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Welcome

i, my name is Timothy Brown and I am the

creator of L.I.F.E. in 90 (Living in Freedom
Everyday), a monthly Christian-based
program made for those who want to break free
from pornography, lust and sex addiction. As a
minister, author, speaker, business owner, and
former addict, this program is the culmination of
over 15 years of firsthand experience in walking with
God as He showed me how to live the abundant and
free life Jesus promised.
The program itself is designed and guaranteed to guide you into the steps to freedom as well as
set you on a course that will awaken a real, personal relationship with God, and lead you to a
happier, healthier, and more prosperous and fulfilling life.

Making a real, lasting,

positive change in your life
is going to require you to
get out of your comfort
zone.

Before I share the 11 Principles For Overcoming

Pornography, Lust and Sexual Addiction with you (which
is one of the many tools we teach in our 90 day
program), I want to first congratulate you and say,
amen, to you making this incredible first step in
getting your life under control. It takes courage and
deep inner strength to realize that there is a problem
and even more courage and strength to do something
about it.

To make any real, lasting life change, it requires one thing and one thing only, and that is a
commitment to being intentional. Sadly, most people who struggle with addiction and life
controlling issues want to get better, they want to change, but they never seem to be able to be
intentional and take the initiative to move. I believe that, inherently, the reason why many dont
make the decision to be intentional is that because, deep down inside, they know, either
consciously or unconsciously, that to do so is going to require them to get out of their comfort
zone.
Let me repeat this just so I am clear.

Making a real, lasting, positive change in your life is going to require you to
get out of your comfort zone.
Listen, the abundant life that Jesus promised you (yes he promised you, more on that later), is
not a destination that you will get to, perhaps, someday in the great by and by. The abundant
life is what you experience when you see progress toward your goals, namely deeper
relationship with God, and freedom from the things that are negatively controlling your life.

And today, Im excited and encouraged, because youve now done what most people dont do,
and that is youve taken your first step. Congratulations. Youve now become intentional!

A Little About Me

mentioned a moment ago that I, too,

struggled in addiction for over 15 years.
Those years were some of the most
agonizing years of my life. I had struggled with
sexual addiction ever since I was 6 years old and
by the time I was 14 and had decided to
become a Christian, I felt that pursuing a life of
going to church, reading my Bible, and prayer
would somehow fix my problems. I grew up in
a very legalistic setting and the more I
struggled, and the more I slipped and fell, the
more guilt and shame I began to heap upon myself.
I never will forget sitting the pastors office, pouring out my heart to him, searching for some
answer for something else I could do in order to be set free. He looked at me and said, If
you really loved God, you wouldnt be doing the things you are doing. You need to read your
Bible, pray, and do more at church. I was devastated. I was already doing all of those things, all
the time.

I felt that pursuing a life of

going to church, reading my
Bible, and prayer would
somehow fix, my problems. I
grew up in a very legalistic
setting and the more I
struggled, and the more I
slipped and fell, the more guilt
and shame I began to heap
upon myself.

So shame and guilt settled in even deeper and I

applied myself even more to make myself love
God to the extreme, all in my effort to be set
free. I wont get into all the details but over the
course of the next 10 years, after nearly a divorce,
and nearly losing my family, losing my ministry,
and trying every program I knew to try, including
the traditional 12 step groups, spending
thousands on counseling and treatment, I STILL
struggled with addiction.

By my mid-twenties, I was running on fumes.

Finally, after spending all my energy to get right
and fix myself, I was exhausted mentally,
emotionally, physically, and spiritually. I felt lost
and often without hope. I settled into a life where I wondered if I was even saved. I felt God
was frustrated with me, at best, and most likely angry at me, at worst. I lived in fear, shame,
and guilt. I had lost money, jobs, relationships, my reputation, and had even gotten into legal
troubles.

And then, everything changed.

