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1. Definition of Communication
The terms communication came from Latin word Communicare or Communis which
means equal or making it commons. If we communicate with others, it means we are trying
to make what is being conveyed to others become theirs.
The definition of communication has been largely defined by the experts. If we analyze
from many definitions of communication that exist, it can be conclude that communication
refers to action, by one or more persons, that sends and receives message that are
distorted by noise, happens in particular context, has a particular influence, and there is a
chance to do feedback.
Communication is a basic component from relationship between human being and
includes exchange information, feelings, thought and behaviour between two or more
persons. Communication is a process of delivering message or information from someone to
other person in verbal and nonverbal form. Delivering the message can be done with
symbol, sign, or behaviour.
2. Purpose of Communication
The purposes of using communication process specifically are as follows:
1. To learn or teach something
2. To influence someones behaviour
3. To reveal feelings
4. To explain behaviour of their own or others
5. To get in touched with other
6. To solve any problem
7. To achieve a goal
8. To lower the tension and solving conflict
9. To stimulate interest in yourself or someone else
3. Communications Component
Structural
model
of
communication
identifies
six
functional
components
of
communication as follows:
a. Messanger (communicator/sender)
Messanger is a person who has the idea to be delivered to someone, hoping that it can
be understood by the person who receives the message according to the means of the
messanger. Message is an information that will be delivered or expressed by the
messanger. A message can be in verbal or non-verbal form and can be effective if it is
organized well and clearly.
b. Message/material
Content that will be delivered by communicator. Material of the message can be in the
form of:
i.
Information
ii. Invitation
iii. Work plan
iv. Question, etc
c. Media/link/channel
Media or channel of communication to deliver message such as: meet face to face,
television, radio, newspaper, bulletin board, telephone, etc. Choice of this media can be
influenced by the content of the message to be delivered, number of messanger,
situation, etc.
e. Feedback
Feedback is a sign or response contained some impression from the receiver in verbal
or non verbal form. Without feedback, a messanger will not know the impact of his
message to the receiver. This is important to know if the message has been received
with the correct and proper understanding. Feedback is useful to provide information,
advice that can be taken into consideration and helps to raise trust and openness
between communicant, also it can clarify perceptions.
f.
Contexts/environment
Context is an arrangement where communication occurs. Context (environment) at least
has three dimensions:
i.
ii. Social-psychological, include, for example status of the relation system between
those who get involved, the role run by someone, as well as the culture where they
communicate. This environment or context also includes a sense of friendship or
hostility, formality or informality, serious or joking.
iii. Temporal (time), include time within hours, day, or history where communication takes
place.
These three environment dimensions interact, each influencing and influenced by others.
For example, if we are late for an appointment with someone (temporal dimension), it
can lead to the changes of friendship-hostility (social-physichological dimension), which
then can cause a change in physical proximity (physical dimension). Those changes can
lead to many other changes.
1. Communication Process
This picture below shows what is called universal
communication model. This model
Context/Environment Lingkungan(Lingkungan
contains elements that exist in every communication process.
receives message from himself (listen to himself, feel his own movement, and see his own
body language) and he also receives message from others (by visual, hearing, or even by
touching and smelling). When communicator speaks with others, he sees the communicant
to get any response (to get support, understanding, sympathy, agreement, etc). When the
communicator receive these non verbal signal, then he is functioning as a receiver.
In communication, every action produces message (eg speaking or writing) and it called
encoding. By pouring out our ideas to sound wave or onto a piece of paper, we change
ideas in a specific code. So we are encoding.
Action of receiving message (eg, listening or reading) is called decoding. By translating
sound wave or words in the paper to become idea, decipher the code, then we are
Fe
decoding.
communicator/
encoder
Communicant
/decoder
Dis
Message
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This disturbance can be in the form of physical disturbance (there is someone else who
is speaking), psychological (thoughts inside our head), or semantic (misinterpreting the
meaning).
Table below shows definition and example of three types of disturbances.
