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Mary Thompson (Max)

Mr. Campbell
UWRT 1103
March 28. 2015
Distortion of the F Word: Gender Equality v. Anti-Man
Introduction:
In the early days of the feminist movement, the meaning of the word feminism
became distorted. Through aggressive feminists in the past that were fighting to take
away rights from men, a strong anti-male bias attached itself to the word feminism.
However, as time has passed the movement has evolved and so have feminists.
Feminism has never meant anti-male. Feminism is defined as the advocacy of
women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men. It is
not feminists goals to take power away from men; they simply want to give equal
rights to women.
According to the Institute for Womens Policy Research, in the United States,
women make only $0.78 to every dollar a man makes. They are performing the same
job but just because they are female they are automatically paid 22 cents less than a
man. I have personal experience with this matter, which caused me to become
involved in the feminist movement. I was hired as a cashier my sophomore year of
high school at $7.50/hour. I started dating one of my male coworkers; he was hired at
$7.75/hour for the same job even though I had past experience and he did not. My
male friends made the same wage while my female friends made the wage I received.
We were hired at a lower wage just because I was a woman. I worked harder, I

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worked longer, and I proved myself as a trustworthy employee; however, every single
woman made $0.25 less than the men.
I do not wish to take away their right to make money. I simply want, no, I
simply demand the same opportunities and rights as him. I demand the right to make
the same wage for the same job. I demand to be judged on individual achievements,
not gender. I demand a change. This is what feminists are fighting for. We want the
same rights that men have given themselves since the beginning of time but have
always denied women. If I am to give birth to a man, I demand to have the same
rights as him.
Through my research I will prove that feminists are not anti-man, they are pro
gender equality. I will provide information about the modern feminist agenda. I will
closely examine the stigma associated with feminism and what is being done to break
it. I will use books, websites, magazines, speeches, and scholarly articles to explore
and provide you with the information you will need to truly understand feminism. I
will hopefully prove to you along the way why everyone should be a feminist.
The History of Feminism:
There are considered to be three waves of feminism; we are currently in the
third wave. In order to understand feminism we first need to understand the roots
from which it grew.
The first wave of feminism started in the late 19th and early 20th centuries. It
emerged through urban industrialism and socialist politics according to Martha
Rampton with Pacific University. The original focus was to obtain womens suffrage.
The second wave began in the 1960s through the protests of the Vietnam War and the

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Civil Rights Movement. This agenda included the passing of the Equal Rights
Amendment that guaranteed equality regardless of gender. The third wave began in
the 1990s and is currently referred to as the post-modern feminist movement. This
wave has expanded globally through cultures and is starting to focus on men as well.
They have a stance of gender equality and want to make it clear they are not antiman. The are fighting for equal pay, reproductive rights for women, and the
significance of gender equality and the inclusion of men. Rampton sums it up by
saying the third wave of feminism breaks boundaries.
Modern Feminists:
Debora Spar, author of Wonder Women: Sex, Power, and the Quest for
Perfection, presents the agenda of modern feminists in her interview with National
Public Radio. As a graduate of Harvard Business School and the president of Barnard
College she understands what it is like to claw your way to the top in a mans world.
She mainly focuses on the pressure on young women to be everything: to work, have
a family, and balance a successful personal life. She gives this expectation reliability
as she had the pressure on her shoulders as well. Spar talks about the need for more
women in leadership positions and political equality. This is an example of a
successful woman, who loves men, and is fighting for gender equality.
Marisa Meltzer parallels with Spar. She is an accomplished author of two
books and has had work regularly published in The Wall Street Journal, Slate, Elle,
Vogue and The New York Times. Her insight into the subject of feminism provides a
true realistic aspect of current feminists with claims that are relevant to todays youth.
Her article in The New York Times titled Who is a Feminist Now? examines role

