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A collection of talks and stories by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
Prologue
You are lost on the street. There is rain, thunder, wind and cold;
you need shelter. You look around and you find a door. You come
to the door because it is more inviting, more charming, more
joyful than anything out on the street.
When you enter the door of the Master, you come home. You see
the world from a new perspective. From inside you can still hear
the thunder and see the rain, but it no longer disturbs you. Inside
there is warmth and security. The world looks much more
beautiful not a nasty place, but a place filled with love,
cooperation, compassion. Your fear drops away.
When you can see the whole world through the eyes of the
Master, it is a sign that you have come to the Master; you have
entered the door. This is the purpose of having a Master.
If you are still seeing the world as before, then you have not yet
come to the Master. You are still standing out in the street; cold
and wet. You are only looking at the door, you have not yet
entered.
What does it mean to see through the eyes of the Master?
Just this: Every situation that you face, you think, If this
situation comes in front of the Master, how would he handle it?
If this complication arises for the Master, how would he take it?
If someone blamed the Master, what would he do?
The key is to feel the presence of the Master. The Master is the
presence, not a relationship. Relationships can be broken, mended,
and broken again. There is craving and aversion in every
relationship. This is the wheel of sansara, the misery of the world.
Table of Contents
Who is a Guru?..............................................................................9
Guru Disciple Stories
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Being a Devotee..29
Stories of Devotees
What Even God Cannot Do.33
Devotion that Made God Turn Around.36
Who is a Guru?
Who is a Guru?
Guru is that principle which is wisdom and love. You also call that
person a Guru, in whom, there is no gap between life, wisdom and
love. Often one recognizes wisdom but sees a gap between wisdom
and ones own life. The purpose of becoming a disciple is to bridge
that gap. Being with the Guru means the spontaneous integration
of life and wisdom.
You need a mirror to see your own face, right? You cannot see it
on a pillar or a wall. You can only see it in the mirror. The Guru is
the mirror that shows you your true Self. He is there to show you
your highest possibility, and to see you blossom in your highest
possibility.
We are in a world where emotion catches emotion. If some people
have an emotion, others catch that emotion. Similarly, wisdom
catches wisdom. In the company of wise people, your quality of
consciousness also shifts. Wisdom is not information, it is a
quality of consciousness that shifts in the mind, and that is
bestowed by the Guru Principle, by acknowledging the Guru in life.
There are a lot of beautiful Guru disciple stories. Ive not read
them all, only heard a little bit here and there. But the essence is
how the quality of consciousness gets shifted, and the shift is a
gift. I will tell you some stories.
This is the first story of Guru Purnima. That was a full moon day,
and that is how the Guru Parampara (lineage of the Guru order)
started. All these four elderly people became Gurus.
They all got what they wanted:
1. Misery was gone.
2. Abundance and happiness arrived.
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That fourth man had everything, he had all the knowledge but he
did not have a Guru to connect to. So the inner connection to the
Guru happened. Thats why Adi Shankaracharya said, 'Mouna
Vyakhya prakatitha, para, Brahma thathwam yuvanam'.
(Meaning: I praise and salute Dakshinamrthy (The first Guu), who
explains the true nature of the supreme Brahman through his state
of silence)
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To this Karthikeya replied, "Then you tell me, what is the meaning
of Om?"
Lord Shiva smiled and said, "Even I dont know".
Karthikeya then said, "Then I will tell you because I know the
meaning of Om".
"Then tell me the meaning, since you know it", Lord Shiva said.
"I cant tell you like this. You have to give me the place of the
Guru. Only if you put me on the pedestal of the Guru can I tell
you", said Karthikeya.
Guru means he has to be on a higher position or platform. The
teacher has to sit on a higher place and the student has to sit
down and listen to him.
Now how does this get resolved? Where to seat Karthikeya, for
there is nothing above Lord Shiva! He is the highest. What to do?
Lord Shiva too didnt know what to do. Then Goddess Parvati
(Shivas consort) said to Lord Shiva, "Lift him onto your shoulders".
So Lord Shiva lifted him on his shoulders and kept him high. And
in the ear of Lord Shiva, Karthikeya gave him the meaning of the
ultimate truth the meaning of Om!
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said, "Yes Gurudev said the right thing. When you are in a job you
dont think about yourself. Now that you have lost your job, you
have the time to sit back and think about who you are, and what
you want. You have some time to think about your life!
In life to get time itself is a big luck. Getting time to reflect on
oneself, on the divine, on the truth, on Who I am, is a big luck.
The other gentleman whose wife ran away, Gurudev said, Youre
very lucky! So far he was living so insensitively. He did not bother
to see what his wife needs. When someone goes away, then you
realize their value. Then you think about your mistakes. You
become aware of the things you could have done better. So he is
very lucky to become sensitive to womens issues.
