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from spml psychologisl8, Lhey will communicaLe in ways that hinder 1lu: relationship- even
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model foc~~es on group members' behavior patterns, responses, and the interaction of message patterns (Infante et al., 1997). In other words, the IS model e:<plains that to understand
team behavior, the interactions among team members should be analyzed, rather than just
the behaviors of members within a team. According to Fisher and Hawes, verbal statements
may be categorized as to the function performed in the group (e.g., clarification, substantiation, interpretation, decL~ion mtl<ing). Applied to a sport team, the IS model could be used
to attempt to identify how a team interacts (e.g., message patterns among teammates) and
the processes transpiring in making team decisions.
In addition to the theories and models above, Byrne's ( 1971) reinforcement theory proposes that principles of reinforcement explain most interpersonal attraction occurrences.
Simply explained, we like and are attracted to people who reward us, and we dislike and are
repelled by people who punish us. Byrne also predicted persons with similar anirudes will
find their relationship rewarding, and hence, will like each other.
Research related to improving communication in sport teams has been limited in
the field of sport psychology (Hanraharl & Gallois, 1993). One 12-week investigation of
enharlcing interpersonal relations in team sports (DiBerardinis, Barwind, Flaningam, &
Jenkins, 1983) showed improvement in a:>mmunication skills, and those gains were positive
predictors of athletic performance. Other related studies investigating team a:>hesion
have found, in interactive team sports, success and performance are dependent upon
effective communication (e.g., Nixon, 1976). Studies investigating sport psychologistathlete relations (e.g., Smith, Smoll, & Curtis, 1979) and co-acting sportS (Williams &
\Vidmeyer, 1991) have suggested a:>mmunication may be integral to success or perfonnance
in sport.
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Types of communication
Communication types may be viewed as intrapersonal and interpersonal. lntrapersonal
communication is usually better known as "self-talk" or our inner monologue - the conversations we have with ourselves (see Chapter 53 ). One could argue that intrapersonal communication is the most important type of communication because it affecr.s one's views on
life, confidence, daily actions, and reactions.
Interpersonal communication has usually been defined as meaningful exchanges between
two or more persons and refers tO a person sending or receiving a message(s) from another
individual or group. Interpersonal communication includes not only verbal content, but
also nonverbal cues sometimes known as body language (e.g., micro-expressions, posture,
facial expressions, voice intonations). Burke ( 1997) estimated that 50% to 70% of all
information exchanged in-person is nonverbal. If this estimate is accurate, then forms of
communication not exchanged in-person (e.g., e-mail, text messages, instant messaging,
blogging) may be severely limited, or at least much less effective than face-to-face encounters. When communication is &~embodied, then the potential for miscommunication and
misinterpretation rises substantially.
Communication techniques
Although there is limited empirical research and theory on communication processes in
sport, many methods and techniques have been suggested to improve communication
processes on sport teams (e.g., Burke, 2005, 2006). Anshel (2003) developed a "ten
commandments" of effective communication in sport (See Table 33. l ). Although suggested
for coaches, sport psychologists may apply these propositions to their interactions with
others.
Yukelson (2010) provided several suggestions for how to become an effective communicacor. He stated: one must be honest, have good listening skills, be good at asking
questions, be able to develop rapport, promote various views of the same situation, tL~e the
proper terminology, and establish a trusting relationship. Yukelson aL~o emphasized tO
become an effective communicator one must take the time to practise these important
attributes.
From: Anshel, M. H. (2003) . Spott psychology: From theory to ptactice (2nd ed.).
Scottsdale, AZ: Gorsuch Scarishrick.
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Communication malfunctions
Although technology has assisted in the rapid exchange of certain types of communications, errors or misperceptions in communications are still frequent, and when communication failures or breakdowns occur, most persons blame the other parties. This bias may
keep sport psychologist:.~ from thoroughly examining and attempting to improve their
interpersonal skills. For accurate communications to occur, all participants must make a
substantial effort, which sometimes is challenging. When persons are not "on the same
page," communication breakdowns or barriers Occur. One of the more common blocks tO
communication is inattentive listening, which usually occurs because the listener is not
interested, is thinking of another topic, or is planning the next response. Another possible
communication barrier between individual~ is trust. When persons do not share a trust of
each other, confidence in the information exchanged L~ severely affected. Another common
cause of communication malfunctions is sending unclear or inconsistent messages.
Ambiguous and vague statements are often difficult to comprehend and lead tO unintended
(mis) interpretations.
Levels
of listening
Weinberg and Gould (2003) discussed using supportive behaviors to indicate one is
listening to the message being sent. Some of these actions are: staying open to new
ideas, keeping direct eye contact, nodding the head, using receptive facial gestures,
acknowledging receipt of the message verbally, and paraphrasing what has heen said. Finally,
the foundation for improving a:>mmunication, and lessening the risk of a:>mmunication malfunctions, is to be motivated to improve. It is likely that the amount of communication enhancement occurring will directly depend on the level of m0tivation to
seek improvement.
Sending effective messages
Being a good communicaror involves the ability to a:>mmunicate in a manner that is clear
and concise. Hardy, Burke, and Crace (2005) provided several guidelines for sending effective
messages. An initial aspect of what L~ to be communicated L~ the development of the message,
determining what is to he a:>mmunicated and attempting to stay within the confines of that
message. Avoid adding peripheral statements or information unnecessary to the baseline
message. Also, conveying too much information may overload the receiver, particularly when
the athlete or a:>ach L~ under elevated stress. Development of the message can be challenging
for sport psychologists in the midst of counseling sessions, due to the small amount of
preparation time available in thc~~e immediate situations.
