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INTRODUCTION
Law and the images of social organizations reflected and reinforced in law are important devices in the imposition and perpetua-
tion of generalized societal norms. The relationship between dominant ideology and law is suggested in the processes of generation
typically produced outside of the law-making process and incorporated through introduction as evidence or expert testimony in adjudications or legislative hearings. In drawing conclusions about society, human nature, and/or the interests to be expressed in law,
lawmakers may reference information produced by a variety of
methods, framed by specific disciplines-science, history, religion,
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form of narrative presentation that is familiar or recognizable and which offers the
reader or listener a degree of comfort. In contrast, postmodern theories accept the
disappearance of metanarratives and focus instead on the existence of "local, interlocking language games which replace the overall structures." Jennifer Wicke,
Postmodern Identity and the Legal Subject, 62 U. COLO. L. REV. 455, 462 (1991). See
generally FREDRIC JAMESON, POSTMODERNISM (1991); Willem van Reijen & Dick
Veerman, An Interview with Jean-Francois Lyotard, 5 THEORY, CULTURE & SOC Y,
277, 301-02 (1988).
3. See generally EDWARD SHORTER, THE MAKING OF THE MODERN FAMILY (1975)
(exploring the history and development of the nuclear family); Lawrence Stone, The
Rise of the Nuclear Family in Early Modern England. The PatriarchalStage, in THE
FAMILY IN HISTORY 13 (Charles E. Rosenberg ed., 1975)(same); see also Lee E.
Teitelbaum, The Legal History of the Family, 85 MICH. L. REV. 1052, 1053-54
(1987)(discussing relation of patriarchal family to colonial community in the 18th
century).
As Chief Justice Waite wrote in Reynolds v. United States:
Upon [marriage] society may be said to be built, and out of its fruits
spring social relations and social obligations and duties, with which
government is necessarily required to deal. In fact, according as monogamous or polygamous marriages are allowed, do we find the principles on which the government of the people, to a greater or less
extent, rests.
Reynolds v. United States, 98 U.S. 145, 165-66 (1878).
4. Married persons receive significantly favorable treatment under estate and
gift tax law, enabling them to give gifts and to pass on estates of unlimited value to
a spouse without the grantor having'to pay taxes on the gift or estate transferred.
See 26 U.S.C.A. 2056, 2523 (West Supp. 1993). But see David J. Roberts & Mark
J. Sullivan, The Federal Income Tax: Where Are the Family Values?, 57 TAX NOTES
547, 549 (Oct. 26, 1992)(arguing tax provisions for filing joint returns may unevenly
impact married couples so that some receive a benefit while others pay a penalty).
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ry civil laws) defining and securing for the nuclear family a privi-
5. For example, in 1962, the Model Penal Code recommendations included the
repeal of sodomy statutes; in the last twenty years since these recommendations,
approximately one-half of the states have eliminated their prohibitions against sodomy. The last repeal of a sodomy law occurred in Wisconsin in 1983. See Nan D.
Hunter, Life After Hardwick, 27 HARV. C.R.-C.L. L. REV. 531, 538 (1992). However,
of the states that still retain sodomy laws, most do not limit the reach of the laws
to same-sex or extramarital relationships. See Juli A. Morris, Note, Challenging Sodomy Statutes: State Constitutional Protections for Sexual Privacy, 66 IND. L.J. 609,
620 (1991).
6. See Note, Looking for Family Resemblance: The Limits of the Functional
Approach to the Legal Definition of Family, 104 HARv. L. REv. 1640, 1646-49 (1991);
see also Craig A. Bowman & Blake M. Cornish, Note, A More Perfect Union: A Legal
and Social Analysis of Domestic Partnership Ordinances, 92 COLUM. L. REV. 1164,
1186 (1992)(discussing recent proposals for legally recognized domestic partnership
agreements).
7. See, eg., Lee E. Teitelbaum, Moral Discourse and Family Law, 84 MIcH. L.
REV. 430, 432-33 (1985)(19th century cases and legal commentary defined "good
family" by "direct reference to natural law and to a Christian understanding of marriage and the family").
