life without use
or creative purpose. However, most people, use these feelings sensibly to
either make slight alterations to their lives or turn their useless lives
"upside-down" starting afresh and building solid foundations .
During the mid-life crisis years, a person will have dissatisfaction with
attainments in life, will have a growing awareness of physical decline and
mortality . Experiencing "down-in-the-dumps" depressing moments,
feeling that the life they wanted and dreamt of is not filled with the
excitement, vitality and sense of loving creative purpose they had imagined
as a child .
This stage of life will have the emphasis on a search for truth, meaning and
purpose of life .
Having pursued with vigour - desires, wishes and fantasies of a teenager,
by the mid life crisis years, the honest person will realize that these were
the wishes and desires of an immature teenager . Now with the wisdom of
experience, the gift of intuition, strength of an adult and with honesty, the
individual confronts the innermost feelings . Knowing that getting-it-right
will lead to a wholesome and "golden" period in life . Getting it wrong will
lead to a premature living death .
Hence it becomes an emergency to CHANGE, at all costs, even at the
expense of status in life ( if the job is depressing and draining then there is
no other option than to quit the job or business), or at the expense of
divorce ( if one realizes that the husband/wife is not suitable with the same
spiritual or life aspirations ). These are some of the drastic measures we
know people in mid-life experience and are perfectly normal .
Recognizing the uselessness and wastefulness of the earlier years, may lead
some to fall into a depression or even worse try "escape tactics", and that
includes "getting on" with life as usual by suppressing the feelings ones
souls is trying to express . This occurs as one may feel the changes in ones
life are simply too overwhelming to do, and other people may get hurt
upset or offended, especially spouses whom do not comprehend this stage
in life and refuse to be supportive or change . Preferring to have security in
the status quo as to an improved spiritual and purposeful life .
However, after a period of sulking and feeling sorry for oneself . Analyzing
the worst scenarios , the sensible person recognizes the need for
transformation .
This time of transformation, is always accompanied by reminiscing the
childhood and adolescent years . This is instinctively done by the soul, as a
way to help guide the person, the mid-life crisis person feels that they went
wrong somewhere, and will investigate honestly where that point in life
occurred, by "going back" in time .
The root cause for not having a perfect and wholesome life is that the
foundations laid were of poor quality . By uprooting those bad foundations
and laying new ones, based on spiritual, purposeful, loving and creative
values, the person transforms the inherent "childhood" and "adolescent"
stages that were engrained, (and in some cases brainwashed) by
misinformed and misguided parents . One then learns to be ones own
parent , laying foundations based on ones own personal experiences and

mistakes .
When a movie director makes a film , the director has a very clear end
vision fixed in their head . The director will use his/her experience insights
and knowledge to keep going over the same scene until its 100% correct .
Similarly the honest adult in mid-life crisis will keep on making the
corrections until the perfect "end vision" is fulfilled . However, painful and
boring it maybe to keep going over the same scene, the person realizes that
unless it is perfect, they will NOT be able to live with the uncomfortable
feelings of "uselessness of life" .
6. The Golden Age, from mid life

crisis years until old age
This period is ONLY applicable to those people whom have worked on
themselves during the mid-life crisis years, refining their character with
spiritual meaning of life . This person now has a life of creative purpose
based on kindness, love and spiritual understanding .
The person radiates and exudes life and vitality . It is said that many
successful 40 year olds look younger that some "Old aged" 20 year olds .
Having attained the goal of realigning their principles ideals and goals in
life , they are given an amazing new lease of life . Having discarded all the
draining situations out of their lives , they are only left with good friends of
similar purposeful lives .
In this GOLDEN period, comes a maturity and knowledge that all of life is
interrelated in a cycle of life and loving energy . There is no shortage nor
scarcity of love . As love is created by ones thoughts and actions .
Abundance runs freely in ones life . One becomes and exudes a
contentment with whatever one has, one no longer forces life to happen . A
serenity of peacefulness and patience reign .
As the person radiates these feelings, goodness and happiness are now
attracted to the person, instead of running away from the person who runs
after them .
To the person who has been blessed with the stage of "GOLDEN AGE",
then the next stage of "old age" may only last a few weeks or even a few
hours to a truly righteous person, who have fulfilled lives to the day they
die, (as we know with many special people such as Rabbi Segal who gave
advice and help to people a few hours before he died ) .
7. Old age, possibly from 30 years old

on
This period of "old age" is the acceptance that ones productive creative
years have ended . That the person no longer has anything to offer of any
purpose to other people .
The confrontation of eventual death, together with the fact that the person
has no spiritual values, they become more materialistic and selfish, with
fears of lack that they will not have enough money in later years . They
become ruthless and arrogantly selfish, in complete atheistic denial that
there is a GOD or any form of belief on life-after-death .
( And I must add that "being religious" of any faith, going to prayers and
performing traditional religious acts, does not necessarily mean that the
person has spiritual loving thoughts, as we all know some of the so called
religious leaders are the most hateful and non-spiritual people in the
world ) .
These people survive life, by using the power of creative speech to lie and
destroy other peoples lives . As they intrinsically "know" their lives are lost
and wasted, so ruthlessly they desire to destroy as many good people along
with them .
The sincerely good people of the "GOLDEN AGE" group, sense this and
see through these type of people, keeping a distance . Hence we find in life
at a certain age after the "mid life" crisis years , we find groups of people
whom have polarized themselves into constructive creative people with a
life energy and vitality of the "GOLDEN AGE" and another group of the
"OLD AGE "
This is much in the same way as we explained on the two types of people
in the world the "honest group" and the "deceitful group" on our page of
spirit & guidance .
Sadly for those whom have resigned themselves not to change in their midlife crisis, they have chosen by their freewill to be selfish and not to give to
others, they have committed spiritual suicide on themselves . They
disconnect with GOD and the creative life energy, and hence survive by
stealing life energy from other people, which after a time all the
intrinsically good people feel a draining around these people . So they
dread the fear of death and eventually leave this world with no idea or
preparation spiritually of what awaits . Once they have died , they are soon
forgotten, as they have left nothing of any purpose or use in their selfish
lives .
Although old age can start at 30, for women this can occur earlier, in
particular those women who choose not to have, they lack any wish or
desire to want children . Similarly men who have operations to prevent
them having children, they have disconnected with the creative life energy .
They have brought selfish "old age" upon themselves . These people have
flaunted with GODs' gift of life energy and committed spiritual suicide, and
thereby physical death in preventing themselves to be a receptacle of life,
part of the creation of life, and for purely selfish sexual reasons . Hence
women and men whom are in relationships with a selfish partner who does
NOT want children are living with death, my suggestion is to change ones
spouses attitude or leave immediately .
CHANGE CAN OCCUR AT ANYTIME
Now that we understand that life has 7 stages, we shall now introduce the
idea of 5 stages of change . Change can occur during ANY stage of life, at
anytime, can take a year or 10 years, (there is no time limit set on change) .
Through events beyond ones control, such as tragedies or being "taken
along" with parental or spouses changes that occur during their lives.
Every event has the potential to affect our lives in order to wake a person
up spiritually. As explained on the page of soul & belief , the moment of
death experience - the passing / death of a loved one usually acts as catalyst
to make a person reflect on their lives.
Nonetheless the person usually goes through a reflective period in their
lives during the "mid-life crisis" years . At that stage on life they can reflect
clearly and with experiences of life , to make the right corrections to
change life into a fulfilling and purposeful life .
"The 5 Stages of Change"

A Time for Change
" Wake up from your

sleep!"
"Every day a spiritual voice announces to the whole world to wake up...and
change"
"Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes"
But are you in tune ? Are you sensitive enough to hear this voice every
day ? Do you hear the need to change ? Do you feel uncomfortable and
have that inner feeling that your life is NOT in order ? Do you feel that
need to change for the better ?
There are 5 stages of life

transformation
Change can be easy, really---by changing your thoughts, you change your
feelings, and thus change your actions. In our generation, we have better
skills to deal with the darkness, and we are more enlightened and aware
than ever before in history. Even still, it often has to get darker before it
becomes lighter and brighter. But, in the modern world, we do not need to
wait until something happens to cause us to change. In fact, you can choose
to live a change-oriented, rich, and fulfilling life right now. To transform
your life, you need to raise your awareness, practice pro-activity, and live
by your vision, purpose, and values.
"There is nothing about a caterpillar that tells you it's going to be a

butterfly." This quote illustrates the change process perfectly. The butterfly
represents a thing of great beauty. A butterfly completely transforms itself

from a comfortable cocoon into a radiant entity with wings. You are like a
beautiful butterfly waiting to be re-born and transformed.
Stage 1: Cocoon Stage
This stage is characterized by feelings of comfort, as you are beginning to
awaken to the need to change. You begin to realize you could be so much
more and recognize an error in judgment or dysfunctional pattern(s).
Stage 2: Growth Stage
This stage is characterized by feelings of discomfort, as you are beginning
to stretch yourself, your abilities, your environment. You experience new
ways of being and thinking and have the desire to transform yourself.
This stage is characterized by feelings of panic and fear, as you are
beginning to look, feel, and act differently. You have a gut instinct that this
change will be good for you, and request that Spirit assist you & provide
with you with guidance. Nonetheless, during this stage, you may feel like
your whole life has fallen apart, the only hope being sadness death and
misery, you will probably be extremely fragile and sensitive . Just think of
the caterpillar transforming into the butterfly, trust that you are changing
and suddenly when the time is right you will come alive, with a brighter
and more fulfilled life .
Stage 4: Flight Stage
This stage is characterized by feelings of confidence and courage, as you
spread your wings to leave your old home to find a new home. You now
recognize yourself as a beautiful creature, have excitement about future
possibilities and you just do it.
Stage 5: Conscious Stage
This stage is characterized by feelings of inner peace and joy, as you
remember and realize who you really are. You now understand that you are
a co-creator and possess the power to become whatever you want to be and
do whatever you want to do.
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The comparison of the transformation of a Caterpillar transforming into a

butterfly is quoted by "Sefer Shinuyim" from the "Tiferes Yisroel" ,Reb
Yisroel Lipschitz - yarzheit 3rd Tishrei in Derush Ohr HaChayim . This
with respect to proving , .
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During the "change stage" certain feelings and happenings will occur
mysteriously which will make a person feel extremely sensitive and
unsettled . I shall discuss these specific events here in order to reassure the
reader that these events happen . They are perfectly normal in everyone's
life, during the "change stage".
Feeling alone
Appropriate relationships, the demands of your life and this period of
transformation , will force you to reevaluate which relationships in your
life are worth keeping and which are not .
If you do not face this challenge consciously, then events will occur that
will force you too to do so . Even people who have been with you for a
long time will leave against your wishes .
Suddenly you will find yourself feeling alone and out of touch with
everybody . You may feel you have no support from others, even loved
ones whom you have counted on in the past for love and support . Even
people whom you have helped and supported in the past suddenly are not
there , now that you need help .
This breakdown in relationships is perfectly normal, whilst a person is
changing . Think of a person like a spider on a spiders web, before the
person can move on to a new home and a new life, it is vitally necessary to
detach oneself from the present entanglements, when the last disconnection
is made , one maybe exceedingly fragile and lonely, but now one is free to
move anywhere .
This influence of change is likely to have a very disruptive effect on your

relationships . Influences may enter your life during this stage that will
challenge the foundations upon which your life is built . This challenge will
be reflected in surprising encounters with others that upset your way of
living or in sudden separations from persons who you thought would
always be in your life .
During this period, it is quite likely that you will do things and go places
you never would have thought of in the past . Anyone who is wedded to the
status quo in life or the their past, will find this influence exceedingly
disturbing and difficult .
Even ones true love and aspirations of romance will change . In false
romance following animalistic passions and desires, the lower sexual-drive
energies predominate . As with all materialistic and animals desires, this
urge and attraction wears-off with time .
True romance is open hearted, heart-centred full of emotions based on
truth, love and sincerity . True romance utilizes the energy of ones soul . As
we described on the page of destiny ones true soulmate, is indeed simply
ones other half . As one connects with ones soulmate, the spiritual energy
created in the connection will bring you both very close to each other . On
a level of "telepathy", one knows exactly what the other one is thinking and
feeling . There is indeed a sense of wholesomeness as each knows they are
each others half , feeling the pain and joy of the other person .
During the transformation stage of "mid-life crisis", one may look to
deepen ones relationship with ones spouse rising to this spiritual level OR
one may indeed be going through a divorce in search of ones true soulmate
and destiny . Recognizing that ones current spouse is NOT ones true
destiny . Another difficult decision to make during the transitional change
stage .
Understanding that the changes in our

life happen for good, it is destiny .
So be calm and allow changes to occur
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This is the " brucha" - blessing of the Biala Rebbe to all our
generation, is to wish everyone tranquility & peace of mind . Learn to
accept the tests, challenges and changes in our life with peace of mind,
calmness and acceptance from GOD . That everything that happens is a
part of our destined pathway, to bring us to a "GOLDEN STAGE" of
purposeful and creative life .
There is nothing wrong in having made mistakes in ones youth, provided
one is honest in "mid-life" to admit the mistakes, and change for the better .
It is well known that one of the greatest Rabbis - Rabbi Akiva only began
his spiritual learning at the age of 40 .
Learning to trust in GOD and spirit world, take life calmly, accepting
everything that happens is for the best . In acknowledging the fact that ones
life was on the wrong pathway, and having the courage to use ones strength
to make the effort to change takes constant focus whilst one is changing .
Whilst changes are occurring, trust and know that there is a divine plan for
you and that nothing happens by accident or coincidence . Everything will
turn out just fine for you in your life and you too will learn to love life in
the "golden stage" of your life, radiating the glow of a purposeful life, of
loving kindness, aliveness and vitality. It will happen for you, just like it
has happened for millions of people before you on our planet, created by
GOD for a purposeful, creative life of love and change .
Our destiny and purpose in this life is to

change.
Life on planet earth is constantly changing, the flowers, trees, animal
kingdom and even the most stubborn of human beings who resist change
are changing !!!
Consider a tree during the seasons, does the tree resist change during the
autumn months as the leaves fall off . We all understand that this is a cycle
of life , the tree has not died , simply taking a rest during the winter , before
it reinvents itself and grows longer and bigger in the spring .
SO WAKE UP AND CHANGE

Embrace life and the wonderful changes
then ones life will transform for the better !
"The Ability to Change"
....
"For everything that the intellect cannot accomplish - then time will
succeed to accomplish"
Philosophy of ability to change ones life from Sefer Shinuyim
Teaching a child to walk

Every single baby learns to walk , this is a simple fact of life . The young
child does not take lessons in walking nor goes to a school where walking
is taught !!
The Child learns by itself, the child looks, observes and tries to copy the
adults it sees . It sees everyone in the world standing up on two feet, so it
has a vision that it is possible, and more importantly, the child is 100%
certain that it will soon be able to stand on two feet just like everyone else .
This initial experience of life is carried through all experiences of life .
Instinctively we know that there is "nothing new under the sun" . Our life
experiences have been experienced by someone somewhere in the world ,
and hence when we are looking for help, we look to someone whom has
experienced life, someone who has been through everything and succeeded
in life's challenges .
However painful and however many times the child falls down and even
hurts itself, the child will NEVER give up the pursuit of learning to walk .
This is our lesson for our lives . Every change eventually happens , it is just
a matter of time, hence the expression

....
In time everything will be accomplished . It's just a matter of time, ofcourse
there are some things that are not meant to happen and no matter how much
time - will never happen . To work out the deciphering difference we shall
discuss later on this page - in the paragraph of "SIGNS" .
Ability to change
On this page we shall discuss three points:-
1. Understanding that everyone has the inherent gift and potential to

change, learning to believe in oneself, achieving self-confidence, trust and
faith in GOD .
2. The basic spiritual rules one needs, in order to remain focused and
succeed in changing, making the major transitions in life comfortably with
the minimum of worry, pain or blockages- . Learning to change with
an outlook of happiness, enjoyment and love of life .
3. Spiritual understanding, knowledge and methods in gaining extra
"Divine" and "Spiritual help" to change and succeed in life .
1. Confidence, Faith & Trust

Understanding that everyone has the inherent gift and potential to change,
learning to believe in oneself, achieving self-confidence, trust and faith in
GOD .
All levels of change are basically similar experiences, just on different
levels . In hindsight anyone who has been through each stage successfully
looks back and sees how simple the stage was . Like a anyone who reflects
on early stages of trying to walk as a baby or riding a bicycle, will laugh at
the fact that there was a time when they kept falling down .
"There's nothing new under the sun" - , ,
from Book of Kohelles by King Solomon chapter 1 verse 9
Likewise every stage of life one is currently experiencing, there is 100%

certainty that someone has experienced this before . Whether it be the
insecurity of finding a job, finding love, responsibility and commitment of
marriage, trauma or "relief" of divorce, death of a loved one or simply a
mid-life crisis, in which one feels a fool that one has wasted ones life
pursuing a futile selfish existence and one wants to change, but "thinks" it
will be too messy and difficult . Every possible and conceivable "difficult"
situation has been experienced by someone somewhere before you, they
succeeded in changing so this should reassure you that you can succeed .
For example, when one goes through a divorce believing that one will
never find love again, it is accepted fact of life that everyone whom has
loved once will love again .
The main reason a person fails is because of a lack of self confidence and
belief in ones abilities . If we look at every situation in life and compare it
to a child learning to walk . Then we should feel reassured that EVERY
PROBLEM has a SOLUTION , provided we stay focused , learn the
lessons properly , take good advice in overcoming the difficulties . Most
importantly we MUST have the strength and confidence that we will
succeed . Having trust and confidence in GOD that everything will be fine .
What are the reasons for a lack of self confidence ?

The lack of self confidence is the single most important reason why people
fail in life . The reasons for this malady of lack of self- confidence are
simple : -
" Brainwashing "

Please see the chapter on "de-brainwashing"
Firstly "brainwashing" - from an early age ones parents, deceitful friends
and maybe the community or society one lives in, have constantly been
giving one messages of "not being good enough", they have continually
destructively criticized ones mistakes and never complimented or focused
on ones achievements .
This is especially true for children of parents who do not believe in GOD or
have any good moral values of LOVE and KINDNESS . Often children
brought up by abusive parents are very sensitive and lack confidence
because of their parents bullying and intimidation . They need to get away
from such evil parents, and also need to gain a self confidence, realizing
that all the abusive brainwashing was their parents problem and "baggage",
nothing to do with them . ( as we learn on the RESCUE page of this
website the principal of TRANSFERENCE, that often evil people try to
make good people look evil by transferring false lies and allegations
against them ).
Parents born in the generations from 1930 up to about 1950, ( and other
parents from old fashioned, out-dated, rigid, unemotional insensitive and
unloving families that continue this behaviour) are not intentionally critical,
destructive or evil. They simply do not know any better . They were born at
an exceedingly difficult and troubled time in the world, all around them
was hatred, wars, death and destruction . They were not shown love by
their parents nor did they have any time to learn and understand life
spiritually in the same way that earlier and later generations have done .
For many of that generation their whole existence focused on survival and
materialism . Always believing and seeing the worst in life, this destructive
and negative attitude many have passed onto their children . Its taking the
next generation to undo the damage done by that selfish generation, in
much the same way that our generation is physically clearing up the
destructive mess of pollution and waste that was caused by that "nonthinking" and inconsiderate generation .
Modern competitive society, also sends us messages of "not being good
enough", whether it be our physical appearance and looks, our financial
materialistic status that require us to go out and buy the latest gimmick
gadgets to keep up with our friends as a "status" symbol of the materialistic
society .
When we understand exactly why we have been led to believe and have
been brainwashing ourselves with repetitive messages of lack . Then we are
in a position to actively use our mind and thoughts to change the way we
think about ourselves . De-brainwashing, undoing and forgiving our
negative teachers and parents ways, will help us rectify the damage done .
Simply eliminating all the "brainwashing" and "destructive critical
messages" sent to our brain and soul over all the years can undo the
damage done . Then actively giving oneself the positive constructive words
of "Hope , Love and Faith" will help to build a newborn attitude of
confidence. We shall discuss this more on the page of "Positive Thinking" .
Don't be afraid of failure !!!
A lot of good failures are the main ingredient in the recipe for success.
Mistake are the greatest of life's teachers
"So what !" - if you fail - you can always try again !!
We are not born perfect and the vast majority of people will not die
perfect . We are expected to make mistakes in our lives . The more fruitful
a persons life has become, is a sign that they have made more mistakes,
learnt by their mistakes and are no longer afraid of failure . They live life to
the fullest potential, unlike the opposite kind of person that does nothing
constructive with their lives because they are constantly afraid of failure .
Every person in the whole world makes mistakes, this is completely
normal, in fact the more mistakes a person makes, provided the person
makes the corrections, then the greater the person can become .
" If you don't try - you won't succeed "

This well known saying teaches the message, if one is frightened of living
and frightened of failure, one is missing the chance of SUCCESS . So what
- if you fail the first time and the second time , there is the saying "THIRD
TIME LUCKY !! "
Once accepts failure as a fact of life, and learns the lessons of failure, no
longer being frightened of failure, by being honest with oneself, then one
elevates ones character and soul with a strength of courage and bravery that
one can achieve anything . Even and especially when "other people"
continue to be destructively critical that the venture will fail .
The strong and courageous person will continue to try and succeed , as
their comments of his/her enemies are given no energy and negated
altogether . The experience of failure one time will lead to success the next
time . A well known fact is that most self-made millionaires have failed in
at least two businesses in the past . They have used their experiences to
finally bring success .
A Guarantee for Success

"Following the start , the main part follows" . As we explained (in the
introduction page) from Reb Yehonossan Eibeshitz in his book Yaaros
Devash ( ) that as one starts something new, the success is foretold
by the foundations that are laid at the beginning . If one is 100% truthful,
and ones thoughts very focused on the genuine reasons then the guarantee
from GOD and spirit world is 100% success .
This principle has deeper meaning, in the fact that the start of each week is
Sunday - day one of creation, and yet the only nation that takes Sunday as a
beginning of the week is Israel and jewish people . The energy and actions
one does on a sunday reflects the type of week one is going to have . If one
"sleeps in" having wasted the saturday night in "futile" activities of TV or
"going out" then one can only expect a sleepy and wasteful week . Whereas
if one utilizes the first day of the week in creative activity , then this will
set the foundations for the whole week to be energized and "alive" !
To assure success in changing, is to admit that one has made mistakes . Be
100% honest with oneself . However painful and depressing a thought it
maybe to acknowledge that ones life until now has been wrong and many
mistakes made .
By clearing out the past, by admitting ones mistakes, and being 100%
truthful and careful with the power of ones speech is the spiritual guarantee
for success . This includes being careful never to gossip or tell lies against
anyone, this is an important rule for spiritual protection as taught by Reb
Yidel Segal and the Chofetz Chaim .
The saying is "one who laughs last - laughs longest" . Short minded people
love to hurt others by gossiping lying and trying to ruin good peoples lives,
in the short term they succeed in hurting, but in the long term they have
miserable empty lives full of deceit and pain that they inflict upon
themselves, as all the friends they have eventually turn on them . As we
know " in the way one treats others - one is treated " -
.
Change by giving yourself

"confidence"
Set the foundation of your new changed character based on truth, think of
all the good things you have done in your life . Speak to yourself with
honesty and encouragement . Contemplate on all the peoples lives you have
helped and how their lives would be different if you would not have been
there to help . Congratulate yourself constructively for all your good
deeds . One of the reasons why we love to help others is the feeling of
purpose and aliveness that comes from the joy of "being appreciated" .
So start by showing yourself appreciation and thanking yourself for all the
goodness you have done . Especially, if you have done much for ungrateful
people, who will never appreciate what you have done . So compensate
their "attitude" for your words of encouragement to yourself . This will
infuse an energy within you to motivate you to continue doing good deeds .
Faith & Trust in GOD

GOD will make a way where there is no way
A person feels confident with themselves when they know that they are
behaving correctly in life, with kindness, faith, love and trust in GOD .
When a person knows that they are GOOD in the eyes of GOD, no matter
what anyone gossips about them, it does not matter as GOD and spirit
world know the truth, living with faith and trust in GOD will bring a person
self reassurance that GOD will make a correct and protected way for you in
your life even where there seems to be no way .
2. Spiritual laws for successful change

The basic spiritual rules one needs, in order to remain focused and succeed
in changing, making the major transitions in life comfortably with the
minimum of worry, pain or blockages- . Learning to change with an
outlook of happiness, enjoyment and love of life .These are as follows :1. Be careful with your friends, don't connect with the deceitful .
2. Keep your intentions secret
3. Pray and Cry
4. Learn to forgive
5. Learn to LOVE
6. Learn to ACCEPT life and the changes with peace and happiness
1. ,
Don't connect with wicked people
Hence the importance of seeking good friends and good examples to guide
you along the correct pathway to make the changes in your life that your
soul is yearning you to make, without being influenced by other people .
As as we explained on the page of spirit and guidance from the Tana Devei
Eliyahu that during maturity, a person develops their character into one of
two groups of people .
The first and most wonderful category is the HONEST group, which
basically means when you are nice to them they are nice in return, when
you are horrible to them they are horrible in return . When you ask them a
question, you are given the honest answer in return . The intrinsic goodness
of this group, will always make you feel alive and happy . When you hear
something good has happened to anyone of this group, you feel their
happiness as they exude a radiance that allows others to enjoy in their
happiness . Conversely when something bad happens you feel their sorrow
and pain .The honest group person, will always find ways to be nice and
compliment, saying positive, constructive words, always looking for the
goodness in people and will always exude, radiate love and happiness, even
in the face of adversity . And will always have faith that everything will be
alright. This group believe in GOD and spirit world on some level . They
live and feel alive through a loving kind and creatively constructive
energy .
The other group of people in this world are the DECEITFUL (liars) people,
which basically means when you are nice to them they are horrible in
return, when you are horrible to them they are nice in return . When you
ask them a question, you are given lies and deceit in return . The intrinsic
deceit and twistedness of this group, will always make you feel drained and
sad (unless you are of the same type - in which case you feel re-assured and
happy mixing with them, as they will always end up gossiping and
slandering good people, and re-assuring themselves that their lifestyle is the
correct one ) . And when you hear something good has happened to anyone
of this group, you feel a sadness or indifferent . When something bad

happens to this group, you either feel happy or indifferent .
The good thing about being in the honest group, is that in a short time of
speaking to the other deceitful group, you "instinctively know" who they
are, your guides and angelic helpers, give you the feeling . And in the
conversation with them, they lie or contradict themselves and you catch
them out . This is the protection given to the honest group by GOD . They
are always focused on materialism, and will always talk about money,
either how much they earn or what money can buy . And never discuss
anything spiritual . A deceitful person will always lie, they cannot help
themselves, it is natural for them . They are always caught out be the honest
group of people . There will always be signs along the way, they may cheat
of their husbands/wives, at work they will be lazy, sleeping on the job or
time wasting etc ...basically they have no morals or ethical standards, and
they don't trust anyone because they themselves are not to be trusted .
This ability to categorize the two groups, is directly related to the page on
change, as it is intrinsically human nature that when one has a problem in
life one looks for good advice and to someone whom has successfully
overcome the obstacles .
Don't be fooled
People who look confident and even "look religious" can be spiritually void .
" Empty vessels make most noise "
When problems and changes in life occur, we automatically look to others

to "copy" their behaviour and become like them, that is making the false
assumption that their way is correct . This is human instinct based on our
early childhood from learning to walk .
In later life, through different stages, we need to be able to listen to our true
instincts to learn and know the difference between right and wrong .
There are many people who look confident, intelligent and we assume they
"know-it-all" because they are wealthy and even look seemingly "religious"
. But in fact they have acquired their status by intimidation / bullying
tactics, through lies deceit and swindling . Sadly they then become bad
examples to others, who assume the only way to success is through
aggressive intimidating and deceitful behaviour . This similarly applies to
Rabbis and so called spiritual leaders who use "bullying" tactics to
manipulate peoples minds- these people are spiritually empty . If one
listens to ones intuition, intrinsically one "knows" the genuinely good

advisors .
2. ,
"A true blessing only starts upon something that is hidden from the eye and
private"
KEEP your intentions SECRET
In spirit law until an action is done, then other peoples negative thoughts
can cancel out your thoughts and words . The one time you can break this
rule is if you absolutely must tell just your mum or best friend , presuming
they TRUTHFULLY only have your best interests at heart !
Even some friends and relatives, still have a "jealousy" factor, if you are
more successful, happy, lucky or richer than they . They are only human,
and if they have "missed" life's chances, they may have a "bitterly jealous"
nature to see you succeed . So keep "Shtum" to everyone as you are
changing !!
The reason for this is that telling someone what you're manifesting, can
dissipate the energy of your intentions . You probably already intuitively
know that if you have a dream about to burst into reality, it's best to keep it
a secret until something concrete happens.
If you give something thought, you give it energy. If you give it energy, it
eventually takes form. Moreover if you give something LOVE, it now has
creative energy to make a miracle . Think of the miracle of a child being
conceived through amazing LOVE energy, the highest form of physical
love .
So think positive, stay focused on your goals and you will succeed in
CHANGING. When you want change in your life and because of a desire
of LOVE and to be of service to GOD, spirit and humanity, then you can
overcome any obstacles easily . That is why when one is "in love" one can
do anything .
3. Pray & Cry
"All the heavenly gates are closed except for the gates of tears"
That's right - my advice is CRY !!!
It works - if you really want a change, be honest with yourself and admit
the regret in your life for the mistakes you have made and CRY for help !!
Your eyes are the windows of your soul

Your eyes are the windows of your soul, they are your souls window to see
in this world, everything your soul sees is seen through your physical eyes,
and when you cry this touches, opens and cleanses your soul . So have a
good cry and pray, it always works !
4. Learn to forgive
Holding onto bitter resentment is the biggest blockage for progress . Hatred
is the opposite to love . Love is the creative life giving energy . Hatred,
resentment and jealousy are destructive, these emotions kills creative life
energy and blocks destiny.
- Spiritual Blockages
There is a force of energy in life that can block a persons destiny . This
negative energy is created by one remaining attached to bitterness, jealousy,
hatred and resentment . As hatred is simply the lowest form of love energy
- hatred is love gone bad .
It is therefore vital to ones life to FORGIVE everyone and everything that
has happened in ones life and then detach oneself from any hurts, injustices
and such negativity .
Even if the person whom has hurt you is still full of lower vibrations
against you, has not forgotten and continues to be hateful in their thoughts that is THEIR problem .
So long as you have forgiven them, let them go along their way in life,
detach yourself away from them ( imagine that they are like poison to your
body ) . Take the attitude that you no longer care what happens to them DISCONNECT completely . ( As so often people desire to see revenge or
justice done to others, which this hateful desire keeps them attached to
these lower energies and blocks destiny ) . We shall discuss this more on
"Health & Diet" page in comparing these bad people to a cancer that needs
to be cut away from ones life to save ones life .
Keep away from them and their sad way of life . Then their hate will have
no affect on your life . (As we explained on the "Rescue page" by
TRANSFERENCE people can affect - "freeload" - "dump on" other
peoples lives and souls ) .
No-one else in the whole world can block anyone else spiritually, unless the
person allows the thoughts and energies in to destroy their creative loving
life . So detach yourself and have 100% closure completely from these
"lower people" .
FORGIVE AND FORGET

COMPLETELY
The sign that you have successfully forgiven another person, is that when
you think of them, you no longer have any hatred feelings . In fact you
should have NO FEELINGS towards them at all . They mean NOTHING at
all, not to you or your life .
If you still feel some element of hatred or any emotions towards them, this
is a sign that you have NOT disconnected from them and their evil ways,
and THIS WILL HURT, POISON AND DESTROY YOUR LIFE AND
SOUL . So simply forgive them in your mind thoughts , forget about them ,
don't even mention their name, and detach yourself from them completely .
This is the Jewish prayer we say every night before going to sleep,
and it is indeed a prayer said on a persons death bed,
in the final preparation as the soul leaves this physical world .
Translated :- " Master of the Universe - I forgive everyone who has angered
and upset me, or sinned against me, whether they did this physically,
materialistically or disrespectfully. And whether they did this by accident or
intentionally, with horrible evil thoughts or without thinking, whether they
said the words or with actions, whether in this life or in previous lives ...... i
forgive them... and please GOD do not punish or hurt them, do not bring
any illness or anything bad against them as i forgive them completely .......
please GOD "
5. Learn to LOVE
Love is the GOD - given creative life energy of this planet earth .
We all arrive in this planet through sexual love of our parents, everything
that is grown and produced in this world is done through LOVE . Love is
the creative energy of planet earth . So make the decision to choose a life of
LOVE and kindness, and then you will always feel the LOVE of GOD,
attracting LOVE and happiness, and living life to your maximum potential .
At that moment in your life when you feel the LOVE energy in your soul
and in your heart, softening you to become full of LOVE and compassion
then nothing else matters, and all your problems dissipate, one forgets
sadness, hate, misery, loneliness etc all the emotions that BLOCK life .
Instead one is full of loving thoughts and has a life vitality and aliveness
with a true spiritual radiance of happiness and loving energy . Once one has
been touched by this truly loving feeling it is like entering a different
world, the hateful and problematic past is on another planet . (This is what
we referred to as the "Golden Stage" - stage 6 on the page of change).
Feeling the energy of true LOVE is truly a gift from

GOD .
And where there is LOVE, there is GOD .
And where there is GOD's energy
there is life, hope, faith and true happiness .
6. Learn to ACCEPT life and the

changes with peace, love and
happiness and LAUGH !
... ,
Everything that HASHEM - GOD makes happen in the world is for the best
.
There is NOTHING that happens in our lives that happens by "chance" or
"coincidence", everything happens as part of a divine plan of our destiny .
The more you see that every event of the day happens for a reason, trying
to understand that event on a spiritual level, will make each person
recognize how wonderful life is . When one then learns this and accepts
that everything happens with purpose for a specific lesson . In order to help
us to see life clearly, thereby guiding our life to make the correct decisions
and choices .
One then begins to appreciate and love every moment of life and then with
the love of life one then automatically accepts that everything happens for
the good (even the unpleasant situations !!) . For example, one maybe
heartbroken by a divorce, but in time and years later one my laugh and
THANK GOD that you got out of that awful relationship, you were infact
saved from such a horrible person . Even though at the time the emotional
pain hurt .
Learn to accept that everything that happens - happens for the best
LAUGHTER
Laughter is the most powerful of healing and energy changing . The highest
form of expressive happiness is laughter . Even something as silly as a
cartoon, making someone laugh, is magnetic for creative loving life-energy .
Laughing about some of the most painful times you have experienced in
hindsight is a great way to heal the past and forgive anyone who caused the
hurt . So have a really good laugh !!
SIGNS
Throughout this page we have discussed CHANGE , but we have
purposely deleted the subject of what a person "CHANGE into".
Life has given the soul feelings, these feelings cannot be determined by
words or described by logic .
Each individual that has these uncomfortable feelings about their current
situation in life, has these feelings for a reason . These are signs .
No one can tell anyone what to do or what decisions to make, provided
each individual is honest with themselves then they should listen to their
feelings and look for the signs in life .
When a person accepts the fact that everything happens for a reason, one
usually sees and learns for oneself the directions and signposts of ones life .
For example, if one has tried to live and settle in a new place, but nothing
goes right, then its a clear sign it was a bad move .
Likewise, sadly in our generation if a jewish woman / man falls in love
with a non-jewish man / woman, it may last a few years, but everyone
knows from experience that it will never last . Both people maybe very nice
individuals, but in the soul and roots of each person is a completely
different way of life .
Second time lucky
According to the spiritual teachings of the Sefer Tana Devei Eliyahu ( see
www.eliyahuhanavi.org ) . The Spiritual law is "if it happens once - then it
WILL happen a second time ".
This spiritual law is learnt from the Torah, there are many examples , eg the
tablets of stone given to Moshe at Mount Sinai were given twice, there
have been two temples . Similarly everything in this world is in pairs . The
number TWO makes a wholesomeness in this world we live in . Similarly
by all our experiences in life, everything happens once , and then a second
time . The second time opportunity is given to our souls in this life in order
to perfect our souls existence . ( This is the principal of Sefer Tikunim The book of corrections ) .
Hence spirit law applies in "reading" the signs that occur in life . If one
fails the first time , then one will succeed the second time . If however, the
2nd time fails, then one must read this as a BIG SIGN that either it will
never work . Or one really needs to recognize that one must CHANGE in a
big way .
Third time lucky - Ofcourse !!

If one has indeed listened to the signs and still determined to succeed, even
though one has failed twice . Then ONLY if a person has changed their
attitude significantly, analyzed carefully everything that has happened and
understood why the failure has occurred . Rectified the intrinsic mistake,
then according to spirit law - the 3rd time will be very lucky and
permanently long lasting forever . (This is learnt from the spiritual
knowledge that the 3rd temple will last forever - ) .
"if one has problems ..... investigate

carefully ones actions"
EVERYTHING happens for a reason .
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS ACCIDENT
If something doesn't go right in your life than ask yourself "What is GOD and spirit world trying to teach me?"
Only you can answer these questions for your life :"What signs have I seen in my life, what signs am I ignoring ? "
Is there a point in your life you would love to go back to and "get it right" ?
Do you feel that life is stagnating or feel you are going around in circles ?
Just remember everything happens for a reason and is a sign for YOU .
See our new section called "The Pathway" to help one break the cycle of
failure and unblock the blockages that prevent one living a truly fulfilled
life .
Section 3
Spiritual understanding, knowledge and methods in gaining extra "Divine" and
"Spiritual help" to change and succeed in life .
In accordance with tradition as quoted from Jewish Tradition as passed

down through thousands of years of history and clearly taught in Sefer
Shinuyim . The tradition is to pray at the gravesites of Righteous People
especially Famous Rabbis and Famous Rebbes .
As we all believe in GOD and spirit world, then the best way to ask and
receive extra special help from GOD and spirit world is by going to the
gravesites of those good people you knew in your life , and of famous
spiritual Rabbis and Rebbes .
The Importance of Visiting the Graves

and graves of Famous Rabbis &
Rebbes
I quote from the Introduction of the Sefer Ben Ish Chai written by the Famous
Mekubal Sefardi Rabbi in Bagdad - Rabbeinu Yosef Chaim .
"For the whole year after my father died, Rabbeinu Eliyahu of Bagdad, I
spent the whole day and night in thoughts prayers and learning, connecting
my soul with his . And as his soul became enlightened with knowledge and
understanding in the Olam Haneshamot - ( the world of spirit souls ) I also
benefited from this knowledge ...... I was informed that I am a re-incarnated
soul of the loyal servant of King David - Benyahu Ben Yoyoda .... I learnt
much from my father in this year after his passing to Olam Ha'Emet ( the
Spirit world ) that I call this Book - The Ben Ish Chai - Son of a living
man . And I promise everyone, that if they wish to attain spiritual heights of
purity of their souls, then go the graves of their ancestors, and of Holy
Rabbis, and of specially righteous people " .
It is well known that the Lubavitcher Rebbe went twice a week to the grave
of his father-in-law the previous Lubavitcher Rebbe, and his wife, to ask
for Divine help for Klal Yisroel . Many Chassidish people go every friday
to pray at the graves of their Rebbes, and at any time they need help .
The gravesite of anyone is the last physical connection that persons soul
had with this physical world, hence the strength of the connection to their
soul in spirit world is reconnected when one visits the gravesite .
If you really need extra spiritual help go and pray at a gravesite

Most people are sometimes reluctant to speak openly to another human
being and therefore it is so much easier to "open up truthfully" when one
goes and prays to GOD at gravesites . Spiritually it always works and has
always worked throughout the generations of the past 5000 years . From
the bible - Torah, the first mention is told that Abraham went to pray at the
grave of ADAM . Hence the Cave of Machpelah where Abraham, Izaac and
Jacob - all the forefathers and mothers - Sarah Rivka and Leah are buried in
Hebron is a well visited spiritual place of prayer by both Jews and Muslims
.
Similarly holy gravesites of Rabbi Akiva and other rabbis in Tiberias are
extremely special . The famous gravesite of Yonosson Ben Uziel ( Yonatan
Ben Uziel ) in Amuka, Israel, which is famous for the fact that anyone who
is single and looking for their soulmate, comes to Amuka and prays, it is
guaranteed the prayers will be answered within a year .
Please see article by Rabbi Pinchas Giller for full historical and spiritual
importance of the tradition of visiting gravesites throughout the
generations. The spiritual energy, enlightenment and guidance ones soul

receives, has been the fundamental reason why generations of Jewish
people always connect spiritually by visiting the gravesites of Holy Rabbis,
Rebbes and spiritual leaders.

The Famous Shotzer Rebbes Will
The Shotzer Rebbe - Reb Shulem Moskowitz is found at Enfield Cemetery

LONDON . Every friday morning there are always people lighting candles,
crying and praying . For those people who go regularly will have an
amazing story of how something magically happened , and their prayers
answered . Please see Famous Rabbis Graves at www.yarzheit.com for
more photos and see also www.famousrabbis.com .
If you have been to a grave of a great man / woman who in their lives were
full of love and life, you can actually sense their physical presence and the
radiance of their love at the gravesites ( see yarzheit.com for spiritual
explanation ) . Or simply think of some people from history , you have a
good feeling of admiration and love , or the opposite ...
"KVITLECH" - PRAYER
REQUESTS WRITTEN ON PAPER
"Kvitlech" - are prayer requests written on a piece of paper . One usually
writes ones hebrew name and the name of ones mother, and ones prayer
request on the paper . The tradition is to place this "note" in the cracks of
western wall in jerusalem, as seen in the photos below .
Similarly, one writes these "kvitlech" notes at the graves of good people
one has visited . At the grave tombs of really special rabbis there is even a
hole to place these notes inside the tomb . Below is the photo of the Tomb
of the Famous Stanislaver Rebbe - Reb Meshulam Askanazi in Enfield
LONDON .
SEGULA - Writing a request

There is a famous tradition - "Segula" , especially amongst Sefardic Oriental Jewish communities . That is to write a prayer request before
going to sleep at night and to sleep with this paper under your pillow, or
hold the paper in ones hand as one falls asleep .
This is very powerful, and one will feel the amazing difference in the
morning with some intuitive answers . Keep writing down your feelings
and sleeping with this paper under your pillow, or in your hand for as long
as you feel you need . ( see famous story of Reb Akiva about holding paper
in your hand )
AND within 30 days you will feel the

change .
Coincidences and answers will come

your way .
And always remember to THANK
GOD and your guardian angels .
There are also some special "Kemaya" - printed texts of specially hand
written on parchment of Holy writings, these have brought spiritual help to
generations of Jewish people . Especially those written by spiritual people
who give a spiritual protecting energy into the words they write . ( Even
sleep with them under your pillow too - please remember the writings are
special, so be careful to respect them ) .
Lighting Candles
Spiritually, praying whilst lighting a candle has tremendous spiritual energy
. Each person will have their own feeling as they light a candle, as one
lights a candle whilst praying or lights a candle for the soul and
remembering someone who has passed to spirit world you knew, or on a
Famous Rabbis Yarzheit , this will help your prayers and you will feel a
reassuring spiritual peaceful energy .
There is ofcourse the strongest spiritual energy of the week, by lighting
candles on friday evening . Throughout the whole world, friday evening is
the end of the working week, and the void of materialistic energy at the end
of the week should ideally be filled with 100% spiritual energy . ( Sadly
most people miss the opportunity each week - and use friday nights to go
out and "have a good time" - no wonder their lives are void spiritually ! )
A candle is more that just a symbol of the soul, a material physical candle
burns with a lovely peaceful glow, turning itself into energy, then the
physical candle disappears into the air . So too - the soul as it passes away
from this world , no longer needs a physical body .
Light a candle anytime
Whenever you feel the need for some extra special spiritual help or in
thanks for help that has been given, and always pray for the future of world
of peace, love and spiritual growth .
Closing ones eyes and praying

According to kabbala halacha one should always close ones physical eyes
when one prays the Shmone Esreh , the first line of the Shema and other
exceedingly important prayers . The reason is simple , by closing ones
physical eyes one is closing the physical materialistic world out and
focusing on the spiritual aspects only . As we discuss on the next page of "
positive thinking " , in bringing the spiritual energy to this physical world ones soul energy needs to be at the highest level one can attain spiritually,
this can be more easily attained in closing ones physical eyes .
Conclusion "We are all changing all

the time"
The whole world in this vast solar system is constantly moving, and
everything on this wonderful planet is constantly moving and changing in
accordance with nature, the seasons and a destiny guiding each individual
person . Nothing occurs by accident, everything occurs in accordance to an
amazing divine plan for the world and each individual ( as we have learnt
from the lines on each persons hand is a destiny mapped out for each
individual - no two persons palmistry lines are identical ).
As an anecdote on "Change" in the Talmud it says that :-

A person is identified by the cup he drinks from, the chair he sits in and his
temperament ( level of his anger ). So if you want to change who you are, start
by changing one of the above ...
Do the easy one first , throw away your cup, get a decent cup !! And a nice
crystal elegant glass for cold drinks. Test what the rabbis have told us , see the
difference yourself . Stop drinking out of a throw away cup or straight from a
can !! I assure you - you will feel the difference. And by making one small
change, the rabbis tell us you are now setting sail to invoke and start with
bigger changes .
And

(meshane mokom- meshane mazel)
Moving the place you live, changes your life, your fortune,
and your destiny
If a person wants to change, then change one of three things and from
heaven, changes will come for the person - Change ones name, or change
the place where one lives, (move home or country ), or change one's
attitude / character /behaviour .

Try changing one of these and see the amazing difference . Everyone know
that one always feels amazingly different when one goes away on holiday this is just a taste of the potential one has to change ones life . (We shall
discuss this more in Sefer Shinuyim ).
"Thinking Positive"
" A single thought has the power to change the whole world "
Sefer Shinuyim
On this page we shall discuss 3 points :1. Understanding a "thought", its energy and connection with speech and
action in cycle of life and "the prayer cycle" .
2. Positive thinking, using ones mind fully, explaining the difference
between , thoughts of a thinking "adult" and , habitual
thoughts of a "child" .
3. The most important aspect in learning to live a successful life is always
to remain POSITIVE about everything that happens . Understanding that
"positive thinking" is simply having the correct attitude, a mind and a life
full of loving thoughts that creates "life energy" . In this section we give 6
spiritual rules from "Sefer Shinuyim - the book of change" to help everyone
"get into" a positive successful cycle of a happy and loving life .
1. What is a "thought" ,?
In this section we shall understand a "thought", its energy and connection
with speech and action in "the prayer cycle" .
A thought is the most pure of spiritual energy we can create in this physical
world with our physical mind, body and spiritual soul . Everything in this
world that we accomplish with our physical bodies and spiritual souls can
be categorized into one of 3 groups :-
Thoughts, Spoken Words & Actions .

A "thought" is the most spiritual of energy one can create with ones mind
and soul . The "thought" then has the potential to become a "spoken word"
- if one decides to give the thought - physical energy . The "thought" also
has the potential to become an "action" directly or as a result of the "spoken
word" .
"THOUGHTS" are SPIRITUAL, they are messages you send out from
your soul, and messages that your soul receives from spirit world or from
other people that you are sensitive and "intune" with .
"WORDS" have the capacity to be both SPIRITUAL and PHYSICAL .
Words start the process of converting pure spiritual energy into a physical
existence in this world . Words express the physical result of actions with
either approval or disapproval, continuing the cycle of the thought process
and either think about making changes or positively confirm that the action
was successful .
"ACTIONS" are PHYSICAL . They are a result of pure spiritual "thoughts"
being converted into a physical action, either directly from the "thought" or
by way of "spoken word" .
Spiritual law of thoughts, words &

actions
, , A thought cancels out a thought
, A word cancels out a thought
, An action cancels out a thought and a word .
Talmud Kiddushin 59b
These spiritual laws are easy and simple to understand . A "thought" energy
- as it is 100% spiritual, has the least physical energy in this world therefore
it can easily be destroyed and cancelled out . "Thoughts" need to be
guarded and protected that no one should have access to ones thoughts,
block or cancel them out, especially the good intuitive ideas so many
people have all the time .
The best way to make sure one is successful in life, is to make sure that
ones thoughts are guarded and protected from anyone . One should
immediately - as soon as one gets a good thought to do something - one
should START the action IMMEDIATELY . Even simply writing down on
a piece of paper ones thoughts is also considered the start of an "action" in
converting spiritual "thought energy" into "physical energy" actions that
ensure success and prevent blockages .
Once the thought is converted into action, the only way it can be destroyed
is by another action to physically destroy it . Otherwise it is now protected
by spiritual laws .
The Prayer Cycle
The "prayer cycle" ( which in reality is the " creative life cycle " of all
existence of the highest level attainable by humans on earth ) explains the
concepts of thoughts, words and actions interrelating with each other .
When actions or events happen in this world that we do not like, we
immediately express ourselves by complaining or praying . If we choose to
complain then these words are wasted .
If we choose to pray with positive thoughts and sensible reasoning,
accepting the reality of life , and desiring to know why "things went wrong
", then these words are channeled to spirit world . Every prayer is heard and
if we focus our words, thoughts and even our tears this creates a spiritual
energy to elevate our thoughts to spirit world .
The spiritual energy, when the timing is right and only when we are ready
( i add these important words "when we are ready" - as one might pray for
something - but until one changes ones attitude - it will be blocked to
happen . As we explained on the page of ABILITY to CHANGE , there are
spiritual rules we need to follow to allow changes and prevent
"blockages" ).
When the time is right, the "spiritual help" transcends into our thoughts in
the form of intuitive "good ideas" and instinctive guidance . If the
transcending of spiritual energy is strong, it can transcend into other
peoples thoughts influencing them to help or even can actually cause events
- "divine coincidences" - intervention to occur .
One can decide to immediately create an action from the thought energy which sometimes has stronger energy - as it converts the fullness of
spiritual thought energy straight into physical energy . Or it can take the
route by being "talked about" first and then put into action . If one suspects
that the people one talks to, may object or block ones good ideas then it is
advisable to keep quiet and just get on with the action .
The prayer cycle is just an example of the interconnection of thoughts

words and actions . If one thinks carefully - one can relate this to almost
every situation in this world . Eg, "when one falls in love", firstly one has a
good feeling with intuitive good and loving thoughts in ones mind that
something good is going to happen in ones life, then one starts to express
ones thoughts in words of love and then actions of coming together
meeting physically with love .
It is important to note that only when one is in love with life and in love
with the world , happy and content , then one attracts truly good, happy and
loving events . If one chooses to complain and be miserable about life ,
then only sadness, depression and loneliness ensue .
By choosing to change ones attitude to life then a life of love and happiness
will happen . Once one has chosen to live a life of love and happiness this
automatically puts a person in the "creative life cycle" . Then "magically"
good life energy and vitality flow through a persons life .
Section 2
Positive thinking, using ones mind fully, explaining the difference between
, thoughts of a thinking "adult" and , habitual thoughts
of a "child" .
Each "thought" has a different level of energy, the level of thought energy
and concentration varies depending on the job and if this is a regular task or
a new challenge that needs special concentration.
The two types of thoughts - "child" &

"adult"
Definitions of , and ,
The basic level of thoughts are called ," Mochin deKatnus"

literally translated as "brain cells of a child" . These are thoughts that have
no intrinsic energy to elevate themselves emotionally or spiritually . These
thoughts come and go from our mind without any feelings or "active
concentration" .
The higher level of thoughts are called ," Mochin deGadlus"
literally translated as "brain cells of an adult" . These thoughts embody
themselves with energy from the soul and therefore connect the physical
with the spiritual within the body and soul .
Images to "turn-on" the spiritual soul

The "child"-like thoughts, are thoughts that we have all the time, for
example, we are seeing with our eyes thousands of images everyday, most
of which we forget from our mind because the image we see has no
spiritual or soulful or emotional energy attached to it .
This does not mean that the image has no energy, this simply means that we
have switched off our "soul" emotion and sensitivity , so that we do not
allow ourselves to receive or connect spiritually with the image. We explain
fully the power of images on the page "Life of Peace of Mind".
This picture of sunset is in the sky everyday of the year, yet how many
times do we actually STOP, look up and think for 5 mins at the amazingly
clear and beautiful stars in the sky at night . If you spend just 5 mins just
ONCE in your life looking at the stars at night, enjoying a sunrise or sunset
. Some people only really make the chance to see and enjoy an amazing
sunset on holiday on a warm beach without any of the citylights ! But
everyone in the whole world has the wonderful opportunity and potential to
absorb the energy of a sunset everyday of the year .
I assure you, that your soul will be touched and opened by the image, in
that you are receiving energy and giving an energy of the highest level
associated with spiritual "thought" energy . This is indeed the reason why
the best time to pray is at sunrise and sunset.
Ones feeling to Sunrise / Sunset

identifies ones intrinsic character
According to Carl G Jung the Swiss psychologist, he defines the intrinsic
character of a person based on whether the person enjoys a sunrise
( implies a optimistic person always looking for new opportunities), a
sunset ( implies a very romantic loving nature, a person who loves the
journey of life), feels nothing at all ( implies someone who is emotionally
dead), or actually hates sunrise/sunset ( implies has a hateful and violently
destructive character) .
Similarly as with every image that one sees, every moment of everyday,
there is a possibility and potential to allow ones soul to be touched and
energized by the image or we can choose to miss the opportunity to receive
this daily good spiritual energy .
The intrinsic beauty of flowers is a gift from heaven . All spiritually

minded people and most women's souls are often much more sensitive and
open to receive the energy from flowers . ( Sadly some women and many
men don't realize that the way to open ones heart of love and emotion is
through the beauty of flowers ! ) . There is a very special energy in flowers
in their colours and scent . The more spiritual a person is and the more ones
soul is open spiritually - the more one appreciates this . (This is also the
reason why women love good scents of perfume, as their heart emotions
and soul is opened with loving energy through the scents) .
Once one understands the levels of thought energy and uses ones higher
level of "adult thought" energy, to energize ones soul from the images one
sees, the more one is learning to connect oneself spiritually . Thereby
growing up from a child to an adult and connecting ones soul spiritually to
ones life in a physical body .
Connecting Spiritually
Cycle of Life's Spiritual Energy
Prayers are ALWAYS Answered
In transforming ones thoughts to becoming spiritually receptive,
emotionally aware and sensitive to the images and life's experiences, one
has connected ones soul to the Source of all life energy - GOD . At this
stage in life, one will be overwhelmed with a vitality of loving energy,
everything becomes lovely and beautiful .
Its like arriving on another planet full of nice, kind, loving people, suddenly
ones old friends disconnect and new happy vibrant and sincerely honest
loving people come into ones life . ( This is the stage of change we called
"mid life" crisis to Golden Age on our page of CHANGE ). Many people
often wonder why they don't have intrinsically good, sincere loving friends
- the answer is simple - one needs to change ones own spirituality and
attitude, then one will glow with aliveness of true love which will radiate a
signal to other good like-minded people .
At this moment one is ready to PRAY and have ones PRAYERS answered .
The "prayer cycle" works as ones thoughts, actions and words are now
connected coherently and relating to each other in the cycle of life's
spiritual loving creative energy .
Focus & use the higher thought

energies
,
In this section we have explained the awakening and concept of the "child"
and "adult" thought energies . It is well known that if one is not careful then
even actions like praying and religious acts/customs, that should be
accompanied by the higher thought energy, can be lowered to be useless
acts, as they are not done with any spiritual thought energy . Hence it is
vitally important that one SWITCHES on ones spiritual soul energy by
learning to FOCUS ones thoughts into everything one does, speaks and
thinks .
SECTION 3
The most important aspect in learning to live a successful life is always to
remain POSITIVE about everything that happens . Understanding that
"positive thinking" is simply having the correct attitude, a mind and a life
full of loving thoughts that creates "life energy" .
Problems and difficult situations will keep on happening in our lives , but
the way we look at life with our "attitude" can change the whole
perspective and reality of the events that occur in our lives . A seemingly
difficult problem could be the biggest blessing in ones life . It is all a matter
of the "right attitude"
, A good day makes one forget a bad day
, A bad day makes one forget a good day
Chapter 1 Tana Devei Eliyahu
This passage from "Tana Devei Eliyahu" explains that in the "prayer cycle"
and "cycle of life" , if one has a good positive happy thought this cancels
out and helps one forget completely the past negative thoughts .
This is because, the mind is critical and sharp, with a tendency to focus on
what's wrong, rather than appreciating what's right. ( This is especially true
for reincarnated souls from the " " the generation of souls of
complaining jews that wandered the wilderness and were refused to be
allowed into the promised land, as they complained against GOD for
everything - See www.gilgulim.com , the lesson they were supposed to
learn was to see the GOOD in everything that happens ).
The mind only copes with one mood -
either happiness or sadness .
According to the famous scientist Albert Einstein in his theory of relativity

of space:"TWO THINGS CANNOT OCCUPY THE SAME SPACE" .
A person is either happy or sad, it is impossible for a person to be happy

and sad at the same time ! The freewill choice gives us the opportunity to
choose either to be happy or sad .
This is the great choice of life to be creatively loving and constructive OR
hatefully, sad and destructive .
So simply choose a life of happiness and positive thoughts and by the

spiritual law of TANA DEVEI ELIYAHU and scientific Einstein, sadness
cannot find any room and gets forgotten from ones mind .
Once the focus is pointed, concentrating on and constantly aware to think
of positive and happy thoughts then all the negative thoughts are forgotten .
When one is in the positive creative happy and loving phase of living life,
the challenge is to stay POSITIVE, not allowing in any negative or
destructive emotions or people with negative emotions .
The 6 rules to help one stay POSITIVE
taken from Sefer Shinuyim :1. Prepare for a positive day the evening before and a have good nights
sleep.
2. Think loving and happy thoughts . Use loving, constructive and positive
words . Be careful not to talk about or think about bad people or bad
situations. Let go of the "baggage" , difficulties and badness of the past .
( which includes de-brainwashing ) .
3. Focus on something you really LOVE to do, and have done in the past .
Then reenergise your soul from the happy energy of that time in your life .
Remind yourself of something that happened to you in your life that was
really funny, happy, amazing and good .
4. Contemplate if you had 5 mins to live . What would you do ?
Contemplate if you died NOW, how would you be remembered ? What
have you done worthwhile to leave for the benefit of others, that people
will remember you with gratitude and love ?
Realize that you have more than 5 mins to live, thank GOD for the gift of
life and use your time actively, lovingly and constructively .
5. Do something creative, become a part of creation, eg paint, write, draw,
sow seeds for plants , gardening ...
6. Think of someone you loved and someone who loved you who has died .
Bring back the happy memories and connect spiritually with loving and
happy feelings .
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To explain these 6 spiritual rules
Rule 1:- ,
Talmud Avoda Zora 3b
1. Prepare for a positive day the evening before and a have good nights
sleep.
In order to have a wonderful successful day it is vital that one prepares the
evening before . The spiritual law is that the night is the beginning of each
day . Sunset of each day is the beginning of the next day . How a person
starts the day is how the remainder of the day will be . So if you want a
good day, make sure that you start the preparations the preceding sunset .
...
" According to the beginning ... the remainder of the venture follows "
" According to the thoughts in the head ... the physical body follows "
In our "introduction" page, we explained the principle from Rebbe Reb
Yehonosson Eibeshitz, that thoughts words and actions at the beginning
sets the foundations, foretelling success depending on basis of truth and

honesty .
Likewise, each day of our life, is foretold by the events and foundations we
set in the preceding evening . It is well known, that if one has a healthy
meal in the evening, ones digestion and body enjoys the nourishment from
the food, allowing the body to absorb the energy from the food during the
night . As a direct consequence one feels good the following morning .
Normally we only recognize this fact, when something goes wrong ! for
example, eating an unhealthy or improperly cooked meal, our physical
body reacts, either sicking up or "having the runs !" and we feel awful the
following day .
This rule applies equally and more so, spiritually . Every thought, word and
action in the evening has a direct consequence to the way we feel and
success in our lives the following day . This is specially true if one watches
TV in the evening, seeing a sad, depressing, violence or anything hateful
will affect a person the following day .
Therefore, be careful what one does in the evening . Only think and talk
loving, happy and funny things . If one does want to watch TV or use
internet ONLY watch something funny, comedic and positively uplifting or
spiritual . Don't watch the news - as most news reported is depressing and
sad ! Listen to romantic or classical music will put a person in a pleasant
mood .
Most importantly , spend some quality time , either writing a diary or
talking to oneself about ones objectives in life . Spend 20 mins before
going to sleep praying . Think about the past day and the next day , think
positively , that tomorrow will be a lovely day . If one is stuck in an
unpleasant situation then repeat positively:GOD will make a way - where there is no way
Part of living life in this world is to admit that a person cannot "work
everything out" and needs Divine help . Admitting this truth and saying "
GOD will make a way where there is no way ", has an amazing affect on
ones soul . And it works !
After preparing correctly for the next day and having a good nights sleep,
one will wake up refreshed and enlivened . We discuss on the page of
"FENG SHUI" the importance of sleeping in the correct direction .
"Getting in the back seat to drive a

car"!
Imagine getting in the back seat to drive a car , you would first have to
climb over the seats with difficulty to get into the drivers seat .
Have you ever woken up in the morning and simply feel so drained and
tired that it takes an hour before you feel you have actually arrived inside
your body !!!
During sleep, your soul essence leaves your body, by sleeping in the most
harmonious place and direction , your soul will arrive back in your body
with peace and ease . Please read more for best direction to sleep, on the
page of "FENG SHUI" .
The beginning of each week, month and year .
Similarly this spiritual rule of preparing applies at the beginning of every

week and every month, and every year . That is every week on Sunday, is
one suffering a "hang-over" from a late night on saturday night or is one up
bright and early, enjoying the peacefulness and freshness of Sundays .
Whilst the remainder of the world is fast asleep both physically and
spiritually, the spiritually aware are enjoying and loving the early sunday
mornings .
Ofcourse in only one country in the whole world is Sunday the first full
working day of the week - Israel . It is therefore no surprise to all
spiritually aware people, that Israelis ( And Jewish people all over the
world - after keeping a spiritual day of rest on the Shabbos-Saturday) are
one of the most alive and energized, creative and innovative, scientifically
advanced nations and groups people in the world . They are enjoying the
aliveness, taking the freshness of energy of the first day of the week Sunday .
The beginning energy of each month actually begins with the NEW MOON
. Please see astrology websites like www.cainer.com/planets or
www.hebcal.com which gives the hebrew calendar based on 29 day lunar
cycle, "day 1" is the new moon !
Similarly is the importance of the beginning of each year - the
"BIRTHDAY" . The events, ones thoughts and focus on ones birthday, sets
energy and the mood for the whole year . So, do something creatively kind
and special on ones birthday instead of having selfish thoughts, especially

if you didn't get the presents you wanted !
Rule 2 : Think LOVING thoughts and use GOOD words
Rule 2. Think loving and happy thoughts . Use loving, constructive and
positive words . Be careful not to talk about or think about bad people or
bad situations. Let go of the "baggage" and badness of the past .

The recipe for a happy life:- " turn away from evil and do good "
"close one door and another door opens"
Before the future can begin, one needs to have closure on the past . I assure
you that as you close the door on one particular negative and energy
draining situation, then immediately your soul has the life vitality and
energy to bring something exciting and new in your life . ( This is
especially true when one has finally de-brainwashed all the old negative
thoughts ) .
Most people i know, have missed opportunities in their life ONLY because
they were still holding onto their past . Once they "let go" of outdated and
useless "baggage", attitudes of mind , control-freak parents, bad friends
etc ... then magically life opened up new doors and amazing opportunities .
The key is to "let go of the past" .
The key to open up the future of happiness, success and purposeful
contentment in life is to learn to LOVE life . Use one thoughts to think
loving thoughts . This is not easy, especially if one has lived a spiritually
void and destructive life until now . The solution is to talk to your mind
with positive words .
Using the correct words
This means learning to talk differently . All aggressive, destructively

critical and spiritually void people talk without thinking . They are also
exceedingly loud .
Whereas, people whom are spiritually aware always think about every
single word they say, they talk eloquently, calmly and softly spoken . Their
speech is always refined .
Good people always see goodness in everything, and always have a
vocabulary of lovely words . Using words like "tranquility" , "lovely" ,
"delightful" , "peaceful" , "harmony" , "excellent " etc etc ... For example,
all their loved ones, friends and children will have nicknames of affection
like "Sweettie" , "Honey" ... If they adore cats, they also give them names
of affection like "Sweettie" , "Honey" ... A good person always exudes an
energy of love and kindness for everyone and everything, and will always
see the positive and goodness .
Change ones vocabulary and speech, to only use nice words . Never
complaining or using poor language or words that imply sadness or
negativity, then after 30 days of constantly being aware to CHANGE ones
speech, this will change ones life positively for the better .
Automatically, as one changes, all the people in ones life who are "negative
and depressing baggage", suddenly disappear . New helpful "positively
minded", trustworthy, kind and loving friends are attracted into ones life .
Rule 3 : Focus your thoughts on

goodness and happiness
3. Focus on something you really LOVE to do, and have done in the past .
Then reenergise your soul from the happy energy of that time in your life .
Remind yourself of something that happened to you in your life that was
really funny, happy, amazing and good .
Using the principle , A good day makes one forget a
bad day from Chapter 1 Tana Devei Eliyahu , then one MUST
use ones mind to concentrate in only having a happy day with happy
thoughts .
The really happy moments in life

Every single person has had some really happy moments in their lives .
Think carefully, try and relive in ones memory those really happy
occasions . There are a few moments in everyone's life, that one laughed so
much that one can never forget those moments . Without these special
moments, life would have been really depressingly sad .
Concentrate ones thoughts on those really happy moments, laugh and
giggle at the thoughts and events that happened . Then keep thinking about
those times throughout the day, you will see after a few days of "thinking"
and reliving the happiness . Then one will start to feel an aliveness of
happiness and laughable even loving situations will start to come into ones
life .
Everyone who is happy with life exudes a loving feeling, a special radiant
glow of aliveness . And where there is love and happiness, there is a
potential basis of contentment in life . With this sincere love of life comes a
thanks and appreciation of the gift of life . A happiness that starts to make
one more magnetic for even more happiness and good fortune .
It is a rule, that happy things happen to intrinsically happy people , sadness
happens to intrinsically sad people . ( I add the word "intrinsically" as some
people fool others, by pretending to believe in GOD and be happy, but
"intrinsically" they are depressing, negative, complaining and certainly
don't really believe in GOD and a spirit world - even if they say they do ! ) .
Laugh at the sad moments

There are some sad upsetting moments on ones life, that in hindsight, one
can transform themselves into exceedingly happy moments . For example,
if one was heartbroken by a divorce, and years later realized that had you
remained married to that wrong person, you would have missed out on an
amazingly good and truly destined love of your life . In hindsight a sad
event turns out to be a happiness . This can apply to many seemingly sad
events in our lives, in which in hindsight one can really have a good laugh
about . thinking to oneself " thank GOD i was saved ".
... ,
Everything that happens - happens for our good
Learning to focus on these events and transforming ones sad thoughts into
happy ones is a specially high level spiritually . As one has learnt to live on
a "Godly level" of acceptance that everything that happens in life - is
ONLY for ones good .
Rule 4 : "The 5 mins to live" rule

4. Contemplate if you had 5 mins to live . What would you do ?
Contemplate if you died NOW, how would you be remembered ? What
have you done worthwhile to leave for the benefit of others, that people
will remember you with gratitude and love ?
Realize that you have more than 5 mins to live, thank GOD for the gift of
life and use your time actively, lovingly and constructively . One of my
loveliest teachers, Margaret Jones of Christchurch, always emphasized to
me:-
If you had 24 hours to live .....

what would you do in the last 24 hours ?
If you are not doing that NOW - then you are failing GOD, your soul, and
your life on earth !!! Ofcourse being innately sensible . But it goes a step
further ...
what if you had one week to live - what would you do ?
or one year to live - what would you do ?
or 5 years to live ?
Where is the time factor that means something to you, that you would
actually STOP what you are doing NOW , and change ?
ONLY YOU - can answer this question

.
An equally important question, if you could turn back the clock of time ,
and correct a mistake you have made that you "think" has been
irreversible . What would you love to delete from your life and have a
second chance ?
The biggest regret people have on their "death-bed" is either not telling
their loved ones they loved them, and not apologizing / making-the-peace
with people they have had arguments with . The only thing holding one
back, is over-inflated ego and stubborn pride . So think of the "5 mins rule"
, sort out the problem now, apologize and move on constructively with life,
leave the baggage behind . According to Sefer Gilgulim - the book of
reincarnation by Reb Chaim Vital , the whole reason some people
reincarnate is to learn forgiveness and the lesson of unconditional LOVE !
The only reason why so many people waste so much of their lives is
because they are lazy and believe that will "take care" of life in the future .
Instead, they exist in futility, wasting days, weeks and years going round in
cycles of depression and sadness . If one would WAKE UP ! Utilizing
every moment of life as the last 5 mins of life, then ones lives would
become inspiring, full of purpose and happiness .
Thank GOD - we have more than 5 mins to live
In the 5 mins rule is a blessing , that we should all appreciate that we

actually have the gift of life . Thank GOD we all have more than 5 mins to
live, so let us all utilize the time to our maximum potential .
Rule 5: Become part of creation
5. Do something creative, become a part of creation, eg paint, write, draw,

sow seeds for plants , gardening ...
The main reason why people feel depressed, sad and worthless is because
they are selfish . They have not changed from the childhood stage of life (
see page on stages of life changes ) , where a child "takes" from life to
grow , the transformation into an adult is to learn to "give" to life , being a
part of creation .
Marriage and sexual intimacy is for the purpose of creating loving energy
and having children . An adult has transformed ones nature from a "taker"
of energy, to a "creator" and "giver" of loving and supportive energy . If,
however the so called adult chooses to be selfish and not want to have
children, in the pursuit of a materialistic career . This is a choice to die .
Depression is the first stage of death
Depression is a form of death . With the symptoms of hatred, self abuse,

sadness, selfishness, lies, deceit and jealousy . The only way for such
people to survive is to "drain" and "steal" energy from good people of the
"honest group" ( as discussed on our page of "guardian angels" - the world
is divided in to 2 groups - the honest group and deceitful group ) .
However, the simple remedy is to choose to live and become part of
creation .
Doing anything creative makes one part of life-cycle
This means for most youngsters a change in the concept of love

relationships, getting married and making love for the purpose of having
children . Instead of living a selfish life of wasteful sexual energy, with
preventative measure such a pills and condoms that block life entering their
bodies . Without no doubt , these people are causing their own death and
depression . So changing for them, actually means reflecting on their
relationships to make love in order to have children . Every living entity on
planet earth understands this rule . ( Sadly the perverted culture of society
has lost this common-sense decent knowledge ) .
Being part of creation, does not only mean have children, but it identifies
that we need to focus our actions and thoughts on doing something creative
and supportive of life cycle on our planet . Think of a bee, which helps in
the reproduction of flowers by pollinating the flowers and in so doing
enjoys the nectar and produces honey . ( please see the BBC educational
website on science and understand photosynthesis and flowers reproducing
and gardening reference index websites and Learning about plants ) .
Join the cycle of creation

"Gardening" - plant seeds, nurture plants
Simple, to be a part of creation, plant seeds , nurture growing plants , even

some simple action like watering plants is an act of creation . If you live in
a city apartment, get a flowering window box , buy a plant for your
workplace - desk etc etc ... anything that is a living entity has life energy ,
being part of sustaining the life energy makes you a part of creation .
Absolutely anything creative
Included in "being part of creation" , means any action that gives

constructive life is part of creative cycle .
For example, think about the job you have, the job identities whom you
are . If you are working in a factory producing cars that pollute the
atmosphere, destroying the ozone layer, and stealing good ideas from other
car manufacturers - this is probably symbolic of the type of life you are
living . If however, you are working at the Ben Uziel Science labs in Haifa
Israel on the non polluting hydrogen car, working on saving the planet from
pollution, with new fresh innovative and creative ideas - this too identifies
ones character .
The description of ones job is an identity to ones souls character
If one works in a non productive job, living off the hard work of other
people, then one cannot expect the same soul fulfillment as someone whom
is working in creative production in the life cycle .
In our false materialistic society, people identify money with success and
true happiness . Yet most wealthy people suffer from depression and
sadness . This is intrinsically because their job, is in the destructive
lifecycle instead of the constructive creative life cycle .
Everyone knows good people, whom wake-up during their mid-life crises
and change their lives dramatically . They simply listen to the signs,
recognize the truth , that their lives have been futile and deadly destructive,
changing to live a purposefully constructive life .
Creativity includes drawing , painting , calligraphy - writing , embroidery ,
knitting , helping feed the homeless, any action that puts a person in the
constructive creative life cycle has the power to change ones soul ....
Therefore start to change ones daily actions and choose to include doing
something CREATIVE in ones spare time, and this will change ones whole
character .
Rule 6: Spiritual creative love
6. Think of someone you loved and someone who loved you who has died .
Bring back the happy memories and connect spiritually with loving and
happy feelings .
In the same way that the thought energy is the most pure of spiritual energy
we can create in this physical world with our physical mind, body and
spiritual soul . The highest level of love energy is that of spiritual love .
Connecting the physical body and spiritual soul world .
The love of GOD , and our sincere thanks for the gift of life is ofcourse the
highest connection as discussed on our page of " the soul and belief " .
However, the connection of our loved ones whom have passed over to spirit
world and ourselves has an immense power of love . And where there is
love , there is life and happiness .
Thinking of the good times of a loved one
Simply think of the good memories , one has had with a loved one whom
has died - passed to spirit world . These memories will connect your soul to
the energy of life and of happiness . ( as discussed on our page of "
Guardian angels ") . This does not necessarily mean that you are
communicating with the spirit souls, but the purpose is to open up the deep
memories of happiness within YOUR soul .
Our souls identity is made of of our experiences , both happy and sad . A
depressed person , by definition DEPRESSES all the goodness and
happiness . So that all life energy is depressed deep down and forgotten .
Therefore a way to unlock oneself from depression , is to bring to the
surface of ones memory all the happiness of ones life .
By thinking of the happy memories of a loved one whom has passed to
spirit world , one is healing ones own soul . As it is almost impossible to
think bad of someone whom has died . ( this is because the cycle of hatred
is broken by their death - a deep subject by Dr Jung we shall discuss in
Sefer Tikunim ) .
The pure love and happiness of those memories will always work to restore
out of depression , as if bringing a person back to a starting point before
being "side-tracked" into depression and negative thinking .
From our experience of helping many people - we know these 6 spiritual

rules from "Sefer Shinuyim" work . Try them and see - you will be
astonishingly amazed at the transformation of your life .
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Concluding philosophy of life's

journey
from Sefer Shinuyim

Let go of ones "old baggage" attitudes , move with the harmonic flow of
life .
Learn to radiate a loving creative energy of spiritual aliveness .
Life is not about what has happened in the past ( although it maybe first
necessary to clear ones past, especially if one is a reincarnated soul see
www.gilgulim.com), but once the past is cleared and one has done
"teshuva" - rectified and apologized for any mistakes, the past belongs on a
different planet .
Life is not about one thinks may happen in the future .
Life is about enjoying the journey of daily creative and loving experiences .
There is no point in living is you cannot learn to enjoy the lovely journey of
life .
Learn to enjoy every moment of life .
Then when you least expect it, something great comes along to change your
life making it even more purposeful, with an aliveness, vitality and a higher
sense of spiritual purpose in life . Something even greater will happen for
you that you never even planned . This is a divine spiritual blessing that is
given to the truly transformed and enlightened person .
The start of a new changed life pathway is, by living THIS moment in the
present to ones maximum potential . Then automatically the next moment
will also be lived to fullest potential, and then the remainder of ones life !
Will you be able to say in a few months time that this moment TODAY
changed your life, because you changed to THINKING POSTIVELY by
using your mind and soul to your maximum potential ?
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These following points are important anecdotes we wanted to quote from

"Sefer Shinuyim"
Avoid the negative and draining people
Just avoid people who upset you every time you see them! Look for places
to enjoy yourself rather than trying to go back to places which hurt. And
move on. If you're into a new life and especially in a new relationship with
someone, leave your baggage behind you.
, ,
Who is a wealthy person ? One who is happy with what he has .
True happiness is an inner emotional state . Everything you need at this
moment in life you have, and every true pleasure and happiness is free .
Learn to appreciate what you have in life at this moment .
Then if you have developed your soul, then next phase of your life can
begin . But firstly you must learn inner peace and contentment right NOW
in your present situation, wherever you are. And if indeed you are in the
wrong place with the wrong sort of life, then life events and spiritual
guidance will "make things happen" to move you to a more conducive
place for your soul's development.
I assure you that once you accept your situation and stop fighting within
yourself, have closure in your mind and thoughts . Then you WILL move
onto the new change in you life . IF YOU RESIST something - IT
PERSISTS . So accept and release and let go with unconditional LOVE .
If you feel stuck in a situation and have an inner knowing, that you do not
belong there, knowing a life awaits for you somewhere else, then show
yourself aloof and distant in your emotions, "the don't care attitude" always
works, being upset with a negative situation only causes you to remain
attached to that situation . Holding on with bitterness and resentment will
keep you trapped in the past .
TRUST in GOD and your guardian angels that you are going to succeed,
and anything can happen, and it will .....!! I know many people who
thought they were going to die of heart attack or cancer . They lay in bed,
thought and by changing their thoughts they effectively changed and healed
their own body .
Healing ones physical body with ones positive thoughts is well known,
especially for people suffering from cancer . We discuss this on the page of
health and diet . Through the desire to continue living and loving . Ask
anyone who has recovered from a near death illness, the one and only
reason everyone gives is the need and desire to LOVE and being LOVED .
The greatest catalyst for change is the desire to LOVE and be loved . Don't
wait for the emergency - make the change NOW and love !! And that
includes telling your husband, wife, children parents .... that you love
them .
Overcoming difficulties
The bigger the difficulty the greater the potential
As we know most of the greatest people in the world have had to overcome
the greatest of difficulties . A sign that a person is destined for greatness
and has the potential is that they are extremely sensitive and have had many
difficulties in their life .
"Every problem has a solution"
As discussed in Sefer Tikunim - The book of Corrections - "Every problem

has a solution", if one has problems then one has been blessed with gifts
and the potential to find the solutions . The greater ones problems, the
greater the potential opportunities one has to solve those problems .
The solution is to be OPEN emotionally, and instead of connecting with the
lower bad thoughts, one should connect with spiritual energy of higher
level thoughts . Appreciating the stars in the sky or beautiful flowers of
creation .
The Sabbath - Shabbos - Saturday
The Sabbath ( starts with sunset friday evening ) is a day when all normal
physical work, the end of the "working week" all ACTIONS cease, in order
for the person to reconnect with GOD and "spirit world" spiritually,
through speech in prayer and spiritual thoughts . The Sabbath is a day to
recharge the spiritual soul by learning and developing a deep soulful and
spiritual connection .
All the famous rebbes of the past generations from Friday evening at sunset
for the whole of the shabbos focused spiritually, many of whom never
spoke a word, as the spiritual gift of the sabbath is to connect in the highest
form of energy - the THOUGHT energy . ( those who remember Rabbi
Segal from Manchester will remember how careful he was with his speech
on the Sabbath ) .
If a person goes to "prayers", at their synagogue, church, mosque etc... but
puts no real "thought" energy, then it is useless waste of time as this has not
left any impression upon their soul . Similarly those people who observe
the sabbath day, but waste the day away in idle gossip in the communal
places of worship, dressing up for the ceremonial service only in order to
"show-off " fashions and styles . Then spending the rest of the day eating
long meals and socializing , these people have missed the whole point of
the sabbath .
This is the simple reason why most of the young generation are not
interested in formal religion as they see with clarity and honesty, the
uselessness and wastefulness of time spent in religious formalities that have
people do NOT give any spiritual feeling that touches the soul .
Being "spiritually open" and sensitive

One needs to learn to control being "spiritually open", as one can also be
negatively affected, if one hears of sad events, senses other peoples
"baggage" or problems, or sees disgusting images etc, ...( We discuss the
subject of BEING CLOSED on the RESCUE page ) . Simply said , if one is
connected and open spiritually, then it can be than one feels the emotional
pain more than other people .
Hence, some of the most sensitive people can suffer from severe depression
until they learn to recognize the root cause and CHANGE. In most cases of
sensitive peoples suffering it is usually "freeloaders" dumping their
problems or "using" sensitive peoples good spiritual energy .
When a sensitive person stops allowing others to "dump" their baggage and
problems, then life will become very much brighter and happier for them .
The sign to know and ask oneself, is "does one feel alive and energized by
people or drained ?" This will be indicative of "freeloaders" . Avoid them at
all cost, even pay them to get out of your life !!!
Thank you for reading our page on change, we sincerely hope this will help
you in your life, giving you the confidence to look forward to a lovely
purposeful life. As the whole world transforms and changes over the next
20 years, becoming more spiritually aware and sincerely loving .
We hope to upload a full website at www.sefershinuyim.com during

Autumn 2006, and a section called "The Pathway" specifically teaching the
ability to change by way of debrainwashing ones negative thoughts, closing
ones mind to negative influences, unblocking blocks in ones life and
focusing ones thoughts on positive loving and creative energy.
Removing all Negative Aspects

change is simple :1. ERASE the past, have a complete CLEARANCE, of the past, by
one can see ones mistakes clearly . Especially all the "BLOCKS" one has
(or others have) caused and created in ones life, understanding why the
blocks have been there and then clearing them away. ( This also includes
clearing blocks created in ones soul from "past lives", hence the importance
of understanding reincarnation "GILGUL" in clearing these blockages).
improve collectively the quality of life on earth, working to cancel out the
energy.