Another central element tO effective communication is to seek first tO understand the
person, then seek to be understood (Covey, 1990). This suggestion places importance on
showing empathy by understanding the client's goal~, interests, values, and frame of reference.
By getting to know the coach or athlete first, you will be more likely to communicate
with them in a meaningful manner. Another way tO be sure communications are being
understood is to observe the actions and reactions of the listeners (e.g., body language,
micro-expressions). Look for signs the athletes or coaches comprehend what is being said.
Finally, one way to help assure your message is received is repetition. Repeat the message as
many times as L~ necessary to he sure it is underst0od. Although at times it may be necessary
to repeat the message in the same manner it was first delivered, find ways of sending the
same message in different forms.
In communication, finding a pmitive manner of stating what needs to he said - even if
strong criticism is necessary - can be extremely effective. The "sandwich approach" (Smith
& Smoll, 1996) has been a popular method for providing corrective information in a
manner in which the person receiving the criticism does not feel attacked, and is instead
encouraged by the interaction. Briefly stated, the sandwich approach begins with a positive
opening statement, followed by a future-oriented corrective statement, and end~ with an
ena:>uraging, positive chsing remark. In daily interactions with others, finding a positive
way tO speak with others is almost always more engaging than sarcastic or biting exchanges no matter what the topic of conversation may he.
The use of humor in communication has been shown to have mental and physical benefits (Burke, 2006). Humor is a basic way of communicating (Lynch, 2002) and can be
effective in therapy (Keller, 1984). A good sense of humor can also be an effective coping
mechanism (Brooks, Guthrie, & Gaylord, 1999), a relationship builder, and a meaningful
a:>mmunication avenue (Rogers, 1984). Also, studies have indicated humorotL~ individuals
have h igher popularity (Wanzer, Booth-Butterfield, & Booth-Butterfield, 1996). Currently,
it seems there are potentially many benefit.~ to humor, when used appropriately, in communicating with clients.
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Nonverbal communication
As mentioned earlier, micro expressions, bodr language, and facial expressions may he
responsible for conveying more information than verbal communication. Body language
may be a more salient indicator of what another is thinking and feeling than verbal content,
because these subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) cues are more difficult to control conscious~y than spoken language (Burke, 1997). Many individuals are so focused on the verbal
aspects of their messages they often give little attention as to whether or not their facial
expressions and body postures support what is being said. It behooves sport psychology professionals to learn to pay attention to these potential Iy valuable clues. Yet, even the most
experienced body language expert:.~ realize interpreting body language accurately on a
consistent basis is challenging.
Although sport psychologist.~ may attend to bodily cues from their clients to better
comprehend the overall communication sequence, clients may he engaged in tne
same analysis. Sport psychology professionals should strive to provide nonverbal
communication that supports the messages being sent. For example, using a confident ho::ly
posture (e.g., shoulders back, chin forward) can help the client have confidence in what is
being said.
Electronic communication
One decision sport psychology consultants mu~t consider is how much, if any, electronic
communication they wish tO use with their clients. With the many communication avenues
available (e.g., cell telephone, e-mail, instant arid text messaging, Facehook, Twitter, biogs),
it is possible tO provide an alm<~~t unlimited amount of "in touch" services with a client (see
also 01apter 44 in this book). Today's "echo hoomers" generation (or Generation Y -names
given to children of"baby boomers") is the first generation to grow up with computer technology (such as e-mail and text messaging), cell phones, and satellite dishes for television
(Leung, 2005). Echo boomers' (EBs) familiarity with these electronic devices, in many
cases, means some EBs are much more comfortable communicating in this fashion than
many sport psychologists usually are. Therefore, sport psychologist.~ should familiarize themselves with these communication possibilities and at least consider using some of these
avenues as a supplement to face-to-face meetir.gs, particularly with EBs. One major drawback of rhL~ communication boom, however, is some clients may expect practitioners tO he
available almost 24/7, which may create dependency issues that must be dealt with by sport
psychologists.
showing), sport object (e.g., bat, ball), or even a card that has the team's name, maSC(>t, or
logo on it. The players are instructed to follow four basic rules:
1. Speak freely, honestly, and forthrightly.
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Another way to incorporate sport psychologists or coaches in the BITR (without players
being concerned about retaliation by persons in "positions of power,") is to allow anonymous positive and negative statements tO be presented. By learning how one is perceived by
othenl, the BITR leS<lion helpll promote selfawnrenelS through seeing oneself through
others' eyes. Another purpose of BITR is to "clear the air" about issues hurting the team
chemL~try, and to help promote better communication. Many times the BITR session will
promote a bonding experience for the ream members. The three c~ or major goals of the
BITR intervention are to promote cohesion, tO improve communication, and to clear the air.
Closing comments
Even under the best circumstances, maintaining clear and consistent communication L~
challenging. Many people have a tendency to blame communication mishaps on others,
which makes oneself unlikely to seek to improve in this area. Understanding and practising
our skills of communication, along with the accompanying engaged, open, and attentive
hody language, is a major key to being successful as a sport psychology consultant. See Box
33. l for some take-home messages from thL~ chapter.
Box 33.1
Take-home messages regarding communication
O:>mmunication may be viewed as constantly occurring.
O:>mmunication may be inrrapersonal and interpersonal.
Use the "ten commandments" of communication.
Make the effort to be an active listener.
O:>mmunicate with others in a manner that is clear and concise, using a p<~~i
tive approach and a sense of humor.
Be aware of nonverbal communication elements to send effective messages and
to understand clients.
O:>nsider using electronic communication methods - at least as an adjunct to
face-to-face encounters.
Use the "bull in the ring" technique to delve into group or ream issues.
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