After a chance encounter (more like Divine appointment) with a man who had himself been set
free from addiction (he had been a previous heroin addict), I learned for the very first time
exactly how God intends for His children to be set free.
I also learned what it was like to have a real relationship with God, one not built on
performance or on how good I did on any given day, but one based on Christs completed work
on the cross and what Jesus did for us, namely how his death wipes the slate clean and offers
us the opportunity to relate with God without reference to sin, in a life of living in grace.
During that time I learned exactly the steps to not only experiencing sobriety (no longer acting
out the behaviors of addiction), but also the steps to freedom (no longer having the inner
desires to act out in the first place). For the first time in over 15 years, I finally found what I had
been looking for. I found freedom. And it has been absolutely beautiful!
I say all this to encourage you and to let you know that freedom is not only possible, its a
promise. Jesus said these words:

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come
that they may have life, and have it to the full. John 10:10
you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free. John
8:32
So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. John 8:36
It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Galatians 5:1
If you are reading this and you have experienced or are experiencing any of the things I
mentioned above, trust me, I understand. But know that Jesus promises are for you. And He is
for you.
Thats why I created the L.I.F.E. in 90 Program, to take everything God showed me and to put it
in easy-to-follow, easy-to-understand format so that anyone struggling with pornography, lust
and sexual addiction, can find freedom once and for all. If you would like to learn more about
this program, I have included some information below, after the 11 principles.
Ok now let me go ahead and give you my 11 principles for overcoming pornography, lust and
sexual addiction. Here we go!

Mighty Men: 11 Biblical Principles for Overcoming

Pornography, Lust and Sexual Addiction
Principle 1: Identify Your Temptations
Believe it or not, most Christians go through life not really knowing or understanding the things
that trigger temptation in us. You will hear people say, I just dont understand why I keep
doing this, or the Devil made me do it. Well, Satan does play a role, but wisdom would tell
us that it is best to know what things, people, places, situations, etc., put us in a place where we
can begin to feel tempted.
Take out a pen and paper and begin writing down all of the triggers that seem to happen right
before you are tempted to do something you dont want to do. Write down the when and the
what of your temptations.
When are you being tempted the most? Is it when you are alone or with others? Is it when you
are with family or friends? Are you around friends who have few boundaries when it comes to
sexuality? Are you browsing the web late at night or when you are alone? Are you driving near
certain areas where adult book stores are? What are your temptations and when do you feel
them the most?

Principle 2: Identify The Causes Of Your Temptations

Here, instead of asking the when and the what of your temptations, you are going to be
asking the why. On your piece of paper, write down why you think are you being tempted in
the area you are being tempted in. What are your feelings prior to and during the temptation?
What are the underlying causes for you to being tempted?
For example, are you feeling bored? Do you feel you are losing momentum in life? Do you feel
anxious? If so, about what? Do you feel you are not receiving enough affirmation or praise from
others? Are you trying to prove something to yourself, or to others?
An acronym that I learned back in my recovery days, which I still use today is the term HALT,
which stands for: Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired. Typically, people feel the most tempted to
act out with their addiction when they are feeling one of these feelings. So, ask yourself, when
you are feeling tempted, are you feeling hungry, angry, lonely, or tired?

Principle 3: Avoid The Triggers And Situations of Your Temptation as Much

As Possible
Now that we have identified the what, when, and why, of your temptations, now it is
time to start becoming proactive about taking steps to reasonably avoid the sights, sounds, and
situations that give rise to the temptations themselves.
Now let me say at the outset, I do not believe in rigorous legalistic adherence to rules and
boundaries, as if those things alone will keep us from temptation or acting out with our
unmanageable behaviors. They wont. I also need to reiterate that I said we need to
reasonably take steps.
The reason why I say that is because it is impossible to remove ourselves from any and all
temptations. It simply cannot be done. And for another matter sex in the context of marriage is
of course God-given, and is meant to be a blessing in the life of a Christian.
So we have to use wisdom in knowing when things are good for us and when they begin to
cross the line and become unhealthy, lustful and sinful.
The key word here is avoid. Listen to these two verses: Flee youthful passions and pursue
righteousness (2 Timothy 2:22). Make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires
(Romans 13:14). The point Paul is making is, if we are experiencing unmanageability in our lives,
whether it be in the form of pornography or lust, or with unreasonable sexual expectations
with our spouse, then we need to do what we can to set up healthy boundaries that protect us
from the temptations that lead us into committing sin.
So, next, on your sheet of paper, look at the things you wrote down for the when, and the
what, of your temptations. What are some intentional, proactive things you can do to avoid
those things?
Are you being tempted mostly late at night? Maybe change your bedtime and go to bed earlier.
Are you tempted around certain people? Maybe its time to evaluate the importance of those
friendships. Is your struggle online? Get an Internet filter like NetNanny and make porn
unavailable on your computer, phone, iPad, etc.
Are you tempted when you are alone? Seek good and godly friendships and make calls to
people when you are feeling tempted. If you struggle with a certain destination, like a strip club
or adult bookstore, then maybe its time to seek an alternate route home.