Clearing the "trash" and negativity out of ones life, creates a space for
goodness to enter into ones life. "Change" is a matter of personal needs and
individual understanding, however intrinsically it follows the same
principles for everyone; CLEARANCE, that is canceling out the
NEGATIVE and working on developing the POSITIVE aspects of ones

soul, as detailed in the separate pages below :Blocking Success explains that the lack of success is a sign that there is a
blockage in ones life.
Fear of Success explains that the negative emotions of hate and fear can
prevent a person having success, and that a fear of success is a fear of
growing up into a responsible adult and a fear of changing.
No Money explains that having "no money", is as much a spiritual
blockage and a physical blockage, and acts as a sign to WAKE a person up
to change.
"Its not yours" explains the spiritual laws and principles that each person
has a destiny, when one diverts ones energies to stealing and desiring
something or someone that is NOT ones destiny this acts to create a
"blockage".
Depression explains that depression is a blockage in the flow of life energy
Loss by "transference" explains the very important and fundamental
spiritual principles that one can lose ones soul energy and potential by
"giving" away the energy that is destined for ones soul by "transference".
Once all the negative aspects are negated and have no influence on ones
soul, mind or thoughts one can work on the next stage of Clearance &
Closure and then onto creating Positive aspects to create a fundamentally
good foundation for ones soul to grow spiritually and become purely
spiritually enlightened.
Blocking Success
Blockages "Ikuvim"
Blockages, obstacles and difficulties in life are absolutely essential,
however frustrating they maybe, they are vital to in order ensure our
ultimate success for our soul, in accomplishing the purpose we have been
given the gift of life and came to "earths school" to learn and grow
spiritually .
On this page we shall discuss the 3 main types of " Blockages":-
1. - Blocks from ones Soul

Blockages that each individual soul has decreed upon themselves, which
acts to "force" the person to accomplish a task before the blockage is
removed. This type of block is special as it is easiest to handle as each
person has been given the exact energy and power to UNBLOCK their own
lives and release the frustration and stagnation in ones life .
2. , - Blocks of "transference" from others
Blockages caused by other people, this type of block is caused by negative
thoughts, such as hatred, jealousy, fear and depression. These blocks are
given power to block someone else's life, caused by "transference" energy,
a person has "given away" a power to others to cause destruction and
blockages in that persons life. This type of block is even easier to unblock,
by not allowing "transference energy" and having closure from
"freeloaders".
3. - Blocks created "daily"
Blockages caused and created daily by ones own negative thoughts, fears,
depression, laziness, hatred and jealousy of others. These blocks are easier
to unblock as they simply need a change in attitude in a persons mind and
soul to dissolve the negative energy of the block.
1. - Blocks from ones own

Soul
As we discussed on the page of "DESTINY", the basic principle and
intrinsic foundation, belief and knowledge in our life on earth is that our
physical existence is merely a way to transport our spiritual soul . Our soul
needs to be able to learn the lessons and experiences in this physical life on
planet earth, and hence the soul needs to travel on earth in a physical body .
We have pre-programmed our soul before we arrived on earth with certain
situations and experiences that we wished to teach our soul by personal and
sometimes painful experience . Once we have accomplished successfully a
particular aspect of our souls well needed transformation, then a block is
removed.
It is well known in many peoples lives that after a separation from an

abusive parent or relative or freeloading friend, complete disconnection or
even a divorce or when a person leaves a draining materialistic and non
spiritual situation, a spiritual release and block is removed from a persons
soul.
Reading the signs

A person soul is continually receiving energy, but if one is in the "wrong
place" and connected with the "wrong people", then a safety mechanism of
- "Blocks" from ones own Soul, comes to protect oneself.
If a person has "bad luck", feels drained, or any type of loss or sadness,
these are all signs that one is connected to the wrong situation. If there are
repetitive signs of destructive loss, in any situation this should NOT be
ignored. One needs to look at the signs, and take immediate ACTION,
otherwise it will get worse, until one does "WAKE UP" and change.
Everyone has a destined source of income to always have food, a home and
have a loving perfect soulmate
If anyone does not have any one of these then the person MUST consider
this an EMERGENCY, an URGENT sign to change. As we explained on
the page of "DESTINY" the spiritual laws of this life on earth, is that we all
have these destined "pieces of the puzzle" of our life to find in order to find
wholesomeness.
If one has tried and failed, then this is considered a BLOCKAGE from ones
soul. There is an individual and personal message that a person needs to
learn, in order to clear the particular blockage in their life. By thinking
carefully and analyzing the signposts that they have ignored in life, the
solution will easily present itself.
The LOVE - SOULMATE Blockage

With respect to SOULMATE and finding true LOVE particularly for our
generation, many worried parents, boys and girls ask me, what are they
doing "wrong" that they don't seem to find anyone suitable to love and who
will love them ?
This is not be such a big question or blockage as it seems, the problem with
young men and women in our generation, is that have not grown up,
making the transition from selfish childhood to creative selfless adulthood,

as we discuss on "Stages of Change".
The blockage in their life is the fact that their soul is blocked to "TRUE
LOVE". By definition, true love is the desire to create energy with
someone by giving without any desire to receive in return. True love is a
selfless act of loving kindness . This is in sharp contrast to the selfish,
animal instinct, self-satisfaction of sexual and aggressive desire for love.
The way to unblock this significant block of finding ones true loving
soulmate is to CHANGE ones attitude to LOVE, LOVE should be a
selfless desire to want to give and be kind, creating loving energy with ones
true soulmate.
"Have you ever loved someone unconditionally ?"
When adults in their 20's, 30's or even 40's come and ask my advice,
complaining to me that they have never found their true love - soulmate. I
ask them "HAVE YOU EVER LOVED SOMEONE
UNCONDITIONALLY ? Really loved someone with 100% commitment
and loyalty ? "
The answer is always the same - NO ! They have either come from a family
of abusive parents or parents who never showed a good example of love.
All children observe and take note of their parents, if their parents never
charmed each other, by showing signs of love and affection at home, eg.,
calling their spouses with names of affection like "Honey" and "Sweettie",
( or even "shatzlie" which is the yiddish word "darling") then the children
will see this. ( and there is no need to say, the appauling damage done on a
child, when parents shout, argue, disregard, ignore or abuse each other in a
loveless marriage, as we discussed the concept of selfish and "rotten"
parents on the "debrainwashing" page of this website)
The LOVE blockage is created and the child will never be able to show or
verbalize words of LOVE and affection, and if one cannot show love, then
one cannot receive or create love.
A 35 year old "confirmed" bachelor finds love!
In understanding this love blockage, 5 years ago, i gave good advice ( and
continue to give the same advice to any single person) to a very wellmannered, pleasant 35 year old "confirmed" bachelor, who came from
parents who were cold-hearted and never showed any love or affection. I
suggested he should get a CAT !
Within 6 weeks, his heart had opened up, which cleared his "love
blockage", by feeding, caring and loving this cat, this opened up his heart
and soul to LOVE. Within those 6 weeks, he met his wife and now they
have a lovely son in a loving relationship. This was NO miracle, simply the
man learnt instinctively to UNBLOCK the LOVE blockage !
Once the blockage had been taken away, he was able to LOVE, his true
soulmate was ready to enter his life. As an anecdote to this story, they had
both seen each other a few years before this, but she thought he was cold
and withholding, which did not appeal to her ! What a change he had
made !
This suggestion to care for a cat, was taken from Sefer Shinuyim which
teaches that anyone who wants to learn how to be loving and
compassionate should look after animals, like Moshe, King David, Rabbi
Akiva and all the great leaders were shepherds and farmers.
This example applies to all blockages and signs of misfortune, there is a
direct link and correlation to everything that happens in our lives. Once we
learn to focus on aspects of life such as Life of Love , Life of Compassion
and of Selfless Service , changing our nature and learning the lessons of
life will automatically UNBLOCK every blockage in our lives .
Remember, the main reason we have a BLOCKAGE in our lives is because
our soul placed the block in the way, in order that we should learn the
necessary lessons. Once the lessons are learnt, the block is taken away, and
a release of tension and negative energy leaves a vacuum for happiness and
good fortune to enter ones life.
2. , - Blocks of
"transference" created by other people
Firstly please read the page of the principle of Loss by "transference" , . Understanding "transference" it is easy to see that once another
person has got YOUR energy, they now have the power to BLOCK events
your life.
This blockage is troublesome, especially if the people you have given your
power and energy to by "transference" do not want to help or support you
any longer, but in fact want to destroy your ambitions, dreams and goals.
They even have the power to block your true "DESTINY".
Unblocking the "transference

blockage"
There are 2 reasons why this blockage exists:1. Your soul needs to learn lesson of disconnection with "horrible" people.
Firstly one needs to identify these people, who are blocking your life, and
disconnect from them by learning and having "Closure" . As we explain on
the page teaching "Unblocking" , any emotion, either of love, hatred or
jealousy will keep a person attached to that draining destructive blockage.
By learning to have complete closure, your forgiveness to them and
complete disconnection from these people whom are creating "blocks" in
your life. Which includes getting rid of any gifts that they gave you, and
anything that reminds you of them, hence the tradition to get rid of any
marriage presents when a divorce happens.
2. Previous lifetime blockages . These blockages have been carried over
from one lifetime to the next, in order that a person deals with the
disconnection and forgiveness in this lifetime.
Once the link is broken and "out-of-your-life" forever, even if they still
want to try and block your life with their hatred energy, they have NO
longer any energy or power to block your life. This is one reason why
people enjoy going away on holidays or going away to Yeshiva / College to
learn , as this helps to give a temporary disconnection from ones family, as
often their are blocks created by family members, whom have reincarnated
together to learn lessons.
The solution to the "transference blockage" is to learn the lessons of
complete "Closure". By letting go and disconnecting, this will negate the
hatred and nullify any affect on you, (sadly though this destructive energy
created by those hateful people rebounds to them and they end up suffering
the pain they wished for you, but remember "that is their problem") . This
is the spiritual law of Eliyahu "as a person wishes for others - so it happens
for them" .
The next stage of "unblocking" is to ask yourself why you allowed yourself
to be blocked by someone else. There is a lesson for you to learn, what is it
in your character that allowed you to "give away" your energy to someone
else, who abused and turned against you ? Maybe you have betrayed
someone in the past ? and need to learn the lesson of honesty in
relationships with yourself and others or simply to learn the lesson of
closure from "rotten people".
The simple answer is to learn to CHANGE, forgive everyone, no matter
what they have done to you . By accepting the situation, having closure on
that part of your life, letting go of the past, one can then move forward to a
lovely happy life of compassion and love with creative and purposeful
goals.
Remembering, that "its their problem" if they have a bad nature and bad
attitude to life or towards you, "Its not you", it's not your problem to
change them or to be responsible for their problems.
3. - Blocks created "daily"

These are the easiest to handle as they have the least energy. The "daily"
blockage , is something small, like a traffic jam, flight delay, a
road blockage, a burst water pipe, a puncture etc., a temporary delay or
obstacle that will be removed automatically within the day. In our
interactive world, these type of blockages could be caused by other people
or the weather or ones own silly mistakes.
Nonetheless these blockages also contain signs, and are not to be ignored as
they help to "refine" our character, learning lessons in life. For most people,
these blockages are minor signposts and always pass within a day.
Unless this negative blockage is added to the negative images and has
joined the "HUGE DUMP" a collection of negative experiences in your
mind . The single blockage has no real power, but as it joins the DUMP of
negative thoughts and blockages, it has power to depress and annoy you,
forcing you to take a serious look at your life's pathway. ( As we explained
in the Debrainwashing page.)
Conclusion
... , ,
Remembering that spiritual law "
Nothing happens by
accident". Everything happens in our lives for a reason . "Not even

a pin prick can touch or harm a person - unless it is decreed upon in spirit
world " . A blockage in the flow of our lives is a SIGN and has a reason. It
is for us to learn, teach our own soul and understand the lessons to learn in
each blockage in our lives.
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Below is the important lesson of the "Money Blockage" :-
Is Your SOUL Blocking Your

Abundance?
Are you suffering from terminal financial lack? Do you feel frustrated that
after months or even years of applying positive affirmation, visualization
and other "new age" spiritual techniques, you still live paycheck-topaycheck, unable to support yourself and your life? Unable to create
something useful and purposeful in life ? Always feeling life is such a
struggle and "just about sunk" ?
We are not "living in the present" or "heart-connected" to Earth
Lets begin with an explanation of being "living in the present" and "heartconnected" to Earth. What does that mean? Simply, it means being happy,
being grateful that you are here on Earth. It means that you love being here
and there is no place youd rather be. This is your home! And that you
LOVE being exactly where you are at this EXACT present moment in
time. You have no desires to be somewhere else other than where you are
right NOW !
This is a challenge for dissatisfied and "complaining-type" people, who are
always jealous of others and depressed of the things they "don't have",
( instead of being happy with what they "do have" ). These people are
trying to find anyway possible, even "spiritual" answers to improve their
materialistic life, and are living in hope and prayer that they will be able to
leave their current place. They are NOT living at this moment, they are
"somewhere else"
This is an even more real challenge for spiritually minded people, for
people who have no materialistic care for the place where they are
currently living because they know intuitively that Earth is not their
home. The big pretend "spiritual" fear they share is that if they do get
attached to being here, they will not be able to go home when their mission
is done. In other words, they will be trapped here on this planet in either a
state of Earthbound in Olam Hasohu, far from their real loved ones and
their spiritual-home world. This is a fate worse than death for spiritually
minded elevated souls.
For those for whom Earth is home, the issue of heart connection stems
from not being willing to accept Earth and all that is happening to her as
being of value or being okay. They are so in judgment of the pollution, the
inhumanity of man, the decline of moral values, etc. that they refuse to
embrace the planet with LOVE. In other words, their judgment of Earths
present state makes them unwilling to totally embrace her. An analogy
would be ones unwillingness to embrace and commit to a lover 100%
because he/she has had a terrible injury that paralyzed or horribly
disfigured part of his/her body. We let what we see deter us from opening
our hearts completely to commit and love this person.
There is also a third scenario here and that is people who may or may not
have an issue with being on Earth but prefer to spend the majority of their
time in the other realms, in a imaginary world of dreams, fantasies,
television or films, or even in the spiritual world of Angels . Their passion
is being out there, they prefer talking to angels and guides rather than
people and is preventing them living in the real world, the reason our soul
was born and made to live on this planet.
Your abundance is where your heart is
For those who have acknowledged that they have done one of the above, let
me share with you one more clincher for convincing me to get heart
connected to Earth and to become happy to live in this present moment in
time.
Sefer Shinuyim explains that the universe, the great provider of all things,
is like the "Postal Service" only more efficient. It will only deliver your
mail/abundance to your mailbox. Your mailbox is where your heart is, and
your heart is where you passion is. If your heart is in another dimension or
realm that is where the universe will deliver your abundance.
You see, your prayers are being answered and always work but your
abundance is not being delivered to your mailbox on Earth. This means
that that true soulmate, good health, children, new house, new car, (and that
million-dollar lottery check!) has been delivered to your mailbox in the
dimension where you heart is located. So if you want your abundance to be
delivered to the realm in which you currently reside, place your mailbox
and your heart there.
"Blocking Signs" from Spirit world
So when you and I resist being connected to Earth, our Soul believes that
we are resisting being here. They interpret our actions as
abandonment. When this occurs the soul will take steps to prevent us from
leaving, just like a physical child afraid of a parent leaving will block the
door or throw a "temper-tantrum" to keep the parent with him/her. We
experience this blocking in several ways:
1. Our bodies develop illnesses or pain preventing us from having the
health to energetically and physically sustain a higher level of
abundance.
2. We dont recognize financial opportunities because our Soul blocks
and blinds us to them as a way to keep us from focusing on the
things that abundance creates.
3. Our efforts to manifest come to nothing because our Soul has placed
a wall around us blocking the money from getting to us.
The Soul makes no differentiation between money, meditation, or people.
To the Soul any thing or person that takes energy from them and our focus
off the fact that we have a soul wanting to live in our body at this exact
moment in time in this particular place, in order to fulfill the mission that
our soul has come to accomplish is a threat to their survival.
Once we understand this very basic multidimensional concept we can take
steps to prevent our Soul from having to resort to these measures. Below is
general information about the Soul. The solutions to blocked abundance
are found in these principles. It is my great hope that you will find your
solution and once applied, begin to experience the financial abundance
along with the joy of abundant self-love you desire.
Five things your SOUL wants you to

know
1. "I am real and I do exist !"
For many years we have heard of the concept of a soul and some of us have
spent time working through issues in order to heal the wounds of our past
lives. Once completed we walk away feeling somewhat better yet still
unable to feel that profound sense of self love, and real spiritual wholeness,
we still feel something is missing.
Sadly we realize, there must be more healing to do, more work to be done
and so we continue our search, aching from an emptiness to fill. The
answer is simple, the need for a continuous, honest, committed daily
relationship with our soul.
The soul doesnt care if you focus on other things or people as long as the
Soul is constantly kept informed and consulted, so that ones actions and
words always have constructive purpose.
2. "Your Soul is Your Physical Body".

As we explained on the "Health & Diet" page of heavensregister, a persons
physical body is a direct reflection of ones soul. Ones soul is speaking to us
through the language of physical and emotional sensations.
Now, how does this relate to an abundance block? If you are
simultaneously being blocked financially and experiencing physical disease
or pain, look up the disease or location of the pain, take the probable cause
and read it as your SOUL speaking to you.
Example: Knee problems - means stubborn ego, inability to bend, fear and
inflexibility to move forward. Using the "Souls language", we see that the
Soul saying, I am in fear and choose to be inflexible and unbending in my
resistance to the change you want to make. And, I wont feel safe changing
directions and will continue to resist until you make it safe for me to do
so. Once a person has developed the attitude to trust and change, ones soul
feels the spiritual changes, one will then be given the courage, confidence
and healing to move forward.
3. "I am your partner so please discuss

changes with me before you make
them and make it safe!"
Since your Soul sees itself as your physical body and therefore as a partner
in this incarnation, he/she deserves to be consulted before any big changes
are undertaken.
Only when a great blockage and frustration happens this catalyzes a person
to SCREAM-OUT in prayer and to then see why attempts to move forward
were being thwarted at every turn. The answer is simple, to realize that one
should always consulted ones Soul and ask if the changes or actions are
correct or purposeful, in alignment with ones individual souls pathway.
One of the things we forget when moving along lifes path whether we are
spiritual or not is that even though we may be ready to make a change in
our life, our SOUL may not be.
If our soul is not ready, it is because we have not discussed it with him/her
and/or done anything, such as making agreements, taking precautions and
caring for the emotional or physical pain that may come as a result of the
change.
4."It s my job to protect you and keep

you happy".
The Soul believes that his/her purpose for existing is to keep you safe and
happy. That means safe from emotional/physical pain and happy at all
times. We all have a limit of emotional/physical pain that we are willing to
consciously feel. We unconsciously teach that limit to our Soul.
As a result, he/she knows that anything beyond that limit must be stuffed so
that we dont feel it. When things are going well that is easy to do but
when fear enters into the picture things take a different turn.
When you are threatened in any way either physically, emotionally or
mentally, the Soul goes into Superman mode in order to protect you. At
times this means that he/she will use fear as a tool to keep you safe. At
those times the soul flips into his/her dark side and uses the abilities
attributed to the lower or male chakras to protect. This Dark side is
synonymous with the Ego, anger and even violence.
Protection in "Soul language" can take many forms, a gut feeling of watch
out or something doesnt feel right to blinding you to an opportunity, or
at the extreme, developing a fatal physical, emotional or mental illness.
In between are addictions (depression, the great emotional mediator, drugs,
alcohol, work, food etc)tools the lower level of the Soul, uses to keep
you preoccupied so that you wont do the thing that will cause, in her/his
mind, your demise.
5.What you think about yourself, you

think about me.
Our Soul hears every thought, feeling and word we speak about ourselves.
Thats why the key to changing ones self image lies with the Soul. Talking
to ones Soul using positive self-talk backed up by agreements and follow
through actions will change self-hatred, low self-esteem and self- worth
into self-love. (As we discussed in breaking the destructive brainwashing
cycle).
If your Soul feels that an opportunity for financial abundance will in
anyway cause him/her to be blamed, he/she will block it. For example, if
your mission is to become a teacher but you are always rescuing others,
your Soul will block any efforts you make to set up a business or get a job
working for someone else.
Why? Because your Soul knows that you incorrectly get your love and
acceptance from giving too much energy to others (being the selfless
martyr to freeloaders!) in an attempt to fulfill their needs and dont leave
enough in reserve for yourself, nor do you truly give yourself (your Soul)
love and acceptance. So your Soul creates draining and abusively
destructively situations, until it comes a point of an EMERGENCY, when
you "wake-up" to what you have done and CHANGE, thereby breaking the
abusive destructive cycle and start living the creative loving and
constructive cycle.
Living in the purposeful loving and creatively constructive cycle of life will
enliven a person, to the extent that the Soul and Body live in harmony and
love to live in the present situation at this very moment in time . This
"grounds" a person and enables a unity and feeling of wholeness to succeed
in ones soul mission of life. Enabling the blocks to be dissolved and
success to flow through ones Soul to this physical world.
Conclusion
In closing, if you want to experience great abundance, get "heart connected

to Earth", love being here because when you love Earth, you love your
Soul, and love GOD who created this earth experience for our soul.
Not only will you begin to experience financial abundance, and be able to
accomplish spiritually guided goals, you will net the added bonus of the
greatest love you have ever known - the LOVE of GOD, becoming at ONE
with GOD, loving compassionately, in the same way that GOD loves and
sustains each and every living entity in the Universe with amazing
compassion .
"Fear of Success" - Facing the Fear

of Success
This fear manifests as an inability to make money consistently enough to
accumulate the amount necessary to create a firm financial foundation and
sustain it. In other words, we begin making money and get to the point
where we can finally put some aside only to get abruptly stopped by some
crisis or other situation. It can be an illness or a car accident or some
unexpected bill that changes our focus, causing us to lose our momentum.
Likewise, this "fear of success" can manifest itself in the fact that a person
never completes a task successfully, even though they are more than
capable, instead they "choose to run away" from themselves, thwarting
their own potential by creating a blockage. If this cycle occurs more than
once or even twice in our life, this is a block .
Blockages of fear of success

Everyone on earth has a purpose and destiny, we are all constantly
receiving spiritual energy that keeps our soul and body alive, we all have a
destined soulmate - love, a home and job to accomplish in this life in a real
world. If we are blocking our destiny through our own negative thoughts
and fears, or if we have given away our power by transference and
allowing others to block our success, then we must learn to understand the
intrinsic reasons why our soul has chosen to block and thwart our own
success and progress in life.
To understand the blockage we must, a) understand why our soul creates
this block. That means "reading the signs" from our daily life events, the
pattern, the way it usually manifests, the fear that fuels the pattern and the
beliefs that fostered the fear and, b) the concepts that form the foundation
to eliminate the fear and enable a person to change.
The 3 Elements of "The Block"

1. The Wrong Beliefs
The foolish and wrong "fundamental" beliefs the beliefs (some of which
have been brainwashed by irresponsible parents and teachers from a young
age) that create the fear:
It is more blessed to give than to receive

It is bad to be selfish; only sinners are selfish
When we put the needs of others before our own, we are better
people
Rich people are selfish, arrogant, cold-hearted and unfriendly , it's
better to be poor and classed as a good person, being open, friendly
and warm-hearted.
Successful people are hated and many people are jealous of them,
curse them or cast an "evil eye" over them because they have money
and success.
Rich and successful people always have marriage problems or
problems with their children, friends and family, they may have
money but have sadness and bitterness in their lives .
Those who give the most are better, are more worthy and more
acceptable than those who give less or ask to receive in return.
Its my responsibility to make sure that those who love me are happy,
safe and satisfied. If, for some reason, Im unable to ensure these 3
things, then its because I wasnt good enough, smart enough, aware
enough or even worse being selfish because I was focused on me.
These arent necessarily all of the beliefs but they are the ones most
commonly found in this block. Once a person is aware of the
"brainwashed" ideas one has developed and erases this silly ideas from
ones mind, this is the first step to remove the blockage.
(Similarly "brainwashing" of wrong and false beliefs occurs especially with
fanatics of "religion", for example, as we all now know in hindsight that it
is silly to believe that a Rebbe who died in June 1994 was the Moshiach Messiah, and yet there are 1000's of seemingly religious fanatic jews who
have a brainwashed belief that he is the Messiah !)
Truly successful people who are kind hearted and spiritually minded,
understand that they have been blessed with material wealth as a gift to use
wisely and responsibly to help other people. They always speak with
humility aware that the spiritual presence is guiding their lives, and they
take great responsibilty for all the actions, words and thoughts.
In our generation we can see examples of the correct way to behave, with
success and good fortune. The kindness and generosity of Bill Gates, Ben
Zion and Shlomo Freshwater, Paul Reichmann and many other wealthy,
successful people who always accredit their wealth to a blessing from GOD
and Spirit world. Meeting this type of successful, spiritually-minded, kindhearted and thoughtful people are good examples to learn from and will
easily dispell foolish beliefs about success and money !
Wouldn't it be an amazingly lovely world to live in, if all the wealthy and
succesful people will be kind-hearted and spiritually minded !
2. A desire to remain with the Soul

of innocence and "childhood"
A desire and wish to remain with the Soul of innocence and
"childhood". The fear of "Growing up" and maturing from a child to an
adult.
To understand this element of the blockage, is simple, the person grows up

but still choses to "hold onto" a way of living like a child, the stage of
change from child to adolescent to adulthood has not taken place, the
"grown-up" still confronts life like an immature child. To remove this
blockage in ones mind we need to understand why a person is holding onto
beliefs of a "child":-
The Soul of innocence and

"childhood"
The "Child" within all of us who is innocent, playful, creative, and
unconditionally loving. And just like a real flesh and blood child, the
"Child" lives in the moment without thought to tomorrow. At some point
this child will develop a fearful side just like a flesh and blood child as a
result of painful experiences. In its most positive aspect this fear-based side
is used to keep the child safe from harm.
The Inner Child believes that it is his/her job is to keep you safe in the body
so that you can complete your incarnation, and that this job is tantamount
to his/her existence. In other words, the spiritual soul of a childs' primary
focus is survivalin the momentat all costs.
They believe that too much physical and/or emotional pain can cause the
body to die and thus cause them to dieand they dont want to
die! Therefore, the Soul of the Child uses fear as his/her main form of
communication as well as the main tool to keep us alive. In regards to this
block, as stated earlier, the Inner Child/Ego has created it to save us, not to
hurt us.
Hence, if the life experiences are too painful for the "soul of a child", it will
choose to "run away" from the pain, or suppress the thoughts of pain by
doing something it likes. (in our generation many people sit infront of the
TV for hours every night, play games etc,m just to avoid confronting their
problems).
Limitations of childs energy

As we explained on the page of Stages of Change , the childs belief is to
take energy from other people. The child, in transforming into an adult will
change its nature from a "taker" of energy, to a "creator" and "giver" of

loving and supportive energy. Firstly we shall understand the limitation
belief of a child and hence why people are blocked from having successful
lives.
"Energy Expenditure of a child"

Energy expenditure is the amount of life force (physical and emotional
energy) that we expend each day. A child has a limit of how much energy it
can expend on a daily basis. That limit is based on physical and emotional
health and varies from day to day. Once that limit is reached the child
experiences fatigue, either physical, mental, emotional or all three.
Fatigue is part of the Childs' language. Through fatigue he/she is telling us
he/she needs to rest and reenergize. The "Child" physically reenergizes
through sleep and emotionally reenergizes through play. Fun laughter and
games are energizing. Imagine that! But, if we push past that limit we
deplete our energy reserves and the "child" has to take much needed energy
from areas such as joints, bones, muscles, etc to keep the body going. If we
do this too often our body begins to break down causing us physical and
emotional pain. We cant consistently deplete the body of critical levels of
energy without experiencing the consequences.
If the "inner soul of child" determines that we dont listen and have a habit
of consistently depleting our reserves, he/she will begin blocking us from
doing those things that cause the overdraft.
If we habitually go beyond our limits our soul, will begin blocking the
outflow of life force in whatever manner works and gets our attention,
usually a "lack of money and success" block always works to get our
attention.
These blockages often come in the form of major problems. They are
signposts for us to STOP and think carefully, "why do we feel so drained?",
and enable us to stop following the wrong pathway in life.
Our soul does this in order to keep us alive, it's not a punishment, rather its
"a blessing" that our soul is sensitive to guide our pathway.
First step to Change - "Setting Limits"
As we are transforming ourselves, whilst in a stage of "blockage" we must

learn the necessity to be careful at the way we expend our energy. The
blockage has been placed by our soul, so that we become aware at the
places were we have wasted energy.
Setting limits means taking a hard, honest look at what we want to expend
energy on each day based on the amount we have to expend. And carefully
analysing each source of expenditure of our energy, if it is alignement of a
purposeful creative life.
The Mishne in Pirkei Avos always suggests that for every day of ones life,
a person imagines that they have just ONE DAY to live. If one had just one
day to live "what would you do in the last day of your life?"
Once a person becomes aware of ALL of ones actions, words and thoughts,
as a responsible and constantly "thinking" adult, then automatically ones
soul releases the blockage.
The second step - "Creating Energy"

As we explained on the page of STAGES of CHANGE, a person changes
from being a "taker" of energy like a child, into a "creator" and "giver" of
loving and supportive energy. Realising that this amazing planet has been
created, continues to reproduce and is sustained only by loving energy,
transforms the person from a child to adult.
Then the "fears of success" and fears that one has to fight, bully, steal or
intimidate in order to succeed dissapate. The fears magically vanish, being
replaced with a desire to LOVE.
The concept of "fighting to survive" causes fears, hatred, jealousy and
hence death, as we can understand from the animal world who live in the
deepest and dangerous jungles.
Once we have learnt the spiritual law that life energy on earth is through
LOVE and not hate, then automatically we have a desire to become part of
the cycle of creative life-giving, loving energy, thus we have learnt the
recipe for creating energy. And all blockages are taken away.
After changing ones perception of life, releasing the fears and replacing
them by loving thoughts, one has arrived at a time when one feels
enlightened with an amazing vitality.
All true soulmate "lovers" and spiritually loving people understand this and
gain their vitality from the creative life energy of LOVE. It is the sense and
desire to love and be loved that gives everyone on earth a reason to live, to
be part of creation and sustaining of life.
3. Emergency - "the mid-life crisis"

The soul corrects a person from being on the "wrong pathway" by creating
blockages.
The pattern and cycle of failure acts as an EMERGENCY signpost to guide
one to ones TRUE and correct destiny.
This is especially true during the "mid-life" crisis, whereby the soul
recognises that one is in the WRONG place. So emergency measures are
taken by ones soul which create blockages and "upheavel" in ones life in
order to facilitate changes in the course of ones life pathway.
As we explained on the page of STAGES of CHANGE, the mid-life crisis
opportunity comes as a blessing to correct ones life pathway. If one has
married the wrong person, leading the wrong type of life, the upheavel in
the years of "mid-life" enables a person to reorientate and realign ones life
with ones true soulful purpose in life.
At this time, ones SOUL may block success in ones life, in order to act as a
signpost, and catalyst to get one to THINK carefully about ones chosen life
pathway. Once a person has 100% successfully detached oneself from the
wrong and draining situations of ones life, and is on the correct pathway,
then automatically ones soul will take the blockage away.
Conclusion
In conclusion of this chapter, Sefer Shinuyim teaches that blockages caused
by "fears", they are gifts from ones soul. As indications that a person needs
to change. Blockages act as signposts to save ones life.
Once a person changes, by negating and debrainwashing ones negative
thoughts of hate, jealousy and destructive fearful thoughts into thoughts of
LOVE, kindness, compassion with a spiritual constructive creative purpose
then any blockages in ones life will vanish.
"No Money?" - Understanding the

concept of "Lack of Money"
On this page we shall discuss the negative aspect of blockages connected
with "lack of money", especially "fears" regarding money.
Whereas the chapter on "Money" teaches the positive aspects and spiritual
laws of making "Money", and as a spiritual tool to provide ones life with
the lessons and opportunites to learn and evolve, and most importantly act
as a "key" to open doors of life, supporting loved ones and providing
financial support for those less able.
The Chapter "Talmud Kidushin 82 - Job, Career & Occupation" explains
how to find the most suitable job, career and profession that will make ones
soul feel fulfilled. Each person has characteristics that are unique, many
people find themselves in a job that brings inner frustration as this conflicts
with ones soul. The chapter "Talmud Kidushin 82" gives guidance to help
one find the best job to make a person feel fulfilled both physically on a
creative level and spiritually with an inner peace and harmony.
There are only 2 fundamental reasons why a person has "no money" :-
1. Fear of Money
1. A "Fear of Money", any negative emotions whatsoever, whether or not
associated with money act to block the flow of money.
Everyone on earth has a purpose and destiny, we are all constantly
receiving spiritual energy which transforms into physical energy, "Yeneeka
Milmaala" as discussed by Reb Chaim Vital, that keeps our
soul and body alive. We all have a destined soulmate - love, a home and job
to accomplish in this life in a real world.
If we are blocking our destiny through our own negative thoughts and
fears, or if we have given away our power by transference and allowing
others to block our success, then we must learn to understand the intrinsic
reasons why our soul has chosen to block and thwart our own success and
progress in life.
As we grow up from childhood into adulthood, we change our attitude
towards money numerous times. A child has no care for money, until it
realises that money buys the toys and "nice" things it desires, the
restrictions and control of money are imposed on the child by ones parents
as safeguards to ensure the child grows up to value and respect money.
In most cases, children are denied things they want, and in all cases adults
reflect back on their childish desires and recognise that most of their
desires and wants were silly ! Similarly a persons soul looks at the selfish
"adults" desires and denies this wishes as unnecessary for the soul.
Parents and society in general, automatically give "money" a status of
respect in itself. Materialism and the pursuit of amassing money, is a focus
of humanity, that continues in a state of fear of money with most people
until death. Sadly for those people, the "shrouds of the dead" have NO
POCKETS ! No one can ever take the money with them ! This is a reason
why so many "old people" become so depressed in the years before they
die, as they realise that they have wasted their lives in the pursuit of
materialism.
"One who pursues money for the sake of money and material wealth
eventually loses all their money"
Fear of Money - Repels Money

As money has become a feared commodity, it therefore becomes a scarce
commodity in a persons mind and thoughts. Therefore, in exactly the same
way a person has "fears of success", causing blockages in ones life,
similarly a persons negative fears with respect to money has the same affect
of blocking financial success.
Worrying about money...

blocks the flow of money
Thankfully, it is ONLY when a person really, intrinsically, deep-down
truthfully STOPS worrying about money, that money stops becoming a
problem. It is the single most important blockage that a persons soul uses to
guide a person through life.
Money is only "an instrument"
Once a person stops "worshipping" and respecting money as a "be-all and

end-all" entity of materialism, and changes to understand that money is just
a tool, a key, an instrument to enable one to experience a constructively
loving life of purpose, then the blockage is taken away.
As everyone knows when adults marry and through a positive creative
loving decision, "make love" with a desire to have a child and create life, a
special parental loving desire to provide a home for the child, is instilled
with a "good fortune" to have success materialistically.
Money is simply the instrument, which is controlled by the strength of
emotions of love of the child, the more sincere love in a family the more
"good fortune" to provide for them. (Which is contrary to those
irresponsible and selfish people who conceive children as sexual
"mistakes" or "accidents", have instilled a sense of unwanted energy and
will have a loveless family life of resentment, until they learn to love
selflessly).
This also applies in our modern day scenario where "single parents" can
also have a desire to provide for their children. However, most "single
parent" families suffer severe financial blockages caused by the hatred and
animosity of a divorce or lack of love in the home. Once the negative
emotions of hatred, fear and bitterness are dispelled and a positive loving
energy instilled, the blockage vanishes!
Stop thinking of fearfully about money, think loving thoughts and a desire
to be kind, loving and spiritual with the intrument of "money", instead of
selfishly hoarding money, then money will stop being a problem and the
flow of lifes energy will always provide the money "when you need it and
NOT when you want it" !
2. Is Your SOUL Blocking Your

Abundance?
The "Money Blockage" :Are you suffering from terminal financial lack? Do you feel frustrated that
after months or even years of applying positive affirmation, visualization
and other "new age" spiritual techniques, you still live paycheck-to-
paycheck, unable to support yourself and your life? Unable to create

something useful and purposeful in life ? Always feeling life is such a
struggle and "just about sunk" ?
We are not "living in the present" or "heart-connected" to Earth
Lets begin with an explanation of being "living in the present" and "heartconnected" to Earth. What does that mean? Simply, it means being happy,
being grateful that you are here on Earth. It means that you love being here
and there is no place youd rather be. This is your home! And that you
LOVE being exactly where you are at this EXACT present moment in
time. You have no desires to be somewhere else other than where you are
right NOW !
This is a challenge for dissatissfied and "complaining-type" people, who
are always jealous of others and depressed of the things they "dont have",
( instead of being happy with what they "do have" ). These people are
trying to find anyway possible, even "spiritual" answers to improve their
materialistic life, and are living in hope and prayer that they will be able to
leave their current place. They are NOT living at this moment, they are
"somewhere else"
This is an even more real challenge for spiritually minded people, for
people who have no materialistic care for the place where they are
currently living because they know intuitively that Earth is not their
home. The big pretend "spiritual" fear they share is that if they do get
attached to being here, they will not be able to go home when their mission
is done. In other words, they will be trapped here on this planet in either a
state of Earthbound in Olam Hasohu, far from their real loved ones and
their spiritual-home world. This is a fate worse than death for spiritually
minded elevated souls.
For those for whom Earth is home, the issue of heart connection stems
from not being willing to accept Earth and all that is happening to her as
being of value or being okay. They are so in judgment of the pollution, the
inhumanity of man, the decline of moral values, etc. that they refuse to
embrace the planet with LOVE. In other words, their judgment of Earths
present state makes them unwilling to totally embrace her. An analogy
would be ones unwillingness to embrace and commit to a lover 100%
because he/she has had a terrible injury that paralyzed or horribly
disfigured part of his/her body. We let what we see deter us from opening
our hearts completely to commit and love this person.
There is also a third scenario here and that is people who may or may not
have an issue with being on Earth but prefer to spend the majority of their
time in the other realms, in a imaginary world of dreams, fantasies,
television or films, or even in the spiritual world of Angels . Their passion
is being out there, they prefer talking to angels and guides rather than
people and is preventing them living in the real world, the reason our soul
was born and made to live on this planet.
Your abundance is where your heart is

For those who have acknowledged that they have done one of the above, let
me share with you one more clincher for convincing me to get heart
connected to Earth and to become happy to live in this present moment in
time.
Sefer Shinuyim explains that the universe, the great provider of all things,
is like the "Postal Service" only more efficient. It will only deliver your
mail/abundance to your mailbox. Your mailbox is where your heart is, and
your heart is where you passion is. If your heart is in another dimension or
realm that is where the universe will deliver your abundance.
You see, your prayers are being answered and always work but your
abundance is not being delivered to your mailbox on Earth. This means
that that true soulmate, good health, children, new house, new car, (and that
million-dollar lottery check!) has been delivered to your mailbox in the
dimension where you heart is located. So if you want your abundance to be
delivered to the realm in which you currently reside, place your mailbox
and your heart there.
"Blocking Signs" from Spirit world

So when you and I resist being connected to Earth, our Soul believes that
we are resisting being here. They interpret our actions as
abandonment. When this occurs the soul will take steps to prevent us from
leaving, just like a physical child afraid of a parent leaving will block the
door or throw a "temper-tantrum" to keep the parent with him/her. We
experience this blocking in several ways:
1. Our bodies develop illnesses or pain preventing us from having the

health to energetically and physically sustain a higher level of
abundance.
2. We dont recognize financial opportunities because our Soul blocks
and blinds us to them as a way to keep us from focusing on the
things that abundance creates.
3. Our efforts to manifest come to nothing because our Soul has placed
a wall around us blocking the money from getting to us.
The Soul makes no differentiation between money, meditation, or people.
To the Soul any thing or person that takes energy from them and our focus
off the fact that we have a soul wanting to live in our body at this exact
moment in time in this particular place, in order to fulfill the mission that
our soul has come to accomplish is a threat to their survival.
Once we understand this very basic multidimensional concept we can take
steps to prevent our Soul from having to resort to these measures. Below is
general information about the Soul. The solutions to blocked abundance
are found in these principles. It is my great hope that you will find your
solution and once applied, begin to experience the financial abundance
along with the joy of abundant self-love you desire.
Five things your SOUL wants you to

know
1. "I am real and I do exist !"
For many years we have heard of the concept of a soul and some of us have
spent time working through issues in order to heal the wounds of our
pastlives. Once completed we walk away feeling somewhat better yet still
unable to feel that profound sense of self love, and real spiritual wholeness,
we still feel something is missing.
Sadly we realize, there must be more healing to do, more work to be done
and so we continue our search, aching from an emptiness to fill. The
answer is simple, the need for a continuous, honest, committed daily
relationship with our soul.
The soul doesnt care if you focus on other things or people as long as the
Soul is constantly kept informed and consulted, so that ones actions and
words always have constructive purpose.
2. "Your Soul is Your Physical Body".

As we explained on the "Health & Diet" page of heavensregister, a persons
physical body is a direct reflection of ones soul. Ones soul is speaking to us
through the language of physical and emotional sensations.
Now, how does this relate to an abundance block? If you are
simultaneously being blocked financially and experiencing physical disease
or pain, look up the disease or location of the pain, take the probable cause
and read it as your SOUL speaking to you.
Example: Knee problems - means stubborn ego, inability to bend, fear and
inflexibility to move forward. Using the "Souls language", we see that the
Soul saying, I am in fear and choose to be inflexible and unbending in my
resistance to the change you want to make. And, I wont feel safe changing
directions and will continue to resist until you make it safe for me to do
so. Once a person has developed the attitude to trust and change, ones soul
feels the spiritual changes, one will then be given the courage, confidence
and healing to move forward.
3. "I am your partner so please discuss

changes with me before you make
them and make it safe!"
Since your Soul sees itself as your physical body and therefore as a partner
in this incarnation, he/she deserves to be consulted before any big changes
are undertaken.
Only when a great blockage and frustration happens this catalysizes a
person to SCREAM-OUT in prayer and to then see why attempts to move
forward were being thwarted at every turn. The answer is simple, to realize
that one should always consulted ones Soul and ask if the changes or
actions are correct or purposeful, in alignment with ones individual souls
pathway.
One of the things we forget when moving along lifes path whether we are
spiritual or not is that even though we may be ready to make a change in
our life, our SOUL may not be.
If our soul is not ready, it is because we have not discussed it with him/her
and/or done anything, such as making agreements, taking precautions and
caring for the emotional or physical pain that may come as a result of the
change.
4."It s my job to protect you and keep

you happy".
The Soul believes that his/her purpose for existing is to keep you safe and
happy. That means safe from emotional/physical pain and happy at all
times. We all have a limit of emotional/physical pain that we are willing to
consciously feel. We unconsciously teach that limit to our Soul.
As a result, he/she knows that anything beyond that limit must be stuffed so
that we dont feel it. When things are going well that is easy to do but
when fear enters into the picture things take a different turn.
When you are threatened in any way either physically, emotionally or
mentally, the Soul goes into Superman mode in order to protect you. At
times this means that he/she will use fear as a tool to keep you safe. At
those times the soul flips into his/her dark side and uses the abilities
attributed to the lower or male chakras to protect. This Dark side is
synonymous with the Ego, anger and even violence.
Protection in "Soul language" can take many forms, a gut feeling of watch
out or something doesnt feel right to blinding you to an opportunity, or
at the extreme, developing a fatal physical, emotional or mental illness.
In between are addictions (depression, the great emotional medicator,
drugs, alcohol, work, food etc)tools the lower level of the Soul, uses to
keep you preoccupied so that you wont do the thing that will cause, in
her/his mind, your demise.
5.What you think about yourself, you

think about me.
Our Soul hears every thought, feeling and word we speak about ourselves.
Thats why the key to changing ones self image lies with the Soul. Talking
to ones Soul using positive self-talk backed up by agreements and follow
through actions will change self-hatred, low self-esteem and self- worth
into self-love. (As we discussed in breaking the destructive brainwashing
cycle).
If your Soul feels that an opportunity for financial abundance will in
anyway cause him/her to be blamed, he/she will block it. For example, if
your mission is to become a teacher but you are always rescueing others,
your Soul will block any efforts you make to set up a business or get a job
working for someone else.
Why? Because your Soul knows that you incorrectly get your love and
acceptance from giving too much energy to others (being the selfless
martyr to freeloaders!) in an attempt to fulfill their needs and dont leave
enough in reserve for yourself, nor do you truly give yourself (your Soul)
love and acceptance. So your Soul creates draining and abusively
destructively situations, until it comes a point of an EMERGENCY, when
you "wake-up" to what you have done and CHANGE, thereby breaking the
abusive destructive cycle and start living the creative loving and
constructive cycle.
Living in the purposeful loving and creatively constructive cycle of life will
enliven a person, to the extent that the Soul and Body live in harmony and
love to live in the present situation at this very moment in time . This
"grounds" a person and enables a unity and feeling of wholeness to succeed
in ones soul mission of life. Enabling the blocks to be dissolved and
success to flow through ones Soul to this physical world.
Conclusion
In closing, if you want to experience great abundance, get "heart connected
to Earth", love being here because when you love Earth, you love your
Soul, and love GOD who created this earth experience for our soul.
Learn the positive spiritual laws of "Money" , and find the correct career,
job and occupation that is appropriately suitable for you and will make one
feel wholesome, fulfilled and purposeful. There is nothing greater than
working at a job that is creative and that one loves, and earning money to
support people one loves.
Not only will you begin to experience financial abundance, and be able to
accomplish spiritually guided goals, you will net the added bonus of the
greatest love you have ever known - the LOVE of GOD, and LOVING
people compassionately, becoming at ONE with GOD, in the same way
that GOD loves and sustains each and every living entity in the Universe
with amazing compassion.
"Wrong Desires Creates Blockages"
"Its NOT yours!" ,

The chapter in Sefer Shinuyim called ", " - "don't desire that which
belongs to someone else", explains the spiritual importance of the 10th
Commandment from the "Ten Commandments" that were inscribed on
stone and given to Moses (Moshe Rabeinu) at Mount Sinai.
, ,, , ,-
"Thou shalt not desire thy neighbours house, thou shalt not desire thy
neighbours wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor
his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbours." ( Shmos Exodus chapter 20
verse 13)
The meaning of "Desire" - ,
The 10th Commandment, teaches a person not to DESIRE something that

belongs to someone else. The spiritual law teaches that the wrong
emotional thoughts of DESIRE create energies within ones soul, that can
have effects that mislead, divert and block a person from their true
"DESTINY".
The essence of "DESIRE" is a powerful emotional and thought energy in
wanting to live someone elses life, in other words a person is trying to steal
by "transference" someone elses life and destiny. The "DESIRE" thoughts,
not only block a persons soul but also cause unhealthy disruption in the
other persons life one is trying to steal, especially if they are not closed or
protected spiritually.
Strong emotional "Desires"
indicates a Strong Soul
Everything we do in this life is motivated by our emotions and desires.

Before we do anything, the foundation of the decision of whether or not we
do it, is based on our emotions and desires.
The power and strength of "desire" feelings and emotions, directly reflects
the power, strength of ones soul and most importantly the ability to
succeed. The reason most people fail in life is that they take a noncommittal attitude of "half-heartedness", their "heart" is not committed
emotionally to their actions.
Only the very emotionally committed person will have success. A
committment to anything comes from focusing ones thoughts, and
motivating oneself by activating ones emotions to "feel" alive with a desire
for success.
All emotions carry energy, whether they be destructive emotions such as
hatred, jealousy, selfish greed, fears of poverty, humiliation,
embarrassment, fight for survival OR whether they be constructive
emotions such as compassion, desires to be kind, desires to fulfill ones
purposeful soulful aims and ambitions in selfless service to GOD and
humanity, creative, or the most powerful and life-giving creative emotion
on this planet - LOVE.
The most powerful aspect of a persons

mind and spirit soul is the strength of
"DESIRE"
The strength of ones emotions and desires will provide one with the power
to connect and achieve ones desires. The first step in acquiring anything is
a desire, this thought of desire is then translated into speech and action to
acquire the object of ones "desires".
Bad people use their emotions - "desires" of greed to steal or steal energy
by "transference" from sensitive people who are "open" and whom allow
these bullies and intimidators to steal their souls energy. (Our page on
Closure, Protection and Sensitive souls will teach how to live in the real
world and not allow anyone to steal energy from ones soul).
The person with the stronger "desires" will always succeed, even if those
"desires" are not good and destructive! In such a case if in the short term it
seems that the hateful and destructive energy is winning, this is because
they survive by stealing life-energy from the good people.
Eventually when all the good people have closure and identify the source
of negative and draining energy as "bad", then they will fail and the good,
loving, kind and compassionate will always win. This is simply spiritual
law and the reason is that the creative God-given energy of life and vitality
on earth is LOVE, and LOVE is life, hate is death.

- Souls life Energy
The "desire" of LOVE has the strongest strength on earth. This desire is the
key, the motivational and emotional energy that provides ones soul with
vitality.
Our spiritual souls life energy is known as - Yeneeka
Milmaala, this is a souls spiritual nourishment of vitality which energises
the physical body, with this energy one has life, without it - death. Hence, if
one is depressed, on the wrong pathway, or has blockages, then the
- Yeneeka Milmaala, is blocked.
Blockages caused by wrong

"DESIRES"
,
On the "Destiny" page we explained that every person has a destined
business, home and loving soulmate. If one does not have any of these
aspects then this is considered a major blockage and needs to be
understood. ( as we explained on the previous pages Blocking Success,
Fear of Success and No Money).
The other main reason for a major blockage in ones lifes "destiny" is the
fact that one has either lost ones soul energy by "transference" (in which
case - it is returned quickly as explained on the page Loss by
"transference"). OR ones souls energy is blocked due to "WRONG
DESIRES" and therefore is LOST or DIVERTED due the fact one is
"giving away" or wasting energy on someone or something that is NOT
ones destiny.
Where are your thoughts?
Your soul is connected to the place and people where your thoughts are,
which is connected, motivated and energised by your deepest emotions,
especially to whom you love and where your desires are aroused.
Whether love or hate, positive or negative emotions, this energy and
connection of ones thoughts, makes a connection of attachment. If that
attachement is your destiny - then this creates a life vitality and energising
spiritual energy of even more - Yeneeka Milmaala, as ones
soul on a higher level recognises this as ones destiny. If however, this is
"NOT YOUR DESTINY", it will give a person a thrill of excitement like a
petulant child doing something mischeviously naughty BUT one will feel
drained and eventually blocked.
Reading the Signposts
Life always offers signposts and indications, if this is ones destiny - a

blessing of success accompanies the connection, if one is stealing or taking
from someone else then a loss, damage, accidents or pain will be incurred.
These blockages are not punishments nor are they caused by anyone but
YOUR own soul. Your soul blocks your lifes energy WHEN and ONLY
WHEN you are on the wrong pathway.
Everyone has their own solution to their own problems, think honestly and
carefully, and ask GOD and spirit world and your guardian angels for
guidance , and one will be led to the correct pathway for you.
"Correctional" school of life
In the same way, thieves go to prison or "correctional" facilities to learn the

lesson that they should NOT take anything that belongs to someone else,
life and ones experiences are here to teach this lesson too !
If one has had a mid-life crisis and recognises truthfully that one has made
so many mistakes by living a false lifestyle, this may even be a spouse and
career that is simply not the true destiny of ones soul. Then "lifes"
experiences will create the necessary, (even if tremendously painful),
experiences of losing everything that is wrong in ones life, in order to put a
person on the correct pathway.
Getting a new life
Once a person is truthful in recognising the signs that their soul had no
vitality as it had been blocked due to the fact that they had the "wrong" life
and the "wrong destiny". Once a person releases and lets go of the "wrong",
ones prayers are answered and one can then receive the energy and vitality
for the correct pathway.
The new life will come when and ONLY when deep down in ones soul, one
has truthfully changed and let go of the past mistakes and stops the wrong
urges of "desire".
Your soul wanted you
to make mistakes to learn
In the Book of Reincarnation - Sefer Gilgulim by Reb Chaim Vital teaches

that our soul intentially puts us in difficult and "wrong" situations to teach
us this lesson of the 10th Commandment - "NOT to desire that which
belongs to someone else".
Once we have accepted this truth and learnt the lesson, our soul will feel
enlightened, releasing any draining blockages and giving us our TRUE
destiny, with our true soulmate, destined home and destined purpose in life
with a glow of physical and spiritual vitality.
Having "Desires" for something that is not your destiny - "wastes away" your souls
energy.
"Stop wasting energy in desiring something thats not yours!" This is such a
silly waste of ones souls energy. Our soul energy is given to us to help us
fulfill with excitement and vitality our individual purpose in life, if we are
diverting and giving that energy away, we are damaging our own soul.
This is especially true in a marriage with ones true soulmate:- "how can a
person have wasteful fantasies thining of other men or women?" These
thoughts, especially if they are aroused sexual energy are draining a
persons soul, and will act as destructive and "blocking energy" even if one
is with ones true soulmate.
Marriage problems - a "blockage"
The Sefer Tikunim - the book of corrections, explains the reason that even
the perfect soulmate relationships have marriage problems (even to the
extent of divorce) is that the couple do not consider the fact that they are
each a half of a whole unit.
A man and woman together form a unit, each is a half of one whole. If
either of the couple think emotionally and (God forbid sexually) about
another person then this acts to break even a destined soulmate, as the other
persons soul senses this and acts to BLOCK, as explained in ,
above .
The other half in the soulmate acts to preserve the collective unit of the
souls energy and blocks the energy - Yeneeka Milmaala, whilst
the other half is diverting emotional and sexual energy elsewhere. (If one
partner has indeed been unfaithful physically sexually and nt just "thought
energy", then the complete closure and divorce is necessary).
In the case where a soulmate couple have neglected each other in wasting
"thought energy" of desires, then Sefer Tikunim - the book of corrections,
explains the solution is simple, the one who has diverted his/her sexual
thought energy elsewhere to someone else, needs to recognise this is wrong
and STOP immediately. They both need to understand that they are a single
UNIT, if one half is in pain the other feels the pain.
Then the "other half" needs to learn the lesson of forgiveness and open up
the blockage they blocked whilst the other was unfaithful in their thoughts,
which has caused a "coldness" in their marriage. Sefer Gilgulim explains
that the "injured" husband/ wife may have caused the original problem by
being selfish or unloving in the relationship. Hence both reincarnated to
learn the lesson.
Single person looking for their soulmate - unblock the blockage of "desire" ,
From the chapter ", " in Sefer Shinuyim, we add a special point for
our generation. With respect to arousing desires for popstars, actors,
actresses etc, this emotional connection of "desire" for someone whom is
NOT a persons destiny, will only detract from ones soul energy and act to
BLOCK one from ever meeting ones true soulmate.
Simply STOP desiring and wasting ones thoughts of fantasy on someone
whom is not ones destiny, then focus ones energy and prayers spiritually on
unblocking ones life vitality - Yeneeka Milmaala, to welcome
in good fortune that is ones destiny.
This is one of the reasons why so many spiritually sensitive people,
spiritual teachers and Rebbes do not have Television, as the images one
sees entices a person to DESIRE and WANT with emotions, something or
someone that is not their destiny, creating a blockage to life and destiny.
"Sefer Shinuyim - the book of Changes" always suggests to anyone trying
to change, to try for 30 days to do without anything that one feels one is
addicted to, which is abusive and arouses emotions of desire. (And that
includes in our generation, watching TV, alcohol addictions, smoking
cigarettes and even excessive unhealthy eating especially of chocolate icecream!).
Conclusion for "Its Not Yours"
,
This teaches us the power that ones emotional thoughts can cause such
damage, hence the importance of the 10th Commandment - NEVER
DESIRE anything that is NOT YOURS.
The most significant influences in our lives that make an impression on our
souls, are the influences that arouse the emotions. Focus and control ones
mind and thoughts energy in allowing oneself, to ONLY be emotional
aroused for everything purposeful and spiritually fulfilling that is in
alignment for ones souls pathway and destiny.
Depression
Understanding " Depression"
Is a Spiritual Blockage of Pure "Life Energy"
Depression is essentially when a person feels lonely, isolated, and

disconnected, this leads a person to a feeling of being unloved, unwanted
and without any purpose in life.
Depression in a spiritual perspective is a blockage of "yeneeka"
, lifes energy and vitality which cannot arrive from "spirit" world to
ones soul into ones physical body. Like hiding a plant in a cupboard with
no sunlight, the plant will lose its vitality and eventually die.
Depression makes a person feel like they are dead, unloved, disconnected,
lonely and without purpose of life. Hence the importance to always be
careful with ones mind and thoughts to prevent this vital connection which
prevents a person feeling alive and loved.
On this page, we shall explain this chapter of " Depression":1. Understanding why a person feels "depressed".
2. Understanding why the "depression" has caused blockages of "lifes
energy", vitality and a feeling of love and being loved, and how to rectify
these blockages.
3. Explanation of the important connection of "Depression" to "Laziness
and Lethargy". Understanding the signs and rectifying the problem,
ensuring life vitality with a sense of purpose and "aliveness" is always felt
with a inner radiant glow within ones soul.
1. Why does a person feels "depressed" ?
A person needs to ascertain the reasons for a "depression", why is it that a

person is using their mind and thoughts to think dark, negative, fear and
hatred thoughts, and thereby blocking and disconnecting their souls
spiritual essence of life energy from the eternal and DIVINE source of
everything in the universe.
Normally, "depression" is a very temporary state of mind for most people
as they have connected with some "blocking" or "draining" person or
situation. If the situation prevails and is not handled then the blockage
becomes more permanent challenge for the soul, and a cycle of pain and
"depression" remains until the person works on their soul spiritually and
lovingly to dissolve the blockage.
As we explained in the chapter of Blocking Success and Fear of Success,
the purpose of "blockages" in our lives is to wake-up our souls to
CHANGE from the wrong pathway to the correct pathway. Once we have
"woken up" spiritually, and we are working on changing our mind,
thoughts and our soul, then automatically the blockages are eliminated
from our lives. This is the Spiritual law of unblocking "blockages".
When a person feels "depressed" a person needs to ask the following
questions internally, which in most cases will restore the person to a happy
life of energy and vitality. Most spiritual people, automatically ask these
questions and have "clearance" from the negative emotion of depression,
every day when they wake up in the morning and at anytime they feel their
mood changing.
By departmentalising and identifying the aspects of depression, it is then
easy to take away the "bad feelings" and unblock any negative emotions.
(a) Someone elses "baggage"
of "negative" emotions ?
Is it someone elses emotions that one is sensing and by "transference" one

is interacting with their feelings? If so, then learn how to stop this loss by
"transference" and have "Closure" from such draining and depressing
feelings, which belong to someone else and are not your problem!
This is the easiest to identify, as this comes suddenly, usually as soon as
one meets, talks or hears from the person, (even an email from them!).
Instantaneously one has a change in ones mood . Especially if they are
really destructively critical, complaining, angry, jealous or hateful type of
person. As soon as one connects with them one feels UGH !
If this is the reason for feeling depressed and having had a mood change,
because of someone elses problems, then it is time to stop this loss by
"transference" and have "Closure", then automatically one will feel at
peace and with loving thoughts of vitality and connected with spiritual
energy of GOD
(b) Temporary Phase
Is the reason for depressed feelings a temporary phase, caused by external

situations, like miserable and "depressing" weather, like traffic delays due
to road works, (or even a red traffic light!), even a blockage based on
astrology (as we all know that the best "Mazel" - "good luck energy" to
start something new is the New Moon, so trying to make changes and
"New Beginnings" as the moon is "waning" will generate its own
temporary blockage) and for any temporary blockages that are and will be
fixed in a short time?
If these are the reasons that are making a person "feel depressed" due to
these temporary blockages, then in a matter of time they will be unblocked
automatically, therfore taking this attitude will calm a person and stop the
feeling agitated or depressed as "time will solve the problem"!
When a person knows that and takes into perspective that things are not to
work out "today" but they will definately work out "tomorrow", then a
"peace of mind" and serene feeling of knowing everything will be alright
makes a person feel calm. The spiritual assurance and knowledge that
everything that happens, happens for a good reason makes a person accept
any temporary blockage.
Constipation - a sign that one is holding onto negative emotions and causing a
temporary blockage
Another major reason and a sign for a temporary phase of depression is

often caused by a person eating something that has not agreed with ones
digestive system. Constipation is a physical sign of a blockage, a person
whom is holding onto poisonous faeces in ones body is similarly holding
onto negative emotions.
As we suggest from the Rambam on our page of "Health and Diet"- a
person should regularly flush ones system out completely ONLY using
natures best natural laxative PRUNE JUICE. Certainly if one is ever
constipated one must release the blockage with Prune Juice, after one has
be relieved ones mood of temporary depression will dissappear.
Similarly with every minor health problem, a persons soul is trying to give
the message of "stop and think" by causing a physical blockage preventing
a person from carrying on with the life pathway they are on. Flu, headaches
and "colds" are not to be ignored as important signs that one should take
notice of and try to understand the message from these minor illnesses.
Time will heal these blockages but these "rest" times are given to a person
to reflect honestly upon their life pathway.
(c) Something you wanted and planned, and exerted a lot of energy has failed.
This is a blockage of the greatest magnitude ! This has happened for a

reason so do not despair ! Even though such an experience is a big test of
faith and a test of strength of ones character and soul, that very often
creates such a block that can take a few years to analyse and "unblock",
Nontheless this has happend for a reason and one has the potential to
unblock this blockage after careful and honest analysis.
This type of "experience" could be anything from a failed marriage which
has ended in divorce, a failed business venture or an accident that has
affected ones physical and even mental health leading to a "depressive state
of mind".
This "experience" of life is a test for a persons soul, it is incumbent for a
person to reflect honestly to themselves, why this experience has happend.
It maybe that the person has indeed married the wrong person and in a final
recognition of this truth has had the trauma and "relief" of a divorce. Often
people who divorce in our generation make the mistake of jumping into the
next relationship or cutting themselves off completely and never wishing to
marry again.
Most divorced people become very "bitter", harbouring negative thoughts
of hatred, depression and sadness, which then leads to a semi-permanent
state of depression and a blockage of life and loving energy. They treat life
and people with contempt hate and disdain, and continue the "depressed"
attitude by abusing themselves and other people. Very often they abuse
those good people who are trying to help them, and in so doing alienate
themselves even further, from all the good people who have a spiritual life
and loving energy.
If the "failure" has happend, it must always be considered a blessing from
GOD, one must always take the good attitude that ones life has been
blessed and guided to the extent that as soon as one has made a "wrong"
life pathway decision, ones "guardian angels" by DIVINE intervention
have created blocks to withold success.
With the acceptance that the reason for the blockage in ones life is because
one is on the wrong pathway and has tried and maybe even suceeded in
taking something that is "Not Yours", the spiritual accoutability of ones
soul needs to rectify the balance and ones soul needs to let go of and return
whatever one has taken from someone else.
As soon as a person take this good attitude and says to oneself "Thank
GOD i have been saved from making a wrong decision of trying to take
something that is not my destiny !" Then automatically ones soul has
acknowledged the truth and in now searching to put one back on the correct
destined pathway. The blockages are removed and depression dissappears.
2. Understanding why the "depression"

has caused blockages of "lifes energy",
vitality and a feeling of love and being
loved, and how to rectify these
blockages.
In fact and in reality this statement should be the opposite way, blockages
of "lifes energy" vitality and feelings of love and being loved cause
"Depression". But as explained in paragraph (c) above, the person who has
a block of lifes happiness and loving energy becomes depressed. They then
continue to make themselves even more depressed by acting, talking and
thinking hateful destructive and evil thoughts. Like being in a dark tunnel
with no end and no purpose !
By continuing to propagate and feed ones depressed mind and thoughts

with even more negative hateful and destructive thoughts, ones mind
becomes so full of "trash" that now one needs extra help to suppress
negative emotions such as using medications, alcohol, cigarettes and even
drugs, or one simply chooses to avoid confronting the root cause of
depression by either blaming others, or doing really time wasting activities
such as watching TV, listening to music, playing games, even surfing the
internet "ALL DAY EVERYDAY" .
I add the words "ALL DAY EVERYDAY" specifically, as depressed people
get addicted to doing things that take their mind away and avoiding the
reality of confronting and dealing honestly with their specific problems,
thinking about something-else, somewhere-else, in some far off fantasy
land of TV and movies, and ofcourse they actually make perfect destructive
critics, as they only find faults in other people for they are so flawed
themselves (as explained on the page on Closure). Remember a truly loving
and spiritual person only sees the goodness in everything in life.
The solution is simple - Stop the cycle!
Think positive and creative loving thoughts, think of the true perspective of
our lives on earth in this vast universe. We live on a tiny ball of rock that
has been hurtling through space since creation for thousands of years. We
humans, who see ourselves as so important, are but a passing feature on the
landscape, like a "grain of sand" on a beach or a star in the heavens above!
Many things in life will seem urgent, pressing and crucial. Do what you can
to do what's needed. But try not to let any of it get to you. In the overall
scheme of things, it's all laughably ephemeral, simply develope an inner
Happiness and a Trust in GOD, develope a connection with the DIVINE
through a Life of Compassion and a Life of Love , that is LOVE of GOD
and LOVE of all of the creations of GOD, search for the true destiny of
ones soul and never desire to take anything that belongs to someone else.
By learning to use ones mind to generate love energy, whether it be love of
good friends, or of good people one can respect, or of a LOVE of animals,
plants or anything created by GOD that has a natural beauty, like the stars
and moon that shine at night, even listen to the birds chirping (the "Sefer
Shinuyim" explains that the birds chirping is actually a Divine energy that
is talking to our souls, by listening to the birds chirping we are listening to
heavenly voices), all these can generate the natural pure spiritual love that
is missing from ones life.
By connecting ones mind and thoughts with the eternal wellspring of lifes
energy - the creative energy of this world and the connecting energy
between this world and spirit world which is LOVE, both the physical and
spiritual blockages will be removed and ones soul may continue along the
correct pathway of life with and inner radiant glow of LOVING and
SPIRITUAL life energy.
3. The important connection of

"Depression" to "Laziness and
Lethargy".
In the explanation of the important connection of "Depression" to
"Laziness and Lethargy" this is simple to understand the signs and rectify
the problem, ensuring life vitality with a sense of purpose and "aliveness"
is always felt with a inner radiant glow within ones soul.
As we have explained above "Depression" is cause by a disconnection with

life energy, a disconnection with GOD and the DIVINE spiritual energy of
LOVE. This naturally leaves the physical body with a severe lack of
vitality and energy which in turn makes a person feel lethargic and lazy.
This cycle continues until it becomes unbearably depressing and draining, a
persons home may even become dusty and filthy, a lack of self dignity and
self respect will propagate the draining and depressive cycle.
The Solution is simple
1. Focus on "LOVE"
The solution to breaking this cycle is to activate ones mind and thoughts to
THINK of something or someone one LOVES. "Love" energy is the
creative and motivational energy one needs to "get started". It does not
matter what the object of ones desires is, so long as ones heart "starts"
beating faster and excited at the thought of ones emotions of LOVE.
All parents are aware that to get their children to do anything is to entice
them with a "bribe" of something they love, like sweets, chocolate even
money ! Similarly adults need to "get motivated" by thoughts of someone
or something they LOVE.
This key to "snapping out of a depression" is simple and yet for adults who
have been through trauma of loss of business, divorce or been homeless,
they feel in their thoughts "whats the point of all the effort ? ... as it will
only be taken away from them again !" If indeed they followed the same
pathway - they probably would fail again , but if one is reflectingly honest
with oneself, recognising the signposts in ones life and learning from ones
mistakes , everything will work out the second or even the 3rd time.
It is well known, that all self made millionaires of the age of 50, have been
bankcrupt and had business failures at least once. They simply motivated
themselves and started again. They departmentalised their failure and did
NOT take the failure personally. Similarly in our generation truly happily
loving couples over the age of 40 have had a least one failed love
relationship - C'est la vie - thats life in our generation!
2. Once "turned on" then "get active" !
Once a person has been turned on with emotional and motivational

thoughts of "love", then the secret is to keep busy, DONT lull back into
laaziness.
Clean & Dust ones home, paint, decorate, do some gardening, get involved
in anything creatively constructive. Even take regular exercise, absolutely
anything that will stop a person sitting in front of a television every evening
after work ! Which is nothing compared to people who stay at home all day
watching TV or surfing the internet ! These are unhealthy distractions
which only seem to propagate the cycle of depression. So CHANGE ones
actions - stop watching TV or internet etc and use the evenings for just one
week to make a constructive change to ones life and feel the difference !
We all know good kind and loving people who are creative and
constructive with their time, these people always seem to have
accomplished so much and always have a permanent radiant glow of
energy on their faces, a twinkle in their eyes and in the way they speak with
clarity and enthusiastic aliveness. They are simply living a life of happiness
and purpose, avoiding the negative depressing emotions and therefore have
no blockages caused by depression.
"Suicidal depression"
Feelings of "suicide" are simply moments of deep depression coupled with

the feelings of lonliness, disconnection of life energy, lack of love and
"suicide" is a CRY to be noticed by others.
No one can help a person in depression. The person MUST help
themselves! It MUST come from within ones mind and thoughts. The gift
of life is very valuable, the gift of the emotion of LOVE is the key to life.
This is generated by one "doing" something for someone and them
appreciating your actions with a reciprocation of LOVE energy for you.
Sadly in many cities, where the culture of society has been perveted that no
one ever appreciates or loves anyone genuinely, this causes people to feel
isolated, lonely and depressed. The solution is simple - forget about "other
people" - learn Closure from such a corrupt society and abusively draining
people, and learn to appreciate the gift of life.
Focus on "what you do have"
and "NOT on what you dont have"
Start by appreciating the fact that you have hands with fingers and a
thumbs, then appreciate that you have arms, feet, legs, and that all your
body is healthy. Focus all your thoughts on every item and every single
thing that you DO have, instead of complaining of the things you dont
have. When you start the cycle of THANKS and APPRECIATION, this
changes your attitude and starts to make you think how lucky you are, the
suddenly and magically new reasons come into your life to make you even
happier !
Even 5 mins of thoughts that we are amongst the 1% of people on this
planet who have the use of a computer ! Whilst there are 40% of the worlds
population who are HUNGRY ! They are starving and thirsty ! We are so
lucky to have tap water and food, and yet suicidal depression is most
common amongst the "wealthier" western nations, especially in
Switzerland and UK ! This is because the swiss and english are always
comparing themselves to each other and looking at the negative of what
they "dont have" instead of "what they do have". And yet these countries
are the most sought after countries in the whole world where people dream
of wanting to live, and yet they have the highest number of "depression"
cases!
As soon as one transforms ones thoughts into appreciation to the gifts of
life, and the blessings one has, one reconnects with "life energy" and will
"snap out" of any depression in ones mind.
Conclusion
Once a person understands " depression" as a blockage of lifes energy

and vitality, caused by ones soul, in order to indicate that one is on the
wrong pathway and with the wrong negative destructive hateful attidudes.
Then it becomes easy to remove this blockage by searching and finding
ones true pathway, by reconnecting spiritually with the positive creative
life-giving energy of LOVE, and by ackowledging the truth that one has
made mistakes of taking or even just "desiring" that which belongs to
someone else. One then simply stops the diversion of ones souls energy and
is able to live with loving vitality in ones own destined life, with a sense of
true purpose, love of life and love of GOD.
"Loss by Transference" Transference ,

In Physical and Spiritual laws there is a principle called "transference" - "
, ","Haleepin",( This term was understood fully and introduced into
the modern day Medical profession by Professor Dr Carl Jung in
Psychology). In simple terms, when you go into a shop and buy an apple
you give the money in one hand and receive an apple. You have made a
transfer, exchanging your money energy for the shops physical item
"apple". Which when you eat the apple, its energy will make you feel good,
alive and happy with yourself and the world. You may then meet someone
and because you feel happy, will also make them feel happy and take away
some of their sad feeling. The whole of society and mankind is continually
acting in a web of transference and interaction of energy.
Have you ever, suddenly, found your mood change from being all loving
and peaceful, and out-of-character you become angry? The explanation is
simple, by "transference", someone you have just connected with, (it could
even be the car infront or behind you in a traffic jam, or someone in the
street who has so much inner frustration, anger or depression etc), has
swapped, dumped and transfered their negative thoughts and emotional
energy in an act of "transference" - exchanged for your loving, energising
and positive energy.
Spiritual and Physical Transference

,
"An exchange of thought energy"
On this page we shall teach the following chapters from Sefer Shinuyim Book of Changes and Sefer Tikunim - The book of Corrections, which will
teach you the spiritual laws of "transference" and how to prevent a "LOSS
of your souls energy by transference". This page should be read in
conjunction with "Closure"page as this will teach a person how to have
spiritual closure from "freeloaders", users and abusers, especially relevant
for Sensitive souls who are susceptable to having energy stolen from them
by "transference".
The individual sections of "transference" we shall teach:1. The basic understanding of "transference" - the concept of "exchange" of
thought energy for physical energy as taught from the Talmud.
2. The Spiritual laws of "transference"- ",".
3. Using the spiritual laws to STOP a "loss by transference".
4. Negating and cancelling any "transference" energy that has already

occured in the past. Stopping the draining cycle of losing energy by
transference.
5. , - Understanding "blocks" caused from other people created
by the energy of "transference".
6. Protecting oneself from losing "transference" energy in the future.
7. The concept of " " - "evil eye" understanding and protecting
oneself from being "hurt" by others evil thoughts. And the concept of
spiritual power of a persons soul by "transference" in photographs.
1. , - Transference
The basic understanding of "transference" - the concept of "exchange" of
thought energy for physical energy as taught from the Talmud.The sources
in the Talmud Mesechta Kiddushin daf 28a and Mesechta
Temurah.
Valid "Transactions"
The Talmud explains the concept of validity of different types of

transactions, when exactly a transaction takes place and when a person
actually acquires ownership of articles one has bought.
When a person buys anything in a shop, exchanging money for the item,
lifting the item up and walking out of the shop constitutes a valid purchase.
If a person takes the item without paying then the ownership of the item
remains with the shopkeeper and that is theft.
The validity of any transaction is final and irreversable, the "deal is done"
when and this is the important point - that is to complete a sale, to make a
final and valid transaction is that NEITHER SIDE can REVERSE or
CANCEL the validity of the exchange.
-"Umdena"-"Assumptions"
In every type of transaction, there are automatic assumptions, that society
makes in their "minds" regarding validity of transactions. That is to say,
even if one does NOT have a written agreement everytime one goes
shopping, there are assumptions everyone makes in their minds and

thoughts.
For example, if one buys something that is lacking or faulty, then one can
return the item to the shop. Many goods have written guarentees or stores
have 14 day or 30 day money-back offers. However, even without such
written "offers", one can still return items if its assumed in everyones
MIND that the item is not as expected, which invokes the collective
assumption of society and in everyones mind to invalidate such a
transaction. (This applies especially in our generation, when so many items
are packaged and one doesnt always see inside!).
This important concept of -"Umdena"-"Assumptions", is that it is an
unwritten agreement in everyones MIND and THOUGHTS, can invalidate
the transaction. Conversely this concept of assumed agreement in
everyones mind can and does validate a transaction, wherby one CANNOT
go back on the exchange. Like buying a house or car, clothes etc., once
completion of transaction is made one cannot go back, just because one
doesn't like the purchase!
The exchange of "transference"

The talmud explains that the exchange of "transference", is where one side
exchanges something physical for a "THOUGHT". The Talmud discusses
this "transference" thought and "transference" speech transactions in the
section dealing with marriage, love and emotions of marriage, and in the
section of holy spiritual priests making offerings and switching sanctified
holy objects with their thoughts.
The Talmud teaches that exchanges and transactions of THOUGHTS and
EMOTIONS is NOT valid. This is because in this physical world a
transaction only has validity between TWO physical OBJECTS that
CANNOT be returned or cancelled out.
This is the spiritual reason why it is forbidden for anyone to charge money
for knowledge, information and thoughts. The Talmud teaches that teachers
may receive a nominal payment as a compensation for their time spent
teaching. But it is 100% clear that teachers must NOT charge for spiritual
knowledge as this is in the same category as "transference" transactions.
"Thought transactions" can be

invalidated
and therefore "transference" energies
can be easily cancelled out
In the transaction of "transference" one side has exchanged "THOUGHT"
energies and as explained on our page of "thinking positive", a "thought"
energy can be cancelled out by the people originally involved in the
transaction AND also be someone elses thoughts and energies this
invalidates the transaction AND most importantly can be cancelled out by
ONE SIDE without the other person knowing.
Spiritual law of thoughts, words & actions see "thinking positive" page
2. The Spiritual laws of "transference"- ,
(a) Anyone anywhere in this physical world and in spiritual world of souls,
can have transference energy with anyone who is "open" to receive the
transference energy from that persons mind and soul. The energy of
"transference" thought energy is open and available to everyone
everywhere whom is "open" to receive this energy.
(b) Anyone can cancel out the "energy" of transference that is in their mind.
A persons mind and soul is given the power to erase and nullify the energy
of transference thought energy.
As we explained the "Spiritual law of thoughts, words & actions" see
"Thinking positive" page.

