Why parents ruin their gay

sons life?
Article by Pulkit mohan singla
Why it becomes so impossible for us to accept our son or our brother or
friend who has came out of the closet. Why human sexuality is a big deal?
The first reaction of every parent is same when they get to know about
their sons true orientation. Most of the parents believe that its coming
from a bad company. Somebody is spoiling him and there first step is to
force him to boycott all his male friends and invite female friends in his
group.
Parents believe that he is confused or misguided or he is still immature
and they force him to grow up as a man. In order to make him straight
some curious parents even take their son to night clubs, make them watch
straight porn and stuffs like that and motivate him to erect his macho
behaviour and spoil woman and use woman as it is a source of pleasure.
They even provoke him and attack him verbally by questioning his identity
as a man which includes negative remarks of feminism, bad words and
inhuman comments to make him dissolved in guilt and anger. They
believe that by passing this tough test he will eventually shout out loud to
fuck a woman and not a man.
Besides this hard work they also take the shelter and help of the people
who authorise themselves as gods angels and perform numerous black
magics and prayers on their son in order to change him into a straight
man.
Although science has given great evidences about homosexuality , but still
there are many doctors who play with the emotions of parents and fetch
handsome fees in exchange of some non workable tests and medicines
which are given to the gay patient.
Usually after all these practices the result is zero as parents are trying to
change nature and in reality nature never changes. Humans have to
modify and develop themselves according to nature.
The last remedy is marriage which is forcibly done by different
pressurising techniques like emotional black mailing, verbal attacks,
threatening and even man handling. Parents believe that marriage will

solve the problem and once he will get in touch with a female he will
forget the impact of male on his mind and body.
The most interesting fact is that most of the parents play politics with
their own son. They understand the issue and they very well know about
it. Marriage is the solution as well as the remedy as from the society's
point of view their son is married. Hence he is straight. The society is only
interested in seeing bachelors getting married and they live happily ever
after story is already assumed and imagined in mind. Nobody has time to
look in the bedrooms to see whether the bed is broken or not. Parents are
not concerned for the future of the son at that time. Their main concern is
ego and reputation which is fully fostered by the marriage ceremony.
Secondly dowry is another bait which they cannot forget. Marriage brings
dowry and no matter how much the marriage will last, the starting is
always happening as from friends to relatives to society, everyone forgets
and are least bothered about your sex life. They are only worried if you
are not married.
Most of the parents choose girls from poor families because of the same
reason. A girl from poor family is already under pressure by her parents.
Money and materialistic assets and facilities make her deaf, dumb and
vain.
The politics is so much involved in families that even the brothers of the
groom take chance to flirt and consume the bride as sex is already absent
in her married life and many girls even surrender and choose this path
where she is a slave who is fostering the sex need of the husbands
brothers and also doing household jobs as a lawful servant. Well this only
happens with girls who are poor or who do not get support from their
families.
Parents usually defend their gay son after marriage as bride complaints to
mother in law first and foremost about the sex report card of the son.
Quarrels, fights, verbal attacks, man handling, threatening everything
unethical is the usual scenario of such marriages.
One of the most interesting reasons behind forcing the gay son for
marriage is money and property. When a gay son denies for marriage, it is
a clear indication that he will not have any child. So the present property
and status and money will be consumed by him in his lifetime and later it
will be given to someone who is either a relative or to a stranger or to any
orphanage. Nobody wants to give their hard earned money or their
property to charity and hence the next generation is a must which is only
possible if the son gets married and gives birth to the son. It has also been
noticed that besides that if the parents have more sons apart from a gay

son they are not much worried but if the gay son is all alone or the
parents have daughters apart from a gay son the situation will be the
same. Most of the parents do not wish to share their property with their
daughters and hence the gay son is forced to hell to get married and ruin
everything.
Sometimes gays are also seen married with kids but having children is still
a mystery as sex is crucial for birth of a child and when there is no sex,
the birth of the child is in question.
In many adverse situations, the child is of the gay grooms brother or any
other relative who dont mind in having sex with the grooms wife.
Children are also adopted and even surrogated in many situations to
complete the family. Many modern woman take divorce to save their rest
of the life but in most of the cases both the partners live together as
enemies and both of them has double life and multiple partners to spice
up the controversial boring destiny.