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broken hearted. Heartbreak is a very strange distress. It is exquisitely painful, and yet we cannot
find an injury on our body. New research finds
that when you reminisce about the one that got a
way, the brain
actually triggers sensations that you also feel in
times of "real" physical pain, making heartbreak
truly, physically painful to add to the emotional
distress
it
sometimes
causes.
Heartbreak is like one big emotional
pain but it also seems to spark off hundreds of
other emotions. We hate the feeling of heartbreak, and yet we find ourselves compelled to go
over and over memories, ideas or fantasies
which make the feeling worse. Edward E. Smith,
director of cognitiveneuroscience at Columbia
University
explains:
"This tells us how serious rejection can be
sometimes. When people are saying 'I really feel in
pain about this breakup,' you don't want to trivialize it and dismiss it by saying 'It's all in your mind.'
Our ultimate goal is to see what kind of therapeutic approach might be useful in relieving the pain
of rejection. From everyday experience, rejection
seems to be one of the most painful things we
experience. It seems the feelings of rejection can
be sustained even longer than being angry."
Forty people analyzed from New York City
and all of whom felt "intensely rejected," took
part in the study. While participants were told to
look at photos, including photos of their friends
(they were directed to think positive thoughts
about them), and photos of their exes (they were
directed to think about their breakup), their
brains were scanned for changes in activity. The
participants also underwent brain scans as they
felt pain on their forearms similar to the feeling
of holding a hot cup of coffee in comparison.
Several of the same areas of the brain became
active when the participants felt either physical
pain or emotional pain.
.
The research shows that rejection appears to
be in a class by itself in terms of its similarity to
physical pain. Future research could examine how
emotional pain due to rejection affects how people
feel
physical
pain.
Here are some tips that may help you get
over the pain:
Breathe. All you can do is survive this first and difficult day. Take one day at a time. Give yourself permission to mourn. Call in sick at work, sleep all day,
eat too much ice cream, sob.
Congratulate yourself for being human: It is
only when you open your self to love that your
heart can break. Develop and repeat a
helpful mantra to get you through the initial shock
and pain, such as
"This too shall pass" or "I will survive."
Reach out to a close friend or
family member. It helps to share
your thoughts with others. Watch
a movie to distract yourself.
Choose a comedy that has cheered you
up in the past. Or watch a movie that's
guaranteed to make you sob--it may
surprise you how good that feels.
Surround yourself with friends. This may mean
reaching out to people you fell out of touch with
during the relationship. Make lists to help you regain
your confidence and identity: a list of your friends, of
things you like, of what you want to accomplish in
the next decade. Spoil yourself: Get a new hairstyle,
have a spa day or go shopping. Resist the urge to call
your ex.
Remember that healing is a process that takes
time. Expect waves of sadness, anger, guilt or fear
even after you think you are over it. Give your heart
time to heal.
Compartmentalize the experience in your
memory: "My heart was broken once. It really hurt
and I'm glad it's over."
As one popular quote goes, "Love is like falling
down... in the end you're left hurt, scarred, and with
a memory of it forever."
Biology gives
you a brain.
Life turns it
into a mind.
Jeffrey Eugenides
Whats inside:
Human
big
brains
are
Wrinkles
smart
make
us
Take power
naps to boost
your creativity
A new study has shed light on
the neurological underpinnings
of the "power nap," a short nap
during the middle of the day
that refreshes the mind and
often helps illuminate the solution
to
thorny
problems.
The study was conducted by
researchers from the Center for
Functional and Molecular Imaging at Georgetown University,
and its findings were presented
at the Neuroscience 2012 conference in New Orleans. The
researchers monitored the brain activity of 15
napping adults using a
Understanding Memory
Memories are created, stored and recalled by
the brain but beyond that, our understanding of human
memory is a not terribly clear. We do know that certain
structures in the brain are critical for forming new memories. The hippocampus, for example, is essential to the
formation of new memories and for placing memories
into long term storage. Humans have a one hippocampus each side of the brain, roughly half way between the
temple and the ear. Only one hippocampus needs to be
functional for human memory. If both are damaged, say
through surgery or stroke, the person can no longer
from new memories lasting longer than a few minutes.
The structures that participate in memory formation beyond the hippocampus are less well understood. Apparently human memories are not simply
stored in discrete regions of the brain such that a small
stroke could wipe out second grade. Rather the anatomical organization of much more complex than that. While
the hippocampus is critical for creating human memory,
once a memory is created its storage location can only
be inferred.
Brain teasers can and do help keep the mind
stay sharp. Like the muscles in your body, your mind
strengthens with daily stimulation and can atrophy if neglected and not used. This is why it is important to use
the mind and continually challenge it. Being involved in
leisure activities that help stimulate your brain can help
you live a longer and happier life. Studies have shown
that time spent stimulating the brain can help prevent
dementia and Alzheimer's disease.(Jenie Lyn Acabal)
To test your mental acuity, answer the following questions (no peeking at the answers!):
1. Johnnys mother had three children. The first child was named
April. The second child was named May. What was the third childs name?
2. A clerk at a butcher shop stands five feet ten inches tall and wears size 13 sneakers. What does he weigh?
3. Before Mt. Everest was discovered, what was the highest mountain in the world?
4. How much dirt is there in a hole that measures two feet by three feet by four feet?
5. What word in the English language is always spelled incorrectly?
6. Billie was born on December 28th, yet her birthday always falls in the summer. How is this possible?
7. In British Columbia you cannot take a picture of a man with a wooden leg. Why not?
8. If you were running a race and you passed the person in 2nd place, what place would you be in now?
9. Which is correct to say, The yolk of the egg is white or The yolk of the egg are white?
10. A farmer has five haystacks in one field and four haystacks in another. How many haystacks would he have if he
combined them all in one field? haystacks in another. How many haystacks would he have if he combined them all
Answers
1. Johnny.
2. Meat.
3. Mt. Everest. It just wasnt discovered yet.
4. There is no dirt in a hole.
5. Incorrectly (except when it is spelled incorrectly).
6. Billie lives in the southern hemisphere.