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Celebrate 45 Years as the Communitys
Center with a look back at the Pride Kickoff
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Schenectady Pride
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Strive to Develop
New Patterns
of Celebratory
Thinking Paraded
in True Pride
~Acey Mercer
COLUMNS
Gay Mans Musings
PRIDE...Im Proud to be...
by
Nyvek Moshier pg. 10
Trans View
Burning for Justice - For Everyone
by
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Ask the Lawyer
Universal Health Care is an LGBTQ Issue
by
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To Be a Blessing
Bridging the Bible and Sexuality
by
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Ask Mark Your Tax Questions
by
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Money Matters
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Out in the Garden
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by
Judith Fetterley
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F R O M T H E But the Pride Center is someE D I T O R S D E S K thing bigger than any one
by
Mi chael Wei d ric h person and we must press on
and continue our mission! We
havent existed for 45 years by
accident. It literally takes a
HAPPY PRIDE!!! Capital village to run a Pride Center!
PRIDE 2015 has arrived and And Curran has assembled
its big, beautiful and fabu- the best team in the world
lous! While we are celebrat- and I am honored to become
ing this amazing community, the caretaker of this amazing
we are also sad to see our organization as your Interim
fearless leader Curran Streett Executive Director. Over the
leave us for new adventures years of my affiliation with
the Center, I have worked
FA R E W E L L
NOTE
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you know of some new directions for both myself and
the Center. It is with mixed
feelings that I announce that
after 6 years at the Pride Center, I will be moving on. I have
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to me at that particular moment
in time. There was a time in my life
when I felt the word pride was one
that could never be associated with
me. Outside of my art work, there was
very little I took pride in throughout
much of my life before discovering
the community and ultimately myself.
Since coming out I have had many ask
me Why do you cling so fiercely to
your identity as a gay man? There is
more to you than the fact you are gay.
What these people fail to realize is
that it was through becoming a proud
gay man that I eventually learned how
to take pride in other aspects of my
life and my individual identity.
Since coming out I have learned to
take pride in who I am physically,
emotionally, intellectually, sexually
and even spiritually. Prior to coming
out I felt trapped in a prison where my
depression and self-hate had stripped
me of any sense of pride. Now Im
not saying that coming out fixed all
my problems and made me perfectly
happy, but I am saying that it most
certainly resulted in an awakening of
my spirit. I can honestly say that each
year, since coming out, I have learned
to love a different piece of myself a
little bit more.
So what am I taking pride in this year?
Well, this year I am proud to be turning 30 on June 12th. Ive never been
one to fear growing old. When
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Adults $12
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When I woke up this morning, May 4th, 2015, as I always do
when writing my June column and
its Kent State day, I hear the refrain in
my head, Four dead in Ohio from
Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young pounding
the remembrance, and wonder who, if
anyone, will remember one of the most
terrible days in our American history
as it vanishes each year more intensely
into oblivion. This year that troubles
me more than most. Forty-five (45)
years later, what have we learned? Baltimore is burning, the National Guard
has taken back the streets. The good
news is they havent killed anyone--or
shot at and wounded anyone, as they
did to those innocent students 45 years
ago. Recently, I met someone who grew
up a neighbor to the man who gave the
order to fire on the students that day in
Kent State, and getting older, thought
how, if we live long enough, how incredibly and inextricably interconnected we all are. How small the world
truly is. But what do we learn being in
such close proximity to each other?
This year there was virtually no major
media the Kent State anniversary. But
Baltimore was burning. Ferguson, MI
had been burning, and black men and
women killed by the police in questionable circumstances were dominating our media. How easily, how conveniently, we forget, we look away from
those pictures seared into my young
adult mind of the student Mary Ann
Vecchio calling out, crouched over
the dead body of another student. In
my more saddened moments it seems
weve not learned anything and social
amnesia is a disease of epidemic and
pandemic proportions worldwide.
There was a new documentary film released on Kent State this year, but as a
country, we did not pause, and did not
remember, and contemplate, was it because Baltimore was burning?
What do Kent State and Baltimore
2015 have to do with each other? One
involves mostly white folks protesting
the war in Vietnam and other involves
mostly African-American people protesting police violence against innocent
black men--and women. Underneath
both events is the all the simmering,
frothing rage and anger about state
power and control, state misuse and
abuse of power, murder by the state for
the purposes of social control. Its also
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a good measure like the Occupy Movement of 2011 and the WW1 Bonus Veterans Occupation of Washington, Dc,
how those in power quickly eradicate
the social movements of those who
hold a mirror to us about the deeply
seeded problems of race and class and
the lack of social justice for the poor
and people of color.