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models for young girls and if they truly know the meaning of feminism. She began
with an interview with rising actress Shailene Woodley who had been asked if she
considered herself a feminist. Her response was No, because I love men, and I think
the idea of raise women to power, take the men away from the power is never going
to work. Meltzer goes on to describe how young girls dont really know what the
word feminism means or stands for. While older celebrities such as Beyonc and
Lena Dunham embrace the word, younger celebrities such as Woodley and Taylor
Swift steer clear of the word due to the attached stigma. Most, like Woodley, dont
even know the real meaning. Feminism is not something that is often taught in school.
Most people find the subject uncomfortable to talk about. Men feel that if they bring
up the subject they might say something offensive and women feel they might say
something that disintegrates their claims. In order to stop the stigma we have to talk
about it. We have to force this history into the light and learn every aspect of this
controversial word in order to truly understand its meaning. We have to ask questions,
do research, and not be afraid to feel uncomfortable. We have to embrace feminism
head out in order to achieve gender equality.
HeForShe Campaign:
On September 20th, 2014 famous actress, Brown graduate, and ambassador
of UN Women, Emma Watson cordially invited men to join the fight for gender
equality. The HeForShe campaign she was promoting extended a hand to the male
population to join the fight for gender equality, something long overdue. Watson
gracefully pointed out the struggles for men such as showing emotion and having
rights to their children. She focused on the fact that there are two sides to this battle

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and we have to fight together in order to obtain absolute equality for the genders.
Throughout her moving speech Watson pointed out that unfortunately "no
country in the world can yet say they have achieved gender equality."
Watson not only talked of the struggles for women in todays society but also
the social struggles for men. As many of use have witnessed boys are taught to be
strong, not cry, and not show emotion, for the fear that it may make them look weak.
She was one of the first women to focus this battle on men. We dont often talk
about men being imprisoned by gender stereotypes but I can see that that they are and
that when they are free, things will change for women as a natural consequence.
(Watson, 2014) Gender equality is something that not only affects women; Watson
has been one of the first to focus on this fact. This shows first hand that feminists are
not only concerned for their own rights, they are concerned for the rights of their
fellow citizens, men and women alike.
Since her speech, the HeForShe campaign sign has been seen globally. Steve
Carrell tweeted a picture of him wearing HeForShe cufflinks at the Oscars. Harry
Styles, famous boy band singer, instagramed a picture of him holding up the
#HeForShe sign, along with many other male celebrities.
Feminist Propaganda:
Feminists grasped the worlds attention in this controversial commercial that
used young girls cussing to express the real problems still evident in the world
concerning women. In this case, even bad publicity was good publicity. The f-bombs
dropped by these girls found its way to the top of Twitter, Tumblr, Facebook, and
YouTube. It was talked about on The View, Ellen, and almost every news outlet. It

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served its purpose; to make people listen. Whether you agree or disagree with the way
they went about publicizing this issue, you can't argue with the facts that it states. The
girls stood there and said that 1 in 5 women will be raped, then counted five of them
and asked who it would be. This made the problem real because these were young
girls that you aren't helping by ignoring the problem. They talked about unequal pay
and opportunities, one of the main issues facing American women today.
The real question is though, will this actually change anything or give people
another reason to turn away from feminism.
On the opposite end of the feminist movement, Always released this
commercial this past super bowl and captured everyones hearts and attention. It
asked young women who had passed puberty to fight, run, and throw like a girl.
Then they asked young girls who hadn't hit puberty to do the same. The results were
shocking. They proved that through puberty and social media a girls view of herself
can diminish and wither away. They believe that they are weak because that is what
society tells them. They believe they can't play sports because it will make them look
unattractive or "too-manly". Feminists goals consist of changing this environment for
young girls; they want to make it so girls can grow up in a safe and supportive
environment. They want to raise a new group of feminists who are ready to tackle and
fight for women's rights, gender equality, and other social issues.
This campaign made by UN Women was also broadcasted at the Super
Bowl. They showed a series of pictures like this with womens mouths covered by
Google searches of women cannot be, women should, and women need to.
They were true accounts of what answers first appeared in the search bar; it was