Table 1. Types of Communication Disturbances
Type
Physical
Definition
Interference with the
Example
Phone sound, someone speaks,
physical transmission
of signals or other
etc
Psychology
messages
Cognitive or mental
Semantic
interference
Talks and listeners
gives a different
meaning
In order for communication process to run well, it needs knowledge about types of
communication. In the communication process, there are verbal and non verbal
communication. Each components hold an important role in achieving communication
success.
g. Physical characteristic: Health status, body shape, skin color, deformity, distinctive body
odor
2. Interpersonal Communication
Based on types of interaction in communication, communication is divided into
intrapersonal communication, interpersonal communication, small group communication and
public communication. Through intrapersonal communication, we are talking with ourselves,
knowing and evaluate ourselves, considering all decisions that will be made and prepare the
messages that will be delivered to others. While in
interpersonal communication we interact with others, knowing them and ourselves, and
reveal ourselves to others. Small group communication and public communication interact
with more people, usually > 3 persons.
In interpersonal communication, the communication happens between persons face to
face, that enables every participant to catch others reaction directly, verbally or non verbally.
Interpersonal communication which involves only two persons such as in the husband and
wife, two colleagues, best friend, teacher-student, etc.
Purpose of Interpersonal Communication
Interpersonal communication has several purposes. Those purposes such as:
a. Finding Yourself
One of the interpersonal communications purposes is to find personality of someone. If
we get involved in interpersonal meeting with others, we will learn so many things about
ourselves and also about others.
Interpersonal communication gives chance to us to talk about what we like, or about
ourselves. It is so interesting and fun if we discuss about our own feeling, thought, and
behaviour. By talking about ourselves to others, we give an incredible feedback to our
feeling, thought, and behaviour.
b. Finding Outside World
There are so many information that we know come from interpersonal communication,
eventhough there are many information that came to us from that mass media, those things
often discussed and finally learned or explored by interpersonal interaction.
c. Forming and Maintaining Meaningful Relationship
One of the greatest desire from a man is to form and maintain a relationship with others.
Most of the time we use in interpersonal communication is immortalized to form and
maintain social relationship with others.
d. Change an Attitude and Behaviour
There are so many times we use to change attitude and behaviour of others by
interpersonal meeting. We may want them to choose a specific way, such as trying a new
diet, buying a specific object, watching movies, writting and reading a book, entering a
certain area and believe that the thing is right or wrong. We are using many times to get
involved in interpersonal position.
e. To Play and Pleasure
Playing covers all the activity that has a primary purpose which is to look for a leasure.
Talking with a friend about our activities at the end of the holiday, discuss sports, telling
stories and jokes.
important balance in mind that needs to relax from all the seriousness in our environment.
f. To Help
Psychiatric experts, clinical psychologist and therapeutic uses the interpersonal
communication in their professional activity to direct their clients. We all also serves to help
others in our interpersonal interactions daily. We consulted with a friend who break up of
love, in consultation with the students about the courses that should be taken and so forth.
Interpersonal Communication Effectiveness
The effectiveness of interpersonal communication starts with five general qualities, that
is openness, empathy, supportiveness, positiveness, and equality.
1. Openness
The quality of openness refers to at least three aspects of interpersonal communication.
First, an effective interpersonal communicator should be open to the person whom he asked
to interact with. It doesnt mean that the person should open about all of his history. It looks
interesting, but it usually doesnt do any help in communication. On the other way, there
must be a willingness to open himself to tell information that is usually hidden, as long as the
disclosure is worth it.
The second openness aspect refers to the willingness of communicator to react honestly
towards the upcoming stimulus. A person who are silent, not critical, and not responsive, in
general belongs to the boring person. We want people to react honestly to what we said.
And we have the right to expect this. There is nothing worse than ignorance, even
disagreement is more fun. We show the openness by react spontaneously to others.
The third aspect is about ownership of the feeling and thought. Openness in this term
means to admit that feeling and thought given is trully belong to you and you have the
responsibility on it. The best way to tell about this responsibility is by message using I (first
person singular pronoun).
2. Empathy
Henry Backrack (1976) defined empathy as the ability of someone to know what is
happening to someone else at a certain time, from the perspective of the other person,
through the eyes of someone else's." Sympathize, on the other hand is a feeling for others
or feel the sadness of others. While empathy is to feel something like a person who
experienced it, be in the same boat and feel the same feelings in the same way.
An empathic person can understand motivation and experience of others, feeling and
their attitude, also their expectation and desire for future.
