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In this set we will go thru, ALL that you need to know to feel competent
and confident in approaching any woman in any situation.

The McDonald's example! [1:10] [5] {0}

Cathaxis [1:45] [9] {0}
CATHEXIS: 1. Concentration or investment of
mental or emotional energy on one particular
person, idea, or object - 2. Charge of psychic
energy so invested

The shaolin monks example [2:30] [0] {0}

The monks discipline [3:43][9] {0}
Poke at this board for hundreds of days, poke it, and poke it,
and poke it more each day... and more and more... and each
and every day keep at it, until one day, you can just poke at
the board and create a hole in it!!
And then next time you do it in 50 days, and then in 20 days,
then in maybe just 5 strokes!
TRACK 2 - The five phases of an approacher [0:00] [9] {0}

! Phase 1 Approacher - totally anxious,

takes a miracle (or alcohol) to approach
women - Need to do some heavy work
on self-image/confidence . (Review Secrets
of the Alpha Man.) Approach
carefully, avoid cold contacts until your
confidence is raised.
! Phase 2 Approacher - some anxiety,
can eventually take action, but still
pretty nervous. Stay in a warm market
until you improve to a Phase 3-5. Approach
regularly, memorize approaches
and conversational tools.
! Phase 3 Approacher - Minimal anxiety,
but needs more guidance in technical
ability. Usually approaches, but occasionally
reluctant. Work on your skills,
take inventory. Is it a lack of ability?
Find your weakness and develop it into
your strength.

"Has minimal anxiety, but needs more guidance and

technical ability. This approacher should work on his skills,
he should take a cold-hearted look at his skills. Just find the
skills and develop them. And we will pinpoint those in this
set"
! Phase 4 Approacher - minimal anxiety,
has great game, enjoys the approach,
will approach "convenient" targets.
Works in all markets. Watch out
for burnout.
! Phase 5 Approacher - No anxiety,
great game, approaches women everywhere
possible, including going way out
of his way to meet them. No fear! Again,
work all markets, but watch out for

burnout.

[4:55] THE GOAL (make it like putting on the socks in the

morning), you want your CNS to feel the same?
TRACK 3 A.I.M intro [0:00] [2] {0}

A.I.M. = Approach Introduction Model

Study The Rules of Engagement
TRACK 4 A.I.M no rejection [0:00] [7] {9}
2) Accept that there is no such thing as rejection

[0:30] [2] {0} Everything you think is just based on how you
think about it, rollercoaster metaphor
TRACK 5 Well groomed, clothed, fit, positive [0:00] [7] {9}
3) Get yourself together. Exercise, eat right.
Accept only a healthy, positive lifestyle.
She will be on her guard against the guys who don't have these things
taken care of.

TRACK 6 Well groomed, clothed, fit, positive [0:00] [10] {9}

1) Prepare - Prepare - Prepare
You MUST do some preparation before you do your approaches. Now it
is possible to go out and just do it cold, spontaneuous and right off the
cuff... that is the goal you're aiming for. But chances are right now you
have to do some memorization, getting some material under your belt,
before you feel confident going into a situation.
- Adapt the material to YOU, to own this stuff, change the wording
slightly so you can deliver it
- The best approaches are the ones you invent based on your solid
understanding of technique you get in this model

- Like learning a language, or kung fu... you learn moves and more
moves and more moves (words), until at one point you can just
combine them spontaneously!

- Or that sucessfull people are those that are the most flexible,
they have the most alternative STUFF in their heads, ways of
doing things etc... by learning as many of these as possible
(mastering them), you will be able to eventually just wing it on
the spot (like learning pebbles?)

- READ pop-culture.
TRACK 7 Rapport, trust, comfort [3] {x}
[1:39] ultimate goal, improvisation... [10] {9}
15) Improvisation is your ultimate goal. You
will be a Level 4 or 5 approacher when you
have memorized the material given, invented
your own, honed your presentation,
and can invent things on the fly.

TRACK 8 Calibration [4] {4}

- You must become aware
- But not hyper-sensitive
- Just situationally aware
6) Calibrate: You must be attuned to her
both mentally and physically. Not Hyperattentive!
But pay attention to signals. Adjust
as necessary.