(c) A person is given the power to be "open" and "closed" to control the
flow of thought transference energy into their mind and soul.
If a person does not know about or is unaware of the continual interaction
of transference energies with their mind, thoughts and soul, then
automatically they leave themselves "open", which allows and "lets-in"
negative thoughts, freeloaders and trash which will drain by "transference"
- stealing their souls good life energy.
This draining will cause a persons soul to block "life energy" as the soul
recognises and senses that it is being drained. This physical and spiritual
souls life energy is known as - Yeneeka Milmaala. Once a
person learns self-control in selecting only the good transference energies
then this blockage will be taken away and the life- energy vitality allowed
to flow. ( Please see the page on Closure )
3. Using the spiritual laws

to STOP a "loss by transference".
From the spiritual laws of "transference" above and from the "Spiritual law
of thoughts, words & actions" see "thinking positive" from
Talmud Kiddushin 59b :, , A thought cancels out a thought
Since transference energy is 100% thoughts and spiritual , one can simply
cancel out the loss of ones souls energy by using the power of speech:-
SIMPLY SAY
, ,
"I cancel out any transference made by

evil people that has taken energy from
my soul, that takes energy from my
soul or that will take energy from my
soul"
, ,
"I refuse to allow anyone or anything

evil drain my soul by transference, or
take any energy from my soul by
transference, which includes their
negative or destructive thoughts or
words against me"
"I release the need for interaction with draining people and situations, my
soul has been awakened by these bad experiences, i am grateful for the
difficulties as signs to wake-up my soul. Now that i am spiritually
awakened, please take away these draining situations out of my life, they
no longer have any purpose in my life"
"I cancel out any transference of energy out of my soul with anyone who
has nothing to do with my life, my destiny or my soul"
"Similarly, i apologise for having taken anyones souls energy by
transference that has nothing to do with my life, my soul or my destiny and
which has used to block my destiny, i no longer want this energy and want
it returned to the persons soul i have taken it from, it is NOT mine!"
This is so simple, once a person realises that one is constantly losing
energy by transference, (and this thereby is causing a blockage in the flow
of life energy in ones soul as explained above), learnt how to be control this
loss by being "Closed" to draining and "freeloaders", then one can simply
AFFIRM and say the above two phrases and this cancels out any loss by
transference.
This even helps for the highest form of transference whereby some
freeloader earthbound soul occupies ones body ( the concept of earthbound
souls is explained on the "RESCUE WORK" page).
"Cancelling out" with "words"
ALWAYS works !
If one does not feel anything after "cancelling out" with the power of your
speech by saying the above even once, there are 3 possible reasons:(1) One is not using ones mind to focus ones thoughts and coordinate ones
speech with ones thoughts, that means one must think honestly about the
strength of the power of speech. After all, if one has lost energy from ones
soul caused by others talking about you, it is 100% assured that you have
the power of your speech to control your life and soul, through the power
of your speech. YOU have been blessed with the gift of speech so use it to
CANCEL out the loss by transference.
(2) One does not believe the spiritual law of cancelling out by the power of
speech. Good news - even if one does "not believe", it still works !
However small the change, each time a person cancels out by using the
power of speech, it has an effect, this is the reason why "shouting" and
"screaming" works so well, as it uses ones full strength of the power of
ones speech.
(3) Then the last reason, it doesnt seem to work, after saying the
"cancelling out" phrase above, is because one is still holding onto bitterness
and resentment to that person who has hurt you. One must LET GO of
them and the thoughts of hurt, simply recognise they were part of your life
in the past and NOW they are NO longer part of your life for your future Have 100% "closure" , and thank GOD they are now out of your life
forever !
Directional "Cancelling Out"
When deceitful and rotten people have told lies, gossiped and slandered a
good person, it is so easy to cancel out the energy of their words. Since
they are liars, their prayers are NOT answered by the good angels in the
pure Spirit world, therefore the injured honest person can cancel the power
of their deceitful words anytime.
Directional cancelling out means that one uses the exact words and false
allegations that they have used against you, admit that these are lies and
cancel their power and negative energy.
for example; If a man/woman was accused falsely of cheating on his/her
spouse with another person, then one should say, "people have accused me
of cheating on my wife/husband with another woman/man, as GOD is my
witness, this is a lie, i have nevcr cheated on my wife/husband, and
therefore i wish to cancel out the energy and power of these lies". Indeed, it
seems such a person should gladly divorce such a deceitful spouse as
he/she does not have any spiritual good behaviour, especially if he/she can
tell such awful lies in public. Once one has disconnected and had closure
after the divorce, there will still be gossipers and slanderers, one can
"cancel out" the power and energy of these liars by simply keep affirming
that they are liars, and their words have no energy or power.
If a person does NOT cancel out the negative energy of these evil people,
then their energy gets stronger creating blockages in the good persons life,
which will come to a peak, at the peak where the energy becomes
unbearable, the good person either collapses under the pressure OR learns
the spiritual laws to cancel out "loss by transference" and actually starts to
stand up for themselves by cancelling out all the lies told over so many
years, as they are good people with good spiritual guardian angels, and they
have been a victim of other peoples lies, they will WIN, once all the
negative energy is cleared they will start to have all the goodness in their
lives restored to them.
The first step is to write down all the sources of damage of lies that have
occured in ones life, and cancel each of them out by affirming they are liars
and as GOD is your witness, you are truthful.
Normally those people who accuse others do not believe in GOD or spirit
world, and usually accuse other people of things they have done wrong
themselves. So simply affirm their false allegations, admit these are lies
and then cancel their power. Likewise repeating a few times actually helps
to cancel out the energy of all the other gossipers who have repeated the
liars lie. None of them have any power to hurt you anymore.
Use the power of speech to cancel the energy of their words, as Hashem GOD is your witness.
1. Affirm the words of the lie, use the exact words that the liars have
deceitfully used; 2 Confirm that as GOD is your witness that this is a lie; 3.
Cancel out the energy of the lie, by confirming that these words are lies and
this is the truth.
"Cancel Out" but DO NOT hold onto any bitterness or hatred for the deceitful
liars
It is important that one does this, without feeling any hatred or negative
emotions for them whom have lied, in fact if one does this in a manner that
one feels sorry for the eternal pain their souls will endure in spirit world,
then within the "cancelling out" process one is actually praying that their
soul should repent and apologize for the destruction they have caused.
This is exactly how Joseph forgave his 10 brothers who sold him as a slave,
and how King David cancelled out the deceit and lies of King Saul, who
tried to kill him. (Once David had cancelled out King Sauls energy of his
lies, destruction and deceit, Saul actually committed suicide, and David
became 2nd King of Israel).
The highest form of "transference" someone elses soul occupies your body
The commentators , and and The Shach and Taz on the

, Shulchan Aruch - "The code of Jewish laws", all ask the obvious
question:In the daily blessings in the morning prayers why do we need to repeat
these three blessings everyday of our life, surely saying them once in ones
life is enough?
, ,
These 3 blessings give thanks to GOD that we are "not a slave" , "not a
woman" , "not a " . Surely thanking GOD once in our lives is enough?
and surely its obvious that a man is not a woman? and a jewish person is
not a non-jew? Why is it necessary to state the obvious affirmation every
single day in the morning when one wakes up ?
The Famous Spiritual Rabbis and commentators , and and
The Shach and Taz on the , Shulchan Aruch, answer that whilst a
person is sleeping, and soul elevates itself to spiritual plane, an "earthbound
soul" could occupy ones body, and when one arrives back in ones body,
there is a struggle for control over your body, as ones soul did not enter
ones body completely properly because there is an occupying soul in a
persons body in an act of transference. This act of transference can happen
in spiritually sensitive people who don't like or don't feel comfortable being
on earth
The solution - make a truthful affirmation
The solution is to make a truthful affirmations of who you are and whom
your body belongs to and through the power of speech you can "throw out"
the freeloading spirit entity.
Truthful Affirmations
Simply by using the power of truthful speech, will ensure that you do not
loose any energy from your soul by "transference". Which in turn will
ensure that your life energy and vitality remains "alive" with a continual
flow of - Yeneeka Milmaala. The key is to use the power of
speech with truthful statements and affirmations.
One should begin "truthful affirmations" by saying what a person is not, for
example a jewish single woman living in USA should affirm, "i am not a
man", "i am not a muslem", " i am not married", "i have not yet found my
soulmate", " i am not living in israel", i have no children", etc and then
continue to affirm "i am trying to change everyday", "i am cancelling out,
by my speech any words or thoughts that anyone anywhere has against me,
i want to cancel out any negative energy that is blocking success in my life,
so that i can find my true destined loving soulmate, to have a purposeful
and fulfilling life" etc.,
Once a person starts making truthful affirmations as they "talk to
themselves", one will find each individual will flow with their own specific
affirmations, of their own personal identity and then affirm to cancel out
any blockages in their lives caused by other peoples negative thoughts and
words. Once a person has done this, one feels lightened and enlivened as
each word a person speaks ACTUALLY works to cancel out any
negativity !
Thankfully there is a special spiritual law that prevents this being used
against good people, as those people who abuse the power of speech,
deceive and lie, have no chance to dissolve the energy of transference, as
this ability is only given to those with truthful guardian angels, as discussed
in the paragraph of "two types" of people on the page of Spirit & Guidance.
4. Negating and cancelling any "transference" energy that has already occured
in the past. Stopping the draining cycle of losing energy by transference.
Simply follow the same spiritual law as above, and use the power of speech
to cancel out ALL the loses of "transference" that one has been so open and
given away ones energy in the past, which once a person cancels out the
power given away by transference thought energy, then all the blockages in
ones life will be taken away. SIMPLY SAY :-
, ,
"I cancel out any transference of energy made by evil people that has taken
energy from my soul, that takes energy from my soul or that will take
energy from my soul"
, ,
"I refuse to allow anyone or anything evil drain my soul by transference, or
take any energy from my soul by transference, which includes their
negative or destructive thoughts or words against me"

"All blockages in my life should now go away from my soul"
"Let the past go"- Hold no grudges
Remember it is important NEVER to hold any grudge or blame to anyone

for your mistakes. It is YOUR fault you interacted with the wrong and
draining type of person. Its not their fault, they are simply acting the only
way they know. However, now that you have found the solution and learnt
the reason why you have been so drained by losing your souls good energy
in an act of "transference". It is up to YOU to have Closure from the past
and learn to Protect your mind and soul, especially if you are a Sensitive
soul .
5. , - Understanding "blocks" caused from other people created by

the energy of "transference".
As we explained on the page Blocking Success, once transference has

occured, a person has given away part of their souls energy to someone
else. This other person no whas the power to Block Success as they have
your energy as we saw in the "Transference" destructive cycle as explained
on the "Debrainwashing page" :-
The solution is simple !
Use the power of speech to cancel out all the acts of transference, think
back to all the times you were open and gave away your souls energy in an
act of transference.
Remember the rule that there are two type os people in this world, the
"honest and creative group" and the "deceitful destructive group" as
explained in the page of Spirit & Guidance. Every person interacts and is
connected in this world, if the person you are connecting with makes you
feel alive and creatively constructive then this is a good connection. If the
connection is draining and destructive one MUST have Closure . They

maybe even be good people but they have NO PLACE in your life, if one
feels drained when interacting with them.
Ones soul energy comes back from

"the ether"
Once one has learnt Closure and prayed to have ones life energy that has
been lost by transference returned to your soul. One will start to feel alive
with spiritual vitality and enlightenment . However, part of the Closure
process is one MUST "let-go" and forgive those people who have been
draining you, and NEVER expect them to return energy to you and
NEVER expect them to apologise to you. Have closure from them and
move on.
The "ether", that is the DIVINE universal energy will give you the spiritual
energy , replenish, enliven you and more that compensate your losses. Once
and only once you have deep-down had closure and opened the flow of
unblocked life energy - Yeneeka Milmaala . Your soul will
only unblock this once truthfully and intrinsically EVERYTHING has been
done by you to correct your past mistakes and your spirit mind and soul in
100% sure you will not make the mistakes again.
The English saying expression pertaining to lifes opportunities "one door
opens ONLY when the other door is firmly closed", and "what goes around
- eventually comes around", refers to the cycle of universal DIVINE
energy.
6. Protecting oneself from losing "transference" energy in the future.
Once a person has been enlightened to the concepts of "loss of ones souls
energy by transference", with this "key" of knowledge from Sefer
Shinuyim - the Book of Changes, one will automatically learn to be aware
of every interaction that one makes, sensing the energising actions and
draining actions. Making empowered and correct freewill decisions to only
interact with constructive creative people and situations. and never
allowing oneself to be "open" to be drained by freeloaders in an act of
transference.
It's very similar to learning to talk, once one has learnt how to talk it is very
difficult to forget ! After a while it becomes "second-nature" to a child and
one speaks even without thinking. Similarly, once one has learnt to control
ones thoughts, cancelling-out "loss by transference" by using the power of
ones speech, it becomes easy to retain ones unique soul energy and unblock
the flow of life vitality to ones soul, which is needed for you and the good
people you co-create with, so that your soul can succeed to its maximum
potential in this physical life !
By learning the lessons in the chapter on Closure and Protection, once the
past and present is cleared by the use of speech in "cancelling-out" the
draining acts of transference, ensures that ones soul has accomplished a
significant cleansing which it came to earth-school to learn.
7. The concept of " " - "evil eye"
The concept of " " - "evil eye" is simply understood as a person has
been "open" spiritually to allow another person steal energy by
"transference" which is in fact your souls energy and this is thereby able to
BLOCK your life.
Simply learn to stop "losing your souls energy by transference", by being
so "open" to destructive energies. learn Closure and Protection and then no
one can affect your life with the energy you have "given them" to hurt you
with !
Those people whom have changed completely, healed the past and become
loving and compassionate souls connected in the committed service of
GOD, have learnt to focus and continually cleanse their mind and soul from
any negative and destructive thoughts.
Once a person has arrived at this level " " - "evil eye" created by
other peoples negative thoughts can never affect their soul . In the
transition period as a person is learning and transforming one simply needs
to learn Closure and continually cleansing and cancelling out other peoples
acts of transference draining thought energies.
Photographs
When anyone looks at photographs, each image makes an impression on a
persons mind and thoughts, if a person is emotionally aroused by the image
in the photograph this has a stronger affect on a persons soul. If the

photograph gives a person a vitality and aliveness then an act of creative
transference takes place. If however the photograph leaves a person feeling
drained then a destructive act of transference has occured.
If the photograph is of a person, then the persons image and soul is
engraved on that photo and if one is "open" and unaware, then evil people
can use the photograph in an act of transference energy and "drain" or
"hurt" a person.
As this "damage" occurs as a thought energy, simply by using the power of
speech cancels out any "transference" loss energies and solves the problem.
Simply say, "I refuse to allow anyone or anything evil drain my soul by
transference which includes negative or destructive thoughts or words
against me or any photos that have been taken of me by anyone anywhere".
Conclusion
Once a person has been enlightened to the concepts of "loss of ones souls
energy by transference", with this "key" of knowledge from Sefer
Shinuyim - the Book of Changes, one will automatically learn to be aware
of every interaction that one makes, sensing the energising actions and
draining actions and making wise decisions to connect only with creative
life energy.
As anyone anywhere in this physical world and in spiritual world of souls,
can have transference energy with anyone who is "open" to receive the
transference energy from that persons mind and soul.
This basic concept of "transference" thought-energy makes it
comprehendable how so many Sensitive souls have the gift of spirit
communication with the spirit world. As a continual and open channel of
"transference and thoughts" are connecting the souls in this Physical world
with Spirit world of souls.
"Clearance Aspects"

The Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Change explains with this small key of
CHANGE . The aim of ones life is to successfully clear and cleanse ones soul,
unblock the negative emotions engrained on ones soul, and transform into a
loving soul

change is simple :1. ERASE the past, have a complete CLEARANCE, of the past, by analysis of
the signposts one has been given and with the gift of hindsight, one can see
ones mistakes clearly . Especially all the "BLOCKS" one has (or others have)
caused and created in ones life, understanding why the blocks have been there
and then clearing them away. ( This also includes clearing blocks created in
ones soul from "past lives", hence the importance of understanding
reincarnation "GILGUL" in clearing these blockages).
2. FOCUS on being "CLOSED", be careful not to "allow in" past negative or
destructive emotions, people or bad experiences from the past. Learn to
protect oneself and be constantly CLOSED to negative people and situations
especially if one is a sensitive person.
3. FOCUS on good positive emotions. A continual spiritual awareness focused
on a purposeful creative, kind, loving, spiritually awakened life. With a
motivation to protect ones soul and compassionately help to improve
collectively the quality of life on earth, working to cancel out the destructive
energies with constructive creative love of God, the pure divine energy.

Clearing the "trash" out of ones life, creates a space for goodness to enter into
ones life. "Change" is a matter of personal needs and individual
understanding, however intrinsically it follows the same principles for
everyone; CLEARANCE, canceling out the NEGATIVE and working on
developing the POSITIVE aspects of ones soul, as detailed in the separate
pages below :Loss by "transference" explains the very important and fundamental spiritual
principles that one can lose ones soul energy and potential by "giving"
away the energy that is destined for ones soul by "transference".
Closure explains the spiritual teachings of learning to be "closed" and
learning "closure" from abusive and draining situations, where ones soul
needs to be "closed" so that it is not drained.
Debrainwashing explains the concept that many of our thoughts are

brainwashed into our mind by irresponsible parents and teachers at a young
age.
Motivation explains the method to energise ones life, and start the flow of
energy into ones life.
Unblocking explains how to unblock the blockages and enable flow of "life
energy" into ones soul, mind, thoughts and physical life.
Protection explains the spiritual lawas of how to be spiritually protected.
Sensitive souls explains the reason of the amazing gift of "sensitive"
people, and how to handle the gift of sensitivity.
Once one has perfected "Clearance & Closure" aspects one can now create
Positive aspects to provide a good foundation for ones soul to grow
spiritually and become purely spiritually enlightened.
"Closure" ,
How to have "closure" ... ""
The purpose of learning how to have "closure" from certain situations and
people, is in order that we learn how to take control of our thoughts and
actions. Most people for 90% of the time are living "other peoples" lives .
We are all doing things that either other people expect us to do, force us to
do, or if we are in a state of "neutral", open to any kind of influence and
"brainwashing", then we are living life like an aimlessly wandering sheep.
Most people for only 60 mins every day actually have control of their mind
and thoughts. The most successful creative, individualistic, good people,
retain focus of their mind and thoughts for all the time they are awake.
The lesson to learn "closure" is to take control of ones soul, that is to learn
to have complete control over ones mind and thoughts. Only allowing in
thoughts and influences that will help to create a purposeful loving life in
completing the purpose ones soul came to earth.
All sensitive souls and most people are continually losing focus of their
lives and getting side-tracked by loss through "transference", that is they
are continually interacting with people who are "stealing" their energy,
pulling on their souls to "get carried along" with someone else's wishes and
desires, hence this causes "blockages" and blocks success by transference

in their lives.
Until it comes - that moment in a persons life ( usually "mid-life crisis" as
discussed on the "stages of change" page) when one wakes up and
recognizes that one has been living "other peoples" lives and fulfilling their
wishes. At this time one usually needs to learn "CLOSURE" from all the
negatively draining influences of their past, in order to take control and sort
out ones own life, to enable a successful transformation of ones character.
By learning control of ones mind, learning the way ones body and soul is
constantly interacting, transferring and "draining" energy from ones soul
this will enable a person to have closure and clearance of the negative
influences, "other peoples baggage" and even the past mistakes from this
lifetime and previous lifetimes.
After having closure, a spiritual release of negative emotions and "other
peoples trash", will happen automatically. One will then start to LIVE a
vibrant lively, loving, creative life of ones own personal destiny of ones
soul. Instead of being drained by collective mistakes of other people. This
page of "CLOSURE" is probably the most important first step in clearing
the past and is taken entirely from Sefer HaNefesh - and Sefer
Shinuyim - Book of Change .
"Closure"
On this page we shall explain the following points:
1. The 3 types of people : the good, bad and "in-between" easily influenced,
explaining why we attract into our lives difficult people and abusively
draining situations, and conversely show how we use this same method to
attract in good situations.
2. The physical senses: sight, smell, touch, taste, hear, speech and how to
have complete "closure" physically.
3. The 14 physical entry and exit points of "spiritual energy" into and out of
ones body and soul, being aware of the specific energies of each of these
places in ones body enables and empowers a person to control the
"leakages" and draining, hence using ones physical body to gain the first
step in a spiritual closure.
4. Learning to coordinate and "THINK" specific thoughts of "closure" in

ones mind, in order to complete the closure of emotional attachments to the
draining situation, simultaneously to making the physical gestures of
"closure".
5. The Final act of "closure" as taught from King Solomon in Proverbs and
explained in Sefer Shinuyim ("the book of changes").
1. The 3 groups of people

"The Good"
This group of people have learnt to be in control of their mind and
thoughts, they interact, transfer energy and create loving energy with other
good people. They have a motivation of selfless service and desire to make
this world a better place.
Their only desire is to do good, be kind, loving, compassionate and they
exude an energy that influences others to be good by example. They
NEVER force their opinions upon anyone. A true good spiritual leader
radiates a glow of loving kindness and happiness that impresses other
people to want to emulate their kind and soft spoken nature.
"The Bad"
This group of people are rotten and evil, their souls have been corrupted
and their intentions are focused to destroy as many peoples lives as
possible. They use force, aggression, anger, money, sex and other forms of
intimidation to influence others.
They force themselves and their attitudes upon others, they could even be
"religious" rabbis, "brainwashed" fanatics, clics, cults and groups of people
that only look after "their own kind". Spiritually no-one has the right to
interfere with anyone else's life, especially with silly man-made laws which
have nothing to do with the spirituality of true service and belief in GOD.
This "bad" group may use money, the love of money and wealth to corrupt
peoples lives, and even think that they "own" other peoples lives forcing
them to become corrupt too! For example, in the legal profession today,
which is full of deceit and lies, in court they lie regularly, to protect their
clients. As everyone knows in every legal debate there are 3 sides to every
case, the 2 peoples sides and the truth! Many good, idealistic young
lawyers are often corrupted by their piers and employers to lie, falling into
the trap of legitimizing their lies and deceit!
In our generation, the "bad" group regularly use emotional fears of not
being "good enough" and use the "sexual desire" of lust to influence
people, into doing things or buying things they do not need to make their
lives any better, or simply encouraging wasteful acts of self destruction.
Inherently this group of "bad" people focus their thoughts on stealing
energy from the next group of "non thinking" and "in-between" people,
who are easily influenced.
The "in-between" & easily influenced

The "in-between" group, the "easily influenced" who oscillate from being
really good to bad. Depending on where they are and what they are doing,
and with whom they are connected with, will influence their mind and
actions to either be good or bad. They are simply not in control of what
they allow into their mind and soul, and are easily led astray like aimlessly
wandering sheep.
This page is written for the "in between" group. Once a person becomes
aware of how they are losing so much of their souls energy by
"transference", in that they "allow in" the "trash" into their mind in
exchange for the good energy of their soul, once they recognize the sources
of draining energy, they will find it easy to have "closure".
Learning control and being careful of the minds interactions of thought
energy will inevitably transform the person into a really good individual
person with a purposeful loving, happy and creative constructive life, of
ones own independent destiny, hence will stop one from being carried
along with "other peoples" lives.
Who are your friends ?

...
A mirror reflects a man's face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends
he chooses. [Proverbs 27:19]
DON'T RUN WITH THE WRONG CROWD. Proverbs Chapter 27

Verse 19 "A mirror reflects a man's face, but what he is really like is shown
by the kind of friends he chooses."
As in water (that means as in a mirror) a face reflects a face (you see your
own face in the water) so the heart of man to man. In other words, just as
we see ourselves in the water, we associate with people whose hearts and
attitudes and spirits reflect our own. That's just another way of saying, birds
of a feather flock together. Whoever is in your life, is there as a reflection
of you and your character.
If one has untrustworthy and dishonest friends or acquaintances, this
reflects something about oneself ! They are there as reflections of ones
inner character. Once a person changes then those difficult people or
abusively draining situations will disappear.
Whatever "faults" you find in others

are simply a reflection of YOUR faults
!
... ,
"The thing one criticizes and finds fault in others, is the exact thing one
needs to correct oneself" (Talmud Kiddushin)
Usually those people who are always complaining about their lives and
criticizing other people are the ones with the worst characters. As we learnt
on the "THANK YOU" page, there are indicative signs indicating a "bad
persons" life and a "complaining character", just like the generation of
complaining jews forced to wander in circles for 40 years in the wilderness
for being so ungrateful to GOD and Moshe.
It is always remarkable that the most creative, sincere, kind, good and
honest people always get falsely criticized and accused by "empty" noise
making people ! And yet these good people will never reply to any
criticism, as they know that the people criticizing and trying to
destructively negate their goodness are simply reflecting all the qualities
wrong with themselves.
Very often during divorces, scandals or arguments over money, there will
always be one side who lies and the other side who keeps quiet, and does
not stoop to even answer the false allegations. As everyone knows the
saying from the Talmud "Empty vessels makes most noise" and "The thing
one criticizes and finds fault in others, is the exact thing one needs to
correct oneself".
The people making the false allegations are simply reflecting their own bad
character. But are trying to accuse the other side in an attempt to divert the
energy from themselves by "giving away" their bad character by
"transference" to the innocent and good. The lesson in "closure" and refusal
to loose ones soul identity and energy by "transference", will ensure one
succeeds to retain ones integrity, honesty, and goodness of ones soul even
when falsely accused by rotten people.
As we shall learn on this page, and on "Life of Compassion" one will
develope a character, not to criticize other people. There is no need to talk
about, slander or criticize anyone destructively, this is not the purpose of
your life or your soul. You are here in this world to perfect your soul and
your own character.
By "getting involved" and finding faults in others, only wastes and diverts
ones souls energy, which creates more sadness, blocks and Depression.
"Getting involved" causes blockages in ones life, and only leads to a bad
connections with the wrong sort of people, creating links which causes
continual "loss by transference".
Why do other people disturb and

bother you ?
There are 3 reasons why a person is "disturbed", annoyed and agitated by
other people:-
Firstly, these people are reflecting something that is wrong with you.
Therefore you are seeing yourself in them and this disturbs you ! The
solution is simple, identify to yourself the real reason why they disturb you
and how this reflects your character, then CHANGE YOURSELF. Once
YOU change, they will stop bothering you and the situation will
automatically go away and will stop bothering you.
Secondly, in acts of loss by "transference" energy, you maybe living
someone else's life, because of your continual "open" interaction of your
mind and soul to their influences, this bothers you so much, because you
feel someone else is continually living your life and even "stealing" your
life and destiny, and hence you feel you don't have a "life of your own".
The solution is simply to learn to cancel out loss by "transference", protect
oneself from being "open" to draining influences and stop "getting
involved" in other peoples business and lives that have nothing to do with
you, your destiny or your life. (And then learn "closure" in ones mind, soul,
and stop the leakages of your good spiritual energy from the 14 spiritual
sensitive points in your body, as we teach later on this page).
By understanding and acknowledging that "its their problem", "its someone
else's life" and has nothing to do with you, helps one disconnect "mentally"
with these wrong associations and draining links which are blocking your
life.
Thirdly, a person is disturbed and irritated because someone has told them
the truth of the flaws in their character. Usually, when people see others
who are arrogant and "wrong" they don't bother interacting or wasting
anytime or effort on arguing with them, they simply ignore and have
closure from such "draining" type of people.
Nontheless from time to time, it becomes necessary to actually verbalize to
the indignant and arrogant person their "bad" attitude. They immediately
resent this as no-one has ever stood up to these "bullies", and they then
proceed with a lifelong campaign of hate, destruction and even violence to
try and destroy the good persons life.
On this page we shall explain the lessons of "closure", that it is simply not
worth the wasted effort to "get involved" with such horrible people. On the
page of Protection and Sensitive souls we explain how to avoid these
people and never to allow them to disturb you peace of mind, your inner
peace in your soul or your LOVE of GOD which brings you peace,
tranquility and happiness in your life that these lesser "bad" people have
become jealous of your good soul and spiritual good fortune.
,
"Don't Connect with Wicked People and Don't be Jealous of Cheats and
Liars"
One major reason why we stay attached in our mind and thoughts is
because of our negative emotions of hatred, bitterness, resentment and
jealousy. The ideal "closure" is to learn to "let go" of the situation and take
the "i don't care attitude", neither love nor hate, the simple " it doesn't
bother me" attitude, with no emotional energy whatsoever, neither love nor
hate, always works for closure !!!
Every connection a person has in this life is a reflection of their own
character, if one feels uneasy inside and not at peace with oneself with the
liaisons one has, then this is a sign one needs to learn to CHANGE oneself.
2. The physical senses: sight, smell,

touch, taste, hear, speech, and how to
have complete "closure" physically.
As we explained on the "Health & Diet" page, the physical body is simply
a reflection of ones soul. By understanding the physical body we can
explain the mind and soul. We introduce the concept of "closure" from a
purely physical understanding before we explain in section 3 the interaction
and concepts of physical & spiritual closure.
Our physical body is constantly interacting and transferring energy with
everything and everyone. We have senses that receive the energy and either
feel energised or drained.
If we like and enjoy the energy we send a subconscious message to our
mind and soul to stay "OPEN" to continue receiving such energies.
However, if we dislike or feel drained by such energies we send a message
to be "CLOSED" to such energies.
The
Senses
Sight
Smell
Touch
Taste
Hearing
Open
Closure
Open eyes
Inhale through ones
nose
Touch
Open ones mouth
Listen
Close eyes, turn your eyes away, no eye contact

Pinch ones nose and don't breath in !
Don't touch or connect, even run away !
Close ones mouth
Don't listen, place your fingers in your ears and ignore them !
Speech
Talk and
communicate
Keep "Shtum"! Don't talk, don't even waste ones breath of life and
energy talking to someone draining !
From the simplified chart above, one will have more energy in gaining
closure if one VERBALSISES displeasure and a need for closure. For
example, if dislikes a food one eats and says "UGH - this is disgusting!" a
stronger message is received to ones mind and soul for closure. If one is
physically sick from that food, (especially children), then one will never eat
that food again !
Similarly, if one enters someone's house which is smelly, even if one holds
ones nose and gets out quickly, the impression made on ones mind is
NEVER to go back ! Likewise if one dislikes the way someone looks, or
sees something disgusting, one will always never make eye-contact with
that person or ugliness. This is human nature, only to be open to something
that pleases the mind. (As we have explained in the "brainwashing cycle"
page). These are all instincts which our physical body learns at a young
age, however, some emotions, situations that need to have closure,
especially if one has abusive parents, these remain engrained in ones mind,
until they are dealt with in a "minds clearance" and spiritual closure,
usually much later on in life, during a contemplatative mid-life crisis!
3. The physical entry and exit points of

"Spiritual Energy" into and out of ones
body and soul.
Our physical body has 14 specific and exceedingly sensitive parts that need
the utmost of care and protection in order to ensure good physical health
and spiritual strength. These 14 points are points of entry and exit of both
physical and spiritual energies from our body.
Naturally all parts of our body are open and sensitive, all over our skin
there are millions of small holes/pores that allow a flow of interaction and
transference of energy with the physical and spiritual world. The country,
city, house and room where our physical body is has an affect and interacts
energies with our soul. This does so by receiving and emitting energy from
our soul through these 14 sensitive points.
These main entry and exit points are the 14 "super sensitive" points that
need our utmost attention . They also continually need our mind and
thoughts to control the energy flow at these crucial points, otherwise we
will find ourselves being "open" and "drained" inexplicably. By focusing
and mastering the flow of energy at these 14 points, we will find ourselves
strengthened and considerably more in "control" of our mind, spirit soul
and then able to follow our own "destined pathway" of spiritual fulfillment,
instead of being drained by other freeloaders who are stealing our souls
energy from these points.
The 14 "super sensitive" spiritual and

physical "entry and exit" points.
1. Right Eye
2. Left Eye
3. Right Ear
4. Left Ear
5. Right Nostril
6. Left Nostril
7. Mouth
8. "Belly Button"
9. Sexual Organ
10. Anus
11. Right Hand
12. Left Hand
13. Right Foot
14. Left Foot
In this section we shall explain how to be open and closed at each of these
14 spiritually sensitive points. In the book Sefer HaNefesh "The book of
the Soul" by Reb Shem Tov Ibn Yosef Falaq'ira, he explains that most
people act instinctively to have "Closure" at these spiritually sensitive
points just like a child. However, as a person grows and develope's a higher
level of spiritual awareness and sensitivity it now becomes necessary to
THINK before putting into action a "CLOSURE" at these 14 specific
points.
The Right and the Left
The RIGHT hand side of our physical body reflects LOGIC, FACTS and
ACTUAL PHYSICAL REALITY.
The LEFT hand side of our physical body reflects EMOTIONS, MIND,
THOUGHT, DESIRES and the FUTURE which we would like to happen.
These facts are important to know when understanding the following 14
spiritually sensitive points in our body. We also suggest that as you read the
explanations below you try doing some physical exercises yourself, like
standing on your right foot and then stand on your left foot, clenching your
right fist and then clenching your left fist and then clench both fists, close
the right nostril close the left nostril and then close both nostrils , etc., and
actually feel the difference yourself. As we shall explain in the separate
paragraphs below. The purpose of explaining these very important
"closure" techniques is so that a person rises their spiritual awareness that
ones body is a reflection of ones soul, and must therefore be treated and
guarded with dignity and respect.
1. Right Eye & 2. Left Eye

The eyes are the windows into your soul, everything your eyes see makes
an impression upon your soul. Most images carry very little energy, the
images that carry the most energy of those images that have emotions and
emotional energy of love or hate attached to them.
CLOSURE :- Keeping ones eyes closed ! However that is not always
practical ! The best CLOSURE technique with ones eyes is to always
LOOK DOWN , NEVER MAKE EYE CONTACT and keep ones eyelids
as closed as possible so that one views with as little eye energy as possible.
OPEN:- Opening ones eyes WIDE and making EYE CONTACT without
blinking and with a smiling and "open" face sends a maximum energy of
openness. When one wants to convey an open energy with ones eyes, one
does not even need to speak, if and ONLY IF one is THINKING happy,
positive and loving thoughts. As one is happy within ones soul this is
emitted in the energy and glow in ones eyes.
It is ofcourse much easier for spiritually enlightened people with light
coloured eyes - that is green and blue eyes to emit a strong soulful energy
with their eyes as they are usually much more open characters than people
with dark brown or black eyes - as explained on our page on Health & Diet.
The strongest contact and connection a person can make without touching
another person is through EYE CONTACT. So learn to control the images
one sees and the energy of ones soul that one emits by learning to control
one eyes and eyelids. In the table below we give a few examples of the
movement of ones eyes and the energy and signal that it emits to other
people.
An open wide stare, indicates complete openness and 100% concentrat

mind and thoughts.
A continual slow blinking, indicates a lack of interest and almost about

fall asleep !
A wink with the right eye, indicates the person is closing the right eye
logic and leaving open the left eye of emotions . A romantic sign of lov
friendship and emotional attachment.
A very fast blinking eye, indicates either a silly and jovial nature or som
who wants to have closure from a situation, doesn't like what they see
keeps checking quickly to see if the image has gone away!
Only blinking occasionally yet a quick blink, indicates full concentrati

a subject, the occasional quick blink indicates a pause in absorbing and
thinking about the image, but not wanting to loose focus.
A stare with a long blink, indicates a person who is in control with thei
mind and thoughts, they are bored and unhappy with what they see, the
eyes give the impression they are thinking of something else, somewhe
else in their mind, the long blink shows disapproval at the image and a
it would go away!
The best way to THINK and connect

spiritually CLOSE ONES EYES
The physical eyes connect our soul to the physical world through the
images it sees. For example if we look at the News items, especially tragic
news which makes us feel open and emotional, we actually feel as if we are
there. Hence the reason why so many people naturally and instinctively
CLOSE THEIR EYES, when they need to concentrate their thoughts.
For people who suffer from lack of concentration it has an unbelievable
affect if they CLOSE THEIR EYES for 3 MINUTES. Try it now and see,
STOP everything you are doing and close your eyes even for 10 seconds
whilst sitting in front of the computer ! wow ! see and feel the difference !
When one reopens ones eyes, automatically one feels recharged, more alert
and alive.
In the same way a person closes their eyes to go to sleep for a recharge or
energy, many people find a similar recharge of their souls energy, if they
close their eyes for 5 mins during the daytime. This helps to settle and calm
ones mind, thoughts and soul, ensuring that one can think and remain
focused on ones purpose in life and not "get involved" with other peoples
business and interaction of draining energies.
It is well accepted that when one prays with ones eyes closed it has a very
strong affect, as this closes out the physical world and helps one to connect
spiritually. Likewise public speakers and musicians often close their eyes to
concentrate their full soulful energy, helping them to remain focused and
undisturbed by other peoples energies in the audience. The reason why so
many children and people are nervous in front of large audiences is they
sense and are "open" to some peoples critical and destructive energies who
are willing them to fail, the solution is simple - no eye contact, and be as
"closed" as possible, even close ones eyes if one can.
It is written that on a sunny day, a person feels stronger, this is because the
sunshine is bright and one needs to close ones eyelids and squint to see, this
has the affect of limiting the energy of ones soul being emitted hence a
person feels more "closed". Whereas in the dark or at nighttime when a
person needs to open ones eyes wider to see, then a person is emitting more
soulful energy and is more "open" spiritually.
3. Right Ear & 4. Left Ear

Ones EARS are always open. It takes a special action with ones hands and
fingers to CLOSE ones ears to stop interacting, emitting and receiving
energy. Listening to very loud noises disturbs and unsettles the peace and
serenity of ones soul, hearing abuse, gossip, slander, deceit and lies all have
an unsettling and disturbing affect on ones soul. The only way to BLOCK
and be "closed" to noises, peoples abusive words and speech is to cover
ones ears with ones hands, or use ones fingers to close the little flap in front
of ones ear hole.
Although seemingly the ear does not look like it emits any energy, it is
continually receiving every single noise wherever we are, it is constantly
connected with ones soul with a special sensitivity to EVERYTHING one
hears and occurs wherever one is situated. It has the power to change ones
mood from bad to good and conversely according to the sounds one hears
at each moment.
Hence the tradition of singing when praying (this was specially true in the
1st and 2nd temples when the Levites sung every psalm and prayer) as the
melodic songs have a greater affect on ones soul. Similarly as we explain
on the chapter of Happiness, the power of singing and even humming to
oneself has a positive affect to cancel out any depression and negative
emotions.
When one needs 100% "closure" from external influences always cover
ones ears and hum a tune keeping ones mouth closed, ( if one can't cover
ones ears then at least hum a tune!). This has the effect of resonating ones
own soul and magnifying ones own good energy over the negative outside
influences that one can hear. Most young children instinctively do this,
when they don't want to listen to anyone - they cover their ears and hum
and tune ! Try this and you will feel a self confidence and strength of ones
soul over and above the external noises!
This method of "closure" was introduced again in jewish life in the time of
the Spanish persecution of Sefardic jews in 1492 and in Chassidic
communities of Poland and Russia during 1800's & 1900's, especially by
Lubavitch Rebbes and the most Famous Rebbe Nachman of Breslov.
During the noisy pogroms, he always covered his ears and hummed a song,
this enabled him to remain spiritually closed to any fears and hatred, hence
protecting his soul. (as we explain on the Protection chapter).
"Cover ones ears and let

the Angels hear ones prayers"
When one closes ones ears, the strength of ones soul is now contained,
there are no leakages! Try whispering, talking or humming a tune when one
has ones fingers closing ones ear holes, one feels the full strength of ones
voice and even feels, as though spiritually ones angels are listening ! This is
because, ones soul is "closed" to the outside physical world, and therefore
open spiritually. Try praying whilst closing and covering ones ears, say a
few words in prayer and feel the difference.
5. Right Nostril & 6. Left Nostril

The breath of life and air that we need to survive in this world enters and
exits our physical body through our nose, which is constantly OPEN. Only
when the air is so contaminated. polluted or smelly then we take our fingers
to "pinch" our nose close. Otherwise it remains open.
According to Kabbala the RUACH "Spirit of Life", our souls energy and
that energy of spirit souls that attach themselves to our souls enters through
the breath of life. Therefore, if one ever feels overwhelmed by negative
feelings or discomfort, even spiritual "panic" attacks, then simply TAKE
DEEP BREATHES through ones nose.
In fact a person should daily take deep breathes during the day, this helps to
exhale any negative or stressful emotions and always helps to return a state
of "peace of mind" and calmness to ones soul. Try it now take 3 deep
breathes through ones nose and feel the difference, breathe in all the way
and then hold the breathe and then let go of all the negative feelings. This
deep breathing acts to cleanse and invigourate the body, exhaling the
negative and stale air from ones lungs and body. Try deep breathing before
one goes to sleep, this will aid a peaceful nights sleep and as one wakes up
in the morning to invigourate the body.
If one finds it difficult to take deep breathes or one has blocked nose, this is
a physical sign that one needs to learn to "unblock" ones emotions within
ones spirit soul. The more stressed a person is, the more difficult it is to
take deep breathes, so take it slowly at first and one will feel better the
more one learns to breathe deeply, restoring calmness to ones body and
soul. Once a person can take deep breaths easily reflects they have reached
a state of peace within their soul, and no longer hold onto any stress or
negative emotions !
7. Mouth
In this section teaching spiritual "closure", the mouth is the most important
part of ones physical body that distinguishes us from animals. The power of
speech, the self expression of our individuality of each persons soul. Our
ability to control our speech, the words we say, the way we say them and
the loudness, quietness and tone of our speech identifies the mood and
spiritual energy of our soul.
A very powerful person often feels no need to shout, in fact the more truly
powerful spiritual person often speaks soft-spoken and very quietly, with a
tremendous dignity and respect of value of every word they say. Those
people who shout and are loud often carry no true energy, so no one really
listens to them as their words have no energy from their soul, as they are
weak spiritually. (We explained on the page of spirit & guidance the power
of ones soul and speech reflects ones soul, ones ability to connect to ones
guardian angels and have ones prayers answered).
Sefer Shinuyim, "the Book of Changes", in the introduction explains the
hebrew word for TEETH and CHANGE comes from the same word , the
importance of this is to make a person aware, if a person really wants to
change then they should CHANGE THE WAY THEY SPEAK.
Since the energy of ones soul enters and exits through ones mouth in the
form of speech, if a person wishes to be 100% closed with ones mouth then
one should keep ones mouth closed, and clench ones mouth firmly closed
by clenching ones teeth together. The more firmly one holds, keeps and
uses all the facial muscles to keep ones mouth closed, indicates to your
body and soul that you want "closure" and no spiritual or physical draining
will now occur through your mouth.
In fact if you are sitting in the peace and quiet on your own, try closing
your mouth and using all your facial muscles to keep your teeth firmly
closed, one actually feels the strength of closure. It really works!
8. Belly Button
This is the knot in ones skin that was originally the umbilical cord, the
connection between an unborn baby and the mother in the womb. This
point is the source of nourishment of energy that we all received in our
mothers womb. At birth the cord is cut and tied to become the "belly
button". This area is considered spiritually to always be a source of energy
entering and leaving ones body and soul.
CLOSURE:- usually this area is clothed and covered, if one places ones
hand over ones "belly button" or folds ones arms then this sensitive point
becomes closed, and ones spiritual soul is closed and is not being drained at
this point. (Children when they feel ill, tired or weak instinctively cover
their "belly button", having come recently from the womb they remember
and recognize that the source of their souls energy exits and enters in this
place).
It should be noted that in today's "modern fashion", some women expose
their "belly button", this is actually exposing their soul to be open to be
drained of any positive energy by any negative energy, especially energy of
"sexual desire" from men who are not giving them energy but actually
taking energy from these women - no wonder some women feel so drained,
tired and have headaches - their souls energy is being drained from them !
Simple solution is ONLY expose ones belly button to ones soulmate when
making LOVE and no one else !
9. Sexual Organ
Naturally this is different for the male and female. However both have the
same values in common, in that they are both "opened" by an emotional
sexual arousal. This is partly due to the natural, normal and basic "animal
instinct" of a male being attracted to and desiring a female, and a female
desiring to be loved and made wholesome by a male. This is also due to a
spiritual connection of two people "connecting" and "energising" each
other as they both have what the other is lacking. The need to connect
sexually in order to make each other whole, as they are indeed 2 halves of a
whole is perfectly normal and natural, as they connect sexually both are
opening themselves to each others soul, and allowing a creative transfer of
loving soulful energy.
However, if they are not each others "soulmates", then this sexual union
allows one to take from the other persons life, soul and destiny, this is
especially common with "loose" women who "sleep around" taking energy
from different men, and end up being totally confused having lost their
original identity, as their soul is now a mixture of several competing souls
energies, as they have taken a soulful "identity" from the men they have
been with, this is also true with men taking confusing womens energy,
hence men have confusion over their true soulmate too.
We shall explain the concept of sexual motivational energy at length on the
page of Motivation, that the energy of life on earth is motivated by love and
a desire to be part of creation, the "driving" energy and force of motivation
for people to live in this world is a desire to LOVE and be LOVE, which
creates a life giving energy. This energy is instilled in most people, through
the emotions and "sexual" feelings/arousal of sexual energy.
The sexual organ is directly influenced by the visions one sees with ones
eyes, hence physical and spiritual "CLOSURE" of ones "sexual organ"
means controlling ones EYES and the images it sees, together with
controlling ones THOUGHTS not to be aroused sexually by anyone other
than ones soulmate. That is to send a clear message to ones mind - that one
only wants to be aroused be ones soulmate when making love and NO
ONE ELSE.
If a person has become aroused sexually, then they have allowed their soul
to be influenced and an exchange of energy has taken place, as this arousal
energy is "thought energy" it is in the same group as loss by
"Transference". If a man or woman has aroused another person then part of
their souls energy is taken by that person they have aroused.
If this "thought" energy is transferred into a lewd act of wasted sexual
energy, and the object of "fantasy" was not "closed" or aware that they
were arousing other people sexually then they will find themselves
inexplicably drained or spiritually "attacked" by such energies.
We explain the importance of this fully on the Protection page, as the main
loss of energy from a persons soul, especially a loss by "Transference is
made when a person is "open" through sexual arousal of their sexual organ.
The simple solution is to remain as focused and closed as possible, being
100% careful of the images a person sees which will ensure that a person is
not "opened" up by sexual desires. When a person realises that they "waste"
so much of their souls energy through acts of "wasted" sexual arousal then
a person guards this facet even more preciously, and in turn one has the
positive energy to have wholesome and regular sexual love-making with

ones husband/wife.
If one is not in a relationship, then onessoul becomes ready when one stops
wasting sexual energy from the soul through "acts" of waste, its a simple
formula, ones soul responds to ones actions, when a person stop wasting
the souls life energy, a block is taken away and the life energy of ones
destiny that is contained within a persons soul has the energy and focus to
find ones loving perfect soulmate.
10. Anus
The Anus is the place where only faeces is excreted. The most vile,
disgusting, smelley and poisonous excrement the body can produce exits
the body here. It is vital to ones health to keep this "anus" clean by washing
regularly. The anus is naturally kept 100% closed except at this moment
when waste energy exits.
There is a very important point that, just after one has been to the toilet, and
cleared oneself of this negative waste and sewage. Ones body is actually at
a state of its purest and holiest spiritually.
After one has got rid of this poisonous waste, usually in the morning after a
good nights sleep, one feels very relieved and very "clear- headed", this is
because spiritually ones soul feels clear and pure, having rid itself of this
negative waste. This is indeed the ideal time to pray and think spiritually, it
is said in teh talmud Bava Metzia that the greater the person is spiritually
the longer they wait to have breakfast in the morning, as their body feels
most spiritual and sensitive after an evacuation of the bowels, before starts
eating in the morning and one puts food into the digestive system.
11. Right Hand & 12. Left Hand

Please see our "Palmistry" page for an introduction and explanation of the
spiritual strength, power, knowledge and how the destiny of our souls
journey in this physical life is contained within the lines on ones hand.
CLOSURE of ones hand, and a refusal to allow any energy to be wasted or
stolen from ones soul is simply in keeping a firmly closed clenched fist. As
ones hands are also exposed in touching, it is imperative that one always
washes ones hands to keep them clean with a sense of respect and purity
for ones soul. When a person washes and cleanses ones hands it is actually
cleansing and washing ones soul.
Position of Hands to be "Focused and

Closed"
This is the best way for Prayers, Spiritual Learning, be able to focus ones
thoughts and energies, and being 100% closed to outside influences. As this
contains ones energies of ones soul for oneself, not allowing any space for
any negative energy.
As we have learnt that our hands our the external connection between the
physical world and our spiritual soul, hence by closing ones fists, closes
ones soul. Or clasping both hands together also closes ones soul to bad
influences. (For those who understand the Aramaic Gemorra Talmud ,
please see the source of the Segula of being closed to bad influences with
ones hands on this special web page . )
Praying Hands
Praying with hands as in this picture above was stopped in Europe in the
15th Century after the christian crusaders had murdered jewish
communities on their way to the Holy Land . The European Rabbis felt that
praying with hands as in picture above would be copying the accepted
"christian" way of prayers. Nontheless the oriential and sefardic
communities of the muslem / arab countries continued to pray with their
hands.
"Talking with ones hands"

When a person talks, the "body language" as one speaks indicates to the
listening person, the degree of sincerity and soulful power of emotion of
their words. "Talking with ones hands" indicates to the listener that one is
emotional, honest and wants to let the other person "feel" the power of the
words in their soul.
Try some exercise talking to yourself whilst making movements with your
hands, showing the palms of your hands, turning them sideways, upside
down, and even try talking with a clenched fist. You will see for yourself
that each movement of ones hands coupled with ones speech has its own
specific meaning. As one becomes more spiritually aware of the power of
ones soul within ones hands, one will learn that one can communicate ideas
and soulful thoughts to others using the movement of ones hands.
The best way to convey that one is CLOSED is to talk with a CLENCHED
CLOSED FIST. The best way to convey that one is OPEN is to talk with an
OPEN hand , SHOWING THE PALMS of ones hand.
13. Right Foot & 14. Left Foot

The foundation and connection of our physical body to the physical earth is
through our feet.
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"A living person carries itself" Talmud Shabbos 94a ( see )
Everyone is aware that a dead person weighs more than a live person. The
Talmud, Rashi and the Maharsha, explain that the soul of a person within
the physical body lifts the body from the earth. A depressed persons body,
who has disconnected themselves spiritually from any emotions of LOVE,
happiness or belief in GOD, feels heavier than a happy contented and
spiritually enlightened person.
A sensitive person always has an inner feeling when they simply "know"
and "feel" that everything is going to be fine, this feeling is based on the
fact that they feel their soul within their body lifting and energising their
body into action with a "lightness" that only comes when a person is
connected spiritually.
This feeling is felt most signifciantly in ones feet, the way and manner a
person walks indicates the energy of ones soul in ones physical body. If one
ever steps carefully over a fragile floor, one knows that one cannot put ones
full weight or connection with the floor, and yet when one walks or even
runs in to countryside in a field or in the garden one firmly and solidly
connects one feet with the ground below. The floor we walk on with our
feet directly relates to the energy our feet connects with the earth. The more
solid we are connected the stronger our physical and spiritual connection
our soul in making to this place, the lighter we walk the less connection we
are choosing to make.
Middle Eastern traditions of washing

ones feet
From creation through to the time of Abraham and in every generation,
there has been a spiritual importance of cleansing and washing ones feet
before prayer . In our generation especially in a "western cultured" society,
the basic spiritual laws are forgotten and many peoples feet are in awful
condition . Certainly NOT a "pretty" sight to look at, even worse for the
odour !
The feet reflects the foundation of ones body and soul
and ones ability to connect both spiritually and physically to this earth.
Take a look at your feet - what condition are they in ?
The remedy is simple, wash them at least TWICE a day in the morning and
evening . If one has dry skin, then use natural cocoa butter to rub into your
feet . Give your feet fresh air - never wear socks in bed ( unless you're in
really freezing conditions in the north pole or camping in Siberia ! ) .
Make sure that you always have the most comfortable pair of shoes. Never
wear a pair of shoes because they "look good" to others, but hurt ones feet !
Such a silly attitude - reflects ones character .
"CLOSURE" in order to not allow any spiritual energy to be drained from
ones feet, simply keep ones feet washed, cleansed and covered, wear shoes
with a solid and firm soul, and think on the way one walks and is
connecting ones feet to the ground and "mother earth".
There is a spiritual "cleansing " to help people connect their physical body
to their spiritual soul and to earth and the place where one is living and that
is to JUMP up and down, with all ones weight. Or even if one is sitting to
stamp ones feet on the ground ! The feet is the furthest part of ones body
from ones head, which containes ones thoughts from ones soul, and yet by
connecting these two extreme parts of our body helps one to find
wholesomeness and continuous connection between the physical and
spiritual worlds.
Summary table
The
Sensitive
Points
Method of "Closure" and prevent draining of spiritual and physical energy
Close eyes, look down, make no eye contact, "squint", opening the eyelids as l
as possible , use the multi faceted "expressions" of ones eyes, eye muscles and
Right & Left eyelids movements to express ones feelings and opinions of either happiness o
Eyes
displeasure. Communicating ones thoughts through the energy of ones eyes is
almost "telepathy", the highest form of physical communcation a person can h
this world. Learn to control and guard ones eyes from loosing energy of ones s
Right & Left Covering ones ears , closes the outside draining noises, and helps a person
concentrate all ones souls energy inwards. Ones prayers are heard even more
intensely when covering ones ears and closing ones eyes .
Usually left open unless one "pinches" ones nostrils close and breathes through
Right & Left
mouth. Taking deep breathes through ones nostrils relieves any tension and stre
Nostrils
negative emotions in spirit of ones soul and in ones body.
Keep ones mouth firmly "closed" , Use ALL ones facial muscles to close as tig
Mouth
as possible ones mouth and keep ones teeth tight and firmly locked together.
"Belly
Keep covered and place ones hands or folded arms over the belly button area.
Button"
Avoid being aroused for anyone other than ones spouse/soulmate, channel one
Sexual
thoughts of "sexual" love and arousal for one soulmate and NO ONE else, by
Organ
avoiding eye contact and thoughts of "fantasy" and desires.
Keep healthy and allow regular bowel evacuation, always keep washed and
Anus
cleansed.
"Clenched" fist or "clasp" hands together ensure "closure" of ones souls energy
Right & Left Learn to "talk with ones hands" to express the emotional intensity of ones soul
Hands
Using the power of ones soul in ones hands to convey energy and thoughts dire
from ones soul.
Keep ones feet washed. cleansed and free of "rotten" or dead skin. The feet are
Right & Left foundation and connection of ones physical body to this earth, how one walks
Feet
reflects ones souls willingness to be on earth, and fulfill ones mission of life on
earth.
Ears
The 7 purely spiritual points in our

body
These points have no physical "opening" points, but they are centres and
sources of physical and spiritual energy. These are the points of significant
activity, which connects our physical body and spiritual soul . (Known
amongst "non jewish " literature as chakras energy points)
1. The Crown On Top of Ones Head

2. The 3rd Eye - The Spiritual Eye
3. The Voice Box in ones Throat
4. The Heart
5. The Solar Plexus - the area just behind
the belley button in the centre of ones
digestive stomach.
6. The Root - Base of the Spine
7. The Sexual Organ
We explain these points fully on the page of "Spiritual Protection", we shall

briefly explain how to have "closure" and be "open" spiritually at these
sensitive points in the table below, and explain "closure" of the Spiritual
3rd Eye.
The spiritual
centres of
energy
Method of being "open" spiritually
Awareness that the DIVINE spiritual

1. The Crown
presence rests at the crown of ones
On Top of Ones
head, and is always receiving spiritual
Head
energy and "thoughts"
Method of "Closure" to prevent

draining of spiritual energy
Cover ones head, or simply place ones
hand ontop of ones head and pray for
protection and closure that no
destructive or negative thoughts be
allowed to get into your mind and soul.
Pray that ones good guardian angels
protect ones "crown".
Whenever a person is happy and "open"

Place ones hand over the place of the
with a sense of Spiritual aliveness with
Spiritual 3rd eye, focus ones thoughts
a TRUST and LOVE of GOD and
in prayer to ask for the 3rd eye to be
LOVE of people, the spiritual 3rd eye is
2. The 3rd Eye closed and protected especially from
then opened, seeing and sensing
The Spiritual
earthbound spirit souls, other peoples
everything. Especially when a person
Eye
negative thoughts and destructive
gets very excited or aroused
energies. Refusing in ones thoughts to
emotionally the 3rd eye opens even
allow any energy to be taken from ones
more to allow a flow of spiritual energy
soul through the 3rd eye.
into and out of ones soul.
3. The Voice
Box in ones
Throat
Speaking or singing with emotions,

thoughts opens this place spiritually,
men have more power in this area than
women, hence the reason why their
words have more force and power.
Keep quiet, keep ones mouth closed,

dont hum or sing to oneself, say
nothing, and cover with ones throat
with ones hands closes all energy from
this point
The "heart" is usually always open, to
either good emotions or negative
emotions. When one has hateful and
destructive emotions, simply CLOSE
ones mind and thoughts by
FOCUSING ones thoughts on LOVE
and compassion.
4. The Heart
For those people who have a "closed

Feeling emotional, whether happiness
heart" and feel no emotions neither
or sadness, anger or love, sexual arousal
good nor bad are in fact called the
or hateful aggression opens the heart
"living DEAD". Every living being on
emotions, even healthy exercise,
earth whom is connected spiritually,
walking or running makes a persons
having a vitality of life with a sense of
heart "beat faster" and "opens" ones
aliveness, always have their "heart"
heart to spiritual energy.
emotions open.
If a person is not emotional ly alive in
their heart then they are in an
"emergency state of deep depression"
or near death, and lack any motivation
to live. Time to change a "wake up" get ones heart beating fast and start to
experience and live life !
5. The Solar
Plexus - the area
around the belly
button, the
centre of ones
digestive
system.
6. The Root Base of the
Spine
Feeling excitement of anticipation,

opens this spiritual sense. This is the
first place to sense something NEW
about to happen, whether good or bad,
if one has "good or bad feelings" in this
area fortells the feelings of anticipation.
When feelings of anticipation are

uncomfortable , simply place ones
hands over the "Belly button and fold
ones arms, refusing to allow any
transference of energy into ones soul.
The spine contains the flow of energy

from ones brain to the whole of ones
body. The Root of the Spine contains
the energy connecting ones soul, mind
to the nerves of in ones feet, hence ones
foundations and connections to this
Being "closed" in this area and

preventing a life flow can indeed be
done by bending the curvature of ones
back. Walking with ones eyes down,
head facing the ground and back
curved in "humility" helps to keep one
physical earth. It also contains the

energy to connect as a flow of creative
life energy to ones sexual organs.
This is usually open, however for
lethargically lazy people that are
lacking "lifes energy", who sit
"slouched" in the wrong type of chair,
are indeed blocking the flow of life
energy.
Simply learn to sit up or stand up
straight, so that one spine allows a
comfortable flow of energy from ones
head to the base of ones spine.
7. The Sexual
Organ
"closed".
When people feel dizzy, Dr's advise,
sitting down placing ones head
between ones knees, (which bends ones
back) and relax, after a few minutes
one then feels "closed" and stops
panicking or feeling drained as one has
become "closed"
To become closed one can also place

ones hands firmly at the base of ones
back and STRETCH ones back and
When one feels "tired" or depressed,
spine, even lean backwards - this will
place ones hands firmly at the base of automatically bring an openess and
ones back and try STRETCHING ones flow of life energy to this area. THEN
back and spine, even lean backwards - PRAY, verbalise and focus ones
this will automatically bring an openess thoughts on having "closure" to any
and flow of life energy to this area.
draining or negative feelings, whilst
remaining open and connected to the
This is the natural position of a man
life flowing physical and spiritual
when making love, (ontop of a woman), energy.
has his back stretched which allows a
natural life giving energy to flow
through his body.
If one is NOT with ones soulmate then
a person needs "closure" to quell ones
This area of energy is opened, when a desire.
person sees and connects their thoughts
with an object of natural lustful desire. The sexual organ is completely
This is perfectly normal for every adult controlled by ones mind and thoughts.
man and woman to be attracted to each To have "closure" one must simply
other sexually. The challenge of life is relay the message to ones mind, soul
to channel this sexual energy to ones
and thoughts "that now is NOT the
soulmate ONLY at the appropriate time appropriate time or person", and that
for a desire to create life and flow of
one is saving the energy and emotions
creative loving energy.
for a truly loving creative relationship
ONLY with ones destined soulmate.
The 3rd Eye - The Spiritual Eye
Please read our webpage we called Space Cleansing and Clearing - "Feng
Shui" , and the page "Rescue work" which explains how the Spiritual 3rd
eye senses, receives and emits SPIRITUAL energy.
The concept of the Spiritual 3rd eye .
Images of our THIRD eye appear everywhere, even on a keyring ! The

Spiritual 3rd Eye is actually positioned between ones physical eyes and
slightly above the eyebrows in the centre.
Even on a one dollar bill from the USA - a "3rd eye" on top of the pyramid,
whilst there is a star of David on the other side ontop of the eagle,
interesting?
THE THIRD EYE

Your eyes are the windows of your soul, whatever you see through your
physical eyes makes an impression upon you, it affects your judgement and
probably all your decisions are made on the basis of what you see .
As i explained in the article on re-incarnation from Reb Chaim Vital that
our soul transcends into our physical body at various stages of our life .
Once we have arrived at the level where our Third Eye is opened, although
we may not see anything physically , we nontheless are SEEING things
spiritually . The 3rd eye is known according to kabbala to be in between
ones normal eyes , as the picture above .
Your Physical eyes see but your 3rd eye senses spirit and all the spiritual
energy
Ever had the feeling when you look at something, it feels great or
appauling, these senses are from your spiritual 3rd eye on a spiritual level.
Hence, being careful what you are facing and looking at is exceedingly
important, as your spiritual soul is looking through your third eye . That is
why in Jewish law (and in many religions such as muslem according to the
Koran) it is forbidden to read any holy books in a place where obscenities
and filth can be seen, even if you turn your eyes away - this does not help,
as your THIRD EYE sees and senses everything .
ALWAYS BE AWARE THAT YOUR THIRD EYE SEES AND SENSE
EVERYTHING ....
Closure and Protection of ones

Spiritual 3rd Eye
To have Spiritual "Closure" of ones 3rd Eye, simply place ones hand over
the place of the Spiritual 3rd eye, focus ones thoughts in prayer to ask for
the 3rd eye to be closed and protected especially from earthbound spirit
souls, other peoples negative thoughts and destructive energies. Refusing in
ones mind and thoughts, to allow any energy to be taken from ones soul
through the 3rd eye. It is well known that many spiritually senstive Rabbis
when in public, need to protect their 3rd eye, as in the Photo above of the
famous Bobover Rebbe.
4. Learning to coordinate and "THINK" specific thoughts of "closure" in ones

mind, simultaneously to making the physical gestures of "closure".
Simultaneously to making the physical movements to have "closure" one

needs to focus ones thoughts to have a mental "closure" on the situation.
This is simply done with 3 thoughts, assess and accept that the situation is
no longer acceptable, verbalise a desire to have "closure" and "detach"
oneself emotionally.
(a) Assess honestly the situation, and DECIDE that the situation is
UNACCEPTABLE and now has become unneccessary to remain in ones
life. This decision must be taken honestly to ascertain the fact with the
underlining questions :- "DO I NEED THIS SITUATION FOR THE
SPIRITUAL GROWTH AND DEVELOPEMENT OF MY SOUL?" "NO" - "THEREFORE I AM NOW LETTING GO", and say to oneself "I
release the need for this situation to be in my life, it is draining me
spiritually and therefore abusing my soul, i am now having closure on this
situation"
Be focused in ones mind that this "draining" situation is no longer needed
in ones life, as one has changed, learnt the lessons. This situation was part
of ones past and not going to be part of ones future.
(b) Verbalise:- once a situation has become "unacceptable" and one needs
"closure" use the power of speech to admit honestly that one no longer
wants this situation in ones life. By verbalising and praying that there is no
longer a need for this "draining" situation, one is affirming that one is
starting the process of "releasing" any connections.
Affirmations such as "I am ready to walk away and let go of anything to do
with this draining situation", "being connected to this situation is dangerous
for my soul, i am wishing to save my life and soul by detaching myself
from this abusive situation" , "i am being as closed as possible physically
and spiritually to this draining person or situation", " this situation has
nothing to do with me ", "this situation is not my destiny, my soul does not
belong here ", etc., within a short time of affirming, ones soul starts to let
go of all the energy of attachment, and as doors close other doors open.
Therefore, when one prays and say " i want closure from this draining
situation, which is wrong for my soul" and one says this with a clenched
closed fist and closed eyes, one will find a tremendously good energy in
successfully having "closure".
Often, when a person is in the "wrong" situation for their soul, one feels
agitated that one has no personal power or control over ones life. This is
because there is an overlapping and attachment one has made to "connect"
unnecessarily to other people. The easiest way to STOP this connection is
to learn "closure".
Affirm to oneself - "I no longer wish to connect with other peoples lives
who have nothing to do with me, i am therefore no longer going to interfere
with their lives or destiny, therefore they have no right or permission to
interfere with my life and destiny".
When a person realises that one is really in control, and by having closure
and REFUSING TO INTERFERE and GET INVOLVED with other
peoples lives, this will STOP them from interfering and getting involved
with ones life. The loss of ones souls energy to other people by
"transference",automatically stops and one has managed to unblock ones
destiny by "closure".
Remember, that if someone is interfering unnecessarily in your life, this is a
sign that you are interfering in someone elses life unnecessarily, learn
"closure" by detaching oneself from other people, refuse to "get involved",
take the "i dont care attitude" , "its nothing to do with me, my life and my
destiny" and automatically these unnecessary irritable events and people

dissappear "magically" from ones life. They simply stop bothering you as
you have succeeded to develope your spirituality and changed !
(c) Learn to detach oneself mentally and emotionally from the draining and
unacceptable situation, learn to take the "i don't care" attitude, learn
forgiveness and "let go" which helps to sever all links. If one retains any
kind of emotion, especially hate, jealousy and any negative emotions, these
feelings CONNECT and BIND a person to the situation even stronger.
Many people make a mistake in "running away" from difficult situations, in
an escape of avoidance to "confront and deal with" the underlying spiritual
lessons and problems the situation has presented t ones soul. These people
will probably continue such a pattern in life, until the STOP running away
and deal with the emotional issues in their mind and soul. Once one clears
the negative emotions and detaches ones mind and thoughts completely
from the abusively draining situation or person, one will feel enlightened in
ones soul and free to live with any negative emotions.
Learn to detach oneself by taking the "i dont care" attitude, wishing the
other people one is trying to detach from all the good luck in the world, but
desiring not to "get involved" in their lives no longer, this means a person
needs to develope the "closure" and a sense of "no emotions" at all towards
the person or situation.
In our generation many divorced people wonder why they cannot find love
after having a failed relationship, that is because they have not "divorced"
themselves emotionally in their mind, they still hold hatred, bitterness and
resentment towards their ex -lovers, ex -husband/wife.
It is always wise to take the "i dont care whatever happens to them!" attitude of mind, accepting the failed and wrongful relationship was simply
not ones destiny. If one does not "let go" emotionally one becomes rigid,
cold, unloving, very bitter and hateful in life, closing any emotions of
LOVE. If one closes emotions of LOVE, then one is detaching oneself
from the creative life energy of this world GOD whom is LOVE.
This principle applies to everyone whom is seeking a loving life, as one
cannot be a spiritual person with a creative life energy of LOVE and
attached to GOD, if one has any hatred emotions, hatred is indeed
DEATH . So learn to be loving and compassionate and ones life will be full
of love and peace of mind.
The Secret "Key" to Succeed in

"Closure"
After learning about "Destiny" and loss by "transference", one then gets a
firm belief and understanding that one has ones own life and destiny to
fulfill, instead of being "carried along" like sheep in a flock, with "other
peoples" lives. Most people only "wake-up" to this fact during the
midlifecrisis, when they honestly analyse "where did they go wrong?",
"what signs in their life did they not listen to?" and "how can they get
themselves on their true life destined pathway?".
Once a person understands 100% that it is wrong to interact or take
someone elses life and destiny, then one becomes more committed to
finding ones own purpose and destiny in life. The secret "key" to succeed
in gaining "closure" is simply to acknowledge to GOD and Spirit world
HONESTLY, that one is no longer wishing to live "someone" elses life.
Then automatically, the doorway of knowledge is opened, spiritual
guidance is given and "magically" Divine coincedences open closed doors,
once and only once a person has had "closure" on the wrongful past !
5. The Final Act of "closure" as taught from King Solomon in Proverbs.
As we explained in the page Loss by "Transference" everyone is interacting

and continually exchanging and creating energy through the connections
with other people. With good people we associate with, we create a life
energy through love and compassion, through the "negative" connections
our souls feel drained.
Whenever two people interact, they exchange energy, in every transaction
their is an agreed transfer of energy. The reason why thought energy of
"Transference" is not a valid transaction is that one side can cancel out the
energy ny cancelling out the thought energy that occured in the past.
There is a specific transaction that also connects people spiritually and that
is in a "gift". Where one person gives a physical object and the recipient is
giving nothing physical in return at that moment. This is either for 2
reasons, the gift is a "thank you" gift for something that has happend in the
past, and the giver felt obliged to give a gift out of appreciation and
wishing to cancel out any "debt" of energy. Or a person is giving a gift for a
future favour they are planning to make. In either case, the energy of the
gift either connects these two people for the future or disconnects from the
past.
", " - "One of hates gifts will live"

Proverbs Chapter 15 verse 27
The reason King Solomon made this spiritual statement is to WARN
everyone to be careful with whom they have connections, and to be very
cautious in accepting gifts. Especially if they dont know what is going to be
requested of them in the future, in accepting a gift now in return for a
favour that will be hard to refuse in the future.
The Secret "Key" to Succeed in

a Final Act of "Closure"
Sefer Shinuyim - The book of Changes teaches that when a person wants to
finalise a divorce or conclude a transaction of any kind, or a disconnection
of any kind, as a final act - a payment of money or a physical object is
given.
"Paying to disconnect and get someone out of your life"
In connecting / disconnecting with someone by a present, this must be a
present that they will definately want, as they must become immediately
attached and not throw the gift away. Therefore a present of money is the
best gift to enable a disconnection and closure, as every materialistic nonspiritual person loves money - cash. If the giver has thoughts that they are
giving the money to the person in order to DISCONNECT completely from
them, then they will actually succeed in "CLOSURE" completely.
This is provided the person does not return the gift or money, but as we
know most selfish or greedy materialistic people will never return money !
This is very significant in the act of "divorce" that the man gives the
woman money to get her out of his life, if the man resents giving money or
if the woman has been manipulatively deceitful in the divorce, then this
"disconnection" money will act to keep them "connected", until they learn
spiritually to "let go" and have "closure".
Similarly if a person has given "presents" to boyfriend/girlfriend, this
energy of the "presents" will keep them connected, so in order to "move
on" and have "closure" - give the presents back, return the energy or throw
the gifts away.
Even if they move onto new relationships, so long as they have "money"
that connects their past relationship then this energy will connect the
recipient to the old relationship. Full and final "closure" means complete
disconnection with a gift of money with the spiritual thoughts of final
"closure" ALWAYS works in accordance with the spiritual laws of
transference of energy.
Pray for their soul - The highest form

of "disconnection"and forgiveness.
A higher level of "closure" and disconnection as we shall teach on the page
of Life of Compassion is to pray for those people who have done one
"injustice, damage and hurt", by praying sincerely for their soul, that they
should find a spiritually loving pathway in life, instead of having a selfish
destructive life, which is only causing hurt to others and to their own soul,
is actually GIVING them the best gift of all. This prayer of compassion
together with forgiveness for the hurt and damage of the past, helps ones
soul to be disengaged from any unnecessary draining attachment to their
soul.
When all the doors of the past are

closed then...
The Doorway of Enlightement Opens

For a Loving and Compassionate
Spiritual Life.
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Jewish Reference Books

Sefer HaNefesh by Reb Shem Tov Ben Yosef Falaq'ira
The specific knowledge on this page with respect to the "senses" and
closure has been taken from the famous 13th century book Sefer HaNefesh
- - a Kabbala book by Reb Shem Tov Ibn Yosef Falaq'ira.
Sefer HaNefesh - is a book by Reb Shem Tov Ibn Yosef Falaq'ira (
lived in the area of French Spanish border in 13th century, please see here
for full history and explanation of alll his writings in English ) . One of the
most profilic Sefardic spiritual writers, see here for more of his seforim
available online . The book explains clearly the relationship between the
soul, the levels of energy within the soul , and the direct relationship with
every part of our body . Especially focusing on the bodily senses of sight,
sound, touch, taste, smell and how these directly affect the level of soul
known as "Nefesh" . The book continues to explain the level of "RUACH"
- "the breathe of life" - spirit through the power of speech, relating the
power of speech and physical bodily senses together to bring healing to the
SOUL .
Brainwashing & Debrainwashing

"A single thought has the power to change the whole world"
"Sefer Shinuyim "
The Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes explains that a small key of a
single thought and knowledge, one can have the ability to transform and
change ones whole life. This is the reason every person came to this earth
with a mind and ability to THINK in order to CHANGE. The aim of ones
life is to successfully clear and cleanse ones thoughts and soul, unblock the
negative emotions engrained on ones soul, and transform into a positive,
creative, vibrant and loving soul full of vitality and love .
The Simple Method to Transform and

Change
The lesson from "Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Change" is simple :1. ERASE the past, have a complete CLEARANCE, of the past, by
one can see ones mistakes clearly . Especially a need to clear all the
"BLOCKS" one has (or others have) caused and created in ones life,
understanding why the blocks have been there and then clearing them
away. ( This also includes clearing blocks created in ones soul from "past
lives", hence the importance of understanding reincarnation "GILGUL" in
clearing these blockages).
improve collectively the quality of life on earthm, working to cancel out the
energy.
1000's of thoughts everyday

Every moment of everyday, we are thinking thoughts. Most have very little
influence on their own but collectively they identify our general attitude to
life. If most of our thoughts are "other peoples" influences over our mind then we will be confused and be depressed for most of the time. ( as we
explain on the page "Its NOT yours" ).
If your thoughts are your personal and individual thoughts, unique to you
and your soul, then you will feel in control of your life, at peace and
confident with yourself.
Try this Exercise - Erase the "$^!&!"
When you come home after a day at work or outside. Spend 15 mins
thinking of all the things you saw and experienced. What was the image - a
really nice picture in your mind - that impressed you most ? What was the
image that really disturbed and annoyed you ? What was the happiest thing
you saw ? what was the saddest thing you saw ?
Now spend 5 mins erasing the sad, negative and depressing images . Can
you erase these images? Ummmm.... ?? I know - its not easy - in fact its
very difficult to erase something ugly or unpleasant that has happend.
Why is it so difficult to erase the negative, sad and depressing images? The
answer is simple - this negative image has joined the "HUGE DUMP" a
collection of negative experiences in your mind . The single thought has no
real power, but as it joins the DUMP of negative thoughts, it has power to
depress and annoy you. Once the "DUMP" of negative images and
emotions is FULL in your mind, either a nervous emotional breakdown
occurs or :"The mid life crisis"
One of the reasons of the emergency "mid life" crisis for many people, is
that they have amassed millions of negative thoughts and experiences in
their minds, that even the futile attempts of supressing these thoughts by
alcohol, smoking, drugs and other addictions, all these methods have failed
to keep these negative thoughts from "depression" - so finally an outburst
of emotion occurs - whereby a persons mind refuses to "allow in" anymore
of the destructive abusive cycle of negative thoughts to continue.
This is the effect of the "brainwashing cycle" we have lived in for so long,
because we were too lazy and careless to monitor the images and messages
arriving in our mind. The "DUMP" in our mind and soul is FULL and has
had enough abuse . So emergency measures are taken by ones soul to
"BLOCK" everything and anything coming into ones life.
Debrainwashing Cycle
The typical destructive, wasteful "brainwashing" cycle, allows a continual
cycle and collection of negative thoughts to enter our mind and soul . As
we explain on the page "Its not yours" and Depression, these individual
thoughts collect themselves to give a negative outlook on life, and when a
person feels "there is no point to life" - then they stop trying to create a
loving life of kindness, instead they turn to be a destructive influence,
trying to destroy other peoples lives as their life is destroyed like a "sinking
ship", with an evil desire to take other people down with them - this
ofcourse is destructively evil .
The ideal Constructive creative

thought cycle
We call this a "brainwashing" cycle - in a positive way, that just like dirty
clothes are washed and cleansed, similarly our mind needs cleansing of
negative and depressing thoughts and "trash" ! A constructive
"brainwashing thought cycle", enables a positive thinking person to make a
collection of positive thoughts, so that the thoughts have a collective energy

and power to create even more loving creative energy.
There is a 3rd type of "thought cycle" as we explain on the page Loss by

"transference" , the negative energy created by "transference", of energy from
someone else . As we explain on the page of Blocking Success , this
blockage has power to cause destruction and blockages in a good persons
life, by way of transference from a destructive person.
The simple solution to a depressing and destructive way of life is to break

the cycle .
The Solutions:-
We allow ourselves to be abusively brainwashed because of one of 3

reasons:-
1. "We cannot help the fact that we

have been born with rotten parents"
Being born into an abusive family, being born into a family with rotten
parents, who resent their children based on the selfish fact that these
parents NEVER wanted these children. These parents have deep resentment
and hatred for their children, as they selfishly wanted sex without any
constructive creative thoughts of wanting to conceive children .
These parents are irresponsible and lacking intelligence to be responsible
parents. Therefore they commence a cycle of abusive "brainwashing" and
destructive criticism of their unwanted and unloved children.
These "mentally abused" children who are often very gifted and extremely
sensitive, ( as we explain the gift of Sensitive children / souls ). They will
have the spiritual opportunity in many cases to LEAVE home early, as their
soul is hurting and crying inside from abuse and lack of LOVE.
The dilemma is that when one leaves abusive hateful and rotten parents, the
person may replace the "abusive" and negative parent with another
"abusive and negative situation", an untrusworthy friend or spouse, until
they recognise the pattern of attracting into their lives horrible people and
STOP allowing abusive people into their lives and thoughts.
Once one has recognised this pattern, this is the time of transformation,
learning to break the abusive draining cycle, which will automatically clear
the blockages in their lives. Their life and soul is guarenteed to always
blossom to have an amazing life, once they learn to use and control the
mind and thoughts. The secret to a successful life is the control over our
own mind and thoughts. This is the reason given in "Kabbala", why the
greatest, kindest and most loving creative people come from "rotten"
selfish parents.
If one has "rotten" abusive and selfish parents, do not despair ! The
spiritual guarentee in your life is that you have been blessed with the
necessary gifts to escape the negativity and abusivness, to join a life of
loving kindness of great creative achievement. Provided you use you mind
wisely to continually have "Closure" from abusers and be constantly in
control of your thoughts.
This category also applies if one has been brought up in a "closed and
narrow-minded" family of "religious fanatics" of any religion. Parents and
teachers who brainwash their children using "religion" are as corrupt and
even more dangerous as destructive users and abusers. As they "use the
guilt of religion", when in reality they are preventing freedom of speech
and action.
GOD created the world with all different kinds of people, we are all
destined to be different from each other. So NO-ONE has the right to order
another person to confirm to brainwashed rules and regulations that have
NO spiritual meaning. Many religious fanatics are no better than fascism in
the fact that, they force people to believe in destructive or negative laws
and promote hate, violence, death and intolerance against people who dont
follow their hateful ways.
So simply learn to analyse the thoughts you are allowing into your mind
and question the "brainwashing" material wherever it comes from ! Then
you will develope your own unique compassionate and loving soul , and
find spiritual enlightenment away from the past abusers.
( With respect to our usage of the word "rotten" parents , the Sefer
Shinuyim quotes the Zohar Devarim Parsha Ki Tetze and the Talmud Sotah
49a, that at the time of completion of people learning their lessons on earth
at the time of "Moshiach" that the most righteous and good children will be
into families with evil and rotten parents).
Clear the "Baggage" and "Trash"
Provided one has cleared all the "baggage" or emotional "trash" out of ones
mind by debrainwashing and one refuses to allow any Loss by
"Transference" , whilst keeping closed to the past traumas and focusing on
Happiness and Life of Love then one will feel when the time is right to
open up emotionally and start to live life again !
It does happen for everyone ! Everyone has "second chances" in life at the
ages of 30 and again at the age of 40 and 50 and 60 !
This is especially true in our modern generation, as we have seen so many
people change at all ages of life, whom have been married to the "wrong"
person, all they had in common was a "sexual relationship", as soon as that
thrill "wears off" they recognise that they have nothing in common with
each other, starting to live seperate lives and closing down their emotions,
until it becomes unbearable and divorce inevitable. After making the
decision to close a door on the past, they are always blessed by having a
new door open with a really loving soulmate relationship and successful
purpose in life.
Provided one is honest with oneself, and listens to ones true spiritual inner
guidance, making the necessary changes that are specifically right for
YOU. We add this adamently - especially for our generation when there are
so many useless so called "spiritual leaders", as no rabbi, priest or minister
of religion has the right to tell you what to do, each person is uniquely
created by GOD, and has their own specific destiny that is correct for their
soul. Books and knowledge are simply meant to guide the person to make
their specific freewill choice. Learning to "grow-up" means making ones
own freewill choices and not being brainwashed by any religion or
religious leaders. The main reason why so many people have arrived at
midlife crisis is that they have found themselves "living other peoples lives
instead of living their own destiny.
2. "Laziness" - carelessness allows in

"trash" and negative thoughts.
In the book "The Pathway of the Correct" - MesillasYeshorim by
Reb Moshe Chaim Luzzatto, each chapter explains the following Mishne at
the end of Talmud Sotah 49b, this passage explains the pathway to being
spiritual enlightenment :-
"Rebi Pinchas ben Yair says the pathway starts with eagerness and
aliveness, never being lazy or slow, this aliveness will bring one to
cleanliness, not just a physical cleanliness but also a spiritual cleanliness of
ones soul ...."
Keep your mind active and alive
Think carefully and analyse all the messages you are receiving in your
mind and thoughts. As we teach on the page Closure , one can learn to be in
a place physically which is negative and depressive, but if ones mind is
closed to this negativity, is focused and thinking about somewhere
beautiful, then one will feel the aliveness of the positive place and
situation. This is one of the reasons why so many people escape the reality
of their lives and watch TV and films. As they feel energised being
somewhere else in their mind.
Always remember, your mind is your private space, only you have access
to this sacred individual space. Use this space wisely, empty the trash out
regularly, safeguard it from trash coming in and furnish it with life
enhancing, happy and beautiful images.
3. Avoid the fatal illness of

"Half alive - Half dead"
Avoid Grey Sickness:- half awake, half asleep ; half alive, half dead.
Realise that energy sags when your thoughts sag, so vigilantly keep your
thinking alert.
By keeping oneself "positive thinking and alive" in a happy state of mind,
one can keep ones soul connected to the spiritual Divine energy of
aliveness and vitality.
This principle is the essence of Rebi Pinchas ben Yair as quoted above in
hebrew, who says the pathway starts with eagerness and aliveness! Its not
just enough, to avoid laziness, but one should be careful to always live the
aliveness feeling throughout the whole day !
Thankfully many people are bored and are "fed-up" with their lives and
jobs, and are searching for spiritual answers ( especially those of you who
continually read our websites whilst totally bored with your office jobs).
You certainly know what is meant by "grey sickness"!
So find ways to come alive and STAY alive throughout the whole day.
Once you succeed in staying ALIVE, then the boredom of your life will
transform magically into alivness. Your soul will stop blocking your
progress and opportunities of love, success and creative purposeful

aliveness will come into your life.
Motivation
Living without any "motivation" is as

good as being DEAD !
Every person needs "motivation", a sense of purpose and a driving force
that keeps a person moving and alive. This motivational energy is the
driving force behind a persons physical activities and originates from
emotions. Whether positive or negative emotions, love or fear, this is the
driving force motivating a person.
In this chapter of "Motivation" from Sefer Shinuyim - The book of
Changes, we shall explain the 7 sections.
1. "Motivational" energy is created ONLY through ones emotions.
2. Defining regularly ones goals and ambitions in order to energise ones
emotions to get "motivated".
3. Understanding that changing ones objectives in life needs a changed and
refined "motivational" energy.
4. Understanding "Midlife Crisis" is when you reach the top of the ladder
and find that it was against the wrong wall! How this thwarts ones
emotions and stops all motivational energy.
5. Understanding the blockage of "motivational" energy whilst one is
changing course to the correct purposeful pathway of life.
6. Understanding how to "get motivated", getting started again after a
decision to change ones life pathway.
7. The highest form of "motivational energy" comes from Spirit world,
when one is in the selfless service of others through love and compassion.
Introduction
As we have explained in the previous chapters, such as in blocking Success
and depression , the reason why a person lacks "life energy and vitality" is
that one has allowed in "trash" and negative thoughts, which blocks one
lifes vitality - that sense of "aliveness" which makes a person feel ALIVE.
Once a person starts to THINK about ones thoughts and actions instead of
being led like an aimlessly wandering sheep one will start to allow a flow
of life energy.
The fundamental rule is to avoid

