Beruflich Dokumente
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INTRODUCTION
Weddings are wonderful events, but they can be challenging for those responsible for planning
and managing them. Proper preparation is the best way to ensure a well-organized wedding.
This brief guide to traditional Serbian weddings is based on my experience as both a Serbian
wedding "Domain" and a seasoned wedding guest, and will hopefully provide some helpful
advice in planning your Serbian wedding.
MEMBERS OF THE WEDDING PARTY
Serbian weddings traditionally have the following as members of a wedding party (or Bridal
party):
Mlada - The Bride
Mladoenja - The Bridegroom (or Groom)
Kum - The Bridal Couple's Godfather
Kuma - The Bridal Couple's Godmother
Stari Svat - The Bridal Couple's Elder
Stara Svatica - The Bridal Couple's Eldress (and the Stari Svat's wife; if the Stari Svat is
unmarried, then there is normally no Stara Svatica in the Bridal party)
Dever - The Bridal Couple's Best Man (traditionally the Groom's oldest brother)
Barjaktar - The Standard-bearer of the Serbian Flag (you can also add a second Barjaktar for the
flag of your country of residence)
Domain - The wedding's host and Master Of Ceremonies
Please note that in modern times, North American and other wedding traditions have often been
incorporated into Serbian weddings, so that many Serbian wedding parties now have ushers,
bridesmaids, flower girls and ring boys.
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The first time after the wedding that the Bride comes to her in-laws' house, she
throws a spoon of honey over the house; if the spoon lands honey-side up, it's a good
sign.
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The Bride holds a young male child on her lap at some point during the wedding day,
after the wedding ceremony.
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When the Bride steps out of the car after the wedding ceremony, she must first step
on her right foot in order to ensure good fortune.
NOTE: A special thanks to Duan uri, Radomir Dangubi and Milka Luki for their
invaluable help over the years with my own involvement in helping to plan and manage Serbian
weddings. This guide draws heavily upon their extensive knowledge of Serbian culture and
Serbian weddings.
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