Next, focus on the why of your temptations. Are you are feeling hungry, angry, lonely, or
tired? If so, remember that you need to take care of yourself first, in healthy eating, exercising
patience with yourself and others, maintaining good positive social contacts, and getting
adequate rest.
In our program, L.I.F.E. In 90, we go over these things extensively and help you really zero in on
the things that trigger you the most and help you tailor a plan that fits you perfectly. Spend
some time on this. Really take time to reflect. Dont go overboard, but dont take it lightly
either. Remember, the steps you take here are to protect you, not limit you.
And one more thing to remember. These boundaries are not necessarily permanent either. As
your desires begin to change on the inside, your need for negative boundaries will decrease. So
think of this as healthy steps to take at the beginning as the Spirit helps you gain more selfcontrol.

Principle 4: Just Say NO!

There is a reason that Jesus, when Peter was trying to convince him to not go to the cross,
exclaimed, Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind
the concerns of God, but merely human concerns. Matthew 16:23.
Jesus understood that ultimately, behind Peters words, was a temptation that was being
offered to him, through someone who He dearly lovedPeter. But if you notice in the text,
Jesus doesnt even give Satan the time of day. As soon as Jesus recognizes that He is being
tempted, He immediately says, No! Shut up! Be quiet, Satan! Get behind me now! I think it is
proper for us to do the same when we are being tempted.
From experience with working with addicts for many years, I have learned that when we are
being faced with a temptation, especially if we struggle with an addiction or a life controlling
behavior, we have about 5 seconds to forcefully say no to it, before the feelings kick in and the
temptation overtakes us. James 1:14 says: each person is tempted when they are dragged
away by their own evil desire and enticed. The time it takes to be dragged away and enticed,
again, is about 5 seconds. Thats it.
So the next time you are being tempted, take the heart of Joseph (Genesis 39:12), and the
courage of Joshua (Joshua 24:15), and say no to the temptation! Shout it out loud if you have
to. Get up and go outside and remove yourself from the situation. Sometimes, just getting up
and getting a breath of fresh air helps diffuse the power of the temptation completely.
Remember the promise of scripture: Resist the devil, and he will flee from you (James 4:7).

Principle 5: Pray, And Then Pray Some More

Remember Jesus Himself when He taught His disciples to pray, He told them to say to God,
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. Matthew 6:13. Jesus
understood the need for prayer when it comes to being tempted by the Enemy.
As Christians, we have direct access to all the love, protection, grace, power, and freedom of
heaven. Christ Himself lives inside of us and is constantly praying for us on our behalf (Romans
8:34). He understands our weaknesses as Hes been there Himself and has conquered them all.

15 For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize

with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in
every way, just as we areyet he did not sin. 16 Let us then
approach Gods throne of grace with confidence, so that we may
receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.
Hebrews 4:15-16
So when in the middle of temptation, use one of the greatest weapons you havepray! Pray,
pray, pray, until the temptation goes away, as the saying goes.

29 He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the

weak. 30 Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble
and fall; 31 but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength.
They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary,
they will walk and not be faint. Isaiah 40:29-31
Principle 6: Reach Out To Others
This principle is all about accountability. The truth is, God has always called His people to live in
fellowship and community together. God never intended any of us to be lone ranger,
Christians. And yet, when it comes to dealing with temptation, many think that they can handle
it all themselves, just between them and God. While its true that God is alone more than
enough to help us in our time of need, it is also true that God tells us

Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each
other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous
person is powerful and effective. James 5:16
Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.
Galatians 6:2

Having accountability, again, helps us quench and snuff out the flames of temptation. Why?
Because secrecy is like gasoline on a flame, whereas accountability is like pouring bucket loads
of water, putting out the fire. I have never been able to deal with temptation on a long term
basis without having a small group of very trusted individuals in my life, who help me stay
accountable to both my negative boundaries (things to avoid), and positive boundaries
(spiritual practices I need to stick to).
So take some time this week and ask some close friends, people you trust, to help hold you
accountable. Ask them if they would be willing to take a call from you in times when you are
being tempted.