8. I use the term 'natural family" to refer to the traditional nuclear family-husband/father, wife/mother, and their children. More inclusive or otherwise alternative family forms I refer to as "intimate entities"--those family-like groups that do
not conform to the traditional model. The examples I am most interested in are
single mother, same sex, and plural marriage family entities. By making a formal
distinction between "natural" (nuclear) families and other groupings, I hope to reveal
the extent of the continued social and legal preference for formalized, heterosexual,
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the scholarly disciplines has meant that the tentative steps at reformulation made in law have ultimately been unsuccessful. The idealization of a natural nuclear family is preserved through constant
reiteration and recitation of family ideology in political and social
rituals-these images are reflected in law. Variations from the ideal
family form are labeled deviant, considered abnormal, and their
increasing visibility in society has generated discussions about possible ways to remedy or compensate for these perceived defective,
unnatural, or profane units." The metanarrative directs the discussion.
To label the traditional family story a metanarrative does not
mean there is no conflict over its terms or form. There in fact has
been a great deal of conflict and social agitation over the nuclear
family in recent years. As a result, there have been significant
shifts in the explicit rhetorical importance attached by various
groups within society to the family as a cultural icon as well as
reconsideration of it as a functional institution. 3
Such challenges are part of the "evolutionary dialogues" typically associated with cultural negotiation and they reveal the inescapably political (in the largest sense of that word) and ideological
nature of change. These challenges have not proved to be revolutionary, however. To a large extent they merely reformulate and
update basic assumptions about intimacy-changing some aspects of
the old family story to accommodate new family forms. Specifically,
they retain the centrality of sexual affiliation to the organization
and understanding of intimacy.
This ultimately reveals the power of a metanarrative. It struc-
12. See, e.g., Speeches from the Federalist Society Fifth Annual Lawyers Convention: Individual Responsibility and the Law, 77 CoRNELL L. REv. 1012, 1016
(1992)(arguing that "[tihe nuclear family has been the norm since the very beginning
of human history" and that "the current pattern-where forty percent of all American
children now live apart from one or both of their biological parents" is the "aberration").
13. See, e.g., Katharine T. Bartlett, Rethinking Parenthood as an Exclusive Status: The Need for Legal Alternatives When the Premise of the Nuclear Family Has
Failed, 70 VA. L. REV. 879, 944 (1984)(criticizing law's continued reluctance to recognize child-parent relationships that arise outside the nuclear family); Mary P.
Treuthart, Adopting a More Realistic Definition of "Family," 26 GONZ. L. REV. 91, 97
(1991Xasserting that "many people subscribe to a broader definition of family than
the definitions utilized by most courts and legislatures"); Kris Franklin, Note, "A
Family Like Any Other Family': Alternative Methods of Defining Family Law, 18
N.Y.U. REV. L. & Soc. CHANGE 1027, 1062-64 (1991)(advocating reformulation of
legal definition of family to reflect existing pluralities of family types); Note, Looking
for a Family Resemblance: The Limits of the FunctionalApproach to the Legal Definition of Family, 104 HARV. L. REV. 1640, 1640 (1991)(asserting that "[tihe traditional
nuclear family is rapidly becoming an American anachronism").
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tures and defines the rhetoric and debate. In spite of the opportunities presented by changing patterns of behavior, an extensive ideological reconsideration of the organization of intimacy is foregone.
The construction of the sexually affiliated family as the imposed
ideal escapes sustained, serious consideration and criticism. The
nuclear family as natural is assumed.
B.
I have argued that the sacredness of the nuclear family is derived from the unquestioned belief in its "naturalness"--a belief
that establishes it as a cultural icon-an image conclusively culturally presumed to represent and reflect some larger truths. However,
in today's heterogeneous society, it would be hard to argue that the
family is a totally untarnished icon.
Furthermore, in recent years there have been changes in patterns of intimate behavior that present substantial challenges to the
exclusivity of the nuclear family as the only image of appropriate
intimacy. The perceived increase in nontraditional intimate entities
has generated both celebration and concern. Their existence has
also worked itself out in political and legal discourses as more or
less formal challenges to the supremacy of the natural family are
waged.
For example, social movements, such as feminism, or groups
proposing gay and lesbian and children's rights, were organized in
part to bring to political light the existence of the exploitative potential within traditional family roles or to highlight the unfairness
of rigid adherence to the traditional forms. To some extent, such
groups give the illusion that there has been and continues to be a
collective reimagining of the family. They suggest some cultural
renegotiation about the ways we regulate and define intimacy.
1.