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In May of 2010, at the first
Hudson Pride Foundation meeting,
it was unanimously agreed that the
name of the parade would be, simply,
Hudson Pride - no acronyms.
This little city of Hudson, once had a
population two to three times the current size, had been through a rough
patch - manufacturing factories shut
down, jobs were lost, and many storefronts on the main street, Warren
Street, boarded up.
Hudson is experiencing a re-birth!
Businesses and bed and breakfasts are
opening up alongside antique stores,
art galleries and restaurants. Hudson
is now a weekend destination, with
many downstaters looking for a sample of upstate New York life.
Hudson Pride, is not only the pride of
our LGBT
community,
but also the
Pride in a
little citys
rebound.
The Hudson
Pride Parade takes
over
the
entire city!
Everyone is
included!
The Festival by the
Waterfront
is a familyfriendly
event with
free carnival
games for
kids. When
we plan the
Hudson
Pride Weekend - the
Come to Hudson
for our
SIXTH annual Pride!
Friday, June 19th
Boat Cruises
7-9pm Sunset
9-11pm Moonlight
Saturday, June 20th
Parade | Festival |
Cabaret | Dance
1pm - Line-up for Parade
2pm - Parade down
Warren Street
3-6pm - Festival at
Waterfront
8pm - Cabaret show
with Hedda Lettuce
at Club Helsinki
10pm - Dance Party
with Tedd Patterson
at the Half Moon
Sunday, June 21st
2-6pm Tea Dance at
the Red Dot
All information and ticket
purchases can be found at
www.HudsonPride.com
Thanks - and see you in Hudson!
- Trix
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Come to Schenectady
for our
FOURTH Pride!
Saturday, June 20th
Performances by
The Schenectady
Pride Color Gaurd
RuPauls
LATRICE ROYAL
w/s/g
Champagne,
Jenna Taylor,
Sabryna Chanyl,
Calypso Breeze
and more
Loreal Lavigna
& Desafinado
Chad Putman,
Chair
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Welcoming Congregations
Join Us In Exploring Your Spiritual Side At One Of The Welcoming Congregations Below:
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Community Congregational
Church (UCC)
221 Columbia Tpke,
Rensselaer
www.clintonheightsucc.org
Community Reformed
Church of Colonie
701 Sand Creek Road,
Colonie
www.coloniereformed.org
(518)869-5589
Congregation Agudat Achim
(Conservative)
2117 Union Street,
Schenectady
www.agudatachim.org (518)
393-9211
Congregation Bnai Shalom
(Reform)
420 Whitehall Road, Albany
www.bnaishalom.albany.
ny.us
(518) 482-5283
Congregation Berith Sholom
(Reform)
167 Third Street, Troy
www.berithsholom.org
(518)272-8872
Congregation Beth Emeth
(Reform)
100 Academy Road, Albany
www.bethemethalbany.org
(518)436-9761
Congregation Gates of
Heaven (Reform)
842 Ashmore Avenue,
Schenectady
www.cgoh.org
(518)374-8173
Congregation Ohav Shalom
(Conservative)
113 New Krumkill Road,
Albany
www.ohavshalom.org
Congregation Temple Sinai
(Reform)
509 Broadway, Saratoga
Springs
www.templesinai-saratogasprings.org
(518) 584-8730
Eastern Parkway United
Methodist Church
943 Palmer Avenue,
Schenectady
www.easternparkway.weebly.
com
(518)374-4306
St. Georges Episcopal
Church
30 North Ferry St.,
Schenectady
www.stgeorgesschenectady.
org
Emmanuel Baptist Church
275 State Street, Albany, NY
www.emmanuelalbany.net
(518)465-5161
First Church in Albany
110 North Pearl Street,
Albany
www.firstchurchinalbany.org
(518)463-4449
First Congregational Church
of Albany
UCC & NACCC
405 Quail Street, Albany
www.firstcongregationalalbany.org
(518)482-4580
First Lutheran Church
181 Western Avenue, Albany
www.FirstLutheranAlbany.