"Laziness"
In the book "The Pathway of the Correct" - MesillasYeshorim
by Reb Moshe Chaim Luzzatto, each chapter explains the following
Mishne at the end of Talmud Sotah 49b, this passage explains the pathway
to being spiritual enlightenment :-
"Rebi Pinchas ben Yair says the Pathway of Enlightenment starts with
eagerness and aliveness, never being LAZY or SLOW, this "aliveness" will
bring one to cleanliness, not just a physical cleanliness but also a spiritual
cleanliness of ones soul ...."
Keep your mind active and alive

Avoid the fatal illness of
"Half alive - Half dead"
Avoid Grey Sickness:- half awake, half asleep ; half alive, half dead.
Realise that energy sags when your thoughts sag, so vigilantly keep your
thinking and emotions alert. Once a person has recognised the need to think
for themselves the question is "what is motivation?" and "how to get self
motivated?" Thats right - no one else can motivate you, ONLY YOU can
motivate yourself !
1. "Motivational" energy is created

ONLY through ones emotions.
Understanding that "motivational" energy is created by a persons mind and
soul through ones emotions. The true force driving a person into action is
created by ones thoughts and most importantly converting those thoughts
into EMOTIONS. The success of any person is measured by their ability to
be EMOTIONAL. The more deeply generated emotions a person has the
greater the ability to succeed.
Ofcourse there are 2 types of emotions either Positive or Negative, (LOVE
or FEAR), are the driving forces behind every action we do.
"Negative" motivational energy

This is fundamental emotion and motivational energy of every living being
animal and human on earth. A fear of "not having" food, water and a home,
or a FEAR of safety, this FEAR is the driving force behind every single
person. This fear "drives" a person to work in a job they don't necessarily
enjoy, this fear "forces" us to do things we hate doing, only in order to
fulfill our survival needs, this "fearful" motivational animal instinct is
inbuilt in everyone, is the "fight" for survival.
As this is a negative emotion, it is disconnected from the creative source of
all energy and life on earth which is LOVE, therefore it has no long-lasting
effect, and nothing created by this kind of negative "motivational" energy
will last, hence forcing a repetative cycle of FEARS, in order to motivate
oneself further into actions. Negative emotions include all forms of hatred
and jealousy, whereas anger, aggression and violence are simply the result
of negative emotions.
"Positive" motivational energy

Motivational energy brought about by emotions of LOVE, has the strongest
creative energy. A deep emotional desire of LOVE will drive a person into
action. People whom are driven by the desire of LOVE, will enjoy their
lives more than those driven by "fears", the object of their desires could be
their wife/husband, their children or even an object they LOVE. The love
generated in their thoughts and emotions will motivate a person into
ACTION.
Think carefully the reason why you are doing what you do? Is it out of
LOVE or FEAR ? All the actions that are motivated and driven out of
LOVE will energise a person much differently than those out of FEAR.
One can actually feel a positively spiritual radiance and buoyancy in ones
actions that are motivated through emotions of LOVE, (whereas one
always forgets the mundane and boring actions of fear).
2. Defining regularly ones goals and

ambitions in order to energise ones
emotions to get "motivated".
To get motivated one needs aims, goals and desires, a list of things that one
wants in life, ones short term desires and long term dreams and hopes. As
the motivater Rev Norman Vincent Peale says "Everyone must have a
dream, otherwise how else can one have a dream come true!" That means
to say one MUST have emotions of desire and LOVE that generates a
person into action. By getting "motivated" one is allowing life energy of
this world to flow into ones life in body and soul.
Write a list of ones "AIMS"

once a week - every week
In keeping motivated, it is vital to write a list of ones desires, goals, aims
and ambitions regularly, once a week, every week. In some commmunities
these prayers are included in the prayers at the termination of the sabbath
on saturday evening, in asking for spiritual help to fulfill ones goals at the
beginning of each week.
This list can be as superficial or as spiritual as one likes, but the KEY to
MOTIVATION is that the aims on ones list must drive a persons
EMOTIONAL energy. A person must FOCUS and CONCENTRATE on

this list everyday and "feel alive" out of a desire to get what they have
written on the list. This will motivate a person to work to achieve these
aims and ambitions.
A list of ones "aims" that one really

LOVES
The key to a long-lasting motivational flow of life energy is ONLY from
EMOTIONS of LOVE. The stronger the LOVE emotion the greater the
chance to succeed. For example, many children are forced to go to
university by their parents brainwashing them that it is good for them, such
an aim is driven by fear of disobeying ones parents and not out of LOVE of
knowledge from the University course.
So make 100% certain that it is YOUR aims and ambitions that YOU LIST
which will MOTIVATE you from a DESIRE and LOVE energy.
This is the reason why men who develope young sexually, are driven and
motivated younger to earn money to provide for a girlfriend/wife and
children, than those who are "late developers". The driving motivational
energy on earth is LOVE. Women are motivated to dress nicely and look
after their appearance and beauty out of a inner desire of LOVE for
wanting a man and for creating children. Often women only start to look
after their appearance and beauty, when they are mature and desire to
mother children.
How to "get positively motivated"

Simply read your list of aims, and pray for your ambitions to come true,
EXPLAIN clearly to yourself the reason WHY you want your aims to come
true.
Use words like, "i really really want this to happen, because i come alive
with LOVE at the thought that this will happen, it will be really really
really good for me, as i feel good and love thinking about it".
Concentrate for just 5 mins every morning as you wake up, that the reason
why you are waking up is to fulfill your aims and ambitions, then FEEL
ALIVE with the thoughts that soon you will have your aims, ambitions or
goals and how happy you will be when you have succeeded.
Don't just say it once, but repeat your desires, aims and the reasons for
living - hundreds of times! Sound like a real repetative "nudnik" ! All
children know instinctively that the only way to get something they want is
to keep repeating themselves, interjected with "please, please, please,
please ", finally every parent "gives in" and grants the child the wish !
Before, you do ask for your wishes and desires always remember to start by
THANKING GOD for all the gifts and goodness of everything one DOES
have, as we explained on the "THANK YOU GOD" page, the best way to
get something and to start a flow of "life energy" is to appreciate the gift of
life one has been blessed with already!
"The Pathway of a long journey

starts with the first step"
Think and realise that the thoughts you are motivating and energising
yourself with, are the first steps to succeeding. Then the "long journey" on
road to success will actually go a lot quicker ! But it must start with the
correct FOCUS and energy of LOVING thoughts, that make you feel good.
Magically, after a few days, a person actually wakes up earlier each day
and with more enthusiasm, aliveness and motivation, because a person has
a LOVING aim and purpose. People without any purpose, aims or goals in
life, other than "just to survive" dont feel any energising "motivation".
The more time you spend "thinking" and "motivating" yourself throughout
the day, the more energy you will have to accomplish your goals. All
successfull people are constantly very FOCUSED on their objectives and
goals, which give their emotions, mind and soul the energy to succeed.
Remember, keeping repeating your "motivational" exercise every day
UNTIL you succeed ! Most people start, but "give up" after a few weeks, as
its human nature to go back to the "old ways", the successful will start and
keep energising their thoughts and emotions EVERY DAY until success.
The reason most people fail, is that they don't really want change, nor
really emotionally desire or LOVE that which they are asking for ! So
make sure that your list of aims are things that YOU really want and that
they are good for you !
3. Understanding that changing ones

objectives in life needs a changed and
refined "motivational" energy.
Understanding the basic needs that motivates a person, once those needs
are fulfilled a person needs to change objectives and goals to remain
"motivated".
A teenager who is looking for a few dollars to buy something like a music
CD or computer game will have a different motivational energy to a young
adult who is working to buy a car, or a single man who works to earn
money to impress a woman, or a single woman who works to buy
cosmetics and clothes to impress a man .... all these people are motivated
out of LOVE, however each of the levels and intensity of motivational
energy are different.
As a person grows up from child to adult, one automatically changes the
way one thinks, therefore one also changes the way one "gets motivated".
Instead of thinking for "today", one accepts the need to make a "plan for
the future". This mentally sends the message to save energy to fulfill an
aim and ambition, this needs agility and control in ones mind, as it is
human instinct to want to see results IMMEDIATELY, the feature of an
adult is to learn control and patience in planning for a future dream. This
motivation changes from getting "immediate results" to one of "working
for the future".
The wise young adult will make plans between the ages of 18 and 24 and
expect to see them fulfilled between ages of 24 and 30. Provided one keeps
focused and motivated out of desires and love then most will accomplish
their realistic goals. Provided one learns to adapt, change and be a little
flexible, then one will arrive at ones aim at 30 years old. ( See Maharsha on
Talmud Kiddushin 30b).
4. Understanding "Midlife Crisis" is

when you reach the top of the ladder
and find that it was against the wrong

wall!
Understanding the "midlife crisis" that ones goals and objectives have NOT
brought the peace of mind, sense of purpose, nor loving life energy that one
imagined they would bring.
That "Midlife Crisis" is when you reach the top of the ladder and find that
it was against the wrong wall! This could be a career, marriage, home or
anything one had been aiming for, suddenly at the ages between 30 and 40
one feels "uncomfortably" immoral about this wrong pathway, and loses
motivation.
Losing motivation
Losing motivation and stopping the flow of ones life energy is simply a
way to SAVE YOUR SOUL, in stopping any more wastage of ones good
life energy, it stops you "throwing good after bad".
The first step in changing pathway is to be 100% honest, and accept that
one aims and ambitions need to be changed. We all make mistakes and it is
human nature and part of growing-up to recognise that one has chased after
the wrong meaningless goals and ambitions. It happens to everyone, the
good blessing for Sensitive souls is that one feels need to change course in
life very strongly, and events happen in ones life as signposts to change.
This thwarts ones emotions and stops

all motivational energy.
Most people find this stage of "being honest" difficult, as they feel that
changing course at the ages of 30 - 40 is sending a sign that they have
FAILED in their lives. So they continue by supressing these "bad feelings"
with alcohol, cigarettes and other addictions which help them suppress their
emotions. These "suppressants" of emotions and anything that prevents a
person expressing ones emotions, act to STOP ones motivational energy.
Hence everything starts to "go wrong" as the motivational energy is
stopped, causing a blockage in ones emotions stops the flow of life energy
of motication. Hence leading to "midlife crisis" which forces an emergency
to CHANGE !
5. Understanding the blockage of

"motivational" energy whilst one is
changing course to the correct
purposeful pathway of life.
Understanding that a person loses motivational energy whilst "changing"
their opinions and values of life, once a person has found the correct
pathway, they can them "motivate" themselves into action.
During the "midlife" crisis of changes, one will automatically lose a will to
live and will often question "whats the point of life?" These depressive
emotions will be very significantlt strong if one has really put a lot of effort
and energy into an aim or ambition.
This is more significant in our generation where young people go to
University spend years pursuing a career, only to find out that one has
leanrt useless talents for the real world. After a few years of working one
has to re-train, adapt or the job is no longer done by humans. Coupled with
such a useless career may go hand-in-hand with a relationship that was
based on sexual animal instincts without any thought to desiring ones
soulmate and fulfilling "destiny".
The purpose of this specific and defining time in ones life is to QUESTION
the purpose of ones life. DISCARD the useless and superfluous excess
baggage, and to streamline ones focus on ones true destiny and purpose of
life.
This is simply a temporary blockage,

whilst one is changing pathways
Please be reassured spiritually that this lack of vitality is ONLY temporary,
which usually lasts 12 months but may last up to 2 years whilst one is
transforming and changing. Once one has realligned ones goals and
objectived for a spiritually fulfilling and purposeful physical life in this
"real world", the life vitality energised a person and true motivational
energy of creative life - LOVE - enthuses ones soul.
6. Understanding how to "get

motivated", getting started again after
a decision to change ones life pathway.
Understanding that "motivational" energy is based on ones emotions, if one
has experienced a "blockage" in ones life, especially after a trauma of
divorce or breakdown in love relationships, or financial blockages, then it
is difficult to get ones emotions "opened" up again, as one has a fear of
"being hurt" or repeated failure, so people make the MISTAKE and remain
CLOSED emotionally.
Once one has rectified ones mistakes

OPEN UP EMOTIONALLY !
The only way to "get motivated" is by being opened up emotionally.
Provided one has made the necessary changes then one has nothing to fear !
And so what, if you make another mistake, there is always the saying "3rd
time lucky". The important key is that one must OPEN up emotionally to
generate the emotional LOVE energy which drives MOTIVATION and a
desire to live, love and accomplish a purposeful life.
Many people suffer a "transit" sickness, whilst they are in the changing
state, as they have been hurt and lack a self confidence in themselves and a
fear of life.
Provided one has cleared all the "baggage" or emotional "trash" out of ones
mind by debrainwashing and one refuses to allow any Loss by
"Transference" , whilst keeping closed to the past traumas and focusing on
Happiness and Life of Love then one will feel when the time is right to
open up emotionally and start to live life again !
It does happen for everyone ! Everyone has "second chances" in life at the
ages of 30 and again at the age of 40 and 50 and 60 !
This is especially true in our modern generation, as we have seen so many
people change at all ages of life, whom have been married to the "wrong"
person, all they had in common was a "sexual relationship", as soon as that
thrill "wears off" they recognise that they have nothing in common with
each other, starting to live seperate lives and closing down their emotions,
until it becomes unbearable and divorce inevitable. After making the
decision to close a door on the past, they are always blessed by having a
new door open with a really loving soulmate relationship and successful
purpose in life.
Provided one is honest with oneself, and listens to ones true spiritual inner
guidance, making the necessary changes that are specifically right for
YOU. We add this adamently - especially for our generation when there are
so many useless so called "spiritual leaders", as no rabbi, priest or minister
of religion has the right to tell you what to do, each person is uniquely
created by GOD, and has their own specific destiny that is correct for their
soul. Books and knowledge are simply meant to guide the person to make
their specific freewill choice. Learning to "grow-up" means making ones
own freewill choices and not being brainwashed by any religion or
religious leaders. The main reason why so many people have arrived at
midlife crisis is that they have found themselves "living other peoples lives
instead of living their own destiny.
Spiritual Guarantee
Once one has made the inner spiritual changes, a spiritual guarantee is
given that the flow of life energy will flow automatically when and only
when one has changed intrinsically and indelibly in ones soul. The lifegiving motivational energy will make you feel awakened and alive inside.
One actually feels the radiant glow that everything is flowing smoothly in
accordance with destiny and a Divine plan.
The "motivational energy" one feels after becoming "spiritually minded",
with an understanding that there is a DIVINE plan and destiny, is similar to
the selfish motivational energy that one has a young adult, "wanting" and
desiring material physical objects, with the exception that this new change
in direction with a spiritual creatively purposeful life, gives a person a solid
foundation with emotions of unconditional love, and a sense of selfless
service, one has now found true values and reasons for pursuing aims and
objectives.
7. The highest form of "motivational

energy" comes from Spirit world,
when one is in the selfless service of
others through love and compassion
Understanding the highest form of "motivational" energy comes in the form
of love and compassion from Spirit world as one is an instrument of GOD
accomplishing a specific spiritual purpose. This is a heavenly gift of
energy.
Once a person has changed and made a committment spiritually to change
ones direction and pathway in life to be of selfless service, serving GOD
and spirit world, either by being Divinely placed in situations which fills
voids or even as a spiritual teacher.
All these roles are not something that a person seeks, but these situations
are attracted into ones life as GOD and Spirit World know that your soul is
most appropriate to fulfill these roles. One is simply an instrument of GOD,
within this spiritual committment one finds a tremendous spiritual and
physical strength, a vitality and motivational energy of a higher level. This
is radiant and glowing energy is a gift from GOD, which is given to be used
wisely and selflessly.
Conclusion
Simply learn to avoid the fatal illness of "Half alive - Half dead", remember
to set aims every week and energise oneself emotionally to "get motivated"
into fulfilling ones goals. Ofcourse if one has arrived at Midlife at realised
that reaching the top of the ladder and finding that it was against the wrong
wall, does not mean one should give-up living .
Midlife means that one should take some "time-out" of life, assess where
one has gone wrong and redefine ones new goals in life. Then "get
emotionally" and positively energised out of love of these new purposeful
goals, and enjoy a life of spirituality, compassion, love and faith in GOD.
Remember that most people who "fail in life" only motivate themselves out
of negative emotions of "fear", only the truly successful "motivate"
themselves from LOVE and positive emotions. When a person motivates
recognises that the secret to a happy and successful life is to motivated

emotionally from positive focused emotions of LOVE, that is LOVE of
GOD, LOVE of the gift of LIFE, LOVE of PEOPLE and LOVE of all
creations of GOD in the whole universe, then one will be guarenteed 100%
success.
Unblocking Blockages
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Introduction - "The Key" of Your Life
To open an enormous door, you only need a tiny key. To solve a baffling
mystery, you only need a small clue. In the midst of problems and
blockages of ones life, it often seems as if something vast and daunting is
preventing and blocking you from making progress. Naturally enough, you
are contemplating that you are going to need "big" moves.
Yet all you really require is a little piece of information. A word or two
from the right person. This "key" is small and simple, this "key of
knowledge and information" is the ONLY thing you need to open the door.
Very often in our lives, all we need is to change our attitudes and thoughts
in our mind, and suddenly brighteness, enlightenment and fulfillment
become the norm in ones life. No more sadness, depression or blockages in
the flow of lifes energy.
The "door" is the "blockage" and the "key" to the unlock the blockage is
the correct "thought". "A single thought has the power to change the whole
world" is indeed the fundamental principle of CHANGE from the Sefer
Shinuyim - Book of Changes. A single thought is the key to open the door
to enlightenment.
The solution to removal of any blockage is to find "the key" to open "the
door", and remember to USE the "key", there is no point in learning,
having the right thoughts or being given the right information if one refuses
to use the "key" and change! Always remember that:Every Door Has a Key
Every Problem Has a Solution
Accepting that the blockages that occur in our lives - occur for a reason, we
need to look at the categories of "blockages" in order to identify which type
of "key" we need to use to unblock the flow of lifes energy. The 7 main
blockages are as follows:1. - Blocks from ones Soul, as we explain on the page Blocking
Success that our own soul causes our own blocks, we create situations in
our lives which block our "life energy". The reason we do this is in order to
push ourselves to change our lifestyle and attitudes from a materialistic
physical existence into a meaningful spiritual life. These are often known
as spiritual gifts of "waking up", we usually only "wake up" our mind and
thoughts when we have blockages and problems in our physical
materialistic life.
Once a person has woken up spiritually, as we have explained on the
"blocking" page, then there is no longer a need for "blocks" to exist and
they are automatically dissolved and taken away.
2. , - Blocks of "transference" from others. These blockages have

been created by other peoples negativity, and they have a power to block
our lives because WE have given away our souls power to someone else,
who in turn uses the energy to block our life. This is known as Loss by
"Transference", these people are acting as instruments of ones souls energy
to block ones life, in order to teach us spiritual lessons.
The simple solution is to learn to STOP Loss by "Transference", learn
Closure from such negative interactions, and stop diverting ones souls
energy into something that "is not yours" , don't get involved in something
or with someone that is simply not your "destiny".
3. - Blocks created "daily" - "Temporary Blockages", these blocks
happen to guide us with small signs, on a day-to-day occurence, very often
these blocks dissappate after a day. In most cases these are signs to tell a
person to STOP ones physical actions and think spiritually for a day. We all
need a "spiritual resting day", and if a person feels that nothing is "going
right" today, it is simply a sign to rest and think spiritually, instead of
"getting" on with materialistic life. Everyone who listens to these signs
from their soul, and takes a rest day, using this to think "spiritually" will
actually find themselves remarkably "recharged" and "energised".
4. Blockages created by ones soul, to act as SIGNS to change ones life ! As
we explain on the pages of Blocking Success, Fear of Success, No Money and
Depression, all blockages that are created by negative emotions can be easily
unblocked by positive emotions of love and compassion.
A blockage is created as a sign to help a person CHANGE from a life of fear,
hate, jealousy and other destructive emotions to a constructive, creative,
loving and positive life. Once a person has found the right pathway, there is no
longer any need for the sign or blockage.
5. Blockages created by ones soul in order to deal with issues of
"reincarnation", the need to learn lessons of change, love and forgiveness.
Perfecting mistakes one has made in previous lifetime, is the reason why
inexplicable "blockages" occur at anytime in ones life.
Our souls have come to earth to learn specific lessons, blockages in our life
are created to force and channel our soul to perfecting itself by understanding
the signs and changing, specific to each unique individual. The first step is to
recognise that nothing happens by "chance" and everything, however
inexplicable and painful has a reason why it happnes in ones life.
As our soul learns its unique and specific lessons then the "blockage" is taken
away, and our soul will feel enlightened. A person always feels good when
they have worked to change their attitude to life, opening up spiritually with a
true life of LOVE and trust in GOD with compassion.
6. The "Negative-Parent" Blockage

The most important and significant of all blockages are those of deep
negative emotions of bitterness and hatred created by EVIL PARENTS on
their "unwanted" children from the moment they are conceived into this
world .
Sefer Shinuyim - The Book of Changes describes these good souls who are
born with evil parents as extremely gifted and sensitive souls. These souls
have taken the challenge to be born with parents where there is tremendous
hatred, bitterness, abuse and negative emotions. The challenge for such
good souls, is to disconnect themselves and learn Closure from such "evil"
parents and learn from their experiences how NOT to behave.
When a person experiences the affects of negative emotions, it is such a
good teacher of life, as such a person will polarise their behaviour from
such evil people, knowing how "not to behave", they usually become very
compassionate loving and kind people or sadly some actually become
abusers themselves, believing the only way to live is by the bad example of
their parents, as modern day pyschology teaches "only an abused person abuses others", and sayings "like father like son, like mother like daughter"
then apply.
In this section we shall explain:(a) The explanation from the Talmud and "Book of Changes", "Why a good
person has bad things happening?" - that they are children of "bad" parents,
and what is a "bad parent" in spiritual terms.
(b) How to break the negative cycle and STOP bad things happening to
good people. Teaching how imperative it is for a good and sensitive person
to be "closed" from "freeloaders" negative influences.
Learning how to have 100% closure from negative influences, learning to
connect with good influences, therby unblocking the flow of lifes energy
and enable only good things to happen in ones life with no blockages.
Understanding the key to an "unblocked" life is LOVE and compassion.
(a) "Why does a good person have bad things happening to them ?"
The talmud explains the fundamental reason why a good person has bad
things happening to them and why they seem to have such " bad luck" in
life, and the reason why so much of what they do is thwarted with so much
sadness and dissappointment in their lives, is because of a lack of LOVE
and COMPASSION in their lives.
Love and compassion are the creative constructive energies that GOD
created and continues to sustain everything in the universe. We are all
created by acts of LOVE, we are all sustained by LOVE. If one has
blockages in lifes energy or bad things happening, then the root cause is a
blockage in the creative life energy of LOVE.
The Start of Life
As we explained on the "Introduction" page from the Famous Rebbe Reb

Yehonosson Eibeshitz in his book Yaaros Devash , that the identity is
defined by the START. If the start was with honesty - it is destined to
succeed, if the start was deceitful it will fail.
This is true with respect to every persons life, if the START, that is, the
conception was between 2 destined soulmates who love and loved each
other and made love with each other from a desire to bring a soul / child
into this world, this is the best positive loving start a person can have. If,
however, the adults were indulging their selfish sexual desires and the
pregnancy was an "accident", which later becomes a resented child, this
child has started life, with lots of negative emotions and a significant
blockage of lifes energy of LOVE.
"Unwanted children" become "hated children"
Negative blockages are created by the hatred of EVIL parents on their

"unwanted" and yet good children, this infuses an energy into these
children making them " hated children". So long as there are
negative emotions of bitterness, resentment and hatred this will BLOCK
the creative and success energy for the child.
Parental blockages of hatred and bitterness created by the parents
resentment for their own children. As many selfish "parents" only wanted
"sex" to satisfy their animalistic sexual desires. They resent finding out
they are pregnant and therefore the child to be born is a "hated child", who
starts this world surrounded by negativity, hatred and resentment. These
negative emotions create such a blockage that the child will be "blocked"
until they unblock this blockage later on in their lives, usually during a
"mid-life" crisis, when they realise that all their lives they have been
allowing the same abusively selfish draining type of people in their lives
who keep taking advantage of them.
In our "modern" generation, there are many children born into relationships
of parents who wanted selfish sex, and resented the pregnancy of the child.
Ofcourse, some parents stay together for the sake of the child, however,
this pretend "family" is only living a lie and deceiving themselves by
damaging the childrens' soul in staying together amidst bitterness, anger
and resentment.
Or, the selfish parents are quite happy together, they just resent the
"burden" of looking after a child they never wanted. All throughout the
childs upbringing, this sensitive child will feel unwanted, but be unable to
leave home. We explain in (b) below how to break the cycle and disconnect
from such draining hateful and abusively selfish parents.
Being born into such an abusive family, with lack of love and good energy,
with a massive number of blocks, is compared to a river with lots of blocks.
One simply needs to learn why each one is there, take it away and eliminate
it from the pathway of the river flow. As a child grows up and works on
each aspect of ones soul to change, becoming more compassionate and
loving, then becoming loved by others for their goodness, kindness and
creativity, then these blocks are taken away and the flow of lifes energy can
flow smoothly.
Unless, ofcourse the young adult returns home or "allows in" the
destructive parents, or people like their parents, who will only negate and
destroy everything they have created - we discuss this on the "mid-life"
section7 below, the reason these problems reoccur in "mid-life" is due to
the fact the adult has not completely cleared away all the negative boulders
of negative emotional blockages from the "river flow"of ones life.
The Explanation from the Talmud
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"A good person who has bad luck, blockages and misfortune is simply a good person who is a child of a wicked parent "
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The challenge for a good person who is the child of a wicked parent is to
perfect themselves and NOT to emulate their parents ways. If one
resembles any of the negative emotions of ones evil parents, the destructive
energy of ones parents can still block ones good fortune, even if one has
left ones parents home. The challenge for such children is to be 100%
closed from their abusive, draining and destructive evil parents, and disown
their evil ways.
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"A good person who has bad luck, blockages and misfortune
is a good person who is NOT 100% wholesome, and is not 100% closed.
According to Sefer Shinuyim who quotes the commentary Maharsha, the
choice of word by the Talmud is , , the hebrew
word actually means CLOSED. The reason therefore that a person has
misfortune and blockages is that he/she is NOT 100% closed to negative
influences.
The solution is to learn to be 100% Closed to such people and refuse any
interaction with bad influences, refuse to allow any loss by "transference",
then learn how to transform to have a focus on being a refined character of
love and compassion. This is simply making a complete change of
character from the character one was brought up with, by such horrible
selfish parents. Then one will become a :-
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"A good person who has good luck, with no blockages, is a good person
who is 100% wholesome, and is 100% closed to negative people and
negative influences.
(b) How to break the negative cycle and STOP bad things happening to good
people.
The Talmud Brochos 7a . , as quoted above explains how to break

the cycle of bad things happening to a good person.
Firstly one needs to be 100% Closed both physically and spiritually to
anything or anyone that is draining on ones soul. As we explain on the
Protection page, everything is classified as either DEAD or ALIVE, the
challenge is to see and sense the "DEAD" and keep closed to such deadly
draining energies and people.
Secondly to always focus on LIFE energy and everything that GOD has
created in this amazingly vast and beautiful universe. By being connected
with a LIFE and a LOVE energy of GOD, automatically one is enlivened.
Similarly connecting with good people, who are full of LOVE and
compassion will energise a person positively.
Whenever one feels any negative emotions of hate or bitterness,

immediately STOP and think of something LOVING and GOOD. Try to
understand the goodness in everything that has happend, if one can even
see and find reason to THANK GOD for all the bad things that have
happend, then this will BREAK the negative cycle in ones life and unblock
the flow of lifes good energy.
Replacing hateful parents with "love"
Those unwanted and abused children born with rotten selfish parents, will
need to recognise that the lack of energy in their lives is simply due to the
lack of LOVE in their lives.
By learning to use ones mind to generate love, whether it be love of good
friends, or of good people one can respect, or of a LOVE of animals, plants
or anything created by GOD that has a natural beauty, like the stars and
moon that shine at night, even listen to the birds chirping (the "Sefer
Shinuyim" explains that the birds chirping is actually a Divine energy that
is talking to our souls, by listening to the birds chirping we are listening to
heavenly voices), all these can generate the natural pure spiritual love that
is missing from ones life.
LOVE energy is so much more powerful than hate, as LOVE energy is a
created energy from GOD, so that one loving thought dissolves 1000's of
hateful thoughts.
Feeling Isolated and Alienated?
Do you have feelings that you are struggling to survive? All alone, without
love and no one seems to be interested in your life?
According to the teachings we have learnt, without LOVE in ones life, one
should be DEAD. Indeed being single, alone and isolated makes a person
feel "down and depressed", nontheless a person is still ALIVE. The reason
is that GOD, the DIVINE energy of LOVE and ones GUARDIAN
ANGELS come close to you with LOVE and support.
When a person realises that technically one should be dead, as one lacks
the life energy of "love" in ones life, but in fact one is alive this is thanks to
the DIVINE compassion and creative life energy of LOVE from GOD and
Spirit World. Then one immediately becomes invigourated, enlivened, with
a sense of humility, out of honour and respect that ones Guardian Angels
are here to protect, love and support YOU.
With this knowledge and spiritual thought, one is now connecting to life
energy of GOD, use this to remain connected by thinking of
EVERYTHING in the universe created by GOD, the Sun, Moon, planets,
stars in the sky, plants, flowers, animals, birds and fish. Think of every
limb, bone and cell in ones body that is working perfectly and healthily,
then focus on everything good one has - with sincere gratitude and
THANK GOD .
When a person connects with the DIVINE pure energy of LOVE and
compassion, then one is connecting with LIFE, not just physical life energy
but an invigourating spiritual radiant glow of eternal life energy. Ones soul
now feels enlivened with a sense of purpose and connection.
As we explained on the Sensitive souls page, these feelings of isolation and
lonliness are specific spiritual signs identifying the good quality of ones
soul and a need to search for ones true connections and true purpose in life.
A Wholesome Character
The Talmud explains the way to develope a wholesome character is to learn

to be gracious and compassionate, emulating the ways of GOD, from
Exodus chapter 34, GOD tells Moses how to have a perfect character
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"I will be gracious to whom I will be gracious,
even though they are not deserving"
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"and will show mercy on whom I will show mercy
even though they are not deserving"
and I will show mercy & compassion
on whomsoever shows mercy & compassion.
A wholesome and perfect character has no seperate "departments" of how

to behave to different types of people, a wholesome person behaves with
the same compassion and loving behaviour to everyone.
If a person can be nice and charming to one person and aggressive or
hateful to another person, then such a person has not perfected ones
character. The highest achievement a person can have in this world, is to
emulate the ways of GOD, and to show compassion and unconditional love
to all of the creations of GOD.
Naturally to those who have proven themselves to deny the existence of
GOD or those whom are destructively hateful, one needs to learn Closure
from these people, however the lessons of closure are so that one is NOT
influenced by their bad behaviour. However, when a person is wholesome
and compassionately loving, hopefully these people will learn from ones
good spiritual example and change!
All compassionate people pray for those who deny existence of GOD and
Spirit world, as they feel sorry with a Divine compassion that these people
lack the knowledge, feeling and spiritual experience in their lives. This is
the message of the Torah to Moses, learn to be compassionate and gracious
to EVERYONE, even though they do not deserve ! As they will be touched
by spirit and change their ways, if not in this world then eventually in Spirit
world they will see the truth.
As we explain on the page of Compassion - Oneness, in the same way the
SUN energises the world, a truly compassionate spiritual person has the gift
of energy-flow from GOD to energise other people with a sincere LOVE
and spiritual compassion without being drained, as they are simply a
meduim of flowing energy from GOD to humanity just like the Sun, the
more compassionate and closer to the DIVINE oneness, the more loving
life-giving compassionate energy flows through a person.
7 . The "Mid-Life" blockage, changing course in the middle of ones life, or

dealing with the blocks that have been there for a long time
As we explain on the page of CHANGE, in the 7 stages of ones life, most

people will experience a "mid-life" crisis, although the correct wording is
"midlife" opportunity of amazing energy to change the course of ones life.
When one has decided to change course completely, then one will
experience a complete BLOCKAGE, like building a dam to hold back the
flow of water. If one has decided on a complete change, then everything
may seem to go wrong ! Relationship, marriage break-up, illness, work,
financial problems, all these signs are perfectly normal, just indications that
one was on the wrong pathway, and now EVERYTHING has to be cleared
out before one can start a new life !
Even if you haven't made a decision to change anything, it can be you have
special DIVINE intervention in your life, where everything "goes wrong",
this is simply a sign that one is spiritually guided and one is going to be
making changes for the better, dont fight the changes and allow everything
that is no longer needed in your life to leave, in order to allow everything
good and new to come in. The transitional period may make a person feel
very fragile, as the flow of "life energy" may seem to be blocked, in reality
it is waiting to flow to you ONCE you have made the changes and are on
the correct pathway for your soul.
Once a person has accomplished a completely new change then like the
DAM, the flow of life energy will be opened to allow all the saved energy
to flow to the NEW route and direction of ones life. Only when a person
has made all the correct disconnections and ready for a new life, then the
flow of lifes energy with flow, and the blockages taken away.
If, however during the "mid-life" crisis years, one is simply making some
minor adjustments and small refinements to ones life, by removing any
boulders of blockages that one has allowed to remain in the way for many
years, there will be no noticeable blockage or "upheavel" in ones life, just a
pleasant relief once the blockage is cleared.
How to "unblock"
The act of unblocking is simple, say :-
""
Whilst saying this, think of all the people and situations in ones life that
have blocked ones success, all the hateful people, all the jealous friends,
spiteful work colleagues, ex boyfriends, ex girlfriends, ex husbands and ex
wives, also include all the people whom have said nasty words against you
that have destroyed your self confidence and then : Send all of them thoughts of
LOVE and COMPASSION
Pray for them, understand that they only behaved the way they did because
they did not believe in GOD or Spirit World, and they simply do not know
how to behave kindly or spiritually. Think of ALL those people whom have
hurt you and think of them with LOVING and COMPASSIONATE

thoughts.
This is the easiest way to "let go" of their negative blocks that have been
created in your life. Ofcourse, disconnect and have Closure, from these
negative and destructive people, but let them go, disconnect completely, put
them out of your mind and your life with loving thoughts. Holding onto to
bitterness with negative emotions of hate will only block your life. So
disconnect, send thoughts of love and compassion for their soul, as they
have not been lucky to be blessed to find the spiritual truth of GOD and
Spirit world.
Simply "feel sorry" for their soul, as they only behaved the way they have
done because of ignorance, fear and lack of respect of GOD. Eventually
their soul is held accountable, that is THEIR problem, not yours, simply
use the power of your thoughts and soul to disconnect from them by
sending them "feel sorry" loving and compassionate thoughts. These people
have nothing in common with you or your spiritual enlightened pathway, so
forgive their misdeeds and disconnect with love and compassion.
"Its Not My Problem"
Very often, blockages in the true destiny of a persons life is caused by the fact
that bad and draining people dump their problems on good sensitive people.
The simple solution is to constantly say in ones mind and thoughts "Its not my
problem". My repeating this honestly , ones soul is awakened to recognised
that one is living the wrong life energy by constant interaction with draining
people. Within a few days of saying "Its Not My Problem", it is guarenteed
spiritually that one true souls purpose and life energy is restored to ones life.
Conclusion - A Blockage
Is it a "SIGN" or a "TEST" ?
Before making any changes in ones life one always needs to be honest and
ask :- Is the Blockage, a sign that one should NOT pursue that way in life
OR is it a TEST to see how determined one is ? If one has tried 3 times and
still not succeeded, then this is a sign there is a major "BLOCKAGE", that
one needs to analyse the root cause of the blockage to the flow of ones life
energy.
The solution is simple by being closed to negative and draining influences
that one has allowed into ones life, searching and returning to find ones
true "destiny", and connecting to the DIVINE energy of LOVE by focusing

on positive, purposeful, loving and compassionate spiritual life.
"Spiritual Protection" - .
The Sefer Shinuyim "The book of changes", teaches the importance of
"Spiritual Protection" " Shmira" of ones soul. When a person
understands that ones mind and thoughts control the flow of energy of life
and every interaction that occurs in a persons life in the physical and
spiritual world is controlled by each persons mind, thoughts and soul, it is
therefore imperative we understand the spiritual laws of "protection" in
order to protect ourselves both physically and spiritually.
Understanding that when a person is 100% protected spiritually, then a
person is automatically protected physically, as all energies both positive
and negative START with the THOUGHTS in ones mind. Everything that
happens to us in our lives is allowed to happen by the thoughts we produce
in our mind, by changing and controlling ones thoughts, this enables and
changes everything that happens in ones life ones.
On this page we shall explain all the following concepts:1. Understanding and identifying the difference between the 2 types of
people in this world, the "DEAD" and "ALIVE".
2. Learning how to have physical and spiritual "closure" from the draining
freeloaders and "dead" energies, thereby only connecting with love and
"life" energies.
3. Understanding how to "block" other peoples negative thoughts against
you, and how to be so closed that one actually "bounces back" their
negative thoughts and words against you to themselves like a "mirror".
4. Learning how to use the power of prayer to ask and receive protection
from ones guardian angels.
5. Learning how to always remain connected with life energy, even when
one is in bad company of "dead" people or in deadly draining places.
6. Understanding the concept that this physical world is a challenge to a
good persons soul, as "bad" people, liars and cheats seem to succeed,
honest and good people seem to be "cheated", taken advantage of and
abused.
7. Learning how to eliminate all freeloaders, evil people and draining

situations from ones life and how to protect ones soul from any interaction
with evil people by learning to protect ones mind and thoughts,
understanding that once a person has succeeded spiritually in ones mind
and thoughts, then physically the "freeloader nuisance" will dissappear.
Understanding that "mind battles", are simply someone elses desires and
thoughts having a power over your thoughts and forcing you to make
actions, once a person learns to protect ones mind and thoughts it becomes
easy to "win mind battles".
1. Understanding and identifying the

difference between the 2 types of
people in this world:The "DEAD" and "ALIVE".
As we explained on the page "Spiritual Guidance", there are 2 types of
people in this world:-
The Honest & The Deceitful

The first and most wonderful category is the HONEST group, which
basically means when you are nice to them they are nice in return , when
you are horrible to them they are horrible in return . When you ask them a
question, you are given the honest answer in return. The intrinsic goodness
of this group, will always make you feel alive and happy. When you hear
something good has happend to anyone of this group, you too - feel the
happiness. Conversely when something bad happends you feel their sorrow
and pain. The honest group person, will always find ways to be nice and
compliment, saying nice constructive words, looking for the goodness in
people, and they will always exude, radiate love and happiness, even in the
face of adversity . They will always find ways to create loving energy and
NEVER "steal" energy from others by hateful, negative or destructive
thoughts, words or actions.
The other group of people in this world are the DECEITFUL (liars) people,
which basically means when you are nice to them they are horrible in
return , when you are horrible to them they are nice in return . When you
ask them a question, you are given lies and deceit in return. The intrinsic
deceit and twistedness of this group, will always make you feel drained and
sad.
These 2 groups of people, have the inate qualities of either being positively
energising OR depressingly draining. When you meet a person, if they
make you feel alive and energise you, this is indicative they are ALIVE, if
however a person makes you feel "drained" and depressed then this is
indicative they are DEAD. Similarly, every place and action a person
performs either makes them feel alive, as they are doing something
creatively purposeful with love, or makes them feel tired, drained and
depressed, which is indicative that they are doing something destructive or
hateful, the opposite to the purpose of life.
Defining and categorising everything into "life" and "death", is intrinsically
vital so that we can remain energised with the good life-giving creative
energy of GOD which is LOVE.
Who is "Alive" & Who is "Dead" ?

,
"Good souls when they die are in fact alive"
,
"Bad souls when they are alive are in fact dead"
The Talmud Sanhedrin , , explains that the Righteous and good
people when they are physically dead are in fact alive, (
, ) , whilst the wicked people when they seem to be alive are in
fact dead, ( ,) .
In this spiritual understanding, this explains that there are indeed really
draining "freeloaders" and horrible people in this world, who are so full of
hatred, death & destruction, who simply steal energy from good people by
intimidation, bullying and violence, "Transference" or even by sexual
arousal/teasing which steals energy in the same destructive way from a
persons soul spiritually, as the sexual arousal causes people to act, as
logical "common sense" would tell them not to act, but sexual arousal
"makes a person" do things they would not do, if they were thinking with
their mind instead of the "animalistic" physical body !
These people and places that drain a person, are in fact "DEAD", they may
look as though they are alive, but in the eyes of GOD and spirit world, they
are DEAD. Whenever one has a "bad feeling" about someone or
somewhere, this is indicative that one is Sensitive and ones soul is
indicating a DEAD energy, so KEEP away !
Conversely when a person has good energising feelings, these are
indicative of LIFE energy. Learn to analyse honestly how one feels about
everyone and everything, then contemplate what people, places and actions
make a person feel ALIVE. Almost everyone loves to see flowers, trees,
green countryside, fruit trees and the purity of "Nature" created by sunlight,
fresh air, water and GOD !
What is the meaning of "DEAD"

souls ?
The concept of "DEAD" souls is expanded on in "Sefer Shinuyim"- the
Book of Change, and we shall explain this soon on a separate page linked
here. In brief, as explained in 5 levels of the soul page by Reb Chaim Vital,
the concept that every object even a stone has a soul, so even the "dead"
person has a soul, it simply is a "dark" soul, with no "life" energy. Having
no energy of LOVE, this "dead" and "dark" soul feeds its soul with energy
by stealing from good people and from creating hatred, fear, jealousy and
negative emotions, hence it is considered by the enlightened and spiritual
world to be "dead".
2. Learning how to have physical and

spiritual closure from the draining
freeloaders and "dead" energies,
thereby only connecting with love and
"life" energies.
By categorising everyone and everything in ones life to either LIFE or

DEATH. This registers on ones mind to only connect with LIFE, after all
what type of ungrateful stupid person would "commit suicide" ?
In the same way, if a person regards every destructive act of "waste" as an
act of DEATH, then a person automatically will RUN AWAY from death
and such destructive acts. This is human instinct of survival, however as
complex individuals with a mind more intricate than a computer, our mind
needs to receive our instructions to be CLOSED to acts of death, by our
"self-definitions" to each act, event and person in our lives. (i use the term
"self-definitions", as a connection of life for you maybe a connection of
death for someone else, as its your desitiny and not their destiny).
Define every act :Is it an act LIFE or DEATH?

Does it make you feel ALIVE and
energised
or DEAD, drained and depressed ?
Once defined by YOU and ONLY YOU, then it becomes easy to have
Closure, as we know that this small "key" of spiritual knowledge has the
power to change a persons life, in just knowing that connections with the
wrong people in ones life can block, drain and cause death spiritually and
ultimately physically.
Start with ones thoughts, define everything into LIFE and DEATH, as
human survival will always connect with LIFE, which once invoked will
reflect in ones actions. This will automatically motivate a person into
actions of LIFE, which in turn will unblock ones stagnated "dead" life, as
one has disconnected from all the DEAD energies in ones life. The more
disconnections one makes from DEAD activities the more energised and
ALIVE one will feel.
3. Understanding how to "block" other

peoples negative thoughts against you,
and how to be so closed that one
actually "bounces back" their negative
thoughts and words against you to
themselves like a "mirror".
Whilst a person is changing and disconnecting from the draining
"freeloaders" that have been taking advantage of and abusing ones life, one
may feel "attacked" by them, either by their words or negative thoughts,
therefore it is imperative that one learns how to protect ones soul from such
people.
The reason these "freeloaders" feel threatened by your action of "Closure"
is that they feel the withdrawal of energy from their lives. They have
continually been using a pattern of taking good from you and giving you
nothing in return, and now that they feel you "closing" off to them, they
feel resentful, hateful, bitter and will try even more destructive tactics to
steal energy from you.
Firstly we need to understand the interaction of good people with the
"DEAD" type of bad person. The fundamental principle is that they are full
of opposites, when you are GOOD to a bad person, they are horrible in
return. Therefore, conversely applies, when you are BAD to a BAD person,
they respect you and are GOOD to you in return !
This is learnt from the greatest of spiritual leaders like Moses, and Joseph,
whose brothers sold him as a slave, and from King David who had to run
away and hide amongst the philistines as King Saul and the jewish army
wanted to kill him, as he spoke the truth.
"Why do you repay me with bad for the good i have done?"
,
Genesis (yalkut shimoni) chapter 43
, They repay my good with evil
, and Slander me when i pursue what is good

Tehillim - Psalms of King David, chapter 38 verse 20/21.
It is simply a spiritual fact of life that bad people treat good people badly !
"Being CLOSED"
Creates a Spiritual Protective Shield
which acts as a "Mirror" to reflect their
badness back to them !
By having closure from such deceitful and "twisted" people, automatically
the cycle of you giving them "life" energy for them to destroy into death
energy, will STOP ! When one is 100% closed to them, then they will not
be able to interact with you or your soul.
The first thing that happens is they accuse you of all the things that is
wrong with them, as you are closed, your soul acts like a protective shield,
and they MIRROR back to themselves exactly what they are ! This is
always the case especially in our modern day society of "divorces", where
the good side is often falsely accused by the rotten side.
The best advice in such divorces or relationship break-ups is to be 100%
closed and DONT interact with such a person, when a good person is 100%
CLOSED and refuses to even comment on false allegations then the rotten
person will actually accuse the good of everything that they themselves
have done wrong ! As spiritually they are mirroring themselves! To such a
degree that they are so full of hatred and destruction, that they end up selfdestroying their own lives, hence block and can never find LOVE, LIFE or
the Spiritual way of life with the energy, peace of mind and blessings of
GOD.
Simply get rid of such DEAD and deceitful people out of ones life, and
look forward to new life with good kind loving and honest people in ones
life. This is simply part of the pathway of life, to learn from the bad in
order to disconnect with them, and only connect with the good.
4. Learning how to use the power of

prayer to ask and receive protection
from ones guardian angels.
As we explained above, everything is classified as either life or death, the
connection a person has spiritually to the energy of life - GOD - is lifegiving. As we explained fully on the "Guardian Angels" page, the stronger
our connection with our "Guardian Angels" and with Divine Spiritual
energy, the more energised and ALIVE our soul will feel. When a person
realises that ones prayers and being listened to, this gives a person the
power of confidence in prayer.
Simply PRAY and ask for protection

& Light a Candle
Spiritually, praying whilst lighting a candle has tremendous spiritual
energy. Each person will have their own feeling as they light a candle, as
one lights a candle whilst praying, the Guardian Angels feel ones desire for
a need for protection and guidance. The reassuring feelings one gets at the
moment of prayer, makes a person certain that spiritually one will be
guided and protected. This will help you to pray in knowing and feeling
reassured by the spiritual peaceful energy. (As we explained fully on the
"Ability to Change" page)
Light a candle anytime

Whenever you feel the need for some extra special spiritual help or for
"thanks" for help that has been given, or even to pray for the future, for a
world of peace, love and spiritual growth - light a candle ! ( For your
information, whilst i am typing these web pages, i always light a candle for
help and guidance).
Visiting cemetaries is actually

energising!
Understanding the principle ", " - "Good souls

when they die are in fact alive", and understanding the concept of Guardian
Angels that accompany a person always, this is the reason why visiting the
graves of good people is actually energising and life giving, as this
connects a person spiritually to the soul of the righteous person, and their
continued life giving energy is wanting to help, guide and protect with a
LIFE GIVING energy.
" Shmira" - "Protection"

for people who have just died
According to jewish tradition, when the final transition of a person soul
from this physical world into spiritual world at death has occured, the soul
needs prayers of protection. The power of our prayers is so great that we
light candles and say prayers from the moment of death until the person is
buried, this is known as " Shmira" - "protection".
Reading and repeating the Psalm 121 3 times, is known as the prayer for
"protection" " Shmira".
5. Learning how to always remain

connected with life energy, even when
one is in bad company of spiritually
"dead" people or in deadly draining
places.
With the spiritual understanding, that everything that exists in our lives,
starts as a THOUGHT in our mind and soul. It is therefore 100% VITAL to
our protection that we keep our mind "awake", avoiding the "grey sickness"
- that "half alive-half dead" feeling as discussed on the Motivation page. By
staying mentally alert and controlling ones thoughts, one actually can
develope the strength of mind power to be open and closed to anything and
everything.
The strength of an individual is always judged on the strength of the mind,

thoughts and ability to stay FOCUSED on ones objectives and goals.
Prepare ones mind and thoughts with

good energising images
Before any venture is undertaken in life, the success is always
predetermined by the good preparations and planning. Similarly, before a
person does anything, one needs to prepare ones mind and thoughts
properly.
Firstly be determined to be "closed" to any dead or draining energies,

( remember from the Closure page the best way to be 100% closed
spiritually is to have a clenched fist, it always works, from Palmistry page
we have learnt that the power of ones soul is reflected in the energy of ones
hand. Being aware that ones hands have such a strength and power, be
careful where you place your hands and keep them pure and clean ! This is
the reason why the best communicators and public speakers always use
their hands to strengthen the power of their spoken words.
Secondly focus in ones mind ones life objectives and aims, thirdly and
MOST importantly, keep 3 images of life energy in ones mind.
Focus on 3 "life-energising" images

pertainable to YOU in your mind
Prepare your mind, by having at the forefront of your mind, 3 good images
that YOU can focus on, that always bring YOU life energy, they can be of
beautiful places you have visited, the image of someone you love, or a
lovely experience you had been lucky to have had in your life. As
explained on the "happiness" page, everyone has at least 8 exceedingly
happy moments in their lives at least one every 7 years, these are "gifts" in
order to help everyone have an energised life. By focusing on these
moments and images of happiness with laughter, excitement and good
energy, a person will radiate an energy of happiness and aliveness.
Conversely, have you ever noticed that "losers", sad and depressed people,
always seem to think and talk about depressing subjects. If a person thinks
death and is depressed then their life will continue to be death and
depressed. When a person thinks and focuses on LIFE and HAPPINESS ,
then a person will attract LIFE and happiness.
Feeling ALIVE even amongst the

"DEAD"
When a person holds these happy images of LIFE, LOVE and creative
constructive experiences in ones mind, and one is 100% closed to any
negativity, then even amongst DEAD and depressed people, one will feel
alive. As one is not interacting with their energies and is living connected
with LIFE energy in ones mind. When ones mind and thoughts are
connected with LIFE - one has LIFE .
The wiser a person becomes in life, one realises the power of ones mind
which creates a world of inner peace love and happiness, that then
influences the physical world, whereas ignorant people in younger years
allow the outside world to affect the state of their mind. They are too open
to negatively draining influences ! By learning control of ones mind and
thoughts, one has received the "key of life" to inner peace of mind.
6. Understanding the concept that this

physical world is a challenge to a good
persons soul.
In this physical world it seems that this physical world is a challenge to a
good persons soul, as "bad" people, liars and cheats seem to succeed,
honest and good people seem to be "cheated", taken advantage of and
abused.
Anyone who has lived and seen many people, will tell you that the "bad"
people never succeed in the long term, they look as though they have
success in the short term, but they NEVER ever have the peace of mind,
love and compassion, the good sincere character that comes with true
kindness and a comapssionate spiritual way of life.
As we all know many "wealthy" people who have a selfish materialistic life
and yet they have no quality of life, being on medications for nerves and
heart conditions ! They have family troubles caused by materialistic greed
and jealousies.
It is remarkable that NO ONE is really jealous of a financially poor man or
woman who is wise, compassionate and spiritually loving person ! How
topsy-turvy our culture has become ! As true wealth and happiness should
be measured by the strength of ones good character and spiritual wealth
within ones mind and soul ! ( as we explain on the Money page, this is a
blessing that people cannot see the spiritual wealth as they would really try
and steal this true wealth !)
This world will always seem to be a challenge to the good, and some things
in life will seem to be "unfair" and yet everything that happens is for the
good and has a perfect reason ! The Good will always prevail and succeed
in the end !
7. "Physical" versus "Spiritual"

This page on "protection" has emphasised that ones thoughts and mind
controls everything that occurs in ones life. By learning closure thereby
eliminates all freeloaders, evil people and draining situations from ones
life. Then categorising everything into LIFE or DEATH starts the thought
process to protect ones soul from any interaction with evil people by
learning to protect ones mind and thoughts from "death" and negative
people and negative emotions, then physically the "freeloader nuisances"
dissappear.
Once a person understands that there is a continual "mind battle" occuring
to gain control over ones mind and thoughts, one becomes more
determined to win - this is the battle of "Physical" versus "Spiritual".
Most people who "dont think" for themselves, being easily brainwashed
and living a life like aimlessly wandering sheep, are simply living with
someone elses desires and thoughts, who have a power and control over
their thoughts to channel one to make actions.
Like the famous "pavlov dog" experiments, where the scientist got the dogs
to act when he gave them a sign, like people who watch TV at certain
times, when the TV companies put the programs on, to prevent people
using the evenings after work, usefully and productively, instead they
create a false addiction to get people to sit down and watch TV - what a
waste of a life !
Once a person learns to understand the inherent power within ones mind
and thoughts, it becomes easy to "win mind battles" as one is ON GUARD
to protect the most precious gift we have all been blessed with by GOD our mind, thoughts and soul !
The Secret "Key" of "Protection"

This "key" to protection is YOU ! Your control over your mind and
thoughts. Whoever manages to place the images that affect your emotional
responses in your mind, has the influence over your mind and soul.
If YOU are the one in control, and you are able to be CLOSED to negative
influences then you have the power to PROTECT yourself with the power
of prayer, guardian angels and the spiritual strength of your soul.
If one gives away the power to allow other people and influences have
control over your actions, then you are "throwing" away your life energy
and opportunities for success, and losing so much life energy by
Transference.
This exercise of "taking" control of ones mind takes time, but the first step
is to recognise these spiritual facts of life, then one can succeed with ones
life, instead of listening or being "brainwashed" by the TV, media, and
other "deadly" destructive and hateful people such as religious fanatic
groups !
The sign for you to know who is good or not is, ANYONE who is hateful
and destructive CANNOT be loving, compassionate and spiritual ! Use the
power of your mind and soul to think positive, loving and constructive
thoughts of life. Focus of the happy events of ones life, learn to smile and
THANK GOD for the gift of life.
GOD has blessed you with your unique soul, using it wisely will make
YOU feel fulfilled as one is fulfilling ones purpose of service to GOD and
Spirit World.
The Gift of Sensitivity for "Sensitive

Souls"
The 7 aspects to understand "sensitivity" from the chapter of "Sensitive
Souls", from Sefer Shinuyim "The book of changes", teaches the
importance of knowing what "being sensitive" means and how to handle
this special "spiritual gift" :1. Everyones soul has chosen the specific level of "sensitivity" one needs
during life and for each stage of change during ones life.
2. Sensitive souls are "OLD" souls reincarnating, the gift of "sensitivity" is
a "spiritual gift" that one has earned in previous lifetimes, and provides a
person with "special" protection during this life.
3. Sensitive souls feel "unsettled" in this physical world.
4. Sensitive souls feel isolated and lonely.
5. Sensitive souls take time to adjust to life on earth, once they learn the
spiritual rules of controlling their "sensitivity" they then have wonderfully
productive fulfilling and happy lives.
6. Success for sensitive souls comes as soon as they make the right
connections spiritually, and keep "closed" to lower souls who are
dangerous "freeloaders and parasites" trying to steal good life energy, by
bringing them down to their level and ruin their souls !
7. Sensitive souls need to keep connected to "LIFE" and "LOVE" and
disconnect from "DEATH" and "HATE", one needs to learn when to be
"open" and "closed", so they can control the energy flow in ones soul
through the gift of sensitivity of ones mind and thoughts.
Introduction
All humans more or less have the same physical characteristics, however
the individuality of each person is identified by the way one THINKS.
Ones thoughts and in particular the gift of SENSITIVITY gives a person
the "extra special" Divine help, to accomplish ones purpose and achieve
success in life.
The more "sensitive" a person is, the greater ones potential and ability to
succeed. This is provided one understands the gift of being "sensitive",
learning and knowing when to "open" and "close" the sensitivity,
controlling the flow of energy that is given to a sensitive person by learning
to use ones MIND power, and using ones unique gifts that are contained
within the blessing of "sensitivity" correctly, this page will explain this
"gift" of sensitivity.
1. Every person has chosen the specific

level of "Sensitivity" one needs during
life and for each stage of change
during ones life.
Our soul chooses to be "sensitive" before we are born during our
childhood, in order to maximise our potential in this life, and to make
100% certain that we succeed in "getting it right" by listening to our
sensitive feelings, thereby correcting all the mistakes we have made in
previous lifetimes and learn the lessons we wanted to learn in this life.
The Divine purpose in making a person "sensitive" is in order to ensure that
we follow the correct pathway in life. If a child is told NOT to touch a hot
oven and then touches the oven and gets a "burn", this childs sensitivity is
teaching the child - NEVER touch burning hot ovens! During childhood
our physical senses, parents and teachers teach us and guide us along a safe
pathway for our survival in life.
As we develope during childhood and adulthood, there are unique
experiences applicable to each individual, the ONLY guide we have is the
gift of "sensitivity". When a person uses and "listens" to the sensitivity
correctly, and IGNORES all the people who are giving them bad advice
then one can have great success.
Many refer to the "sensitivity" as a strong spiritual connection with ones
guardian angels who are protecting and guiding the individual. However a
person perceives "sensitivity" - it is a gift that is given to each individual in
different measures, to help one make the right decisions and follow the
right pathway for each persons individualistic life.
Everyone is "sensitive" whilst

one is "growing up" or "changing"
Every human-being and animal has a basic sensitivity, that enables them to
grow-up and survive in this world. During life-changing moments in ones
life, especially "mid-life-crisis" moments, divorce or death of a loved one,
or any kind of "loss", a persons soul and mind is made to be "open" and
more "sensitive", this is in order that a person learns and listens to their
"sensitivity" in order to make the necessary good changes in their lives.
Often changes occur just after someone who loves you dies, spiritually this
is because their soul in spirit world WANTS to help you and is trying to
guide you along the correct pathway in life, hence the extra-sensitivity is a
GIFT from their soul to you - to help YOU.
Many people misconstrue super-senstitive as "bad feelings" that are
"attacking" a person, this is incorrect, there is something that needs
changing and these sensitive feelings are there to help a person to change,
so "work" with and dont fight against these feelings.
Many adults, try to suppress their "uncomfortable" feelings, but in fact
these sensitive emotions are trying to teach a person to CHANGE, and
guide a person AWAY from their current life to a NEW pathway. If the
person chooses to ignore and suppress these feelings, then it often gets
worse, until the physical body and soul decides it is an emergency and a
"big sign" is needed to change a person.
Once a person has learnt the lesson

there is no need for "sensitivity"
Once a person has learnt the lesson that they are being guided by their
"sensitivity", then there is no need for the "uncomfortable feelings". If,
however a person does not listen and change, then the uncomfortable
feelings persist until a person changes. In the section of our website called
"The Pathway to Enlightenment", outlines the 26 different aspects that a
person may need to change to unblock ones life and feel wholesome.
2. All "sensitive souls" are

wise "OLD" souls reincarnating.
All "Sensitive souls" are "OLD" souls reincarnating, the gift of "sensitivity"
is a "spiritual gift" that one has earned in previous lifetimes, and provides a
person with "special" protection during this life.
Sensitivity is an indication that a person is an OLD soul, the more sensitive
a person is indicative that their soul is very OLD.
In addition to the usual gift of sensitivity of a child, an "old" soul that is
returning to earth to live life again is blessed with the gift of extra special
"sensitivity".
"Super Sensitivity"
Most people come to earth to learn the basic lessons of " , ", that
is:- to have children, learn to create a life of love, and survival. "OLD"
souls have lived and fulfilled these basic lessons in a previous life, these
souls have come to earth for a specific purpose. A unique role applicable to
them, and with a collective purpose to humanity.
These "old souls" also known as "teachers", are blessed with a "super
sensitivity" in order that they may succeed, this sensitivity gives them
special "Protection" to keep away from "freeloaders", jealous, hateful and
"nuisance" people. This gift "sensitivity" keeps one focused, not being
diverted by materialism or mundane physical pleasures. This makes
sensitive people feel very uneasy and uncomfortable doing anything their
soul considers "useless" to the purpose they came to earth to fulfill.
3. Sensitive souls feel "unsettled"

in this physical world
Sensitive souls feel they do not belong in this physical world, they feel
uncomfortable, unsettled and find it difficult to adjust to this physical
world. This is because they still have deep emotions and memories of
previous lifetimes embedded in their soul. The "older" the soul and further
back in history were they have originated from the more unsettled they will
feel in this life.
In the understanding that "sensitive souls" are reincarnated souls, this
means that they have lived many years ago in a different place and
certainly very much "differently" than our modern generation. If you
imagine how an african who lives without electricity would cope if they
suddenly woke up in Manhattan New York during "rush hour" !!!
Conversely if we woke up in a world without computers, electricity or
running water !!! Now think how a wise old soul who lived 2000 years ago
would manage if they would be born in our generation !
It would take a lot of time to "climatize" to this physical world, whilst still
trying to remain focused on the specific purpose of their reincarnated life,
without being side tracked, distracted or diverted by "modern lifes
tempatations" or bad advice from non-spiritual distractions.
All sensitive souls feel "unsettled" in this physical world, as their souls
have spent more time in the truthful open "spiritual" world, than they have
done in this physical world which contains a lot of "deceit". Naturally these
"old senstitive souls" feel more at home in the spiritual world, however
once and ONLY when these souls start to connect with other "old souls"
and start to accomplish the purpose they came to earth to fulfill, then they
will feel at peace with themselves.
Until that time comes, these "sensitive souls" simply need to learn how to
be "Closed" (both physically and spiritually in ones mind and thoughts) to
external draining influences that cause the soul a loss by "Transference"
with interaction with "freeloaders" who give them "bad feelings".
(What are "freeloaders"? - As we explained on the RESCUE souls page,
"freeloaders" are earthbound souls after they have died, however, as we in
the next paragraphs, there are bad people who still alive and are called
"freeloaders", freeloaders look as though they are physically alive - but
their souls inside are "DEAD", they have no connection with creative
loving life energy, as they are full of hatred, fear and destruction, such
people are annoying as they have ruined their own lives and their aim and
desire is to destroy and ruin other peoples lives.)
4. Sensitive souls feel isolated and

lonely
"Sensitive souls" as they are "old souls" usually feel isolated and alienated
from most people of their generation. Even in large crowds of people, they
find very few people with whom they can really "connect" with. This is
especially important for parents and "sensitive" children to realise, that if a
sensitive child doesn't integrate well at school, with children of their own
age, it is NOT a sign that there is something "wrong" with the child, to the
contrary - it is simply the child has the soul of old reincarnated wise person
who has nothing in common with other children.
Once such a sensitive child realises, the power of his/her soul, then this
child should be channeled to learn to use their sensitivity at a young age to
try and identify what their skills are from previous lifetimes. This is the
reason why religious jewish children learn hebrew at a young age of 5,
"hebrew" is the reconnection with the mother-tongue of jewish souls,
which reconnects the childs soul and brings them "alive". All "jewish"
souls have an immediate ability to the hebrew language, it comes very
easily to true jewish souls, as it is embedded within the souls memory.
Once this door to the soul is opened, this easily allows the mind to be
opened to all knowledge and spiritual energy.
All "sensitive children" have a gift

Likewise, all "sensitive children" will find something that they are very
gifted and learn very quickly, it maybe a language like hebrew or french, a
science such as astronomy, astrology or maths, knowledge of the bible,
history, (old books which remind them of the past lives), or artistic drawing
or creative writing abilities or playing a musical instrument etc.,
It is the duty of good responsible parents to try and help their sensitive
children "unlock" their past, and find these gifts. This will instantaneously
bring their soul "alive" and help guide their soul to their correct pathway.
Once they are connected with their purpose the feelings of isolation and
alienation dissapate, as the doorway in their soul is opened and now they
will start to connect with good people, who are all part of their destiny.
5. Sensitive souls take time to adjust

Sensitive souls take time to adjust to life on earth, once one learns the
spiritual rules of controlling "sensitivity" one will have wonderfully
productive fulfilling and happy lives.
These simple rules are (1) to be aware and understand the concept of the
soul, (2) understand that there is a "bigger" picture of life in this physical
world and spiritual world than we see with our eyes, (3) understand that
everything that happens in a persons life is controlled by ones mind and
thoughts, learn to use ones mind effectively and think for oneself, (4) learn
how to keep "Closed" to freeloaders and not allow oneself to be sidetracked or easily influenced by the wrong people, (5) understand that ones
mood is susceptable to "change" by external influences, so ensure that one
does not lose ones energy in a loss by "transference", (6) keep focused that
one has been blessed and one has a specific role in life to accomplish with
ones gifts.
Once a person recognises these facts and lives with the understanding that
they have a specific and unique purpose, which is part of a divinely
planned and destined pathway, then "sensitive" souls gain a self confidence
(without being "proud and arrogant"), then always have wonderful
purposeful enlightened lives, in spite of having "setbacks" in early life, that
are usually caused by freeloaders taking advantage and abusing the
goodness of sensitive people.
Sensitive souls take longer than most people to adjust to this physical
world, they may mature later than most people, and "late developing" is
perfectly normal. According to the Talmud, sensitive souls usually only
marry and "find loving soulmate" after the age of 30 or even 40 like the
famous Rabbi Akiva who married at 40. Until this age they need the
freedom to use their minds to learn and develope their spiritual gifts, being
married with children would "disturb" their souls pathway, so inherently
they are "late-developers". This is perfectly normal, hence it is vital that
"sensitive souls" NEVER to compare themselves to other people !
6. Success for sensitive souls as soon

as one makes the right connections
spiritually
As with all reincarnated souls success and a sense of "life energy" and
vitality ONLY comes when one makes the right connections with the right
destined people and places. The gift of super sensitivity gives a person the
intuitive "feeling" that a particular place, people and events in ones life are
100% correct, even if "other" people think you are wrong. It is up to you to
trust your spiritual guidance and have confidence in your feelings of
sensitivity instead of listening to other people.
This spiritual guarentee for "sensitive souls" is this KEY to life, once the
correct connections are made, then "magically" good things happen for the
person, as signs that this is the correct course in life, coupled with a sense
of knowing that this new pathway is the right destined pathway. Until the
correct pathway is taken - then there will be blockages, depression and
failures, all these are signs of guidance to ensure that one feels unsettled
and "not at peace" until one is one the right pathway.
Ofcourse one has the freewill choice to "Block Success" or even if one tells
the wrong people, these "destructive people" can cancel out the potential,
until one learns Closure from these people and STOP being drained in any
loss by "Transference". Only YOU can feel what you are feeling, and
instinctively and spiritually your soul will know what to do ! Even if one
resists changes, life will stagnate or "go round" in circles until one gets it
right !
7. Keeping connected to LIFE

and disconnect from DEATH
Sensitive souls need to keep connected to "LIFE" and "LOVE" and
disconnect from "DEATH" and "HATE", they need to learn when to be
"open" and "closed", so they can control the energy flow in their soul
through their sensitivity.
Who is "Alive" & Who is "Dead" ?

,
"Good souls when they die are in fact alive"
,
"Bad souls when they are alive are in fact dead"
Defining and categorising everything into "life" and "death", is intrinsically
vital so that we can remain energised with the good life-giving creative
energy of GOD which is LOVE. We explain this further on the page of
Protection . This is the reason why spiritually sensitive people visit the
gravesites of good people and peaceful spiritual cemetaries and famous
rabbis whose souls are ALIVE and continue to help from spirit world.
Everyone and especially sensitive souls are constantly interacting and
sensing everything around them, it is vital that we connect only "life" and
"love" energy. If a person senses or feels drained this is a sign that the
person, place or energy of ones activity is "dead" energy. KEEP CLOSED
and GET AWAY from such DEAD energy.
Flowers, plants anything that grows in

nature is "life energy"
For our modern generation living and working in concrete jungles of large
cities, we have distanced ourselves from "life energy", nontheless having
flowers, plants, anything that grows on ones office desk or in ones
apartment, will connect one with life energy. Hence the reason to give sick
people flowers to bring a "life energy" and energise their souls. Similarly
every friday jewish people traditionally buy flowers for their homes to
energise with a life energy.
Think of something "alive" & beautiful
The best advice for "sensitive souls" is to keep connected with visions of
life energy, fields in the green countryside, orchards of fruit and vineyards,
gardens of flowers, all images of natures beauty, that one can hold in ones
mind and thoughts that represents life giving energy, will always energise
sensitive souls with "life energy" even when one is amongst spiritually
"dead" people.
On the page of "Protection" we explain how to use ones mind to generate
energy of "life-giving" images to protect oneself even whilst one is in the
physical company of "dead" people and places. This is especially important
for sensitive people, who feel drained very quickly amongst "draining"
people and places. This is the reason why so many people listen to music
whilst working or driving in the cities to "compensate" for the draining
energy in city life!
Conclusion
As with all the chapters from Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes once a
person is aware of the problems and explanations, it makes it very easy to
change and handle each of the aspects in ones life and soul.
Understanding the spiritual gift of "being sensitive", is a gift which many
people would love to have such a gift, although for a sensitive person it
feels like a "curse" sometimes! Until one learns how to handle this precious
gift, then it becomes a pleasure to have such a good refined gift of
sensitivity.
"Sensitive souls" use thought energy more than other people as they are
more "spiritual" than "physical", this makes one feel like everything is
always intensely "magnified", which can "blow" out of proportion any
negative emotions. The secret is to learn to "control" ones mind and
channel the energy creatively and lovingly with one thoughts and emotions.
As we noted on the "PALMISTRY" page, "sensitive" people have many
lines on the palms of the hands, as an indication of the spiritual energies
that are potentially contained within their soul, just another sign that
everything happens for a reason of a DIVINE destined plan.
Please see our Health page regarding Migraine attacks for sensitive souls
A special note for our generation

"Sensitive unwanted and unloved good
children with abusive and rotten
parents"
Being born into an abusive family or being born into a family with rotten
parents, who resent their children based on the fact that these selfish these
parents NEVER wanted these children. These parents have deep resentment
and hatred for their children, as they selfishly wanted sex without any
constructive creative thoughts of wanting to conceive children.
These parents are irresponsible and lacking intelligence to be responsible
parents. Therefore they commence a cycle of abusive "brainwashing" and
destructive criticism of their unwanted and unloved children.
These "mentally abused" children are often very gifted and extremely
sensitive, especially those who are reincarnated old souls . They will have
the divine intervention of spiritual opportunities in many cases to LEAVE
home early. The dilemma is that when one leaves abusive hateful parents,
the person may replace the "abusive" and negative parent with another
"abusive and negative situation", until one recognises the pattern of
attracting into ones life horrible people and STOP allowing abusive people
into ones life and thoughts.
This is a time of transformation in life, and once one has broken the
abusive cycle, one will "blossom and flower" to have an amazing life, as
one has learnt to use and control the mind and thoughts. Often sensitive
children from abused homes have a wonderful life once and only once they
disconnect with their awful families.
This also applies to any children from any home which is not based
fundamentally on PEACE and LOVE . It is incalculable the damage done
to children and their souls, who are brought up by hateful and intolerant
religious fanatics, who deceitfully brainwash their children, into a self-
righteous arrogance that they are superior to other people because they
keep "man-made religious laws", but break the spiritual laws of LOVE and
COMPASSION, such parents are even more irresponsible than nonspiritual parents with unwanted children.
For children who have been abused by rotten parents, dont worry ! you will
survive and have a lovely life ! Lots of talented and good people survive
the ordeal and get away from home at the right time. Running away from
home before one is 18 is not good, as unscrupulous people will take
advantage of you just like your parents, so learn to use your mind and learn
techniques of Closure. Then when the time is right ... university, college,
seminary, yeshiva, or a "year-off" volunteering are amongst the numerous
possibilities and will take one away from ones parents. And for parents ....
please please please learn and bring up our next generation with a Life of
Compassion and Life of Love in a Life of Trust in GOD - Amen!
"Positive Aspects"
" Turn
from bad and do good"
The Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Change explains with this small key of
CHANGE . The aim of ones life is to successfully clear and cleanse ones soul,
unblock the negative emotions engrained on ones soul, and transform into a
loving soul

The method from
"Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes" to

transform and change is simple :-
1. ERASE the past, have a complete CLEARANCE, of the past, by analysis of

the signposts one has been given and with the gift of hindsight, one can see
ones mistakes clearly . Especially all the "BLOCKS" one has (or others have)
caused and created in ones life, understanding why the blocks have been there
and then clearing them away. ( This also includes clearing blocks created in
ones soul from "past lives", hence the importance of understanding
reincarnation "GILGUL" in clearing these blockages).
2. FOCUS on being "CLOSED", be careful not to "allow in" past negative or
destructive emotions, people or bad experiences from the past. Learn to
protect oneself and be constantly CLOSED to negative people and situations

especially if one is a sensitive person.
3. FOCUS on good positive emotions. A continual spiritual awareness focused
on a purposeful creative, kind, loving, spiritually awakened life. With a
motivation to protect ones soul and compassionately help to improve
collectively the quality of life on earth, working to cancel out the destructive
energies with constructive creative love of God, the pure divine energy.

Now one is ready to follow and build "Positive aspects" within ones soul as
one has a good foundation for ones soul to grow spiritually and become purely
spiritually enlightened.
Happiness explains that happiness is a state of mind, influenced by the
thoughts we program into our mind and the spiritual energy that is given to
our souls from the eternal Divine Spiritual world.
Life of Love explains the fundamental basis of life on earth is a life of

LOVE and that all creations and continuity of life on earth depends upon
LOVE.
Finding Ones Soulmate explains how to find ones true soulmate.
How to Earn Money explains how to create a flow of energy that brings a
person the money one needs to live.
Life of Peace of Mind explains that developing and understanding life
spiritually, one instinctively developes a peace of mind.
Life of Trust in GOD explains that through the stages of change in ones
life, one learns to trust in GOD and spirit world.
Life of Compassion explains that the ultimate spiritual understanding,
learning the lesson of oneness with the Creator of the universe, that is
compassion for all the creations of GOD, as each creation has a spark of
life, an energy of GOD contained within.
Once a person has learnt instinctively to have all the positive aspects
embedded firmly in ones mind, thoughts and soul, one is then ready to raise
ones spiritual soul even futher to a higher spiritual existence along the
pathway to enlightenment, to achieve spiritual perfection in this life:-
Focus The power of ones thoughts with the power of prayer has the
potential to change every possible situation, it all depends of the focus of
ones mind, thoughts and soul.
enightened pathway; this is the time when spiritually fulfilling
changes and choices being offered to ones life, especially during the voifd
Selfless Service Serving GOD and spirit world brings one to a constant
state of Oneness - YECHIDA with GOD
Miracles & Healing; A "Miracle" is simply an extraordinary "change" in
Compassion - Oneness Understanding the ideal - A state of Oneness with
the CREATOR of the universe.
Happiness , Simcha
Sefer Shinuyim The Book of Changes explains that happiness is a state
of mind, an emotion within ones soul, a particular type of energy in ones
thoughts and mind that allows a fast flowing physical and spiritual energy
into ones life.
The state of Happiness is the key to the flow of energy in ones life, the
happier one is - the faster energy and more goodness that can flow into
ones life. Whereas depression and Sadness blocks the flow of good life
giving energy.
The concepts of Happiness are often misunderstood, as Happiness
often seems to be an illusion with many paradoxes in this physical life.
In this Chapter we shall explain the following aspects of Happiness:1. The definition of Happiness, and how to find true Happiness.
2. The apparent contradictory paradoxes of Happiness, the concepts of
opposites. Understanding why people laugh at other peoples
"misfortune". Understanding the bigger picture of life and the harmony of
Physical and Spiritual Happiness.
3. Understanding that physical "Happiness" is an illusion of the mind, like
a dream. Explaining the purpose of living with an illusion of "Happiness"
in life, and how to use the illusion of life to make the journey of life even
more happier.
4. The concept of the external physical world influencing our internal mind
thoughts and soul with Happiness. And the explanation of how to enable
ones internal spiritual soul, mind and thoughts to be able to influence ones
physical life with happiness.
5. Understanding the spiritual law that everyone has at least 8 very
significant moments of happiness in their lives, gifts to everyones soul
during everyones life.
6. The Source of True Happiness in this Physical Body is Within Ones Soul
and is Awakened by Music. Understanding the reason for music, singing
and humming as a key to eliminate sadness and awaken "happiness" within
ones soul.
7. Understanding that the true purpose of Happiness is a spiritual gift to
ones soul acting as a catalyst to allow-in and generate good spiritual energy
for ones soul in order to help ones physical journey during life on earth.
1. The Definition of Happiness,
and How To Find True Happiness.
"Happiness" is a state of mind, an emotion of ones soul. The emotion of

"Happiness" is the"Key" which opens up vitality and life-giving energy to
flow into ones soul.
The "Key of Happiness" is only given to a person whom is on the right

pathway for their soul. It is considered an inner signpost to identify that one
is following ones destined pathway. Those people who feel and know that
they are on the wrong pathway of their life will never feel the sense of true
"happiness".
The desire and the need to search for "Happiness" is actually an inner
desire from ones mind and soul to find ones true physical and spiritual
destined pathway in this life.
Everyone whom is following their true "destined pathway", living in the
right place with the right people, will have an inner peace of mind, an inner
contentment, a peacefulness and happiness.
"Happiness" is a sense that GOD and the DIVINE spirit realms have
blessed and guided ones life to a specific pathway where one has no
doubts, no questions, with no decisions to be made by oneself, as one has
found ones pathway by "trusting in GOD" that everything has happend, is
happening and will happen in accordance with a DIVINE plan with specific
reason for ones soul.
For many people the search and desire for physical "happiness" is the
emotion that motivates most people to live, endure difficulties, and
accomplish goals in order to satisfy their personal beliefs of "Happiness".
Sadly, whenever the desire for "happiness" is purely selfish and physicalonly, a person will never feel fulfilled, and the search for physical
"happiness" will follow a never-ending cycle of never being satisfied.
Whereas, when the desire for "happiness" is used as a catalyst, the key to
enable a flow of energy ,"Yeneeka Milmaala", from spiritual
realms for ones soul and physical body in order to make great purposeful
accomplishments then such good creative energy will only enhance ones
life and soul, where ones soul will exude a sincere happiness and inner
contentment.
" ,"
"There is no greater happiness than the clarity of mind where one has no
doubts"
The main reason why most people are "UNHAPPY" is due to an insecure
feeling of being on the "wrong pathway" in life. Doubts and indecisions
leave a person feeling insecure. When one makes irreversable good

decisions with NO DOUBTS, and a clear-thinking clarity of mind and soul,
with a committment, this creates an inner happiness, as a person "knows"
that they are on their true destined pathway for their soul.
The state of indecisive doubting makes a person feel insecure, as there
cannot flow a spiritual energy, ,"Yeneeka Milmaala", to support
many options for ones life, the spiritual energy only supports one pathway,
hence remaining indecisive, doubting or "sitting on the fence" will prevent
a person from being truly happy. The Divine spiritual energy can only flow
into a persons life once a person has made an irreversable decision.
Decision-making always brings great happiness, as a new vitality, a new
energy is allowed to flow into ones life. Closing one door and opening a
new door in life always brings great inner happiness.
However one MUST be 100% certain that the door of the past is closed
before a door for the future can open, with a new energy of happiness.
Once an irreversable decision has been made a person always feels happy.
This is the reason for great happiness at weddings, births and moving
home, starting a new job, even finishing an old job, or escaping from bad
relationships and especially divorces can be really the happiest moments of
ones life if one was married to a really rotten selfish person ! As these are
all positive decisions to have closure from the past, enabling a bright new
future to begin with meaning and purpose.
Living "Someone Elses Life"
The other reason people feel unhappy is that one feels that one is living
"someone elses life". One is being forced to do something to "fit in" with
someone elses desires. This is exactly like giving-up ones personal soul and
destiny for the sake of someone elses, one loses ones unique identity and
freedom, hence within a short time one feels like a prisoner. Which leads to
great unhappiness, as ones soul is being blocked from ones true life energy
for ones soul by NOT receiving the energy that the DIVINE GOD is trying
to give ones soul in order to accomplish ones unique purpose in life.
How To Find True Happiness
In understanding that true happiness is a sign within ones soul that one is
following the correct pathway for ones soul, then "Happiness" will find a
person automatically and instinctively, once a person has made good
decisions and is following ones destined pathway.
Thus the reason why even the poorest of people are happy, and some of the
richest people are unhappy. Happiness is an inner feeling within ones mind,
soul and thoughts that one is following the correct pathway for ones soul.
Stealing other peoples pathways or choosing a pathway that is wrong for
ones soul, will lead to further unhappiness, indecision and insecurity.
When a person "finds oneself" then true happiness finds the person. Ones
soul never really finds happiness, rather ones soul creates emotions and
thoughts of happiness when one has found and is living ones correct
pathway.
When one goes searching for "physical happiness" from physical desires
then a person will never find eternal inner contentment. For those people
who search for physical "Happiness" will always feel a "lacking", that what
they have found is not exactly what they imagined, and they want MORE.
This is especially true from people who seek physical sexual loving
relationships expecting someone else to fulfill them physically where, in
reality no one is ever fully sexually satisfied physically. This is explained in
the section 4 that physical "Happiness" is an illusion of the mind, like a
dream.
The Reasons for Unhappiness
When a person is living in the wrong place, or mixing with the wrong
people or doing the wrong job, and married to the wrong person, then one
will feel disconnected from the DIVINE spiritual energy, and one will
automatically feel unhappy, unsettled, lonely and depressed .
Use the emotions of unhappiness as a sign to "WAKE UP", acknowledge
that one is living the wrong type of life, learn to have the courage to make
decisions and changes to ones life with a Trust in GOD and guidance from
ones Spiritual Guardian Angels to make the right decisions to move forward to
a happier life of purpose and fulfillment.
Acceptance brings "Happiness"
The moment a person honestly accepts that they are on the wrong pathway,
even if one is still in a bad and unhappy situation, one will start to feel
happy.
Simply by accepting and saying "Oh Dear GOD, how i have made some
silly mistakes and have found myself on the wrong pathway for my soul.
Please GOD, help me find my true purposeful destined pathway", such a
prayer starts the process of finding ones true pathway in life, and one will
actually start to laugh inside and feel happy by making such a truthful
statement.
This acceptance of being on the wrong pathway will infact start events in
ones life moving forward to finding and be guided to find the right pathway
and inner happiness will start to grow.
Pray And Ask For Spiritual Guidance
For everyone whom feels they are not on their correct destined pathway
and hence do not feel an inner happiness and contentment with life. The
Book of Changes - Sefer Shinuyim says - Light a Candle and pray for
Spiritual Guidance.
When a person lights a candle for spiritual help, admitting that one is
unhappy because one is one the wrong pathway then ones soul will soon
feel at peace and be able to see what one really needs to do to make the
necessary changes in ones life in order to live ones true destined pathway,
where one will feel fulfilled and happy. (The spiritual concepts of lighting
candles in order to connect with DIVINE spirit world is explained at
www.tikunim.com and on the "Prayers for Soulmate" page).
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"The Greatest (Mitzva) Spiritual Law is to be Happy Always"

Ofcourse this saying isn't entirely true as there are greater spiritual laws!
However, this saying is extremely important as a rule of good advice to
help one get through the journey of life.
Always being happy and learning to accept that everything that happens,
everything that has happend and everything that will happen in ones life,
happens for good, even the seemingly bad things, pain, losses and tragic
events.
Happiness gives a inner spiritual knowledge that everything occuring in
ones life has reason, purpose and is in accordance with a DIVINE plan, in
order to guide YOU to a better long term future.
So be happy and learn to understand and accept that difficulties and
problems in life are ones unique signposts guiding ones life.