We can communicate empathy in verbal and non verbal way. In a non verbal way, we
can communicate empathy by showing (1) active involvement with a person through face
expression and appropriate gesture; (2) centralized concentration through eye contact, full
attention gesture, and physical closeness; also (3) an appropriate touch or caress
3. Supportiveness
An effective interpersonal relationship is a relationship in which there is a supportiveness
attitude. A consept that is formulated by Jack Gibbs work. An open and empathic
communication can not be done in unsupportive circumstances. We show the supportive
attitude by (1) descriptive, and not evaluative, (2) spontaneous, not strategic, and (3)
provisional, not very sure.
4. Positiveness
We communicate the positive attitude in interpersonal communication with at least 2
ways: (1) states the positive attitude and (2) positively encourage the person who become
our friends in every interaction we made. Positive attitude refers to at least two aspects of
interpersonal communication. First, interpersonal communication will be built up if someone
has a positive attitude towards themselves.
Second, positive feeling in communication situation is very important for an effective
interaction.
penting untuk interaksi yang efektif. There is nothing more fun than to communicate with
people who do not enjoy the interaction or do not react favorably to the situation or
interactions atmosphere.
5. Equality
In every situation, perhaps there is an inequality occurring . One may be smarter than
other. Richer, more handsome or beautiful, or more athletic than others. There was never
any two people who truly equal in all aspects. Apart from this inequality, interpersonal
communication will be more effective if the atmosphere is equal. It means that there should
be a tacit acknowledgment that both sides are equally valued and valuable, and that each
side has something important to give. In an interpersonal relationship characterized by
equality, disagreement and conflict can be viewed as an effort to understand the differences
that surely exist rather than as an opportunity to drop others. Equality does not require that
we accept and approve all the verbal and nonverbal behavior of others. Equality means that
we accept the other side, or in the words of Carl Rogers, equality asks us to give "
unconditional positive appreciation " to others .
3. Effective communication
Given the limited time and resources in communicating, so building the effective
communication
is
indispensable.
Effective
communication
becomes
form
of
a) Make sure of what will be communicated and how to communicate (with regard to the
clarity of the message)
b) Use clear and understandable language to the communicant
c) Use the appropriate and adequate communication media if necessary
d) Create a good and right atmosphere of communication (calm atmosphere, not noisy,
comfortable)
e) Listen attentively to what is being expressed by communicant because what is said by
communicant is feedback to the message given by communicator
f)
Comes from any concerns and compassion which are expressed verbally and non
verbally.
Make the communicant feels not threatened and not afraid to express himself and his
emotions.
Use verbal and non verbal communication as a form of understanding of what is felt by
communicant
If I were you... I also will feel sad confuse angry for what has happened..
The disclosure is to say with other words what is being told by the speaker, to check if
you heard it correctly. You do not judge to the content of what they are saying.
To disclosure something, you may use sentences such as:
So you are saying-- So you are thinking-- Looks like you are saying-- etc
Perform reflection:
Telling others what are you thinking about their feeling
Such as: you look angry?
Seems that you are disappointed?
Paraphrasing :
Say it with other words with the same meaning to what have been told to you to get an
exact understanding.
Such as: if I am not mistaken?
Focusing:
Talking about the main problem
Such as: from all of your saying, which one is the most important?
5. Barrier in Communication
Barrier in communication may become a big problem because it complicates and maybe
frustrating for people to communicate each other in understanding the meaning of each.
Some barriers in interpersonal communication such as:
a. Physical barriers : distance, room with a closed door.
b. Perception : every person has their own perception, understanding and thought
c. Emotion : an emotional person tends to not thinking clearly, a person who is
easily suspicious, and over distrust
d. Culture : determine someones behaviour
e. Language : the differences in language will hamper the understanding in
communication
f.
6. Steps of Communication
1.
Greetings
2.
Introducing yourself
3.
7. Communications Competence
The competence of communication refers to your ability to communicate effectively. This
competence include things like knowledge about environments role (context) influence the
content and form of the communication message (such as, the knowledge that a topic
maybe suitable to be communicated to certain listener in a certain environment, but maybe it
may not suitable for other listener and environment). The knowledge about procedure of
nonverbal behaviours (such as propriety of touch, loud voice, also physical closeness) are
also a part of communication competence.
By increasing your competence, you will get many option to behave. The more you know
about communication (means the higher your competency), the more options you may have
to communicate in a daily life. This process is similar to the process of learning vocabulary:
the more words you know (means, the more your vocabulary competence), the more ways
you may have to express yourself.