TRACK 9 the right attitude [0:00] [5] {9}

4) Get your head on straight. The right attitude
is absolutely critical to your development.
"99% of the time when she "rejects" you, or is "unresponsive", its
because of HER, and not you, coz both me and you know, if she really
knew you, she'd love you. Most of the time unfortunately we ASSume
it's US. DO REMEMBER the 99+% percentage, it's USSUALY because of
the man making a flawed approach, and the woman making a faulty
ASSumption based on it. That's why it's important to have a good
grasp of how you present yourself :)

If, you really believe that the woman who is not showing
interest in you is just making a faulty and subjective
interpretation then it's easy to just adjust your presentation!!

[2:51] 100 years ago analogy [7] {9}

TRACK 10 no one can make you feel inferrior [0:00] [8] {2}
FROM NOW ON YOU DON'T GRANT THAT PERMISSION!
TRACK 11 growing pains are NECCESSARY [0:00] [8] {2}
"They accepted that there will be pain involved in learning
this, and ACCEPTED it, and did it anyway"
TRACK 12 QUALIFY [0:00] [10] {2}
5) Qualify - Qualify - Qualify - You are the
one choosing, not her. Remember, No one
can make you feel inferior without your
permission!
"When things aren't going the way YOU want them to, you
need to cut it of"

"Style: Pleasure meeting you"

~ I think this is a GREAT crutch to give to guys, especially as
having a solution of preparing (when doing mental
preparations for sarging), by visualizing [mckenaa/deangelo
7reps style] that when a girl is extremely bitchy (or you
approach very creepily) that you go pleasure meeting you
bitch -boompleasure meeting you ESPECIALLY since
guys are always running around asking "how do I smack her
down, when she insults me" "how do I end up the victor if
she rejects me?" "give me a COMEBACK to put her down",
"DavidX: Guys are going in expecting to be insulted it's
like, they're going in ready to defend themselves, before
they've even been attacked" well... the solution to AFC's
biggest AA nightmare: "pleasure meeting you" with a fun

smile (pickup101 has great examples of reacting to bitchy

sets in a very fun, positive attitude, it's a good attitude to
take for the "pleasure meeting you")... you do this even if
she has her back turned and isn't listening to you "pleasure
meeting you" ~
TRACK 13 direct vs. indirect [0:00] [2] {2}
19) Indirect approaches are good for lower
self-confidence. They are low-risk, low yield.
Direct approaches are good for higher selfconfidence.
They are high-risk, high yield.

Both are essential to know.

EVEN in an indirect approach, SHE KNOWS that you like her.
She has a RADAR that picks it up. BUT THAT IS OK! Since
she's open to the approach of any man she's interested in.
She just needs time to figure out if you're of any interest to
her.
TRACK 14 Courage [0:00] [2] {2}
TRACK 15 It's not what you say, but how [0:00] [2] {2}
7) Its not what you say but how you say it.

[5] 2:02 tonality examples

TRACK 16 THE PAIN BARRIER!! [0:00] [2] {2}
TRACK 17 approach-ability is almost entirely based on beliefsystems [0:00] [2] {x} ~ Look at McKenna's positivity for an
extremely good explanation of belief systems, or major mark's
renegade seminar for a lot of KJ-ing on belief systems : ) ~

TRACK 18 Introvert vs. extrovert [0:00] [2] {4}

Basically explains how the main difference between introverts and
extroverts isn't in their social skills. It's in how they re-charger their
batteries. You can be a very social and charismatic introvert for

example The difference is that introverts need alone-time (reading a

book, listening to music)to relax from socializing, so you need to
balance out.
Just make sure to balance it out with the right amount of alone-time to
recharge your batteries!! That's crucial in doing all of this, you want to
avoid burnout ~burnout SUCKS! coz in the end you end up taking
MORE time to progress, when you do too much approaching work, and
then spend time in burned-out mode... it suxxors :D~
22) Recharge your batteries! Avoid burnout
by balancing your approaching with other
activities, but ideally weave the A.I.M.
model into everything you do. Approaching
women is an inter-woven part of your life,
not a separate part.