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"The Whole World is like a Journey on a Very Narrrow Bridge

The Main Point is NOT to be afraid.
Trust in GOD, be Happy and Enjoy the Experiences of Life !"
2. The Apparent Contradictory Paradoxes of Happiness
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Rabbi Yoseph went into a spiritual visionary dreamstate and was allowed to
take a glimpse at the eternal spiritual world. When he awoke, they asked
him "what did you see?" He said he saw a world upside-down, the great
and famous people where considered unimportant in spirit world. Whereas
some of the poorest and most unimportant people in this physical world
were considered to be the greatest souls in Spirit world.
He awoke confused, but was assured by Rebi Yehoshua Ben Levi that in
fact he had seen the true spirit world. This physical world and spiritual
world are full of paradoxical contradictory opposites, as explained by King
Solomon in Book of Ecclesiates.
, Talmud Pesachim Page 50a
The Concepts of Opposites
This physical world is full of misunderstandings, illusions and confusions,

and many people continually ask "why do bad things happen to good
people?" and "why do good things happen to bad people?"
The DIVINE creator made this physical world with reason and purpose,
even though "seemingly" things seem unjust and unfair, to the wise soul it
is simply obeying "spiritual law of opposites".
This physical planet earth is governed by laws of opposites and laws of
magnetic attraction of opposites. As explained in the "Life of Love" chapter
that "opposites attract" in order to teach, test and challenge each other.
Once the lessons are learnt then there is no longer a need to learn from that
difficult and challenging bad relationship.
Similarly, with everything that happens in our lives, a challenging and
"opposite" situation will prevail until we learn the lesson we need to learn.
Having challenging situations in our lives teaches our souls immensely and
then gives us the determination to change, once we have changed the
"opposite" bad situation is no longer needed for our soul and we will start
to feel happy.
Understanding Why People Laugh At
Other Peoples "Misfortune".
There are 2 reasons why people laugh at other peoples misfortune:1. Looking at other peoples misfortune makes one feel lucky that the
situation did not happen to oneself. When a person feels that a bad situation
or incident could have happend to me and didnt happen to me, but happend
to someone else, this makes a person feel saved, fortunate and happy.
2. On a spiritual soulful level, one is recognising that as an "unfortunate"
situation is occuring to someone, this is actually cleansing, guiding,
rectifying and healing their soul. The sense of laughter and happiness is
from within ones mind and soul that understands spiritually the
"misfortune" is part of the process to cleanse and guide the soul on its
physical journey in this life.
This is the reason why so many people laugh nervously, when something
bad has happend, even to themselves. When a person has had a car accident
or been burgled or just got divorced etc., to onlookers it looks like
"misfortune" but sometimes the person actually laughs and is inexplicably

happy inside.
This is because ones soul is realising that this is just a sign and acting as a
guide in ones life. Some of the worst situations a person can go through in
this physical life, very often turn out in hindsight, to be the best "turning
points" of ones life.
Understanding the "Bigger Picture" of Life, Harmony of Physical and
Spiritual Happiness.
When a person comes to the maturity of understanding of life and the

realisation that everything that happens for a reason, and provided one feels
one is on ones correct pathway, or at least being guided back along the
correct pathway for ones life then a person will automatically start to find a
inner happiness. This inner "Happiness" within ones mind and soul comes
with a Trust in GOD that everything is going to be alright.
All the events of our physical life, good and bad, are simply part of a
"bigger picture" of an eternal history of our souls journey through many
reincarnations in many different lifetimes. Sometimes some facets our lives
are easy and sometimes they are difficult, depending on the lessons our
soul needs to learn in each of the stages of our lives.
One guarentee is certain and that is there is a DIVINE plan for everything
to happen and when our soul learns to pray and accept spiritual guidance,
we become at peace within our mind and soul and radiate an inner
harmonious happiness.
3. Understanding that Physical "Happiness" is an Illusion of the Mind, Like a

Dream.

Book of Ecclesiates Chapter 1 verse 2 .

The main foolishness of mankinds pursuit of the grossly materialistic
lifestyle is that people work very hard for what they think will be a
permanent home, family, or career. Then what upsets most people is
WHEN they learn or experience that nothing is permanent. Something
always happens sooner or later to disrupt or take away what they have been
working to accomplish or acquire.
," Like A Dream"
The Spirit Soul only "imagines" and "pretends" that he or she is in a

physical body. Yes, the body is real, and so is a dream, but only as long as
the person does not wake up from the dream. Once one awakes, then one
sees through the illusion of the experience, regardless of how real the
dream may have seemed to be.
Similarly, as a person enjoys or suffers in a dream, life on the material
plane is also illusionary, full of joys and sorrows of short duration that have
little to do with the Eternal Spiritual Soul. In this way, without proper
regard for our souls spiritual identity, one believes one is a "permanent"
part of this temporary world !
All Suffering Exists Only Within the Illusion
No matter what kind of suffering we may feel, whether it is hunger, the

need for sleep, our anger, jealously, anxiety, fear of something, such
emotions and suffering are ONLY connected with physical bodily concerns,
that is the physical-only existence of physical life.
In the Eternal DIVINE Spiritual World, our soul doesn't suffer any of the
pains of this physical life. Therefore in exactly the same way a person stops
feeling the joys or pains of a dream as soon as one awakes, likewise,
connecting spiritually and disconnecting physically eliminates physical
suffering.
The more spiritually-minded we become the less any physical suffering
will affect our existence. The more physical and materialistic we become
the more physical suffering exists.
Illusion of Dreams
This material physical world is an illusion of flickering dreams and

commodities that are "Here today, gone tomorrow," this uncertainty of the
"future" with our numerous physical attachments is the cause of all anxiety.
We become so attached to our spouses, (just for the physical sexual
pleasure, even if they are not our true soulmate), children, wealth, house,
property, or our jobs/careers that trying to hold on to them puts us in a
position which creates most of our worries.
Remember we owned NOTHING when we entered this physical life and
will be able to take nothing with us when we leave this physical life,
everything that we have is, on temporary loan to us, given by GOD to help
us through the journey of life. Just like a dream - where we own nothing
thought we owned in the dream !
"The Wrong Aims of Life"

Leads to Never Being 100% Satisfied and Happy
Believing in a "Physical-only" life brings one to the wrong aims of life,
where the emphasis is toward selfish material acquisitions and physical
enjoyments. This is part of keeping one in the illusion.
For example, when we have worked hard in our life and have struggled to
attain a house, and are surrounded by wife or husband, children,
community, have an education, a career, or whatever else we have wanted,
sometimes we feel very happy and sometimes we are completely
unsatisfied.
What once was like nectar in the beginning can become like poison in the
end. When something is new it may be exciting, but after some time it can
get dry and tasteless. That's the nature of the material physical world.
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"When a person has a 100 silver coins he then wants 200 silver coins"
A person may feel that he has attained his goals, but such happiness soon
gives way to the next desire or goal, or even the next problem. The fact of
the matter is that one who cannot control his senses comes under the
control of never-ending material desires. One with uncontrolled senses
never feels satisfied with what he has for long. He always wants more or
something new.
Thus, without realizing it, he is forced to act on those desires for more and
more prizes, accomplishments, and possessions. His life often becomes
more complicated, and the happiness he longs for keeps alluding him, like
the donkey chasing after the carrot. The donkey does not understand that
the more he chases after the carrot, the more he is merely serving a master.
Thus, the materialist is forced to continue to serve his unquenchable thirst
for material enjoyment at the dictates of the master, known as his mind and
senses.
Yet as time goes on, he may question the course of action he has taken. He
may indeed look around and wonder why he has not attained the happiness
for which he had hoped. He sees that time has slipped away.
In fact, he may be an old man, and if he has not kept himself so busy that
he has no time to reflect on life, he may start to worry that death is drawing
near. His friends may start to die off, giving a warning sign that his turn
may be next.
At that time, he may feel that all of his prizes, possessions, and property
and wealth, have lost the meaning that they once had. They cannot protect
him from death, and he has made no spiritual progress to console himself
of what future lies ahead of him.
Without proper spiritual knowledge, a person is left with nothing but his
own ignorance for his counsel in trying to figure what to do. Thus, at death,
the materialist is taken away from everything he had worked for and
everything that had given him any pleasure, and another life goes by
without gaining any substantial understanding of the true purpose of it.
Wrong Ambitions and Their Results
As we can see from the above description, and by looking around and
noticing the general pattern in which most people are engrossed, those
people who are trapped by the desire to enjoy material life cannot
understand the real goal of earthly existence. One who is overly attached to
the objects of material happiness cannot understand that he is wasting
precious time by working to merely maintain house and home.
The real purpose of life is to realize the Absolute Spiritual Truth of GOD
and the eternal Spiritual realms, and that chance is spoiled by the pursuit of
too many materialistic goals.
A foolish person cannot understand that life offers the chance for real
liberation, freedom from the limitations that capture a person while in this
material creation of this physical world, and freedom from the essential
problems of life, starting with birth, disease, old age and death.
Unfortunate as it may be, those interested in enjoying a so-called beautiful
life, surrounded by family and friends, and searching after wealth, think
that such things are life's ultimate goal. Such people never find life's true
purpose nor inner happiness. Thus, they are forced to go through many
lifetime reincarnations engaged in the same pursuits.
In this way, the conditioned soul continues to wander throughout the world
in various lives searching after the same happiness as always.
In the search for material physical happiness he is ever neglecting the way
toward real spiritual freedom from this entrapped physical life.
A spiritually enlightened soul whom trusts in GOD is never interested in
anything that is temporary. When he or she has learnt the true pleasures of
spiritual-minded life, such a person will engage in the spiritual pursuits that
deliver one to the unlimited happiness within the Eternal DIVINE and
Absolute Spiritual Truth, by connecting with the eternal DIVINE spiritual
world.
The Spiritually minded person rather uses their minds and soul to connect
from within to the Eternal Spiritual world which provides ones soul with
energy, peace and inner happiness rather than wasting futile time pursuing
physical-only pleasures, that will never satiate the soul with happines.
The Purpose of Living with the Illusion of "Happiness" in Life.
Quite simply, without the "illusion of happiness" many people would giveup on life and even commit suicide ! The purpose of the illusion of this
physical life is order to give everyone hope for a better future, a desire to
live, work, love, have children and accomplish goals.
During an introspective period of ones life, especially during a
"midlifecrisis", where one awakens spiritually, one then sees glimpses of
spiritual "reality". There is a danger during such a time in ones life to be
totally disillusioned by life, as one sees the depressing futility of the
physical-only life, and the total meaningless of everything one has
achieved.
However, "DONT GIVE UP !" It is simply the "transformation period"
where one recognises the fulity of what one has done in the past, learning
to stop focusing on the external physical world and starting to focus on the
eternal spiritual world, on ones soul and on ones unique connection with
the eternal DIVINE spiritual realms from within ones mind, thoughts and
soul.
How to Use the Illusion of Life to Make the Journey of Life even more
Happier.
There is no way to use the illusion of this physical life ! The illusion is like
a dream ! As soon as one awakes the illusion vanishes. Similarly when a
person "wakes-up" spiritually, the shock maybe disorientating, however,
after a short time one then becomes accustomed to the new reality of
having a soul and being connected with the DIVINE eternal spiritual world,
through ones mind, thoughts and soul.
"Nothing Physical Lasts Forever".
The good thing about the illusion of life is that "Nothing Lasts Forever", so
if one is in a difficult or painful situation, physically or mentally - there is
no need to worry - as sooner or later it will dissappear, as "Nothing
Physical Lasts Forever".
"Spiritual Truth" is not physical, material nor temporary. It is the eternal
knowledge of the soul and of the eternal DIVINE SPIRIT OF GOD - the
creator of this Universe.
4. The Concept of the External Physical World Influencing Our Internal Mind,
Thoughts and Soul with Happiness.
Once a person has awakened to the reality that this physical life is an
illusion, then one begins to focus upon higher spiritual thoughts. Ones
focus is taken from the external physical world and is now concentrated on
ones inner mind, thoughts and soul.
As explained on "Life of Peace of Mind", the interaction between this physical
world and our inner spiritual soul can either be :The external physical world influences the state of our mind, thoughts and
soul OR our inner spiritual soul which is connected to the eternal DIVINE
spirit influences our physical body and radiates an energy from our soul to
energize our physical surroundings and the people we connect with.
Similarly with respect to happiness, when a person lives and works in order
to have the money to buy "happiness", that is to buy physical items that one
believes will make a person "happier", this is identifying a persons
character as one who wants to live a physical-only materialistic existence
and only wants to allow the physical world to influence ones mind and soul
by the illusion of physical life.
Whereas, when a person makes the decision to change and refuses to be
fooled by the illusion of life, then one STOPS pursuing ways to "buy
happiness" and starts to realise that "happiness" is contained within ones

soul, mind and thoughts.
Explanation of How to Enable Ones Internal Spiritual Soul, Mind and
Thoughts to be Able to Influence Ones Physical Life with True Happiness.
When a seed is planted, nurtured, watered it will inevitably grow into a

wonderfully large plant. Similarly, with respect to our thoughts, each
thought we have is like a seed, that needs to be nurtured.
When a person focuses on any really funny and happy moment of ones life
then suddenly ones mind is full of happiness and aliveness. Just STOP what
you are doing and think back in your life to something really funny that
happend to you - SUDDENLY - your mood will change, and your mind
will change from being bored, tired or depressed (especially if you are
reading this website whilst stuck in a boring job in an office !) .
A happy and funny thought is like a seed, the longer on thinks about this
funnny thought, the more happiness one will energize ones mind with.
Focus on Happy Thoughts
Here are just a few concepts to think about whilst cultivating happy
thoughts:
Learn from children - they laugh more - let yourself go and laugh !
Live in the moment - happiness comes from engaging your
sensations in the present moment - living for now! Appreciating the
gift of life at this moment
Learn to laugh at yourself - especially some of the silly mistakes one
has made, laughing at ones mistakes helps to cleanse the soul and
erase the hurt and pain.
Turn a tragic situation into a funny one. Its all a matter of
perspective, try and see the good side of everything that happens.
Be thankful for what you have, appreciating what you have increases
inner satisfaction
Mix with people similar to yourself - similar values whom are
genuinely happy with their lives, (avoid people who look like
humans but act like "aliens" from another planet, with negative and
depressing attitudes, and are never satisfied with their lives ! )
Cultivate peaceful states, get rid of destructive states of mind (anger,
fear, jealousy, doubt, envy, hate etc.)
STOP looking for external physical happiness.
be happy that you are alive, breathing, thinking, doing, being. Sadly
1 million people around the world will die this week (including
many babies & infants)
be happy that you can read, write and speak - other people are
illeterate, even deaf, blind & dumb.
be happy that you have a home - others are homeless and live on the
street
The Soul is a "Magnifying Glass"
Whatever we think about in our mind, are soul has the power to magnify
the energy of that thought. Hence when people have a thought of fear, the
soul is used to magnify this more than reality. Whereas, when we think of a
happy and funny thought, our soul magnifies this thought and feels our
mind, thoughts and soul with even more happiness.
The more one learns to be appreciative and say "THANK YOU GOD", the
more one will actually have plenty of reasons to say "Thank you GOD".
Being Freed from a Difficult Situation
The reason for difficult situations that many of us endure in our lives, is in
order to be so appreciative and thankful to GOD when it is finally over.
Anyone whom has to endure suffering, whether physical, mental or
abusive, when the suffering ends, and changes occur it is amazing to feel
the freedom from such a difficult situation.
Which then makes a person really appreciative of this wonderful gift of
life, and will indelibly always have a happy nature, knowing that one has
had ones life saved, and how life could have been far worse !
5. Understanding the Spiritual Law that

Every Person in the World is Guaranteed
"Eight Exceedingly Happy" Moments in Life.
Sefer Shinuyim, the Book of Changes (According to Zohar Kabbala learnt

in Parsha Shmini in Vayikra from Aharon haCohen) teaches that every single
soul that comes to earth is guaranteed a minimum of 8 exceedingly happy
moments in life, at least one every 7 years.
This spiritual law of 8 happy moments in ones life, applies to everyone and
these moments come even if we do NOTHING. They are spiritual gifts
given by GOD to our soul to help us through life.
The wise person uses the memories of these happy moments, at difficult or
even during a potentially depressing times to generate an inner happiness
and connection to the eternal DIVINE spiritual world as these 8 moments
of happiness are gifted happy energy from Spiritual world to ones soul, and
hence by thinking of these moments one is connecting ones soul with
Spiritual world.
In this way the energy of happiness continues to shine a light even in the
dark moments, giving a persons soul hope, renewed faith that everything
happens for a reason in life, in accordance with a DIVINE plan of destiny
which lightens the burden of pain, knowing that it is a fulfillment of
spiritual laws and in accordance with ones actions, words and thoughts.
So use this spiritual law to always maintain a happy state of mind, with an
inner glow. For example, when a child goes to the dentist, we always tell
the child to close their eyes and think of something happy and nice which
helps to take the pain away or we promise the child a present after going to
the dentist to entice the child to suffer a little pain for something good !
Similarly anyone who has had heartache and pain caused by horrible
people, FORGET about them, have Closure and Protect oneself from
allowing them to upset you and most importantly ALWAYS think of the 8
exceedingly happy moments you have been blessed with in your life.
During every moment of every day, a truly grateful and spiritual person
always has a focus on the 8 happy moments of life, giving thanks to GOD for
the blessing of those 8 gifted moments and being saved from difficult
situations and from getting involved with bad people.
It is spiritual law that "like attracts like", and once a person is glowing with
happiness more occurences will happen in ones life to make a person even
happier !
Connect Spiritually by Remembering
the 8 Happy Moments
The way to break the unhappy, depressing, negative and complaining cycle
of thoughts in ones life is to say "THANK YOU", learn to always be
appreciative of ones blessings, and always renergize ones soul by
connecting with Spiritual world by remembering the 8 happy moments that

the eternal DIVINE Spiritual world has blessed your soul with during this
physical life.
The reason why remembering these 8 happy moments of ones life will
connect a person spiritually and energize ones mind, thoughts and soul is
because these 8 happy moments were given by Spiritual world as gifts to
ones soul. Remembering these 8 moments connects ones mind and soul in
thanks and happiness to the eternal source of happiness - GOD - The
eternal DIVINE creator of everything in this physical universe and in
spiritual realms.
6. The Source of True Happiness in this Physical Body is Within Ones Soul
and is Awakened by Music.
Sefer Shinuyim, the Book of Changes, teaches that singing brings on

happiness. Singing is a self expression of ones soul.
"Humming"
Ones Spirit is contained in the power of speech and in the unique voice you
have. Especially "humming" as this energy of music is heard privately by
you and your soul, and very often a person expresses their moods and
prayers whilst "humming", this is because spiritually humming awakens
the happiness within ones soul, and is a act of self expression and identity
of ones soul.
As you wake up in the morning and if feeling a little heavy and depressed,
try humming and singing, give thanks that you have woken up and look
forward to a happy day with positive attitude ... sing your song of
happiness with a song and "hum" !
Understanding the Reason for Music, Singing and Humming as a Key to
Eliminate Sadness and Bring-in Happiness into Ones Soul.
"Sounds" from ones voice are just like ones "vision" which are windows of
the soul - sounds bring about present moment. Most depressed people are
normally dull and quiet people, or listen to depressed music, but never
sing !
Throughout all of recorded history, especially from the Book of Samuel
and Book of Psalms of King David, music has always been important as a
creative expression of the soul, a way of opening-up spiritually and

connecting to the eternal DIVINE spiritual world.
Spend a few minutes a day humming, singing and ones soul will start to
open-up with happiness. And for anyone who is depressed or ill in bed, i
suggest they should hum and sing, and soon they will feel happy, once a
persons mood changes to be happy, then spiritual healing can begin and a
persons life can start to change for the better with true happiness.
7. Understanding that the True Purpose

of Happiness is a Spiritual Gift to
Ones Soul.
In exactly the same way that the 8 especially happy moments in ones life
are gifts from Spirit world to everyones soul, similarly true happiness is a
gift of spiritual energy for ones soul, given to energize and give one the
energy to accomplish ones purpose in life, especially if that purpose is of
Selfless Service serving other people through ones spiritual gifts.
"Happiness" Acts as a Catalyst to

Allow-In and Generate Good Spiritual
Energy for Ones Soul in Order to Help
Ones Physical Journey During Life on
Earth.
"Happiness"- "Simcha" ,, is a wonderful gift from Spirit world that
gives our soul, emotions and thoughts an amazing energy which makes the
difference of the way we live, work and behave. "Being happy" from
within radiates and exudes an energy which has the power to change ones
life irreversably.
Learning to enjoy the journey of life, never worrying and always accepting
with happiness everything that happens every moment of our lives,
knowing that this physical world is only an illusion and physical pain will
dissappear once we awake from this "dream" we call life. Meanwhile, let us
all THANK GOD for the gift of life, and learn to enjoy the journey of life,
with a song of joy, even if we cant sing , let us try humming and awaken
our soul !
A "Life of Love"
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"One moment of love gives more life and is worth more than a 1000 years of
hate".
The Essence of - Sefer Shinuyim Book of Changes
The 7 aspects of "LOVE" from Sefer Shinuyim "The book of changes" that
explains that the ability to change is only when one understands the true
meaning of "A Life Of Love" - are :#1 Understanding the meaning of "LOVE", explaining that everything that
happens in our lives, originates from the emotions and energies of LOVE
within our "Heart and Soul". Understanding that the only motivation to live
and a true desire for life in this world is through LOVE.
#2 Understanding the difference between physical love and spiritual love.
Understanding the difference of LOVE that is conditional and
unconditional, and hence understanding why love either lasts forever or is
temporary.
#3 Understanding that ALL emotions are degrees and levels of LOVE
energy, and how to identify & convert hatred, jealousy, bitterness and anger
into LOVE energy. Understanding why "opposites attract" in love and why
people deceive themselves especially over their true love emotions of the
heart.
#4 Understanding the concept of "TRUE LOVE" that connects ones soul to
Spirit world, which energizes ones soul with the DIVINE
source of all pure creative physical and spiritual energy of LOVE.
#5 Understanding how to find ones true SOULMATE, and the concept that
the inexplicable energy of LOVE from ones soulmate is a wonderful gift
given to ones soul from the Spiritual world. In contrast to the temporary
and superficial love generated from the external physical existence and
beauty, which never lasts.
#6 Understanding that a "life of love" brings energy, love and healing to

many peoples lives. This pure spiritual "LOVE" energy flows through an
enlightened soul helps people all over the world, and connects this physical
world to souls in the spiritual world. Everything we have and everything
we are, is identified in our soul by the amount of sincere LOVE we glow
and radiate, in this life, from previous lives and in the future eternal
spiritual world.
#7 Understanding the eternal spiritual law of love; that LOVE can never be
destroyed. The DIVINE source of energy for every single soul, everything
in this physical universe and in the DIVINE Spirit world is the ETERNAL
DIVINE LOVE, which can never be destroyed. No one or nothing can ever
destroy this true love energy - this is the eternal spiritual law of love.
Everything created by GOD exists for eternity, but it can be destroyed in
this physical world by the evil of man. The only way to protect our souls
from destruction is by connecting to the DIVINE source of LOVE, which
guarentees eternal spiritual life.
Understanding the most important principle and spiritual law of Change,
, - "One moment of love gives
more life and is worth more than a 1000 years of hate".
The foundational essence of - Sefer Shinuyim Book of Changes,
is that through one thought of LOVE, connecting ones soul to the DIVINE
source of spiritual energy of LOVE one can change and have power more
than 1000 years of hate and destruction.
We shall explain each of the 7 important aspects of "LOVE" as explained
from Sefer Shinuyim "The Book of Changes", which guide and teach a
person exactly how to change ones life through the power of "LOVE", and
how to change ones attitude in order to find true "LOVE" with a constant
feeling of the amazing radiant glow of "LOVE", "LOVE of GOD", "LOVE
of Spirit world" and "LOVE of everyone of creations of GOD", whoever
and whatever they are or have done.
1. Introduction "What is LOVE?"

"Love" is the most amazing inexplicable feeling and emotion that we can
ever sense with our physical body. "Love" energy brings life vitality,
strength, courage and a desire to want to live life to the fullest potential.
"Love" is the collective and common energy that connects each person to
each other in the whole world. It connects our physical body with the
spiritual soul, to the Spirit world and to GOD.
"Love" is the emotion that is sensed through the senses of sight, smell,
sound, taste, touch. The highest form of "Love" is sensed directly within
our soul from other souls and from spirit world.
"Love" is an energy that can only be fully felt when it is shared with other
people. It is impossible to contain "Love" energy selfishly for oneself, (that
is why selfish people cannot find true love), the only way to feel "love"
energy in ones life is when one connects with other people, with spirit
world and with GOD, with love.
"Love" gives life and is the "meaning of life". When one has "LOVE"- one
has everything, without LOVE one has nothing. Pure "Love" is a spiritual
energy and therefore is always completely FREE, no one can buy "true
love", synthetic and superficial love always costs money!
"The Heart Beats for Love"

The heart is physical centre of ones emotions especially of "LOVE" energy.
Whenever one feels the energy of "LOVE" ones heart starts to beat faster.
The faster ones heart beats the more emotional energy one senses, until one
feels the overwhelming loving energy that takes ones breath away.
Whenever a persons finds there heart beating faster this is a sign that one is
receiving energy of LOVE. Whether it is a physical attraction of love or a
spiritual energy of love or someones loving thoughts who are thinking of
you, this is indicated by a persons heart beating faster in excitement.
The sense of anticipation in most peoples life is felt by ones heart beating
faster, the secret is to recognise that this energy is NOT trying to
overwhelm or make a person "panic" but it is a gift of LOVE energy into
ones soul, and one should appreciate this energy and use it wisely sharing it
selflessly to LOVE people. Just remember to take a deep breathe, dont feel
anxious and enjoy whatever is going to happen in ones life, now that one
has this energy of "love".
Remember the purpose of this overwhelming excitable "LOVE" energy
indicated by faster heart-beat is in order for one to desire to give LOVE and
share this "LOVE" selflessly with someone else. Pure "LOVE" energy is
only truly felt when sharing with other people, "LOVE" can never be
hoarded and kept for ones self, as this blocks the flow of more "love"
energy coming into ones life.
Sadly, many people find "love" energy too overwhelming and try to find
ways to suppress such "love" emotions, by drinking alcohol, smoking
cigarettes etc , but once a person learns to handle this energy one can have
an amazingly energized life of LOVE. So NEVER block or suppress such
lovely emotions when one finds ones heart beating faster, simply take a few
deep breathes and learn to LOVE !
The Beginning of Life is LOVE

Every single physical living entity in the whole world is created from
"LOVE". Even hateful and depressed parents have a moment excitable
overwhelming "LOVE" energy, when they "make love", when there hearts
beat fast full of LOVE, that is needed in order to create a child.
Motivation for "Living Life" is LOVE

As explained in the chapter of "motivation" in order to motivate oneself to
"wake-up" and live life with a true desire for life is through LOVE. It is
therefore imperative for everyone to learn to desire LOVE in order to drive
and motivate a person into purposeful actions.
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"One moment of love gives more life and is worth more than a 1000 years of
hate"
Life is about the moments of excitement when you are truly loving, those
loving moments are the true energy of creative life energy. The more
moments of true selfless love one has then, the more exciting and enjoyable
a persons life is and the more energy of "aliveness" a person feels within
their soul. True "LOVE" energy is actually connecting ones soul with the
eternal DIVINE energy of life from Spirit world and bringing down a
, a life sustaining energy from the realms of Spirit world.
Life is not about the number of "breathes" you take during your life, but
about the amount of moments that take your breath away !
People who never "want" to love are dead, the only emotion that connects
our physical existence to our spiritual soul and connects to the DIVINE
source of all energy is LOVE, that is the LOVE emotions from the heart all the "fast heartbeats" of LOVE.
Love blockage and depression

When people block and refuse to allow "love" energy into their lives they
are blocking their own life-energy ( ) and committing "spiritual
suicide", even if by some "good fortune" of Divine intervention they
suddenly are given a chance to "love", they find that the overwhelming
sense of "love" is too much for their depressed soul to handle.
Depressed people prefer to thwart and block their own lives through their
bad attitude and prefer to be depressed without "love", than overwhelmed
with an aliveness of "love" energy, so they act to "self-destroy" any
opportunities of "love" in their lives, which may even cause them to miss
their own soulmate ! So remember NEVER block any emotions of the heart
!
2. Understanding the difference

between
Physical Love and Spiritual Love
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Pirkei Avos Chapter 5 Mishne 16
"Whenever LOVE depends upon something physical and it passes away,

then the LOVE passes away too. When LOVE does not depend upon
something physical then the LOVE will never pass away. An example of
love depending upon something physical is sexual attraction of beauty such
as physical desire of Amnon for Tamar. And an example of the love that is
not dependant on anything physical is the spiritual friendship and love of
David and Jonathan". Pirkei Avos Chapter 5 Mishne 16
Physical Love
Every person, every place and in fact every single object in this physical
world contains an energy of LOVE. Every single entity in this world has
been created with an energy of LOVE.
The strength of each person, place or object is dependant on the amount of
LOVE energy that was used to create it and the amount of LOVE energy
that we attach in our mind and soul to it, togther with the continual
emotional "LOVE" energy that flows to that entity, conversely weakness is
defined by the "blockage" of LOVE energy which is reflected in negative
emotions of hate, jealousy or bitterness.
Before we define the difference between Physical LOVE and Spiritual
LOVE, we need to explain the 5 categories of all entities in this universe,
with their potential to affect our emotions of the heart, each with different
level of creative LOVE energy.
This explanation is the essence of " Perek Shira", which
emphasizes that the way to come to appreciate the gift of life, and finding a
true LOVE of GOD is to reflect on ALL of the wonderous creations in the
Universe.
The 5 Categories of Physical Entities

in this Physical World
Firstly let us explain the 5 categories/levels of which every entity in this
universe can be classified into, which defines the amount of energy it has,
and therefore the amount of "LOVE" energy that flows in/out and that can
potentially flow through as part of the continual creative life-cycle of this
wonderful universe of LOVE.
1. Inanimate objects created at the creation of the Universe, such as

the Sun, Moon, Stars and Planets, earth, sand, stones, mountains, the sea
etc., (which includes all the elements of the "periodic table"!). Everything
that was here before we were born and after we die ! This category never
change their energy or state, and remain the same as the day they were
created by GOD at the creation.
It is because they were created by GOD - the DIVINE creator of this whole
universe and have been unchanged since the creation for almost 6000 years
that they contain a "magical" pure beauty, of amazing energy. Everyone
loves to see the inate and unspoilt beauty of the snow-topped mountains, it
has an energy to fill ones mind and soul with a real "LOVE" of the beauty
of "nature".
Looking at an amazing sunset by the sea and allowing our souls to sense,
feel and connect with "LOVE" to the DIVINE creator who made this
wonderful world, allows our souls to be energized with LOVE.
Simply looking at nature, (even without "thinking") energizes & enlivens
everyones soul, hence the reason why people love "the sea", "the
mountains" and the countryside, seeing and appreciating the amazing
natural beauty in this world created by GOD.
This category of - "Inanimate objects" have the inherent benefit that
they were created with purest DIVINE creative energy, and have never
changed since the "CREATION", millions of people from hundreds of
generations have been seeing these places of natural beauty, and have
engraved on their memories and souls, a specific energy of LOVE for these
places and objects. The specific physical LOVE for such natural beauty is
actually a Spiritual energy of LOVE that our soul senses and receives.
2. , - Every kind of tree, plant, flower, fruit, vegatable and grain that
grows from seeds. This category has been implanted from creation, but
continues in a cycle of life and death, needing sustenance from the sun, rain
and wind in order to grow. This category is a constant and daily gift of
sustenance from GOD which provides each living entity on earth with food
to live.
The physical love we feel towards vineyards, growing fruit and all kinds of
produce is a feeling that we are LOVED by GOD and that we have been
given food. The physical love we have for growing flowers is a sense of
awe and amazment that from nothing such beauty is created from seeds.
The colours of the food we eat such as red strawberries instills in our heart
and soul a sense of LOVE. When we think of the amazing colours of the
creation we feel alive with an excitement and a instintive LOVE for life.
Especially the colours and aromatic scent of flowers instinctively instills
emotions of LOVE into everyones heart.
3. , , Every living animal, bird, fish, insect, etc., all life that moves and
reproduces with its pair. This category of LIVING animals, live and die
with the same cycle of as humans, they have senses that guide them in
order to sustain their own survival. They have a soul which has emotions
with their unique character. They live, reproduce and survive out of an
instinctive LOVE energy.
Their instinctive LOVE energy of the animal kingdom, gives them an

energy to LIVE. They survive by keeping to their own group of animals
which identifies their specific purpose in life. Very few animals interact
with other groups with LOVE. Any interaction with other kinds of animals
is AVOIDED, and in some cases is considered a threat to their survival, so
anger and hatred, even violence until one animal kills another animal is
possible in order to defend their own survival.
This is an important definition of the living animal kingdom, as the Book
of Reincarnation Sefer Gilgulim explains that some human souls are forced
to reincarnate as animals in order to learn the lesson of compassion, love
and selfless service. As many humans fail in life, because of their selfish
arrogance. Hence their soul will need to learn the lesson in another lifetime
as an animal.
The love from the "Animal Kingdom", teaches that all living people should
be compassionate and loving. The interaction of good energy between all
the creations of GOD is through LOVE. Some animals instinctively show
respect and love for everyone, and live a life whose purpose is to radiate
love. Cats which bury their faeces, keep themselves clean, get rid of filthy
rats/mice, and continually REFLECT an energy of selfless LOVE are
wonderful examples of LOVE
The word "reflect" is important as, cats & all animals are sensitive; in the
same way we treat them they reflect our emotions, if we are loving then
they are loving in return. Cats teach that animals and humans can interact
only with a common energy of LOVE. This is important to note, as humans
"reflect" each others energy, hateful people reflect hate, loving people
reflect love.
This is the reason why all the great spiritual leaders loved to look after
animals from the times of Moshe, King David and likewise the reason why
"single" people in our generation should have a cat as a pet, to learn how to
show selfless love and compassion as in our generation "single"
materialistic cold-hearted people cannot find true love as they have simply
closed their emotions of "LOVE".
4. , Human beings that are given the power of speech. In exactly the
same way animals live, survive, reproduce, nations and peoples of the
world keep to their own group/nation as an identity of their soul. Humans
use the power of speech to communicate and connect with people of their
same group and category.
Although people are attracted to physical beauty, nontheless without the

ability to talk and communicate, they cannot connect with each other. The
power of speech connects human beings, hence the reason why
relationships either succeed or fail based on the ability to TALK to each
other. When dialogue of communication stops, the relationship dies.
Human beings that can't be bothered talking to other people are
"committing suicide", as they are blocking energy coming into and out of
their soul, the Human soul needs to talk in order to energize oneself
physically and spiritually.
Remember that the principle difference between the LIVING and DEAD is
the ability to speak and communicate. This is why "GOOD souls" when
they are physically dead are in fact ALIVE as they are able to communicate
from Spirit world to other righteous people in this world.
Loving and selfless kind people, love to talk and communicate with
everyone with a warmth loving affectionate, friendly and happy nature.
Whereas selfish and "emotionally dead" humans refuse to communicate
with other people, hence they block a life energy.
Such "living dead" would never think of replying to emails or making an
effort to call anyone, they expect other people to communicate with them
and give them life energy, hence by isolating and alienating themselves and
refusing to "COMMUNICATE", they disconnect with "life energy" and are
considered "dead".
The inherent "life-giving" quality of human beings is the ability to
communicate, which enables other people to understand, listen and connect
themselves to each other. Without this ability to transfer our to thoughts and
ideas from our mind & soul, we are the same as animals. If we wish to be
classified as "humans" then we must learn to use the power of speech
wisely and frequently.
5. Elevated spiritual souls that act as servants of spirit world and help
to energize other peoples lives through their souls energy and spiritual
connection with the eternal and Divine wellspring of LOVE.
This category of "Human Beings", who are the spiritually-minded person,
completely connected to SPIRIT world, constantly working in "Selfless
Service", who live a chosen spiritually motivated pathway, focusing on the
higher purpose in life. They understand that this physical life is just a
transitory short journey within the much larger context of the infinate
spiritual world and UNIVERSE created by a DIVINE GOD.
When a person recognises that we are all children of GOD, and merely a
spec of dust of insignificance in the great scheme of life, and yet on a
specific mission in life with a spiritual purpose, then automatically a person
has a desire to LOVE all people with compassion and unconditional
LOVE, in the same way the DIVINE creator loves every single soul.
The Concept of Duality

The Concept of "Duality" means that everything in this physical world has
TWO energies, a physical energy and a spiritual energy. Most people who
live a physical and materialistic existence will only consider the physical
energy. Souls in Spirit world will only see the spiritual energy.
Our purpose whilst we are living in this world, is to learn to see and sense
BOTH the physical and spiritual energy within everything. Allowing our
physical eyes to see and enjoy the images, instilling in our soul an energy
of "Peace of Mind" and an energy of LOVE out of appreciation for the
spiritual creative energy of GOD.
Spiritual Love & Physical Love

Physical energy is temporary and last for only a short time, hence physical
love energy never lasts. In the same way we are only physically alive for a
short period of time, similarly physical love is temporary, for example, the
physical "skin deep" beauty of most woman only lasts between 15 to 35
years from when a woman matures, unlike the spiritual beauty, which is
radiated from a good, sweet, kind, spiritually-minded woman with a love
that lasts for eternity !
Spiritual energy lasts forever and for eternity, as it communicates and
embeds itself within our soul, such eternal emotional LOVE energy is
carried over from previous liftimes and carried onwards to future
reincarnations. We shall explain this further in #5 Soulmates below, the
inexplicable LOVE connection of soulmates which lasts forever.
"How to Make Love Last Forever"

In order to make anything last forever, it must be SPIRITUAL, and its
energy needs to have made an indelible mark on ones mind, thoughts and
soul. Anything that only has a physical energy will fade away and die.
In order to instill an energy of LOVE that will last forever, it must by
energized with a spiritual emotional LOVE energy.
Everyones heart only beats for LOVE, ONLY those moments in which are
our heart beats fast with an overwhelming energy of emotional excitement,
are those moments which our SOUL will remember FOREVER. When a
person is lying on the death bed and reflecting on all the moments of their
life, they only remember the moments of extreme emotions when their
heart "beats fast".
Sefer Shinuyim in the chapter of "happiness" explains that EVERY person
has at least 8 exceedingly happy moments in life, which are spiritual gifts
given by GOD to everyone, in order that a person should know the sense of
spiritual eternal LOVE energy. Unfortunately, many depressed people
cannot cope with this gift of overwhelming love energy, and find ways to
block and suppress their emotions.
Whereas the "spiritually enlightened" person uses this amazing energy to
learn to develope their soul to be ALIVE all the time with a continual
eternal emotional LOVE energy. A person who is truly spiritual, remembers
everything of everyday with joy and happiness, as each day brings a
wonderful new energy of LOVE and emotions that is unforgettable lasts
forever.
In each of the 5 classifications of everything in the universe - as above, try
and learn to energize ones soul with a loving excitement. For example,
imagine that you only have 10 seconds left in your life to see, whatever you
see in these 10 seconds will stay with your soul forever, by appreciating the
wonderful colours in nature, flowers, fruit, sunshine, stars and the sky will
make a person learn to "WAKE UP" spiritually, instead of living life like a
dormant robot forgetting to appreciate the gift of vision !
When a person "wakes up" emotionally, ones heart will start to beat faster
with an excitement and a desire to live a loving life, which gives such
energy that makes it irreversably impossible for a person to ever feel
depressed and unloved again.
A pure Spiritual Eternal Love energy will energize a persons soul, exuding
and radiating a creative life love energy which becomes part of the creative
life cycle and energizes many peoples lives, such a LOVE energy will last
for ETERNITY, even after a person passes from this physical world.
Hence the fundamental concept that #5 SOULMATES have an inexplicable
eternal deep LOVE energy for each other, and as we explain in #4 True
Spiritual Love is a love energy that lasts forever and connects people in this
physical world with those good loving souls in spirit world.
3. Understanding that ALL Emotions

are Levels of LOVE energy
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The Medrash in Genesis, explains that LOVE makes a person break all the
rules and normal rational behaviour of life. Out of sincere LOVE to serve
GOD, Abraham cleaned and saddled his own donkey, even though he had
many servants to do this for him. His LOVE to serve GOD, gave him the
energy and excitement to wake up early in the morning with a life vitality,
breaking all ettiquette.
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Similarly Joseph, in excitement and out of LOVE to meet his father, got up
early and prepared his own horse. Indicating that LOVE breaks ALL
barriers and ettiquette.
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Conversely HATRED and negative emotions cause a person to react

irrationally, Bilaam who was paid to curse the jewish people by king of
Moav, behaved wildly and out of character, as his emotions of hatred
destroyed his own normal rational behaviour.
Introduction
Emotions of the heart "LOVE and
HATRED" break all normal rules and
ettiquette of life
All emotions of the heart whether "LOVE" or "HATE", positive or
negative, every single emotion we feel and sense with our HEART and
soul, has the power to make an indelible mark on our SOUL, to the extent
that it gives our soul the power to CHANGE.
Every single emotion from our heart has the power to change our lives and
soul irreversably, hence it is vitally important for everyone to understand
and use this emotional power of our hearts wisely, to make changes out
positive LOVE and not out of negative fear or jealousy.
In order to comprehend "LOVE" we need to understand the 2 categories of
inherent EMOTIONS that every human senses. This is signified by the 2
types of people in the world, the "Honest" group and the "Deceitful" group.
The "Honest" group fundamentally live with LOVE energy, whilst the
"Deceitful" group fundamentally live with negative emotions of hate,
jealousy, bitterness and anger as this their way to steal energy from,
intimidate and control the "Honest" group. If a sensitive person from the
"Honest group" has acquired any negative emotions then they have done
this by "transference" from a person of the "Deceitful" group, the simple
remedy is to cancel out any Loss by "Transference", which will restore the
peaceful loving energy and dissolve the destructive hateful energy dumped
on them by other peoples negative emotions.
This explains the reason and purpose why "opposites attract" in love, and
why people deceive themselves especially over their true love emotions in
the heart, as a person lives in this physical world to learn lessons from
difficult people who "oppose" their soul, before they are ready to find true
and perfect love from their soulmate, which is in perfect peace and
harmony with them.
We shall then explain how to convert oneself from the "Deceitful" to the
"Honest" group, thereby having physical and spiritual closure on the past,
leaving behind the bad emotions and continuing a life of only 100% pure
LOVING emotions, a life of wholesome creative LOVE.
Firstly let us understand the two categories of emotions by understanding
the two categories of people in this world:-
2 Types of People in the World

As we explained on the page of "Spirit & Guidance" there are 2 types of
people in the world :The first and most wonderful category is the "HONEST" group, which
basically means when you are nice to them they are nice in return, when
you are horrible to them they are horrible in return. When you ask them a
question, you are given the honest answer in return. The intrinsic goodness
of this group, will always make you feel alive and happy.
The honest group person, will always find ways to be nice and compliment,
saying nice constructive words, looking for the goodness in people, and
they will always exude, radiate love and happiness, even in the face of
adversity. They will always find ways to create loving energy and NEVER
"steal" energy from others by hateful, negative or destructive thoughts,
words or actions.
Whereas the other group of people in this world are the "DECEITFUL"
(liars) group of people, which basically means when you are nice to them
they are horrible in return, when you are horrible to them they are nice in
return. When you ask them a question, you are given lies and deceit in
return. The intrinsic deceit and twistedness of this group, will always make
you feel drained and sad.
Such people do not exude or radiate any kind of selfless LOVE and are
usually very closed and selfish with their energies of emotions, they are
called the "Living dead" as they block and close their own emotions of life
and LOVE, and continually try to block and drain the "Honest" group of
any kind of life- giving loving emotions, they make everyone around them
feel sad and depressed,
We call this group of destructive souls "suicide bombers", as they have
ruined their own lives and desire to ruin other peoples too. The concept of
people have messed up their own destructive and hateful life, who then
choose to destroy other peoples lives is explained fully on original Yalkut
Shimoni regarding Samson when he took his own life in order to take the
lives of the philistines - book of Judges chapter 13 - 17.
2 Types of Emotions in the World

The 2 intrinsic emotions in this world are positive and negative, creative
and destructive, love and hate, goodness and badness.
Positive
Negative
Positive emotions CREATE good
Negative emotions act to BLOCK life
thoughts and create a motivational life energy and therefore destroy life
energy out of a desire withing the heart energy.
to live a life of LOVE.
Negative emotions create blockages of
Love, peace, tranquility, harmony,
life energy, YENEEKA - ,
creativity, a desire to build, give, share, is blocked and thereby preventing a
teach, all come from positive emotions
person to feel "alive".

of LOVE.
Anger, hatred, bitterness, jealousy, all

act as destructive blockages of life
energy
The "Honest" group live with the desire to be POSITIVE and creatively
loving, it is intrinsic in their character that they cannot be horrible to other
people, they desire to help others, from a profound and deep LOVE for life,
a love for GOD and a love of every one of the creations in this Universe.
The "Deceitful" group survive during their physical life by STEALING life
energy from the "Honest" group. They steal life energy by destroying other
peoples lives, or blocking other peoples progress by controlling their lives.
Whenever a good "Honest" person suggests any idea, a destructive person
will always block this idea, either with a destructive criticism or demeaning
negative disbelieving laughter that steals the "confidence" energy from the
good person.
A strong tendency of the use of jealousy, guilt or other negative emotions is
to control other peoples actions. This can lead only to negative reactions
that will automatically weaken the relationship until it is destroyed.
All negative emotions block life energy of this "Honest" persons soul,
whilst the "Deceitful" person feels empowered with energy they have
stolen.

Keep away from the "Deceitful"
Once a person has learnt to recognise these 2 categories of people, then it
becomes simple to have closure from the destructive "deceitful" type of
people who are full of hatred, heavy "death" energy and always trying to
block ones life.
Once a good person realises that so much potential in ones life has been
blocked by draining and "Deceitful" types of people, it then becomes an
EMERGENCY to have 100% closure from such destructively wicked
people.
Transforming Ones Life from Hate to

LOVE
The first step is to recognise the need for change, and understand that good
people have bad things happening to them in order to teach them to
completely eradicate all negativity from their life and cleanse their soul by
forgiving and having closure those people who have caused destruction, in
order to become 100% loving and compassionate.
"You planned and thought to do evil against me, God

planned and thought to bring only goodness to me"
The Story of Joseph in the Bible, teaches us that even though the 10
brothers did a wicked act and sold Joseph into slavery for money, Joseph
forgave them, as he could see that there was a MASTER DIVINE PLAN.
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The Torah - Bible in Genesis chapter 50 verse 20

"You planned and thought to do evil against me, God planned and thought
to bring only goodness to me"
Through love and forgiveness we too can transform all our enemies
thoughts and energies of hate and destruction into powerful energies of
love and creativity. Joseph used the energies of his hateful brothers who
tried and wanted to kill him and whom sold him into slavery. Joseph learnt
to convert their deep emotional "hate" energy into a powerful creative
"love" energy that transformed his life, by forgiving them and accepting
that there is a DIVINE plan.
The emotions of Hate, Jealousy, Anger, Bitterness, are expressions of
emotions that block LOVE. Each of these negative emotions are used by
the "Deceitful" group of people because they do not know how to LOVE,
they lack the knowledge and nature within their soul to be kind,
compassionate, selfless and loving.
Such people have no comprehension of a soul or spiritual world, and they
certainly have no sense of decency or importance of being kind or good to
other people therefore they have chosen to self- destruct their own souls,
and to destroy other peoples lives and souls too.
We explain in chapter Life of Compassion our need to look deeper at these

people, and feel compassion for their souls. This is indeed the essence of
forgiveness, in the same way we all forgive children for making mistakes,
many adults are simply "children" making silly mistakes through their
destructive hatred, and therefore we should forgive them and have pity on
the souls.
Forgiveness .... Unblocks ALL

Physical and Spiritual Blockages and
Creates Life Energy of LOVE
This is the Jewish prayer we say every night before going to sleep, and it is
indeed a prayer said on a persons death bed, in the final preparation as the
soul leaves this physical world :-
Translated :- " Master of the Universe - I forgive everyone who has angered
and upset me, or sinned against me, whether they did this physically,
materialistically or disrespectfully. Whether they did this by accident or
intentionally, with horrible evil thoughts or without thinking, whether they
said the words or with actions, whether in this life or in previous lives ...... i
forgive them... and please GOD do not punish or hurt them, do not bring
any illness or anything bad against them as i forgive them completely .......
please GOD "
"Forgiveness" has the Power to

Convert
ALL Destructive Hatred Energy

Into Creative LOVE Energy
Learn to Forgive & Forget
Completely !
The sign that you have successfully forgiven another person, is that when
you think of them, you no longer have any hatred feelings. In fact you
should have NO FEELINGS towards them at all. They mean NOTHING at
all, not to you, your life or your soul.
If you still feel some element of hatred or any emotions towards them, this
is a sign that you have NOT disconnected from them and their evil ways,
and THIS WILL HURT, POISON AND DESTROY YOUR LIFE AND
SOUL. So say the prayer and FORGIVE them in your mind, thoughts and
soul, forget about them, don't even mention their name, and detach yourself
from them and their ways completely.
In forgiving these "Deceitful" people and troubled souls we are actually
freeing our own soul from any connection from such heavy depressed and
sad people.
The higher level of forgiveness is that you actually feel sorry for their soul
with a compassion and pray for them that they will also find GOD and a
loving spiritual pathway in this physical life.
Why then do "Deceitful" people exist ?

Lessons need to be taught to good people, and very often one can only
learn from bad people, from their evil and deceitful ways they teach us
valuable lessons. Nothing from the DIVINE spirit world is bad, therefore
destructive and evil people are used to give good people "bad experiences"
in order to teach them lessons.
GOD allows BAD people to give

"Bad Experiences"
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"Good things come about through good people and bad things will happen
through bad people"
Meaning that if something destructive has to happen in a persons life, then
the Divine Spirit world orchestrate that this destruction is perpetrated
through bad people. Conversely when something constructive and good is
to happen in a persons life, then the Divine Spirit world orchestrate that this
should be created and come about through the creative loving actions of a
good person.
When Bilaam was going to curse the Jewish people, he realised he was
being used by spirit world as an intrument of evil to curse , so he changed
his curse to a blessing , which is prayer
now used everyday in jewish synagogues, to teach us that we can ALL
CHANGE and become instruments of goodness and not instruments of evil
and badness.
Someone has to give people "Bad Experiences" - dont let it be YOU !
Deceitful People who give us "Bad Experiences" actually LOVE us !

"Love Your Neighbour Like Yourself"
"Love Your Evil Enemy !"
Literally translated from the hebrew means "love your enemy, that is
LOVE those who hate you and want to do evil to you" as the word = evil
. Those who hate us, deep down really have a tremendous amount of love
for us, because they are of the "Deceitful" group of people, they do
OPPOSITES, so instead of showing love they show hate.
The secret in this life is see beyond the physical situation, understanding
the "bigger picture" of life which then cancels the cycle of hate, death and
destruction and one can only live with a life of forgiveness to others and
life of LOVE and Compassion.
Anger begets anger. When the bible says, 'Love your enemy', that's
precisely what he meant. If we want to stop a cycle of violence and evil, we
have to step outside it, no matter how shocked we may feel or how much
harm it has done to us. We have to be guided by hope and inspiration, not
fear or fury.
Understanding these emotions of the heart, and continiually converting
them into LOVE energy is the task and challenge of almost every
spiritually minded person in this life.
The DIVINE plan

By understanding and accepting that there is a DIVINE plan for each and
everyone of us, then there is no reason or point to getting upset, annoyed or
angry, these are bad emotions that belong to bad people.
Good people only have LOVE, compassion and forgiveness. Life teaches
us to learn to FORGET, FORGIVE and MOVE ON to a better future of
wholesome LOVE.
As a person "grows-up" spiritually then one learns that there is no need to
feel any negative emotions in life. Time is often the best healer, as in
hindsight we all see the "bigger picture" of life, whether we see this a few
days later , a few years later or during this life or in Spirit world, the same
principle applies :-

....
For everything that the intellect cannot accomplish .... then time will
succeed to accomplish. The Philosophy of Life quoted from Sefer
Shinuyim
"Opposites Attract" to Teach Difficult

Lessons
"Opposites attract" for the single purpose to TEACH a person difficult
lesson. Most people ONLY learn by being giving difficult situations with
difficult people. These are "opposites", they are NOT permanenet in a
persons life , and only temporary situations whilst a person needs to learn.
As explained in #5 Soulmates below, ones true SOULMATE does not need

to conflict of argue, as they are on the "same side". Anyone who brings
conflict into ones life, is doing so to teach one a difficult lesson. Once the
lesson is learnt the person will leave ones life forever !
4. Understanding The Concept of

"True Love"
Connects Ones Soul to Spirit World.
"True Love" energy is spiritual love energy, hence it is unconditional upon
anything physical. "True Love" is attained through the connection on a
level of the soul to the SPIRIT world. "True Spiritual Love" is the only way
one can energize ones soul with pure life energy, through connecting ones
soul to the Eternal DIVINE wellspring and source of all pure creative
physical and spiritual energy of the whole Universe - LOVE.
"True Love" is the creative life-giving energy that connects ones soul to
Spirit world, this LOVE connection energizes our soul with the
from the DIVINE source of all pure creative physical and spiritual energy.
What is "True Love" ?

"True Love" is a life-giving source of energy of UNCONDITIONAL love;
it is not given nor taken but it is a GIFT of energy that energizes a persons
soul with "LIFE" energy.
The spiritual law of LOVE is that LOVE has a power to CREATE energy.
When a person energizes ones heart with emotions of LOVE one is given
motivational energy to accomplish actions, tasks and "make life happen".
"Giving & Taking" OR "Creating"

People who only believe in the physical world, have beliefs of limitations,
and do not believe in the infinite power of creative energy of LOVE.
Therefore they live a "limited-life" based on "Giving & Taking", wherefore
they live selfishly, by amassing energy for themselves by taking as much as
possible from others and not giving. This leaves everyone they connect
with - feeling drained, blocked and unloved.
The Spiritual Law of LOVE, and the basis of all the creations in the entire
Universe is that LOVE is CREATED energy. Every LOVE emotion of
every second of every day creates an energy and vitality that energizes a
person mind, body & soul with an "aliveness".
Therefore a spiritually enlightened person knows the ONLY way to
generate a life energy is by CREATING LOVE energy.
Creating Love Energy

(1) The first way to create LOVE energy is to connect to the Divine source
of LOVE which is through LOVE of GOD.
(2) Secondly, one can create LOVE energy by thinking of and connecting
with good loving spiritual souls in the Spirit world. People you knew when
they were alive, and through the bond of pure unconditional LOVE that
exists eternally, connects our soul with their souls in the Spiritual world.
(3) Thirdly, learning to appreciate and give thanks for all the wonderful
things we have in life, makes a persons heart fill with LOVE energy out of
gratitude for the gift and opportunities of life.
(1) LOVE of GOD

... ...
Learning to see the truth in life brings a person to be in awe of GOD.
When we contemplate the wonders of this Universe and the millions of
people on this planets earth, and the wonders of creations on the planet that
sustain us with physical life. We start to see the wonderful magnitude of the
DIVINE creator of the Universe.
As we grow-up and become adults learning to create life with the power of
emotions of both physical and spiritual LOVE we learn that we are indeed
a part of GOD. A small spark of Godliness that is contained in everyones
soul, that sustains our physical and spiritual life.
(2) Connecting to Spirit World With

Love
During everyones life we are all given 3 opportunities of "life-experiences"
to connect with the DIVINE Spirit World with LOVE :"Sudden Shocks" , accidents & life-threatening incidents act as catalysts for
change that "wakes-up" a persons mind & soul to appreciate the gift of life
with a sincere gratitude and LOVE of GOD for the gift of life.
"Sudden Shocks" such as accidents or life-threatening incidents happen in
order to "wake-up" a persons mind and soul to appreciate the gift of life.
These "Sudden Shocks" frighten a person into the perception that they
could die at any moment however young and tragic, making a person
realise that one is mortal and that every moment of life is valuable.
Very often people live like "unemotional robots", prefering a materialistic
career-driven life more than a spiritually-inspired loving and purposeful
life.
Such "Sudden Shocks" are sent to everyones life as a "gift" to provide a
person with an opportunity to "wake-up" and CHANGE their total
perspective of life. Usually such "sudden shocks" are very dramatic with a
spiritual "boost" of amazing couragous energy to help a person transform
suddenly.
Such "Sudden Shocks", and sudden transformations instill in ones soul an
enormous LOVE of GOD and appreciation for the DIVINE intervention in
ones life, to the extent that one feels ones life has been saved by unique
Divine intervention - , - and one really has been !
Such a person who reacts to such "sudden shocks" of Divine intervention
, generates an enormous gratitude and sincere LOVE of GOD,
LOVE of LIFE, and LOVE of Spirit world. From this moment onwards the
life-changing situation will have instilled an irreversable change of attitude,
that will keep one energized with a pure LOVE of GOD and LOVE of
LIFE for eternity.
This LOVE is "TRUE LOVE" , as it is NOT conditional on
anything physical, it is pure as the Eternal DIVINE GOD, as this True
LOVE of LIFE energy has now connected ones soul with the DIVINE
Spiritual source of all energy in the universe.
When Someone You Love or Someone

Who Loves you - Dies and PassesOver to Spirit World
Awakening ones spiritual soul, mind and thoughts occurs everytime
someone you love dies. This happens in everyones life. Everyone has
someone very special in their life whom they love who dies.
The bond of unconditional love one has, is indeed a spiritual connection
between the two of your souls. This bond of love between your souls will
keep you connected for eternity. The tremendous love energy is classified
by many as love of soulmates, as this is no longer dependant on anything
physical, it is purely spiritual love within ones mind and soul.
Developing this energy of soulmate love for the person you loved whom is
now in Spirit world now enables a person to connect stronger to GOD.
Instinctively everyone developes a changed attitude at the meaning of life
and the meaning of "true love", when a person is naturally thinking with
unconditional love about someone special in their life whom has died and
is now in Spirit world.
The LOVE of GOD and LOVE of LIFE developed with this spiritual
connection potentially can happen in everyones life at any time and is part
of the continual process of life & death that connects all the generations
and spirit souls, enabling everyone to become more spiritually minded.
(3) "Sudden Instinctive Moments"

"Sudden Instinctive Moments" - are spiritual gifts of energy that open our
soul to the spiritual world and the inherent deep love of GOD within our
souls. These are known as "moments of clarity". Inexplicable moments in
ones life, where suddenly a person feels clear headed and clear thinking.
This is a gift from the Divine GOD and spirit world.
At that moment in your life when you feel the LOVE of GOD work on
your heart, softening you to become full of true LOVE and compassion,
then nothing else matters, and all your physical problems dissapate. Feeling
this energy of true LOVE is truly a gift from GOD .
Life will never be the same and the Divine spiritual transformation has just
begun. Suddenly ones aims and ambitions change. Life has new meaning
and a sense of purpose and most importantlt a true love of life fills ones
heart.
Where there is TRUE LOVE, there is GOD. Where there is GOD - there is
life, hope, faith and true happiness . Which inately creates a life cycle of
abundantly good energy as one will always show appreciation and give
thanks for all the wonderful things we have in life, making a persons heart
fill with even more abundant LOVE energy out of gratitude for the gift and
opportunities of life.
5. Understanding How To Find Ones

True SOULMATE
In this section we shall explain the meaning of "soulmates" and how to find
and identify ones true soulmate, taken from Sefer Shinuyim - the "Book of
Changes".
We shall explain the spiritual law of "Two types of "SOULMATES" one
type that gives one difficult and challenging experiences in order to teach
one important lessons in life and the other perfect harmonious soulmate
that is excatly identical to you as he/she is your "other half", the exact piece
one has been searching for since one was born to complete ones soul.
After reading this section we know and hope you will be placed on the
right pathway to find ones true soulmate and stop wasting your vital souls
energy on the "wrong ones" !
This section on "Soulmates" is explained in 7 stages:1.Explaining the purpose and meaning of "soulmates" and "soul groups".
2.Explaining that one actually has 2 Soulmates , one is a help ,
the other is a challenging opposition .
3.Explaining how to find ones true "soulmate".
4.Explaining the reason for the amazing inexplicable magnetic attraction of

soulmates, and why one feels, senses and knows ones soulmates thoughts
and feelings.
Explaining that only the two people "know" they are each others soulmate,
whilst in other peoples "sensible eyes" they appear to be unsuitable and
even unequal.
5.Explaining why there are difficulties whilst "soulmates" are trying to
come together, through blockages of " shells of negative energy
covering ones soul", created from other peoples negative thoughts that
envelope a person to be blocked.
How soulmates themselves generate their own " shells of negative
energy covering ones soul", negative energies which challenge, test and
doubt themselves until they are 100% absolutely certain to know that this
person is ones soulmate. Then explaining how to negate any ,
negative, challenging and opposing energies in making 2 soulmates coming
and being together.
6. Explaining that every soulmate couple is a " small world". The
principle of soulmates needing to protect themselves and live in their "own
world" refusing to "allow-in" any destructive or negative energies into their
relationship and having their own unique purpose and mission in their
lives.
7. Explaining the spiritual loving energy that is created by soulmates
everytime they "make love", which creates a spiritual protecting energy to
strengthen their bond, energize their lives and grow spiritually.
1. Explaining The Purpose And

Meaning Of "Soulmates" And "Soul
Groups".
The true purpose of the gift of life on earth is inorder for our souls to learn
and experience life, through all kinds of events, opportunities and
challenges throughout our lives.
Thankfully we are not alone during our journey of life, unless ofcourse a
person believes themselves to be selfish egocentrical "individuals", then
even amongst large groups of people they are lonely and disconnected.
"The Soulgroup"
During our journey of life, we travel on this earth in "soul groups", that is a
group, culture and identity where all the members of the soul group
understand each other and live on the same physical and spiritual
wavelength. The members of ones soul group may not all be alive on earth,
they may be spiritual souls who have passed onto to Spirit world but
mantain contact with you as they are part of ones soul group in much the
same way as "Guardian angels" .
One will always be able to rely upon ones soul group to help, guide, assist,
the souls in ones soul group will make 100% certain that one succeeds to
fulfill ALL of ones lifes goals, objectives, challenges and purpose ones soul
came to earth to learn.
Once a person has learnt the lessons of ones life, it is possible to elevate
ones soul into a higher soulgroup, and likewise if one makes a bad decision
one can move out of ones soulgroup into a lower group. Nontheless one
always has the intrinsic continual opportunity and chance to return to ones
destined soulgroup and likewise on is always guarenteed to be able to find
their perfect soulmate, through the help of ones "Guardian angels" and
helpful souls from ones soulgroup.
"The Soulmate"
Talmud (Sotah 2a) teaches that "destiny" has designated each and every
individual with a soulmate. The "soulmate" is actually the other half of a
person. With ones soulmate one is wholesome, without it one is void and
empty. With ones "soulmate" comes a "package" of a home to live and
profession/job and purpose in life.
The spiritual and physical energy of planet earth resonates to the number
TWO, everything on our planet comes in pairs. The Earth itself is paired
with the Moon, the identity of the Earth needs the Moon to exist both
physically and spiritually, in the renewal of energies monthly and daily
tidal flows, as the magnetic pull of the Moons energy causes high and low
tides - the Earth needs CHANGE to exist.
The emphasis and importance of finding ones true soulmate is the key to
success in life. The two halves that make the whole, once together one can
lead a fulfilling and purposeful life of "destiny". Having the "wrong half"
means one does not have ones soulmate hence one does not have "the key
of life" to fulfill ones true destined purpose in life. Without the right "key",
ones life will seem frustrating and unlucky - like stuck in a locked room
full of closed doors . It maybe nice few hours, but would be frustratingly
painful to remain there for the rest of ones life !
The purpose of the "soulmate" is to make a person feel wholesome with
LOVE and enable one to accomplish the mission and purpose of life
through physical, sexual and spiritual LOVE energy. Everything
constructive and good in this life is only created through LOVE. Only
through the loving energy created together with ones soulmate creates the
perfect energy to live, bringing meaning to everything in ones life.
2. Explaining that everyone has 2

Soulmates, , one is a help ,
the other is a challenging opposition
.
Everyone has freewill choice in life, even when we think we are making a
choice, it is either categorised into a good decision or a bad decision. Both
decisions are choices that are potentially destined for our soul, the bad
decisions we make will challenge us and make life difficult for us in order
to guide us to change, making the corrective decision and finding the
correct good pathway, our soul instinctively only finds "inner peace of
mind", when we are on the correct pathway.
Most people only learn from bad and challenging relationships. Such
connections will have a similar instantaneous magnetic attraction as good
relationships, as they too, are destined in order to teach a person important
lessons, but they will continue to repeat past patterns if bad relationships as
there is a lesson a person needs to learn, and until one learns the lesson one
will keep on being magnetic to the bad and "challenging" type of
relationships.
The 2 Types of Soulmates

" - The Help"
" - The Help" soulmates are always 100% on your side with continual
support, help, love, passion and an eternal unconditional LOVE, and whom
would NEVER EVER hurt you.
Whenever one plans, talks and thinks ideas with ones true helpful soulmate,
they constructively help to energize ones life with loving energy, enabling
one to overcome any negativity, moving all obstacles and finding the
correct pathway to success. As ones true helpful soulmate always knows
that they are ones "Other Half", when something good happens to the other
half of them, they too benefit from this good energy.
" - The Opposition"

" - The Opposition" soulmates teach a person by constantly
challenging, through emotionally bitter lessons with pain and difficulties.
The "opposition" bad relationships always cause a sensible person to "go
closed" on themself emotionally in order to protect their soul.
Prefering to live alone in ones mind and thoughts than communicate with
such a destructive person in a dysfunctional relationship. A feeling of
"living with the enemy" ensues, and everything one plans or tells such a
person gets blocked and thwarted by their destructive and negative thought
energies, critical words and horrible actions.
Until it comes a point in ones life, where one says "ENOUGH" ! At such a
"breaking point" a person may loose faith in love, loose faith in
relationships, loose faith life and worst of all - loose faith in GOD.
But when a person realises that such a relationship is a dysfuntional " Opposition" soulmate, then this makes a person find an inner strength,
admitting to oneself the truth of the bad relationship and then learning how
to find ones true 100% loving soulmate the soulmate of " - Help".
" - The Help" can sometimes be a

" - The Opposition"
There are times that we all make mistakes in our lives, and even though we
are living with and have found our 100% loving soulmate, he/she may
challenge us and be absolutely right to challenge with the strength of
"opposition".
They act in this way of challenging "opposition" as they are wishing to

defend their own soul, through love of their "Other Half" of their soul, they
are trying to protect the relationship by any destructive external opposing
energies and any negative influence or bad decision the other person has
made. They are "challenging and opposing" out of a deep sincere love, in
order to protect the wholesomeness of their perfect soulmate union.
" - The Opposition" can

sometimes
turn into " - The Help"
" - The Opposition" soulmates always have the potential to become
perfectly 100% loving soulmates, with no more need for bitter experiences,
pain or difficulties ONLY when they have have refined and elevated their
soul after learning the necessary lessons their souls need to learn.
Soulmates may choose to start their relationship through a "challenging"
and opposing energy, however, by working together and challenging each
others individualism they are able to transform themselves into a single
UNITED soulmate, through negating any opposing energies that exist by
learning to completely love each other, and thereby transform their
relationship into a 100% loving helpful soulmate union.
3. Explaining How To Find Ones

True "Soulmate"
When meeting new people in life, connections and bonds are made either
because the people share a "common interest" or because one person has
something the other person wants.
"Physical Chemistry"
In the case of love and relationships, men and women are magnetically
aroused and attracted to each other. Nontheless not all men are attracted to
all women and vice versa, there needs to be a certain "chemistry" that
makes a man and a woman "fall in love" with each other.
This "chemistry" is the energy of the thoughts in the mind, that is a man
and a woman only really feel a connection to each other when they are in
harmony with each other in their mind & thoughts. This "common factor"
enables a wholesomeness and fullness in the relationship, otherwise the
love is merely a superficial animal - instinct sexual love, which usually
fades within a few weeks.
Human beings who are connected with each other, need to have an ability
to think the same way as each other, they need to have a "common factor"
in order to feel the relationship is wholesome. Hence the reason why single
people join clubs and organisations, or have hobbies and interests as a
sense of identity of their personality. Thereby enabling themselves to meet
"like-minded" people and hopefully find a suitable man/woman with whom
they can have a meaningful relationship with, as their inner minds and
thoughts will be sharing similar identities, emotions and feelings.
If either become disinterested in the "common factor" that originally united
them, then their relationship will have communication problems leading to
an automatic "falling out of love", as their thoughts and energy of their
minds no longer have anything "in common".
When a couple are not growing together, then they are growing apart in
their diverging lifestyles and interests. Such a relationship will eventually
fail completely, unless one of them changes to become like the other.
"Spiritual Chemistry"
The next level of relationships is that people feel a "magnetic" attraction, a
"twinkle in the eye" or very lovely inner feeling, even without talking.
Relationships that are prompted by "just a thought" of them, seeing them or
seeing anything that reminds you of them, that is your mind and soul is
connecting yourself with their mind and thoughts.
Such thought energies are ones mind and soul communicating with you and
likewise with the other persons mind and soul is feeling the same inner
feeling for you, your souls are communicating with each other, this gives
you the "inner spiritual feeling" that you are made for each other, an
inexplicable inner "spiritual chemistry".
Such a "spiritual chemistry" is definately a sign that this is someone

important in your life and definately from ones "soulgroup" as explained
above. The important question "how do you identify if they are your true
soulmate?" This needs you to understand the "soulmate chemistry":-
"Soulmate Chemistry"
Soulmates, and all members of ones soulgroup have a unique telepathic
communication of thought energies in the minds and souls of the whole
soulgroup. All the souls of ones soulgroup know and sense exactly what the
other members are feeling. They all have the same thoughts, feelings and
emotions at the same time. They feel pain, when people in their soulgroup
are in pain, and likewise they feel the happiness, love and strength from the
other souls in their soulgroup.
The "soulmate chemistry" means that all the souls of the soulgroup are
constantly connected even if they are physically far away from each other,
they are very close spiritually, as their soul, mind and thoughts are
constantly connected.
This "soulmate chemistry" is the reason why ones "guardian angels" and
loved ones in spirit world, are in constant contact with ones soul, as they
are members of ones spiritual soul group. The only reason a person feels
alone and not in contact with people of their same soulgroup is because one
may block or deny the existence of "spirit" world, believing that one needs
to "get on with normal physical life" instead of including a "spiritual
enlightened pathway" within ones physical existence in this life on earth.
Only when a person is connected spiritually and "open" to be guided
spiritually, then through "soulmate chemistry" of you and your soulgroup,
through ones "guardian angels" and loved ones in spirit world whom are
waiting to help you find a spiritual pathway, one is assured to be guided to
connect with and find ones true soulmate.
How To Find Your True Soulmate

The first step in finding your true soulmate is to believe in GOD, Spirit
world, Guardian Angels and that through your connection to good souls in
Spirit world from your soulgroup, you will be guided to find your soulmate
or that your soulmate will find you.
"Asking for Guidance For Ones Soul"

Tikun Neshoma -
Sefer Tikunim in Tikun Neshoma - explains when a person has
lived a life void of any belief in GOD, belief in spiritual afterlife or in a
"Spirit World of Souls", then a person should light 3 candles to connect
"spiritually":One candle for GOD, one candle for ones guardian angel and one candle for
ones soul, and then pray that one should be guided spiritually to correct any
mistakes one has made whilst living a life VOID of any belief in GOD, and
ask to be guided along the right pathway destined for ones soul.
Whilst praying one will feel spiritually enlightened, with feelings of

awareness and belief in GOD and belief in the existence of a spiritual soul.
Such feelings and understandings will bring a person to see a "bigger
picture", that life on earth is part of a spiritual journey for ones soul, with a
unique and destined pathway for each and every soul to experience
emotions, events and changes.
Connecting to Spirit World With

Prayer Will Help to Strengthen Your
Soul and Enable Your Soulmate to be
Found and Bring You Together
Every prayer helps to connect ones soul to Spirit world and brings a person
closer to the DIVINE GOD that creates and sustains this Universe.
All connections to "Spirit World" will increase and strengthen your
spiritual strength, this includes praying at the gravesites of spiritually
strong and good souls, especially praying at the gravesites of good people
one knew and loved, and/or praying at Famous Rabbis & Rebbes holy
gravsites, sending prayer requests into the Famous Rabbi Yonatan Ben
Uziel and ofcourse continually giving thanks for the gift of life whilst
asking for help and guidance to find ones true soulmate.
One can use the Prayers for Soulmate from Sefer Tikunim, but even
stronger one should use ones own language to pray from ones heart for
ones soulmate with a few heartfelt emotions and tears.
It does not matter what time of the day or night, whenever one intuitively
and spiritually feels the right moment to pray and ask for spiritual help,
then light a candle and pray in whatever language you understand. The
stronger ones inner spiritual connection the sooner ones true soulmate will
be found by spirit world and you will come together.
Lighting Candles For Your Soulmate

Light 2 Candles :
One For You and One For Your
Soulmate
In preparing for your soulmate to come into your life, you will develope a
selfless and spiritual character, by lighting a candle for the soul of your
soulmate even though you have not met him/her yet, you are showing a
love, compassion and desire to pray and help someone else, who is actually
YOUR other half.
Learning to show love, desiring to give selflessly and unconditionally to
another person is all part of "growing-up" from being a demanding selfish
child to loving unconditionally, and thereby become a perfect potential
parent.
Ask yourself, "would you give EVERYTHING of what you have to your
soulmate?" if the answer is "YES", then you have understood that giving to
your soulmate is infact just giving to yourself, a cycle of life energy. The
concept of sharing and giving love in a soulmate loving relationship is the
spiritual basis of life, as in the cycle of life in the whole Universe, the
DIVINE GOD constantly gives everything to everyone.
When praying for ones soulmate, never focus your thoughts on any
particular person, as they may not be yours, and an even better person will
be your destined perfect soulmate, and then be "open" to listen to your
inner voice of guidance and ACT, there is no point in praying and then
DOING NOTHING when one has a feeling to go somewhere or speak to

someone !
"Within 12 Months"
The Spiritual guarentee from Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes and from
Famous Rabbi Yonatan Ben Uziel, is that within 12 months of prayers of
asking GOD and Spirit world to find ones true soulmate then one will find
him/her, DIVINE coincedences, experiences and feelings will occur to
guide you to your soulmate and guide your soulmate to you.
In section 5 below we explain why there are difficulties whilst "soulmates"
are trying to come together, through blockages of of other peoples
negative thoughts that envelope a person to be blocked, and explain how to
negate & eliminate these blockages.
"Compare to Modern Day Internet"

If one is searching for someone on the internet than one first needs to get a
computer and be online, then a person needs to search by using a search
engine like google or yahoo.
Similarly spiritually, in searching for ones true soulmate, one first needs to
believe in GOD and Spirit world, connecting by way of prayers and
lighting candles for GOD and Spirit world for DIVINE help to find ones
soulmate, and then "be open", listen and allow one to be guided to meet
ones soulmate.
Everyone has a perfect soulmate and when you find him/her your soul will
instinctively know, your life will "magically" open up with an amazing life
vitality of love and life-giving energy.
With your true soulmate you will feel an eternal LOVE energy, as
soulmates existed in spirit world before we were born when our souls
arrived on earth and will existe unified together once we die and leave this
earth. The intermediary years of life on earth is the challenge that we must
ensure we waste no time in finding our true soulmate to live a wholesome
purposeful loving life together.
The True Soulmate
"One who looks for money, beauty, status or anything physical in a

relationship
will NEVER find their true soulmate" quoted from Tana Devei Eliyahu
In seeking your true Soulmate ask yourself the following questions:When contemplating ones emotions with respect to ones true soulmate, one
needs to ask "Do you want to be so different from that person?" OR "Do
you wish to actually be identical to that person, and be a part of that person,
in every single way ?"
In the desire to be that person, and become a complete part of that persons
life because indeed a true soulmate is the "other half", one is motivated and
prepared to change ones mind, thoughts and even physical existence to be
with him/her, energized by a magnetic love from the soul.
This power from ones soul is an identity that indicates ones "true
soulmate", the desire to reunite your souls together as ONE in this world as
you have been before you came into this world and will be united eternally
in spirit world after leaving this physical life for eternity, and refusing to
allow anything physical or material distract or block your souls from being
together. One will not find true inner "peace of mind" withing ones mind
and soul until one is with ones true soulmate.
4. Explaining The Reason For The

Amazing Inexplicable Magnetic
Attraction Of Soulmates.
In this section we explain the spiritual reason for the amazing inexplicable
magnetic attraction of soulmates, and why one feels, senses and knows
everything ones soulmate is thinking and feeling.
Instantaneous Magnetic Attraction

Soulmates have an instantanous magnetic attraction to each other, as their
relationship is blessed by DIVINE GOD, blessed by Spirit world and
"destined" as a "key of life" for their lives together on earth.
Even people who try and fight this magnetic soulmate love desire for each
other, will find their efforts to block themselves futile and will eventually
be together. As soulmates will never find "peace of mind" and true
purposeful fulfillment of their souls until they are together, both physically
and spiritually together. True soulmates always need and lovingly enjoy
being together all the time.
The reason for this inexplicable magnetic attraction between soulmates is
that their Guardian Angels are guiding them and bringing energy to both
people simultaneously, in order to "force", guide and bring this soulmate
couple together. Ofcourse selfish ego, stubborness and freewill choice can
block this, but eventually "soulmates" always come together. Each persons
Guardian Angels will ensure this happens, however illogical !
Wrong Relationships Always Fail

Similarly, the reason why "wrong" relationships, lovers and marriages fail
is that each of the individuals Guardian Angels are conflicting with the
other persons Guardian Angels, both individuals are incompatable on a
spiritual level and hence eventually they end up conflicting on a physical
level.
A "sign" for this is that there are conflicts, disharmony and inbalances in
the relationship and very often a person enjoys having "SPACE" away from
the other, and in the "space" a person feels enlivened and happy for this
freedom ! This requirement for "space" is an energy from ones Guardian
Angels to pull one away from a bad and wrong relationship.
Once the wrong person is out of ones life, "good fortune" always happens
in a persons life, as a spiritual sign from ones Guardian Angels that one is
now on the correct pathway and free from that "negative" person .
Everyone believes in "SIGNS" as these give everyone an indication of
good energy, a good omen to ones soul which is living in this real physical
world that one is with the right person doing the right thing at the right
time. If one feels "uncomfortable" or misfortune happens where it has not
happend before, then take this as a sign and have "closure" and please run
away from them !!!
Once one has "closure" from "draining" people, a positive energy of
excitement and "aliveness" is given by ones Guardian Angels, this is
because ones soul is "blocking success" when one is with bad people. The
more spiritual and sensitive a person is, the stronger the "blocking energy"
caused by other peoples transference energy, through ones Guardian Angels

as sign to protect you.
Soulmates Communicate by "Eye

Contact"