Principle 7: Turn To Truth

Remember when Jesus was tempted by Satan in the wilderness after he had fasted for 40 days?
Satan tried to tempt Jesus 3 times and each time, he tried to get Jesus to put more confidence
in himself, Satan, or other things instead than God. One time Satan even used scripture and
twisted it into a lie, all in an effort to get Jesus to sin (see Matthew 4:1-11). Here is what I want
you to notice. Each time Jesus is tempted, He quotes scripture. In other words, He repeats
Truth back to Satan, to counter his lies!
Whats the point? The point is, saying no is not enough. Walking away from the temptation is
not enough. See, every temptation we face is a lie, either a lie that weve come to believe
about ourselves or a lie that we believe about God.
Theres so much to write about here as this is one of the main keys to finding real and lasting
freedom from pornography, lust and sexual addiction (we discuss this in detail in the L.I.F.E in
90 Program), but let me say, in brief, when dealing with temptation, you have to eventually
move from defense to offense. You have to learn to fight fire with fire!
So how do you do this? You respond to the lying promises of sin, with the truthful promises of
Gods Word. Listen, the Bible calls sin deceitful desires (Ephesians 4:22). The temptations we
have may feel like they promise us fun, relaxation, excitement, fulfillment, hope, etc., but, in
truth, they are what they aredeceitful. And we have to treat them as such. The only way to
not be deceived is to know the Truth. And the only way to know the Truth is to become
intimate with the Truth. That means daily meaningful time in Gods Word and in prayer.
Understand that the focus on daily time in the Bible and prayer is not so you can memorize a
bunch of Bible facts. You dont fight temptation with doctrinal positions. You fight temptation
with a relationship with Christ. We go to the Bible and to prayer in an effort to be intimate with
the Author Truth-giver Himself, Jesus Christ.

So spend ample time in Gods Word daily, long before any temptation arises. Know the
promises and the truths of scripture. The next time Satan tries to tempt you with lying words or
even twisted scripture, you will not only be able to say no! but you will also have the truth of
Gods word ready and on the tip of your tongue to back it up.

Principle 8: Faith That Moves Mountains

Truth is ineffective if it is not combined with faith. Faith, biblically speaking, has more to do
with our trust in God to do what He says He is going to do, rather than some kind of inner
strength that we have within ourselves. We know all too well what happens when we try to
fight temptation in our own strength. We lose.
So we need faith. Faith is believing in what God says is true and that God will supply whatever is
needed for His will to be accomplished. Take Abraham, for example. God called him when he
was in his old age, way past the time for him to be able to have children, and yet, God told
Abraham that he would one day have a son and that all the nations of the earth would be
blessed through him. Hard to believe? You bet! But Abraham believed God. The scriptures tell
us that:

18 Against all hope, Abraham in hope believed and so became

the father of many nations, just as it had been said to him, So
shall your offspring be. 19 Without weakening in his faith, he
faced the fact that his body was as good as deadsince he was
about a hundred years oldand that Sarahs womb was also
dead. 20 Yet he did not waver through unbelief regarding the
promise of God, but was strengthened in his faith and gave glory
to God, 21 being fully persuaded that God had power to do what
he had promised. Romans 4:18-21
Thats faith. Believing that God has the power to do everything He has promised. As we spend
daily time reading Gods Word, memorizing it, learning it, and as we spend time deepening our
relationship with Christ, naturally we will grow in our faith as God proves to us that He is
trustworthy, and that His promises really are real. Over time we learn that Truth is Truth no
matter what, and that we can believe God to do what He says He will do, regardless of our
circumstances.

So for example, if I am in the midst of being tempted and I feel like I cannot stop the behavior I
am being tempted to do, realize that it is only a feeling. It is not Truth. Why? Because Gods
Word says in Romans 6:6-7

6 For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that
the body ruled by sin might be done away with, that we should
no longer be slaves to sin 7 because anyone who has died has
been set free from sin.
Feelings do not determine Truth. Truth determines Truth. We might feel as though we cannot
stop, that we have to give in to the temptation. But the Truth says that our old self was
crucified, and that we have been freed from sin. Faith is believing that what God says is true no
matter what. So over time, as we learn to trust God, and as our faith increases, we learn to
listen to Truth in the midst of our temptations, and not to our feelings. Its in these very
moments when we choose truth over the feelings of our temptations that we move
mountains with our faith.
Bottom line is this; Temptation follows feelings. Faith follows Truth. We are free from sin.