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horrifying. It reflected the views of close-minded individuals still interested in living
in the 15th Century. This is yet another campaign to force people to realize the
discrimination women still face. For the purpose of this project I typed in the same
words but for men. Below are screenshots of my results.
This is not just a matter of womens discrimination, but men's as well. These
results show the idea that men need to stand up and man up. They shouldn't express
their emotions or cry. Men should drink beer and do manly things.
We Should All Be Feminists:
Recently while shelving books at my part time job I came across Chimamanda
Ngozi Adichi's book We Should All Be Feminists. Adichi is a well-known Nigerian
author and advocate for gender equality and womens rights. This book was originally
a TedTalk she gave back in April of 2013. She told a few stories of her childhood and
growing up in Nigeria. She talked about the first boy that called her a feminist, and
meant it as an insult. She discussed how a man told her that her novel was feminist
and that she should "never call [herself] a feminist, since feminists are women who
are unhappy because they cannot find husbands." After much criticism she finally had
to call herself a "Happy African Feminist Who Does Not Hate Men and Who Like to
Wear Lip Gloss and High Heels for Herself and Not for Men."
One of my favorite parts about her speech was when she talked about how it
made sense for men to rule a thousand years ago because whoever was the strongest
ruled. Since men have testosterone they are able to gain more muscle (with
exceptions.) In today's world however, we have iPhones, we are not cavemen. You do
not rule based on how strong you are, you rule based on your intelligence, your

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creativity, and innovation. There is no hormone to control that so women are just as
capable to possess these qualities as men. Therefore, women should have the same
rights and should be able to hold the same positions.
She shared that people have told her to not use the word feminist, simply say
you are a "believer in human rights." Her response: to choose to use the vague
expression human rights is to deny any particular problem or gender." Her opinion is
that feminism is the word to describe what we have to fight for and there should be no
exceptions to that. People should embrace the true meaning of feminism and men
should join the fight as well.
Looking Ahead:
Gender equality is a pressing matter that must be achieved for the sake of our
future and the generation beyond ours. Feminists are the means to achieving this
ideal; we cannot ignore them, we cannot fight them, we must join them. In order to
declare this world as equal between the genders, men and women must join together.
They must destroy the anti-male stigma attached to feminism and create a strong
front. Through my research I hope to have not only informed you of the problems
facing feminists, I hope to have influenced the way you think of them. I hope I have
convinced you to become a feminist. Your daughters, sisters, and mother deserve
equal pay; they deserve the ability to hold a political position without being called
incompetent. Your sons deserve to be allowed to express their emotions freely without
discrimination; they deserve the same rights to their children as mothers do. The
battle of the sexes has to cease. Abilities should not be based on your gender but on

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your personality, your creativity, and your passions. Feminism is not anti-man; it is
pro gender equality.

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Works Cited
Adichie, Chimamanda Ngozi. We Should All Be Feminists. Vintage, 2014. Print.
Always #LikeAGirl. 2014. Film.
Potty-Mouthed Princesses Drop F-Bombs for Feminism. 2014. Film.
Hegewisch, Ariane. "Pay Equity & Discrimination." Institute for Women's Policy
Research. IWPR, 1 Jan. 2013. Web. 29 Mar. 2015.
McRobbie, Angela. Beyond Post-Feminism. Juncture 179-84. IPPR. 1 Sept. 2013.
Web. 8 Mar. 2015.
Meltzer, Marisa. Who Is a Feminist Now? The New York Times. nytimes.com. 21
May. 2014. Web. 8 Mar. 2015.
Rampton, Martha. "The Three Waves of Feminism." Pacific University Oregon.
Pacific University, 23 Oct. 2014. Web. 29 Mar. 2015.
Spar, Debora. Interview by Terry Gross. Todays Wonder Women Must Reframe
Feminism. National Public Radio, 16 Sept. 2013. NPR.org. Web. 8 Mar.
2015.
Watson, Emma. "Gender Equality Is Your Issue Too." UN Women. UN Women, 4
Sept. 2014. Web. 8 Mar. 2015.

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