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Orgasm Denial

Erotic sexual denial, also known as orgasm denial, is a sexual practice in which a
person is kept in the plateau phase of sexual arousal for an extended length of time
without being allowed to orgasm. This is sometimes practiced in association with
BDSM, and can be thought of as a more extreme version of orgasm control, which
ends in climax. The subject may either be allowed an orgasm at the end (in which
case, the orgasm is generally much stronger than normal) or denied one. An
alternative form of erotic sexual denial is the total denial of all genital stimulation. To
ensure a total denial of stimulation a couple may use a chastity device that physically
prevents touch and/or full erection.
Short-term denial practices Tease and denial
Tease and denial describes a situation where a person's genitals are stimulated until
he/she is close to the point at which orgasm would normally be inevitable. At that
point, direct stimulation of the genitals is reduced or stopped, so as to keep the
recipient on the very brink or edge of orgasm (as with orgasm control) but without
the promise of orgasm at the end. If orgasm still occurs after removal of stimulation, it
typically brings less pleasure than usual, and is considered a ruined orgasm, as
opposed to being a denied orgasm, (sometimes known as blue balls).
Alternatively (for men), the release of semen during the emission phase of ejaculation
might be prevented by some sort of constriction (blocked orgasm). Depending on
the relationship, subjects might be repeatedly teased to the point of orgasm several
times, but without actual orgasm, causing feelings of intense arousal and
psychological need.
Tie and tease
To be able to control an orgasm of a partner in such sex games, physical restraints are
commonly used. Situation involving bondage are typically called tie and tease and can
be thought of as extended tease and denial games. This practice is often an integral
part of erotic denial. It is notable that in discussions between BDSM partners,
negotiation usually focuses on the activities which may or may not be agreed to,
rather than the emotions generated by said activities (unless at an unacceptable level).
Tie and tease activities are physically as well as psychologically intense, because the
strong feelings of sexual frustration are escalated by the sensation of helplessness
induced by bondage.
Non-orgasmic ejaculation
As an alternative technique, it is said to be possible for a man to be trained to
ejaculate, but to do so without achieving orgasm. This technique requires practice and
discipline on the man's part. One key to the technique is to remove all stimulation of
the penis at the exact moment when an orgasm would otherwise be achieved; the
result is a full expulsion of semen but without the concomitant relief. According to
websites on the subject, this technique enables a man to be kept in a state of denial
indefinitely, yet maintains prostate health more thoroughly than the alternative
technique of prostate milking.

Total denial
The practice of total sexual denial is where a person is prevented from enjoying any
sexually stimulation by way of touch to the genitals. This may involve the person
being made to wear a device such as a chastity belt. Chastity belts or similar locking
devices are available for both men and women. The person may or may not be
brought to arousal through other means, depending on the situation.
Long term denial
Frequency of masturbation is determined by many factors, e.g., one's resistance to
sexual tension, hormone levels influencing sexual arousal, sexual habits, peer
influences, health and one's attitude to masturbation formed by culture. Medical
causes have also been associated with masturbation.
Different studies have found that masturbation is frequent in humans. Alfred Kinsey's
studies have shown that 92% of men and 62% of women have masturbated during
their lifespan. Similar results have been found in British national probability survey. It
was found that 95% of men and 71% of women masturbated at some point in their
lives. 73% of men and 37% of women reported masturbating in the four weeks before
their interview, while 53% of men and 18% of women reported masturbating in
previous seven days
It is widely believed that abstaining from orgasm via masturbation or sexual activities
will induce a sleeping orgasm. However the frequency of one's nocturnal emissions
has not been conclusively linked to frequency of masturbation. Widely-known sex
researcher Alfred Kinsey found There may be some correlation between the
frequencies of masturbation and the frequencies of nocturnal dreams. In general the
males who have the highest frequencies of nocturnal emissions may have somewhat
lower rates of masturbation. Some of these males credit the frequent emissions to the
fact that they do not masturbate; but it is just as likely that the reverse relationship is
true, namely, that they do not masturbate because they have frequent emissions.For
women the correlation is also short of conclusive; According to Kinsey's findings,
women who suddenly lost the opportunity for several coital orgasms per week had
only a few more orgasms in their sleep per year.
Subjects can be kept in denial indefinitely (periods around 2 to 4 weeks each time are
often quoted as being safe subject to proper skincare and regular checking). Many,
however, suggest that this is very subjective, and often informally suggest a shorter
period such as 3 days or a week between release instead especially when starting.
Beyond that, the long term consequences for denial are unclear, although there are
negative effects implied by a recent Australian study which found that frequent
masturbation may help prevent prostate cancer in men.
Most sources seem to agree that the body will spontaneously reabsorb sperm, but that
the prostate fluids should be removed fully and regularly, if not through orgasm then
via internal prostatic massage (known as prostatic milking) to reduce the risk of
prostate cancer and inflammation, muscular atrophy, (orgasm involves the prostate
muscles) or tissue damage to the prostate. It is also said that if erection is inhibited for