Principle 9: Hold On To The Promises

This is where the going gets tough. If the temptation persists, hold on. Keep Christ and all that
He accomplished for you on the cross firmly fixed in your mind. Keep on praying, keep on calling
accountability partners, keep on turning to truth, and holding on to faith. Why do I say hold on,
or persevere? Because it is precisely here where many give up and give in. It is here where we
need to go to God with our whole heart, and not let up until the temptation has fully lost its
power. Listen to some of these passages of scripture:

Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our
faith Hebrews 12:2
8 Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right,
whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirableif
anything is excellent or praiseworthythink about such things.
Philippians 4:8

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1 Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts
on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.
2 Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. 3 For
you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God.
Colossians 3:1-3
Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed
by the renewing of your mind. Romans 12:2
The message is clear. Dont dwell on the temptation, dwell on Christ! Set your mind on things
above (Christ, His promises, faith, etc.), not on the things on the Earth (the things that are
tempting you and making you feel as though you have to give in). So as you seek to keep your
mind on Him, dont let go. Persevere. Hold on to them and keep holding them. How long? For
as long as it takes. I promise you, the temptation will not last forever. Over time, and with
enough time, the power behind the temptation will begin to subside.

Principle 10: Deepen Your Passion For Christ

In my program, L.I.F.E. in 90, one of the core elements we teach is not only how to come to
know God deeper through experience, and the difference between lies vs. truth, but we also
show you how to develop deeper passions for the things of God.
See, the problem we face with temptation and sin is that often, we have a greater passion for
the sin than we do for God Himself. Now, sure, we may not have a greater passion for sin most
of the time, but most of the time is not the problem, is it? Its in the heat of the moment, when
the temptation arises, where we really discover which passion has greater weight.
For this principle, the idea is to pursue God with your whole heart. Think of your relationship
with God like any other relationship you treasure. If you really love someone, like a spouse, or a
son or daughter, what do you do? You spend time with them, learn their likes and dislikes. You
do things for them, and delight in their presence.
Listen, as you read Gods Word, you will discover a God who delights in you. He loves to spend
time with you. He is eager for when you wake up in the morning and He watches over you with
a smile on His face as you sleep at night.
He loves you so much that He gave His Son to die for you. If you are in Christ, He is not angry,
sad, or frustrated with you. He loves for you to be in His Presence. So take Him up on the offer.

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Learn to treasure Christ more than you treasure pornography, lust, and sex and whatever else is
causing struggles in your life. As your passion and taste for Jesus grows, you will notice
something miraculous begin to happen on the inside of you.
God, over time, will begin to change your desire system. You will begin to no longer desire the
same things you used to desire. Why? Because your love and desire for Christ will finally grow
to be stronger than your love and desire for anything else. Make it a part of your daily prayer to
say, like the Psalmist, Satisfy us in the morning with your steadfast love, that we may rejoice
and be glad all our days" (Psalm 90:14).
As you begin to have real encounters with God and see His activity in your life, then you will see
your heart begin to change. You will see what Paul describes as the fruit of the Holy Spirit,
begin to happen naturally from within you. The fruit of the Holy Spirit is the fruit of your
relationship with God. It is a fruit that grows as you learn to accept the passion and love that
God has for you.
As you accept the passion and love God has for you, you will begin to notice a growing burning
passion in you, for God. And its these very holy desires that, over time, begin to grow stronger
than your desires for porn and sex. As your passion and love for God increases, so too does
your heart become free.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance,

kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness and self-control.
Galatians 5:22
Principle 11: Move On To Something Better
If youve ever struggled with an addiction or a habit that just wont go away, you know how lifedraining it can be. I am reminded of Jesus words when He talked about Satan and what his plan
is for us. Jesus said, in John 10:10, The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have
come that they may have life, and have it to the full. Did you catch that? The subject of the
verse is about your life. Jesus said He came to give you a lifea full, abundant lifeand Satan,
on the other hand, wants to steal, kill, and destroy it. Its time to put a stop to Satans activity in
your life and start actually living it!
This principle is all about celebrating the life weve been given. Idle hands are the Devils
workshop, the old adage says. And its true. If we are not being intentional about living life as
God has given it to us, then we are intending to not live. And I know if you are like me, you want
to live! So what do we do? We look for positive and healthy pleasures and activities to take the
place of the ones we used to use to make us feel better.

