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Trinity United
Methodist Church
OCTOBER 2015
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Youth News
Christian Education
Bible Studies
Fall Festival
Missions
News and Notes
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Membership News
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Church Calendar
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Birthdays
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BULLYING---Its a problem!
Gossip -- Call names --Tease -- Use mean words -Threaten -- Push -- Hit --Kick -- Leave out -- Damage property -- Steal
WHAT is bullying? is any unwanted aggressive behavior(s) by another youth, group of youths, or adults who are not
siblings or current dating partners, involves an observed or perceived power imbalance, is repeated multiple times or is
highly likely to be repeated. Bullying is an intentional, aggressive and repeated behavior that involves an imbalance of
power or strength. One can be a perpetrator, a victim, or both. WHAT are forms/types of bullying? physical (hitting,
tripping), verbal (name calling, teasing), or relational/social (spreading rumors, leaving out of group, intimidation), sexual, racist, hazing. Electronic aggression or cyber-bullying occurs through e-mail, a chat room, instant messaging, a website, text messaging, or videos or pictures posted on websites or sent through cell phones. WHO is at risk? Anyone. A
bully is more likely to externalize problems such as defiant and disruptive behavior, experience harsh parenting by
caregivers, show attitudes that accept violence. A victim is more likely to have poor peer relationships, have low selfesteem, be perceived by peers as different or quiet. Children/persons with disabilities are at greater risk for being bullied.
WHAT are the stats? 1 in 4 childr en ar e bullied; 1 in 5 r epor ts being a bully; 8% miss school in fear ; 43% fear
school bathroom harassment; 282,000 are attacked at secondary schools each month; 80% of bullying ends in a fight; 1
in 3 have heard another student threatened; 2 in 3 know how (or get information) to make a bomb; most occurs on school
premises. Playground: incident every 7 minutes with adult intervention 4%; peer 11%; none 85%. Cyberbullying: occurs
through e-mail, a chat room, instant messaging, a website, text messaging, or videos or pictures posted on websites or
sent through cell phones. Stats for cyberbullying: in a variety of age groups, up to 40% of students say they have been
harassed; 35% of kids have been threatened online; nearly 1 in 5 have had it happen more than once; 21% of kids have
received mean or threatening e-mail or other messages; 58% of kids admit someone has said mean or hurtful things to
them online; more than 4 out of 10 say it has happened more than once; 53% of kids admit having said something mean
or hurtful to another person online; more than 1 in 3 have done it more than once; 58% have not told their parents or an
adult about something mean or hurtful that happened to them online.
WHAT are warning signs of being bullied? withdr awal, depr ession, r eluctance to go to school, sudden dr op in
grades, self-deprecating talk, staying away from friends, crying episodes, frequent complaints of headaches and/or stomach aches, unexplained bruises. Victims may have torn, damaged, or missing pieces of clothing, books, or other belongings; unexplained cuts, bruises, and scratches; few, if any friends, with whom he or she spends time; seems afraid of going to school, walking to and from school, riding the school bus, or taking part in organized activities with peers; finds or
makes up excuses as to why they cant go to school; takes a long out of the way route when walking to or from school;
loses interest in school work or suddenly begins to do poorly in school; appears sad, moody, teary, or depressed when he
or she comes home; complains frequently of headaches, stomachaches or other physical ailments; has trouble sleeping or
frequent bad dreams; experiences a loss of appetite; appears anxious and suffers from low self-esteem.
WHAT are possible effects of bullying? physical injur y; social and emotional distr ess; mental health pr oblems
such as depression and anxiety; psychosomatic complaints such as headaches, and poor school adjustment; constant fear;
loss self-esteem; depression, drug/alcohol use; violence later in life; suicide. Bullies who are also victims exhibit the
most serious consequences and are at greater risk for mental health and behavior problems.
