Beruflich Dokumente
Kultur Dokumente
By Keith Ferrazzi
Chapter 1
Becoming a Member of the Club
Relationships are all there is. Everything in the universe only exists because it is
in relationship to everything else. Nothing exists in isolation. We have to stop
pretending we are individuals that go it alone.
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Margaret Wheatley
Chapter 2
Dont Keep Score
There is no such thing as a self-made man. We are made up of thousands of
others. Everyone who has ever done a kind deed for us, or spoken one word of
encouragement to us, has entered into the make-up of our character and our
thoughts, as well as our success.
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Chapter 3
Whats Your Mission
Every successful person Ive met shared, in varying degrees, a zeal for
goal setting.
The key is to make setting goals a habit. If you do that, goal setting
becomes a part of your life. If you dont, it withers and dies.
Three steps to goal setting:
o Step One: Find Your Passion
Disciplined dreamers all have one thing in common: a
mission. The mission is often risky, unconventional, and
most likely tough as hell to achieve. But it is possible.
The kind of discipline that turns a dream into a mission,
and a mission into reality, really just comes down to a
process of setting goals.
o Step Two: Putting Goals to Paper Relationship Action Plan
3 Parts to the Plan
Develop goals that will help fulfill your mission
Connect goals to the people, places and things
that will help get the job done
Determine the best way to reach out to the people
who will help you accomplish your goals
Other criteria about your goals. They must be:
In writing and specific
Believable, challenging and demanding
Next, take ACTION!
o Step Three: Create a Personal Board of Advisors
Have enlightened counselors to act as both cheerleader
and supervisor who will hold you accountable
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Chapter 4
Build It Before You Need It
Build a little community of those you love and who love you.
Mitch Albom
People who have the largest circle of contacts, mentors, and friends
know that you must reach out to others long before you need anything
at all.
The most important thing is to get to know these people as friends,
not potential customers.
Begin to create the kind of community that can help further your
career.
Those around you are far more likely to help you if they already know
and like you.
Chapter 5
The Genius of Audacity
People with a low tolerance for risk, whose behavior is guided by fear,
have a low propensity for success.
The worst that anyone can say is no. If they choose not to give their
time or their help, its their loss.
Nothing in life creates opportunity like a willingness to ask, whatever
the situation.
Creating an enriching circle of trusted relationships requires one to be
out there, in the mix, all the time.
Mustering the audacity to talk with people that dont know you often
simply comes down to balancing the fear of embarrassment against
the fear of failure. I either ask or Im not successful.
Set a goal for yourself of initiating a meeting with one new person a
week.
Encounters of the audacious kind are what successful careers are built
upon.
Chapter 6
The Networking Jerk
Chapter 9
Warming the Cold Call
Chapter 13
Follow Up or Fail
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Chapter 14
Be a Conference Commando
Turning a conference into your own turf and setting goals ahead of
time is what turns a casual conference attendance into a mission.
Is the likely return Ill get from the relationships I establish and build
equal to or greater than the price of the conference and the time I
spend there? If so, I attend. If not, I dont.
Help the Organizer (Better Yet, Be the Organizer) Call the organizer 3
months in advance and say Im really looking forward to the
conference Im willing to devote a part of my resources be it time,
creativity or connections to make this year a smash hit. How can I
help?
Better Yet, Speak giving speeches is the best way to get yourself,
your business and your ideas, heard and remembered.
Before the event, Ill scout out a nice nearby restaurant and send out
pre-invites to a private dinner that Ill host alongside the scheduled
affair.
The more active you become in playing host of your own conference
within a conference, the better youll be able at helping other people
make connections, making you a center of influence.
Know Your Targets keep a list of 3 or 4 people you would most like
to meet. Check off each person as you meet them. Beside their name
jot down what you talked about and make a note about how I am
going to contact them later.
Chapter 16
Expanding Your Circle
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Chapter 17
The Art of Small Talk
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Miscellaneous Thoughts
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