The Talmud Kidushin 41a explains that a person is forbidden to marry

unless they see each other with their eyes. The Talmud does not say "talk to
each other" or kiss etc., but the talmud says a person needs to "to see" with
ones eyes.
This is because ones eyes are the windows to ones soul, and "eye contact"
means that your souls are communicating with each other. Only by "eye
contact" will you know that this person is your soulmate and only through
your continual "eye contact" your souls are communicating with each other.
5. Why There Are Difficulties Whilst

"Soulmates" Are Coming Together?
Created By Blockages Of Other
Peoples Negative Thoughts That
Envelope A Person And Block.
Sometimes there are difficulties whilst "soulmates" are trying to come
together, through blockages of of other peoples negative thoughts
that envelope a person to be blocked, the reason is that the union of
"soulmates" is VERY POWERFUL and many people are jealous, hateful
and spiteful with envy that one has developed spiritually with a wonderful
soulmate union of love, even destructive and controlling "well meaning"
parents can be jealous and create negative blockages!
Negative Blockages -
-"kleepes" literally translated are "layers of hard shells". Spiritually

the word - "kleepes" is used in reference to shells of negative energy
that attach themselves to ones soul and prevent "life energy" from DIVINE
GOD and from Spirit world coming into ones soul, these - "kleepes"
are created by negative emotions and thoughts such has hate, jealousy,
deceit and lies. These negative blockages are created by a person or by
other people who wish to block ones life.
"Blockages" are created by negative thought energy hence they are easily
cancelled-out through the power of prayer and speech, as explained in the
chapter Loss by "Transference".
Resisting "Change" Creates Blockages

When a person finally meets their soulmate, they will both be in a
transition period of inner change, until they come together as one in
physical sexual love. This is because both have been living a "half life"
without their soulmate and adapted to a dysfunctional life whilst living
alone. Therefore, some changes will be necessary.
If either one resist these changes in their lives, through their independant,
selfish childish ways of thinking, or their stubborn ego then this creates
- "kleepes" negative blockages. Only when they realise that each
other is the "other half" of the other and then decided to grow-up into
mature selfless adults.
At that moment of inner decision they will both resist the need to create
blockages of moving forward by "holding onto" their past, and then they
will come together for a united wonderful future for their soul which is
ONE, and then there is no longer such thing as 2 people in a soulmate, they
are simply ONE unit.
Other People Who Wish to "Control"

And "Own" Your Soul Creates
Blockages
The other blockage of is created from other peoples negative
thoughts that envelope a person to be blocked, the reason is that the union
of "soulmates" is VERY POWERFUL and many people are jealous, hateful
and spiteful with envy that one has developed spiritually and has a
wonderful soulmate union of love, even destructive and controlling parents

can be jealous and create negative blockages!
Single people who feel that they are "into their career" or "committed" to
their job, profession or business and have no time for loving relationships,
may think they are making a good decision themselves, however in reality
they do not OWN their own souls. They have "sold their souls to the devil",
to their career or to the love of "making money", as they are not in control
of their own lives and have given their soulful power away, this will create
the same blockage in their lives, and thwart their own spiritual success in
finding their true soulmate.
These negative blockages are dissolved by cancelling out through prayer,
power of speech and inner change, as explained in Loss by "Transference",
then the couple must learn to be 100% closed and be spiritually protected to
such negativity which is trying to challenge and block their soulmate union.
Dissolve All Negative Blockages

Light A Single Candle
6. Every Soulmate Couple Is A
" Small World".
Every soulmate couple is a " small world". The principle of
soulmates needing to protect themselves and live in their "own world"
refusing to "allow-in" any destructive or negative energies into their
relationship and having their own unique purpose and mission in their lives
is vital to the existence and survival of their soulmate world.
Therefore, whenever a soulmate couple feels any form of negativity in their
loving relationship - light a single candle, and embrace each other with
love, as they are ONE, this unity symbolized in ONE candle and
connecting with the DIVINE Spirit world will protect them and negate any
negativity from whomever and wherever it has come from.
When a soulmate couple are together they are protecting each other from
any external negative influences, in fact they are living in their own
" small world" and almost oblivious to any negativity that exists or any
negativity that they would have sensed when they were single. Being
together and living in their own world, especially when unified as one unit
in making sexual love, creates spiritual and physical love energy which
protects from all negativity.
7. Everytime "Soulmates" Make

Sexual Love They Create Spiritual
Energy That Protects Their Souls
There is a spiritual loving energy created by soulmates everytime they
"make love", which creates a spiritual protecting energy to strengthen their
bond, energize their lives and grow spiritually.
The act of making sexual love with ones soulmate unites the two seperate
physical bodies in the most natural way, the womans body is lacking and
the mans physical body has the missing piece that unites the two bodies.
Only through their loving arousal for each other, through passion and love
they unite in the act of sexual love.
Everytime one makes sexual love this creates spiritual energy for ones
united soul, the same way that "making sexual love" brings the potential for
a child to be conceived, that is to say that "sexual love" has the potential to
bring a spirit soul down from spirit world of souls into this physical world.
Likewise everytime one makes sexual love with ones soulmate this unites
the physical and spiritual union of their soul and creates a powerful
spiritual energy.
"Make A Wish"
Sefer Shinuyim explains that at the specific moment a man orgasms,
ejaculates sperm inside a woman, he has brought an angelic and spiritual
energy into this world.
The spiritual tradition at this specific moment is for a man to then say
"make a wish", although once they both become accustomed to each other
they he no longer needs to say it as the woman knows, even so if a man
feels a very special energy - he should say "make a wish".
The spiritual energy of the angel created by the sexual love in the soulmate
union has the energy to help, guide, protect and bring good fortune into
their lives, but it needs the woman to receive the blessing and for her to
"make the wish".
It is a reward and thanks to the woman for her passion and love that the
man has the energy and desire to love, this is her unique reward for her
kindness, support and love for her soulmate man.
This is spiritual reason that use of condom or "coming outside",
masturbating, or any other act other than a mans penis inside a womans
vagina making sexual love, creates a negative blockage of energy upon the
soul , as explained above and on the page "Health & Diet".
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We understand that this section on "Soulmates" is long and the webpage Life
of Love is very long, we wished to keep the original from Sefer Shinuyim Book of Changes and not split the pure knowledge in different pages.
Nontheless we shall be inserting link to a separate webpage Sexual Love and
have made a separate webpage on "Prayers and How to find ones soulmate"
with knowledge from both Sefer Shinuyim and Sefer Tikunim.
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6. Understanding That A "Life Of

Love" Brings Energy, Love And
Healing To Many Peoples Lives.
The pure DIVINE spiritual creative and life-giving energy of "LOVE" that
flows from the DIVINE Spiritual realms is channeled into this world
through enlightened souls and through ALL loving people, this life-giving
energy is radiated from the soul and acts to give life energy and enlighten
people all over the world.
The enlightened loving compassionate and spiritually-minded person acts
to channel and bring to the world a "life-giving" energy, through the
constant connection to the spiritual world such souls bring to this physical
world the energy for others to live.
Everything we have and everything we are, is identified in our soul by the
amount of sincere LOVE we bring into this world, the loving energy we
glow and radiate, in this life, from previous lives and in the future eternal
spiritual world. This measure of love that we exude each moment of every
day identifies the spiritual level of our soul. The more compassion and love
the more energy within our soul, the more hatred, jealousy, sadness and
anger the less energy within our soul.
Love versus Hate, Life versus Death

Choose Life & Love ... , ,
It is impossible to have 2 emotions at the same time, one can either have
emotions of Love or emotions of Hate, one can either be happy or sad. It is
impossible to be positive and negative at the same time, the spirit soul is
naturally either positive or negative, this is the freewill choice of living life.
When a person is positive, happy and loving a person is connected to the
DIVINE life creative energy of GOD, whereas when a person is negative,
destructive hateful and depressed one has disconnected from the DIVINE
source of life, and ofcourse it is impossible to be connected to GOD and
disconnected to GOD, hence a person is either positive or negative, loving
or hateful, alive or dead, creative or destructive, selfless or selfish,
optimistic or pessimistic, spiritual or materialistic.
It is impossible to be loving and hateful at the same time, as all emotions of
LOVE connect one to life, whereas all emotions of hate disconnect one
from life, even the most hateful and destructive people when "making love"
with their spouses become loving and connect with life energy !
This is the freewill challenge of life and the constant internal struggle in
life to always be vigilant of ones moods and emotions, ensuring one is
always positive, constructive, compassionate, kind and loving to make the
freewill choice to continually think of emotions of LOVE which create and
bring LIFE, refusing to be negatively influenced by bad people and always
blocking any negative emotions of hate, sadness depression and "selfdestruction".
Focus On Loving Thoughts

Every moment we have emotions and thoughts of LOVE, we are
connecting ourselves to GOD - the DIVINE source of all LIFE, thereby
giving our soul energy and sustainance.
For every emotion of hate, jealousy, envy and sadness, one is disconnecting
ones soul from the DIVINE life energy, and hence bringing death, sadness,
depression and self-destruction into ones life.
The Strength and Power Of Ones Soul

Is Measured By The Flow Of Love
Through Ones Soul
A persons souls is identified by the amount of energy flowing through it.
The strongest people in the world channel more thought-energy into their
mind, soul and body, and share this energy with other people by giving-out
an energy that energizes other peoples lives, through their thoughts or
power of speech.
The eternal DIVINE energy of life is LOVE, therefore a strong and
powerful soul allows more LOVE energy to channel through it than a
weaker soul. The more a person gives to others the more a person brings
into ones life, like a flowing river of life energy. LOVE energy is selfless
and the ONLY way to bring more love into ones life is by giving out LOVE
energy to other people.
The amount of flowing "LOVE" energy one has in ones life, indicates the
amount of "life energy", the more flowing loving energy in ones life the
greater the power within ones soul.
People who feel their life is stagnant, blocked, frustatingly dull and nothing
new is happening in their life, feel this because there is NO NEW loving
life energy flowing into their lives. They are living from "loving energy"
created in the past instead of creating new love energy in the present.
Unblocking starts by allowing a new flow of LOVE energy into ones life
immediately NOW - in the present moment.
Learning to say THANK YOU and being grateful to GOD for the gift of
life, recognising how lucky we are for every second of life. Think of the
fact that on this planet there are people who are in far worse situations than
we are, there are people who are dying of starvation and disease on this
planet, people who have no friends, no-one to love in their life, or no-one
that loves them.
If indeed, you feel that you have no-one to love in their life, or no-one that
loves you, then you CAN break-out of such a life, by learning to LOVE.
Learning to LOVE
The first step in starting the flow of life energy of LOVE is learning to
LOVE, find someone that you can LOVE, even giving LOVE and affection
for a cat or pet animal helps to start the flow of LOVE energy.
Focus ones thoughts of thinking love for that person, it is much easier to
think unconditional loving thoughts for people whom have died and passed
over to spirit world, especially loving grandparents or very good friends.
This is especially true - whenever a person feels sad, lonely and depressed,
immediately THINK LOVING THOUGHTS. Then continue to find more
and more reasons to love more and more people. If one looks carefully one
will always find reasons to LOVE. Whereas a depressed and destructive
person will always find reasons to complain and hate.
Light A Candle For Love

Say A Prayer For Other People
Learn to show love and compassion by praying sincerely for other people,
stop worrying about ones own life and start to learn how to pray sincerely
for other people with compassion, pity and love. Light a candle and say a
prayer.
The more one prays with LOVE for other people, the more one becomes a
spiritual channel of LOVE, a channeling source of life energy from spirit
world to this physical world to help other people. Then the channel of life
energy through ones soul will grow, radiating a loving energy that is
magnetic for true happiness and love.
This channel of life energy of love will keep one connected to spiritual life
energy of GOD. Once a person has connected and feels the DIVINE lifegiving energy of LOVE it is impossible to go back to a depressing life, and
a new pathway of spiritual enlightenement is found.
The purpose of life is to "find GOD" and finding the source of eternal life
energy of LOVE in this physical world, where so much seems to be
obscured to ones physical eyes, however once a person opens ones spiritual
senses and spiritual eyes one will see, feel the truth, finding LOVE of
GOD, LOVE of Life and LOVE of all creations of GOD, leading to a
stronger faith and trust in GOD - the DIVINE creator of this magnificent
Universe.
Radiating "Love" - Heals

Once a person learns to transform ones objectives from a life of selfish
materialism into one of "selfless spiritualism", then a person will be acting
as a channel of life energy of LOVE and compassion from the DIVINE
spiritual realms. The persons soul will radiate and glow with an aura of life
and love, everyone who connects, sees and senses such a person will be
radiated by the spiritual glow of their soul.
This glowing spiritual energy of pure life energy is channeled by this soul,
and acts to provide everyone, (even the non believers, who connect with
such a good soul), with a source of life energy.
The DIVINE life energy of LOVE creates life, sustains life and heals life,
such a connection with a channel of spiritual life energy gives a persons
soul the confidence, faith and inner power to live life to their fullest
potential.
The transformation and opportunity for change will come in everyones life
after too many experiences when one feels continually drained, tired and
depressed. Realising that only thoughts of love and connections with
channels of life energy to good souls, are instantaneously energizing ones
life. Then suddenly, like an internal light being switched-on, one learns,
realises and decides to change ones futile draining pathway and become a
spiritual channel in the selfless service of GOD and learning to have faith
in a "Life of Trust in GOD".
7. Understanding The Eternal Spiritual

Law Of Love; Love Can Never Be
Destroyed.
The DIVINE source of energy for every single soul, everything in this
physical universe and in the DIVINE Spirit world is the ETERNAL
DIVINE LOVE, which can never be destroyed. No one or nothing can ever
destroy this true love energy - this is the eternal spiritual law of love.
"Created by GOD"
Everything created by GOD exists eternally; everything created in this
physical Universe exists for eternity. Everything has been created with
eternal DIVINE LOVE. When we emulate our CREATOR and create with
LOVE this infuses a DIVINE life energy into that physical entity, hence
children are conceived through love of the parents; plants, flowers and
animals continue the cycle of life through love energy.
"Created by GOD - Destroyed By

Man"
Everything created by GOD exists for eternity, but it can be destroyed in
this physical world by the evil of man.
The nature of mankind is to destroy. Every day our physical bodies eats
wholesome food, fruit and vegetables turning this good food into disgusting
poisonous smelly faeces-excrement. Every day our bodies convert good
food into excrement, the more physical and greedier a person is, the more a
person eats hence the more destruction a person is causing by creating

more faeces-excrement.
Our challenge in life is to be more like the DIVINE creator of the Universe
and create life energy more than we destroy. This is especially true in our
generation, with the concern that we are destroying the air quality and
protective ozone layer of the earth in the environment with every journey
we make in gas-guzzling cars, causing damage to this planet earth and
causing destructive climate change.
The Less Influence of Man - The More

Divine
The more mankind messes with creations of GOD, the more destruction
caused, hence the most NATURAL places on earth that have been created
from the beginning of time at the creation of this Universe by GOD that are
the most unspoilt by man have the most DIVINE energy.
This is the reason why everyone feels and appreciates the natural DIVINE
energy of mountains, hills, green countryside, natural waterfalls, the seas,
beaches and the sky. The less mankinds' destructive influence the more
inherent GODLY energy infused within and upon it.
The Divine Energy Can Never Be

Destroyed
When we consider and look at the magnificence of the whole universe, we
see that continuity of the DIVINE energy in the stars and planets that can
never be touched or destroyed by mankind. Everything GODLY can never
be destroyed by mankind, everything Spiritual can never be destroyed by
mankind, the reason is that the eternal energy of creation which is LOVE
can NEVER be destroyed. LOVE lasts eternaly forever.
"Protection from Destruction"

The only way to protect our souls from destruction is by connecting to the
DIVINE source of LOVE, which guarentees eternal spiritual life. The more
LOVING we become, the more spiritually enlightened and the closer we
come to the DIVINE creator of the Universe.
Understanding that the existence of our soul depends on the closer we

come to our DIVINE creator, the more compassionate and loving we
become, and the less selfish and destructive.
Changing & Undoing The Past

Destruction
Understanding that the most important principle and spiritual law of
Change, , - "One moment of love
gives more life and is worth more than a 1000 years of hate".
The foundational essence of - Sefer Shinuyim Book of Changes,
is that through one thought of LOVE, connecting ones soul to the DIVINE
source of spiritual energy of LOVE one can change and have power more
than 1000 years of hate and destruction.
Each and every thought we have creates an energy, a loving thought has the
power of GODLY eternal life energy, whereas a destructive thought only
has the power of that moment, hence one focused thought of love can
eradicate 1000's of years of hate energy.
"Hate Always Dies"

When we think in hindsight of the history of the world, looking and
laughing at the destruction of all the hateful, murderous and deadly empires
such as the Egyptian, the Babylonians, the Greeks, the Romans, even the
Turkish and Nazi German Empires, we see that NONE of these empires
exist today. (remember the funny rhyme we used to say in school, at the
useless learning of Latin, "Latin is a language as dead as can be - first it
killed the romans - now its killing me"!)
All the hateful destructive regimes and enemies of good spiritually loving
people are all as "dead, buried, forgotten and insignificant",
with its foundation and principles of LOVE and COMPASSION
survives and outlives all hateful regimes. Hate always dies, Love always
survives lives eternally.
"Love Always Exists Eternally"
This is the eternal DIVINE decree and spiritual law of life, that LOVE will
always exist and outlive hate. Love is the energy of physical and spiritual
life. When a person has a glimpse and reflects on the most wonderful
moments of life, one only remembers the exciting moments of LOVE. Our
soul holds and retains the energy of LOVE eternally. The ONLY goodness
in the whole universe is LOVE. The ONLY goodness in the whole universe
is GOD - The DIVINE GOD is LOVE.
"The DIVINE GOD is LOVE"

Conclusion
The Hebrew word means GOOD - Gematria Numerical Value 17
The only true goodness comes when one is wholesome with love of ones
soulmate
Chapter 17 of Sefer Shinuyim is "Life of Love" is the most important
chapter as it is the KEY to living life in this world, connecting this physical
world to the eternal spiritual world with LOVE of GOD, LOVE of Life and
true LOVE of ones Soulmate.
The Essence and source of ALL goodness in the world is LOVE. The
Power and Energy of LOVE eliminates all negativity, blockages, death,
sadness and evil. The Power and Energy of LOVE creates energy from
Eternal Spiritual world which heals our souls and bodies in this physical
world. Love is the key to everything in this World and journey we call
"Life".
Understanding How To Find Ones

True SOULMATE
In this section we shall explain the meaning of "soulmates" and how to find
and identify ones true soulmate, taken from Sefer Shinuyim - the "Book of
Changes".
We shall explain the spiritual law of "Two types of "SOULMATES" one
type that gives one difficult and challenging experiences in order to teach
one important lessons in life and the other perfect harmonious soulmate
that is excatly identical to you as he/she is your "other half", the exact piece
one has been searching for since one was born to complete ones soul.
After reading this section we know and hope you will be placed on the
right pathway to find ones true soulmate and stop wasting your vital souls
energy on the "wrong ones" !
This section on "Soulmates" is explained in 7 stages:1.Explaining the purpose and meaning of "soulmates" and "soul groups".
2.Explaining that one actually has 2 Soulmates , one is a help ,
the other is a challenging opposition .
3.Explaining how to find ones true "soulmate".
4.Explaining the reason for the amazing inexplicable magnetic attraction of
soulmates, and why one feels, senses and knows ones soulmates thoughts
and feelings.
Explaining that only the two people "know" they are each others soulmate,
whilst in other peoples "sensible eyes" they appear to be unsuitable and
even unequal.
5.Explaining why there are difficulties whilst "soulmates" are trying to
come together, through blockages of " shells of negative energy
covering ones soul", created from other peoples negative thoughts that
envelope a person to be blocked.
How soulmates themselves generate their own " shells of negative
energy covering ones soul", negative energies which challenge, test and
doubt themselves until they are 100% absolutely certain to know that this
person is ones soulmate. Then explaining how to negate any ,
negative, challenging and opposing energies in making 2 soulmates coming
and being together.
6. Explaining that every soulmate couple is a " small world". The
principle of soulmates needing to protect themselves and live in their "own
world" refusing to "allow-in" any destructive or negative energies into their
relationship and having their own unique purpose and mission in their
lives.
7. Explaining the spiritual loving energy that is created by soulmates

everytime they "make love", which creates a spiritual protecting energy to
strengthen their bond, energize their lives and grow spiritually.
1. Explaining The Purpose And

Meaning Of "Soulmates" And "Soul
Groups".
The true purpose of the gift of life on earth is inorder for our souls to learn
and experience life, through all kinds of events, opportunities and
challenges throughout our lives.
Thankfully we are not alone during our journey of life, unless ofcourse a
person believes themselves to be selfish egocentrical "individuals", then
even amongst large groups of people they are lonely and disconnected.
"The Soulgroup"
During our journey of life, we travel on this earth in "soul groups", that is a
group, culture and identity where all the members of the soul group
understand each other and live on the same physical and spiritual
wavelength. The members of ones soul group may not all be alive on earth,
they may be spiritual souls who have passed onto to Spirit world but
mantain contact with you as they are part of ones soul group in much the
same way as "Guardian angels" .
One will always be able to rely upon ones soul group to help, guide, assist,
the souls in ones soul group will make 100% certain that one succeeds to
fulfill ALL of ones lifes goals, objectives, challenges and purpose ones soul
came to earth to learn.
Once a person has learnt the lessons of ones life, it is possible to elevate
ones soul into a higher soulgroup, and likewise if one makes a bad decision
one can move out of ones soulgroup into a lower group. Nontheless one
always has the intrinsic continual opportunity and chance to return to ones
destined soulgroup and likewise on is always guarenteed to be able to find
their perfect soulmate, through the help of ones "Guardian angels" and
helpful souls from ones soulgroup.
"The Soulmate"
Talmud (Sotah 2a) teaches that "destiny" has designated each and every
individual with a soulmate. The "soulmate" is actually the other half of a
person. With ones soulmate one is wholesome, without it one is void and
empty. With ones "soulmate" comes a "package" of a home to live and
profession/job and purpose in life.
The spiritual and physical energy of planet earth resonates to the number
TWO, everything on our planet comes in pairs. The Earth itself is paired
with the Moon, the identity of the Earth needs the Moon to exist both
physically and spiritually, in the renewal of energies monthly and daily
tidal flows, as the magnetic pull of the Moons energy causes high and low
tides - the Earth needs CHANGE to exist.
The emphasis and importance of finding ones true soulmate is the key to
success in life. The two halves that make the whole, once together one can
lead a fulfilling and purposeful life of "destiny". Having the "wrong half"
means one does not have ones soulmate hence one does not have "the key
of life" to fulfill ones true destined purpose in life. Without the right "key",
ones life will seem frustrating and unlucky - like stuck in a locked room
full of closed doors . It maybe nice few hours, but would be frustratingly
painful to remain there for the rest of ones life !
The purpose of the "soulmate" is to make a person feel wholesome with
LOVE and enable one to accomplish the mission and purpose of life
through physical, sexual and spiritual LOVE energy. Everything
constructive and good in this life is only created through LOVE. Only
through the loving energy created together with ones soulmate creates the
perfect energy to live, bringing meaning to everything in ones life.
2. Explaining that everyone has 2

Soulmates, , one is a help ,
the other is a challenging opposition
.
Everyone has freewill choice in life, even when we think we are making a
choice, it is either categorised into a good decision or a bad decision. Both
decisions are choices that are potentially destined for our soul, the bad
decisions we make will challenge us and make life difficult for us in order
to guide us to change, making the corrective decision and finding the
correct good pathway, our soul instinctively only finds "inner peace of
mind", when we are on the correct pathway.
Most people only learn from bad and challenging relationships. Such
connections will have a similar instantaneous magnetic attraction as good
relationships, as they too, are destined in order to teach a person important
lessons, but they will continue to repeat past patterns if bad relationships as
there is a lesson a person needs to learn, and until one learns the lesson one
will keep on being magnetic to the bad and "challenging" type of
relationships.
The 2 Types of Soulmates

" - The Help"
" - The Help" soulmates are always 100% on your side with continual
support, help, love, passion and an eternal unconditional LOVE, and whom
would NEVER EVER hurt you.
Whenever one plans, talks and thinks ideas with ones true helpful soulmate,
they constructively help to energize ones life with loving energy, enabling
one to overcome any negativity, moving all obstacles and finding the
correct pathway to success. As ones true helpful soulmate always knows
that they are ones "Other Half", when something good happens to the other
half of them, they too benefit from this good energy.
" - The Opposition"

" - The Opposition" soulmates teach a person by constantly
challenging, through emotionally bitter lessons with pain and difficulties.
The "opposition" bad relationships always cause a sensible person to "go
closed" on themself emotionally in order to protect their soul.
Prefering to live alone in ones mind and thoughts than communicate with
such a destructive person in a dysfunctional relationship. A feeling of
"living with the enemy" ensues, and everything one plans or tells such a
person gets blocked and thwarted by their destructive and negative thought
energies, critical words and horrible actions.
Until it comes a point in ones life, where one says "ENOUGH" ! At such a
"breaking point" a person may loose faith in love, loose faith in
relationships, loose faith life and worst of all - loose faith in GOD.
But when a person realises that such a relationship is a dysfuntional " Opposition" soulmate, then this makes a person find an inner strength,
admitting to oneself the truth of the bad relationship and then learning how
to find ones true 100% loving soulmate the soulmate of " - Help".
" - The Help" can sometimes be a

" - The Opposition"
There are times that we all make mistakes in our lives, and even though we
are living with and have found our 100% loving soulmate, he/she may
challenge us and be absolutely right to challenge with the strength of
"opposition".
They act in this way of challenging "opposition" as they are wishing to
defend their own soul, through love of their "Other Half" of their soul, they
are trying to protect the relationship by any destructive external opposing
energies and any negative influence or bad decision the other person has
made. They are "challenging and opposing" out of a deep sincere love, in
order to protect the wholesomeness of their perfect soulmate union.
" - The Opposition" can

sometimes
turn into " - The Help"
" - The Opposition" soulmates always have the potential to become
perfectly 100% loving soulmates, with no more need for bitter experiences,
pain or difficulties ONLY when they have have refined and elevated their
soul after learning the necessary lessons their souls need to learn.
Soulmates may choose to start their relationship through a "challenging"
and opposing energy, however, by working together and challenging each
others individualism they are able to transform themselves into a single
UNITED soulmate, through negating any opposing energies that exist by
learning to completely love each other, and thereby transform their

relationship into a 100% loving helpful soulmate union.
3. Explaining How To Find Ones

True "Soulmate"
When meeting new people in life, connections and bonds are made either
because the people share a "common interest" or because one person has
something the other person wants.
"Physical Chemistry"
In the case of love and relationships, men and women are magnetically
aroused and attracted to each other. Nontheless not all men are attracted to
all women and vice versa, there needs to be a certain "chemistry" that
makes a man and a woman "fall in love" with each other.
This "chemistry" is the energy of the thoughts in the mind, that is a man
and a woman only really feel a connection to each other when they are in
harmony with each other in their mind & thoughts. This "common factor"
enables a wholesomeness and fullness in the relationship, otherwise the
love is merely a superficial animal - instinct sexual love, which usually
fades within a few weeks.
Human beings who are connected with each other, need to have an ability
to think the same way as each other, they need to have a "common factor"
in order to feel the relationship is wholesome. Hence the reason why single
people join clubs and organisations, or have hobbies and interests as a
sense of identity of their personality. Thereby enabling themselves to meet
"like-minded" people and hopefully find a suitable man/woman with whom
they can have a meaningful relationship with, as their inner minds and
thoughts will be sharing similar identities, emotions and feelings.
If either become disinterested in the "common factor" that originally united
them, then their relationship will have communication problems leading to
an automatic "falling out of love", as their thoughts and energy of their
minds no longer have anything "in common".
When a couple are not growing together, then they are growing apart in
their diverging lifestyles and interests. Such a relationship will eventually
fail completely, unless one of them changes to become like the other.
"Spiritual Chemistry"
The next level of relationships is that people feel a "magnetic" attraction, a
"twinkle in the eye" or very lovely inner feeling, even without talking.
Relationships that are prompted by "just a thought" of them, seeing them or
seeing anything that reminds you of them, that is your mind and soul is
connecting yourself with their mind and thoughts.
Such thought energies are ones mind and soul communicating with you and
likewise with the other persons mind and soul is feeling the same inner
feeling for you, your souls are communicating with each other, this gives
you the "inner spiritual feeling" that you are made for each other, an
inexplicable inner "spiritual chemistry".
Such a "spiritual chemistry" is definately a sign that this is someone
important in your life and definately from ones "soulgroup" as explained
above. The important question "how do you identify if they are your true
soulmate?" This needs you to understand the "soulmate chemistry":-
"Soulmate Chemistry"
Soulmates, and all members of ones soulgroup have a unique telepathic
communication of thought energies in the minds and souls of the whole
soulgroup. All the souls of ones soulgroup know and sense exactly what the
other members are feeling. They all have the same thoughts, feelings and
emotions at the same time. They feel pain, when people in their soulgroup
are in pain, and likewise they feel the happiness, love and strength from the
other souls in their soulgroup.
The "soulmate chemistry" means that all the souls of the soulgroup are
constantly connected even if they are physically far away from each other,
they are very close spiritually, as their soul, mind and thoughts are
constantly connected.
This "soulmate chemistry" is the reason why ones "guardian angels" and
loved ones in spirit world, are in constant contact with ones soul, as they
are members of ones spiritual soul group. The only reason a person feels
alone and not in contact with people of their same soulgroup is because one
may block or deny the existence of "spirit" world, believing that one needs
to "get on with normal physical life" instead of including a "spiritual
enlightened pathway" within ones physical existence in this life on earth.
Only when a person is connected spiritually and "open" to be guided
spiritually, then through "soulmate chemistry" of you and your soulgroup,
through ones "guardian angels" and loved ones in spirit world whom are
waiting to help you find a spiritual pathway, one is assured to be guided to
connect with and find ones true soulmate.
How To Find Your True Soulmate

The first step in finding your true soulmate is to believe in GOD, Spirit
world, Guardian Angels and that through your connection to good souls in
Spirit world from your soulgroup, you will be guided to find your soulmate
or that your soulmate will find you.
"Asking for Guidance For Ones Soul"

Tikun Neshoma -
Sefer Tikunim in Tikun Neshoma - explains when a person has
lived a life void of any belief in GOD, belief in spiritual afterlife or in a
"Spirit World of Souls", then a person should light 3 candles to connect
"spiritually":One candle for GOD, one candle for ones guardian angel and one candle
for ones soul, and then pray that one should be guided spiritually to correct
any mistakes one has made whilst living a life VOID of any belief in GOD,
and ask to be guided along the right pathway destined for ones soul.
Whilst praying one will feel spiritually enlightened, with feelings of
awareness and belief in GOD and belief in the existence of a spiritual soul.
Such feelings and understandings will bring a person to see a "bigger
picture", that life on earth is part of a spiritual journey for ones soul, with a
unique and destined pathway for each and every soul to experience
emotions, events and changes.
Connecting to Spirit World With

Prayer Will Help to Strengthen Your
Soul and Enable Your Soulmate to be

Found and Bring You Together
Every prayer helps to connect ones soul to Spirit world and brings a person
closer to the DIVINE GOD that creates and sustains this Universe.
All connections to "Spirit World" will increase and strengthen your
spiritual strength, this includes praying at the gravesites of spiritually
strong and good souls, especially praying at the gravesites of good people
one knew and loved, and/or praying at Famous Rabbis & Rebbes holy
gravsites, sending prayer requests into the Famous Rabbi Yonatan Ben
Uziel and ofcourse continually giving thanks for the gift of life whilst
asking for help and guidance to find ones true soulmate.
One can use the Prayers for Soulmate from Sefer Tikunim, but even
stronger one should use ones own language to pray from ones heart for
ones soulmate with a few heartfelt emotions and tears.
It does not matter what time of the day or night, whenever one intuitively
and spiritually feels the right moment to pray and ask for spiritual help,
then light a candle and pray in whatever language you understand. The
stronger ones inner spiritual connection the sooner ones true soulmate will
be found by spirit world and you will come together.
Lighting Candles For Your Soulmate

Light 2 Candles :
One For You and One For Your
Soulmate
In preparing for your soulmate to come into your life, you will develope a
selfless and spiritual character, by lighting a candle for the soul of your
soulmate even though you have not met him/her yet, you are showing a
love, compassion and desire to pray and help someone else, who is actually
YOUR other half.
Learning to show love, desiring to give selflessly and unconditionally to
another person is all part of "growing-up" from being a demanding selfish
child to loving unconditionally, and thereby become a perfect potential

parent.
Ask yourself, "would you give EVERYTHING of what you have to your
soulmate?" if the answer is "YES", then you have understood that giving to
your soulmate is infact just giving to yourself, a cycle of life energy. The
concept of sharing and giving love in a soulmate loving relationship is the
spiritual basis of life, as in the cycle of life in the whole Universe, the
DIVINE GOD constantly gives everything to everyone.
When praying for ones soulmate, never focus your thoughts on any
particular person, as they may not be yours, and an even better person will
be your destined perfect soulmate, and then be "open" to listen to your
inner voice of guidance and ACT, there is no point in praying and then
DOING NOTHING when one has a feeling to go somewhere or speak to
someone !
"Within 12 Months"
The Spiritual guarentee from Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes and from
Famous Rabbi Yonatan Ben Uziel, is that within 12 months of prayers of
asking GOD and Spirit world to find ones true soulmate then one will find
him/her, DIVINE coincedences, experiences and feelings will occur to
guide you to your soulmate and guide your soulmate to you.
In section 5 below we explain why there are difficulties whilst "soulmates"
are trying to come together, through blockages of of other peoples
negative thoughts that envelope a person to be blocked, and explain how to
negate & eliminate these blockages.
"Compare to Modern Day Internet"

If one is searching for someone on the internet than one first needs to get a
computer and be online, then a person needs to search by using a search
engine like google or yahoo.
Similarly spiritually, in searching for ones true soulmate, one first needs to
believe in GOD and Spirit world, connecting by way of prayers and
lighting candles for GOD and Spirit world for DIVINE help to find ones
soulmate, and then "be open", listen and allow one to be guided to meet
ones soulmate.
Everyone has a perfect soulmate and when you find him/her your soul will
instinctively know, your life will "magically" open up with an amazing life
vitality of love and life-giving energy.
With your true soulmate you will feel an eternal LOVE energy, as
soulmates existed in spirit world before we were born when our souls
arrived on earth and will existe unified together once we die and leave this
earth. The intermediary years of life on earth is the challenge that we must
ensure we waste no time in finding our true soulmate to live a wholesome
purposeful loving life together.
The True Soulmate

"One who looks for money, beauty, status or anything physical in a
relationship
will NEVER find their true soulmate" quoted from Tana Devei Eliyahu
In seeking your true Soulmate ask yourself the following questions:When contemplating ones emotions with respect to ones true soulmate, one
needs to ask "Do you want to be so different from that person?" OR "Do
you wish to actually be identical to that person, and be a part of that person,
in every single way ?"
In the desire to be that person, and become a complete part of that persons
life because indeed a true soulmate is the "other half", one is motivated and
prepared to change ones mind, thoughts and even physical existence to be
with him/her, energized by a magnetic love from the soul.
This power from ones soul is an identity that indicates ones "true
soulmate", the desire to reunite your souls together as ONE in this world as
you have been before you came into this world and will be united eternally
in spirit world after leaving this physical life for eternity, and refusing to
allow anything physical or material distract or block your souls from being
together. One will not find true inner "peace of mind" withing ones mind
and soul until one is with ones true soulmate.
4. Explaining The Reason For The

Amazing Inexplicable Magnetic
Attraction Of Soulmates.
In this section we explain the spiritual reason for the amazing inexplicable
magnetic attraction of soulmates, and why one feels, senses and knows
everything ones soulmate is thinking and feeling.
Instantaneous Magnetic Attraction
Soulmates have an instantanous magnetic attraction to each other, as their

relationship is blessed by DIVINE GOD, blessed by Spirit world and
"destined" as a "key of life" for their lives together on earth.
Even people who try and fight this magnetic soulmate love desire for each
other, will find their efforts to block themselves futile and will eventually
be together. As soulmates will never find "peace of mind" and true
purposeful fulfillment of their souls until they are together, both physically
and spiritually together. True soulmates always need and lovingly enjoy
being together all the time.
The reason for this inexplicable magnetic attraction between soulmates is
that their Guardian Angels are guiding them and bringing energy to both
people simultaneously, in order to "force", guide and bring this soulmate
couple together. Ofcourse selfish ego, stubborness and freewill choice can
block this, but eventually "soulmates" always come together. Each persons
Guardian Angels will ensure this happens, however illogical !
Wrong Relationships Always Fail
Similarly, the reason why "wrong" relationships, lovers and marriages fail
is that each of the individuals Guardian Angels are conflicting with the
other persons Guardian Angels, both individuals are incompatable on a
spiritual level and hence eventually they end up conflicting on a physical
level.
A "sign" for this is that there are conflicts, disharmony and inbalances in
the relationship and very often a person enjoys having "SPACE" away from
the other, and in the "space" a person feels enlivened and happy for this
freedom ! This requirement for "space" is an energy from ones Guardian
Angels to pull one away from a bad and wrong relationship.
Once the wrong person is out of ones life, "good fortune" always happens
in a persons life, as a spiritual sign from ones Guardian Angels that one is
now on the correct pathway and free from that "negative" person .
Everyone believes in "SIGNS" as these give everyone an indication of
good energy, a good omen to ones soul which is living in this real physical
world that one is with the right person doing the right thing at the right
time. If one feels "uncomfortable" or misfortune happens where it has not
happend before, then take this as a sign and have "closure" and please run
away from them !!!
Once one has "closure" from "draining" people, a positive energy of
excitement and "aliveness" is given by ones Guardian Angels, this is
because ones soul is "blocking success" when one is with bad people. The
more spiritual and sensitive a person is, the stronger the "blocking energy"
caused by other peoples transference energy, through ones Guardian Angels
as sign to protect you.
Soulmates Communicate by "Eye

Contact"

The Talmud Kidushin 41a explains that a person is forbidden to marry

unless they see each other with their eyes. The Talmud does not say "talk to
each other" or kiss etc., but the talmud says a person needs to "to see" with
ones eyes.
This is because ones eyes are the windows to ones soul, and "eye contact"
means that your souls are communicating with each other. Only by "eye
contact" will you know that this person is your soulmate and only through
your continual "eye contact" your souls are communicating with each other.
5. Why There Are Difficulties Whilst

"Soulmates" Are Coming Together?
Created By Blockages Of Other
Peoples Negative Thoughts That

Envelope A Person And Block.
Sometimes there are difficulties whilst "soulmates" are trying to come
together, through blockages of of other peoples negative thoughts
that envelope a person to be blocked, the reason is that the union of
"soulmates" is VERY POWERFUL and many people are jealous, hateful
and spiteful with envy that one has developed spiritually with a wonderful
soulmate union of love, even destructive and controlling "well meaning"
parents can be jealous and create negative blockages!
Negative Blockages -
-"kleepes" literally translated are "layers of hard shells". Spiritually
the word - "kleepes" is used in reference to shells of negative energy
that attach themselves to ones soul and prevent "life energy" from DIVINE
GOD and from Spirit world coming into ones soul, these - "kleepes"
are created by negative emotions and thoughts such has hate, jealousy,
deceit and lies. These negative blockages are created by a person or by
other people who wish to block ones life.
"Blockages" are created by negative thought energy hence they are easily
cancelled-out through the power of prayer and speech, as explained in the
chapter Loss by "Transference".
Resisting "Change" Creates Blockages

When a person finally meets their soulmate, they will both be in a
transition period of inner change, until they come together as one in
physical sexual love. This is because both have been living a "half life"
without their soulmate and adapted to a dysfunctional life whilst living
alone. Therefore, some changes will be necessary.
If either one resist these changes in their lives, through their independant,
selfish childish ways of thinking, or their stubborn ego then this creates
- "kleepes" negative blockages. Only when they realise that each
other is the "other half" of the other and then decided to grow-up into
mature selfless adults.
At that moment of inner decision they will both resist the need to create
blockages of moving forward by "holding onto" their past, and then they
will come together for a united wonderful future for their soul which is
ONE, and then there is no longer such thing as 2 people in a soulmate, they
are simply ONE unit.
Other People Who Wish to "Control"

And "Own" Your Soul Creates
Blockages
The other blockage of is created from other peoples negative
thoughts that envelope a person to be blocked, the reason is that the union
of "soulmates" is VERY POWERFUL and many people are jealous, hateful
and spiteful with envy that one has developed spiritually and has a
wonderful soulmate union of love, even destructive and controlling parents
can be jealous and create negative blockages!
Single people who feel that they are "into their career" or "committed" to
their job, profession or business and have no time for loving relationships,
may think they are making a good decision themselves, however in reality
they do not OWN their own souls. They have "sold their souls to the devil",
to their career or to the love of "making money", as they are not in control
of their own lives and have given their soulful power away, this will create
the same blockage in their lives, and thwart their own spiritual success in
finding their true soulmate.
These negative blockages are dissolved by cancelling out through prayer,
power of speech and inner change, as explained in Loss by "Transference",
then the couple must learn to be 100% closed and be spiritually protected to
such negativity which is trying to challenge and block their soulmate union.
Dissolve All Negative Blockages

Light A Single Candle
Traditional Prayers to say
in asking to find ones true Soulmate
Sefer Tikunim -
Every person whom is born on earth is a half of a whole, every single
person has a soulmate, and until one finds ones soulmate, one feels empty,
an inexplicable lacking. Hence the importance to find ones "destined"
soulmate.
If a person is single and does not have ones soulmate, nor does one have
any hope of meeting anyone suitable, then ones soul needs URGENT
attention and corrections need to be made, as it maybe a person has taken
the wrong pathway , and needs correcting to be guided to the right pathway
. The Sefer Tikunim - , the "Book of Corrections" provides our
souls with the spiritual recipe to make the necessary corrections.
Each person needs to recognise that the only way forward in life is through
a transformation of ones character from being a selfish taker of energy into
becoming a creator of life energy through the power of "LOVE", Sefer
Shinuyim in the chapter "Life of LOVE" explains the transformation of
thoughts needed in a persons mind to connect ones soul to spirit world and
find ones true soulmate with true love.
Sefer Tikunim - , the "Book of Corrections" explains that a
person should make the following TIKUN - correction so that one can
OPEN the MAZEL and enable one to find ones soulmate.
Declaration of Destined Soulmate

The first stage is to acknowledge and really believe that one has a destined
soulmate. This comes from the Talmud written almost 2000 years ago.

"Forty days before a person is conceived into this world, it is announced in
heaven - spirit world, the daughter of this man is destined to marry this
man, the house in this place - is destined for their home, and this field
(livelihood / business / profession) is destined for this person". Talmud Sota
2a.
The Prayer to find ones Soulmate

"Forty days before a person is conceived into this world, it is announced in
heaven - spirit world, the daughter of this man is destined to marry this
man, the house in this place - is destined for their home, and this field
(livelihood / business / profession) is destined for this person".
"Ribbone Shel Olam, Master of the Universe, this is the spiritual law of
destiny, the declaration was made before my soul came to earth, please
guide me and help me find the right pathway for my life, the right home to
live in and i really want to find my soulmate, please help me find my
destined soulmate that was declared for me in heaven 40 days before i was
conceived ".
"Please Ribbone Shel Olam, Master of the Universe find a way for me
where there seems to be no way, guide and place me on the right pathway
for my souls destiny, so that i can fulfill my life with my soulmate, who is
needing me as much as i need him/her. For the sake of my soulmate who
needs me, please help me find him/her so that we can be one together ".
The custom is to say this every day 3 times a day, the essence of the prayer
is that one affirms the spiritual law of the declaration made in heaven 40
days before conception, and then asks GOD to guide one to find ones
destiny and fulfill this spiritual law.
One can use any language one feels comfortable with, i know many people
who use the Hebrew version or the Yiddish version, the most important
aspect is that one OPENS up in prayer and asks for DIVINE spiritual help
to find ones destiny. The prayer should come from ones emotions and heart,
out of sincere desire to find ones soulmate.
Sefer Tikunim -
Book of Corrections
Explains that one should pray every day in the morning at sunrise and at
sunset and in evening before one goes to sleep asking for spiritual guidance
to find ones soulmate. The key that will open the door to ones life is ones
true soulmate, so it is vitally imperative that one finds ones key.
According to Sefer Tikunim who learns from our forefather Jacob and
Rachel that it can take up to 7 Years, from the moment one starts to pray for
ones soulmate until one actually lives with him/her. But Sefer Tikunim
assure that NO ONE will ever have to wait longer than 7 years !
Sefer Tikunim -
Sefer Tikunim explains that it is customary for a single person to read the
story of Jacob and Rachel from Genesis Chapter 29, once a week.
Then say the "Shira" from
For those people who pray the traditional morning prayers then they say
this prayer every day. Single people looking for their soulmate should have
in their thoughts that they are asking for DIVINE guidance to find their
soulmate, just like the Jewish people needed Divine guidance when they
were saved from Egyptian slavery. The essence of the "shira" prayer is the
jewish people asked GOD - Hashem to make a way where there is no way .
Similarly, when a person is single and lost, we ask GOD to make a "way"
where there seems to be "no way".
The "Shira" is from

Then Say Psalm 121
Psalms 121
1 A Song of Ascents; I will lift up my eyes to the mountains: from where
shall my help come? 2 My help comes from the LORD, who made heaven
and earth. 3 He will not suffer a foot to be moved; He that guards you will
not slumber. 4 Behold, He that guards Israel does neither slumber nor sleep.
5 The LORD is your keeper; the LORD is your shadow upon your right
hand. 6 The sun shall not hurt you by day, nor the moon by night. 7 The
LORD shall guard you from all evil; He shall guard your soul. 8 The
LORD shall guard your going out and your coming in, from this time now
and for ever.
Single men should then say the prayer "Eshes Chayil" at least once a week.
)( As is customary to sing this prayer every friday evening before Kiddush

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Proverbs Chapter 31 verse 10 to 31

10 A woman of valour who can find? for her price is far above rubies. 11
The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, and he hath no lack of
gain. 12 She doeth him good and not evil all the days of her life. 13 She
seeketh wool and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. 14 She is like
the merchant-ships; she bringeth her food from afar. 15 She riseth also
while it is yet night, and giveth food to her household, and a portion to her
maidens. 16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it; with the fruit of her
hands she planteth a vineyard. 17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and
maketh strong her arms. 18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good;
her lamp goeth not out by night. 19 She layeth her hands to the distaff, and
her hands hold the spindle. 20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea,
she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. 21 She is not afraid of the snow
for her household; for all her household are clothed with scarlet. 22 She
maketh for herself coverlets; her clothing is fine linen and purple. 23 Her
husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the
land. 24 She maketh linen garments and selleth them; and delivereth girdles
unto the merchant. 25 Strength and dignity are her clothing; and she
laugheth at the time to come. 26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and
the law of kindness is on her tongue. 27 She looketh well to the ways of her
household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. 28 Her children rise up,
and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her: 29 'Many
daughters have done valiantly, but thou excellest them all.' 30 Grace is
deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall
be praised. 31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her works praise
her in the gates.
Parnosa and Soulmate are connected

Finding ones soulmate is finding the key to ones destiny, similarly
unlocking the door of Parnosa - livelihood runs concurrently for most
single people to finding ones soulmate, therefore Sefer Tikunim explains
single people should also unlock and pray for Parnosa. By unlocking ones
parnosa blockage one will simultaneously unblock ones destined soulmate.
- The Daily Heavenly Bread "Manna" in wilderness Parnosa , the specific prayers to ask for opening up from spirit world of
money and livlihood, the importance of the power of prayer in earning

money in ones life, coupled together with physical action, allows the flow
of energy in our lives.
The connection between finding ones soulmate and livelihood is the reason
the Talmud discusses jobs and earning money in the tractate of Kidushin,
that discusses marriage. Talmud Kidushin 82explains fully the section of
the Talmud the discusses career, jobs and profession. The ethical and
spiritual codes of how to earn money.
"Where is Money going to Come

from?" - "? "
The Sefer Shinuyim "The Book of Changes" explains 7 aspects to
understand the spiritual concept of "money", its power, strengths and
weaknesses, the ability of "money" to ruin and corrupt peoples lives,
morally, physically and spiritually, and conversely to understand that when
used wisely, "money" is an instrument of GOD, Spirit world, life, love and
has a creative power in this physical world.
The flow of "money", wealth and prosperity has spiritual laws, by which it
can flow into a persons life, and conversely "money" can be blocked from
coming into ones life. The flowing life energy of "money" enables
situations and experiences in our lives to occur. When a person masters the
spiritual concepts of money, one can control the flow of money that one
needs to come into ones life, whereas if one worships and is mastered by
"money", then other spiritual rules apply, which will restrict the flow of
"money".
This chapter of "Money", from Sefer Shinuyim "The Book of Changes",
explains all these concepts of "money", with the fundamental
understanding that we are all spiritual souls, living in a "real" physical
world, and "money" is a powerful instrument and tool of GOD and of life
to enable, and if necessary to even force us to learn, grow and change.
On this page we shall explain all the following 7 concepts:1. "Materialism" versus "Spiritualism", , . Understanding
that by using ones freewill choice one can choose the type of life one
wants, a materialistic or spiritual life.
2. How to earn "money". Understanding that earning money is done only

by motivating oneself into physical actions and using one thoughts to
generate energy of emotions in ones heart either emotions of "fear" or of
"love". Learning to understand the difference in a persons life when the
flow of "money" energy is through constructive LOVE or destructive
FEAR emotions and actions.
3. The concept of , the flow of "money". Understanding the spiritual
and physical rule of "money", that it is an energy that must continue to
flow, like a river, the receiver of "money" has to be a giver of "money", in
order to allow a continual flow, and the final recipient must should love and
gratitude for the creative flow of energy to continue.
4. Understanding the transition from "childhood" into "adulthood", means
learning to become a giver, receiver and creator of energy instead of being
a receiver only. Understanding that selfish, ungrateful, greedy and
materialistic people create blockages of life energy, and the importance of
keeping away from such people as their cycles of destructive energy will
drain good people.
5. Understanding that everyone has a unique type of job, career and
profession, that is most suitable for their soul, in order for one to learn and
develope ones character from the lessons, at each of the different stages of
life. Once those lessons have been learnt, then new experiences and new
changes can happen, money is the instrument to enable those changes.
"Money" and the physical need for survival provides a person with the new
changes that are appropriate for ones soul at each stage of life.
6. Understanding that everyone must work and earn money by working.
There is a spiritual concept of "giving away" ones soul energy when a
person relies on charity from others or money from "unemployment"
government handouts. "Giving away" ones soul energy, is like giving up on
ones individual mission in life, and takes a person out of the cycle of
creative life.
The concept of being employed and working for someone else is also
considered as "giving away" part of ones soul to that employer. Therefore
we explain the spiritual benefits of being "self employed", working for
oneself, even if one earns much less money, but the value that one learns to
rely on and trust in GOD and spirit world is priceless. This chapter explains
how to make the transition and change in ones life.
7. The "mid-life" crisis is an opportunity to change ones destiny for the
better. Understanding that the job one does, the loving partner one is with,
and the home one lives, is a "package" called "destiny", during "mid-life"
crisis or at anytime one has been blessed with sufficient energy to change,
all of these parameters will be tested to see if they are still suitable for ones
soul.
If one is not on the destined pathway for ones soul, nor with ones true
soulmate, nor fulfilling the purpose one came to earth to accomplish, then
the "package" called "destiny" needs to be corrected.
This upheavel of change means one should expect the unexpected,
including blockages and sudden separations. One should trust that this
seemingly destructive process, needs to happen in order to build a solid and
good future, the easiest way to change is to learn not "hold on" to
materialism, or the futile past. Especially whilst these changes are occuring,
then the transition and changes can occur with much less friction and upset.
Sefer Shinuyim teaches a person to learn a "Peace of Mind" especially
where "money" and materialistic values are concerened by having a Life of
Trust in GOD and Spirit world during this transition.
"Money" - "? " - Introduction

The chapter called ""( "? kesef minalan") which means "from where
will money come?", this is in reference to the Talmud Kidushin, which
explains the concepts of marriage, and the natural needs for a man to
support a woman financially.
All the sources of understanding the spiritual laws of money, job and
profession career are explained in the Talmud Kidushin, as the natural and
destined way of living on earth is that man and woman live together as a
soulmate unit, each represents a half of a whole, the good fortune "mazel"
and "money" is energised by the unity, sharing and love energy created in
the relationship.

"Wake-up,Wake-up from your sleep"
The biggest sign a person can get from GOD and "spirit world" to wake up,
is when one needs money to buy food to survive. The need for money, is
not a punishment, it is merely a sign to WAKE UP, spiritually, as we

explained the money blockage on the page "No Money" this is the best
"wake up" call a persons soul can get.
Once a person wakes up, it then becomes easy to understand why one has
No Money, or if one is Blocking Success, or if one has a Fear of Success,
unable to want to "grow up" and fulfill "destiny" by finding ones soulmate
and support a loving family financially by shirking ones responsibility. If a
person is married or is in a relationship and there is suddenly a blockage in
the flow of life energy of "money", they too, must analyse why there is a
blockage, remember NOTHING happens by accident and if one is losing
money or lacking money, then this is a "wake up" call for a person and one
MUST look at the way one is living and CHANGE.
We hope the following 7 points will explain and give you the missing "key"
to open the unlocked door of "money", financial success, peace of mind, by
mastering money and NOT being mastered by it.
1. "Materialism" versus "Spiritualism"

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Understanding that by using ones freewill choice one can choose the type
of life one wants, a materialistic or spiritual life.
The Book of Changes - Sefer Shinuyim explains the story of Isaacs two
twin sons, Esau and Jacob.(See Breishis - Genesis chapter 25 versese 2734). There discussion over a the giving away a bowl of soup for the
"birthright", was indeed a a discussion of "materialism" versus
"spiritualism". They made a profound everlasting agreement between each
other, that Esau and his descendants would have great wealth and
materialism, whilst Jacob and his descendants would have the spiritual
blessings and spiritual gifts, taking NOTHING that they do not need from
this physical world of material possessions.
The fundamental difference of these lifestyles, is based on the principle,
does a person get "life energy" by taking energy from EXTERNAL
physical pleasures that influence a person, or whether the "life energy" is
generated from the INNER Spiritual world of the mind, soul and thoughts.
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Therfore anything that the children of Jacob would take from this
materialistic world that they do not need as bare essentials to survive, is
considered that they are stealing from Esau's inheritance, and likewise
anything spiritual that the children of Esau learn and benefit spiritually is
considered stealing from Jacobs inheritance.
Even though it is considered "stealing" from the others inheritance, once a
person makes a decision to live a life of either materialism or spiritualism,
they are defining the category of their soul, spiritual children of Jacob or
materialistic children of Esau.
The Book of Changes explains that in the 17th Century in Europe,
especially in Germany, many of the jewish people had become
materialistic, focusing their attentions in amassing wealth. The Author of
Sefer Shinuyim explains that these "materialistic" jews were stealing from
Esau's inheritance, and either they would loose all this stolen materialistic
wealth OR they would loose all their spiritual gifts.
The Concept "Esau hates Jacob" - ...
The Talmud explains that there is a spiritual law that "Esau hates Jacob",
this is because in hindsight, Esau recognised that it is far better to generate
a life energy from within ones spiritual soul, than it is to "feel good" from
the external physical pleasures of this material world. He recognised that
"the children of Jacob" receive all they need to live in this physical world,
yet they glow and live at peace within their minds and souls through their
inner spiritual knowledge and life energy from their soul.
The Book of Changes explains that this spiritual law of descendants of
Esau having a power in their hatred is ONLY when the decendants of Jacob
are STEALING from the materialistic wealth that is blessed to descendants
of Esau. The condition Jacob made with Esau was NOT to benefit
materialistically from this physical world, descendants of Jacob will ONLY
take that which they need to survive. Only when the spiritual descendants
of Jacob are taking materialism which belongs to the materialistic
descendants of Esau then the power of hatred of "Esau" can destroy
descendants of Jacob. When the children of Jacob are behaving spiritually
then "Esau" has no power over their lives.
Freewill choice - Materialism or

Spiritualism?
The Book of Changes - Sefer Shinuyim explains from the Talmud that
EVERYONE in EVERY generation and of EVERY culture and religion,
has this choice to make in their lives :- Either a life based on Materialism or
Spiritualism. The choice is up to every single individual.
Pirkei Avos Chapter 3 Mishne 5 explains
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Rabbi Nechunya ben Hakanah said: Whoever takes upon himself the yoke
of Spiritual Torah, from him will be taken away the yoke of worldly care;
but whoever throws off the yoke of Spiritual Torah, upon him will be laid
the yoke of worldly care.
This does NOT mean that a person should not work, but this emphasizes
that a person should consider their attitude to life, work and money.
Does a person live to work OR work to

live?
Is the purpose of working to provide oneself and family with ones basic
physical needs OR does a person work in order to amass material wealth?
We explain the concepts of a need to work and motivating oneself to work
in paragraphs 2, 5 and 6 below, the point we make here is by choosing an
attitude to life "materialism" or "spiritualism" this choice is fundamental to
ones basic lifestyle and purpose of living.
The question a "spiritually minded" person needs to constantly reflect upon
is, every materialistic item a person has in this physical world, is this
something that one needs as an essential item to live or is this a superfluous
unnecessary materialistic "extra" to ones needs? If this is an "extra" then
the time one has spent earning the money to buy this "extra" is unnecessary,
and has taken away from ones inner spiritual energy of ones soul.
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Materialistic people are never satisfied
The sign that a person is a materialistic soul, is that they are NEVER
satisfied with their physical status, they always desire and want more
wealth and physical pleasures. This is because the flow of energy they have
opened is by taking from the external world in order to satisfy their inner
feelings, the only way they can keep satisfying themselves is by taking
more and more external physical pleasures, so they eat more, need more
money in order to fulfill their desires, once they have a home, they are not
satisfied and would like a bigger home. If they have a spouse they are not
satisfied and seek sexual pleasures from other people besides their spouses.
This destructive cycle of greed continues as the fact of life is, that one CAN
only have true satisfaction and peace of mind developed from the inner
soul, by developing ones mind and thoughts.
Most people that have not been brought up with spiritual idealistic beliefs,
only recognise this fact during "mid-life"crisis, when they suddenly see the
futility of a wasted materialistic life. The challenge is to be brave to
CHANGE, and learn to develope ones soul to think spiritually.
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The eyes of everyone look to You, to satisfy them, and You give them their
food at the right time. You open Your hand and satisfy every living entity
with their needs. ( Psalms 145 verse 15)
Everyone ALWAYS gets what they

need
Once a person has taken the opportunity to change their attitude towards
"money" the eternal spiritual blessing of Life of Peace of Mind and Life of
Trust in GOD is that every person always gets what they need to survive.
If a person does not get what they need to survive, then they need to
understand why one has No Money, nor Success, or if one even has a Fear
of Success which blocking money for their basic needs.
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Who is truly a "rich" person - one
whom is happy with whatever they
have.
Our Soul Needs to Learn Lessons
The principle reason why a person has no money is that the soul needs to
learn. The first lesson is to LEARN TO BE SATISFIED with everything
that one has. The generation of "complaining" jews, "", at the time
of Moses, in the wilderness were punished by GOD for their ingratitude
and forced to wander in circles for 40 years.
We explain that on the page called "Parnosa- "that the best way to
change is to learn appreciation and say "THANK YOU - GOD" for
everything one does have. Then a persons perspective of life and attitude
starts to change from one of lacking and complaining into one of gratitude,
realising how lucky and fortunate a person is, as there are always people in
far worse situations than one is. If one DOES NOT listen and learn to
change ones attitude then ones soul needs more "experiences" in order to
"wake up" and change. Each person has come to earth to learn, once the
lesson has been learnt then the painful or difficult situation is taken away.

"Be careful of hurting the children of poor people because only from them
will come Spiritual teachings and knowledge" Talmud Nedarim 81a -

Two different energies cannot occupy

the same space in ones mind and soul
The concept that a person can only really concentrate on ONE principal
energy at a time, helps us to understand that if a person is in love with
money and materialism, it is 100% impossible for their soul to be enlivened
spiritually. Likewise a person whom is focused on a spiritual life, will find
themselves "switched off" to any symbols of materialism.
As we explain on the page of MOTIVATIONAL energy in order for a
person to act in this physical world, a person must generate energy from the
emotions of the heart, either emotions of fear or love. For a spiritual life,
one needs to be driven by spiritual ideals, service of GOD and selfless
service of the Spirit world; for a material life, one needs to be motivated by
the physical pleasures and materialistic desires through the power of
money.
At the early stage of ones life in childhood, if one was lucky enough to
have been brought up by spiritual parents or poor materialistic parents, then
one has had to develope ones mind to compensate for the "materialistic"
distractions that "rich" children have. The Talmud explains that these
spiritually sensitive children will become the future teachers and leaders of
the generation as they have developed their minds and souls from a young
age. However, that does not necessarily apply in our "modern" generation
as :-
Our generation is distracted by TV,

Radio
and gadgets of "Materialism".
Unlike previous generations, where the evenings were spent talking
intelligently and spiritually, today in our generation, everyone is distracted
by Television, Radio, Music and other materialistic gadgets like computer
games and "internet" !
As we explain on the page of "Parnosa- ", the best way to change ones
materialistic perspective of life is to switch off to these draining, time
wasting "gadgets" of materialistic life. Especially in the evenings which is
the best time to develope and change spiritually. This is why the
Manchester Rosh Yeshiva Rabbi Segal, always blessed people with good
fortune and success if they would get rid of the TV, as spiritually he knew
that their soul would stop being drained by the time wasting TV in the
evenings and would enable a flow of life energy to enter their lives.
The Choice is a Freewill Choice

The choice between a materialistic and spiritual life is in the hands of every
human, but be assured that old people who have lived a materialistic
lifestyle become depressed at the thought of death and a transition to spirit
world that they are ill-prepared for, having wasted away the best years of
their lives in the pursuit of physical pleasures.
Whereas a person whom has chosen the spiritual life, has a soul that has
been developing and glowing with an inner radiance of faith in GOD, love
of GOD, love of life, compassion, peace of mind and inner harmony. The
"spiritual life" does not mean that one is poor or lacking financially, (as we
shall explain in the spiritual laws of "money" in the next paragraphs), but it
does mean that one always gets that which one needs for ones soul to learn,
develope and achieve spiritual success in this life. The choice is yours !
2. How to Earn "Money".

Understanding that earning money is done only by motivating oneself into
physical actions and using one thoughts to generate energy of emotions in
ones heart either emotions of "fear" or of "love". Learning to understand
the difference in a persons life when the flow of "money" energy is through
constructive LOVE or destructive FEAR emotions and actions.
Only Physical Actions Make "Money"

Thoughts are useless and have no physical monetary value, that is why
spiritual knowledge and in fact any knowledge can never be charged for, as
according to spiritual law, thoughts belong to the soul and spirit world,
whereas words and physical actions belong to this physical world. The way
to make money in this physical world is to use ones physical body with
words & actions.
Motivation
Every action we make has a reason, the fundamental reason why we make
are body move is because we NEED to move. We NEED something, so our
mind and its thoughts tell our physical body to move and to make an action.
Some actions are "habit" like going to toilet, eating, drinking and sleeping,
but EVERY SINGLE ACTION has an emotional energy attached to that
act, created from our HEART that compels, energises and motivates us into
action. (As we discuss on the page of Motivation).
We Earn Money From Emotions

Either of Fear or Love
Over 99% of the people in this world, get up in the morning and motivate
themselves out of FEAR. People are afraid of being hungry, thirsty, and
homeless, this is the fundamental driving energy why people get up and go
to work, to earn money to provide for their needs. The more emotional
"fear" a person has the more the "heart" and emotions energises the
physical body to work.
Have you ever noticed that when a person is in a really difficult financial
situation and really desperate for money that one becomes more "alive"
with emotional energy from the heart. This is energy of "fear", which is
tremendously powerful to energise and motivate the physical body to
earning money to survive.
Unfortunately, most people only come "alive" with this "fear" emotional
energy when things are really desperate, if only people would use this
energy more often then they could generate more activity to earn more
money. The reason this energy cannot work any stronger is that it is a
NEGATIVE energy of FEAR, and therefore is NOT a CREATIVE positive
energy.
When a person uses their heart of emotions of LOVE to motivate and
energise then the limits are infinite. LOVE is the creative energy of the
planet earth. When a person works out of LOVE, they draw on the eternal
creative energy of the GOD, the spirit world, in fact the whole universe.
Motivation of "LOVE" Energy
As explained on the Motivation page, the best way a person can energise
their heart and physical body is by focusing on something or someone they
LOVE. This applies whether a person is spiritual or materialistic, the way
to make money in this physical world is by energising ones heart full of
emotions of LOVE and desire.
A person must WANT, LOVE and DESIRE from the emotions of the heart
to earn money in order to buy a material item or support someone they
really love whom is relying on them for money.
The creative energy of physical life on earth is LOVE, if one opens ones
heart to LOVE, one can have financial success. This spiritual law has a
condition that there must be a flow of energy, a person must love something
or something, it CANNOT be a selfish love of oneself or just to have
cash/money in the bank, there has to be an OBJECTIVE. This is explained
on the Motivation page where we suggest making a regular list of items a
person wants and desires in order to keep a person focused on motivating
onself to earn money.
The Only Way To Make Money

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"The Place where the Mind, Thoughts
and Heart Desire"
Where a persons thoughts, heart and emotions are focused that is where
there energy comes from to work. When a person is in LOVE with their
partner, husband, wife, children, their heart is motivated and energised with
a powerful creative love energy. This is so powerful that even when a
person is working in a horrible job, in horrible conditions even with a
horrible boss, they ignore all the difficulties as their mind, thoughts and
emotions are connected with the object of their desires.
If one is having difficulty is motivating oneself to work, place a picture in
ones office, work place of someone or something one loves. When any
person has a FOCUS and motivation to earn money to buy a car, house, or
go on a holiday to a destination they have seen and heard about, this is
where their mind, thoughts and heart is connected.
This is the ONLY WAY TO MAKE MONEY ! Focus ones thoughts, with
all the pictures, images and emotions very strongly on something or
someone one really LOVES, and one is guarenteed to make money,
provided the object of ones love wants you, to enable the flow of "money"
energy.
3. The Concept of ,
The Flow of "Money" like the Flow of
a River.
Understanding the spiritual and physical rule of "money", that it is an
energy that must continue to flow, like a river, the receiver of "money" has
to be a giver of "money", in order to allow a continual flow.
As we explained in the paragraph above, a person is motivated to earn
"money" by emotions from the heart of either "fear" or "love".
Earning "money" is like the flow of a river, in order to be in the cycle and
flow of money energy, one has to be on the "river" of life. One has to have
a reason why a person needs the money. The love and desire for someone
or something physical and material in this world, generates the heart
emotions to motivate ones body to earn money.
This spiritual rule only applies if their is a FLOW the receiver must become
a giver of energy " ", there must be NO STAGNATION of energy
flow. The recipient of ones "money" has to want to receive the money from
you, which is easy to understand when buying objects in a shop, but when
it comes to "people", the recipient may not want to receive from you, and
hence will act to create a blockage in the flow of "money" energy.
The Concept of "Energy Flow" - "

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"Looking after someone who cannot look after themselves", in the concept
of overcoming fear, it is a fact of life that when a fearful person finds
someone who is more frightened than they are and looks after them, their
fear goes away. The concept of "energy flow" generates a flow of energy,
out of a desire and love for the person, that gives the person the energy to
make the other person calm and thereby making themselves calm too.
Similarly, when a person finds someone who is relying on them to provide
money for them to survive, they are given strength to find ways to make
money to look after the other persons needs - this is the concept of "energy
flow"- "". The highest level of "energy flow" is when a person
works to earn money for someone they LOVE.
The spiritual law of "energy flow" of LOVE, means that the recipient
MUST SHOW APPRECIATION and LOVE in return, as this energy is a
creative loving energy, the energy flow MUST be LOVING.
The fact of life in most families is that the man earns the money to provide
for the woman and their children, in this simple fact of life a man is the one
who has the motivational emotional energy to generate activity in his heart
out of "love" or "fear" to earn money to give to his wife and children. In
section 2 above, we explain the difference between motivation out of
"love" or "fear", it is therefore the duty of the MAN to learn to want to give
out of emotions of LOVE. Then in order to continue this positive flow of
energy it is the spiritual law that the WOMAN must show appreciation to
her MAN for everything he gives her. If a WOMAN or recipient of energy
is ungrateful or complains with negative criticism, this WILL block the
creative energy flow of love.
"An Ungrateful Wife Blocks Money"

When a woman or any recipient of "money" shows ingratitude for this
"flow of money energy", this blocks the flow immediately, it may just be a
small block to start with but the more ingratitude shown the bigger the
blockage. This has 2 affects on the "giver", either to STOP giving and
STOP the energy flow, or to find another object of LOVE and generate the
motivational loving energy to continue making money.
This is the ONLY reason why men stop loving their ungrateful wives and
either love another woman or turn to "materialistic" objects as sources of
gratitude of their emotional LOVE energy. In our modern society, when
ungrateful wives block the flow of energy, very often the secretary, or
women in the office who sees the mans creative and financial achievements
will share in the energy and show her loving gratitude for his efforts.
Enabling the flow of money energy. The wife has caused the problem by
blocking the flow of money / life energy through her ingratitude and
complaining and then blames the man when he has left her for another
woman !
Beware ladies - this is a spiritual law - learn to show LOVE AND
GRATITUDE for EVERYTHING your husband does, then you will create
a lovely flow of life energy and of "money" you need into your lives.
"Complainers" block the Energy flow

In exactly the same way, as women can block the flow of energy, anyone
who complains against anything you do, BLOCK the flow of energy.
Simply learn to keep away and have Closure from such negative and
destructive people. Learn to connect with many good and appreciative
people, and disconnect from "complainers", they will only destroy and
block anything good, only time and experiences will indicate who the
really good people are in life, and believe me when one finally meets many
of the good and appreciative type of people, the creative life energy flow is
amazingly energising.
Learn to keep saying "THANK YOU" for everything you have in life, and
this will continue to allow good fortune, good "mazel" and good energy
into ones life.
4. "Growing up" and learning to

become a giver, receiver and creator of
energy
Understanding the transition from "childhood" into "adulthood", means
learning to become a giver, receiver and creator of energy instead of being
a receiver only. As we explained on the page CHANGE in the 7 STAGES
OF LIFE , the stage from childhood into adulthood means learning to
become a creator and giver of life energy.
This is a normal transition generated by the hormones and instincts in a
desire to want to LOVE emotionally. Most people desire to be loving
creative and kind, and the correct transition is to develope a good
personality that generates love and desire to give, in order to be part of the
creative constructive loving life cycle. Nontheless some people never seem
to mature and will remain greedy selfish takers until they die, they
continually take "life energy" from good people and turn it into "trash" and
"sewage", they are destroyers of life.
" Creators of the world" or

" Destroyers of the world"
There are 2 categories of people in the world, people who create loving
energy of constructive purpose and people who take life energy and
destroy. Every single action we make and do is categorised into creative or
destructive. The more actions of "life" the more we are categorising
ourselves into "creator", the more actions of "death and destruction", the
more we are becoming a "destroyer".
The purpose of our soul is to become at ONE with GOD, the DIVINE
CREATOR of the UNIVERSE, by transforming ALL our acts into ones of
constructive creative "life".
A Creative Constructive Life

Or a Destructive Wasteful Life
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Talmud Sanhedrin 24b
The Talmud explains a "gambler" - a "waster of money" is a destroyer of
life energy,
as they are not using there money to create life energy.
When a person eats food, does a person eat just enough to have energy to
work and live ? or does a person eat like a "greedy pig" to satisfy their
desires? Often "fat people" have developed their nature to be greedy and
destructive that they eat until they become self- destructively unhealthy,
producing wasteful energy of more "sewage" than everyone else! This
generates a self-destructive energy within their soul, causing sadness,
depression and blockages in life energy, resulting in even more waste such
as gambling, wasting money and even wasting sexual "life energy".
As explained on "Health & Diet" page, the same destructive energy applies
for those who use contraception or waste potential "life energy". Each of
these actions have the potential to CREATE LIFE, a good constructive
person uses this energy for love and life, a destroyer uses this energy for
death.
Think LIFE !
When a person starts to think about ones actions, and departmentalises all
of ones actions into either "life" or "death", it becomes clear, obvious and
necessary to choose only actions of LIFE, then the "money" energy of

creative LOVE and LIFE will continue to flow.
5. Understanding that everyone has a

unique type of job, career and
profession, that is most suitable for
their soul,
In order for one to learn and develope ones character at each specific stage
of life, one will have opportunities and different work experiences. Each
"work experience" is necessary to refine a persons character and soul. Once
the lesson has been learnt, promotion or a differenr job opportunity comes
along, for the next stage of ones life.
We all accept that every person is uniquely different, therefore we all need
a specific job that only our soul can do. Destiny will guide us to that job,
and as explained on the page of "destiny", it comes as a package, a specific
lifestyle with loving partner and home.
The need for self improvement and change in ones life, and the need to feel
fulfilled by being part of life cycle of earning money, ensures that there is a
suitable job for everyone. If one does not have a job or is not earning
money, then this is a sign that one is either on a self destructive cycle or has
"taken" oneself out of the "life cycle" to make big CHANGES - as we
discuss in "Mid life Crisis" paragraph 7 below.
In either case one should motivate oneself to get into the creative loving
"life cycle" of life energy, as soon as possible, start by planting flowers,
vegetables, thinking and transforming ones thoughts into LOVE and
COMPASSION, take care of someone else who needs help.
During this time analyse ones character and think about working and the
different type of jobs, remember every job is categorised either constuctive
creative life OR destructive death.
The Right Career, Job & Profession
Source From the Talmud Kidushin 82

In this special page from the Talmud Kidushin page 82a&b we explain all
the different categories of job and explain from Sefer Shinuyim - Book of
Changes, that when a person wants to improve and change the level of their
souls awareness, and change their lifestyle then they will indeed have a
change in their job.
As the creative or destructive type of job a person does, is a DIRECT
mirror reflection of the creative or destructive energy of ones soul.
Changing ones direction in life to becoming loving, compassionate and
spiritually minded will open up opportunities to creatively constructive and
enjoyable work and a soulfully fulfilling career.
6. Understanding that everyone must

work and earn money by working.
The spiritual concept of "giving away" ones soul energy when a person
relies on charity from others or from "unemployment" government
handouts. "Giving away" ones soul energy, is like giving up on ones
mission in life.
The concept of being employed and working for someone else is also
considered as "giving away" part if ones soul energy to that employer. The
spiritual benefits of being "self employed", working for oneself, that one
learns to rely and trust in GOD and spirit world. How to make the transition
and change in ones life.
There is NOTHING FREE in this

world
except from GOD
Many people especially people who steal from others think that this world
is free, that they can take for themselves without having to pay. This is
NOT true, EVERYTHING we take, given or earn in this physical world
exists as there is a transaction involved. When someone receives something

in return for nothing physical, then they are giving a part of their souls
energy to that person.
Those people who live from money that belongs to someone else, have
taken something physical in return for giving the person a good part of their
soul.
"Unemployment - government
handouts"
People who live from money from others are giving the other person a part
of their soul. Those people who live entirely from the money from other
people, without giving anything in return, like the unemployed from
governments handouts, think they are getting something for nothing, but
indeed they are indicating that they are "giving up" their individuality and
their own souls purpose and refusing to belong to the creative life cycle.
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Anyone that does not really need to take and takes, will die a needy person;
Anyone that needs to take and does not take, will die a wealthy person
where he can enjoy giving to many people; "Blessed is then person who
TRUSTS IN GOD, then GOD will be TRUSTED" - The Last
Mishne in Mesechta Peah
However desperate a financial situation, better to TRUST in GOD than
give away ones soul to someone else, try ones best never to be in a position
to take from others.
"Better to work than take money charity"

Some so-called religious leaders believe they have a right to take money
for their "spiritual services", in fact this is contrary to the law, it is
forbidden for anyone to benefit financially from spiritual knowledge, a
person that does benefit loses their spiritual gifts and loses the gifted energy
to their soul.
The moment a person receives money for their spiritual knowledge they
give away their soul to that person. This was highly commendable between
tribe of Yissocher and Zevulun, who supported each other financially and
spiritually, however in our generation would you give away your spiritual
soul to someone who has earned his money dishonestly?
This is the reason why most good spiritual teachers and rabbis refuse to
take money for their spiritual knowledge. Even if this means that we work
a 6 hours every day to earn our living, it is better than giving away ones
soul to the "devil" !
Working for a Crooked Boss

Working for a living - being employed, although this is a fair exchange of
energy, as one is working in return for being paid. Nontheless in the same
way there are physical limitations with a boss, ( one cannot always tell a
boss what you really think of him ! ) similarly the boss has taken part of
your souls energy, as is using your souls energy to personal benefit, in
return for giving a person "job security", such a boss has become a
"master" over your soul, and can restrict ones souls progress.
"The Boss" is using your good souls energy in order to benefit financially,
if one has a crooked, deceitful boss, or is working in a business that bends
the rules, fiddles the taxes, avoids paying people properly, this is going to
have a draining affect on ones feelings whilst at work. If one is in such a
situation - get out as soon as possible ! It will only get worse and more
draining !
"Self Employment"
It is a normal stage of lifes change that after working for someone else, it
becomes suitable for most people to start their own business, this is
especially true at the ages of 30 and 40. However self employement needs a
person to change their attitude from relying on someone else to provide the
money to TRUSTING in GOD that one will have a successful business.
"Everyone needs a Master"

The single reason why people FAIL at self employment is that they have
lost a "Master", the transition from having a "Master" to not having a
"Master" is too much for people to cope with, and hence self-employment
business fails as everyone needs a "Master".
Definition of a "Master" is an external person outside of the self who
details the purpose, mission and requirements, with plans, objectives and
goals in specific time frames. Most importantly one must believe in ones
"Master", if one is dissillusioned or does not believe in ones "Master" then
ones soul will not be OPEN and COMMITTED.
Whenever one believes in whatever one is doing, then one is OPEN &
COMMITTED, and is guarenteed 100% success. This is the reason why
most employees work well, and likewise "religious" people are successful
as they believe they are serving GOD and deserve livelihood, as they
believe in themelves and in whatever they are doing.
The Transformation into

"Self Employment"
The transformation into "self employment" means that a person must hold
DUAL roles, one must PLAN ones objectives, purpose mission with
timescales and plans as a "Master", and then BELIEVE in and implement
ones plans as an employee.
The Key to success in Self Employment is BELIEF.

