Sermon Study Guide

How to be a good listener

Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak James 1:19
1. Pray that God will give you a sincere desire to _________________
the person and be interested in their needs.
2. Listen for the persons __________________, thoughts and
emotions.
3. Dont get in an argument, jump to conclusions, or pass
______________ on the person.
4. Give indications that you are listening by:
a. Encouraging brief expressions:
Uh huh"
I see"
Right"
Oh!"
b. Non verbal acknowledgments:
Head nodding
Facial expression
Eye contact
c. Door openers:
Tell me about it."
Id like to hear what you are thinking"
Would you like to talk about it?"
Lets discuss it."
Id be interested in wha you have to say."
5. Dont __________________
6. Dont __________________
7. Dont __________________
8. See the world as they see the world, understand their paradigm,
understand how they ______________.
Sympathize with them in their trials, their heartaches, and
disappointments. This will open the way for you to help them.

Speak to them of Gods promises, pray with and for them, inspire
them with hope. Ministry of Healing, 82