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about.
1) Although women have come a long way in the ability to express and
control their sexual lives, our culture, along with most in the world, still hold
women and men to different standards. Discuss the "sexual double standard"
and the reasons given to support it and some of the consequences. How
does gender ideology (ideas about masculinity and femininity) contribute and
support the sexual double standard. Be sure to support your discussion with
The sexual double standard ultimately comes from our patriarchial society
which, being run by males, is naturally set up to benefit men. Men can have
sex with whoever they want and it's viewed as a conquest, while women who
have sex with whoever they want are viewed as "sluts" for doing exactly the
same thing. This is partly influenced by the concept of purity. Purity (i.e.
abstinence until marriage) is a social construct created by men that holds
back women from taking control and sexual ownership of their bodies.While
there is nothing wrong with choosing abstinence, forcing them into
abistenence (through social pressure, physical force, etc.) shaming women
for choosing otherwise only serves to harm them in our society's alreadymisogynistic sexual dynamic. What you do with your body should be your
choice as an individual - you shouldn't feel pressured one way or another by
anyone or anything else.
Many men will say they don't want to date a "slut" for a variety of nonsensical
reasons (i.e. "I don't want to have sex with a loose vagina") but also don't
want to date a "prude" because they still want to have sex. This creates the
idea of an impossible woman who has to have just the right amount of sex to
avoid fitting into either of those categories. However, it's actually an
incredibly possessive attitude, where you want a girl who has sex, but only
with you. This is reflective of our society's view on heterosexual sex (men are
dominant and have ownership/women are submissive and are objects for
Men also suffer from these double standards. Men who don't try to "achieve"
sexual conquests are harassed for not following the ideals of traditional
masculinity. Additionally, many men are often accused of being gay (and to
use that as an insult is homophobic in itself, but that's another problem for
another class/discussion). Our culture tells men that their masculinity is
dependent on their ability to seduce and have sex with women.
Unfortunately, this may (consciously or unconsciously) justify sexual assault,
as these men may feel that defending their masculinity is worth more than
the woman they're assaulting (which leads us full circle back to objectification
and lack of respect).