TRACK 19 Chemistry is a perception [0:00] [9] {4}

10) Chemistry is a perception. You are in
control of the experience and interaction. If
you keep the approach smooth, she will assume
you have chemistry.

HSV social pressure manipulation [10]

TRACK 20 Wingman notes [0:00] [9] {4}
I recommend for starters to work with a wing-man, since going solo
requires a different and much harder skill-set, and a wingman gives
you a little bit of that social proof.
You will be associated to the qualities of your wingman (perception by
association to)...

TRACK 21 Be fluid [0:00] [9] {4}

9) Stay flexible and fluid. You must be like
water, flowing and adjusting to the social
dynamics of the situations you find yourself
in.

TRACK 22 The powerfull vibe [0:00] [9] {4}

Do breathing excercises etc...

TRACK 23 affirmations [0:00] [3] {3}

14) The best way to get confident in approaching
women is to approach women
and get past the fear. Affirmations arent a
good substitute.

TRACK 24 male panic syndrome [0:00] [7] {3}

It's the point where she seems to gather all the power in the
conversation and you tend to panic out and lose your state.

TRACK 25 Where can I meet nice guys!?!? [0:00] [9] {3}

Chances are that she DOES want you to introduce yourself to her!

i'll give ANY woman a chance!

TRACK 26 You have to make approaching FUN for you! [0:00]
[10] {9}
You have to condition into your CNS a feeling, an anchor of having fun
with approaching, that's what you want to associate with this. You don't
want to associate pain, or boredom, or (do I have to.... blah) to the
approaching thing.
Your CNS is designed to avoid pain, and seek PLEASURE. You must
associate pleasure to approaching!

TRACK 2-1 HER body language [0:00] [3] {8}

- It's not do or die (it shouldn't determine absolutely whether to
-

approach her or not)

Your attitude should not be that of being shot-down, it should be
of being testing women if they're the right one, she disqualified
herself

- Alot of BL signs are vague and ambious and can't be trusted or

relied upon (some of them are true, but most are vague), and
anyway most women will have a somewhat closed bodylanguage at
first, it's expected and normal
- Look at open vs. closed body-language

- Guys' closed body-language (holding a drink in front of yourself)

THE KEY: Not looking at body-language as it is, but CHANGES in bodylanguage is what you need to look at!
What is the CHANGE, if it goes to extremely closed, to somewhat
closed, that's progress. EVEN if you're not getting those super duper
she's infatuated USS signs. You might not get the hair flip or the palm
flashing or whatever... Look at the DELTA, the CHANGE, not the
absolutes

- This is what we call "cracking the nut", each women is a little

rough on the outside on the beginning, and you need to open her
up a bit to reveal to soft inside within. This can be cracked in
every girl, even the bitchiest girl, infact the bitchiest ones are the
easiest to crack as it's a simple defence mechanism... when girls
act like bitches they really have a very vulnerable part they're
trying to not expose, so they cover up with this defense
mechanism
We're applying social pressure to crack the nut
AGAIN, you're using BL as a barometer, and not as sign of
whether you should go and talk to her

12) Read her body language, but do not

get caught up in looking for signs to progress.
Every woman is nervous and slightly
closed when you first meet her, so its hard
to read anything for certain.

TRACK 2-2 Reading people's energy [0:00] [2] {2}

It's not do or die (it shouldn't determine absolutely whether to
approach her or not
Stay out of your head (hypnotica)

TRACK 2-3 Body-language, trust your instinct [0:00] [3] {3}

If you are calm, cool and collected, you will pick up on this naturally.
If it feels like she's closing up to you, chances are she is, BUT DON't
REACT to it! Just like driving into a skid on an icy road, you don't
SWERVE out in the opposite direction, but you slow down and drive
thru it slowly, and then redirect.