WHAT to say & do? Ask mor e than Are you being bullied? You might say: Ive heard a lot about bullying in the
news. Is that going on at your school? Im worried about you. Are there any kids at school who may be picking on you
or bullying you? Are there any kids at school who tease you in a mean way? Are there any kids at school who leave
you out or exclude you on purpose? Do you have any special friends at school this year? Who are they? Who do you
hang out with? Who do you sit with at lunch and on the bus? Are there any kids at school who you really dont like?
Why dont you like them? Do they ever pick on you or leave you out of things? HOW to prevent? STAY ALERT to
behaviors, conversations, warning signs. Talk with teachers, guidance counselors. Inform yourself. Participate and advocate for proactive prevention programs. Resources: CDC, STOMPOutBullying.org
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Parish Nurse
(continued)
As with any medicine, there is a very small chance of a
vaccine causing a serious injury or death.
The safety of vaccines is always being monitored. For
more information, visit: www.cdc.gov/vaccinesafety/
5. What if there is a serious reaction?
What should I look for?
Look for anything that concerns you, such as signs of
a severe allergic reaction, very high fever, or unusual behavior. Signs of a severe allergic reaction can include
hives, swelling of the face and throat, difficulty breathing, a fast heartbeat, dizziness, and weakness. These
would start a few minutes to a few hours after the vaccination.
What should I do?
If you think it is a severe allergic reaction or other
emergency that cant wait, call 9-1-1 and get the person
to the nearest hospital. Otherwise, call your doctor.
Reactions should be reported to the Vaccine Adverse
Event Reporting System (VAERS). Your doctor should
file this report, or you can do it yourself through the
VAERS web site at www.vaers.hhs.gov, or by calling 1800-822-7967. VAERS does not give medical advice.
6. The National Vaccine Injury Compensation Program
The National Vaccine Injury Compensation Program
(VICP) is a federal program that was created to compensate people who may have been injured by certain vaccines.
Persons who believe they may have been injured by a
vaccine can learn about the program and about filing a
claim by calling 1-800-338-2382 or visiting the VICP
website at www.hrsa.gov/vaccinecompensation. There is
a time limit to file a claim for compensation.
7. How can I learn more?
Ask your healthcare provider. He or she can give you
the vaccine package insert or suggest other sources of
information. Call your local or state health department.
Contact the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention
(CDC): - Call 1-800-232-4636 (1-800-CDC-INFO) or Visit CDCs website www.cdc.gov/flu Vaccine Information Statement Live Attenuated Influenza Vaccine
08/07/2015.
Hope you have a great month and please get your flu
vaccine unless contraindicated.
BUS TRIPS
We still have some seats left on the bus for our
November 18 trip to Lancaster for the American
Music Theaters Christmas Show, Deck the
Halls. The cost is $81 and is all inclusive. We
will provide snacks and beverages and will have
sandwiches for our trip home.
We have a May 4 trip planned to go to see
Samson at Sight and Sound. This is a new
play, and I think it will be a great trip. The cost
of the show, bus, and dinner is $98.
We have a good time on our bus trips and welcome you to join us for either of these or both.
UPCOMING LUNCH BUNCH SCHEDULE
Our next Lunch Bunch will be on October 14
and our guest will be Cheryl Senkbeil from Mac,
Inc. She will be discussing the role of an ombudsmen and what you can expect if you or your
loved one is admitted to a Nursing Home. I believe this will be very informative and hopefully
you will put the date on your calendar of events.
The November 11 Lunch Bunch falls on Veterans Day, and Tim Robinson who is a professor
of history at S.U. will be here to talk about history as it relates to our veterans we are honoring.
He is also one of our elite members of the
Wicomico County Sheriffs Department.
On December 9 we will be serenaded by the
WiHi Concert Choir under the direction of Dr.
Jeff Baer. This is always a treat for us, and the
young men and women thoroughly enjoy coming
to sing for us.
January 13 kicks off our 2016 season with
Joey Flannigan from the State Fire Marshalls
office, and he will discuss fires and arson and
what is involved in finding the source of fires.