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Instead of going to pornography and sex to find a mere mirage of fulfillment, learn to go on
hikes through the woods. Take up fishing, hunting, or learning a new hobby or skill. Take walks
in the park, get together with good friends and play card games, etc. Find something good to do
with your time and do it with all of your might, and have fun doing it! I wasted so much time
when I was an addict, just pursuing one fix after another.
These days, I enjoy time with my kids, reading, going camping and fishing, learning outdoor
survival techniques, hanging out with my accountability guy friends, etc. Those things bring me
joyand lifea way greater life than what my addiction used to give me.
So, the next time you are tempted, tell Satan that he has no more control over your life. Tell
him he cannot steal, kill and destroy it any longer. Why? Because from now on, you plan to live
it!

A Few Last Words

I want to congratulate you again on your decision to being intentional about your relationship
with Christ. Spiritual warfare is not easy, but in Christ we are well-equipped. Our God has not
left us alone in this world and the beautiful thing about our relationship with Christ is that we
get to wake up each day knowing that His love, guidance, peace, and strength are with us every
step of the way.
I realize that there are many who will take these principles and be able to apply them to
overcome the sexual temptations that they are experiencing in their lives. I also know that
some, like I did when I first learned about my freedom in Christ, will need to go deeper.
Addiction can be overcome (and in Christ it has already been overcome), but sometimes we
need help a gentle hand on the shoulder, and loving guidance by someone else who has been
there, to help us find the way.
If you would like further guidance on how to live free from pornography, lust and sex addiction,
then consider signing up for the L.I.F.E. in 90 Program. All it takes is a simple click to get started,
and I will show you the rest. I will personally equip you with all of the tools that God used to
show me how to live free, and I promise youwithin 90 days, your life will be changed forever.
I wish you the very best. May every day be filled full of the abundant life of Christ in your life.
Blessings,

Timothy M. Brown, Jr.

P.S. As promised, on the next page I have included some important information for you on the
L.I.F.E. in 90 Program (Living In Freedom Everyday).

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The L.I.F.E. in 90 Program (Living in Freedom Everyday)

discovered the 11 principles that you read above over a period of 15 years as I struggled in
an agonizing, life-destroying addiction to pornography and lust. It was not until God had
taken me through some intense, eye opening, and painful life experiences that the
11 Principles finally began to set my heart free from addiction.
If you are at all like me, and youve struggled with pornography and sexual addiction, then you
have a gut feeling that knows that sticking to principlesconsistentlycan seem almost
impossible.
Perhaps you are like I was 7 years ago. I was rock at rock bottom and sick of tired of being sick
and tired. I had tried everything I knew to do to be set free from pornography. And as a
Christian, the shame and guilt I felt threatened to overwhelm me. It seemed Satan had a
foothold in every area of my life.
I had gone to all the 12-step groups, been to counseling,
went to church, read my Bible, prayed, fasted, gotten on
various medications, practiced spiritual disciplines, went
to pastors, doctors and specialists, and in the end I could
never seem to live free from my addiction.
I had lost jobs, and my habit was causing me to spiral into
debt. My health was going down. I had pushed away most
of the people I loved, and some of my relationships with
family and friends had even ended. My marriage too, was
nearly over. And I was starting to get into legal troubles.

In this program, you will

discover a road map (the
same one God showed me)
that leads to a life that is
far more satisfying than you
could ever imagine.

I knew that my life was spinning out of control, and I knew something had to change, and
change soonor Id be dead.
I felt alone. I felt hopeless. I wondered if I was even saved, if God really loved me. Or if I could
even change.
All this to say, if you know deep down inside that you struggle with pornography, lust, or sexual
addiction of any kind, and you want it to stop, then youre going to need help.
Because although freedom is promised to us as Christians, there is one thing I know for sure.
It cannot be achieved alone.

