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This is the prophets voice writ large. Fifty years later we see that we
have taken some steps forward and some back. In our own time, Black
churches are attacked and set ablaze. Fifty years later simmering
racial tensions explode in my hometown of St Louis. Do we ignore the
pleas of Isaiah? How do we live up to the words of what is now our
Reform heritage? For Judaism to have meaning, for the Torah to have
import, it must not only bring meaning to our inner lives, but healing to
the world at large. If it stops here in this sanctuary, with the singing of
Kol Nidre, with the moving rhythms of our prayers, then it is in fact
meaningless. It is not all about the inner life. It is not all about my life.
That is why we spend the better part of this day recounting our sins. Al
cheyt she-chatanu For the sin we have committed We have failed
to live up to our calling. We have stood silent in the face of injustice.
We can always do more for our neighbors.
Our movement has always been at the forefront of these issues,
advocating for change, fighting against discrimination and hatred. This
past Spring I had the blessing of attending the annual convention of
Reform rabbis. It was there that we elected my friend and colleague,
Rabbi Denise Eger, to the position of president of the conference. She
is, as some have read in the papers, the first lesbian rabbi to serve in
this position. It was for this reason that the press coverage was so
vast. I happen to think she is a smart and talented rabbi and that
should be the only criteria for the attention she received. Although I
was deeply moved to be there and witness her election to president, I
was even more taken by those who spoke about their struggle as gay
and lesbian rabbis. They shared their pain. They recounted the many
years they were forced to live closeted. Some of my very own
rabbinical school classmates dared not share their sexual orientation
for fear of being expelled by an institution that officially did not
welcome LGBT students. I feel privileged to have witnessed this
change, to see Reform synagogues shift from a posture of fear to one
of acceptanceall in the short span of 25 years. I felt blessed to meet
a gay Israeli diplomat who grew up in this different age, an age when
he could be both gay and married and find welcome and comfort in a
Reform synagogue.
I am immensely proud in the achievements of my movement. For
decades we have also advocated for the full participation of interfaith
couples. I continue to believe that our synagogues should be an open
door. Our arms should be opened wide inviting and welcoming those
who feel estranged. We are enriched by the participation of others.
Intermarriage is a fact and a reality. Do not believe the pundits. Our
tribe is not lessened. Erecting walls will not do. Seeing blessings in
this new reality is our only option. Never before have rabbis been
confronted with the following. A woman comes to me and says, Rabbi
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contrary to what my friend knew his partner wished. The doctors were
obligated to listen to the parents. In the eyes of the law, to which the
doctors were obliged to adhere, my friend had no authority. As close
as I am to my parents, it is Susie who knows my heart and knows what
I would want. It is my spouse with whom I would trust with such life
and death decisions. The injustice shouted to be addressed.
The young man soon died and I fulfilled the promise made weeks
before, and officiated at the funeral. I cried with my friend. My heart
broke for the parents now mourning a son they refused to accept and
were unwilling to understand. I was overwhelmed by the sight of these
mourners: young men in their 20s and 30s. They were far too
experienced with the rituals of death and mourning than men of their
age should ever be. They knew exactly what to do. Whether Jewish or
Christian, atheist or irreligious, they were accustomed to these rituals.
They had been to far too many cemeteries. They knew how to comfort
each other. They understood how to support each other. It was a
remarkable sight, a blessing in the midst of such sorrow. But the
injustice of it all continued to scream out. They should not have
learned these lessons. In those moments I realized that they should
not only be permitted, but encouraged, to sanctify their love. It is a
matter of justice. It is a matter of our shared humanity. Their marriage
makes no statement about my marriage. Justice Kennedy and the
Supreme Courts majority have it right.
As a Reform rabbi, I can say, the Torah has it wrong. Saying it like that
might make some people really uncomfortable but that is the chutzpah
of the Reform movement. I am not limited to the literal words of the
Torah. For me Torah is far more expansive than the five books of
Moses. We must be open to learning not only from our tradition but
also from modernity. It is this unique combination of the two that is the
hallmark of Reform and that allows us to bring meaning to our lives
and healing to our world.
I stand before you on this holiest of days and declare that although we
may not always agree we have chosen a path that is not one of
convenience as some would suggest, but instead one of intention and
meaning, commitment and healing. This is the legacy of Reform that is
now our inheritance. How will we make it our own? How will we bring
these teachings into our hearts?
All of Jewish practice is to bring more healing to the world. Judaism
provides the tools by which we bring meaning to our lives and healing
to our world. It must not all be about the inner life. We might begin
with the foods we eat. But we must end with the words we speak.
They must be filled with healing and comfort. We must conclude with
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righting the wrongs we see around us. That is the vision provided by
our tradition. That is the mission clarified by Reform Judaism. May this
become our legacy as well. May this path provide the guidance our
new Reform synagogue requires.
Rabbi Steven Moskowitz
Congregation LDor VDor