The "BELIEF" energy must be present in order to energize and motivate,
the "BELIEF" energy can either be a belief in the creative work one is
doing, or in creating jobs for other people, or a belief that ones business
must succeed financially as it is a vital business for local people, or in the

case of the internet globally.
The "BELIEF" can be a higher spiritual belief that this is the correct
pathway for your soul, to gain independance from draining non-spiritual
people, thereby by being slef employed one will have more energy to do
other useful things to help other people voluntarily, and out of love,
compassion and kindness to work for less fortunate people than oneself,
therby continuing a flow of lifes energy Hashpoa - " ".
7. The "mid-life" crisis is an

opportunity to change ones destiny for
the better.
Understanding that the job one does, the loving partner one is with, and the
home one lives, is a "package" called "destiny", during "mid-life" crisis or
at anytime one has been blessed with the energy to change, all of these will
be tested to see if they are still suitable for ones soul.
If one is not on the destined pathway for ones soul, nor with ones true
soulmate, nor fulfilling the purpose one came to earth to accomplish, then
the "package" called "destiny" needs to be corrected.
This upheavel of change means one should expect the unexpected,
including blockages and sudden separations. One should trust that this
seemingly destructive process, needs to happen in order to build a solid and
good future, the easiest way to change is to learn not "hold on" to
materialism, or the futile past. Especially whilst these changes are occuring,
then the transition and changes can occur with much less friction and upset.
Sefer Shinuyim teaches a person to learn a "Peace of Mind" especially
where "money" and materialistic values are concerened by having a Life of
Trust in GOD and Spirit world during this transition.
One loses "belief" during midlife crisis

As explained in paragraph (6) above, the key to financial success is that
one MUST BELIEVE in whatever one is working. If one has made the
wrong life choices, then during the stage of life known as the "midlife
crisis" one has the opportunity and energy to make the necessary
corrections.
Usually the first stage in change is to loose faith and belief in the purpose
of ones life and ones job, work. This is followed by a searching for what
really makes a person "feel alive", purposeful and wholesome.
During the searching period one may actually quit work voluntarily or be
forced to quit, change jobs or simply STOP everything due to injury or
illness and think about changing.
Then automatically the flow of energy of livlihood has to stopped and
saved whilst a person is making the necessary changes in the direction of
ones life.
Once a person has recognised the mistakes of the wrong pathway, and
found the right pathway then the flow of life energy and money can begin
again. As we explain on the page of PARNOSA , their is a spiritual recipe
to getting money flowing into ones life, especially after any blockages such
as changing pathways during midlife crisis.
Many people feel very unsettled when they have no income and work,
please be assured that once and only once a person has made the changes
then life energy does flow again, and a person will be guided for a suitable
and purposeful job with a committed belief in life and GOD.
Pages linked to this page on "Money"
Talmud Kidushin 82explains fully the section of the Talmud the discusses career, jobs
and profession. The ethical and spiritual codes of how to earn money.
- The Daily Heavenly Bread "Manna" in wilderness Parnosa - , the
specific prayers to ask for opening up from spirit world of money and livlihood, the
importance of the power of prayer in earning money in ones life, coupled together with
physical action, allows the flow of energy in our lives. Parnosa - Livelihood -
Life of Peace of Mind

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"By expanding the energy of thoughts within ones mind & soul creates a
peace of mind"
Introduction
"Peace of Mind" is a definition of ones soul. Spiritually, a persons "mind
and thoughts" are the identity of ones SOUL. So developing a "Peace of
Mind" is of paramount spiritual importance. A peaceful mind reflects that a
persons soul is "at peace" with itself.
Most people lack a "Peace of Mind" only because they are continually been
attacked and drained by external influences from the physical world which
are affecting the inner feelings and emotions.
The Rambam - Rabbi Moshe Ben Maimon in the book Mishnah Torah "Hilchos Dayos" - makes a suggestion that each person should live
in the countryside alone, far away from anyone, in order not to be negatively
influenced by anyone or anything, then, automatically, his/her soul will find a
"Peace of Mind", as they will no longer be influenced by negative people and
will be able to open up their inner spiritual "peace of mind" that lives naturally
hidden in the depths of everyones mind, thoughts and soul.
Sefer Shinuyim - The book of Changes explains that it is NOT necessary to

"run away", as the challenge in this life is to learn to control the positive
and negative energy that one "allows in" to ones mind, thoughts and soul.
By using ones "freewill" choice to control ones own mind and thoughts,
one chooses to live in a state of "Peace of Mind" unaffected by the "external
physical world".
There is an important reason why people lack a "peace of mind" and suffer
"panic attacks" and that is due to earthbound spirit souls whom have died who
attach themselves to spiritually sensitive people as explained on the Spiritual

Rescue Work page, once these souls have been taken over and rescued over
to Spirit world then the panic feeling goes away. The other reason which is the
purpose of this chapter in Sefer Shinuyim - The book of Changes is that ones
guardian angels are trying to send one a message that one is on the wrong
pathway, it is a SIGN to change.
In this chapter "Peace of Mind" from Sefer Shinuyim - The book of

Changes, we teach the 7 spiritual laws and understandings which will help
a person to see why one lacks a "Peace of Mind" and explain the easy
solution to learn how to find and retain a constant state of "Peace of Mind".
1. Understanding how and why "external physical energies" influence ones
mind and thoughts.
2. The spiritual laws which connect the "external" physical world and the
"internal" mind, soul and spiritual world.
3. The spiritual law to "control the gateway" of energy into ones mind and
soul, thereby allowing in good images and blocking out the bad images.
4. Learning how to connect ones soul to the DIVINE SOURCE of all
peaceful pure energy contained within everyones soul, the wellspring and
source of ones "Peace of Mind".
5. Learning how to "expand" ones mind energy, and constantly feel the
amazing spiritual inner radiance of "Peace of Mind".
6. Learning how to share and exude ones "peace of mind" energy on ones
environment, influencing everyone with a loving serene and spiritual
energy.
7. Learning how to prepare and accept all events of life, with a complete
"peace of mind" attitude to everyone and everything that happens in life.
1. Understanding how and why

"external physical energies" influence
ones mind and thoughts.
The "secret" from Sefer Shinuyim, (Book of Changes) is the fundamental

spiritual knowledge that a "Peace of Mind" is connected directly to the
energy that we receive and emit from our soul when we SEE an image.
"An image can say a thousand words"
"An image can say a thousand words" - What is this picture saying to you?
What are your feelings, emotions when you see this field of fully grown
golden wheat at the end of summer just before the harvest?
"Our eyes are the windows of our soul", as we explain on the "Closure"
page, a persons physical eyes "allows-in" the images that give energy or
take energy from ones soul.
When a person feels drained and tired the instinctive normal reaction is to
close ones eyes and go to sleep. When a person needs spiritual "Closure"
from a draining vision/image then one simply needs to CLOSE ones eyes.
Our soul in this physical life consists of the total sum of our experiences
and most significantly the total sum of all the images we have seen with
our eyes. When old people look back on life, they remember people and
places from the images that they have seen with their eyes, which in turn
reminds them of their emotions in their soul connected with that image.
The "Image" contains the Power

Every image contains the potential power to either give us good feelings,
inspiration or has energy to disturb our mind and thoughts thereby
STEALING and DRAINING our souls energy.
When we are "Closed", either when our eyes are physically closed or that
we are using the power of our mind and soul to be "Closed" then the power
of the image has less energy to affect our mind and soul.
As we explained on the page Loss by "Transference" and "Desires" our
soul is constantly interacting with this physical world and it does so
through our EYES and the images we see. We only feel tired because our
soul feels tired from the usage of our eyes, and viewing all the draining
images we are receiving into our soul ! Close your eyes for a few seconds
and feel the difference - what a peaceful and energising few seconds !
2. The Spiritual laws which connect

the "external" physical world and the
"internal" mind, soul and spiritual
world.
As we quoted "An image can say a thousand words", what better way than
to explain this concept of the flow of energy between the external physical
world and internal spiritual world, than in the self explanatory flowcharts
above!
The important KEY is that the connection to this physical world is made
through EVERY single image we see with our eyes.
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"A blind person is completely exempt from keeping Torah laws"
Talmud Nedarim 7B quoting the famous commentary the " RAN"
The " RAN" explains that purpose of the Torah, the bible teachings and
laws, are to guide us through this physical journey of life, so that we are not
misguided, and do not loose focus of the purpose of life by the physical
temptations and materialism of this planet.
Our eyes are constantly being distracted and tempting our mind, thoughts
and hurting our soul, therefore it is necessary to have the Torah - Bible to
guide us. A blind person does not have these distractions or temptations,
therefore they do not need to keep the TORAH laws.
As it says in the Holy Bible in Neviim Prophets:- "You have heard it said Do not commit adultery - But i tell you anyone who LOOKS at a woman
lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart and soul".
The Sefer Shinuyim - The book of Changes explains that a blind person
lives within the energy of their pure inner soul, a world within itself, hence
the reason why so many blind people have potential creative gifts, as they
are continually exuding and living from their energy from within their soul.
Hence the reason why the best musicians are blind, and all creative and
wise people have learnt the secret to close their eyes when they need to
concentrate and energise themselves from within, by the power of their
inner soul.

"Every Image we see is Engraved on
our Soul"
Every image we see is the physical connection from this world to our soul,
to the spiritual world. The flow of external energy from this physical world
to our internal spiritual world of our soul is done through our eyes. This is
simply the spiritual law of life !
"Our Spiritual Eye Sees"

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Talmud Sanhedrin 94a 5th line in the Gemorra, teaches that when Daniel
and the prophets panicked, they had a panic attack, it was their soul that
was sensing and seeing trouble and danger. This is the source of the
Spiritual law of moving oneself 4ft whenever one panics, as the earthbound
spiritual negative dead energy has no power to move, it is stagnant and
dead, so moving onself leaves it behind, that is also why many spiritually-
minded people love fresh air and hate stagnant dead air, feeling "dead" and
depressed when they stay indoors at home.
"Our Spiritual 3rd Eye Sees"

As explained on the "Closure" page and the Protection page, we all have a
spiritual 3rd eye that sees and senses spiritual energies. Hence in
understanding that we need to close our physical eyes to external images,
we also need to know the importance of Protecting our spiritual 3rd eye, so
that we do not come under any spiritually draining attack such as in auric
spiritual migraine attacks.
" ,"
"The External Images Wake-Up the
Soul"
During our physical life we see 1000's of images every day, all of which
enable us to live. Some images and sights we see have the sole purpose of
connecting with our soul in order to force us to "WAKE UP" physically and
spiritually. The normal desires a person has from seeing such images
generates the energy of Motivation, without this energy of Motivation we
are considered DEAD !
This is the purpose of the gift of vision during our life on earth, to use the
physical images we see to energise our soul, to give our soul the maximum
motivational energy to want to live and have an accomplished fulfilled life
of purpose, through the energising and seeing the images in this physical
world.
This wonderfully colourful planet is filled with millions of amazing and

beautiful images, each image giving us the energy for our soul, it is our
choice which images we use to energise our soul, or choose the wrong
images that drain our soul instead of appreciating the most beautiful places
on this planet, especially the "natural" places created by GOD, we see with
our eyes. Even a thunder and lightning storm is amazingly spectacular.
We need to see images to stay alive in this world ! Images that we see keep
us alive and give us the energy to live every moment of every day, that is
why some people say sleeping is like physical death as one closes ones
eyes. The daily images of the sun, moon, stars, clouds, the sky, trees,
flowers, birds and animals, people, friends and our loved ones keep us alive
every moment of every day with a special energy that feeds our soul.
3. The spiritual law to "control the

gateway" of energy into ones mind and
soul.
As with everything we have learnt from Sefer Shinuyim - The book of
Changes, wisdom and knowledge are the keys. Hence the key to control is
knowing that every image is making an impression on your soul.
Now one needs to categorise EACH and EVERY one of the images into
either one of the two groups, images that energise our mind and thoughts
with good energy, and images that drain us, included in this group of
images that drain us, are those images that energise us in order to FOOL
and DECEIVE us in order to tempt us to look even more but then steal or
drain our soul of an energy, these are deceitful bad images. (An obvious
example of such is the use of erotic sexual images to advertise and sell
products).
In the same way as we have learnt to block any Loss by "Transference" ,

having learnt Closure and self spiritual Protection, similarly once a person
realises how much energy of ones soul is being drained and stolen by
looking at bad images, a person will STOP immediately !
This was the main reason why Reb Yidel Segal and Reb Avigdor Miller of
blessed memory, FORBID watching TV, as the images one is seeing are
actually STEALING an energy from ones soul. Most of TV images are
enticing one to stay viewing and stealing a precious energy from ones soul.
Especially if these are images are of death, murder or sexual content, or
anything that has made a lasting impression on ones soul.
If you want to become "rich" be

extremely careful of the images you
see
"" &
Sefer Shinuyim - The book of Changes explains that the words for EYES and
POOR PEOPLE are the same in hebrew, with the exception of one letter
"yud". This teaches that by protecting ones eyes and protecting the images one
sees enables to stop a persons soul from being drained, and thereby the
spiritual energy and blessings from heaven of sustenance, wealth and
happiness will flow into ones life, instead of one being drained.
If a person wants to be wealthy and have money that one needs to live a
fulfilling and purposeful life then be careful on the images one takes into ones
mind and soul, being "closed" to any negative images. This is even more
significant as we explained on the Closure and Protection pages NEVER to
make eye contact with bad people, as ones souls are communicating with the
eye contact. Conversely, when one is with like minded good spiritual people,
especially with ones soulmate, then one does not even need to talk, the energy
of eye contact communicates all of ones loving thoughts and energy within
ones soul.
A Solution to Anyone Who Wants to
Become Rich and Desires Peace of

Mind
Reb Yidel Segal blessed people with wealth, prosperity and happiness if
they STOPPED watching TV. In our generation the "internet", although it is
a much more powerful tool of information and knowledge, there is the
temptation to watch pop music video, and even "GOD FORBID" see
pornographic sexual images. (As explained on the "destiny" page the main
reason why people look at sexual images and "flirt", is that they are not
living with or being fulfilled by their soulmate, it is therefore a sign that a
person needs to change ones life and channel ones energy into finding ones
true soulmate).
From this knowledge of Sefer Shinuyim - The book of Changes, I GIVE MY
GUARENTEED BLESSING to anyone who promises NEVER to look at
sexual images on the internet and to get rid of the TV, that they will become
RICH, ( becoming RICH means that one everything one needs and be happy
with everything one has as explained on the "money" page).
There is NO coincedence that in the past few years with the growth of the
internet, and the fact that many people find themselves in debt and struggle for
"Money",- "Parnosa",- "". I have said many times in my public lectures,
quoting Sefer Shinuyim that the cause is that people are wasting their souls
energy by viewing these bad and draining images, even one image has the
affect to steal energy from ones soul and distract one from a life of "peace of
mind".
When a person realises that financial success is threatened by the images ones
eyes see, when a person realises that ones physical existence and
correspondingly ones spiritual soul, is threatened by these draining images
everyone "wakes up" and recgnises they are in danger of being drained and
STOPS looking at these wrong images.
The wise and enlightened spiritually-minded person knows how to honestly

identify these two groups of images and has learnt to take control over their
power of vision, "allowing in" good images into ones eyes and into ones
soul, keeping "closed" to images that attack and drain ones soul.
Stop & Think for a Moment !

What do you remember about yesterday? What image is inplanted in your
mind from the events in your life from yesterday? When was the last time
you had a really energising image that impressed itself strongly on your
mind ?
Think - Is that a good image you are proud of saying that it is inprinted on
your mind and soul or is it an image you wish was never there and would
be better if you could DELETE it ? Then think what image would you want
to place in your mind to energise your soul with goodness from today for
tomorrows memories of today ?
It is simply a matter of awareness and spiritual enlightenment of each and
every moment of ones life to be constantly vigilent of each and every
image one sees, and after a few weeks it becomes "second nature" to know
which images energise and which images steal and drain energy.
4. Learning how to connect ones soul

to the DIVINE SOURCE of all
peaceful pure energy contained within
everyones soul.
The first stage to attain "Peace of Mind" is to control the gateway into ones
mind, allowing in only good images and blocking the negative and draining
images. Using the images we see daily in beauty of nature to energise our
soul, is called , , the "external waking up the internal".
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"The Internal Spiritual Energy
Awakens
the External Physical"
The second stage is to connect with the deep hidden wellspring of energy
within ones soul, the spark of GODLINESS and source of all energy
contained within everyones soul, that is the source of ones energy, strength,
where the abundance of energy is stored, channeled and flows into ones
soul, mind thoughts and then manifests itself in this physical world. This
the eternal home of ones inner "Peace of Mind ". The question is "what is
the method to connect to ones soul and this source of energy from within ?"
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God gave the breathe of life and

essence of the soul into the body
through the nostrils of man
Genesis chapter 2 verse 7
The energy that enters our physical body and sustains our life is the breathe
of air, we need to breath every second or every day of our lives, without
this ability to breathe we are physically dead. Our body and soul needs to
sustain our physical existence by breathing.
Close Ones Eyes and Take 3 Deep

Breathes
Sefer Shinuyim - The book of Changes, explains with this amazing books
energy of clarity and "simplicity" that all a person needs to do is close ones
eyes and take 3 deep breathes.
Try it now and see for yourself, now that you are aware that in doing this you
are closing yourself off to external influences and breathing in a breathe of
spiritual air and expelling the non-spiritual air. The first time one does this
with with spiritual enlightened knowledge one will feel a special feeling of
energy.
One may even feel dizzy or other sensations, it may even be difficult to take
deep breathes through ones nostril, so start by taking deep breathes in through
ones mouth, as one has so much negative trapped emotions within ones body
that needs exhaling to allow good energy to be inhaled. If one is really
"stressed out" then as one exhales one can actually feel the tingling and
laughing sensation of relief as all the tension is being released !
This the spiritual reason why when people have colds or flu, their energy feels
completely blocked, this is reflecting in the fact that they cannot breathe,
hence the best remedy for cold is to inhale strong scents to unblock the nose.
Similarly why most people who have stress and lack a peace of mind
instinctively close their eyes and try to go to sleep, but they are missing the
2nd important part and that is to take deep breathes to connect with the vitality
and source of all energy within their soul.
In the Chapter Life of Compassion Sefer Shinuyim teaches that one uses this
same spiritual technique to pray for someone and give someone ones souls
energy, that is one closes ones eye and concentrates on an image of that
person, then takes deep breathes. Thereby connecting to ones inner soul and
giving this energy to the image that one is seeing in ones mind eye, this is the
concept of "absent healing", transfering & giving someone energy whom is
not present in front of you.
The Spiritual Reason

Sefer Shinuyim - The book of Changes, explains the spiritual reason for this
to work, is that every time we breath in, the image that we simultaneously see
in front of our eyes at the moment we breathe in, is then brought into our mind
and soul.
By closing our physical eyes we are looking into our soul and therefore every
breath we take with our eyes closed is a breath of spiritual energy from our
soul, which in turn is connected to the DIVINE energy that sustains our soul.
This is the spiritual law from Sefer Shinuyim - The book of Changes, and is
one of the fundamental spiritual laws and yet so simple, to enable EVERY
single person to connect to ones soul and finding "peace of mind".
Sefer Shinuyim - The book of Changes explains that one should regularly and
intermittently during each and every day, close ones eyes and take 3 deep
breathes, this has an amazing energy to restore ones depleted energy
especially if one is in draining or frustrating situations ! After 30 days of doing
this, one will see a remarkable transformation of change in ones life and will
start to feel magically alive with a sense of true contentment with an eternal
and everlasting source of "peace of mind" readily available at every moment
of ones life.
This is the source of kabbalic reason why it is traditional for every jew to
close and cover their eyes when saying the first line of the twice daily
"shema" prayer.
Before one goes to sleep

and when one wakes up
Before one goes to sleep and when one wakes up, Sefer Shinuyim teaches that
one should take deep breathes with ones eyes closed to release any negative or
stressful emotions, so that one may have a healthy sleep and likewise start the
day with an invigourating spiritual energy.
As a sign that a person is changing and transforming out of depression,
lonliness and sadness into a life of energy, vitality and love, very often a
person is filled with a glowing inner radiance and one instinctively feels so
excited inside that one takes deep breathes. This is to exhale all the negative
energy and to be only filled with exciting good energy.
People think this amazing overwhelming or "nervous" or "adrenalin of
excitement" energy is very strange energy, some people even try to block and
suppress such feelings, but it is the DIVINE spark of Godliness contained
within ones spirit soul that is giving one the essential boost of energy to have
courage to change. This is especially true before a person is about to give a
public performance, interviews that may change the course of their lives,
before exams, or meet a new love, ones body is instinctively reacts and
becomes open to this special energy at these important destined moments in
ones life, especially of spiritual change . Therefore learn to take deep breathes
regularly and bring this energy of excitement and continual change and
improvement from within ones soul every day of ones life.
No One Can Ever Disturb

Your Inner Peace Of Mind
Once you have learnt this key of knowledge to always restore your inner
peace of mind at any moment of any day, then no one will ever be able to
disturb your ability to restore your composure and inner peace of mind.
Although as we explain in section 7 below, one should always be prepared
in advance for people attempting to destroy your serenity and peaceful
composure. On the Closure page we explain that the "bad and destructive"
type of person is always looking to steal energy from good people, by
upsetting their souls energy and "peace of mind".
Once a person has this key of knowledge and simply closes ones eyes and
taking 3 deep breathes to disconnect from the external images and connect
with ones soul, it is then impossible for anyone ever to have any lasting
affect of damaging your soul by affecting your inner "peace of mind".
5. Learning how to "expand" ones

mind energy, and constantly feel the
amazing spiritual inner radiance of
"Peace of Mind".
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"By expanding the energy of thoughts from ones mind & soul creates a
peace of mind"
Sefer Shinuyim - The book of Changes in asks everyone to answer two
questions:-
What would the world be like if it was

FULL of people exactly like you?
Are you selfish? imagine if the whole world was selfish and materialsitic
like you? then the world would be full of violence, wars, and thieves trying
to steal and intimidate, leading to murder for the sake of greed, living from
energy of anger, selfish sexual desires, hatred and destruction as reactions
to jealousy.
Or are you selfless ? kind, thoughtful, loving, forgiving and compassionate,
which are fine examples such, that if the whole world was full of good
people like you, there would never be any wars, no one would ever want to
take from anyone else and everyone would have everything they needed to
live. The harmony would reflect that everyone would be considerate for
other people even more than themselves out of a sincere love for each
unique individual soul on this planet.
Hatred and destructive energy is only part of this physical world, as
explained on the "Money" page that this materialistic physical world has
LIMITATIONS. There is only certain amount of food, money, "career"
driven greed, materialistic ambitions, "lustful sex" a person can have in this
limited physical life.
Selfish people do not radiate peace or love, they radiate "bad vibes", they
have few friends who they can trust as they themselves are not trustworthy,
and all such people once they die, leave behind nothing of any constructive
significance in this world. They have led selfish and useless lives to
humanity, therefore the "spirit world" of eternal energy has limited their
power and influence.
Love & Compassion is Limitless

LOVE and COMPASSION is LIMITLESS as this is the DIVINE creative
and energizing energy that connects a persons soul with the infinite
spiritual energy of the GOD, the creator of this wonderfully vast universe.
The DIVINE source of all energy, through the power of compassion and
unconditional selfless LOVE, always acts as the flowing channel of radiant
limitless energy. The more a person refines their soul by Closure from
negative freeloaders and becoming closed to draining images they see with
their eyes, allowing only good images that energize the soul to be seen with
their eyes.
Along this pathway a person is raising their souls spiritual awareness and
will automatically become more sincere, compassionate, loving, forgiving
and selfless, in fact during this transformation time in a persons life as one
becomes more spiritually minded, intrinsically one becomes less
materialistic, as a persons mind, thoughts and soul cannot love 2 masters,
the choice is either materialism or a Spiritual life of love, compassion and
selfless service.
Once a person is on this pathway of spiritual enlightenment and has the
essence of a good soul, radiating this spiritual energy, then GOD gives their
soul an inexplicable gift that makes them become "magnetic" and radiant to
everyone, its a special twinkle in their eyes, a glow on their face or charm
in their voice, they love everyone and are loved by everyone.
Their inner radiance is glowing powerfully as they are 100% connected with
DIVINE spiritual source of all energy through the fundamental and foundation
of "peace of mind" within their own soul, that they have developed and
worked on themselves.
How would you feel if EVERYTHING

you did was MAGNIFIED 1000 times
so that everyone would see exactly

what you did and thought ?
If you have one thought of anger or hatred that was magnified then this
would cause death and destruction for thousands of people like a volcano
erupting, or an "angry" earthquake.
Conversely if one has one thought of love and compassion, then magnified
this would radiate light, joy and happiness to 1000's of people all over the
world - what a wonderful would this would be !
Each Individual has the Potential

Each person is given a unique potential and energy in order to fulfill
specific purposes in ones life. If one makes mistakes and gets diverted
along the wrong pathway in life, then one will find ones life thwarted,
blocked and depressed as ones soul is disconnected from the pathway of
vitality.
These are signs to "wake up spiritually" which occurs in everyones life
every 10 years and with special opportunity to change at the ages of 29/30
and at 39/40. If a wrong decision is taken at these ages then a person will
find themselves "getting old quickly" and "giving up on life".
When a person makes the right decisions to change "dramatically" at these
ages to change from a materialistic life into a spiritually-minded life, then
such a person is given extra special spiritual energy, with a new change of
guardian angels in accordance with their souls efforts, faith and idealistic
goodness.
Spiritual Law of Automatic Expansion

In recognition of that one has polarised ones life from "limited" selfish
materialistic life to an "unlimited" compassionate selfless spirituallyminded idealistic purposeful life then AUTOMATICALLY a person is
given the spiritual inner glow of radiant loving energy of life.
This expansion and overwhelming inner spiritual strength gives a selfless
spiritual person the energy to energise other people, whoever they talk to,
whoever they meet and whoever they help feels this spiritual radiance of
loving energy. This expansion is automatic, it is a natural flow of good pure

DIVINE energy flowing through this compassionate loving selfless person
to anyone and everyone.
6. Learning how to share and exude

the "Peace of Mind" energy on ones
environment, influencing everyone
with a loving serene and spiritual
energy.
Remarkably Sefer Shinuyim - The book of Changes laughs at the thought
that he needs to explain this concept, and says if anyone who thinks that
they have found "peace of mind" and does not KNOW how to instinctively
exude and give unconditionally, then they have NOT found true spiritual
peace of mind. They are fooling themselves ! and suggests that such a
person is not learning Sefer Shinuyim - The book of Changes properly and
should start from the first chapter again !
The automatic intrinsic nature of a good person is to want to emulate the
ways of GOD, the DIVINE creator who gives to ALL of humanity energy
to live, with compassion and completely incognito. All the food in the
world is created by DIVINE energy, we are created and sustained through
the kindness of GOD, even though most people will deny the existence of
GOD and Spirit world, GOD still provides for everyone with love and
compassion.
A truly compassionate soul reflects and emulates the DIVINE creator of
this magnificent Universe, allowing a flow of energy of love and
compassion from within the unlimited wellsprings of the soul and spirit
world, without being affected or negatively influenced by anyone, however
bad they maybe, there is complete forgiveness and compassion.
The reason is that spiritually-minded perfected pure person cannot hate
anyone, as they see beyond this limited physical world, and see everything
in the sense of a "bigger picture" that we are just on this earth for a short
journey in the great DIVINE scheme of life on earth, and that the main
focus is the eternal spirit world.
7. Learning How to Prepare and

Accept All Events of Life, With a
Complete "Peace of Mind" Attitude to
Everyone and Everything that happens
in life.
During each of the stages of life, there are unique and specific tests, trials
and tribulations. Each person feels and usually finds that every new
occurence and situation is "overwhelming", and the older a person gets the
more they use their fears and thoughts to block themselves from living life
to the fullest.
Life forces a person to experience and to engage in living life, from the age
of a newborn baby, life pushes everyone to take a step forward even if you
are not ready to walk. Throughout life there will always be seemingly
"overwhelming" changes that one needs to trust in GOD and "take a
chance" in life, live and enjoy the experiences of life, for if you wait until
you "think" you are "ready" then you will NEVER be ready.
Mistakes and Regrets Are Simply "The

Past" Crippling One in the Present
In our generation many people fail to live life fully, especially if they have
been through failed marriages and love relationships, financial and business
failures. People "think" too much instead of trusting in GOD and forgetting
to trust like a newborn baby who keeps falling down as it learns to walk,
eventually every baby learns to stand up and walk!
So too each and everyone of us, whatever has happend in the past, is the
past, "regrets are simply the past crippling one in the present", leave regrets
in the past where they belong, and LIVE life today. Each day is an
opportunity for a life change to start anew.
"Life happens" .. "C'est La vie"
The best way to maintain an inner peace of mind is to learn about life, and
understand each of the stages of life. Accept life as a cycle of birth,
experiences, changes and death for each and every person. Instead of being
shocked and surprised by events (such as a loved one dying), that have
been happening in everyones life since creation, and is always the most
disorientating experience one can have. (In fact losing anything is
"unsettling" whether is be by death, divorce, bankcruptcy, etc.,)
Learn, prepare and think about the emotions, feelings of other people as
you hear what they suffer, imagine how they are feeling, and try to gain a
compassionate and loving understanding of their life. Understand with
selfless compassion and love what they must be feeling, and how you
would feel if you had experienced their fate.
In so doing your soul learns important lessons, it learns never to compare
ones life to anyone elses, to always give thanks and show gratitude for ones
own good fortune, as we are all unique, and it teaches us to PREPARE
oneself for such an experience of life, if it should ever happen.
By preparing ones mind, thoughts and soul, if ever an unsettling situation
would ever arise in ones life, then one has prepared mentally one thoughts,
to remain as composed and calm as possible, refusing to allow anyone or
anything unsettle ones soul and peace of mind.
Preparation does NOT mean that one must think "doom and gloom", but it
allows the mind and soul to learn from other peoples experiences and
enable one to develope ones soul to be more compassionate and loving.
The wisest people in life, always plan in their minds for every permutation
of any outcome of their actions. In this way they have a contingency plan,
and are never "loosing their mind". Even when death arrives, the greatest
transition everyone makes in life, one is fully prepared spiritually, knowing
that one has left behind constructive accomplishments, and lived a life full
of love and kindness, thereby radiating a glowing peace as ones soul is
taken peacefully from this life to the next.
Conclusion
The "secret" from Sefer Shinuyim, (Book of Changes) is the fundamental
spiritual knowledge that a "Peace of Mind" is connected directly to the
energy that we receive and emit from our soul when we SEE an image.
Learn to identify every image into either an image that energizes ones soul
or an image that drains energy from ones soul, then learn to keep closed to
the negative and draining images.
The next concept is that the energy that enters our physical body and
sustains our life is the breathe of air. Our body and soul needs to sustain our
physical existence by breathing.
Therefore to attain "peace of mind", switch off and have closure from the
external outside world by closing ones eyes then take 3 deep breathes, and
in so doing one is drawing a spiritual energy from ones inner soul, at the
same time one is breathing the breathe of life.
Remember simultaneously to every moment one breathes a breath one is
taking in the image one sees with ones eyes into ones soul, this is eternal
spiritual law of the breathe of life.
My Personal Blessing to Anyone

Who Wants to become satisfied with
life
and desires true Peace of Mind
Reb Yidel Segal blessed people with wealth, prosperity and happiness if
they STOPPED watching TV. I was fortunate to have been blessed by him,
and since 1992 have never had a TV. In our generation the "internet",
although it is a much more powerful tool of information and knowledge,
there is the temptation to watch pop music video, and "GOD FORBID"
pornographic sexual images.
From that which we have learnt from Sefer Shinuyim - The book of
Changes, I GIVE MY GUARENTEED BLESSING to anyone who promises
NEVER to look at sexual images on the internet and to get rid of the TV, that
they will become satisfied with life, they will never want or be in need, as
everything they need will be given to them.
There is NO coincedence that in the past few years with the growth of the
internet, to the fact that many people find themselves in debt and struggle for
"Money",- "Parnosa",- "". I have said many times in my public lectures,

quoting Sefer Shinuyim that the cause is that people are wasting their souls
energy by these bad and draining images, even ONE image has the affect to
steal energy from ones soul and take away a "peace of mind".
When a person realises that financial success is threatened by the images ones
eyes see, everyone STOPS and CHANGES. Please change and from my
experience and Sefer Shinuyim i give my guarentee for succes in life and true
peace of mind. AMEN.
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Sefer Hanesh by Reb Shem Tov Ben Yosef Falaq'ira
Sefer HaNefesh - is a book by Reb Shem Tov Ibn Yosef Falaq'ira

( lived in the area of French Spanish border in 13th century, please see here
for full history and explanation of alll his writings in English ) . One of the
most profilic Sefardic spiritual writers . The book explains clearly the
relationship between the soul, the levels of energy within the soul , and the
direct relationship with every part of our body . Especially focusing on the
bodily senses of sight, sound, touch, taste, smell and how these directly affect
the level of soul known as "Nefesh" . The book continues to explain the level
of "RUACH" - "the breathe of life" - spirit through the power of speech,
relating the power of speech and physical bodily senses together to bring
healing to the SOUL .
Life of Trust in GOD

, ,
"Blessed is a persons life when one trusts in GOD,
Then GOD will become trustworthy and dependable for that person".
Jeremiah 17 verse 7
, Life of Trust in GOD

"TRUST is putting your hand out in the dark searching for help and finding
it held"
"Every problem has a solution, even when there seems to be no solution"

In this chapter "Trust in GOD" from Sefer Shinuyim - The book of
Changes, we teach the 3 spiritual aspects explaining the concepts of
"TRUST in GOD".
1. Understanding the concepts and meaning of "Trust", understanding that
"Trust" is a non-tangible spiritual bond of committment between two
people in their mind, thoughts and souls.
2. Understanding the transformation during ones life where one begins to
"trust in GOD" more than "trusting in people". The stages of life, where
every child/person matures into an independant free-thinking adult, and
stops trusting in "everyone" leading to the stage of life where one transfers
ones thoughts of "trust in people" into the spiritual "trust in GOD".
3. Understanding the levels of "Trust in GOD". Identifying when one can
rely on GOD & Spirit world, and when one must make "hishtadlus"-"
", and take personal responsibilty for ones actions to "get the job
done", and understanding the levels of "Trust in GOD" when making any
decision where one needs "DIVINE intervention" in ones life.
Introduction
Introducing the concept of "Trust in GOD", the famous spiritually written
poem called "Footprints" explains how we misunderstand, forget and takefor-granted the continuous DIVINE spiritual help that sustains our lives and
in WHOM we can always trust and depend upon for DIVINE help :-
"Footprints" - Trusting In GOD

One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach
with the Lord. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene,
he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand; one belonging to him and the
other to the Lord.
When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the
footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life
there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the
very lowest and saddest times in his life.
This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord about it. "Lord, you
said that once I decided to follow you, you'd walk with me all the way. But
I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life, there is
only one set of footprints. I don't understand why when I needed you most
you would leave me."
The Lord replied, "My precious child, I Love you and would never leave
you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of
footprints, it was then that I carried you."
1.Understanding The Meaning Of

"Trust".
"Trust" is a dependable unwritten and unspoken bond that unites people.
The bond of "trust" is not physical or tangible, it is purely a THOUGHT
energy in the mind and soul that has the power to unite and connect people
together.
The bond of "trust" gives people a sense of identity and a connection to
like-minded people, hence "trust" solidifies a bonding with the greatest
energy of all - "the energy of the mind and soul". Indeed the bond of "trust"
is a spiritual bond inherent in ones soul.
The bond of "trust" can only be broken between people when the thought
energy binding them is not the same, that is one-side has decided to change
the thoughts in bond that has united their minds and soul.
When the bond of "trust" is a good connection, then positive creative
transfer of energy is produced to help the other persons soul. Whereas if the
bond of "trust" is superficially unreal and one-sided, a sense of "mistrust"
ensues, and then a person will feel negative, destructive and abusively
drained by the bond and connection. In order to survive the person must
disconnect from such a "mistrusting" and deceptive bond, as it is abusing
and draining on a persons physical body, mind and soul.
The need for the bond of "trust" is to ensure that people fulfill their
collective purpose in life, fulfilling with loyalty and harmony their joint
goals and objectives in life. Every society relies upon the bond of "trust"
between groups of people which make up nations of the world so that
collective survival of life continues.
"Trust" is a Spiritual Bond Of

Committment Between Two People In
Their Minds and Souls.
Indeed the bond of "trust" is a spiritual bond inherent in ones soul, which
indicates a bond of committment to help, protect and assist the people who
trust each other, on different levels depending the on the level of "trust".
The highest level of "trust" is where one would even risk ones own life to
rescue another.
The reason for instantaneous magnetic attractions and "trust" between
people is that their souls are already connected in a bond of "trust" which is
inate within their souls, possibly from previous lifetimes or from the source
of their souls in spiritual realms.
The bond of "trust" creates a transfer of energy from one persons mind and
soul to the other person and vice versa, and the continued connection
between two people who "trust" each other acts to strengthen their channel
and energy transfer between each others mind and soul.
The bond of "trust" connects people so strongly that there is a constant flow
of thought energy between people who trust each other. When people
"mistrust" each other, this is because there is a blockage in the flow of
thought energy between the two people, if one side has secrets to hide, the
other feels a blockage of thought energy and "mistrusts" the other.
This "transference" of energy between their souls is completely spiritual
and non physical, this intangible bond of "trust" causes people to act
physically out of a desire to help the other person as the bond of "trust"
binds and connects their minds and souls together. So that each becomes
part of the other.
The bond of "trust" creates a binding force that if one person needs
assistance then the other will act to save them, as they consider the other
person an extension and a part of themselves.
The bonds of "trust" create situations whereby other people are living other
peoples lives; parents live their childrens lives and children live their
parents lives; husbands and wives live each others lives; business partners
are living each others lives and lovers live each others lives. This is
acceptable provided one side of the bond is not stealing or blocking the
other persons life and destiny, otherwise known as a "loss by transference".
The Purpose Of "Trust"

The purpose of "trust" and committment between individuals is to generate
a collective good energy whilst living and working together in harmony.
Providing safety, security and peace of mind in the knowledge that there is
someone somewhere who will solve ones problems, will come to ones
rescue and save you in emergencies and giving you the knowledge that you
will never be alone.
The bond of "trust" creates a dependable interaction between peoples mind
and souls that ensures people that they are never alone. Giving people the
reassurance that there is someone in the world who will help even in the
most desperate of situations. Trust is knowing that there is someone
somewhere who has the solution to ones problems.
Mistrusting People Leads to "Trusting

in GOD"
The bond of "trust" that exists between people is used to motivate, guide
and bind people the same goals, problems of "mistrust" arise because the
common thoughts of people do not remain the same, and each individual
developes their own selfish agenda and uses the bond of "trust" to benefit
themselves instead of working collectively with common goals, this is
perfectly normal amongst people as they "grow up", some friendships
remain trustworthy whilst others turn into mistrust.
During maturity and adulthood many people find that bonds of "trust" turn
into mistrust, as selfish people abuse bonds of "trust" for their personal
benefit. The inate need for our souls to have bonds and connections forces
our mind and soul to ask ourselves the question "WHO CAN I TRUST?"
Which inevitably brings a person to the next stage in life where one realises
that there is NO ONE whom can help, save, rescue or find the solutions to
ones problems. This is the stage in life where one accepts that one must
"trust in GOD" and trust in a DIVINE spirit world, although most people
only begin to think about "trust in GOD" on their death-bed in fear and
contemplation of where they are going to after death !
"Trust in GOD " is a Spiritual Bond Of

Committment Between A Persons Soul
and GOD
The Divine Creator of the Universe
, ,
Jeremiah 17 verse 7
The spiritual bond of "trust" that exists between an individual person and
between GOD is unique and different for every person. The strength of the
bond varies according to the strength of the persons soul, character, daily
thoughts and the length of time one has lived with a "trust in GOD".
"Trust in GOD" is a spiritual committment from a person in their mind and
soul to depend upon GOD for help, strength and guidance. When a person
"trusts in GOD", this means that a persons mind, thoughts and soul are
connected to the DIVINE energy and is always thinking of how to best
serve GOD in ones daily actions. Asking for guidance and giving genuine
appreciative thanks to GOD for the gift of life.
When a person trusts in the DIVINE GOD, the creator of everything in this
physical universe and in the DIVINE Spiritual world, then ones soul
becomes bonded and connected to the DIVINE GOD.
"When GOD is for me,

Who can be against me?"
When one is "trusting in GOD", one is automatically bonded to GOD with
a committment in ones mind and soul, then one is ensured of constant
DIVINE protection as "if GOD is for me, who can be against me?" As
anyone would be stupid to wage war against GOD - The Divine creator of
the universe.
This DIVINE connection and "trust in GOD" ensures personal protection,
safety and security, for if anyone thinks of attacking you physically,
verbally or mentally then they are attacking GOD. The only reason GOD
will not protect ones soul is because a persons mind, thoughts and souls is
disconnected from GOD.
When Moses, King David, Eliyahu Hanavi, Isiah, Jeremiah and many other
great spiritual leaders such as the Rambam, the Ari zal, Reb Chaim Vital,
Rebbe Reb Yehonosson Eibeshitz to name a few, where attacked and their
lives threatened even by other jewish people, they were eventually and
miraculously saved because of their "trust in GOD" they were DIVINELY
protected. They knew that their devoted selfless service to GOD, and their
"trust in GOD" binded their souls to the DIVINE GOD, thereby giving
them eternal protection.
2. Understanding the Transformation

in Everyones Life Where One Begins
to "Trust in GOD" More Than
"Trusting in People".
From the moment of our arrival on earth at birth we are relying upon and
trusting other people. Constantly throughout our lives we are forming
bonds of trust and disconnecting from bonds of mistrust.
When we have situations where bonds of "trust" turn into "mistrust", we
feel violated and cheated, we instinctively close our minds and souls to
those untrustworthy people. Such abusive untrustworthy people have stolen
a part of our mind, thoughts and soul, hence a process of "Closure" ,
"Protection" and a cancelling out of any "Loss by Transference" needs to be
done, to regain our wholesomeness within our soul.
During this transitional time one starts thinking about "trust" and thoughts
of "who can i trust?" Which results in a time of isolation whilst one is
healing from any trauma of mistrust and then searching for the meaning of
"trust".
At this stage of life, where every person matures into an independant freethinking adult and stops trusting in "everyone", this process leads to the
stage of life where one transfers ones thoughts of "trust in people" into the
spiritual "trust in GOD" and "trust in ones Guardian Angels".

....
For everything that the intellect cannot accomplish .... then time will
succeed to accomplish .
Philosophy of "Time" quoted from Sefer Shinuyim as explained in "Ability
to Change"
Once a person has had time to reflect, one instinctively starts to become
more spiritually minded and learns that only GOD - the DIVINE spiritual
world can be trusted. The more one prays and trusts in GOD, the more
peace of mind one has, and the more one feels connected to the DIVINE
GOD, creator of the universe. Feeling safe, protected and reassured that
everything that happens in ones life is happening for the best and
everything will be OK.
,
Cursed is a persons life when one trusts in people
, ,
Jeremiah 17 verse 7
When a person "trusts in GOD" ones life will become blessed, with a sense
of inner peace, security and DIVINE protection, the more one puts "Trust
in GOD" the more dependable GOD will become for that person, as one
mind and soul is attaching itself continuously to GOD. However, when a
person trusts misleading untrustworthy people then a persons life will be
full of troubles, worries and problems.
" " Dont worry !
"Only through Problems and

Difficulties"
It is ONLY through lifes difficulties, problems, bad experiences with
deceitful, untrustworthy and horrible people that act as a catalyst for a
person to turn to a belief and "TRUST in GOD". The only reason a person
has problems in life is to bring one to an awareness of GOD and Spiritual
world, learning the lesson to "TRUST IN GOD" and to stop trusting in
untrustworthy selfish non-spiritual people.
... ,
"Everything that GOD allows to
happen is for
the benefit of our soul and always for
good"
Everything happens for a reason.

When something painful occurs in ones life, ask oneself "why is this
happening to me and what is the lesson i need to learn?" There is always a
reason, but if one cannot see it at that moment, dont worry, as with the "gift
of hindsight" one will see the reasons for everything to happen in life. "
"and one will see that everything happens for good.
The "Gift of Hindsight"

Through the passage of time we learn to see that everything that happens in
life happens for our goodness. "For everything that the intellect cannot
accomplish .... then time will succeed to accomplish" (Philosophy of
"Time" quoted from Sefer Shinuyim as explained in "Ability to Change").
The gift of hindsight enables us to understand the reasons why seemingly

bad things happen in life which actually have happend to save us from even
worse situations. The gift of hindsight always makes a person feel
unmeasurable eternal gratitude for the DIVINE intervention that has saved
from our souls from difficult situations and horrible people.
?
, ...
, Shmos Chapter 33 Verse 18 & 23
The Torah explains that Moses asked GOD, "Please GOD show me your
ways and reasons why You do things?" GOD answered that "you can see
me and my ways in hindsight, but never when confronted with a situation".
Our souls are born into this physical life in order to learn, develope and
change. The lessons needed to learn a belief in GOD, trust in GOD and a
belief in a DIVINE spiritual world of souls are unique for every person.
The lessons need to be learnt through challenges of life, only through
intense and emotional challenges do we learn to develope our mind and
soul. These lessons cannot be taught from books, they are emotional "life
experiences" that we all need to learn and experience within our own
unique minds and souls.
The Spiritual guarentee from GOD, is that we will always see the DIVINE
intervention in our lives, after the event - in hindsight. The lesson of life is to TRUST in GOD - especially when we go through difficulties and remain
reticent, (reticent means keep "shtum" - quiet, don't use any "complaining"
words as the least said in difficult situations the better!) and believe that
everything is going to be alright. "Trust in GOD, do good deeds and
everything will turn out for the good".
Trusting in GOD Creates A Bond of

Trust
The more one trusts GOD, the stronger the "bond of trust" becomes in ones
soul. The more one relies upon DIVINE and spiritual guidance, the more
DIVINE guidance a person will feel in ones life. The more thoughts of
GOD one creates everyday in ones mind and soul - the stronger the bond of
ones soul to DIVINE spirit world, and the greater the flow of spiritual
energy in ones life. The most powerful bond a person can create in this
physical world is praying to GOD.
""
Prayers to GOD brings Trust in GOD
The most powerful prayer is when one prays from ones emotions of heart
and soul. Prayers in any language one understands enable one to bond ones
mind and thoughts in "Trust of GOD". The more one prays - the stronger
the bond.
"Please GOD make a way for me,

where there seems to be no way"
The traditional prayer is "Please GOD make a way for me, where there
seems to be no way". Entrusting GOD to help guide ones life to make the
right decisions.
The Psalm of "Trust in GOD"

Psalm Chapter 37
Psalms Chapter 37 is known as the Psalm of "Trust in GOD",
according to Sefer Tikunim anyone who reads Psalm 37 every morning
when one wakes up and every evening before one goes to sleep for 30 days,
is assured that one will have all ones problems taken care of, and one will
no longer worry about ones problems.
Psalm 37 in English
1. Psalm of David, Do not be angry because of the wrongdoers, or have
envy of the workers of evil. 2. For they will quickly be cut down like grass,
and become dry like the wilted plants. 3. Have faith in the Lord, and do
good; be at rest in the land, and go after righteousness. 4. So will your
delight be in the Lord, and He will give you your heart's desires. 5. Put
your life in the hands of the Lord; have faith in him and he will do it. 6.
And He will make your righteousness be seen like the light, and your cause
like the shining of the sun. 7. Take your rest in the Lord, waiting quietly for
Him; do not be angry because of the man who does well in his evil ways,
and gives effect to his bad designs. 8. Put an end to your anger and be no
longer bitter; do not give way to angry feelings which are the cause of sin.
9. For the evil-doers will be cut off: but those who have faith in the Lord
will have the earth for their heritage.
10. For in a short time the evil-doer will be gone: you will go searching for
his place, and it will not be there. 11. But the gentle will have the earth for
their heritage; they will take their delight in peace without measure. 12.The
sinner has evil designs against the upright, lifting up the voice of wrath
against him. 13. He will be laughed at by the Lord, who sees that his day is
coming. 14. The evil-doers have taken out their swords, their bows are
bent; for crushing the poor, and to put to death those who are upright in
their ways. 15. But their swords will be turned into their hearts, and their
bows will be broken.
16. The little which the good man has is better than the wealth of evildoers. 17. For the arms of the evil-doers will be broken: but the Lord is the
support of the good. 18. The days of the upright are numbered by the Lord,
and their heritage will be for ever. 19. They will not be shamed in the evil
time, and in the days when all are in need of food they will have enough.
20. But the wrongdoers will come to destruction, and the haters of the Lord
will be like the fat of lambs, they will be burned up; they will go up in
smoke, and never again be seen. 21. The sinner takes money and does not
give it back; but the upright man has mercy, and gives to others. 22. Those
who have His blessing will have the earth for their heritage; but those who
are cursed by Him will be cut off.
23. The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord, and he takes delight
in his way. 24. Even if he has a fall he will not be without help: for the
hand of the Lord is supporting him. 25. I have been young, and now am
old, but I have not seen the good man without help, or his children looking
for bread. 26. All the day he is ready to have mercy and to give; his
children are a blessing. 27. Be turned from evil, and do good; and your
place will be for ever. 28. For the Lord is a lover of righteousness, and
takes care of his saints; they will be kept safe for ever; but the seed of the
evil-doers will be cut off. 29. The upright will have the earth for their
heritage, and will go on living there for ever.
30. The mouth of the good man says words of wisdom; the talk of his
tongue is of righteousness. 31. The law of his God is in his heart; he will
never make a false step. 32. The sinners are watching the upright man,
desiring to put him to death. 33. The Lord will not give him into their
hands, or be against him when he is judged. 34. Be waiting for the Lord,
and keep his way; and you will be lifted up, and have the land for your
heritage: when the evil-doers are cut off, you will see it.
35. I have seen the evil-doer in great power, covering the earth like a great
tree. 36. But he came to an end, and there was no sign of him; I made a
search for him and he was not there. 37. Give attention to the good man,
and take note of the upright; because the end of that man is peace. 38. But
as for the sinners, they will be cut off together; the end of the wrongdoers is
destruction. 39. But the Lord is the saviour of the upright: he is their
strength in the time of trouble. 40. And the Lord will be their help, and
keep them safe: he will take them out of the hands of the evil-doers, and be
their saviour, because they had trust in Him.
The Verses of Special Significance

Ofcourse the whole Psalm 37, written by King David is of great
importance, the following verses are of particular importance in reaffirming
"Trust in GOD", faith and belief that ones prayers will be answered and
problems will find solutions in the knowledge and trust that "GOD will
make a way where there seems to be no way.
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3. Have faith in the Lord, and do good; be at rest in the land, and go after
righteousness.
4. So will your delight be in the Lord, and He will give you your heart's
desires.
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5. Put your life in the hands of the Lord; have faith in him and he will do it.

6. The little which the good man has is better than the wealth of evil-doers.

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25. "I have been young, and now am old; yet have I never seen the
righteous forsaken, nor his seed begging for bread".
Psalms Chapter 37 Verse 25

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39. But the Lord is the saviour of the upright: he is their strength in the time
of trouble. 40. And the Lord will be their help, and keep them safe: he will
take them out of the hands of the evil-doers, and be their saviour, because
they had trust in Him. Psalm Chapter 37 Verses 39 & 40
Prayer from The Book of Jeremiah

"Please Heal Me, O LORD", and I know that i will be healed;
"Please Save Me", and I know i will be saved; for I am always praising
YOU.
Jeremiah 17 verse 14
The Prayer of Trust in GOD

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"Almighty GOD and creator of the Universe, please provide me with food,
livelihood, "parnosa" even if it is bitter, i would prefer to be dependant
upon YOU - O LORD, than have a sweet livelihood in the hands of other
people" and "Please GOD show me a way forward, where there seems to be
no way". From Talmud Eruvin 18b
"Trust in GOD then GOD will

Provide"
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"Anyone whom does not need to take and takes, will die a needy person;
Anyone that needs to take and does not take, will die a wealthy person
where he can enjoy giving to many people; "Blessed is then person who
TRUSTS IN GOD, then GOD will be TRUSTED" - (source from
The Last Mishne in Mesechta Peah).
Remember, however desperate a financial situation, better to TRUST in
GOD than give away ones soul to someone else, always try ones best never
to be in a position to take from others.
The principle is based on the intrinsic identity of ones character which is
either a "greedy taker", always wanting to take from others OR one of a
"generous kind giver". A person whom is kind always wants to give to
others and prays for other people, a kind person has an intrinsic "trust in
GOD" and asks for help from GOD in order to provide generously for other
people hence acting as a channel, a "flowing river" of charity and kindness.
Whereas a "taker" will always be a "taker", relying upon, stealing and
taking from other people, until the day they die.

Teach yourself to say "I don't know the
answer"
Talmud Bruchos 4a .
When a person admits that they "don't know" the answer to their problems
in life, then a person becomes humble in their ways and is then able to ask
GOD for help and guidance. People who "know-it-all" will never admit
they need help from anyone and will certainly never pray to GOD in
genuine humility.
Acceptance and Trust

When a person accepts the fact that they are mortally human, and that there
is a DIVINE POWER higher than this physical world, then a person
accepts the fact that there is a DIVINE GOD and realms of Spiritual energy
that can help and assist one even in this physical world provided one trusts
and believes that one can be helped by the DIVINE GOD.
"DIVINE intervention" does exist to the believer and to those who trust in
GOD, and even to the non-believers too ! "Divine intervention" occurs
daily in millions of peoples lives, helping, guiding, changing the course of
their lives, preventing accidents and tragedies and protecting people, are all
example of ways that one who truly "trusts in GOD" knows can happen and
has had inexplicable personal experiences which have proven beyond doubt
that prayers are answered and that "DIVINE intervention" does exist.
3. Understanding the levels of "Trust

in GOD".
Understanding the levels of "Trust in GOD". Identifying when one can rely
on GOD & Spirit world, and when one must make "hishtadlus"-"",
and take personal responsibilty for ones actions to "get the job done", and
understanding the levels of "Trust in GOD" when making any decision
where one needs "DIVINE intervention" in ones life.
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Devorim Chapter 30 Verse 19
Life is about Making Freewill

Decisions
Throughout life everyone is constantly making decisions, some good
decisions and some bad decisions. Some very important decisions that will
affect ones life irreversably and some decisions of no consequential
importance. The importance of making good decisions and learning from
ones mistakes of the past bad decisions will enhance a persons mind and
soul. Until one is in the position to always make good decisions and even
guide other people to make good decisions.
There are many times when a person will simply not have the knowledge or
experience to make good decisions, nontheless this should not peturb one
from trying to make a good decision and with a "Trust in GOD" and
DIVINE guidance one will be guided to make the correct decisions.
"Every Problem has a Solution"

In understanding physical life on earth is a journey and experience for our
souls, and accepting that this physical "life" is just a piece in the puzzle of
the "bigger" picture of eternal spiritual life. Hence "every problem really
does have a solution".
There is no reason for any fears, anxiety or worries in this life. Our soul
lived before we arrived in this earth and will continue to live after we leave
this physical life. Even in this physical life most of our experiences,
thoughts and emotions are confined to the protected space of our inner
mind and soul. No one can destroy our soul, no one can destroy our
individual mind and thoughts. Therefore there is never a reason to fear life
or anything that happens but the negative emotions produced in ones mind
of fear itself.
The "Secret" to finding solutions is "Trust in GOD" and positive thoughts
of "Peace of Mind", Love and Happiness that are contained within ones
mind, thoughts and soul, and will always ensure one to survive finding the
correct solutions to every problem through a "trust in GOD".
"Analytically Making a Decision"
All choices in any decision-making process need to be categorised into 2

groups, good decisions and bad decisions. When a person is faced with
complex decisions and choices to make, learn to wittle down the options
into 2 options.
When one looks at the whole problem in the present situation and then
looks at the potential consequences of each different pathway, one can have
a feeling at all the possibilities. Always analyse all the multitude of
possibilities and then sub-categorise everything into 2 options. Once
everything is broken into 2 options, the problem becomes much easier to
solve.
Then finalise ones choice at decision making moment into one of two
options, and then pray for help, trust in GOD, pray for guidance and allow
one to be guided to make the right decision. There is ofcourse the 3rd
option which is prayer in the form of "Please GOD make a way for me,
where there seems to be no way". This is the power and prayer of "Trusting
in GOD".
"The Answer"

"The Answer is very close to you, in your words and in your hearts to make
decisions to do"
Devorim Chapter 30 Verse 14
The verse above explains that once a person has thought in ones mind and
prayed with the power of speech then one must make an action. There is no
point in talking about doing things and then never doing anything !
" "Making an Effort

"Hishtadlus"-"", the most important thing is to DO, to act, to make
changes and to make actions in this physical life. When one has decided to
follow a particular pathway, one must get on and start. During the process
of taking action one will always be guided and if need be feel instinctively
to correct ones pathway. The "key" to receiving DIVINE guidance is to
ACT. By making a physical action in this world simultaneously and
constantly asking for guidance by praying for help and assitance, then one
can be assured of help.
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Trust that Prayers to GOD are
Answered
All prayers are answered, even if the answer is not the reply what wants to
hear ! Nontheless when a person is flexible and listens to the signs in ones
life, then answers and spiritual guidance are given to everyone who prays.
Even if one has no idea of any sense of purpose or direction in ones life,
simply pray :-
"Please GOD make a way for me,

where there seems to be no way"
The more one prays the more one bonds ones mind, thoughts and soul with
the DIVINE GOD and with the Eternal Spiritual world. The more one
prays the more trusts in GOD and trust that one will be guided to find the
correct pathway in life.
Conclusion for , Life of Trust in

GOD
"TRUST is putting your hand out in the dark searching for help and finding
it held"
"Every problem has a solution, even when there seems to be no solution"
"GOD will make a way, even when there seems to be no way"
The bond of Trust between a persons soul and between the DIVINE GOD,
will ensure a peace of mind and trusting life in this physical life and will
enable one to develope, refine and prepare ones soul for the eternal life in
Spiritual realms with a pure mind and soul of "Trust in GOD".
"Trusting in GOD" in this physical world where we cannot visibly see

GOD, makes the gift of awareness of GOD and TRUSTING in GOD a
challenge to our mind and thoughts. Equally rewarding is the peace of
mind, happiness and sense of protection from GOD when we do learn to
teach our mind, thoughts and soul to TRUST IN GOD.
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Suggested Learning / Reading :"Trust in GOD" - "Bitachon", , ,
from Sefer Chovos Halevovos, ,,
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"Life of Compassion"
In this chapter a "Life of Compassion" from Sefer Shinuyim - The book of
Changes, we shall explain the following:1. The Spiritual Law of Compassion . Understanding that all humans are
created with a unique soul by GOD, everyone has a unique purpose, and
everyone deserves respect for their specific role they have in life, even if
we have differing opinions, different ways of doing things and different
beliefs & perceptions of life.
2. Understanding that anger is a result of arguments and disagreements
when people are intolerant towards others and lack compassion for other
human beings.
3. Understanding the meaning of "humility" and the ways of a humble
person. Understanding that "Humility" is the key to having compassion for
everyone and the key for "spiritual" elevation of ones soul.
Introduction
The purpose of the journey of our soul during this physical life is to arrive
at the highest level possible during our physical existence which is to
emulate the eternal DIVINE creator of the universe, learning to have
unconditional LOVE and COMPASSION for everything and everyone as
all are the creations of GOD.
1. The Spiritual Law of Compassion

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"In the same way GOD is compassionate, so too we should learn to be
compassionate"
Compassion is a spiritual bond of energy, whereby the compassionate one

has a strong bond of feelings and emotions. This strong compassionate
feeling enables a person to feel the other persons worries, fears and
negativity and then is able to negate these emotions through the power of
prayer and flowing of spiritual energy through their elevated soul in order
to bring healing to the compassioned person.
The Compassion of GOD
GOD - the eternal DIVINE creator of the universe, has compassion upon
everything and everyone. Each persons soul has been created by the eternal
DIVINE creator of all souls, hence the spiritual bond of compassion from
GOD to each and every person ensures that every person will always feel
the reassuring presence of GOD from within.
The amazing compassion of GOD is that even when the recipient ignores
or pretends that there is no DIVINE GOD, the compassion of GOD will
still care for and be attached to every single creation in the world and every
single soul. Even if a person is demanding from GOD and ungrateful for all
the miracles and help GOD continually does, teh compassion of GOD will
always give a person their needs.
Everyone is Created by GOD
Every single person is created with a unique soul by GOD, every single
soul in every single physical body has its own unique purpose, we have all
been created by GOD.
No one is better than anyone else, each of our souls have been given the
tools and instruments in the form of our personal situation, intellect and
abilities in order to live the life we need to live for the unique purpose of
our soul according to the specific level of lessons our soul came to earth to
learn.
Everyone Deserves Respect
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Whom is a respected person by GOD ?

One who respects ALL the creations of GOD
PirkeiAvos Chapter 4 Mishne 1
Everyone deserves respect for their specific role they have in life, even if
they have differing opinions, different ways of doing things and different
beliefs & perceptions of life. Everyone has a soul that is created by GOD
and therefore everyone deserves respect as one of creations of GOD.
When a person learns to respect other people with compassion in seeing the
wisdom of GOD who created different types of people with their own
unique purpose then a person will be connected spiritually to the eternal
DIVINE spirit as one is emulating the ways of GOD is showing respect and
compassion for all the creations of GOD.
No matter whatever the status they have in society whether they are poor or
rich, race or religion every single person is a creation of GOD and deserves
respect.
GOD Created The World With

Different Types of People
The essence and nature of this world since the time of the "fallen tower of
Babel" (see Genesis Chapter 11 verse 1-11) is that the world needs diversity.
According to the talmud there are no two people in the whole world whom
are alike, every single person living in this physical world is unique, that is
because every single soul within every person has a specific and unique
purpose in life.
No single person can do everything, we all need each other in order to live
life on this planet earth. When we consider that every single person has a
unique purpose, then we actually give thanks to GOD that other people
exist to help us in our life, in the same way that other people thank GOD
that we exist in helping them on their lives.
"Thanking" Leads to Compassion
When a person starts to THANK GOD for the gift of other people in the
world and appreciates the lives and souls of other people who are all
working harmoniously together in ones life to make it a better life, then this
automatically leads a person to thinking about these people with
compassion, respect and sincere appreciation.
This connection is the bond of "compassion" that is a spiritual bond
between the souls of people, which will always provide the link between
people to allow a flow of good energy which can support a person when
they need help by their compassionate friends.
The first lesson in learning how to be compassionate to others is to learn to
appreciate people and only see the goodness within peoples character and
souls, without judging any part of their behaviour, learn to say "THANK
YOU" to GOD for creating other people with their unique souls.
Compassion - "Pray for Other People"
Being compassionate means being concerned for other people, without

meddling or interfering with their lives. Don't force yourself upon other
people by giving them your good advice or tell them that you have been
praying for them, but simply PRAY for them in your prayers.
A compassionate person will always ask GOD to help other people and
provide people with everything they need, with a life of LOVE and life of
happiness, good health and peace of mind. Everyone who prays for other
people will find that there soul becomes even more compassionate and
genuinely concerned for other people just like a loving parent cares for
their children.
2. "Anger" is a Lack of Compassion
Understanding that anger is a result of arguments and disagreements when

people are intolerant towards others and lack compassion for other human
beings, as they are interfering and controlling other peoples lives.
Reason for "Anger"
The only reason why people become angry is because they want to control
someone elses life or someone is trying to control their life, and the only
way to detach oneself and break the bond is by becoming angry.
The energy of "Anger" forces and breaks bonds between people, whereas
"Compassion" creates bonds between people.
Trying to Control Someone Elses Life
People who try to control and interfere with someone elses life are in fact
attempting to steal someone elses destiny by causing blockages and
disruption in that persons life. No one has the right to control, manipulate
or interfere with anyone elses life.
Even if the "victim" tolerates this in the short term, eventually they will
have the energy to break free from being controlled. As the spiritual law of
life will refuse to allow anyone to control anyone elses life and interfere
with someone elses destiny.
People who forcibly wish to control other peoples lives, minds and
thoughts are breaking the spiritual law of destiny and compassion, which,
in fact is refusing to respect GOD. As everyone who respects GOD must
respect and realise that other people have their own unique soul and
purpose in life, designated and created by the eternal DIVINE spirit of
GOD, therefore no one has the right to control anyone elses life or soul.
"Why Do People Want to Control Other Peoples Lives?"
It has always been human nature that "bullies" and "intimidators" exist,
both men and women who use the power of their mind, thoughts and
actions to control and manipulate other peoples lives.
When an intimidator has subdued and is controlling someone elses life they
feel strong within themselves, whereas the "victim" feels tired, drained,
subdued and abused. This is a complete transference of energy between
these two people, where the intimidator has taken the good life energy from
the victim, and the victims life is left void, drained and empty.
As explained on "Protection" page, there are people "freeloaders" who only
take and give nothing, who have no good energy of their own order, hence
in order to survive they need the good energy from good people, so they
steal it by controlling the other persons life, by blocking and thwarting the
persons progress in life, making the good person feel tired and drained in
the presence of such freeloaders.
Therefore the good use of the energy of "Anger" is needed to help
disconnect the bond of negative attachments to rotten people. Once this
clearance and disconnect has been made, now a person can focus on good
connections with good people through bond of "Compassion".
The next stage to develope "compassion" is learning the art of being

"humble":3. Understanding the Meaning of "Humility"
"Humility" is a complete way of life, whereby a humble person continually

lives with the knowledge that there is someone somewhere more important
than they. The knowledge that there is A HIGHER someone above them,
and it is there duty to serve the HIGHER being before taking care of their
own needs. The more humble a person is then the more a person wishes to
serve other people, even to the extent of neglecting their own desires and
needs, in the Selfless Service of other people.

"Know in Whose presence one is standing...
in the presence of GOD, the creator of the whole Universe"
Spiritually speaking "Humility" is the knowledge that there is a GOD, an

eternal DIVINE spiritual GOD who is aware of everyone and everything a
person does and thinks in this world, therefore the spiritually humble
person is constantly aware and in awe of the presence of GOD.
Not only is a spiritually enlightened soul constantly aware of the DIVINE
presence, but is also aware of the spiritual presence of Guardian Angels.
Hence with this constant sense of HIGHER presence a person is "humble".
Out of appreciation and thanks for the gift of life, the personal
opportunities, abilities, talents and gifts, the continual physical and spiritual
support , a "humble" person always attributes everything they have, with a
sincere thanks, to GOD.
A Humble Person Desires to Serve
A humble person always desires and wishes to serve the needs of other
people first before looking after themselves. They consider other peoples
needs are much more important to be fulfilled than their own. Humble
people are always selfless as they consider themselves as servants of GOD,
being placed on earth to help fulfill and serve the needs of other people.
A humble person is satisfied with whatever they have in life, they are
always content and always appreciative of everything that occurs in their
lives, knowing and trusting in GOD, that even if they are being "taken
advantage of" by unscrupulous people, they will always be saved from bad
people and bad situations.
"The Thoughts of a Humble Person"

A humble person never needs to show any anger or aggression to acquire
anything, as they intrinsically know and believe that if it is their "destiny"
then it will be theirs, if it is not their "destiny" then the rightful person will
acquire it.
The converse is of the greedy selfish person who constantly shows
aggression in order to get and keep what they want, even if it "NOT their
destiny", even though they have the feeling and are aware that it will be
taken away from them eventually, they still want to steal and take
something that belongs to someone else.
A humble person knows that GOD will always provide whatever they need,
therefore there is never any need to lie, cheat, manipulate or play any of the
games that people play in order to control other peoples lives to get what
they want for their own selfish benefit. A humble person always trusts in
GOD to get what they need at the time they need it.
"The Attitude of a Humble Person"
A humble person constantly has attitudes and thoughts like, "I'm glad that i
am nobody important", and "Am i taking too much space and not being
thoughtful for other people, how much space do i really need?" and "Why
should i get upset by someone who is angry against me, its their problem in
life, i have done my best" and "who cares if someone has upset me!"
The humble persons constantly looks at physical life as a short journey for
our soul, and provided one has ones soul, inner thoughts and connections
with GOD and spirit world, then there is nothing anyone can do to hurt,
steal, damage or destroy, as these destructive adjectives only apply to
physical materialism. Whereas spiritually nothing can be destroyed or
stolen, therefore a humble person ALWAYS feels safe and secure, with an
inner peace of mind and knowledge that they are connected with the eternal
GOD.
Humble People - Talk Softly
Firstly the humble person recognises that they are constantly in the
presence of the eternal DIVINE GOD, and in the presence of many
spiritual Guardian Angels, therefore a humble person always talks
respectfully and quietly. When a person recognises the power of speech and
that the eternal spiritual realms are listening to ones speech and prayers,
one becomes careful with ones words, never wasting energy talking about
superficial or meaningless subjects.

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"What is the job of everyone in this physical world ? Learn to keep quiet Shtum!"
The Talmud in Chulin 89a explains this spiritual advice, that we must look
at life as a lifelong job where we learn to value the power of speech, to the
extent that if we cannot say anything constructive then we should keep
quiet/shtum. A humble person will always be extremely careful with the
power of speech, living with the knowledge that the eternal spiritual world
is listening to every word said.
Understanding that "Humility" is the

Key to Having Compassion
A humble person is constantly looking for ways to serve other people, as
we explained "Compassion" is a bond in ones mind, thoughts and soul to
be concerned for someone elses life and well-being. "Compassion" enables
a humble person to feel the other persons pain and suffering, and then ask
in prayer for help for that person.
Compassionate people will ofcourse be humble that they will never want
any thanks or credit for the work that they done in praying for other people
as they consider it a part of selfless service of GOD. The more a humble
person feels compassion for many people, the more they feel purposeful
and wholesome within their soul, and the closer they feel to the eternal
DIVINE spirit of GOD.
Understanding the Spiritual Value and

Importance of "Humility"
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The book "MesillasYeshorim " from the Talmud Sota 49a

explains that once a person has mastered "Humility", then intrinsically the
nature of the person is to be 100% compassionate, constantly thinking in
prayer to help other people.
This constant spiritual awareness and desire to pray for other people with
compassion brings a person closer to GOD and to spiritual world, and will
eventually open a persons soul to a level of DIVINE inspiration and
leading to a level of Oneness with GOD with complete selfless service to
GOD.
Sefer Shinuyim
"The Book of Changes"

Focusing Ones Thoughts In Successful
Prayer
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Mesillas Yeshorim Chapter 1
In this chapter we shall explain the power of ones mind, thoughts and soul,
especially the power of the intensity of each and every thought, when one
focuses with concentration and determination, specifically on praying and
having ones prayers answered.
The power of ones thoughts and the power of prayer has always had and
continues to have the potential to change every possible situation, it all
depends of the strength of ones "FOCUS" in ones mind, thoughts and soul.
On this page we shall explain the following:1. Understanding what a ," thought" is, its energy and connection with
speech and action in cycle of life and in "the prayer cycle" .
2. Understanding the difference in energy and strength between ,
thoughts of a thinking "adult" and , habitual thoughts of a "child"
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3. Understanding how to use the powerful energy of ones soul in a
"thought" and how to focus ones soul and thoughts in prayer, to get ones
prayers answered.
4. Understanding how to remain "closed", "protected" and "focused" on
ones true purposeful destined pathway and not to be distracted in life by
other peoples problems and bad situations that have nothing to do with
ones destiny.
5. Understanding that "the key" to success in life is to learn to always be
very focused on the purpose of ones life and not to waste time or energy on
anything that has no eternal everlasting purpose.
Introduction
Every living person in this world thinks of 1000's of thoughts every day.
Most of our thoughts have no energy, no purpose nor affect on anyones
lives whatsoever. However, when a person learns how to develope a
"focused thought energy" then a person will be able to use the power of a
single thought to change ones life, and rectify any difficult or problematic
situation in ones life.
It is ONLY the power of our "thoughts" that can change our lives. Once we
learn how to master and control our thoughts then we are able to be "in
control" of our lives, and then we are able to find our true successful and
purposeful destiny for our souls physical journey of life on earth.
1. What is a "Thought" ,?
A thought is the most pure of spiritual energy we can create in this physical
world with our physical mind, body and spiritual soul. Everything in this
world that we accomplish with our physical bodies and spiritual souls can
be categorised into one of 3 groups :-
Thoughts, Spoken Words & Actions .

A "thought" is the most spiritual of energy one can create with ones mind
and soul . The "thought" then has the potential to become a "spoken word"
- if one decides to give the thought - physical energy . The "thought" also
has the potential to become an "action" directly or as a result of the "spoken
word" .
"THOUGHTS" are SPIRITUAL, they are messages you send out and
create from within your soul, and messages that your soul receives from
spirit world or from other people that you are sensitive and "intune" with,
"thoughts" are the spiritual communication within ones soul to other
peoples soul and to the eternal Divine spiritual realms.
"WORDS" have the capacity to be both SPIRITUAL and PHYSICAL.
Words start the process of converting pure spiritual thought energy into a
physical existence in this world. Words express the physical result of
actions with either approval or disapproval, and act to continue the cycle of
the thought process. "Words" are then used to make changes if the action
proved a failure or words are used positively to confirm that the action was
successful.
"ACTIONS" are PHYSICAL. They are a result of "thoughts" being
converted into a physical action, either directly from the "thought" or by
way of "spoken word" .
Thoughts Connect Ones Soul

Spiritually
"Thoughts" are the most spiritual entity that we can create in this physical
world, therefore, it is a "thought" from within our mind and soul that has
the power to connect our soul to the eternal DIVINE spiritual realms. A
"thought" energy is the spiritual energy that connects us with our "guardian
angels" and with anyone or any soul with whom our spiritual thought
energy has the ability to connect with depending on the energy from within
our soul and the energy of the soul in "Spirit world" that wishes to help us.
The Prayer Cycle
The "prayer cycle" which in reality is simply the "creative life cycle" of all
existence at the highest level attainable by humans on earth, explains the
concepts of thoughts, words and actions interrelating with each other .
When actions or events happen in this world that we do not like, we
immediately express ourselves by complaining or praying . If we choose to
complain then these words are wasted .
If we choose to pray with positive thoughts and sensible reasoning,
accepting the reality of the situation, and genuinely desiring to know why
"things went wrong", then these words and thoughts are channelled to spirit
world.
Every prayer is heard and when we focus our words, thoughts and even our
tears this creates a spiritual energy to elevate our thoughts to spirit world .
The spiritual energy, when the timing is right and only when we are ready
( i add these important words "when we are ready" - as one might pray for
something - but until one changes ones attitude - it will be blocked to
happen . As we explained on the page of ABILITY to CHANGE, there are
spiritual rules we need to follow to allow changes and prevent
"blockages" ).
When the time is right, the "spiritual help" transcends into our thoughts in
the form of intuitive "good ideas" and instinctive guidance. When the
transcending of spiritual energy is strong, it can transcend into other
peoples thoughts influencing them to help and even cause events - "divine
coincedences" and spiritual "miracles" to occur .
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"Whether a person prays a lot or prays a little - then most important aspect
that when one prays one thinks and concentrates ones prayer to GOD" from
the Mishne Menuchos chapter 13 mishne 11
A Prayer Without "Thinking" is a

Waste !
Many people ask "why aren't my prayers answered?" Answer is simple - a
prayer that has no "thought" energy attached to it is a waste of time. It is
better to pray for 1 minute a day with concentration than to "say & chant
prayers" for hours without no thought energy ! Prayer is about QUALITY not quantity !
"Saying Prayers" are only fruitful when one focuses ones thought energy
properly, and when the "thought energy" has power and concentration of an
," Mochin deGadlus" - "Adult thought energy".
2. Understanding the difference in

energy and strength between: , thoughts of a "Thinking
Adult"
& , habitual thoughts of a
"child"
In order to pray successfully one needs to create concentrated and focused
"thoughts" from ones soul, strong energizing "adult" thoughts.
Definitions of , and ,
The basic level of thoughts are called ," Mochin deKatnus"

literally translated as "brain cells of a child" . These are thoughts that have
no intrinsic energy to elevate themselves emotionally or spiritually . These
thoughts come and go from our mind without any feelings or "active
concentration" .
The higher level of thoughts are called ," Mochin deGadlus"

literally translated as "brain cells of an adult" . These thoughts embody
themselves with energy from the soul and therefore connect the physical
with the spiritual within the body and soul .
We all "Know" when we are

"Thinking"
Everyone knows when they are "thinking" properly with focused
concentration. The simple way to know if one is "thinking" or not ..... is to
ask yourself :-
Do you remember what you did

yesterday?
The stronger the "thought" energy associated with the actions and words
one did and said then the bigger the imprint it has upon ones soul and the
easier it is to remember.
This is the reason why many people cannot remember some years of their
lives, as they did not do anything of any worth or value that has left an
impression upon the memory of their soul. When a person realises that
years have passed by in ones life that one cannot remember then a person
realises that it is TIME FOR A CHANGE ! And a need to START to
WAKE UP and THINK strong thoughtful concentrated "Adult thoughts" !
3. Understanding how to use the

powerful energy of ones soul in a
"thought" and how to focus ones soul
and thoughts in prayer, to get ones
prayers answered.
"The Prayer Cycle"
The start of the cycle is ones thoughts. In exactly the same way as one
awakens from sleep each morning, one starts to think thoughts and then one
gets out of bed. Likewise everything we do every moment of our lives
starts with a thought. When actions or events occur that we dont like, we
instinctively utter words. When these words are said in prayer with
concentrated "adult thought" energy then they become connected to the
DIVINE spiritual realms and a cycle of help starts.
Connecting Spiritually
Prayers are ALWAYS Answered
In transforming ones thoughts to becoming strong "Adult thoughts" one is

now spiritually receptive, emotionally aware, sensitive and "awake" to the
images and lifes experiences, one has connected ones soul to the DIVINE
Source of all life energy - GOD. At this stage in life, one maybe
overwhelmed with a vitality of energy, as everything becomes lovely,
beautiful and most importantly a person comes "ALIVE" !
At this moment one is ready to PRAY and have ones PRAYERS answered.
The "prayer cycle" works as ones thoughts, actions and words are now
connected coherently in the cycle of spiritual thought energy, and ones soul
is now awakened to change and one is now "listening" spiritually for
guidance to correct the mistakes one has made and find ones true
purposeful destined life.
GOD will make a way, where there is no way
The experience of living in this world is to come to a stage in life to admit

that one cannot "work everything out" and one needs Divine help.
Admitting this truth when one is in a seemingly unsolvable situation and
praying "Please GOD make a way for me where there seems to be no way",
has an amazing affect on ones soul, as it works to transform a person from
an individual to becoming part of humanity, creations of GOD, by

reconnecting ones soul spiritually to the eternal DIVINE GOD.
Lighting Candles
The spiritual tradition which is emphasized from Sefer Shinuyim - the
Book of Changes ( and Sefer Tikunim), is to always light candles whenever
one needs spiritual help. So light one, two or three candles and say a prayer.
Simple and Effective Prayers

Dear God: Although I have ignored You for all these years and even denied
Your existence, and not appreciated all You have done for me, I'm in
trouble now. And I know You're the only ONE Who can help. Please help
me, find and guide me to way where there seems to be no way.
GOD will always make a way where

there seems to be no way
4.Understanding how to remain closed,
protected and "focused" on ones true
purposeful destined pathway.
Understanding that it is of paramount importance that one remains "closed",
"protected" and "focused" on ones true purposeful destined pathway and
not to be distracted in life by other peoples problems , their baggage and
their bad situations that have nothing to do with ones destiny.
As we have explained that the biggest blockage in anyones life is when they
are diverting their thought and souls energy to desiring a life that is NOT
theirs. Each and every person has a destined purposeful life, but when one is
"living someone elses" life one looses ones specific souls identity and this
automatically stops the flow of physical and spiritual life energy into ones
soul, hence the reason why many people feel depressed and "drained" when
they are on the "wrong pathway" in their lives.
The Solution is simple - ALWAYS be AWAKE ! Whenever a person feels

"ALIVE" then one knows one is on the correct pathway, whenever a person
feels tired, drained, depressed then a person needs to question what they are
doing with ones life.
The Purposeful Mission of Life

Each and every person has a purposeful mission in life. Recognise and have
the self confidence to believe that one has a been blessed with a unique
soul that has a specific mission in life. A mission that NO ONE else can
perform, and therefore it is ones duty to ones own soul to make sure that
one succeeds and DONT ALLOW anything or anyone to distract you from
your DIVINELY blessed and unique mission in life.
Tests of Faith
Once one has cleared the past negativity, and developed a positive outlook
and purpose in life, one must always remain focused and protect ones soul,
in order to retain spiritual safety and security. The principle of which is that
whilst and whenever ones soul is elevating, the soul is always challenged,
tested and continues to learn by experiences, some of which can be
extremely difficult in the eyes of many people. These are tests of faith .
5. Understanding "The Key"

to Real Success in Life
"The Key" to success in life is to learn to always be very focused on the
purpose of ones life and not to waste time or energy on anything that has no
eternal everlasting purpose.
Whenever a person wastes time or wastes energy by diverting energy away
from their own specific mission and purpose in life then one will feel
drained, blocked and thwarted in ones life. The Spiritual "signposts" in
ones life are that a person will always has a good feeling when one is on
the correct pathway for ones soul.
Nontheless there are times, especially during transitional periods of change
in ones life when one will be self-doubting. The "KEY" to success at these
times is to use every moment and every thought wisely. Dont waste
anytime nor waste any energy on anything that has no purpose nor use for
ones life.
"Don't Waste Any Time !"

Our souls journey in this physical world has a specific length of time,
which is related to accomplishing of our specific purpose in life. If we
choose to be lazy and avoid our true destined physical and spiritual purpose
in this physical life then our lives will be thwarted with problems and
failures. When we choose to connect spiritually and recognise that we have
a specific purpose and we are accomplishing that purpose then we will
have success in everything we do every moment of our lives. So the simple
solution is "Dont waste any time" !
"If we waste time and energy then our lives will be wasted", everything that
happens in our lives happens for a reason, if we find ourselves wasting time
and energy, then maybe we need to take an introspective look at our lives and
stop the cycle of "time wasting".
"DIVINE Success" - Good Mazel !