~Or Swinggcat (and Style)'s changing of body-language (wait no, you

look kinda better like this [uncrosses their arms]) ~
TRACK 2-4 Look at her eyes!!! [0:00] [10] {8}
If you are calm, cool and collected, you will pick up on this naturally.
If it feels like she's closing

TRACK 2-5 Look at her lips!!! [0:00] [8] {3}

- How to kiss
TRACK 2-6 Body aligment [0:00] [3] {7}
- Is she atleast facing you
- Is she leaning in
TRACK 2-7 Breasts display [0:00] [3] {8}
- IS she pushing her breasts out!!
- If she is showing any cleavage it's almost certain she's trying to
attract a man

TRACK 2-8 Displaying palms, forearms [0:00] [3] {8}

- Barometer
- Why palm reading is usefull, it get her to open the hand
TRACK 2-9 Her hair, watch it [0:00] [3] {8}
- Tilting head
- Or any action where she displays more of her hair
TRACK 2-10 Mouth covering [0:00] [2] {3}
- Good sign (shy action)
TRACK 2-11 WC going [0:00] [2] {6}
- Good sign if she comes back with anything changed in her
appearance (makeup, hair, whatever)

TRACK 2-12 What she does with arms [0:00] [2] {6}
- Is she playing with toys
- Is she touching her arm
None of these is a clue on its OWN, look for clusters.

GENERALLY, if she's talking to you (engaged), and you feel the vibe
as being positive, she's atleast somewhat interested. You need to
escalate and keep the interaction moving forward. Unless she
displays clear signs that it needs to end definitively.
TRACK 2-13 Most important IOI [0:00] [2] {6}
- Touching you, does she touch you, does she lean onto you, does she
brush lint off of you
- If she play-hits you in any way (women who aren't interested don't do
this)

TRACK 2-14 IODs [0:00] [7] {6}

[1:35] When IODs happen [9] {9}
TRACK 2-15 Closing body-language [0:00] [3] {4}
- If she suddenly crosses her arms out of nowhere, you can guess
-

she got very uncomfortable all of a sudden

Closed legs are ok, it's normal, and if she actually opens them, or
opens, closes them all the time (that's a VERY good sign)

TRACK 2-15 Hanging, dangling shoe [0:00] [2] {2}

TRACK 2-16 Suddenly looking up and to the side [0:00] [4] {1}
TRACK 2-17 Proximics [0:00] [1] {1}
How close we stand to people, walls etc...
There are 4 distance zones (intimate, friendly, social, public)
The importance is in how close she comes to you, and how close she
lets you come

Just remember to not go too far, too fast

TRACK 2-18 The pass-by!!! [0:00] [1] {6}

When she shows up near to you more than once. It's one of the best
ones!! IT will happen alot in bookstores, supermarkets, public areas.

TRACK 2-19 Mirroring BS [0:00] [1] {1}

Blah blah, whatever...

TRACK 2-20 The point is [0:00] [1] {10}

Don't take either one as a green or red light, you want to perssist for as
long as it takes to notice if you want to term this woman as qualified or
not.
THE IMPORTANT PART IS THE DELTA, how does it change, notice the
change, not the absolutes.

TRACK 2-21 The approach killers [0:00] [1] {3}

-

Any bragging (dropping names etc...)

Sexual innuendo (as a starter)

Avoid compliments as openers, as ussually they aren't trusted, they think you must be
lying or trying to bribe them, they think it's false
Oggling other women
You push too far, too early (push for a date or whatever, in a unnatural manner)

TRACK 2-22 Excercise to get you ready intro [0:00] [7] {3}
13) Use all the exercises from the audio.
Theyre tried and tested.

TRACK 2-23 The qualifier VIBE, BL [0:00] [10] {5}

TRACK 2-24 Socialise with everyone! SUPERsocialize [0:00]
[10] {10}
TRACK 2-25 Sign up for as much as POSSIBLE [0:00] [3] {10}
Dancing class
HiFive

TRACK 2-26 Do people-watching [0:00] [8] {6}

Just go and observe how different people's BL works for them
Look at how people interact

TRACK 2-27 "you" is a fluid concept [0:00] [3] {6}

You can be just as "james bond", as james bond! It was afterall just
some actors PLAYING him on the screen, it was an act. It was a way of
being, acting. You can do the same.
When you go to the mirror (looking at the new clothes you bought),
and saying "oh wow this isn't me", remember NO, that is YOU, since
"you" is fluid process , it's whom you choose to be!