February 10 will find Chief Barbara Duncan
of the Salisbury Police Department visiting with
us. She will be addressing some of the issues with
recent homicides.
The rest of the year I am going to keep under-wraps for now. Wont you join us for devotions, food and entertainment!
Christian Education
by Janal Walton
Director of Childrens Ministries
THURSDAY AFTERNOON
BIBLE STUDY
BIBLE STUDIES
WEDNESDAY NIGHT BIBLE
STUDY
&
Hebrew Class
Every Monday at
6:30 p.m.
Ask the Rev is a Trumpet newsletter feature where Rev. DeFino will answer your questions on the Bible,
doctrine or religious beliefs and events. Send or call your questions into the church office and they will be
answered in future issues.
Trinity continues to superbly support this program. Since July 2009, we have exceeded $1.6 M value of
coupons. We mailed August 2015 coupons to U.S. Navy, Yokosuka, Japan.
HELPFUL TIPS: Please do not tear the coupon booklets apar t. Leave the booklets fastened together just like they arrive in the newspaper. If you do cut out the coupons: cut them into single coupons not in
strips. Please do not staple or roll the coupons with a rubber band. We cannot use restaurant, fast food, and grocery store coupons.
As always, thank you for your response to support this mission to military personnel and families who
serve our country.
Report for the Program
Year
2009
Aug 2015
2015
Month(s)
August
Number
of
Months
Coupons
16,480
$32,251.21
98,052
Grand Total
Dollar Value
($) of Coupons for year
Grand
Total
Number of
Coupons
Grand Total
Dollar Value ($)
of Coupons
928, 677
$1,624,710.02
$194,141.13
Our Seventh Annual Fall Festival will be held on Saturday, November 7th from
10:00a.m.-1:00 p.m. in the Jackson Memorial Building.
We hope that we will have support from all ages for this event.
A highlight will be a cake auction at Noon, with the auctioneer, Bill Middleton.
Our menu will include:
Free hot dogs, popcorn, and chips.
We will be selling Trinitys Vegetable Beef soup for $5 a quart or $2 a bowl.
You can also build an ice cream sundae for just $1.
Please come and be part of this fun event! There will be lots of games, fire truck and canine
unit demonstrations, craft and product vendors and much more.
We could use your help with our Fall Festival! Please check the list below to see if you could
donate an item(s) or your time. Thank you in advance for your support in making this event a
success!
ITEMS TO BE DONATED
Please place items in the back of the church or in the church office by Sunday, October 25.
The food theme for the Lazarus Food Pantry for October is canned fish--tuna, salmon, etc. In addition to our
monthly food items, Lazarus has a continuing need for certain food items to supplement the provided government
food. These items include cereal and other breakfast foods, pasta and sauce, macaroni and cheese, boxed dinners,
hamburger, chicken and tuna helper, canned soups, vegetables and fruits, canned meats, and individual juices and
snack items for the ready to eat bags. The food pantry is always in need of small personal hygiene items such as
deodorant, soap bars, shampoos, lotions, toothpaste and toothbrushes, womens personal items, razor and shaving
cream, chap stick, etc. So far this year, Trinity has donated 2,703 food items to the Lazarus Food Pantry. Since this
project began a little over 10 years ago, our donations total just over 68,000 food items.
For the months of August and September, Trinity donated a total of 38 #10 cans to HALO and the Christian
Shelter. For the year-to-date, we have donated a total of 148 cans to these shelters.
Trinity volunteers continue to serve 100-130 hot lunches, including seconds, at the Joseph House on the third
Wednesday of every month. Our next day to serve will be October 21.
Thanks again for your generous and continuing support for all of Trinity's Missions projects. We are always
looking for ways to broaden our outreach to those in need and would welcome your ideas and participation. And as
you think about ways you might lend a hand, reflect on this familiar passage of scripture: "What good is it, my
brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can that faith save him? If a brother or sister is
poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, and one of you says to them, Go in peace, be warmed and filled, without
giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that? So also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is
dead." James, Chapter 2, verses 14-17.