org
(518)463-1326
First Presbyterian Church
362 State Street, Albany
www.firstpresalbany.org
(518)449-7332
First Reformed Church
8 North Church Street,
Schenectady
www.1streformed.com
First Unitarian Society of
Schenectady
1221 Wendell Avenue,
Schenectady
www.fussonline.org
(518)374-4446
First Unitarian Universalist
Society of Albany
405 Washington Avenue,
Albany
www.albanyuu.org
(518)463-7135
First United Methodist
Church
603 State Street, Schenectady,
www.gbgm-umc.org/schenectady
(518)374-4403
First United Methodist
Church, East Greenbush
www.fumceg.org
First United Presbyterian
Church
1915 Fifth Avenue, Troy
www.unitedprestroy.org
(518)272-2771
Friends Meeting (Quaker)
727 Madison Avenue,
Albany
(518) 436-8812
Presbyterian New England
Congregational Church,
Saratoga
http://pnecchurch.org/
Good Shepherd Lutheran
Church
501 Albany Shaker Road,
Loudonville
www.goodshepherdchurchloudonville.org
(518)458-1562
Holy Trinity National
Catholic Church
405 Washington Avenue,
Albany
www.NCCofA.org/holytrin.
html
(518)434-8861
Journey United
Church of Christ
500 Kenwood Blvd, Delmar
www.journeyucc.com
Saratoga Springs United
Methodist Church
175 Fifth Avenue,
Saratoga Springs
www.saratogaspringsumc.
org (518)584-3720
Saint Aelreds Priory and
Retreat House
(National Catholic)
670 Bunker Hill Road,
Northville
staelredpriory@aol.com
(518) 863-8086 / (518) 4348861
St. Andrews Episcopal
Church
Main at Madison Avenue,
Albany
www.standrewsalbany.org
(518)489-4747
St. Johns Lutheran Church
160 Central Avenue, Albany
www.stjohnsalbany.org
(518)465-7545
Temple Israel
600 New Scotland Avenue,
Albany
www.tialbany.org
(518) 438-7858
Unitarian Universalist
Congregation of Saratoga
624 North Broadway,
Saratoga Springs
www.saratoga-uu.org
(518)584-1555
Unity Church in Albany
21 King Avenue, Albany
www.unitychurchinalbany.
org (518)453-3603
Woodstock
Jewish Congregation
(Reconstructionist)
1682 Glasco Turnpike,
Woodstock
www.wjcshul.org
(845)246-1671
Proud
To Be
Open!
Affirming!
Welcoming!
Joyous!
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B L E S S I N G
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This article is one of a series provided by Advocates for Welcoming Congregations, a Capital Region group that encourages the
welcoming of LGBT persons into the full life and leadership of communities of faith. The group also works to make visible for
members of the LGBT community opportunities for practicing their faith traditions.
Members
as of May 15, 2015
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Dear Mark,
I own a rental property but have been unable to rent it out because next door there
are drug deals going on and despite lots of
ads I have placed in the newspaper seeking tenants, no one is interested in renting
it. the other problem is that my income
is too high to take advantage of the year
after year losses. If I were to sell the property what would happen with the taxes?
Signed,
Hopeless
Dear Hopeless,
Assuming that you are not a real estate
professional as defined in the tax code,
and assuming that you are correct in not
being able to currently use those losses,
and assuming that you suspended the
losses and carried them over year to year,
then you are able to use the suspended
losses in the year of sale.
============================
Mark Witecki,
I received a settlement from the insurance company for a dog bite. It was a lot
of money and I am worried I have to pay
taxes on it. Is it taxable?
Worried
Dear Worried,
Assuming that your settlement award
was for pain and suffering and medical
expenses, the award would not be taxable. If you previously deducted medical
expenses on your return because of the
dog bite, you may have to add those back
to income or reduce your current medical
expense deduction. I would advise you to
contact me and have me take a look at the
paperwork.
Dear Mark,
I bought a couple of rental properties
partly furnished. It was a package deal
and there is no amount to separate the
cost of the buildings. As part of the deal
there was also a vacant piece of land included. I know I am entitled to depreciation, but how do I figure out the cost of
each building to depreciate?
Confused.
Dear Confused,
I would advise hiring an appraiser to figure out the relative values and the rental
properties and vacant land to allocate the
cost of each, and further separate out the
portion of those costs that belong to the
furnishings. This will give you the information you need to start your calculations
If warranted , you may want to have a cost
segregation analysis done by an engineer which may enable you to depreciate
building components more rapidly than
by suing the standard methods.
============================
Mr. Mark W,
i am an independent social worker and I
am self-employed. At the end of the day I
am so stressed that I have a stash of liquor
in my office and have a few drinks to unwind. Can I deduct the cost of the liquor?