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Many of my friends have gone down the road of trying to go at it alone and Ive watched in gutwrenching agony as they lost everythingtheir spouses, children, friends, finances, hopes, and
dreams, their healthand with some of them, even their lives.
But what if there was a better way?
What if we CAN be set free from the sinful patterns of addiction? What if we can actually live
the abundant life that Jesus said he came to give us, not sober from addiction, but completely
FREE from it?
I want to introduce you to the L.I.F.E. in 90 Program. L.I.F.E. in 90 (Living in Freedom Everyday),
is a monthly Christian-based program made for those who want to break free from
pornography, lust and sexual addiction.
As a minister, author, speaker, business owner, and former addict myself, this program is the
culmination of over 15 years of firsthand experience in walking with God as He showed me how
to live the abundant and free life that Jesus promised.
This program is guaranteed to guide you into the steps to freedom, as well as set you on a path
that will awaken a real, personal relationship with God, and lead you to a happier, healthier,
and more prosperous and fulfilling life.
So what can you expect with the L.I.F.E. in 90 Program? For the first 12 months you will receive
step by step guidance as I personally teach you the exact process that God showed me, which
set me free from addiction.
You will get a 12-month program, complete with teaching material, reflection questions,
intentional time with God, and action steps to help you accelerate toward your goal of
becoming free.
I have designed the program to be simple, something that you can do in your own time, at your
own pace, literally from the comfort of your home. And my personal guarantee is that if you
commit to at least 90 days of this program, you will see your life change forever.
Here are just some of the things that you will learn in the L.I.F.E in 90 Program.
You will:

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Break free from the habitual patterns of sin and bondage that hold you back, and finally
gain control over your life.
Begin to heal from pain and trauma, and move beyond the paralyzing moments of your
past.
Be set free from fear, shame, and guilt, and move into a life of courage, confidence,
peace, and joy.

Finally be able to live the abundant life that Jesus promises.

Begin to experience the fruit of the Spirit.
Experience a real, relevant, and tangible relationship with God.
Begin to discern Gods will for your life and live within your calling, fulfilling the exact
purposes for which God created you to do on this earth.
Begin healing and rebuilding trust in the most important relationships in your life (with
your spouse, family and friends).
Begin to connect with others who are also learning to live free from their addictions and
life controlling behaviors.
Learn to succeed and thrive in the areas of health, relationships, wealth, and work.

And thats just a short example of whats included in the program

After you complete the 12-month program, you will then receive the L.I.F.E. in 90 aftercare
newsletter, which will go even deeper into the lessons learned in the L.I.F.E. in 90 Program,
providing you further guidance, teaching, inspiration, shared stories of freedom from others in
the program, freedom exercises, guided encounters with God, and much much more.
You will also get:

Added to our online community where you will be able to meet, be accountable to, and
share your experience, strength, and hope with other L.I.F.E. in 90 members.
Get exclusive access to online coaching and mentoring opportunities.
Get discounts on other resources that can help you with your recovery process.

So heres the bottom line. If you are ready to change your life. If you are ready to break free
from addiction once and for all. Then once you go through the L.I.F.E. in 90 Program:

You WILL experience a radical awakening in your relationship with God.

You WILL begin to see His activity and fingerprints in your life!
You WILL learn how to be set free (and experience freedom) within the first 90 days!
You WILL begin a process of healing that will change your life, and your familys life, for
good, forever!

So lets get started and take the first steps in freedom TODAY. Sign up now and get instant
access to the L.I.F.E. in 90 Program for just $9.97 per month.

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Youve got nothing to lose with our TRIPLE Guarantee. If you dont find the L.I.F.E. in 90
Program to be everything Ive said it to be If you dont discover for yourself how to be set free
from pornography and lust addiction and live the life youve always wantedif you dont find
the L.I.F.E. monthly newsletter and online Facebook group membership to be helpful in
positively changing your lifethen I will refund your entire last payment & you can keep the
L.I.F.E in 90 Program and every L.I.F.E in 90 aftercare issue as our gift to you.
Thats the L.I.F.E. in 90 Triple Guarantee. So no matter what, youre fully protected.
No other program is able to make that guarantee because I believe no other program is able to
help you as much as the L.I.F.E. in 90 program can.
After you sign up, the first month of the program will be instantly delivered to you via e-mail
and you can start seeing dramatic changes begin to take place in your life in just under a month
from now.
Say goodbye to addiction and life controlling issues. Say hello to freedom!
Go ahead and click the link below and start the L.I.F.E. in 90 Program today.

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