FACTOR TO SUCCESS

There is a saying that "Brilliance and Luck is God gifted, which is only 1% of success, rest of
the 99% of the success, comes from hard work". Success in life comes majorly from hard work,
resilience and commitment. There is no use of having brilliance, if that person does not use his
brilliance with hard work to achieve his goal.
There are huge numbers of examples to prove that hard work is the path to success and I will
take one very well-known example of Abraham Lincoln. We all know that he was one of the
greatest President of United States. But he achieved in life purely with his hard work,
determination and resilience. He lost his wife, had loss in business, had a nervous breakdown,
lost three time in Presidential election but he still did not give up and worked hard. Finally he
became 16th President of United States on 1861 and stayed as President of United States unit his
assassination on 1865.
Coming to the present day, we can give a very good example of success from hard work is 44th
US President Mr. Barack Obama. We all know that he is the first African American President in
US and he achieved it only by hard work. He is a native of Hawaii and with mare hard work he
completed his Law degree from two most reputed Universities of the World (Columbia
University & Harvard University). He elected as Senator of Illinois three time and later he got
elected as President of US on 2009 and he achieved all just by mare hard work.
Let us see if there are any examples of success from hard work, available in line of sports. Let us
talk about a very famous football player name Pele. Well this is definitely not his actual name;
rather this was his nick name. We and every football player of the world accepted him as the best
football player of the world and we know that he became the best player not by luck but by his
hard-work. He used to practice football every-day. His coach used to hang rings from the goal
post and asked him to pass the ball through these rings. With lots of practice and hard work, he
sharpened his football kicking accuracy so much that, he could pass the Ball through the ring
even without looking its position. This helped him to score more than thousand goals in the
football world and fetch FIFA Cup three times.
So with the above examples we can conclude that there is no alternative of hard work to achieve
success in life. But there are some examples which contradict to this. Let us take an arbitrary
example of a person who won the lottery. Well definitely there is hard work to this case and by
sheer luck, success can come to person. Let us take one more example of a person winning
"Jackpot" in casino. This is also a good example of winning success just by luck. But this does

not mean he can maintain this success in life for long unless hard work is done to maintain this
success.
So as I mentioned at the beginning, "Success in Life comes with 1% of Brilliance & Luck and
rest of the 99% is just mare hard work", is well concluded from the above examples.

PARENTS AND CHILDRENS BEHAVIOURS

In the current essay we will review how parental behavior affects childrens futures. It is known
that parental behavior may affect the future life of their child. We will find out what exactly
affects childrens futures and how parents contribute to it. Family is a place of formation of a
childs behavior and different habits and reasons can affect it. There are three main points that we
are going to pay attention to: parents hobbies, pernicious habits and communication in family.
All of these points influence a childs life and children always pay attention to parents hobbies
and often copy them. Pernicious habits can harm a child, as if children start to imitate their
parents in everything, they can obtain bad habits and other problems. Also, communication in
family is one of the main aspects of a childs life, as it determines successful future of the child
and happy live within the family.
The first is parents hobbies. It is a good idea for parents to plan who their child will be in future.
It should be said that the amount of childrens knowledge depends on how parents provide a
child with an opportunity to visit libraries, museums, theatres and other cultural places. Also, its
useful for a child to attend sports clubs. But, (some parents forget to consider their childs
opinion), as stated by Santrock. (A result isnt good at all: a disillusioned parent and a tortured
child), as stated in Emotions and Behavior. It should be said, that (children may think of what
they really want to do in their life, but not to fulfill parents dreams), as stated in The
Contribution of Parenting to Ethnic and Racial Gaps in School Readiness.
The second is pernicious habits. Its the worst thing that can happen to a child. Children love to
imitate adults, often adopting not the best habits. (Generally, children repeat parents behavior),
as described in Parents who fight may harm childrens future emotional development. (Children
usually tend to copy the behavior of other people, and mostly of those with whom they spend a
lot of time), as stated in Your behavior as parents determines your childrens future happiness. It
is important to say that if parents drink too much alcohol, a child may think that its normal. The
same situation is with smoking. Moreover, children copy parents actions since childhood. In

these situations children are left alone without parents or follow the path of their parents. In
future, they become like their parents. (If parents care about their child, they will never let this
happen), as stated in Parents effect on child behavior.
The last, third is communication in a family. It is important to talk to children. It is the main
thing every child needs. It is essential to note that communication in the family is the key to
success of a child. Furthermore, communication at home allows your children to develop their
own views, attitudes, and ideas. Family is a source of comfort in times of despair and anxiety.
We all need to talk about our problems, especially children. They may not have friends, but they
still have family and someone to talk to. A great influence also has a relationship between
parents. A child deserves to feel love from both parents.
To sum it up, it should be noted that we have found out what exactly affects childrens futures.
There are also a lot of other factors that can affect childrens future. It is important to say that
parental behavior affects childrens future the most. It should be noted that parents should pay
enough attention to their child, so he will be able to become a good person. In families where the
child feels the love, respect and support, he will grow up with a sense of self-esteem and selfconfidence. All in all, there are three main points we have reviewed: parents hobbies, pernicious
habits and communication in family. It should be noted that family is where a child received the
most important education and parents behavior certainly affects childrens future. Parental
behavior mostly affects children through the three factors we have reviewed the parents
hobbies, pernicious habits, and communication in a family.