Why would a woman run away if you were attending to her
welfare, to her emotional, mental and physical needs? There is
something that you have done wrong. She made you aware that
you have to be sensitive towards women. He understood this and
so he was also happy.
So like this, in every step of life, when you lose something you
become so miserable, but every misery wakes you up.
The first step is to realize that everything is misery. Life is
miserable, life has sorrow. When you start realizing that life is
miserable, then viveka (discrimination) and vairagya
(dispassion) dawns in you. When dispassion dawns in your life,
you are the luckiest!
So first you realize that it is all misery. Then, from It is all misery,
you move to the next step which is, Where is the misery? Wake
up! Life is blissful.
This is where the Guru comes into play. In the Gurus presence
misery vanishes and life becomes blissful . Life is bliss, life is a
game, this understanding dawns.
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In this story, the Guru is viewed to have a very cruel attitude. The
boy has learnt on his own, while Dronacharya goes and asks for
his thumb, taking away his archery skill. How bad this Guru was!
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This is one way to see: the Guru robbed the student of his skill. But
from the other side, if you see, if it were not for this incident,
nobody would have ever known Eklavya.
Though on the outer level it seemed as if Dronacharya had done
injustice to Eklavya, but actually Dronacharya uplifted Eklavya
because this one act made him immortal.
So when people think of devotion, they think of Eklavya, and not
Arjuna.
See the greatness of Dronacharya, he took the blame on him and
uplifted his student. That is why, even if the Guru is wrong, if your
devotion is there, you can never go wrong. But the Guru is not
wrong, it appears he was partial but he uplifted Eklavya and
preserved his Dharma (duty) also.
This is a beautiful story.
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Being A Devotee
Being A Devotee
There are three types of people who come to the Master:
1. The Student
2. The Disciple
3. The Devotee
A student goes to a teacher and learns something, gets some
information and then he walks out of the school. There is no more
information to be given or taken. A student collects information,
but information is not knowledge, it is not wisdom. If just by
having a lot of information one's life would change then that
information is not just information, because information alone
cannot effect a big change.
Then there is the disciple. The disciple follows the example of the
Master. But the disciple is with the Master for the sake of learning
wisdom, for the sake of improving his life, for the sake of
attaining enlightenment. He has a purpose, a cause, so he is not
just collecting information but he is trying to look a little deeper.
He is trying to bring a transformation in his life. He wants to
make sense out of his life. That is a disciple. A disciple is still
centered around himself. So disciples take some time of their own.
According to their capacity they grow, and one day they may get
enlightened.
Then there is a devotee. A devotee is not there even for wisdom.
He is simply rejoicing in love. He has fallen in deep love with the
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Master, with the Infinity, with God. He does not care whether he
gets enlightened or not. He doesnt care whether he learns a lot of
knowledge or not. But that very moment and every moment, he is
immersed in Divine love and that is enough for him or her. A
devotee is very rare to find.
Students are all over, disciples are a few, but the devotees are rare.
It is nothing great to become God or be God. Whether you want or
not, all of you are already Gods. A stone is also God, you are also
a God, and everything is God. There is nothing great in wanting to
become God because God is already there. But it is great to become
a devotee. Do you see this?
Everything, whether you want it or not is already God. But where
love has flowered totally, that is a devotee. Attraction is
everywhere, love is somewhere, but devotion is again rare.
Devotion is very beautiful.
A student comes to a Master or Guru with tears in his eyes
because there are so many problems. And when he leaves, then
also he is carrying tears in his eyes, but the quality of the tear is
different. It is of gratitude. Still tears flow, but they are tears of
gratitude; of love. It is so beautiful to cry in love. One who has
cried even once in love, knows the taste of what surrender is, and
what devotion is, and the entire creation rejoices this. The entire
creation is longing for only one thing, transformed tears; from
salty tears to sweet tears (of love).
One of Buddhas disciples named Sariputra got enlightened. When
he got enlightened, Buddha told him, Now you go ahead, go into
the world and teach. Carry on my work.
Now Sariputra left Buddha but he was crying and crying and
crying. People asked him, You are enlightened now, why are you
crying?
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Stories Of Devotees
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A devotee is filled!
Every particle of the devotee is
filled with the Divine.
His heart, his mind, his breath, his body,
everywhere it is only the Divine that is present.
A devotees glory is so much more
than God himself.
- Sri Sri -
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The people who were doing pooja on the other side were all
startled.
This is a very well known fact here. Even today, in the Udupi
Krishna Temple, you will find that when you enter the temple, the
deity is facing the other way around. There is a broken wall, and it
is from the broken wall only that you can see the deity, which is
called 'The Window of Kanakadasa. This is from where he stood
and prayed.
It is said that from then on, caste and class discrimination was
done away with. There are many people who have fought against
class and caste discrimination. He was one of them, and he was
adored by everybody.
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