TRACK 2-28 You can remove 95% of your mental anxiety by

just imagining a certain social situation [0:00] [10] {6}
TRACK 2-29 Convo excercises [0:00] [ ] {2}
TRACK 2-30 What drives/motivates you [0:00] [3] {6}
You need to have a bigger cause, a bigger goal in mind (than just
approaching for the sake of approaching)

TRACK 2-31 KEEP a journal!!! [0:00] [10] {6}

21) Keep a journal and track your results.
The guys who get the most success in life
are the ones that are willing to track their
effort, sharpen their skills, and look unflinchingly
at their own performance to improve.
ANALYZE your PATTERNS! :)

TRACK 2-32 Opening ritual [0:00] [2] {2}

[1:29] Da ritual! [9] {9}
TRACK 2-33 The centerfold excercise [0:00] [2] {2}

You take a playboy centerfold and for a good 2-3 minutes just look her
into the eyes, without ever looking at the body, and then leave her,
without ever having looked at the body! :)

TRACK 2-34 Tongue Twister Excercises [0:00] [2] {2}

TRACK 2-35 Stay Calm Excercise [0:00] [9] {2}
TRACK 3-1 A.I.M Intro [0:00] [2] {2}
A specific model you can follow to make sure that each approach is
consistent and most effective.
- Determine who you gonna walk up to
- Engage
- DisEngage

TRACK 3-2 T.E.D Intro [0:00] [2] {2}

[1:16] Direct vs. indirect [4] {5}
Are you gonna be direct or indirect?
You should use both of them.
For newbies the suggestion is always to go indirect.
Indirect = asking for the time, asking if someone has arrived at the
party
ALOT of guys think it's black or white, you either do one or the other
When women are more sensitive (such situations), indirect is better
-For direct:
She can get extremely shy and close up not knowing what to do
or she can put up a bitch shiled, both are to test whether you are
as strong/confident as you portray yourself to be
It works better when you can pull off direct
Start off:
with more general, and broader, universal openers
until you are able to tailor it to the enviroment

[5:44] determine your angle of approach [2] {4}

- Look at her body-language to see how open she'll potentially be

to the approach (like a woman who is running towards a cab in

an attempt to stop it, with hands grasping full of huge bulky
shopping bags)
There are logically women who can't be approached, but make
sure to not go and let FEAR decide this, let logic decide
Determine right off the bat candidates which are not to be
approached

23) Not every woman wants to be approached,

or needs to be approached.
Look for signals that indicate her interest or
disinterest.

[7:25] the state of a lion [3] {9}

YOU NEED TO ASSUME THAT STATE!
The MOMENT you see the target, you assume the image of the
lion!! ~~McKenna's step-into james bond~~
[7:25] expose yourself before you approach [] {}
Don't approach her from the blue, if it's possible do a walk-by, or
stand next to her... Unless like you have to do it then carpe diem.
But if you can, let her notice you first, and then approach.
This step will increase your success tremendously since you
won't be taking her so much off guard :)
TRACK 3-3 Approach in 3 seconds... 3...2...1[0:00] [3] {9}
[0:59] Congruency is important [0:00] [8] {6}
16) Women are looking for congruity. This is
where the words you say match the attitude
you give off. She can see past acting or a shaky self-confidence, so
learn how to
relax and summon inner strength.

[2:02] She knows what you're doing [0:00] [2] {3}

Doesn't matter how indirect you think you're being, she KNOWS when
you're interested.

[3:06] Be even cooler, and even more calming and soothing

[0:00] [8] {7}
11) Have confidence for two. A woman is
usually uncertain in any meeting with a
man. She will draw on your level of calmness
for herself, so you must have enough
confidence for the two of you.

TRACK 3-4 Layers of interaction [0:00] [3] {5}

Layer 1 is the thing you put on when you leave out the door, as soon
as you walk out of your peer group (

, ,
.)
The faster you act like you are layer 2, then you can transfuce
confidence into her.
Layer 3 is a layer of a sexual communication, it's not overt sexual
interest, just a vibe of "i might be interested in you", "i'm kinda
interested in you"
When you get into layer 2 is where you want to start with flirting so as
to not enter the friends zone

[3:16] Displaying sexual interest [2] {5}

~Basically explains the same thing Louis & Copeland talk about in
Mastery, about a respectfull (yet sexual) scanning-down of her body...
having an open powerfull body language (it's not explained so well in
her as in mastery, where they explain what they mean by POWERFULL
open body-language being a way of showing interest, it's on their ~
20) Get to Layer Three communication as
soon as possible. Do not be afraid to demonstrate
flirting sexual interest in a woman.
Dont try to sneak by her radar by being
friends first.