14. See generally John C. Beattie, Note, Prohibiting Marital Status Discrimination: A Proposal for the Protection of Unmarried Couples, 42 HASTINGS L.J. 1415
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The FunctionalAttacks
Recognizing the Relationship Between the Nonbiological Lesbian Parent and Her
Child, 43 HASTINGS L.J. 177 (1991); Jane Drummey, Note, Family Ties: A Compari-
son of the Changing Legal Definition of Family in Succession Rights to Rent-Regulated Housing in the United States and Great Britain, 17 BROOK. J. INT'L L. 123
(1991); Rebecca L. Milton, Note, Legal Rights of Unmarried Heterosexual and Homosexual Couples and Evolving Definitions of 'Family," 29 J. FAM. L. 497 (1991);
Adrienne K. Wilson, Note, Same-Sex Marriage: A Review, 17 WM. MITcHELL L. REV.
539 (1991).
15. Domestic partnership ordinances have been adopted in at least two dozen
cities in the United states, including Los Angeles, Berkeley, West Hollywood, and
Laguna Beach, California; New York City (by executive order of the Mayor) and
Ithaca, New York; Seattle, Washington; Madison, Wisconsin; and Tacoma Park,
Maryland. See Wilson, supra note 14, at 539 n.2; see also Bowman & Cornish, supra
note 6, at 1188-90 (1992)(discussing political entities that have adopted domestic
partnership ordinances).
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refuge, from the cold and cruel world has become hard for some to
maintain when social movements such as feminism and child advocacy have brought to light the very real potential of exploitative and
abusive behavior within families.' 6
These arguments tear the veil of "privacy" from the traditional
family revealing that it fails to perform the social and psychological
functions that were the justification for its privileged position. Ultimately, such arguments call into question the whole concept of the
nuclear family as a legally privileged unit, entitled to special status
as a form of social organization. The arguments focus on the individuals within families, affording the entity no independent deference per se.
This latter type of challenge, if understood as an attack on
structuring intimacy around sexual pairing, could set the stage for a
systematic reconsideration of the historic nature and continued
desirability of the traditional family as a social institution, entitled
to deference and protection from intervention and supervision by
the state and its personnel. 7 Instead, however, the functional (or
dysfunctional) critiques typically focus on specific families or individuals as "dysfunctional" and generate discussions about the causes of such deviation from the ideal. Such deviation is typically labeled "pathological" and the cause is often identified as the absence
of a forceful and employed male head of household. These critiques
spawn proposals for "cures" which reinforce and reinvent the natural family in a way that accommodates contemporary circumstances.' 8 This process, referencing more of the same in terms of the
16. See e.g., Elizabeth M. Schneider, The Violence of Privacy, 23 CONN. L. REV.
973, 974 (1991)(asserting that legal notion of family privacy has encouraged and reinforced violence against women). See generally DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ON TRIAL. PSYCHOLOGICAL AND LEGAL DIMENSIONS OF FAMILY VIOLENCE (Daniel J. Sonkin ed., 1987);
LEONARD T. KARP & CHERYL L. KARP, DOMESTIC TORTS: FAMILY VIOLENCE, CONFLICT
AND SEXUAL ABUSE (1989); ELIZABETH H. PLECK, DOMESTIC TYRANNY: THE MAKING
OF SOCIAL POLICY AGAINST VIOLENCE FROM COLONIAL TIMES TO THE PRESENT (1987).
17. See Martha A. Fineman, Intimacy Outside of the Natural Family: The Limits
of Privacy, 23 CONN. L. REV. 955, 972 (1991)[hereinafter Fineman, Intimacy Outside
of the Natural Family](concluding that society is unready or unwilling to revamp the
concept of family to include nontraditional groupings).
18. The idea that single parent families are somehow "pathological" has persisted for the last 20 years. See, e.g., DANIEL P. MOYNIHAN, THE NEGRO FAMILY- THE
CASE FOR NATIONAL ACTION, reprinted in LEE RAINWATER & WILLIAM L. YANCEY,
THE MOYNIHAN REPORT AND THE POLITICS OF CONTROVERSY 51 (1967)(arguing decline
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20. See generally MARTHA A. FINEMAN, THE ILLUSION OF EQUALITY (1991); VIcTOR R. FucHs, WOMEN'S QUEST FOR EcONOMIc EQUALITY (1988).
