BDSM CHECKLIST

This checklist can be filled out by a Sub and provided to their Dom/Top before playing with them.
This will provide a quick "head-start" to identifying limits, negotiating and finding common
ground for play. Dominants may wish to work through the checklist, to get a better handle on
their specific interests. Switches should go through the checklist twice; one persons Dom and
Sub interests may be very different.
For each item, you need to provide two answers:

Experience
Have you had real time experience with the activity?
Indicate YES or NO next to each item. Write N/A if it does not apply to your
gender.
Willingness
Are you willing/open to try an activity?
For each item, indicate the degree to which you are willing to try
that particular activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0-5 (see
rating scale below).
If you write "no", it means you will not do that item under any
circumstance (a hard limit). There is nothing wrong with
indicating 'no' on an item. However, if you write 'no' next to
every item, you should probably find another interest to
pursue.... like knitting or basket weaving. *grin*
If you do not understand what an activity is, mark that item with
a "?".
Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to
do only with your current sex partner(s), but not with casual
play partners
Rating Scale

BDSM CHECKLIST

This checklist can be filled out by a Sub and provided to their Dom/Top before playing with them.
This will provide a quick "head-start" to identifying limits, negotiating and finding common
ground for play. Dominants may wish to work through the checklist, to get a better handle on
their specific interests. Switches should go through the checklist twice; one persons Dom and
Sub interests may be very different.
For each item, you need to provide two answers:

Experience
Have you had real time experience with the activity?
Indicate YES or NO next to each item. Write N/A if it does not apply to your
gender.
Willingness
Are you willing/open to try an activity?
For each item, indicate the degree to which you are willing to try
that particular activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0-5 (see
rating scale below).
If you write "no", it means you will not do that item under any
circumstance (a hard limit). There is nothing wrong with
indicating 'no' on an item. However, if you write 'no' next to
every item, you should probably find another interest to
pursue.... like knitting or basket weaving. *grin*
If you do not understand what an activity is, mark that item with
a "?".
Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to
do only with your current sex partner(s), but not with casual
play partners
Rating Scale