TRACK 3-5 Engage [0:00] [3] {5}

1, 2,3... lion state, read her BL, be willing to move and disengage if
things don't go as well as it could be
[0:40] Keep the convo going technique [6] {3}
[3:25] understay your welcome
QUALIFY her (see if she is smart enough to play with you)
Go for a close
3:49 if more than 50% give you their number
[4:03] LADDER of goals [3] {7}
- FIRST just open, open, open (get yourself to feel
good just for having opened), don't care about
the outcome
- Get some positive interest from her
- Then, get to next goal level of where you can get
numbers
- Then get your level to where you can take instadates
- Then go to a level where you can get kisses on
the insta-date
- Then get to gunwitch's goal of same-day-lays
Although I don't recommend the last one as a long-term goal
as it's not a very positive lifestyle, although it's good to do
just to prove to yourself that you can do it :)
17) Progress your goals for each interaction.
The first goal could be to just say hello. The
next would be to talk with her for a few
minutes. The next goal is to get the email or
phone number. And the next would be to
bridge straight into a mini-date. As you improve,
stretch your goals to challenge your

ability.
8) Stay balanced in your approach and
push the limits of your comfort zone.
15) Calmness and relaxation are absolutely
necessary. You cannot be resourceful and
on with a woman that you are all giddy
and nervous around. Contain your excitement.
Shes just a woman.
18) If youre having a lot of problems approaching
women, start by talking to guys
to get you over some of your fear of strangers.
It helps immensely.
24) Seek rapport only AFTER you have
started a light, fun conversation. If you go
for rapport immediately, it will be too much
of a shock and it will seem as if you are
seeking validation or supplicating. Instead,
hang back, demonstrate your High Social
Value (HSV) without coming across as arrogant
or pompous, and keep a high level of
fun in the conversation.

TRACK 3-6 Disengage [0:00] [2] {5}

- Doesn't matter how indirect you think you're being, she KNOWS when
you're interested.
- Your mental conditiong is always NEXT
- You wanted to just convo, so you got a 4 minute convo with a
girl...NEXT!!!
- You got a # from a 10 and she begged you to call her ... NEXT!!!

We don't treat them as cattle, we just treat them as "yet unproven",

until something comes out of it, they're just another moving object
in your catalog

[3:20] The ULTIMATE goal [8] {7}

The ULTIMATE goal is IMPROVISATION. Where you can just forget all i've
told you, and all the lines and everything, and you just end up doing it.

[5:03] Rapport assumption [6] {8}

Treat her as if you've known her for 15 years :D :D
It makes both of us calm.

TRACK 3-7 Gimmicks!! [0:00] [3] {5}

-

Palm Reading is SIMPLE! :)

The cube
Magic Tricks
Handwriting analysis (it actually does work in sense it does
show the real personality)

[1:54] These openers are [6] {8}

All examples from which you can create your own, and not all will jive
with your wordings. Use the information to create your own.
TRACK 3-8 The great energy opener [0:00] [2] {5}
I apologise but, I just had to come by and say you have a great energy
about you, and I wanted to let you know that (it's flattering, yet not too
direct)
---> I'll NOW stand back, look at her reaction, and if it's warm keep
going with it
---> I'm saying "I apologise", because the first thing a woman wants to
know is "why the hell are you talking to me"

TRACK 3-9 Aren't you [0:00] [2] {2}

"Hey, i saw you and thought for sure, didn't you use to work with jenny
cartelo? I'm pretty sure i've seen you there? "
It's good for fast situations, where you need to catch them
before they go away

 IT has to be with a conviction or she'll sense it's just

another pickup line
I suggest using someone you really DO KNOW, as it will
automatically give you alot more conviction