long periods the skin of the penis becomes less elastic which may cause pain or other
difficulty in the future.
Normally, during sexual arousal, ejaculatory fluid accumulates in the male accessory
sex glands - the seminal vesicles, the prostate, and the bulbourethral glands (or
Cowper's gland) - backing up behind valves in the ejaculatory ducts. When fluid
pressure reaches a high enough threshold, the valves open and the urethral bulb fills,
triggering the ejaculatory reflex and muscular contractions of orgasm, which empties
the glands.
Without orgasm, prostate milking may be used to help flush out the buildup of toxins
which accumulate within the prostate gland. This can be done by allowing ejaculation
without orgasm. As most men need penile stimulation to reach the latter, this milking
can be done without risk of orgasm.
Ruined orgasm
A ruined orgasm is a technique usually used by a woman (the stimulator) who is
dominating a man (the stimulated) during the sexual practice of orgasm denial. The
object of orgasm denial is to deny the male an orgasm over a long period of time or to
allow him to orgasm but make it unsatisfactory, awkward or even painful to
experience therefore asserting the dominant position of the female in the sexual
relationship.
This technique allows the physical release of sexual climax while denying or
minimizing the satisfaction and pleasure associated with orgasm. With men, the man
is stimulated to the moment that ejaculation is inevitable. Stimulation is then stopped
by breaking all physical contact with the genitals the moment orgasm begins (i.e. past
the edge). Alternatively, the stimulator may bring up decidedly non-erotic or
nonsexual topics during the orgasm, inflicting non-erotic pain, or stimulating the
submissive with an unpleasant smell.
Another technique is to interfere with the ejaculation by some sort of constriction.
Ruined orgasms expanded to include such methods as Thumbing, Palming, Dictating,
Thwacking and several more unpleasant ways for an ejaculation to be disrupted or
ruined. Many of these methods are merely disruptive physical actions that come
after psychological or emotional trickery has taken place on the part of the dominant
female. Deception can play a key role in the effectiveness of a ruined orgasm. When
performed on a man, this practice allows the release of seminal fluid and physical
sexual release, but keeps the man in a state of arousal because the orgasm is never
psychologically actualized. Because stimulation is not continued through the
orgasm, that man is left still in a state of want, which allows continued stimulation
after a very brief period, unlike after the actualized or completed orgasm which may
require a considerably longer refractory period.
Erotic denial as a form of control
Erotic sexual denial, in various forms, is sometimes associated with creating a state of
sexual need leading to a more pliable or agreeable outlook by the denied party.

Orgasm denial practices can allow dominant males and females to exercise control
and training over a highly intimate and psychologically significant part of their
partners' lives. This can extend to tolerance of increased stimulation, and training both
to hold back orgasm, or to orgasm on command. This technique gives the dominant
partner enjoyable feelings of control and power.
Orgasm denial as a means of control is widely practiced activity within erotic
feminization. The dominant will often deny the sissy (the submissive male) sexual
release in order to maintain a heightened state or sexual arousal, or as a means to
further emasculate and humiliate the submissive.