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more importantly, that will be more perfect than any projects. Pressuring
myself can be very exhausting and leads only stress on my part. Even
though that is the case, I still strive for perfection despite the reality that I
already am incapable.
Thrid stage: Fear of Failure. Everything should be perfect, this is
whats been ringing in my head over and over again. If I cant make it perfect
the way I want it, I tend to lose myself and if I think Ive accomplished
something that is perfect and Ive realized that every time I compare mine to
those of the others theirs are more adequate, it becomes worse. I always
conclude that I failed. I hate the feeling of being a failure just like how I feel if
I recite and my answer is wrong. At some point of being a perfectionist, I had
already grown to fear failure.
Fourth stage: Loosing Self Confidence. Recitation in class is very
essential. Even if the instructor is reminding us that there are no right or
wrong answers, I cant seem to share my point of view. I even try to prepare
my thoughts about the lecture to be discussed before class so that I can
contribute to the discussion, but my shyness overpowers my will to recite.
What if its wrong? What will people think of me? Are they going to judge
me? Oh no, heir answers are better than mine!
Fifth stage: Insecurity. Now it comes to focusing on a small of group of
people to compare yourself with. When we were having our OJT at a firm, the
project leader of their Software Development team was so pleased to have
trainees coming from UPV. During that time, her satisfaction with our projects
is the worth of all our effort. My classmates, which are also trainees there,
were already claiming a lot of gratification from her while I was having less.
She also shows favoritism of one of us or should I say, the prettiest among us
all. Almost all of the employees near our area admires her so much, even I
do. They prefer her more than us. During that time, I am starting to doubt my
abilities of being a programmer. I also came to a point where I am not
comfortable being with them because I feel that I cant fit in.
Sixth stage: Depression. After feeling that I cant be with people and
that I cant fit in, my feeling came to an eruption. I already am blaming