The secret for DIVINE success and good fortune - "Good Mazel" - in life is
never to waste time as explained in Psalms 1 :

,
,

,
Time Wasting
This applies to every part of our lives, not wasting time, not wasting words
and not wasting actions. When we use every part of our physical existence
purposefully then we are assured success. This especially applies in our
"modern world" where people spend hours every evening in front of the
television, wasting their evenings away ! As we explained at the very end
of the chapter of "Peace of Mind" there is a special spiritual blessing of
success for everyone who does NOT waste time, (especially in front of the
Television).
The Principles of Sefer Tikunim

www.tikunim.com The Principles of Sefer Tikunim - , are that
we have created an imperfect situations and we have all made mistake in
our lives, through our actions, speech and thoughts . Either we have caused
irreversable situations that have implications or have laid foundations in
our lives based on deceit, lies and dishonesty . The focus of Sefer Tikunim
- , is to cleanse and perfect the physical situation by focusing and
cleansing the spiritual healing needed on our souls. Sefer Tikunim -
explains that by lighting candles connects ones soul to the Eternal
Divine Spiritual world and thereby always ensures that all prayers are
answered.
We wish you success in everything you do every moment of your life.
"The way to have prayers answered"
According to Reb Chaim Vital and his teacher the famous Ari Zal, if we
wish to have our prayers answered then we should spend our time in prayer
THANKING GOD for the gift of life, thanking GOD for everything that has
happened in our lives, then all our prayers will be answered as understood
from the following story:I dreamt that I went to Heaven and an angel was showing me around. We
walked side-by-side inside a large workroom filled with angels. My angel
guide stopped in front of the first section and said, "This is the Receiving
Section. Here, all petitions to GOD said in prayer are received."
I looked around in this area, and it was terribly busy with so many angels
sorting out petitions written on voluminous paper sheets and scraps from
people all over the world. Then we moved on down a long corridor until we
reached the second section.
The angel then said to me, "This is the Packaging and Delivery Section.
Here, the graces and blessings the people asked for are processed and
delivered to the living persons who asked for them."
I noticed again how busy it was there. There were many angels working
hard at that station, since so many blessings had been requested and were
being packaged for delivery to Earth.
Finally at the farthest end of the long corridor we stopped at the door of a
very small station. To my great surprise, only one angel was seated there,
idly doing nothing. "This is the Acknowledgment Section," my angel friend
quietly admitted to me. He seemed embarrassed. "How is it that? There's no
work going on here?" I asked.
"So sad," the angel sighed. "After people receive the blessings that they
asked for, very few send back acknowledgments; however everyone who
sends in a "THANK YOU" their name is signed in a special book that gets
them priority treatment next time they pray and ask GOD for help".
Spiritual Teachers
In following the spiritual "Pathway to Enlightenment" as explained in the
Book of Daniel and Sefer Shinuyim, an important part of growth of ones
soul is becoming part of the eternal DIVINE spiritual world by being
constantly available of "Service to GOD".
In this chapter "Spiritual Teachers" and in the following chapters of "Void
Filling" and "Selfless Service" we shall explain that as one has becomes
spiritually enlightened and fully connected with ones mind, thoughts and
soul to the enlightened Eternal Divine Spiritual World then one loses any
selfish desires or any individualistic personal identity that is associated
with this materialistic physical world.
An enlightened person whom has worked upon elevating their soul by
eliminating the negative emotions, exudes positive emotions and connects
with the Spirit world easily and automatically becomes at one with the
Universe, thoroughly feeling enlivened and energized by the constant
connection with the eternal Spiritual world of souls with a strong desire to
serve and bestow - Mashpi'a - a spiritual kindness to be instrumental
in helping lost souls find the spiritual light.
The 4th Level of ones Soul "Chaya ,"

This level of Spirituality where one acts as a channel to bring down
spiritual life energy from the realms of the spirit world to his physical
world is known as "Chaya - , " as is explained by Reb Chaim Vital in the
Book of Reincarnation of Soul in the chapter "The Five Levels of Spiritual
Souls Existence in our Physical Body"; it should be noted that it takes up to
7 years of spiritual molding to make it to this level of spirituality,

nontheless everyone in the whole world has the potential and freewill
choice to choose a spiritually enlightened life of "Chaya - , ".
The purpose of ones existence when one has arrived at this level of spiritual
enlightenment is to bring down the spiritual light to enlighten this physical
world.
Spiritual Teachers
This chapter called "Spiritual Teachers" from Sefer Shinuyim, in

the "pathway to enlightenment" explains 5 spiritual insights regarding
"Spiritual Teachers" .
1. Explaining the spiritual law that spiritual knowledge is like a "flowing
river", the more knowledge one teaches other people the more knowledge
flows into ones mind, thoughts and soul. The more spiritual energy and
light that transcends down from the spirit world to this physical world, the
more enlightenened the world become with an even stronger flow of
Spiritual enlightenment so that the whole world can change for the better.
2. Explaining the spiritual laws for spiritual teachers; the only way of being
a good "spiritual teacher" is by example, never pushing or forcing anyone
to change and that a true "spiritual teacher" emulates the example of the
spirit world and never takes nor asks for any material or financial reward
for any "spiritual teachings", in fact according to "spiritual law" it is
forbidden to associate physical materialism with spiritual knowledge.
3. Explaining the spiritual law of "Humility" for spiritual teachers of ,
, the continual lesson of humility to know and
recognize that a spiritual teacher is only one third of a whole unit.
4. Explaining the spiritual law that we all get the perfect spiritual teachers
we need at exactly the right time for our soul, and we all become the right
spiritual teacher for other people at the right time our soul is ready to teach.
5. Explaining the principle that after one leaves this world, ones soul
becomes a spiritual teacher, a " madrich", a guide and helper to other
souls in this physical world.
1. Spiritual Knowledge is like a

WaterFall
Transcending from the Spirit World to this Physical World Via Spiritually
Enlightened Souls
Spiritual knowledge, wisdom, enlightenment is continually transcending

from the higher spiritual realms into this physical world. The flow of light
and energy created in the spiritual realms is infinite, unfortunately our
physical world cannot absorb infinite energy therefore it is contracted, a
term known as " Tzimzum", in order that it can transcend into this
physical world.
Compare to a waterfall, that channels millions of gallons of water every
second whereas a small river much further downstream handles only a few
gallons a second.
The spiritually enlightened person has developed and refined their soul so
that they can handle almost infinite amounts of spiritual light energy that
searches for a suitable channel to transcend the knowledge, wisdom,
enlightenment and healing energy this physical world needs to exist.
The spiritual law of transcending of enlightened spiritual energy is that
ONE MUST allow the energy to flow straight through, the more one gives
the more is able to receive from the spiritual realms above; if one holds
onto knowledge, wisdom or energy for oneself then one is creating a
blockage; and as we shall learn (below in "2") if one takes money in return
for spiritual knowledge and enlightenment, or restrict anyone from learning
then it completely blocks true spiritual enlightenment from transcending
through your soul for eternity; and only Reincarnation of ones soul will
recify this misuse of spirituality.
The most important fact in elevating ones soul into the 4th level of spiritual
existence Chaya - , , and becoming a channel to allow the spiritual world
use your soul to transcend spiritual enlightenment into this physical world,
is to remain focused on one fact that is NEVER block the flow of spiritual
energy through ones soul; never withold enlightenment or spiritual energy
from anyone and "GOD forbid" , Chas VeShalom never require
anyone to pay for spiritual knowledge and spiritual enlightenment.
Never use Spiritual Knowledge for

Selfish Personal or Financial
Materialistic Benefit , as this
Reverses the Flow of Spiritual Energy
Pirkei Avos Teachings of the Rabbis written 2000 years ago Pirkei Avos
Chapter 4 Mishne 5 explains never use spiritual knowledge for selfish
personal benefit;

, ,
,
Rabbi Yishmael his son used to say: He who learns in order to teach will be
enabled both to learn and to teach. But he who learns in order to practice
will be enabled to learn, to teach, to observe, and to practice.
Rabbi Tzadok used to say: Do not make the Torah a crown with which to
glorify and give yourself honour, nor use it as a spade with which to dig.
As Hillel used to say: He who makes worldly use and financial
materialistic gain of the spiritual knowledge of the Torah their soul will
perish from the eternal Divine Spiritual world.
The logic is simple and obvious, the more spiritually enlightened a person
becomes in this physical world the more a person becomes like the
Spiritual Angels serving GOD without any motif or personal gain. The
spiritual flow of spiritual energy is infinitely continuous and is therefore
always to GIVE; the more one gives - the more energy one receives in
order to give even more light of Spiritual enlightenment.
When a Spiritual Teacher accepts anything in return for spiritual

knowledge, enlightenment and spiritual healing energy that is trying to
transcend from the spiritual world, is pushed away, creating a blockage in
the flow of spiritual energy. Spirit world do not need any physical
materialism, therefore this creates a physical versus spiritual blockage in
ones life and soul, and the flow of true spiritual enlightenment from Spirit
world halts.
At first it will block like small rocks on a flowing stream and then
completely block like a dam, this is why you find that some good spiritual
souls succeed at the beginning in idealism and then get themselves blocked.
The solution is simple; never mix materialism with spirituality - then the
flow of spiritual energy will continue for eternity through ones soul to
enlighten the pathway of many lost souls as a true spiritually enlightened
teacher, as a selfless servant of GOD.
2. Spiritual Laws for Spiritual Teachers

The reason Sefer Shinuyim explains the Spiritual laws for Spiritual
Teachers is not to teach anyone who is on the 4th Level how to behave, but
to explain to everyone who is looking for a sign of who is true and reliable
teacher, the qualities of the perfect spiritually enlightened teacher.
Sadly, in our generation and in many generations before us, there are and
have been some unscrupulous evil teachers claiming to be "spiritual" whom
have only used their limited knowledge to extort money from people to
benefit themselves.
Therefore Sefer Shinuyim explains the Spiritual Laws for Spiritual
Teachers to teach us what qualities we should find in a true spiritual
teacher:(a) Fraudulent "Spiritual Teachers"
Usually Only Break one Spiritual Law
- They Charge Money for Knowledge.
True Spiritual Teachers never charge any money for spiritual knowledge,
healing or enlightenment, as they know that all spiritual enlightenment is
simply channeled through them as a gift to mankind, this Hashpaa
from Heavens above means a flow of energy from higher source of energy
to a lower and is done unconditionally and NEVER has a return pathway;
this is spiritual law; therefore no money can ever buy true spiritual
knowledge. In the same way the TORAH was given for free to Moshe and
the Jewish people so too all spiritual knowledge and enlightenment is given
for free by GOD to us.
In order to be able to be a true spiritual teacher one must NEVER break the
law of spiritual energy flow and never put oneself in a position to TAKE
money or take anything from someone whom one is teaching, otherwise the
channel of spiritual knowledge becomes blocked and thwarted, as a
spiritual enlightened teacher ONLY gives and never TAKES.

Thankfully in our generation through the free access of the internet, true
spiritual knowledge is made available for free on 1000's of good websites
written by 1000's of spiritually enlightened people all over the world.
Sefer Shinuyim explains that the spiritually enlightened and idealistic time
that Daniel talks about in the Book of Daniel at the end of time in the
Messainic days is a time of pure spiritual enlightement, when all the
corrupt materialistic so called "teachers", "Rabbis" and "Priests" will be
proven as spiritually void and deceitful and when all the idealistic
spiritually-minded enlightened souls will radiate like the stars in the
heavens.
Therefore if a so called "spiritual teacher" asks you for money - run away
from such a person !!!
(b) Spiritual Teachers Never Judge Anyone
Spiritual teachers on the 4th Level of "Chaya - , ", emulate the ways of
the eternal Divine spiritual world and they never judge anyone, nor do they
withold themselves from anyone, believers, non believers and sinners are
all the same in the eyes of GOD. We are all children and creations of GOD,
and in the same way that GOD has mercy and gives to everyone in this
world so too a spiritually enlightened teacher has mercy, love and
compassion on everyone.
This does not mean that one has to change to become like people that have
not attained the soul level of "Chaya - , ", but this does mean that one
should have compassion and love for EVERYONE in the whole world.
When an enlightened soul shines and radiates spiritual light to even the
darkest souls and darkest places this benefits the whole world, as it raises
our collective spirituality. This is the true spiritual work of GOD.
Life is not a competition between different individuals, we are all children
of GOD, we are all one collective unit of souls on a physical journey on
earth and we will all go to the eternal spiritual world after this physical life;
therefore no one is a true individual we are all parts of a whole, if we judge
or hurt someone we are hurting and judging ourselves; a spiritual teacher
feels this and therefore has the wisdom never to judge anyone.
In the same way the sun shines everyday on everything and everyone so too
a spiritually enlightened soul radiates and gives energy to everything and
everyone - every moment of everyday.
(c) Spiritual Teachers Continually use the Flow of Spiritual Energy to Clean
the World from "Trash"
Spiritual teachers are constantly clearing the negative energies - the

TRASH - out of the world; Negating the TRASH is easy as shining a
bright light on a dark space; the darkness dissappears immediately,
similarly spiritually as soon as a spiritually enlightened person has blessed
a dark space or brought down from spirit world a spiritual energy then the
darkness goes away.
The main source of "dark, negative and trash" energy is lost earthbound
souls; therefore all spiritually enlightened souls are constantly doing
RESCUE WORK of souls.
"Cleansing the Olam Hasohu vaVohu
Emptiness and Confusion"
As explained on the RESCUE WORK webpage, at the "Creation of the

World" in Genesis it states on day 1 of creation that there was "Olam
Hasohu vaVohu Emptiness and Confusion", this was then seperated
to designate some places " Emptiness and Confusion" and others
wholesomeness and perfect clarity.
This is explained spiritually that the existence of our souls life in this world
and in spirit world is to negate the "Olam Hasohu vaVohu
Emptiness and Confusion", and create a spiritual energy of PEACE,
CALMNESS and Spiritual Enlightenment of Wisdom.
This is the purpose of a spiritual teacher; to bring Peace, Calmness and
Spiritual enlightenment to "Olam Hasohu vaVohu A world of
Darkness, Emptiness and Confusion".
To a dark place where there is hatred, bring love; where there is injury,
bring forgiveness; where there is discord, bring harmony; where there is
falsehood, let me bring truth; where there is doubt, bring faith; where there
is despair, bring hope; where there is darkness, bring light; where there is
sadness, bring joy.
Spiritual teachers continually cancel out negative energies; never being
overwhelmed or affected by lower energies; and through being constantly
connected with the eternal divine spiritual realms spiritual energy continues
to flow through their souls to enlighten the spiritual darkness.
For this connection, this is why when one is in the presence of a true
spiritual teacher there is an aura of spiritual peacefulness, calmness, love
and even one can think clearly in the aura of a good spiritual teacher.
(d) Spiritual Teachers Accept Everything that Happens in Life with Happiness
Spiritual teachers that have the 4th Soul Level of "Chaya - , " accept
everything that happens in life, never desire to be "in control" of anyone or
of any situation. That is because a spiritually enlightened soul trusts 100%
emphatically in GOD and in the eternal Divine spiritual realms.
Acceptance means holding no bitterness, nor any grudge against anyone
anywhere; and accepting everything is destined from GOD.
This level of becoming an enlightened spiritual teacher means that one
becomes accepting of everything that happens in life and knowing it
happens in accordance with a DIVINE plan. This makes a person become
tolerant of everyone and forgiving of injustices in the world as one starts to
see life from a perspective of a "bigger picture".
This level of acceptance means that a spiritual teacher will NEVER force
spiritual teachings upon anyone; people will learn when their soul is ready
to learn and if they dont want to learn then it means they are not ready to
learn.
The quality of "acceptance" in a spiritual teacher means that they will
NEVER get angry nor upset by anything that happens in life, fulfilling the
Mishne in Pirkei Avos always to radiate a cheerful face, being
happy and smiling at everyone.

"Shammai said: Make your study of the Torah a fixed habit. Say little and
do much, and receive all men with a cheerful face", accepting everything
that happens in life happens for the best.
3. ,
All Spiritual Teachers are 1/3rd of a Whole Unit
The spiritual law of "Humility" for spiritual teachers of ,

, the continual lesson of humility to know and recognize that a
spiritual teacher is only one third of a whole unit.
Sefer Shinuyim explains that souls that arrived at the 4th Level of one
Souls existence of "Chaya - , " are indeed acting as a continually open
channel to bring down spiritual enlightened energy; this is nothing that
their soul can do alone, and the spiritually enlightened soul is only
considered one third part of a whole.
The other 2 elements are a spiritual gatekeeper , in the spiritual
world assigned to every spiritually enlightened person that opens and
closes the spiritual flow of energy; the other elemet is ofcourse GOD - The
infinite eternal DIVINE spiritual CREATOR of the whole infinite physical
and spiritual Universe.

GOD is Always Present
Spiritual teachers and channels that are continually bringing down spiritual
energy and enlightenment to this world from the spriitual world know that
they are nothing without this blessed ability of the spiritual energy that
flows through their soul from the spiritual world. This inately brings a
constant sense of true humility and a humble knowledge that GOD is
always present.
4. We all get the Perfect Spiritual Teachers
The spiritual law is that we all get the perfect spiritual teachers we need at
exactly the right time for our soul, and we all become the right spiritual
teacher for other people at the right time our soul is ready to teach.
The first thing one should do when one is searching for a spiritual teacher
is to PRAY, and ask for spiritual guidance from ones Guardian Angels, light
a candle and ask to be guided to be enlightened from spirit world with
knowledge and guidance.
Thankfully in our modern generation we are so fortunate and lucky that we
can find all the knowledge in the world on the internet, the "information
super highway". Very often all one needs to read is one line from one book
or website then everything in ones soul becomes clear, and ones guardian
angels start to guide you along your own unique spiritually enlightened
pathway.

"One Generations Leaves and a New Generation Arrives"
Sefer Shinuyim teaches the concept of generational changes, as one

generation leaves this world another generation arrives, and in the middle
of ones life usually the 35-50 year olds start to define the generation as they
take centre-stage. The years leading up to this age ones purpose is being
prepared and known spiritually as "sleeping years".
Although it is stated that the longer the preparation the greater the
knowledge, hence 50-70 year old are often the wisest spiritual teachers !
It's Time to Be the Bridge Between
the Spirit World and this Physical World
You Came to Be!
"Sleepers" are souls that wake up in every generation, sent to earth with
specific purpose to teach and enlighten the next generation spiritually at
certain specific times; they are given special experiences and appropriate
gifts to teach, and only "wake up" at the appropriate time spiritually.
The latest period of spiritual teachers & rescuers, "sleepers" that have
started to wake up has been in this current 7 year period of 2004 - 2011; if
you have felt the "waking up" feeling then NOW is your time ! It's Time to
Be the Bridge between the Spirit World and this Physical World - You
Came to Be!
5. Everyone is a Teacher
Everyone in the whole world has something to teach someone else; whether
people actively teach or whether they teach by example, everyone has
something to offer in this world and in the eternal spiritual world.
Sefer Shinuyim explains that even after one leaves this world, ones soul
becomes a spiritual teacher, a " madrich", a guide and helper to other
souls in this physical world.
This is especially true for soulgroups and families where there is a strong
connection of LOVE from one generation to the next generation, hence
many grandparents become spiritual guides and helpers to their
grandchildren when they leave this physical world.
Whenever someone you loves passes over to the spirit world one often
feels their thoughts and presence, this is simply a sign that their soul desires
to guide and help you through your life; once they are in spirit world their
soul can see much clearer how best to help you in this life.
Likewise when we leave this world, we are all looking forward to seeing
everything clearly so that we can help, guide and teach the people we love
and leave behind in this life so that they can find the true spiritual
enlightened pathway.

" "Psalms 119 verse 72
Sefer Shinuyim explains that becoming a spiritual teacher is the greatest act
of "Cheshed , kindness" that anyone can do; Kindness is simply a desire
to give to others; and the greatest gift one can give to anyone is Spiritual
kindness that lasts in this physical world and eternally in the Divine Spirit
World.
May everyones desire to perform the ultimate act of kindness bring peace
in this world.

Void Filling & Filling the Void

How to Find Ones New Changed Purpose in Life
enightened pathway; this is the time when spiritually fulfilling
mean further purposeful fulfilling progress for ones enlightened Soul.
This chapter of "Void Filling" explains the indicative signs for one to see
the changes, possibilities and choices being offered to ones life especially
when one has transformed to become spiritually enlightened, always closes
doors on opportunities from the past but actually opens up infinitely many
more opportunties.
The challenge during the void of the transitional period of change in ones
life from a physical materialistic life into a spiritually enlightened life is to
be focused on the long term objectives of ones soul; "let go" of the past and
don't be tempted back for any amount of money !
In this chapter "Void Filling" and in the chapters of "Spiritual Teachers"
and "Selfless Service" we will learn that as one has become spiritually
enlightened and fully connected with ones mind, thoughts and soul to the
enlightened eternal Divine spiritual world, then one loses any selfish
desires or any individualistic identity that is associated with this
materialistic physical world.
The 4th Level of ones Soul "Chaya - ,"
This level of Spirituality where one acts as a channel to bring down

spiritual life energy from the realms of the spirit world to his physical
world is known as "Chaya - , " as is explained by Reb Chaim Vital in the
Book of Reincarnation of Soul in the chapter "The Five Levels of Spiritual
Souls Existence in our Physical Body"; it should be noted that it takes up to
7 years of spiritual molding to make it to this level of spirituality,
nontheless everyone in the whole world has the potential and freewill
choice to choose a spiritually enlightened life of "Chaya - , ".
The purpose of ones existence when one has arrived at this level of spiritual
enlightenment is to bring down the spiritual light to enlighten this physical
world; and to be flexible to allow oneself to be an instrument of spiritual
service in this physical world, to wherever and whenever one is guided.
The Challenge of the 4th Level

The challenge of being on the 4th Level is to remain spiritually idealistic
and TRUST in GOD that everything has a destined plan in ones life.
During the "transitional void" whilst one is transforming it can be very
testing and unsettled, as one may have feelings of wanting to "go back to
the past"; the challenge is to TRUST in GOD; repeat the words "GOD will
make a way for me where there seems to be no way".
In the Void of Ones Transformation

Each person's destined life stages of change has doors that lead from one
stage of life to another. As each door is closing, we must jump into a void
to open the next door; the "void" is an extremely valuable time of molding
our soul and character which is guarenteed to make us much wiser, stronger
and happier.
Unfortunately we as humans a impatient and usually try to open the next

door either immediately after the previous one has been shut (or even
before we have shut the previous door properly) through seemingly
uncontrollable circumstances, like a job loss or relationship breakup.
At times like this, we feel our world is falling apart, the challenge is to give
yourself time to readjust and heal your soul; change your thinking and
change your soul during a void. Our soul's goal is always SPIRITUAL
GROWTH. So give your soul the chance to grow during the void; and don't
rush events as one will only repeat past bad cycles if one's soul isn't really
ready to open the spiritually enlightened door of the future.
Eventually things work out and we realize these were doors of opportunity
and our current life is better than before.
The Continuity of Life
"One Generations Leaves and a New Generation Arrives"
This is the way of the world; as one generation leaves this world another
generation arrives, and in the middle of ones life usually the 35-50 year
olds start to define the next generation as they take centre-stage. The years
leading up to this age ones purpose is being prepared and known spiritually
as "sleeping years".
So trust in GOD that even if it seems nothing is happening in ones life in
the months of even years of "Void"; ones soul is being prepared for a
specific purpose for which you came to earth to accomplish.
Being "Reborn" with a New Purposeful Life
Whilst Still Alive
Sefer Shinuyim teaches the concept of a "NEW LIFE" within this life, it
could be a person has completed one section of lifes experiences and
normally this would be a time to DIE, and pass over to spirit world as one
has accomplished everything ones soul needed to do; however ones life can
be extended and be "reborn" whilst still alive; having a completely new
lease of life with a purposeful service to GOD and spirit world.
This next phase in life is usually diverse and unlike the 1st part of ones life;
almost every facet of ones previous existence changes.
As an important note for our generation, we see that 1000's of people
recover from "terminal illnesses", with a completely NEW character, a new
outlook on love and an inner desire to live life with a sense of duty to
SERVE and be of selfless service to mankind; this too is a rebirth and a
"new life".
Spiritual & Physical -
The main difference between a spiritual and a physical lifestyle is the

physical world is a limited space. Everything physical has a limitation.
Whereas everything spiritual is infinite. The more spiritual the more space
it occupies and the bigger it is; whereas the more physical the more limited
it contracts into. This contraction of the infinitely spiritual into something
physical is known as Tzimtzum .
Being spiritually minded and realistic we need to learn to control the
amount of contraction that we make from infinite spiritual thoughts
into something physical. Othewise we will find ourselves living completely
in a Spiritual world with no consideration for this physical world or we will
find ourselves pretending to be "spiritual" and being completely physical
world orientated.
The Spiritual Way Offers Infinite Possibilities
Once a person has chosen the enlightened spiritual pathway one should
start to think in terms of INFINITY; now that one is connected to an
infinite spiritual world so too one should be thinking in terms of INFINITE
POSSIBILITIES with ones life.
The easiest way to accustom ones mind into thinking of spiritual feelings of
infinity is to think of the vastness of this universe; consider for a
moment the millions of miles between each of the planets in our solar
system, the vastness of the space in between and then consider the enormity
of the whole universe with the infinite number of stars in space at the edge
of our Universe.
As soon as one thinks of the enormity of the universe one immediately

forgets about the smallness of ones life. This is because ones mind is
thinking vastness of infinity and it is impossible to suddenly contract
ones mind to thinking "small"; this method of "thinking big" now enables
one to think "big" spiritually; to contemplate the millions of souls living
one this planet and the multitude of Spiritual Angels that are looking after
all of us.
Thinking and focusing on infinity enables ones soul to "open up"
spiritually to think of infinite number of possibilities that one can do with
ones life.
Light a Candle and Ask for Guidance
Sefer Shinuyim - The Book of Changes, explains that whenever one senses
or knows one is going to be faced with difficulties, challenges, decisions to
make, and needs spiritual guidance then all one needs to do is light a
candle, and ask for spiritual guidance from ones Guardian Angels.
Find Your Own Purpose in Life - The Possibilities are Infinite
The Void in our life as we transform, will guide us to find the perfect
purpose in our lives whilst living a spiritually and physically balanced life.
Each individual will be guided uniquely by destined events in their life and
by their own Guardian Angels to find their own spiritually enlightened
pathway.
The main goal to focus upon is that we are all living in this physical life for
a spiritual purpose for our soul; and their is a much bigger infinite picture
beyond this limited physical world.
Then ones soul will shine and radiate like the stars in the sky and fulfill the
prophecy of Daniel by guiding many people to the pathway of spiritual
enlightenment.

, Selfless Service ,
In following the spiritual "Pathway to Enlightenment" as explained in the

Book of Daniel and Sefer Shinuyim, one of the most important changes of
spiritual growth of ones soul in this physical world is elevating ones souls
existence from the 3rd Level of "Neshama "that is a
giver/taker/creator of energy of an individual person into the 4th Level of
ones Soul "Chaya - ," which makes ones soul an open channel of
spiritual enlightenment of DIVINE energy that flows through ones soul.
In this chapter Selfless Service and in the chapters of "Void Filling" and
"Spiritual Teachers" we will learn that as one has become spiritually
enlightened and fully connected with ones mind, thoughts and soul to the
enlightened eternal Divine spiritual world then one MUST lose any selfish
desires or any individualistic identity that is associated with this
materialistic physical world. Then one can sustain ones soul on the 4th
Level enabling one to rise to the 5th Level of , ONENESS with GOD.
An enlightened person whom has worked upon elevating their soul by
eliminating the negative emotions, exuding positive emotions and
connecting with the Spirit world automatically becomes at one with the
Universe and thoroughly feels enlivened and energized by the constant
connection with the eternal Spiritual world of souls with a strong desire to
serve and bestow - Mashpi'a - a spiritual kindness to helping lost
souls find the spiritual light.
The Challenge of the 4th Level of ones Soul "Chaya - ,"
is to be Focused-on Always Being a
Selfless Spiritual Channel of Enlightened Energy
This level of Spirituality where one acts as a continuous spiritual channel to

bring down spiritual enlightened life energy from the realms of the spirit
world to his physical world is known as "Chaya - ," as is explained by
Reb Chaim Vital in the Book of Reincarnation of Soul in the chapter "The
Five Levels of Spiritual Souls Existence in our Physical Body" ; it should be noted
that it takes up to 7 years of spiritual molding to make it to this level of
spirituality; nontheless everyone in the whole world has the potential and
freewill choice to choose a spiritually enlightened life of "Chaya - ,".
The start and basis of raising ones spiritual soul to an enlightened pathway
is to be of 100% selfless service; and don't worry about not having enough
strength and energy - as soon as one starts by being committed spiritually
then GOD and Spirit world will ensure one has everything one needs; in
fact when one acts as a selfless channel of infinite spiritual energy one is
actually given more energy to fullfill ones service.
In this chapter called " Selfless Service " we shall
explain the following 4 points:1. Meaning of Selfless Service and the meaning of being "in
service" to GOD . Understanding that in this physical life in
order to feel fulfilled we need to serve something or someone external to
ourselves, the higher the entity we serve the greater the energy flows
through our souls.
2. Selfless service transforms ones soul from a giver/taker into one of a

spiritual channel of energy flowing through ones soul, thereby one becomes
part of GOD and a greater spiritual ONENESS with the Eternal Divine
Spiritual world. Understanding that the ONLY way a persons soul can
elevate spiritually is by transforming from a giver/taker into a channel by
"Selfless Service" to GOD for the benefit of all of mankind.
3. Understanding why it is that ONLY a humble person can serve GOD;
and the explanation of why only a non-materialistic person can be spiritual;
the richest spiritual souls are the poorest materialistically/financially.
4. Learning not to get "involved" with materialistic non spiritual people by
learning to stay calm through being "detached & aloof" of individual self
and conversely being attached to peaceful spiritually enlightened people by
connecting with ones thoughts spiritually with GOD. The 2 polarized
worlds do exist side-by-side but one needs to remain focused on which
"world" is more important to you - the physical or the spiritual world.
Selfish people focus on and believe this physical world is more important
even if they have glimpses of a more spiritual existence; whereas selfless
people focus on and believe the eternal spiritual world is more important
even if they have moments of physical materialism; this is simply the
equation of balancing a spiritual life in a physical world.
This freewill choice to decide where ones heart is more focused upon; the
physical or the spiritual - this is the freewill choice of everyone's soul
during this journey of "life" on earth. When the time is right for ones soul
one will see that it is so fulfilling, peaceful and enjoyable to be living the
Spiritual pathway of a life of "Selfless Service" to GOD, instead of serving
earthly physical short term selfish desires like an immature child.
1. Meaning of Selfless Service

The true meaning of "Selfless Service " is recognising the ONLY
reason one is alive is in order to be "in service" to GOD is to
emulate GOD.
The spiritually enlightened soul feels that if one was not in selfless service
then there would be point in living and it would be time to leave this world
and pass over to spirit world.
Such an attitude of mind only usually comes when people have had a lifethreatening experience; when a person suddenly becomes enlightened to
recognize the gift of every second of life; out of thanks to GOD for the gift
of life a person devotes themselves to the selfless service of others.
However people whom have found the spiritually enlightened pathway
arrive at this conclusion by themselves as ones soul instinctively recognizes
the need for ones own soul to serve GOD out of THANKS to GOD for the
gift of life.
When a person feels the energy of true LOVE a person will do anything
and everything out of LOVE; the highest and most idealistic energy LOVE
we can have is a LOVE of GOD out of thanks and sincere appreciation for
the gift of life with all the goodness we are given each and every second of
everyday. This awakens a persons soul with a strong desire to serve GOD
selflessly.
Free, Incognito & Hidden

The highest level of "Selfless Service" is that everything one does is done
without any financial reward, without any recognition, without any pursuit
nor desire to be "famous".
To the extent that no-one in the world knows what you do, nor when you
do it, nor do you identify yourself for doing anything good, and everything
good one does - one does completely INCOGNITO.
When a person arrives at this spiritually enlightened level, one simply
considers oneself to be an "extension" of the eternal DIVINE GOD, a
100% committed "instrument" and selfless servant of GOD; such a
spiritually enlightened person feels humble to have been blessed with the
gifts to be a selfless servant of GOD and spirit world, that ones soul has
risen to be so close to the eternal Divine Spiritual world.
This is known as arriving at the ," Garden of Eden" of this
world; as Sefer Shinuyim explains that ," the Garden of Eden" is
indeed the hidden idyllic and peaceful enlightened spiritual world of souls,
with its wonderfully peaceful energy through the connection in ones mind,
thoughts and soul. Ones soul is elevated in ones mind to be in ",
"the Garden of Eden" - "Heaven" even whilst ones physical body is on
earth. This is the perfection that every enlightened soul seeks whilst on
earth.
2. "Selfless Service" Elevates & Transforms

Ones Soul from a Giver & Taker of Energy
into a Soul that is a Spiritual Channel of
Eternal Infinite Divine Energy
Selfless service transforms ones soul from a giver/taker into one of a

spiritual channel of energy flowing through ones soul, thereby one becomes
part of GOD and a greater spiritual ONENESS with the Eternal Divine
Spiritual world.
All interaction of everyone living in this world is through a giving & taking
energy; there is a continual interaction with everyone in everything we do
in our lives by one person giving and another person taking. On that level
that is why some people cheated or drained because other people have
taken from them; or conversely a person feels good as one has just taken
energy from someone. This is a simple fact of living life.
However spiritually enlightened people dont operate in the same way as
other people; there is no giving & taking, hence there is no depletion in
energy and neither feels drained by the interaction with each other. This is
because a spiritually enlightened person's soul is acting as a spiritual
channel of infinite energy from the eternal Divine spiritual realms which
transcends through their soul to Maspi'a energize many peoples lives
and souls.
This is the ONLY way a persons soul can elevate to be spiritually
enlightened by transforming from being a giver/taker into a spiritual
channel by "Selfless Service" to GOD for the benefit of all of mankind.
Enabling a whole new infinite world of energy to open up and be available
for the spiritually enlightened soul.
3. Only a Humble Person Can Serve GOD

Understanding why it is that ONLY a humble person can serve GOD; and the
explanation of why only a non-materialistic person can be spiritual; the richest
spiritual souls are the poorest materialistically/financially.
People whom need to be in control to such an extent that they are often
authoritarian, will not and cannot bring themselves to believe that there is a
DIVINE GOD that created this infinite Universe; their arrogance and denial
prevents their soul from opening up spiritually.
People whom have developed their selfish behaviour from childhood to be
greedy for personal power and control over other people, and whom live off
other peoples energy through argression, intimidation, or even theft from
others through deceit and manipulation are by their actions denying the
existence of GOD, denying the spiritual accountability to GOD for ones
actions cause their own spiritual progress to enlightenment. This is a blatant
denial of any existence of GOD - so its impossible that these people would
even wish to servce GOD; conversely poor people with pure selfless thoughts
have desires to perfect their soul to serve GOD.
Talmud Nedarim 81a
"Be careful of poor people because from them true Spiritual Torah learning
will come"
A poor child / person does not have the money to waste traveling or occupying
themselves with materialistic time-wasting pursuits. So they appreciate the
free things in life, especially learning from the books and growing spiritually.
Rabbi Avigdor Miller quoted the scientist Albert Einstein's Law of Physics
that "NO TWO OBJECTS CAN OCCUPY THE SAME SPACE"; which
means that if ones head and thoughts are full of computer games, television,
cars, food, going out to time-wasting amusements for the evening or at
weekends, or finding ways to make more money, then one simply physically
cannot have any room left in ones mind for spirituality.
"One Who is Wealthy Materialistically
Cannot Enter the Spiritual World"
"One who is wealthy materialistically cannot enter the spiritual world" is not a
statement that forbids or blocks wealthy people from being spiritual but the
fact-of-life is that one whom is attached to materialism finds it difficult to let
go from the physical material world in favour of a spiritually enlightened
pathway. Its just a fact-of-life.
That is why those people who are poor financially and have few distractions
such as television etc., really do appreciate the spirituality of life, as they will
indeed raise their souls and the souls of their children to the highest spiritual
level to be of perfect selfless service to GOD.
In our modern society the poorest people in the poorest countries are often the
most kindest warm-hearted and generous, whereas the arrogant selfish "rich"
whom live a secluded selfish life alone cannot adjust their minds and souls to
think of others selflessly. Their souls have blocked their own way to spiritual
enlightenment.
It really is so easy to serve GOD spiritually selflessly when one has so few
earthly time-wasting distractions.
Understanding the Meaning of "Humility"
"Humility" is a complete way of life whereby a humble person continually
lives with the knowledge that there is someone somewhere more important
than they. The knowledge that there is A HIGHER someone above us and it is
our duty to serve the HIGHER being before taking care of their own needs, as
we explained in the Chapter of "Life of Compassion".
The more humble a person is then the more a person wishes to SERVE, even
to the extent of neglecting ones own desires and needs, in the "Selfless
Service" of other people.
A Humble Person Desires to Serve
A humble person always desires and wishes to serve the needs of other people
first before looking after themselves. They consider other peoples needs are
much more important to be fulfilled than their own. Humble people are
always selfless as they consider themselves as servants of GOD, being placed
on earth to help fulfill and serve the needs of other people.
A humble person is satisfied with whatever they have in life, they are always
content and always appreciative of everything that occurs in their lives,
knowing and trusting in GOD, that even if they are being "taken advantage of"
by unscrupulous people, they will always be saved from bad people and bad
situations.
"The Thoughts of a Humble Person"
A humble person never needs to show any anger or aggression to acquire
anything, as they intrinsically know and believe that if it is their "destiny" then
it will be theirs, if it is not their "destiny" then the rightful person will acquire
it.
The converse is of the greedy selfish person who constantly shows aggression
in order to get and keep what they want, even if it "NOT their destiny", even
though they have the feeling and are aware that it will be taken away from
them eventually, they still want to steal and take something that belongs to
someone else.
A humble person knows that GOD will always provide whatever they need,
therefore there is never any need to lie, cheat, manipulate or play any of the
games that people play in order to control other peoples lives to get what they
want for their own selfish benefit. A humble person always trusts in GOD to
get what they need at the time they need it.
"The Attitude of a Humble Person"
A humble person constantly has attitudes and thoughts like, "I'm glad that i am
nobody important", and "Am i taking too much space and not being
thoughtful for other people, how much space do i really need?" and "Why
should i get upset by someone who is angry against me, its their problem in
life, i have done my best" and "who cares if someone has upset me!"
The humble persons constantly looks at physical life as a short journey for our
soul, and provided one has ones soul, inner thoughts and connections with
GOD and spirit world, then there is nothing anyone can do to hurt, steal,
damage or destroy, as these destructive adjectives only apply to physical
materialism. Whereas spiritually nothing can be destroyed or stolen, therefore
a humble person ALWAYS feels safe and secure, with an inner peace of mind
and knowledge that they are connected with the eternal GOD.
Humble People - Talk Softly
Firstly the humble person recognises that they are constantly in the presence
of the eternal DIVINE GOD, and in the presence of many spiritual Guardian
Angels, therefore a humble person always talks respectfully and quietly.
When a person recognises the power of speech and that the eternal spiritual
realms are listening to ones speech and prayers, one becomes careful with
ones words, never wasting energy talking about superficial or meaningless
subjects.

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"What is the job of everyone in this physical world ? Learn to keep quiet Shtum!"
The Talmud in Chulin 89a explains this spiritual advice, that we must look at
life as a lifelong job where we need to learn to value the power of speech, to
the extent that if we cannot say anything constructive then we should keep
quiet/shtum. A humble person will always be extremely careful with the
power of speech, living with the knowledge that the eternal spiritual world is
listening to every word said.
Understanding that "Humility" is
the Key to Serving GOD
A humble person is constantly looking for ways to serve other people, to serve
the Eternal Divine spiritual world with a focus of serving GOD.
Understanding the Spiritual Value and Importance of "Humility"
,
The book "MesillasYeshorim " from the Talmud Sota 49a explains
that once a person has mastered "Humility", then intrinsically the nature of the
person is to be 100% spiritually enlightened, constantly connected to ones
Guardian Angels and constantly praying for ways to help other people.
This constant spiritual awareness and desire to pray for other people with
compassion brings a person closer to GOD and to spiritual world which will
eventually open a persons soul to the highest level of DIVINE inspiration
leading to a level of Oneness with GOD with the spiritual enlightenment that
change peoples lives for the better.
4.The 2 Polarized Worlds do Exist Side-by-Side

Which "World" is More Important to You ?
The Physical or the Spiritual World ?
Learning not to get "involved" with materialistic non spiritual people by
learning to stay calm through being "detached & aloof" of individual self and
conversely being attached to peaceful spiritually enlightened people by
connecting with ones thoughts spiritually with GOD.
The 2 polarized worlds do exist side-by-side but one needs to remain focused
on which "world" is more important to you - the physical or the spiritual
world.
Selfish people focus on and believe this physical world is more important;
selfless people focus on and believe the eternal spiritual world is more
important. This is the freewill choice of our souls journey of "life" on earth.
It is human nature that we all live in the physical materialistic world when we
are young and childish; the wise and intelligent grow-up and see the futility of
physical desires, energy wasting greed and jealousy and the pointlessness in
believing in the be-all-and-end-all of a physical-only world.
Each and every person uses their freewil choice to then change to think more
spiritually and then the remainder of our lives we are all striving for spiritual
perfection to prepare our soul for the eternal Divine spiritual world.
It is in the "midlife" years of everyones life that one is confronted with the
choice physical or spiritual ? The freewill choice is ours - either a belief in an
infinite eternal DIVINE spiritual world or denial of the truth and confine ones
existence to a futile physical only world without hope or faith.
Strengthening Our Spiritual

Enlightened Pathway
"Selfless Service" helps us understand, reaffirms and strengthens our
spiritually enlightened pathway which in turn lights the way to brings ones
soul to the 5th Level of Soul existence in this world to , a constant state of
"Oneness - , Yechida" with GOD, with the possibilities of bringing
healing to peoples souls.
Miracles & Healing
A "Miracle" is simply an extraordinary "change" in ones life; A Miracle

contains a vast amount of spiritual and physical energy that creates a
"change". The changes that occur as a result of a "Miracle" are usually so
incredibly amazing that one always associates "Miracles" with Spiritual
Divine Intervention in ones life.
The chapter on "Miracles & Healing" from Sefer Shinuyim - the Book of
Changes, explains the concepts and realities of amazing and magnificent
changes called "Miracles" in our lives.
Introduction - The 2 Categories of

Miracles
A "miracle" is simply an amazingly large amount of energy, that has the

power to change anything and everything, there are 2 categories of
"miraculous" energy:(1) The first category of "miraculous" energy is one is created by a blockage
being taken away; like releasing the walls of a dam that has been blocking
the flow of water.
(2) The second category of "miraculous" energy is created through a surge
of spiritual energy by being in a certain place, or at a certain destined time

in ones life, or by being blessed with a surge of spiritual energy from a
special person or spiritual act, or simply as a act of Divine intervention in
ones life as gift to your soul by GOD.
Both categories of "miracles" have the power to change a persons life and
circumstances far beyond what a person can do by themselves. Hence both
are seen as energies of "Divine Intervention" or "Miracles".
(1) Miracles Created by Unblocking

Energy
(1) The first category of "miraculous" energy is one that is created by a
blockage being taken away and permanently removed; like releasing the
walls of a dam that has been blocking the flow of water.
Are You Waiting for a Miracle?

Are you waiting for a miracle? Most people want to sit and do nothing until
suddenly something from outside creates a "miraculous" energy of motivation,
ambition and a desire to be courageous to make life changes. What do we call
this strategy? We call it waiting for a miracle. It is not the best plan for life You dont wait for a miracle - You must make the miracle !
This first category of "miracle" ONLY happens when a person makes an effort
to WANT to remove a blockage, without really wanting or needing - it will not
happen.
The miraculous surge of energy in ones life will ONLY occur when one
wants to remove the blockage, then an amazingly abundant energy that has
always been destined for ones soul will create a miracle to happen in ones
life.
Such a "miracle" is initiated and started by a person in making the first
move.
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As the Talmud explains; "Start making a change by opening an opening the
size of a needle and GOD will make the opening the opening the size of a
hallway entrance", meaning that a person must make some action, however
small to indicate that they want the blockage to be removed, and that one is
"fed-up" with the situation and wants blockage removed with a desire for
permanent change.
The only reason why "miracles" don't happen in our lives is because we
don't really want them. If we really wanted a miracle - then a miracle would
happen. Many people prefer to suffer in silence, inner pain and anguish that
create a change. Until ofcourse it becomes an emergency and then one
really needs a "miracle"; then too the miracle will happen and one will have
the surge or energy; but why wait until then ?
If a "blocking" situation exists in ones life that one is unhappy about, it is
time to ask oneself the following 5 questions to create a miracle:1. Is this blockage a sign ? if one is on the wrong pathway doing the wrong
thing for ones soul then stagnation and blockages exist. As explained in the
chapters blocking Success, no money and wrong desires of something that's
"not yours" creates blockages in ones life that are there as "signs" to guide
a person.
2. Is this blockage a test or punishment ? Simply apologize to GOD for
making mistakes, say "GOD - I am so so sorry - i have made so many silly
mistakes in my life, please forgive me and take this problem and blockage
away from my life".
3. Is the blockage created by someone else's"stealing a part of your life and

soul", such a "stealing" is the act of "transference" to cancel out a blockage
caused by someone else simply say "I wish to cancel out any transference
of energy made by evil people that has taken energy from my soul, that
takes energy from my soul or that will take energy from my soul " (as fully
explained on Loss by "Transference").
4. Is the blockage created by ones own sadness and depression ? Learn
inner happiness, peace of mind and show an eagerness to live life with a
love of life.
5. Is this blockage a blockage that has always existed in ones life ? Then
this is a blockage carried over from previous lifetimes; solving the mystery
and puzzle of this blockage is known as Tikun HaGilgul Correction of Reincarnation.
This is the hardest blockage to release, but once it is broken then one is
guaranteed with a miraculous surge of energy as one has broken the dam
holding back and blocking energy into ones soul.
The way to unblock such a blockage is to pray for Divine guidance to
remove the blockage of life, and try to understand oneself, why one has a
blockage in a part of ones life. It is usually because one is continuing to
behave the same way as one did in a previous life that needs changing !
Wake Up to Reality
"Wake-up,Wake-up from your sleep" - All the above reasons for blockages
have the same end purpose - that is to WAKE a person up; Miracles can
only happen for people whom are awake and living in the reality of the
present moment.
All Problems - One Prescription WAKE UP!

The 1st step in creating "Miracles" is to be aware and AWAKE; only when
one stops dreaming through life, facing reality then a miracle starts
happening; many things that you used to do that simply waste time, waste
energy and avoid truly living life - disappear. Your body becomes more
relaxed and more spiritually attuned.
When your body and mind are at peace, there is a bridge created, they are no
longer running in two different directions - there is harmony and accord, now
one can become aware of ones true feelings, emotions and moods. Once one is
awakened miracles start to happen, this is not something one does, it is merely
a reward and gift for one whom has created inner and exterior harmony and is
awakened spiritually.
the Hebrew for "Sin" Means to

"Miss"
the original hebrew word to "sin" means to "miss"; it doesn't mean to
commit something wrong, it simply means to "miss", to be absent, to do
something without being present - this is the only sin.
Missing life, thinking you will catch up with this very unique present moment
somewhere in the future is a joke - in fact you are NOT going to catch it at all
you have missed the opportunities of this present; this creates a tension in
your mind as you don't really know what the time is now nor what you are
actually doing in this very present moment.
Ok maybe you do what you are doing - you are sitting reading this page on the
internet ;-)), but generally we as humans keep loosing time, missing the
opportunities of the present moment during the day as we dither our ways
through life. This constant tension between oscillating between past and
future, is creating one to constantly miss the present - this is inner mayhem !
When you feel you have missed - simply come back to reality in the present;
leave the past missed chances and opportunities; and start to make a change
NOW by living in the present.
We all "miss" many times, it is taken for granted; but the true key for creating
change is to wake-up and live in the present. Only when a person is living in
the real reality of the present can changes occur.
Stop dreaming , become more alert ! When dreams disappear - all miseries
disappear and then one can be ready for big changes in ones life - MIRACLES
do happen !
As soon as one lives in the present moment of time, one stops worrying about
the future, one stops pondering on the past and one faces real reality of ones
present. If this is not one needs or wants nor is it good for you in your life,
then stop pretending it will get better, stop thinking of how it used to be in the
past, and ACT now to make a change in the here-and-now present moment.
If there is a blockage then ACT NOW to remove this blockage. How much
longer are you going to put up with feeling depressed or sad about life? As
soon as you ACT NOW - then magically by DIVINE intervention of the
spiritual law of change, things will happen to bring miraculous energy into
your life to enable you to succeed.
Miracles Happen Quickly

"A Divine Miracle can come from GOD as quick as a blink of an eyelid"
As soon as you start to face reality in the present, recognizing the need to
remove a blockage in ones life and change, then miracles really do happen
very quickly; by removing the blockage allows sudden changes due to an
influx surge of physical and spiritual energy that enables changes of
physical circumstances.
However, such a miraculous energy flow can be blocked, if you cling to the
past and you think of it as a treasure then your mind will want to live it
again and again. Your future cannot be anything but your modified version
of the past just maybe a little more refined and decorated, so you MUST let
go of the past in order to allow changes to occur for your future and truly
allow miraculous changes to occur.
We have all lived many times, we are all very old souls, but we are
repeating the same patterns again and again, like staying blocked,
depressed, worrying about silly things and complaining about life; the only
changes comes when we STOP living in the past and STOP living in the
past patterns of many lifetimes.
Start by living in the present, live right here and now; the more you live in
the present, the more you will accomplish in life.
Sudden Changes
One thing is for certain - when one takes away any blockage from within
ones life and soul a change occurs; the bigger the blockage and the harder it
has been to take away will reflect in the bigger the surge of miraculous
energy in ones life. Once one has success in taking away the blockage for
eternity - the bigger the sudden change - the bigger the miracle.
This first type of Miraculous change is really a change that puts a person
back onto ones true destined pathway; the blockage in energy in ones life
has finally been taken away, thereby creating the flow of all the energy that
one should have received over many years.
We have all heard of many people who as soon as they divorce, suddenly
have good fortune, the blockage was created by being with the wrong
person. Likewise middle aged people whose dominating and destructive
parents block their pathway, very often as soon as the blocking parent dies
the children start to live a fulfilled and happy life. Some children don't even
get married until their parents die, as their parents energy can create such a
blockage over their children's lives. The undoing of such heavy blockages
truly makes a miracle in their lives, when the blockage disappears.
(2) Miracles - Real Divine Intervention

The second category of "miraculous" energy is created through a surge of
spiritual energy by being in a certain place, or by connecting with someone
spiritually important to you at a certain destined time in ones life, or by
being blessed with a surge of spiritual energy from a special person or by a
spiritual act or experience or spiritual healing, or simply as a act of Divine
intervention in ones life as a gift to your soul by GOD.
Everyday can be "A Truly Magical Day And it will be a Truly Magical
Day!"
if ONLY One Believes it will be !
Ofcourse we all know negative people who never believe in "Magic or
Miracles", those type of people who claim to be down-to-earth and
logically minded, will in fact always be very much down-to-earth for
eternity. Their souls unable to grow spiritually as they don't believe in
anything, continually reincarnating and still refusing to believe in GOD and
a world of spiritual souls. Part and parcel of living life is to change,
learning to "believe"; the highest energy of "belief" is "Belief in GOD";
however for everyone to live a wholesome life one must "believe";
otherwise one will become a very depressed, sad and lonely person.
"Not believing" is denying that anything is possible; in our lives as spiritual
souls living in a physical body we must BELIVE that everything and
anything is possible. We are mere humans living in a very small space,
whereas the Eternal Divine Creator of the whole Universe lives for eternity
and is INFINITE, anything can happen.

"A Divine Miracle can come from GOD as quick as a blink of an eyelid"
The more spiritually enlightened our souls become - the more we believe
that everything and anything is possible, however illogical this may seem;
Spiritually Enlightened people just "know" with an instinctive and
optimistic positive thought energy that anything is possible, changes can
occur in a blink of an eyelid. "GOD will always make a way where there
seems to be no way".
The difference between Pure Spiritual Miracles and Dark Magick
Be Pure with GOD

Is a reference in the Torah with a warning against using any form of dark
magic; dark magick means that one uses and forces things to happen that are
not destined to happen, for personal physical benefit in this physical world or
for destructive evil purpose.
"Miracles" from the pure spiritual world are always used to put a person
back on their true destined pathway for their soul in this world; or to heal or
fix a problematic situation in ones life for the benefit of ones soul,
"miracles" are never for the sake of physical circumstances in this physical
world only. Pure spiritual world creates miraculous surges of tremendous
energy to heal and change for the sake of spiritual growth for eternity.
Hence the , the Sefer Milchemos Hashem explains that
people who use "kabbalah" to improve their selfish physical and
materialistic lives in this world are abusing a spiritual gift from GOD, and
eventually their souls will have to pay for the misuse of manipulating
magic and miracles.
The question one should always ask oneself when asking for a "miracle"
and "change" in ones life:- "Is this miracle that i am asking for of physical
world benefit or is it for the spiritual benefit of my soul and many other
peoples souls?" and would this request for a miracle be something one
would genuinely ask to happen for someone else's life or is it something
that only you want to happen for yourself ?
Now that one knows the spiritual rule for asking for a "Miracle" that it is
for the sake of ones soul, now we shall explain how to find miraculous
energy and make a miracle as taught from Sefer Shinuyim the Book of
Changes.
How to Find this Miraculous Energy ?

Now that one is "open" to believe in the possibility of "miracles"
happening, how does one find this miraculous energy? where does one go
to find the tremendous surge of positive energy to enable amazing changes
to occur in ones life ? What are the keys to open the doors to make
miracles?
Remember the key to understanding how to make a "miracle" happen is to

know that a "miracle" is simply a powerful surge of very strong spiritual
energy that allows a large flow of positive energy into ones life to enable an
amazing "change" to happen.
Therefore the keys to making "miracles" are to know where, how and what to
do to bring a "surge" of spiritual energy into ones life :-
1. The 1st Step is to Cry

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"All the heavenly gates are closed except for the gates of tears"
That's right - the first step to opening up the heavenly gates for a miracle us
to CRY !!! It works - if you really want a change, be honest with yourself
and admit the regret in your life for the mistakes you have made and CRY
for help !!
Your eyes are the windows of your soul

Your eyes are the windows of your soul, they are your souls window to see
in this physical world, everything your soul sees is seen through your
physical eyes, and when you cry this touches, opens and cleanses your soul.
Crying indicates to spirit world that you are unhappy and need help. Most
people hold themselves back from crying and hence their problems become
seemingly insurmountable, even for those people CRYING works to open
up the spiritual connection to ask for a miracle and request a surge of
spiritual energy to enable a change in ones life.
Once one has had a good cry, one will feel a release of negative blocking
energy, in fact after a good cry, one often has an instinctive feeling to laugh
and giggle; this is a sign that spirit world of healing angels is already
coming close to strengthen you, by bringing an inner calmness into your
life, as the basis to start to make miracles is complete calmness, trust in
GOD and acceptance that everything is going to be alright according to a
Eternal DIVINE destined plan.
How Long to Cry?

Many people have asked, how long should one cry for ? and how long
should one pray for? The answer is simple, cry and pray for as long as it
takes to have ones prayers answered. Pound away, knock on the Heavenly
gates, repeat ones prayers a million times and cry as many tears as one has
inside.
It may take a few minutes, a few hours, a few days or a few weeks, but one
thing is 100% guarenteed that ones prayers will be answered and good
changes will start occuring in ones life, the bigger ones problems and the
bigger the blockage in ones life, the more help one needs then the longer
the prayers and the more tears one will need.
GOD doesn't want us to be unhappy or sad; just like a baby cries to get
attention and help, so too we cry when we need help, our tears and prayers
are not from sadness nor depression, but out of sincerity to remove
blockages in our lives that have been caused by ourselves, our souls from a
previous life or simple happen to be in our life to challenge us, testing us to
see if we will turn to GOD for Divine spiritual help to rescue us from our
troubles.
2. The Healing Angels & Spiritual

Healing
The 2nd Stage in enabling a "miracle" to happen, is to be at peace with
oneself. After one has cried "Healing Angels" will come close to bring one
a peace of mind and an inner calmness to reassure you that everything is
going to be alright. At this stage one should take deep breathes in and out;
as one breathes out - feel the badness and pain leaving ones physical body
and soul.
The purpose of "Healing Angels" and "Spiritual Healing" is to bring a
complete calmness to ones mind, body and soul; only when a person is
completely at peace with themselves can a person accept the reality of ones
life, by accepting the reality of what is happening and what has happened
in ones life then one (& ONLY then) is ready for a change and a miracle.
During this stage of preparation for a tremendous surge of energy into ones
life to create a change and miracle, one should recognize that one has a
spiritual healing within the energy of ones HANDS; by understanding the
power of ones soul in the palms of ones hands as explained in
www.yadpalmistry.com, one will feel very much reassured that everything
really will be alright. Have faith and trust that everything is going to be
alright.
Usually most people when they get to this stage of inner peace and
calmness, feel so good that they forget they really need a miracle or they
feel there is no longer an urgency for any dramatic changes or a miracle.
If genuinely that is the truth - then this is as far as most people go in
creating a "miracle"; however this could be an illusion and maybe one is
fooling oneself until the next time when it may become an "emergency" for
a miracle to happen.
So think carefully at this stage and ask yourself honestly - do you want to
continue to really change your life or are you now at peace with yourself
and accept your life the way it is ?
3.The Pathway to Really Big Changes
Once one has decided with complete inner peace and calmness that one is
ready and one still really needs big changes and miracles in ones life; one
should be aware that one is going to cross a line of "no return".
The reason why most people don't make real changes with their lives is
because they are not courageous nor trusting enough in life; people who
live with inner fears of past failures are preventing themselves from
moving forward; these fears all belong to the past, when a person takes a
jump into the future one must not look backwards nor wish to live in the
past - be courageous and jump into the future; trust in GOD and in Spiritual
world that you will be supported, guided and protected.
The biggest encouragement for a parachutist when he/she makes the jump
is to see other people are jumping and surviving, likewise in life, the
biggest encouragement we get is when we hear true stories from people
who have been brave and had the miraculous strength to make changes,
experience phenomenal miracles and transform their lives magically with a
special gift of "Divine Intervention".
The biggest transformations and changes that can occur in everyone's life,
only really happen when one gets to a point of being totally fed-up with
ones existing life; to the point where one feels one has nothing-to-loose by
jumping into a new life and into a new future.
This 3rd stage of the Miracle and big change is the stage of "take-off",
getting to the point of no-return; just like an aeroplane, once the thrust of
energy is generated in the engines, the brakes released, the plane is now
beyond the point of "no-return"; similarly one must firmly be at this stage
of "no-return" when one is needing a miracle or asking for a big change to
occur in ones life.
4. Starting the Flow of Energy of

Change and Miracles
This stage now starts the irreversible stage of drawing upon the Universal
Divine Spiritual energy to attract a tremendous strength of energy into your
soul. Remember, one must from henceforth be persistent, continue praying
and building the spiritual flow of energy within ones soul.
Don't go to sleep (well ofcourse one needs to go to sleep every night, what i
mean is don't take a sleep in the day or go to bed early), don't take a rest or
a break, don't get distracted - this is an emergency in ones life to have a
miracle - so keep focused and don't stop until one feels the changes
happening, until the moment of "take-off" in ones life.
Light 3 white candles to start a flow of spiritual energy to change ones life;
according to Sefer Tikunim this invites a strong pure spiritual connection with
ones Guardian Angels.
This is the reason why we all light candles when visiting the graves of
special spiritual souls, Rabbis and Rebbes, such as the Shotzer Rebbe in his
will who asks people to light 3 candles when they come to pray at his grave
on friday is to create a spiritual connection for a flow of spiritual energy to
help ones soul make the changes one needs to make. The stronger the
connection the bigger the flow of energy.
Strengthen Oneself Spiritually

EveryDay
Light candles and keep praying to ones "Guardian Angels" for help every
single day until one has made a break-through and changes start happening
in your life. Just be persistent and continue every moment of every day
until a change happens.
According to Sefer Shinuyim - the Book of Changes, it normally takes 7
days, possibly 30 days, in some cases where there is a weakness in ones
soul created from previous lifetimes it can take 12 months - but NEVER
longer than 12 months - provided one keeps focused and prays persistently
everyday.
Collect a group of spiritual souls to

help you
The best chance you have in succeeding to create a Divine miracle with an
enormous surge of strong spiritual and physical energy is to rally all the
spiritual souls in spiritual world that you know to help you, the more
people one knows in spirit world the more help one can ask them to help
you with, and the stronger the energy.
Just One Soul has the Key

The Book of Changes Sefer Shinuyim teaches that it is just ONE soul in
Spirit World that has the key to open the door for a DIVINE spiritual
energy to flow into your life; only you will instinctively "know" exactly
who that soul is.
The only way to find this soul whom is your spiritual key, is to think of
every single person you know that is in spirit world, start with close family
members, grandparents even great- grandparents, then with anyone you can
think of.
Suddenly you will feel an "aliveness" of spiritual energy as soon as you
have found the spiritual person whom has the key to open the door, the
thought energy is enough to make you feel "alive", this is the key for a
spiritual miracle to happen in your life and it will save you from your
sorrow and troubles.
As explained in "Guardian Angels" page this specific soul that has the key
to open the gates of flowing spiritual energy is known as ones GateKeeper
, .
5. Signs and Answers

There is no question that as soon as one prays, one will start to see signs,
answers and solutions to ones problems. It maybe in the form of a phonecall
or conversation with someone from the past or with someone new, or one will
suddenly have the intuitive thoughts to know what to do or where to go.

Making the Right Spiritual
Connections
As soon as one sees and feels the spiritual energy of "aliveness" with a
certain connection it is now your duty to strengthen the connection, by
making the strengthening the right connections that make you feel "alive"
this acts as an indication to you to follow this pathway, this will then guide
you to make the right decisions to be in the right place at the right time
with the right people.
This spiritual strengthening of nutritional energy from spiritual world is
known as Yeneeka MilMaala. This energy is the key to living
life in this world and for your spiritual soul's life for eternity. The more one
stays connected the stronger one will become and thereby create the
enormous flow of abundant energy in your life that will enable you to make
changes you need in your life.
6. Miracles are possible;

impossibilities are never possible; but
never give up on something surprising
happening !
In expecting and producing a miracle, there will be moments when a person
may feel that nothing is working, nothing is going right and nothing is
happening; this maybe because a person is asking for a miracle for one
specific really impossible thing to happen; when in fact GOD and Spirit
world can see clearly that you need something far more important.
The Key is to TRUST in GOD and TRUST that GOD and the Spirit world
know what's good for you; be open to everything and all kinds of signs;
don't be adamantly focused on one specific thing to happen; impossibilities
may never happen but one thing is for 100% certain, the moment you
connect spiritually and open up the allow-in an abundance of spiritual
energy then one will find direction in ones life.
"Expect the Unexpected Surprises"

From the moment one connects spiritually one can now "Expect the
Unexpected Surprises" - life will become more exciting, enjoyable and
happy as one feels GOD and the eternal Divine Spiritual World of souls are
looking after you with sincerity and love.
7. Never Give Up - Live in Hope of a

Miracle !
Whatever situation a person finds themselves in; however desperate and
painful - even if one is before the moment of death as the talmud says
"even if a sword is about to cut ones head off - never give up hope!"
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This means that one should reflect on the bigger picture of life, that our
existence in this physical world is just a short journey for our soul; when
the purpose of our life is complete then it is time for us to accept that we
must leave this world. There is no point of being afraid or fearful; physical
death - passing over to spirit world is something guarenteed for everyone;
the difference is for us to learn not be frightened.
By accepting this true essence of life one sees everything in a different
perspective; one is no longer afraid of death or pain as one know this
physical life is just a journey; with this feelings one magically starts to feel
"alive" and then remarkably one arrives at the ultimate spiritual stage of
"oneness" with GOD - with a constant feelings of living in hope.
Please always trust that "GOD will always make a way where there seems
to be no way". Everything we go through in life has a purpose for the
benefit for our soul and for our spiritual growth. Once we have learnt the
lessons of overcoming fear and living in hope then a flow of spiritiual
energy really does create changes and miracles in our lives.
May each and everyone have an abundance of spiritual energy in ones life
to create all the miracles one needs to improve ones spiritual soul and the
spiritual essensce of the whole world. Amen !

"The wise people shall shine as the brightness of the sky; and they shall turn
the multitudes of many people to righteousness, just like each star in the sky
shines for ever and ever"
"The Pathway To Enlightenment"
This page is part of our new second section called "THE PATHWAY" taken from Sefer Shinuyim - Book
of Changes and Sefer Tikunim - The book of Corrections , this section explains with a small key of
knowledge, one will have the ability to transform and change ones thoughts and heal ones soul. This is
the reason every person came to this earth - to CHANGE.
A Life of Harmonious Oneness , with GOD
A Life of Harmonious Oneness ,
The Highest Level of Spiritual Enlightenment is this Physical World is in

The State of Oneness with the Creator of the Universe
The highest spiritual goal for our soul to attain in this physical life is to
arrive at the highest level possible, that is a harmonious state of Oneness
, with GOD.
When one becomes so close to the source and essence of the Eternal Divine
Creator of the Universe one looses all personal individuality, ego, physical
desires and identity - at that moment one becomes at "One" with GOD.
It is instinctively natural for every human being to strive for a goal in life;
whatever and whomsoever we are in this physical life we are always
seeking to improve our lives with goals, aims and ambitions. The most
spiritually minded people are often the most ambitious as their souls are
yearning and striving to attain something so special that it is "almost"
impossible but not quite impossible.
The Perfect State of Unity with GOD
This perfect state of Oneness ,, is complete Unity with GOD and is

only attainable for short periods of time each day in this physical life; this
state is not possible for 24 hours a day, everyday.
That is because this state of Unity Oneness ,, practically means that one
is no longer physically alive in this physical world, one loses all
individuality, personal identity, with no need for anything physical
whatsoever, one is completely 100% spiritual.
This state of Oneness is ofcourse savoured for the moment when a person's
soul leaves this physical world and goes to the Eternal Light of the Spirit
World at death, however highly enlightened spiritual souls can attain this
feeling of "Oneness" and level of spirituality whilst still alive in this world
each and every day.
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"Shema Yisroel Adonai Eloheinu

Adonai Echad"
Each and everyday twice a day, in the morning and evening prayers, we
cover our eyes with our right hand, (to block out this physical world), and
say this prayer declaring our desire to be at "One with GOD". At this
moment we are praying to be elevated spiritually to be AT ONE with GOD.
With just one moment of "Oneness with GOD" in the morning and evening
ones soul will be energized to live life.
Entering the Spiritual Garden
Sefer Shinuyim the Book of Changes explains that everyone can attain this
level of Oneness with GOD which is referred in Kabbalah to entering the
Garden of Secrets - Pardes.
This level is attained when one has cleansed ones soul, mastered all the
positive aspects of ones soul, become a selfless servant and spiritual
inspirational teacher,one has brought down from spirit realms a surge of
spiritual energy in creating significant change or "miracles" and bringing
healing and changes to people who need help; at this level of spirituality of
one's soul, one is at total peace and is ready to be at "One with GOD".
Ones soul is invited and drawn into the spiritual garden where one
attains Oneness ,, complete Unity with GOD.
As with every spiritual gift, this is a gift that ones soul is given and one is
invited to be at One ,, complete Unity with GOD, this is not something
that one pushes oneself into like a gate-crasher.
Those people who try to push their way into the Garden of Secrets -
Pardes will only find their Garden of Secrets - Pardes is a false garden
orchestrated and manipulated by the souls in the earthbound state of
.
Nonetheless there are certain signs that one is arriving at the state of
Oneness in one spiritual pathway to enlightenment and that is one is full of
love and compassion for all of humanity.
Preparations for
Oneness , with GOD

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"To be Fair in Justice, Show Loving Kindness and Follow the Hidden Pathway with GOD" - Book of
Micah Chapter 6 verses 7&8. Micah means to explain that to be "At One with GOD" one must be
absolutely fair with everyone with an acceptance and understanding that everyone is created by GOD;
learn to show loving and compassionate kindness to everyone, and follow in the ways of GOD by being
incognito.
"Being Incognito "
Following the ways of GOD and being incognito in this physical world, is
probably the hardest aspect, as it means that one is practically living a
double life; being one person outwardly on the surface but inwardly being a
very deep thinking, very spiritual, very prayerful, doing so much goodness
and kindness that no one will ever know about what one has done nor
attribute it to you; to the extent that no one will ever thank or praise you for
anything, nor do you benefit from nor want nor need to benefit from
anything one has done as the only reason one does anything is for ones soul
to come closer to GOD. That's exactly what is meant by the prophet in the
book of Micah in "Being Incognito " .
All the natural beauty in this world in the trees, flowers and plants is all
created by GOD and yet none of the creations have a label saying "made by
GOD"; the Sky, Land and Seas, the Sun, Moon, Planets and Stars in this
infinite Universe are all created by GOD and not only is GOD given no
thanks nor credit by most people, but there exists a multitude of people
who deny the existence of GOD and believe everything in the Universe just
"happened" to be there !
Even so, GOD and all spiritually enlightened souls don't argue, forsake nor
disconnect with such lost souls, one simply learns to have love and
compassion that their souls should find the spiritual truth whilst alive
instead of having to wait until one leaves this physical life to see the truth.
There is no competition !
Part of becoming spiritually enlightened is to recognize that their is no

competition with each other in life, everyone can and will succeed in
attaining spiritual enlightenement individually and collectively, no group of
people or organization has the perfect right word, all the ways of all kinds
of people are correct for each way in life, we are all connected to each
other and we all have our own unique pathway for the spark of Godliness
called "a soul" within us to be able to achieve spiritual enlightenment.
Recognizing that each person has their own pathway in life is part of
becoming at One with GOD, being tolerant and accepting of everyone of
the creations of GOD in this world.

Ultimate Peace in Oneness ,
The state of Oneness , brings an ultimate peace and tranquility, ones

soul is connected with the Eternal Divine Creator of the Universe, and ones
soul will feel the inner peace and calmness. One can physically be in a
painful situation or in noisy surroundings, however nothing can distract
ones mind and thoughts as one is numb to the outside physical world, by
being 100% connected to GOD.
This state means that nothing nor anyone can disturb nor unsettle ones
inner peace. Hence one has found as promised by GOD in Genesis a utopia
- GAN EDEN - a garden of EDEN in this physical world.
May it be the will of GOD that we all find the true spiritual pathway of
enlightenment shining and radiating like the stars in the heavens above with
perfect peace and harmony to do the will of GOD, bringing all our
generation closer to the time when we will all enjoy spiritual Oneness with
GOD eternally in this physical world and in the realms of spiritual world.
Amen .
"The wise people shall shine as the brightness of the sky; and they shall turn
the multitudes of many people to righteousness, just like each star in the sky
shines for ever and ever"
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13 More Chapters Sefer Shinuyim to Come !
I am currently writing 13 more spiritually enlightening chapters for the

Book of Changes which will complete and compliment the set of teachings
i have written in "Sefer Shiuyim" which shall be online in 2008.
Latest News of Webpages - December

2007
Finally a "Site Map" for all the pages contained in the websites !
"This Months Astrological Events"
www.gilgulim.com Sefer Gilgulim, the Book of Reincarnations of Reb Chaim
Vital in English explaining all aspects of Reincarnation from ,
including "the meaning of life" and purpose of life.
The Palmistry website, www.yadpalmistry.com is now completely uploaded
and is now available online taken from Sefer , "Chochmas Yad",
"Wisdom of the knowledge of Palmistry" it explains every segment of ones
hands with the secrets to all the energies of lines, mounds and segments on
ones hand.
"Spiritual Teachers" explains the spiritual quality from Sefer Shinuyim &
Pathway to Enlightenment, the 4th Level of ones Soul "Chaya - ,", this level
of Spirituality where one acts as a channel to bring down spiritual life energy
from the realms of the spirit world to his physical world is known as "Chaya ,". This new webpage explains the purpose of ones existence when one has
arrived at this level of spiritual enlightenment is to bring down the spiritual
light to enlighten this physical world.
Void Filling explanations from "Sefer Shinuyim" of doors that open-up in

ones life when ones soul has arrived at the 4th Level of ones Soul existence
"Chaya - ," one is now on 100% committed spiritual enightened
pathway; this is the time when spiritually fulfilling opportunities will
present themselves; almost infinite number of doors open-up in ones life
that all mean further purposeful fulfilling progress for ones enlightened
Soul.
Selfless Service explains the pathway to pure idealistic selfless service to
the Divine Creator of the whole infinite Universe is to emulate the Angels
in Spirit World who do everything for us incognito; "Selfless service"
brings ones soul to the 5th Level of Soul existence in this world to , a
constant state of "Oneness - , Yechida" with GOD.
The Pathway to Enlightenment & Sefer Shinuyim - the book of
Changes are now fully complete; please see the latest very interesting pages
on "Miracles & Healing" and Oneness with GOD.
Some Special Spiritual Places

Photo Gallery # 1 Metz, France, the old Jewish cemetery.
Photo Gallery # 2 Metz Ville - France.

Photo Gallery # 3 Montreux, Lugano & Rome.
Photo Gallery # 4 Special holy places in Israel - Tiberias - Teverya.
Photo Gallery # 5 Special holy places in Israel - Jerusalem Yerushalayim,
with explanation to the everlasting pillars of and .
Photo Gallery # 6 The Cave of Machpela - Hebron - Israel, which is the
Holy Gravesite and Tombs of all our ancestors, Adam & Eve, Abraham &
Sarah, Isaac & Rivka, Jacob and Leah.
Photos Gallery #7 The Tomb Grave of Rachel in Bethlehem, and her sons
Joseph and Benjamin in Shechem and Kfar Saba. With explanation to the "red
string bracelet" for "protection".
Photos of Holy Gravesites and Tombs - Kevorim - Famous

Rabbis Spiritually Holy Gravesites and Tombs.
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www.gilgulim.com
www.famousrebbes.com
www.famousrabbis.com
www.pirkeiavos.org
www.raziel.info
www.kemaya.com
www.chidushim.com
www.midlifecrisishelp.com
www.timeforchange.info
www.yarzheit.com
www.tikunim.com
www.uziel.info
www.yadpalmistry.com
www.kavhayosher.com
www.22letters.com
www.heavensregister.com this website is written to give an

insight, knowledge and basic understanding of spiritual concepts such as
"Guardian Angels", aspects of Change including Thinking Positive,
Astrology and understanding Spiritual Rescue Work for "life after death"
lost earthbound spirits.
Rabbi Meir Baal Haness Charity a full explanation of the jewish
tradition of giving charity to poor people in the name of the soul of Reb
Meir Baal Haness, with a direct link to the genuine charity .
Please see our main Index page of our jewish spiritual websites, including
direct links into all our photo pages of Spiritually special gravesites of
Rabbis & Rebbes.
www.uziel.info A websites dedicated to the famous Rabbis Yonatan Ben
Uziel - , prayer requests to his grave - tomb in Amuka Israel
especially for single people looking for their soulmate .
Tikun Klali of Reb Nachman of Breslov , , the daily
custom explained of reciting 10 specific psalms to awaken ones guardian
angels to help one out of any difficult situation in ones life.
www.raziel.info true Jewish Astrology according to the Sefer Raziel
Hamalach, true jewish astrology believes that GOD created the planets to
give our souls the energy to help us along our journey in this world. Jewish
astrology teaches that our journey in this life begins 40 days before
conception ( known as the SPIRITUAL birthday ) and the day of
conception is our the true physical birthday, as the conception is the day
when our soul arrives in a physical form on this earth. This website has an
updated "Monthly Astrological feature".
www.kemaya.com a Kemaya is the name for Jewish Amulets - lucky
Charms . As passed down throughout the generations through books like
Raziel Hamalach and Yaaros Devash by The Rebbe Reb Yehonossan
Eibeshitz .
www.sefershinuyim.com The book Sefer Shinuyim - The book of Changes

written by Jonathan Waxman. . With deep spiritual insights in
understanding life in this world, as a journey of transition, tests and
refining our souls.
www.kavhayashar.com and www.kavhayosher.com Sefer Kav HaYosher
, the whole sefer "hand written" version from Yemen, available online.
www.tikunim.com The Principles of Sefer Tikunim - , are that
we have created an imperfect situation in our lives, through our actions,
speech and thoughts . Either we have caused irreversable situations that
have implications or have laid foundations in our lives based on deceit, lies
and dishonesty . The focus of Sefer Tikunim - , is to cleanse and
perfect the physical situation by focusing and cleansing the spiritual
healing needed on our souls.
MesillasYeshorim Mesilas Yesharim (Path of the Just). This
book is studied in all Yeshivos and is considered the finest such work ever
written. Indeed, Rabbi Yisroel Salanter, founder of the Musar movement
which stressed the study of such books on piety, said, "All the classical
works of Musar demonstrate that man must fear and love God. The Mesilas
Yesharim tells us how." This website has the complete book in Hebrew and
English translation on the same page .
The Whole Sefer Ha Zohar HaKodosh ( only in )
Kabbala . by Reb Shimon Bar Yochai .
, The Whole Sefer Milchemos Hashem ( only in
) explaining that the foundation of spiritual learning must be solid before
one can start learning kabbala, with an emphasis of prayer directly to
Hashem - the ONE GOD and not through intermediary angels or sefiros, in
some parts this book contradicts the learning of the .
Rare and special Seforim available free online in pdf format. this amazing
website has hundred of books / seforim downloadable in pdf . Many of
these books are not in print and exceedingly rare, like the Pisron Chalomos
- "Dream Interpretations" by the Mekubal - Reb Shlomo El-Muli, and Sefer
HaNefesh - explaining the relationship of the physical body to the
spiritual soul by the famous Reb Shem Tov Ibn Yosef Falaq'ira from the
12th Century .
Sefer Yetzirah, the whole book, known as the "Book of Creation"
explaining the power of the 22 hebrew letters and the power of the hebrew
language.
Parnosa - Livelihood - - - The Daily Heavenly Bread

"Manna" in wilderness Parnosa - , the specific prayers to ask for
opening up from spirit world of money and livlihood, the importance of the
power of prayer in earning money in ones life, coupled together with
physical action, allows the flow of energy in our lives.
www.midlifecrisishelp.com A new website explaining the powerful energy
of courage and strength a person is blessed with from the age of 36 until
45, coupled with the insights of wisdom and life experiences, the
"midlifecrisis" gives everyone the potential energy to change,transform and
have a "2nd chance" at life.
www.kavhayashar.com and www.kavhayosher.com Sefer Kav HaYosher
, the whole sefer "hand written" version from Yemen, available online,
and coming in Spring 2008 will include explanations in English and an
"audio" shiur.
www.yadpalmistry.com , "Chochmas Yad" The Book of "Wisdom of the
knowledge of Palmistry". This original Sefer ,.
External Websites Links

Perek Shira free download in pdf format in hebrew and english
with thanks to Reb Lazer Brody & Reb Nosson Slifkin
www.bbc.co.uk the news as reported by the BBC in London, with features
on real player to see the BBC news 24 TV channel for free.
www.jpost.com The website of the Israeli English-written newspaper the
famous "Jerusalem Post" Israel.
Israeli Music Radio

www.galeizahal.com Israeli Army Radio, this will take you straight in to
Galei Zahal Radio station on your Windows Media Player, if not then use
the Kol Israel link on the list below, is the station with more
Israeli Pop music .
www.kol-israel.com an israeli website which gives you
information of every Israeli Radio station online, also has links to all the
Israeli newspapers. We have made this direct link, as Galei Zahal is the first
radio station to have any news in Israel. It is also the only correct, precise
and informative radio station, especially when there is news in Israel

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A Time for Change

"Wake Up & Change Your Life"

1. The 7 Stages of Life

1. Infancy & Early Childhood 0 to 7 years old

Learning to survive, relying totally on the people around, copying and

2. Childhood 7 - 15 years old

As Dr Carl Jung, the eminent Swiss psychologist says inherently no person is

3. Adolescence, 15 until 21-26 years old

4. Adulthood - from adolescence until 30-45 years old

of the drastic measures we know people in mid-life experience and are

7. Old age, possibly from 30 years old on

they have committed spiritual suicide on themselves. They have chosen to

Life Changes Can Occur at Anytime

2. The 5 Stages of Life's

Explanation of Stage 3: Change Stage

This breakdown in relationships is perfectly normal, whilst a person is

3. Understanding that ALL the

Our destiny and purpose in this life is to change.

FootNotes to This Page on "Change"

The Spiritual Concepts of

The Author of The Book of Changes

The Book of Daniel & the "End of

The Pathway to Spiritual

"The Keys" - "The Chapters"

Introduction introducing the concepts of Shinuyim - Changes.

Ability to Change explains that everyone has the ability to change,

Your good friend Jonathan Waxman the writer of www.sefershinuyim.com

Introduction to the Book of Changes

The Pathway to Enlightenment

On this page we shall offer a simple guide to an enlightened spiritual

"The Key" of your life

The Way to Transform & Change

" Turn from bad and do good"

Life of Peace of Mind

Life of Trust in GOD

Conclusion and a Blessing to YOU

"The 7 Stages of Life"

1. Infancy & Early Childhood 0 to 7

2. Childhood 7 - 15 years old

As Dr Jung says inherently no person is bad or evil, it is simply their soul

3. Adolescence, 15 until 21-26 years

4. Adulthood - from adolescence until

5. The Mid Life Crisis, from 26 - 45

parent , laying foundations based on ones own personal experiences and

6. The Golden Age, from mid life

7. Old age, possibly from 30 years old

"The 5 Stages of Change"

" Wake up from your

There are 5 stages of life

"There is nothing about a caterpillar that tells you it's going to be a

represents a thing of great beauty. A butterfly completely transforms itself

The comparison of the transformation of a Caterpillar transforming into a

Stage 3: Change Stage

This influence of change is likely to have a very disruptive effect on your

Understanding that the changes in our

Our destiny and purpose in this life is to

SO WAKE UP AND CHANGE

Teaching a child to walk

1. Understanding that everyone has the inherent gift and potential to

1. Confidence, Faith & Trust

from Book of Kohelles by King Solomon chapter 1 verse 9

Likewise every stage of life one is currently experiencing, there is 100%

What are the reasons for a lack of self confidence ?

" Brainwashing "