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Clients Background
Selected Counselling Theory for Indentify and Analyse The
Pupils problems
Goals and Justification
Conclusion
References
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1.0 Coursework 2
1.1 Clients Background
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1.2 Selected Counselling Theory for Indentify and Analyse The Pupils
problems
child grows older, interactions with significant others will affect feelings of self-worth
(Sommers-Flanagan, J., & Sommers-Flanagan, R. 2012).
This might be the reason why Pupil X has been misbehaving. His parents
have affected his feelings of self-worth where he believed that since his parents did
not really communicate with him, his parents did not care for him. Thus he can do
anything that he wants. Besides, he might misbehave because he wanted attention
from his parents. Since his parents did not really care, he believe his parents being
ignorant about him and he continue to have the belief by continue to misbehave.
Pupil X does not have the intention to fix his attitude and does not seem to
share his problems to someone else. Since it is difficult for him to share his problem
to someone else, non-directive method seems to be the suitable method to be used
in order to explore Pupil X. By this method, he will tend to explore his reasons to his
own problem and any positive potential that he have. This will also resulting him to
realise and try to overcome his own problem by having the ambition of pursuing his
positive potential and therefore adjust his own attitude.
By looking at the congruency of the two elements in human as what Rogers
have believed, Pupil Xs self- image and his ideal self does not seem to overlap with
each other. This by means the more they overlap, the more congruent they become.
Pupil X might have his own wish to be happy and loved by his parents. He might
have his own ambition to be a better person but because of his self- image that is
what he sees of himself, he did not plan to change or pursue his dream. This might
be because there is no one that is close to him accept him the way he is and often
other people sees him as the problematic ones. The development of congruence is
dependent on unconditional positive regard. Rogers believed that for a person to
achieve self-actualisation they must be in a state of congruence (Prout, H.T., &
Brown, D.T. 2012)
do. Besides that, as a counsellor i should create a therapeutic condition for the client.
The main emphases of therapeutic condition are empathy, positive regard and
congruence.
Empathy is the ability to feel with the client and show the understanding back
to the client. In this clients case, I will try to understand his problematic behaviour by
accepting him as a child who does not receive enough love and care from his
parents. Instead of judging him for being a problematic pupil, I will show my care and
understanding towards any problems that he is having. Whereas for having respect
and positive regard towards the client, I will try to make him feel safe by genuinely
and positively accepts the client regardless of what matter the client is telling me. For
instance, I will not judge him for his problem for truancy by asking him about the
matter. Through this, the client will feel valued regardless of how bad he is. Whereby
for congruency in terms of what the counsellor should show towards the client, I will
show him genuine behaviour and expressions towards the clients sharing. I should
be the active listener while he will tell me his stories. The non-verbal language that I
portray in front of him should be welcoming him and interested to his stories while he
telling them to me.
Non-directive method is the technique used in the theory of Person Centred
Counselling. Non-directive technique is used in order to not lead the client to do what
he or she should do but rather help the client by accompanying the session in
exploring him or herself. As mentioned before, the client seemed difficult to share his
problem to anyone else. He seemed to be quite secretive and often isolate himself
from the society in school. The client might be the type that is difficult to be directed
since he is quite secretive and rebellious in some way. Therefore, it is suitable for me
to use non-directive technique in order to tackle him out of his own perception.
Instead of asking questions about him, I will indirectly lead him to tell about his life
and routine. By this, I will not interpret his life and offer to help him in by directing
what he should do but rather let him find his ways by realising his own potential.
By telling most of his own story, the client might unconsciously tell his
sadness and disappointment that he has and that has caused him to react
problematically in the school. Although at first it might be quite difficult to influence
him to talk about himself since he is quite secretive, I could attract him to share
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about himself comfortably by creating a very supportive and a person with full of
acceptance toward whatever kind of attitude that he has. This non-directive way is
suitable for me to be used upon the client because he is known as rebellious pupil.
Since directing the client to do something might not help him much because he might
be stubborn to accept someones opinion or advice, by letting himself to learn about
him might be much suitable for him. This might help him to direct himself to realize
the core to his behaviour. He might realize that he have other hope in his life besides
his own parents for example his younger siblings and he might realize that he has
other responsibility towards his younger siblings rather than working so hard and
having his own self-worth in order to get his parents attention. The technique also
may help him to overcome his fear of his parents and may help him to start interact
to his parents later on when he has explored more about himself.
As viewed by Mcleod, S. A. (2007), The closer our self-image and ideal-self
are to each other, the more consistent or congruent we are and the higher our sense
of self-worth. A person is said to be in a state of incongruence if some of their
experience is unacceptable to them and is denied or distorted in the self-image.
From the assumption of earlier discussion, the clients self-image has a quite
negative perception of himself.
Ideal-self
Self-image
Figure 1
The self-image of the client is that he thinks that he is a bad person and it is too late.
Therefore he will not take any advice for him to change. Since the self-image of the
client is that he having the negative perception about himself, I will help him to
explore his ideal-self. This is in order for him to realize what he would like to be in
hope that the self-image of the client will be more consistent to with the ideal-self of
the client. In facilitating the process, I should look carefully upon the unconditional
positive regard that I provide towards this client. Besides that, in exploring his ideal
self, I have to help him to build his self-esteem so that he would realize his ability
and extinguish his fear towards his parents.
His parents has developed the sense of fear and low self-esteem that he
thinks that he is no use to his parents therefore he gave up upon himself and did not
have any effort to make his parents proud. By having a higher self-esteem, the
clients self-image and ideal-self will be more consistent and congruent.
Conclusion
Firstly, I would like to thank God for given the opportunity to complete
coursework of Guidance and Counselling for Children (Edu 3073) within the time
allocated for us. I would also like to thank the lecturer this subject, Mr. Tan Sin Keat
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who has guided me and my course mates to perform tasks with this project. I
realized that without his help and guidance, we could not produce a complete
project.
Throughout this assignment, I have gained a lot of input and knowledge of the
assignment. Through this assignment, we were given two coursework to be worked
on that is the report that we have obtained for the school that we attended for our
practicum and the case study of one counselling case that we have obtained from
the school. In the first coursework, I have to categorise the programmes planned by
the school according to the correct services of guidance that we have learnt in this
subject. Through this task, I have learnt that most of the programmes and events are
from the services of guidance. Therefore I have known the importance of guidance
services and the role of the Guidance and Counselling unit is rather vital with a big
responsibilities and vast scope in school society. For the second coursework of the
assignment, we are required to do case study of an individual that has conducted by
Guidance and Counselling teacher in the school. For this assignment, I have chosen
to examine the case study involving truancy. For this coursework, I have learnt that it
is not easy to conduct intervention towards a problematic pupil. It needs a skilful and
knowledgeable counsellor to conduct the intervention. But with the help of the
theories that I have learnt, they became the guidelines for me to choose which
theory could help the pupil in need. Through this task, I also learnt more about the
theory of Person Centred Counselling where it helps a lot in handling pupils
especially the rebellious ones.
In conclusion, I felt very excited over this assignment. Through this task, I
hope of becoming a good and effective teacher not necessarily in teaching but also
in managing emotions and in touching my pupils heart. Other than that, this
assignment has thought me to on how to make judgments when faced with such a
situation mainly in dealing with cases or discipline problems in the classroom.
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