Sign me,
Stressed out and need a drink.
Dear Stressed out,
Assuming you are not joking about this,
you cannot deduct the amount because
you are drinking the liquor by yourself
and there is no tentative connection between the liquor and your business for tax
purposes. If you had a drink with clients
that may qualify under certain circumstances.
Aswers that apply to specific taxpayers may not necessary apply to others.
Changes in tax law and rules may affect answers given at any point. You
can write Mark at Mark Witecki CPA
CFP(R) CFE, 3701 State St, Schenectady, NY 12304. Mark D. Witecki specializes in small businesses and professional
individuals. Mr. Witecki has a B. S. in
Accounting from S. U. N. Y. Albany and
an M. S. in Accounting from Syracuse
University. Mark D. Witecki is a Certified Public Accountant, CERTIFIED
FINANCIAL PLANNER practitioner, Certified Fraud Examiner, Certified
College Planning Specialist and is admitted to practice before the United States
Tax Court. Certified Financial Planner
Board of Standards Inc. owns the certification marks CFP , CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER and federally
registered CFP (with flame design) in the
U.S., which it awards to individuals who
successfully complete CFP Boards initial
and ongoing certification requirements.
Marks office is located at 3701 State
Street, Schenectady, New York
============================
Dear Mark,
I bought a parcel of vacant land in the
country last year Now I am thinking of
getting rid of it because it is such a long
distance away and I am sorry I bought it. I
originally thought I would build on it, but
I am concerned about living in the boondocks with no one around. Now a local
farmer wants to rent the land to grow
============================= ============================= =============================
Mark D. Witecki
Certified Public Accountant
Certified Financial Planner
Certified Fraud Examiner
Tax Preparation
3701 State Street, Schenectady, NY 12304
(518) 346-4000 f: (518) 346-5196
Certified
Financial
Planner
Board
of
Standards,
Inc.
owns
the
Certified
Marks
CFP
(c).
Certified
Financial
Planner
and
federally registered CFP (with flame design) in the U.S. which it awards to individuals who successfully complete CFPs initial and ongoing certification requirements
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J.
Walling
Thomas J. Walling
CFP is an Investment
Advisor Representative of and offers
securities and investment advice through
Cetera Advisor Networks, LLC. (Member
FINRA/SIPC) and a
Registered Investment Advisor. Branch
office:235 Lark St. #43 Albany, NY 12210.
He is also past presenter at the PrideCenter on financial affairs affecting the
LGBT community as well as for SAGE of
NYC. Tom Is past president of the board
of directors of Our Brothers Keepers
Foundation.
Reach Thomas at 518.878.1294 or
ceteranetworks.com
Direct: 518.878.1294
thomas.walling@ceteranetworks.com
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There
was
a time when I
thought that pride
was something I
could carry in a
Louis Vuitton bag
or sprinkle out of a
Tom Ford Private
Blend decanter. I
believed that pride
could be found in
the paisley lining
of a Versace coat or
the shiny surface
of a Gucci loafer. If
I could locate the
elusive purple croc
Hermes tote bag or
Jeffrey Scotts golden
winged sneakers then
surely I would find
it. I thought pride
could be bought, like
so many baubles and
trinkets,
wrapped
around my head
like a pair of trendy
sunglasses, encasing
my heart like the
richest and mostfinely embroidered
corset. Yet like all
tempting ruses, the
idea that pride was
something that could
be appropriated from
anywhere other than
within was too good
to be true.
Who can resist the aroma
and flavor of a perfectly ripe, freshly
picked strawberry on a hot June day?
The fragrantly sweet juiciness and
deep red color of strawberries can
brighten up both the taste and aesthetics of any meal; it is no wonder
they are the most popular berry fruit
in the world. Although strawberries have become increasingly available year-round, they are at the peak
of their season from April through
July, although June is usually when
they are the most delicious and most
abundant. Look for them at farmers
markets, roadside stands or farms
where you can pick them yourself.
Unlike other fruits, strawberries dont
ripen further once theyre picked,
so look for berries that are already
fragrant and deeply colored. Avoid
bruised, wrinkled or moldy fruit.
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(with the NYS DOH), to which hes assigned a task force consisting of many BC/
EFA grantees and individual supporters.
As an organization, we support the effort
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service organizations represented on that
task force, though. And I know some of
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Patrick White is a Capital Region actor, director and teacher who is currently directing Clever Little Lies by Joe DiPietro opening July 10th
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