TRACK 3-10 Did you hear? [0:00] [2] {2}

"Hey, did you hear that Michael Jackson is supposed to now go on a
tour with his sister, this next year? "
"Hey don't get too nervous now, i know this is gonna be real weird, but
i'm gonna start picking up on you now... ok here we go: So, WHAT's
your name :)"
It works best in enviroments conducive to people meeting ,
and best in proximics situations, where the woman
happens to be nearby
The more untrue it is, the better, it will get some
interesting convos
It's good to go HOP-ping from it

TRACK 3-11 Super-direct approach [0:00] [4] {2}

"Hey did you guys hear that Britney Spears is going on a tour with Kid
Rock!?"
It's great at parties, because you'll always get atleast a
good response now
It's good to go HOP-ping from it
HAVE FUN with this approach, and actually all approaches

TRACK 3-12 The opinion opener [0:00] [5] {2}

"Hey guys, a quick female opinion on something, how old... do you
think a guy needs to be before he is said to be TOO OLD to marry? "
"Hey guys, I was talking with some friends, and need a female opinion
on something... what is the hottest car on the market right now?"

 It has to be a social situation where there is ALOT of people

there being social, groups etc...
----------------------------------------------------------------------------- You can use the opinion opener again also in a supermarket
or in a store...
You can actually come up with these on the fly and
improvisationally

TRACK 3-13 2 on 2 approach [0:00] [2] {2}

TRACK 3-14 For passing a woman by on the stree [0:00] [2] {2}
"Excuse me... I just had to say THANKS" she needs to first go... woah...
what.. why?... then you go "You know when you just have those days
where you... you're not up, nor down. You're not really extremely
happy, but you're not down either... but then you just see someone...
with a beatifull and brillian smile and it lightens up your entire day? "

Try that one sometime, it really is effective

TRACK 3-15 Who lies more [0:00] [2] {2}
Typically it's used on SETS

[0:18] Use these on sets first, even though there is a way to

sometimes adapt them to singles [3] {3}
TRACK 3-16 Taking their seat [0:00] [4] {2}
"Hey guys, is this chair taken... and they say... no go ahead... so you go
ahead and sit down... So guys, how you doin'?! :)"

TRACK 3-17 So... how was your day? [0:00] [4] {2}
If you're good at the introductions, she'll play along with it.

TRACK 3-18 So, guys who has more one-night stands? Men or
women? [0:00] [2] {2}

The good thing about this opener is that it will give you a sense of
whether they are more uptight, or more sexually aware, sexually
approachable

TRACK 3-19 You know what? My horoscope said today that I

need to meet some new friends. Hi, my name is Alek[0:00] [2] {2}
TRACK 3-20 The bad-sketch artist opener! :) [0:00] [7] {2}
This is mostly a test on your side where you are testing where if the
women are friendly, approachable enough with a good sense of
humour, you're qualifying with this test.
You can also use it later in (like instead of the cube or something) "you
know I happen to be a professional sketch artist, would you like me to
do you? "

TRACK 3-21 Hey guys i'm really curiuos here, who here has
the most curious and adventerous mind[0:00] [2] {2}
TRACK 3-22 The fictious cell phone character opener [0:00]
[8] {2}
TRACK 3-23 The cold-shoulder response [0:00] [8] {2}
SEGWAY: Well see, I took this one seminar on improving your
confidence, and lowering your shyness and... Hey, you wanna
something cool.. real quick?'
If you get the cold-shoulder from any of these women... isn't very
responsive "HEY, I was just trying to be friendly there, I mean i got this
vibe that you're this caring, and warm person? You're not really cold
and aloof are you?
"You need to break her down, get past those social boundaries she's
putting up to avoid the guys who really are dweebs. Because only a
guy who will be persistent and not take it personally will prove himself
and alpha male

TRACK 3-24 The instant break-up opener [0:00] [3] {2}

Women will have fun with this for HOURS.

Just bridge it into, how do you guys know each other?

TRACK 3-25 Working-girl opener (an SS pattern) [0:00] [2] {2}

TRACK 3-26 A good close [0:00] [5] {2}
Try out for fun, PRECISELY because it feels stupid.