Ric Bloodsworth
Missions Chairperson
(240) 344-6194
jebloodsworth@gmail.com
Beginning in Spring 2016, the Trinity Emergency Shelter Project (TESP) will replace the homeless shelter project we hosted as part of the Community Emergency
Shelter Program (CESP). Henceforth, Trinity will no longer shelter homeless men
for two weeks at the Jackson Memorial Building; instead, our hosting activities
will move to HALO, where Trinity volunteers will augment HALO staff on two
evening shifts in the men's and women's shelters. Our volunteers will also help
serve breakfast and lunch for shelter residents. The dates for TESP are 27 February-12 March 2016. We will provide regular updates as details for the shelter project are finalized. In the meantime, if you have questions, please feel free to give
me a call.
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Membership News
NEW MEMBERS
August 4, 2015
Connie Lewes
September 1, 2015
Glenn & Doris Gorden
Thank you!
We want to say thank you very much for the school
supplies. We are thankful and grateful for everything
you do for Kids Cafe. May God continue to pour His
blessing upon you!!
Youth Coordinator
Carlyse M.
Thank you all for your thoughts, prayers, and cards. I
was touched by the number of people who have never
met me, and still reached out with words of encouragement. I am pleased to report I am doing much better. It
is truly a blessing to be a part of the Trinity family.
God bless,
Sara Shearer
The family of Doris Webster wishes to express our
sincerest thanks for all the acts of kindness in memory of
our mother, grandmother, and great grandmother. Mother loved Trinity and all of the Trinity family. Special
thanks goes to Rev. Vroman for coming to the house and
officiating her funeral. Also, thanks to Sarah Hopkins for
the cards and letters she sent Mother over the years.
Thanks to all who sent flowers and cards. All of your
acts of love and kindness will always be remembered.
Sincerely,
Valerie, Jeff, and Steve Webster
Bob and Sharen Kriegisch
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October 2015
Sun
Mon
Tue
Wed
Thu
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Fri
2
Sat
3
Gods Kitchen
1:30pm Visitation
Committee
6:30pm MOPS
7:30pm
Sanctuary Choir
8, 9:30, 11am
Worship
Communion
4pm Youth Group
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8, 9:30, 11am
Worship
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1pm UMW
Esther
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9:30am Moms
Morning Out
12pm Pastors
Advisory
1:30pm UMW
Deborah
5:15pm
Nominations
Committee
6:30pm Hebrew
Class
6:30pm FitMinded
Exercise
7pm Moms in
Prayer
6:30pm Bible
Study
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5:15pm SPRC
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5:15pm Trustees
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9:30am Moms
Morning Out
(Banks Closed)
11:30am Lunch
Bunch
6:30pm FitMinded
Exercise
Columbus Day
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6:30pm Hebrew
Class
6:30pm Bible
Study
7pm Moms in
Prayer
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21
25
8, 9:30, 11am
Worship
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Newsletter
Articles Due
6:30pm Bible
Study
7:30pm
Sanctuary Choir
6:30pm Hebrew
Class
7pm Moms in
Prayer
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9:30am Moms
Morning Out
6:30pm Bible
Study
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8am UMM
5:15pm T-Cap
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6:15pm Handbell
Choir
6:30pm MOPS
7:30pm
Sanctuary Choir
6:30pm Hebrew
Class
5:15pm
Administrative
Board
6:30pm FitMinded
Exercise
7:30pm
Sanctuary Choir
Joseph House
Feeding
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9am Women
Supporting Women
Walk
6:15pm Handbell
Choir
5:15pm Finance
Committee
7pm Moms in
Prayer
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22
9:30am Moms
Morning Out
