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In the film, Her by Spike Jonze, Theodore is challenged to view change in the
dynamics of how relationships can aspire to be. The event that I want to discuss is a
climatic event in which Samantha wants to partake in a service that provides a sexual
surrogate for an OS-human relationship. Theodore agrees to try, but in the end doesnt
want to have sexual relations with the surrogate claiming that it felt strange because he
doesnt know or have feelings for the surrogate women. The women locked her self in the
bathroom and said that she just wanted to be a part of the loving, judgment free
relationship that Samantha described to her. The women leaves; Samantha and Theodore
begin to discuss the issues in their relationship and become diverted into an argument
which Theodore points out that she doesnt have to make the sound of taking in a breath
because she has no need for oxygen seeing as how she isnt human. He then states that
maybe it isnt the right time for them to be together.
Throughout the film, Theodore struggles between two conflicting concepts; the
first is conventional morality and the second is post conventional morality. Theodores
biology and experience, nature-nurture, has given him a schema that relationships are one
way, a human-to-human relationship. This makes it difficult for Theodore to try and have
a post conventional morality perspective in which he eventually comes to find. The fact
that his social clock is ticking deters him from assimilating this new schema that he is