TRACK 3-27 Use the dog as an opener [0:00] [2] {2}

TRACK 3-28 You know you look like someone famous... but I
can't figure out who it is. Who have they told you, you look like?
[0:00] [7] {2}
TRACK 3-29 Rollercoaster (an SS pattern) [0:00] [2] {2}
You start with an opinion opener, and then you bridge into this
TRACK 4-1 If you get any closer, you're gonna have to buy me
a drink [0:00] [5] {2}
It's a good opener for bars... Once you get good, you'll be throwing
these out spontaneously and on the fly.
Try out for fun, PRECISELY because it feels stupid.

TRACK 4-2 Stupid towel approach [0:00] [3] {2}

TRACK 4-3 Department store approaches [0:00] [7] {2}
TRACK 4-4 Cafe opener [0:00] [6] {2}

TRACK 4-5 Festivals and carnevals with booths and art

museums [0:00] [7] {2}
TRACK 4-6 Conventions and Fairs [0:00] [7] {2}
TRACK 4-7 Putting ads for models to photograph [0:00] [6] {2}

TRACK 4-8 Trivia openers [0:00] [8] {2}

Try out for fun, PRECISELY because it feels stupid.

TRACK 4-9 The power eye-contact opener :) [0:00] [10] {2}

" Keep in mind that if a woman holds your eye-contact for longers than
2 seconds, she's probably interested. That's her way of letting you
know."

- THE JOKE TRY IT OUT "Ok since we're in staring contest already,
you should know a little bit about your opponent, you shoud know that
I have been trained by the U.S. CIA to never look away first! :) "
TRACK 4-10 Poolhouse opener [0:00] [2] {2}
TRACK 4-11 Compliment her for department stores[0:00] [8] {2}
Together with the POST-compliment thing... you can just go...
give the opener... run away. And if she seems friendly and keeps
looking at you from all around the store... then come back and
make a convo!! :)
TRACK 4-12 POWER-TOOLS! Storytelling [0:00] [4] {2}
[3] {2} (Much better in other resources)
TRACK 4-13 POWER-TOOLS! Sexual innuendo [0:00] [8] {2}
TRACK 4-14 POWER-TOOLS! Power questions [0:00] [5] {2}
Maybe style's ED routine would fit in here

TRACK 4-15 The Cube [0:00] [2] {2}

TRACK 4-16 Advanced locations to do this at [0:00] [2] {2}
[Life-purpose]
[1:39] Do a dating-related survey!!! (DOC-love, eric-webber
openers)

[2:22] Photographing opener

[3:03] Become a personal trainer (
McKenna...
!)
[4:22] Volunteer to hand-out flyers :) :) :D :) :D
FIND a location to go out there and interact with the public,
that's ALL we're doing :)
[/life-purpose]
TRACK 4-17 The diagnosis of the approach! [0:00] [3] {2}
- :)
BELIFS:

1) She knows what you're doing and why you're talking to her
2) Believe in your heart that it's good for the both of you for you to talk to this
woman, if you don't talk to her, she doesn't have the benefit of experiencing you,
her seeing how you can improve her life. It's a loss for her mostly
3) You need to be yourself (but selectively, show some mystery)

Stand-offish and distant response

She's testing you too much
she acts like a total bitch
they run too much hot & cold
they use too much the friends into the picture
she shows interest, but it gets nowhere
you get alot of numbers, but no (low number of) subsequent dates
get many dates, but didn't get anywhere with them
problem with cell-phones
If you are having problems with leaving Messages
She doesn't give you a number or contact information
If you get AMOG-ed alot
If you get blown out before you've even had a chance of saying anything, ITS NOT
YOU, it's ussually her having a very bad day with stalkers or bad approaches

TRACK 4-18 Events etc...!!! :) [0:00] [10] {10}!!

Balance with your ability to review things :)

TRACK 4-19 Events etc...!!! :) [0:00] [10] {10}!!

Women will have fun
TRACK 4-20 Listen to this atleast 10 times! :) [0:00] [0] {4}!!
You will find yourself just automatically saying and doing some of this
stuff (dave riker)

TRACK 4-21 FOR LIFE PURPOSE STORY!!!!!!!!! [100%!!]