6:30pm FitMinded
Exercise
National Boss
Day
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10am Pine Bluff
Visitation
30
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9am Alzheimers
Walk
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(Set Clocks Back 1
Hour)
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Rebecca Rossi
Chris Shaner
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OCTOBER
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Janet Mitchell
Christopher Shetler
Diane Smith
Laura Thompson
Alexander Acle
Grace Acle
Hunter Greenwood
Makaila Keenan
Gwen Owen
Matt Shockley
Kerry Turner
Alison Dunn
Louis Freshwater
Kendall King
Ken Layfield
Brandon Mahon
Nancy Moyers
Steve Richardson
Katie Rouse
Steve Benedict
Alison Blevins
Sarah Butler
Katelynn Fleming
Ann Holder
Kevin Kenney
Lara Owens
Alyssa Warfield
Christian Webb
Nancy Dix
Linda Dumeyer
Keegan Dunne
George Jones
Joni Martin
Stephanie Phoebus
Laura Robertson
Rick Darrah
Nicole Eberspeaker
Jonathan Guy
Ann Hill
Lily Howard
Nicholas Luppens
Carter Mason
Phillip Menzel
Sara Rossi
Regina Trader
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Kyle Banks
Jay Bozman
Tracy Duvall
Jason Hussey
Hayden Mengason
Conner OMalley
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Donald Bradley
Cynthia Dykes
Donald Kohler
Michael Waller
Linda Baker
George Kreis
Nancy Leer
Andrew Owen
Lucy Doyle
Michelle Mauzy
Carl Vincent
Nathan Abercrombie
Lila Hooper
Lee Mason
Beth Nichols
Cynthia Todd
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Robert Dees
Lee Esham
Bill Hetherington
Stephen Mason
Monica Shores
Christina Vincent
Bud Horner
John Jordan
Ryenne Nelson
Tommy Oechsli
George Pearce
Linda Carrano
Adam Corry
Nathan Downes
David Elzey
Julia Fisher
Ashley Godfrey
Michael Sartorio
Janal Walton
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Betty Baker
Fred Briggeman
Nancy Carroll
Robin Cox
Brian Howard
Rebecca Taylor
Erin West
Pamela Zorzi
Sandra Fowlkes
Julie Horner
Jana Jones
Michelle Kane
Allie Mertensotto
Kyle Stevenson
Joann Todd
Scott Albright
Jonathan Evans
Bonnie Gibson
Ashley Mertensotto
Whitney Morris
Saige Oechsli
Matthew Baysinger
Judy Briele
Justin Giles
Daryl Ann Hudson
Connie Lowman
Nicholas Malone
John Moran
Jennifer Ritchie
Nancy Slayton
Samuel Thorpe
Geraldine Wright
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Patty Blevins
Bob Culver, Jr.
Bob Menzel
Rebekah Morris
Linda Mundt
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Dot Bowden
Richard Collins
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Jodi Brown
David Esham
Levi Hall
Bill McCain
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Alice Evans
Tshya James-Mahon
Elizabeth Menzel
Bailey Pearce
Brian Webb
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Kyler Clifton
Angela Gray
David Hearne
Walter Lischick
Jane Ellen Mengason
John Terrell
Kelsea Wilson
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Thomas Ayd
Amanda Bryan
David Gladden
Lura Lunsford
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John Menzel
Chris Miles
Tiffany Pugh
Sally Rivello
Jessica Rossi
Shirley Sexton
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Alexandra Ayd
Cindy Ayd
Kyle Coffin
Ashley Phippin
William Wiseman
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Dean Gray
Tom Hopkins
Karlie Reichenberg
Ryan Shannahan
Linda Thomas
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Matthew Hedger
Shelley Hogg
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Gina Grier
Sheldon Larmore
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Stella Austin
Ioana Elburn
Margy Meeks
Nancy Ward
Lance Webster
Ferne Wilce
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Thank You
FALL BACK
November 1
(2:00 a.m.)
Daylight Savings Time Ends
Newsletter Staff
General Editor:
Ron Moore
trinitynet@verizon.net
Mailing Coordinators:
Norman and Barbara Webster
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