21. See, e.g., Mary J. Frug, A Postmodern Feminist Legal Manifesto (An Unfinished Draft), 105 HARv. L. REV. 1045, 1048-52 (1992)(arguing legal rules regulating
wage market, custody decisions, and employment discrimination penalize women who
do not conform to traditional gender roles); Judith Resnik, "Naturally"Without Gender Women, Jurisdiction, and the Federal Courts, 66 N.Y.U. L. REV. 1682, 1721
(1991)(finding many federal statutes address women in family settings as mothers,
caregivers, as pregnant or possibly pregnant, as dependents, and as heads of house-
holds); Elizabeth S. Scott, Pluralism, Parental Preference, and Child Custody, 80 CAL.
L. REV. 615, 628-30 (1992)(arguing primary caretaker rule reinforces traditional gen-
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24. The notion of the metanarrative assumes some sort of hierarchy of cultural
representations and cultural values. Since the Enlightenment, for example, the central Western metanarrative has been that of progress, reason, and revolution, a public narrative of Darwinian evolution and class struggle. Metanarratives provide
grounds for collective identities, allowing for a linear interpretation- of historical forces. Thus, for instance, the notion of a unitary metanarrative has been used to estab-
lish public law adjudication as the paradigm of all adjudication, as a system of adjudication that is furthermore governed by a single set of principles whether the en-
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tion: On Sharing, 1992 UTAH L. REV. 765, 773-80 (discussing the ethics and recognition of family support and dependency).
28. See Fineman, Intimacy Outside of the Natural Family, supra note 17; see
also Martha A. Fineman, Images of Mothers in Poverty Discourses, 1991 DUKE L.J.
274 [hereinafter Fineman, Images of Mothers in Poverty Discourses](discussing an
adaptation of patriarchy due to rising divorce rates and single mother families); Martha A. Fineman, The Neutered Mother, 46 U. MIAMI L. REv. 653 (1992).
29. See, e.g., James D. Weill, Child Poverty in America, 1991 CLEARINGHOUSE
REV. 337, 345 ("During the 1970s [the] demographic shift to more single-parent families was the dominant force in pushing child poverty upward.").
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30. See supra note 9 and accompanying text (discussing" the traditional legal
definition of family relationships).
31. See Fineman, Intimacy Outside of the Natural Family, supra note 17, at
961-63.
32. This gendered division of labor, the dominant casting script for family stories, is built upon gender ideology that historically confined women to the 'private"
or family sphere, thus making them directly bear the burdens of intimacy and dependency in our society; men, as fathers and husbands, may have the corresponding
responsibility of economic support.
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CONCLUSION
33. I have always been intrigued by the fact that even feminists seem to devalue the family as an object of study or theory. It certainly is discussed-it may be
treated as an impediment to women's self-fulfillment or as the site of pathological
early conditioning which must be overcome-but it is seldom addressed as a major
social institution worthy of serious intellectual or conceptual work. In fact, those of
us who do theorize the family as a complex and central social institution, and family
roles such as motherhood as having significant positive and powerful potential for
women, are in danger of being labeled "cultural" feminists, see Patricia A. Cain,
Feminism and the Limits of Equality, 24 GA. L REV. 803, 836 (1990), or assigned to
the bottom of the academic theoretical ladder (if we make a rung at all). The typical
feminist focus is on the individual, even if engaged in collective action. The intimate
interaction that seems favored is sex (further reinforcement for my points about the
centrality of sexuality to the way we think about intimacy in our society).
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34. See Fineman, Intimacy Outside of the Natural Family, supra note 17, at
955, 958-61. The nature and extent of the state regulatory concern with nonnatural
family forms suggests that these families are considered "public" families for purposes
of justifying state control. Id. at 958. The designation as public legitimates setting
them aside for special, intrusive state manipulation in contrast to initially affording
them the protection of the assumption of privacy that attaches to traditional family
entities.
Furthermore, their designation as deviant has meant that the social and economic problems of single mother families, and hence the plight of many of the
nation's children, can be easily ignored. Fineman, Images of Mothers in Poverty Discourses, supra note 28, at 277. In this way, the nuclear family model has been instrumental in the active perpetuation of existing power relationships (particularly in
regard to gender and race) in American society. In the context of the treatment of
single mothers, the focus on family form obscures the economic deprivations which
make it difficult for single women to raise their children. Rather than addressing
their needs as single mothers, reforms take the form of attempting to coerce them
into a model of family life increasingly discredited, even in the middle class from
which it arose. Id. at 295. The dominance of family imagery contained in the ideology of patriarchy has required rejection of economic subsidies which would truly sup-
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port single mother families. Instead, our adherence to the belief in the natural family
demands that single mothers' deviation be punished and deterred, their practice of
resistance curtailed.